【Eng Sub】Hoshikawa Sara & Natsuiro Matsuri give love advice Part 4【Based / hololive / Nijisanji】

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  • @YuriShizu
    @YuriShizu  ปีที่แล้ว +20

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  • @VYKNIGHT
    @VYKNIGHT ปีที่แล้ว +49

    matsuri takes no prisoners

  • @western_gunner
    @western_gunner ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Damn I missed this collab, but ngl from all 4 clips, I definitely think Matsuri are giving a very reasonable answer here, as in not just a joke.

    • @axis_tilted
      @axis_tilted 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Its not a joke but it also sounds like she gets all her advice from reddit

  • @thirdhand4780
    @thirdhand4780 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    thank you so much for translating this stream, its fucking hilarious

  • @lowbatt777
    @lowbatt777 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    damn.. im not used to matsuri being so knowledgeable and mature :o

  • @_Matt29_
    @_Matt29_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2:26 No truer words have ever been spoken

  • @lchn12345678
    @lchn12345678 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    matsuri on fire

  • @yukibaskerville6823
    @yukibaskerville6823 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I watched the other 3 clips and she was saying funny things most of the time but in this one Matsuri actually gave a really good advice, I'm quite surprised lol
    Thanks for the subs!

  • @4slidem1r
    @4slidem1r ปีที่แล้ว +7

    thank you so much for the translation!!!!

  • @rowanmales3430
    @rowanmales3430 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It does tend to be true that "men cheat when they feel safe" and "women cheat when they feel insecure".
    I think this is because of how the sexes perceive relationships differently.
    For women, relationships have a much deeper emotional aspect. When a woman is in a relationship and feels insecure, it means she is not getting emotional security in her current relationship. It should hardly be a surprise that they turn to others for their emotional needs, and when that other is a guy who gives her the emotional stability she is lacking it often turns into a new relationship.
    The emotional side is simply not as fundamental for the male side of the relationship, as when men have emotional troubles they tend to look inward and solve it themselves (creating a host of different problems) rather than look for someone else to be their stabilising "emotional rock". Because of this, being in an emotionally insecure relationship doesn't have them (consciously or unconsciously) looking for a new partner and could potentially even have them withdrawing themselves from the dating pool instead as they turn inwards.
    For Men, when they feel safe, they gain confidence. They lose inhibitions. They stop worrying so much about what other people (like their partner) think because they don't feel any threat from them (by definition). They take risks (such as cheating) because they feel so safe in their relationship that the risk of it being destroyed fades and feels distant. To men, who are biologically wired towards threats, safety breeds complacency while threats breed alertness and proactivity. And while men are less emotionally based in their relationships, they are also more physically based. Men are visual creatures more than women and so, the more complacent they are with their own relationship, the more the sexual appeal of the women around them (which is ever-present) is harder to resist because the risks attached seem less at that moment. This is why it is that the men most likely to cheat are those "bad boys" who (it is perceived) the woman is "lucky" to be with, as well as those men with women who they can't imagine ever leaving them, who cheat far more. The link between the "bad boy" and "safe, complacent guy" is a confident belief that "my woman won't leave me". This is less pronounced with women, both because their relationships are more emotional than physical (and thus less potential pulls) and because their stability and associated safety comes from the current relationship, whereas the male (usually the one giving the "safety" in a relationship, not gaining the safety) does not get the same "safety" from a relationship most females do, which again, is a pull-factor towards the current relationship men largely don't have anywhere near as much of.

  • @kaigaikarano
    @kaigaikarano ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I once get confessed by my friend. I do respect her. But I do say that I dont feel the same way as she did. But I do love our relationship as a friend. After that, I never flirtious to her again.
    So, I agree with matsuri in this

  • @yuuka3296
    @yuuka3296 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    NICE CUT

  • @impaladba
    @impaladba ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's not "men" exactly who cheats when they feel safe. It's people who are emotionaly uncapable to love their partner for real, who get into relationships only to have sex and who usually are sex addicts. It's just there are more men like this, than women for obvious reasons.
    So you better learn how to spot them fast, before they ruin your life. It doesn't matter if it's man or woman you dealing with.

