How to handle people who spread lies and rumors on you

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  • In our society today, people like to spread lies and rumors about you. This is what nosy people like to do and it's their passion and love because they don't have nothing else better to do.
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    How to handle a person who lies on you? How to handle people who spread rumors about you? How to handle people who spread lies on you? How to know when someone is lying? Spreading lies! Spreading rumors!people are spreading rumors on me! People are spreading lies on me.

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  • @johnT906
    @johnT906 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Jealousy is the main reason people gossip about someone

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

  • @Tula_Darkwater
    @Tula_Darkwater 5 ปีที่แล้ว +546

    "When people have nothing bad to say about you, they make stuff up".

  • @User2jn
    @User2jn ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I usually just intimidate people with my demeanour. They can usually sense that I am somewhat unhinged.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      AMEN AMEN, Me 2🎉

  • @anscrailfanner6812
    @anscrailfanner6812 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I just experienced something like this today. The boyfriend of a female coworker at my job called me up today saying he would have to beat me up because I body shamed his girlfriend. I kept telling him that I didn’t know what he was talking about. I was friends with his girlfriend and she knows I’m not that type of person. When he called me, I was so shook and confused. Unfortunately I couldn’t get through to him. So now I’ll just continue to live my life and not even think about it. Somebody at my job must’ve made up a lie.

  • @jimmyval1430
    @jimmyval1430 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    You should be a public speaker, you’d be great 👍

  • @honeyabdurahman2412
    @honeyabdurahman2412 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I freaking love this guy🦂

  • @rebeccamatherz
    @rebeccamatherz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had a guy who I worked with who would tell me to do random jobs. I had just been trained up on a new job and told by trainer not to do any other jobs on the side as I had to make sure machinery was working properly. This guy asks me to do some jobs that I'm not trained on. I said thats not my job or even in my department, I was just doing what I was trained to do. If I left to do something else and something when wrong, that was on me. He proclaimed that he was a manager. I found out later that he wasn't. He tried to get me into trouble with the real management. I get called to the office. I told management that I was just doing as I had been told to do, but I also mentioned that he'd been bothering me allot. He ends up getting into trouble because the management saw he wasnt working on camera. After that someone approched me and said that he had said to tell me that he 'hated me' and had been putting in a bad word to everyone. I ended up losing my job and got put in a lower role. The worst thing about it was noone told me that I was being replaced on my job. Someone else walked in and just took over what I was doing one day.

    • @carpathianken
      @carpathianken 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That sounds like a seriously toxic work environment & it only enables dipshits like the one asking you to do his work because the communication from the management is non existent

  • @mattlogan5098
    @mattlogan5098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    people need to get a life

    • @Koiriko_
      @Koiriko_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Matt Logan word......

    • @sharebeartay
      @sharebeartay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      the person who talks the worst about me is the one with absolutely nothing else to do with her time 🙄

    • @Keys879
      @Keys879 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sharebeartay And you're doing things, at least in their eyes. So they're going to mess with you. I have the same thing going on at my job. They've done so much damage though.

    • @acorncap8032
      @acorncap8032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wolf God periodt😭

    • @mysecretsketchbook865
      @mysecretsketchbook865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Matt the person who lied about me at the time wasn't a public figure but she had many things going for her. Then in an instant karma changed everything straight after she spread the biggest LIE about me.

  • @fromAshyToClassy
    @fromAshyToClassy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yesssssssss, same person's lies on me, there are people who have destroyed them with lies.

  • @KnottsBear-yTalesPreserved
    @KnottsBear-yTalesPreserved ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Currently dealing with that on a theme park project I am working on. Claiming that I am discriminating those on the autism spectrum. Yet me and half of the team working on it are on the spectrum ourselves. It is absolutely frustrating and mental draining. Like it hurts so much.
    But regardless. I gotta move on and hope that the Truth will prevail one day.

  • @joyceprater4647
    @joyceprater4647 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank goodness they don't have nothing better to do but make up lies about my life, Glory to god no weapons formed against shall prosper amen.

  • @giovannij1368
    @giovannij1368 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These are the same ppl where , when I've gone up to them and said something, they put on this fake nice act. Their entire energy always switches up when they get confronted.
    After that, I completely stop talking to the person. You already shown you're a fake person who chats behind people's backside.

  • @JuliaShalomJordan
    @JuliaShalomJordan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lots a wisdom here. I really needed this encouragement. Thank you!

  • @michaeljackson7732
    @michaeljackson7732 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Real Talk 👊👊👊👊👊👊👍👍

  • @kcjamdab2155
    @kcjamdab2155 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U Soo right bro them types of dog people are evil an fake

  • @kaylinholmes8680
    @kaylinholmes8680 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @simplynightcore6133
    @simplynightcore6133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    (Btw I’m a girl) a girl texted a guy in my class saying that I liked him and then everyone in my class found out😭 and I don’t even like him :/

  • @larhondalyle3777
    @larhondalyle3777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u

  • @funsisters289
    @funsisters289 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg u are goooodddd!!!!

  • @youngking3793
    @youngking3793 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is this kid spreading lies on me saying i said i was going to punch him i dont even talk to the dude

  • @malliaian3770
    @malliaian3770 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Filers hating. Simple Remedy answer fkm keep on keeping it cracking lacking like you're happy even know you're not never show weakness period.

