Generally the attachment disorder is what happens when an adult child had a parentified childhood due to parents addiction and mental health - like sophie
She has attachment issues, it’s easier for her when she in control and is able to reject him and distance herself from him. When she senses rejection, she completely shuts down
What Sophie truly needs right now is therapy. She very clearly has really bad abandonment issues and low self-esteem, which is an underlying problem that made her relationship with both Rob and her mother so tumultuous. She needs to take time away and work on herself so she can be better at enforcing boundaries and communicating in the future
@@vforvertel i mean can you kinda blame her though , look at her unhealthy relationship with her mom and husband. (i also forgot about her dad but since i dont know too much about that i wont go there)
The crying comes off so childish. I feel like she had to parent her mom when she was young, so now is when her childlike side comes out. Accepting the squishmallow, blubbering at Rob, etc..
Sophie, cannot leave your husband to live with your girlfriend every time there’s a minor inconvenience, and expect your marital problems to go away. I can’t believe I’m saying this, but kudos to Rob for being mature & ending this marriage.
@@2shy1151facts.., my point. Sophie is a beautiful girl too. I think she wanted him to tell her things she wanted to hear , and tell her he wanted her to stay home yes she should have stayed and worked on her marriage tho, that I agree with .
@@2shy1151 No, I believe Rob was exhausted from this marriage, like the rest of us. He realized their marriage needed to end. This is the best thing for both parties.
My personal opinion is that she's been 'left behind' before as a young child. That shit sticks with you and influences your adult decisions.....even if it's not in your best interest.
With an alcoholic mother and an absentee father, she definitely has abandonment issues. She needs to see a therapist and work through the issues consciously.
Running from conflict is a huge issue for her too. You grow up learning that advocating for yourself will either be ignored or punished, and the only way you can protect yourself is by hiding away. Rob is volatile like her mother. He gets upset and if or when she confronts him he explodes and she leaves. Neither of them can communicate in a healthy way.
Prisons are full of men/women that blame their childhood for their adult choices, and while Sophie may not be a criminal if they can't use it as an excuse neither can she.
She probably has abandonment issues. Narcissists prey on people with abandonment issues because they will constantly chase them and do everything in their power to earn their love, not knowing narcissists love no one, not even themselves.
hey granny how many times are you gonna comment spewing mad shit over something you only clearly just watched (you clearly dont know the history) and quit women hating , they both are shitty lmfao wtf are you on
@S0larsweets he whacked off online.. she chose to marry him anyways ..and stay with him. Her controling , manipulating , cheating , lying and running away is far worst ..
This is probably the only time I'll ever say this, but I'm on Rob's side here. She kept running off to her girlfriend's house so what did she expect? Now she's upset that she wasn't the one who pulled the trigger. And the hysterical crying was like a toddler having a meltdown. You're 24 Sophie.... time to grow up.
I can’t stand Sophie at this point and I’m with Rob for ending things. U can’t want to live a bachelorette life and only be married when u want it. Who escapes from the marriage all the time? Just end things already 😑 Rob suxs but Sophie is also insufferable 😑
The main problem with them is that Sophie is trying to have her girlfriend and husband too. Rob should have listened to his friends and never married her.
just go back and watch how rob acts a couple episodes before (theres alot of em) , they both act like this and neither one of them are mature enough for a relationship let alone marriage.
Suck it up Sophie and move on. It didn't work. The honeymoon phase of their relationship is over and this is the real thing. Didn't work..learn something...and move on.
She is mad because he broke up with her first. Literally that’s all it is. If they get back together, she will be the one that breaks up with him. In her mind, he is the one who deserves to be dumped.
@@mommav0107 true, but when someone is entitled and believes that they are “the best tou will ever have “ they can’t believe anyone would ever break up with them. She expected him to beg and do anything to keep her, and thought that the relationship could only end if she chose to end it. So when he broke it off, it shattered her world view.
She latched onto the whole "online cheating" thing for too long. Okay, he effed up; address it and try to solve it together so you can move forward. But she continued holding it over his head, moved away with another women who she may be cheating with, and then expects things to be fine when she decides to move back? Makes no sense to me.
LOL That Freudian slip at 3:04 spells it out, she wishes she left him instead. It's all about control. A lot of people out there cannot stand to lose control of a situation and freak out when things don't go their way.
why does she want so much to be in control though?? most such people have abandonment issues rooted in their childhood.......feeling like losing control is basically them having to face their worst fear of being abandoned(again). it is a really traumatizing feeling and they dont want to go through it again. because if it happens again it will "confirm"to them that they will always be left by everyone and probably die alone. also its not rlly that she wishes to have left him first but moreso her pride is hurt and she feels humiliated because he treated her like shit the entire time with cheating and with threatening to break her phone and asking her to pay for her own things when she cant even work yet in the US, while hes the one who brought her over on the K-1. In her mind, its just so unfair and cruel that she has put up with so much(translating into effort for her) and despite all of it he is the one who wants to break up just because she always left their house. Would she have left the house if he apologized and took responsibility over his mistakes every time? No.yeah she has unresolved issues, she is immature, she has a codepedent personality disorder, she should have gone to counselling etc you can blame her for all that, but honestly Rob is a mega asshole and if he had more empathy, like a normal human being, he would have treated a woman 10 years his junior and in her 20s way kinder. I mean why the fk does he even go after women much younger than him if he isnt prepared to deal with immaturity?
