Married at 16 and abandoned after pregnancy - FT Khushboo Goel
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ก.ค. 2024
- 00:00-02:08 Introduction
02:08-06:52 How it all started
06:52-09:55 Expectations and restrictions attached to women
09:55-14:28 Struggles through pregnancy, thefts, and fights, forced
Caesareans
14:28-16:50 Have changes truly happened in rural areas?
16:50-19:21 Parenting and educating men
19:21-20:46 Technology and using it efficiently
20:46-22:38 Religion and strength
22:38-32:33 Reminiscing hard times, embracing motherhood and the role of a
father
32:33-36:07 Witnessing domestic violence in Juhu, Mumbai
36:07-40:10 Separation from a toxic marriage and getting hit and severely
injured
40:10-45:58 Legalities, null and void marriage, and problems with the justice
system
45:58-48:20 Domestic violence and childhood trauma
48:20-50:12 Why is it so important to teach men how to treat women
50:12-56:02 Raising a child as a single mother and gender roles
56:02-59:10 Role of parents, teachers, and NGOs
59:10-1:02:58 Reinstituting Vedic Culture, Gurukuls, Yoga and Ayurveda
1:02:58-1:05:55 Problems in changing son’s name and getting tortured by
people in power
1:05:55-1:09:34 Changing phases of life and a burning desire to learn
1:09:34-1:19:12 From stage fear to anchoring 250 events, working with
‘Kartavya’ and learning self-love.
1:19:12-1:28:55 Final encouraging words
1:28:55-1:30:02 Signing off
In this emotional and empowering episode of the "Kissey" podcast, we are joined by the remarkable Khushboo Goel, a woman who faced extraordinary challenges and rose above them with sheer determination. Married at 16, Khushboo's life took an unexpected turn when she became pregnant. However, instead of receiving support, she was abandoned by those she trusted the most.
In a candid and heart-rending conversation, Khushboo shares her heart-wrenching journey of resilience and survival. She talks about the initial struggles of being a young mother, her loneliness, and the societal stigma she had to endure. Despite the hardships, Khushboo's indomitable spirit never wavered, and she found strength in herself to rebuild her life.
Join us as Khushboo candidly discusses how she overcame the odds, embraced her role as a single mother, and went on to become an inspiration for many. Her story is a testament to the power of self-belief, perseverance, and a mother's unwavering love.
Through her experiences, Khushboo delivers a powerful message of hope and resilience to all those facing difficult circumstances. Her story touches upon themes of womanhood, empowerment, and the significance of self-worth.
In this emotionally charged episode, host Dishank Timble skillfully navigates the conversation, providing a safe space for Khushboo to share her truth. Listeners will be moved by Khushboo's journey and find inspiration in her determination to turn her life around.
Tune in to this extraordinary episode of "Kissey" to witness the triumph of the human spirit as Khushboo Goel shares her incredible story of courage, love, and transformation.
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Why was she converted? Was it a love marriage? Kuch clarity k sath podcast karo 😊
Today marriage so risky for both gender 😢
love the topic, just wanted to say that if the interviewee is struggling to talk in English, then let them tell their story fluently in hindi.
also, please try and go in a chronological order and give a little backstory instead of jumping straight into "i got pregnant and they tortured me." a little detail about what the grooms family situation is would have been appreciated. she very casually stated that she was converted, maybe a little more explanation there? just a suggestion though, love your work
@KissseyF bhai 😢 invite For man India channel owner is also a woman who was fighting for man right in India 🥺😔
Plz hindi thoda ziyada hoo samjh sake hum vey good work bro....
How was this Hindu girl married off to a Muslim guy after 15 years by her parents? Or did she elope?
She is right teach boys to respect women and how to take responsibility of OWN CHILD to both genders in School rather than teaching sin cos
The amount she mentioned that was given to her during the wedding is called 'mehr.' This is a mandatory gift from the husband to the wife, serving as a form of security. The amount of mehr depends on the husband's financial capacity and has no set limit. Unlike dowry, mehr in Islam is a gift from the husband to the wife and can include gold, money, or other valuable items. If a wife requests a khula (divorce initiated by the wife), she must return the mehr. However, she is not required to return any other gifts the husband gave her during their marriage.
Firtsy I salute you for narrating your life story. There are enormous amount of loophole in our justice system. People living in the villages must be taught about early pregnancy consequences on the mother and post partum depression. People blindly want to have kids without having adequate amount of resources. One question why khusboo ma'am parents get them married to a muslim community, why they didn't choose in your own community itself.
