Coffee and Crime Time: Rhonda Casto

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  • @StephanieHarlowe
    @StephanieHarlowe  ปีที่แล้ว +175

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    • @Veruska75
      @Veruska75 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Native, please start delivering to Europe too!!! Stephanie, could you please tell them us in Europe want those smells too!!

    • @staceyhunt6769
      @staceyhunt6769 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'd be all for it, but like most of your sponsors, they don't ship past the US and Canada. :(

    • @NeatNoodle
      @NeatNoodle ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You do such an amazing job for your sponsors Stephanie. It's not surprising that you have such a variety of companies and repeat customers that ask you to promote them. Because of you, I tried Native for the first time. You are so correct about the amazing scent. Frankly, I personally didn't find the deodorant to work well for me, but I'm sure it does for others. However, I always return for the body wash. I don't believe you would ever promote anything you wouldn't use yourself.

    • @bethrowbottom5897
      @bethrowbottom5897 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Veruska75 They were sending to Australia, but stopped last month. It’s no fair!!! The natural deodorants here, for sensitive skin, are crap.

    • @bethrowbottom5897
      @bethrowbottom5897 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@staceyhunt6769 Keep on them at their customer service. If they get enough people who want it in other countries, they might do it. They were shipping to Australia, but stopped last month.😢

  • @allysuewho
    @allysuewho ปีที่แล้ว +881

    Oh the shade… “There’s no way this woman wants to have s*x with him…”😂😅
    This is why we love you Stephanie!!

    • @AveriesMiranda
      @AveriesMiranda ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s so true 😂

    • @MacT4972
      @MacT4972 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Perfectly stated by Stephanie and thought by Everyone else! 😂😂😂

    • @vsratoslava
      @vsratoslava ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Our shade queen 👑

    • @nonsequiturillogicality
      @nonsequiturillogicality ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed! I love the snark!

    • @thegrimlooper
      @thegrimlooper ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Realistically, why would you want to have sex with someone if they don’t care about your needs? Sex is sometimes considered a need by some women and men. But you can’t fill other people’s cups if your cup is empty. You can’t give others affection properly if you are starving for it yourself.

  • @xxMercy
    @xxMercy ปีที่แล้ว +776

    "he's either going to propose or kill me" that hits way too close to home for me. When I listen to the stories of these beautiful women that are often the victims of people who supposedly love them, I get overcome with a mix of survivor's guilt and being so grateful to have made it out.

    • @mrspokitstheriot477
      @mrspokitstheriot477 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I know exactly how you feel. At this point though survivors guilt is a constant battle every time I think of the now 8 y/o kid who watched their mom lose her life at the hands of my ex.

    • @little_mswriter9942
      @little_mswriter9942 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m glad you’re safe ❤❤❤

    • @nicoledoubleyou
      @nicoledoubleyou ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ​​@@mrspokitstheriot477 Jesus Christ that must be rough if you're saying what I think you are. I have survivors guilt over something else but I understand how hard it is to deal with so I'm sorry you're dealing with it. I try to assuage my guilt and make up for surviving by living my life to it's fullest in order to not feel bad for the fact that I survived. I live for both of us, or at least try my best to.

    • @mrspokitstheriot477
      @mrspokitstheriot477 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Abbi Normi I try to do the same. But ive got chronically ill kids and my life revolves around making sure they're okay first. They both have technically outlived their life expectancy so it's just all really heavy. The young child is now 8, lives with their aunt, who has absolutely no issues with giving me updates. I've known that child her whole life. I'd gotten her old clothes and toys many times. Some of which my kids still play with. Seeing that they are healing helps. And we all do our best to keep mom alive for the child.

    • @heathercarroll9243
      @heathercarroll9243 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I totally get where you’re coming from. It’s so hard to get out and unless you’ve been there you just do t get it. I honestly don’t think I’d be here if I hadn’t of gotten out. So glad you did too💜💜💜

  • @billierobertson6744
    @billierobertson6744 ปีที่แล้ว +1664

    Stephanie holding her little red flag is what I live for tbh…think I’ll get one for myself 😂

    • @hlowrylong
      @hlowrylong ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I legit spit out my coffee onto my phone. Did not expect it, it cracked me up!!!

    • @adstein631
      @adstein631 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Every woman needs one!

    • @samuelsanor3125
      @samuelsanor3125 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I listen while I do stuff so I didn't catch it. Anyone have a timestamp?

    • @hlowrylong
      @hlowrylong ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@samuelsanor3125 It was near the beginning a few times … (‘red flag’ obviously meaning that it would foreshadow the later events - so it was generally closer to the beginning ….) 😜
      I do the same thing but happened to be watching before multi-tasking … thankfully!!!

    • @samuelsanor3125
      @samuelsanor3125 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@hlowrylong thank you!

  • @laurenj2175
    @laurenj2175 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I’m a therapist and I just wanna say- I love your style. You’re empathetic, but blunt as fuck. That’s my goal in life. Keep being real! We love you ❤🎉

  • @tammysantana7200
    @tammysantana7200 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Her being clumsy sounds like excuses for marks and bruises from physical abuse.

    • @uhhhviva
      @uhhhviva ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly what I thought when I heard him say that. My ex said EXACTLY that about me, but in more cruel terms than me being clumsy while he was physically abusing me.

    • @sciencenotstigma9534
      @sciencenotstigma9534 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@uhhhviva. Mine told people I had a medical condition that caused bleeding problems and bruising. It’s always a red flag 🚩 when someone’s partner says things like that. I don’t make assumptions, but it makes me want ask the person more about it when their partner is not around, or just let them know I was abused and I believe people when they tell me it’s happening to them. I might bring it up in a separate conversation, so they don’t fell put on the spot, but I would let them know I’m there, if they need help and support. I remember trying to talk to people in my social circle (who all knew my (now ex) husband, and they would immediately act suspicious of me. I don’t think I went any further than asking them please not to tell them I accepted help from someone, because it would make him feel bad. That was true…it offended his ego and he would beat me. I didn’t say that. I wasn’t “allowed” to accept anything for the kids, etc., because he didn’t give us money for basic needs and it was sometimes obvious. Victims need to know there are people who notice, and are on their side. I had a friend who told me everything she noticed and that she was angry he was treating me that way, and putting himself before the children. The fact that she did that and helped me is why I was able to find a way out. ❤.