  • @Namastee0000
    @Namastee0000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +390

    Let your haters be your motivators..And let Karma handle the rest....

    • @connorshekelstein6432
      @connorshekelstein6432 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Bey El Karma doesn't exist I wish it did but they will go unpunished

    • @Soadfan-xv6yf
      @Soadfan-xv6yf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I wish karma was always instant. Karma is the best thing to ever exist.

    • @Soadfan-xv6yf
      @Soadfan-xv6yf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Connor Shekelstein it has to do w cause and effect. Which is a universal law. Everything is connected in the universe and we can only understand so much about what’s beyond. (Like spirit). You can make karma exist too through thought and manifestation. Even witchcraft is a thing which so many ppl claim that it works. If you don’t believe in karma then I guess you can just practice black magic w no consequence then lol

    • @tenaciousandresilient9687
      @tenaciousandresilient9687 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Someone told lies about me last year and when one of the lies was said to be false, said person was called a liar and was bashed by multiple people sometime following it. I'm no longer angry because this person got a taste of what they were putting me through. Oddly enough said person sought sympathy and tried to say most of what was said wasn't true. Ironically, it was the act of trying to bash me was one of the things that became the catalyst for it all. When you talk about others, others will talk about you.

    • @fredmad4988
      @fredmad4988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes they will, living deep in insecurity will invite dementia into their lives.

  • @joyceprater4647
    @joyceprater4647 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @carriehopewell389
    @carriehopewell389 7 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    Nobody ever has the guts to tell me,they just stare and judge from a distance and deny all knowledge. Cowards. Mainly jealousy and boredom

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Carrie Hopewell. A lot of people are like that they refuse to tell you in your face.When telling them they will be in denial. Peace and blessings to you carrie hopewell. Thanks for your comment.

    • @carriehopewell389
      @carriehopewell389 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Thank you for the video. I live a decent life without harming anyone and yet these foul people with much more dirty laundry than anyone do these things. I have had a rough 2 years with this rubbish

    • @derrick325b
      @derrick325b 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      First of all shout out to you T-JTI. Real talk!!!! @ carrie hopewell As annoying as this stuff is..and it is...you have to look at it in its proper context. People are cowards by nature because its easy to judge from a distance than to get to know who a person is. I keep people at arms length because you have to in order to keep your sanity. At my job people are rude, dismissive, judgmental all the time....yet simultaneously so damn fascinated by me that they do anything and I mean ANYTHING to get fraction of my energy or a clue about what makes me tick. How psychotic is that? However, let it be their psychosis. Think of it as an extremely backwards complement.

    • @aliciababwah6320
      @aliciababwah6320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Deborah Smith im in the same position. Im tired of it

    • @ashleyperry8993
      @ashleyperry8993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@aliciababwah6320 Same Here They Think I'm Scared But I Don't Want to Get Into Any Trouble But I'm a Very Quiet Person it Takes Alot to Get Me Going and When You Do I'll Yoke a Bitch Up By They Damn Neck💯💯💯💯💪

  • @wghost1
    @wghost1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    Here's a better way to do it , let them talk ignore , ignore , ignore , just be yourself and you don't have to hang out with anyone to prove a point , they don't even exist

    • @coco2blessd
      @coco2blessd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Love your comment.

    • @pamelabibby8642
      @pamelabibby8642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      people need to stop spreading rumours

    • @jesbinj
      @jesbinj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      i mean that sounds like being a loner, sadly a lot of smart people beleive in rumors and lies and they take ur silence as guilt

    • @_-.--.-..-.-_
      @_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @KingCross like success? “success is the best revenge”

    • @_-.--.-..-.-_
      @_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jesbinj yep true. Lot of “smart people” do believe in rumors.

  • @lobostriker85
    @lobostriker85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Alot of times even proving them wrong will still not change anything. Most people will believe what they want to believe regardless of how generous, real and authentic you are to others. My best bet has always been to separate myself from that environment and not associate with those people at all. There are alot of people with no tact or ability to think for themselves and will follow the crowd. They are sheep and wolves dont lose sleep over the opinions of sheep!

    • @ashleyperry8993
      @ashleyperry8993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Im a Train Fanatic is back Real Shit With They Fake Asses.

    • @_-.--.-..-.-_
      @_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Im a Train Fanatic is back yeah..

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sooooo #TRUE N Sooooooo #WONDERFULLY said 🎉

  • @LittleBird888
    @LittleBird888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I’ve been a victim of slanderers. It sucks but it’s helped me learn to walk away from people.

    • @susiesa8295
      @susiesa8295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      it is so sick and evil how far they go to frame others just to make them happy!! i can not do anything to stop them especially when they are stalking and purposly trying to ruin my rep.

    • @Adelina24244
      @Adelina24244 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@susiesa8295 sorry Susie protect yourself and have a pepper spray

    • @susiesa8295
      @susiesa8295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Adelina24244 thank you

    • @tommyparkerparker
      @tommyparkerparker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I had this happen to me a few times in high school. I been out of high school almost 40 years now. I been away from my hometown now for 20 years. Just a few friends, I haven’t had any contact with classmates since I graduated. I don’t know why but to this day some of those same people for some strange reason are gossiping about me . I have not seen or heard from these people since high school. You would would think, times passed, we all move on in our lives such as finishing college, working,starting a family or moving away to settle yourself or wherever. We all differ and that’s OK but sadly some people never grow up and some of these people will just assume the worst in you and haven’t seen you in years.

