The cultural significance of this is unreal, we do not see celebrities talking about their ex's this way, we do not see current wives being complimentary to their husbands ex's in this way! To see the maturity, admiration and love from all 3 Taylors is so wonderful to see and lesson I hope many people follow!
I will also say that it takes a husband as good as Taylor Lautner that a wife can feel this secure in her relationship with him. Obviously she already has to be a stable/healthy person for it to work, but his role is very significant.
@@mushipoonot enough people mentioning this!! Tay in the past has mentioned how much he validated her which is huge. Love to see the healthy relationship … two mature people
@HARRYPOTTERFAN201 blonde girl tay must have been subconsciously thinking about this moment (odds aren't in the favor of this theory) but it's fun to think this was all Taylor's doing
I will also say that it takes a husband as good as Taylor Lautner for a wife to feel this secure in her relationship. Obviously she already has to be a stable/healthy person for it to work, but let's agree his role is also very significant.
@tiararoxeanne1318 no I think he was the one to show her what she deserves in a relationship and partner. If they were destined they would be together. Some people come in our lives at the wrong time to teach the right life lesson. The fact they can have a relationship with her to this day and all 3 have equal respect for eachother is so rare and it takes a lot of maturity to be able to do that. It wouldn't have happened if people's pride wasn't swallowed and apologized, that was the first step to building the foundation to their bond now. It definitely helps put things in perspective in how people can fix their wrongs and be able to move on and upward. Im not even a swiftie, I know maybe a handful of her songs but I can respect the hell out of her and how she handles herself publicly and privately. This eras tour and what she's done for her staff alone has made me a fan of hers honestly. The way she treats people is amazing and shows how it's possible to properly treat your crew and staff. More companies, ceos, and manager's of musical artists should take notes.
@@krystinaxxlea "Some people come in our life at the wrong time to teach the right life lesson..." Wow, that's deep. I've never seen it that way🤯. Makes me think about my ex. Oftentimes I get new knowledge or new perspective by reading internet comments. But this is the first time I get an inspirational quote from interaction with a stranger in the internet. Thank you for your reply🙏🙏🙏
@tiararoxeanne1318 I'm glad I could help 💜 I've been trying to change my mindset and look for the silver lining or positives in everything that happens especially when hard or bad situations happen. It's difficult at times but it's helping me see life in a better light and with the way the world is right now any bit of positivity is a good thing.
I think girl Tay's chill comes from security in the relationship and the fact that TS is respectful of the relationship. It is a whole other vibe from what most people experience with an ex. You guys are so sweet together. Taylor, great job in the video!
As a swiftie and a huge fan of Twilight… suddenly my favorite Taylor is girl Tay, she’s just the SWEETEST kindest person ever 😭 I would do everything for this trio, they’re the best thing that happened like ever 🫶
This couple seems so healthy that I feel like my trauma induced mind can’t comprehend it 😅😅 I love them so much though this episode was awesome keep being you 🫶🏼
Wow love this! Girl Tay is so right about how important it is for men to talk respectfully about women (especially their exes). It’s so important for little girls to hear that
Why do you have to make it about gender, everybody should be respectful to each other regardless of their gender, it’s just being a decent human being.
Totally agree that little girls need to hear that, especially after listening to Good 4 U a couple days ago. That kind of cruelty is completely unnecessary and doesn’t help anyone.
@GrandeSpencer you know some of the most hurtful and mean spirited things are said by woman, maybe men get all the flak cause society inherently makes men the bad guys due to our size and perceived harm we can cause but when you look at the whole population of men most men are not like this. It is the worst cases that get amplified the most in todays society which causes unnecessary fear of men. In the age of social media bullying by girls is far worse as the phycological aspects girls can inflict is long lasting. Think of the tribalistic groups girls form over people they ideal. When those fandoms feel threaten or that they got disrespected their attacks and harassment is pretty brutal irregardless to whether the person deserves it. Now not all fandoms are like this all the time and there are guys in those fandom too but it is also not out of the norm to hear these fandoms go to war and blow things out of proportion. Woman are also pretty judgmental, on social media most of the comments around looks, drama, and gossip is from woman as the main audience for gossip is woman. Now personally I have nothing against woman, I like to believe it is a minority of bad actors that are causing all the noise but I also see the terrible things woman do to woman.
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I love that the Lautner’s combined this highly anticipated podcast topic with another much needed mental health topic. I hope people listened to the whole thing and didn’t cut it off after the Taylor Swift part.
“I wanna brag about her cause we know she’s not” TRUTH I haven’t got to meet her yet and I know she’s so humble. Y’all are amazing people for doing and talking about this.
I am just sooo appreciative and in awe of girl Tay. What a freaking role model she is! Embodiment of class, kindness, authenticity, and self-security. She deserves all the good things that has happened to her. Also got to know she was a pandemic nurse, and I love her even more. All the best, Lautners. The world could use more people like you!
Genuinely my favorite couple 🫶🏼 the fact that you can be so complimentary to Taylor swift despite once dating her/being her husbands ex without any tip toeing around or insecurity is so amazing. Love you both
I know most people on here comment about the main subject of this podcast, but THANK YOU about the bit on suicide awareness. ❤ It was a smart move to put it in this episode specifically because of the reach and it was very useful and informative information.
The fact that midnight rain is one of your favs!!! I love the support. Ultimately they dated “in high school” or just out of it, and so many years have passed, it would be silly to not be mature and grow up about it. They are all amazing people! We, the fans love seeing the reunion and the good vibes, the mutual support. It’s amazing.