  • @Anrilunarianpebble
    @Anrilunarianpebble ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Even as a guy, I also don't understand how men cheat when they feel secure. I mean what kind of logic is that? Why would you cheat on other girls when you already had a cute wife with you? If that guy even exists, he's just a jerk who's just fooling around women and thinks he's a chad or something when he's not.
    Real men don't cheat when there's no reason to. That kind of guy Matsuri mentioned is just trash

    • @imLumineux
      @imLumineux ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For the most part I don't really agree with Matsuri's logic, people just cheat because they can because they're selfish.
      Coincidentally enough I had a coworker who had a really cute girlfriend who also bragged about the other girls he would get with despite being in a relationship.
      When I asked him why he just didn't break up with his gf, "I like feeling secure of that someone is going to be there".
      It's the mentality of "the grass is greener on the other side".
      Some people cheat just because they can and do so when given the opportunity.
      Sometimes it's more complex then that, but regardless it's selfish.

  • @Syncopia
    @Syncopia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The more I listen to Marsuri's relationship advice, the more obvious it becomes that she's got some severe baggage

  • @samikrungoken
    @samikrungoken ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If we're talking about cheating
    Women cheat 2times more than men in Japan.

  • @neetpride5919
    @neetpride5919 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sigma chad move #43: flirting with women then explicitly telling them you'd rather stay friends

    • @AntonYadrov777
      @AntonYadrov777 ปีที่แล้ว

      As God herself said, he is doing that purely to harass his ex into becoming his plaything once again. There is nothing sigma, and especially nothing chad about this. It's just sexual harassment and exploitation.

  • @SkreD
    @SkreD ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love them both but this show of theirs really need a guy as an advisor. 😂

    • @kaigaikarano
      @kaigaikarano ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We need roberu!!

    • @scragglie
      @scragglie ปีที่แล้ว +3

      fr i kinda feel bad for hoshikawa with how absolutely off the fucking rails matsuri is becoming. i get insulting your viewers as a joke and self deprecation, but man this stream feels like it went wayyy too far haha, with lots of misguided ideas and weird theories that dont make any sense with ANY amount of perspective outside of your own experiences. suffice it to say, matsuri gotta chill, before she alienates her entire fanbase lolll

    • @Anrilunarianpebble
      @Anrilunarianpebble ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Then again, this is just their opinions and they're not Ph.D professionals so you can't blame them lol

    • @wowiwhwbw
      @wowiwhwbw ปีที่แล้ว +4

      word tbh, sometimes i feel like they’ve probably dealt with too many fuckboys in their life and thus have developed this “men ain’t shit” mentality, but that really says more about them and their skill of choosing their partners than it does about males as a whole.

    • @samsonjbriiidivina7037
      @samsonjbriiidivina7037 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Nah actually in all 5 clips Matsuri handled it pretty well. Most of what she says is true in regards of giving points to the questions.

  • @scragglie
    @scragglie ปีที่แล้ว +3

    idk if maybe some of her points are lost in translation, but i think matsuri is a little off the rails here, which is fine considering its her whole shtick to be unhinged and crazy, but she seemed pretty sincere about her "cheating" ideas.. pretty weird stuff and it seemed like even hoshikawa was a bit weirded out listening to her lol.. idk if maybe she was joking and it just didnt land correctly? or maybe she is just trolling or something, but i really hope she doesnt sincerely believe the stuff shes saying, because simplifiying all cheating down to women "feeling insecure" or men "feeling safe" is crazy talk, sounds like something id hear at a libtard american college spewing feminist sjw propaganda. men and women cheat for a multitude of reasons, and NONE of them are acceptable or excusable. seems like shes trying to defend women who cheat by saying "they only do it because they feel insecure" idk rubbed me the wrong way lol

    • @nietzchan
      @nietzchan ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You're reading too much into it, Matsuri only explains the motives doesn't mean she thinks it's acceptable, her reaction to cheaters in this stream clearly shows her stance. She is one of the most sensible person in Hololive and you should really watch more clip of Matsuri serious thoughts and not just her antics to see her worldview, behind that horny facade lies a very realist adult woman.