    • @LittleBird888
      @LittleBird888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tommyparkerparker exactly!

  • @hollymay8187
    @hollymay8187 6 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    I find 80 % of the time, the lies people spread abound you is actually what happened to them . They are trying to create a distraction from themself or to see how other people deal with what they went though.

    • @robbocop33r12
      @robbocop33r12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      That's actually true! , guy that was spreading rumours about me in a bar had been ejected from nearly every other bar in town for the same shit he was saying 'i' did! :-)

    • @spacelyman9482
      @spacelyman9482 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @evadiva3085
      @evadiva3085 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Holly may
      You are so right I’m finding out!
      I’m focusing on myself as I watch them continue being nosy and starting rumors
      The light shines on every lie sooner or later!

    • @accountcompromised2166
      @accountcompromised2166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly, Deflecting and Projection

    • @scottsummersreloaded4618
      @scottsummersreloaded4618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yep its narc PROJECTION!

  • @Shay4YourMind81
    @Shay4YourMind81 7 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    Too true. These people are deeply miserable, have far too much time on their hands, and nothing going on in their lives. As soon as I get an inkling that someone is the type to whisper/gossip about people, I keep my distance, and deal with them with a long handled spoon. Misery loves company!

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you so much Shay4yourmind. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

    • @self-love2355
      @self-love2355 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Love this! Ignore them and keep your distance!

    • @ashleyperry8993
      @ashleyperry8993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@self-love2355 💯💯

  • @KillerCreatureFeatur
    @KillerCreatureFeatur 6 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    You got that shit right. The worse thing about it is 90% of the time it's someone who was previously yohr best friend not long before

    • @soulmutent6433
      @soulmutent6433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right man today I am just watching this video cuz my bestfriend started saying rumors on me and I am so sad

    • @h6h8272
      @h6h8272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Istg this is so true

  • @EvilSwordman
    @EvilSwordman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    I just don't understand how people are capable of doing that by spreading lies about others.. I know I couldn't do it.

    • @3vanguardofthephoenix335
      @3vanguardofthephoenix335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know i am guilty of it, but I try not to talk bad on people in a way that spreads rumors. If I need to vent I go to someone I know isnt going to gossip
      It's so hard for me to forgive because I am a loyal person. I try my hardest to treat people good but its hard when they hurt you. I had a really close friend of mine, and we were venting to eachother and I told her one thing that pisses me off is when someone undermines my intelligence. Anyway I work with her 8 hrs a day 5 days a week, and she eventually started being really mean to me. And she called me stupid and smirked... Saying "just kidding" as if thats a pass on intentionally insulting me. The next day she interrupted me and was super rude. Anyway now we work in different areas and i havent talked to her since. I know we are supposed to forgive one another, as God forgives our sins... But its so hard, because I would never intentionally hurt her like that. I pray God gives us the strength to forgive those who have wronged us, because we should be examples of his children representing heaven on earth
      Love you man, praying for you and me and everyone else here... Cause we are all hurting and could use some good spiritual wisdom, healing, courage, strength, ambition, and tenacity to fight our demons!
      Mine are lust, addiction, distraction/sloth (video games), feeling alone and worthless (which isnt true idk why i believe the lies these demons keep telling me)
      Thats what it is folks. The grand secret. We have good ("angels") and bad ("demons") interdimensional dieties indirectly affecting our reality. Every person in a position of power, on tv, a wealthy person etc i believe is being controlled by evil spirits. Call it the illuminati, cabal, vatican, brotherhood of darkness whatever... They exist. All roads lead to Rome. Do your research. Pray the holy spirit of our righteous creator fills you with wisdom and eyes to see and ears to hear!
      Neither light nor dark can directly affect the outcome of things until the final battle. A humbling fact is that we are as pawns. A pawn doesnt know who crafted it. A pawn is unaware that it is being moved by a human. It cannot possibly imagine what a human is, nor what a human is capable of. It cant even see or hear the human. All it knows is the chess board. The grind. The 9-5.
      Scary fact is, most pawns dont know which side they fight for. If you allow evil to happen, and do nothing, you are responsible for the suffering of others. That is why we fight. For our loved ones, for our animals, for our enemies. We must love everyone and be an example of how humans should treat eachother. This life is a gift given to us by a creator we don't understand, or cant remember. Treat this life as a chance to show your creator love in every way! In the vital nutritious food you eat, in the way you selflessly help others, the way you smile and treat even the least insect with grace and respect! Be a flower! Blossom into the beautiful happy being you were before we let society dictate us :)
      Thanks for reading my rant. Yah bless you all ❤

  • @sharonanderson6926
    @sharonanderson6926 7 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    people like to judge you. know nothing about you I don't fool with them.