But why is she talking about constitution? Why the constitution has to come between her relationship because of her husband??
The concepts of both talaq and khula are often misunderstood. Simply saying "talaq" three times does not constitute a valid divorce. In Islam, divorce is a more complex and systematic process. This approach recognizes that spouses may say things in the heat of an argument that they don't truly mean. Thus, divorce doesn't happen instantly but requires a thoughtful and deliberate procedure.
I am a doctor and if you are 45kg then you would be advised a Caesarian section for medical reasons
Looking forward for more such topics.
I hope this video also reaches same amount of views as Vinita’s one.
Such a sensitive topic needs more exposure.
Love this side of you guys more than the haunted stories one 🙂🫂🫶🏻
First do mistakes knowingly and then blaming society for all 😅
पुरुष नावाचा प्राणी फार खतरनाक असतो, त्याचवर कधीच विश्वास ठेवू नये 😵💫😳🤯
I respect the guest for talking about her story without letting it take a communal or religious angle even though sadly the host tried to do it👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
As a muslim I am so sorry that you had to go through the situations in your life because of so called muslims.People like them who don’t have any knowledge of our religion commit all the atrocities in the name of the religion.I am also sad why did your parents get you forcibly married to a non hindu in such young age? This was the first attack on your life and happiness I feel before even the marriage.Everyone involved should be brought to justice from your parents to your husband and his family everyone should pay for all the injustice. Also you should ask for child’s maintenance as that is the part of his Justice.
Thank for r
Accepting my request 😊
Always waiting for your podcast Guyss what a podcast 🔥 day by day you guys improving kissey stories 💪
Goel was married off at a tender age, converted to another religion,😢 and is also a victim of domestic abuse, apart from getting pregnant before even turning 20 years old
Really india m itne jyda cases h c section k ...mostly dr paise banane k liye hi c section krdete h
Meri second baby k time m 10 drs k pass ghumi ki 2 nd normal ho jaye
Sirf ek hospital m VBAC(vaginal birth after c section)
K cases le rhe the vo bhi 3 hour dur tha mere ghr se ....but last m labour pain m vhi gyi besak distance jyda tha
Even labour. Pain m hi ek hospital gyi jo 1 ghnte k distance p tha unhone bhi jate hi bola ki first c section h to second bhi c-section hoga
At last mera VBAC sucessful rha
Har ladki ko dr se consult krke VBAC k liye try krna chahiye
God ki blessing se sucessful rha mera VBAC ...
Don't spread false information, I am a doctor, if there is any complication then we suggest c section.. Every time people be like money minded, tried of it - if you people have problem with doctor solve your issues by ourselves
Loved your podcast,it was really amazing but can you make podcasts on numerology and astrology
Greatest topic for today's generation to learn the importance of Love , respect, and to understand the society
Hmm
There is actually a law in CRPC that makes biological father accountable for maintenance of the child
I don't care about the quality but you are doing so much good then other products
Mumbai is so devloped how can this happens to you so sorry 😔 for everything happen to you i wish God give you strength
Doens't matter what language u speak girl.. ❤ur streangth is within u.... If u can't speak English it's ok.. if u make mistakes while speaking English it's totally ok.. we r nobody to judge u....❤ The situation u have been through may be most of us couldn't even imagine to live in... sab maa ke pet se sikh ke nahi aate... But ur feelings ur courage!! Hat's off girl❤ more power to u... ❤❤ God bless u..
Absolutely agree Aparna. Idk why people judge on the basis of English language..I mean it's just a language how does it matter. Im an indian living in Mexico and here people have no shame in saying they can't speak English. It's a cool thing in India to make fun of bad or broken English.
Go ahead khushboo di....u r the greatest aspiration ....
Go ahead you too kissey boys ....doing really a good job buddies...😊
please buy some good mic to improve sound quality. love your podcast ❤❤
Working on it! will change mics from next month videos itself
@@Kisssey21:13 bullshit show her Ex- Muslim ZAFAR Ex- Muslim TH-cam channel👉☪️ about kuran 🤡🐷☪️
More power to her❤she said very correctly and on point. @kissey You guys are amazing. Nice work❤️
People who are writing irritating comments goo get a lifeee🤷🏻♀️
Lots of love to you ❤️
Agar khushi di ameer hote toh yeh ny hota.... wealth is everything these days...lots of love to khushi di...💗
Proud of you ❤
Hey !! Muze sach mai sunna tha podcast lekin awaj bohot irritate kar rhi hai , Please kuch karo 😊
A real hero ❤
Why was she married in other religion? Why was she converted?
