Was going to comment the same.....but discarded twice😂....thanks for expressing....after these many years IAM happy there are people like me....yet sad for everyone
Someone shared a quote under a INFP video that put me into tears so I thought I'd share it wish you guys too Most explaining INFP quote By Kara Dougas : "I want to be a mystery, yet be known I want to be together, yet alone Is it too much to ask, to be famous yet unknown? To be a wanderer, yet have a home?”
@•’Amphitear’• It's definitely fun - until you do it in public and start laughing for no reason. Ah, who am i kidding, even that won't stop any of us from doing it.
I never thought I would find people who also do the interview thing sometimes I end up talking to myself for 2 hours imagining I’m being interviewed lol
I am not an infp (I am an enfp) but I do too have most of the time, especially when I am bored, weird interviews going on in my head and do weird expressions 😂😂😅
Jalyssa Gibson i just hate all these infp’s making me look like hippie trash. Now the internet thinks infp’s are only innocent naive souls and it’s all because of assholes like him.
me: *working* new coworker: *walks in* me: *smiles* my brain: dammit i just met the love of my life but that smile wasn't big enough so they probably think i hate them 😔😪
I was just thinking to myself, I don’t have conversations in my head wtf. And then I realized I’ve gotten so used to it that I don’t even realize I do it...
This is so me that it hurts. Like I will be in the car with people to talk to but I talk to myself in my head and everything thinks I'm antisocial (I agree tho)
also INFP. A lot of the times it goes something like the corrupted voice: *thinking about something bad* the ethical voice: the f? noooo stopstopstop don't think about it the corrupted voice: no i wanna think about it the ethical voice: no stahp the other voices in my head: *mildly panicking* quick distract myself my interests: lets think about this other hypothetical thing instead every other voice: yes lets
At first these memes are too funny but then at the near end, it becomes depressing because I finally realized how pathetic I am. I am just going to sit here in the corner and wonder all of my life choices.
@Hero of Time God I feel this. I've spent that last few years without any real direction after high school. In the end I realized that if I let myself I could end up just wondering what to do my entire life. Recently I decided to take a course and become a barber, even though I'm not 100% certain I want to because... well sometimes you just have to make a choice.
@@vocalcalibration8033 Im in my last year of school and i finally decided what the heck I wanna be for my career. A wild life biologist. Finally. I have pondered on I for so long. And I'm still not even sure yet. But I'm pretty sure. Kinda. A little bit....ugh
I’m an ENFP but I’m very introverted, everyone I know used to call me an extrovert but as I’ve gotten older I’m almost more introverted than extroverted lol, but in the end I’m pretty much both personality types
its funny how you can go from thinking..."I might actually be crazy"....to realizing you may not be the only person in the world who can summon alternate realities....lol i am only 22 and i swear I have been a World famous philosopher/philanthropist ,A Hip hop superstar , I've dated Shailene Woodley and I've also been Evil Morty....from the cartoon Rick and Morty.
Yeah I thought I was different than everybody else but wow other people think the same way????? And of course since I'm an infp part of me doesn't like that
I do,t want to sound like I’m being that type of person that’s SpECial and is like omg that’s me I’m so special. But I’m sorry but I’ve been doing research on INFP and I’ve never been so happy to have people to relate to and I’m just really happy but the question is why me in that little percent of the population? Unless I’m just over reacting and I don’t belong here, but why does this relate to me so much? I can laugh at all the memes because I can relate to them and I took the 16 personality test and it said I was a INFP but what if it’s all in my head???
No one believes me when I say that I will most likely never get married. I've met one person my entire life that I could actually see myself with long term, and I'll probably never see him again. I just honestly do not click with people that easily, I have a lot of friends but like only 5% or less of them are people I would consider true friends. The struggle of being INFP *SIGH* at least I have about 200 really romantic scenarios in my head to think about when I'm lonely. Which one will I think about today...
Maybe you should own it. No matter if you're single or not, there's ample room for improvement and meaning. I used to think that I'd only feel whole if I had someone, but I'm starting to understand that it comes from within, and the more I think my happiness will depend on relationships the more miserable I'll be. Seriously, achieving something on your own feels amazing and seeing your life move forwards because of yourself is wonderful. Relationships are still in my thoughts, but are secondary, especially because it's something that depends on someone else, so, to an extent, there's nothing I can do. Best of wishes to my fellow Infps
Does anyone else really want to share this video with friends so they might finally get it, but you know they will only think you're even more weird if you did?
well, more like, I don't think I have any friends who would actually care, would think I'm being annoying, or would understand. Yet I crave to share it.
YES. I've been thinking that throughout most of the video, and only scrolled to the comments section when I came to the conclusion that there would be other INFPs there who would understand.
Try to get a mindset where that REALLY dies not bother you - noone may dare to demand getting anything done ;) the ones subordinating themselves to these demands have a hard time emotionally - maybe a better time materially. If you don't subordinate yourself to these demands then your better off emotionally while maybe very bad materially^^ In any case for yourself that also is not equivalent to doing nothing - focus on the process without regard on any outcome like Tao ;)
I talk to myself in my head a lot that when i want to do something i'm like "we're gonna do this" using "we" instead of "i" They even have their own persona
I work in an open office , and my colleague who sits opposite me often comments how entertaining it is for her to watch me, with the exaggerated expressions and theatrical emotions, while I talk to the people in my head :)
I couldn't stop crying, because with every image, I saw myself, looking back at me clear as day. And after 23 years... I still can't stop being ashamed of who I am...
1. I personally fucking love you 2. Previous point is irrelevant because you have to become comfortable with yourself and make a habit of feeling your feelings (search on youtube for videos), and then after a while the love for yourself will flow seemingly out of nowhere, and you won't give a rat's ass about what society told you you should be.
I wish I could adopt you sweetie Lol not literally You get the idea I'm an INFP too And I totally get you Don't beat yourself up because you feel alone okay? We'll get through this together Miles apart or not
If it will help I can recommend you a book to read on existential issues “Man’s search for meaning” by viktor Frankl it’s amazing Ps I’m a fellow infp Hope you see this
I once had an imaginary conversation that ended up turning into a spider-man series that went on in my head for years, which later sparked my love of writing.
