Too bad for all of the money she ALREADY paid. Had she left SOONER she could have kept more of it. I wanted a follow up where the mother and ex husband both end up homeless and have to sleep in the dog house literally.
She should not even have NEEDED to be helping her mother in law as much as she was. Just BEING MARRIED TO HER SON is enough to be considered a member of the family and be treated as such.
What us wrong with these mothers. I am very grateful for the spouses of each one of my children. Whether I would marry them or not isn't relevant! Ridiculous if people like this actually exist.
I absolutely HATE the "man" my youngest daughter is living with,but she loves him, so I stay quiet. I would rather have my daughter in my life than prove I am right about him. Hopefully, in time, she will realize that he is a no-good idiot who can't seem to stay out of jail.
The way homelessness is portrayed in this story. My mom kicked me out at 14 years old because her new boyfriend said I was cute. I was on the street until I turned 16. I studied for and passed the GED exam. I started working and was able to rent a room with a family near my job at the supermarket. Being homeless is extremely difficult :/
Absolutely time to get Divorced, not a separation, put a lien against the home. How this young lady was roped into this unbearable situation is beyond rational.
The loan is in Lisa's name. Maybe it was for renovations for MIL's house but it's still her responsibility. If she stops paying, it's her credit that's going to take the hit. And if she took out a personal loan to pay for the renovations, how was she able to use someone else's house as collateral.
You do have a point, however if there was a way to remedy the loan by stating she isn't an occupant and in the divorce made her ex husband take over the loan as his own because he lives there or his mother putting in her name because she lives there, that would be the reason she could possibly stop paying the loan! Since it was renovations it was going through the Mortgage company and she was the Gaurantor the guarantor I believe can stop paying and it would be on the other parties who list the address as occupied! So when it comes to realtor finances there are outs to it!
Ikr. even if they used the equity in the home, the bank/mprtgage company isn't going to have the DIL as the person responsible for the loan. I don't think Tom would be responsible for the loan either. They might have her or Tom as the guarantor in case Mil can't pay. The loan should be in MIL's name.
This is simple, put a mechanics lien against the house. Unfortunately it is a more common situation in America . There are always ways to put the debt on the home owners
Only problem with this is that if the loan is in her name... She can't just stop paying it, she's still accountable, not the nasty MIL Also, I find it incredibly unlikely that a whole house renovation could be done for only $2000. Feels like that's missing at least a couple zeroes lol
My husband...well he commited a crime and decided to off himself rather than do what would have been life in prison. His family of leeches blamed ME?! SMH THEN they all wanted to know what THEY would get from his death. He hadn't worked do to health problems for many years... I owned a business.. THEY acted like THEY should even recieve some of MY business. I ended up falling into a coma woke up paralyzed. Lost my business do to almost a year in the hospital.Not one of them visited. They only call to try to get money now.. I've had to change my number many times.
So similar about the family I was in, iwas With a female for seven year's, treating her mob as family, worked hard, paid bill's etc, everything was fine until we were expecting my first child a daughter!!! Then soon afterward the birth mother decided to move her proudly unemployed brother and two other unemployed idiots, they (including the birth mother) now fully allowed her son and relatives steal cash and things I got for My child,I encluded her son as my own, but nothing changed except the locks on the house I was paying for rent bills etc then they called social services (, child protection services) accusing me of violence, drugs selling and taking, yet I was working in the next county over from mine!!?? They even attempt to Access my bank account, needless to say my daughter turned out the same, I wasn't family (apparently ) just a cash cow , aka ATM machine, so after years of abuse by the drugged up loser's and their lies, they lost the House I was paying for, as unemployed druggies couldn't pay their way, they used the daughter to emotionally blackmail me into paying up, explained how can anyone ask a person dead in her eyes pay for anyone!??? Last I heard the birth mother and her daughter were and still are homeless, pity really,but no way back for any of them
I just want to know who the helium voice is lol. HOW in the HELL do you do that? Listening to that is the most comical thing I have heard in a long time lol. Hope you dont hurt yourself with it tho.