Her crying is annoying af. Shes just mad she didnt break up with him first. She wanted him to beg, grovel, and chase after her. She shouldve been broke it off with him. Trust, hes no prize and still a weenie, but i respect him a little bit after breaking it off.
Sophie needs to go back to high school. She is very immature. I get it that Rob is kind of a dick but what is she doing? I mean, either move back in with him and get some counseling and really try, or live with your lesbian friend who is only getting in the way of her and Rob working things out. She seems to want it both ways. She is terrified of abandonment! She needs some psychological help.
If she's is immature to the point she's causing issues and she doesn't realize she's apart of the problem, then what is she really guilty of? Not knowing any better? That's not grounds for an insult , so your comment is weird, like why you trying to insult her, did she hurt you?
With all we've seen and heard, can you imagine what life was like with her in high school? No healthy role models growing up. No wonder she thinks she only deserves an abusive looser like Rob.
I feel like Sophie just wants Rob to keep chasing her. He needs to do a bunch of grand gestures, beg for her forgiveness every moment, constantly thank her for giving him the time of day. Some of this sounds effortless and normal in a typical marriage but since Rob doesn't seem comfortable with being so vulnerable, it feels performative to him. Almost like he's a dog and she's constantly making him do tricks for treats but he's not getting the treats anymore- just pats on the head. This is all so miserable to watch
I hate that so much. They do that shit on purpose and they wonder why woman are “so insecure “ and get work done and try to look perfect , because any time we look vulnerable and off guard people like this will point it out for people in the media at least and post that shit for a thumbnail. I seen so many of these drama tubers do it and it makes me loose respect for them . I was thinking the same about the thumb nail
@@Reacher_2215 i bet you look and smell like the in between parts of feet. I bet your I.Q is simply "no". I bet you dont wash your ass for multiple days in a row. I bet you have swamp ass in your ass and in your mouth and ears.
Ive never understood her. She's crazy immature and emotionally abusive. I hope rob just cutts all ties, seriously. Shes silly and spoiled. Shes ok with that stuffed thing rob gave her and stay like that. Shes terrible. He needs a break and so do i, from her and her gang.
They were both too immature to get married and not a match. This is a mess. Cut the cord and let it go. Both should do some serious work on themselves before getting into another relationship.
I never thought i would side with rob but after going through a similar experience recently i 100 percent get where he's coming from, he's been pushed away and pulled back so many times that you reach a point where you just want peace
This girl is too immature for a relationship- you just don’t leave your husband for 3 months ….. you wanted to try being with a woman- now you got what you wanted Sophie …. You’re 24 goin on 13 … Rob you have too much negativity with these 3 women you can’t win for losing so your better off with a more MATURE FEMALE WHOS DOESNT EXPECT YOU TO READ HER MIND …. Lord I never seen anything like this … she’s to “OUT THERE !” & her lesbian friend isn’t helping she a pain in the --…
Sophie, stop running away from your marriage, and don’t put your friend and your mom in the middle of your relationship. Be an adult and talk to Rob as a married couple. I agree with most of the comments that she has child abandonment issues that need to be resolved with a therapy.
An excellent example of self willing a situation to happen and letting it rip you apart. Sophie needs to go home, let that prefrontal cortex finish developing, take accountability for herself, work on her self esteem and realize she will feel better when she lets all this shit GO.
What abuse? Its never definitively been shown that Rob touched her and I don't care what anyone says, there's no such thing as online cheating and being yelled at isn't abuse. I'm sure she's raised hers at him more than once, too.
@@ericw8478rob is emotionally abusive and was rough with her once. her mom was also a drug addict and she was forced to grow up faster. that traumatizes people.
@@ericw8478 what abuse? The mom been a drunk their whole life with men in and out. Now you have this guy gaslighting her with his cheating ways blaming her for their issues when he never takes accountability and blames her. Come on man
@@ericw8478 There are all types of abuse. Rob is definitely emotionally abusive and has a victim complex that stamps back from his relationship with his mother. I do believe that Sophie and Rob are not good for each other. Sophie stayed in the relationship not because she loves him, it's because she's attached to him. He stayed.... idek. I believe that Rob never genuinely never loved her as well.
What do you mean she's scared to leave him. She continually leaves him. It's all Rob's fault, according to Sophie and all she does is find fault! Go away Sophie, get therapy and grow up!
I feel Sophie is very concerned about image management. She has no depth of self reflection. She is unable to hear Rob because she defaults back to image management. This is evidence of immaturity on her part. Rob is no better but in these scenes, he is exercising restraint and making some sense.
The room mate isn’t helping matters with, breathe!! You’re going to have a panic attack..No one should have to put up with Sofie, her mom and her room mate!! That would be way too much drama!! Sofie hasn’t grown up yet.. Let her have her stuff animals and just walk away Rob..
Sophie is not a victim. It’s wrong that she seems to be using Rob as like someone she can fall back on. She clearly has attachment issues and she’s very immature and needs to get some serious help before she continues to damage her life further.
