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*_5 PILLARS OF ISLAM1⃣SHAHADAH2⃣SALAH3⃣ZAKAH4⃣SAWM5⃣HAJJ_* *_6 PILLARS OF EMAN1⃣AMANTU BILLAHI2⃣WAMALAIKATIH3⃣WAKUTUBIH4⃣WARUSULIH5⃣WALYAWMILAKHIR6⃣WALQADRI KHAYRIHI WASHARRIHI MINALLAH_* *THERE ARE 17 FARD/COMPULSORY RAKATS OF 5 DAILY PRAYERS✅OF WHICH 11 ARE BATINI/QUIET RAKATS & 6 ARE JAHRI/LOUD RAKATS✅SURAH FATIHA MUST BE RECITED IN EVERY RAKAH AS PROVEN IN MANY SAHIH HADITHS & SURAH FATIHA IS NOT FORGIVEN OR EXCUSED FOR ANYONE WHETHER ITS THE IMAM OR CONGREGANTS/THE ONES PRAYING BEHIND AN IMAM✅ALL THE SAHABA RECITED SURAH FATIHA EVEN IN THE LOUD RAKATS WHERE THE IMAM FINISHES HIS FATIHA AS PROVEN FROM ALL THE SAHIH HADITHS ABOVE* 1⃣4⃣ *PILLARS OF SALAH1⃣STANDING2⃣OPENING TAKBIR3⃣SURAH FATIHA 4 BOTH IMAM & CONGREGANTS4⃣RUKU/BOWING5⃣STAND FROM RUKU6⃣SUJOOD/PROSTRATING7⃣RISING FROM SUJOOD8⃣JALSA/SITTING BETWEEN 2 SUJOODS9⃣CALMNESS IN ALL ACTIONS OF SALAH🔟PERFORMING ALL PILLARS IN ORDER1⃣1⃣FINAL TASHAHHUD1⃣2⃣SITTING DOWN 4 IT1⃣3⃣SENDING SALAT ON MUHAMMADﷺ1⃣4⃣2 TASLEEMS* ☑ 8⃣ *WAJIBAT OF SALAH1⃣ALL TAKBIRS EXCEPT OPENING TAKBIR (SINCE ITS A PILLAR)2⃣SAY SAMIALLAHU LIMAN HAMIDAH 4 BOTH IMAM & CONGREGANTS3⃣SAY RABBANA WALAKAL HAMD4⃣DURING RUKU SAY SUBHANA RABBIYAL AZEEM5⃣DURING SUJOOD SAY SUBHANA RABBIYAL A'LA6⃣BETWEEN 2 SUJOODS SAY RABBIGHFIRLEE7⃣1ST TASHAHHUD8⃣SITTING DOWN 4 IT* ☑ Hadith *حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ، مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلاَءِ حَدَّثَنَا زَيْدُ بْنُ الْحُبَابِ، ح وَحَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَامِرٍ الْعَقَدِيُّ، ح وَحَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مَنِيعٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو أَحْمَدَ الزُّبَيْرِيُّ، قَالُوا حَدَّثَنَا كَثِيرُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ، عَنْ رُبَيْحِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ قَالَ* *لاَ وُضُوءَ لِمَنْ لَمْ يَذْكُرِ اسْمَ اللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ* *It was narrated from AbuSaeed that:The Messenger of Allah said: "There is no ablution for one who does not mention the Name of Allah (before doing it)✅Hasan✅Darussalam💧Vol. 1 Hadith 397 Book 1 Hadith 429 Ibn Majah* 💧 *WUDU MUST BE MADE WITH CORRECT STEP BY STEP PROCEDURE EVEN IF A PERSON DIPS IN A POOL OR TAKES A FULL SHOWER💧BCUZ 1 OF THE CONDITIONS OF WUDU IS IT MUST BE DONE IN CORRECT ORDER💧YOU CAN MAKE WUDU ANYTIME💧WITH OR WITHOUT CLOTHES WUDU IS VALID💧REMOVING CLOTHES DOES NOT BREAK OR SPOIL WUDU IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM* ✅ *1 Wash hands starting from the fingers to the wrist 3 times* *2 Rinse & gargle ur mouth thoroughly & spit out 3 times* *3 Hold water with right hand close to nose & inhale & sniff some water slowly inside & clean the nostrils & blow out the water from the nose itself 3 times* *4 Wash entire face 3 times with both hands cupped with water & it must reach ear to ear door as well as from forehead hair line to neck* *5 Wash right hand starting again from the fingertips to elbows 3 times* *6 Wash left hand likewise* *7 Take little water with both your wet hands & wipe your entire head from forehead to the back of your neck & WIPE BACK TO THE FOREHEAD IN THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION ONLY ONCE!* *8 Use wet index fingers to clean the inside of ears & thumbs to clean the outside ONCE* *9 Finally wash right foot upto the ankle thrice* *10 Wash left ankle likewise* ⛔☝🏻💡 *CORRECT YOUR MISTAKES IN WUDU💧ESPECIALLY ISTINSHAAQ=CLEANING THE NOSTRILS☝🏻I ESPECIALLY ALERTED ABOUT ISTINSHAAQ BCUZ MOST people just sprinkle water into their noses without even INHALING & sniffing it inside AND EXHALING & BOWING IT OUT BY THE NOSE ITSELF!👃💧THIS IS THE ONLY VALID METHOD❗✔IF YOUR WUDU ABLUTION IS INVALID, ALL YOUR PRAYERS ARE ALSO INVALID🔥FEAR ALLAH SHARE THE KHAIR WITH EVERYONE JazakAllahukhairaa🗣Tag any1 who is unaware of the dangers of NOT following the proper procedure like the Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم ﷺ* 🌴
*_It is FARD/obligatory upon The True Muslim to affirm the Asma/Names & Sifat/Attributes of Allah, without committing:1️⃣Tahreef:To attach figurative & metaphorical meanings to the attributes of Allah, while denying the apparent meaning of the attribute2️⃣Ta'teel:Leaving & vacating🔥Negation/Denial of His Attributes & denial of His Self & Being. Denial of the real meaning proved by the Quran & Sunnah🔥Tahreef includes Tateel but Ta'teel does not include Tahreef🔥There are 2 types of Tateel:❌️1)Absolute Tateel: Which the Jahamiyyah committed:Denying all attributes of Allah❌️2)Partial Tateel:Which the Ash’ariyya & maturidiyya commit:Denying all attributes of Allah by Tahreef & affirming only 7 (Ashariyah) & 8 (Maturidiyah) attributes of Allah3️⃣Takyeef:To have faith that the Attributes of Allah are such & such or to put questions as to the state of His Attributes. The term "beghair Takyeef' means that the AhlusSunnah deny having knowledge of Allah's condition as Allah alone knows the state of His Self & His Attributes4️⃣Tamtheel: To have faith that the Attributes of Allah are like the Attributes of His creatures5️⃣Tafweed: To have faith that it’s not the apparent meaning which is meant but only Allah alone knows the meanings of the attributes6️⃣Tajseem:To have faith that Allah has a body. (We as AhlusSunnah neither affirm nor negate the attribute of body, since nothing has come in Quran & Sunnah concerning it & Aqeeda is a matter purely based on Revelation/Wahi as mentioned by Shaykh IbnUthaymeen RAHIMAHULLAH & Shaykhul Islam IbnTaymiyyah RAHIMAHULLAH✅So we do NOT affirm that He has a body while affirming his attributes). The Salaf understood the meanings of the passages of the Quran & the Sunnah & proved these meanings in the favour of Allah. However they would submit the knowledge of the reality (how of the attribute) To Allah. Imam Malik RAHIMAHULLAH was asked about the state of Istawa (Rising Above) of Allah on the Throne, he said Istawa is known but ‘how’ He ascended is unknown. The code of conduct of the AhlusSunnah wal Jamah is as the clear Quran’s verse:“There is nothing like Him.”-Quran (112:4)✔️The correct Aqeeda therefore, is NOT that the Attributes are completely denied as is the way of the Mutazila🔥(A Deviant sect), NOR is it to try to prove them completely as is the way of the Mumathila🔥(Another deviant sect✏Rather the true Aqeeda is to make an affirmation of the Attributes without similitudes/likeness✅SALAFIYYAH✅️_* *Breaking down DEVIANT AQEEDAH OF SUFI/deobandis/asharis/matureedis🛐❌1️⃣They claim to follow imam AbuHanifa infact they follow him only in fiqhi issues, so they can fight with us that fold hands below navel or dont do Raful-Yadayen2️⃣The aqeedah of sufi/ashari/maturidi/deobandi is of sufi🔥WAllahu Alam from where they got this Shirk belief🔥Their aqeedah is of Mohammad bin Mohammad matrudi🔥If you know that matrudi is the fiqh who are wrong in the tawheed asma-wa-siffat of Allah.. They don't believe in every names of Allah, holding on only 7-8🔥They were wrong before & they're still wrong❌3️⃣Whilst in performing deeds they follow Sufi's 4 sub categories qadiri→chishti→naqshabandi→suharwardi👎🏻They're undercover Sufi🛐❌4️⃣SUFI/ASHARI/MATUREEDI/Deobandi claim that they follow 4 imams, but they follow imam matrudi in aqeedah & in fiqh they follow imam AbuHanifa, they leave 3 Imams as if they never existed!*_ *_WHERE IS ALLAH⁉️ImamAbuHanifah☝🏻AbuMutiAlBalkhi reported:I asked Imam AbuHanifah about a person who says:I do NOT know whether my Rab (Allah) is above the heavens or on earth⁉️AbuHanifah said:A person who makes such a statement becomes an apostate because Allah, the Exalted says:The Merciful has ascended above THE ARSH & THE ARSH OF ALLAH IS ABOVE HIS HEAVENS🔥I ALSO ASKED ABUHANIFAH🔥What if such a person admits, Allah is above His Arsh BUT EXCLAIMS:I do not know whether His Arsh is above the heavens or on earth‼️AbuHanifah responded🗣If he denies that the Arsh is above the heavens, he is an apostate‼️If the person apostatizes by saying that he did not know where is the ARSH of Allah, then by right a person who denies the Loftiness of Allah altogether is definitely worse than an apostate🔥ImamMalik🔥Abdullah binNafi reported:MalikBinAnas said:ALLAH IS ABOVE THE HEAVENS BUT HIS KNOWLEDGE encompasses everything. NOTHING ESCAPES HIS KNOWLEDGE🔥ImamShafi said:THE CREED which I hold is the same creed the MUSLIMS BEFORE me were holding, namely, the Testimony of Faith:There is no god worthy of being worshipped except Allah, that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah & that Allah is ABOVE HIS ARSH, above the heavens. He descends to the lowest heaven whenever He wishes📚ImamBinKhuzaimah a SHAFI himself said:Whoever DOES NOT BELIEVE that Allah is above His ARSH☝🏻Above His 7 HEAVENS & THAT HE IS SEPARATE from His creatures, is a KAFIR🔥Such person must be ordered to repent & disavow his belief or else he must be beheaded and thrown on a garbage dump so that neither Ahlul-Qiblah nor Ahludth-dthimmah be annoyed by the foul odour of his carcass🔥AbuBakr MuhammadatTamimi, a Shafi'ite imam of Naisabur said:"I do not pray behind a person who denies the attributes of Allah & does not recognise that Allah is above His Arsh🔥ImamAhmad🔥He was asked: Is Allah above His Arsh, above the 7th heaven, separate from His creatures, & is His knowledge & power encompassing everything everywhere⁉️He replied:'Certainly, He is above His Arsh & NOTHING escapes His knowledge. All of the above show that the entire Muslim ummah, in the past & present, is in unison regarding the belief in the Loftiness & SUPREMACY OF ALLAH THE EXALTED_*
@@Zaatar_Honey *_MuslimSkeptic Daniel Haqiqatjou says:“I support Deobandis, they are the real ones. Most scholars are deobandis. I’m a fanboy of deobandis. They are preserving Islam, according to the Salaf(!)” Also DanielHaqiqatjou: “I’m Athari, Hanbali” Sorry, but this man is a deceiver. Daniel is a sympathizer of Khawarij who praises innovators from Deobandi sect upon soofiyyah. Wahdat ul Wujood is one of the worst forms of shirk and this is one of the core beliefs of Deobandis and barelvis. The Ulama of Deoband propogate and defend this kufr but the majority of their public does not know this Aqeedah. Mirza Ghulam Ahmad Qadiani had the same Aqeedah of Wahdat ul Wujood as well. Haji Imdadullah Makki is the “Shaikh ul Ulama”, “Murshad”, “Syed”, “Aala Hazrat”, “The Shuyyookh ul Shuyookh of the Mashaaikh” of Deobandis. He writes in Kulyaat-e-Imdaadiya Page 18 printed by Darul Ishat that:“And after this he should be engrossed in the Zikr of HOO HOO so much so that he himself becomes the Mazkoor (i.e Allaah) and this is the meaning of Fana dar Fana. Upon achieving this state he will become a capapie of Noor”_* *DANIEL HAQIQATJOU PRAISED INNOVATORS LIKE SUFI SECTS OF DEOBANDI DEVIANTS WHO HAVE PANTHEISM WAHDATUL WUJOOD AQEEDAH🔥🔥BUT innovators like deobandi naqshbandi barelwi etc. don't deserve any praise no matter how much khair they do or how many huffaz they produce each year! USING THAT LOGIC WE SHOULD ALSO START PRAISING THE QURANIST APOSTATES WHO ARE HADITH REJECTORS BUT "HAVE DONE SOME KHAYR"🔥ALLAH CURSED THE INNOVATOR AS WELL AS THE 1 WHO ACCOMMODATES THE INNOVATOR‼️🔥Let alone promotes such innovators' ideologies or sect or deviated beliefs!* *ALL MY COMMENTS ARE DETAILED REFUTATIONS OF KHUROOJ AGAINST RULERS BY SPEECH OR WEAPONS! ALHUMDULILLAH JAAHIL SKEPTIC DH, ALI DAWAH, MH, BROHAJJI ETC. HAVE BEEN DEBUNKED IN ALL MY COMMENTS & VIDEOS!* *FOLLOWING QURAN AND AUTHENTIC SUNNAH ACCORDING TO ASLAAF IS WRONG ACCORDING TO IKHWANI JAAHILS* *_Deobandi sufis & Homosexual lustful relationships🔥Is there any truth in their own books and scriptures for such an accusation? Or is 'Mufti Aziz ur Rehman's scandal a one off thing⁉️‼️Lets read from works of Deoband which reads:Book: Hikayat ul Awliya, Arwah thalatha, page no. 228🔥Hafiz Mohammad Ahmad sahib, my father mentions that, once there was a gathering at khanqah (certain dedicated area) of Gangoh (name of place). All the mureeds (blind followers) & shagird (students) of Gangohi & Nanotwi (deobandi scholars) were present there🔥Gangohi said to Nanotwi with lots of love: Why don't you lie here a bit (with me)🔥At this Nanotwi, got a bit shy, but Gangohi persisted🔥So Nanotwi lay down flat as per request🔥Gangohi, got onto that same charpai (bed)🔥Then Gangohi placed his hand on to the chest of Nanotwi while lying on that bed facing him, in such a way as how an 'ashiq' (sexual lustful lover) tries to satiate their heart through it🔥Nanotwi objected:Miyan(word means husband, but can be used in a way of respect for a person as well), what are you doing!?🔥WHAT WILL THE PEOPLE SAY⁉️🔥Upon hearing this, Gangohi replied:Let them say whatever (i.e. I don't care)!_* *_Haji Imdadullah Makki is the “Shaikh ul Ulama” “Murshad” “Syed” “Aala Hazrat” “The Shuyyookh ul Shuyookh of the Mashaaikh” of Deobandis. He writes in Kulyat-e-Imdadiya Page 18 printed by Darul Ishaat that:🔥“And after this he should be engrossed in the Zikr of HOO HOO so much so that he himself becomes the Mazkoor (i.e Allah) and this is the meaning of ‘Fana dar Fana’🔥Upon achieving this state he will become a capapie of Noor”🔥Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi confirms in Imdad ul Mushtaq page 62 that, “He (Imdadullah Makki) used to say that the human being is outwardly a slave and inwardly (Batini) the Haqq (Allah).” Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi further elaborates, “The batin is the reality which is manifest in the human, and the batin should not be considered a part of the human"🔥🔥🔥Deobandis seemed to have applied this recipe, hence in Fadhaail Sadqat page 558 Published by Kutub Khaana Faizi, Molana Zakriya Kandholwi narrates a dua from Rasheed ahmed gangohi in which he is asking Allah to forgice him & says:“O Allah forgive me🔥I am a Liar, I am nothing… What am I? I am nothing and whatever I am, It is You. And me & you are Shirk upon Shirk”🔥So he first admits that he is a liar, he is nothing and then tells Allah that what ever I am, it is you as well and that me & you are shirk upon shirk🔥Astaghfirullah🔥This is Wahdat ul Wujood. Now see the same Aqeedah of Wahdat ul Wujood from Mirza Qadiani which he mentioned in one of his books🔥“I saw in my kashf that I am Allah Himself and I believed with certainty that I was definitely Him..”_* *_Zakariya Kandhalwi was narrating from a letter of Rasheed Ahmad Gangohi to his Shaykh Imdadullah AlMakki🔥(All3️⃣are from the elders of deoband)🔥Ashraf Ali Thanvi confirms in Imdad ul Mushtaq page 62 that, “He (Imdadullah Makki) used to say that the human being is outwardly a slave & inwardly (Batini) the Haq (Allah).” Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi further elaborates, “The batin is the reality which is manifest in the human, and the batin should not be considered a part of the human…”🔥Deobandis seemed to have applied this recipe, hence in Fadhail Sadqat page 558 Published by Kutub Khaana Faizi, Molana Zakriya Kandholwi narrates a dua from Rasheed ahmed gangohi in which he is asking Allah to forgive him & says:🔥“O Allah forgive me… I am a Liar, I am nothing… What am I? I am nothing & whatever I am, It is You. And me and you are Shirk upon Shirk”🔥So he first admits that he is a liar, he is noting and then tells Allah that what ever I am, it is you as well & that me & you are shirk upon shirk🔥Astaghfirullah🔥This is Wahdat ul Wujood. Now see the same Aqeedah of Wahdat ul Wujood from Mirza Qadiani:🔥“I saw in my kashf that I am Allah Himself and I believed with certainty that I was definitely Him..”_*
There are women that perv on your wive's husbands ... men need to wear hamas keffiyeh just like women 😂 you think jealousy is one way? Pfft it's time you learned about women having SOULS , FEELINGS and not just being a house appliance 🤣🤣🤣
What the brothers are missing here is a modest Muslim woman can do anything she wants as long a it is halal. Being modest and doing what you like, using your intellectual abilities, has been the norm for Muslim women since the days of our mothers, the wives of the Prophet.
Indeed, its quite odd and disheartening that their promoting this notion that woman should only stay at home and experience life through their 'homely duties' when women should be able to actively participate in society without being put down.
A modest muslim women would not post herself, it is haram to display yourself in that way as is clear in Quran and sunnah, prophets ﷺ wives never did anything like that and they stayed at home, be like them
@@K.w897 brother, I dont post myself. Did u read everything??? I am saying I need to go outside and sometimes even travel for necessities. Why? Because I don’t have responsible mahrams around me, they let their responsibilities go and their manhood. They don’t provide for us. SO HOW CAN I JUST STAY AT HOME? Who is going to provide for my mom? For my little brothers and sisters? I am the eldest and I don’t have a father. Like I said men nowadays can talk sooo much about women but they forget their own responsibilities. My aunties out there, a old’widow, without parents, she NEEDS to work and I mean she is OLD because her brothers don’t provide for her. They forget the brothers are also sinning because of neccesities she needs to go outside and provide for herself. SO EVERYTIME SHE IS OUTSIDE AND NON MAHRAMS SEE HER, THE SINS ARE FOR THE BROTHERS, WHY? BECAUSE THE BROTHERS NEED TO PROVIDE FOR HER AFTER THE FATHER. Do u understand? Men nowadays who can’t be responsible are the reason why sisters need to display themselves outside in the world, so they can get bread. First talk about the brothers then about the sisters. Because it’s always about us, while I have seen with my own eyes how horrible brothers are, they do haram, haram talk, haram money and still will blame the sisters even if they don’t have a choice
Brother Adam is refreshing and a nice balance to the conversation. His humility and referring to the texts in arabic and clarifying certain important points is a blessing. May Allah give you all sincerity, balance, success and protection. Jazakallahu khair for tackling this epidemic.
I’ve commented this numerous times when dayooth are mentioned. I worked with a Muslim male who lusted after a married “hijabi” influencer. I was disgusted and told him she’s married. He said “so what?”. I’m a sister and I know how males think and what they do looking at pictures and videos of even covered women online however, I was still disgusted at the level of disrespect for someone’s wife and a Muslim sister. I’d rather remain single than marry a dayooth! These males are covering their own faces and exposing their women instead! Very worrying times indeed. May Allah grant us hidayah before He destroys us in this state. Ameen!
I’m West African and these people are super strange to me. Our grandmothers had trades and skills even though their husbands provided. It’s also not safe to have your wife uneducated, unskilled and unemployable (even as a Quran teacher). If something happens to you, she and kids will be a burden to the community. I need to hear from an African scholar.
I do agree to be honest. It's important to have an education as a female. I've seen and heard too many sad stories including what happened to my own mother in law where the husband does and the women are left in awful situations. Staying at home is VERY important and must be prioritised over work absolutely. But no harm in the girl getting her education and skills before marriage or alongside. I work part time and enjoy helping my husband financially even though I don't have to. But it's a blessing to help him and to be able to stay at home two days a week too. Alhamdulilah for everything
No one said don't be educated. She is to be educated to teach her kids and pass on good skills to her children That education shouldn't be focused on working a job for some employer.
Need to hear from an African scholar... seriously? Since when did Islam become Africa Islam, Asian Islam etc. And speaking of our grannies, those skills were mainly used at home. They were very home oriented unlike today where it's all tailored for the job market. And moreover,just because you grew up seeing something doesn't mean that was the right thing to do. Follow Islam. Salam
47:17. Please tell me they're not agreeing with this. Its absolutely extremist and absurd. A woman is not allowed to keep pictures on her camera roll just because of the rare possibility of it being hacked?! That's insanely unnecessary. How about you have FAITH on the more likely chance it would never get hacked. If direct conversation between non-mehram men and non-meham women were allowed in the time of the companions within a limit, then saying this makes zero sense. Lets remember its not a sin for a man to glance at a women or know what she looks like even (her identity). Its a sin to sexualise them instead.
@@TawhidKurdiBrother, it’s not haram to look at a woman! Where do you live? In a cage? Under a rock? Women are literally everywhere, who’s your flight attendant? Who’s the shopkeeper? Who’s the financer at the bank? Women are everywhere in society and by saying you can’t look them you are saying you can’t leave the house as a man!!
Exactly. That's like saying that a hijabi woman has to stay with her hijab even when she's at home because you never know male thiefs can break in and see you without it so you have to always be with it. How stupid is that. These men really want to make religion really hard on women.
I’m trying to understand as to why a woman is not allowed to persuit a high level education. We need muslim women who are specialized in certain field to help other muslim sisters.
Asalaamualaikum, you do realize that the first university ever created was by a Muslim woman located in Cairo I believe. No onesaid a woman can't pursue a high education. But of course it needs to be done in the proper fashion.
@@khanhamid3744 looking at the amount of replies you replied to one comment I said just shows how triggered you got, I'm gonna summarize one reply to them all in the next reply 😪
@@khanhamid3744 1- working in Walmart isn't a “study field “ we don't go to uni to study how to pack milk jugs on shelves 🤡 2- num.1 goes for driving a taxi too 3- working in the aviation industry and being a pilot doesn't take away from a woman’s dignity or safety or subject her to anything Haram sitting in a chair operating machinery ( a big complicated one) while there isn't much demand on female pilots, but if anyone had great interest to be one she shouldn't be prevented from it just because “there's no need for female pilots” cuz no women needs them not like a Dr. That's the weakest argument ever, if that is the case then male Drs should be prevented from pursuing a OBGYN career and leave all the positions to the female Drs 😒 And how do you know pursuing studies in aviation or industrial engineering or business or finance or “fields that wen aren't necessarily needed” won't be rewarded by god? Or “her hereafter” ? Also you have failed to understand that studying and getting a degree in a certain field doesn't necessarily pursuing a career in it, she could be a pilot or an engineer or whatever and decide not to work!
I'm a woman and dieing to stay at home and marry inshallah! Hate this 9 to 5 prison depression it's horrible! Wish I was bought up in a good muslim country! Women definitely are more feminine in Muslim countries and they can be a stay at home wife the natural state, Alhamdulilah 😢😊
Praise be to Allah. Firstly: It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines: She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them. There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32]. She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 . It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female. And Allah knows best. Dont use emojis. Jazakallaahu khairan
@@piqueny8872 Yes this is a big problem that brothers are demanding wives have jobs on the other hand ladies are also doing degrees to find a good job and no Muslimah wants to stay at home and that's one of the reasons why most practicing Muslim parents aren't finding a good match for their sons like me.
You know what I find very interesting is that no one is holding the man in the video accountable for his mistake for the fact that he was choosing not to lower his gaze when he felt attracted to the initial women in the videos and the question again goes as men giving permission to women last together women should be allowed to have an online presence when the online presence of women is not the problem the problem is the men and even in this video all of the men are discussing about how the women are responsible for turning them on when in reality human beings were created in such a way that they have a control over there is desires over the content that they consume and if your willingly choosing to be turned on by a woman who is completely coevered then theres something psychologically wrong with you.
This is the only sane comment on this video. Thank you so much for this!!! well said. As a woman, I get a lot of information from muslim women online that Sheikhs can never accurately deliver or communicate well because they're not viewing it from a female perspective
He literally said this video isnt to blame people 🤦. The point was if you're a man you gotta have some ghayrah. And the man at the beginning of the video was being sarcastic
@@Mr_BurgerSonHe was not being sarcastic! He was literally describing the looks of women meaning he looks at them! Where the hell is his hijab of lowering his gaze? Did he throw it out? How does he know about the plumb lips and the eyes and all? Disgusting attitude! He should be in jail!!
@nami20622 if u knew the brother u wouldn't say that lol. His whole instagram account is about making men better and stronger in islam. Also english is my fitst language i know when someone is being sarcastic. Stop being stubborn. Why do u think the speakers never refuted him and specified that this is not a refutation? Because they know what he meant, his point was that is how men react when u post ur wives online. The older brother even mentioned at first he thought the guy wasbeing serious then he understood what he meant
@@Mr_BurgerSon So telling men to get better and stronger is aimed at downgrading and making fun of women's appearances and having no Haya while at it! Thats such disgrace! And the speakers did not refute him because they are all MEN! Men support other men in misogyny its typical behavior disgusting!
An example of extreme ghayrah I been through myself with my ex husband. I used to cover completely incl eyes. So one time a bit my gloves slipped down so you could see 1 cm of my skin of my hand. And then my ex husband became extremely angry and accused me of wanting to expose myself and being impure.