Quit paying anything to that family considering the mother-in-law does not see you as family even though you have married her son and when she asks for help down the road tell her point Blake no you said I'm not your family so the only one that I will help is my husband who married me not you...
Why was the loan in DIL's name and not Tom's? Wow, Tom. What did she see in Tom? How did she let Tom talk her into getting a loan in her name for ungrateful MIL and husband? I figured he was jobless. I wouldn't be surprised if he was cheating. Where's FIL in all this? Evil MIL wants to have "fun conversations" with her son. DIL should ship Tom's things to his mom's house. I'm glad DIL has a backbone. $2K? for a house renovation? In what country? I thought it was more like $20K. What does MIL mean she can't live like this? Why would she start over with Tom? She isn't going to make Tom pay anything. Wait! What? You can't use another person's house as collateral for a renovation loan on their house. Ofc, MIL lost her house. I guess she couldn't make Tom get a job after all. Mil should have gotten a job instead of relying on her precious son. Why didn't she call her precious daughter to help? I guess Tom didn't really care which way the wind blows.
She’s going to be in for a shock if she just stops paying the loan. Its in her name, she can’t just stop paying it or randomly switch it to someone else. Even trying to sue them for the value of the loan wouldn’t be a sure thing, she took it out voluntarily. Some of these stories need a little research to make sure they aren’t completely ridiculous.
@@QueenSunstar Unfortunately if Tom was unemployed and had no savings, the bank or loan company most likely would never have allowed him to assume the loan.
@@ellenosceola5707 It was probably in the divorce decree which means little to nothing to a financial institution. Just like you said no lender would extend the loan to an unemployed person with no savings.
I'm still stuck on the loan being in her name.... WHY? it's not her house.. why is she paying for someone else's home renovations? I'd pay for MY mom's home renovation cause that's my mommy.. Tom should've been paying his mother's.. why is her home renovation even someone else's responsibility? If she can't afford it, she shouldn't be getting it done.. she doesn't even see her as family, super disrespectful towards her.. I'm just flabbergasted.. she kept saying it's just a small amount.. if it's just a small amount why isn't SHE paying for her own home loan? 🙄.. I'm not understanding why this very grown man Tom not working? You have to work to eat, pay bills.. he's a grown arse man.. this is cause his ex wife allowed him to just stay at home and do nothing.. he's used to people taking care of him. Why would he work?
I wonder what happened to the husband? Aside from the mention of him not having a job yet it only mentions what ex-MIL is doing in the after that. Given everything I’m guessing because he was likely living with his mom he got kicked out with her when they couldn’t pay. I get the feeling while the mom regrets her actions(since it means OP won’t pay for her shit anymore) she’s turned her behavior onto her son as he didn’t tell her the truth until it was too late & he should be working. He probably has to deal with his mom nagging him to get a job so they can have a place to stay.
After hearing EVERY WORD she said LOUD and CLEAR........ I would STOP paying and wouldn't give her not one more thing dime!!! And WAIT... Did they say the loan was only $2000 but she thought is was $200?!! Ok so are the monthly payments $2000 then?!! But what ever it was she got what she deserved and even that wasn't enough. LoL
MIL logic ... if her son is paying for the house, it's only his house. If the DIL has the loan in her name and is paying all of it, it's still more her son's house. You can only be made to look like an idiot if you allow it to happen. Stopping it is why lawyers exist. That and put a lien on the house. Stopping pay
This story is so damn stupid.. woman’s a dumbass for paying all the bills and letting her husband and in-laws use and abuse her.. These stories feel so unbelievable because I would never let anyone mistreat me this way.
