When you could be actually creative and funny yet you choose to beat the fuck out of anything that your brain dead audience has the slightest affinity towards and cater to the lowest common denominator of humor.
ayembic , A good session of cbt can make even the worst days a heavenly gift. Also most people here are like "de🅱️ression xd" only because it's funny nowadays
Idk i think depression is truly increasing in prevalence. Seen some references to its epidemiology over the years and its almost exponential iirc. Its super fascinating theres a ted talk on it which suggests through a comparison between developed west society and isolated less technologically developed communities crazy disparate rates of clinical depression. The suggestion is that we need to excercise and practise community more. We're too lonely and arent doing wjat our bodies are designed to do, which is persistent hunting, 4+ hrs of vigorous excericse daily
There’s still not a word that describes this emotion. I think Melancholy is the closest, but it’s that “addicted to a certain kind of sadness”. It is a sadness, but there’s a satisfaction in it, not wanting to let it go because it feels more honest and aware than pure happiness. I wouldn’t want to forget this and simply be happy, that would feel like a lie. I want to be wiser for this, it feels like a heavy knowledge. It’s not good or bad, it’s both.
You won't forget it, ever. You can allow yourself to be happy. Pain & sadness finds us. But we can find joy & happiness, if only for a few moments at a time. What is something that could make you happy?
that hit me so hard..... its been 11 years since ive talked to my school friend, she hasnt used skype for that long and dont have any other media account, not sure how is she ;\ missed chance to take her to date back then =\
Ik this is probably about dating but, I just thought of an old really close friend I had who had to move to a different school when I was younger. We still occasionally hung out but eventually they completely ignored my texts and I haven't spoken or seen them since.
@@anticringe1194 same. I would healthily spend hours after school just outside with my friends, then walk home. Then quarantine hit and I sat at my desk for a year and 1/2, only recently have I lost the covid weight and regained my confidence and assertiveness.
There's comfort in suffering. I'd argue it's one of the bigger reasons that people who have otherwise 'comfortable' lives are still depressed in Western societies.
@@rohan1_ for me my depression and stuff stems from a lot of different stuff, but mainly just thinking about how my future isn't gonna be great. In a way, it's almost comforting because it helps me to live in the moment and enjoy the great time I'm having now before it all inevitably falls apart...
Sorta. Sometimes I cant help but giggle a little bit at the comments. I've been there done that. Been a doomer and came out alive on the other side. Didnt think I'd make it and at one point I had a rope and was ready. But things got better. Sometimes it's as simple as putting in a little more effort into your life and having some patience. Hope this helps anyone who's currently struggling.
Imagine a organism built to live more than 60 years however it gives up on 20s because it dont think is going to be worth to live anymore. Depression is a weird thing. Update 06/2020: The organism have won on lottery 2 weeks ago, now he thinks 60 years is not enough and he wants to live forever. Deep in his heart he knew he was the chosen one. God bless consumerism and Godspeed you all.
Last year my best friend tried to commit suicide. He couldn't take it anymore and he was depressed beyond anything. Afterwards I stuck with him and supported him throughout his rehabilitation. I felt a bit uncomfortable but tried my best to help him. After a while he became his old self again and told me that throughout the whole situation, I was there for him, more so than anyone. I can't describe how great it felt that he said that. Buddies for life.
Well keep a close eye on him because unfortunately most people who have experienced depression/attempted suicide will always be prone to depression and thoughts of suicide. My sister had depression, was on medication, started feeling better, got off the medication, seemed to be doing great, then killed herself. She had been hanging out with her best friend literally the night before and was acting totally normal. And it was definitely a suicide because she left a note. Nobody saw it coming.
@@PatrickPierceBateman I'm sorry to hear that my friend.. Hope you're doing alright now. My friend is around and actually doing better, he met the love of his life in the meanwhile. Thanks for sharing.
I'm glad you were there for your friends that's really good. Myself tho. I don't think I'd let my friends know I did it so they couldn't help... But that's just me. I've been going through a lot of shit lately I can barely function and I just sit there most of the time.
@Bullyhunter Brad I feel you man, I had a great online friend lived on opposite sides of the world. But spoke nearly everyday, we wud always talk about each others problems life, money, drugs etc...He ended up taking his own life, and I still feel that if I was there IRL, I could of supported him better. Still see his steam & skype account every now and can't believe he's gone.
@@roccimo kinda ??? this shit sent me into an existential crysis wondering if my firiends i count on are even going to be there tomorrrow XD seriously depressing if you dont have a solid aim in life realized yet
When you can feel the relationship slowly fading away and you have no clue why, the distance doesn't help either. Slowly it just becomes routine and you feel your conversations get dryer and dryer. You start with anger and depression and it just worsens things so now you have no clue what to do except let them go and the cycle starts over. It's so tiring.
Same happened to me brother. I slowly lost feelings my crush time by time. Then i treated her bad sometimes because of my dying feelings about her(im really feeling bad about that i wish i can apologize to her). And then i lost my contact. It is really sad situation.
Man this happens to me constantly and idk why. I feel like life is just testing me or something in that nature. Every year I’m switching to different friend groups and crushes, which it makes me feel lost and tired of the “black and white” cycle.
I’ve worked as a lifeguard at a water park for 3 years. After Atleast 100 rescues, around 1,000 hours of experience, and cleaning industrial wave pools I got selected to be a lead of aquatics. I’m not one to cry, but I fuckin mentally broke after hearing about today. $1.5 million in debt and $680,000 in mortgage due. Park is closing. *3 years of work amounting to nothing because our Canadian parent company wouldn’t pay taxes* I’m now jobless.
Maybe that’s for the better unless you want to try and co-parent with a lunatic and get forced to pay child support even though you already are the major raising party of the child. Maybe you got blessed and dodged a bullet. I notice there is a lot of young kids in these comments..let me tell you from experience, relationships aren’t the be all to end all.
bangalore5 I just realized something. The things I do, the drinking, the smoking, the purchases, the playlists. I’m just avoiding the fact that if I look hard enough I’ll find nothing. There is nothing. We died in 2012.
>be me >13 years old, extroverted, lots of friends, always outside, always having a good time >can't wait to be an adult to party, explore the world with my friends etc. >develop social anxiety >slowly lose all friends >lose confidence >now 19, never go out, no friends, just want to die, wishing i could just go back to being a kid with no worries
There is no turning back. If there is an obstacle in front of you, make sure you take your best shot at it and take it down. Even if you fail the first time , don't worry. Get up , and try again.
This gives me a scene of a typical 80s movie where a highschool kid is smoking and drinking outside the school gym at prom night because he got rejected by his highschool crush for a dance.
2012 was the time we were supposed to die and that was when i graduated from high school. My friend died in an offloading accident before my fucking eyes and then I joined the army infantry for direction but all I got was bullshit. I got out and now I realize I should have stayed in and that no one cares for a loner. Now matter how much they intend to help.
Dont know who told you life was going to be enjoyable. You'll always be disappointed if you think life is something that is supposed to be amazing in every way. This world is made for your destruction and our time is here serves to prove if we can make it through the struggle or if we bitch out and bite the bullet. I promise all of this will be for something. And even if its not, then youll have nothing to lose and you can move on to the empty black void that you crave, but it'd suck if that wasn't the case and you threw away the chance to have a peaceful existence. Try your best until you can't and you'll have your rest. Perspective is key my friend.
as a teen, it just feels like being a kid was so long ago and it's crazy because it really wasn't. you wish you spent those moments more wisely and could easily get them back. what's meant to be the 'best years of our lives', are in fact not for most of us. I'm sorry, let's try our best to get through it and be as happy as we once were.
@Epoxygleu This. I actually prefer the job life to the school life. The only downside is it is a lot harder to find a friend group and a consistent new pool of friends to choose from if you’re interested in that sort of thing. I’m lucky I got a job that I can do by myself and get to listen to podcasts all day though.
My biggest advice to anyone feeling like they aren't normal, like they are alone in their struggle, like they aren't good enough. Delete Instagram. Delete Facebook. Delete Twitter. Delete any social media that gives you FOMO, like your life is a shambles compared to those around you. Even if you don't primarily use those apps to see how other people are doing it still gives you the illusion that other people are doing much better than you. It also can be just a time drain, and ironically it can make you feel more lonely even though you're more "connected" to the world around you. Instead focus on your own life. Reach out to that friend you haven't spoke to in a while. Even if it's an occasional conversation build relationships back. You might help someone who is feeling alone themselves.
im over a year due but this is exactly what i did. i deleted all social media, reconnected with an old friend and am happier than ive been in a while. all of this in the 5 months since my girlfriend of 6 years and i broke up. shit hurts but life's improving, if anyone is reading this just hang in there. you can do it.
