“God’s gonna protect his daughter” for some reason that made me feel a lot better. Knowing that I don’t need to get back at anyone, just keep working on me 💯 thank you Tony!
Not using a woman as a “ semen bucket”.. what a visual.. this is disgusting 🤮.. makes me have a deeper meaning about always being ready for being on my back.. this helps women too.. keep being real!!
And some woman don’t think they aren’t “Seman buckets” because they use condoms every time. I laugh. I put trash, in a bag, in a trash can, doesn’t make it less of a trash can. If I didn’t have a bag it would only be harder to clean. “A trash can is and will always be a trash can rather it has a bag in it or not.”
Ok, I’m a woman and I’ve done my share of cheating. But I don’t want to be that type of person. I’m better than that. For the men out there, set an example.
Just want to say IM SO PROUD OF MRS GASKINS!!(wife) She has done an AMAZING job!!😂 Seriously tho... Proud of you as well for your work. PLEASE keep on Gods path spreading truth!! WE need it!!😁
“The more I win in my private life the more I win in my public life” that right there is a universal message. Coach thank you for delivering a difficult message seamlessly. It gives me ideas as I raise my young son without my late husband .
You are speaking truth about being deceived into a relationship with a man when he knows he’s cheating and loses let me tell you something that will bless you. If you ever have or ever go through that DO NOT TELL A SOUL. When you walk away from a relationship and not tell a soul (if you have to talk to a counselor okay) God sees that and God will bless you. Admit to God it hurt. Don’t pretend you aren’t hurt that’s okay fo through the grieving process. Then forgive that person. That doesn’t mean what they did was okay and it doesn’t mean down play what that person did. Forgive and you may have to forgive everyday. Lastly, pray for them. Not the kind of prayer where we ask God to get them. Pray they get healed, pray success and pray for God for them to have an amazing beautiful woman in their life. Trust me when you can get to this point in your life it is a spiritual feeling I can’t even express. Just know God will be so pleased. Everything in you will want to tell you’re momma, best friend and the world. You will want to post passive messages. No Sis don’t. Man I don’t know why I’m so excited that someone is about to be free in this area.
A man shouldn't be listening to other strange women voices. They'll be drawn in enticed! Lust promotes sinful acts which brings death! That's scriptural. It's a trap like other acts, vices.
“We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” 2 Corinthians 10:5
Tony this message is an emergency call to action for the men. You really put your all in it, just by giving step by step tools on how not to cheat, but when you spoke of your family, your legacy being more important than a billion dollars I felt your heart. I feel just like you 5 minutes and lose my favor, anointing blessings and peace it aint that much pleasure for me. NOTHING can compare to God's blessings NOTHING. I actually tell myself that all the time now so I won't mess up again. This one I got to share on my page. Be blessed Tony, your beautiful wife and family especially your ministry. I thank God for you.
We picture the pleasure and not the pain. So true! Thank you for sharing. Reflect on the negative consequences of what is perceived as instant gratification to defer instantaneous actions. Short term pleasure for long term failure. A camouflage set up for an exposed set back.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels that way about Gospel music. I find it depressing sometimes too bc I know God to be GOOD!! I know him to be a god of abundance and provision! A healer, etc. So I aint in no corner crying cz I trust him. I'm right there with you brother.
If we invite the Lord to everything, I mean everything we do, we wouldn't be doing half of the foolishness we do! Thank you Tony for being so real and transparent. God bless you and your family ❤️
The middle of this video almost had me in tears, my spirit needed to hear this. My legacy is my son 💙 and all I want is to raise him right so he can walk with GOD. I don't want him to say that I did him wrong because that will hurt me to my heart. I am not perfect but I will be a good mother to him
Great message Tony! I'm so encouraged to stay on track. Thank you Tony for doing messages for us men even tho your demographic may primarily be woman. I pray that men who encounter this video encounters a word from the Lord. 🙏
Okay, Tony Gaskins (big brother/mentor), I had adult separation anxiety b/c you hadn't made a video all week, and I needed something encouraging to watch instead of CNN. lol Glad to hear from you today.
Regardless of the title men wear, he is a man first, prone to mistakes and human error. We have to be mindful of this, that's why it's imperative to know God's word for ourselves. Cheating is a choice not all men choose.