I’m on Rob’s side. Clearly she moved out (a couple of times) and allowed a lesbian (who wants her - she admitted a couple of episodes ago) to home wreck her marriage.
It's actually Minipulation... All these excuses for Sophie is jaw-dropping. Has anyone considered Rob's Trauma related issues, in which can more than likely give explanation to his misguided actions and responses?? 🤔
I’m just going to say it, she never loved him or cared about who he is on the inside. She just wanted to be with him for vain reasons, he is an extremely handsome man. That’s all she sees when she sees him and she’s holding on to him because she wants to possess an attractive man like Rob all for herself. She absolutely can’t stand who he is as a person.
Sophie is really immature for her age , and if she didn’t complain about Rob to all her friends and mother all the time and instead stayed and tries to fix the problem things would have been different . But it’s a power and in controle problem , she felt good cause she thought she had control over the situation, but now Rob ended it the dynamic changes and she no longer has control of the situation. I recognize this behavior with my ex . If Rob would give it another chance she will definitely wait for the right moment to end it with him .
From day 1 she and her mom mocked Rob. Insulted him. Degraded him. Looked down at him. Gaslighted him and full blown bullied him. Telling him he's no man and laughed at him. Guilt tripped him. She and her mom are horrible dreadful people. Right at the beginning Rob should have ended it and kicked them out and never looked back. Sophie is zero wife material and behaves just like Darcey. Always badmouthing Rob and gossiping. Using him as a Scapegoat.Then playing the victim.
Yeeeeeees!! I thought I was in the "Twilight Zone" for a minute bcuz I'm looking at these comments trying to excuse Sophie, who actually is the MAIN one that caused all the drama and relationship toxicity.
Sophie's girlfriend I believe is a lesbian and exploiting Sophie but, she does not see it. She wants Rob out to have Sophie for herself. Also, Sophie is an immature woman listening to her mother and friend. Both who do not have her best interest but, only interfering with her marriage to Rob. Any problems she and Rob should be talking and fixing. Do not involve anyone else.
Rob has also taken a lot of abuse throughout the relationship.Her mother was vile to him. She's extremely childish and although his behaviour has been unacceptable i believe Sophie enjoyed the victim/martyr status that she had with Rob,she never had any intention of leaving. Im glad he finished it
Kae is not a real friend. She is manipulative. She is toxic. She wants Sophie for herself. Rob has the right to not want to put up with this anymore. Also she is very delusional, going off on Rob but yet she is in love with Sophie and Sophia is chasing Rob still once Rob says he is done. 😂
i feel like the reason sophi is baffled is because she was stubborn waiting for him to honestly apologize for the online stuff but she was surprised he was as stubborn as she is. hence her waterworks about him giving up first. just a observation imo
Waiting for him over her Girlfriends house?? Hmmm... Sophie was No victim, she's definitely used to her manipulating tactics working, but "not 2day satan"! Lol 😂
Rob should've stood ten toes down, said what he said, and not returned. I'm definitely not a Rob fan, but I was glad that he broke up with her. She wants to be with big mouth Kae, be with her! She's talking about she didn't do anything, and she's exactly right, she hasn't, to include not even bothering to try. She runs to her parent, friends, strangers to complain about her marriage. She was just mad that Rob beat her to the punch, and dismissed her first. She clearly doesn't want to be with him, so he's giving her over to Kae.
Rob is done, done; he's not yelling or arguing just calmly dropping facts and trying to end things peacefully. It seems like shes happy to be married to a man and living with a woman.
I swear to god, if Sophie brings up the online cheating, ONE MORE TIME!! 😡 YOU MOVED OUT OF THE HOUSE FOR OVER 2 FUCKING MONTHS, THAT'S JUST AS UNFAITHFUL AS CHEATING! WHY ISN'T ANYONE ELSE SAYING THIS?
Omg, ok, after hating on Rob almost the entire freaking season, I genuinely feel bad for him, for being portrayed as a "knob," when in reality, he is INCREDIBLY mature and he is acting very clear headed and trying so hard to gently leave this relationship. Sophie needs to stop acting super childish and LISTEN to what he's saying to her... She straight up SAID she's unhappy with him. Stop putting yourself through misery, then!!! And let Rob move on!
She is a child. She isn't ready to be anyone's wife. Very emotionally immature, She doesn't even know how to communicate. Her price is the only thing that seems to be hurting.
Sophie has lost me this episode, mad that Rob broke up with her, instead of the other way around? So why haven't you then Sophie????? Manipulating, and very immature. She needs some therapy for sure, this situation is very telling
She just expects Rob to always be around whenever she’s wants him. I have a friend that had a relationship like that. I’m not Rob’s biggest fan, but I feel bad for him here. How she leaves him and expects him to always be there and in return it makes him unhappy, and then when he finally tries to put his foot down and move on, she gets offended.
Sophie’s Super Annoying & emotionally immature. She Only told Rob to come back after HE DUMPED HER, to turn around & be THE ONE WHO DUMPED HIM! It’s SOOOOO CHILDISH. This RIDICULOUS crying & whiney voice is a manipulation tactic.This young lady has SERIOUS ISSUES & needs Extensive Therapy. She needs NOT to be in a relationship with anyone until she has a healthy relationship with Herself. Rob’s No angel and I’m Not a fan of either but for her to choose to leave instead of working things out with her husband should’ve been a Huge red flag. It’s like she doesn’t really love him and she knows he treats her wrong but she CHOOSES TO STAY with him I feel because in her mind if she doesn’t have him nobody else can. It’s about her ego.. Its hard for me to feel bad for her atp..
