I used to have to travel back home from work on my own late at night. I was always scared of being attacked, and I am still scared being on my own at night. I genuinely think about these things, and the tips that I have given you I use, and will pass down to my daughter to keep her as safe as possible when she is older. Stay safe my friends. xx
Is Shaun appearing on Crimewatch soon? I favour punching a man in the nuts, then when he doubles over, the heel of the hand to the base of the nose. Or if you have sharp elbows, a jab to the ribs. Additionally, NHS wheelchair push handles are set at testicle height. Reverse into them!
I was also taught that if someone trys to grap you then bite their hand then or like someone else make a fist then put it up and then punch the attacker nose with the palm of your hand as this can break someones nose then do the same thing but at their man nuts and this will get them to fall to the ground. Also if you can spray deodorant or purfume or anything into their eye and mouth as this can also help to give you time to get away. Hope that this can help.
As a young female para in South Africa I never travel alone during the day and certainly never ever at night , I think your tips are spot on ,it's sad that we need to take these precautions but some people will prey on those they see as defenceless
@Wheelsnoheels - Gem Hubbard I found this clip for everyone. I like it because it demonstrates self defense techniques with someone that doesn't have python arms. Anyone can defend themselves. Although I find the soundtrack over the top; especially the sirens. There's a lot of self defense options for disabled people. For example. It's just not readily available, or compiled in one place. You'll find them; if you dig. th-cam.com/video/32PBfqKP1aE/w-d-xo.html
I'm not in a wheelchair, but I'm in martial arts and thought I'd give a couple of tips. 1. When making a fist, have your thumb on the outside of your other fingers instead of curling your fingers around your thumb. If your thumb is inside the fist, it's much more likely to be broken on impact. 2. When punching, try to make impact with the knuckles of your pointer and middle finger where they connect to your palm. Since they stick out more, they're stronger. 3. The kidneys, groin, and bottom of the sternum are some of the weakest points on the body. Those are good places to try to hit. 4. One move that we learn in karate is grabbing the groin area and pulling. Works really well on men. 5. If you fall forward out of your chair, try to fall onto your knees first, then fall straight forward with your elbows at a 90 degree angle so you land on your forearms. It will hurt a bit, but it's better than falling onto your wrists and elbows, which are joints and break more easily. 6. Anytime you fall, try to avoid catching yourself with your wrists, since they'll break easily under the impact of a fall
It breaks my heart that these things occupy your mind. As a large man they just don't. And I always respond to a cry of help. Or a scream. Due to my actions children have been removed from abusive homes.
@@rosieg4545 In deference to Jem I will not use the first words that popped into me head when I read those last lines. But men like that need to be sequestered from society until they learn the rules of civility.
Thank you for stepping up for those children. Far, far too many people see it as "not their business" and move on, which is not ok. Still, it gives me comfort knowing there _are_ people out there that will step up and help someone in need.
@@OverdramaticAngel I'm a survivor of childhood domestic abuse. I learned as an adult that at least one person knew and did nothing. Not on my f******* watch.
And for anyone in a power chair, don’t be afraid of running over an attackers foot. As I’m sure you know power chairs are heavy. My boyfriend accidentally ran over my foot once and I physically couldn’t put weight on it for a few minutes. And if that was an attacker, that gives you a way out quickly
I remember years ago on a talk show they were interviewing Morgan Fairchild. She was attacked and a couple of guys attempted to kidnap her. She said that she started picking her nose and they let her go because they were so gross out!
If someone comes to the door, I always say, "I'll get it, honey!" Even though I live alone. A lot of people won't mess with a person, if they think there is a man in the house.
As a self defense instructor, can I make a few suggestions? First, sexual assault is not about sex. It's about power. If it has gotten to the point of attack for an attacker, something icky isn't going to deter them, because it has nothing to do with that. The drive and motivation by someone committing sexual assault is intense, and any situation like that should be met with a level of resistance that assumes your very life is in jeopardy. Relying on conversation to dissuade them shouldn't even be on the list; we are talking about a type of attack that has no regard for the sanctity of another person's mind, body, or soul. Unfortunately, the only answer to sexual assault is violence. Another thing is that fighting is not about strength. It helps, but force in a fight is basically strength applied through proper leverage. Us wheelchair users have strength. We do not have leverage. Getting into a hand to hand scuffle and coming out ok on the other side is a very long way from hitting them in the shins with a foot rest or punching someone in the groin. An even slightly determined attacker will only get pissed off. I don't mean to be a downer, really. This is what I do though, and we have tested a lot of stuff. If you have a move you think works, put on some safety gear and then have a partner attempt in earnest to rip you out of your wheelchair. If the move doesn't work in preventing that, then it's not a valid move. I am not a TH-camr like you are. I have only posted some stuff for people asking me questions in person or email. But, if you look in my videos and see some stuff that kind of works some times, maybe that could be of value. Maybe not. You can see my guys don't go easy on me, though. At least you could see what you have to do in practice to even consider if a concept or technique is valid.
This is something that is always in my mind, especially with me having Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and being a wheelchair user just makes me feel that much more vulnerable. A wheelchair definitely changes how you need to protect yourself but I haven't found any places around where I live that have adaptive defense classes... but I do have a friend who is very skilled in Adaptive Martial Arts, she is a second degree black belt and a wheelchair user! She is amazing!
So I feel pretty blessed. Both my karate and ninpo teachers adjust movements for me being in a wheelchair and are great about including me in their lessons
we are btw i am disable in a chair i was on crutches (great weapons)and studied Ryu Kyu Kempo and tuite jitsu (twee tay) is a jointlock\arm breaking style Kempo is the kick\punching form btw the footrests on a chair are great for ankle biting slam them into the legs is a good attitude adjuster
I carry a pistol under my cushion. Where I live we are 8 times more likely to be assaulted. If your in a place that doesn't allow guns a good fighting knife may be useful as these attacks are perpetuated by weak people and will respond by running if shot or stabbed. Also attacks are more violent than people can imagine and we should take drastic measures to protect ourselves and prepare to fight to the death to keep ourselves and our families safe. If you have not prepared and practiced you WILL lock up because all your senses are overloaded by confusion and fear in an attack. Keep that head on a swivel and make sure to check the areas where you will be most at risk. Also when pulling into a garage put your car in reverse and leave it on until the door is down, it is very easy to be rushed in a garage or while vunerable assembling our chairs.
Good point about garage. You are right about practice. Guns and knives are illegal in Australia unless you have a gun permit etc. I think UK and Canada are similar. Also strict laws about buying knives and guns.
