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This year will mark the 7th year that I have been living life as an Expat in Chiang Mai Thailand…
When I first arrived in Thailand with the intention to stay long-term it could only be described as a whirlwind of an experience.
The culture shock of moving to Thailand or any country in South East Asia for that matter is intense.
The sights, the sounds and the organised chaos are light years from what most foreigner are used to, and so, a question I get asked a lot is...
Once you become used to living in Thailand does the novelty go away?
Does the culture shock for people living in Thailand eventually wear off?
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come here in the Philippines, you are welcome here. Our second language is english too, every word you say we basically understand lol
How many days in the uk a year would you be depressed ? Just a question
Moving from the US to Thailand was the greatest decision I ever made for my physical, mental, and emotional health. I have never felt more able, fulfilled, and free than I do here.
please take me with youuuuu
Really? I was thinking about Pattaya or chon buri
The novelty wears off... You can apply this to literally any country in the world. The problem is not Thailand or the country you live in, it's you.
Amen that’s how it is. I live in Costa Rica 🇨🇷 for years and after so many years it’s business as usual. I love Costa Rica I had my child here and a business but yeah after awhile it’s the same but I still love it
Same , same anywhere , When you have been there for a long time then it is getting little old or a feeling of boredom . I will be retired in Thailand. I would not say exactly retired. I still will be going back to the US back and forth . I do not like BKK either . I can not breath lol . I will be moving from places to places . My ideal places are those remote Islands . It is nice to chill out in a simple bungalow with no phone , no car , no signals . .You could be living where I am now . It is hard to get ahead . Everything is expensive. Thanks for sharing
not always. Some people just do better in certain cultures than others. Eastern culture is way different from Western culture. And, Latin American culture is different from both. (It's Western culture with a twist.)
I agree, it was kind of a click bait title as all be spoke about was how to avoid novelty wearing off which could be said for any country
Ricardo Gonzalez ,I wonder do u actually live in Thailand
My experience with Thailand is different. I came to Thailand at Utapao air base during Vietnam war. I had to leave after 6 months in March 1973. I knew at 18 years old that I wanted to live in Thailand. Thailand amazes me everyday after 7 years in Chiang Mai. I'm amazed with the colors in Thailand, the people, the food. I am very happy to live in Thailand, the most beautiful country in the world, Thailand.
You said Thailand 7 times 😂😂
@@realpadrino And you count him saying Thailand 7 times 😂😂
Hi, i like thailand also, but now i want to move there with my kid! Can u please suggest me some good english school for my baby? Which city will be best for living? Most of people said about Bangkok.Can u share ur opinion with me? Please.. thank you!
I like the colors in Thailand also. Especially around sunset, my favorite time of the day. The Thai people are remarkably human. The culture is different but the basic humanity is clearly there.
Hi Jack, are you still living your dream in CM?
One thing that I learned when living in China and Thailand is to try to be around the right kinds of people. Being around the wrong kinds of people WILL ruin your experience!! And what you experience from being around the wrong people, could build your impression of the entire country.
One more thing is if you're in Thailand and you start to feel resentful of the place, then go back home ASAP. Take a break. After a while, you'll be reminded of the reasons you went to Thailand in the first place and it'll refresh your experience. In the meantime, simply stay home until you're ready to experience Thailand again.
Agree. I have also worked and lived in both countries. I would however say that is true where ever you live. There are people who can elevate your life through association and those that drag you under. It usually doesn't take long to figure out who is who.
What do you mean with the right kind of people? And how does one identify them?
Just simply.dont be Too demanding.
Great advice. I’ve been back in the states fur 2 years, and I’m missing the simplicity of Thailand now. I’m. Thinking of returning after my dog moves on. This time, I will travel every quarter to other countries. A couple Thai beach trips and a yearly jaunt to Japan to ski, should keep me excited.
Honestly I think realistic expectations help. There's a certain "demographic" of expats who pedestalize Thailand like it's supposed to be some sort of nonstop holiday playground and forget that it's still a normal country with people living regular day to day lives.
