I tried this. Gave her my number. She told she'll text back once she reaches home. It's been a year and now I'm starting to get scared if she really reached home.
@@ne_yil824 You don't need to meet all the people. You just need a sample. And the sample will tell you approximated outcome, the greater the sample, the more precise the outcome. Yet, even 100 is actually a pretty good approximation. Statistics. :)
She even did the little head thing that girls do when they're like, "well, if you want." but they actually want you to say yes. The best moment of the film.
Come on man! Seriously??? Then what is it Latinamerica? Heaven? You just need to go to Buenos Aires, Mexico DF, Barranquilla or even Havanna to live these kinds of things every weekend man.
ahaha quite a number of italians are like that. Sometimes I invited girls to come have dinner at my place, join our parties but I didn't mean to hook up with them. We are just very social.
I just realized when you wrote this that I actually look away from the person when I hold the door so they won't think that their appearance is motivating me.
You are the only person I heard say this! If you are turned down, like every other man, ask her at another time, or ask someone else. Like door-to-door sales, it is a matter of numbers, how many times did he get turned down!
@@alejandrop.s.3942 Moral, principles? I get what you are trying to say but its still misplaced. As long as she is not in a relationship its ok. Also if she was not single, then he shouldn't have gone out with her when she said kind of. It cuts both ways.
Videos like this make me want to throw my phone in the bin and go out and live life. Technology and social media has gotten so intense.. Can't remember the last time I met AND became friends with someone purely offline. (Yet here I am typing this on my phone, lol)
If people had the old fashioned nokia type phones where you can only call and text (where you have to press 1 3 times to get the letter c) it would be different, it was when I was younger. Where phones are just a tool not a toy, initially.
Not sure what kind of guys are doing online dating, but the most common thing I hear during a meetup is "Wow, you're normal" with a surprised look on their face. What kind of dates are girls going on?
Initially looks matter yes 😺 Preference or Likings you know... but Eventually *YOU* matter in the end ❤ Who you are... Be a better and better version of yourself so that someone overlooks the "looks" factor and see you as YOU see yourself.
its the way u do it though. if your heart is in the right place, annnd u've done a bit of analysis, talked to a few of your girl buddies, u really can!
Smile and just talk to people. Don't have an end game. Just get to know them and be interested in what they say. I am old school so I know. Online is for idiots who have no clue.
@@andrehildebrand4361 I am a girl buddy : ) And the thing you said about hunk man and ugly man... I did said that it can be so that girls would reject on looks but I most importantly i mentioned this in my comment - Be a better and better you so that one time someone overlooks the *"looks"* factor and see you as *YOU* see yourself.
He didn't really engage with the woman well. What woman is going to walk off with a male stranger that comes straight out with "wanna go for a drink" without verbal interaction first? "Hi", "hello", "how are you" are usually good ice breaker's to start with. Instinctively without an ice breaker or introduction we put a wall up for our own safety.
Agreed. He should literally script out what he wants to say and stick to that for a while, as long as he can make it natural. I have a few standard lines I use to make us both comfortable and then guys need to have some spontaneous humour, because women like funny. If you can make her laugh, you'll have a much better chance of getting a #.
Well, he had never done that before, and you can see that he got better and better the more times he failed and ended up being good enough to meet some gals :)
Even in a relationship. Me "what to go out for a drink" Wife "why?"(suspicious) me "just because I love you" Wife "ok what did you do?" Men will never win
that isn't really the point. the point was that he went out there instead of doing it online and then despite rejections, he DID find a girl who thought the straight-forwardish method appealing
So a girl who invites a COMPLETE Stranger whom she met at a store for like a minute and barely knows is considered wife material? People these days.......
6 years on tinder, got like 2 or 3 dates.. Online isn't my thing. I tried approaching girls in person (just like in the vid) but the "No" response seems almost automatic. So I asked some female friends and they told me to not straight up ask for their contact (I don't even ask for a number, just Instagram) but instead to chat with them for a bit... But I feel coming to a girl and asking about stuff is even harder cause deep down she knows I want her contact, you know? I feel like I'm doing some silly pretending game and they're gonna be rough... Even girls that I approached without any intention (to ask for information) were rough on me. Well, as the results of cold approaching showed little results, I might as well try chatting about something first, who knows, it might work, with a lot of practice. Thanks for the vid, man! It was very touching.
Lol first of all why do you need a girl's number without any sort of connection with her 🤔?? Then what are texting them lol anyways everybody likes to feel special. Can't go wrong with a joke or compliment, best ice breakers. Good luck mate! Take it easy and most importantly have fun, it's somehow attractive 😉
Only when it comes to dating though. If you noticed, everyone in this video was out having a normal interaction with their group of friends. I'm an introvert with social anxiety and it seems like everyone around me lives for the weekend parties and social events/ gatherings. So, to me it doesn't feel as though society "has become scared of normal interactions", except for me.
@@Kwelar Im a introvert aswell. You can see my writings and blog about it on quora if your interested. Theres nothing wrong being a introvert. all humans are wired different :)
i find it extremely odd, especially since i have never been able to get a date online ever. so i'm not exactly sure who that approach is even working for.
The vid is bs it's not old fashioned race mixing,asking ppl of different race's out old fashion.Here's a clue it was't it was condemn. This isn't old-fashioned it more less what goes on today when ask a girl out try to pick any slut.While over half the other lads to scared to speck a lass , while lot of lasses getting their vagina battered in.Just shitty relationship's really if even that.
I lost good amount of years waiting for a coincidence but it really never happens you have to be really active and expressive to make more and more people like you
I wonder if it’s all directed, or did they actually go out and do this. Like a social experiment. It looks real, and it’s filmed and edited in a way to portray that it’s all real.
I think everyone knows this but at the same time its shot to portray youtubers that go to random strangers and ask them all sorts of things. So its always a questionable video archetype if the random strangers are actually paid actors and if they notice the camera man right there.
"The typical male approach to women is so boring." haha it's not only incumbent upon a man to be the one who approaches you, the onus is *also* on him to entertain you.
I know right, but finding a woman who appreciates it makes it worth talking to all the other time wasters that came before... Not to mention after the first minute of talking, one can quickly turn a few questions on HER to test her back ;)
Every time i see a woman who i may be interested in, i muster the courage to go say hi. and then my black friend stops me in my tracks and says 'whoah, dude. Not cool'.
interesting points ,if anyone else is searching for 1st date tips for men try Panlarko Magnetic Dating Planner (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my co-worker got great success with it.
Seeing this video makes me realize how lucky I was when I met my wife 45 years ago at a college Halloween party where we had some common friends but had not known each other. She had just broken up with her high school boyfriend and was by herself at the party same as me. We sat together and talked that night about what seemed to be each of our life experiences up to that point. I thought she was very attractive but was very relaxed talking to her, since I was not even thinking of asking her out on a date, as I was more just stressed out by grades and was just in to Sports. It was a great surprise for me when her girlfriend I knew who was at the party told me a couple days later the girl I met at the party was wondering when I was going to call her to ask her out. I called her right away that night.
@@Lukavichiano That's funny. I reminded my wife recently how it was her girlfriend letting me know she would go out with me why I called her. She did not remember that at all and thought I seemed pretty confident talking to her. Good thing she had no idea that was sure not the case.
Yo did anyone notice how he spilt drinks a lot? Initially I thought he was clumsy but I realised it's a pretty solid tactic to break ice. When you embarrass yourself, people around you feel some pity and feel more comfortable around you. Also the guy could help the girl so yeah smart man
Elvis Le You missed the whole point. It's about being authentic, being yourself, your real self, in the flesh face to face, including your imperfect, nervous, drink spilling self. Not having a set of "tactics" & a game plan. Geeeez
Tough, he got so many NOs. For some people it would kill self-esteem. I was trying to be "modern confident woman" and once I tried to be initiative with the guy I liked and another time I thought to initiate talk with handsome guy sitting right in front of me in train. Both times it was a HELL!!! Everything in my stomach just twisted with overwhelming anxiety every time I though "now". So, in first case I finally invited the guy and we had some romantic evening and in second case I tortured myself till I gave up for an hour or 2. And after I gave up he asked to sit next to me :))) haha "brave modern woman". For those girls who react negative and furiously to guys awkwardly trying to get to know you, I say: just try to be on other side once! I want to say thank you and send my admiration to all the brave or proper mindset people who can really take this first step. LOVE
Yuliya Nykytenko. Finally, someone online that has empathy and can convey their point clearly. That is a rare combination these days. In all fairness, to both sides, we are all much more comfortable in front of our monitors than we are starting a conversation with a complete stranger. That is the real tragedy of this film.
Glad to see someone who appreciates stuff like that. Tired of the anxiety that comes from how common it is that men are often straight up ridiculed for trying.