I always have weapons at my disposal a knife mace and a stun gun on my treat bag (famnypack) out front with holsters so they are easy to grab and use a moments notice. I am lucky enough to have a protection breed as my service dog and I've noticed people tend to leave me alone or go the other direction when I have him where people tend to "bother me" alot more without him. I also have been working on "bluff" barking with him to bark constantly on command most people see a german shepherd barking at you as a threat and will leave you alone. Another thing I've thought of is if you have a removable foot board like I do take one off and use it as a weapon or a heavy duty jamming device for your spokes. Sure it might tear up the chair but you'll be alive and safe.
Before I was in wheelchair I did a self defense class with a police officer he also mentioned saying fire instead of help and when I was in college I did a women's self defense class and was told you need to be firm and you scream NO as loud as you can with every punch and swing you make (it can startle your attacker and let them know you're still a force to be reckoned chair or no chair it's not going easy like they thought)
I heard screaming "Rape!" (even if the attacker doesn't seem like they wish to rape you) is more effective, especially if you're outside because there's less likely to be a dangerous fire outside and most people hate rapists and would eagerly kill them.
I'm a wheelchair user who does self defence if u have a water bottle in your bottle holder at all time (aluminium steel) it gives you something to defend yourself with and if you see them coming up behind you put you chin against your neck so that they can't get their hands around your neck failing that spin round and get you fingers into the soft tissue in their hands between their thumb and first finger and pull while ramming into them with your footplate
I’m glad that you are tackling the not so fluffy side of being in a wheelchair, sadly these things do happen, thankfully rarely, but if you are that rare statistic it’s best to have thought about it and even practiced a few times. Prior to my illness I used to teach techniques to health service staff about how to get out of various situations is someone grabs you or has a firm hold of you. These were mainly based on the way arms and hands do or don’t rotate and take some practice but are very effective, I’ve played around with them using my sons as would be attackers since being in my chair and not all of them work but enough for me to get loose, inflict some damage and get out of there. A lot of these techniques are based on martial arts so may be very similar to those your martial arts friend uses.
I had absolutely no idea attackers look for hair! That's a really good thing to know. There _really_ should be free or low cost classes for people with disabilities/people with wheelchairs. I'd definitely be interested in seeing more on thia type of defense! Obviously it's sad that we need it, however, it's better to hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
Every woman needs it. But people with a disability are seen as easy targets for harassment, abuse and attack. God help the next person who tries any of these on with me!!
@@TheMazinoz In the past, I often haven't used mobility aids I really could have used (I would pay for it later with pain and days, or up to a week in bed) for the exact reasons you mentioned. Now I'm almost entirely bedbound, so defending myself in public isn't an issue, lol.
@@OverdramaticAngel Sorry to hear that. I've been abused and harassed for using a cane or e scooter responsibly as an aide. Some people are just stupid and ignorant. Decided to mess with the head totally of the woman in adjacent unit who has yelled abuse at me when on the street. Some days I use a cane, some days a rollator, some days nothing, most days a brace or two, [HEDS] depending on painful joint, some days one or other scooter. I wish harassment of people with a disability was made illegal and punishable here in Australia like the ADA law in US. Sad we need these laws. I find the aids help enormously with pain and fatigue. Hence heaven help the next person who abuses or harasses me!
Something that transferred over for me from being an able-bodied correctional officer to being in a wheelchair is that in order for someone to hurt me while I'm in my wheelchair, they have to exit their stable center of gravity and enter mine in order to harm me. At that point I have the advantage. My wheelchair makes a great battering ram. I have the arm strength to pull them off-balance. And, as you so succinctly pointed out, I'm at an ideal height to batter groin, stomach, abdomen, knees... my footrests and front castors are incredibly uncomfortable to someone to have rammed into their shins, instep and so on. :)
I have a friend who is a 2nd degree black belt in Tykwando and has world championship titles who is a wheelchair user, she suggested looking into adaptive martial arts.
thank you so much for this gem! i just had a really scary interaction in front of my uni, luckily another student came up and started talking to me so the scary guy walked away.
I have to walk with a stick and felt very vulnerable I have many sticks but one, in particular, looks ordinary but is made of steel tube with a weighted ornate knob on the end and it gives me a bit more defensive power if the unthinkable happens.
Thanks so very much for this video & also for your sensitivity covering sexual assault. I am very grateful to you for both as I am for all of you efforts with your channel. 💚 ♿️Personally I carry an expandable baton and wanted to learn what more I could do to protect myself without having to use it. You gave so many great tips!! Thanks again! 🙏🏻♿️💪🏻
Greetings from America. I saw a show , were they were showing self - defense Technics And the instructor said after you yell 🔥 FIRE!!! One thing you can do is ... poke! the attacker in both eye, using your thumbs and bi him down - Ram Him with your Wheelchair. And bite him. That should give you time to get away . 🇺🇸👩🦽
Thank you so much for these tips. As the darker nights get closer I do find it much more scary but after watching this video It's given me a lot to think about and made me more aware x
I feel like the alarm is safer at least for me; it's faster because all you have to do it pick it up and yank. I keep mine attached to my keys, which are attached to my purse, which is a fanny pack so it's always on my lap (I use a wheelchair). Also it's a one-motion thing; just yank, as opposed to pick it up, put it in your mouth, take a deep breath and blow. Also the alarm is probably louder.
My mom got it for me, so I don't know where she got it. Here's the link to the amazon page for the one I have: www.amazon.com/Personal-Alarm-Safesound-Batteries-included%EF%BC%883/dp/B07FC8LVPB/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?ie=UTF8&qid=1545247112&sr=8-1-spons&keywords=safesound+personal+alarm+keychain&psc=1
im in a wheelchair and am an orange belt in shotokan karate and the thing I do instead of doing a front kick, my Sensei said it would work as a perfect groin shot due to my height in a real fight
My sister in law gave me this hint when going out for drinks, make sure that you watch the bartender prepare and pour your drink in front of you if possible so that you can catch them if they put something in there that's not supposed to be there. Also, don't leave your drink unattended at a bar/club.