I applaud Girl Tay and boy Taylor for feeling secured into their relationship and marriage. It goes to both of them that they are able to become the person they are because of how they value and treat each other with their marriage. Sending love from PH!!
it's so nice hearing someone who has known taylor for over a decade say so genuinely that she is an amazing person, it makes me happy as a long term swiftie
Y’all are a fresh of breath air. The respect in this conversation about all Tays is awesome. You don’t see this kind of respect among ppl talking about their exes or husband’s ex.
Girl Tay, I applaud you. What an amazing, healing thing that must've been for them, and even though it wasn't about you, it couldn't have happened without you. What an amazing example of true love. ❤ boy Tay is a lucky man.
I was at the Kansas City show on Friday and this moment was unbelievable! But it was not because it was Taylor Swift and Taylor Lautner but because the love and respect they all showed for each other was inspiring. It was indeed a great moment and a fantastic show!!! It was also my birthday and it was the best way to celebrate the start of my 20s!!
I just love how girl Tay is such a swiftie at heart lol it’s so amazing. It’s a breath of fresh air cause I feel like most people might be a little biter that your husbands ex wrote a song about him and that ex just so happens to be the music industry aka Taylor Swift 😂 she has such a calm vibe about her I love it
All the things: 1. “Girl” Tay’s voice is so soothing… I just started the pause and her voice just reeled me in and she had me sobbing with her beautiful, raw honesty in her kind voice… 2. How surreal is it to see your spouse wearing your ex’s face on their shirt?! 🤪🙃 I can’t imagine 3. I love the lemon puns and motifs 🍋🍋🍋🍋🍋 4. The heart of this podcast is so real and pure and I’m glad this podcast exists…
My first episode and I regret that choice! I should have been here sooner. Thank you for representing healthy relationships, my husband has become friends with the exes I continue to be friends with. Not every relationship ends in horror and you can continue to have a caring friendship after. The colab was epic and perfect. I’m so happy TS has such great support from you guys.
The fact that Mrs. Lautner is just really excited to share her thoughts about being a fan of TS. I can see her genuine smile and excitement when she talks about her idol and reminiscing her moments with TS 10yrs ago and declaring herself as the voice of the swifties! Aaahhh!!!! Thankyou for this episode. You literally nailed it. And now you're gonna be our representative!!! I loveyou both and thanks for loving TS. AND YEAH! WE ALL AGREE THAT YOU'RE LIVING OUR DREAMS, AND YOU DESERVED IT. Btw, i'm from the Philippines and i enjoyed watching your podcast (i'mjust a quiet listener/subscriber before) ❤❤❤
Ex-“squeeze” me!!! You guys doing your top 5 TS song picks, and your excitement, here for it! Love that you did that! And that you had this ultimate fan-Tay experience at the concert, and now you get to talk about it. And your husband is in a Taylor Swift video!! And rocked it. The ultimate everything!! Amazing! ❤ Loved the back flip!! 💕👍
i just have to say, it’s absolutely amazing to add something so important to the end of this video. i’m sure you guys knew this video would reach A LOT of people, and using your platform to bring awareness to such a profoundly important issue says so so so much about the people that you are. as an OG swiftie and twilight stan with passive ideation, this means so much to me.
This was so freaking good. Exile is such a superior song, I'm so glad TL agrees 😁 As a longtime Swiftie and a midnight premiere-going Twilight stan, this podcast was everything. I was so blessed to be there on 7/7. If you would've told my 15 year old self back in 2009 that I would be in the same room as TS and TL in 2023, I would've probably died on the spot. Thanks for the full circle moment for all of us, TS, TL, and longtime fans included ❤
Seeing this healthy, loving relationship makes me so happy for both of you. KC night 1 made my 13 year old heart explode. I was team jacob thru and thru, and stanned Taylor & Taylor hardcore… but seeing them be friends and genuinely respect each other just.. it’s magical. And Girl Tay, I love basically every single thing you do. Your personality is top tier, and ugh. You’re just both great. ❤
Came for the "Tea Time" (and thoroughly enjoyed it!), but am also so glad I stuck around for the information about Suicidal Ideation. As a newer-ish teacher, I have received training on suicide prevention, but the information that Dr. Chase shared felt much more helpful and approachable. Thank you for asking such great questions and getting this info out to everyone!
OH also, Girl Tay's reaction to being asked her top 3 favorite T.S. songs was so relatable! This is a difficult question for any Swiftie to answer, and it just gets harder with every new album and re-recording.
As a fan of blonde girl Taylor for over a decade, I am very touched by how highly you speak of her as an artist and even more so as a human being. I also want to say that both of you, boy Tay and girl Tay, are just as wonderful as you described blonde girl Taylor. It's not every day you see someone think and speak so highly of a person, whether they have a past or not. It says a lot about your maturity and manners that you can praise someone who deserves it. You two are a wonderful couple, but more importantly, you are wonderful individuals on your own. So much love for everyone x
Thank you for doing a segment on suicide prevention. My dad unfortunately took his own life and this was in 2005. We have come SUCH a long way in treatment and mental health, but making people more aware is such a good thing to do. Maybe if we were more aware, we could've helped him
I was in Liverpool stood outside the Cunard building watching you guys filming I Can See You 😂 there were like 6 of us stood there watching you all running we didn't wanna shout and scream and be those people, and we even decided not to post what we saw either until after the video came out 💕
@@paulalorena25 thanks! We were so lucky to have seen anything at all, and lucky that the 6 of us waiting were all agreeing to keep it quiet. Annoyingly a paparazzi guy was lurking and got photos 🙄 we stayed til like 3am 😂 everyone was acting like they didn't know who was there. Some people idk if they were security or crew or what came over and we're speaking to us, I was telling them how long I've been a fan (since 06!) and that id seen her in America and Holland, and how id protect what I'd seen with my life until the video was out! They agreed I was a good fan. I was just like well yeah why would I want to spoil things that are in the making! So yeah that was months ago, it was cold and where they filmed is close to the river so the wind was really blowing haha! A security guy gave my friend a coat for her to wear haha
@@Tessa.G haha I didn't put anything online, we had videos but there's things in the way so you just see them running, and one of Taylor (you can't tell it's her on the video but I saw her haha) looking over footage filmed.