His approach wasn’t right tho, I prefer the “real life” way as well, but you don’t just go up to people and simply ask them if they wanna hang out. You have to build a bit of a connection first, ask them about their life and hobbies and all that, talk a bit about yourself, see if you click
We, men, can't have basic social interactions with girls because there's guys out there who act and treat women in abusive ways. Harassment and abuse are real, brother. Just ask any women.
@@CinnaMae420 Why not? Only because society has become very "Stranger dangerish". If someone catches your eye, it shouldn't be a rule that they HAVE to be in your social circle via work or through friends, or by some chance you are stuck in a social venue. Talking to and wanting to see if someone is interesting is less than weird people who call it weird. A lot of people are against interaction they they cannot directly control, which leads to people (women) thinking you are "creepy" for following your curiosity and opening your mouth, meanwhile women, even good looking ones, wonder why men are so passive. Doing things men are supposed to do, be assertive, can be construed as something monstrous. If she doesn't appreciate your approach for whatever reason, saying "Hello, my name is xxx" is about the same as saying "Hey, nice breasts." You get pretty much the same disdain for reasons the man will never know. And no, it isn't his business why she said no, but if he stops approaching women, hes kinda lead to that conclusion based on women not wanting him to approach thus far.
Mae Davids Of course it is, by asking that you show you are not here to be friend or to ask what direction you need to go ... How can you know someone if you dont ask them to date or their phone number ? You know people dont stand in the street for 1hour lol usualy when you are in the street you are going somewhere
Me : exists Girls : I have a boyfriend Their Boyfriend's : I have a boyfriend Me : sobs and goes to Bury head under the pillow and bed cover Pillow : I have a boyfriend Bed cover : I have a boyfriend Everyone has a boyfriend, Everything is a boyfriend Boyfriend is everywhere And boyfriend is nowhere Boyfriend is visible and invisible Is the alpha and the Omega Recent studies shows traces of boyfriend inside the nucleus of an Atom😐
Utterly charming. This guy is a lovable doof. The women treated him so well even when they rejected him, because he is so respectful and sweet. Loved when the woman gave him advice on how to approach women. Talk about putting your everything on the line. Great vid.
Dawnelisha Brown , I understand your point, but I am 51 years old, and that is how we use to meet each other. So, in that regard he is making good point. Human face to face interaction = good thing, just like in business and diplomancy.
Okay, parents. We NEED to teach our children about how to actually interact with real people, face to face and personal. It's ALL on phones and computers today and they have no idea how to actually relate to other people in real life. We're failing our children and their happiness miserably by allowing them to stay hidden from real life and live only virtually through electronic technologies. It's not cool and it's not fair to them. They are missing out on the growing pains of dating, learning about others so they can respect their boundaries of social acceptances and empathy that the other person is a real person too who's just as scared, nervous, hopeful, dreamer, confused, ecstatic, curious, lonely, imaginative, lost and yet found as you, yourself are.
do you know any children? Children are very active nowadays tbh. They go to school and develop relationships like any other generations. I hate people who witch hunt this generation just because it's the one that incorporates technology into daily life.
Exactly. Most people try to blame technology but I hardly see that as the problem. What stands out to me is this whole world of "social problems" that people have created. If you even look at someone it could set people off, if you aren't some hot as dude or chick you look desperate or like a creep. The problem really isn't technology, it's just that so many people are turning nothing into really big problems.
Actually we do know how to communicate with people, you don't see kids on tinder do you? We make friendly relationships and we talk to people without all the "send nudes" bullshit you guys do so b4 you go out tying to teach other parents and their kids some life lessons. do yourself a favor and teach yourself to mine your own goddamn business. 😒
Kevin Smith Ha Ha that's funny, I was good looking enough. At an upscale dinner party a single middle aged director I was working was talking about the difficulties meeting women. I said you have to not let them know you like them, play it cool, pretend not to be interested. He asked my wife how we met. She said "He Stalked Me." There was an awkward silence so I said "or you just stalk them." Thankfully every one who was listening laughed. My wife is very funny.
This worked big time for me once. I noticed this beautiful girl during a play; she was one of the actresses. After the show I went home and I couldn't get her out of my head, so I returned the next day and watched the play (or her tbh) again. When it was over I saw her standing outside of the theater and I walked up to her. With a brief moment of shameless confidence I asked three things: "Are you busy after your last show tomorrow?" She said: "No" "Would you like to go do something then?" She said: "Yes I'd like that" Then I asked for her number and I got it. We dated for a while. After getting her number I walked away feeling such an amount of adrenaline and boost of self-esteem. Later she told me that coming up to her in public like that is really attractive. (Because we all know how scary that is) TL;DR showing courage sets you ahead 1-0
True! If you want to just walk up to a girl on the street and ask her number you got to be handsome, however that may look for that person. And if you are physically not their type they will say NO automatically or lie and say i have a boyfriend.
Thank you ! I am a girl and I think that if a guy chose me on the street, and asked me out, it would be inappropriate, because he chose me just because he likes my looks. He didn't chose me for my qualities or my hobbies or my aspirations in life, just for my looks, what I look like in the streets. I think it's superficial.
@@apoc9ify He chose to talk me because he thinks that I look good, that's superficial. I don't choose men by their physique, and I hope they do the same.
@@mississipi1103 Sorry to disappoint you, but men are more visual and initial impression leading to pursuit of a woman is decided on how she looks and presents herself. Then as man interacts with the woman her character shows up and if her character is not good enough it's highly unlikely he is going to aim beyond superficial relationship in case he doesn't start to run for hills immediately.
It's funny but you have heard about internet of things? With Bluetooth it is. In a party for example would be a huge mess but in a park... you know, could be the inverse way out to tinder netflix and chill. Sit down, talk and chill.
oswelljohn More like a business deal, the marriage makes it as though the two families combine their businesses together to increase rates of success and therefore survival.
More women should ask guys out on dates. I think there's a lot of women afraid to make the first move because "that's not how it's supposed to be" according to gender roles. They will hint to a guy they are interested, but I'm not a fan of subtlety because not everyone picks up on it. People should be absolutely straightforward and honest with what they want, so there is no room for misunderstanding.
@@shawbro2135 This is not to be confused for shy people. Although introverted by nature, my brother's shyness came in his way. That certainly can be addressed although being an inherent introvert must not be tampered with ... My humble take ...
This is not applying the old fashioned way to get a date, this is just applying the online way of dating to the physical world. Generally you get to know someone a bit before you ask them out.
Even then online dating is so much easier. If you are on a dating app people know why you are on there... it’s to date, so 99.99% they are looking to date as well. So that takes away most of the effort needed in offline dating.
@@steelbarber uh, no it isn't. The online way of dating is to join a site that is filled with people who are looking to date, where in the video did this guy go to a place that was only filled with other single people looking for a date?
Okay wow. This was a beautiful story that started slightly awkward because this chap doesn't really know how to flirt, transitioned into life essential questions of who we are and what the always online world has done to us and ended beautifully. Never thought anyone would pull this off in 6 minutes. This short film had more to say than most 2 hour long movies.
"do either of you wanna go on a date with me?" never do that, whichever woman who might think of saying yes to you now feels like a secound option and will probebly say no. pick one, and stick with it.
smith so what's the valid reason that's just a brush off ,why are people afraid of contact or being human and having conversation, it doesnt make since .or they like being cold and rude .
I know, right? As if the "old fashioned way" wasn't always that you interacted with people on a regular basis, like in a class, at work, or in places that you both frequent... and then somehow you both started to take notice of each other, perhaps asked a friend about them and their likes/dislikes... and by the time you ask them out on a "date", it doesn't feel so forced!? Wow. Online dating has completely changed people's perceptions of what it means to interact with someone and get to know them, hasn't it? Very sad.
It's unfortunate that people would rather follow you on social media and stare at a pic than get to know you. False Intimacy, False connections and people looking to celebrities as "relationship goals" seems to be the trend. However, Shout out to those of you who still value authenticity and big ups to the guys who know how to pick up a phone and CALL the girl they like :-)
A woman who answers this way is immediatly discarded. Her morality and loyalty are shown with that ambiguous answer. Not worthy of wasting more time with her.
yeah I don't get all these pickup videos that swarm the internet lately I mean what's the chance you will build a long lasting relationship by hitting random girls on the street you never met before? It is nothing different than choosing good looking girls on the internet where there is a sense of safety and anonymousity - it is meant for "dates" and not for real connections.
Theta plus, many girls I spoke to told me that in most cases they only get approached in the streets by desperate men and that the men they find interesting would never randomly approach them in the streets.
Usually people get in touch somehow before, like studying together, doing activities together, being a part of large group of people(like group of friends) or something similar. That kind of casual walk-talk hookup is just for short-term relations.
zeta reticuli why you so hostile m8 lol. Yes, I know. Im just leaving out there that there are many different angles and views to be taken on the subject. In America it does seem to be more prominent, but I dont know about any where else.
You can see how he gets more comfortable with time. Social skills take practice. In the end he got it down. Awesome film! Not cheesy or anything. Very realistic. Love it!