@@Glamrocs Your perspectives, advice, pains, and opinions should be heard as well. You ladies are the ones who usually experience these "men" behaviors.
@@chrisparker6249 I agree, But some will not feel okay engaging with Tony after reading some of our comments. I know his audience is 99% female. We should share the videos with men and give them a safe place also to vent.
My ex husband which I love so much cheated on me. He cheated on me after 3 years of marriage..I forgave him. Then 3 years later he cheated again...this time I found out he had a dating app and had been sleeping around with multiple women. Drinking and smoking at parks with these women and doing things he would not do with me (because I don’t drink and smoke). He brought home two women that I know of. I was shocked to know my husband was a totally different man than what he showed me. The sad thing is he wasn’t taking anyone serious yet he was willing to hurt me deeply. I don’t understand why he hated me so much to do this. I had to divorce him...he didn’t want to get divorce and still to this day he says he’s sorry and wishes we could be together. So, what I wanted to say is that everytime I hear the word “cheat” it brings me so much anxiety and pain. I literally makes me feel sick.
I found out my husband cheated on me and is on multiple dating sites. He also have a profile on a porn site. I threw is things out my home, changed my locks and not looking back. Tony said not to take them back if the cheated on you because the next time is usually worst. Now if they seek to get counseling and commit to it and are really remorseful they may be able to change. But I'm not looking back. I'm doing so much better since I left him, I'm closer to God, I sleep well, I eat well, I work out, I'm making more money. I just bought a new car. I've never cheated on this man, 18 years with him. Now he doesn't want to give me a divorce.
@@phinolanurse8059 Oh no. These situations at so sad. My ex husband even tried manipulating with his life. I had to get him picked up by the behavioral center because he tried taking his life. The second time I took him back because we went to counseling...we even started going to church. He brought up for us to get baptized and a week later I found out out about the many things he was doing. It’s definitely evil. And I’m thankful for Mr. Tony Gaskins...he had got me through this season of my life. No matter how much pain I’m in...I will not let him in my life ever again. He will never hurt me again and he will live/or not with the remorse of hurting the woman he promised vows to. A woman who loved him deeply.
May God continue to bless you both and give peace to all women dealing with such painful situations. Thank God for the lessons that help us to recover and move on to bigger and better!
I’ve wrote and deleted my comments 7x trying to find words to express my gratitude for you stepping up in truth dying to yourself for fatherless daughters and sons also those that don’t know the fight against principalities! S/O to wifey too🙏🏾💕
lol and the women will always tell on you. LOL they will collect all voice recordings, take pics with you, save text messages and wait forever to tell on you. LOL Every time fellas.
If the side chick is submissive , she’ll keep his secrets. I confronted his side chick and she kept saying they were just friends from work. Even tho I had proof of their late night phone calls .. I left anyways.
Man can only 👁️👁️👓you when you out in the public ,But in the spiritual realm you always got 👁️👁️on you. You reap what you sow..A whole word ,Say it loud for the people seated in the back 💯🙏🏾🔥💣
Yes it feels good when we pass a test. I was delivered from porn and I know how that struggle can be. Yes Tony spirits are always around seeing how we can respond. LOL hot and ready. Yes expect. harvest. THANK YOU LORD!!!
@@blueseptember2174 I stopped social media. It’s been 5 years. Right now I have IG and I’m in a Facebook group which means I had to create a Facebook because I’m in a 6 week weight loss completion where winners can win $5k which is over and the winners will be announced this Sunday. I will be back not having it. Social media was my biggest problem especially IG. I would see all these beautiful women and I would admire them being so free at showing off their bodies. I’m a straight woman but seeing them would have me feeling in a way that I know was a spiritual war. I start feeling depressed and wishing my life as a single mom wasn’t so difficult. I would feel that spirit start to taunt me. I was a Christian and I would tell myself I didn’t care I would go do it and God would still love me and if He didn’t want me to do it He should change my life. Real talk I had low key resentment with God (been healed from that through counseling).After watching that I felt horrible, alone and mad at myself. It would open myself up to attract the wrong type of man. It was a horrible cycle. So NO SOCIAL media. The next step I got rid of my smart phone and got a flip phone. Lastly, I told people. I told my best friend. My mom. My sister. I realized when I told people they knew to be mindful of when God would tell them to call and check on me they knew to. For one month when my kids would be gone with their dad and step mom for the weekend I would have a camera set up in my bedroom. My friend would know and she knew once it start to be dark she would call me and have me turn on my camera which she had camera access to and have me show that my laptop wasn’t in my room and I would stay in my room and go to bed and I would know she’s there to see me at any moment. I know it sounds crazy. If I woke up to go to the bathroom I would say, “I’m going to go pee”. She would get on the mic and say it don’t take long and you already have water on your stand.” 🤣
Tony you are so correct! Like the Bible says( having) a good name is better than great riches. Your wife and children are blessed and so are you. God's favor will continue over your life to take care of her and your children.