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Sharon Anderson. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

    • @journeyofjamaria
      @journeyofjamaria 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Fr

    • @agentjordan605
      @agentjordan605 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gotcha

  • @lauralei400
    @lauralei400 7 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    These toxic people have put my job in jeopardy 😐 I'm a Good person who would Never do others that way.

    • @angelinafrida819
      @angelinafrida819 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Terri Wilson I WILL ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOU AND YOU ARE AWESOME AND UNIQUE NO MATTER WHAT

    • @deborahawe5428
      @deborahawe5428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I have people like that at my job I can never get away from these people like never everytime I see this person it’s always a problem she always trying to look for something bad in me I just wish she can disappear I don’t have to see her face again I don’t want to be around this person because this person is toxic I can’t have that around me because I will become like them too so in order for me to be happy I have to keep my distance from people like this.

  • @MauriceRivers415
    @MauriceRivers415 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Gossips, busybodies, and backstabbers are all losers. They have nothing else going in their lives, except to gossip and tell lies, and stir up trouble. Jealousy drives a lot of gossipers: they always have some juicy tidbit of info they're trying to scatter around, and it's mostly (if not always) lies and tall tales. Don't associate with gossips and busybodies: they're nobody's friend.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

  • @SouthLondonJamaican
    @SouthLondonJamaican 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    It’s simple just BOYCOTT them all
    Don’t say hello don’t say bye
    Don’t say Good morning
    Walk into work walk straight past them don’t greet them if they greet you don’t reply.
    And if anyone asks you why you deal with them like that just keep it real simple
    “ I don’t talk to or associate with Two faced, gossiping, compulsive liars”

    • @j.c.2787
      @j.c.2787 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts. Fuhk em all

    • @Babygirllivecam
      @Babygirllivecam ปีที่แล้ว

      My manager use to get so bothered whenever I didn’t say “hi” to her like you don’t even like me she always nasty to me and just bitter and miserable in general 😂

    • @daze77gaming
      @daze77gaming 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Babygirllivecamsame...i don't even speak to managers and co workers anymore and now they despise me even more

  • @MissClarinda
    @MissClarinda 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Those type of people are also called narcissists. Spreading lies around and gossip is their biggest 'red flag'. Your advice is spot on, because we indeed need to focus on our own character. The truth will alays come to the surface one day anyways. It's not between us and them, it's all about who they choose to be and who we choose to be ourselves, and everyone will see who is truthful and who is the liar. They'll only be working against themselves... and then they'll try to find the next victim...

  • @sherylcastro5688
    @sherylcastro5688 6 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Stay awayyyyyyyy from ppl. Period.

    • @nobantusibeko6425
      @nobantusibeko6425 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Sheryl Castro I heard that!

    • @reneemassey-2827
      @reneemassey-2827 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Amen! People are problems!

    • @ashleyperry8993
      @ashleyperry8993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@reneemassey-2827 💯💯👏

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

  • @danielfulga3517
    @danielfulga3517 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This is why i stay home and play games or read books
    that is what made me a nerd and an introvert

    • @platform4entertainmenttv
      @platform4entertainmenttv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You made the best choice! Keep away from the snakes, cobras that hiss in the grass.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💯💯💯💯

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@platfo✅️✅️✅️rm4entertainmenttv

  • @thedreamweaver6514
    @thedreamweaver6514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Action speaks louder than words.
    Excel in everything you do and let your good character shine

  • @deltahomicide9300
    @deltahomicide9300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    "Even if you hear a bad story about me understand there was a time I was good to those people , but they won't tell you that"

    • @RinAsami1
      @RinAsami1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes👍🙏

    • @tamarag9981
      @tamarag9981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes!!!!Exactly!

  • @7s29
    @7s29 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Let them spread lies, as long as they get my name right. I ignore, and delete them.

  • @ViiCiiii
    @ViiCiiii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I've met someone like that, she talked so badly about me, constant lies about my life or my family, just to hurt me. She doesn't even know me or never met my family and she really enjoyed it. PURE EVIL:

  • @Lovely_Diva
    @Lovely_Diva 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    This is the reason I'm a very private person. Because I dont want people spreading things about me. But I've learned that even when you are private some people may try to manufacture lies about you based on some simple known facts about you....smh. People who spread lies are usually jealous of you because their lives are miserable and they want to drag you down to their level. It's best to just stay quiet when someone is spreading rumors because those that know you well wont care and wont think less of you regardless. The truth will come out some way and karma will handle the gossiper💯💯💯

    • @Lovely_Diva
      @Lovely_Diva 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @UCtsHXOCQzjmRQeEf_1DPG6g Its sad how people are...smh. Just hold your head up high and keep doing you!!

    • @danicastein7660
      @danicastein7660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I AM a private person and a neighbor STILL smeared me... wiretapped my house and made vicious false accusations that caused a lot of harm including loss of a lot of money. Even being private doesn't save you from a malignant narcissist who is willing to break the law. "Thems the breaks" they say.

    • @Lovely_Diva
      @Lovely_Diva 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@danicastein7660 Damn Im so sorry for what you went through. Your neighbor was very jealous and vindictive smh. I pray for God to protect you and to restore the money that is due to you.