Was I watching the same show?? CLEARLY Sophie was a huge manipulating, lying, disrespectful spoiled brat. I mean honestly... Nobody forced her to go live with Rob, in his toilet-less Abode. As far as his Online cheating is concerned, yes Rob was wrong for that however, let us not 4get Sophie's "Friend " that turned out to actually be her ex-bf, of which she had him to come out and visit with her 😮 This girl is such a manipulating lie I truly don't have enough time to point out the MANY MANY ways she was the one who came with an agenda. The whole time she was staying with her 'Friend " was her blantonly CHEATING! Having any kind of relationship with someone that openly says "I'll take care of Sophie, she's so hot, I love her" and so on and so forth, it's baffling people are completely clueless of what's right in front of them, and are so he'll bent on making Rob a "knob" that poor crocodile tears Sophie is the biggest Scammer I've seen yet, Lmao🤣 😅😂 Wowzerz!
she’s not in love she’s attached, the behavior says it all to me
Agree!
Wow. Yes. That’s it and it’s sad but she ain’t the only one!!!
Generally the attachment disorder is what happens when an adult child had a parentified childhood due to parents addiction and mental health - like sophie
This behavior is typical of narcissistic abuse.
So happy someone sees this. I'm so tired of people calling her immature as if that's the reason for all of this.
She has attachment issues, it’s easier for her when she in control and is able to reject him and distance herself from him. When she senses rejection, she completely shuts down
The immaturity on Sophie’s part… it’s definitely time to let this relationship go.. he’s giving you the out now.. move on 🥴
Shes only like 23? Shes still young and hes a manipulator. Come on now.
It's called ABANDONMENT ISSUES, has absolutely nothing to do with maturity.
Nailed it. Sofie suxs
What Sophie truly needs right now is therapy. She very clearly has really bad abandonment issues and low self-esteem, which is an underlying problem that made her relationship with both Rob and her mother so tumultuous. She needs to take time away and work on herself so she can be better at enforcing boundaries and communicating in the future
Her crying to rob saying sorry is crazy
EXTREME low self-esteem smh
@@vforvertel i mean can you kinda blame her though , look at her unhealthy relationship with her mom and husband. (i also forgot about her dad but since i dont know too much about that i wont go there)
That is what being with a narcissist will do to you, especially when her self esteem is already low.
She’s a narcissistic abuse victim. The abused individual is made to believe that it’s their fault.
she's 5 years old being abandoned...again
The crying comes off so childish. I feel like she had to parent her mom when she was young, so now is when her childlike side comes out. Accepting the squishmallow, blubbering at Rob, etc..
Even the way she cries dude . Like a child ..
Sophie, cannot leave your husband to live with your girlfriend every time there’s a minor inconvenience, and expect your marital problems to go away.
I can’t believe I’m saying this, but kudos to Rob for being mature & ending this marriage.
So he doesn't look bad for getting with club chicks and claim to still be the victim.
@@2shy1151facts.., my point. Sophie is a beautiful girl too. I think she wanted him to tell her things she wanted to hear , and tell her he wanted her to stay home yes she should have stayed and worked on her marriage tho, that I agree with .
@@2shy1151 No, I believe Rob was exhausted from this marriage, like the rest of us. He realized their marriage needed to end. This is the best thing for both parties.
Pouty Face did the impossible….she made me be on the Knob’s side for one argument….UNBELIEVABLE! she showed her age and maturity.
My personal opinion is that she's been 'left behind' before as a young child.
That shit sticks with you and influences your adult decisions.....even if it's not in your best interest.
With an alcoholic mother and an absentee father, she definitely has abandonment issues. She needs to see a therapist and work through the issues consciously.
Running from conflict is a huge issue for her too. You grow up learning that advocating for yourself will either be ignored or punished, and the only way you can protect yourself is by hiding away.
Rob is volatile like her mother. He gets upset and if or when she confronts him he explodes and she leaves.
Neither of them can communicate in a healthy way.
I had to scroll a bit to find comments with compassion for her clear abandonment issues. Bless your hearts!❤
Prisons are full of men/women that blame their childhood for their adult choices, and while Sophie may not be a criminal if they can't use it as an excuse neither can she.
She probably has abandonment issues. Narcissists prey on people with abandonment issues because they will constantly chase them and do everything in their power to earn their love, not knowing narcissists love no one, not even themselves.
She is such a weirdo. She leaves him every 2 days and stays away. What did she expect
hey granny how many times are you gonna comment spewing mad shit over something you only clearly just watched (you clearly dont know the history) and quit women hating , they both are shitty lmfao wtf are you on
i feel like we are forgetting everything rob did as well 😭
@@S0larsweets yuuppp , they both are bad for each other period . They should work on themselves individually and close this chapter of their lives.
shes immature, like obviously it hurts but cmon shes just acting on every single emotion no insight whatsoever
@S0larsweets he whacked off online.. she chose to marry him anyways ..and stay with him.