@@miovvv I'd love to share it with people. It's one of my older stories, so it's pretty silly and probably not very good. Unfortunately, those thoughts very rarely crossed over into the from of writing or drawings
Me: *at a party, feeling like shit over something a person said to me* Also me: *hating myself for being so sensitive and not being more easy-going, also wanting to leave because I feel like I put down everybody else's mood* Me: *trying to open up to people at said party* Also me: *getting ignored or misunderstood because I can't form a proper sentence* Edit: realized im not an introvert, just an extrovert with an extreme case of anxiety
As an INTJ with an INFP sister. That one meme interaction is accurate. She shows she cares through xuddles and support when all i want from her is to take more care of herself
Kaki Kencing what hurts is when you are an introvert and are somehow magically too popular for your own good to the point nobody will leave you alone even when you yell at them to leave you alone and never talk to you again.... they don’t get it..... I want to go into the dark and never come back
@@ArielComlyBOTDFlover101 wow.. I can't even imagine becoming popular let alone become too popular.. But yeah I can imagine how hurt it can be when we need time and space to be alone but can't get it.. Ugh, it's so stressful!
Kaki Kencing I have amino and I would get lots of pm from multiple people in at least 4 different communities + group chats then on top of that Facebook messenger, text messages,phone calls, Skype messages, and discord going all day and night 7days a week. If that’s not popular I’m not sure what is. It’s exhausting trying to me up with a person texting me and 2 conversations on messenger. Considering I used to keep up with all of that with a tablet, a phone and an iPod all at the same time trying to keep up with the messages flowing in. 24 conversations at once and can keep each conversation mentally separated and haven’t confused them with each other. It takes a massive Will and intelligence to do it and a load of energy
This is really a disaster. I thought I was the only one.. almost planned a migration to a nearby planet, and then you tell me, my species exist. My whole life is a lie. But, thank you. I love you. Whoever you are, you amazing person.
I'm completely the opposite of infp, i'm just here to say "you're too kind, this world is too evil if you stay like that, but poor souls i know you're gonna stay the same like this forever, and never change. I'm crying for you. 😭😭" -sincerely estj.
I really need that someone who would tell me “It’s okay” whenever I’m overthinking/overanalyzing things that happened. I really thought I was having social anxiety before, but after relating to all these makes me more aware of myself.😊
Being an INFP, I feel that my biggest personality trait is the self doubt. I can be happily singing in the shower and then suddenly I recall a bad decision I made a long time ago that no one even remembers, and then I slide down and start doubting every single thing that I've done. Well, no matter how I try to change, it seems that the self doubt always finds a damned way to sneak back up
I connected with several here...but the one that got me was the "Too Much" at the end....wow, can't remember exact moment/thing that occurred but that feeling has never gone away. sure has stayed with me
New or old friends : * being kind. Always help me. Try to protect me whenever they can even tho we're 20 y/o. * Me: "why are they so good to me? Maybe they think i'm innocent? I'M NOT THAT INNOCENT! or maybe they think i'm such a child? Can't they at least say "NO" to me or mad at me? Also me : * thinking a whole year abt something i do wrong when my friends are being moody around me. And then start to be sad *
I actually found these memes healing to watch, just to know that there's 1.2k of INFP's who do the same odd things I do in every situation 🙌🙌🙌 we're not alone fellow INFP friends! 💖
I usuaully speak to myself lmao. I pretend there is someone sitting next to me ans talk with them in my mind. It is really fun but i try to control it. I usually daydream A LOT too. I am an INFP-T btw. I dont like talking to people and i dont like approaching people to meet😬 It makes me really nervous. I dont like hanginf out with my friends too. I feel like i step out of my comfort zone if i go outside (especially with friends) i also havent spoken to my 5 bestfriends. I think they havent even realized that we dont talk anymore. People love me and i can be a really fun person but it depends. If other person is too energetic, i become tired and i try to avoid them by not making eye contact and etc. People also misunderstand my words. I offend people easily:( i dont like lying to people. If you make me uncomfartable, i make it really obvious that i hate you. The MOST important thing in my entire life is my FREEDOM. I will move out when i am 18 and i will never ever use my dads money. I dont want to depend on anyone. I have some little savings and i also work part-time. My fears are: crowds, social people, injustice, connecting to someone, not being able to live on my own. I love: shy, quiet, kinda funny people. I also like animals and i can easily learn a language. The thing i love the MOST About myself is; i can cut my emotional connection with someone really easily. About romantic relationship: i dont think i will ever meet my “soulmate”. I dont believe in it but i want to spend my life with someone similar to me. Things i hate in a romantical relationship: i dont like being forced to do things, going outside more than 2 times a week, you paying my cafe (food) bill and most important: your choices affecting my freedom. Many people see me as a antisocial person but i actually like hanging out with someone. It is just really hard for me to like you. I am also emotionally unstable as fuck. I cry when i get angry but i easily stop crying when i am sad. I can easily be offended too. İ am soft but i seem cold. I have a very serious face but i am actually really happy. You cant read my emotions but i am good at reading peoples emotions and why they are doing bad things. I wonder why i am life this but i love my personality. My only life goal is to work in job that i love and live alone.
I'm LMAO here with the one about imagining yourself as a celebrity in a talk show talking about shit you've been going through! OMG do other people do that too??? I've been doing that in the shower since I was 7!! LOL I'M LAUGHING SO MUCH I'M CRYING
My mind is blown with how accurate these are. I need to send this video to my friends...but I doubt they'd truly understand it all... Except for maybe my INTP friend. Man...and I'm only 5 minutes through haha. Thank you for making this video! ^_^
Yeah your INTP and ENFP friends are likely to understand you. I am an INTP and relate to many things INFP for some reason. Your ENFP friends are very good at putting themselves in another person's shoes, they will try and consider it, most of the time.
Also, your ENFJ friends won't necessarily understand, but you should feel "connected" to them. As all their functions balance with yours in the same order.
I once fell out with a friend and resolved the situation and my feelings by practicing a full on imaginary conversation with her in my head over and over until it was too late to bring it up again
You certainly can. And when you do, it's just the most wonderful thing. You'll know if they're the one if, despite your extreme introversion, you just want to spend every single second with them. And vice versa of course.