    • @Giovanni-01
      @Giovanni-01 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your comment is very accurate

    • @Lovely_Diva
      @Lovely_Diva ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Giovanni-01 Thanks❤

  • @ajl2232
    @ajl2232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There is a person who was spreading rumors about me and I confronted her aggressively. Ever since then she has been spreading rumours about me and doing malicious things and pinning the blame in me. She has pitted many people against me and everyone is taking her sides. I'm now on the verge of being kicked out of my apartment because of this ugly evil woman! I want to clear my name. I want to expose her and get justice. I can't let her get away with this. Anyone have plans?

  • @wadesomad4428
    @wadesomad4428 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This video is so old, yet it gave me so much comfort. Bless your soul. I needed this as I lay in bed at the point of teary eyes. You saved me from a tear being shed. I will try to move on from this lie. It's doesn't matter if it is false. Thank you

  • @sacrifice308
    @sacrifice308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Mann tell me about it, started talking to a girl at work, and people make up lies that I have gf. Now she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. A bunch of grown jealous ass people , that is sad af

    • @mel1_0202
      @mel1_0202 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same happend to me. Was talking to a guy and some jealous people thought it was fun to ruin it by spreading rumors that i fucked other guys and that person even went so far to show 'evidence'. He showed conversations with a girl he probably fucked and just put my name there to make it look it was me. The guy I spoke with wanted time but i have heard he is talking shit about me too now. I have been putting all my energy in trying to find evidence so yesterday I went to the rumor spreader and have now everything on camera. But you know what, now that i porved my point, I don't even want to interact with the guy I spoke with because why should I have to put this much time and effort into someone who just wants to believe others. I SHOWED him the real me and he still believed the rest. If it's meant to be, it will be. That means that neither the guy i spoke with nor the girl you spoke with were meant for us. Just ignore them, you don't have to prove them anything and if she wants to believe them, it's her loss.

  • @corathompson9852
    @corathompson9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Get away from all of these people. They do not care about you. Focus on building your life and head towards a positive direction. We are in the last days and morals are at an all time low.

  • @akio2595
    @akio2595 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Also, if you aren't offended by people teasing you, especially if their younger, just smile. It will show that they are never going to get through to you and they will eventually get bored

    • @_-.--.-..-.-_
      @_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Many arent. They will keep doing that for years

    • @socalbarbie1040
      @socalbarbie1040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Some people will keep going! They’re nobodies with nothing going on!!!

  • @MrStarofTruth
    @MrStarofTruth 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i have a neighbor that said i broke into his house when i was at work , he has no proof of this and he has went to other neighbors and told them this. he has no guts to confront me .

    • @ajl2232
      @ajl2232 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Reminds me of my ugly landlord who a few days ago banged on my door and threatened me to open it. And now she acts all defensive and a victim. The many abuse I've endured because of her unwillgness to help me dealing with people who were abusing me and for her to go after me and abuse me. She doesn't have the willingness to discuss the matter because she doesn't have the ability to carry out a logical and civilized discussion. She is a liar.

  • @traceyowenhughes9223
    @traceyowenhughes9223 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I have been through this a lot Tyler. I enjoy proving them wrong. The more you talk, the more I excel. When I was younger I use to try to defend myself. Now, I have gotten tough skin. I let God take care of my enemies. A lot of time, people spread these lies out of envy. I enjoy your insightful videos Tyler.

  • @DarkChaosElfilis45
    @DarkChaosElfilis45 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I've been through this before. Some people have been spreading lies about me.

  • @DiscoTimelordASD
    @DiscoTimelordASD 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Thank you for reminding me of my own self worth.
    It's so easy to forget sometimes.

  • @tommyparkerparker
    @tommyparkerparker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I had this happened to me quite a few times. But I learned a lesson from this. You see people's true colors.

  • @traceyhughes6424
    @traceyhughes6424 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Great video Tyler What hurts when It comes from the very people you do the most for

  • @jayban7745
    @jayban7745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I've been in the situation of being lied on. When people treat people differently based on alleged accusations, they are weak folks with very gaolable and influenced minds. That says something about them and the quality of their character and personality. In a way they are the victims because of the way they can easily be lied to and mislead and preyed on.

  • @-coke-
    @-coke- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When people lie about me nobody trusts me anymore

  • @preciousgems4036
    @preciousgems4036 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So people talk shit and lies about me and they say it don't matter because its not true
    But the people who hear the lies treat me according to the lies

    • @preciousgems4036
      @preciousgems4036 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Franchee Day
      THANK YOU FOR YOUR INSPIRATION
      GOD BLESS YOU !!!!!!!!

    • @Questloot-wp2gt
      @Questloot-wp2gt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Why would you to get to know or befriend the people who believe the lies, Screw them and move on.

    • @bettabelieveit34
      @bettabelieveit34 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Questloot-wp2gt Amen 💯

  • @P121-27
    @P121-27 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    you are such a blessing, good person

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      OldSchool4Life. Thank you for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

  • @akashdeepsidhu8451
    @akashdeepsidhu8451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    God bless you man, really just helped me out. I would get accused for things I didn't even, and them so called "friends" would never have my back. I don't need people like that around me. You made my week man. Thanks a lot.

  • @lenbo_
    @lenbo_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Some people today were spreading rumours about me and you helped thank you

  • @hutch2811
    @hutch2811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It’s so frustrating knowing it’s happening with the ones closest to you but you can’t do anything about it..