I live in a condo in central Bangkok Brett and what I do which makes me appreciate Bangkok (which is probably similar to you laying in your hammock) is swim late at night in the rooftop pool. There's a fantastic view of the city skyline which still amazes me to this day. Living in a condo can be a bit challenging but if you have a nice gym and pool you're sorted. Like you said the key to not taking Thailand for granted is staying mindful. Nowhere is perfect but life is too short to be constantly complaining
Yeah, if you live in Bangkok, you have to have a pool.
I used to love the old BKK, it was a mixed of exotic and modern with old wood houses next to modern buildings. Time goes by and BKK is just like any other western city
Pool and gym on the roof with views also. My condo unit overlooks neighbouring gardens but just like Brett, I've got a noisy bird calling out all the time. Sounds like being in the jungle! Love it here.
@Thairish Times
What is the name of your condo building, please? Thank you. Enjoy :-)
@@Dreidcs2 Yes, because everything has to be developed. Outsiders will say that old Bangkok looks classic. look unique But people in the country want the country to develop.
I'm reminded of the saying "wherever you go, there you are". Life is what you make it, wherever you are. Everyone goes on (on TH-cam particularly) about Thailand being Paradise, when it clearly isn't. It's just another country with pros and cons. Eventually when the novelty wears off you are still you, just in different surroundings.
Exactly.
Buckaroo Banzai!
@@travisxpickle completely agree with you. Life for us is SO much better in general just because the cost of living there is so great.
@@travisxpickle a similar example could be said of Australia.
Well said.
I moved to the Philippines a few years ago. Best decision I've made in a long time. You just have to set things up good where you live (comfortable bed, TV, air conditioning, kitchen items, etc). Once you have a solid base, everything else is just icing on the cake...
Hi Bret, lived in Thailand for 10 years now, I love every day living here. I live in a great part of the World. Retired at 50 and never want to retire from being retired. Lived in a Condo for 2 years different but I’m a house person not a condo. Just buying a house at 61 I stay away from negative people, when I go back to the U.K. I’m homesick for Thailand. I sit outside on my veranda with a Coffee every morning and watch the world go by.
Good video Bret, telling it as it is.
I have that same loud bird.
The bird is a Koel. A type of cuckoo. We have them in Australia. Sydney gets woken up by them every summer night.
@Paulie Walnuts The house is in my wife’s name as foreigners can’t own land here. I have no problem with that. It helps provide a future for my wife when I’m not here. Many people have their own view about this. It is up to the individual, There are good stories amongst the bad.
@Paulie Walnuts Good point. Though some special districts like Pattaya allow it. Buying a house in a wife's name (Thai) is less than ideal but still beats a condo. $75k for a condo of 35 meters vs $75k for a townhome of 90 meters.
How did you retire at 50?
@@wishfulfilled1794
I was lucky joined the right Job at 19 years old, the recruitment officer said you work two days two nights 4 days off and you can retire at 50 It sounded good to me so I joined the Fire Brigade and never looked back. A good move for a 19 year old. They pay me a monthly pension and that’s what I live on here.
Great speech, Brett. Well worth listening to.
Thanks Ed 👍🏻
Excellent commentary and perspective that you share Brett. Thanks for the words of widsom.
My pleasure!
What I particularly like about this channel - it's very relatable for all nomads/expats/longterm travellers and retirees like me. No matter what country you're living in/travelling through.
Hi Brett. We met whenI was in Chiang Mai during 2018. A lot of we talked about your experience living and advice provided the same as your giving now. All really good stuff. I appreciate that you are still there and still smiling. Good work
This video explodes with wisdom. And the Koel's calling... omg I love it! Sometimes I play it just to remind me of this great internal feeling which I have while being there. Counting weeks already to my next trip to Thailand.
Words of wisdom, Brett. Thanks for sharing your insights with many who need to hear this exact message. Glad you are enjoying life there in Thailand and keep your fresh style intact. Cheers !
Man I love your videos! Thanks for the info. Keep being authentic.
Great video!! Excellent advice...thanks man
Glad it was helpful!
Brett, that was such a brilliant and meaningful video, and I took a lot of heart from it.