I know this video is more towards people who cheat but you’ve taught me more about being in alignment with God and the Holy Spirit than anything else in this video. “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye. shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: 8 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh. findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.” Thank you!
💫✨Such a powerful message!!! Thank you for another great video!!! People still on you about ads oh my goodness pay for TH-cam Premium or quit trippin!!! The wealth of knowledge in all his videos are priceless!! Thank you so much for being so real in a world full of fakes!!! God Bless You and Your Family! Anyone who reads this I hope you’re having a blessed day and know you’re beautiful!!✨💫
Ahhh! You teaching TONIGHT! Thank you! I don’t know if this is too much for my 11 year old son, but he needs this now, not later.... Thank you for your help!
Amen, great lesson for all men and woman you can use this concept to. This is so true, what U feed yourself can lead to self and family destruction because U become what U put in your spirit.
No matter the title of his video in every video I have watched there has been a lesson and a message for me and my life. Thank you Lord for this disciple. God bless the Gaskins’. 🙌🏽🙏🏽
An infidel is a liar, incapable of commitment, and he or she is not pleasing in the sight of God! Infidelity destroys relationships from the inside out.
I'm going to send this video to my fiance so he can go through those questions of the consequences of pain just in case. Love your work Brother Gaskins! Stay blessed 🙌
I got to 8:35 *pause video* Excuse me for just a second while I release much needed tears 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔 Ok, I'm back continue Tony............ *play video* I just walked away from an 8 year relationship, a daughter that's 6 and said yes to an engagement. But these very words that you spoke by 8:35 mark, are the same words I asked him to change if he wants to cross over into marriage. I too had some of these same problems as a woman, but I got to a point in our relationship where I wanted change. I wanted to be the best wife I could be to him. I stopped watching porn, prayed more, shut off social media's and it helped. Me trying to get him to stop was so problematic that I just said fuck it. Keep your porn, your social media's, your toxic crowd aka your ENABLERS, your soulties, your ex's, your cheating and more, because if you truly loved me you would change, like I'm choosing to change for you. Keep talking to me Tony, your helping me grow as a woman. Thank you 🌹💎💖
Tony , this video is not just for men cheating, It can be applied to our growth both men and women. So I see this video being applied in every aspect of our lives, if we have to grow and get the blessings.
Tony pure laughs the whole ride home!! 💯 true but honestly you make the facts so entertaining. I listen to all your videos while I drive home from work. Amen amen amen 🙏🏾.
I have been listening and following your channel for a while now, and I haven't heard a message yet from you that had me in tears the way that I am at this very moment. Please tell your wife thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. For helping to turn you into the man you are today, and helping other's understand and learn from both you and her mistakes and lessons learned. Somebody pass me some tissue, cause this message here got me in tears 😢 from the truth that has been spoken. This was me too, cheating, lusting and yes it does make you want more than what your significant other is offering all behind lusting. 😢 this message hit home toooooooooo hard, to the point my soul, mental and spirit was so ashamed and disturbed, that my physical had to cry this one out 😢. The truth hurts, but I'd rather have people like Tony tell me the truth, instead of being around a bunch of ENABLERS telling me my wrong is right, or ok when indeed its wrong. This will be my everyday message to listen to......Thank you Queen for teaching a King, blessings to this family 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹.
Bro Tony I love what you've describe yourself as a Man faithful and focus . Thanks a million for your transparency, God bless you abundantly and your family.
Thank you for being brutally honest. Truth is truth and it is what we all need more of. Thank you for blessing us with the reality of sins consequences All the media and culture shows is how good it looks and feels ....even we ladies get drawn into it.