  • @msd7514
    @msd7514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm having this issue with my partner in my relationship. He keep bringing me garbage to me what somebody said about me.

  • @BRockin25
    @BRockin25 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    3:27 isn't true all the time but this is also a signal to ignore/get rid of the listeners. If they don't defend you the entire environment is toxic

  • @ethanstopic
    @ethanstopic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    People tried to ruin my relationship 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @ismaelvazquez5279
    @ismaelvazquez5279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i watch this back in 2017.. now i’m back in 2020 just to motivate myself again, thank you.

  • @Rebecca-bj6uz
    @Rebecca-bj6uz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You described my situation perfectly. Thanks for the affirmation that I'm handling it in the best way possible.

    • @danielsreal5426
      @danielsreal5426 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did someone spread rumours about you

  • @jennifercooper3547
    @jennifercooper3547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Beautiful people, there is something ornately powerful in letting other people sit with their perceptions of you, wether accurate or contrived … and leaving them there. 🙏

  • @natashasamuel9346
    @natashasamuel9346 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You have to learn to walk away from them when they come to start trouble with you.
    They are weak.
    They usually travel in groups.
    I understand everything that you are saying.
    I am speaking from experience.
    They usually go after the "Quiet Types".
    STAY FOCUSED
    Do not let anyone distract you from achieving your goals in life.
    Especially, if you know that you're studying and working hard to create a better life for both yourself and your potential husband.
    Do not let anyone distract you from achieving your goals.
    That is the strategy that they are trying to use.
    Don't fall for it.
    STAY 100% FOCUSED.
    Thank You,
    Natasha Samuel

  • @belahomes6894
    @belahomes6894 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yup exactly what happened lol I'm over here watchin this😂 and like " yup, yup"

  • @miguelcruz2682
    @miguelcruz2682 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When ppl talk about me I don't say anything cuz my ACTIONS DO All the talking & I live in there Heads RENT FREE!! Plus makes me feel famous!!!.🙌👍✌️

  • @ellona3645
    @ellona3645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes! It's funny how the people who gossips about my family don't even know us 😂😂 they have no idea the people they are saying it to are close friends to my family and they tell us everything. HUMBLENESS IS KEY. Crab-mentality, insecurity, jealousy is a terrible trait to have. We just ignore it cause it's not true.

  • @Ankhakaru
    @Ankhakaru 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ignore it, focus on yourself & push forward and it will all fall off of you like water upon a jagged stone.

  • @nostalgic762
    @nostalgic762 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm being called a "snitch" which is some elementary thing to say in high School, and this person just keeps telling everyone about it , when it is obviously lies since he doesn't even know what happened, or has any proof. he talks behind my back but never comes up to me. i don't know what to do I'm just planning to stand up for myself but im usually the anti- social person who does not talk to people, I'm a serious person and only talk to certain people. it's giving me stress for no reason when I know I shouldn't be worrying about something that is a lie but, everyone stares at me now.

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      kimmy Chavez. peace and blessings to you. In a situation like that, don't focus on that person who is spreading lies and rumors because soon of a later, he will get exposed by his or her wrong doing. People will believe the lies at first, but those people who are spreading lies or rumors to spend a week or a month with see what type of person you are. if they don't comply, don't worry about them. focus on your goals because it's a waste of time focusing on some one who spreading lies. if you want to talk more about it, i am here to listen.If you like a request for me to do a video on, i will look into it. thanks for stopping by my channel. hope you visit again. hope everything gets better

    • @akio2595
      @akio2595 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Park Jiminie honestly, i dont see anything wrong with being a "snitch". The people in my class use that term all the time and its why i never really see people getting told on by the actual student. If your telling a teacher that someone is doing something wrong, then your improving the learning environment and helping other people learn. Its just an endless cycle of people getting involved in things that they shouldn't be. Someone being called a snitch really is a stupid thing to call someone as they are doing the right thing. My friends on the bus were talking to this frenemy of ours and he pointed out my friend saying "you think that because you like to learn" in a sarcastic voice which is honestly really stupid. If you like to learn, its going to lead you to a great life. Besides, even if you won't have a friend in school, you should have a friend outside of school who can understand your situation and help you.

  • @rainbowlady1532
    @rainbowlady1532 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As a victim who's going through a tough time where I fear that my own family (except my younger brother, half sister and sone aunts, uncles, grandparents who are very sadly no longer with us anymore, family members who I haven't had contact with for years) have spread lies about me......yet there's a nasty inkling that it's true.
    For example, they would sometimes say things such as I never went to anyone's house, I never tried new things, I hogged all the attention away from my siblings, I had issues with other children getting praised, I never stood up for myself, I never socialised or shared my things, I only liked cats, I only liked the colours pink red green and purple and it's making me doubt my own life, my purpose and so forth.
    I'm actually scared I will develop an ED or do the unthinkable.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sister, U R #Not the only one who has been #LIED ON by #NO good relatives, Keep ur #HEAD Up, You r #Not Alone 🎉

  • @williamcrowther2006
    @williamcrowther2006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wish I had seen this sooner with the amount of lies no one believes anything that i try to say but thanks for helping before it got worse

  • @domar6274
    @domar6274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This happens to me too they keep spreading lies to me life is too hard

  • @missmarie1811
    @missmarie1811 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    wish I watched this 3 months ago.

