They Don't Treat Me the Way I Deserve to Be Treated

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  • @romisana
    @romisana 7 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Great video!!!
    Neville always says "it's not about deserving, these are states."
    If you're in a state/attitude of feeling like a victim who isn't respected, you will experience that state...not necessarily what you want. You don't attract what you want, you attract what you are in harmony with through your daily thoughts and feelings (thoughts and feelings constitute states).

    • @logannatalia
      @logannatalia 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Romi-Sana Murekar .... i absolutely adore Agnes' channel. Romi-Sana Murekar but what about innocent young children who are abused, are they attracting it to themselves bcus they subconsciously want abuse?

    • @ambe7357
      @ambe7357 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No, no one wants that, but they might have been raised with it due to their parents and developed that thought pattern. Just like my grandmother would always tell me that all men are bad and not to be trusted. I've experienced that throughout my life now and working on it to change this attitude, because it is not serving me at all. So, it can be something someone "taught" you. You're especially open for things like that when you're a child.

    • @Lisa_M_V
      @Lisa_M_V 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Natalia Logan sadly children with negative abusive (verbally or physically) parents FEEL bad when they are abused (as children up to age 7 live entirely in their internal world the subconscious imagination etc) and then they manifest more from the feeling. It’s sad but till they grow up to realise they can consciously choose states (most adults till death will be creating unconsciously) they won’t be able to change it. As it’s all based on feeling

    • @Lisa_M_V
      @Lisa_M_V 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Natalia Logan we also CHOOSE our parents before we get into a physical body. We choose to grow develop and have experiences. As the inner being is positive and wants a physical experience it chooses parents

  • @emma-hy8vs
    @emma-hy8vs 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Massive wake up call. Can see where I went wrong.

  • @sofiamcmarques
    @sofiamcmarques 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh my god! So true, if I dont respect myself and take care of my needs, how can I expect them to do it for me?

  • @suzannemayo8369
    @suzannemayo8369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so good!

  • @vee-oy2nq
    @vee-oy2nq 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was amazing to watch. I was pushed around my ex and hit. I don't love or want him but knowing this assures me it won't happen again in my future ❤️

  • @absloutelyRasha
    @absloutelyRasha 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for the amazing TH-cam. I might be able to join the QA today. I agree with everything you said, indeed, I saw many people here saying the issue of having a stubborn persons and I belief when they changed it they manifested a contact. Change your thoughts and things will change. Love to you and enjoy your break from us till next week. 😘

  • @kanchanmala8488
    @kanchanmala8488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hands on the hips 😂😂😂🤭

  • @KAty12397
    @KAty12397 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In the Last few days i was thinking about this whole "they should treat me with more respect " theme and now there you are doing a TH-cam exatly about that exactly when i needed it! I can see clearly now that i do Not have enough self respect and will work on it :) Thank you so much again Agnes! Your youtubes are always about the theme i am dealing with at that times

  • @s.aa.s8637
    @s.aa.s8637 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great one👌👌👍 Thank u Agnes❤❤❤❤

  • @SrtaBGoode
    @SrtaBGoode 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Agnes

  • @funkymonk7
    @funkymonk7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All true...Thanks, Agnes!

  • @NoorMorningLight
    @NoorMorningLight 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Agnes I needed this too!!! We don't hear enough about self-respect and self-love these days.. sacrificing time seems encouraged but not fair to both parties. And enjoy France! Bon voyage et bon weekend 😘

  • @stoddard1953
    @stoddard1953 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video definitely resonated with me. I've done this with my specific person I've been manifesting and I've seen it reflected out into my world. Definitely have to work on that.

    • @pritigohil6812
      @pritigohil6812 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      plz tell me wat thoughts u kept?? coz i m in this stage

  • @crisalidaanaturalwayofheal4718
    @crisalidaanaturalwayofheal4718 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Hi Agnes, so, I if started doing the self love meditations along with affirmations such as I am loved, I am deserving & I am a priority, I am worthy of respect etc will this change my partners behaviour towards me? Should I include affirmations such as: he treats me respect, he puts me first, he has time for me + whatever else I feel lacking from him in his treatment of me. Thank you. Paula X.