Yes!!! When the Lord delivers us it's expected that eventually when, we become strong enough we should go back and help others to be be delivered! To be set free. Whether from lust, drugs, porn, or anything that comes to bind us with strongholds in our lives. Be bless everyone. Be your brother's keeper. Confess one to another, be overcomers!!😇⚓🧸😍😎⭐👑🤩
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Lust will take you places you never thought you would go...
Be blessed!
This is so true
Now that is some truth!
say it
Too real 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
“God’s gonna protect his daughter” for some reason that made me feel a lot better. Knowing that I don’t need to get back at anyone, just keep working on me 💯 thank you Tony!
I feel the same way! God got it handled!
Facts only... God got us, we just repent for our own part of disobedience, God's gon handle the rest. He dont play about His children.
YAY
I wish there were more men with integrity in the world
we need more people in the world with integrity ..... empathy .... respect .. graciousness ..... gratitude ... kindness
We should continue to lift them up in prayers
LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!
“Stop using your trauma as an excuse to leave other people casualties of your spiritual warfare” a whole word👏🏾🙌🏾
Come on now!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
They dont hear Tony tho🗣🗣🗣🗣
They dont know it's a real thing and that God will hold them accountable for every hurt they leave in their wake...
Preach Sis👏🏾!!!!
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53:18 “..Cheating is not by chance, that’s by choice.” TG
Preach! "You can't dog out another human and expect blessings."
FOR 37 years he cheated. I'm free now.
@@mmommo-hx4dx Oh my goodness. What a prison sentence! You don't deserve that kind of suffering and punishment. Thank God you are out of that.
The part about making your woman look like a fool....so sad..
It really hurts a lot..
Yes that is so deep and so true.
Indeed it does I done been there!
“A lot of times men, we picture the pleasure not the pain.” TG
Yes....men and women ..always thinking of that short term pleasure ...
@@clarkclarke
What’s understood doesn’t have to be explained.
Tony is so real. That's what I like about him. He tells the absolute truth.
His eyes just light up when Mrs. Sherri comes in the room 😍🥰🙏🏾
Yes, I love that he keeps it real! That's what a lot of people need!
The UNAPOLOGETIC truth! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
And he's funny 😂
Not using a woman as a “ semen bucket”.. what a visual.. this is disgusting 🤮.. makes me have a deeper meaning about always being ready for being on my back.. this helps women too.. keep being real!!
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And some woman don’t think they aren’t “Seman buckets” because they use condoms every time. I laugh. I put trash, in a bag, in a trash can, doesn’t make it less of a trash can. If I didn’t have a bag it would only be harder to clean. “A trash can is and will always be a trash can rather it has a bag in it or not.”
I cried when he gave the strong visual of his wife and sons walking away.
Every man that looks at this video should be shook. Period
Yeah. That was somewhat emotional.
“You can’t take grace for granted”
Thank you Tony.
A WHOLE WORD❗❗❗
Ok, I’m a woman and I’ve done my share of cheating. But I don’t want to be that type of person. I’m better than that. For the men out there, set an example.
We all need this message‼️ Lust is a bottomless pit. Spiritual Warfare is real
Sholl is!!!
BOOM 💥 “Lust unlike Thirst CANNOT be quenched”
I always like to see how Tony's face lights up when his wife or son(s) are around....I want that too
Just want to say IM SO PROUD OF MRS GASKINS!!(wife) She has done an AMAZING job!!😂 Seriously tho... Proud of you as well for your work. PLEASE keep on Gods path spreading truth!! WE need it!!😁
Some of these cheating women need to hear this message.
Never cheated
Factss
@@ccbaker3644 right not in my character...
I know this was a serious message but Tony, I can’t with you, lol 😂 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂!!!!!!
Tony Gaskins = high value man. Look for men like him 👍
For some reason I know this message is for the men, but for me I needed this message 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Ditto
“The more I win in my private life the more I win in my public life” that right there is a universal message. Coach thank you for delivering a difficult message seamlessly. It gives me ideas as I raise my young son without my late husband .
