You’re at like the first step of a weight loss journey which is great.. many people don’t desire to change or see a problem with being obese. Regardless if you’ve been at this first step of realizing you need to change 1000 times, once you start and have momentum going it’s going to be so much easier. And what has helped me lose 55lbs (217Lbs to 162Lbs) is realizing that if I don’t start now, it’ll just take me longer to lose the weight and I’m 23 years old. It would suck for me to lose the weight older knowing that I would have never known what I looked like young and a healthy weight. Theres this quote from Socrates that says "It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable". Like I would regret not starting now. If you really really want this, being obese needs to be worse than being sweaty outside and all these things. I realized that I can’t make excuses, I needed to start now because it’s only going to be harder in the long run and being obese is so much harder than working out 3-4 times a week and eating in a calorie deficit and tracking food. You can do this, but only if you want to more than anything else. You need to want this for yourself, life sucks not being able to go out with friends and wearing oversized clothing all the time and hating yourself.
Not to be dramatic, but I think we might be the same person Ok maybe that's an exaggeration, but you're saying all the things i'm feeling right noe. As I get older I feel the weight on my body more and more. It would be great to look different, but really I just don't want to be in pain anymore. Definitely gonna subscribe and hopefully when I see you again we'll both be in better spirits
@@Amberlynnsdaintybush thank you, yes the physical side has finally caught up to the vanity side for me 🤣 my knees and joints in general don’t enjoy life right now. Unfortunately im sick right now so my spirits aren’t the highest 😅 but I’m wishing you all the best!
I’m proud of you for trying and documenting! That’s very brave
@@feraltradwife thank you! Its keeping up the motivation for me 🤩
You’re at like the first step of a weight loss journey which is great.. many people don’t desire to change or see a problem with being obese. Regardless if you’ve been at this first step of realizing you need to change 1000 times, once you start and have momentum going it’s going to be so much easier.
And what has helped me lose 55lbs (217Lbs to 162Lbs) is realizing that if I don’t start now, it’ll just take me longer to lose the weight and I’m 23 years old. It would suck for me to lose the weight older knowing that I would have never known what I looked like young and a healthy weight.
Theres this quote from Socrates that says "It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable". Like I would regret not starting now. If you really really want this, being obese needs to be worse than being sweaty outside and all these things. I realized that I can’t make excuses, I needed to start now because it’s only going to be harder in the long run and being obese is so much harder than working out 3-4 times a week and eating in a calorie deficit and tracking food. You can do this, but only if you want to more than anything else. You need to want this for yourself, life sucks not being able to go out with friends and wearing oversized clothing all the time and hating yourself.
My weight loss is going bad too it's so hard 😢it affects my mental health im overweight but we are beautiful as we are ❤lots of love to you darling ❤x
I hear you, It’s just hard for me to think that way 🤪 I am trying not to beat my self up to much, some days are better than others.
I'm with y'all too. Lifelong struggle.
Not to be dramatic, but I think we might be the same person
Ok maybe that's an exaggeration, but you're saying all the things i'm feeling right noe. As I get older I feel the weight on my body more and more. It would be great to look different, but really I just don't want to be in pain anymore. Definitely gonna subscribe and hopefully when I see you again we'll both be in better spirits
@@Amberlynnsdaintybush thank you, yes the physical side has finally caught up to the vanity side for me 🤣 my knees and joints in general don’t enjoy life right now.
Unfortunately im sick right now so my spirits aren’t the highest 😅 but I’m wishing you all the best!
Ps..I get the sweat thing its gross isn't it 😂us women really do go through it ..wait till you hit menopause like me it's no fun ..sorry 😂xx
I don’t look forward to it 😫 best of luck to you ❤️