Yes, that was the most important point of the film. In the beginning he had no social skills and no success. Then he started having some actual conversations, and with that he gained social skills.
It makes absolutely no sense to me. Even the most attractive and socially graceful people I know have done some form of online dating or are on there right now and it baffles me. Working up the courage to be vulnerable with someone face to face and giving them the absolutely demoralizing option to tell you "no, I am not interested in you" but being confident that they also feel the spark you feel towards them is just part of the entire process for me and there's no two ways about it. On the receiving end, I've found the amount of confidence it takes to be incredibly admirable and attractive. Even if I'm not interested, that person will definitely stay on my mind, in a high place. On the giving end, the elation you feel when you take that leap and the person you like feels the same way is indescribable. You just don't get that from behind the safety of a screen.
The "old-fashioned" way entails making a connection with someone before expressing romantic interest in them. That's very different from startling random people with offers to go somewhere with you, which will justifiably lead them to think that you're a creep.
@@pizzaperson1 That's why you go to a cafe or a restaurant, not someone's house. Fun fact - serial killers have day jobs too. Mark, from the apartment around the corner who works for the foreign company? The cute guy? He murdered three women with a knife. Everybody knows Mark. Great guy. You invited him to the neighbourhood barbeque. Let's face it - to go on a date with a stranger is not any riskier than going on a date with someone you know. All people have secrets. Some are larger, some are smaller. Some deadly. The young lady, the one the neighbour's kid brought home one night? Turns out, she is a bit of a maniac. Tried to set the house on fire. Dating is risky. But horror stories always have the same effect - they make you see eyes in the shadows even when nothing is there.
@Unsung Songs You can tell that guy isn't a threat. You can tell which guys are a threat. It's not difficult. Body language, the way someone dresses, tone of voice gives it away. If a guy doesn't come off as a threat, say yes if you're attracted to him. Anything else is living in fear.
I think in a situation like this when somebody approaches you, if you're not interested for whatever reason sometimes it's just easier to say you're in a relationship than to turn somebody down. You dont want to hurt their feelings by just flat out saying "no" so some people will just say "sorry! I have a boyfriend/girlfriend." Its an easy way to say no and not have to worry about the person continuing to pursue you.
This video made me realize that people actually did this back then before technology and some still do. It's not creepy it's just that most of those these people aren't use or feel intimidated by a stranger walking up to them saying will you go on a date or go for a drink whatever. Cause it's not as common anymore. For young people like me it's pretty easy since school and phones help out a lot in building up interactions with strangers without making them feel weird. You could just get their number or send them a dm after you guys talk for a while asking if they want to go out. It feels way easier then doing it in person but It's good to practice your social skills too.
There's a psychological trick people use when they drop their cup, or spill a drink. This makes people more likable, and I wonder if this person knew about it.
In case it wasn't clear: this is a short-film. Everyone is an actor. All the lines were pre-written. All the interactions were pre-decided. And the closing shot was decided before filming began. The film-makers decided whether he would be successful or not with these women, and they are trying to give you (the viewer) a particular feeling: hope. "Because if you just keep trying, you'll be successful." is the message. This is not a genuine interaction between strangers. There wasn't some guy with an expensive camera following some guy around interacting with total strangers.
This was a short film and a documentary. Not all of the interactions were included and the presence of the crew changes the dynamic but these interactions were not with actors (other than the male lead Tom).
It bothers me when people come up and ask you out randomly. It's not because it's face-to-face, it's because you literally haven't said two words to me otherwise. No "Hi", "How are you?", "My name is...". Nothing.
Moospeaker Ehh youre close, but thats not quite what it is. Wanting to become a japanese citizen and learn the language to assimilate into their society is no different than others immigrating to the west. The word weaboo refers to people who: 1) Think japanese culture is 100% anime 2) Think japanese people act like anime chars 3) Denounce their own culture and think japanese culture is superior (while bitching about USA border laws even though Japan has tougher immigration laws and doesnt conform to multiculturalism) 4) Use random japanese words in english sentences and then claim to know japanese, or give themselves a random japanese name online with an anime profile pic 5) Generally have no clue what actual japanese culture is and end up not only failing to integrate into japanese culture, but also end up failing to assimilate into their own society as a result of trying to mimic another. I will say that giving yourself a japanese name online without actually knowing how to speak or write japanese is a big indicator that youre a weaboo. -The most cringiest thing about a weeb for me is that they expect the USA to lose its own culture and let other cultures take us over, while they praise and imitate japanese culture (The only reason japan still has a unique culture as a country is because they enforce immigration laws that force people to conform to THEIR culture, not the other way around.)
Look at it this way; regardless of how a man approaches the desired result is still the same. The only difference between the two is when the conversation takes place. If a man asks you for a chance to go out, naturally the conversation of getting to know each other would take place then. As opposed to doing it your way, starting up a conversation, going through the motions of talking a great deal, only to ask for a date and be told no anyway. It's a waste of everyone's time if the woman's going to say no for what he wants a chance for, regardless of when the getting to know each other part happens. Generally when people are interested in a complete stranger, it's for their looks anyway. Everything after that can only come from accepting the chance to go one step further and dig into their personality. To me, starting a conversation and having one in front of all the people that don't matter as they're not important to the dating aspect is more strange.
This was so authentic. He did not come off as a creep at all and I am so glad his courage and perseverance paid off. I hope he finds the "one" that way.
& yet toxic social media apps like tinder dehumanise people to the point where it's normal... But if you behaved like that in real life this is the reaction you'd get, & rightly so.
I recently broke up, I'm 40 she's 31, 2 weeks after we split up, I saw her with another guy, probably she was talking online with this guy while getting the courage to break up with me. After watching this video, I feel like society has turned for the worst, so many people now only want instant gratification and don't care about love, because love takes time, energy and patience to grow. We, old-fashioned romantics might become obsolete one day, but until the day that happens, we'll keep on loving.
@Connor Powell oh no my friend, I won't give up, is just sometimes you get involved with the wrong person. But I'm working my way up again, funny thing's she dumped the rebound and now it seems she's trying to catch another guy. She definitely has some serious issues.
THE HOLY SECRET TO GET TONS OF DATES, at least to me, is: (cancel your fb profile, it's useless); GET OUT, have a social life, talk to all the girls you can, no agenda, just for the sake of a good conversation; seek for friends for the fun to be friendly and respectful, not because you want to date her! And enjoy your life how it is or improve it! When a woman will like you, she will let you know. ;) And for God sake, be gentlemen, don't do the asshole!
Who let you outof your care home old man.. rerere phones and technology scare me rerere back in my day we used to play ball in a cup and pick strawberries rererer
"I'm trying to meet someone. Are you single?"...wow I feel so special, like there was something about me that you specifically liked. I couldn't be the 110th girl to be asked in one day lol
I am no master, but I think the theory is that when a strange man says things like, “Are you single?” or “Would you like to go on a date with me?”; then it naturally raises the girl’s defenses. Most of the time they are saying, “I already have a boyfriend”, it is really just a defense that they are instinctively using to protect themselves. Some people say that just asking for a phone number causes the girl to raise her defenses. Did anyone notice that when he finally started succeeding in his approach, he did not say, “Are you single?” or “Would you like to go out on a date?” His successful approach seemed phrased as though the girl did not have to make any kind of commitment. He asked her just to engage in something risk-free. That approach did not cause the girl to raise her defenses. Who do you think? Does this make sense?
Atleast you girls are getting asked. If you say yes then we prolly won't be in a hunt for another. Fellas just be looking to fill up the void left in them. It's Spain but S is silent.
I tried this. Gave her my number. She told she'll text back once she reaches home. It's been a year and now I'm starting to get scared if she really reached home.
Uhh ohhh i think she got lost 😂
she deleted your number, don't feel bad
@@jeanbaptiste3470 Or maybe she's just homeless. I'll live with that.
@@Abhi08rulezzz Denial is also a river in Egypt.
@@jeanbaptiste3470 I'm thirsty enough to live near that river.
The girl that invited him to dinner is gold.
Italian girls are cool af
Viva la Italia!
Out of pity after hearing his rejected sob stories
Josh Well you haven’t seen all the people on this planet, have you?
@@ne_yil824 You don't need to meet all the people. You just need a sample. And the sample will tell you approximated outcome, the greater the sample, the more precise the outcome. Yet, even 100 is actually a pretty good approximation. Statistics. :)
"Wanna come for dinner? We're having a bbq..." this was great.
She’s Italian though
She even did the little head thing that girls do when they're like, "well, if you want." but they actually want you to say yes. The best moment of the film.