I lived with my husband family for 3 yrs and paid all my bills and house bills including a storage unit we all agreed to pay! They only payed me 2 times their share and mind you I am doing all of this part time job, until the last summer I was able to get a full-time position!I got into an argument with my FIL we always argued every summer living on the second floor apartment they refused to turn on the AC while there are 6 people living there Myself, Husband (thier son) my two small kids under 10yrs old and those 2 morons in laws as well as my dog a Husky, Husband cat and thier 2 pets! I would have to ask to turn on the AC because all the windows would be open! But having a husky in the Summer requires them to be kept cool! My FIL " called me a guest in the house" I fired back a guest they pay bills right? Stop acting important you just got on the lease because we will be leaving. My husband and I made it so we would never spend another summer in that apartment, We closed on our house in May and Officially moved out the following Month when school ended! Then the most ungrateful thing they did was not get thier stuff out of my storage unit, so I paid to get it out. ESSENTIALLY I PAID FOR 2 MOVES not a thank you. So I told my husband, them and his side of the family I will not come around until they pay me the cost of moving thier stuff out my storage unit! I haven't talked to them since and its wonderful!!
I do not believe the MIL was ever "Sorry" the only thing she was sorry about was the fact she was not getting any more money. You can tell that is true straight away. The MIL's son is there yet, did the MIL force her son to go out and work? No. Therefore she was saying loud and clear I am not sorry and I done nothing wrong. It is very easy to say "Sorry" it is a lot harder to mean it. Although I did note a discrepancy. If the loan was in fact in Lisa's name then she could not simply stop paying it. Unless, once the divorce was finalized that was one of the things transferred to the ex's name. It does not say that and considering he was unemployed maybe that was one of his conditions instead of a monetary split.
So we are supposed to think a $2000 loan would a-be too hard to pay back? ever heard of installments? b. cause the home owner to lose their home- the best the loan company could do initially is put a lien on the house. this whole story line is BS
Out of all the text stories these are the worst.. Kind of reminds me of when my kids were little and their homework was for them to read their book to their parents.. It was boring and I almost fell asleep..
Rachel’s voice is very antagonistic. Even though the story paint her as the victim it’s not realistic to be talking in that way. I think voice actor needs to change the way she speaks. I was starting to dislike her as a character purely for that voice.
I like the stories and content but the voices who are telling the stories really need to be more animated, involved with more emotions. It all seems to be so... flat.
I’m gonna have to stop listening to this channel. The women always sound like they’re about 13 and have no emotion, except being dumbfounded, or surprised.
And unbelievable.A financially independent woman with quite a good job tolerating such a loser-yes, it happens-women with crappy family background sometimes behave irrationally. But inviting a son with his wife and then not allowing her to come in ? Are you for real a recreational writer?
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This lady is so lucky to get away from this toxic mother-in-law
Too bad for all of the money she ALREADY paid. Had she left SOONER she could have kept more of it. I wanted a follow up where the mother and ex husband both end up homeless and have to sleep in the dog house literally.
This is the Best story I have heard in a long time. The wife stands up for herself and is not a pushover. The only relatable story. Thank you
She should not even have NEEDED to be helping her mother in law as much as she was. Just BEING MARRIED TO HER SON is enough to be considered a member of the family and be treated as such.
What us wrong with these mothers. I am very grateful for the spouses of each one of my children. Whether I would marry them or not isn't relevant! Ridiculous if people like this actually exist.
They do. The meme of the overbearing or straight up evil mother in law is thousands of years old apparently.
They do though, I once bought the wrong size potatoes, I made the mistake of getting a 10 pound bag for a 1.25
I absolutely HATE the "man" my youngest daughter is living with,but she loves him, so I stay quiet. I would rather have my daughter in my life than prove I am right about him.
Hopefully, in time, she will realize that he is a no-good idiot who can't seem to stay out of jail.
Happy Saturday Everyone from Tacoma Washington !( Stay Safe and warm )
The way homelessness is portrayed in this story. My mom kicked me out at 14 years old because her new boyfriend said I was cute. I was on the street until I turned 16. I studied for and passed the GED exam. I started working and was able to rent a room with a family near my job at the supermarket. Being homeless is extremely difficult :/
Absolutely time to get Divorced, not a separation, put a lien against the home. How this young lady was roped into this unbearable situation is beyond rational.