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@Cletus The Aborted The earlier you get struggles the better. You will be more stronger and ready to face the adult life and based to your struggles you will be able to raise a kid ready to face this Shit world and society. We who get struggles in early life are blessed. Just try to defeat your demons , dont expect that someone else will do it for you , dont waste time waiting. All you do is stacking more problems that will drive you to insanity.
I just ended the best relationship that I ever had in 23 years. I cant see no one, cant leave my house. I feel like Im going to lose it, the pain is very real
> Be me >27, jobless, quarantined,failing marriage. > Cut off from friends 6 years ago >tried to reconnect >no one will even glance in my direction Its all so tiring, remembering. Trying to bring back what once was, trying to not be in pain and anguish. We are all ghosts of someone who once had a life ahead of them.
Gabriel Gour my parents were 27 and 29 when they had me. I’m now 27, alone, workaholic and stuck in the rat race, working a shitty job to try to beat inflation. Life was cheap in the 90s. Now the same salary doesn’t buy half of what it used to. Fucking bullshit. To everyone who thinks it’s gonna get better after college sorry to disappoint but it’s still an upward financial struggle unless you make over 120K a year, or can manage to live with a bunch of roommates or in the ghetto.
You can certainly get addicted to a certain kind of sadness. Its hard to describe. A weird mix of nostalgia, love, adventure, pain, yearning of the past and the weird masocistic pleasure it all deep down brings you. I hope she thinks about me from time to time. Somebody that I used to know
Hate on me all you want,I'm used to that anyways. I broke up with my boyfriend because the relationship was too stressful. He didn't do anything wrong. God I feel guilty.Besides,I think he's too good for me.I don't think I deserve to love anyone . No one will anyways after that happened.. when you create a whole new personality just to bury the past.
@@whoaskedforyourfuckingopin4080 Feel you homegirl, been a month since my gf dumped me and it's my birthday right now and I can't get any sleep, still miss her a lot, it was my fault so that's why I accepted the break up but now I think the situation could be fixed, I would text her but I found out on valentine's day that she moved on.. Love hurts.
When you've been friends with someone for years but as time goes on both of you change, talk less each day and suddenly.. you're but strangers. Always cherish your time with friends/loved ones, because eventually life happens and you'll go separate ways, even when you don't want to, and sometimes you don't even get to say goodbye
>Be me >introvert & have a trust issues >trying his best to socialize >got a few friends, but still very restricted about personal stuffs >been 2 years of friendship, decided to be open/trusting them completely >accidently say something bad "once" >they left >i apologize to them and say if we can be friends again >they said "yes of course" >left anyway >trust issues increased to max lv But then, i realize happiness can be achieved by doing something i really wanna do for the next 10 years in the future. So here i am, still being a doomer, alone but very passionate about my future/career believing that brighter future can fix my very own personal problem. Btw, great song tho
It’s the opposite for me. I still have good friends, and I’m very glad I have them, but I’m incredibly lazy and useless, so most jobs are off the table
I guess but we are ultimately just faceless words in a comment thread with no real relationship besides the fact we all feel the same. It’s better than nothing, I suppose.
>be me >go trough the comments >suddenly start crying >the song hits me like a truck >realize im alone >realize that my best and most joyful years are behind me >realize that i ve become only a shell of my former self >realize that i ve truly become somebody that i ve used to know
i had that with my 3 best friends that 2 friends of them ruined my friendship with them we were good friends for almost 7 years with my 3 best friends from school and at the start of 2021 it has ended and i cried alot i did wanna talk to them something reminded me thats too late for that i am mostly bored as heck i used to play alot with my 3 friends like everthing has a beging and end
You can certainly get addicted to a certain kind of saddness. Its hard to describe. A weird mix of nostalgia, love, adventure, pain, yearning of the past and the weird masocistic pleasure it all deep down brings you. I hope she thinks about me from time to time.
When each and every comment here hits home and you realize that you are one of them "depressed" people. This comment section isn't a comment section anymore , it's a community..
Doomerwave is a new, astonishing experience for me. I kind of like it. I feel... depressed. Who else has that addictive feeling where they are tired of depression, but are either too scared or too exhausted to change? I sometimes feel down and depressed, but I feel like I cannot do anything about it except plow through it. This is the vibe that this song gives off.
Once you get to my age, you don’t even care anymore lol what’s the point of trying to change? 40 more years and then I hit the eternal sleep. When I’m dead, will I dream?
When you think you’re genuinely depressed but are afraid to talk about it in fear of people claiming that you’re just “doing it for attention”, when in reality you just wanna actually enjoy things again.
If someone is desperate enough to lie for attention, that means they genuinely need help in some way. Maybe they're not being completely honest about what's wrong with them, but something definitely is. NEVER ignore a cry for help. NEVER
>be me >find the love of your life >spend an amazing year with her >find out she had been spreading rumors about you >confront her about it >she tells you she never loved you, but wants to continue the relationship >you just lost the love of your life.
When you’ve been out of high school for close to a decade, and you’re broke, can’t find a job, still live with your parents, and everyone you knew from school is more then likely doing far better than you are today.
I'm in my 40s (Single. Living alone. Sad and cynical.) Am I allowed to join the doomer club? Update 5/16/20: my comment was a bit of "hey fellow kids..." deliberate lameness. But I spoke the truth and I understand feeling hopeless. I appreciate the genuine and kind responses!
Reading these comments and listening to this makes me feel like i just entered a stuffy dark room down stairs smelling like cigarettes and alcohol with a broken pinball machine and maybe arcade cabinet, no tv, one couch, one table with folding chairs around it with a dim light above the table
This kind of reminds me that i became the "successful friend" out of my group. i went to west point and spent 7 years in the army, got married to a wife who loves me and i love her, but i felt like i was still missing something. my best friend just sort of dropped off the planet one day, i used to write letters to him and get responses back when i was overseas, and then one day the letters just stopped. i found out after i left the army where he was, his life fell apart around him and he just couldnt handle it. his mom gave me his address and i found him in a run down apartment block on the south side of Kansas City. He looked like hell, he was underweight, he looked like he hadnt slept in forever and the whole place smelled like cheap booze. in that moment i realized i hadnt made enough time for him and i'd in my own ignorance let him slip to the side, i wasn't there for him when he needed me the most despite him being there for me all the time. it's been a year and while he'll never be the same person he was, he'll always be my brother, and lately i've seen something in him, a spark of defiance if you will... like he's not ready to give up the ghost just yet, i'm gonna stick with him for better or worse, im not gonna let the dark take him, it's due to him im this successful, it's my turn to watch over him like he watched over me. i know there's alot yall that might think it's hopeless, but sometimes the ones that we think have left us never really left us, they just don't realize they've been stupid and let go of one of the best parts of their life, because success is hollow if there's nobody there to celebrate it with that knows how far you came to get there.
>be me >extremely introverted, depressed and socially anxious to others >very shy and being socially abused by almost everyone (including on the social media) >no love from everyone >no job >but living peacefully alone in the middle of nowhere, with food, water, security, and your pet dog who loves you every day
I mean, enjoy music, but don't let it be part of your destruction, use it in constructive ways that can help you. Otherwise, if you can't do that don't even bother to listen to it
@@ashes4821 i know you meant good writing this but you're probably hurting people and i just wanted you to be aware of it people dont always have the strength to get up and get their shit together. They have a right to be weak, let them be
@@TheHideout0 'they have a right to be weak' right because its healthy to wallow in self pity and not even think about getting help or getting better, isn't it?