Hey thanks a lot for this video!💞 it really helps for my self confidence to build up again! There was a break in at our house a couple of weeks back and just a couple of days later I was threatened by a guy at work with rape. So I’m very alert knowing he has stalked me, and I have had self defence training twice. And the second time I was in a wheelchair! So I remember some good techniques I can use! And these new tips can save lives in situations like these! Thank you❤️🙏🏻
There's a three step self-defence move that a university friend and triple blackbelt taught me. It works. I had to use it once. (Before I was a wheelchair user). Here's it adapted to wheelchair use. 1. Instep of foot: Roll casters over and/or use the wheelchair rugby moves to smash into front of calves. 2. Groin - but not just groin. Punch inside the thigh. There's a huge vein and nerve bundle there - then go for the groin. If you're ambulatory and they're a bit shorter try using your knee. They won't be expecting it (because ablism) and it packs a bigger punch than a fist. ... Unless you have all your keys between your fingers. 3. Face - this one is WAY better in a wheelchair or if you're shorter. Punch up the nose - up the pointy bit between the nostrils. Tons of nerves and tiny easy to burst blood vessels. Results - attacker grabs their face and likely their eyes are watering and they can't see well. Note: For non-wheelchair users do steps in this order: 1, 3, 2. They're grabbing their face when you go for their inner thigh and groin. If you're standing use your knee instead of your foot. It's harder for them to grab and it packs a much bigger whollop than a foot. As well as yelling "Fire" try yelling "Pervert!". People get curious and are more likely to look - and pull out their phones to film it. Someone I knew who used to travel alone on public transport in the 1970s used it several times. Apparently works like a charm. (She wasn't a wheelchair user.)
forgot always have a metal ballpoint pen as a stabbing weapon. Strike the boney area's, hands, ribs, elbows, collarbones, fingers, temples. soft parts eyes loose skin(pinch and twist the skin. hard palm slap to the groin (don't grab the groin) you won't know if he has loose or tight pants. palm slap or punch the groin . a small flashlight/torch, is a good weapon, and legal as it's primary use is for lighting the way. A super bright one is good to temporally blind them as well
It terms of putting your hair out of the way- ponytails are not a good idea because it gives the attacker something to get a strong hold of. It's harder for you to pull away from a hold on the entirety of your hair than if it was loose and they were only able to grab a section.
I as someone who played the violin 🎻 when younger I appreciate you warning you were going to talk about it. But I didn’t hear that subject come up nor any thing about sax 🎷
I am a recently new wheelchair user after hurting my hip in May. I live with cerebral palsy and I took martial arts as a teen. Once I began using the chair I started thinking about how to protect myself using the chair. I understand people have different abilities, some have injuries that can affect their movement in various ways in various severities. I can think of different scenarios that may happen and how to defend myself from them. I remember the reason why I began learning martial arts in the first place; I had to learn to defend myself against bullies. As an adult I have never gotten into any altercations; I have been threatened. But nothing was ever done. I would have to develop a system, think of ways to use the chair, position myself, think about target strikes; the rolling over the toes is very effective. The knees, groin and shins are targets. Elbow strikes, palm heels, blocking techniques that can be used defensively and offensively.
Oo cool I had one of these too! I first had a special wheelchair bag underneath it but because it was falling apart we found a military “pocket/bag” where there’s a zipper attached. So its more secure and just a lot stiffer! So nobody can try and pickpocket me! >:))
This is very interesting and you gave good tips. One of the reasons I applied for my Guide Dog when I did one because I wanted to be able to do more night traveling and feel more confident when I do.
I thought they were trained not to attack people or other animals. Labradors are not known for their "protective" instincts unlike German Shepherds. Do you think the dog deters potential attackers?
@@TheMazinoz Service dogs are taught not to be aggressive to people or animals and dogs who are aggressive should not be service dog because that could cause a danger to the public. You’re right that German shepherds are definitely known for being more protective than labradors, though they both are often used in service work. I do think having a dog there could Deter people with bad intentions not necessarily because they’re afraid the dog would do something but because having the dog there would complicate things in the sense that it would add another factor to take into account if they were going to do something for someone and would make a person who have a dog more visible in public which would make it harder for them to be victimized.
I would suggest to have a small Bobby stick next to you in your seat for your safety as well. I used to always have a baseball bat in my car in the front seat next to me when I traveled at night.
Thank you Gem an excellent thought provoking video. We often overlook how cruel people can be and how even just the perceived threat can affect confidence and general state of mind. I'm sure in the future your daughter will be a force to be reckoned with! Take good care.
I've actually started a program for self defense in a wheelchair position in the Goldsboro NC district and have brought it to the Goldsboro city council
I always feel really safe in my on my mobolity scotter it's fast it had lifted it's has loud sound , but I'm watching this now because I'm trying to increase my use of rollater :)
Good job. I happen to be a wheelchair user and martial artist. I teach self defense to people with disability. I would love to discuss please reach out. If you are in the Exeter area I have a friend that teaches
Thank You for the video! I hope You always will be safe. You mentioned that studies have shown that if You yell "fire" more people will respond more. Can You tell me who did this research or studies? I am searching for these for quite some time. Thank You in advance!
Thank you so much for this video! Just a couple self defense tips I have picked up over the years that I can share is...1. If someone is trying to rape you is to pee on yourself. 2. If you can get them to bend over by hitting the groin knees or ankles is to then smash the heel of your hand into their nose. It will make their eyes water and hurt like hell.
*insert Oracle/Birds of Prey reference here* But seriously, I've never had to think of this as I'm not physically disabled. But I think people should be aware of what wheelchair users face, particularly females. Edit: Also, make sure you check your backseat before entering your car to go.
For those interested in self defense and martial arts, it might be worth trying karate. There are some specific techniques to defend yourself, get yourself free when grabbed from the back, etc.
I have the family GPS setting for my cellphone so my select people can see where I am at all times. I can even send out SOS messages from it. I also have a medical app on my lock screen that not only can alert my select people it can give first responders vital info on meds, medical info, etc. I took martial arts BEFORE my wheelchair years. The issue is that my life in martial arts focused as much on balance and kicking as anything else. A self defense course designed for wheelchair users or maybe Brazilian Jujitsu would be better suited since it focuses on ground attacks and joint locks to stop the attacker. I know you believe in spoon theory so you need to focus on massive quick decisive defense that ends the battle in seconds not minutes. I'm lucky to be in the states and I have other skills available to me that are not legal in other countries. It is the great equalizer if you can get to it quickly.
I'm in a wheelchair too but I guess being a guy and being in the states makes me have a vastly different perspective on defense... and yes I've taken defense courses in my chair as well...
Ive heard a great preventer for rape is to pee yourself. Ponytails and loose clothing are also an invite. They will choose to attack a person that seems timid or to have low self confidence over a confident person. I wish there was a program for disabled people to learn self defense. Its very scary to know you are unable to fight, run or defend yourself. Especially with all the shootings.
I don't mean to be rude by asking, but do you have full shoulder,chest,tricep use? If yes, you need to learn to punch (properly) and efficiently. Lots of repetition, it won't look flashy, but after 1 year it will be devastating.
It was before I was in a wheelchair ( and is only related in regards to people taking advantage of people due to disability) but when I was fifteen I was severely abused by a man who had wanted to be a special ed teacher (cannot now though never convicted) the abuse ended when I miscarried. And the period thing is a great idea. I wish that it had been more effective in my case though heh. To an extent I feel a little bit safer in my wheelchair because I can try to get away more effectively than on my feet. Do you feel that way at all? And I always carry pepper spray!