The loan is in Lisa's name. Maybe it was for renovations for MIL's house but it's still her responsibility. If she stops paying, it's her credit that's going to take the hit. And if she took out a personal loan to pay for the renovations, how was she able to use someone else's house as collateral.
You do have a point, however if there was a way to remedy the loan by stating she isn't an occupant and in the divorce made her ex husband take over the loan as his own because he lives there or his mother putting in her name because she lives there, that would be the reason she could possibly stop paying the loan! Since it was renovations it was going through the Mortgage company and she was the Gaurantor the guarantor I believe can stop paying and it would be on the other parties who list the address as occupied! So when it comes to realtor finances there are outs to it!
Ikr. even if they used the equity in the home, the bank/mprtgage company isn't going to have the DIL as the person responsible for the loan. I don't think Tom would be responsible for the loan either. They might have her or Tom as the guarantor in case Mil can't pay. The loan should be in MIL's name.
As others said: probably moved the loan to hubby or his mother’s name in the divorce.
@@Cuaedria She should get a really good lawyer, it isn't so simple (in my country).
This is simple, put a mechanics lien against the house. Unfortunately it is a more common situation in America . There are always ways to put the debt on the home owners
I’m not sure how if the loan was in her name, she could stop paying without ruining her credit. She made it sound like she took out the loan.
The fil in this family must be a wimp to let mil get away with this!!!!
he might have left the crazy bat long ago, too many crazy people in 1 house ...
These stories have just about no emotion to them, it all feels so cold
Only problem with this is that if the loan is in her name... She can't just stop paying it, she's still accountable, not the nasty MIL
Also, I find it incredibly unlikely that a whole house renovation could be done for only $2000. Feels like that's missing at least a couple zeroes lol
My husband...well he commited a crime and decided to off himself rather than do what would have been life in prison.
His family of leeches blamed ME?! SMH
THEN they all wanted to know what THEY would get from his death.
He hadn't worked do to health problems for many years... I owned a business.. THEY acted like THEY should even recieve some of MY business.
I ended up falling into a coma woke up paralyzed. Lost my business do to almost a year in the hospital.Not one of them visited. They only call to try to get money now.. I've had to change my number many times.
As a fellow Lisa, I would take out everything the renovation paid for. I don’t care if any of it is a load bearing beam either
Good story. I love a protagonist with stones.
Some mother-in-law are awful, now her and her precious son are homeless, never spite the hand that takes care of you
So similar about the family I was in, iwas With a female for seven year's, treating her mob as family, worked hard, paid bill's etc, everything was fine until we were expecting my first child a daughter!!! Then soon afterward the birth mother decided to move her proudly unemployed brother and two other unemployed idiots, they (including the birth mother) now fully allowed her son and relatives steal cash and things I got for My child,I encluded her son as my own, but nothing changed except the locks on the house I was paying for rent bills etc then they called social services (, child protection services) accusing me of violence, drugs selling and taking, yet I was working in the next county over from mine!!?? They even attempt to Access my bank account, needless to say my daughter turned out the same, I wasn't family (apparently ) just a cash cow , aka ATM machine, so after years of abuse by the drugged up loser's and their lies, they lost the House I was paying for, as unemployed druggies couldn't pay their way, they used the daughter to emotionally blackmail me into paying up, explained how can anyone ask a person dead in her eyes pay for anyone!??? Last I heard the birth mother and her daughter were and still are homeless, pity really,but no way back for any of them
My condolences to you sir.
Hope life gets better soon
If you treat people horribly, then they won't be there when you need them.
Mother's in-law do know that daughter's in-laws aren't slaves or incubators for their grandchildren,right?
op also a momma's boy, who thinks his mommy is funny when she is not
this mil is horrible, op is a hurman being for goodness sakes
I love stories where the wife gets rid of the garbage mama’s boy, and his garbage mama, too! 😈😈
I just want to know who the helium voice is lol. HOW in the HELL do you do that? Listening to that is the most comical thing I have heard in a long time lol. Hope you dont hurt yourself with it tho.