I wrote this because once i was weak as fuck, i was stuck in time, suicidal, while listening to this kind of edited music. It feelt like the pain stop for a while but actually i was digging deeper and deeper into my shit without noticing it. So, everybody, don't act like you can't, pain sometimes is necessary, don't try to avoid it. You are escaping from yourself. Close the wound and come back on track
When your best friend since childhood (12 years of friendship) finds a lot older guy to date and he gets her into drugs and alcohol. You two don't talk or hang out anymore, even tho you've always felt like you were in love with her. She's not the same smiling, full of sunshine girl and you feel like you don't know her anymore and you're scared that one day the "old her" might come back and knock on your door...but you don't live where you used to. Don't sweat it, you won't recognize her even if you were still living there. It feels like it was just yesterday when you two were staying up till 3am to talk all kinds of dumb shit and laugh your asses off. Sometimes you ask yourself "Is she still the same "somebody" I used to know?" *Kids gotta grow up but not in that way...*
@@IanThunderbolt Yeah man, I know. But she chose this life. This isn't the first time she does something stupid, and I was always there to solve her problems all the previous times. At some point you just gotta look after yourself, and that's what I'm doing. This guy is a lot older, has more money and he's overall a creepy dude with lots of "friends" (if you know what I mean), and I'm just 19 yo girl so...
She was young so she was tricked and tempted.......how would thing turn out if you told her how you feel about her?.......................................but none of that matter now cause you can never change the past,the best thing you can do now is don't let it get to you
DarkCry is this real stuff or just a meme that spread like wildfire? I recently caught on to this song then realized it’s (was?) a big deal for a bit th-cam.com/video/ZsBBnbzQeqY/w-d-xo.html shit changes so fast you miss it if you blink. I thought the sooner stuff was particular to russian music hah
@@venusdragojlovic4227 lmao imagine have a lgbtqabcdefg flag in your pfp because you are insecure about your own identity and are insisting other people can't like different things Epic gamer moment guys, let's go get that bread
This song just reminds me of my ex. Being Native American, we were from different reservations, but we met at a reservation that was in between ours. We talked for hours and hours on end. Eventually she found me on social media and we started dating. We started meeting at the reservation in between us going to different gatherings just so we could see each other. I eventually saved up money to go across the border, she's First Nations and I'm Native American, but we're from the same tribe. Anyways I stayed the entire weekend at her place, we went to a powwow and really bonded there. Things happened and we became close. Then she came near my reservation but not actually there and we spent the day at a fair or carnival and we just enjoyed spending our days with each other. Towards the end of the year, her friends started calling her down for having an ugly boyfriend, not even having a boyfriend, I wasn't real or just she was so desperate that I was her only choice. She told me that and she didn't care but then a month later she said she wanted to take a break. During that break she was in 3 or 4 different relationships and is currently in a polygamy relationship. She having the time of her life, while I waited for her to say "The break's over, let's get back together." All this happened at the end of 2015. I haven't been in a relationship since then and I've been slower falling into what feels like a downward spiral. I started wearing masks, just thinking about her friends calling me ugly, damaging my self-esteem and confidence. Thanks for that. This song just brings me back to those moments to where I thought I had it all, this was all I needed and everything was ripped from me and I've been trying to fix myself but times will make me think, "what's the point?" All I can think of is the line "You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness."
dear soul , you re not alone and your beauty is beyond expression. This material form will fade away into the void but you , you will remain as the undescribable beautiful light you always were
>be me >have a crush for three years >try talking to her one day after class >she moves unexpectedly a week later >she doesn't say bye >never hear from her again
Be me Have gf for three years Get home one day and looks at phone I'm sorry but I'm not into you anymore Try to brush it off and find someone else Gets rejected, played and friendzoned Just gives up on love and stays alone for the next 6 months and counting
when you remember the girl you legitimately loved in high school but your self destructing attitude led you to stop spending time with her and the Internet only separated you until she left and you had only the Internet to comfort you.
I loved a girl in high school, but i never even got the chance to introduce myself before school was over. 5 months later, i still think about her now and again.
Everyone is destined to face his biggest fear in life eventually. Its not over yet, get your shit together and give your best and then ask her out for a date again man. You will regret it the rest of your life, do you really want to be the old man who never even tried in his life, living in regret of his life? You may evade the pain of her rejecting you, but you will gain the pain of regret always asking yourself "what if". The paradox is the more you want to evade pain, the more pain you will get. Face the pain and grow stronger, learn to live with the pain and start to accept the pain!
Ryley Andrews, Ever heard of being in love? I had a crush on her for god’s sake. She knew who I was and I knew who she was, we just didn’t talk very often and therefore couldn’t really connect on a deeper level. That’s what I meant. Why do you gotta be such an asshole, man? Don’t you understand that these sorts of things are touchy, sensitive and should be handled with alot of respect. You basically did the equivalent of barging into a quiet ceremony at church and then acting belligerently drunk, all while shout-singing a bad song. This was really low man.
I really hope nobody takes this the wrong way but I really find this comment section refreshing. Think about it social media bombards us by telling us how great everyone else is doing. Your former teammate just bought his dream house. Your old crush is now pregnant. Everyone is doing so great that it feels abnormal to struggle. Like your out of place because you have no place, you struggle. I'm glad to see I am not the only one with regret, anger, depression and sick of hearing how great everyone else is doing. I've had people move in an out of my life and they act like it's no big deal but it tears a hole in the fabric that I am. Whether it be death or people just walking from me I am hurt and I am relieved that other people experience the shittiness of life. I know it sounds weird but I feel better because its almost like the weight of the boot is distributed and no one is carrying it alone. I've been a miserable fuck for a while and I am happy to see other miserable fucks.
You'll do great in life. You realized what social media is , how it brainwashes people to think that everyone is doing great except them. People like you and me just don't care about validation of others . And if you're struggling with anything in particular, you are smart, find a solution. You can!
I feel that a lot of people want to kill themselves but they’re not doing so due to the fact that they still have to friends who will get hit hard by it or afraid they might miss something revolutionary. Success always seems to be around the corner, they think. It’s really sometimes the only thing they’re holding onto.
Nullname you don’t because your not a coward. Sometimes I feel the same way but someone who wakes up everyday and chooses to keep going against the odds is the exact opposite of a coward. Stay strong king 👑
@@connorb77 True, I feel like the vast majority of people who often consider suicide and constantly decide not to, they're usually doing for good intentions and not to make other people sad, which is sweet but heartbreaking
My first girlfriend was also my best friend when I was in high school. Coming home from school and getting a text from her asking if we were gonna play dark souls 3 together that day gave me a feeling of happiness and being wanted that I never felt again after we stopped talking. I’m 20 now and still think about her a lot wondering if she still thinks about me and feels sad the way I do about her.
I had mine. But now she is just somebody that I used to know. I hope i cross her mind from Time to time Love, after that, has been abstract for me. I cant comprehend it enouh to truly feel it deep down but i still cant forget about it. It drives me insane
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When you could be doing something with your life but instead you're reading the comments on a doomer wave video
A kind of tired sleep cannot fix does that to you.
When your god tier meme TH-cam channel with 1.4 subs is only a shadow of what it used to be. No wonder you’re watching this.
One of us. One of us.
Doomerwave comments is the best content tho
When you could be actually creative and funny yet you choose to beat the fuck out of anything that your brain dead audience has the slightest affinity towards and cater to the lowest common denominator of humor.
Umm what are you doing here?
The kind of tired that sleep can't fix.
Damm that comment hit me hard
jesus, that hit like a fucking bus.
Medication, talk therapy and cbt can give you remission from depression. Reach out it can get better
ayembic ,
A good session of cbt can make even the worst days a heavenly gift.
Also most people here are like "de🅱️ression xd" only because it's funny nowadays
Idk i think depression is truly increasing in prevalence. Seen some references to its epidemiology over the years and its almost exponential iirc. Its super fascinating theres a ted talk on it which suggests through a comparison between developed west society and isolated less technologically developed communities crazy disparate rates of clinical depression. The suggestion is that we need to excercise and practise community more. We're too lonely and arent doing wjat our bodies are designed to do, which is persistent hunting, 4+ hrs of vigorous excericse daily
When you see last online 7 years ago
Never forget those days man
this physically hurts
Fuckkkk
Damn...
*sad noises*
There’s still not a word that describes this emotion. I think Melancholy is the closest, but it’s that “addicted to a certain kind of sadness”. It is a sadness, but there’s a satisfaction in it, not wanting to let it go because it feels more honest and aware than pure happiness. I wouldn’t want to forget this and simply be happy, that would feel like a lie. I want to be wiser for this, it feels like a heavy knowledge. It’s not good or bad, it’s both.
AGREE
You won't forget it, ever. You can allow yourself to be happy. Pain & sadness finds us. But we can find joy & happiness, if only for a few moments at a time. What is something that could make you happy?
It's contentment. You're not ok with it, but are at the same time
let's call it tlust, Tired of Living bUt Scared of Dying
put it into words
“So, we’re cool right?”