@@tiffanyarrrr782 Yeah...only girlfriend I've ever had was an extrovert. I can ask people on friend dates (like school dances back in high school) without too much panic, but I can't bring myself to ask anyone to devote themselves to me unless I am explicitly told that that's what they want.
This is so funny and accurate and I was thinking of sharing it to Facebook but then i realised people might actually see it and I kinda don’t want that but I kinda do, but I don’t 😂😅🤦♀️
The first one's even worse for me because when I'm really deep into my thoughts I start to mumble what I'm saying in my head which is somewhat awkward when I'm with others like at work.
Lozie x if you like anime and gaming maybe we can become western neets which isn’t the greatest thing by you know stay at home games and anime viewings 24/7 meet is not exactly good term in Japan but I bet it would be fun in a way .... thinking on how to become a professional neet.... i think I just went into moral decline.... help... no don’t that would be bad. What have i done 😂 lol
@@ArielComlyBOTDFlover101 hahaha how did you know I spend most of my time playing a fantasy game for the past 11 years. I guess we do have a purpose after all...to spend our money on escapist fantasies to keep other companies in business
Lozie x actually I didn’t I was hoping someone was like me an otaku who loves gaming or otomes either way I also sensed you potentially like gaming to be honest maybe at minimum 25% of the people commenting like gaming or something dealing with otaku culture. I got them vibes from the comments
Fuck, so I wasn't the only one... I cried too. We must be brave in life and keep talking, keep shining... There are too many people in the world so there must be someone who appreciate us... There must be. (?
I feel like I just saw another master craftsman's carefully collected tools, and I'm stealing from them while showing respect as if they're my colleague.
I don’t like rain as it makes some tasks I need to do a pain and rain typically is cold which I also don’t like but it makes a great excuse to stay inside and not go anywhere and most people won’t travel far in the rain until it is necessary.
Me: single at 18 and really wishing for a partner I can be truly open with Also me: never leaves the house and doesn’t interact with strangers at all Me again: is sad about being unable to share my feelings with someone and wonders why I’m alone Edit: here’s another real life scenario Me: laughs off news of something bad happening because I refuse to show emotion in public My younger brother: you have no sympathy or empathy Me: says nothing and shuts down even further until I am back in my room and wondering why I I bother living Edit2: I started the video happily and somewhere along the way started realizing how I literally relate to 99% of this and I’m just wasting my life by doing nothing productive but I can’t bring myself to change because that’d feel unauthentic to myself and now I’m sad again.
This is basically me.... but I'm a guy and I'm supposed to make the first move... I start thinking about it and the negative possibilities multiply exponentially. Seeing happy couples around my age doesn't really help me either. It just makes it worse... I don't know what to do anymore. I try to get hints from the girls I have as friends, but every girl is different...so their advice might not apply to every one. I also don't really want to change who I am to get them to like me because that would just kill me inside. So yeah, I guess I've come to a standstill. I just hope I'm not lonely forever, you know?
NeverEndinChaos Gender roles are stupid. You DO NOT have to make the first move. It all depends on who you are. If you aren’t comfortable making a move, don’t do it. Or if you really want to, find a different, unique way to do it that is all your own. Don’t feel pressured to behave a certain way because of how men are portrayed in stories, shows, or movies. We are human, not storybook characters.
First one: Yes. Hell, I love acting out the characters voices, even my evil creations, so sometimes I'll maniacally laugh to hear what it would sound like from that character, so usually when I'm in my room alone I'll start laughing evilly for no apparent reason.
I cried while imaging other people faking a scenerio where they needed to cry... so I watch from time to time world's got talent and imagined those contestants 2 girls who decided to fake the whole audition and only reveal when they have the final one so they make a songs toghether and this is how they are gonna make this fake scenari: call them A and B A goes as the original and plays the original song claiming that it's her but acts quite neurvesly but puts emotion into that songs and does a great job so she passes and B ends up seing this and decides to come to the second round now for the next round , A also does the performence smoothly but with another song and as she finishes and the judges give all there votes B comes in enraged and starts screaming at her insinueting that she stole the song from her but not directly saying it and then takes the microfon from her and challanges he for the next round into a battle song and the last round , the 3rd they do a whole ass song that transforms into a roast that then it transfroms into a regret song where they kinda let there souls out and apologies for the stuff they did to eachother before , and as this goes one they go more and more into harmonnizing and all those cool notes and sh*t and like the fake scenario was that those 2 where like team but they did somthing to eachother and broke off and such , didn't think this part throught since I had mostely visuals in my head. sorry for grammer
“Me watching people I wanna be friends with talk about things I’m interested in” so accurate omg 😂😂 and me thinking in my head my opinion to the convo but not saying it out loud
As an INFP: I just wish people can understand us...telepathically
*Y E S*
👍
.....i can't read minds.....sorry lol. 🤣😂 but as a ENFP i try to learn about how INFP minds work
ill try - INTP
Yes but at the same time the idea of someone reading my mind is terrifying, I mean, it’s private area 😂
Now I'm sobbing because I just realized there are other people like me out there. Poor people.
I really wished I could meet someone like me. I'm too strange I think.
@@CamaraObscura same. I think I'm the only INFP in my city
Was going to comment the same.....but discarded twice😂....thanks for expressing....after these many years IAM happy there are people like me....yet sad for everyone
Tragic. How y'all doing because I'm a mess
Me: oh? Your just like me!...I'm so so sorry
Someone shared a quote under a INFP video that put me into tears so I thought I'd share it wish you guys too
Most explaining INFP quote By Kara Dougas :
"I want to be a mystery, yet be known
I want to be together, yet alone
Is it too much to ask, to be famous yet unknown?
To be a wanderer, yet have a home?”
Love it to the core!
This truly does sum up our lives
Reading this I feel understood
This is so accurate it hurts. Glad other people feel the same way I do.