You are speaking truth about being deceived into a relationship with a man when he knows he’s cheating and loses let me tell you something that will bless you. If you ever have or ever go through that DO NOT TELL A SOUL. When you walk away from a relationship and not tell a soul (if you have to talk to a counselor okay) God sees that and God will bless you. Admit to God it hurt. Don’t pretend you aren’t hurt that’s okay fo through the grieving process. Then forgive that person. That doesn’t mean what they did was okay and it doesn’t mean down play what that person did. Forgive and you may have to forgive everyday. Lastly, pray for them. Not the kind of prayer where we ask God to get them. Pray they get healed, pray success and pray for God for them to have an amazing beautiful woman in their life. Trust me when you can get to this point in your life it is a spiritual feeling I can’t even express. Just know God will be so pleased. Everything in you will want to tell you’re momma, best friend and the world. You will want to post passive messages. No Sis don’t. Man I don’t know why I’m so excited that someone is about to be free in this area.
I knew I was on the path to healing when I prayed that the man who hurt me be healed so he couldn’t hurt anyone else 😔
@@Azizajewelry amen so powerful sis. I’m rejoicing for you and the way you put it actually just blessed me.
@@Azizajewelry I love what you said. Pray for him to heal so he will not hurt anyone else. Boom 💥 mind blown.
Yup pray for them and release it, because when they know better and have a real encounter with God, they will do better.
Whew, you make me want to send this to a certain cheating grown boy. God help him, cause I don’t think he’ll ever change.
I know one of those too. I broke up with him!! He’s not ready to change. Not sure he will ever change either.
Peter cancel the blessing 🤣😂😂🤣🙏
@@amiragreen2577 I fell out😂🤣!!!!
@@amiragreen2577 😂😂😂
@@mymakersdaughter6041 he is the one who is losing ....he thinks he is changing for someone else ....the change is for HIM
Picturing God watching me. Wow that puts a lot in perspective.
Doesnt it
Late for class but I'm here 👩🏾💻
Cheating is a choice... lust cannot be quench... keep educating us Tony
A man shouldn't be listening to other strange women voices. They'll be drawn in enticed! Lust promotes sinful acts which brings death! That's scriptural. It's a trap like other acts, vices.
“We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”
2 Corinthians 10:5
Cheating is a maladaptive behavior yes, tell it Tony. Men are not wired to cheat it's not in their dna.
“I’m no longer coming up on the rough side of the mountain” 🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂 I feel you 1000%
Tony this message is an emergency call to action for the men. You really put your all in it, just by giving step by step tools on how not to cheat, but when you spoke of your family, your legacy being more important than a billion dollars I felt your heart. I feel just like you 5 minutes and lose my favor, anointing blessings and peace it aint that much pleasure for me. NOTHING can compare to God's blessings NOTHING. I actually tell myself that all the time now so I won't mess up again. This one I got to share on my page. Be blessed Tony, your beautiful wife and family especially your ministry. I thank God for you.
Cheating is like not having enough respect for your partner to be faithful, and thinking they're too stupid to know the difference.
Some men picture the pleasure and not the consequences. Yep.
We picture the pleasure and not the pain. So true! Thank you for sharing. Reflect on the negative consequences of what is perceived as instant gratification to defer instantaneous actions. Short term pleasure for long term failure. A camouflage set up for an exposed set back.
❗❗❗ speak on it, spoke to my soul.
Wow, I'm taking that Short term statement to heart...
I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels that way about Gospel music. I find it depressing sometimes too bc I know God to be GOOD!! I know him to be a god of abundance and provision! A healer, etc. So I aint in no corner crying cz I trust him. I'm right there with you brother.
If we invite the Lord to everything, I mean everything we do, we wouldn't be doing half of the foolishness we do! Thank you Tony for being so real and transparent. God bless you and your family ❤️
The middle of this video almost had me in tears, my spirit needed to hear this. My legacy is my son 💙 and all I want is to raise him right so he can walk with GOD. I don't want him to say that I did him wrong because that will hurt me to my heart. I am not perfect but I will be a good mother to him
So help you God 🙏🏾🙌🏾💞
Great message Tony! I'm so encouraged to stay on track. Thank you Tony for doing messages for us men even tho your demographic may primarily be woman. I pray that men who encounter this video encounters a word from the Lord. 🙏
Okay, Tony Gaskins (big brother/mentor), I had adult separation anxiety b/c you hadn't made a video all week, and I needed something encouraging to watch instead of CNN. lol Glad to hear from you today.
I was feeling the same way lol!! Glad I’m not the only one!!! God Bless You ✨💫
Regardless of the title men wear, he is a man first, prone to mistakes and human error. We have to be mindful of this, that's why it's imperative to know God's word for ourselves. Cheating is a choice not all men choose.