    • @Jojo-cf7ne
      @Jojo-cf7ne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Never too late

  • @gominamyoung6071
    @gominamyoung6071 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tell it like it is Tyler. Keep the videos coming bro man! 😁😆😆😁😁😄😄😄😁😆😁🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🍷🍷🍇🍇🍇😃

  • @bruh6830
    @bruh6830 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This helped me because one of my friends parents are lying that I have a Facebook (I don't) and I post stuff like "my dad doesn't love me" etc. I was getting really sad but this helped me to feel better, thank you even though you probably won't read this.

  • @GoldenEagle_Matariki_Kaleolani
    @GoldenEagle_Matariki_Kaleolani 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you Tyler !!! Thank you for empowering us with your words of wisdom, I am forwarding your video to others who needed to hear your advice =)

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much I appreciate it😊

  • @gamergeek_2470
    @gamergeek_2470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m already going through the same thing. Thank You 🙏

  • @geoffjoffy
    @geoffjoffy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just found out my brother has been spreading lies about me to other people. He said that I have been ringing his phone day and night non stop, causing harrassment. He even told this to my niece. HIS daughter. Lying to your own daughter that's bad. I stopped speaking to my brother because my niece was believing his shit. Strange behaviour from him. The thing is, I used to ring him once or twice a week, that's all. Now I don't ring him at all. I have changed my number.

    • @victoriasegall3404
      @victoriasegall3404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good for you! I cut off my brother many years ago, and I would do it again. He spread awful lies about me, too. He turned MANY people against me, including, but not limited to, his 1st + 2nd wives, his 2 children (my niece + nephew), + even the borough mayor's 2 sons! He is a horrible person, + today, he is A-L-O-N-E! Haha!

    • @geoffjoffy
      @geoffjoffy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@victoriasegall3404 I wonder why they do it???

    • @victoriasegall3404
      @victoriasegall3404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi, Geoff. It's because they are A-Class flying monkeys. I learned that the flying monkeys are themselves bullies, and could therefore relate to narcissistic bullies like my garbage brother, and my high school classmate Mike, who was a pipsqueak with a HUGE Napoleon complex. Also, bear this in mind: they're VERY unhappy people. I never met a happy bully.

    • @geoffjoffy
      @geoffjoffy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@victoriasegall3404 True

  • @mysecretsketchbook865
    @mysecretsketchbook865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well the person who spread a big LIE about me is a public figure with many Instagram followers. She lied to her husband, to my husband. I confronted her on a telephone call and she admitted she lied about me. I went to her house and confronted her husband. This person has told many lies to the police and her ex and former husband, she tried to blame her divorce on us when she was the one who messed up. this person has a 1st class degree, lives in a good sized house, and has appeared on a very well known TV series. Karma got her so bad her whole world collapsed. So much changed in her life. MOREL of story-- TRUST YOUR instincts with people no matter how long you have known them for. DONT LET THEM INTO YOUR LIFE and don't do business with them.

  • @3vanguardofthephoenix335
    @3vanguardofthephoenix335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know i am guilty of it, but I try not to talk bad on people in a way that spreads rumors. If I need to vent I go to someone I know isnt going to gossip
    It's so hard for me to forgive because I am a loyal person. I try my hardest to treat people good but its hard when they hurt you. I had a really close friend of mine, and we were venting to eachother and I told her one thing that pisses me off is when someone undermines my intelligence. Anyway I work with her 8 hrs a day 5 days a week, and she eventually started being really mean to me. And she called me stupid and smirked... Saying "just kidding" as if thats a pass on intentionally insulting me. The next day she interrupted me and was super rude. Anyway now we work in different areas and i havent talked to her since. I know we are supposed to forgive one another, as God forgives our sins... But its so hard, because I would never intentionally hurt her like that. I pray God gives us the strength to forgive those who have wronged us, because we should be examples of his children representing heaven on earth
    Love you man, praying for you and me and everyone else here... Cause we are all hurting and could use some good spiritual wisdom, healing, courage, strength, ambition, and tenacity to fight our demons!
    Mine are lust, addiction, distraction/sloth (video games), feeling alone and worthless (which isnt true idk why i believe the lies these demons keep telling me)
    Thats what it is folks. The grand secret. We have good ("angels") and bad ("demons") interdimensional dieties indirectly affecting our reality. Every person in a position of power, on tv, a wealthy person etc i believe is being controlled by evil spirits. Call it the illuminati, cabal, vatican, brotherhood of darkness whatever... They exist. All roads lead to Rome. Do your research. Pray the holy spirit of our righteous creator fills you with wisdom and eyes to see and ears to hear!
    Neither light nor dark can directly affect the outcome of things until the final battle. A humbling fact is that we are as pawns. A pawn doesnt know who crafted it. A pawn is unaware that it is being moved by a human. It cannot possibly imagine what a human is, nor what a human is capable of. It cant even see or hear the human. All it knows is the chess board. The grind. The 9-5.
    Scary fact is, most pawns dont know which side they fight for. If you allow evil to happen, and do nothing, you are responsible for the suffering of others. That is why we fight. For our loved ones, for our animals, for our enemies. We must love everyone and be an example of how humans should treat eachother. This life is a gift given to us by a creator we don't understand, or cant remember. Treat this life as a chance to show your creator love in every way! In the vital nutritious food you eat, in the way you selflessly help others, the way you smile and treat even the least insect with grace and respect! Be a flower! Blossom into the beautiful happy being you were before we let society dictate us :)
    Thanks for reading my rant. Yah bless you all ❤