I love the discussion with dr. Chase. Something a lot of people are scared to talk about and admit is when they have suicidal thoughts. Or even knowing you have friends/family who feel that way and don’t know what to do at times when you are facing someone in that situation. Thank you for bringing light to this topic.
girl tay you have fans now. wow she’s so sweet and down to earth i think they’re my fav couple ever hope they keep respecting and loving each other like this❤
The amount of support in this video is very mature and so awesome to see. Your podcasts are all so mature and great, but I have a feeling that this one will hit fans on another point and level.
PLEASE PLEASE bring back Chase Anderson again. His suggestions on how to broach the subject of suicidal ideation was spot on- we all could learn so much from him. I’m 68, a retired nurse and loving you guys!!!!
Thank you so much for this video. I listened to it on the drive to see my Dad whom is/was suicidal. It's been extremely hard as his daughter. I want to love & support him, but I often try to take care of him too much. I moved to the LA area 7 weeks ago & drove 1 hour nearly every day the past 7 weeks just to see him. I pray everyday for his wellbeing & mine.
The story about girl Tay meeting Taylor Swift when she was younger 🥺🥺🥺 love you all!! You guys make such a beautiful couple and I love the maturity and friendship with TS 🩷
The relationship all three Taylor's have with one another is so beautiful! They are amazing and I'm so happy they all ended up being good friends in the end.
having the portion on mental health before talking about it with guests is truly amazing. i am super impressed with the balance this podcast has. it was funny and insightful. 💕can’t wait to watch more :)
They are such good models of mutual respect, support and safety within a relationship. This is good for young people to see, that love can also be safety.
This was honestly the best way to approach people’s wants for the information and a brilliant way to get your podcast out there! Also lemon drops is the best community name😍
Coming from a fellow swiftie and lemon drop that also struggles with their mental health, I just wanted to thank you for this episode! You guys talk about blonde girl tay being such an incredible human....well you are both just as incredible! Keep up the good work!!!!!! 🍋 💛 🍋
Like everyone I’m in awe of girl tays maturity and their relationship is obviously so pure and genuine ❤ seeing girls supporting girls so lovely and refreshing to see! Props to you both 🙌🏻
I had floor tickets for Saturday but I could feel it in my bones that Friday was going to be a truly one of a kind show. When ticket prices dropped that morning my husband decided we should do it and I'm so glad we did! We had rough seats behind the stage. But I could see y'all's tent and was zooming to see who was in there. As a team Jacober for life, I absolutely melted when she said she was going to premiere a music video for us. (some pics had leaked 😕 so I had some ideas). I knew you'd be there when she said that, and it was absolutely magical. Thanks for being there, it was so unbelievably fun! I think my husband was worried for my sanity by the end of the night. 😅
I genuinely love them so much and the respect that they have for each other and even for TS is so freaking amazing and the world should have more mature people like them and I love how honest and sincere they are.I also want to say that girl Taylor is so nice and it's very wonderful that she handles these types of situations with such love,respect and honesty.It's very very cool.
So much admiration & respect for you both! 💛 I love that you kept control in your own hands in sharing what you feel comfortable with, on your own terms and in a respectful way that ensures the safety of everyone involved. Loved this ep! Oh and the flip was ✨iconic ✨ I know boy Tay that you have commented on a previous episode about your regret on how you handled the night that Kanye made those awful comments. Watching the video of the beautiful words you spoke to TS was so healing to watch you, again take back that moment to give her the praise she deserved on that night and continued to deserve. It was truely beautiful to witness ❤
such incredible people! the way you guys talk about taylor is just so heartwarming - and the way you are with one another is absolutely the cutest! i'll rn start binging all the videos bc this just feels like an incredibly safe environment! 💛💛
You guys are my favorite. And so amazing to see you add the bit about suicide prevention at the end as I’m sure you knew this video would get a lot of views. Great job to spread awareness makes me love you guys even more
I appreciate y’all for using the end of this episode for something so important bc you know lots of eyes and ears will be on this 💗 I learned a lot as a person who has dealt with suicidal thoughts and actions my whole life. It can be a life saver to know just one person cares. I’ve had a safe spree of a month just now after a dark period from January to late June. It comes in waves and I’m still nervous but every day has been getting better and my hope and positivity is building each day. I have ptsd, bipolar and adhd and my bipolar meds and adhd meds are really helping me make that extra progress that it takes to get over that overwhelming dark place. One day at a time and before you know it, those thoughts are further away, the sun is shining, there’s more good days than bad, and you know you can be okay again.