  • @7ven7venty7venArtworks
    @7ven7venty7venArtworks ปีที่แล้ว +1134

    0:32 my dog recognizes your theme song and she rushes me to the kitchen when it comes on 😂 bc everytime it starts, I go to my coffee station and she knows when I’m done making my drink- she gets a cookie 🥰 🐾💖

    • @Mushiikata
      @Mushiikata ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This is the cutest!

    • @sophieearl6050
      @sophieearl6050 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I love that lol 😂 That's so cute

    • @SarahKDB
      @SarahKDB ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Aww what's your dog's name?

    • @charlesmartinjr3971
      @charlesmartinjr3971 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I don't even LIKE dogs, and that's adorable!

    • @jennifermarie5328
      @jennifermarie5328 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh that's adorable!

  • @AmethystEyes
    @AmethystEyes ปีที่แล้ว +273

    I can’t believe that an absolute bridge troll like him was able to get her. She deserved so much better. And so did their daughter.

    • @Naturegurl124
      @Naturegurl124 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Well he had money and assets. It definitely wasn't because he had a good personality or looks

    • @fabulousnewt770
      @fabulousnewt770 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ​@@Naturegurl124 he is also a narcissist and they have a way of getting what they want if people cant see it.

    • @lindc1070
      @lindc1070 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If she went after him for his assets then she was materialistic. Didnt deserve to get killed but I am less sympathetic to women who will endure anything just for money

    • @Naturegurl124
      @Naturegurl124 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Lin Dc Well there is nothing wrong with wanting to make sure you are going to be taken care of and doesn't necessarily mean you're a materialistic person

    • @lindc1070
      @lindc1070 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Naturegurl124 it is foolish if you are willing to put up with shoddy treatment " to be taken care of". To me being " taken care of" means being loved and treated well. A woman should not just be looking for a meal ticket. Learn to provide for yourself and be independent. Of course its ok if you consider whether the guy is able to provide too. I wouldnt marry a bum.

  • @lisalu7343
    @lisalu7343 ปีที่แล้ว +638

    My college BF went to China to study for a semester and left me for someone in China with a similar explanation about women there. He said when I did nice things for him, he always felt the need to reciprocate, but he didn't feel that way with Chinese women. He felt free just to accept their kindness and ignore their needs (my interpretation). Wow! I dodged a bullet with that "gem".

    • @Mashiroro
      @Mashiroro ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Reminds me of my dad.. he refuses to date American women 🤔🙄 no my mom wasn’t American either, but after living her for 3 decades she became too American for him as well 🤨

    • @rs-mt6kl
      @rs-mt6kl ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ​@@Mashiroro dang, I need to hear more of these stories and remind myself that the nice rose I saw was actually a bullet in disguise

    • @Audrey-s5t
      @Audrey-s5t ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I had a friend who would only date Chinese women because Australian women were too much. He ended up marrying one and has two beautiful children, but he's so obnoxious and she's so sweet and quite.

    • @jenniferj5324
      @jenniferj5324 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      They want someone subservient. That's why they don't go for Koreans or Phillipinas or Taiwanese.

    • @fleacythesheepgirl
      @fleacythesheepgirl ปีที่แล้ว

      He went to China to steal all their red flags

  • @Shesmovedon-e7d
    @Shesmovedon-e7d ปีที่แล้ว +372

    Rhonda’s text to her sister is awesome. She didn’t blame her at all. What a pure soul!

    • @angryviolentwitchqueen6633
      @angryviolentwitchqueen6633 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My sister would do the same for me, luckily she’s married to an awesome dude whom I love to bully.

    • @nancynalepinski8705
      @nancynalepinski8705 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She shouldn’t blame her bc her little sister she was a minor when it started and was therefore not consensual. Sad situation.

    • @jettsetgirl
      @jettsetgirl ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😢 I’m so glad her sister has that text .. Poor kid has to live with all this trauma 🙏🏻

  • @hollyharman2401
    @hollyharman2401 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    It is so sad to me that there has been multiple tv episodes on her case yet no one had anything to say about her outside of her relationship with Stephen. Heart breaking.

    • @samanthathornton892
      @samanthathornton892 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That's honestly a red Flag all on its own for my honestly. Why hasn't her family came out and talked about what she was like before her husband?! Just so weird to me

    • @hawple
      @hawple ปีที่แล้ว +1

      because it’s something too horrid

  • @rsaw7122
    @rsaw7122 ปีที่แล้ว +472

    Best line in the video…”I have small traces of cannibus in my system because I was high last night” Same, Stephanie…same 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @LeeDee5
      @LeeDee5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I feel like I’m the only person in the world that doesn’t smoke weed

    • @pennysweet1
      @pennysweet1 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      ​@@LeeDee5 I don't... married to a police officer in the UK 🇬🇧 so would be fround upon i guess 😂
      We know alot of people who do and they are amazing people... my moto is you do you and I will do me.

    • @crazybeautiful4270
      @crazybeautiful4270 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Between that line and her red flag , I freaking love her even more !!!!! As soon as she said it , I was like ha ! I knew it ! lol 😂 She has made some comments(not super obvious but if you know you know 😂) on CW and Derick always gives her this look like mhmm 😂😂

    • @rsaw7122
      @rsaw7122 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@LeeDee5 that’s unfortunate lol. It’s legal where I am

    • @Cheesyenchilady
      @Cheesyenchilady ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@LeeDee5 I smoke weed, but I don’t know many other people who smoke weed. I know lots of people who drink. And I don’t drink lol

  • @hmmmbrilee
    @hmmmbrilee ปีที่แล้ว +229

    As soon as you began describing how he said he "swam through the creek" (I've personally never encountered a creek you couldn't walk though or that was even deep enough to truly swim in, but I've never seen Eagle creek so what do I know 🤔) I immediately said out loud "Alright then, Brian Laundrie." Brian must have taken notes from this guy on how to fabricate a story.