Yes I do feel safer in my chair. I feel more sturdy and secure. Someone else commented that if your potentially going to be sexually attacked, try and pee on yourself. x
I'm sorry you went through that. I feel safer riding my e scooter at night than walking, as I know I can just take off if need be. I keep it with me at all times when I go to the shop nearby.
Also rapists are generally looking for easy targets, not likely to make a fuss, so if you kick up a fuss right away and make it difficult for them to move you to their ‘safe place’ they will often times give up and pick an easier target. Fighting back is ur best bet!
Lots of communities provide self-defence courses. Also some organisations provide self-defence courses exclusively for wheelchair users and or people with visible or invisible disabilities. This depends on your country (e.g. Germany) and community but I'm sure that a research in the internet will show some courses. It's always a good way to gain some security, self-confidence and to learn some tips and tricks. I hope nobody will have to use it.
Until you have been accosted or beaten or or, please do not think that you can actually beat off an attacker. You cant. Well, unless armed in some way, then you may slow the attack. Have someone you know attack you at an unknown time and see how it goes. They cannot fake it. You will get injured. That is real life.
i have pots which is a form of dysautonomia (also have gastroparesis) ive had a NURSE say i was to young to be disabled. and that i looked fine. would not look fine if i fainted suddenly with so-called "no reason" trying to also not end up needing a wheelchair some with my condition do need it sometimes or all the time depending how bad it is
Never underestimate the power of a good bite. Attackers are probably going to go for the face and head. A good bite will throw them off. Especially if it breaks the skin. Best part is that the wound will almost certainly get infected, which won't be fun for them. It will be a lasting lesson about not putting your hands on others. Also, a small, hard object like a good pen or something like that can cause a good deal of pain if you hit people just right, and it's legal even in the UK. In the UK potato peelers require Loicenses, but here in the states it is perfectly legal to carry a knife, and once you cut them they're going to want to avoid you. Just because you lack mobility with your legs does not mean you can't mess someone up with your arms. And if you can get up and walk a little, then you also have the element of surprise on your side, as your attacker will probably be under the illusion that you are paralyzed, and you jumping up to beat on them will come as a massive shock. Another thing you can always carry is a sock with some coins in it. If anyone asks, it's just spare change. In a pinch though it can be a good person-whacker.
I never carry my Purse on my lap. I always wear a Crossbody Bag. That way, it will be less easier to snatch away from me. I also, never wear Earphones, when I am outside, alone.
Just when I thought the only way to actually defend yourself as a wheelchair user was ramming yourself into your attacker, I guess I was wrong and that doesn’t always work. :(
I want to grow my hair out and I got a new wheelchair today is the tip to not my long hair she shed into my big wheelchair wheels and then get wrapped around it because I don't want that to happen but I would like my long hair
If I want to use my phone but not let people see that I have it I switch on voice over so that I can hear what I'm doing with it still in my pocket. I once prepared a phone number that way.
On the sexual assault one, I've heard before that the grosser you can be the better, so while it'll make laundry if you can pee yourself (or worse haha) it'll usually be enough to put them off.
This isn't something I had really thought enough about.. All I can think of is stabbing them with my axle after releasing one of my popoff wheels, right off the bat, but the pressure would need released from that wheel first, so that's a problem. Really, if someone tried running off with me.. I would aim for flopping OUT if nothing else worked. But my foot plate is VERY sharp as well, so that's a great option, and I love me some spinning, rofl. Imagine having to admit to getting your ass whooped by someone in a wheelchair. No one's going to look at how lethal our chairs are and we know it, so.. that's pretty hilarious XD
I did. Shaun had to scoop me up. It was actually not supposed to happen. I hurt myself and got all muddy, but the clip fit well, and it was ashamed to waste it. ;)
being new to wheel chair this is not something I have even begun to think about. In the past, I have been a United States Marine. Now I must think about how to adapt the fighting skills I have learned as an able-body person, to me now being in a wheelchair if needed. I have also worked in law enforcement. ( I DO NOT WANT TO OFFEND ANYONE WITH WHAT I AM ABOUT TO SAY. IT IS NOT AN OPTION FOR EVERYONE. I HAVE BEEN HIGHLY TRAINED) I know in the UK and other countries this option is not possible. Out I have carried a .380 or .9mm revolver. I AM LICSEND CARREY AND TRAIN. This is not I repeat this is not for everyone. and it would be my last course of action. remember weapons can be taken away from you and used on you, I have an emergency button that calls 911 this will be the first thing I will do. I DO NOT ADVOCATE GUN VIOLENCE.
VULnerable. There is a 'l'. Thank you for the tips - I do a lot of these. It's part of the reason I've always wanted arms on my wheelchair. Very easily accessible weapon if needed... or something to put in between spokes.
There are plenty of videos on TH-cam advising self defence techniques for people in wheelchairs by wheelchair user's and able-bodied. Watch the experts as these are of no use whatsoever.
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I used to have to travel back home from work on my own late at night. I was always scared of being attacked, and I am still scared being on my own at night. I genuinely think about these things, and the tips that I have given you I use, and will pass down to my daughter to keep her as safe as possible when she is older. Stay safe my friends. xx
Is Shaun appearing on Crimewatch soon? I favour punching a man in the nuts, then when he doubles over, the heel of the hand to the base of the nose. Or if you have sharp elbows, a jab to the ribs. Additionally, NHS wheelchair push handles are set at testicle height. Reverse into them!
Ouch!! Good tips!!
Hahahaha he might be staring soon. 😂
I was also taught that if someone trys to grap you then bite their hand then or like someone else make a fist then put it up and then punch the attacker nose with the palm of your hand as this can break someones nose then do the same thing but at their man nuts and this will get them to fall to the ground. Also if you can spray deodorant or purfume or anything into their eye and mouth as this can also help to give you time to get away. Hope that this can help.
As a young female para in South Africa I never travel alone during the day and certainly never ever at night , I think your tips are spot on ,it's sad that we need to take these precautions but some people will prey on those they see as defenceless
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I found this clip for everyone. I like it because it demonstrates self defense techniques with someone that doesn't have python arms. Anyone can defend themselves. Although I find the soundtrack over the top; especially the sirens. There's a lot of self defense options for disabled people. For example. It's just not readily available, or compiled in one place. You'll find them; if you dig.
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I'm not in a wheelchair, but I'm in martial arts and thought I'd give a couple of tips.
1. When making a fist, have your thumb on the outside of your other fingers instead of curling your fingers around your thumb. If your thumb is inside the fist, it's much more likely to be broken on impact.
2. When punching, try to make impact with the knuckles of your pointer and middle finger where they connect to your palm. Since they stick out more, they're stronger.
3. The kidneys, groin, and bottom of the sternum are some of the weakest points on the body. Those are good places to try to hit.