And this is why I love all 3 Taylor's!!! I don't think any of the tays understand how much it means to us that this whole interaction actually happened and how thankful we are for it 🥰
a part of me wants to see taylor swift as a guest... simply to see how confusing it would be for the taylors to differentiate each other in conversation-especially for audio viewers who cant see who's looking at who-and all the different nicknames that could be used lol
I loved the flip! I’m glad he did it too, it’s so iconic to who he is. And it shows everyone that yes, he really really did his own stunts in the MV. He still gots it 😁
Girl Tay.. such a great example for everyone, but especially the younger generation. Your past doesn't need to be toxic. You can be secure and mature. I promise.
The story about the flip is too cute. I don't blame him for panic flipping. I wouldn't know what else to do to get down that runway without looking super awkward. You guys are just so cute I was smiling the whole time listening to this.
I'm so sorry I feel like so many people might be clicking off after the Taylor Swift segment myself included, and I just had to come back to specify my own reason: you two are lovely people and I would've loved to continue listening to the podcast regardless, but the topic of the interview is something that'd be way too heavy for me at the moment, so please forgive me for clicking away. Thank you for the amazing content and it's so refreshing to see such a genuinely positive and supportive and caring presence on this side of the interwebs. ♥
I used to fantasize that I was dating Taylor Lautner and he would surprise me with an introduction to Taylor Swift. So basically I dreamed I was Girl Tay.
Clicked to watch later & watched the full episode! 💜 Tysm for your topic at the end of the episode! Hearing Chase speak about remission was a msg so many ppl need to hear! You’re such a calm, caring couple with such a supportive relationship. The whole podcast made me feel relaxed, yet it was informative & was over before I realized it. I’m a new subscriber!
I came for the TS content because I'm an obsessed swiftie, but I stayed (and subscribed) after seeing your coverage on suicide. As a therapist who is both professionally and personally passionate about mental health awareness, this was some of the best content I've seen related to this topic. It was straight-forward, to the point, and very accessible, which is so refreshing to see. As a mental health professional, I whole heartedly agree with the advice and tips given (and that's often not the case). I can't wait to see next week's episode!
Wow. This episode became so helpful to me. I starting watching it for the TSwift tea but ended up getting so much out of the suicide conversation. 💕 thank you for this episode.
I was listening to TayTay as the die hard Swiftie I am. A suggested video popped up, aaaaannnnd here I am. Love this! I'm so glad I found y'all. Can't wait to see more of your videos :)
The way you two interact and speak to each other and about each other is truly heartwarming to watch. Even in a conversation about an ex, you are both nothing but kind and supportive. The music video was awesome! I loved the Spiderman meme photo the three of you did on set. Thanks for much for sharing that with us.
The cultural significance of this is unreal, we do not see celebrities talking about their ex's this way, we do not see current wives being complimentary to their husbands ex's in this way! To see the maturity, admiration and love from all 3 Taylors is so wonderful to see and lesson I hope many people follow!
This is like a group therapy for swifties, twilight fans, and listeners of Tay’s podcast❤❤❤
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Shows how Taylor understood and processed the break up well enough to not talk badly about her to his wife, he’s truly such a gentleman
I will also say that it takes a husband as good as Taylor Lautner that a wife can feel this secure in her relationship with him. Obviously she already has to be a stable/healthy person for it to work, but his role is very significant.
@@mushipoonot enough people mentioning this!! Tay in the past has mentioned how much he validated her which is huge. Love to see the healthy relationship … two mature people
my ranking of the three tays:
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@@Jellybeansatduskwhy does this remind me of stay,stay,stay
@HARRYPOTTERFAN201 blonde girl tay must have been subconsciously thinking about this moment (odds aren't in the favor of this theory) but it's fun to think this was all Taylor's doing
@@Swiftie4ever246tay tay tay, we’ve been loving them for quite some time time time
This made me laugh 😂
Boy Tay made a great choice with Girl Tay. She's so humble, secure, mature and assertive ❤
So agree. She is wonderful!
agreed❤
I will also say that it takes a husband as good as Taylor Lautner for a wife to feel this secure in her relationship. Obviously she already has to be a stable/healthy person for it to work, but let's agree his role is also very significant.
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And that's way Lautner is Swift's best ex... Gosh! He's really the one that got away for her.
@tiararoxeanne1318 no I think he was the one to show her what she deserves in a relationship and partner. If they were destined they would be together. Some people come in our lives at the wrong time to teach the right life lesson. The fact they can have a relationship with her to this day and all 3 have equal respect for eachother is so rare and it takes a lot of maturity to be able to do that. It wouldn't have happened if people's pride wasn't swallowed and apologized, that was the first step to building the foundation to their bond now. It definitely helps put things in perspective in how people can fix their wrongs and be able to move on and upward.
Im not even a swiftie, I know maybe a handful of her songs but I can respect the hell out of her and how she handles herself publicly and privately. This eras tour and what she's done for her staff alone has made me a fan of hers honestly. The way she treats people is amazing and shows how it's possible to properly treat your crew and staff. More companies, ceos, and manager's of musical artists should take notes.
@@krystinaxxlea "Some people come in our life at the wrong time to teach the right life lesson..."
Wow, that's deep. I've never seen it that way🤯. Makes me think about my ex. Oftentimes I get new knowledge or new perspective by reading internet comments. But this is the first time I get an inspirational quote from interaction with a stranger in the internet. Thank you for your reply🙏🙏🙏
@tiararoxeanne1318 I'm glad I could help 💜 I've been trying to change my mindset and look for the silver lining or positives in everything that happens especially when hard or bad situations happen. It's difficult at times but it's helping me see life in a better light and with the way the world is right now any bit of positivity is a good thing.