Not all but a lot of them. That's why we have a smaller pool to choose from.
@@ak-47intelligence75 Sad but true, yes.
I knew you would be the only male to comment Chris. I just think some of us women need to chill on the comments addressed to the men.
@@Glamrocs Your perspectives, advice, pains, and opinions should be heard as well. You ladies are the ones who usually experience these "men" behaviors.
@@chrisparker6249 I agree, But some will not feel okay engaging with Tony after reading some of our comments. I know his audience is 99% female. We should share the videos with men and give them a safe place also to vent.
Don’t take Grace for granted!! AMEN!
My ex husband which I love so much cheated on me. He cheated on me after 3 years of marriage..I forgave him. Then 3 years later he cheated again...this time I found out he had a dating app and had been sleeping around with multiple women. Drinking and smoking at parks with these women and doing things he would not do with me (because I don’t drink and smoke). He brought home two women that I know of. I was shocked to know my husband was a totally different man than what he showed me. The sad thing is he wasn’t taking anyone serious yet he was willing to hurt me deeply. I don’t understand why he hated me so much to do this. I had to divorce him...he didn’t want to get divorce and still to this day he says he’s sorry and wishes we could be together. So, what I wanted to say is that everytime I hear the word “cheat” it brings me so much anxiety and pain. I literally makes me feel sick.
I found out my husband cheated on me and is on multiple dating sites. He also have a profile on a porn site. I threw is things out my home, changed my locks and not looking back. Tony said not to take them back if the cheated on you because the next time is usually worst. Now if they seek to get counseling and commit to it and are really remorseful they may be able to change. But I'm not looking back. I'm doing so much better since I left him, I'm closer to God, I sleep well, I eat well, I work out, I'm making more money. I just bought a new car. I've never cheated on this man, 18 years with him. Now he doesn't want to give me a divorce.
@Euphora eup thank you for the positivity!
@@phinolanurse8059 Oh no. These situations at so sad. My ex husband even tried manipulating with his life. I had to get him picked up by the behavioral center because he tried taking his life. The second time I took him back because we went to counseling...we even started going to church. He brought up for us to get baptized and a week later I found out out about the many things he was doing. It’s definitely evil. And I’m thankful for Mr. Tony Gaskins...he had got me through this season of my life. No matter how much pain I’m in...I will not let him in my life ever again. He will never hurt me again and he will live/or not with the remorse of hurting the woman he promised vows to. A woman who loved him deeply.
May God continue to bless you both and give peace to all women dealing with such painful situations. Thank God for the lessons that help us to recover and move on to bigger and better!
I’ve wrote and deleted my comments 7x trying to find words to express my gratitude for you stepping up in truth dying to yourself for fatherless daughters and sons also those that don’t know the fight against principalities! S/O to wifey too🙏🏾💕
lol and the women will always tell on you. LOL they will collect all voice recordings, take pics with you, save text messages and wait forever to tell on you. LOL Every time fellas.
Yes ma'am they will,tell it all🤣😂
Plot and scheme for years til they’re ready for the right timing to tell 😂😭
Not always, I only had one women come to me the rest kept their mouth shut
Yes I agree with this comment because it happened to me...I was shocked
If the side chick is submissive , she’ll keep his secrets. I confronted his side chick and she kept saying they were just friends from work. Even tho I had proof of their late night phone calls .. I left anyways.
Man can only 👁️👁️👓you when you out in the public ,But in the spiritual realm you always got 👁️👁️on you. You reap what you sow..A whole word ,Say it loud for the people seated in the back 💯🙏🏾🔥💣
Yes it feels good when we pass a test. I was delivered from porn and I know how that struggle can be. Yes Tony spirits are always around seeing how we can respond. LOL hot and ready. Yes expect. harvest. THANK YOU LORD!!!
@@blueseptember2174 I stopped social media. It’s been 5 years. Right now I have IG and I’m in a Facebook group which means I had to create a Facebook because I’m in a 6 week weight loss completion where winners can win $5k which is over and the winners will be announced this Sunday. I will be back not having it.