I am sure you are right that it all depends on the individual as to whether you enjoy living long-term in Thailand (or indeed any foreign country).
I am of the older generation now and have been contemplating a move to South-East Asia, but of course the pandemic has put the brakes on that for the time being.
My first visit to Thailand was in 1989. You are so right - that initial mind-blowing experience creates such a magical sensation, and it made the holiday totally intoxicating! So much so, that I went back again with the same friend six months later, which is unheard of in my life, and again we had a great time! And I've made further visits over the years.
You highlighted the fact that living in a condo permanently (for example) may not be the best solution for those wanting to "get away from it all", and to be honest I hadn't really thought of that aspect before, but I am sure you are right. You live in beautiful private surroundings, and I am sure that many of us are envious of your lifestyle, but of course you have worked hard to achieve this, and all credit is due to you.
Thank you so much for this thoughtful and uplifting video - I have learnt a lot about human psyche from it.
Just an afterthought - you find that song-bird a mild irritant - I am sure that many viewers (like me) feel that it's such a brilliant contributor to living in the tropics - a sound that you would never hear in any typical "western" city!! But that's because we are hearing it and appreciating it as a temporary onlooker or holiday-maker. I can understand that if you hear it 'day in and day out' around your home, then it could become a little annoying!
Take care mate, and thanks again.
Awesome video! Thanks for posting! Lots of wonderful insights about attitude, gratitude and quality of life!
Young man you are wise beyond your years. Thank you for the very upbeat video on an extremely serious problem that faces many expats in almost every country they have decided move to.
Love the honesty and transparency of this vdo! Hope ur well and take care!
I was gonna say the same thing. He comes off as a decent and honest guy
Hey Brett, great video bro.. I’ve been in and out of Thailand for the past 45 years and I’m about to make it my home.. you either love Thailand for Thailand or you don’t. The ones that don’t usually go negative and the ones that do will love it forever. I think finding and settling in your favourite part of Thailand and learning to speak Thai is the key to appreciating Thailand.. Cheers
Frank 😊
If you want to Live Thailand.learn our language.
@@thaimayoree1494 Facts. I'm not from Thailand but a common language helps keep a culture and country strong. Much respect.
I'd add to this. I think what drives happiness is also "change". How regularly is up to the person, but change gets you out of the rut and forces you to experience the different. I think that's important 😊
Agreed. And sometimes if your life is going to cr@p or you're in a rut, then dropping everything and spending time travelling can be just what you need to help you refocus and/or recenter yourself. Which is different from running away or hoping there is some place you can find where you'll be magically happy and content
Change doesn't drive happiness, it creates stress and anxiety in humans. Predictability reduces stress and a feeling of contentment. When you talk about true happiness, most people don't understand what will or will not make them happy. Being out of your comfort zone is not something to create happiness in the moment, but over time you can learn things about yourself - that give you a life that is more happy.
Thanks for the heads up Brett✌️, solid advice buddy! Keep up the good work! 👌👌
I really appreciate this video. It is one of the best videos. It is very insightful for everyone, not only for the expats, but someone like me who is Thai and has been away from the homeland for a long time. I am excited to return to Thailand but I have to be mindful that I can't expect everything from Thailand. There is no perfect place in this world. Happiness comes from within, not outside of ourselves. Thanks again!
Nice balanced view. I’ve lived in Thailand over 20 years, worked in their petrochemical industry. I would never knock the place, for what it has given me.
I’ve just spent the last few months on a coastal contract around the U.K. and it was a fantastic experience. The U.K. is really a beautiful place, especially up in Scotland. It has been great to get back to Thailand, however, and do…….nothing! Actually, just did a quick road trip up in the hills of Khao Kho - beautiful up there, and nice and cool overnight/mornings
I totally agree about social media groups, in fact I would totally disconnect from it whilst in Thailand. It makes you realise just what a bubble people live in, over in the West. Switch it off, disconnect and all that nonsense melts away, it becomes irrelevant
Good video thanks for sharing. Looking forward to visiting Thailand for the first time soon!