4. One move that we learn in karate is grabbing the groin area and pulling. Works really well on men.
5. If you fall forward out of your chair, try to fall onto your knees first, then fall straight forward with your elbows at a 90 degree angle so you land on your forearms. It will hurt a bit, but it's better than falling onto your wrists and elbows, which are joints and break more easily.
6. Anytime you fall, try to avoid catching yourself with your wrists, since they'll break easily under the impact of a fall
I love that this video wasn’t too graphic or triggering this was very helpful to me!
It breaks my heart that these things occupy your mind. As a large man they just don't.
And I always respond to a cry of help. Or a scream. Due to my actions children have been removed from abusive homes.
Good man.
@@rosieg4545 In deference to Jem I will not use the first words that popped into me head when I read those last lines. But men like that need to be sequestered from society until they learn the rules of civility.
Thank you for stepping up for those children. Far, far too many people see it as "not their business" and move on, which is not ok. Still, it gives me comfort knowing there _are_ people out there that will step up and help someone in need.
@@OverdramaticAngel I'm a survivor of childhood domestic abuse. I learned as an adult that at least one person knew and did nothing. Not on my f******* watch.
it sucks but that's just part of being a woman...I recommend a gun and training...if in the states..
And for anyone in a power chair, don’t be afraid of running over an attackers foot. As I’m sure you know power chairs are heavy. My boyfriend accidentally ran over my foot once and I physically couldn’t put weight on it for a few minutes. And if that was an attacker, that gives you a way out quickly
I remember years ago on a talk show they were interviewing Morgan Fairchild. She was attacked and a couple of guys attempted to kidnap her. She said that she started picking her nose and they let her go because they were so gross out!
Thank you for sharing this👍🏼
If someone comes to the door, I always say, "I'll get it, honey!" Even though I live alone. A lot of people won't mess with a person, if they think there is a man in the house.
As a self defense instructor, can I make a few suggestions?
First, sexual assault is not about sex. It's about power. If it has gotten to the point of attack for an attacker, something icky isn't going to deter them, because it has nothing to do with that. The drive and motivation by someone committing sexual assault is intense, and any situation like that should be met with a level of resistance that assumes your very life is in jeopardy. Relying on conversation to dissuade them shouldn't even be on the list; we are talking about a type of attack that has no regard for the sanctity of another person's mind, body, or soul. Unfortunately, the only answer to sexual assault is violence.
Another thing is that fighting is not about strength. It helps, but force in a fight is basically strength applied through proper leverage. Us wheelchair users have strength. We do not have leverage. Getting into a hand to hand scuffle and coming out ok on the other side is a very long way from hitting them in the shins with a foot rest or punching someone in the groin. An even slightly determined attacker will only get pissed off.
I don't mean to be a downer, really. This is what I do though, and we have tested a lot of stuff. If you have a move you think works, put on some safety gear and then have a partner attempt in earnest to rip you out of your wheelchair. If the move doesn't work in preventing that, then it's not a valid move.
I am not a TH-camr like you are. I have only posted some stuff for people asking me questions in person or email. But, if you look in my videos and see some stuff that kind of works some times, maybe that could be of value. Maybe not. You can see my guys don't go easy on me, though. At least you could see what you have to do in practice to even consider if a concept or technique is valid.
I did my first wheelchair karate club session on zoom this week. It was really cool I learnt 2 blocks and how to punch!
This is something that is always in my mind, especially with me having Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and being a wheelchair user just makes me feel that much more vulnerable. A wheelchair definitely changes how you need to protect yourself but I haven't found any places around where I live that have adaptive defense classes... but I do have a friend who is very skilled in Adaptive Martial Arts, she is a second degree black belt and a wheelchair user! She is amazing!
Wow. Does she have an instagram? Id love to check her out. x
So I feel pretty blessed. Both my karate and ninpo teachers adjust movements for me being in a wheelchair and are great about including me in their lessons
we are btw i am disable in a chair i was on crutches (great weapons)and studied Ryu Kyu Kempo and tuite jitsu (twee tay) is a jointlock\arm breaking style Kempo is the kick\punching form btw the footrests on a chair are great for ankle biting slam them into the legs is a good attitude adjuster
I carry a pistol under my cushion. Where I live we are 8 times more likely to be assaulted. If your in a place that doesn't allow guns a good fighting knife may be useful as these attacks are perpetuated by weak people and will respond by running if shot or stabbed. Also attacks are more violent than people can imagine and we should take drastic measures to protect ourselves and prepare to fight to the death to keep ourselves and our families safe. If you have not prepared and practiced you WILL lock up because all your senses are overloaded by confusion and fear in an attack. Keep that head on a swivel and make sure to check the areas where you will be most at risk. Also when pulling into a garage put your car in reverse and leave it on until the door is down, it is very easy to be rushed in a garage or while vunerable assembling our chairs.
Good point about garage. You are right about practice. Guns and knives are illegal in Australia unless you have a gun permit etc. I think UK and Canada are similar. Also strict laws about buying knives and guns.
I always have weapons at my disposal a knife mace and a stun gun on my treat bag (famnypack) out front with holsters so they are easy to grab and use a moments notice. I am lucky enough to have a protection breed as my service dog and I've noticed people tend to leave me alone or go the other direction when I have him where people tend to "bother me" alot more without him. I also have been working on "bluff" barking with him to bark constantly on command most people see a german shepherd barking at you as a threat and will leave you alone. Another thing I've thought of is if you have a removable foot board like I do take one off and use it as a weapon or a heavy duty jamming device for your spokes. Sure it might tear up the chair but you'll be alive and safe.
a knife mace and a stun gun. These are all illegal in Australia.
Quite a scary topic, something I'd not considered. So major kudos to you for taking time to speak to this!
Bill M thank you. X
Some Asian countries teach self defence to wheel-chair users.
Before I was in wheelchair I did a self defense class with a police officer he also mentioned saying fire instead of help and when I was in college I did a women's self defense class and was told you need to be firm and you scream NO as loud as you can with every punch and swing you make (it can startle your attacker and let them know you're still a force to be reckoned chair or no chair it's not going easy like they thought)
I heard screaming "Rape!" (even if the attacker doesn't seem like they wish to rape you) is more effective, especially if you're outside because there's less likely to be a dangerous fire outside and most people hate rapists and would eagerly kill them.
Me too. I was being stalked by someone I never liked.
I'm a wheelchair user who does self defence if u have a water bottle in your bottle holder at all time (aluminium steel) it gives you something to defend yourself with and if you see them coming up behind you put you chin against your neck so that they can't get their hands around your neck failing that spin round and get you fingers into the soft tissue in their hands between their thumb and first finger and pull while ramming into them with your footplate
Thoughtprovoking. In a good way. Yes please more of these. Great idea.