Lmao 😂 I love it
i'm beginning to think that infp isn't even a personality type and that we all just have anxiety and depression lol
That kinda hits hard. Need some alone time to discuss this with myself now lol
@@ST-vx6ex i just had a rapid fire existential crisis in five seconds after seeing this comment 👀
@@sristiganguly4858 At least we're not alone :)
Or INFPs are most likely to develop anxiety and depression. Idk please don't be mad at me for disagreeing lmao
Camila it’s true.. very true
I'm so infp I just sat in a talkshow in my head, talking about how much I can relate to this video.
I'm sure i'm going to do that at 4am and it will keep me awake
I HATE TO SAY I DID THE SAME ...
GOD WHY
@•’Amphitear’• It's definitely fun - until you do it in public and start laughing for no reason. Ah, who am i kidding, even that won't stop any of us from doing it.
I never thought I would find people who also do the interview thing sometimes I end up talking to myself for 2 hours imagining I’m being interviewed lol
I am not an infp (I am an enfp) but I do too have most of the time, especially when I am bored, weird interviews going on in my head and do weird expressions 😂😂😅
This is a personal attack.
Agreed
I thought the exact same thing X3
Same. I say this as i cry cuz i can't explain how i feel to someone lol...ouch...
RIGHT. I thought about pointing out specific ones that I felt the most exposed on, but there was too many
It's been three days and I'm still thinking about this video
Im in this video and i dont like it
(This whole video is on point its hilarious)
I feel like they put security cameras in my brain XD
Yea
INFPs: We should all love ourselves!
The world: You first.
INFPs: We’re doomed.
As an INFP To all the INFPs out there
i love you... cherish urself... ❤
As a fellow INFP, shutup.
@@furiousape7717 That was so rude of you. :(
Jalyssa Gibson i just hate all these infp’s making me look like hippie trash. Now the internet thinks infp’s are only innocent naive souls and it’s all because of assholes like him.
not gonna lie thought you were gonna tell me to do my homework...
I was gonna tell you "No."
I love you too
me: **sitting**
random guy: **sits beside me**
me: “aw shit... here we go again” 😖😍🥰🙃😔😔😍😍🥺
Oh my god yes😂🙌
me: *working*
new coworker: *walks in*
me: *smiles*
my brain: dammit i just met the love of my life but that smile wasn't big enough so they probably think i hate them 😔😪
Hyrum Lentz SO TRUE 😭😭😭
😂 OMGGGG SO TRUE
Mee except i thought he was into me and i unknowingly seduced him to being my boyfriend
I was just thinking to myself, I don’t have conversations in my head wtf. And then I realized I’ve gotten so used to it that I don’t even realize I do it...
This is so me that it hurts. Like I will be in the car with people to talk to but I talk to myself in my head and everything thinks I'm antisocial (I agree tho)
Soren Hayes no words 😂😂😂😂
I'm just having a moment
Next level
also INFP. A lot of the times it goes something like
the corrupted voice: *thinking about something bad*
the ethical voice: the f? noooo stopstopstop don't think about it
the corrupted voice: no i wanna think about it
the ethical voice: no stahp
the other voices in my head: *mildly panicking* quick distract myself
my interests: lets think about this other hypothetical thing instead
every other voice: yes lets
I laughed and cried at the same time, it's really accurate
Damn, I was about to drop the same comment.
Same
Lol I did too! 😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😭😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭
Aww
Ikr too accurate
...do you ever feel like you don't have a personality?
...or like your real personality shows only when there's nobody else around?
@@panicat.the.fandom2218 yeah..
@@panicat.the.fandom2218 ....and then you question if even that is your real personality
like youre always adapting to the people around you so you can fit in better. im only 100% me when im by myself.
I'm only me when I'm by myself but I can't interact with anyone when I'm alone so I don't know what this "me" is like
" having friends is cool but have you ever cut everyone off and disappeared for 6 months" hahaha thats so me..
My favorite 🥰
That's me but just add in working on an art project during that time that is still not finished.
me: gotta go to bed on time to fix my schedule
also me: trying to find myself by binge watching infp videos and staying up till 3am again
uh oh it's 4 am
Jocelyn Feng reading this at 3am... 🤣
If this ain't me
For me i be rewatching ghibli flims
Currently 6;07🙃
Me, as an infp : *at a party, wanting people to like me, sitting in the corner, watching this video to know what people think about me*
whatttt? I am not the only dumass who does that celebrity on a talkshow thing?
Ikr, I freaked out when I saw it
I thought that was just my thing
Same. Man is Howard Stern gonna love this when i visit next week.
Seems like I am at least at Level 113 🤷♀️
I always considered it practice for when the time comes. 💁🏽♀️
Ah there goes my individuality
At first these memes are too funny but then at the near end, it becomes depressing because I finally realized how pathetic I am. I am just going to sit
here in the corner and wonder all of my life choices.
Well, I always tell myself to trust the plan. Haha Everything has it's own time and place. 😊 (Fellow INFP here)
@Hero of Time God I feel this. I've spent that last few years without any real direction after high school. In the end I realized that if I let myself I could end up just wondering what to do my entire life. Recently I decided to take a course and become a barber, even though I'm not 100% certain I want to because... well sometimes you just have to make a choice.
@Hero of Time Thanks man, I wish you the best as well.
@Hero of Time Ah, sorry, I throw "dude" and "man" out as gender neutral terms, I call everyon that, apologies if I offended.
@@vocalcalibration8033 Im in my last year of school and i finally decided what the heck I wanna be for my career. A wild life biologist. Finally. I have pondered on I for so long. And I'm still not even sure yet. But I'm pretty sure. Kinda. A little bit....ugh
*me, an INFP starring at an ENFP*: they're perfect
Fá yes yes and yes
*Me, an ENFP staring at an INFP*: They're perfect
And that's not only a joke that's my actual thoughts lmao
Let's love each other!!! ❤
I’m an ENFP but I’m very introverted, everyone I know used to call me an extrovert but as I’ve gotten older I’m almost more introverted than extroverted lol, but in the end I’m pretty much both personality types
@@seriah6970 lol i know that feeling XD
For real tho 💀💀💀
its funny how you can go from thinking..."I might actually be crazy"....to realizing you may not be the only person in the world who can summon alternate realities....lol i am only 22 and i swear I have been a World famous philosopher/philanthropist ,A Hip hop superstar , I've dated Shailene Woodley and I've also been Evil Morty....from the cartoon Rick and Morty.