A few words, and a split second of thought, which can change your life
Come on man! Seriously??? Then what is it Latinamerica? Heaven? You just need to go to Buenos Aires, Mexico DF, Barranquilla or even Havanna to live these kinds of things every weekend man.
ahaha quite a number of italians are like that. Sometimes I invited girls to come have dinner at my place, join our parties but I didn't mean to hook up with them. We are just very social.
the really old-fashioned way would be to have it arranged by your family
And the ancient way would be,
”Ounga Bunga”
*Knocksout future ”wife”*
And I am suffering because of it
Ohh that's still a regular thing in my country
The best way!
or let bro & sis humpty hump. keep that bloodline pure ;). 🤣🤣🤣
I love that he has enough guts to go out and do this I give him props for it and I hope he dose find someone
Elaine Swanson Yeahh
Elaine Swanson
Yeah, and all those teenagers who are too scared to ask their chrushe's out.
dose
dose
Me:(trying to open the door)
Door: I have a boyfriend
I just realized when you wrote this that I actually look away from the person when I hold the door so they won't think that their appearance is motivating me.
Trooth!
True that
Soundsike a me too moment.
You are the only person I heard say this! If you are turned down, like every other man, ask her at another time, or ask someone else.
Like door-to-door sales, it is a matter of numbers, how many times did he get turned down!
Moral of the story: find a women from Italy or Spain
I had no luck with the Italians, so I'll try in Spain. lmao
duh...
aint no way this would work in the US, alot of fatties there and the women, all of them have god complexes.
@@_D.I.G_
"all of them" you kidding, right?
Or just don't approach British women.
Guy: "Are you single?"
Girl: "Mmmm... kind of."
*later...*
Girl: "Is this a date?"
Guy: "Kind of."
Quite appropriate for the situation lol
@@mohanadhmd kind of
His kind of was quite fun indeed, whereas hers just showed her lacks of moral and principles.
What else do you from expect someone who gets high on camera and run around in roller blades?
@@alejandrop.s.3942 Moral, principles? I get what you are trying to say but its still misplaced. As long as she is not in a relationship its ok. Also if she was not single, then he shouldn't have gone out with her when she said kind of. It cuts both ways.
The film should have said how many women he had to ask to get one date.
Hey, man! Great to see you here!
Lindybeige I am obligated to reply as you are verified
Lindybeige! hi
Huzzah! A wild beigeling has appeared!
I see you are also trying this approach?
Videos like this make me want to throw my phone in the bin and go out and live life. Technology and social media has gotten so intense.. Can't remember the last time I met AND became friends with someone purely offline. (Yet here I am typing this on my phone, lol)
If people had the old fashioned nokia type phones where you can only call and text (where you have to press 1 3 times to get the letter c) it would be different, it was when I was younger. Where phones are just a tool not a toy, initially.
it happens all of the time - you have to get outside
I totally agree
SAARA *fufufu*... you humans interest me.
Oh my... SAARA is here.. Hi!! c:
*Online Dating* Guy: I hope she's as hot as her profile picture. Girl: I hope he dont kill me 😂😂
it's called availability bias. Yes, for women assault is a big deal..
Jake LT I'm a guy but I think about them killing me too
hahaha. Fair enough.
Difference is they are NEVER as hot as their pictures.
Not sure what kind of guys are doing online dating, but the most common thing I hear during a meetup is "Wow, you're normal" with a surprised look on their face. What kind of dates are girls going on?
Am I the only one who is equally saddened by this video as I am inspired by it?
I am, this is lowkey depressing but, at the same time it gives me hope
Makes me realize I have no social skills...
I think people try too hard in general. Just relax and treat everyone the same.
It’s the music, “hey this is inspiring”
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Well, if you look like that, theres a 50% chance of finding a girl.
If you look like me, there's a 90% chance of landing in jail.
Initially looks matter yes 😺
Preference or Likings you know... but
Eventually *YOU* matter in the end ❤
Who you are...
Be a better and better version of yourself so that someone overlooks the "looks" factor and see you as YOU see yourself.
its the way u do it though. if your heart is in the right place, annnd u've done a bit of analysis, talked to a few of your girl buddies, u really can!
Smile and just talk to people. Don't have an end game. Just get to know them and be interested in what they say. I am old school so I know. Online is for idiots who have no clue.
Wow! Now everyone's an expert.😒
@@andrehildebrand4361 I am a girl buddy : )
And the thing you said about hunk man and ugly man... I did said that it can be so that girls would reject on looks but I most importantly i mentioned this in my comment -
Be a better and better you so that one time someone overlooks the *"looks"* factor and see you as *YOU* see yourself.
So its was something like this:
Me: Hi
Her: I have a boyfriend.
The end
Arturo Sánchez more like, Me: H...
her: I have a bf.
Rohan Jangam more like Me: *looks at her for 1 second)
Her:I have a boyfriend
The end
Or maybe they just wear T-Shirts that says
¨I have a Boyfriend, sorry´.
The end of the love story, lol.
me: can you tell me where the train station is?
her: i have a boyfriend
... my life
Arturo Sánchez still better love story than twilight
He didn't really engage with the woman well. What woman is going to walk off with a male stranger that comes straight out with "wanna go for a drink" without verbal interaction first? "Hi", "hello", "how are you" are usually good ice breaker's to start with. Instinctively without an ice breaker or introduction we put a wall up for our own safety.
Agreed. He should literally script out what he wants to say and stick to that for a while, as long as he can make it natural. I have a few standard lines I use to make us both comfortable and then guys need to have some spontaneous humour, because women like funny. If you can make her laugh, you'll have a much better chance of getting a #.
Well, he had never done that before, and you can see that he got better and better the more times he failed and ended up being good enough to meet some gals :)
Even in a relationship. Me "what to go out for a drink" Wife "why?"(suspicious) me "just because I love you" Wife "ok what did you do?" Men will never win
NotRocketSurgery
lol.
I like that rebuttle.
that isn't really the point.
the point was that he went out there instead of doing it online and then despite rejections, he DID find a girl who thought the straight-forwardish method appealing
Pre-corona looks so beautiful here..
Points for you.
It’s still the same. Let go of the fear!
Sadly I doubt it will be the same again. Those times were the best.
The old-fashioned way: have a film crew follow you around as you ask random women to go get a drink.
zagadka 314 old fashion as in irl not online
His point was the film crew that walked with him and went with him the BBQ
zagadka 314 you clearly are uneducated on how people met back then, my grandfather met my grandmother in public and he had a filmcrew following him!
Thanks for the laugh man. Comment of the week for sure.
Perhaps to go get an old-fashioned?
The girl who invited him to dinner, she seems like wife material.
there's no such thing as "wife material" ffs
So a girl who invites a COMPLETE Stranger whom she met at a store for like a minute and barely knows is considered wife material?
People these days.......
@@kukukudoes458 She's not wife material for inviting him over... but she had a really great, genuine vibe to her.
More like " rest of your life " material
Just the word "material" is so disrespectful..
He has an unfair advantage. He's tall, handsome, and has a British accent.
British accents aren't much of an advantage in the UK
Mitchell Gillett True
attractiveness is relative
He was also doing it in a place where everyone has a british accent. I don't know just a thought.
In London dude , everyone 's a British accent there
6 years on tinder, got like 2 or 3 dates.. Online isn't my thing. I tried approaching girls in person (just like in the vid) but the "No" response seems almost automatic. So I asked some female friends and they told me to not straight up ask for their contact (I don't even ask for a number, just Instagram) but instead to chat with them for a bit... But I feel coming to a girl and asking about stuff is even harder cause deep down she knows I want her contact, you know? I feel like I'm doing some silly pretending game and they're gonna be rough... Even girls that I approached without any intention (to ask for information) were rough on me. Well, as the results of cold approaching showed little results, I might as well try chatting about something first, who knows, it might work, with a lot of practice. Thanks for the vid, man! It was very touching.
Lol first of all why do you need a girl's number without any sort of connection with her 🤔?? Then what are texting them lol anyways everybody likes to feel special. Can't go wrong with a joke or compliment, best ice breakers. Good luck mate! Take it easy and most importantly have fun, it's somehow attractive 😉
@@emmarose9466 Have you never looked at someone and felt attracted? Or even passionate? That is why I ask for their contact..
@Unsung Songs and its a analogy not a d***k dnt take it so hard
@Unsung Songs he's using a quote from feminist
@Unsung Songs honestly catching fish is so much easier
Any girl that says, "I'm NEVER completely single" usually raises some red flags.
Michael B. ‘She belongs to the streets’ run. loool
the flag of slutsville?
You dont know how women work... they are all single boy
that's the whole red flags economy in a single line mahnn
Including the freak in bed flag. So you should go for it.
The moral off the story. Society has become scared of normal interaction and live their lives online. Gj
Only when it comes to dating though. If you noticed, everyone in this video was out having a normal interaction with their group of friends.
I'm an introvert with social anxiety and it seems like everyone around me lives for the weekend parties and social events/ gatherings. So, to me it doesn't feel as though society "has become scared of normal interactions", except for me.
@@Kwelar Im a introvert aswell. You can see my writings and blog about it on quora if your interested. Theres nothing wrong being a introvert. all humans are wired different :)
i find it extremely odd, especially since i have never been able to get a date online ever. so i'm not exactly sure who that approach is even working for.