I’m glad that you are tackling the not so fluffy side of being in a wheelchair, sadly these things do happen, thankfully rarely, but if you are that rare statistic it’s best to have thought about it and even practiced a few times.
Prior to my illness I used to teach techniques to health service staff about how to get out of various situations is someone grabs you or has a firm hold of you. These were mainly based on the way arms and hands do or don’t rotate and take some practice but are very effective, I’ve played around with them using my sons as would be attackers since being in my chair and not all of them work but enough for me to get loose, inflict some damage and get out of there. A lot of these techniques are based on martial arts so may be very similar to those your martial arts friend uses.
Sounds like Judo?
I had absolutely no idea attackers look for hair! That's a really good thing to know. There _really_ should be free or low cost classes for people with disabilities/people with wheelchairs. I'd definitely be interested in seeing more on thia type of defense! Obviously it's sad that we need it, however, it's better to hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
Every woman needs it. But people with a disability are seen as easy targets for harassment, abuse and attack. God help the next person who tries any of these on with me!!
@@TheMazinoz In the past, I often haven't used mobility aids I really could have used (I would pay for it later with pain and days, or up to a week in bed) for the exact reasons you mentioned. Now I'm almost entirely bedbound, so defending myself in public isn't an issue, lol.
@@OverdramaticAngel Sorry to hear that. I've been abused and harassed for using a cane or e scooter responsibly as an aide. Some people are just stupid and ignorant. Decided to mess with the head totally of the woman in adjacent unit who has yelled abuse at me when on the street. Some days I use a cane, some days a rollator, some days nothing, most days a brace or two, [HEDS] depending on painful joint, some days one or other scooter. I wish harassment of people with a disability was made illegal and punishable here in Australia like the ADA law in US. Sad we need these laws.
I find the aids help enormously with pain and fatigue. Hence heaven help the next person who abuses or harasses me!
Something that transferred over for me from being an able-bodied correctional officer to being in a wheelchair is that in order for someone to hurt me while I'm in my wheelchair, they have to exit their stable center of gravity and enter mine in order to harm me. At that point I have the advantage. My wheelchair makes a great battering ram. I have the arm strength to pull them off-balance. And, as you so succinctly pointed out, I'm at an ideal height to batter groin, stomach, abdomen, knees... my footrests and front castors are incredibly uncomfortable to someone to have rammed into their shins, instep and so on. :)
LOL!
If you have a motorized wheelchair, 👏🏼 RAM 👏🏼 THEM 👏🏼
I have a friend who is a 2nd degree black belt in Tykwando and has world championship titles who is a wheelchair user, she suggested looking into adaptive martial arts.
wow that cool. Yes I would like to look into that. x
I'm a teenager and I really wanted to know how to defend myself! Thanks Gem!
thank you so much for this gem! i just had a really scary interaction in front of my uni, luckily another student came up and started talking to me so the scary guy walked away.
I have to walk with a stick and felt very vulnerable I have many sticks but one, in particular, looks ordinary but is made of steel tube with a weighted ornate knob on the end and it gives me a bit more defensive power if the unthinkable happens.
Thanks so very much for this video & also for your sensitivity covering sexual assault. I am very grateful to you for both as I am for all of you efforts with your channel. 💚 ♿️Personally I carry an expandable baton and wanted to learn what more I could do to protect myself without having to use it. You gave so many great tips!! Thanks again! 🙏🏻♿️💪🏻
This is very helpful. Thank you so much for sharing.
Greetings from America. I saw a show , were they were showing self - defense
Technics And the instructor said after you yell 🔥 FIRE!!! One thing you can do is ... poke! the attacker in both eye, using your thumbs and bi him down - Ram Him with your Wheelchair. And bite him. That should give you time to get away .
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This is something that I’ve been worried about. Thank you for the video 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for these tips. As the darker nights get closer I do find it much more scary but after watching this video It's given me a lot to think about and made me more aware x
I have a personal alarm, and while I've never use it, I'm confident that it'll make anyone attacking me go away.
Drew Harris yea it’s good to know you have it just in case. I used to have one. I should look into getting a new one. Or even a whistle? 🤔
I feel like the alarm is safer at least for me; it's faster because all you have to do it pick it up and yank. I keep mine attached to my keys, which are attached to my purse, which is a fanny pack so it's always on my lap (I use a wheelchair). Also it's a one-motion thing; just yank, as opposed to pick it up, put it in your mouth, take a deep breath and blow. Also the alarm is probably louder.
Drew Harris may ask what kind it is and where you got it from?? I'm interested as I can not carry & utilize mace (I have a trache)
My mom got it for me, so I don't know where she got it. Here's the link to the amazon page for the one I have: www.amazon.com/Personal-Alarm-Safesound-Batteries-included%EF%BC%883/dp/B07FC8LVPB/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?ie=UTF8&qid=1545247112&sr=8-1-spons&keywords=safesound+personal+alarm+keychain&psc=1
Omg this is awesome! It is so weird that I never even heard of this! This makes me feel so much safer
Thank you. X
Great ideas im in a wheelchair thank u
im in a wheelchair and am an orange belt in shotokan karate and the thing I do instead of doing a front kick, my Sensei said it would work as a perfect groin shot due to my height in a real fight
My sister in law gave me this hint when going out for drinks, make sure that you watch the bartender prepare and pour your drink in front of you if possible so that you can catch them if they put something in there that's not supposed to be there. Also, don't leave your drink unattended at a bar/club.
Yep, that goes for everyone.
Hey thanks a lot for this video!💞 it really helps for my self confidence to build up again! There was a break in at our house a couple of weeks back and just a couple of days later I was threatened by a guy at work with rape. So I’m very alert knowing he has stalked me, and I have had self defence training twice. And the second time I was in a wheelchair! So I remember some good techniques I can use! And these new tips can save lives in situations like these! Thank you❤️🙏🏻
There's a three step self-defence move that a university friend and triple blackbelt taught me. It works. I had to use it once. (Before I was a wheelchair user).
Here's it adapted to wheelchair use.
1. Instep of foot: Roll casters over and/or use the wheelchair rugby moves to smash into front of calves.
2. Groin - but not just groin. Punch inside the thigh. There's a huge vein and nerve bundle there - then go for the groin. If you're ambulatory and they're a bit shorter try using your knee. They won't be expecting it (because ablism) and it packs a bigger punch than a fist. ... Unless you have all your keys between your fingers.
3. Face - this one is WAY better in a wheelchair or if you're shorter. Punch up the nose - up the pointy bit between the nostrils. Tons of nerves and tiny easy to burst blood vessels. Results - attacker grabs their face and likely their eyes are watering and they can't see well.