OMG LFMAO SAME, THIS IS SO RELATABLE
i thought thats what everyone did in their spare time
I can't tell if this is a joke or not
wrote a book, married Henry Cavill and went on the Graham Norton show.. I feel you
I'm 15 lol
So, I am not insane just an INFP. Good one problem solved , 9 million more to go!
Welcome to the club. The quiet, affectionate, sad, perpetually uncertain and anxious club.
Omg 😂 this is so me when I finally learn that I'm an INFP 😂
Yeah I thought I was different than everybody else but wow other people think the same way????? And of course since I'm an infp part of me doesn't like that
@Dion Woods That's why I never get to find other INFPs in real life...
I do,t want to sound like I’m being that type of person that’s SpECial and is like omg that’s me I’m so special. But I’m sorry but I’ve been doing research on INFP and I’ve never been so happy to have people to relate to and I’m just really happy but the question is why me in that little percent of the population? Unless I’m just over reacting and I don’t belong here, but why does this relate to me so much? I can laugh at all the memes because I can relate to them and I took the 16 personality test and it said I was a INFP but what if it’s all in my head???
No one believes me when I say that I will most likely never get married. I've met one person my entire life that I could actually see myself with long term, and I'll probably never see him again. I just honestly do not click with people that easily, I have a lot of friends but like only 5% or less of them are people I would consider true friends. The struggle of being INFP *SIGH* at least I have about 200 really romantic scenarios in my head to think about when I'm lonely. Which one will I think about today...
I can't believe this is not a comment I wrote. It is THAT accurate.
You get me 😢
Hey, we all feel like that. We're here for ya. Heck, I just imagine myself in a relationship with a made up character for 3 hours straight 😂
You literally me.. I'm 26 and still single. Never in relationship. I got this feeling, i never gonna get married.
Maybe you should own it. No matter if you're single or not, there's ample room for improvement and meaning. I used to think that I'd only feel whole if I had someone, but I'm starting to understand that it comes from within, and the more I think my happiness will depend on relationships the more miserable I'll be. Seriously, achieving something on your own feels amazing and seeing your life move forwards because of yourself is wonderful. Relationships are still in my thoughts, but are secondary, especially because it's something that depends on someone else, so, to an extent, there's nothing I can do. Best of wishes to my fellow Infps
Does anyone else really want to share this video with friends so they might finally get it, but you know they will only think you're even more weird if you did?
Better to just keep quiet, life is short lol
well, more like, I don't think I have any friends who would actually care, would think I'm being annoying, or would understand. Yet I crave to share it.
I mean I don't think if they really cared so ;v
YES. I've been thinking that throughout most of the video, and only scrolled to the comments section when I came to the conclusion that there would be other INFPs there who would understand.
Relatable
me: *is an infp*
also me: *has adhd*
do you SEE WHY I GET NOTHING DONE
saaaaaame 🤘
Try to get a mindset where that REALLY dies not bother you - noone may dare to demand getting anything done ;) the ones subordinating themselves to these demands have a hard time emotionally - maybe a better time materially. If you don't subordinate yourself to these demands then your better off emotionally while maybe very bad materially^^ In any case for yourself that also is not equivalent to doing nothing - focus on the process without regard on any outcome like Tao ;)
At this point i think most of us got ADHD
i’ve never felt more understood in my whole life
When you start to worry how your facial expression is like to others, you stop your facial expression from coming out naturally
thought i was the only one who does that
I don't know what my natural facial expression or laugh would be like anymore
Wow this is actually kinda scary but also says a lot about me… damn
How many you click pause and play again??
Lol..yeah me..i even screenshotted a few that i loved😂
Yeah I took a few screenshots XD
Same 😂😂😂
@@missfitmissa2608 Same 😅
@@missfitmissa2608 wheew! I was worried i was the only one😅
This is depressing and eye opening at the same time. It makes me wanna cry but it shows me I'm not fucking crazy.
You put it into words
I gave you the 100th like :-)
Wow. I'm surprised this many people agreed with me.
p a r a d o x
I really wish I thought you were right, but just because there's a bunch of us certainly doesn't mean we aren't crazy.
Just wanna drop one of my favourite quotes to the infp here ‘to the healers and feelers of the world, be kind to yourself first.’
How?
Teach me the ways of the force, my master...
H O W
"In order to win me over, your presence has to be better than my solitude." SO WELL PUT!!👍👍❤️❤️
This is sooo good!
Ikr
This is the most relatable thing I've ever seen. I feel called out.
mood but also SPN FAM HEY
I talk to myself in my head a lot that when i want to do something i'm like "we're gonna do this" using "we" instead of "i"
They even have their own persona
I thought I was the only one who uses "we" instead of "I". And sometimes I use "you" when I'm talking to myself like, "man, what's wrong with you?" 😂
SAME except sometimes I can't keep track of which persona is which
Same. Glad I'm not the only one with those people inside my head 😂
omg sameee oO xD
Omg same. I always wake up in 4 am and talking to myself with differeny persona
The fist one. I literally thought i was the only one. We are just a bunch of weirdos, aren’t we?
exactly.. wanna be freindz.. ??
Tell me about it!!
😂😂😂
We are the best sort of weirdos!
You got that right
I work in an open office , and my colleague who sits opposite me often comments how entertaining it is for her to watch me, with the exaggerated expressions and theatrical emotions, while I talk to the people in my head :)
The INFP: I want to be understood, yet I don’t want anyone to know how I truly feel 😓
I couldn't stop crying, because with every image, I saw myself, looking back at me clear as day.
And after 23 years... I still can't stop being ashamed of who I am...
You should never feel ashamed of who you are. You're a wonderful soul who has their mistakes they've made just like everyone else.
1. I personally fucking love you
2. Previous point is irrelevant because you have to become comfortable with yourself and make a habit of feeling your feelings (search on youtube for videos), and then after a while the love for yourself will flow seemingly out of nowhere, and you won't give a rat's ass about what society told you you should be.