The fact that you're here talking about your ex husband on that manner and we don't know maybe you are a liar. Anyway the fact that you're talking like this about your ex husband says a lot about you
Only way to keep your sanity in these times of filth as a Muslim is to stay away from social media, even TH-cam shorts etc. Seeing everything going on, honestly as a Muslim it´s hard to bear. Deleted everything and now my mental health alhamdulillah improved. Things are only going the get worse from now, we are in the end times.
23:46 brother HOW does that make sense?! Because let me tell you something this Deen is logical and VERY EASY! It's not complicated or illogical like other religions! Was kadija ra a business woman doing homeoffice?! No she was out there and worked. And even if we assume that she only left home as a necessity! How is society going to function?! You need nurses and teachers and doctors! What if your wife gives birth or needs other medical attention? Wouldn't you want the gynecologist of your wife to be a woman?! I am a midwife for example! If I don't work WHO is going to be there during delivery! Who is going to prepare the parents for when the baby comes! Who's going to take care of woman before and during pregnancy or during delivery and post partum?! Woman CAN leave the house for work And woman also can leave the house to be with friends and family! She's not a cat my brother! And this is also NOT something that our beloved prophet Muhammed saw teached or practiced! So again I want to emphasize that our Deen is ONLY logical!
khadija RA did not engage directly in trade herself, rather she used to employ men to work on her behalf. stop lying about a rightoues woman acting like she was out interacting with men.
Sis, don't even stress yourself about these cooked podcasts. These men left common sense at the door when they entered the podcast room. Please check out educated, practising, God fearing influencers, such as Nafisa's Pearls, who understands the deen and shares the teachings so beautifully, considering the environment we live in ❤❤
@@المجرتيني yeah and how did she employ the men? How did she communicate with them? How did she manage her business? Also you choose to completely IGNORE what I wrote after that! Wouldn't you want your wife to have a female gynecologist? Or a midwife? Or would you want some male gynecologist treat your wife! Forget giving birth she's going to need a gynecologist for alot of health issues! For example yearly frequent check ups! Or when she need contraceptive pills or other methods! Or if she has other health issues. Tell me how society is going to function without woman in the workforce?!
The Prophet Peace Be Upon Him clearly said to cover the faults of one another but we now live in an era we’re people quickly make podcasts, it’s become the norm and we sit for hours talking about stuff which does not concern us and will have great accountability in the hereafter. Yet it’s justified so lightly in this lifetime. SubhanAllah.
I never understood the reason Muslims have to imitate everything the disbelievers do, making podcasts that have nothing with Islam and talking about things that have nothing to do with Islam, how the hell did this start we have interviews, Social media, podcast and Everything else that has nothing to do with Islam Muslims are all over the internet posting ourselves following trends just anything to try to fit in society the Ummah is a lost cause the prophets cried for us for a reason and it’s only getting worse obviously we’re living in the end of times but This is truly sad and embarrassing
A friend of mine was about to accept Islam, but then she saw how these type of men talk about women and she ultimately didn't accept, 😢. I told her to not listen to them and to open the translated copy of the Qur'an but she replied with, "The Muslims claim to be open and inviting, but all I see is judgement,". I was so heart broken 😢
There are marriages in jeopardy bc of wives wanting an online presence. Mothers with kids. Some husbands are dead set against it and are being accused of being controlling and extreme. May Allah guide us all.
I been battling with the issue with husbund who hates me wearing my hijab i started to wear 4 years ago when i was guided to the right path by the will off Allah after my umraha i follow the quran and sunnah . My husband constantly bellitiles me name calling etc too take my hijab . But my lords command comez first my imaan comes first priority i understand im being tested and its a jihad for me i will rather die then take my hijab off and disobey my creater
He is a test for you, it’s important to find Allah first before you marry so that you can marry a pious man. My duas are with you, may Allah swt make it easy for you
What about women who don’t have a mahram, we need to provide for ourselves and our mothers… my mom is the breadwinner because since her divorce it was expected she need to feed us, now im the second breadwinner as the oldest in the household, I have one brother but he is disabled and one other sister. Sometimes we don’t have a choice to put ourselves out there or to travel.. I don’t have an online presence but in this podcast I only hear the men’s perspective. Women without mahrams in the west also exist or revert sisters, she can’t just drop everything and wait for the one to marry. Who is going to feed her and her siblings???
@@khanhamid3744 no but I have some revert friends, that’s why I know they are also struggling. Why? Also u still didn’t answer my question, because this is a modern problem which affects a lot of us. Some males just don’t take responsibility or women like me have no choice… we need more female ‘ulama because everything is based on the male perspective. And for me personally I get annoyed, because 1 I dont feel represented and 2 looks like a lot of males have easy talk since they have never been in this situation or never been a woman themselves. There were female sahaba on the battlefield, fighting jihad, there were female sahaba being nurses/doctors treating the mujahideen; search rufaidah al aslamiya, she was a famous female sahaba
@@khanhamid3744 correct, I follow the sunnah and quran and as a woman I look at the female sahaba since I can relate much more to them, they did things that are forbidden by some “muslim” men today, like going outside. Showing their face, to even the prophet sas, the most shy and holly man, they didn’t cover their faces, when they did go to the prophet sas for questions. Or some more extreme males want to forbid education for women! I know it’s a cultural issue but we need men now than ever to stand up and say no this isn’t what islam teaches us. We need to talk more about strong women who did things that are against culture but perfectly permissible in islam. Like I sayd how many times did u hear about Rufayda? If they talk about women it’s never about her, it’s always about women of today are brainwashed because feminism, blabla while look at the female sahaba and how they lived life and how strong they were. We don’t need feminism, we need more female scholars who will have that female perspective and know the struggles of the muslimah today. We need a aisha (ra) that teaches and educate the men who are cultural absorbed and don’t give a thing about women. Last thing, this men culture is really a bad image for islam itself. Islam came to give rights to women, some men right now are so deep into their cultural superiority complex that they go back to how they treat women before islam, in the times of jahiliya.
16:44 this Ayat from Surah 33 verse 332-33 is addressed ONLY to the Prophets wives. The ayat starts wity "ya nisa al nabiye" means women (wives) of the prophet. Its not honest that you attribute this verse as a command from Allah to All women
If you read a few verses forward, the command for hijab comes for all women. "Nisaa il Mumineen". Similarly, in surah An Nur, there's an ayah almost as long as a page, which orders women about hijab, and men too about their "hijab"
problem is that family members call u extreme and to 'calm down' when i tell them to stop going out with makeup or no abaya but no way at all i never EVER am pleased with it, i hope it doesnt make me a dayooth for it ahsnallahu ilaykum
approach them in a nice way, show the women folk kindness and be gentle. sit and tell them that "i care for u a lot and as ur brother/son etc i want the best for u, i want no harm to ever come ur way. i feel like ur my responsibility and i should look out for u. that is all I'm doing"
Idk abt this podcast tbh… I defo believe in the importance of gheerah but the way these guys are talking sounds like they want women to stay as prisoners of the house without any proper mention of treating them well like even as a practicing Muslim woman this comes across as too harsh, now imagine a non Muslim watching this like it’s just abit too unbalanced… u guys could work on phrasing things diff ways.. young Muslim brothers could get the wrong message and go to the lengths of mistreating their wives… there was no proper mention of treating wives well alongside this etc and I think that’s important as a mulimah I almost felt as if u guys hated us and I should be blamed for just existing… like the whole time i almost wanted to cry :( bear in mind I don’t like to go out unnecessarily too & dress properly etc but idk just feels like too much my heart hurt watching this. Please work on the delivery of this stuff next time it could scare ppl away from Islam.
@a.hadith2564 what you're saying is literally so true , like recently I'm seeing so many videos like this and ofcourse the way they're saying is like idk how to address it , but i really felt like crying tbh the strong urge I feel so lost like ...I don't why why they're so harsh and why are they making everything so strict...idk if that's a right words but i really agree with you like 100% I'm like literally crying because of these videos idk at this point I've seen that video where one sister is literally covered like fully and just petting a cat using baby voice (like everyone do) and men in comments are saying that's haram to use that kind of voice and they're even commenting about just sisters showing literally just hands , it's our job to guide our brothers and sisters but recently ...idk it's just feels wrong to even exist :( idk
I am confused by this video. My dad died when i was 17 with younger siblings? So whose gona provide for me. What if your man refuses to provide for you? What if your man is disabled? What if your man is autistic? What if your man has learning disabilities? What if a man works his socks off and he cant just cant pay it all? When your divorced who provides for you? I have brothers and uncles - not a single man is looking after me. SO THE CORE PROBLEM IS MEN. Where are the men providing for me.
Can someone please explain this women staying at home thing? As far as I know, when Khadijah (ra) was out running a business or Musa’s (as) wife/sister in law were out managing their animals or Maryam (ra) was sitting under a palm tree, they were never criticised for their actions. Are we sure we’re understanding this “stay at home” thing correctly?
During Khadijas time, most of the islamic laws weren't revealed yet Prophet Musa's wife came out because their father was an old man and that's an exception Maryam took seclusion from the people when she came out
The ppl behind that argument use an ayah that is directly talking to the wives of the prophet and we wouldn’t have the chains of a lot of hadiths today if all the sahabi women just stayed at home
@@xmary. That's why tafsir is important And if you read the complete ayah, there is a better understanding EVEN the prophet wives who are guaranteed to be chaste (as proved in a hadith) were told this command (behind the veil) , what about the normal women? They were also told not to be soft while speaking so that no one gets tempted (if this was the case for the noble companions, what about me and you? We are incomparable to their eeman, still they had that ruling Which necessitates those ruling to be more applicable for us
Women can come out if there’s a need like shopping etc as long as they are safe from fitnah and not causing fitnah ie covered, no make up etc no perfume
Woman should be protected and concealed from men as much as her guardian can do that. The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) preferred for women to pray in their houses and said that their reward for doing so is greater than their reward for praying in the mosque. It was narrated from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A woman’s prayer in her room is better than her prayer in her courtyard, and her prayer in her cabinet is better than her prayer in her room.” (Narrated by Abu Dawood, 570; al-Tirmidhi, 1173. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb, 1/136).
lmao yo I been staying home my entire life fam. my parents strict as hell. u better believe when I get married me and my husband are going to be OUTSIDE 25/8.
The brother in the black cap you are speaking things that are wrong. The third brother in the white cap says things in truth. That Ayah was for the prophets. You can't say a woman's job is to stay at home but want female doctors for your wives ya akhis. Or have dual income. Unless you truly provide her with everything We also need muslim woman representation in a good way online for female topics you know nothing about. There is something called balance.
The basic principle is that a woman should remain at home, and not go out except for necessary purposes. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:33]. Although this is addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), it also applies to the believing women. It is only addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) because of their honour and status with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and because they are examples for the believing women. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Woman is ‘awrah, and if she goes out, the shaytaan raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allah than when she stays in her house.” Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Shaheehah, no. 2688. And he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said concerning a woman’s prayer in the mosque: “Their houses are better for them.” Narrated by Abu Dawood (567) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
@@sumairakhan8452 half the people dont want that. Only simps do. And lets be honest only 50% of the doctor women in pakistan actually [practice. Its done for status by some ignorant ones
You need to be focused on stopping wives from sharing their kids online. The internet is very dark and sisters are happily showing off their children and they don’t want to be advised. It’s so dangerous. Tell the husbands to protect their kids!!!! A woman can leave you tomorrow but that child is yours forever.
I agree with most of the things said in here, jazarkallah brothers, however with regards to sisters giving dawah, its needed. If sisters were to stay at home, they will need a source to learn about islam as well, not all of us have access to usrahs or sisters circle that we can discuss the religion with regards to muslimahs. And lets be honest woman need to hear from another woman with regards to the deen as well, that most man who gives dawah doesn't talk abt. It is needed, speakers like Dr. Haifaa is amazing. A woman understand another woman, and usually knows the right approach to get the sisters to listens, especially with regards to topics that if a man were to speak about would immediately triggers the sisters, and pushed them into feminism. In the time we are living in we should make use of every resource we can, to bring more ppl closer to the deen. Waulahuaklam.
Part of the reason why Abubakar is uncomfortable (I believe) with some of the points mentioned is because he recognizes the vile and nasty level of men today (generally speaking) and this has unfortunately even affected brothers in the masjid/dawah. Therefore, the wise thing to do is to maintain as much of a barrier between your wife and other men. period. There is no need to vilify this position as it is from a place of caution and awareness of ones environment. This goes without saying that brothers should always try to be reasonable and not make things very difficult for their wives and families where possible. This is my opinion and Allah knows best.
@@ahmedibrahim4627extremism in any direction leads to a reversal on the opposite extreme. Many examples testify to this. Do not overdo in something lest you encounter the consequences.
@48:30 what about sisters who dont have children, not because they dont want to, but Allaah hasnt given them. Cant she study and give dawah to sisters (not in front of men, but online for example through zoom or face to face) to use her time well, of course taking care of her husband and duties at home first.
Yes their are many sister who are married who teach in the masjid to other women. Prophet (s.a.w.) said that it’s obligatory for every Muslim to seek knowledge. Mainly the knowledge of the religion also other knowledge that may be secular but of beneficial that pleases Allah such as halal business e.t.c.