“Yeah, we’re cool.”
Last seen online 9 years ago
at least he said “yeah were cool” instead of leaving it on “never talk to me again.”
@@viasmrshouldconsumeburntba3936 I feel like it's a bit worse leaving it on "We're cool" as it stings knowing that they weren't cool.
that hit me so hard..... its been 11 years since ive talked to my school friend, she hasnt used skype for that long and dont have any other media account, not sure how is she ;\ missed chance to take her to date back then =\
Goddamn, I should have accepted this. "Let's not talk with each other for a long time. It's been fun." is just too blunt. Too painful.
This hurts..
**of course we’ll stay in contact, we’re best friends**
FUck you Callum
Callum right in the heart
You didn’t have to post that
now i’m crying
I’ve been told exactly this
"We can still be friends tho, right?"
"... Right."
Seems like we all actually do live the same life
Ik this is probably about dating but, I just thought of an old really close friend I had who had to move to a different school when I was younger. We still occasionally hung out but eventually they completely ignored my texts and I haven't spoken or seen them since.
"Yes no"
Fuuuuuk this hit hard
>10 years later
Anyone else feeling like they just missed that thing in life that could make everything better?
All the time
For me, it was Jesus.
Now I know you don't have to turn to him.... but......... you could in all honesty check that out. See how it works for you.
Yeah, i could just go outside to play with my friends, instead of wasting my childhood to a videogame and ending up here
@@anticringe1194 same. I would healthily spend hours after school just outside with my friends, then walk home. Then quarantine hit and I sat at my desk for a year and 1/2, only recently have I lost the covid weight and regained my confidence and assertiveness.
You know what i don't need sleep anyways after seeing your pfp
“You can get addicted to a certain type of sadness”
That’s literally why everyone watching this came to this video.
69 likes
Nice
There's comfort in suffering. I'd argue it's one of the bigger reasons that people who have otherwise 'comfortable' lives are still depressed in Western societies.
@@rohan1_ for me my depression and stuff stems from a lot of different stuff, but mainly just thinking about how my future isn't gonna be great. In a way, it's almost comforting because it helps me to live in the moment and enjoy the great time I'm having now before it all inevitably falls apart...
Sorta. Sometimes I cant help but giggle a little bit at the comments. I've been there done that. Been a doomer and came out alive on the other side. Didnt think I'd make it and at one point I had a rope and was ready. But things got better. Sometimes it's as simple as putting in a little more effort into your life and having some patience.
Hope this helps anyone who's currently struggling.
kind* of sadness
Imagine a organism built to live more than 60 years however it gives up on 20s because it dont think is going to be worth to live anymore. Depression is a weird thing.
Update 06/2020: The organism have won on lottery 2 weeks ago, now he thinks 60 years is not enough and he wants to live forever. Deep in his heart he knew he was the chosen one. God bless consumerism and Godspeed you all.
"The more you live, the more you realize that life is filled with loneliness, suffering and emptiness" - Madara Uchiha
It really is but the direction that the planet is going in rn, I don't think that would matter a lot anymore
Young mens call to action has been ripped away.
@@pepper0075 Did Madara actually say that? Seems like something i've heard a real person say before
mood
2 year olds: “Rain, Rain go away Come again another day”
Rain:
UltraDBZfan lmao
Lmao underrated comment
A wholesome enough comment man-
Rip :
Wtf i got a stomachache just because this comment , lmao please stop
Last year my best friend tried to commit suicide. He couldn't take it anymore and he was depressed beyond anything. Afterwards I stuck with him and supported him throughout his rehabilitation. I felt a bit uncomfortable but tried my best to help him. After a while he became his old self again and told me that throughout the whole situation, I was there for him, more so than anyone. I can't describe how great it felt that he said that. Buddies for life.
Well keep a close eye on him because unfortunately most people who have experienced depression/attempted suicide will always be prone to depression and thoughts of suicide. My sister had depression, was on medication, started feeling better, got off the medication, seemed to be doing great, then killed herself. She had been hanging out with her best friend literally the night before and was acting totally normal. And it was definitely a suicide because she left a note. Nobody saw it coming.
@@PatrickPierceBateman I'm sorry to hear that my friend.. Hope you're doing alright now. My friend is around and actually doing better, he met the love of his life in the meanwhile. Thanks for sharing.
I'm glad you were there for your friends that's really good. Myself tho. I don't think I'd let my friends know I did it so they couldn't help... But that's just me. I've been going through a lot of shit lately I can barely function and I just sit there most of the time.
@@blackrav3n659 couldnt have said it better myself
@@CutterboyBK hey man want to talk?
Original: sad song
Vaporwave remix: I want to die
Doomer remix: I'm killing myself
Killing myself slowly and painfully and nobody can do shit about it
Love that pic by Culpeo, OP
I’ve killed myself and now the credits are rolling
@@CouchPotato252 oh yeah
I think Doomers are more like "We're killing ourselves"
This song is like sleeping on a mattress with no sheets on
Bruh I'm deadass laying on a mattress without a sheet rn
A Person Bruh you should use sheets on your mattress. Its more comfy and its more hygienic
More like sleeping under a matress because the top side is royally fucked
@@taxevader387 Literally fucked or...
@@mahessanavaro9434 pick your favorite
When you realize that the "somebody" is really yourself.
Damn
Bruh....
That.. was unwanted
I just got a bruh moment..
Well, this hit me like a truck
>be me
>be salmon
>happy salmon
>find salmon wife
>happy salmon life
>swim upstream
>lose salmon wife
>sad
relatable
@@dominogaming4745 sad
@@somethingiwillremember1239 indeed😔
@@dominogaming4745 😔
>Ride wife
>Life good
>Wife fight back
>Kill wife
>Wife gone......
>Think about wife.......
>Regret
For my friend ccryda1 who has been offline on Steam for 12 years. Was cool hanging out with ya dude.
:(
There's gotta be a hell of a story to tell about right isn't it
I hope one day you guys meet again
I know that feeling bro
@Bullyhunter Brad I feel you man, I had a great online friend lived on opposite sides of the world. But spoke nearly everyday, we wud always talk about each others problems life, money, drugs etc...He ended up taking his own life, and I still feel that if I was there IRL, I could of supported him better. Still see his steam & skype account every now and can't believe he's gone.
*You didn’t have to cut me off* -Van Gogh’s Ear
jews' foreskins
Circumsized niggas be like
Muslims' foreskin
@@ambujbhaskar9288 this is literally my joke
@@arguably8390 😠
“hey i gotta go eat dinner. see you tomorrow at 4?”
yeah sure. bye dude!
*last online 9 years ago*
I feel this. I really feel this.
I feel the same when i check my old BF4 squad of friends. I miss those mf so much...
Damn this hits hard , last online 1358 days ago :(
This is kinda depressing
@@roccimo kinda ??? this shit sent me into an existential crysis wondering if my firiends i count on are even going to be there tomorrrow XD seriously depressing if you dont have a solid aim in life realized yet
When you can feel the relationship slowly fading away and you have no clue why, the distance doesn't help either. Slowly it just becomes routine and you feel your conversations get dryer and dryer. You start with anger and depression and it just worsens things so now you have no clue what to do except let them go and the cycle starts over. It's so tiring.
this coment right here
Same happened to me brother. I slowly lost feelings my crush time by time. Then i treated her bad sometimes because of my dying feelings about her(im really feeling bad about that i wish i can apologize to her). And then i lost my contact. It is really sad situation.
Man this happens to me constantly and idk why. I feel like life is just testing me or something in that nature. Every year I’m switching to different friend groups and crushes, which it makes me feel lost and tired of the “black and white” cycle.
Happened to me man I finally got a girl that liked me but I had to leave because of my self
Currently at the worsening stage.. what’s the point of it all
When the waiter says “Enjoy your food” and i say “You too”
Hits deep
69th like
Did it at McDonald's today. Went outside into the cold so I don't have to see the girl who gave me my food 😔.
@@Greyimm lmfao
OMG I LOVE YOUY
VIDEOS JAMMS CARLHS
"You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness."
Says it all, doesn't it?
That's lowkey true
pretty much all the people who come here to vibe with this song, they like the sadness
yeah, it does
All of it
It's not a sadness... It's definitely russkaya toska
I’ve worked as a lifeguard at a water park for 3 years. After Atleast 100 rescues, around 1,000 hours of experience, and cleaning industrial wave pools I got selected to be a lead of aquatics.
