My husband gave me 1 month ultimatum to get pregnant but mistreated me badly after giving him twins
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ต.ค. 2022
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When Beatrice got married, she looked forward to having a child. That did not happen immediately. This created a rift between her and her husband. He gave her one month ultimatum to either get pregnant or leave his house. Eventually she did get pregnant and gave birth to twins. This was going to be the end or her troubles she thought! But no! Turns out her situation only got worse. Her husband began to mistreat her and her new born twins, something Beatrice could not comprehend. "I thought he wanted kids," She reiterates, "But now he's worse!"
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When Beatrice got married, she looked forward to having a child. That did not happen immediately. This created a rift between her and her husband. He gave her one month ultimatum to either get pregnant or leave his house. Eventually she did get pregnant and gave birth to twins. This was going to be the end or her troubles she thought! But no! Turns out her situation only got worse. Her husband began to mistreat her and her new born twins, something Beatrice could not comprehend. "I thought he wanted kids," She reiterates, "But now he's worse!"
I caught up with Beatrice and here is her full story...
To reach out to Beatrice, call +254700593505
Jemimah (Reproductive Health Specialist) +254724140117
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hi
Children are not certificate of marriage
Woiyee thina wonagwa nii atumia.....lady's face hard times akii
No human being deserves to be treated like an animal. May God continue to bless you and provide for you in your work.
Please let us not stay in an abusive marriage (mentally or physically) for any reason, not even our children because it can lead to death, so after that what more is left.
It was my pleasure to be a part of Beatrice's story to be able to hold her bundles of Joy.
And yes for the sake of those babies she deserves better.
She deserves better babies or no babies
No woman should go through these experience. Lakini tujipende, when you see that 1st red flag, murife ruun. Above all may God disconnect us all from such men
"MURIFE" Part uuhh😹😹😁😁🏃🏾♀️..
i couldnt say it better👍
I know how it feels darling I have been through the same situation Ur kids will grow and everything will be fine hugs mummy
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No woman should have to be forced or mistreated like that in my opinion the husband needs to time out
wow! Heart breaking to watch another woman go through this. No mother would want to feed her babies water. Praying for you and the babies.
I just wish she will have courage to walk away from that man ..the man is a narcissist they have zero emotions ..I wish her all the best ..Lynn ngugi wish you can come in for this mum.
..and when mother's (or father's) chose to be single parents instead of the abuse, the society judges. I can not live with a primitive person who cannot even show empathy. Never. And let's not sugar coast things. That was a bad man you were married to. Bad.
This story has just broken my heart, especially that I used to visit the salon which she was working and loved her services. Sorry mama, for what you are going through. No to toxic marriages, may God create a way for you.
You are a beautiful soul,may God Almighty continue to protect you n ur twins,Amen.
Waaa this has been a tough journey but God shall vindicate you.. These children will grow because of God
Ati unamshukuru kwa sababu anakuchapa lakini hajakuua🤦🤦♀️🙆♂️🙆♀️.Haya basi sina maoni!
That's not right. ... abusive marriage is a no go zone. .. that's a mad man ..
Ur strong mama twins....n u have a clean heart...utamake TU na watoi watakua...
God have Mercy on barren and impotent persons 🙏🙏🙏🙏. However if you're in an abusive relationship or marriage goooooooo. Marriage is not a must when will we as Africans understand this?????????😳
I can feel the pain, sorry mamaaa, those kids are your blessings from God, never regret even a single day.
Hope this lady is doing fine now and her kids are fine. God is with you He gave you Kids He will give you Finances to take care of your kids.
Wow!!this Video hs taken me 5 days to watch Till the end cz wuuuueh it's way beyond hurting....i don't knw the Lady though i LOBE her motherly Pure spirit..
Ukijifinyilia kwa mwanaume,what do you expect? Mwanaume sio wa kujifinyilia, kama hakupendi, he will never change completely
I wish one day God ll bless me with a woman with a humble and wise woman, "l'll glory you Jehova and take care of the blessings".