    • @skyepaula
      @skyepaula ปีที่แล้ว +6

      literally so strange… i felt the same way :/

    • @karentucker2161
      @karentucker2161 ปีที่แล้ว

      It does sound familiar 🤔 😅

  • @jhatch1869
    @jhatch1869 ปีที่แล้ว +394

    What a heartbreaking story. She was so beautiful. Stunning. And he looked like a pervy Mr. Potato Head. I'll never understand why such beautiful women fall for such douche canoes. So sad. My heart hurts for her daughter.

    • @TheJemstar28
      @TheJemstar28 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Ha! Douche canoe!! It’s been awhile since I heard that!

    • @Naturegurl124
      @Naturegurl124 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Because of his money and assets. Because it wasn't for his looks or personality

    • @WhisperingMoon83
      @WhisperingMoon83 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      “Pervy Mr Potato Head” 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @craftingwithcharm7665
      @craftingwithcharm7665 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@WhisperingMoon83😂😂😂😂

    • @CaseyMarie11-11
      @CaseyMarie11-11 ปีที่แล้ว

      He is the absolute definition of a douche canoe 💯

  • @PaulRosencrantz
    @PaulRosencrantz ปีที่แล้ว +53

    “Stephen Nichols is a cartoon wolf.” That a good one, Stephanie! It’s awesome that you pulled out the literal red flag 🚩 😂

  • @BooglePoots
    @BooglePoots ปีที่แล้ว +119

    When it comes to her family and their dynamics, I think that the fact that even _Stephanie_ couldn't find any personal information about Rhonda and her life tells you all you need to know. Family and friends are the ones who put that kind of information out there, and they clearly didn't for some reason. Which is really sad because her life was one that mattered, and now her daughter won't have as much to look back on to learn about her mother

    • @MiroirNoir
      @MiroirNoir ปีที่แล้ว +6

      THIS!! Thank you

  • @adstein631
    @adstein631 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    I really enjoy when Stephanie does videos about people she hates! Her story telling is ALWAYS so great, but even better when she’s angry AF! 😂

    • @TheStar798
      @TheStar798 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right?!? 😂

    • @michellev7113
      @michellev7113 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I love it too and then I start getting angry at the person too while I'm watching. 😂😂

    • @ImNotHereImThere11
      @ImNotHereImThere11 ปีที่แล้ว

      I look forward to it!! LoL.

    • @severianna9
      @severianna9 ปีที่แล้ว

      I totally agree 😂😂 love it so much

    • @staywoke144
      @staywoke144 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree… Angry Stephanie is awesome.. Makes me feel better because I’m usually yelling at myself while listening to her at work.. I’m calling people a lot worse things lol than she is though, lol..

  • @dr.princess832
    @dr.princess832 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    My heart breaks when I think about Ronda, laying there for three hours, probably begging for him to help her, thinking about her daughter... Omg I just can't, he's absolutely evil

    • @rebeccabejenaru
      @rebeccabejenaru ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That's what I'm thinking. Most people don't die immediately off those cliffs, because there are obstructions on way down ..makes me think she was alive suffered. So sad 😞 he exudes evil. And it's not cold enough when bundled to HAVE hypothermia. I grew up in Canada. .....that cold is very mild in Oregon. They weren't there overnight.

    • @bayleewinkler8920
      @bayleewinkler8920 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I missed the part where she said she was still alive after the fall for awhile. Thats horrific. Especially if he pushed her off. 😭

  • @chelseamoyers3280
    @chelseamoyers3280 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Rhonda: Ugh I think I broke my ankle
    Stephen: I need to put her out of her misery 😩

  • @saintak
    @saintak ปีที่แล้ว +34

    35:50 The Gabby Petito case. Brian Laundrie talking about hypothermia and whatnot when it was not cold enough to induce such a state. That's what came to my mind, anyway.
    Edit: At 58 mins now, and I am so proud I share the same big brain as Stephanie

    • @mariec.9023
      @mariec.9023 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that's what i thought of too 😃🌺
      poor Gabby😢🙁😞
      R.I.P Gabby

  • @GenXfrom75
    @GenXfrom75 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Stephanie, his jaw hitting the floor immediately brings to mind the nightclub scene in The Mask. . . When Jim Carrey's Masked maniac sees Cameron Diaz's character for the first time.

  • @SarahBurnette1007
    @SarahBurnette1007 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    LMFAO at Stephanie bringing out the first red flag. I am IN LOVE with this. A thousand percent yes.

    • @shmoofies
      @shmoofies ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I literally cackled when I saw the flag too 😂 this is one of many reasons we love Stephanie

  • @alaynalinderman
    @alaynalinderman ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Stephanie yanking that red flag while yelling at this guy has me cackling. Get him Steph

  • @MiniMeags
    @MiniMeags ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Me finding out that Stephanie was high the night before filming this gave me the biggest grin haha
    didnt think i could love her any more but she surprises me

    • @tv-21
      @tv-21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its illegal in my state

    • @clararose6223
      @clararose6223 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's legal in Alaska if you ever vacation here😌

    • @Shayna11NM
      @Shayna11NM ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's also legal here in New Mexico! Bien venidos, mis amigos. ❤

  • @weepingangle13
    @weepingangle13 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Perp: “think about all the times she committed unaliving…”
    Interviewer: “you mean, attempted…”
    Perp: *smirks and cleans glasses* “yeah that…”
    GUILTYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

    • @marikit224
      @marikit224 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I am sooooo glad someone else saw that!!! Like dude...

    • @NamelessGrace
      @NamelessGrace ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes! And all of the blinking.

    • @rochellealexander8271
      @rochellealexander8271 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @HeyGuysItsStevie I was like “Ummmm… Dude if she had already unalived herself, you wouldn’t have been able to murder her jacka$$!!!!”

    • @bripuentes5262
      @bripuentes5262 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This was bugging me! I want to punch him!!

  • @annaedwards6446
    @annaedwards6446 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    Stevens story of falling asleep on his girlfriends body reminds me of Sarah Boone - her case and her assertion she accidentally fell asleep while her boyfriend suffocated in a suitcase downstairs.