@@AbuHaroon-33 this is the point I find interesting. For women who are trying to do halal businesses in the West the easiest way to do this is through social media and advertising your business using the internet if you want to be halal (no riba, not working with men etc). I don't see the issue if a woman is fully in hijab, with no makeup, loose clothing (which unfortunately is rare but I feel that the number of Muslim women on TikTok, Instagram, YT are inspiring our younger Muslimahs to dress more modestly). If you don't use the internet how do you do that without getting a business loan and dealing with riba? Or how does one get educated enough to start a business without student loans? Then the suggestion is usually to leave the West, but there are women in the West who need guidance, who need Muslim healthcare professionals who understand their needs and boundaries due to Shariah, who need registered dieticians and educators. It's an interesting balance to find.
stay at home sure - 100% it's the best occupation for a woman, but genuinely asking - are we allowed fresh air? to spend time with our friends/ sisters? to have an education? have hobbies etc. generally things that help keep our mental state in check? or is that a no-go zone even if they stay within halal etc? And if some things are allowed like education, specifically what kinds because if you allow a sister to get a degree but can't work i.e. primary teacher, doctor roles - then what's the point of those types of education? Again, I'm genuinely asking because personally, if I was married I would consider it better to stay at home - but then there's the concern of things like mental/ physical health (esp in the West, houses aren't that big). And then another aspect is, I graduated a few months ago and I'm one of the students who achieved the highest classification - however, I'm not doing anything with the degree atm, not working or anything. Mainly because of this whole staying-at-home thing and other Islamic aspects like not working with men (even though my career path would entail working with little primary school children). So really, when we say stay at home do we mean this literally, as in to strictly stay within the 4 walls?
These guys misrepresented the Koran. Read it yourself. The recitation at 16:44, this Ayat from Surah 33 verse 32-33 is addressed ONLY to the Prophets wives. The ayat starts wity "ya nisa al nabiye" means o wives of the prophet. Its not honest that they attribute this verse as a command from Allah to All women
@@Wisdomseeker1028 wait no 😭 if you interpret it like that then a lot of things don’t apply to all muslims - but that’s not the case. Yes, the Qur’an addresses specific people but it was sent down for US. I don’t mean this with disrespect, but read it YOURSELF aswell? In the same verse you mentioned, “do not display yourselves as women did in the days of pre Islamic ignorance” are you really suggesting our creator wants the rest of the believing women to follow the ways of ignorance? (Obviously not) I’m not sure if the individuals misrepresented the Qur’an and when (and if they did I doubt it was intentionally), but back to your claim there’s no evidence that all believing/ normal Muslim women are exempt from those verses. The ruling in the verse is said not to be absolute either because of the Hadith Sahih al-Bukhari 5237 - though the verse still applies to us to stay at home for things like safety rather than staying out for so long and risking modesty etc. الله أعلم But جزاك الله خيرًا I sort of answered my own comment thanks to yours 🥹 but the reason why I was confused was because i wasn’t sure if they literally meant stay at home and do nothing (apart from cooking, cleaning etc.) which I still am 💀
@@Expressonims i did read it. The verse also tells the wives of the prophet that "you are not like other women." Hence they need to take some extra precautions. Allah is not addressing all Muslim women here, but that doesnt mean he is allowing them to dress like women of the ignorant days. There are other ayats where he does address the "believing woman" how to dress like in the verse of the hijab... i take a more literal interpretation here, that it is for the wives of the prophet and if other women do not follow the stay st home command, they are not sinful as it is not directed to them. Allah is intentional in his words. Sometimes he says "tell the believing women..." sometimes like here "oh wives of the prophet.." and i read the whole Koran. But sure, you can interpret it how you want
@@Expressonims Ignore that person, you should go to a learned scholar if you are unsure on anything or advice, or go to your local mosque. But to answer you, if the husband allows you to work then you can especially in your situation as you will only work with children and not in a mixed environment and that is a feminine job. But it's up to the husband to agree to it. If you do want to work then find a husband who agrees to it. Regarding the hadith on women staying at home, I believe from what I researched that it means a woman should try her best to limit herself going outside as much as possible within her means. But I would recommend for you to speak with a learned scholar or imam to give you a more accurate answer
I would like to mention that why women these days don't have any ghayrah for themselves? Like would you be okay with a bunch of men harrassing you after you've put yourselves infront of them like that?
You know what the problem is....not the deen but the reality of how things have turned out due to our shortcomings, listen to this i personally know of young sister who cover fully with niqaab,jilbaab, they didn't go uni or left it due to riba and freemixing,they don't have social media or post themselves, they stay in their homes mostly, they study the deen upon Qur'aan and Sunnah with the understanding of the salaf, they are even careful with how they speak in front of men ect....these kind of young women still exist....but you know the sad reality these same sisters are pressured by family to not wear niqaab, they may not have enough income or be provided for so may be forced to work, they are not known to men because they stay concealed so when it comes to marriage their fathers or ect...don't do much to help or reject proposals...and basically it all has a knock on effect, and then people wonder what's happening to our women,even the practicing women are suffering quietly but you don't hear of them because they don't put themselves out, your sins and shortcomings can effect others who are really putting effort in to practice, maybe if men sort themselves out women can more,and maybe if women sort themselves out men can more. It's not always so simple anymore to practice,i think this is a fear that triggers women to go out and get degrees ect...because they know how many of us have failed in our duties and the women perhaps don't have confidence that they will be looked after by others or they feel insecure so feminism can come in and make them go over the line breaking Islaamic rules (like haram work types ect...) this is perhaps one thing i like about the brothers helping other brothers set up businesses,it will help them and the women they take care of.
@@naviifra2374 The problem is the environment because of free mixing and due to ignorance of religion maybe of the youths especially the men who won’t lower their gaze. It would be better if the university had only for women and women teachers then they can get their degrees without worrying too much.
Student. Thats not how you do it....... This is free mixing akhi,fear Allah Praise be to Allah. Firstly: It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines: She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them. There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32]. She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 . It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female. And Allah knows best.
Women dont love men they only love what men can do for them. She is already talking about being provided. And money this money that, Who are you. You are not entitled to anyones money. Go work yourself. And thats why i dont call them sisters. They are jokers man.
I'm trying to understand your perspective but are you forgetting islam gave women education? (Involved going out), gave women the ability to have careers (are we forgetting the Prophets pbuh first wife?), practice medicine.. and more. Are you giving dawah or pushing your personal view and twisting it to match. Women should be at home to raise children but let's not forget islam brought something everyone else tried to prevent.
The wives of the prophet would stay home and when a man would come they would speak from behind a curtain. A lot of sisters nowadays wear niqab for fun and go out all the time in bright colors which defeats the purpose when the prophet pbuh said ‘a woman is awrah’ and how her worship to Allah is better in her own home.
Wow, didn't think a woman would be shamed for wearing niqab with bright colours 😂😂😂.. you super salafis need to chill man. She is going outside covered.
@@shahee6579 there is a Hadith of a woman wearing a bright dress and henna in preparation for marriage, and she asked the prophet pbuh a question. I have no doubt in my heart that a woman can wear bright colors or whatever she wants as long as it is loose and covers the body, whatever color she wants, bright or not bright. There is a Hadith of women uncovering their faces. There is even a Hadith of a woman with a lot of makeup, even during hajj, and it was acceptable by Ibn Abbas, who is a companion of the prophet pbuh. I am just advising what is better for the woman. Because shaytaan tells women when she is outside to get attention from other men, there is also a Hadith for that. And he tries to misguide women when she does out It’s just some advice
the ummal mumineen (mothers of the believers) are not the same as regular women they had different limitations you can’t compare the prophets wives to regular women also Allah never prohibited women from wearing colors so i don’t get what your saying here
Well, when it comes to mentioning a woman's name I think some men are a bit extremist. Even when the companion asked the prophet mentioned who he loves the most out of men and women and he said so clearly Aysha.. Guys just take it easy lol وفقكم الله
Correction at 16:52, the verse brother Imran is referring to is from Surah 33 Ayah 33 is a direct address to the wives of the Prophet ﷺ, not a direct address to Muslim women in general.
@@anonymous-it3en no that’s not how it’s works, you’re trying to make an inductive leap where there isn’t one. Yes, they are the role models but this verse is addressing them specifically, not Muslim women. If you can read Arabic, go back to verse 32- it says “You are not like any other of the women”. It is setting up a contrast- it addresses the wives of the Prophet and verse 33 is a continuation of verse 32. Now can we derive benefits from this verse to apply to Muslim women in general? Yes. But it’s not specifically addressed to them. The wives of the Prophet ﷺ were commanded to stay home to relay Qur’an and Hadith for future generations. Muslim women can leave the house with the permission of the husband, work, do chores etc.
Why do you have a niqabi on your sunnah match profile? No offense but Is it halal for you to post her because she isn’t your wife? Or is it because she’s niqabi? Please answer because I’m honestly confused. What about brothers who post girl with jilbab and no makeup what if they don’t take the opinion niqab is wajib… JazakAllahu khair
@@taimurahmad I never said gazing at women was halal. But where in the Quran and sunnah it says women can’t take pictures but man can? Evidence from Quran and ahadith please? Btw that doesn’t address the point I made. Why is it a niqabi on their platform? She’s literally taking videos
We have previously discussed the negative consequences of women participating in satellite channels -- even if they wear niqaab. Please see the answer to question no. 134785 Shaykh ‘Abd ar-Rahmaan ibn Naasir al-Barraak (may Allah preserve him) was asked: What is the ruling on a female daa‘iyah appearing on TV in full shar‘i hijab for the purpose of da‘wah and fatwas? He replied: To proceed: The basic principle is that the woman is fitnah in her image and her voice. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “I am not leaving behind me any fitnah more harmful to men than women.” (Agreed upon). Hence those who follow their whims and desires are very keen to introduce women into all media programming, both audio and video. Based on that, it is not permissible for a woman to appear on TV, even if she is wearing hijab, in the name of da‘wah and giving fatwas, because innumerable men will listen to her even if she only appears on the channel on the basis of teaching women. Moreover, there is no need for her to undertake da‘wah and issue fatwas via TV channels. The basic principle is that that is to be done by men, and men are more suited to that. Throughout Islamic history men have been the ones to teach, call people to Islam and issue fatwas in the mosques and so on. They are the khateebs and imams. It is not permissible for women to do any of these things unless it is among other women. Moreover it is well known that women’s participation in video and audio media results in things that are contrary to sharee‘ah, such as their going out unnecessarily, mixing with men, making images of them even if they do wear hijab. This results in negative consequences that Islam came to prevent, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet! You are not like any other women. If you keep your duty (to Allah), then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery, etc.) should be moved with desire, but speak in an honourable manner. And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:32-33]. A woman may be making a display of herself in her clothing even if she wears hijab. Based on the above I say: It is not permissible for a woman to appear on satellite TV channels as a daa‘iyah, mufti or teacher. Rather she should restrict her da‘wah activities to her fellow women at home or in a school or in the women’s prayer space in the mosque. On this occasion we advise our sisters who are in charge of Islamic channels to fear Allah and not to be deceived by the words of those who have wrong views and do not see anything wrong with women appearing on Islamic channels and even promote that and support it with specious arguments. It is sufficient to note that this is in accordance with the whims and desires of modernists, who do not care about anything but falsehood or that which leads to falsehood. Hence they like the Islamic channels on which women appear and they regard them as keeping pace with modern times, and they do not like the channels on which no women appear and they regard them as backward and describe the people in charge of them as being extremists. These people are like those of whom Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “but those who follow their lusts, wish that you (believers) should deviate tremendously away from the Right Path” [an-Nisa’ 4:27]. We ask Allah to guide us to the straight path and to keep us away from the path of those who earned His Anger and of those who went astray. End quote from Shabakat Noor al-Islam. And Allah knows best.
Min 101 was too funny, sa'ad's adab is so amazing Masha'Allah! The way abu bakr said this is an opportunity cant be missed to talk had me in stiches 😂😂😂 bless you brothers!! Good talk!! Nowadays these dayooths are getitng out of hand.
A woman is awrah (should be covered) and she should stay home. There is a Hadith. That’s the correct gheerah. So she shouldn’t go out unless she has to. And you should accommodate that. A woman is vulnerable outside and a guy can take advantage of her be aware
@@aatamf8156 no one said prisoner. It’s advised to stay at home, I did not say obligatory. There is a verse in the Quran that says stay in your homes but many MANY scholars say this is not for all women. So women can go out with no restrictions. There were many female companions who were outside doing good work for the ummah, like nusaybah bint kaab. Or the female companion who was in charge of the market place, her name was Samra bint nahik, she would command good and forbid evil. I can name many more, so many more. But, there are also Hadith to advise women to stay home. Overall, it is a woman’s choice. No one said she is a prisoner. Islam has gave women rights, and Allah has completed the religion and it is perfect in every right. But when a woman goes outside, she has to be careful of shaytaan and of evil men. There is a Hadith that shaytaan tells women to get attention from other men when she goes outside, another narration said he tries to misguide her. Both are bad. And another narration it says he beautifies her. She can also get attacked by a man, there is a Hadith that states that as well, quite a few actually. Some evil men can take advantage of her. So yes she can go out, but the Hadiths don’t command her to, it’s RECOMMENDING her to. For her own benefit. Allahs is the most wise and knows his creation, and Islam is in favor of protecting and caring for women.
You act like women can't interact with millions of men from the privacy of her own bedroom. A woman can stay home for years and be seen by more men all over the world than she would ever be seen had she went outside.
I understand what the brothers are saying. But isn’t knowledge important? So for example, your wife is now pregnant and the baby needs to be delivered. These midwife needed to go uni and get an education. Would you be comfortable for men ‘midwife’ to deliver your baby? So, I don’t think to find projects at home always suited. Knowledge is important for men and women.
Names are used to show closeness and familiarity between people. Take for example saying someone’s first name in a sales call to gain rapport, or the enjoyment men/women get by calling the person they secretly like by their first name, etc. I don’t see any reason why a man should use your wife’s name and I would never want to do that either. So for someone to cross the line of strangeness that should exists between the opposite genders, is either reckless or ill intended & therefore a cause of concern for a man.