Her controling , manipulating , cheating , lying and running away is far worst ..
This is probably the only time I'll ever say this, but I'm on Rob's side here. She kept running off to her girlfriend's house so what did she expect? Now she's upset that she wasn't the one who pulled the trigger. And the hysterical crying was like a toddler having a meltdown. You're 24 Sophie.... time to grow up.
"Lesbian girlfriend"
Lol@@LuisSanchez-dk7ne
She wanted a wedding, not a marriage.
The hysterical crying is super cringe and just making me think, how old are you, dude?!?!?!?!
She is emotionally immature from growing up with an addict as a parent. She's got abandonment issues.
This relationship was ALL about physical attraction and ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ELSE 😂😂 like, c'mon now!
I can’t stand Sophie at this point and I’m with Rob for ending things. U can’t want to live a bachelorette life and only be married when u want it. Who escapes from the marriage all the time? Just end things already 😑 Rob suxs but Sophie is also insufferable 😑
The main problem with them is that Sophie is trying to have her girlfriend and husband too. Rob should have listened to his friends and never married her.
Yeeeeeeeees!!
I truly hate Sophie, not just for this but for making me actually feel sorry for Rob.
just go back and watch how rob acts a couple episodes before (theres alot of em) , they both act like this and neither one of them are mature enough for a relationship let alone marriage.
Lmao
@voidy2077 yep, totally agree. But, at least he's had the guts to end it, not hide behind other people like Sophies done.
Literally
Sorry, cant feel bad for Rob in any shape. I dont feel bad for narcassists, theyre scum of the earth.
They need to either live together and work on the relationship or flipping get divorced. Both are immature and need to work on themselves.
Sophie needs therapy. This isn't normal behaviour. She needs help. I hope she gets better 💘💘💕
Throws squishieeeee, reclaims squishie … a clear reflection of their relationship
I have to give Rob credit for taking control of this bad situation
Suck it up Sophie and move on. It didn't work. The honeymoon phase of their relationship is over and this is the real thing. Didn't work..learn something...and move on.
Basically she is used to being the one that does the dumping. Laughable 😂
That’s because he’s the one that does the cheating. Very laughable
And they call Rob a narcissist.
She slipped at 3:04. Said it clear as day.
Exactly what I was going to say hahaha
You are simple minded. Laughable
I have a feeling if Sophie had a spot on the Single Life, she'd have no problem leaving Rob
She only invited him back in the apartment so SHE could be the one to make him leave. OMG the immaturity smh
She is mad because he broke up with her first. Literally that’s all it is. If they get back together, she will be the one that breaks up with him. In her mind, he is the one who deserves to be dumped.
Poor squishmellow. Having to deal with tbese two.
She’s just upset he ended it and took the power away from her
No one should have “the power”in a relationship…toxic af
@@mommav0107 true, but when someone is entitled and believes that they are “the best tou will ever have “ they can’t believe anyone would ever break up with them. She expected him to beg and do anything to keep her, and thought that the relationship could only end if she chose to end it. So when he broke it off, it shattered her world view.
She latched onto the whole "online cheating" thing for too long. Okay, he effed up; address it and try to solve it together so you can move forward. But she continued holding it over his head, moved away with another women who she may be cheating with, and then expects things to be fine when she decides to move back?
Makes no sense to me.
Sophie is just mad that Rob broke up with her before she could break up with him.
Please stop calling it “Online cheating” cheating is cheating
Stop bringing that up at all..either you forgive him or you don’t.
@@mommav0107period
LOL That Freudian slip at 3:04 spells it out, she wishes she left him instead. It's all about control. A lot of people out there cannot stand to lose control of a situation and freak out when things don't go their way.
That sounds like high school drama right there.
why does she want so much to be in control though?? most such people have abandonment issues rooted in their childhood.......feeling like losing control is basically them having to face their worst fear of being abandoned(again). it is a really traumatizing feeling and they dont want to go through it again. because if it happens again it will "confirm"to them that they will always be left by everyone and probably die alone. also its not rlly that she wishes to have left him first but moreso her pride is hurt and she feels humiliated because he treated her like shit the entire time with cheating and with threatening to break her phone and asking her to pay for her own things when she cant even work yet in the US, while hes the one who brought her over on the K-1. In her mind, its just so unfair and cruel that she has put up with so much(translating into effort for her) and despite all of it he is the one who wants to break up just because she always left their house. Would she have left the house if he apologized and took responsibility over his mistakes every time? No.yeah she has unresolved issues, she is immature, she has a codepedent personality disorder, she should have gone to counselling etc you can blame her for all that, but honestly Rob is a mega asshole and if he had more empathy, like a normal human being, he would have treated a woman 10 years his junior and in her 20s way kinder. I mean why the fk does he even go after women much younger than him if he isnt prepared to deal with immaturity?
No. She knows deep down she that she had every reason to end it and she just doesn't understand why she couldn't.
Her crying is annoying af. Shes just mad she didnt break up with him first. She wanted him to beg, grovel, and chase after her. She shouldve been broke it off with him. Trust, hes no prize and still a weenie, but i respect him a little bit after breaking it off.