I loved the clips where we see you just chilling and living - such as the hammock scene, or you driving the roads to Pai. It almost makes me feel I’m there too. Would love to see you make videos with more of those shots please.
Hi Brett,
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts!
You seem like a very nice person! You really reminded me of the right way to change your mindset when down, and helped me appreciate what I have around me today!
All the best and thanks again!
Another expat from somewhere else; maybe visiting Thailand soon!
I really need such kind of video. Thank you
I like your attitude. Would love to see more videos on how-to move to Thailand, different areas, and more day in the life.
Subscribed.
Great video. Same thing happens to most expats. Agree about not living in a condo. Lived in a condo for years and finally moved to a row house in Bkk - a huge difference being able to have a small yard
I personally love living here for the peacefulness. Most people are polite. I live a normal life, I work online, have a GF, drink a little beer sometimes, enjoy the ability to travel around, go to the beaches and the mountains and so on. I'm not here live that party life like people on holiday are looking for. And yeah, I do love the chaos of BKK, great temples hidden in the heart of the city, all of the LOCAL markets, the great architecture and a huge city that heaves and ebbs daily. Visa issues are just a part of living here and are just a thing that has to be done, it's not a problem. I hope to live out the rest of my days here. And yeah, I've not forgotten all the reasons I left SFO for this life. Thanks, peace.
You just spoke to me man, thanks so much😊
I will arrive in Phuket (to retire) on valentine.Day. One way ticket. I have reduced my belongings down to: two checked bags, one carry on bag and a small backpack. Just sold my Toyota Tacoma two days ago. And I must say, it’s the Most liberating, exhilarating feeling I’ve had in a long time! 😊👍
Interesting
Wish you all the best, If you’re a guy, don’t get her pregnant.. if you’re a girl, don’t get pregnant... other than that, have fun!
@@p.c.h.6721People have kids buddy, weird thing to tell another adult.
@@publicalias8172
You obviously didn’t get my comment, no problem, you’ll understand one day
These videos are really helpful!! 😊
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.. Good stuff.. I needed to hear this, as im moving to Philippines in 6 months.
This is by far your best video in terms of information for living in Thailand or any foreign country. Especially one that doesn't speak your native language. I personally live in Japan and found myself in a funk, wondering why it was so strange. After speaking to another American about the advantages of living in Japan, I realized how lucky I was. Just like you, Brett, I haven't had a car (or a motorized vehicle for that matter) since coming here in 1994. I travel everywhere by bicycle. I only use the trains when the distance is too great or on cold rainy days. I keep things simple by focusing on nature and my wellness through diet and exercise. I'll be 65 soon and the body and spirit are doing well. Keep the faith.
Chaingmai is my fav location in Thailand ,looking forward to a visit later in the year,nice video Bret cheers dude
Bloody great Brett!! Thank you mate.
I've been in Asia for 9 years now. I have seen a few of your videos now. It's amazing how on point you are!
I agree with 95% of the things you discuss. Well done mate!
Subscribed. Really balanced thoughts mate. I've also lived here for 7 years and I have had my ups and downs. It's all about having the right mindset.
In my opinion what changes after that honey moon period is that you start to notice things more like their lack of logic, racism, inability to accept anything is their fault, dangerous driving etc... These are the things you have to deal with when living here long term, particularly if you are working or living with them.
The bird is an Asian Koel. Yes, they are noisy!
Got them in the gardens opposite my Bangkok condo. Sounds like middle of the jungle at 04:00am. Still prefer to have them than not. Will be a sad day if they leave though.
Brett: I have been watching/following you for a few months. I appreciate your honesty. No place is perfect. Still trying to figure out how to make it work by next years end and being 65 y/o. Thanks for your insights.
👋 hello
Thanks for the heads up Brett.....I think it all depends on the person you are....
And more importantly the mindset you have......bless every day you wake up would be a great place to start.... love from London
I have lived in Argentina, Mexico, Guatemala Puerto Rico and Brazil. Love that they do the laundry, I can eat out for every meal, bike anywhere! The slow pace and the natural gifts of each area. On and on….looking forward, should land late August for a long stay!
Great perspective....Thanks!