@@dynamo3059 Everyone. What you have to loose?
@@lokilokern3565 doesn't work for me. never has. therefore it ain't working for everyone.
This guy is neither desperate nor creepy, he is real. Good luck mate .
jsilence418 i like you sir!
jsilence418 you should go on a date with him
The vid is bs it's not old fashioned race mixing,asking ppl of different race's out old fashion.Here's a clue it was't it was condemn.
This isn't old-fashioned it more less what goes on today when ask a girl out try to pick any slut.While over half the other lads to scared to speck a lass , while lot of lasses getting their vagina battered in.Just shitty relationship's really if even that.
Invoke article 50 petitions/133618 Is English your primary language?
Not an argument shitbag.
You know how in the movies just when a character is about to lose hope, something great happens? Yeah, that doesn't actually happen in real life.
Lmao. True.
If You Believe that...
I NEVER comment on videos, but i just wanted to say ....... yes, it does.
I lost good amount of years waiting for a coincidence but it really never happens you have to be really active and expressive to make more and more people like you
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I won't lie, you had me in the first half.
It’s sad that a bunch of people in the comments don’t know that this is a short film.
I find it kind of funny tho, besides that shows how well executed the short is
A short film can still be realistic, and remind of very real, real-world situations and reactions though, and this does...
I almost thought it was real but then I realized if there’s a camera there has to be a man behind it
I wonder if it’s all directed, or did they actually go out and do this. Like a social experiment. It looks real, and it’s filmed and edited in a way to portray that it’s all real.
I think everyone knows this but at the same time its shot to portray youtubers that go to random strangers and ask them all sorts of things. So its always a questionable video archetype if the random strangers are actually paid actors and if they notice the camera man right there.
"The typical male approach to women is so boring."
haha it's not only incumbent upon a man to be the one who approaches you, the onus is *also* on him to entertain you.
I know right, but finding a woman who appreciates it makes it worth talking to all the other time wasters that came before... Not to mention after the first minute of talking, one can quickly turn a few questions on HER to test her back ;)
CptPhenom Lol that vocabulary
i love the word choice, made me do some research. I liked it.
The typical anything is boring by definition
jmfairlie mice
Every time i see a woman who i may be interested in, i muster the courage to go say hi. and then my black friend stops me in my tracks and says 'whoah, dude. Not cool'.
BAHAHAHA I get this reference
I think you might be stuck in a television commercial. Blink twice if you need help out.
😂😂😂 Gillette
Grow a beard.
😂😂👌
"People are so afraid of contact"
"Do you want my number?"
"No!"
You clearly don't get it, lol.
@@jenniferschepens5015 i dont either and im a girl, could you explain?
...But what about the poor cameraman?! Nobody ever thinks of the lonely cameraman!
Hes still recovering from the walking dead....
Gravijta hhaahhahahahha he is so lonely
the camera man is not interested in trivial things, he documents, he follows, he observes and his opinion is his secret.
+turbokike
...so you're saying he likes to watch? Kinky!
Gravijta or the lighting guy.... #noloveforthecrew
So his camera man is invited on the date too? 🤷🏻♂️
brandon lillibridge good point
Look at the endcard. :) Its a film to inspirate people.
interesting points ,if anyone else is searching for 1st date tips for men try Panlarko Magnetic Dating Planner (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my co-worker got great success with it.
All paid participants.
"Inspirate". The new fragrance by Dolce Gabanna.
To all the girls that said no... 'it's just a prank, the cameras right there'
NO
haha
theres like 10 people with studio lights and a camera lol
I will never believe any of this is real unless I see it taken with a smart phone held the wrong way -vertically.
+Just some guy agree
Seeing this video makes me realize how lucky I was when I met my wife 45 years ago at a college Halloween party where we had some common friends but had not known each other. She had just broken up with her high school boyfriend and was by herself at the party same as me. We sat together and talked that night about what seemed to be each of our life experiences up to that point. I thought she was very attractive but was very relaxed talking to her, since I was not even thinking of asking her out on a date, as I was more just stressed out by grades and was just in to Sports. It was a great surprise for me when her girlfriend I knew who was at the party told me a couple days later the girl I met at the party was wondering when I was going to call her to ask her out. I called her right away that night.
Awesome story man. When you click, you click. It will just happen, it can't be forced.
Your name should be "Larry Lovemore" with this great story 😀
@@Lukavichiano That's funny. I reminded my wife recently how it was her girlfriend letting me know she would go out with me why I called her. She did not remember that at all and thought I seemed pretty confident talking to her. Good thing she had no idea that was sure not the case.
Atta boy lad!
@@larryloveless2967 haha I love it. Great story :)
Yo did anyone notice how he spilt drinks a lot? Initially I thought he was clumsy but I realised it's a pretty solid tactic to break ice. When you embarrass yourself, people around you feel some pity and feel more comfortable around you. Also the guy could help the girl so yeah smart man
I didnt. Any time stamps where?
Elvis Le You missed the whole point. It's about being authentic, being yourself, your real self, in the flesh face to face, including your imperfect, nervous, drink spilling self. Not having a set of "tactics" & a game plan. Geeeez
Humility
Leilani Lee Someone never tried being a guy...
Leilani Lee
Actually, he is completely right. There's been some social experiment on that one. Never mind if that was on purpose, but man has a point.
Tough, he got so many NOs. For some people it would kill self-esteem. I was trying to be "modern confident woman" and once I tried to be initiative with the guy I liked and another time I thought to initiate talk with handsome guy sitting right in front of me in train. Both times it was a HELL!!! Everything in my stomach just twisted with overwhelming anxiety every time I though "now". So, in first case I finally invited the guy and we had some romantic evening and in second case I tortured myself till I gave up for an hour or 2. And after I gave up he asked to sit next to me :))) haha "brave modern woman". For those girls who react negative and furiously to guys awkwardly trying to get to know you, I say: just try to be on other side once! I want to say thank you and send my admiration to all the brave or proper mindset people who can really take this first step. LOVE
Yuliya Nykytenko. Finally, someone online that has empathy and can convey their point clearly. That is a rare combination these days. In all fairness, to both sides, we are all much more comfortable in front of our monitors than we are starting a conversation with a complete stranger. That is the real tragedy of this film.
Courage and confidence works every time!
Glad to see someone who appreciates stuff like that.
Tired of the anxiety that comes from how common it is that men are often straight up ridiculed for trying.
His approach wasn’t right tho, I prefer the “real life” way as well, but you don’t just go up to people and simply ask them if they wanna hang out. You have to build a bit of a connection first, ask them about their life and hobbies and all that, talk a bit about yourself, see if you click
Now you know how is it like for us 🙂 read what she wrote carefully girls!!
Nowadays basic human interaction can be seen as harrassment. That is just sad.
We, men, can't have basic social interactions with girls because there's guys out there who act and treat women in abusive ways.
Harassment and abuse are real, brother. Just ask any women.
@@CrazeeFy it sucks man it ruins it for the good guys like us sucks
@@CrazeeFy Harassment and Abuse isn't gendered and without evidence one cannot determine it to be real.
@@CinnaMae420 Why not? Only because society has become very "Stranger dangerish". If someone catches your eye, it shouldn't be a rule that they HAVE to be in your social circle via work or through friends, or by some chance you are stuck in a social venue. Talking to and wanting to see if someone is interesting is less than weird people who call it weird. A lot of people are against interaction they they cannot directly control, which leads to people (women) thinking you are "creepy" for following your curiosity and opening your mouth, meanwhile women, even good looking ones, wonder why men are so passive.
Doing things men are supposed to do, be assertive, can be construed as something monstrous. If she doesn't appreciate your approach for whatever reason, saying "Hello, my name is xxx" is about the same as saying "Hey, nice breasts." You get pretty much the same disdain for reasons the man will never know. And no, it isn't his business why she said no, but if he stops approaching women, hes kinda lead to that conclusion based on women not wanting him to approach thus far.
Mae Davids Of course it is, by asking that you show you are not here to be friend or to ask what direction you need to go ... How can you know someone if you dont ask them to date or their phone number ? You know people dont stand in the street for 1hour lol usualy when you are in the street you are going somewhere
Me : exists
Girls : I have a boyfriend
Their Boyfriend's : I have a boyfriend
Me : sobs and goes to Bury head under the pillow and bed cover
Pillow : I have a boyfriend
Bed cover : I have a boyfriend
Everyone has a boyfriend,
Everything is a boyfriend
Boyfriend is everywhere
And boyfriend is nowhere
Boyfriend is visible and invisible
Is the alpha and the Omega
Recent studies shows traces of boyfriend inside the nucleus of an Atom😐
:P :D :P :D That was too good and super hilarious..... :P :D
😅 😅 😅 Night made....that's gold
😂 😂 😂 😂
Geeeez the fold in this comment made earth look small
This comment is gold 😂😂😂
Utterly charming. This guy is a lovable doof. The women treated him so well even when they rejected him, because he is so respectful and sweet. Loved when the woman gave him advice on how to approach women.