My brother IMRAN is actually amazing Allaahumma-Baarik-lahu the last 2minutes, smashed it Alhamdulillah ❤May Allaah ( ﷻ) preserve all of you and keep you upon strong Manhaj and keep you away from getting sidetracked and joining the Ikhwani’s in their platforms like some have done recently with ‘light upon light, Mufti menks show…
My question would be what about the benefit the women may give to society? Like for example… what if a woman was on the conveyor belt in some sort of factory to build that microphone which you are using in this show? Or what if a woman owns this microphone brand which was developed through being exposed in society within the limits of shariah. Let’s use this as an example. To add on, this woman was not in need to work because she is well off, but it was her passion to create a brand for microphones and set up her business.
The reason why I mention this is because I’m on alibaba ordering some product for my business and a woman is selling it via the chat box. Is this wrong? Is my sought to provide rizq wrong here?
Is a Woman Allowed to Work if She Isnt in Need of Money - Shaykh Abdul Azeez Ibn Baaz th-cam.com/video/FzTF7cRC6L8/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=MasjidDaarusSunnah
@@PS3Sk8er4life100its okay to have a business the prophets peace be upon hims wife khadija had a business. Just do it in a halal way that is respected and ethical thats all
I have a couple of thoughts about this, obviously no word is greater than the word of Allah, it is best for women to stay at homes but also can’t fail to recognise that Muslim women need other Muslim women in respective fields, we definitely don’t need to hustling and trying to put food on the table for our family, but we do need to see and hear from Muslim female scholars, because certain things can only be understood and explained by women, we need female doctors and so much more, but at the same time I agree that nothing is more important than our Haya, We should always keep in mind about maintaining modesty, lowering our gaze and voice and not free mixing. When it comes to earning and putting food on the table, I have a cousin who’s divorced and has two kids, her parents don’t have any sons, no man in this day and age are wants to have a second wife with kids. How do you expect such women to live? How can their kids survive? Every man talks of marrying four wives but they fail realise the point of that being permissible in the first place is so you can provide and shelter such women who are without husband I think men as a whole need to step up, alot of them have gotten soft and become less masculine leading to more women being masculine to fill in that gap in relationships
Territorial is a better word and is expressed by apex predators in the animal kingdomJealousy in english has connotations of being expressed by insecure men which is an insult to the Prophet Aleyhi salam
Also sheikh uthaymin allowed for womehjn if the journey is like 30 mins but others scholar doint. Generally it is haram for women to travel without mahram infact its a major sin. Women cant go wihout mahram even for hajj Evidence for not allowing women to travel without a mahram This is indicated by the texts and common sense. For example: 1- The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “No woman should travel except with a mahram and no man should enter upon her unless she has a mahram with her.” A man said: O Messenger of Allah, I want to go out with such-and-such an army, but my wife wants to go for Hajj. He said: “Go with her.” Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1862 Muslim (1339) narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to travel the distance of one day, except with a mahram.”
It's funny how you failed to acknowledge that you can look at women but not desire them especially if she is wearing a hijab he should lower your gaze.
I am a muslimah that is also practicing as midwife so I find it hilarious that these are the exact same brothers, when their wife is in labour, they request for female staff only. Yet they claim that women should only stay at home and not work. The double standards and hypocrisy from some of these brothers statements is shameful!
they never made those claims. General rule is women should stay home, but they even acknowledged it's permissible (in of itself) to work. Moreover the issue of midwifes etc are specific because A shariee interest needs serving.
In all fairness the issue of female mid wives and nurses is an important discussion and a need for us Muslims as the sister said! As for the nuances around the ruling I’m not aware … it’s important to ask the people of knowledge But just for the record in no way shape or form were we saying women can’t work! Please don’t misunderstand… the point was it’s a man’s job to provide! As long as the woman works in a halal environment and doesn’t forsake her duties to Allah and any other obligations she has, that is fine! Rather we are talking to brothers who push there wives to become breadwinners whilst doing haram when it is the husband’s responsibility in the first place Big difference… hope that clarifies بارك الله فيك
'Fighting fire with fire' is not an expression in accordance with the teaching of the prophet PBUH. You can't use faul words to fight for a righteous cause or use any other methods that are not in accordance with the sunnah. Instead Islam teaches us to fight fire with coolness and good manners. I agree with the brother who clearly said the words of the brother in the clip were inappropriate, regardless of the underlying intention. Furthermore, being glad he said it while admitting it's not the right way and that you wouldn't do it yourself leaves me feeling a bit sad. We should uphold the standards of our ummah and only want for our brothers/sisters what we want for ourselves. Also be weary of judging a sister that says she 'needs to provide for her family' publicaly without further background information on her situation. What about widows with children and no healthy male family members to provide? What about women who are married to a brother with a physical/mental disability making him unable to provide (this can happen any time during a marriage due to unexpected illness or an accident)? Not all women who work do so by choice or preference - let's please be careful to immediately presume the worst. and Allah knows best. May Allah forgive us our shortcomings and reward the best of our efforts - Ameen
Many thoughts are going through my mind watching that video. I understand that women shouldn’t present themselves in an inappropriate manner. But hiding us at home and not allowing us to go out also sounds off. Like there are settings where I feel it’s okay. Like if we go to school or University. Did women not also attend mixed gatherings in the time of the prophet peace be upon him? Ofc there are also gonna be men present. Women can also contribute to society by being in higher positions like doctors, engineers and so on and so forth. We need Muslim women in these fields and I’m not degrading the housewife here. The woman that was earning the bread is a good example that women need some kind of education to lean back on if her husband is not able to provide for her, or if she is divorced, and has to provide for her children.
If there is a need women can go out … such as education etc and work if situation is appropriate without haram etc We never said they can’t come out at all
Also there’s an exception to every rule, but the GENERAL case is that MOST women should be at home most of the time and shouldn’t be working. The problem is that people take the exception and make it the rule (l
My advice is don’t listen to TH-camrs on every topic, because 1 even though they have knowledge, they don’t have your experiences or circumstances so they speak from a view where they don’t see everything. Just live your life, and follow the Quran and sunnah to your best iA
Hello Brothers of Islam, muslim woman here. After reviewing everything discussed in this podcast or whatever this is, i just want to say that men make comments like this about women who are covered and not covered. Men are making comments like this to women in-person and to women online who are getting posted. It seems like no matter what we do or don’t do, there is no escaping the mans comments. Maybe the problem isn’t Islam, or women who post themselves with their husbands or husbands who post their wives. It seems like the problem is the man (ikr, whaaattt?). This religion is very outdated and can’t keep up with changing times so I understand why men like you try to make sense of posting pictures online. There is nothing wrong with posting pictures of your spouse online. The problem are the viewers. In this case, the man posting videos about someone else’s wife is the problem lol
Haha, my shaykh is very strong in his gheerah from the advice he's given us. He was once asked what he thought if a couple was to go out with another couple for dinner at a restaurant and ate, shaykh said hed poke both the mens eyes out 😂. He was also like abu Bakr and also found it weird for someone to ask him how his wife is, even if he didnt mention their names 😅. I think some people defo have different experinces but our shaykhs have all good gheerah, may Allaah reward them
They don't know the different types of ghira. Islam taught us about both the good and the bad ones that may take a person to hell fire, and that phrase about the camera roll he said seems like the bad ghira. Also when they said women should only stay at home many ahadith show how Muslim women during the time of the Prophet peace be upon him time were a part of the community they literally used to help the injured people during the wars.
Its the parents fault they have not told anything about haya lower gaze mixing with opposite gender or proper hijab they just gave their daughters barbie and the sons ninja
I'm very disappointed how the episode started (that video) using the wrong method to get to the right purpose was never the way of Islam . Muslims are the moving image of Islam, and the image given in that video is discusting.Do you think the prophet Sala alaho alyhi waslem would be happy of those words!!!!!. Do not give excuses like :it was needed even it is wrong .... That is not an excuse.you should be more careful with the shared content. This is our relegion we are talking about it, it has to be done the right way always with no exception
As always you see a full MALE Panel talk about the many many impractical limits women should stay in. I wonder what they think about well-known female scholars like Yasmine Mojahed who are considered "a fitna to society by openly showing her beauty and facial features". May Allah bless her because she is spreading much-needed dawah among men and women. May Allah help us remain balanced in a way that is pleasing to him. And educate us the way he educated many many women and men before us.
Yasmine mogah3d wears makrup in public which is haram by consensus. Her hijab and clothing isnt even considered islamic by any schhool of fiqh. Prophet muhammsf was a man who gave naseeha to women specifically and so did sahabah....... For men it is their responsilbity ti spread the religion of Allah
اسلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Can u please make it clear what It means for a women to stay home unless there is a need ? What would be classed as a need. Jazkumallah khairan
Going to parents house, travel to work, go grocery store with husband’s permission & no danger of fitnah & Obv without wearing makeup and perfume & being covered.
Assalamualaikum, a video on Muslim women working in essential roles in society especially female doctors would be much appreciated . I have heard that working as a Muslim female doctor is fardh kifaya in Islam. You referred to the fact that women should stay at home which contradicts this view. Thanks
That doesnt contradict that fact. Western ideologies push ALL WOMEN to work and be indepedent. Yes there are societal needs that need to be addressed without pshing fir all women to work. The basis is that woman stay at home and THE EXCEPTION is if there is a need like for doctors etc.
Here is the evidence The basic principle is that a woman should remain at home, and not go out except for necessary purposes. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:33]. Although this is addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), it also applies to the believing women. It is only addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) because of their honour and status with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and because they are examples for the believing women. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Woman is ‘awrah, and if she goes out, the shaytaan raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allah than when she stays in her house.” Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Shaheehah, no. 2688. And he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said concerning a woman’s prayer in the mosque: “Their houses are better for them.” Narrated by Abu Dawood (567) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood. Woman should be protected and concealed from men as much as her guardian can do that. The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) preferred for women to pray in their houses and said that their reward for doing so is greater than their reward for praying in the mosque. It was narrated from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A woman’s prayer in her room is better than her prayer in her courtyard, and her prayer in her cabinet is better than her prayer in her room.” (Narrated by Abu Dawood, 570; al-Tirmidhi, 1173. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb, 1/136).
@taimurahmad don't try and twist the surah and interpretation in your own way it only says ONLY the prophets wife it didn't says women of Islam The Quran is perfect and Allah made no mistakes so there is a reason why it didn't say All women because we need midwifes doctor etc gor private matters
brother i just wanted to mention is it okay to wear sandals like the ones you’re wearing as it says “angels” on them who are a good creation that we all know the status of. and it says it on your feet on your shoes, not sure if this is okay
Same applies with family group chats One sister trying to showin off her vacation her husband has no shirt on enjoying himself swimming told the sis she needs to delete it her hubby won’t appreciate his in-laws see him like that Brother has to delete his group social media cuz his wife kept taking his phone copying his family pictures sharing them with her friends her family ( non mahrams)
Any man who is OK with his wife online is definitely not manly, it's so sad but same time I think brothers need to be careful online too, because of evil eye and sihr, may Allah protect our ummah. Social media is fitna in my opinion. Plus we shouldn't speak about muslims behind their backs. Best to avoid all of that. I don't like social media I think it's causing more problems than good.
Unfortunately many muslims think its easy to through such names on other , although the prophet said among long Hadith , “……. Then he said, “Shall I not inform you of the controlling of all that?” I replied, “Yes, Prophet of God.” So he took hold of his tongue and said, “Restrain this.” I asked, “Prophet of God, shall we really be punished for what we talk about?” He replied, “I am surprised at you, Mu'adh! Will anything but the harvests of their tongues overthrow men in hell on their faces (or, on their nostrils)?” Ahmad, Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah transmitted it. عَن معَاذ بن جبل قَالَ كُنْتُ مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي سفر فَأَصْبَحت يَوْمًا قَرِيبا مِنْهُ وَنحن نسير فَقلت يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَخْبِرْنِي بِعَمَلٍ يُدْخِلُنِي الْجَنَّةَ وَيُبَاعِدنِي عَن النَّار قَالَ لقد سَأَلتنِي عَن عَظِيمٍ وَإِنَّهُ لِيَسِيرٌ عَلَى مَنْ يَسَّرَهُ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ تَعْبُدُ اللَّهَ وَلَا تُشْرِكُ بِهِ شَيْئًا وَتُقِيمَ الصَّلَاةَ وَتُؤْتِيَ الزَّكَاةَ وَتَصُومَ رَمَضَانَ وَتَحُجَّ الْبَيْت ثُمَّ قَالَ أَلَا أَدُلُّكَ عَلَى أَبْوَابِ الْخَيْرِ الصَّوْمُ جُنَّةٌ وَالصَّدَقَةُ تُطْفِئُ الْخَطِيئَةُ كَمَا يُطْفِئُ المَاء النَّار وَصَلَاة الرجل من جَوف اللَّيْل قَالَ ثمَّ تَلا (تَتَجَافَى جنُوبهم عَن الْمضَاجِع) حَتَّى بَلَغَ (يَعْمَلُونَ) ثُمَّ قَالَ أَلَا أَدُلُّكَ بِرَأْس الْأَمر كُله وَعَمُودِهِ وَذِرْوَةِ سَنَامِهِ قُلْتُ بَلَى يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَالَ رَأْسُ الْأَمْرِ الْإِسْلَامُ وَعَمُودُهُ الصَّلَاةُ وَذِرْوَةُ سَنَامِهِ الْجِهَادُ ثُمَّ قَالَ أَلَا أُخْبِرُكَ بِمِلَاكِ ذَلِكَ كُلِّهِ قُلْتُ بَلَى يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ فَأَخَذَ بِلِسَانِهِ فَقَالَ كُفَّ عَلَيْكَ هَذَا فَقُلْتُ يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ وَإِنَّا لَمُؤَاخَذُونَ بِمَا نتكلم بِهِ فَقَالَ ثَكِلَتْكَ أُمُّكَ يَا مُعَاذُ وَهَلْ يَكُبُّ النَّاسَ فِي النَّارِ عَلَى وُجُوهِهِمْ أَوْ عَلَى مَنَاخِرِهِمْ إِلَّا حَصَائِدُ أَلْسِنَتِهِمْ. رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ وَالتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَابْنُ مَاجَه
My wife wears burka and hijab, I live in a predominantly non Muslim city and it enrages me when men stare at her in public, I get so mad it pisses me off badly and I feel like there's something wrong with me for feeling this way.