I wish I could adopt you sweetie
Lol not literally
You get the idea
I'm an INFP too
And I totally get you
Don't beat yourself up because you feel alone okay?
We'll get through this together
Miles apart or not
If youre not a animal abuser or chomo i think ur okay. Xox
@@LilacSnowBun I can tell your not an infp, I don't think we would say we have a good personality
At first it was all fun and laughs, but Now i have slipped into a dark depth of existential crisis. Thanks great video tho.
U r not alone there ayee
Saaaaaame lol I'm thinking about my regrets and mistakes at this point
Omg me rn
If it will help I can recommend you a book to read on existential issues
“Man’s search for meaning” by viktor Frankl it’s amazing
Ps I’m a fellow infp
Hope you see this
Omg sammmme you put what i was think into words
I wonder what would happen in a world where everyone were INFP
Omg, I feel like it would be a happier calmer more loving world
Nothing would get done... and that's ok. Right?
There would be no such thing as language lol
We would all still be happily living in caves and wondering the plains.
No war. Ppl were too tired to fight
I once had an imaginary conversation that ended up turning into a spider-man series that went on in my head for years, which later sparked my love of writing.
Wtf
@@ohcool8314 You heard me right
This is peak INFP behaviour
i need to see/ read your spider-man series
@@miovvv I'd love to share it with people. It's one of my older stories, so it's pretty silly and probably not very good. Unfortunately, those thoughts very rarely crossed over into the from of writing or drawings
Me: *at a party, feeling like shit over something a person said to me*
Also me: *hating myself for being so sensitive and not being more easy-going, also wanting to leave because I feel like I put down everybody else's mood*
Me: *trying to open up to people at said party*
Also me: *getting ignored or misunderstood because I can't form a proper sentence*
Edit: realized im not an introvert, just an extrovert with an extreme case of anxiety
👌😁
I feel the same sweetheart *sighs * just the same
As an INTJ with an INFP sister. That one meme interaction is accurate. She shows she cares through xuddles and support when all i want from her is to take more care of herself
We don’t know how to do that.
Please Send Help...
I laughed so hard at the foxes meme cuz that's basically me and my husband.
Omg.
I’m
Home
Welcome
This!This is so accurate that it hurt me little bit...
@Barri0 _99 hahahaha.. My hair just disappeared into the thin air 😂😂
Kaki Kencing what hurts is when you are an introvert and are somehow magically too popular for your own good to the point nobody will leave you alone even when you yell at them to leave you alone and never talk to you again.... they don’t get it..... I want to go into the dark and never come back
@@ArielComlyBOTDFlover101 wow.. I can't even imagine becoming popular let alone become too popular.. But yeah I can imagine how hurt it can be when we need time and space to be alone but can't get it.. Ugh, it's so stressful!
Kaki Kencing I have amino and I would get lots of pm from multiple people in at least 4 different communities + group chats then on top of that Facebook messenger, text messages,phone calls, Skype messages, and discord going all day and night 7days a week. If that’s not popular I’m not sure what is. It’s exhausting trying to me up with a person texting me and 2 conversations on messenger. Considering I used to keep up with all of that with a tablet, a phone and an iPod all at the same time trying to keep up with the messages flowing in. 24 conversations at once and can keep each conversation mentally separated and haven’t confused them with each other. It takes a massive Will and intelligence to do it and a load of energy
@@ArielComlyBOTDFlover101 that is why I hate social media
This is literally the most accurate thing ever wtf I feel attacked
and strangely understood for the first time in my entire life
My first thought was "I feel attacked" checked the comments and that's what most of them says 😂 sighs found my tribe lollll
Yo 😂
my 3 app for hours: TH-cam, Wattpad, Spotify
Whos wif me?
🙋🏽♂️
Me: Haha this is so me!
*send to boyfriend*
Me: ....what have I done?! Now he's gonna think I'm weird 😭
omg u hv a boyfriend that so sad
Did u send it
*THIS* *IS *A* *WHOLE* *MOOD* 😭
Dude I'm literally a hairsbreadth away from sending this to half of the people I know someone stop me
@@whimsybees me too but I'm too scared, I don't want them to know the real me yet I do at the same time. Ugh someone help me 😩
This is really a disaster. I thought I was the only one.. almost planned a migration to a nearby planet, and then you tell me, my species exist. My whole life is a lie.
But, thank you. I love you. Whoever you are, you amazing person.
I'm completely the opposite of infp, i'm just here to say "you're too kind, this world is too evil if you stay like that, but poor souls i know you're gonna stay the same like this forever, and never change. I'm crying for you. 😭😭" -sincerely estj.
thank you 😭 even tho i never met any estj irl eventho im really really curious what estjs will be like -sincerely, an infp
That level of sarcasm bro... xD thanks (?) I guess...
Estj , yes you're actually the opposite, but yes Ty for your support
Yeaaay still rooting for infps after one year seeing this video
As an INTP:
50%: I'm just like that too!
50%: That's so cute!
I really need that someone who would tell me “It’s okay” whenever I’m overthinking/overanalyzing things that happened. I really thought I was having social anxiety before, but after relating to all these makes me more aware of myself.😊
I was laughing in the beginning but by the end I was crying
I relate to this all so much but I'm an infj....now I just want to hug an infp and be their friend...and say I understand. :)
- Shooting Starlight - Infp here. I like free hugs
You will never understand! Since you're more judgemental lol
Hug me n ill hug you back
@@rustcohle3803 I don't care I just want a hug... they can judge me as much as they want.
@@VYMQGSOH I'm sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?
I took screen shots like almost every single photos
Preachhh
im more concerned about how the youtube algorithm figured out my personality type
Being an INFP, I feel that my biggest personality trait is the self doubt. I can be happily singing in the shower and then suddenly I recall a bad decision I made a long time ago that no one even remembers, and then I slide down and start doubting every single thing that I've done. Well, no matter how I try to change, it seems that the self doubt always finds a damned way to sneak back up
I smiled at the video because it's so relatable, and I smiled even more at the comment section because I finally found people like me !
I would have loved to not have had my entire personality distilled into a meme compilation but waddayagannado?
Mordiveer loooove bitconneeeect
@@yunivoes im sorry what?