    • @Muhmawmehmaw
      @Muhmawmehmaw ปีที่แล้ว +26

      That body cam footage is soooooooo damn cringey. Like who did she think she was kidding 😅

    • @dr.princess832
      @dr.princess832 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Omg I commented here already, but YES, this whole case reminds me of Sarah Boone. Same narcissism, same "we recently had good times, you guys", " That's just how he is" (Crying wolf/being clumsy). And the same stupid lies.

    • @bobbii
      @bobbii ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes!

    • @Nizhonibearcreek
      @Nizhonibearcreek ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yea except she recorded herself watching him die

    • @bryangarcia5599
      @bryangarcia5599 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      _'PlEaSe, MaY I HaVe mY Dr. PePpEr? I Am sO CoTtOnMoUtH RiGhT NoW.'_

  • @Nizhonibearcreek
    @Nizhonibearcreek ปีที่แล้ว +183

    I was very close to having the same tragic ending as her … I thankfully got out but he put me on a ventilator for 3 months , these abusers are the most violent when the victim wants to or tries to Leave … please be safe everyone ❤

    • @paidendenae
      @paidendenae ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Omg! I'm glad you made it through and got away from that vile excuse of a man. Sending my love.

    • @margigannon1748
      @margigannon1748 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg

    • @myrandapistokache6653
      @myrandapistokache6653 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m so happy you are alive and free 💖 I left when a knife was held to my throat with my 18 month daughter in the bed with me. And by left I mean ran like the wind bullseye literally, eff the abusers!

    • @bloodyhellmate-c3s
      @bloodyhellmate-c3s ปีที่แล้ว

      They really are. I just lost 3 teeth and a lot of other injuries when I left.

  • @truesavings1988
    @truesavings1988 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Stay at home moms are highly valuable monetarily. When a full time stay at home mom is no longer in the picture the cost of finding daycare, maid, the meals. Can’t put a price on what a stay at home mom does for her family. I only say this because I sell life insurance and when you add it all up it’s insane the amount of work SAHM actually do for no pay. The pick ups and drop offs of school, extracurricular activities, if you had to pay an Uber for all those it would quickly add up

    • @MarieAnne.
      @MarieAnne. ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was going to say this myself. I'm not in the insurance business, but I was a SAHM when my children were young. It would definitely have been a hard on my husband financially if something had happened to me then. So I do think life insurance is important for SAHMs too. And besides, anyone can be murdered for their life insurance, even people with incomes.

  • @AndreaMarie701
    @AndreaMarie701 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’ve been on a 3 month break from true crime, fell asleep watching a conspiracy video and woke up to this one playing. I didn’t realize how much I missed Stephanie’s humor and sarcasm. You’re literally my favorite! 😂😘

  • @allyorrick7901
    @allyorrick7901 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    The red flag is an EXCELLENT edition to this video 🚩🚩🚩🚩
    Such a sad case, and it breaks my heart that you couldn’t find much information about Rhonda and what she was like in life. I really hope that sharing her story might help keep other people safe who notice Stephen’s red flags in their own partners. What a POS he is, and huge props to Melanie for speaking up about what was happening even after her mother didn’t believe her. So, so sad all around. RIP Rhonda and my heart goes out to her loved ones ❤️❤️❤️

    • @valleygirl2530
      @valleygirl2530 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She’d better have a case of those flags.

  • @tatiananicole7122
    @tatiananicole7122 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Stephanie has NO chill 💀 I love her

  • @Llulaaa
    @Llulaaa ปีที่แล้ว +174

    See, this is why I adore you. I've seen this case covered at least a few times prior, but your level of research yields game changing details that others don't.
    Thank you Qween 🖤

    • @azulg06
      @azulg06 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How are you a whole day ahead of us?!

    • @ericasoto8914
      @ericasoto8914 ปีที่แล้ว

      I COULDN'T have said it better myself.

    • @EannieMay
      @EannieMay ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@azulg06 Patreon benefits is my guess

    • @haunting_holly
      @haunting_holly ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She’s the only true crime TH-camr who seems to do their due diligence with research.

    • @Sharon_L_W
      @Sharon_L_W ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Since discovering and smashing through her entire video upload history, I quickly knew that no story has ever really been covered until Stephanie does it.

  • @teresawester5770
    @teresawester5770 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    Hi Stephanie, you just keep getting more and more beautiful! Not to mention there is absolutely nobody out there that comes close to telling a true crime story the way you do. Thank You for all the Hard Work You Put Into Every Case You Cover! You’re Awesome!♥️♥️♥️

    • @traci222
      @traci222 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This!! 🖤🖤🖤

    • @KarlyNicole
      @KarlyNicole ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen🙌🏻💖

    • @smoore7768
      @smoore7768 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agree!!❤

    • @mariapopik6786
      @mariapopik6786 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Blow this comment up! U r stunningly beautiful sweet girl.

    • @GerardHavok
      @GerardHavok ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I couldn't agree more

  • @NoxCattus
    @NoxCattus ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I think he waited til 630 cause he knew that it was so close to dark that it would be harder for rescuers to notice things wrong in that situation...

  • @brandyspears6915
    @brandyspears6915 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Some one once told me, the victim talks about the abuse, the abuser talks about the victim

    • @kyobear5453
      @kyobear5453 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😢 this … the got damn truth 😭😱

    • @karentucker2161
      @karentucker2161 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mine called me fat when I was 128pounds abd told other people that. I was no where near it and I could fit his jeans.

  • @erincourtney7572
    @erincourtney7572 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Yes Stephanie! As someone born and raised in the Columbia River Gorge I am SO glad that you covered this case. Never have I seen a man be so disparaging to a dead “fiancé” than this creep. He is literally and hands-down a wolf in sheep’s clothing and even if he didn’t kill Rhonda (pretty sure he did) he deserves to be in prison because he’s such a gross human being.