I think girl Tay's chill comes from security in the relationship and the fact that TS is respectful of the relationship. It is a whole other vibe from what most people experience with an ex. You guys are so sweet together. Taylor, great job in the video!
why would she be insecure…? they dated 13 years ago and it wasn’t a serious relationship. she has no reason to be insecure 😭
@@celebstarot Did you read my comment? I said she is SECURE in her relationship. Why even say this to me?
As a swiftie and a huge fan of Twilight… suddenly my favorite Taylor is girl Tay, she’s just the SWEETEST kindest person ever 😭
I would do everything for this trio, they’re the best thing that happened like ever 🫶
As another Swiftie and Twihard (although team Edward) I just love her so much too!!! She really won in life 😂
@@giulia6344 SHE DID! 😂 and it’s really refreshing to see someone who DESERVES to win in life… winning in life
Hello fellow twihards 😁😁
This couple seems so healthy that I feel like my trauma induced mind can’t comprehend it 😅😅 I love them so much though this episode was awesome keep being you 🫶🏼
Same!!! I look at them and I’m like “wait… this actually exists outside of fiction? Really? Should I expect this too?”
This is the first I’m learning about this podcast, and I have tears in my eyes at how precious they are.
Same it makes me emotional but like also gives me something to strive for. I love them so much and I’m so happy they found each other 🥹
Agree. It's hard to believe people can be so kind and loving with one another.
Wow love this! Girl Tay is so right about how important it is for men to talk respectfully about women (especially their exes). It’s so important for little girls to hear that
That was one of my favorite parts of the episode! So sweet and genuine, just like Taylor cubed!
Why do you have to make it about gender, everybody should be respectful to each other regardless of their gender, it’s just being a decent human being.
It’s so important for men and teenage boys to hear cause THEY are the ones who disrespect women
Totally agree that little girls need to hear that, especially after listening to Good 4 U a couple days ago. That kind of cruelty is completely unnecessary and doesn’t help anyone.
@GrandeSpencer you know some of the most hurtful and mean spirited things are said by woman, maybe men get all the flak cause society inherently makes men the bad guys due to our size and perceived harm we can cause but when you look at the whole population of men most men are not like this. It is the worst cases that get amplified the most in todays society which causes unnecessary fear of men.
In the age of social media bullying by girls is far worse as the phycological aspects girls can inflict is long lasting. Think of the tribalistic groups girls form over people they ideal. When those fandoms feel threaten or that they got disrespected their attacks and harassment is pretty brutal irregardless to whether the person deserves it. Now not all fandoms are like this all the time and there are guys in those fandom too but it is also not out of the norm to hear these fandoms go to war and blow things out of proportion. Woman are also pretty judgmental, on social media most of the comments around looks, drama, and gossip is from woman as the main audience for gossip is woman. Now personally I have nothing against woman, I like to believe it is a minority of bad actors that are causing all the noise but I also see the terrible things woman do to woman.
Boy Taylor calling Taylor Swift humble just solidified why I’m so proud to be a Swiftie! 💜💜💜
It’s so nice to hear people say positive things about Taylor Swift. ❤
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I love how girl Tay qualifies TS as blonde girl Tay so adorable. You three will be forever will be the perfect Trifecta of Taylors 😂
Couldn’t agree more! 💜
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"there are concerts, there are shows, then there's the Eras Tour" -- Boy Tay with a tan skin and a sweet smile
I love that the Lautner’s combined this highly anticipated podcast topic with another much needed mental health topic. I hope people listened to the whole thing and didn’t cut it off after the Taylor Swift part.
19:51 Boy Tay is gonna be an amazing dad but he will be an OUTSTANDING girl Dad. He'd be the ultimate girl Dad and no one can change my mind.
YES girl dad vibes!!
such girl dad vibes!!
the fact that girl tay addressed TS as "Miss Taylor Swift" gave me awe and so much respect for her. Boy Tay really made the right choice
“I wanna brag about her cause we know she’s not” TRUTH I haven’t got to meet her yet and I know she’s so humble. Y’all are amazing people for doing and talking about this.
I am just sooo appreciative and in awe of girl Tay. What a freaking role model she is! Embodiment of class, kindness, authenticity, and self-security. She deserves all the good things that has happened to her. Also got to know she was a pandemic nurse, and I love her even more. All the best, Lautners. The world could use more people like you!
Genuinely my favorite couple 🫶🏼 the fact that you can be so complimentary to Taylor swift despite once dating her/being her husbands ex without any tip toeing around or insecurity is so amazing. Love you both
Y'all did such a good job of keeping the surprise secret! That music video was so dope!
omgggg love y’all!!!
bro this comment is so underrated
girl tay is officially one of my favorite human beings ever
I know most people on here comment about the main subject of this podcast, but THANK YOU about the bit on suicide awareness. ❤ It was a smart move to put it in this episode specifically because of the reach and it was very useful and informative information.
couldn’t agree more 🩵
Completely agree ❤
The fact that midnight rain is one of your favs!!! I love the support. Ultimately they dated “in high school” or just out of it, and so many years have passed, it would be silly to not be mature and grow up about it. They are all amazing people! We, the fans love seeing the reunion and the good vibes, the mutual support. It’s amazing.
i want to like this comment, but it had 13 likes, so here’s my like! 👍
I applaud Girl Tay and boy Taylor for feeling secured into their relationship and marriage. It goes to both of them that they are able to become the person they are because of how they value and treat each other with their marriage. Sending love from PH!!
it's so nice hearing someone who has known taylor for over a decade say so genuinely that she is an amazing person, it makes me happy as a long term swiftie
Y’all are a fresh of breath air. The respect in this conversation about all Tays is awesome. You don’t see this kind of respect among ppl talking about their exes or husband’s ex.