Social media was my biggest problem especially IG. I would see all these beautiful women and I would admire them being so free at showing off their bodies. I’m a straight woman but seeing them would have me feeling in a way that I know was a spiritual war. I start feeling depressed and wishing my life as a single mom wasn’t so difficult. I would feel that spirit start to taunt me. I was a Christian and I would tell myself I didn’t care I would go do it and God would still love me and if He didn’t want me to do it He should change my life. Real talk I had low key resentment with God (been healed from that through counseling).After watching that I felt horrible, alone and mad at myself. It would open myself up to attract the wrong type of man. It was a horrible cycle.
So NO SOCIAL media.
The next step I got rid of my smart phone and got a flip phone.
Lastly, I told people. I told my best friend. My mom. My sister. I realized when I told people they knew to be mindful of when God would tell them to call and check on me they knew to.
For one month when my kids would be gone with their dad and step mom for the weekend I would have a camera set up in my bedroom. My friend would know and she knew once it start to be dark she would call me and have me turn on my camera which she had camera access to and have me show that my laptop wasn’t in my room and I would stay in my room and go to bed and I would know she’s there to see me at any moment. I know it sounds crazy. If I woke up to go to the bathroom I would say, “I’m going to go pee”. She would get on the mic and say it don’t take long and you already have water on your stand.” 🤣
@@truth1327 I really appreciate your honesty with this topic.
@@freckledfacedbeauty151 of course sis. 🙏🏽
Tony you are so correct! Like the Bible says( having) a good name is better than great riches. Your wife and children are blessed and so are you. God's favor will continue over your life to take care of her and your children.
I know this video is more towards people who cheat but you’ve taught me more about being in alignment with God and the Holy Spirit than anything else in this video. “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye. shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: 8 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh. findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.” Thank you!
HE PUT THAT THANG UP 👏🏾😝 Praise dance 😭
“Stop willfully sinning and change your life” God bless you Tony for your transparency! This video is so powerful for both men & women who receive it.
"You have to be good ground!" Amen, now that's a word and I receive it! 💯🙏
Energy is everything.
💫✨Such a powerful message!!! Thank you for another great video!!! People still on you about ads oh my goodness pay for TH-cam Premium or quit trippin!!! The wealth of knowledge in all his videos are priceless!! Thank you so much for being so real in a world full of fakes!!! God Bless You and Your Family! Anyone who reads this I hope you’re having a blessed day and know you’re beautiful!!✨💫
Ahhh! You teaching TONIGHT! Thank you! I don’t know if this is too much for my 11 year old son, but he needs this now, not later.... Thank you for your help!
Get it in their Spirit early as a seed, God will water it as time goes on.
I’m sharing that with my son and young nephews. TG GOD is doing it just like that 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Amen, great lesson for all men and woman you can use this concept to. This is so true, what U feed yourself can lead to self and family destruction because U become what U put in your spirit.
No matter the title of his video in every video I have watched there has been a lesson and a message for me and my life. Thank you Lord for this disciple.
God bless the Gaskins’. 🙌🏽🙏🏽
The commercials always hit just at the right time in Tony’s videos 😂😂😂😂
“Cause I serve God” whooooo Tony I just got happy! 7 fold Amen on that!
LOL, That is a Great idea about picturing God watching you when you are being tempted to do something you know you don't need to be doing 😎🙏
Facts
Good evening Blessed Tribe
Good evening 😊
Good Evening
You are Teaching this right here, only God🗣🔥🔥🔥💯🤔🤔🤔👑👑👑
An infidel is a liar, incapable of commitment, and he or she is not pleasing in the sight of God! Infidelity destroys relationships from the inside out.
I listen to audible books. I have over 200 audio books. Get Tony's books on Audible too.
Facts 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I'm going to send this video to my fiance so he can go through those questions of the consequences of pain just in case. Love your work Brother Gaskins! Stay blessed 🙌
I got to 8:35 *pause video* Excuse me for just a second while I release much needed tears 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😟😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔 Ok, I'm back continue Tony............ *play video*
I just walked away from an 8 year relationship, a daughter that's 6 and said yes to an engagement. But these very words that you spoke by 8:35 mark, are the same words I asked him to change if he wants to cross over into marriage. I too had some of these same problems as a woman, but I got to a point in our relationship where I wanted change. I wanted to be the best wife I could be to him. I stopped watching porn, prayed more, shut off social media's and it helped. Me trying to get him to stop was so problematic that I just said fuck it. Keep your porn, your social media's, your toxic crowd aka your ENABLERS, your soulties, your ex's, your cheating and more, because if you truly loved me you would change, like I'm choosing to change for you. Keep talking to me Tony, your helping me grow as a woman. Thank you 🌹💎💖
My public life will be Blessed Based on my Private life 💯🦅in Jesus name amen
Go Sheri! Help your man with his words!🤣👏🏾
May God continue to bless your family.