So he won't look bad for banging random club girls.
Sophie needs to go back to high school. She is very immature. I get it that Rob is kind of a dick but what is she doing? I mean, either move back in with him and get some counseling and really try, or live with your lesbian friend who is only getting in the way of her and Rob working things out. She seems to want it both ways. She is terrified of abandonment! She needs some psychological help.
her momma is part of the cause too.
If she's is immature to the point she's causing issues and she doesn't realize she's apart of the problem, then what is she really guilty of? Not knowing any better? That's not grounds for an insult , so your comment is weird, like why you trying to insult her, did she hurt you?
Please let her go
With all we've seen and heard, can you imagine what life was like with her in high school? No healthy role models growing up. No wonder she thinks she only deserves an abusive looser like Rob.
@@sterlingkayon84And I think it's a high time she step in to support her daughter! After all this is exactly what the mom wanted all along.
I feel like Sophie just wants Rob to keep chasing her. He needs to do a bunch of grand gestures, beg for her forgiveness every moment, constantly thank her for giving him the time of day. Some of this sounds effortless and normal in a typical marriage but since Rob doesn't seem comfortable with being so vulnerable, it feels performative to him. Almost like he's a dog and she's constantly making him do tricks for treats but he's not getting the treats anymore- just pats on the head. This is all so miserable to watch
Did Sophie dirty as hell with that thumbnail LMFAOOOO
I hate that so much. They do that shit on purpose and they wonder why woman are “so insecure “ and get work done and try to look perfect , because any time we look vulnerable and off guard people like this will point it out for people in the media at least and post that shit for a thumbnail. I seen so many of these drama tubers do it and it makes me loose respect for them
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I was thinking the same about the thumb nail
@kyrajoshuaurban3534 I disagree.
She needs to stop eating her feelings
@@Reacher_2215 shut cho misogynistic ass up and worry about the massive amount of dick you eat. Focus on that.
@@Reacher_2215 i bet you look and smell like the in between parts of feet. I bet your I.Q is simply "no". I bet you dont wash your ass for multiple days in a row. I bet you have swamp ass in your ass and in your mouth and ears.
Rob is not a bad guy, Sophie never thought he would break up and thought she can do whatever she wants to do
Rob actually being the mature one is baffling lol. Good on him ending this misery.
Sophia acts like a child, she never loved Rob, she just wants a green card and live with kay
She’s being manipulative. Her emotions stem from attachment to resources not the person
Ive never understood her. She's crazy immature and emotionally abusive. I hope rob just cutts all ties, seriously. Shes silly and spoiled. Shes ok with that stuffed thing rob gave her and stay like that. Shes terrible. He needs a break and so do i, from her and her gang.
They were both too immature to get married and not a match. This is a mess. Cut the cord and let it go. Both should do some serious work on themselves before getting into another relationship.
Wow Sophie is totally unhinged!! Sophie you need to end it now.
Sophie's mother is the biggest instigator of trouble between Rob and Sophie. She is a viper.
Sophie's wants her bread buttered both ways.
I never thought i would side with rob but after going through a similar experience recently i 100 percent get where he's coming from, he's been pushed away and pulled back so many times that you reach a point where you just want peace
Oh, the whining 😳.it's unbearable. She's testing the husband's patience. HE deserves medals.
No. He wants a pass to keep sleeping with random club girls.
Boo hoo Sophie is perfectly fine when SHE was dumping him. She is so immature
She makes me feel that she has 2 personalities
I think she’s more upset that he dumped her and not she dumped him.
She doesn't realize he had the power in that relationship. Hope she learns to keep better boundaries.
This girl is too immature for a relationship- you just don’t leave your husband for 3 months ….. you wanted to try being with a woman- now you got what you wanted Sophie …. You’re 24 goin on 13 … Rob you have too much negativity with these 3 women you can’t win for losing so your better off with a more MATURE FEMALE WHOS DOESNT EXPECT YOU TO READ HER MIND …. Lord I never seen anything like this … she’s to “OUT THERE !” & her lesbian friend isn’t helping she a pain in the --…
Rob was surprisingly mature and communicated his feelings.. How Sophie didn’t see this coming is beyond me. Where are the tears Sophie? Smh
Rob, break up with her, turn your ears off around her, don't give her the time of day. None of this is worth it.
She was very manipulative she left him so what did she expect.
I’m sorry that girl‘s not her BFF that girl is her lover
Every girl I’ve broken up with said I would never find someone better. They just do that. You have to tune out the abusive noise they keep emitting.
Sophie, stop running away from your marriage, and don’t put your friend and your mom in the middle of your relationship. Be an adult and talk to Rob as a married couple. I agree with most of the comments that she has child abandonment issues that need to be resolved with a therapy.
An excellent example of self willing a situation to happen and letting it rip you apart. Sophie needs to go home, let that prefrontal cortex finish developing, take accountability for herself, work on her self esteem and realize she will feel better when she lets all this shit GO.
Sophie is what years of abuse from her mother and now rob look like. Has no clue of what a relationship is or how it works. So sad her life is ruined.
What abuse? Its never definitively been shown that Rob touched her and I don't care what anyone says, there's no such thing as online cheating and being yelled at isn't abuse. I'm sure she's raised hers at him more than once, too.