Whats the difference between you and people like andrew tate then? what you are speaking about is narcissism and toxic masculinity not islam and god's names mercy,empathy, and compassionate which are the soul of islam not toxicity and narcissism
Your saying stay at home, yet many women are entrepreneurs with their own businesses. They can’t always be home and there is nothing haram in that. Each person has different life circumstances, not every woman also has a man. Also a lot of men don’t have a high enough income to take care of the whole family, what are you men even on about when we’re are dealing with todays issues along with following religion. Wake up.
The basic principle is that a woman should remain at home, and not go out except for necessary purposes. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:33]. Although this is addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), it also applies to the believing women. It is only addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) because of their honour and status with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and because they are examples for the believing women. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Woman is ‘awrah, and if she goes out, the shaytaan raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allah than when she stays in her house.” Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Shaheehah, no. 2688. And he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said concerning a woman’s prayer in the mosque: “Their houses are better for them" He isnt the one saying this rasulallah is. YOU need to WAKE UP from your feminist delusions
Generally, stay home like the Ummul Mumineen and the Sahabiyya. Allah has designated male and female with their specific role. Men works and female stays home. But if wife wants to work, she works in women related work. No free mixing. Wear Hijab etc. No shop cashier or men, only female. No Hospital, Gp reception, unless only for women...Or internet job etc...as long as doesn't contravene with wife, mother role. And her money is hers....she does not need to contribute to the husband's income..and he can't take it.
Brothers please talk about mixed weddings where women come with full make up even with no make up these mixed weddings men and women together music dancing etc is big fitna. Please make a video on it
allahuma barik i loved this disscussion, very insightful. i pray that Allah grants me a husband who fulfills my rights as a wife in Islam and encourages me in my deen and dunya affairs
Honestly speaking i don't think women would work or go to uni and just try to be independent if men could be trust worthy cuz now adays men treat stay home women poorly and abuse their power which in't fair so thats y women perfer to be stable and independent before marriage so if hings don't work out she would still be on her feet or her husband can't treat here badly cuz she has money blablablaa and hed do anything cuz he knows she won't hve anything wihtout him honestly who wouldnt love to be home and just chill coook raise kids and just create a cozy safe home for ur kids and husband with a heart beat any women would be down the problem is the man going to do his part without abusing it ???????????
Ironically,You look at our situation through a lazy , worthless males' perspective. "Who wouldn't want to stay at home and chill ?" What if we don't want to marry? How about the women who are not straight? The world does not work like that? It is still sexist to believe women should be provided for coz you don't look at them as equal. P.s do you ever look at the infrastructure in a city and wonder if the architect is a woman? Or the medicines you have at home were invented by womanfolk?
the definition of "need" should have been more justified. As need is subjective. If the husband prays and sincerely go out collecting the rizk (as they are asked in the Quran), she should be patient and rely on Allah's will. She shouldn't come out and do online business to fulfill her "needs". These are not needs, they are desires.
Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan (may Allaah preserve him) said: It is not permissible for a woman to address men who are not her mahrams except in cases of necessity, and with a voice which is not attractive and she should not speak to them any more than is necessary. End quote. Fataawa al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah (1/432) Praise be to Allah. Firstly: It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines: She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them. There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32]. She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 . It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female. And Allah knows best. Jazakallaahu khairan
I believe fathers will be asked why they couldn’t provide financially for there daughters, allows them to go to work knowing jobs will have non mahrams men interactions So now brothers expecting the wives to also work leading to this haram way of life
@@aatamf8156that's false. You don't need two incomes, I've met plenty of families that are living well with one income due to the father working hard and the mother being fully responsible for domestic labor. These kind of comments are based on laziness and lack of ambition.
@@aatamf8156 Islamically fathers and brothers should provide for the daughters/ sisters regardless If it’s a dyer need where sisters need to work for there future it’s fine
So you believe Allah will question these poor fathers for not being able to provide for their daughters because Allah didn't give them enough rizq to support their daughters financially ?
I was luke that once and our boys in primary school fought for this but later found out like omran said its pakistanis are like the arabs but now I'm ok its nothing to do with islam because we know the names of women in our religion.
Hijab is more than headscarf the whole clothing the actions the lifestyle doing stuff like this isn’t befitting of hijabi to the extent there is various numbers of scholars who say it’s haram to take pictures, videos etc. of women without necessity
I believe the same for men! These podcast men are creating fitna for the women for posting and giggling and looking attractive! They should not be online at all!
See this is the result of the so called internet Sheikhs. Please go back and educate yourself on the deen as clearly just having watched the intro you guys are beyond ignorant. To say women place should only be the home is beyond ridiculous and it really shows that you guys know nothing about the reality of life and most likely might live on benefits.
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*THERE ARE 17 FARD/COMPULSORY RAKATS OF 5 DAILY PRAYERS✅OF WHICH 11 ARE BATINI/QUIET RAKATS & 6 ARE JAHRI/LOUD RAKATS✅SURAH FATIHA MUST BE RECITED IN EVERY RAKAH AS PROVEN IN MANY SAHIH HADITHS & SURAH FATIHA IS NOT FORGIVEN OR EXCUSED FOR ANYONE WHETHER ITS THE IMAM OR CONGREGANTS/THE ONES PRAYING BEHIND AN IMAM✅ALL THE SAHABA RECITED SURAH FATIHA EVEN IN THE LOUD RAKATS WHERE THE IMAM FINISHES HIS FATIHA AS PROVEN FROM ALL THE SAHIH HADITHS ABOVE*
1⃣4⃣ *PILLARS OF SALAH1⃣STANDING2⃣OPENING TAKBIR3⃣SURAH FATIHA 4 BOTH IMAM & CONGREGANTS4⃣RUKU/BOWING5⃣STAND FROM RUKU6⃣SUJOOD/PROSTRATING7⃣RISING FROM SUJOOD8⃣JALSA/SITTING BETWEEN 2 SUJOODS9⃣CALMNESS IN ALL ACTIONS OF SALAH🔟PERFORMING ALL PILLARS IN ORDER1⃣1⃣FINAL TASHAHHUD1⃣2⃣SITTING DOWN 4 IT1⃣3⃣SENDING SALAT ON MUHAMMADﷺ1⃣4⃣2 TASLEEMS* ☑
8⃣ *WAJIBAT OF SALAH1⃣ALL TAKBIRS EXCEPT OPENING TAKBIR (SINCE ITS A PILLAR)2⃣SAY SAMIALLAHU LIMAN HAMIDAH 4 BOTH IMAM & CONGREGANTS3⃣SAY RABBANA WALAKAL HAMD4⃣DURING RUKU SAY SUBHANA RABBIYAL AZEEM5⃣DURING SUJOOD SAY SUBHANA RABBIYAL A'LA6⃣BETWEEN 2 SUJOODS SAY RABBIGHFIRLEE7⃣1ST TASHAHHUD8⃣SITTING DOWN 4 IT* ☑
Hadith
*حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ، مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلاَءِ حَدَّثَنَا زَيْدُ بْنُ الْحُبَابِ، ح وَحَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَامِرٍ الْعَقَدِيُّ، ح وَحَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مَنِيعٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو أَحْمَدَ الزُّبَيْرِيُّ، قَالُوا حَدَّثَنَا كَثِيرُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ، عَنْ رُبَيْحِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ قَالَ*
*لاَ وُضُوءَ لِمَنْ لَمْ يَذْكُرِ اسْمَ اللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ*
*It was narrated from AbuSaeed that:The Messenger of Allah said: "There is no ablution for one who does not mention the Name of Allah (before doing it)✅Hasan✅Darussalam💧Vol. 1 Hadith 397 Book 1 Hadith 429 Ibn Majah*
💧 *WUDU MUST BE MADE WITH CORRECT STEP BY STEP PROCEDURE EVEN IF A PERSON DIPS IN A POOL OR TAKES A FULL SHOWER💧BCUZ 1 OF THE CONDITIONS OF WUDU IS IT MUST BE DONE IN CORRECT ORDER💧YOU CAN MAKE WUDU ANYTIME💧WITH OR WITHOUT CLOTHES WUDU IS VALID💧REMOVING CLOTHES DOES NOT BREAK OR SPOIL WUDU IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM* ✅
*1 Wash hands starting from the fingers to the wrist 3 times* *2 Rinse & gargle ur mouth thoroughly & spit out 3 times* *3 Hold water with right hand close to nose & inhale & sniff some water slowly inside & clean the nostrils & blow out the water from the nose itself 3 times* *4 Wash entire face 3 times with both hands cupped with water & it must reach ear to ear door as well as from forehead hair line to neck* *5 Wash right hand starting again from the fingertips to elbows 3 times* *6 Wash left hand likewise* *7 Take little water with both your wet hands & wipe your entire head from forehead to the back of your neck & WIPE BACK TO THE FOREHEAD IN THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION ONLY ONCE!* *8 Use wet index fingers to clean the inside of ears & thumbs to clean the outside ONCE* *9 Finally wash right foot upto the ankle thrice* *10 Wash left ankle likewise*
⛔☝🏻💡 *CORRECT YOUR MISTAKES IN WUDU💧ESPECIALLY ISTINSHAAQ=CLEANING THE NOSTRILS☝🏻I ESPECIALLY ALERTED ABOUT ISTINSHAAQ BCUZ MOST people just sprinkle water into their noses without even INHALING & sniffing it inside AND EXHALING & BOWING IT OUT BY THE NOSE ITSELF!👃💧THIS IS THE ONLY VALID METHOD❗✔IF YOUR WUDU ABLUTION IS INVALID, ALL YOUR PRAYERS ARE ALSO INVALID🔥FEAR ALLAH SHARE THE KHAIR WITH EVERYONE JazakAllahukhairaa🗣Tag any1 who is unaware of the dangers of NOT following the proper procedure like the Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم ﷺ* 🌴
*_It is FARD/obligatory upon The True Muslim to affirm the Asma/Names & Sifat/Attributes of Allah, without committing:1️⃣Tahreef:To attach figurative & metaphorical meanings to the attributes of Allah, while denying the apparent meaning of the attribute2️⃣Ta'teel:Leaving & vacating🔥Negation/Denial of His Attributes & denial of His Self & Being. Denial of the real meaning proved by the Quran & Sunnah🔥Tahreef includes Tateel but Ta'teel does not include Tahreef🔥There are 2 types of Tateel:❌️1)Absolute Tateel: Which the Jahamiyyah committed:Denying all attributes of Allah❌️2)Partial Tateel:Which the Ash’ariyya & maturidiyya commit:Denying all attributes of Allah by Tahreef & affirming only 7 (Ashariyah) & 8 (Maturidiyah) attributes of Allah3️⃣Takyeef:To have faith that the Attributes of Allah are such & such or to put questions as to the state of His Attributes. The term "beghair Takyeef' means that the AhlusSunnah deny having knowledge of Allah's condition as Allah alone knows the state of His Self & His Attributes4️⃣Tamtheel: To have faith that the Attributes of Allah are like the Attributes of His creatures5️⃣Tafweed: To have faith that it’s not the apparent meaning which is meant but only Allah alone knows the meanings of the attributes6️⃣Tajseem:To have faith that Allah has a body. (We as AhlusSunnah neither affirm nor negate the attribute of body, since nothing has come in Quran & Sunnah concerning it & Aqeeda is a matter purely based on Revelation/Wahi as mentioned by Shaykh IbnUthaymeen RAHIMAHULLAH & Shaykhul Islam IbnTaymiyyah RAHIMAHULLAH✅So we do NOT affirm that He has a body while affirming his attributes). The Salaf understood the meanings of the passages of the Quran & the Sunnah & proved these meanings in the favour of Allah. However they would submit the knowledge of the reality (how of the attribute) To Allah. Imam Malik RAHIMAHULLAH was asked about the state of Istawa (Rising Above) of Allah on the Throne, he said Istawa is known but ‘how’ He ascended is unknown. The code of conduct of the AhlusSunnah wal Jamah is as the clear Quran’s verse:“There is nothing like Him.”-Quran (112:4)✔️The correct Aqeeda therefore, is NOT that the Attributes are completely denied as is the way of the Mutazila🔥(A Deviant sect), NOR is it to try to prove them completely as is the way of the Mumathila🔥(Another deviant sect✏Rather the true Aqeeda is to make an affirmation of the Attributes without similitudes/likeness✅SALAFIYYAH✅️_*
*Breaking down DEVIANT AQEEDAH OF SUFI/deobandis/asharis/matureedis🛐❌1️⃣They claim to follow imam AbuHanifa infact they follow him only in fiqhi issues, so they can fight with us that fold hands below navel or dont do Raful-Yadayen2️⃣The aqeedah of sufi/ashari/maturidi/deobandi is of sufi🔥WAllahu Alam from where they got this Shirk belief🔥Their aqeedah is of Mohammad bin Mohammad matrudi🔥If you know that matrudi is the fiqh who are wrong in the tawheed asma-wa-siffat of Allah.. They don't believe in every names of Allah, holding on only 7-8🔥They were wrong before & they're still wrong❌3️⃣Whilst in performing deeds they follow Sufi's 4 sub categories qadiri→chishti→naqshabandi→suharwardi👎🏻They're undercover Sufi🛐❌4️⃣SUFI/ASHARI/MATUREEDI/Deobandi claim that they follow 4 imams, but they follow imam matrudi in aqeedah & in fiqh they follow imam AbuHanifa, they leave 3 Imams as if they never existed!*_