For my first visit my friend who had lived in Pattaya for two years told me I would either love it or hate it.
My next trip next month is number 37 I believe!
Any place is what you make it.
Your points resonate totally.
Can't wait to get there permanently...
37? i thought my 8 was a lot...555
@@ratchfordgeorge Newbie squad! lol. jk. Yeah its sad but true...when you get the bug, you get it - hard! (As it were)
One great way to rekindle your love for Thailand? Take a trip back home!!!! You'll be looking forward to that return flight back to Thailand.
I've been living in Thailand for the past 6 months. You're right, the novelty does wear out. But this is still a good place to live. Do I get bored? Yes!!! But like Brett said, you have to get out of your apartment, house, condo, whatever. I go to the gym, go for walks, ride my motorbike, sometimes I just chill in my condo. No matter how bored I get, I do not plan on ever returning to the U.S. Not even for a visit.
I don't blame you one bit! The US is boring and desolate as hell. At least from what I see Thailand has character and there appears to be life around you. The friendliness of the people make it better unlike the angry negative vibe Americans..and yes I am American living in the States.
You are so right. I am born and raised in Chicago. I am looking to move to Thailand. It’s all about your attitude. You can’t take things for granted. You have to remember why you left your home country in the first place.
Brett, your interview with Jason Fieber was amazing. Can you please, please do the same style video with 30 Day and a Wake Up? He’s in Chiang Mai and would love to see that man!
Back to watch your channel again. Love it.
Great informative video!!
Best video ive seen on this topic. Invaluable information especially about staying away from the forums etc. Well done. As someone wjo has lived here 20 years find your Thailand not somebody elses and truthfullly for the most part give other expats a wide berth.
Great insight thanks!.... ironically one of the things I miss about Thailand is that bird!
Very good info. I plan to move to Chang Mai myself. Thank you very much.
Great vid, BTW I love that bird.
very sensible points - great vid!
Thanks!
I’m in the US and my plan is to try retirement over there .
I’ve visited Thailand 3 times years ago and had the buzz and I’m not really looking for that anymore.
It’s strictly for a retirement and financial aspect .
I’m also looking at Vietnam and Cambodia
Malaysia is another option. The cost of living in Australasia is getting so crazy now, many will have little option but to look for cheaper places.
I love your video! I've been travelling to Thailand since 1998, and now preparing to move permanently!
Home is where the heart is. I used to live in New York City and knew how it’s like to live in a big city. It’s always exciting to visit new places. Keep exploring like Christopher Columbus. ❤
That advice about NOT joining those online forums and groups for Thailand is so true! There's so much negativity, it's really bizarre. Even some of the places where you'd expect really happy friendly comments you get the complete opposite.
Thanks mate. I love the U.S. but I love being abroad and my wife and I just feel the need to experience something like you and other western expats do.. this video was really valuable mate! cheers 🍻
Excellent advice and way to look at the world. And I love the birdsong, but it takes some getting used to,
Good word. Thanks! 😊
this was helpful!
Refarding complaining: please don't complain about the bird's sounds!
I love this bird's sound, I am hopefully moving to Thailand soon and sounds of those exotic birds is one of the things I really miss after staying in Thailand for about a year. 😆
Can't wait to hear it again!
That was fantastic Brett
Thank you. I enjoyed this a lot ;)
I love the sound of those birds! One of the things I love when I visit Thailand!
Excellent assessment 👍🏼
Thanks so much for the honest comments I’m going to be coming to Thailand for two months in December. I’m coming to check things out to see if this a place I would like to retire in the next three years.
Nice video. I've been in Thailand for almost 4 years now and I much prefer it to being in the UK. I certainly didn't come here looking to gain any excitement, happiness or validation from the outside world as such spiritually bereft quests are ultimately doomed to fail. I just wanted a quiet place to be where I would be more or less left alone to study and reflect upon the things which interest me and, particularly since I was able to transition to online work, that is what I now have. It suits me perfectly well but as you say, it probably depends a lot on the personality of the individual concerned. If you can't find any wisdom, contentment or peace within, then changing the external circumstances is likely to act only as a temporary reprieve from deeper issues which have precious little to do with the surroundings. Wherever you go, there you are and so there really is no escaping yourself (some wise people here making similar points already).