@@ericw8478rob is emotionally abusive and was rough with her once. her mom was also a drug addict and she was forced to grow up faster. that traumatizes people.
@@ericw8478You've done nothung but show your immaturity with this ridiculous comment.
@@ericw8478 what abuse? The mom been a drunk their whole life with men in and out. Now you have this guy gaslighting her with his cheating ways blaming her for their issues when he never takes accountability and blames her. Come on man
@@ericw8478 There are all types of abuse. Rob is definitely emotionally abusive and has a victim complex that stamps back from his relationship with his mother. I do believe that Sophie and Rob are not good for each other. Sophie stayed in the relationship not because she loves him, it's because she's attached to him. He stayed.... idek. I believe that Rob never genuinely never loved her as well.
What do you mean she's scared to leave him. She continually leaves him. It's all Rob's fault, according to Sophie and all she does is find fault! Go away Sophie, get therapy and grow up!
Sophie was a mess before Rob, let’s be real here
She just wants to be chased . But. He won’t ever do that
I feel Sophie is very concerned about image management. She has no depth of self reflection. She is unable to hear Rob because she defaults back to image management. This is evidence of immaturity on her part. Rob is no better but in these scenes, he is exercising restraint and making some sense.
i cannot stand the sound of Sophie's whining fake crying. I have to change the station whenever she comes on
The room mate isn’t helping matters with, breathe!! You’re going to have a panic attack..No one should have to put up with Sofie, her mom and her room mate!! That would be way too much drama!! Sofie hasn’t grown up yet.. Let her have her stuff animals and just walk away Rob..
Sophie is not a victim. It’s wrong that she seems to be using Rob as like someone she can fall back on. She clearly has attachment issues and she’s very immature and needs to get some serious help before she continues to damage her life further.
EXACTLY!
I’m on Rob’s side. Clearly she moved out (a couple of times) and allowed a lesbian (who wants her - she admitted a couple of episodes ago) to home wreck her marriage.
Ron, 👍🎯
Ron, 👍🎯
It’s a trauma response from abandonment issues from her mom 14:13
It's actually Minipulation... All these excuses for Sophie is jaw-dropping.
Has anyone considered Rob's Trauma related issues, in which can more than likely give explanation to his misguided actions and responses?? 🤔
@@tyisprospering what trauma? Him voluntarily leaving his family that has money? Then trying to say he raised himself?
@@tyisprospering if you do research you’ll see he’s just a narcissistic person and a sociopath. Lies and manipulates which worked on you 🤷♀️
@@tyisprospering most of us know that and see right thru him
I’m just going to say it, she never loved him or cared about who he is on the inside. She just wanted to be with him for vain reasons, he is an extremely handsome man. That’s all she sees when she sees him and she’s holding on to him because she wants to possess an attractive man like Rob all for herself. She absolutely can’t stand who he is as a person.
I agree. She very shallow. Immature too. She doesn't like him at all and he's said that so he knows.
On the Inside he foul.
I’m sorry but hanging out with your ex in America where you would have never been without Rob is 10x worse than online cheating.
Wow 😮 Rob is the voice of reason and trying to have a mature conversation about their relationship 🤯
Sophie is really immature for her age , and if she didn’t complain about Rob to all her friends and mother all the time and instead stayed and tries to fix the problem things would have been different . But it’s a power and in controle problem , she felt good cause she thought she had control over the situation, but now Rob ended it the dynamic changes and she no longer has control of the situation. I recognize this behavior with my ex . If Rob would give it another chance she will definitely wait for the right moment to end it with him .
She has the maturity of a child
From day 1 she and her mom mocked Rob. Insulted him. Degraded him. Looked down at him. Gaslighted him and full blown bullied him. Telling him he's no man and laughed at him. Guilt tripped him. She and her mom are horrible dreadful people.
Right at the beginning Rob should have ended it and kicked them out and never looked back.
Sophie is zero wife material and behaves just like Darcey. Always badmouthing Rob and gossiping. Using him as a Scapegoat.Then playing the victim.
Yeeeeeees!! I thought I was in the "Twilight Zone" for a minute bcuz I'm looking at these comments trying to excuse Sophie, who actually is the MAIN one that caused all the drama and relationship toxicity.
Sophie's girlfriend I believe is a lesbian and exploiting Sophie but, she does not see it. She wants Rob out to have Sophie for herself. Also, Sophie is an immature woman listening to her mother and friend. Both who do not have her best interest but, only interfering with her marriage to Rob. Any problems she and Rob should be talking and fixing. Do not involve anyone else.
Rob has also taken a lot of abuse throughout the relationship.Her mother was vile to him.
She's extremely childish and although his behaviour has been unacceptable i believe Sophie enjoyed the victim/martyr status that she had with Rob,she never had any intention of leaving.
Im glad he finished it
She cries as much as Jasmine
Except that one is late 30s and other early 20s.
@@lauracaldwell5640 very true
All I can say is Rob is an awesome individual,all he wants to loved , respected,trust...