Quit paying anything to that family considering the mother-in-law does not see you as family even though you have married her son and when she asks for help down the road tell her point Blake no you said I'm not your family so the only one that I will help is my husband who married me not you...
Calling that guy trash and garbage is it insulting same would go for his mother
Exactly. I was widowed and then later divorced. Both MIL's we're sweet ladies.
Why was the loan in DIL's name and not Tom's? Wow, Tom. What did she see in Tom? How did she let Tom talk her into getting a loan in her name for ungrateful MIL and husband? I figured he was jobless. I wouldn't be surprised if he was cheating. Where's FIL in all this? Evil MIL wants to have "fun conversations" with her son. DIL should ship Tom's things to his mom's house. I'm glad DIL has a backbone. $2K? for a house renovation? In what country? I thought it was more like $20K. What does MIL mean she can't live like this? Why would she start over with Tom? She isn't going to make Tom pay anything. Wait! What? You can't use another person's house as collateral for a renovation loan on their house. Ofc, MIL lost her house. I guess she couldn't make Tom get a job after all. Mil should have gotten a job instead of relying on her precious son. Why didn't she call her precious daughter to help? I guess Tom didn't really care which way the wind blows.
She’s going to be in for a shock if she just stops paying the loan. Its in her name, she can’t just stop paying it or randomly switch it to someone else. Even trying to sue them for the value of the loan wouldn’t be a sure thing, she took it out voluntarily.
Some of these stories need a little research to make sure they aren’t completely ridiculous.
It was switched to Tom during the divorce.
@@QueenSunstar Unfortunately if Tom was unemployed and had no savings, the bank or loan company most likely would never have allowed him to assume the loan.
@@ellenosceola5707 It was probably in the divorce decree which means little to nothing to a financial institution. Just like you said no lender would extend the loan to an unemployed person with no savings.
The big question: why was she still married to that loser? Should have divorced him ages ago.
The mother and son are crazy 🤪 😜
I'm still stuck on the loan being in her name.... WHY? it's not her house.. why is she paying for someone else's home renovations? I'd pay for MY mom's home renovation cause that's my mommy.. Tom should've been paying his mother's.. why is her home renovation even someone else's responsibility? If she can't afford it, she shouldn't be getting it done.. she doesn't even see her as family, super disrespectful towards her.. I'm just flabbergasted.. she kept saying it's just a small amount.. if it's just a small amount why isn't SHE paying for her own home loan? 🙄.. I'm not understanding why this very grown man Tom not working? You have to work to eat, pay bills.. he's a grown arse man.. this is cause his ex wife allowed him to just stay at home and do nothing.. he's used to people taking care of him. Why would he work?
I wonder what happened to the husband? Aside from the mention of him not having a job yet it only mentions what ex-MIL is doing in the after that.
Given everything I’m guessing because he was likely living with his mom he got kicked out with her when they couldn’t pay. I get the feeling while the mom regrets her actions(since it means OP won’t pay for her shit anymore) she’s turned her behavior onto her son as he didn’t tell her the truth until it was too late & he should be working. He probably has to deal with his mom nagging him to get a job so they can have a place to stay.
After hearing EVERY WORD she said LOUD and CLEAR........ I would STOP paying and wouldn't give her not one more thing dime!!!
And WAIT... Did they say the loan was only $2000 but she thought is was $200?!!
Ok so are the monthly payments $2000 then?!! But what ever it was she got what she deserved and even that wasn't enough. LoL
MIL is about to be homeless
MIL logic ... if her son is paying for the house, it's only his house. If the DIL has the loan in her name and is paying all of it, it's still more her son's house.
You can only be made to look like an idiot if you allow it to happen. Stopping it is why lawyers exist.
That and put a lien on the house. Stopping pay
The loan is not 2000, the loan repayments are 2000/month. Sloppy writing.
I was thinking the same thing. Because $2000 for renovations is cheap, $2000 a month sounds better, expensive, but better
So the daughter in law had the loan in her name and the bank went after the mother in law's house? Mmhmm! 😝
I would leave immediately.
