I will never understand people like Harley. If you don't want to be in a permanent relationship, don't start one with anyone. Cheating is never a mistake. Cheating is a fully conscious choice and a consciously made decision.
Not your kid, not your problem. Cheating is a choice, let her go find her baby daddy instead of trying to force the child on you Op, wishing you all the best.
The ability to compress a full year of cheating, dozens of sexual encounters, trying to pass another man's baby, and a breakup into = A mistake. It is an amazing ability.
She feared the commitment and seriousness of a marriage, thus why she cheated in the name of "freedom", but still decided to have a baby and try having a serious relationship with her Ap... Make it make sense 🤦🏾♂️
OP brother is idiot. Tell brother " you be the father ". Those people who say take her back, second chance, the baby is innocent , are the ones who AREN'T stepping up to be there. Which guy wants to take on a lying cheating woman? She lied for a Year. She's struggling, well her parents should be there for her. Tell your brother and friends to step up for that cheating woman.
OP also needs to start looking deep within himself to find out why he keeps finding these loser women. I only know one woman who has cheated on her partner. Most of us are loyal and wouldn't think of being like OP's ex. I had a friend who always picked the "exciting guy" and then wondered why all her relationships ended in disaster or cheating on his part. It's pretty simple, really. She's picking the wrong men, but it's up to her,and only her, to change that.
Es una situación muy dolorosa y compleja. Nadie merece pasar por algo así, especialmente después de dedicar tanto tiempo y esfuerzo a prepararse para un futuro juntos. Es importante priorizar tu bienestar emocional y tomar decisiones que te permitan sanar y avanzar. Mucha fuerza.
*Slides into view wearing a 1920s era barber quintet outfit, red and white striped jacket, white pants, etc.* (Singsong) "Who would've thought the motorcycle gangster wouldn't give a $hit about the cheating, lying, psycho, entitled, @$$hat?"
Wait, she had the baby that fast, looked at the kid, had time to call his real daddy, the real daddy shows up, and the supposedly daddy just gets there after all of that? Where the hell was his job 🤣? He worked that far away from the hospital 🤣
I'm pretty sure she already knew who the father was right from the start. At the beginning the guy must've not wanted anything to do with the baby until much later. I'm also sure she called him when she was about to go to labour and that he was the one that took her to the hospital. The OP did say they had a doctor so I'm sure his contact was saved for emergency. One Thing im getting from this is she did not love OP, just what he did for her.
There seems to be a huge narrative disconnect in this creative project before 6:28, there was no mention of Harley wanting him back before the udpate but then in the update he´s like 'dw i wont take her back'. Then the comment about her wearing the same shirt as yesterday? Yeah this needed another revision.
OP how many other men kids are you willing to support one, two, three, five, six. How many other men will you set up yourself for ro walk down the aisle at a wedding you paid for. How many other men's children will you pay for. How many nights are willing to babysit while she's out with the next baby daddy's. Yeah I know these were questions, those art DOTS
I will never understand people like Harley. If you don't want to be in a permanent relationship, don't start one with anyone. Cheating is never a mistake. Cheating is a fully conscious choice and a consciously made decision.
Not your kid, not your problem. Cheating is a choice, let her go find her baby daddy instead of trying to force the child on you Op, wishing you all the best.
This guy needs new friends and a new brother. Also, to move away.
No FR, if the brother feels so strongly about it he can step in lol
True
The ability to compress a full year of cheating, dozens of sexual encounters, trying to pass another man's baby, and a breakup into = A mistake. It is an amazing ability.
To people say the baby needs father, I would ask 'so when are you stepping up?'
No man wants to be a cuckoo.
and i would be behind you in your support and telling them when are they setting up nursery for the baby?
Great!! I’m informing the mother that you’re ready to be a parent
She feared the commitment and seriousness of a marriage, thus why she cheated in the name of "freedom", but still decided to have a baby and try having a serious relationship with her Ap... Make it make sense 🤦🏾♂️
He should tell his brother to be the father then if he wants to push that crap.
Don't do it. Her AP will come back later when the kid's old enough just to take the credit as the "best father".