Talk about putting your everything on the line. Great vid.
A "Lovable Doof" is a good way to put it, unfortunately that is exactly what will be used against him in the future.
Dawnelisha Brown , I understand your point, but I am 51 years old, and that is how we use to meet each other. So, in that regard he is making good point. Human face to face interaction = good thing, just like in business and diplomancy.
Okay, parents. We NEED to teach our children about how to actually interact with real people, face to face and personal. It's ALL on phones and computers today and they have no idea how to actually relate to other people in real life. We're failing our children and their happiness miserably by allowing them to stay hidden from real life and live only virtually through electronic technologies. It's not cool and it's not fair to them. They are missing out on the growing pains of dating, learning about others so they can respect their boundaries of social acceptances and empathy that the other person is a real person too who's just as scared, nervous, hopeful, dreamer, confused, ecstatic, curious, lonely, imaginative, lost and yet found as you, yourself are.
They already know that.
No, they don't. Children these days are growing up thinking that internet personas are what real people should be like.
do you know any children? Children are very active nowadays tbh. They go to school and develop relationships like any other generations. I hate people who witch hunt this generation just because it's the one that incorporates technology into daily life.
Exactly. Most people try to blame technology but I hardly see that as the problem. What stands out to me is this whole world of "social problems" that people have created. If you even look at someone it could set people off, if you aren't some hot as dude or chick you look desperate or like a creep. The problem really isn't technology, it's just that so many people are turning nothing into really big problems.
Actually we do know how to communicate with people, you don't see kids on tinder do you? We make friendly relationships and we talk to people without all the "send nudes" bullshit you guys do so b4 you go out tying to teach other parents and their kids some life lessons. do yourself a favor and teach yourself to mine your own goddamn business. 😒
If this was me, the story would be different:
Me: Hi!
Girl: No.
+Niels S I don't need to try I know...
Sozib Rahman how do you know without tryinf
Me: why
Girl: because
CheekiMcBreeki boris!?
rsd search it
It doesn't matter if it's online or offline. If the approach is awkward, you'd be rejected over and over again.
yeah but just because it's awkward at first doesn't mean they won't be the one for you,
yea but this is hardly awkward..
So practice by asking as many girls as possible and then approach you. Logics
@@keirscott-schrueder5625 exactly
If you're ugly*
I met my wife the old fashioned way, I stalked her, we've been married 15 years.
Timothy Ryan Fisher wow how romantic
The difference between stalker and romantic is how attractive you are.
Kevin Smith Ha Ha that's funny, I was good looking enough. At an upscale dinner party a single middle aged director I was working was talking about the difficulties meeting women. I said you have to not let them know you like them, play it cool, pretend not to be interested. He asked my wife how we met. She said "He Stalked Me." There was an awkward silence so I said "or you just stalk them." Thankfully every one who was listening laughed. My wife is very funny.
Timothy Ryan Fisher That is so beautiful! Does she know you are married for 15 years?
Krypt Sanies Yes she knows, she's lets me know she knows.
The cameraman needs a raise. Quality content.
Tell that to the covenant
This worked big time for me once. I noticed this beautiful girl during a play; she was one of the actresses. After the show I went home and I couldn't get her out of my head, so I returned the next day and watched the play (or her tbh) again. When it was over I saw her standing outside of the theater and I walked up to her. With a brief moment of shameless confidence I asked three things:
"Are you busy after your last show tomorrow?"
She said: "No"
"Would you like to go do something then?"
She said: "Yes I'd like that"
Then I asked for her number and I got it. We dated for a while.
After getting her number I walked away feeling such an amount of adrenaline and boost of self-esteem. Later she told me that coming up to her in public like that is really attractive. (Because we all know how scary that is)
TL;DR showing courage sets you ahead 1-0
Or lands you with a lawsuit 0-1...
50/50 is a good chance.
"So I returned the next day and watched the play (or her tbh) again". You mean, like a stalker?
S.ns. Dude have you never ever been in love? There nothing wrong about that. It’s not like he was following her around or something.
@@VAVORiAL What was he supposed to do if he wanted her, not see her again? Are you special?
I am handsome.
You just have to took like you take care of yourself. Women are too insecure about THEIR looks.
Even though good looks never hurt, I don't agree with you. Unless a guy is extremely ugly you can, at least, have an informal conversation.
Wouldn't exactly call the guy in the vid extremely handsome, not ugly by any means but no casanova either
True! If you want to just walk up to a girl on the street and ask her number you got to be handsome, however that may look for that person. And if you are physically not their type they will say NO automatically or lie and say i have a boyfriend.
Lol 😂😂😂😂
Actually, this is not the old fashioned way. Asking someone out without knowing their name or them knowing yours was creepy back in the day too.
Stalking your crush for weeks(Cheking everything you can find about him/her on social medias) before asking her/him out would be way worse...
Thank you ! I am a girl and I think that if a guy chose me on the street, and asked me out, it would be inappropriate, because he chose me just because he likes my looks. He didn't chose me for my qualities or my hobbies or my aspirations in life, just for my looks, what I look like in the streets. I think it's superficial.
@@mississipi1103 Well How can he know your character, if he doesn't decide to talk you first?
@@apoc9ify He chose to talk me because he thinks that I look good, that's superficial. I don't choose men by their physique, and I hope they do the same.
@@mississipi1103 Sorry to disappoint you, but men are more visual and initial impression leading to pursuit of a woman is decided on how she looks and presents herself. Then as man interacts with the woman her character shows up and if her character is not good enough it's highly unlikely he is going to aim beyond superficial relationship in case he doesn't start to run for hills immediately.
Waiter: Would you like a drink?
GRRRL: I have a boyfriend.
Waiter: I'm the waiter, stupid.
Hahaha
LOL
GRRRRRRRL
hahaha winner!
That is SO funny! LOL
Offline Dating! That's a brilliant concept man! Who would have thought of doing that!
honestly these days it´s pretty original
WE can make an app for offline dating!!
LOL Eduardo
Your parents and all your ancestors.
It's funny but you have heard about internet of things? With Bluetooth it is. In a party for example would be a huge mess but in a park... you know, could be the inverse way out to tinder netflix and chill. Sit down, talk and chill.
Girl- "I don't like the word date."
Me as an intellectual- "Fine, would you like to join me on a crusade?"
No, use quest...that's even better.
You single? I would be down for a crusade
the old fashioned way: sell her off to some French prince in exchange for land 😂😂
-1 Notification or trade a nobleman 5 cows and 14 chickens for his middle daughter
-1 Notification French prince? Maybe if you're rich.
Sell your daughter to enable cooperation with other empires
oswelljohn More like a business deal, the marriage makes it as though the two families combine their businesses together to increase rates of success and therefore survival.
1OO1O11O11O1O yee
Only introverted men knows how life it's hard when everyone is expecting you to be extroverted and confident.
More women should ask guys out on dates. I think there's a lot of women afraid to make the first move because "that's not how it's supposed to be" according to gender roles.
They will hint to a guy they are interested, but I'm not a fan of subtlety because not everyone picks up on it. People should be absolutely straightforward and honest with what they want, so there is no room for misunderstanding.
@@TruffleSeeker54 let's be honest women won't do that not even the strong independent ones
No, I don't think so. A lot of women like introverts.
People should not try to make introverts more social, like forcing them to go to clubs. Creator has intended them to be introverts for a reason.
@@shawbro2135 This is not to be confused for shy people. Although introverted by nature, my brother's shyness came in his way. That certainly can be addressed although being an inherent introvert must not be tampered with ...
My humble take ...
This is not applying the old fashioned way to get a date, this is just applying the online way of dating to the physical world. Generally you get to know someone a bit before you ask them out.
That isn’t true one bit haha.
Even then online dating is so much easier. If you are on a dating app people know why you are on there... it’s to date, so 99.99% they are looking to date as well. So that takes away most of the effort needed in offline dating.
Jaime Ruiz uh, yes it is?
@@steelbarber uh, no it isn't. The online way of dating is to join a site that is filled with people who are looking to date, where in the video did this guy go to a place that was only filled with other single people looking for a date?
@@koreaface but through messages people can represent theirself suoer differently
Okay wow. This was a beautiful story that started slightly awkward because this chap doesn't really know how to flirt, transitioned into life essential questions of who we are and what the always online world has done to us and ended beautifully. Never thought anyone would pull this off in 6 minutes. This short film had more to say than most 2 hour long movies.
Seems like everyone has a boyfriend these days.
Except y'know straight guys
lol
Its Schrodingers Boyfriend
Some of those girls had three or four boyfriends.
PhoneZach even I have a boyfriend
I'm my boyfriend
"do either of you wanna go on a date with me?" never do that, whichever woman who might think of saying yes to you now feels like a secound option and will probebly say no. pick one, and stick with it.