    • @silvakevin1
      @silvakevin1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol. Why are you locked up. I’m a gross human.
      Wish that was a law…..sometimes. Haha

  • @ladyfreedomsrawnarratives
    @ladyfreedomsrawnarratives ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I just watched this 48 hours about a week ago. You added why her daughter wasn’t with family and I couldn’t say it better myself. I was thinking the same thing watching it. My heart aches for Rhonda and her precious little baby girl.

  • @Ladyfingers-333
    @Ladyfingers-333 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    the sass in the flag re-adjustment was immaculate 🤣

    • @salmonjanet
      @salmonjanet ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Favorite part of the video 😂😍👌

    • @kyobear5453
      @kyobear5453 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

  • @racheld23biscuitsmom42
    @racheld23biscuitsmom42 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    When Stephanie profoundly dislikes a subject of her video.. you know it’s gonna be spicy. And I’m here for it 💚

  • @smartwater10
    @smartwater10 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You are the ONLY person who can make me laugh while talking about a true crime case. Not about the case, but just with your hilarious ACCURATE comments about the perpetrator. Absolutely love your videos!! Spot on commentary every time.

  • @Joy4theworld
    @Joy4theworld ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I’ve hiked Eagle Creek many times with a dog and kids. The areas where the trail is narrow, there are extra safety measures such as rope or handrail on the side of the mountain for people who may want to be extra careful! Every time I’ve been on this trail, there are small kids, dogs and people galore. It’s a popular hike and you do not need to be an expert hiker to safely hike there. In my opinion, there’s no doubt he pushed her.

  • @researchplease
    @researchplease ปีที่แล้ว +97

    The saddest part is her baby she left behind😢. She seems to have no one left. I hope she gets adopted into a good family.

    • @mercedesvelasquez8781
      @mercedesvelasquez8781 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because some family's don't give a shit and this something I learned when I flipped out had a mental break down and got hooked on drugs but thankfully been sober since 2017 but anyhow when I came back home to prove myself right and to show my son I am never going anywhere again. Welp I learned from my mom that their many assholes that exist that told her that my son isn't her responsibility she shouldn't have to take care of him but funny enough these are the same assholes that would cry fake tears that if I had taken my son with me along on my dark journey & something did happen to him then how come my mom didn't do something like stepping in..
      My point is people are fickle and can never decide what to do instead want to be assholes. I am thankful I have a loving family who was their and will always be their for their grandson because sadly as you saw in this video many aren't that fortunate and will gladly let their blood go into foster care because end of the day moat likely in their eyes their like these said assholes they have no empathy its not their responsibility so foster care can take care of the child(ren) unfortunately so sad..

    • @danidakota7304
      @danidakota7304 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am only glad she will never have to live with her sociopath father, who killed her mom.

  • @nickinoonah
    @nickinoonah ปีที่แล้ว +253

    It's such a shame Ava had to go into foster care, I wonder why her sister or other family members could not take care of her. I sincerely hope Ava is loved and looked after.

    • @mercedesvelasquez8781
      @mercedesvelasquez8781 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Because some family's don't give a shit and this something I learned when I flipped out had a mental break down and got hooked on drugs but thankfully been sober since 2017 but anyhow when I came back home to prove myself right and to show my son I am never going anywhere again. Welp I learned from my mom that their many assholes that exist that told her that my son isn't her responsibility she shouldn't have to take care of him but funny enough these are the same assholes that would cry fake tears that if I had taken my son with me along on my dark journey & something did happen to him then how come my mom didn't do something like stepping in..
      My point is people are fickle and can never decide what to do instead want to be assholes. I am thankful I have a loving family who was their and will always be their for their grandson because sadly as you saw in this video many aren't that fortunate and will gladly let their blood go into foster care because end of the day moat likely in their eyes their like these said assholes they have no empathy its not their responsibility so foster care can take care of the child(ren) unfortunately so sad..

    • @hannahhodson2012
      @hannahhodson2012 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is a shame but I imagine it would be hard to take care of your rapists child, even if it is also your sisters. The whole thing is convoluted and tragic

    • @joanodom2104
      @joanodom2104 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I was very disappointed that none of her immediate family members stepped up to care for Ava. I find it rather curious.

    • @laughingcorrpseholly4136
      @laughingcorrpseholly4136 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      My husband and his brother were put into foster care when their mom got hooked on heavy drugs and they were taken away from her for that and multiple other reasons. They were also separated from each other as well which made it even harder on my husband as he was so young. Both grandparents (they were divorced and had since remarried) did not take him in in fact he remembered when his mom asked if they could stay with them for a while while she sobered up and they said "we're not responsible for YOUR mistakes (meaning them)" and they left them to be taken into foster care...so did her brother and sister (their uncle and aunt) and all of their other immediate family members... it sucks and whats funny is NOW they try to add him on facebook and want to know whats going on in his life and send christmas cards and get pictures of our son and want us to bring our son to come and meet them and come to the family reunions??? Gtfoh!!! 😂 All my husband ever wanted was a family and I'm just glad that I was able to give that to him. ❤

    • @kellin12
      @kellin12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wonder why she can't be adopted if her mother is dead and her father's parental rights were revoked. She's a beautiful white baby, I feel like people would be lining up to adopt her.

  • @vildaterrior
    @vildaterrior ปีที่แล้ว +34

    My favourite expression "you're a lying liar!!" 😂

    • @pasha5751
      @pasha5751 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 one of my favorite sayings

  • @fon420
    @fon420 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "she was clumsy, always falling over shit" he was hitting her lmao

  • @MissyG84
    @MissyG84 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Surely anyone that has listened to this “story” has come to the same conclusion, right? He frikkin pushed her, 100%

  • @seinfields
    @seinfields ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Rhonda was so beautiful. So sad we don’t know much about her because she exudes so much light and love. R.I.P. angel.

  • @skreemqueen7520
    @skreemqueen7520 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I remember watching the 48 hours about this case. Then I thought this dude was a weasel … now I realize he’s a monster! I feel the most sad for Ava, losing her mother. I hope she’s happy and being well taken care of now.
    Great work Stephanie, love you !