Girl Tay, I applaud you. What an amazing, healing thing that must've been for them, and even though it wasn't about you, it couldn't have happened without you. What an amazing example of true love. ❤ boy Tay is a lucky man.
I was at the Kansas City show on Friday and this moment was unbelievable! But it was not because it was Taylor Swift and Taylor Lautner but because the love and respect they all showed for each other was inspiring. It was indeed a great moment and a fantastic show!!! It was also my birthday and it was the best way to celebrate the start of my 20s!!
I want to cry. This is adorable and so mature. I am so proud of the 3 tays
I just love how girl Tay is such a swiftie at heart lol it’s so amazing. It’s a breath of fresh air cause I feel like most people might be a little biter that your husbands ex wrote a song about him and that ex just so happens to be the music industry aka Taylor Swift 😂 she has such a calm vibe about her I love it
All the things: 1. “Girl” Tay’s voice is so soothing… I just started the pause and her voice just reeled me in and she had me sobbing with her beautiful, raw honesty in her kind voice… 2. How surreal is it to see your spouse wearing your ex’s face on their shirt?! 🤪🙃 I can’t imagine 3. I love the lemon puns and motifs 🍋🍋🍋🍋🍋 4. The heart of this podcast is so real and pure and I’m glad this podcast exists…
My first episode and I regret that choice! I should have been here sooner.
Thank you for representing healthy relationships, my husband has become friends with the exes I continue to be friends with. Not every relationship ends in horror and you can continue to have a caring friendship after. The colab was epic and perfect. I’m so happy TS has such great support from you guys.
This is so genuinely sweet! They are so respectful to each other and to Taylor and it’s just so clear the love! ❤️
When i panic, I have a panic attacks, when boy Tay panics, he does back flips 😂
The fact that Mrs. Lautner is just really excited to share her thoughts about being a fan of TS. I can see her genuine smile and excitement when she talks about her idol and reminiscing her moments with TS 10yrs ago and declaring herself as the voice of the swifties! Aaahhh!!!! Thankyou for this episode. You literally nailed it. And now you're gonna be our representative!!! I loveyou both and thanks for loving TS.
AND YEAH! WE ALL AGREE THAT YOU'RE LIVING OUR DREAMS, AND YOU DESERVED IT.
Btw, i'm from the Philippines and i enjoyed watching your podcast (i'mjust a quiet listener/subscriber before) ❤❤❤
Ex-“squeeze” me!!! You guys doing your top 5 TS song picks, and your excitement, here for it! Love that you did that! And that you had this ultimate fan-Tay experience at the concert, and now you get to talk about it. And your husband is in a Taylor Swift video!! And rocked it. The ultimate everything!! Amazing! ❤ Loved the back flip!! 💕👍
i just have to say, it’s absolutely amazing to add something so important to the end of this video. i’m sure you guys knew this video would reach A LOT of people, and using your platform to bring awareness to such a profoundly important issue says so so so much about the people that you are. as an OG swiftie and twilight stan with passive ideation, this means so much to me.
This was so freaking good. Exile is such a superior song, I'm so glad TL agrees 😁 As a longtime Swiftie and a midnight premiere-going Twilight stan, this podcast was everything. I was so blessed to be there on 7/7. If you would've told my 15 year old self back in 2009 that I would be in the same room as TS and TL in 2023, I would've probably died on the spot. Thanks for the full circle moment for all of us, TS, TL, and longtime fans included ❤
AND girl Tay!! With her, there’s happiness for TL !!
I think exile is one of the best songs ever of hers. As well as the 1. So GOOD
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YES I love exile 🥰
Seeing this healthy, loving relationship makes me so happy for both of you. KC night 1 made my 13 year old heart explode. I was team jacob thru and thru, and stanned Taylor & Taylor hardcore… but seeing them be friends and genuinely respect each other just.. it’s magical. And Girl Tay, I love basically every single thing you do. Your personality is top tier, and ugh. You’re just both great. ❤
Came for the "Tea Time" (and thoroughly enjoyed it!), but am also so glad I stuck around for the information about Suicidal Ideation. As a newer-ish teacher, I have received training on suicide prevention, but the information that Dr. Chase shared felt much more helpful and approachable. Thank you for asking such great questions and getting this info out to everyone!
OH also, Girl Tay's reaction to being asked her top 3 favorite T.S. songs was so relatable! This is a difficult question for any Swiftie to answer, and it just gets harder with every new album and re-recording.
Omg agreed! I’m a somewhat seasoned teacher (11 years yay 💜) and have been to so many training but nothing as personal and actionable like this one!
As a fan of blonde girl Taylor for over a decade, I am very touched by how highly you speak of her as an artist and even more so as a human being. I also want to say that both of you, boy Tay and girl Tay, are just as wonderful as you described blonde girl Taylor. It's not every day you see someone think and speak so highly of a person, whether they have a past or not. It says a lot about your maturity and manners that you can praise someone who deserves it. You two are a wonderful couple, but more importantly, you are wonderful individuals on your own. So much love for everyone x
this is so respectful and kind- just love for the 3 Tays!!!!