  • @anshulmehra3233
    @anshulmehra3233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My aunt is spreading rumours that I fight with my cousin and I say bad words to her I didn't even do it in fact my cousin threatens me I hate her 😭😭 because of her my father's blood pressure is high

    • @victoriasegall3404
      @victoriasegall3404 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am sorry that you have been going through this. Cut off these people before they do you more emotional harm.

  • @larrykuehn1457
    @larrykuehn1457 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why do some people spread lies about others to others?

    • @anscrailfanner6812
      @anscrailfanner6812 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Larry Kuehn They do it to make themselves feel better

    • @marysutton434
      @marysutton434 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anscrailfanner6812 True.

  • @cr8ji
    @cr8ji 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve been lied on all my life due to jealousy

  • @laceemj8277
    @laceemj8277 7 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I'm only 11 and there a girl that's lieing about me and she told 3 of my friends and now they don't wanna be friends anymore and she so mean

    • @laceemj8277
      @laceemj8277 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm a singer and I am a good singer people tell me I'm good idk why she's mean Is she jealous or...

    • @debrageer9175
      @debrageer9175 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Jealous people are some of the main ones who spread lies. Instead of confronting you about the truth they rather make you look bad in the eyes of others. I really believe that the main reason might be jealously or maybe they may have been offended in some way. It takes a real person to try and correct the issue.

    • @blurrytyler3517
      @blurrytyler3517 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lacee Mj you don't need friends

    • @blurrytyler3517
      @blurrytyler3517 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lacee Mj trust me ;)

    • @jaynepowell9554
      @jaynepowell9554 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lacee Mj their most probably jealous because they have problems at home I found this out when I was about your age the people who where like that had people who treated them bad at home and they see you being happy just pity them

  • @VisionVoyagersOG
    @VisionVoyagersOG 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    facts

  • @givetolive635
    @givetolive635 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    awesome...gos around comes around..

  • @EmeraldD523
    @EmeraldD523 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jealous ugly coworkers strangers ex school aquaintances
    Family members
    Jealousy

  • @MrTriumphantLad
    @MrTriumphantLad 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank You! This is very inspirational! I've been through hell and back in the past 1.5months, and just lately starting to get back on track and trying to stay positive, but every so often these heinous horrific rumors resurface and no matter what front I put on, it worries and gives me anxiety...

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Mr. TriumphantLad. I am very glad that this is very inspirational to you. I am glad that it can help. Always keep focused and don't think about the rumors that in your past. If you need to message me or need a listening hear, you can send me a private message. Peace and blessings to you MrTruimphantLad. Hope you visit my channel again.

  • @AimeeAminho
    @AimeeAminho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Worst is when your own family and relatives spread rumours to pull you down

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

  • @fromAshyToClassy
    @fromAshyToClassy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man what happens when people are insane and make up lies and then wholeheartedly believe those lies? How does it look that your entire life fell apart which the lie you made up, they used against you and set you yp and took your whole life apart and your kids are with different strangers, some being abused and instead of praying, you lie on people.

  • @bonnieirvin5793
    @bonnieirvin5793 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My son's nasty girlfriend tried to turn my own daughters against me by talking sh*t about me. My daughters weren't having it and told her off and to never disrespect me again.

    • @victoriasegall3404
      @victoriasegall3404 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Holy cow! What a nasty piece of work she was! Thank God that your daughters stood up for you and your son.

  • @annalisedinh
    @annalisedinh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This girl has been trying to spread rumors about me and it’s disgusting and inappropriate, if I try to ignore her, she will spread more about me and if I do something she doesn’t want me to do, she spreads them

    • @user-ri3oz1hi4k
      @user-ri3oz1hi4k 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      annalise D Tell a teacher or friend/adult who you think will care and help. If that doesn’t work, confront her-if you don’t want to, I suggest you try become friends with her/her friends, and some how get dirt on her, or something you can create into a rumour. I know you might want to be better than that and not be as bad as her, not stoop to her level, but I personally think just try fight fire with fire, if you do it too these stereotypes, they usually stop. She spreads your shit, you spread her shit. I’m so sorry, this is just my opinion, good luck.

  • @judithmcdaniel7343
    @judithmcdaniel7343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Those that are talking about you are the ones that are worried about you...hello😜

  • @kaishenanigans833
    @kaishenanigans833 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for this message! I really needed it right now.

  • @quickstep145
    @quickstep145 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "I was quiet, but I was not blind." Jane Austen.

  • @jesus-ck4el
    @jesus-ck4el 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    stabbing to the torso until the thing stops trying to block usually works

    • @jesus-ck4el
      @jesus-ck4el 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      talk shit about me no problem just say the truth don't lie