  • @andreamarksberry345
    @andreamarksberry345 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Poor Ava! I hope she’s in a stable and loving home and doing well! This is a sad situation altogether! Rest easy, Rhonda. I wish you had a long and happy life but I know you’re watching over your beautiful daughter…❤

  • @kellysilversmith5422
    @kellysilversmith5422 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What kind of horrific life Rhonda’s mom gave to her girls. It always amazes me who gets to have children. Very sad story. Stephanie your coverage of these stories are the best.

  • @aleisaetheridge8682
    @aleisaetheridge8682 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I will never understand how anyone could believe he didnt muder her after taking out a huge insurance policy on her and She was going to leave this creep and only worried about making sure she could take care of her daughter once She left this creep UGGGHHH HUGE RED FLAG

  • @raigenhuss7030
    @raigenhuss7030 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    This girl was such a good sister. Knowing her little sister was being groomed by him and placed all blame on him. Some women would blame the sister

    • @jenniferj5324
      @jenniferj5324 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah, but don't you think she was old enough to know to stay away from her sister's partner?

    • @raigenhuss7030
      @raigenhuss7030 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@jenniferj5324 she was a child who was being groomed. He’s the one who should have known better to stay away, not him. Blaming the girl who can’t legally consent doesn’t make any sense at all

    • @jenniferj5324
      @jenniferj5324 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@raigenhuss7030 yes. He was a creepy groomer. My point is that a15 yo is old enough to know it is wrong to mess with your sister's boyfriend.

    • @rebeccabejenaru
      @rebeccabejenaru ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My sister is one of the jealous ones like that. "The girl that cried wolf." My sister is a monster. Never do the women in my family support each other; all in competition.

    • @tlterry
      @tlterry ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@rebeccabejenaruI really hate to hear that! I hope you have some supportive girl friends. Women especially family should always support other women

  • @nicoleolson2371
    @nicoleolson2371 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I am so thankful for Stephanie. Being stuck in a depressive slump and not wanting to talk to anyone. However, watching your videos helps so much. It's like I have company without having to force myself to interact when I can't. Your storytelling is so calming despite the tragic topics. Thank God for you.

  • @bethanythatsme
    @bethanythatsme ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Lifelong Oregonian & it is truly breathtaking. I'm a clumsy cannabis enthusiast & it certainly is damp/slippery a good majority of the year, but even I call major nonsense on this guy's story.
    My heart goes out to Rhonda's lil one 💜

    • @rebeccabejenaru
      @rebeccabejenaru ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Those trails, people know to be careful on. ....obviously. it's so rare anyone ever falls off of them. Beautiful place.

  • @karisbish
    @karisbish ปีที่แล้ว +10

    52:03 exactly. This is one of my biggest fears, I’ve struggled with mental health issues since I was 13, been on medication since I was 13 and I KNOW if something happened to me, it’d be ruled suicide

  • @elvisneedsboatsbennett2455
    @elvisneedsboatsbennett2455 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    One of Georgia Hardstark's favorite sayings come to mind, "He's a lying liar who lies"

  • @meshell1986
    @meshell1986 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    You have become my new favorite TH-camr! I have been binging your videos, and your research, delivery, and empathy outshines all!

  • @leximari
    @leximari ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Rhonda is absolutely stunning, I feel so terrible for her daughter to not know her. So so sad

  • @sarahfitz420
    @sarahfitz420 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Thank YOU Stephanie!! This is a new story for me… and it is so heartbreaking for the daughter. I couldn’t imagine living my life knowing that my father is responsible for my mothers death.

  • @Yuallsomad
    @Yuallsomad ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi Stephanie, I'm from Melbourne, Australia and letting you know if you haven't heard that Phoebe Hansjuk's ex boyfriend had another girlfriend c/s (end it all) in I think 2020...he also got away with this BC the evidence shows she could not have done this herself and he was the last person to see her...infuriating that 'man' is still walking free due to daddy's influence and money...justice for Phoebe will never happen here but she will not be forgotten💜

  • @michellecarice
    @michellecarice ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm waving my red flag loud, proud and high!!! 🚩🚩 also, thank you Stephanie! For always taking up for women ❤ your beliefs are so in line with mine and I think you are very relatable.

  • @luriddgoddess170
    @luriddgoddess170 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    There is a sinister vibe he gives off when talking about this poor woman and to me he absolutely pushed her smh rip to her❤

  • @sv.22211
    @sv.22211 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love how you sarcastically pay these idiots out whilst you so articulately and seriously tell these stories. One of my long time favourites Stephanie! So impressive how much detail you put into these videos! ❤ R.I.P Rhonda 😞

  • @savannahcraig9116
    @savannahcraig9116 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Honestly my most favorite true crime TH-camr! I have binged watched ever video and you always bring your A game! Definitely recommend you to everyone I talk to! Thank you so all the hard work and dedication you bring for these victims and their families!

  • @scatterbrain_ac
    @scatterbrain_ac ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I bloody love the red flag! I’m new to finding your channel and I love your honesty and vibes, you truly say it how it is while also being respectful for those who we lost

  • @MikeyVonSwank13
    @MikeyVonSwank13 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    It drives me up the wall when people assume someone takes their own life when things prove differently. It’s a fear I have. Living with depression and being in recovery it would be the first thing people would say if something happened to me. Not enough red flags in the world for this guy.
    (Finally caved and ordered from native)

  • @silvaleanne
    @silvaleanne ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Thank you Stephanie! My youngest is having a smallish surgery right now.. as im typing this.. 😭 this video will help distract me while shes in there! 🙏 Ty bestie!

    • @liziuhh
      @liziuhh ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I hope the surgery goes well! ❤

    • @catherinepalmer4812
      @catherinepalmer4812 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hope everything goes ok for your little one ❤

    • @perfectlyimperfect9129
      @perfectlyimperfect9129 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Always scary when our babies have to go through something like that , prayers for a Successful surgery and a speedy recovery!

    • @emmac687
      @emmac687 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I hope everything goes well with the surgery ❤

    • @XaMarie21
      @XaMarie21 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Prayers surgery is successful ❤ and healing is quick and pain free. ❤❤❤

  • @SarahQMorgan2727
    @SarahQMorgan2727 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Can we just address how supremely out of this dudes league she was? This was a tragedy all around. She deserved so much better.