It was an arrange marriage setup? right?
Mene kabhi suna nai he ki arrange marriage me kisi aur caste me religion m shadi karva di
Am I missing something?
Same ques😶
True
Our Marathi mulga is back ❤, shivaji maharaj will proud of u bhai 🙏🏻 asach motivation det raha ❤.
Arrange marriage me kaun religion change krvata h..
Hindu girls going for muslim men and marrying them going against their own parents and later after suffering, Blaming all men this is ridiculous 🙄 😒
I just found out through this podcast that there are other countries also in India 😂
We learn that in every pod 🥲☠️
Yes bring back vedas ❤
Great podcast .......we need more women like her ....❤❤ one ques why her parents married her in another community ....why not in their own community
I totally agree with the guest today that men have to undergo some training before marriage about how to take responsibility and take a stand for girls in their lives.
But girls too have to undergo training too about how not to trust some strangers though how pleasant their behavior is over their own parents who care for them.
Bro sound quality pai thoda dhyan do
she actually point out this is how Constitution is *" it was totally wrong you didn't have idea about it nd judging..
bro pls improve audio quality
U k actually seeing this i respect my dad more he even use fight woth my nana when one day disrespect my mom and he left relationship with my bua because she used abusing words for my mom and my mom didn't knew about it
God bless her
She's so cute♥️
Sis u were converted right to mulism in mulism marriage this law doesn't accepted the minor marriage is accepted
She is reading the script 👏👏👏👏
Mujhe bhi yahi lga
Sir can you make video on my right in India it's so bad
It is the mistake of her parents. Pehle unke parents ko arrest karo !!!
English nhi aati toh please hindi mein baat kro na, why do people feel pressured to speak in english.
Atleast she tried to speak in English and speak well also
True 😊 support her instead of blaming
Aree bhai she is trying to speak fluently
What's the problem in this?
Next time pakka,school aur profession ke karan naturally nikal jata hai dear.
There is no problem but why do we feel shame in speaking in hindi it's our own language English nahi ATI par bolenge hindi ATI hai par bolne mein sharam ATI Hai. Kunki anpad nazar ayenge. Japanese German Chinese sab apni bhasha bolte hai Indians feel ashamed to talk in native language. Great
Too much of phylosphy and faltu duniya dari ki bathe instead of telling a story
Pls use time stamps
@KissseyF bhai 😢 invite For man India channel owner is also a woman who was fighting for man right in India 🥺😔
Why the sound quality is so poor?
It's old video from early times
We want For man India channel in this podcast
Good video brother 😊
Prodcast is really inspiration but that You know in every sentence irritating mee 😞
More than kissey it is more of a pravachan, why does only the people who make most mistakes give gyaan the most.
Bt muje ek baat nhi smj aayi ki intercaste marriage iska arrange marriage kese hua ??
its not her mistake here she was given away by her mom dad and she did this in pressure and fear till the time she felt strong and came out of the situation and that IN itself is a legendary kissa and speaking of language we understand right let anyone speak anything they want they are expressive and that means alot to me.
Change your thinking maam!❤
Ruhi sahi boli 😂
@@harshadaahire5201 not intercaste it’s inter religion , from what I can make is either she got pregnant by the guy at 16 so marriage karni pdi ya affair tha qki india itna modern ni ki hindu Muslim arrange mrrg karaye 😂, although it’s not her fault bcz the guy is 10 yr older n literally groomed her, but still ye bta dena tha na ki aisa show krte ki arrange mrrg h at 16.
Plz hindi Ziyada ho samjh aayega very good work Bro
Sir either in English or Hindi …
I am so confused.... why did you convert? Was it a love marriage?
No it was not
Areee shaadi muslim se kyu kari woh toh bolo .
@@pronoobtv7274 she was 16 and to escape her dad who use to abuse her she had to agree to a marriage hoping she will be saved then she realised this was the case but it was late
Why she married a Other religion when she was of a different religion.. She could have married the same religion also right
kissey k kissey >>>
After seeing such cases, I don't want to get married 😢
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This is my perception nothing personal didi told teacher should take responsibility to teach boys how to respect women or opposite gender even transgender also deserves to get respect but I see there are some boys in class they disrespect to teacher . The teachers also not feeling secured how to change this yaar . Ab ye sab itna baad raha hai ki I feel like it can't control . It is to much now and seriously my teacher was hospitalized because of it
She shouts too much while speaking. Wanted to hear her out genuinely but couldn't tolerate the tone. Too irritating
It is their profession so if they start doing charity then no one would feed them for free 😊
She is not talking from her heart..