God has changed yr story..He will surely do more.
si kwa ubaya lakini ati una mshukuru juu ajakuua ni kukupiga vibaya tu ndio anakupiga so unamshukuru, mama jipende coz leo anakupiga kesho nikukuua.
Mtoto si nguo utaomba mtu, ukikosa wako wee utalia sana mama.
I've learned that how a man treats you is a reflection of how he will treat his kids. If he can't treat you well, how are you sure that he will treat your kids well?
Wanawake tujipende na tupende uzao wetu.
Am praying for you mom🙏
Imagine thanking an abuser because he hasn't killed you. Yet.
What good is this man in your life if he's refusing to do the bare minimum for his own children? 🙄🙄🙄
Wooii Lyn ngugi come rescue our girl
KINDLY TURN ON CC FOR ENGLISH SUBTITLES 🙏
I think women we allow so much all in the name of marriage, keeping a husband, keeping a home. Eish!!!!!!
I love, I love her laugh
Imagine having to hide from your hubby while seeking help
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Don't take responsibility for his behaviour. Going out and cheating was his choice. Beating you is a no go zone. Leave that beast alone. If even after you got twins he continued to mistreat you, why should you stay? Ruuun
If he is not providing for her family and is withholding rent, what is his use? We shouldn’t normalize GBV.
Dear woman. You being treated right na kuzalia mtu hazina correlation. You should be treated right whether umezaa or not. Ama mtu akuwache urudi kwako or kwenu
Hebu waambie, a man who loves will love you before children… not after!
Wisdom
Waaah watu ni waogo story yake Iko fertility with Cecilia karanja fully story Iko apo
At 37:50 anasema ako great full mzee umpiga ajai muua ati kuna wale wameuliwa mum wale wameuliwa ilianza ivo u still need counselling aufai kuchapwa na mtu yeyote u deserve all the best be blessed abundantly.
Doesn’t he deny them food? What is worse than that?
It's exactly 3yrs 3months of fighting infertility...am 25 and it's not easy.....the society is up for my neck and am telling you it's not easy Hope it will happen soon juu aki...am really struggling mentally....kaa Kuna mtu anaeza nicinnect na governor wa Mombasa juu financially am down kabisaaaaa
Sorry mama for the suffering you went through.
This just breaks my heart. I watched fully reading all the subtitles. Is she still with her husband?
He walked out on them but yeah, technically and legally still together
Si arudi kwao watu wao watamsaidia
Miracle babies, God will feed them and u.
So its him who walked out. She's still there waiting for him to walk in again
God have mercy on us women's
Dear Lynn ngugi l tag you in this story....host her in your channel.
Mama twins usijali Kuna Mungu juu binguni... Hao watoto ni baraka kutoka Kwa Mungu... Mwoses na izack mutakua na mutakua watu wa maana sana kama wenye hizo manjina
My dear mungu akupe ufumilifu ❤️❤️🌹
Don’t preach uvumilivu. She has no biz being there. No food, no rent, insecurities na kuchapwa. Kesho it will be worse.
What on earth is wrong with Kenyan men? There are so many stories like this it's just unbelievable.
So many stories like this coming out of Kenya. Are Kenya men this wicked, ha. Nobody should be treated this way. If you don't want someone let her go.
Pole sana,i woud wish to know the supplements sheused?
As much as she's suffering how come leaving the husband is not an option for her? I'd never help such a woman who has not made up her mind to leave her abuser. Such women relish in misery.
Badala arudi kwao
I said this exact thing!! Once she said they're still together and that she's grateful she's alive, that 'all' he does is beat her, I checked out. I cannot and will not send her a shilling until she loves herself and her kids enough to leave her abuser. Otherwise what's the point?
Abusers are manipulative before one makes up their mind it takes alot of mental effort, first they destroy your self esteem to zero and self love and make you believe you can't live without them
my opinion too
@@michelleakinyi987 facts!
Parents who force their daughters or sons into marriage saying persevere, also those who stigmatise their barren or impotent daughters or sons are their minds ok?????? Who said marriage must work it's a probability. I hate the culture surrounding marriage ❌❌
How comes she is changing her story now, previously she said that she conceive through IVF. so which one is the truth. Supplements or IVF.