Very insightful. Very wise.
Thank you. Totally agree with you
Hi Brett, good to see your video today. Glad that all still well with you up there in CM after 7 years. Fair play. Anyone who can work same here as in the west but without all the western PC BS should seriously consider a move here. A lot to be said for living in Thailand IMO. No more freezing cold winters in the UK for sure.
Good to see your here and doing well mate.
That rain sound in that other video with the two mics,also Nice
Great opinion and a balanced view Brett. Agree with Condo vs House can affect your state of mind.
Thanks for this. I am at a pivot point in my life and now this is a real possibility.
That bird is such a beautiful sound!!👍I'd love to wake up to that
great content bret, what i expected. you take yourself with you where ever you go. a great reminder, many thanks
This applies to anything too much of a good thing can turn it sour. It's all about attitude. If your running away from something remember wherever you are you take yourself. What I hear and see is people lacking gratitude. Being in a position to become an ex-pat is a privilege that one should always be grateful for. If I am feeling down or off colour I write a gratitude list and by the time I have finished it I am in a better frame of mind. Helping others is always good. When we help others we help ourselves.
Take care GOD Bless you and yours. M
I live in Phuket and love it. Yes after the party scene wears off you still have so many options during the day on an amazing island. Also I've lived many other places and people just complain and are living a simple basic life. So you have to find a place that has what you love and for me that's the food, beaches and beautiful scenery and animals as well as good people
Novelty can ware off anywhere, it’s what you make it! Great vid Brett
Thansk for sharing your perspective brother. I remember when you just moved there :)
Think your spot on, with what your saying. I've spent a lot of time in Thailand but only as a tourist over 15 years I can't stop going back, so thanks for the insite for when I make the transition to live there 👍
The TH-cam algorithms brought me here, great video Brett! Subscribed…..
The best channel on youtube by far!!! When are you coming to Bangkok for a pint or 2 dozen????
Soon! 😄
Absolutely Amen to you mate! Life is too short. Don't worry, be happy!!!
GOOD VIDEO I lived in Japan for nearly 4 years in the 80s (typical Tokyo suburban life very urban) and now for the past nearly 7 years in the Philippines in retirement--7 years nearly! All I can say is that at this point in my life is that I wouldn't be back in the States at all--maybe a visit or if I become a grandpa...but really...being in SE Asia (once the pandemic ends) is perfect so close to many countries to visit...
Golden age of Japan's economy in the 80's! People were happy and social cohesion existed back then.
One of the things I like about for videos is hearing nature in the background
9:15 "Some of them bring all their shit over here as well" had me rolling, great vid Brett. Maybe some day all of us "Unclean" will be able to come out that way again. Until then, I have your videos.
Totally agree, can never understand people who move to a new country and don't try to absorb the place they've moved to, don't learn the language don't learn the customs, then only hang out with other expats. I hope to be there soon, can't wait for the motorbike rides!!
Dude I'm an old moaner and I'm only 35 ☹️ good words here from u and working on myself to get rid of that lack of complacency...back to appreciation
One thing I have notice, living in Australia all my life is that recent immigrants love the place way more than I do. I think you will find most of the people who moved to Thailand would bitch about things no matter where they live its just part of our DNA.
That's because they know how good it is. A Fijiian mate recently said "every day is a holiday in Australia" as he knows what it's like to earn a pittance and live in very basic conditions. Lived in Asia for 15 years and to be honest, I don't miss a lot of it. Better to keep it as a holiday.
living here for 1.5 years now and fully agree with the points you made!
Hi 👋
Am in thailand am looking for a place to chill before I look for a job
I think to live in somewhere for long time one of the key is finding your lifestyle activities that are truly yours that match the location you live and you can do it everyday with inspiration
Love the bird! 🥰
Spot on, mate. 100% agree. I've traveled many times to Thailand and am always meeting people. There's so many people who just want to complain about everything. I avoid them. Life is too short for that bs.