I’m not one to cry, but I fuckin mentally broke after hearing about today. $1.5 million in debt and $680,000 in mortgage due. Park is closing.
*3 years of work amounting to nothing because our Canadian parent company wouldn’t pay taxes*
I’m now jobless.
Capitalism really is shit.
>because our Canadian parent company wouldn't pay taxes
Fucking leafs ruin everything
@@Hicham49Ros shut the fuck up
@@tadpolegaming4510 Why? That's just the truth.
@@Hicham49Ros commies don't get opinions, they get free helicopter rides
She: "You're the best thing that ever happened to me"
*Treats me like a rebound*
ooof, I felt that
@@FreyOdyssey (2)
joining the club
i felt that
Maybe that’s for the better unless you want to try and co-parent with a lunatic and get forced to pay child support even though you already are the major raising party of the child. Maybe you got blessed and dodged a bullet. I notice there is a lot of young kids in these comments..let me tell you from experience, relationships aren’t the be all to end all.
When you realize everything you do is a coping mechanism to feel less empty inside and get through life
:(
You've done it! You've broken literally every human down to their core identities
*D A M N* this shit hit me like a train
Read Ted Kaczynski
bangalore5 I just realized something.
The things I do, the drinking, the smoking, the purchases, the playlists.
I’m just avoiding the fact that if I look hard enough I’ll find nothing.
There is nothing.
We died in 2012.
when u reminisce on young memories knowing that u can never experience them again
Damnit Jeff that hurts
That one got me
I couldn’t find another comment that described that feeling more clearly.
That's why it hurts to come back and look at the good days.
Damn
Time flies by so fast
3 year old toddlers when someone takes their nose
I laughed
I laughed
I laughed
I laughed
I laughed
>be me
>13 years old, extroverted, lots of friends, always outside, always having a good time
>can't wait to be an adult to party, explore the world with my friends etc.
>develop social anxiety
>slowly lose all friends
>lose confidence
>now 19, never go out, no friends, just want to die, wishing i could just go back to being a kid with no worries
There is no turning back. If there is an obstacle in front of you, make sure you take your best shot at it and take it down. Even if you fail the first time , don't worry. Get up , and try again.
What changed? You had such a dramatic change. No partying is okay. Can you reconnect with the lost friends?
Welcome to the life of a introvert.. Now do you understand how it feels to be us?..
@@fpslifelegacy6902 LMFAOOO 😭
@@fpslifelegacy6902 as an ex-extrovert it fucking sucks man
Wow, I didn't know they had FM Radio in purgatory.
@Steven Tsakiris ok
@Steven Tsakiris edgy af
@Steven Tsakiris ha. There ya go edgy boy
Maybe is in mementos
Who else is excited for Persona 5 Royal?
This gives me a scene of a typical 80s movie where a highschool kid is smoking and drinking outside the school gym at prom night because he got rejected by his highschool crush for a dance.
Dude why...... *weeps*
There's a hole in my soul that I fill with dope - Marylin Manson
Those are dumb af movies and ppl who get hung up over things like that have no spine
I can see the picture
then they drive and kill somebody and try to cover it up
this is probably the least toxic youtube section since everyone is just helping everyone mentally
Fuck off
Jokes much love bro
Understandable have a great day
I've noticed that as well. it's quite pleasant.
th-cam.com/video/zK4TWXWEKAQ/w-d-xo.html check this comment section man. It's wholesome AS shit
@@olimelgre4140 thanks King
Sadness upgraded my music taste
I agree, the pandemic did a number on me. Not completely over it yet, but we're getting there man
We all died in 2010, this is Hell
Tracker yoo
*2012
2012 was the time we were supposed to die and that was when i graduated from high school. My friend died in an offloading accident before my fucking eyes and then I joined the army infantry for direction but all I got was bullshit. I got out and now I realize I should have stayed in and that no one cares for a loner. Now matter how much they intend to help.
Russian Bot holy fuck that’s the epitome of doomer
Yeah you're right
Nostalgic for a time and place that doesn't exist
Shibe Inu it exists inside of you
Anymore
I feel that
Damn a great comment as well that's so fitting
The Welch have a word for that
If these are supposed to be the best years of my life I'd hate to see the worst
Sorry to bother you, but can you please tell me the sauce of your profile picture
@@zike1167 just search for BOGGED
@@superjonh1000
Thanks man,
Here take my sub
Amen brother 😔
Dont know who told you life was going to be enjoyable. You'll always be disappointed if you think life is something that is supposed to be amazing in every way. This world is made for your destruction and our time is here serves to prove if we can make it through the struggle or if we bitch out and bite the bullet. I promise all of this will be for something. And even if its not, then youll have nothing to lose and you can move on to the empty black void that you crave, but it'd suck if that wasn't the case and you threw away the chance to have a peaceful existence. Try your best until you can't and you'll have your rest. Perspective is key my friend.
as a teen, it just feels like being a kid was so long ago and it's crazy because it really wasn't. you wish you spent those moments more wisely and could easily get them back. what's meant to be the 'best years of our lives', are in fact not for most of us. I'm sorry, let's try our best to get through it and be as happy as we once were.
The future is so scary at this point
Being a teen is the worst thing ever, I’m not even sure how adulthood is going to br
Fuck man.. i just wan to go back to having no problems and not worrying about a single damn thing
@Epoxygleu This. I actually prefer the job life to the school life. The only downside is it is a lot harder to find a friend group and a consistent new pool of friends to choose from if you’re interested in that sort of thing. I’m lucky I got a job that I can do by myself and get to listen to podcasts all day though.
We're in this together, brothers.
fuck, I'm crying, I'll try
Abandoned and forgotten
@@ineednewvegas2267 careful king, your crown is falling
no not really
*DiD yOu JuSt AsSuMe My GeNdEr??!!1!!!?1!?*
very original i know
lol
When your dealer says “no more, don’t want you to die” so you can buy more later
Ouch
What avocados? Yeah man. I understand.
r/cursedcomments
"But you didn't have to cut me off..."
Been there...
This is what elevator music sounds like when the speaker should have been repaired 20 years ago.
@Kayotah Fox first hand experience
They better not fucking fix it
Exploring Shadow Moses in MGS4 and you and Snake both realize that all the glory are long gone.
thats gud joke, you gud man
My biggest advice to anyone feeling like they aren't normal, like they are alone in their struggle, like they aren't good enough. Delete Instagram. Delete Facebook. Delete Twitter. Delete any social media that gives you FOMO, like your life is a shambles compared to those around you. Even if you don't primarily use those apps to see how other people are doing it still gives you the illusion that other people are doing much better than you. It also can be just a time drain, and ironically it can make you feel more lonely even though you're more "connected" to the world around you. Instead focus on your own life. Reach out to that friend you haven't spoke to in a while. Even if it's an occasional conversation build relationships back. You might help someone who is feeling alone themselves.
im over a year due but this is exactly what i did. i deleted all social media, reconnected with an old friend and am happier than ive been in a while.
all of this in the 5 months since my girlfriend of 6 years and i broke up. shit hurts but life's improving, if anyone is reading this just hang in there. you can do it.
Good advice
"We can make the distance work."
fuck man
this got me
This hits home
It can work
Dam
Behind every doomer , was once a happy person
nice username
⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻ Thanks to the lockdown, I was supposed to go to my friends house to have a good time having banter but I can’t. 😔😔😔😔
@Cletus The Aborted The earlier you get struggles the better. You will be more stronger and ready to face the adult life and based to your struggles you will be able to raise a kid ready to face this Shit world and society. We who get struggles in early life are blessed. Just try to defeat your demons , dont expect that someone else will do it for you , dont waste time waiting. All you do is stacking more problems that will drive you to insanity.
I just ended the best relationship that I ever had in 23 years. I cant see no one, cant leave my house. I feel like Im going to lose it, the pain is very real
@@jessicateixeira4633 You'll get through it.
"Shit, that wasn't supposed to happen."
Miss you, bud. Wish those hadn't been your last words.
red engineer oh no
Oh fuck. Dude, this hurt. I’m so fucking sorry.
Wait who’s he talking about?
@@mpmontoya03 A friend of mine who I lost in an accident.
red engineer Fuck, I’m sorry to hear that man.
In my opinion, this version is even better than the original.
Thats true my friend
Tru
True
True
true
> Be me
>27, jobless, quarantined,failing marriage.