And sorry to say Sophia is truly a big mess 😮
Now I see why my grandfather that watches this show hates these two and says they are the worse couple on the show😂😂😂 she is so immature😂
Kae is not a real friend. She is manipulative. She is toxic. She wants Sophie for herself. Rob has the right to not want to put up with this anymore. Also she is very delusional, going off on Rob but yet she is in love with Sophie and Sophia is chasing Rob still once Rob says he is done. 😂
i feel like the reason sophi is baffled is because she was stubborn waiting for him to honestly apologize for the online stuff but she was surprised he was as stubborn as she is. hence her waterworks about him giving up first. just a observation imo
Waiting for him over her Girlfriends house?? Hmmm... Sophie was No victim, she's definitely used to her manipulating tactics working, but "not 2day satan"! Lol 😂
Rob should've stood ten toes down, said what he said, and not returned. I'm definitely not a Rob fan, but I was glad that he broke up with her. She wants to be with big mouth Kae, be with her! She's talking about she didn't do anything, and she's exactly right, she hasn't, to include not even bothering to try. She runs to her parent, friends, strangers to complain about her marriage. She was just mad that Rob beat her to the punch, and dismissed her first. She clearly doesn't want to be with him, so he's giving her over to Kae.
Rob is done, done; he's not yelling or arguing just calmly dropping facts and trying to end things peacefully. It seems like shes happy to be married to a man and living with a woman.
I don't think she's upset they're done, I think she's upset she didn't dump him first
I'm exhausted & I'm not in this relationship ... why are they doing this?? I'm mad they ever got married 🤮
That moment when you figure out Rob ain’t as bad as he was presented
Yesssss
I swear to god, if Sophie brings up the online cheating, ONE MORE TIME!! 😡
YOU MOVED OUT OF THE HOUSE FOR OVER 2 FUCKING MONTHS, THAT'S JUST AS UNFAITHFUL AS CHEATING! WHY ISN'T ANYONE ELSE SAYING THIS?
She has always been the problem, idk how she flew under the radar with her childishness
Omg, ok, after hating on Rob almost the entire freaking season, I genuinely feel bad for him, for being portrayed as a "knob," when in reality, he is INCREDIBLY mature and he is acting very clear headed and trying so hard to gently leave this relationship. Sophie needs to stop acting super childish and LISTEN to what he's saying to her... She straight up SAID she's unhappy with him. Stop putting yourself through misery, then!!! And let Rob move on!
He did move on. With that random chick at the club.
as someone who has been in the same situation as Sophie I truly feel sorry for her - when she finally lets go she will understand
Sophie left Rob so many times what she expects to happen? Move on Sophie darling
Is the Squishmallow an emotional support stuffed animals :)
She is a child. She isn't ready to be anyone's wife. Very emotionally immature, She doesn't even know how to communicate. Her price is the only thing that seems to be hurting.
Sophie has lost me this episode, mad that Rob broke up with her, instead of the other way around? So why haven't you then Sophie????? Manipulating, and very immature. She needs some therapy for sure, this situation is very telling
Sophie is young and very immature. Rob is clearly looking for a relationship- Sophie is not the one
Sophie is trauma bonded to Rob. You can tell her mother is the cause of all her problems.
She just expects Rob to always be around whenever she’s wants him. I have a friend that had a relationship like that. I’m not Rob’s biggest fan, but I feel bad for him here. How she leaves him and expects him to always be there and in return it makes him unhappy, and then when he finally tries to put his foot down and move on, she gets offended.
Sophie’s Super Annoying & emotionally immature. She Only told Rob to come back after HE DUMPED HER, to turn around & be THE ONE WHO DUMPED HIM! It’s SOOOOO CHILDISH. This RIDICULOUS crying & whiney voice is a manipulation tactic.This young lady has SERIOUS ISSUES & needs Extensive Therapy. She needs NOT to be in a relationship with anyone until she has a healthy relationship with Herself. Rob’s No angel and I’m Not a fan of either but for her to choose to leave instead of working things out with her husband should’ve been a Huge red flag. It’s like she doesn’t really love him and she knows he treats her wrong but she CHOOSES TO STAY with him I feel because in her mind if she doesn’t have him nobody else can. It’s about her ego.. Its hard for me to feel bad for her atp..
The clear example that looks doesn't keep a man happy.
I don't understand Sophie, she doesn't know what she wants at this point, she needs to grow up! I'm with Rob at this point!
Rob, be done with it already, is it really worth this!?!
Was I watching the same show??
CLEARLY Sophie was a huge manipulating, lying, disrespectful spoiled brat.
I mean honestly... Nobody forced her to go live with Rob, in his toilet-less Abode. As far as his Online cheating is concerned, yes Rob was wrong for that however, let us not 4get Sophie's "Friend " that turned out to actually be her ex-bf, of which she had him to come out and visit with her 😮 This girl is such a manipulating lie I truly don't have enough time to point out the MANY MANY ways she was the one who came with an agenda. The whole time she was staying with her 'Friend " was her blantonly CHEATING! Having any kind of relationship with someone that openly says "I'll take care of Sophie, she's so hot, I love her" and so on and so forth, it's baffling people are completely clueless of what's right in front of them, and are so he'll bent on making Rob a "knob" that poor crocodile tears Sophie is the biggest Scammer I've seen yet, Lmao🤣 😅😂 Wowzerz!