Both the guys trying hard to control their laugh when they say women empowerment
Please improve your audio quality 😅 please I love listening to you ❤
I agree but we are not getting sponsors members or money on level so revenue is really less so wait a bit
@@Kissseyyou can raise money. Try it once on your community
Bajarag dal se ek bare help mangni chahiye they will real help her out
Ye sahi baat h
Bapre kasle danger astat BOYS 😵🤯
We have woman ngo where is man ngo it make me sad it'a joke to equality 🥺
Yes you are right bro
It's not even about feminism or equality between men and women
These are basic rights! which should be available for everyone
Problem is no man is taking initiative for this. Women take initiative to protect themselves and create spaces to protect other women. Men should also make an alliance and do this.
I think I should start giving yoga classes 😂
21:03 ❤💯
Bro Audio Theek Kar Le
Ye week me mic mage hojayga 💪
For your general knowledge constitution is not wrong however peoples are . Hence be careful while talking about constitution next time
we agree but you should know the governing laws of India are same from the age of brits they haven't changed a lot of laws you can see some laws are updated but majority laws are not
Girl is hyper pls don’t talk about how ppl should be,talk about what happened to you ur incidences. Body language is toooo much.
So uniform civil code is required
@Kissey ..this story has a lot of loopholes..do research pls🙏
Bro this platform is for expression not for finding loop holes or anything we just let people tell kissey
Please see my comments guys
Bhai konsa goel beti ki shadi Musalman se karvata hai? Why is she blaming her parents? In part 2, please bring story of her love jihad. Namaz gives her strength was the funniest line. It's like chickens advocating for KFC !
Mujhe samjh nahi aata agar maa baap ne shadi karwai toh dusre religion mein kyun karwai
if it was arrange marriage, why she did not question her parents......It started from there....In whole podcast, she did not admit that her parents made a mistake...n this Fcuk word again n again shows so called decency dude....it is not normal word.....
Back in the days it was free based but her issue was she was sold and she didn't wanted to bring many things
Aap dono Kam hasa karo kyuki wo maja nahi rehta fir kahani sunane main
Anemia
Complicated health
You being 45kg to deliver is the reason for ur csearean
Also u being minor
Its in all a complicated pregnancy
It's seems like you make only one side of women not man right videos we want more videos like this but my man in marriage
we have men line up too. but men don't tell stories as we all know
@@Kissseyit's good you make video with girls but there are man also 😢
@@KissseyFor man India channel owner is also a woman who was fighting for man right
@@Kissseythank you so much for making good for us 😊
Quran 9:5
44:17 she is right no man has the right to beat the woman even if she is your daughter, wife, sister or mother. These men think they are weak and can be controlled by beating or violating them. So they do these things. They just control them by these violations and beatings and in some cases man treat behave in such a good way outside in society that people thinks that the man can't do these things inside the house and when something violation something comes out against men the society support him even if he is wrong the society thinks women is the wrong one even if she is telling the truth. In some cases fathers violate their daughter and abuse them using foul language just to control her and beat her so much even if she has done nothing much. And daughters don't speak up because of this fear. They think daughter are their family respect she can't talk to a boy normally or can use social media and can't go outside to enjoy a normal party cafe.
मिलियन में व्यूज होते अब तक अगर हिंदी होता 😂
Uh should hear the other side side of this story aswell
mid day has covered the story and other pages too
@@Kissseylink!
Woke detected opinion rejected
Aisa lag rha hai read karke bol rhi hai niche kahi se🙂🙂
Sadly we thought but she had emotions that didn't let her hold eye contact for long time
इंग्लिश् बोल लो या हिंदी आधे लोग आधी अधूरी इंग्लिश के कारण नहीं देखते तुम्हारा पॉडकास्ट, समझाओ अपने कहानी सुनाने वालों को
Didi without lies Islam dies 😡
@KissseyF bhai 😢 invite For man India channel owner is also a woman who was fighting for man right in India 🥺😔
@KissseyF bhai 😢 invite For man India channel owner is also a woman who was fighting for man right in India 🥺😔
@KissseyF bhai 😢 invite For man India channel owner is also a woman who was fighting for man right in India 🥺😔
@KissseyF bhai 😢 invite For man India channel owner is also a woman who was fighting for man right in India 🥺😔
@KissseyF bhai 😢 invite For man India channel owner is also a woman who was fighting for man right in India 🥺😔