> Cut off from friends 6 years ago
>tried to reconnect
>no one will even glance in my direction
Its all so tiring, remembering. Trying to bring back what once was, trying to not be in pain and anguish. We are all ghosts of someone who once had a life ahead of them.
27 is way too young to be married.
@@bonesworthjohansson7884 No.
Gabriel Gour It’s really not, like shit it’s at that age that most people get a kid
Gabriel Gour my parents were 27 and 29 when they had me. I’m now 27, alone, workaholic and stuck in the rat race, working a shitty job to try to beat inflation.
Life was cheap in the 90s. Now the same salary doesn’t buy half of what it used to. Fucking bullshit.
To everyone who thinks it’s gonna get better after college sorry to disappoint but it’s still an upward financial struggle unless you make over 120K a year, or can manage to live with a bunch of roommates or in the ghetto.
At 21 you still had friends?
Lucky!
You can certainly get addicted to a certain kind of sadness. Its hard to describe. A weird mix of nostalgia, love, adventure, pain, yearning of the past and the weird masocistic pleasure it all deep down brings you.
I hope she thinks about me from time to time.
Somebody that I used to know
I wonder if she thinks about me now and then too.
Hate on me all you want,I'm used to that anyways.
I broke up with my boyfriend because the relationship was too stressful. He didn't do anything wrong. God I feel guilty.Besides,I think he's too good for me.I don't think I deserve to love anyone . No one will anyways after that happened..
when you create a whole new personality just to bury the past.
@@whoaskedforyourfuckingopin4080 Feel you homegirl, been a month since my gf dumped me and it's my birthday right now and I can't get any sleep, still miss her a lot, it was my fault so that's why I accepted the break up but now I think the situation could be fixed, I would text her but I found out on valentine's day that she moved on.. Love hurts.
@@foosdontcry happy belated birthday comrade :)
@@elliot6249 thanks commie dude
When you've been friends with someone for years but as time goes on both of you change, talk less each day and suddenly.. you're but strangers. Always cherish your time with friends/loved ones, because eventually life happens and you'll go separate ways, even when you don't want to, and sometimes you don't even get to say goodbye
CrazyAssassin :’( too real
This hit too hard bro 😔
No, stop, I didn’t come here for feels
This hurt
Born to feel
>Be me
>introvert & have a trust issues
>trying his best to socialize
>got a few friends, but still very restricted about personal stuffs
>been 2 years of friendship, decided to be open/trusting them completely
>accidently say something bad "once"
>they left
>i apologize to them and say if we can be friends again
>they said "yes of course"
>left anyway
>trust issues increased to max lv
But then, i realize happiness can be achieved by doing something i really wanna do for the next 10 years in the future. So here i am, still being a doomer, alone but very passionate about my future/career believing that brighter future can fix my very own personal problem. Btw, great song tho
how are you now, my friend? also if you don't mind, can you tell me what that bad thing, im asking since i don't wanna do that mistake
It’s the opposite for me. I still have good friends, and I’m very glad I have them, but I’m incredibly lazy and useless, so most jobs are off the table
that moment when you need to talk with someone about everything but you know that nobody cares about your problems
you ok?
Same here....
Yep.
Same
@@RV-cv2yt soroush.mrid instagram dm me
5 year old me when we're at the dentist instead of McDonald's.
I am very afraid of wherever you found your pfp
Yup thats what i was told cot my fucking foreskin cut of
“Tomorrow we’ll fight the enderdragon, see ya round!”
Sure......*see you tomorrow.*
*last online 3 years ago*
@@rune.theocracy 5*
@@chronicpain9531 7*
@Lola Gonzalez-Chavez ok then 1 million years ago*
@Lola Gonzalez-Chavez 1 billion hears ago
Even though we all maybe be doomers and feel alone, we doomers have each other's backs. And that makes me a happy doomer
Me too, bro. Me too.
@RAT WITH A AK-47 how could a rat have a AK-47?
Ability to process logic and sound reason is both gift and curse.
@@observer.b_e_l_l_i_s i guess ignorance really is bliss
I guess but we are ultimately just faceless words in a comment thread with no real relationship besides the fact we all feel the same. It’s better than nothing, I suppose.
“You either die a doomer,or live long enough to become a boomer.”
-Albert Einstein
id rather be a coomer
If only you could jump right into boomer life
@@wasgudman5218 a coomer gets off the ride of life, and gets his dopamine fed to him by a screen. much more safe, he doesnt risk anything.
didn't say that though did he
@@DekuStickGamer _donut._
When your Minecraft gf respawns in your friends house.
Lmao
Im your biggest fan
When your minecraft girlfriend leaves your faction.
lmfao
Thanks God, very cool!
friend's*
>be me
>go trough the comments
>suddenly start crying
>the song hits me like a truck
>realize im alone
>realize that my best and most joyful years are behind me
>realize that i ve become only a shell of my former self
>realize that i ve truly become somebody that i ve used to know
wanna be friends ? :)
@@nadam844 Sure :)
its gonna get better believe me
Instagram?
@@nadam844 friendlyneighborhood_communist :)
The vibes this has maan. The song, the picture, the retro feeling. Gives you a sense of nostalgia. I love it
It's my little paradise ,whenever I feel like listening to depressing music and read some chill comments this is the first and only place I search.
"I will always be here for you, you're my best friend"
Message sent 7 years ago...
i had that with my 3 best friends that 2 friends of them ruined my friendship with them we were good friends for almost 7 years with my 3 best friends from school and at the start of 2021 it has ended and i cried alot i did wanna talk to them something reminded me thats too late for that i am mostly bored as heck i used to play alot with my 3 friends like everthing has a beging and end
does she ride bicyble now?
Except they weren't the one who distanced themselves from you, you isolated from them yourself.
I’m losing my friends… it’s conflicting because I’m not all that fussed, but then I really think about it I fucking hate that it’s happening
message sent 3 months ago…
When you feel sad to the point it becomes comfortable, fearing being happy..
I feel somewhat or sort of way too
Damn that cuts deep
sorority girls be like:
You can certainly get addicted to a certain kind of saddness. Its hard to describe. A weird mix of nostalgia, love, adventure, pain, yearning of the past and the weird masocistic pleasure it all deep down brings you.
I hope she thinks about me from time to time.
I just realised this is my problem....are you a therapist?
Boomers, when their wife says they can’t go fishing
Csakif25 .mp4 good comment
Csakif25 .mp4 that's so relatable .... To most of my dads friends, including him
Ciao a tutti
B o o m e r w a v e
bruh.mp3
You can’t go back to the happy days, no matter how you try.
how can you go back to a place you have never been?
Truuuu~ But, you can go forward to different happy days. It took a while, but I got here
there never were happy days.
Fuck 2012 seems like yesterday, almost a decade now, im just a lost kid who never had a chance.
talk to me bro, i can help
Are you okay bro ?
mooood
@@moehead8257 right Like how damn
@@lewiscain-mcaliece1805 damn dude thats some good shit youre spitting, i like it
When you realize that the world really DID end in 2012 because it’s been downhill ever since
Shit was already going downhill in 2012 and maybe not for you since childhood is always great
honestly its been going downhill since 9-11
Honestly it's been going downhill since I was born.
Widdle Creeps rip
@@RasmodeusQ WITNESS THE ANTI-CHRIST
When each and every comment here hits home and you realize that you are one of them "depressed" people.
This comment section isn't a comment section anymore , it's a community..
Yeah, especially those comments about my uncle being my minecraft girlfriend and my cousin dating someone outside my family.
I used to say get over it back in the day. Boy do I feel fucking stupid, I’m one of those people now too.
Ngl wojaks are the most relatable memes yet.
“You didn’t have to cut me off”
My foreskin
I-
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo
I need a jew...
In the feels bro..
💀💀
When your elementary school girlfriend breaks up with you because you aren’t the fastest kid anymore
Ronnie McCoy be like
@@terr3 Ayy Wimpy Kid fan
I thought this said fattest and I had to do a retake
Lol im sorry mr popular, i didn't even have a gf back then
>assuming that I had an elementary school gf
The hardest part about breaking up is losing your best friend.
Volvo ;)
This Happened 2 times to me
Makes you want to treat women coldly with mental distance. She’s out there, or at least I’m told...
F.B.I. It’ll be alright, the N.S.A. and the C.I.A. are overrated anyway.