Thank you for doing a segment on suicide prevention. My dad unfortunately took his own life and this was in 2005. We have come SUCH a long way in treatment and mental health, but making people more aware is such a good thing to do. Maybe if we were more aware, we could've helped him
I was in Liverpool stood outside the Cunard building watching you guys filming I Can See You 😂 there were like 6 of us stood there watching you all running we didn't wanna shout and scream and be those people, and we even decided not to post what we saw either until after the video came out 💕
😮 please share your link 😅
Omg you guys r reals fans, we need more fans like this❤
@@paulalorena25 thanks! We were so lucky to have seen anything at all, and lucky that the 6 of us waiting were all agreeing to keep it quiet. Annoyingly a paparazzi guy was lurking and got photos 🙄 we stayed til like 3am 😂 everyone was acting like they didn't know who was there. Some people idk if they were security or crew or what came over and we're speaking to us, I was telling them how long I've been a fan (since 06!) and that id seen her in America and Holland, and how id protect what I'd seen with my life until the video was out! They agreed I was a good fan. I was just like well yeah why would I want to spoil things that are in the making! So yeah that was months ago, it was cold and where they filmed is close to the river so the wind was really blowing haha! A security guy gave my friend a coat for her to wear haha
@@Tessa.G haha I didn't put anything online, we had videos but there's things in the way so you just see them running, and one of Taylor (you can't tell it's her on the video but I saw her haha) looking over footage filmed.
I love the discussion with dr. Chase. Something a lot of people are scared to talk about and admit is when they have suicidal thoughts. Or even knowing you have friends/family who feel that way and don’t know what to do at times when you are facing someone in that situation. Thank you for bringing light to this topic.
The title of the episode, I can't😂❤ love you both, aunt and uncle taylor!!
I love it so much!! Thanks for doing this episode for the Swifties!! Now you’ll just have to invite blonde Taylor for an episode!!
That would be so amazing! 💜
I really ADORE how Tay and Tay treat and talk to each other. ❤️ I'm glad they found one another
girl tay you have fans now. wow she’s so sweet and down to earth i think they’re my fav couple ever hope they keep respecting and loving each other like this❤
I screamed in my livingroom when boy Tay dropped from the ceiling.
Dude same!!!
I flipped out cried and jumped out of my bed so I did not wake up my husband 😂
Both Tays have really calming voices , I think this could be my nighttime routine podcast ❤
Girl Tay dubbing herself the swiftie middleman is literally the cutest thing I’ve ever heard
As one of the 70,000 - that night was so special & amazing! Thanks Tay x 3 💜
The amount of support in this video is very mature and so awesome to see. Your podcasts are all so mature and great, but I have a feeling that this one will hit fans on another point and level.
PLEASE PLEASE bring back Chase Anderson again. His suggestions on how to broach the subject of suicidal ideation was spot on- we all could learn so much from him. I’m 68, a retired nurse and loving you guys!!!!
I don’t see a video of theirs where they talk to chase Anderson? Is it just an audio version that’s available
@@Andyyoureastarthey talked to him during the last 1/3 of this video.
Thank you so much for this video. I listened to it on the drive to see my Dad whom is/was suicidal. It's been extremely hard as his daughter. I want to love & support him, but I often try to take care of him too much. I moved to the LA area 7 weeks ago & drove 1 hour nearly every day the past 7 weeks just to see him. I pray everyday for his wellbeing & mine.
She’s the sweetest person on earth i really love their love and respect for each other
The story about girl Tay meeting Taylor Swift when she was younger 🥺🥺🥺 love you all!! You guys make such a beautiful couple and I love the maturity and friendship with TS 🩷
I been dreaming for years for him to be in one of Taylor’s music video and I can’t believe it actually happened!😭
The relationship all three Taylor's have with one another is so beautiful! They are amazing and I'm so happy they all ended up being good friends in the end.
having the portion on mental health before talking about it with guests is truly amazing. i am super impressed with the balance this podcast has. it was funny and insightful. 💕can’t wait to watch more :)
I’m so glad they found each other! They are so perfect together and they are so good to each other ❤
HEALTHIEST RELATIONSHIP EVER!!!! ROOTING ALWAYS FOR THE TWO OF YOU!!!!
And love how mental health and suicide issues and all of those hard topics are talked openly 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️ thank you for that.
When the description says "So glad you made time to listen" 😂
But of course, I'm so excited about this!!!
They are such good models of mutual respect, support and safety within a relationship. This is good for young people to see, that love can also be safety.
This was honestly the best way to approach people’s wants for the information and a brilliant way to get your podcast out there! Also lemon drops is the best community name😍
Coming from a fellow swiftie and lemon drop that also struggles with their mental health, I just wanted to thank you for this episode! You guys talk about blonde girl tay being such an incredible human....well you are both just as incredible! Keep up the good work!!!!!! 🍋 💛 🍋
Like everyone I’m in awe of girl tays maturity and their relationship is obviously so pure and genuine ❤ seeing girls supporting girls so lovely and refreshing to see! Props to you both 🙌🏻
I had floor tickets for Saturday but I could feel it in my bones that Friday was going to be a truly one of a kind show. When ticket prices dropped that morning my husband decided we should do it and I'm so glad we did! We had rough seats behind the stage. But I could see y'all's tent and was zooming to see who was in there. As a team Jacober for life, I absolutely melted when she said she was going to premiere a music video for us. (some pics had leaked 😕 so I had some ideas). I knew you'd be there when she said that, and it was absolutely magical. Thanks for being there, it was so unbelievably fun! I think my husband was worried for my sanity by the end of the night. 😅
Fast tracking to becoming my favorite couple. Girl Tay is so cool and I'm in awe of how a genuinely nice, secure and confident woman she is.
love that mother tay and aunt and uncle tay are all friends. this is a great episode, i loved it 🫶🏼💜
I genuinely love them so much and the respect that they have for each other and even for TS is so freaking amazing and the world should have more mature people like them and I love how honest and sincere they are.I also want to say that girl Taylor is so nice and it's very wonderful that she handles these types of situations with such love,respect and honesty.It's very very cool.
