Redefining success after 40: Society's defination of Success and what really matters now.

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  • @Milly_in_denmark
    @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hey guys, bonus video as I was late posting my second video for this week. Probably no one will watch it? But I hope you enjoy the video and leave a comment how you define success in your own way.

    • @Crabtree1844
      @Crabtree1844 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Excellent topic choice worthy of discussion. There are so many vain people who live unrealistic lives to please others. In the process they lose themselves under the shadow of others. Personally, I appreciate every noble, honest, just and dignified occupation. Philippians 4:8 is my guideline.

  • @biggie1242
    @biggie1242 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I’ll turn 40 next month, and success to me means continuous learning😊

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@biggie1242 This is true and resonates with me too. As a nurse who currently dont have a specialty I’m dealing with all kind of diagnoses, I have to keep learning and I love it. Thank you for watching 😊

  • @EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus
    @EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    So right Milly! I think success is being the person God created Me to be & accomplishing His Purpose for Me. Doing something well, with excellence & growing in every area of My Life. And fulfilling My dreams & passions in Life!

    • @Crabtree1844
      @Crabtree1844 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I concur!

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus I love this answer. Goes to show success is different from person to person. I think as long as one defines it them self and not going with what society expects, it’s very healthy. Thank you for watching and the feedback 😊

    • @EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus
      @EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Milly_in_denmark thank you Milly & you're welcome! Right!

  • @justmyopinion4938
    @justmyopinion4938 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a Black woman who wants to live in Denmark you really inspire me. Hopefully my dream will come true very soon.
    I have also redefined success. Right now it’s good health, loved ones and being able to take care of my needs.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@justmyopinion4938 I like your definition and it’s very healthy thinking 😊

  • @gofgan
    @gofgan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I hv asked myslf tht question. I thnk success its a personal thn...lyk reaching your personal goals.... Your goals will always differ frm the nxt person.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gofgan I totally agree. It is personal, but some people get caught up with what society defines as successful.

    • @gofgan
      @gofgan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Milly_in_denmark true....ths is why its important to self introspect, identify wot defines u,wot gvs u peace and joy.being put in a societal box is a choice thts promoted by social media and tv.i refuse to be boxed!!!

  • @linientchege183
    @linientchege183 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree with you we need to redefine success. I feel my many small achievements are a success.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@linientchege183 I think it’s easier when we define what success is to us personally. So small achievements are definitely a success

  • @kemikemi
    @kemikemi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well! said Milly. One thing I am grateful for is that my parents raised us never to rubber-neck into what someone else has and forget to appreciate what is right there on your lap or in front of you. THANK! you mom and dad for that.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kemikemi That’s an amazing thing your parents did. I know young people who have been raised to chase fame in the wrong way. It’s sad actually.

  • @TR-ii3xu
    @TR-ii3xu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I agree with you 100%. I define success as meeting the short and long term goals one sets for THEMSELVES. ❤

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TR-ii3xu Exactly. Living life by what society expects of us is very unhealthy.

  • @PheladiNewman
    @PheladiNewman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My favourite topic is: " True success means staying true to a deeper sense of purpose despite deviating from a superficial social norm. It means finding joy in suffering. It means having the courage to peruse one's journey when confronted with the fear of uncertainty." I don't know you, but after watching your videos, I can say you, are a successful woman.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@PheladiNewman Thank you for the feedback and thank you for the kind words😊

  • @justdruofficial
    @justdruofficial 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Success for me is achieving goals that I have set for myself, period. Wouldn't waste a thought worried about what society thinks. Btw, lovely colors you are wearing. Woke me right up on this dreary day lol

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@justdruofficial I love hearing people doing their thang not worrying about what society expects them. And thanks for the compliment on the outfit 😊

  • @adriantaft770
    @adriantaft770 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Milly, you and others are spot on with your reflective comments.To learn and contribute to society is success to me. As a person, you're more of an asset than a liability if this is applied.

  • @Crabtree1844
    @Crabtree1844 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Success to me, is fulfilling the purpose for which I was created with dignity, excellence, and without compromising principle and my health.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Crabtree1844 I like your definition. It’s strong.

  • @PheladiNewman
    @PheladiNewman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    To all cleaners, teachers, nurses, cashiers, housewives, bankers, doctors, students, preachers,nannies, etc. you are successful and enough.

  • @EverlineWanyama-bv9rn
    @EverlineWanyama-bv9rn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can relate. Thank you for the info

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@EverlineWanyama-bv9rn You are so welcome and thank you for watching 😊

  • @ThePatriciaPatrick
    @ThePatriciaPatrick 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree with you on what success means. Looking beautiful as always ❤❤

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ThePatriciaPatrick Thank you 🙏 and thanks for the feedback 😊

  • @Fashionanthropologist
    @Fashionanthropologist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Success 4 me is the person i became as i journey through life and gather experiences as i pursue a worthy ideals/ achievements. 😊
    U look amazing that your hair is 🔥🔥.
    Siz from 🇰🇪

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Fashionanthropologist Thank you 🙏. And that’s a good definition and very personal to you as it should be.

  • @aplacelikehomewithchristin9089
    @aplacelikehomewithchristin9089 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks so much for this video ❤

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@aplacelikehomewithchristin9089 You are so welcome 🙏

  • @DihessaBodjona
    @DihessaBodjona 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this so much! The funny thing is I almost never comment on videos on TH-cam, but what you say resonates with me so much.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DihessaBodjona Thank you 🙏 for watching

  • @Carmenjones-h9b
    @Carmenjones-h9b 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @kwailcamp
    @kwailcamp 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Success is too heavily tied to material wealth and possessions these days.

    • @Milly_in_denmark
      @Milly_in_denmark  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @kwailcamp It is. Many people’s new year resolutions are about money.