Except the loan was in Rachel’s name and she can’t just stop paying 😂 nice try
This story is so damn stupid.. woman’s a dumbass for paying all the bills and letting her husband and in-laws use and abuse her.. These stories feel so unbelievable because I would never let anyone mistreat me this way.
Wow MIL is wow. Your not family. But your married to my son so you have to pay? Your good enough to support us butt not good enough to be family
Don't really know what a dollar buys at a guess
What's her daughter and her family doing???
Why is she forcing Tom to find a job
I lived with my husband family for 3 yrs and paid all my bills and house bills including a storage unit we all agreed to pay! They only payed me 2 times their share and mind you I am doing all of this part time job, until the last summer I was able to get a full-time position!I got into an argument with my FIL we always argued every summer living on the second floor apartment they refused to turn on the AC while there are 6 people living there Myself, Husband (thier son) my two small kids under 10yrs old and those 2 morons in laws as well as my dog a Husky, Husband cat and thier 2 pets! I would have to ask to turn on the AC because all the windows would be open! But having a husky in the Summer requires them to be kept cool! My FIL " called me a guest in the house" I fired back a guest they pay bills right? Stop acting important you just got on the lease because we will be leaving. My husband and I made it so we would never spend another summer in that apartment, We closed on our house in May and Officially moved out the following Month when school ended! Then the most ungrateful thing they did was not get thier stuff out of my storage unit, so I paid to get it out. ESSENTIALLY I PAID FOR 2 MOVES not a thank you. So I told my husband, them and his side of the family I will not come around until they pay me the cost of moving thier stuff out my storage unit! I haven't talked to them since and its wonderful!!
Wish my divorce went as fast as these!
Just don't know why u would keep paying and paying for people 😖that talk and treat u that way! Ugh! 🤬
Rachel is a boss lady
Et the he'll out of there op now how dare she tells you to sleep in the dog house
I do not believe the MIL was ever "Sorry" the only thing she was sorry about was the fact she was not getting any more money. You can tell that is true straight away. The MIL's son is there yet, did the MIL force her son to go out and work? No. Therefore she was saying loud and clear I am not sorry and I done nothing wrong. It is very easy to say "Sorry" it is a lot harder to mean it. Although I did note a discrepancy. If the loan was in fact in Lisa's name then she could not simply stop paying it. Unless, once the divorce was finalized that was one of the things transferred to the ex's name. It does not say that and considering he was unemployed maybe that was one of his conditions instead of a monetary split.
Loans and debt can be transferred due to divorce.
5 minutes in divorce divorce why do people put up with assholes like this
Was the husband having an affair? He was gone all day and being secretive yet had no job? The story never elaborates with a specific answer on that?
Talking about eating your own words
So we are supposed to think a $2000 loan would a-be too hard to pay back? ever heard of installments? b. cause the home owner to lose their home- the best the loan company could do initially is put a lien on the house. this whole story line is BS
Out of all the text stories these are the worst.. Kind of reminds me of when my kids were little and their homework was for them to read their book to their parents.. It was boring and I almost fell asleep..
Rachel’s voice is very antagonistic. Even though the story paint her as the victim it’s not realistic to be talking in that way. I think voice actor needs to change the way she speaks. I was starting to dislike her as a character purely for that voice.
The story was ok but the voices are horrible!!
I like the stories and content but the voices who are telling the stories really need to be more animated, involved with more emotions. It all seems to be so... flat.
Damnnnnnnn 😂 🤣
O.o God nooooo not that freaking voice, I'm out.....
Would you please talk faster. Your so stole. But I tersting
Drole
I’m gonna have to stop listening to this channel. The women always sound like they’re about 13 and have no emotion, except being dumbfounded, or surprised.
And unbelievable.A financially independent woman with quite a good job tolerating such a loser-yes, it happens-women with crappy family background sometimes behave irrationally. But inviting a son with his wife and then not allowing her to come in ? Are you for real a recreational writer?
Good story