Op needs to watch his brother, the brother is going to give him away
Is a child not more commitment than marriage??
Is the brother high or something? Op shouldn't step up for an affair child.
"I noticed the baby's darker features." LOL
I would have told her "but just think how exciting being a single mom is going to be." XD
Who would ever consider staying after their partner had a baby with someone else????? What "friends" are providing this advice?
OP brother is idiot. Tell brother " you be the father ". Those people who say take her back, second chance, the baby is innocent , are the ones who AREN'T stepping up to be there. Which guy wants to take on a lying cheating woman? She lied for a Year. She's struggling, well her parents should be there for her. Tell your brother and friends to step up for that cheating woman.
The tears of a person who has fricked and around and subsequently found out. Some single moms don't ask to be like that, others are Harleys.
OP also needs to start looking deep within himself to find out why he keeps finding these loser women. I only know one woman who has cheated on her partner. Most of us are loyal and wouldn't think of being like OP's ex. I had a friend who always picked the "exciting guy" and then wondered why all her relationships ended in disaster or cheating on his part. It's pretty simple, really. She's picking the wrong men, but it's up to her,and only her, to change that.
“I was afraid of commitment so I lied to you about a baby being yours, the biggest commitment anyone could ever have.” Yeah. Sure. Uh huh.
Huge Red flag do not enter into a relationship with someone with substance abuse issues,Run!
It sounds like your ex is getting the karma she deserves, lol.
Es una situación muy dolorosa y compleja. Nadie merece pasar por algo así, especialmente después de dedicar tanto tiempo y esfuerzo a prepararse para un futuro juntos. Es importante priorizar tu bienestar emocional y tomar decisiones que te permitan sanar y avanzar. Mucha fuerza.
Ex: Look. I know I made a huge mistake-
Not *my* mistake, not my problem.
Cheating is not a mistake or an accident, she didn't trip and fall on a dk!
WTF. Not your kid not your problem. OP needs to go to therapy because there’s a toxic pattern of selecting partners.
*Slides into view wearing a 1920s era barber quintet outfit, red and white striped jacket, white pants, etc.* (Singsong) "Who would've thought the motorcycle gangster wouldn't give a $hit about the cheating, lying, psycho, entitled, @$$hat?"
Absolutely not!!!
Wow just wow man
ai its always new job at new city 3 hours away. its always the same.
Had to get screwed over three times to stop being a wimp.
The ironic thing is, is that the so-called freedom Harley though AP represented, actually did represent freedom... AP's freedom, not her's.
Op's brother is a big L
Those people sounds insane what’s wrong with them she chose to cheat she chose to have another man baby now let her deal with it
Wait, she had the baby that fast, looked at the kid, had time to call his real daddy, the real daddy shows up, and the supposedly daddy just gets there after all of that? Where the hell was his job 🤣? He worked that far away from the hospital 🤣
I'm pretty sure she already knew who the father was right from the start. At the beginning the guy must've not wanted anything to do with the baby until much later. I'm also sure she called him when she was about to go to labour and that he was the one that took her to the hospital. The OP did say they had a doctor so I'm sure his contact was saved for emergency. One Thing im getting from this is she did not love OP, just what he did for her.
There seems to be a huge narrative disconnect in this creative project before 6:28, there was no mention of Harley wanting him back before the udpate but then in the update he´s like 'dw i wont take her back'. Then the comment about her wearing the same shirt as yesterday? Yeah this needed another revision.
By that he could mean that the shirt had stains on it with wrinkles.
This guy needs a new life away from his brother and "friends" not just harly
What’s with the brother 😅 ?
Move on from all the 403,but i think you're too nice person that all your gf cheated with the bad boys..
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
OP how many other men kids are you willing to support one, two, three, five, six. How many other men will you set up yourself for ro walk down the aisle at a wedding you paid for. How many other men's children will you pay for. How many nights are willing to babysit while she's out with the next baby daddy's. Yeah I know these were questions, those art DOTS
This sounds ai generated, there are too many inconsistencies.
You prepared for a YEAR for the Birth????? I think you need to take a refresher in Biology, before you write any more crap like this!
I would have told her "but just think how exciting being a single mom is going to be." XD