@@Defectum138 oh ok
Doomerwave is a new, astonishing experience for me. I kind of like it. I feel... depressed. Who else has that addictive feeling where they are tired of depression, but are either too scared or too exhausted to change? I sometimes feel down and depressed, but I feel like I cannot do anything about it except plow through it. This is the vibe that this song gives off.
All doomer wave does that to me yeah. Maybe in this time and age this is the only feeling ppl like us are supposed to feel, just an idea
Right. I feel like it defines 2020-2021. The dystopian, exhausted, and depressed feeling is pretty much the base feeling for these years.
"You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness."
Once you get to my age, you don’t even care anymore lol what’s the point of trying to change? 40 more years and then I hit the eternal sleep. When I’m dead, will I dream?
@@bugsauce2261 Through current day...
>be me
>wake up
>food
>game
>music and game
>food again maybe
>game more
>sleep
>repeat
@Filip-YTP/Parodie >Have espresso to ease depresso
this comment paired with the profile pic actually made me laugh lmao
@@normaneffendi2320 kachow
@@captainyoink5723 thx for the 10 seconds of happiness you gave me
Until COVID ends at least something interesting would happen then
When you think you’re genuinely depressed but are afraid to talk about it in fear of people claiming that you’re just “doing it for attention”, when in reality you just wanna actually enjoy things again.
I just wanna be loved, I want people to be sad when i’m not around, i just wanna be happy again.
If someone is desperate enough to lie for attention, that means they genuinely need help in some way. Maybe they're not being completely honest about what's wrong with them, but something definitely is. NEVER ignore a cry for help. NEVER
Personally like to end my pain, honestly never gunna get my emotions back. Hope to god I die in my sleep
@@brodienolan9906 that’s blunt man but I relate
holy fuck thats my life right now
"I promise."
@Steven Tsakiris bro wtf
That helped me
A pile of bullshit.
>be me
>find the love of your life
>spend an amazing year with her
>find out she had been spreading rumors about you
>confront her about it
>she tells you she never loved you, but wants to continue the relationship
>you just lost the love of your life.
When you’ve been out of high school for close to a decade, and you’re broke, can’t find a job, still live with your parents, and everyone you knew from school is more then likely doing far better than you are today.
Shit bro....relatable
@@ClydeFrauge chug all that emptiness away
We ain't dead tho 🙌
Harry Hermit Not necessarily a good thing, but sure.
@@myttydohun4851 I know that low place well fam, love you.
I'm in my 40s (Single. Living alone. Sad and cynical.) Am I allowed to join the doomer club?
Update 5/16/20: my comment was a bit of "hey fellow kids..." deliberate lameness. But I spoke the truth and I understand feeling hopeless. I appreciate the genuine and kind responses!
ye.
everyone is allowed here brother
You didnt even need to ask you came abord without knowing it
welcome aboard
@Coder boi I'm not hella depressed, this edit is just pretty nice. am I allowed here?
I'm not living. I'm just killing time
Hang in there brother. In the end we will all be happy...
Oh yeah that feeling is the greatest! Then you do something you legitimately remember enjoying and it has become boring torture.
Same... I'm just too numb and bored to do or feel anything.
@@firefoxsimplyred same
None of the medications help me...
Came here for the music, stayed for the tears. The comments cut deep when you can relate so much. 😔
Reading these comments and listening to this makes me feel like i just entered a stuffy dark room down stairs smelling like cigarettes and alcohol with a broken pinball machine and maybe arcade cabinet, no tv, one couch, one table with folding chairs around it with a dim light above the table
There’s a dude there with his hand on his head holding a cigarette and a beer looking at old photos of his family.
Holy shit you couldn't have captured the essence of this video and comment section more any more then that
Don't forget the guy sitting on the couch with his head dropped and his hands clasped
The other guy too sitting at the table with a smoke impulsively bouncing his right leg at a medium speed just staring blankly as well.
Woke
This kind of reminds me that i became the "successful friend" out of my group. i went to west point and spent 7 years in the army, got married to a wife who loves me and i love her, but i felt like i was still missing something. my best friend just sort of dropped off the planet one day, i used to write letters to him and get responses back when i was overseas, and then one day the letters just stopped. i found out after i left the army where he was, his life fell apart around him and he just couldnt handle it. his mom gave me his address and i found him in a run down apartment block on the south side of Kansas City.
He looked like hell, he was underweight, he looked like he hadnt slept in forever and the whole place smelled like cheap booze. in that moment i realized i hadnt made enough time for him and i'd in my own ignorance let him slip to the side, i wasn't there for him when he needed me the most despite him being there for me all the time. it's been a year and while he'll never be the same person he was, he'll always be my brother, and lately i've seen something in him, a spark of defiance if you will... like he's not ready to give up the ghost just yet, i'm gonna stick with him for better or worse, im not gonna let the dark take him, it's due to him im this successful, it's my turn to watch over him like he watched over me.
i know there's alot yall that might think it's hopeless, but sometimes the ones that we think have left us never really left us, they just don't realize they've been stupid and let go of one of the best parts of their life, because success is hollow if there's nobody there to celebrate it with that knows how far you came to get there.
I hope he gets well. Good luck, king.
👑👑👑
Good luck!!
some solid advice
Its been 4 months how’s your friend doing?
Kid: eats apple everyday
Doctor :
lmao ok this one got me
Damn I didn't realize somebody had already made the same joke
Underrated comment
😂😂
i almost cried reading sad comments and this comment pops out😂
>be me
>extremely introverted, depressed and socially anxious to others
>very shy and being socially abused by almost everyone (including on the social media)
>no love from everyone
>no job
>but living peacefully alone in the middle of nowhere, with food, water, security, and your pet dog who loves you every day
To everybody. Don't fall in the "romantic" side of sadness. It's a waste of time. Just keep on your life. If you are reading this, then you have one.
I mean, enjoy music, but don't let it be part of your destruction, use it in constructive ways that can help you. Otherwise, if you can't do that don't even bother to listen to it
To everybody. Do whatever you feel like and don't listen to people on the internet. The screen doesnt make it right
@@ashes4821 i know you meant good writing this but you're probably hurting people and i just wanted you to be aware of it
people dont always have the strength to get up and get their shit together. They have a right to be weak, let them be
@@TheHideout0 'they have a right to be weak' right because its healthy to wallow in self pity and not even think about getting help or getting better, isn't it?
I wrote this because once i was weak as fuck, i was stuck in time, suicidal, while listening to this kind of edited music. It feelt like the pain stop for a while but actually i was digging deeper and deeper into my shit without noticing it.
So, everybody, don't act like you can't, pain sometimes is necessary, don't try to avoid it. You are escaping from yourself. Close the wound and come back on track
When your best friend since childhood (12 years of friendship) finds a lot older guy to date and he gets her into drugs and alcohol. You two don't talk or hang out anymore, even tho you've always felt like you were in love with her.
She's not the same smiling, full of sunshine girl and you feel like you don't know her anymore and you're scared that one day the "old her" might come back and knock on your door...but you don't live where you used to. Don't sweat it, you won't recognize her even if you were still living there. It feels like it was just yesterday when you two were staying up till 3am to talk all kinds of dumb shit and laugh your asses off.
Sometimes you ask yourself "Is she still the same "somebody" I used to know?"
*Kids gotta grow up but not in that way...*
Damn dude, summed up so well.
She didn’t deserve all the wrong things that happened to her.
Tell that to Forrest Gump
@@IanThunderbolt Yeah man, I know. But she chose this life. This isn't the first time she does something stupid, and I was always there to solve her problems all the previous times. At some point you just gotta look after yourself, and that's what I'm doing. This guy is a lot older, has more money and he's overall a creepy dude with lots of "friends" (if you know what I mean), and I'm just 19 yo girl so...
@@picklejuice-je9qz you did the right thing. no need to risk your own life and mess with freaks. shes beyond saving, move on
She was young so she was tricked and tempted.......how would thing turn out if you told her how you feel about her?.......................................but none of that matter now cause you can never change the past,the best thing you can do now is don't let it get to you
When you finally realise why Gen Z is named after the last letter of the Alphabet.
OH WAIT OH SHIT OH NO NO NO
Its because we get the special privilege of being the last generation to grow up before humanity is crushed by the Iron Boot forever.
@@Darth_Insidious Yup big oof...
Woah dude
OH NO
My friend commited a suicide today. He liked to listen to it.
I'm here to pay respect to my bro.
I’m so sorry for your loss…
Stay strong brother, we’re here for you!
rip fk this damn accursed world
rip fk this damn accursed world
@@salad_man4519 is it just me or youtube comments are duplicating every now and then?