Mordiveer thought you were referring to h3h3, nevermind ^^ If you wanna know more I‘ll copy you the link
@@yunivoes Sure, let me understand my unintended reference
Mordiveer, here you are th-cam.com/video/EhL2OWXZ26s/w-d-xo.html
Woah, this hits way too close to home! Now I'm feeling sad, happy, uncomfortable and comforted. What is this mix of feelings?
It's contradictory feelings, something so common for INFP
Me during second half of video:
Why am I crying bitxh WHY THE FRICK AM I CRYING
IT'S BECAUSE I LET MY GUARD DOWN IN THE FIRST HALF
Yeah, a lot of people thought I was antisocial or something, but really I’m just INFP
Hard to tell the difference.
Similar symptoms.
This is literally treasure for me I didn't want this to end. I've never been understood this way and I'm going cry I stg
ryhab khan *me my whole life*
Hmm, do you have a discord?
Wtf
This is me
I'm scared
Leave me alone
I love this comment so much
Also snufkin is life
Yup, I am most definitely an INFP
I connected with several here...but the one that got me was the "Too Much" at the end....wow, can't remember exact moment/thing that occurred but that feeling has never gone away. sure has stayed with me
New or old friends : * being kind. Always help me. Try to protect me whenever they can even tho we're 20 y/o. *
Me: "why are they so good to me? Maybe they think i'm innocent? I'M NOT THAT INNOCENT! or maybe they think i'm such a child? Can't they at least say "NO" to me or mad at me?
Also me : * thinking a whole year abt something i do wrong when my friends are being moody around me. And then start to be sad *
When no human could able to understand you better than these meme
lol everything is true except for the attention bit. anyone fellow infp here hates attention drawn to them?
Maybe 1 person's attention. But I draw the line at 2
Emotional attention. From friends and partners.
Yup, hate attention, also never feel lonely, I LOVE time alone
Yeah I hate when I'm at the center of attention but at the same time I need emotional attention from partners and family.
Yeah... I feel that. I prefer to just stay the hell out of people's sight so I won't bother them.
I actually found these memes healing to watch, just to know that there's 1.2k of INFP's who do the same odd things I do in every situation 🙌🙌🙌 we're not alone fellow INFP friends! 💖
"What about you, logic?"
Emotions: That even isn't a question, my master.
🔫
I can't believe we all have the same personality. It would be the best as we can understand each other and no more toxic people😊🌞
"I want someone I can share my life with who will leave me alone most of the time." yup
Some of these are scary spot on. Damn lol
i feel called out, personally attacked, singled out, hurt, and more
I usuaully speak to myself lmao. I pretend there is someone sitting next to me ans talk with them in my mind. It is really fun but i try to control it. I usually daydream A LOT too. I am an INFP-T btw. I dont like talking to people and i dont like approaching people to meet😬 It makes me really nervous. I dont like hanginf out with my friends too. I feel like i step out of my comfort zone if i go outside (especially with friends) i also havent spoken to my 5 bestfriends. I think they havent even realized that we dont talk anymore. People love me and i can be a really fun person but it depends. If other person is too energetic, i become tired and i try to avoid them by not making eye contact and etc. People also misunderstand my words. I offend people easily:( i dont like lying to people. If you make me uncomfartable, i make it really obvious that i hate you. The MOST important thing in my entire life is my FREEDOM. I will move out when i am 18 and i will never ever use my dads money. I dont want to depend on anyone. I have some little savings and i also work part-time. My fears are: crowds, social people, injustice, connecting to someone, not being able to live on my own. I love: shy, quiet, kinda funny people. I also like animals and i can easily learn a language. The thing i love the MOST About myself is; i can cut my emotional connection with someone really easily. About romantic relationship: i dont think i will ever meet my “soulmate”. I dont believe in it but i want to spend my life with someone similar to me. Things i hate in a romantical relationship: i dont like being forced to do things, going outside more than 2 times a week, you paying my cafe (food) bill and most important: your choices affecting my freedom. Many people see me as a antisocial person but i actually like hanging out with someone. It is just really hard for me to like you. I am also emotionally unstable as fuck. I cry when i get angry but i easily stop crying when i am sad. I can easily be offended too. İ am soft but i seem cold. I have a very serious face but i am actually really happy. You cant read my emotions but i am good at reading peoples emotions and why they are doing bad things. I wonder why i am life this but i love my personality. My only life goal is to work in job that i love and live alone.
I'm LMAO here with the one about imagining yourself as a celebrity in a talk show talking about shit you've been going through! OMG do other people do that too??? I've been doing that in the shower since I was 7!! LOL I'M LAUGHING SO MUCH I'M CRYING
0:01 listen, it is unofficially illegal to be called out this quickly into a video, please redo
My mind is blown with how accurate these are. I need to send this video to my friends...but I doubt they'd truly understand it all... Except for maybe my INTP friend.
Man...and I'm only 5 minutes through haha. Thank you for making this video! ^_^
They might. I'm an ENFP and I relate to it all.
Yeah your INTP and ENFP friends are likely to understand you. I am an INTP and relate to many things INFP for some reason. Your ENFP friends are very good at putting themselves in another person's shoes, they will try and consider it, most of the time.
Also, your ENFJ friends won't necessarily understand, but you should feel "connected" to them. As all their functions balance with yours in the same order.
Just like I feel connected to my boy ENTJ
INTP Here, can confirm
It's sad beign an INFP...this vedio hurt me and made me happy at the same time..
"I want someone I can share my entire life with who will leave me alone most of the time.." That hit the point for me..
You know you’re truly an infp when all the kind things towards the end made you cry but also made you uncomfy.
This video feels like a home.
I once fell out with a friend and resolved the situation and my feelings by practicing a full on imaginary conversation with her in my head over and over until it was too late to bring it up again
I really Wonder if we INFP'S Can find true love sometimes we're so messed up and weird i even get tired of myself 😂😂😂
Yep! It is possible!
I think I found that person but I'm already with someone else and I can't bring myself to break up with the person I'm currently with.
You certainly can. And when you do, it's just the most wonderful thing. You'll know if they're the one if, despite your extreme introversion, you just want to spend every single second with them. And vice versa of course.