*_WHERE IS ALLAH⁉️ImamAbuHanifah☝🏻AbuMutiAlBalkhi reported:I asked Imam AbuHanifah about a person who says:I do NOT know whether my Rab (Allah) is above the heavens or on earth⁉️AbuHanifah said:A person who makes such a statement becomes an apostate because Allah, the Exalted says:The Merciful has ascended above THE ARSH & THE ARSH OF ALLAH IS ABOVE HIS HEAVENS🔥I ALSO ASKED ABUHANIFAH🔥What if such a person admits, Allah is above His Arsh BUT EXCLAIMS:I do not know whether His Arsh is above the heavens or on earth‼️AbuHanifah responded🗣If he denies that the Arsh is above the heavens, he is an apostate‼️If the person apostatizes by saying that he did not know where is the ARSH of Allah, then by right a person who denies the Loftiness of Allah altogether is definitely worse than an apostate🔥ImamMalik🔥Abdullah binNafi reported:MalikBinAnas said:ALLAH IS ABOVE THE HEAVENS BUT HIS KNOWLEDGE encompasses everything. NOTHING ESCAPES HIS KNOWLEDGE🔥ImamShafi said:THE CREED which I hold is the same creed the MUSLIMS BEFORE me were holding, namely, the Testimony of Faith:There is no god worthy of being worshipped except Allah, that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah & that Allah is ABOVE HIS ARSH, above the heavens. He descends to the lowest heaven whenever He wishes📚ImamBinKhuzaimah a SHAFI himself said:Whoever DOES NOT BELIEVE that Allah is above His ARSH☝🏻Above His 7 HEAVENS & THAT HE IS SEPARATE from His creatures, is a KAFIR🔥Such person must be ordered to repent & disavow his belief or else he must be beheaded and thrown on a garbage dump so that neither Ahlul-Qiblah nor Ahludth-dthimmah be annoyed by the foul odour of his carcass🔥AbuBakr MuhammadatTamimi, a Shafi'ite imam of Naisabur said:"I do not pray behind a person who denies the attributes of Allah & does not recognise that Allah is above His Arsh🔥ImamAhmad🔥He was asked: Is Allah above His Arsh, above the 7th heaven, separate from His creatures, & is His knowledge & power encompassing everything everywhere⁉️He replied:'Certainly, He is above His Arsh & NOTHING escapes His knowledge. All of the above show that the entire Muslim ummah, in the past & present, is in unison regarding the belief in the Loftiness & SUPREMACY OF ALLAH THE EXALTED_*
@@Zaatar_Honey *_MuslimSkeptic Daniel Haqiqatjou says:“I support Deobandis, they are the real ones. Most scholars are deobandis. I’m a fanboy of deobandis. They are preserving Islam, according to the Salaf(!)” Also DanielHaqiqatjou: “I’m Athari, Hanbali” Sorry, but this man is a deceiver. Daniel is a sympathizer of Khawarij who praises innovators from Deobandi sect upon soofiyyah. Wahdat ul Wujood is one of the worst forms of shirk and this is one of the core beliefs of Deobandis and barelvis. The Ulama of Deoband propogate and defend this kufr but the majority of their public does not know this Aqeedah. Mirza Ghulam Ahmad Qadiani had the same Aqeedah of Wahdat ul Wujood as well. Haji Imdadullah Makki is the “Shaikh ul Ulama”, “Murshad”, “Syed”, “Aala Hazrat”, “The Shuyyookh ul Shuyookh of the Mashaaikh” of Deobandis. He writes in Kulyaat-e-Imdaadiya Page 18 printed by Darul Ishat that:“And after this he should be engrossed in the Zikr of HOO HOO so much so that he himself becomes the Mazkoor (i.e Allaah) and this is the meaning of Fana dar Fana. Upon achieving this state he will become a capapie of Noor”_*
*DANIEL HAQIQATJOU PRAISED INNOVATORS LIKE SUFI SECTS OF DEOBANDI DEVIANTS WHO HAVE PANTHEISM WAHDATUL WUJOOD AQEEDAH🔥🔥BUT innovators like deobandi naqshbandi barelwi etc. don't deserve any praise no matter how much khair they do or how many huffaz they produce each year! USING THAT LOGIC WE SHOULD ALSO START PRAISING THE QURANIST APOSTATES WHO ARE HADITH REJECTORS BUT "HAVE DONE SOME KHAYR"🔥ALLAH CURSED THE INNOVATOR AS WELL AS THE 1 WHO ACCOMMODATES THE INNOVATOR‼️🔥Let alone promotes such innovators' ideologies or sect or deviated beliefs!*
*ALL MY COMMENTS ARE DETAILED REFUTATIONS OF KHUROOJ AGAINST RULERS BY SPEECH OR WEAPONS! ALHUMDULILLAH JAAHIL SKEPTIC DH, ALI DAWAH, MH, BROHAJJI ETC. HAVE BEEN DEBUNKED IN ALL MY COMMENTS & VIDEOS!*
*FOLLOWING QURAN AND AUTHENTIC SUNNAH ACCORDING TO ASLAAF IS WRONG ACCORDING TO IKHWANI JAAHILS*
*_Deobandi sufis & Homosexual lustful relationships🔥Is there any truth in their own books and scriptures for such an accusation? Or is 'Mufti Aziz ur Rehman's scandal a one off thing⁉️‼️Lets read from works of Deoband which reads:Book: Hikayat ul Awliya, Arwah thalatha, page no. 228🔥Hafiz Mohammad Ahmad sahib, my father mentions that, once there was a gathering at khanqah (certain dedicated area) of Gangoh (name of place). All the mureeds (blind followers) & shagird (students) of Gangohi & Nanotwi (deobandi scholars) were present there🔥Gangohi said to Nanotwi with lots of love: Why don't you lie here a bit (with me)🔥At this Nanotwi, got a bit shy, but Gangohi persisted🔥So Nanotwi lay down flat as per request🔥Gangohi, got onto that same charpai (bed)🔥Then Gangohi placed his hand on to the chest of Nanotwi while lying on that bed facing him, in such a way as how an 'ashiq' (sexual lustful lover) tries to satiate their heart through it🔥Nanotwi objected:Miyan(word means husband, but can be used in a way of respect for a person as well), what are you doing!?🔥WHAT WILL THE PEOPLE SAY⁉️🔥Upon hearing this, Gangohi replied:Let them say whatever (i.e. I don't care)!_*
*_Haji Imdadullah Makki is the “Shaikh ul Ulama” “Murshad” “Syed” “Aala Hazrat” “The Shuyyookh ul Shuyookh of the Mashaaikh” of Deobandis. He writes in Kulyat-e-Imdadiya Page 18 printed by Darul Ishaat that:🔥“And after this he should be engrossed in the Zikr of HOO HOO so much so that he himself becomes the Mazkoor (i.e Allah) and this is the meaning of ‘Fana dar Fana’🔥Upon achieving this state he will become a capapie of Noor”🔥Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi confirms in Imdad ul Mushtaq page 62 that, “He (Imdadullah Makki) used to say that the human being is outwardly a slave and inwardly (Batini) the Haqq (Allah).” Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi further elaborates, “The batin is the reality which is manifest in the human, and the batin should not be considered a part of the human"🔥🔥🔥Deobandis seemed to have applied this recipe, hence in Fadhaail Sadqat page 558 Published by Kutub Khaana Faizi, Molana Zakriya Kandholwi narrates a dua from Rasheed ahmed gangohi in which he is asking Allah to forgice him & says:“O Allah forgive me🔥I am a Liar, I am nothing… What am I? I am nothing and whatever I am, It is You. And me & you are Shirk upon Shirk”🔥So he first admits that he is a liar, he is nothing and then tells Allah that what ever I am, it is you as well and that me & you are shirk upon shirk🔥Astaghfirullah🔥This is Wahdat ul Wujood. Now see the same Aqeedah of Wahdat ul Wujood from Mirza Qadiani which he mentioned in one of his books🔥“I saw in my kashf that I am Allah Himself and I believed with certainty that I was definitely Him..”_*
*_Zakariya Kandhalwi was narrating from a letter of Rasheed Ahmad Gangohi to his Shaykh Imdadullah AlMakki🔥(All3️⃣are from the elders of deoband)🔥Ashraf Ali Thanvi confirms in Imdad ul Mushtaq page 62 that, “He (Imdadullah Makki) used to say that the human being is outwardly a slave & inwardly (Batini) the Haq (Allah).” Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi further elaborates, “The batin is the reality which is manifest in the human, and the batin should not be considered a part of the human…”🔥Deobandis seemed to have applied this recipe, hence in Fadhail Sadqat page 558 Published by Kutub Khaana Faizi, Molana Zakriya Kandholwi narrates a dua from Rasheed ahmed gangohi in which he is asking Allah to forgive him & says:🔥“O Allah forgive me… I am a Liar, I am nothing… What am I? I am nothing & whatever I am, It is You. And me and you are Shirk upon Shirk”🔥So he first admits that he is a liar, he is noting and then tells Allah that what ever I am, it is you as well & that me & you are shirk upon shirk🔥Astaghfirullah🔥This is Wahdat ul Wujood. Now see the same Aqeedah of Wahdat ul Wujood from Mirza Qadiani:🔥“I saw in my kashf that I am Allah Himself and I believed with certainty that I was definitely Him..”_*
There are women that perv on your wive's husbands ... men need to wear hamas keffiyeh just like women 😂 you think jealousy is one way? Pfft it's time you learned about women having SOULS , FEELINGS and not just being a house appliance 🤣🤣🤣
Salaam brothers
Make a video on islamic way of doing business and today's ways and values please
What the brothers are missing here is a modest Muslim woman can do anything she wants as long a it is halal. Being modest and doing what you like, using your intellectual abilities, has been the norm for Muslim women since the days of our mothers, the wives of the Prophet.
Indeed, its quite odd and disheartening that their promoting this notion that woman should only stay at home and experience life through their 'homely duties' when women should be able to actively participate in society without being put down.
They really have easy talk… look at my other comment
A modest muslim women would not post herself, it is haram to display yourself in that way as is clear in Quran and sunnah, prophets ﷺ wives never did anything like that and they stayed at home, be like them
@@K.w897 brother, I dont post myself. Did u read everything??? I am saying I need to go outside and sometimes even travel for necessities. Why? Because I don’t have responsible mahrams around me, they let their responsibilities go and their manhood. They don’t provide for us. SO HOW CAN I JUST STAY AT HOME? Who is going to provide for my mom? For my little brothers and sisters? I am the eldest and I don’t have a father. Like I said men nowadays can talk sooo much about women but they forget their own responsibilities. My aunties out there, a old’widow, without parents, she NEEDS to work and I mean she is OLD because her brothers don’t provide for her. They forget the brothers are also sinning because of neccesities she needs to go outside and provide for herself. SO EVERYTIME SHE IS OUTSIDE AND NON MAHRAMS SEE HER, THE SINS ARE FOR THE BROTHERS, WHY? BECAUSE THE BROTHERS NEED TO PROVIDE FOR HER AFTER THE FATHER. Do u understand? Men nowadays who can’t be responsible are the reason why sisters need to display themselves outside in the world, so they can get bread. First talk about the brothers then about the sisters. Because it’s always about us, while I have seen with my own eyes how horrible brothers are, they do haram, haram talk, haram money and still will blame the sisters even if they don’t have a choice
@@K.w897 That is why the OP said she can do what she wants as long as it is halal.
Brother Adam is refreshing and a nice balance to the conversation. His humility and referring to the texts in arabic and clarifying certain important points is a blessing. May Allah give you all sincerity, balance, success and protection. Jazakallahu khair for tackling this epidemic.
couldn't agree more Allahumabarik
100% agree, I wouldn't understand some things to the fullest if it weren't for his clarifications.
Agreed allahummahbarik
I’ve commented this numerous times when dayooth are mentioned. I worked with a Muslim male who lusted after a married “hijabi” influencer. I was disgusted and told him she’s married. He said “so what?”. I’m a sister and I know how males think and what they do looking at pictures and videos of even covered women online however, I was still disgusted at the level of disrespect for someone’s wife and a Muslim sister. I’d rather remain single than marry a dayooth! These males are covering their own faces and exposing their women instead! Very worrying times indeed. May Allah grant us hidayah before He destroys us in this state. Ameen!
I’m West African and these people are super strange to me. Our grandmothers had trades and skills even though their husbands provided. It’s also not safe to have your wife uneducated, unskilled and unemployable (even as a Quran teacher). If something happens to you, she and kids will be a burden to the community. I need to hear from an African scholar.
I do agree to be honest. It's important to have an education as a female. I've seen and heard too many sad stories including what happened to my own mother in law where the husband does and the women are left in awful situations. Staying at home is VERY important and must be prioritised over work absolutely. But no harm in the girl getting her education and skills before marriage or alongside. I work part time and enjoy helping my husband financially even though I don't have to. But it's a blessing to help him and to be able to stay at home two days a week too. Alhamdulilah for everything
@@eh7947 Our we speaking about what should and should not happen or about what does happen? The reality on the ground is not so pretty.
No one said don't be educated. She is to be educated to teach her kids and pass on good skills to her children
That education shouldn't be focused on working a job for some employer.
Need to hear from an African scholar... seriously? Since when did Islam become Africa Islam, Asian Islam etc. And speaking of our grannies, those skills were mainly used at home. They were very home oriented unlike today where it's all tailored for the job market. And moreover,just because you grew up seeing something doesn't mean that was the right thing to do. Follow Islam. Salam
@@KhadijaAdam-fd7fjAlhamdulillah, well said.