Beautiful! Inspirational! Strengthening! Encouraging! And Truthful! Once again you did that my brother! Be blessed!
“Then the beat came in like BLESSINGS!!!”😂🤣😂🤣😂🤩..... A fool🙌🏽🔥
Tony , this video is not just for men cheating, It can be applied to our growth both men and women. So I see this video being applied in every aspect of our lives, if we have to grow and get the blessings.
Tony, this message is so much more than its title!!!
What a beautiful testimony. I’m so proud of you. I pray for you and your family. God bless you all.💕
😂😂😂😂 TG, Not drop it like it’s Hot!!!!😂😂😂 Hilarious!!!!
Man this message was all the way real and nothing less!
Thank you Mr. Gaskins
Thanks AGAIN . I love listening to your videos. Keep them coming.
Tony is speaking straight truth and wisdom!!! This word is good for both men and women.
“Stop willfully sinning” thank you Tony!
Tony pure laughs the whole ride home!! 💯 true but honestly you make the facts so entertaining. I listen to all your videos while I drive home from work. Amen amen amen 🙏🏾.
Lol Tony, "Lord forgive me we not tryna git ready 2 yo music"!😂🤣
Thank you Tony! Got cheated on last Friday and needed to hear this!
"Then the beat came in!" 😂😂😂
O HAPPY DAY...another Friday night with Coach TG...smile...Thank You and may God 4ever bless you with knowledge...WE Thank YOU😊
Tony you are a blessing to us lol.. your wittyway of delivering your messages is hilarious but so necessary. I just love your entertaining teachings!
I have been listening and following your channel for a while now, and I haven't heard a message yet from you that had me in tears the way that I am at this very moment. Please tell your wife thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. For helping to turn you into the man you are today, and helping other's understand and learn from both you and her mistakes and lessons learned. Somebody pass me some tissue, cause this message here got me in tears 😢 from the truth that has been spoken. This was me too, cheating, lusting and yes it does make you want more than what your significant other is offering all behind lusting. 😢 this message hit home toooooooooo hard, to the point my soul, mental and spirit was so ashamed and disturbed, that my physical had to cry this one out 😢. The truth hurts, but I'd rather have people like Tony tell me the truth, instead of being around a bunch of ENABLERS telling me my wrong is right, or ok when indeed its wrong. This will be my everyday message to listen to......Thank you Queen for teaching a King, blessings to this family 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹.
Faithful, Focused and Favored.
Bro Tony I love what you've describe yourself as a Man faithful and focus . Thanks a million for your transparency, God bless you abundantly and your family.
Tony I know you mean well,but I’m hollering.
Exemplary example 😂😂🤣🤣 Tony I love your videos...please don't ever retire!!
Preach brother! I appreciate you being transparent. God bless you Sir.
Thank you for being brutally honest. Truth is truth and it is what we all need more of. Thank you for blessing us with the reality of sins consequences
All the media and culture shows is how good it looks and feels ....even we ladies get drawn into it.
Toooo dang-gon real!! PREACH TG!!
Yes!!! When the Lord delivers us it's expected that eventually when, we become strong enough we should go back and help others to be be delivered! To be set free. Whether from lust, drugs, porn, or anything that comes to bind us with strongholds in our lives. Be bless everyone. Be your brother's keeper. Confess one to another, be overcomers!!😇⚓🧸😍😎⭐👑🤩
Come on Tony! Speak the truth! 👏👏👏
Speak brother. Glory to God. Another awesome message. Come out among them. Jesus.
I have the exact same view points on Gospel music. Glad I'm not the only one.
Tony
Is God sent to teach us the game.
Take notes you won't regret it😊
That Aquafina comment had me gggggooooooonnnnnnnneeeeee 😫😭😂
"So I'm no longer coming up on the rough side of the mountain." 😂😂😂. My grandma use to always listen to that song.
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