  • @peacefulpath222
    @peacefulpath222 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I needed to hear this today 💙

  • @marly805
    @marly805 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you great video , and great channel .

  • @andeeanko7079
    @andeeanko7079 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video, these finer points becoming clearer to me -- thank you !

  • @sheiladominguezgarcia4330
    @sheiladominguezgarcia4330 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Agnes, you made my day 🌠🙏

  • @yashikamalik2774
    @yashikamalik2774 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i needed it the most to hear

  • @msevelynleyva
    @msevelynleyva 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What about people that are physically and domestically abused? How did they attract that?

  • @creatingthedreamlife
    @creatingthedreamlife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can you please make a meditation on my person is not treating me the way I deserve please.
    Thank you so much

  • @Josephine-qw8sd
    @Josephine-qw8sd ปีที่แล้ว

    Hallo Hallo 😊
    I would like a meditation to treat myself better. and stand up for my rights and my ideas in a positive way. Can you make one like that too?

  • @rachelsnyder5613
    @rachelsnyder5613 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What if I'm having trouble with him wanting/desiring me? I hear you say to get respect you need to respect yourself. So how would I do that with wanting/desiring (for/to myself)?

  • @Ileasha2000
    @Ileasha2000 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant thank you 😊

  • @alv4120
    @alv4120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Women often say and feel they deserve better, because they are socially conditioned to feel like a victim. We hear these kind of talk since childhood. It is good to recognize we don't have to think like a victim, so thank you for the content.
    But, what about the pressure of society, when they make you feel you are not so worthy without a man by your side? Even in XXI. century It exists..

  • @lovechangeseverything9621
    @lovechangeseverything9621 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I always felt I am feeling deserving, worthy and so on. But obivously deep down I wasn't...I made many experiences with my specific person alone that showed that. But it always depended...Sometimes they would be the most generous and loving and just the perfect partner and more...So Agnes please help, what have I been doing when they were so wonderful and what happened that it changed again and again. How can I get that constantly??

  • @autumnsunflower2567
    @autumnsunflower2567 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am guilty of everything in that video. 😯

    • @AgnesVivarelli
      @AgnesVivarelli  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Autumn Sunflower thats ok, alot of us are, now you know better you can do better

  • @SPIRITUALGANGSTER111
    @SPIRITUALGANGSTER111 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you my dear

  • @MO-qg2gi
    @MO-qg2gi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    how do I put out stuff so he will want to see me?

  • @snapsnats
    @snapsnats 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    can u please do a video about asking the universe for a sign that you are going in the right direction

    • @AgnesVivarelli
      @AgnesVivarelli  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Natalie Collins already have, here
      th-cam.com/video/9ANKjzBmgkQ/w-d-xo.html
      And
      th-cam.com/video/zHcbQq-rvUQ/w-d-xo.html

  • @loveyourenergy4165
    @loveyourenergy4165 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    perfection

  • @iams.s1918
    @iams.s1918 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hi Agnes wish you a safe flight🤗can you please do a youtube meditation with affirmations on eliminating or releasing the reoccuring negative thoughts or believes: i am left.. i am betrayed..i am a victim..i am mistreated and i deserve better. your guide is extremly helpful. thank u💖

    • @shaniqualevandre1549
      @shaniqualevandre1549 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I second this. I'm wondering how to truly change limiting beliefs when years of affirmations, EFT, meditations, etc still have barely chipped away at the core of the issue.

  • @gayatridhruva
    @gayatridhruva 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m in a job where no facilities to employees are given .. I feel disgusting and disappointed always and now trying to resign and search a better one is this the Same feeling which I carried long back ?????