    • @mudkips1500
      @mudkips1500 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yes she was too beautiful for his ugly and sorry ass. But on top she seemed like a sweet soul.

    • @WickedWorld3
      @WickedWorld3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Choices. She made the choice that she wanted to be with him, for whatever he had. And as far as I understand Ava was their daughter, not from a previous boyfriend. She made those choices.

    • @angryviolentwitchqueen6633
      @angryviolentwitchqueen6633 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@WickedWorld3 does this mean she deserved to die? This is giving victim blaming

    • @silvakevin1
      @silvakevin1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @sarah Morgan. I agree 💯. Must have had a lot of cash and a good bullshitter.
      She seemed so sweet, very sad story

    • @WickedWorld3
      @WickedWorld3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@angryviolentwitchqueen6633 I don't think my comment mentioned anything about that.

  • @jennbreen5313
    @jennbreen5313 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I always show up for the true crime content but I secretly really enjoy watching you make your coffee! 😂

  • @jjetgirll
    @jjetgirll ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not to take away from the topic at hand or detract at all from all the work and dedication you put in, but just wanted to say that at the start of every video, I'm always taken aback for a sec by how beautiful you are! Your hair is gorgeous and I love your cozy autumn vibes! 🍂🖤

  • @Meebeedeep
    @Meebeedeep ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I have to just say that I always appreciate you standing up for people who are trying to get help for their mental health. I passed out and was taken advantage of at 21 and then my parents divorced shortly after, causing a quick downward spiral in my mental health. I went to therapy and was put on different medicines to try and find one that would work for me. My horrible mother proceeded to tell me I was not stable and didn't trust me to leave me and my little brother alone in the house together even though I've never done anything in the past to show I couldn't be trusted taking care of my little brother. I was literally just taking an anti-anxiety/anti-depressant medicine and trying to help myself. Thankfully I'm out of her grip and she's no longer in my life but goodness it's nice to hear from other people that it's fine to try and get help ❤️

  • @ryoung8499
    @ryoung8499 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    Actually stephanie, the similar case that came to my mind first, was the chick that killed her husband...EIGHT days after they were married! She pushed him off a cliff and then had half a dozen different stories on how it happened
    . She killed him because she didn't want to have sex wasnt it?! Married him even though she knew this?!
    * I don't even f*ckin understand*
    Thank you for another great episode!!! I really enjoy your telling of someone's story.
    Much love ❤️

    • @victoriamcbride826
      @victoriamcbride826 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Freaking same!

    • @dulcecastaneda4721
      @dulcecastaneda4721 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What’s this case you’re talking about? I’ve never heard of it

    • @raigenhuss7030
      @raigenhuss7030 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same! I thought that was this case at first but then remembered it was the woman who killed the man in that one

    • @ryoung8499
      @ryoung8499 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Dulce Castaneda I'm pretty sure the man's name was Cody Johnson. Her name is Jordan, something....I think??

    • @TheStar798
      @TheStar798 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh yes! That case! His friends immediately knew. What a nutjob she was... She claimed some "friends" she never saw came and collected him and drove off. Come to find out she lured him to those cliffs so she could murder him!

  • @morganchilders7653
    @morganchilders7653 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I love listening to Stephanie cover a case and doing it justice while I drink my coffee in the morning.

  • @Muhmawmehmaw
    @Muhmawmehmaw ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Stephanie and her love for Native, name a more iconic duo ❤
    The way she dragged that useless sack of flesh at the beginning of the video had me weak 😂.

  • @rubycharlie4555
    @rubycharlie4555 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    first time Stephanie waved that red flag i laughed out loud, so much

  • @frankboff1260
    @frankboff1260 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    An abuser always denigrates his victim. They can’t stop themselves. He’s guilty.

  • @GenXfrom75
    @GenXfrom75 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Sitting here getting hooked up to donate plasma... I love when Stephanie's with me. Makes it better!

    • @Slymphomie
      @Slymphomie ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for your very generous donation ❤️

    • @saddpotatoe13
      @saddpotatoe13 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Are you at BioLife or an actual blood bank? I ask because BioLife doesn’t use your plasma for humans. It uses it for makeup and dog food. Source: me, a phlebotomist who works at an actual blood bank.

    • @summamourj4562
      @summamourj4562 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@saddpotatoe13omg!!! Really?

    • @DubsTV93
      @DubsTV93 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@saddpotatoe13 what in the world would a makeup or dog food company use plasma for?? Not that I don't believe you, just curious.

    • @mickistover4118
      @mickistover4118 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DubsTV93great question

  • @SoulfoodPogo
    @SoulfoodPogo ปีที่แล้ว +44

    "I have small traces of marijuana in my system right now because I was high last night"
    THIS IS WHY I LOVE YOU!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @CocoAvalon
    @CocoAvalon ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When I first watched the 48 Hours episode about this I literally COULD NOT WAIT for Stephanie to listen to this man bc he is seriously one of the creepiest psychos ever and I knew Steph would be so disgusted by him and she wouldn't be shy about telling us! So glad you covered this case!

  • @schokoshrimps9779
    @schokoshrimps9779 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love love loooove the red flag 😂 please keep doing this, I'm in tears

  • @nhangnguyen5252
    @nhangnguyen5252 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stephanie, no one else out there puts in as much research and details as you do. Thank you for all the hard work to bring us the most complete story that you can. Also, god you're so hilarious when you are furiously sassy, I could listen to you all day because you express everything that goes through my mind but don't utter out loud.

  • @unorthodoxchick
    @unorthodoxchick ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Did anybody else's skin crawl when the interviewer asked him "Do you know it's illegal to have sex with a minor" and he responded "Yes, in Oregon"???
    As if it's not illegal anywhere else and just plain gross to boot!

    • @Naturegurl124
      @Naturegurl124 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think the age of consent is 15 in many places actually.

    • @fabulousnewt770
      @fabulousnewt770 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Naturegurl124 even so.. two kids fooling around is not the same. Not some older man manipulating a young girl. 15 is very young isnt it?