Can she get out of this marriage before she's killed!
Such a sad story aki.
Hugs 🫂 dear.
Kuddos to that nurse who gave this lady some money for food... I don't why women are at a disadvantage in such an enlightened society! Why the maltreatment because of physiological issues beyond your control!😥😥
Now , my dear, u have more reason to live. Your children needs u alive. Kiss some people goodbye.
What was the point of coming here to "share" her story? I cannot help women like these even with a shilling, when they don't recognize that they need to leave their abusers! Ati, "At least hajaniuua, nikunipiga tu." Seriously? Madam, jipende na upende watoto wako, otherwise utawaacha bila mama. Why are you still with him. Nonesense.
Don't talk like that dear...maybe amefungwa akili dear ur a lady u don't know ur tomorrow be ur sister's keeper
so she wants help to share with that man! Other people's money to feed her,. her children and her "lover'
Now that God as bless you with two,let them be your priority,find a way how to take care of them and forget about the man,he do not mean you any good he know you have to feed the babies,but he allow. You to go hungry.
That man has never loved or cared about you and that's why he's always mistreated you. Love yourself and stop clinging to a man who does not give a damn about you or his kids. Some people are just evil. God will give you the strength and means to take care of yourself and the kids.
Hugs 🫂 mamaa
Hii story ni uogo mtupu huyu mama alipata hao watoto kupitia lvf story yake ililetwa adi Kwa news ,
Men with altimatum are never guaranteed coz its a way of looking for an excuse to frustrate you all the while for their own silly purposes
Please refer me to that person who helped u I need help too I want the name of the drug please
Abari yenu wa Kenya? Justus, how are u? Watching from Zambia.
Mzuri zetu mamaaa
@@sheryldaisy5555 tuna shukuru muungu saana!!!
@Janet I'm well. How's Zambia?
@@SharedMomentswithJustus Zambia is cool & fantastic, we thank God.
@@SharedMomentswithJustus Plz u and Lynn have a good working environment plz connect her with Lynn plz cause her platforms will deal with this problem once and for all.
So unashukuru bwana sababu anakupiga tu hajakuuwa.... Wacha ujinga mama nautoke uko kabla uwache hao watoi yatima. Let pipo help you ukiwa na peace alone.... The guy spents time with baby mama so ukisaidiwa Coz he's a manipulator atakam tu ampeleke whatever umepata uko tu umbaki ukitembea kwa mitandao kuombaomba ukiwalisha na baby mama wake.
Ladies learn to live your life, not living for your husband
Uki zalia kivulana...uvulana wake wote ana kumwagia.😤👽
Arafu upate usaidizi huyo mwanaume arudi umpokee usaidizi ikiisha aanze kukuteza
Huyo bwana yako alikuwa na zake tu from day one
This number you gave haingi is there any other way we can reach you i need those supplements. Anyway congrats and may God see you through.
The voice is sooo low
Mtu anataka umsaidie atakupataje?
Kuna namba za simu hapo juu 👆
Lakini wewe si ni mjinga mama... Unakaa hapo ukiteswa juu hujauliwa?? Sawa ngoja uuliwe
Hakuwa mjinga plz mi najua hiii shida nimepitia
You don’t have to be rude to her she is not stupid careful with your words hun @Betty
Thought ni Cecilia who helped her , saw her interview with Cecilia and she went through ivf
I think to boost egg quality,...
Me too i saw her story
Wherr did yoy watch? Which youtube channel?
He is mistreating you and you are still there
You really weny ahead to get a baby with a man who had already shown you his dark side. Mummy what you need is called deliverance
Men!!!!!!!!!
Haki kàzi yenu ni ngumu🤔... I'm not judging but I'm surprised when you say eti "nashukuru Mungu hajaniua." Na bado uko na yeye, or are you two playing games to get money here coz I don't understand you
I need the supplements yenye huyu madam alitumia hata mimi nisaidike
Get in touch with Jemimah +254724140117
Did you get the supplement I need it too please.
@lisagaitho
Stop convincing yourself,toka kwa hio nyumba ujitafutie Manisha