@@bladedninja8853 what do you mean?
Me: what a nice day
TH-cam : D I D S O M E O N E SAY B I G S A D
DIO
DIOOOOOO!
Kono dio da
Oh you're approaching me instead of running away you are coming closer
Song: I can't give you big sad without getting closer
When your Minecraft girlfriend turns out to be your 40 year old uncle.
This is pinkwave
The pain oof
At least that is one person that cares about me
Alabamawave lol
Stalin: * after executing all of his close friends out of paranoia *
and now i want more doomerwave songs
DarkCry is this real stuff or just a meme that spread like wildfire? I recently caught on to this song then realized it’s (was?) a big deal for a bit th-cam.com/video/ZsBBnbzQeqY/w-d-xo.html shit changes so fast you miss it if you blink. I thought the sooner stuff was particular to russian music hah
Same
Lmao Why? Its dogshit
@@venusdragojlovic4227 Yeah lmao lol how in the fucking shit can someone like something that you don't? Unbelievable.
@@venusdragojlovic4227 lmao imagine have a lgbtqabcdefg flag in your pfp because you are insecure about your own identity and are insisting other people can't like different things
Epic gamer moment guys, let's go get that bread
This song just reminds me of my ex. Being Native American, we were from different reservations, but we met at a reservation that was in between ours. We talked for hours and hours on end. Eventually she found me on social media and we started dating. We started meeting at the reservation in between us going to different gatherings just so we could see each other.
I eventually saved up money to go across the border, she's First Nations and I'm Native American, but we're from the same tribe. Anyways I stayed the entire weekend at her place, we went to a powwow and really bonded there. Things happened and we became close. Then she came near my reservation but not actually there and we spent the day at a fair or carnival and we just enjoyed spending our days with each other.
Towards the end of the year, her friends started calling her down for having an ugly boyfriend, not even having a boyfriend, I wasn't real or just she was so desperate that I was her only choice. She told me that and she didn't care but then a month later she said she wanted to take a break. During that break she was in 3 or 4 different relationships and is currently in a polygamy relationship.
She having the time of her life, while I waited for her to say "The break's over, let's get back together." All this happened at the end of 2015. I haven't been in a relationship since then and I've been slower falling into what feels like a downward spiral. I started wearing masks, just thinking about her friends calling me ugly, damaging my self-esteem and confidence. Thanks for that.
This song just brings me back to those moments to where I thought I had it all, this was all I needed and everything was ripped from me and I've been trying to fix myself but times will make me think, "what's the point?"
All I can think of is the line "You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness."
We all got your back brother. Hope you recover your self esteem and worth, for sure working out and getting a job would help. All the best!
damn
go on self improvement you'll find later down on the road you'll meet good people,sucks though bout what happened though
dear soul , you re not alone and your beauty is beyond expression. This material form will fade away into the void but you , you will remain as the undescribable beautiful light you always were
Sad to hear that man. Add me up on discord if you want and we can chat
When your meme account gets taken down
goddamn, that username takes me back...
get boofed instagram normie meme stealer
@@tacocat0436 tf is instagram? take that shit out
fuck dude, mine was taken down the other day. this hits hard
when you find out people in porn don’t really love each other
>be me
>have a crush for three years
>try talking to her one day after class
>she moves unexpectedly a week later
>she doesn't say bye
>never hear from her again
If that’s me, I’m sorry
literally the same happened to me THE EXACT same
i feel you man
She is somebody that you used to know...
>be me
>have a crush for a year
>she seems to like me back
>she dates one of my homies
>confront her
>she plays the victim and drags my family into it
Be me
Have gf for three years
Get home one day and looks at phone
I'm sorry but I'm not into you anymore
Try to brush it off and find someone else
Gets rejected, played and friendzoned
Just gives up on love and stays alone for the next 6 months and counting
when you remember the girl you legitimately loved in high school but your self destructing attitude led you to stop spending time with her and the Internet only separated you until she left and you had only the Internet to comfort you.
Fuck man, are you actually me?
I loved a girl in high school, but i never even got the chance to introduce myself before school was over. 5 months later, i still think about her now and again.
Everyone is destined to face his biggest fear in life eventually. Its not over yet, get your shit together and give your best and then ask her out for a date again man. You will regret it the rest of your life, do you really want to be the old man who never even tried in his life, living in regret of his life? You may evade the pain of her rejecting you, but you will gain the pain of regret always asking yourself "what if". The paradox is the more you want to evade pain, the more pain you will get. Face the pain and grow stronger, learn to live with the pain and start to accept the pain!
@@oceanside9508 you didn't fucking love a girl you haven't EVEN INTRODUCED YOURSELF TOO MAN CMON SIMP WTF WRONG WITH U DAMN BRO HAHAHA
Ryley Andrews, Ever heard of being in love? I had a crush on her for god’s sake. She knew who I was and I knew who she was, we just didn’t talk very often and therefore couldn’t really connect on a deeper level. That’s what I meant.
Why do you gotta be such an asshole, man? Don’t you understand that these sorts of things are touchy, sensitive and should be handled with alot of respect.
You basically did the equivalent of barging into a quiet ceremony at church and then acting belligerently drunk, all while shout-singing a bad song. This was really low man.
I really hope nobody takes this the wrong way but I really find this comment section refreshing. Think about it social media bombards us by telling us how great everyone else is doing. Your former teammate just bought his dream house. Your old crush is now pregnant. Everyone is doing so great that it feels abnormal to struggle. Like your out of place because you have no place, you struggle. I'm glad to see I am not the only one with regret, anger, depression and sick of hearing how great everyone else is doing. I've had people move in an out of my life and they act like it's no big deal but it tears a hole in the fabric that I am. Whether it be death or people just walking from me I am hurt and I am relieved that other people experience the shittiness of life. I know it sounds weird but I feel better because its almost like the weight of the boot is distributed and no one is carrying it alone. I've been a miserable fuck for a while and I am happy to see other miserable fucks.
You'll do great in life. You realized what social media is , how it brainwashes people to think that everyone is doing great except them. People like you and me just don't care about validation of others . And if you're struggling with anything in particular, you are smart, find a solution. You can!
Social media is just a highlight reel, they could be just as miserable as us.
Stay strong brother
When you're to depressed to try and improve yourself, but to afraid of ending it all
That's me
Damn son, you got me
I felt this
if it was more easy
Ew edgy
I feel that a lot of people want to kill themselves but they’re not doing so due to the fact that they still have to friends who will get hit hard by it or afraid they might miss something revolutionary. Success always seems to be around the corner, they think. It’s really sometimes the only thing they’re holding onto.
I can’t do that to my mom bro. My cat would also disapprove of suicide.
I don't because I'm a coward, simple as that really
Nullname you don’t because your not a coward. Sometimes I feel the same way but someone who wakes up everyday and chooses to keep going against the odds is the exact opposite of a coward. Stay strong king 👑
@@connorb77 True, I feel like the vast majority of people who often consider suicide and constantly decide not to, they're usually doing for good intentions and not to make other people sad, which is sweet but heartbreaking
Every day you hold on is more painful than the ones that have passed
The kind of feeling that you either want to sleep forever or hug someone, long and sincerely that you truly love
Dom Wallace but you know you can’t do either
I come back to this song everday just to read the comments
My first girlfriend was also my best friend when I was in high school. Coming home from school and getting a text from her asking if we were gonna play dark souls 3 together that day gave me a feeling of happiness and being wanted that I never felt again after we stopped talking. I’m 20 now and still think about her a lot wondering if she still thinks about me and feels sad the way I do about her.
It's not sad to reminisce on good old times, but dont let it stop you from feeling happiness again.
Thats so sweet
I had mine. But now she is just somebody that I used to know.
I hope i cross her mind from
Time to time
Love, after that, has been abstract for me. I cant comprehend it enouh to truly feel it deep down but i still cant forget about it. It drives me insane
She doesn't.
This comment hit too close to home
"What? Him? Haha he's just a friend of mine."
Boooii, that hits home.
Stop
"Your words cut me deeper than any blade" - Zabuza
Big oof
Seen this horrific scenario play out maybe a dozen times. Never gets any less painful to watch
It's always that way
"We'll keep in touch no matter what"
Who hurt you
I felt thid
That combination of deeper voices and slower beats. Representing the true essence of doomerism:
*Testosterone and depression.*