So much admiration & respect for you both! 💛 I love that you kept control in your own hands in sharing what you feel comfortable with, on your own terms and in a respectful way that ensures the safety of everyone involved. Loved this ep! Oh and the flip was ✨iconic ✨ I know boy Tay that you have commented on a previous episode about your regret on how you handled the night that Kanye made those awful comments. Watching the video of the beautiful words you spoke to TS was so healing to watch you, again take back that moment to give her the praise she deserved on that night and continued to deserve. It was truely beautiful to witness ❤
they are just too cute. and her voice is so soothing.
I don’t normally listen to podcasts but I love the squeeze 😩 it gives me an hour of peace ♥️
I rarely ever like podcasts but this is the 3rd episode I've watched over the last few months.
such incredible people! the way you guys talk about taylor is just so heartwarming - and the way you are with one another is absolutely the cutest! i'll rn start binging all the videos bc this just feels like an incredibly safe environment! 💛💛
You guys are my favorite. And so amazing to see you add the bit about suicide prevention at the end as I’m sure you knew this video would get a lot of views. Great job to spread awareness makes me love you guys even more
I appreciate y’all for using the end of this episode for something so important bc you know lots of eyes and ears will be on this 💗 I learned a lot as a person who has dealt with suicidal thoughts and actions my whole life. It can be a life saver to know just one person cares. I’ve had a safe spree of a month just now after a dark period from January to late June. It comes in waves and I’m still nervous but every day has been getting better and my hope and positivity is building each day. I have ptsd, bipolar and adhd and my bipolar meds and adhd meds are really helping me make that extra progress that it takes to get over that overwhelming dark place. One day at a time and before you know it, those thoughts are further away, the sun is shining, there’s more good days than bad, and you know you can be okay again.
And this is why I love all 3 Taylor's!!! I don't think any of the tays understand how much it means to us that this whole interaction actually happened and how thankful we are for it 🥰
The songs u guys pick as your favorites are sooooo good, all too well 10 minute version has my heart
a part of me wants to see taylor swift as a guest... simply to see how confusing it would be for the taylors to differentiate each other in conversation-especially for audio viewers who cant see who's looking at who-and all the different nicknames that could be used lol
Oh the chaos that would ensue
I loved the flip! I’m glad he did it too, it’s so iconic to who he is. And it shows everyone that yes, he really really did his own stunts in the MV. He still gots it 😁
The tale of the 3 Taylor’s. Great episode! I love the episodes with just the 2 of you talking. They are my favorite
Girl Tay.. such a great example for everyone, but especially the younger generation. Your past doesn't need to be toxic. You can be secure and mature. I promise.
So excited for this!! Love you guys and that you call us Lemon Drops 😭🫶🏻
The episode just started and I love it already. ❤ You are both so positive. This podcast is absolutely one of my favorites to listen too.
The story about the flip is too cute. I don't blame him for panic flipping. I wouldn't know what else to do to get down that runway without looking super awkward.
You guys are just so cute I was smiling the whole time listening to this.
I have been waiting my whole teenage life for this
You guys just give off such wholesome, good energy. Always good conversations and such kindhearted people. Perfect match ❤
Ahhhh the silence after midnight rain was so loud!! You guys are both sunshine😉
YES ❤
Time stop? Or was this at the show
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The respect and love y’all have for each other is so admirable. All 3 Taylor’s are just incredibly kind, amazing human beings.
I'm so sorry I feel like so many people might be clicking off after the Taylor Swift segment myself included, and I just had to come back to specify my own reason: you two are lovely people and I would've loved to continue listening to the podcast regardless, but the topic of the interview is something that'd be way too heavy for me at the moment, so please forgive me for clicking away. Thank you for the amazing content and it's so refreshing to see such a genuinely positive and supportive and caring presence on this side of the interwebs. ♥
I'm sure they understand. 💛
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I used to fantasize that I was dating Taylor Lautner and he would surprise me with an introduction to Taylor Swift. So basically I dreamed I was Girl Tay.
Clicked to watch later & watched the full episode! 💜 Tysm for your topic at the end of the episode! Hearing Chase speak about remission was a msg so many ppl need to hear! You’re such a calm, caring couple with such a supportive relationship. The whole podcast made me feel relaxed, yet it was informative & was over before I realized it. I’m a new subscriber!
I came for the TS content because I'm an obsessed swiftie, but I stayed (and subscribed) after seeing your coverage on suicide. As a therapist who is both professionally and personally passionate about mental health awareness, this was some of the best content I've seen related to this topic. It was straight-forward, to the point, and very accessible, which is so refreshing to see. As a mental health professional, I whole heartedly agree with the advice and tips given (and that's often not the case). I can't wait to see next week's episode!
Wow. This episode became so helpful to me. I starting watching it for the TSwift tea but ended up getting so much out of the suicide conversation. 💕 thank you for this episode.
I was listening to TayTay as the die hard Swiftie I am. A suggested video popped up, aaaaannnnd here I am. Love this! I'm so glad I found y'all. Can't wait to see more of your videos :)
The way you two interact and speak to each other and about each other is truly heartwarming to watch. Even in a conversation about an ex, you are both nothing but kind and supportive. The music video was awesome! I loved the Spiderman meme photo the three of you did on set. Thanks for much for sharing that with us.
Girl Tay, your voice scratches my brain in the best way. I don’t know what it is about it lol