    • @scragglie
      @scragglie ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nietzchan brother ive been watching matsuri clips for YEARS. this is out of character for her and im not a fan, its as simple as that, i get enough fucking "gender politics" and other bullshit like that living in america everyday, i certainly dont watch hololive to hear their takes on "why women cheat vs men" sounds like a goddamn buzzfeed video title. i watch hololive, vspo, and niji for their cute and funny moments 😭, their talented singing and dancing, and their character personalities and to escape from "reality" not to hear about how "men will always cheat on women if they feel its safe to do so" and how women "only cheat if their man makes them feel insecure" what kind of feminist bullshit is that man? lets not pretend this is anything but some weird feminist shit, even hoshikawa was pretty clearly uncomfortable with what matsuri was saying, if you watch the full stream its pretty obvious.

    • @nietzchan
      @nietzchan ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@scragglie Like I said, you're reading too much into it. This is not gender politics, most likely this is something lost in translations and the lack of cultural nuances makes it worse. For example I couldn't relate with anything you said because gender politics is non-existent where I live, and I believe the way people view relationship would also different in Japan. You should try to see things from different angle instead of using your own worldview for once.

    • @mangojam5027
      @mangojam5027 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@nietzchanExactly mate.🎉

    • @imLumineux
      @imLumineux ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Like the previous people have stated you're judging what happens in Japan based on your own culture which is the biggest mistake.
      It's honestly not as serious as you're making it out to be and her points even if somewhat misconstrued are valid to a degree.
      Her thinking of why women and men cheat doesn't necessarily mean she agrees with cheating, it seems like you're reading too much into it especially since you say "seems like she's trying to defend women who cheat" when she clearly isn't.
      It's like me saying I like pancakes, and you thinking I hate waffles, these are two different sentences and conversations.
      All Matsuri said was men cheat cos of x, women cheat cos of x, never defended any sort of cheating.
      Regardless there's always some truth to everything even if it might not be true for you or your experiences.
      I had a coworker who bragged about the girls he'd get with despite having a gf and when I asked him why not just break up with her he said "She makes me feel secure and I like knowing I have someone there". Would that not be "feeling safe" as Matsuri says lol? Albeit this is one unique case I've encountered, but the fact that it happened at all means it's possible to be the case for some people which wouldn't make it a lie or crazy talk like you say.

  • @litfiana5417
    @litfiana5417 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    there are so many thing i disagree with matsuri.. xd
    Man as a human being is always always drawn to woman... why? i have no idea, that just how it is
    and it's not limited to 1 woman either, if a Man have capacity & wealth to get 100 woman, they will get 100 woman XD

    • @zelf8
      @zelf8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's just what matsuri said =))) woman just want one, so when they feel insecure, they find another one, while man have one, they still want to have more 😂 so they want to keep woman around them

    • @notsoptimistic
      @notsoptimistic ปีที่แล้ว +6

      "man as a human being is always drawn to woman" that's where you're wrong. not all men think like you and there's gay men too.

    • @litfiana5417
      @litfiana5417 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@notsoptimistic yea they're, if they say not then they've lied

    • @chromestarGameVid
      @chromestarGameVid ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@notsoptimisticSo remember this is just an opinion show, dont expect their opinions are universal inclusive

    • @scragglie
      @scragglie ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yea idk, she gave off some serious western feminist sjw vibes with this stream... i always thought matsuri was acting this way as a joke, but she seems pretty sincere about her crazy ideas here and its a bit weird.. maybe its a mistranslation but to boil men cheating down to them thinking "its safe for me to do so" and women only cheating because they "feel insecure" is actually insane to me, theres no way she actually believes that shit right?