  • @shaniqualevandre1549
    @shaniqualevandre1549 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Agnes, if everyone is me pushed out, then can you please help me to understand why I attracted mistreatment/emotional abuse from my ex, but not from my male friend(s)? If the world is reflecting back my internal state and subconscious beliefs, then wouldn't *everyone* be emotionally abusive towards me? Why are there exceptions? Thank you.

    • @queenriri9393
      @queenriri9393 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Shaniqua Levandre, very good question! I don't believe "everyone" is you pushed out. Some people are but not everyone because many times people are who you they are and it has "nothing" to do with you and everything to do with them.

    • @kylastral
      @kylastral 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      your ex only represents the beliefs you have about him, that's how he shows up in your life as your romantic partner. u probably aren't as emotionally invested in your male friends, therefore they dont abuse you emotionally. u can have different beliefs about different people and they reflect that back to you

    • @marshak6459
      @marshak6459 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shaniqua Levandre there is nothing wrong with you the quicker you believe that the better for you stop letting people tell you you attract people treating you badly then they make it your fault

    • @paulagooding8441
      @paulagooding8441 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a great question

    • @Lisa_M_V
      @Lisa_M_V 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If you believe that only men you feel romantically for do that they will. It’s that simple. Focusing on a thought will manifest again and again. So change it and you will see results. Everyone is you pushed out. Everyone. That’s why people behave one way towards someone and different to another. It’s why people commit to one person and not another. Its all created by energy and beliefs

  • @00mrsmith89
    @00mrsmith89 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your videos, Agnes! My ex gf said after 45 days of no contact, that she would feel uncomfortable and awkward if we met up. So, I need to project the opposite, right? Some examples, would be much appreciated.

  • @Donnaiemmitifitness
    @Donnaiemmitifitness 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your videos. Could this work if your person is married?

  • @SalamandraDizzy
    @SalamandraDizzy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Agnes! Love your videos! So my question is...if I start loving myself have self love etc..my specific person will change behavior towards me?or someone else with these new qualities will come? Cause I want this specific person to love me... I'm a little confused 😖 kisses!

  • @logannatalia
    @logannatalia 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    ...is there a link to the free Q&A? I'd like to log in, but can't seem to find it.

    • @klairi2007
      @klairi2007 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear Agnes, what if the SP treats everybody the same way as me?
      200 people project disrespect while he is respectful?

  • @marshak6459
    @marshak6459 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow make up your mind do you value yourself or not either you are deserving or not

  • @nilliej4090
    @nilliej4090 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hi agnes, i really wanna know what you think about my current situation.
    i manifested a text msg from him, and he sent a very intimate joke between us two. i laughed, and next day i sent something that we both like. he replied well and no one kept the convorsation going. next day i uploaded a photo on facebook with two guys friends from weekend. he hated one of them when we were together because he knows he wants me. he pressed like and i know it wasn't a good one. i asked him about it and he said im right, i told him that if we wanna be in good terms than it's not necessery. he initiated a fight with me next on turning single "too soon" on facebook. i dont understand.

    • @Lisa_M_V
      @Lisa_M_V 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nillie J don’t use social media to make men jealous they can smell it a mile away. And don’t add men you date to social media

  • @margaretbowling9455
    @margaretbowling9455 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amen

  • @veronicamishra2201
    @veronicamishra2201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are looking cute

  • @kristikg7431
    @kristikg7431 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't agree with this video. I completely respect myself. The people around me have issues and I remain positive and forward thinking. But you wouldn't believe how people really have issues. I have to separate myself from them.

    • @Lisa_M_V
      @Lisa_M_V 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Your last two sentences are attracting that

  • @irenelynette3845
    @irenelynette3845 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait how did my child project sexual abuse when she knew nothing about sex

    • @susan.8761
      @susan.8761 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is a good question

  • @fioni2728
    @fioni2728 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What you're saying doesn't make sense at all !

    • @Lisa_M_V
      @Lisa_M_V 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fiona Agnes is saying when you don’t love yourself then it’s reflected by others.