Note: For non-wheelchair users do steps in this order: 1, 3, 2. They're grabbing their face when you go for their inner thigh and groin. If you're standing use your knee instead of your foot. It's harder for them to grab and it packs a much bigger whollop than a foot.
As well as yelling "Fire" try yelling "Pervert!". People get curious and are more likely to look - and pull out their phones to film it. Someone I knew who used to travel alone on public transport in the 1970s used it several times. Apparently works like a charm. (She wasn't a wheelchair user.)
forgot always have a metal ballpoint pen as a stabbing weapon. Strike the boney area's, hands, ribs, elbows, collarbones, fingers, temples. soft parts eyes loose skin(pinch and twist the skin. hard palm slap to the groin (don't grab the groin) you won't know if he has loose or tight pants. palm slap or punch the groin . a small flashlight/torch, is a good weapon, and legal as it's primary use is for lighting the way. A super bright one is good to temporally blind them as well
It terms of putting your hair out of the way- ponytails are not a good idea because it gives the attacker something to get a strong hold of. It's harder for you to pull away from a hold on the entirety of your hair than if it was loose and they were only able to grab a section.
I as someone who played the violin 🎻 when younger I appreciate you warning you were going to talk about it. But I didn’t hear that subject come up nor any thing about sax 🎷
I carry a 12 inch blade w/ me everywhere I go. As well as other forms of self defense....
I just love your intro, it's so polite!
I hope you are well!
I am a recently new wheelchair user after hurting my hip in May. I live with cerebral palsy and I took martial arts as a teen. Once I began using the chair I started thinking about how to protect myself using the chair. I understand people have different abilities, some have injuries that can affect their movement in various ways in various severities. I can think of different scenarios that may happen and how to defend myself from them. I remember the reason why I began learning martial arts in the first place; I had to learn to defend myself against bullies. As an adult I have never gotten into any altercations; I have been threatened. But nothing was ever done. I would have to develop a system, think of ways to use the chair, position myself, think about target strikes; the rolling over the toes is very effective. The knees, groin and shins are targets. Elbow strikes, palm heels, blocking techniques that can be used defensively and offensively.
Yes, shin scrapes are painful, don't forget the solar plexus punch.
2:32 That's why I have a special bag attached underneath my seat. Anyways, thanks for your video It was really helpful and fun to watch! :)
Oo cool I had one of these too! I first had a special wheelchair bag underneath it but because it was falling apart we found a military “pocket/bag” where there’s a zipper attached. So its more secure and just a lot stiffer! So nobody can try and pickpocket me! >:))
This is very interesting and you gave good tips. One of the reasons I applied for my Guide Dog when I did one because I wanted to be able to do more night traveling and feel more confident when I do.
I thought they were trained not to attack people or other animals. Labradors are not known for their "protective" instincts unlike German Shepherds. Do you think the dog deters potential attackers?
@@TheMazinoz Service dogs are taught not to be aggressive to people or animals and dogs who are aggressive should not be service dog because that could cause a danger to the public. You’re right that German shepherds are definitely known for being more protective than labradors, though they both are often used in service work. I do think having a dog there could Deter people with bad intentions not necessarily because they’re afraid the dog would do something but because having the dog there would complicate things in the sense that it would add another factor to take into account if they were going to do something for someone and would make a person who have a dog more visible in public which would make it harder for them to be victimized.
Thanks for a great video! Really important topic that isn't discussed enough.
I would suggest to have a small Bobby stick next to you in your seat for your safety as well. I used to always have a baseball bat in my car in the front seat next to me when I traveled at night.
Thank you Gem an excellent thought provoking video. We often overlook how cruel people can be and how even just the perceived threat can affect confidence and general state of mind. I'm sure in the future your daughter will be a force to be reckoned with! Take good care.
I suspect she already is!
I've actually started a program for self defense in a wheelchair position in the Goldsboro NC district and have brought it to the Goldsboro city council
The spokes tip is genius
I always feel really safe in my on my mobolity scotter it's fast it had lifted it's has loud sound , but I'm watching this now because I'm trying to increase my use of rollater :)
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Good job. I happen to be a wheelchair user and martial artist. I teach self defense to people with disability. I would love to discuss please reach out. If you are in the Exeter area I have a friend that teaches
Thank You for the video! I hope You always will be safe. You mentioned that studies have shown that if You yell "fire" more people will respond more. Can You tell me who did this research or studies? I am searching for these for quite some time. Thank You in advance!
Could you do a self defense video for people in power wheelchairs? I use a powerchair so I would like to know some moves to use with my chair.
Thank you so much for this video! Just a couple self defense tips I have picked up over the years that I can share is...1. If someone is trying to rape you is to pee on yourself. 2. If you can get them to bend over by hitting the groin knees or ankles is to then smash the heel of your hand into their nose. It will make their eyes water and hurt like hell.
Thank you so much for sharing. Yes now you mention it, I have heard about the pee thing too. xx
Some great ideas in there Gem thank you. Would definitely be interested to see some more self defence info x
*insert Oracle/Birds of Prey reference here* But seriously, I've never had to think of this as I'm not physically disabled. But I think people should be aware of what wheelchair users face, particularly females.
Edit: Also, make sure you check your backseat before entering your car to go.
For those interested in self defense and martial arts, it might be worth trying karate. There are some specific techniques to defend yourself, get yourself free when grabbed from the back, etc.
I've heard of Aikido training being helpful for some wheelchair users.
On a wheelchair user, and I would love to learn some sort of martial arts
Also, for martial arts, ask/check it out. A good sensei or instructor will be able to tailor to you.
Gem - I've just watched a video on Krav Maga techniques for wheelchair users. You might find it useful.
I have the family GPS setting for my cellphone so my select people can see where I am at all times. I can even send out SOS messages from it. I also have a medical app on my lock screen that not only can alert my select people it can give first responders vital info on meds, medical info, etc.
I took martial arts BEFORE my wheelchair years. The issue is that my life in martial arts focused as much on balance and kicking as anything else. A self defense course designed for wheelchair users or maybe Brazilian Jujitsu would be better suited since it focuses on ground attacks and joint locks to stop the attacker. I know you believe in spoon theory so you need to focus on massive quick decisive defense that ends the battle in seconds not minutes. I'm lucky to be in the states and I have other skills available to me that are not legal in other countries. It is the great equalizer if you can get to it quickly.
girl power + chair power: too cool
I'm in a wheelchair too but I guess being a guy and being in the states makes me have a vastly different perspective on defense... and yes I've taken defense courses in my chair as well...
May I just say what an attractive lady
Ive heard a great preventer for rape is to pee yourself. Ponytails and loose clothing are also an invite. They will choose to attack a person that seems timid or to have low self confidence over a confident person. I wish there was a program for disabled people to learn self defense. Its very scary to know you are unable to fight, run or defend yourself. Especially with all the shootings.