I like how you said "it" lmao
You damn right!
"people in London are very afraid of actual contact"
"you want my number? thank you but no thank you"
Hmmm I wonder why???
Some people want to only talk face to face lol which isn't a bad thing
@Intellectual Ammunition exactly
Yes this should be more effective why did the girls laugh at him ?
She has her valid reasons.
smith so what's the valid reason that's just a brush off ,why are people afraid of contact or being human and having conversation, it doesnt make since .or they like being cold and rude .
So people now think "the old fashioned way" of getting a date was walking up to a stranger in the street and immediately asking them for a date?
It's not the oldest method but it is old fashioned now that people no longer really do that. We are in the Internet age now.
I know, right? As if the "old fashioned way" wasn't always that you interacted with people on a regular basis, like in a class, at work, or in places that you both frequent... and then somehow you both started to take notice of each other, perhaps asked a friend about them and their likes/dislikes... and by the time you ask them out on a "date", it doesn't feel so forced!? Wow. Online dating has completely changed people's perceptions of what it means to interact with someone and get to know them, hasn't it? Very sad.
@@tanyad7894 Touché
Tanya D
I think that’s the main way most people find friends, dates etc.
Through school, work etc.
still the most common form of interactions I’d say
@@tanyad7894 Except that in class, work or places you both frequent the two of you have your faces buried in your phone...
these words inspired me "nice lamp"
Get your lamp out for the lads!
Gabby Pahinui I love lamp
Good idea, but 1. Never ask two girls out at once. 2. If one girl says no, don't immediately ask her friend. No one wants to be the second choice.
It's unfortunate that people would rather follow you on social media and stare at a pic than get to know you. False Intimacy, False connections and people looking to celebrities as "relationship goals" seems to be the trend. However, Shout out to those of you who still value authenticity and big ups to the guys who know how to pick up a phone and CALL the girl they like :-)
And big ups the the girls who don't get creeped out by guys actually trying to CALL them. =)
TheOmar Amen 🙏😉
Well said.
It's funny isn't it... how we like our interpretation of ourselves that we display on social media more than how we exist in the real world
Be happy being single. The rest will follow without effort.
I think it's a bit shady to be "kind of" single ...
She speaks the language of hypergamy.
Attractive women always have orbiters.
A woman who answers this way is immediatly discarded. Her morality and loyalty are shown with that ambiguous answer. Not worthy of wasting more time with her.
If you're dating someone and want to see what they're like, that's kind of single
I think it just means that she's seeing someone but it's not official and/or exclusive
Meets a girl the old fashioned way
Has a three camera setup
LOL right
Lol
Wrong approach, just ask them if this cloth smells like chloroform
Underated comment
I can't 🤣🤣🤣
Lol
NightFURY Gaming in other news, the grass is green
The best way to start a tinder date.
he had a nice day learned a thing and ate barbecue
it seemed to me like this could have taken place over a few weeks
He learned that everyone has a boyfriend.
“Would either of you want to go on a date with me?” way to go man...
the old fashioned way was never just approaching random women in the street.
yeah I don't get all these pickup videos that swarm the internet lately
I mean what's the chance you will build a long lasting relationship by hitting random girls on the street you never met before? It is nothing different than choosing good looking girls on the internet where there is a sense of safety and anonymousity - it is meant for "dates" and not for real connections.
Theta plus, many girls I spoke to told me that in most cases they only get approached in the streets by desperate men and that the men they find interesting would never randomly approach them in the streets.
Then what else was it? And what's wrong with approaching someone you find attractive in the streets?
Usually people get in touch somehow before, like studying together, doing activities together, being a part of large group of people(like group of friends) or something similar. That kind of casual walk-talk hookup is just for short-term relations.
Павел Гатилов But I don't study anymore and everyone my age has a really busy schedule every day :(
Never trust an edited comment
Why ?
zSTALKn Gaming oh
Why not?
revision 1 bwahahahahahaaa
Okay I'm quite annoyed now that I can't see the original version of the comment 😂
Strange world where people avoid human direct contact. Congrats on the video
Antonio Miranda yes that is so true
People have always avoided direct human contact with strangers. It's nothing new.
Joe A W I would have to say that its more prominent today than years before.
they are actors actually
zeta reticuli why you so hostile m8 lol. Yes, I know. Im just leaving out there that there are many different angles and views to be taken on the subject. In America it does seem to be more prominent, but I dont know about any where else.
You can see how he gets more comfortable with time. Social skills take practice. In the end he got it down. Awesome film! Not cheesy or anything. Very realistic. Love it!
Yes, that was the most important point of the film. In the beginning he had no social skills and no success. Then he started having some actual conversations, and with that he gained social skills.
Doesn't the fact that there's a video crew following him around change the nature of the girls' reaction, though?
zoobiewa It feels so fake, as everyone is mic'd up perfectly.
Dyl Pikkle that was a "when you realize it. ." Moment O.o good comment
"directed by: samuel abrahams" it says at the credits ;)
I would have thought so.
Not if everyone is actors.
Wait when did offline dating become old fashioned?
When online got invented
@@bosniangamesms8957 good answer lol
It makes absolutely no sense to me. Even the most attractive and socially graceful people I know have done some form of online dating or are on there right now and it baffles me. Working up the courage to be vulnerable with someone face to face and giving them the absolutely demoralizing option to tell you "no, I am not interested in you" but being confident that they also feel the spark you feel towards them is just part of the entire process for me and there's no two ways about it. On the receiving end, I've found the amount of confidence it takes to be incredibly admirable and attractive. Even if I'm not interested, that person will definitely stay on my mind, in a high place. On the giving end, the elation you feel when you take that leap and the person you like feels the same way is indescribable. You just don't get that from behind the safety of a screen.
When someone made online dating. 😂 😂
Yes. When the 'ell did this happen?
The "old-fashioned" way entails making a connection with someone before expressing romantic interest in them. That's very different from startling random people with offers to go somewhere with you, which will justifiably lead them to think that you're a creep.
"Profile pictures can be decieving with filters these days" , damn that line tho 😂
Ironic coming from someone that looks like she REALLY needs the filters...
It's so true, kinda sad honestly
@TheComputerScientist&Physicist bhakt spotted here too😂
i think dude do that much less
Me: trying to nicely rest my head on a pillow..
Pillow: I have a boyfriend!
Woah, that pillow should file a restraining order on you!
The first comment today I honestly had to laugh about!
HAHHA
me trying to go to sleep 'I have a boyfriend'
LOL good one.
People say they want honesty and no games, but that isn't true.
True man
You guys have to realise that it is not that safe for a woman to go with a stranger on a date. This is why most women will turn you down.
@@pizzaperson1 That's why you go to a cafe or a restaurant, not someone's house. Fun fact - serial killers have day jobs too.
Mark, from the apartment around the corner who works for the foreign company? The cute guy? He murdered three women with a knife. Everybody knows Mark. Great guy. You invited him to the neighbourhood barbeque.
Let's face it - to go on a date with a stranger is not any riskier than going on a date with someone you know. All people have secrets.
Some are larger, some are smaller. Some deadly.
The young lady, the one the neighbour's kid brought home one night? Turns out, she is a bit of a maniac. Tried to set the house on fire.
Dating is risky. But horror stories always have the same effect - they make you see eyes in the shadows even when nothing is there.
@Unsung Songs Yes but the point is that misplaced trust will get you harmed much more often than just bring prepared in general.
@Unsung Songs You can tell that guy isn't a threat. You can tell which guys are a threat. It's not difficult. Body language, the way someone dresses, tone of voice gives it away. If a guy doesn't come off as a threat, say yes if you're attracted to him. Anything else is living in fear.
*..the 'old-fashioned' way -- offline*
Is this even legal these days?
U want a restraining order? Because this is how you get one.
@@GenghisD0ng so the old fashioned way, is the only way?
Lol. So true.
No. No, it's not
Love a good old fashioned
"I can't say a lot but I can say you're beautiful"
FREAKING FIRE LINE MATE
Looks like every girl has a boyfriend now.
It's easy to get a boyfriend or girlfriend these days. Just go online. I think Amazon has them.
I think in a situation like this when somebody approaches you, if you're not interested for whatever reason sometimes it's just easier to say you're in a relationship than to turn somebody down. You dont want to hurt their feelings by just flat out saying "no" so some people will just say "sorry! I have a boyfriend/girlfriend." Its an easy way to say no and not have to worry about the person continuing to pursue you.
Are they aware that d!ckpics in messenger don't count?
Most of them cheat when someone better looking or more wealthy tickles their fancy i.e hypergamy
this is true, im never lucky
"I like a man that can fix things"
"I can do bulbs"
Haha 😂👌
What she said was the absolute truth! Women like confident, manly men!
If this is the kind of standards women are now settling on, I should definitely get out there.