That meme on here that said about an extrovert finding you, liking you, and adopting you? Yup. Been married to an ENTJ for 10 years!
@@tiffanyarrrr782 Yeah...only girlfriend I've ever had was an extrovert. I can ask people on friend dates (like school dances back in high school) without too much panic, but I can't bring myself to ask anyone to devote themselves to me unless I am explicitly told that that's what they want.
At 14:04 I genuinely started tearing up at how beautifully accurate it was- it touched me so much.
And to my fellow INFPs, I feel your pain guys 😌
4:24 .......... That looks fun. It actually does. I mean, secret passage ways?! Do you know what I could do with that?!
Beautiful it makes me very happy actually
This is so funny and accurate and I was thinking of sharing it to Facebook but then i realised people might actually see it and I kinda don’t want that but I kinda do, but I don’t 😂😅🤦♀️
Me too😁😩
Lol Mee toooo
I'm like that too
oof me too
@@anna307girl omg i was thinking the same for insta...
Aughhh
Oh that extrovert adopting me thing really sucker punched me.
The fact that I started getting ads for online therapy during this video....
The first one's even worse for me because when I'm really deep into my thoughts I start to mumble what I'm saying in my head which is somewhat awkward when I'm with others like at work.
I hate being a useless infp in western society. Loved the video thanks!! Now to daydream about some celebrity interview il never actually do
Lozie x if you like anime and gaming maybe we can become western neets which isn’t the greatest thing by you know stay at home games and anime viewings 24/7 meet is not exactly good term in Japan but I bet it would be fun in a way .... thinking on how to become a professional neet.... i think I just went into moral decline.... help... no don’t that would be bad. What have i done 😂 lol
@@ArielComlyBOTDFlover101 hahaha how did you know I spend most of my time playing a fantasy game for the past 11 years. I guess we do have a purpose after all...to spend our money on escapist fantasies to keep other companies in business
Lozie x actually I didn’t I was hoping someone was like me an otaku who loves gaming or otomes either way I also sensed you potentially like gaming to be honest maybe at minimum 25% of the people commenting like gaming or something dealing with otaku culture. I got them vibes from the comments
Yeah we all do we all do
This is so damn accurate is funny but distressing at the same time. Oh, and I wasn't expecting that last picture; it actually made me cry a bit 😢
Me too
Relates
Fuck, so I wasn't the only one... I cried too. We must be brave in life and keep talking, keep shining... There are too many people in the world so there must be someone who appreciate us... There must be. (?
the last pic made me tear up as well.
Yo I just found out that there was a way to describe me and the amount of relatability in this video is crazy
Hi INFPs ily you're literally the best people
I feel like I just saw another master craftsman's carefully collected tools, and I'm stealing from them while showing respect as if they're my colleague.
Lmao so accurate yeah i love rain too and am constantly haunted by my failures/awkward moments
I don’t like rain as it makes some tasks I need to do a pain and rain typically is cold which I also don’t like but it makes a great excuse to stay inside and not go anywhere and most people won’t travel far in the rain until it is necessary.
Me: single at 18 and really wishing for a partner I can be truly open with
Also me: never leaves the house and doesn’t interact with strangers at all
Me again: is sad about being unable to share my feelings with someone and wonders why I’m alone
Edit: here’s another real life scenario
Me: laughs off news of something bad happening because I refuse to show emotion in public
My younger brother: you have no sympathy or empathy
Me: says nothing and shuts down even further until I am back in my room and wondering why I I bother living
Edit2: I started the video happily and somewhere along the way started realizing how I literally relate to 99% of this and I’m just wasting my life by doing nothing productive but I can’t bring myself to change because that’d feel unauthentic to myself and now I’m sad again.
Gosh I feel you man. I really do. This is my life. 17 years old I feel the EXACT same way.
I'm also 18 and relate to everything you said.
im 18 going to be 19 in a week and i going through the exact same thing
This is basically me.... but I'm a guy and I'm supposed to make the first move... I start thinking about it and the negative possibilities multiply exponentially.
Seeing happy couples around my age doesn't really help me either. It just makes it worse...
I don't know what to do anymore. I try to get hints from the girls I have as friends, but every girl is different...so their advice might not apply to every one.
I also don't really want to change who I am to get them to like me because that would just kill me inside.
So yeah, I guess I've come to a standstill. I just hope I'm not lonely forever, you know?
NeverEndinChaos Gender roles are stupid. You DO NOT have to make the first move. It all depends on who you are. If you aren’t comfortable making a move, don’t do it. Or if you really want to, find a different, unique way to do it that is all your own. Don’t feel pressured to behave a certain way because of how men are portrayed in stories, shows, or movies. We are human, not storybook characters.
First one: Yes. Hell, I love acting out the characters voices, even my evil creations, so sometimes I'll maniacally laugh to hear what it would sound like from that character, so usually when I'm in my room alone I'll start laughing evilly for no apparent reason.
I cried while imaging other people faking a scenerio where they needed to cry...
so I watch from time to time world's got talent and imagined those contestants
2 girls who decided to fake the whole audition and only reveal when they have the final one
so they make a songs toghether and this is how they are gonna make this fake scenari: call them A and B
A goes as the original and plays the original song claiming that it's her but acts quite neurvesly but puts emotion into that songs and does a great job so she passes and B ends up seing this and decides to come to the second round
now for the next round , A also does the performence smoothly but with another song and as she finishes and the judges give all there votes B comes in enraged and starts screaming at her insinueting that she stole the song from her but not directly saying it and then takes the microfon from her and challanges he for the next round into a battle song
and the last round , the 3rd they do a whole ass song that transforms into a roast that then it transfroms into a regret song where they kinda let there souls out and apologies for the stuff they did to eachother before , and as this goes one they go more and more into harmonnizing and all those cool notes and sh*t
and like the fake scenario was that those 2 where like team but they did somthing to eachother and broke off and such , didn't think this part throught since I had mostely visuals in my head.
sorry for grammer
“Me watching people I wanna be friends with talk about things I’m interested in” so accurate omg 😂😂 and me thinking in my head my opinion to the convo but not saying it out loud