I always have what looks like an ink pen that’s actually a taser.
I don't mean to be rude by asking, but do you have full shoulder,chest,tricep use?
If yes, you need to learn to punch (properly) and efficiently.
Lots of repetition, it won't look flashy, but after 1 year it will be devastating.
Great post Gem 👌🏻💪🏻🤗
It was before I was in a wheelchair ( and is only related in regards to people taking advantage of people due to disability) but when I was fifteen I was severely abused by a man who had wanted to be a special ed teacher (cannot now though never convicted) the abuse ended when I miscarried. And the period thing is a great idea. I wish that it had been more effective in my case though heh. To an extent I feel a little bit safer in my wheelchair because I can try to get away more effectively than on my feet. Do you feel that way at all? And I always carry pepper spray!
Yes I do feel safer in my chair. I feel more sturdy and secure.
Someone else commented that if your potentially going to be sexually attacked, try and pee on yourself. x
I'm sorry you went through that. I feel safer riding my e scooter at night than walking, as I know I can just take off if need be. I keep it with me at all times when I go to the shop nearby.
Also rapists are generally looking for easy targets, not likely to make a fuss, so if you kick up a fuss right away and make it difficult for them to move you to their ‘safe place’ they will often times give up and pick an easier target. Fighting back is ur best bet!
Lots of communities provide self-defence courses. Also some organisations provide self-defence courses exclusively for wheelchair users and or people with visible or invisible disabilities.
This depends on your country (e.g. Germany) and community but I'm sure that a research in the internet will show some courses. It's always a good way to gain some security, self-confidence and to learn some tips and tricks.
I hope nobody will have to use it.
Until you have been accosted or beaten or or, please do not think that you can actually beat off an attacker. You cant. Well, unless armed in some way, then you may slow the attack. Have someone you know attack you at an unknown time and see how it goes. They cannot fake it. You will get injured. That is real life.
i have pots which is a form of dysautonomia (also have gastroparesis) ive had a NURSE say i was to young to be disabled. and that i looked fine. would not look fine if i fainted suddenly with so-called "no reason" trying to also not end up needing a wheelchair some with my condition do need it sometimes or all the time depending how bad it is
You can also hit a woman in her groin too. It hurts us to be hit there too :)
Never underestimate the power of a good bite. Attackers are probably going to go for the face and head. A good bite will throw them off. Especially if it breaks the skin. Best part is that the wound will almost certainly get infected, which won't be fun for them. It will be a lasting lesson about not putting your hands on others.
Also, a small, hard object like a good pen or something like that can cause a good deal of pain if you hit people just right, and it's legal even in the UK. In the UK potato peelers require Loicenses, but here in the states it is perfectly legal to carry a knife, and once you cut them they're going to want to avoid you. Just because you lack mobility with your legs does not mean you can't mess someone up with your arms. And if you can get up and walk a little, then you also have the element of surprise on your side, as your attacker will probably be under the illusion that you are paralyzed, and you jumping up to beat on them will come as a massive shock.
Another thing you can always carry is a sock with some coins in it. If anyone asks, it's just spare change. In a pinch though it can be a good person-whacker.
Love the video where's the house tour????
Yes,martial arts video
Gemamazing
I never carry my Purse on my lap. I always wear a Crossbody Bag. That way, it will be less easier to snatch away from me. I also, never wear Earphones, when I am outside, alone.
Just when I thought the only way to actually defend yourself as a wheelchair user was ramming yourself into your attacker, I guess I was wrong and that doesn’t always work. :(
I want to grow my hair out and I got a new wheelchair today is the tip to not my long hair she shed into my big wheelchair wheels and then get wrapped around it because I don't want that to happen but I would like my long hair
If I want to use my phone but not let people see that I have it I switch on voice over so that I can hear what I'm doing with it still in my pocket. I once prepared a phone number that way.
It's a sad state when videos like this have to be made.
Wow 2020. Anyone
On the sexual assault one, I've heard before that the grosser you can be the better, so while it'll make laundry if you can pee yourself (or worse haha) it'll usually be enough to put them off.
This isn't something I had really thought enough about.. All I can think of is stabbing them with my axle after releasing one of my popoff wheels, right off the bat, but the pressure would need released from that wheel first, so that's a problem. Really, if someone tried running off with me.. I would aim for flopping OUT if nothing else worked. But my foot plate is VERY sharp as well, so that's a great option, and I love me some spinning, rofl. Imagine having to admit to getting your ass whooped by someone in a wheelchair. No one's going to look at how lethal our chairs are and we know it, so.. that's pretty hilarious XD
How on earth did you not fall out of your wheelchair when you laid it on the back like that?
I did. Shaun had to scoop me up. It was actually not supposed to happen. I hurt myself and got all muddy, but the clip fit well, and it was ashamed to waste it. ;)
@@Wheelsnoheels Ah. Well the clip did fit perfectly
being new to wheel chair this is not something I have even begun to think about. In the past, I have been a United States Marine. Now I must think about how to adapt the fighting skills I have learned as an able-body person, to me now being in a wheelchair if needed. I have also worked in law enforcement. ( I DO NOT WANT TO OFFEND ANYONE WITH WHAT I AM ABOUT TO SAY. IT IS NOT AN OPTION FOR EVERYONE. I HAVE BEEN HIGHLY TRAINED) I know in the UK and other countries this option is not possible. Out I have carried a .380 or .9mm revolver. I AM LICSEND CARREY AND TRAIN. This is not I repeat this is not for everyone. and it would be my last course of action. remember weapons can be taken away from you and used on you, I have an emergency button that calls 911 this will be the first thing I will do. I DO NOT ADVOCATE GUN VIOLENCE.
I don't hate this video, but I wonder how many dislikes this particular one has gotten. In 5 years they switched to not showing dislikes anymore.
I always worry about what would happen if someone tried to take my child it really scares me
Teach the child self defence techniques, making life hell for potential abductors.
VULnerable. There is a 'l'. Thank you for the tips - I do a lot of these. It's part of the reason I've always wanted arms on my wheelchair. Very easily accessible weapon if needed... or something to put in between spokes.
Volvican oh yeah that’s a good idea. I’ve never had arms in my chair, but yes they would be a good weapon. X
Don't leave home without a weapon. Legal, of course.
Hi Gem do u have an email? I really want it.
Thanks Jenn Porzio
I loved this beautiful! Never thought someone would be that low to attack a disabled person 😟. Please check out my recent videos too xxx
There are plenty of videos on TH-cam advising self defence techniques for people in wheelchairs by wheelchair user's and able-bodied.
Watch the experts as these are of no use whatsoever.
Must be hell of a stress to think that you would be in that much danger all the time. Just saying...
We don't, but it pays to be prepared.