This video made me realize that people actually did this back then before technology and some still do. It's not creepy it's just that most of those these people aren't use or feel intimidated by a stranger walking up to them saying will you go on a date or go for a drink whatever. Cause it's not as common anymore. For young people like me it's pretty easy since school and phones help out a lot in building up interactions with strangers without making them feel weird. You could just get their number or send them a dm after you guys talk for a while asking if they want to go out. It feels way easier then doing it in person but It's good to practice your social skills too.
Dili lol your generation is filled with social degenerate losers
There's a psychological trick people use when they drop their cup, or spill a drink. This makes people more likable, and I wonder if this person knew about it.
What do you mean? Seems like a good tip
s-soo d do you come here o-often
*knocks drink onto her white top*
hhaha s-sorry beautiful
cmon guys, you know better than that.
@@lejspul7655 hahaha no. It's the first time, really. But sounds like something good to do every now and then 😂
While it may make people like you more, I don't think anyone has ever really tried to purposefully spill their drink
Wtf
In case it wasn't clear: this is a short-film. Everyone is an actor. All the lines were pre-written. All the interactions were pre-decided. And the closing shot was decided before filming began. The film-makers decided whether he would be successful or not with these women, and they are trying to give you (the viewer) a particular feeling: hope. "Because if you just keep trying, you'll be successful." is the message.
This is not a genuine interaction between strangers. There wasn't some guy with an expensive camera following some guy around interacting with total strangers.
OH
K...
How do you know
This was a short film and a documentary. Not all of the interactions were included and the presence of the crew changes the dynamic but these interactions were not with actors (other than the male lead Tom).
@@shorx9199 He doesn't. He's just guessing.
The quote of the century "I have a boyfriend"
Hey bud, that was last century too.
I mean some of them genuinely do have a boyfriend or just can't be bothered with a relationship and we should respect that honestly
Modern day qote "I only date [insert race] guys" :) yet some among us managed to bypass that barrier time and again.
Me: Breathes in
Girl:I have a boyfriend
Me: ok have a nice day 🕺🏼
Beautiful girl.
"I have a boyfriend"
Wooooow, i never would have guessed.
It bothers me when people come up and ask you out randomly. It's not because it's face-to-face, it's because you literally haven't said two words to me otherwise. No "Hi", "How are you?", "My name is...". Nothing.
Maybe it bothers you because you're a strange little weeaboo already. So, that's your fault not their's.
Robert Mendez I... don't think you know what that word means.
yeah wtf 😂 i just start with hi and go from there.
Moospeaker Ehh youre close, but thats not quite what it is. Wanting to become a japanese citizen and learn the language to assimilate into their society is no different than others immigrating to the west. The word weaboo refers to people who:
1) Think japanese culture is 100% anime
2) Think japanese people act like anime chars
3) Denounce their own culture and think japanese culture is superior (while bitching about USA border laws even though Japan has tougher immigration laws and doesnt conform to multiculturalism)
4) Use random japanese words in english sentences and then claim to know japanese, or give themselves a random japanese name online with an anime profile pic
5) Generally have no clue what actual japanese culture is and end up not only failing to integrate into japanese culture, but also end up failing to assimilate into their own society as a result of trying to mimic another.
I will say that giving yourself a japanese name online without actually knowing how to speak or write japanese is a big indicator that youre a weaboo.
-The most cringiest thing about a weeb for me is that they expect the USA to lose its own culture and let other cultures take us over, while they praise and imitate japanese culture (The only reason japan still has a unique culture as a country is because they enforce immigration laws that force people to conform to THEIR culture, not the other way around.)
Look at it this way; regardless of how a man approaches the desired result is still the same. The only difference between the two is when the conversation takes place. If a man asks you for a chance to go out, naturally the conversation of getting to know each other would take place then. As opposed to doing it your way, starting up a conversation, going through the motions of talking a great deal, only to ask for a date and be told no anyway. It's a waste of everyone's time if the woman's going to say no for what he wants a chance for, regardless of when the getting to know each other part happens. Generally when people are interested in a complete stranger, it's for their looks anyway. Everything after that can only come from accepting the chance to go one step further and dig into their personality. To me, starting a conversation and having one in front of all the people that don't matter as they're not important to the dating aspect is more strange.
This was so authentic. He did not come off as a creep at all and I am so glad his courage and perseverance paid off. I hope he finds the "one" that way.
He's doing this the complete wrong way, you don't just walk up to strangers & ask them out... Need to build some rappor first
yes! XD
💯 Women react to desperation like kryptonite
& yet toxic social media apps like tinder dehumanise people to the point where it's normal... But if you behaved like that in real life this is the reaction you'd get, & rightly so.
it was hurting my brain dude was bieng so rude but he took the negative vibes from people like a champ tho
@@thatmannarbash7638 "so rude"? more or less like how the women responded?
"Nice lamp" XD
quality lamp
Even if you the last man on earth,girl will still say "I have boyfriend"..
When the girl said " I don't have a phone right now!" I wish he would have swiped right in the air then just walked away :)
Maybe the attention received is tiring?
For a second i forgot that this was a short film because of how convincing the acting are
It's probably real. I do this a lot too. The reactions are realistic.
I think it was more of a documentary, No?
its not acting, lmao
Hey denji
@@odnellx yo
When a woman says 'kind of single', what she means is 'willing to trade up if you'll give me more of your assets than my current guy'.
Odvi
That's just sad
I think it's more like "yes, but why are you asking this? Not interested."
Kinda "not single" if you creep me out, kinda "single" if I decide you're not embarrassing to be seen with.
More like I’m hooking up, does that count
Great cinematography and editing.
people are really ignoring that.
Cassius Rolfe yeah, it was beautifully recorded/ edited
Cassius Rolfe yeah. They caught great angles.
Yeah, almost as if it was scripted and directed.
You are correct I was dumb not to realise
Dan Frederiksen y
Me: Hell yeah, I'll try this out tomorrow!
The next day: *social anxiety intensifies*
I say go for it don't let anxiety hold you back!
You have to face rejection. Otherwise you just don't get any better at dealing with it or getting through it.
I met my wife on a blind date. The first minute I saw her I wanted to marry her. She didn't think the same way.
I recently broke up, I'm 40 she's 31, 2 weeks after we split up, I saw her with another guy, probably she was talking online with this guy while getting the courage to break up with me. After watching this video, I feel like society has turned for the worst, so many people now only want instant gratification and don't care about love, because love takes time, energy and patience to grow. We, old-fashioned romantics might become obsolete one day, but until the day that happens, we'll keep on loving.
Check out r/theredpill on reddit.
It might help you get some purpose back into life.
It has helped me a lot.
Love yourself and go your own way
@@m4d_al3x I'll do that, thanks for the tip.
@Connor Powell oh no my friend, I won't give up, is just sometimes you get involved with the wrong person. But I'm working my way up again, funny thing's she dumped the rebound and now it seems she's trying to catch another guy. She definitely has some serious issues.
@@sydgerald us romantics love the once with issues haha makes sense
THE HOLY SECRET TO GET TONS OF DATES, at least to me, is: (cancel your fb profile, it's useless); GET OUT, have a social life, talk to all the girls you can, no agenda, just for the sake of a good conversation; seek for friends for the fun to be friendly and respectful, not because you want to date her! And enjoy your life how it is or improve it! When a woman will like you, she will let you know. ;) And for God sake, be gentlemen, don't do the asshole!
Roberto De Luca respec🅱️ wo🅱️en
Roberto De Luca But... but I like anal...
this is advice from Mr Friendzone!
Best comment! So true!
Who let you outof your care home old man.. rerere phones and technology scare me rerere back in my day we used to play ball in a cup and pick strawberries rererer
"I'm trying to meet someone. Are you single?"...wow I feel so special, like there was something about me that you specifically liked. I couldn't be the 110th girl to be asked in one day lol
exactly! :-D glad some people understand this!
So it's written on your damn face ?
I am no master, but I think the theory is that when a strange man says things like, “Are you single?” or “Would you like to go on a date with me?”; then it naturally raises the girl’s defenses. Most of the time they are saying, “I already have a boyfriend”, it is really just a defense that they are instinctively using to protect themselves. Some people say that just asking for a phone number causes the girl to raise her defenses.
Did anyone notice that when he finally started succeeding in his approach, he did not say, “Are you single?” or “Would you like to go out on a date?” His successful approach seemed phrased as though the girl did not have to make any kind of commitment. He asked her just to engage in something risk-free. That approach did not cause the girl to raise her defenses.
Who do you think? Does this make sense?
Atleast you girls are getting asked. If you say yes then we prolly won't be in a hunt for another. Fellas just be looking to fill up the void left in them. It's Spain but S is silent.
That's why people go on dates, to find out what makes you special.
man literally went out to H U N T
me at a registration desk: do you need my phone number?
waitress: sorry I have a boyfriend.
"I mean she's never really completely single"
Tom Gwerzman that’s every girl 😂😂
@@KingConsoleJordan I can confirm to you that it's the same with us gays as well 🤣
Touched my heart! Good luck on 20k subscribers!