    • @Naturegurl124
      @Naturegurl124 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Fabulous Newt Yes 15 is too young especially for a 30 year old person!

    • @juu0n
      @juu0n 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Naturegurl124 the age of consent and legal age are two different things. the former only applies to minor + minor, not minor + adult. it’s still illegal to have sex with a minor even if the minor is above the age of consent.

    • @Naturegurl124
      @Naturegurl124 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@juu0n Oh I understand now. Thank you

  • @aliciabowers-nuesmeyer2502
    @aliciabowers-nuesmeyer2502 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I am here for Stephanie and her little red flag! 🚩🚩🚩

  • @thoughtfuldoomguy
    @thoughtfuldoomguy ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I skip the intros and ad reads on every TH-cam video I watch but yours haha the intro song is so good and your ad reads are so natural, it’s like you’re just a friend telling me about something you like.

    • @AbsyntheAndTears
      @AbsyntheAndTears ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I tried Native products, due to her promotion of them and I love them. My daughter loves them, too. They truly smell amazing.

  • @SDixon-zl1rq
    @SDixon-zl1rq ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Literally a few minutes in, and I am reminded why I love Stephanie's videos so much! She does not spare punches, and I am here for it! I feel like the red flag should be a regular feature ❤❤❤❤

  • @blackgirle2181
    @blackgirle2181 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He's a lying liar who's dumb. Stephanie I love every minute of your input😂

  • @personofinterest8731
    @personofinterest8731 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I remember this creep. What she was doing around him, I don't know, security? Ugh, he is awful awful awful. Thank you Stephanie! I don't normally comment, but it's time to say YOU ROCK OH QUEEN OF CRIME 💃💜

    • @stoppit9
      @stoppit9 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's weird, every aspiring model I've ever met has been dating older jerks

    • @rebeccabejenaru
      @rebeccabejenaru ปีที่แล้ว

      Oregon. Probably wanted someone with some drive and out there, it can be a challenge. Hard to meet people out there I found.

    • @bernice_anders
      @bernice_anders ปีที่แล้ว

      She was 20, and very beautiful. I wouldn't be surprised if more sensible men were too nervous to approach her, but this loser was probably invading her personal space and love bombed her cause he has no limits. She mistook that as a kind, loving guy that could take care of her, and be a man that can protect and love her. Big mistake

  • @jessicablair5610
    @jessicablair5610 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I've been listening to this opening song on Spotify, but I'll be honest, it just hits different when you hear Stephanie say "Hello everybody!" after the first verse 😂❤

  • @Raraking4796
    @Raraking4796 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I feel like all my favorite TH-camrs have been doing Oregon cases!! Oregon is very often forgotten about. I’ve lived in Oregon my entire life and this is the second case this week that was in Oregon and I didn’t know about it.

    • @mdipeace
      @mdipeace ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And she pronounces it right. Most east coasters say Or-e-gone.

  • @carebecousin
    @carebecousin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Stephanie from a neighbor close to you in brockport! Just wanted to say, I'm so happy I found your channel, love your content! Keep up the great work

  • @thefiercesiren
    @thefiercesiren ปีที่แล้ว

    My oh my.. these keep getting better. Kuddos to you, Stephanie.
    As a woman who currently has faint traces in her system, keep standing up for the victim of this murdurous creep!

  • @kaiceylasher290
    @kaiceylasher290 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yasssss Stephanie! Girl I wish we were friends irl, I laugh so hard every time you tear these guys up. Get ‘em girl!

  • @whitajeman
    @whitajeman ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I haven't heard of this case and I am always glad when I get to hear Stephanie's version of a story first since she puts so much care into her research & honoring the victim.

  • @goodshiplollipop
    @goodshiplollipop ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Your red flag is a wonderful addition 😁 Cant get enough of it 🚩

  • @gabrielleurso562
    @gabrielleurso562 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This case reminds me of the Australia mystery of Caroline Byrne, who was found at the bottom The Gap a notorious suicide spot. At first the police and her father were convinced it was her influential boyfriend Gordon Wood. He claimed he knew where to find her body because, "Her spirit led him there." And a witness claimed, "People who commit suicide don't scream." Gordon was convicted, but appealed and it was overturned. The police did a poor job of investigating and unfortunately it remains a mystery. Did she jump or did Gordon really throw her like a speer head first off the cliff? Stephanie, can you cover this case?

  • @thriftynurse
    @thriftynurse ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used your code to order some body washes thank you ♡ with your discount & their bundle deal got 3 for less than $18 shipped! I was gonna do the cherry macaroon, gummy bears & coastal oak/amber or maybe sea salt, but you sold me with the strawberry taffy description lol so I did that for my 3rd. Can't wait to smell them, I've been wanting to try native for awhile!

  • @sarahpak7934
    @sarahpak7934 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I usually hit the like button before I watch, I forgot this time but when you described Stephen Nichols, I not only hit the like button I reminded to hear that spot on description again 💕

  • @ariellefitzgerald1222
    @ariellefitzgerald1222 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I refused to clean my house until I had something to listen to and here you are 😂

    • @sianbeecham2825
      @sianbeecham2825 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same ❤😂😂😂

    • @bethrowbottom5897
      @bethrowbottom5897 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Get cleaning…😂

    • @maddybertani8161
      @maddybertani8161 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hate housework but it's so much easier with Steph for company! 💗

    • @ariellefitzgerald1222
      @ariellefitzgerald1222 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bethrowbottom5897 yes ma’am!! I did!! Lol ❤

    • @ariellefitzgerald1222
      @ariellefitzgerald1222 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maddybertani8161 girl I was about to get desperate and listen to her old content I don’t remember!

  • @ashleywethington9382
    @ashleywethington9382 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    About to clean my house and needed something to listen too! Stephanie always has my back!

  • @muggleintheupsidedown
    @muggleintheupsidedown ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I definitely called myself disgusting a lot after my baby. Fortunately my husband was soooooooo kind and loving and never let me see myself differently! But I have some awful negative self talk