47:17. Please tell me they're not agreeing with this. Its absolutely extremist and absurd. A woman is not allowed to keep pictures on her camera roll just because of the rare possibility of it being hacked?! That's insanely unnecessary. How about you have FAITH on the more likely chance it would never get hacked. If direct conversation between non-mehram men and non-meham women were allowed in the time of the companions within a limit, then saying this makes zero sense.
Lets remember its not a sin for a man to glance at a women or know what she looks like even (her identity). Its a sin to sexualise them instead.
their mentality is unbelievable. I truly feel bad for women who live around them.
@@TawhidKurdiBrother, it’s not haram to look at a woman! Where do you live? In a cage? Under a rock? Women are literally everywhere, who’s your flight attendant? Who’s the shopkeeper? Who’s the financer at the bank? Women are everywhere in society and by saying you can’t look them you are saying you can’t leave the house as a man!!
There are people who follow the opninion that taking photos of anything with the soul is haram so I don´t mind their opninion.
Exactly. That's like saying that a hijabi woman has to stay with her hijab even when she's at home because you never know male thiefs can break in and see you without it so you have to always be with it. How stupid is that. These men really want to make religion really hard on women.
it's haram to take pictures let alone keep it in your phone.
I’m trying to understand as to why a woman is not allowed to persuit a high level education. We need muslim women who are specialized in certain field to help other muslim sisters.
Asalaamualaikum, you do realize that the first university ever created was by a Muslim woman located in Cairo I believe. No onesaid a woman can't pursue a high education. But of course it needs to be done in the proper fashion.
@@khanhamid3744in Islam we are told to seek knowledge all kinds of knowledge were in Islam does it say a field that is good for a woman
@@khanhamid3744 “ only “ ? Says who?, brother we can pursue any field we have an interest in, why are you guys trying to limit us?!
@@khanhamid3744 looking at the amount of replies you replied to one comment I said just shows how triggered you got, I'm gonna summarize one reply to them all in the next reply 😪
@@khanhamid3744 1- working in Walmart isn't a “study field “ we don't go to uni to study how to pack milk jugs on shelves 🤡
2- num.1 goes for driving a taxi too
3- working in the aviation industry and being a pilot doesn't take away from a woman’s dignity or safety or subject her to anything Haram sitting in a chair operating machinery ( a big complicated one) while there isn't much demand on female pilots, but if anyone had great interest to be one she shouldn't be prevented from it just because “there's no need for female pilots” cuz no women needs them not like a Dr.
That's the weakest argument ever, if that is the case then male Drs should be prevented from pursuing a OBGYN career and leave all the positions to the female Drs 😒
And how do you know pursuing studies in aviation or industrial engineering or business or finance or “fields that wen aren't necessarily needed” won't be rewarded by god? Or “her hereafter” ?
Also you have failed to understand that studying and getting a degree in a certain field doesn't necessarily pursuing a career in it, she could be a pilot or an engineer or whatever and decide not to work!
I'm a woman and dieing to stay at home and marry inshallah! Hate this 9 to 5 prison depression it's horrible! Wish I was bought up in a good muslim country! Women definitely are more feminine in Muslim countries and they can be a stay at home wife the natural state, Alhamdulilah 😢😊
Same😢😢 in shaa Allah soon sis
Praise be to Allah.
Firstly:
It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines:
She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them.
There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32].
She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 .
It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female.
And Allah knows best.
Dont use emojis. Jazakallaahu khairan
Did your father not financially secure you? You had to work?
Cuz now brothers demanding wives have jobs
@@piqueny8872 Yes this is a big problem that brothers are demanding wives have jobs on the other hand ladies are also doing degrees to find a good job and no Muslimah wants to stay at home and that's one of
the reasons why most practicing Muslim parents aren't finding a good match for their sons like me.
having kids will be depression enough for you
When the gheera of men is gone , the haya of women is lifted
You know what I find very interesting is that no one is holding the man in the video accountable for his mistake for the fact that he was choosing not to lower his gaze when he felt attracted to the initial women in the videos and the question again goes as men giving permission to women last together women should be allowed to have an online presence when the online presence of women is not the problem the problem is the men and even in this video all of the men are discussing about how the women are responsible for turning them on when in reality human beings were created in such a way that they have a control over there is desires over the content that they consume and if your willingly choosing to be turned on by a woman who is completely coevered then theres something psychologically wrong with you.
This is the only sane comment on this video. Thank you so much for this!!! well said. As a woman, I get a lot of information from muslim women online that Sheikhs can never accurately deliver or communicate well because they're not viewing it from a female perspective
He literally said this video isnt to blame people 🤦. The point was if you're a man you gotta have some ghayrah. And the man at the beginning of the video was being sarcastic
@@Mr_BurgerSonHe was not being sarcastic! He was literally describing the looks of women meaning he looks at them! Where the hell is his hijab of lowering his gaze? Did he throw it out? How does he know about the plumb lips and the eyes and all? Disgusting attitude! He should be in jail!!
@nami20622 if u knew the brother u wouldn't say that lol. His whole instagram account is about making men better and stronger in islam. Also english is my fitst language i know when someone is being sarcastic. Stop being stubborn. Why do u think the speakers never refuted him and specified that this is not a refutation? Because they know what he meant, his point was that is how men react when u post ur wives online. The older brother even mentioned at first he thought the guy wasbeing serious then he understood what he meant
@@Mr_BurgerSon So telling men to get better and stronger is aimed at downgrading and making fun of women's appearances and having no Haya while at it! Thats such disgrace! And the speakers did not refute him because they are all MEN! Men support other men in misogyny its typical behavior disgusting!
The Libyan man Imran mentioned at around 10 minutes is Omar al Mukthar, The Lion of the Desert. Rahimahullah
May Allah have mercy on him and all the Bedouins that died on the hands of the Italian kuffar
Amin
The legend who defeated the Italians ❤❤❤
@@earthynomad7160 Absolutely.
Although it must be said that that list isn't exactly short, Italians have a bad track record in war we can say 😅
An example of extreme ghayrah I been through myself with my ex husband. I used to cover completely incl eyes. So one time a bit my gloves slipped down so you could see 1 cm of my skin of my hand. And then my ex husband became extremely angry and accused me of wanting to expose myself and being impure.
So glad you left him. He sounds like a nightmare
@@naviifra2374 understatement. And thst was just one instance of many others
The fact that you're here talking about your ex husband on that manner and we don't know maybe you are a liar. Anyway the fact that you're talking like this about your ex husband says a lot about you
@@ammarmohammedesmail6723 why you calling someone who you dont even know a liar?
@@ammarmohammedesmail6723 she’s talking about HER husband it’s not like she’s putting his name or exposing him, she’s talking about her experience
I think this episode is much needed wallah we need more of this.
The world especially online is going crazy and society is morally bankrupt
Only way to keep your sanity in these times of filth as a Muslim is to stay away from social media, even TH-cam shorts etc. Seeing everything going on, honestly as a Muslim it´s hard to bear. Deleted everything and now my mental health alhamdulillah improved. Things are only going the get worse from now, we are in the end times.
23:46 brother HOW does that make sense?!
Because let me tell you something this Deen is logical and VERY EASY! It's not complicated or illogical like other religions!
Was kadija ra a business woman doing homeoffice?!
No she was out there and worked.
And even if we assume that she only left home as a necessity! How is society going to function?! You need nurses and teachers and doctors! What if your wife gives birth or needs other medical attention? Wouldn't you want the gynecologist of your wife to be a woman?!
I am a midwife for example! If I don't work WHO is going to be there during delivery! Who is going to prepare the parents for when the baby comes! Who's going to take care of woman before and during pregnancy or during delivery and post partum?! Woman CAN leave the house for work
And woman also can leave the house to be with friends and family! She's not a cat my brother! And this is also NOT something that our beloved prophet Muhammed saw teached or practiced!
So again I want to emphasize that our Deen is ONLY logical!
khadija RA did not engage directly in trade herself, rather she used to employ men to work on her behalf. stop lying about a rightoues woman acting like she was out interacting with men.
Sis, don't even stress yourself about these cooked podcasts. These men left common sense at the door when they entered the podcast room. Please check out educated, practising, God fearing influencers, such as Nafisa's Pearls, who understands the deen and shares the teachings so beautifully, considering the environment we live in ❤❤
@@المجرتيني yeah and how did she employ the men? How did she communicate with them? How did she manage her business?
Also you choose to completely IGNORE what I wrote after that! Wouldn't you want your wife to have a female gynecologist? Or a midwife? Or would you want some male gynecologist treat your wife! Forget giving birth she's going to need a gynecologist for alot of health issues! For example yearly frequent check ups! Or when she need contraceptive pills or other methods! Or if she has other health issues. Tell me how society is going to function without woman in the workforce?!
okay. and what about doctors???
@@bloxinaron3803 a woman should be a doctor for women.
The Prophet Peace Be Upon Him clearly said to cover the faults of one another but we now live in an era we’re people quickly make podcasts, it’s become the norm and we sit for hours talking about stuff which does not concern us and will have great accountability in the hereafter. Yet it’s justified so lightly in this lifetime. SubhanAllah.
I never understood the reason Muslims have to imitate everything the disbelievers do, making podcasts that have nothing with Islam and talking about things that have nothing to do with Islam, how the hell did this start we have interviews, Social media, podcast and Everything else that has nothing to do with Islam Muslims are all over the internet posting ourselves following trends just anything to try to fit in society the Ummah is a lost cause the prophets cried for us for a reason and it’s only getting worse obviously we’re living in the end of times but This is truly sad and embarrassing
A friend of mine was about to accept Islam, but then she saw how these type of men talk about women and she ultimately didn't accept, 😢. I told her to not listen to them and to open the translated copy of the Qur'an but she replied with, "The Muslims claim to be open and inviting, but all I see is judgement,". I was so heart broken 😢
21:03 i like how this brother talks Allahuma Barik. he seems emotionally intelligent, May Allah bless them all. ameen
There are marriages in jeopardy bc of wives wanting an online presence. Mothers with kids. Some husbands are dead set against it and are being accused of being controlling and extreme. May Allah guide us all.
I been battling with the issue with husbund who hates me wearing my hijab i started to wear 4 years ago when i was guided to the right path by the will off Allah after my umraha i follow the quran and sunnah . My husband constantly bellitiles me name calling etc too take my hijab . But my lords command comez first my imaan comes first priority i understand im being tested and its a jihad for me i will rather die then take my hijab off and disobey my creater
May allah azzawajal give you the patience of Asiyah and may you continue you be steadfast amin
He is a test for you, it’s important to find Allah first before you marry so that you can marry a pious man. My duas are with you, may Allah swt make it easy for you
What about women who don’t have a mahram, we need to provide for ourselves and our mothers… my mom is the breadwinner because since her divorce it was expected she need to feed us, now im the second breadwinner as the oldest in the household, I have one brother but he is disabled and one other sister. Sometimes we don’t have a choice to put ourselves out there or to travel.. I don’t have an online presence but in this podcast I only hear the men’s perspective. Women without mahrams in the west also exist or revert sisters, she can’t just drop everything and wait for the one to marry. Who is going to feed her and her siblings???
@@khanhamid3744 what should I do in my situation? Or what should a revert sister do?
@@khanhamid3744 no but I have some revert friends, that’s why I know they are also struggling. Why?
Also u still didn’t answer my question, because this is a modern problem which affects a lot of us. Some males just don’t take responsibility or women like me have no choice… we need more female ‘ulama because everything is based on the male perspective. And for me personally I get annoyed, because 1 I dont feel represented and 2 looks like a lot of males have easy talk since they have never been in this situation or never been a woman themselves. There were female sahaba on the battlefield, fighting jihad, there were female sahaba being nurses/doctors treating the mujahideen; search rufaidah al aslamiya, she was a famous female sahaba
@@khanhamid3744 healthcare
@@khanhamid3744 i saw it too late, i work in healthcare
@@khanhamid3744 correct, I follow the sunnah and quran and as a woman I look at the female sahaba since I can relate much more to them, they did things that are forbidden by some “muslim” men today, like going outside. Showing their face, to even the prophet sas, the most shy and holly man, they didn’t cover their faces, when they did go to the prophet sas for questions. Or some more extreme males want to forbid education for women! I know it’s a cultural issue but we need men now than ever to stand up and say no this isn’t what islam teaches us. We need to talk more about strong women who did things that are against culture but perfectly permissible in islam. Like I sayd how many times did u hear about Rufayda? If they talk about women it’s never about her, it’s always about women of today are brainwashed because feminism, blabla while look at the female sahaba and how they lived life and how strong they were. We don’t need feminism, we need more female scholars who will have that female perspective and know the struggles of the muslimah today. We need a aisha (ra) that teaches and educate the men who are cultural absorbed and don’t give a thing about women.
Last thing, this men culture is really a bad image for islam itself. Islam came to give rights to women, some men right now are so deep into their cultural superiority complex that they go back to how they treat women before islam, in the times of jahiliya.
16:44 this Ayat from Surah 33 verse 332-33 is addressed ONLY to the Prophets wives. The ayat starts wity "ya nisa al nabiye" means women (wives) of the prophet. Its not honest that you attribute this verse as a command from Allah to All women
If you read a few verses forward, the command for hijab comes for all women. "Nisaa il Mumineen". Similarly, in surah An Nur, there's an ayah almost as long as a page, which orders women about hijab, and men too about their "hijab"
@@xpierd8345she ain’t talking about that
problem is that family members call u extreme and to 'calm down' when i tell them to stop going out with makeup or no abaya but no way at all i never EVER am pleased with it, i hope it doesnt make me a dayooth for it ahsnallahu ilaykum
وما علينا إلا البلاغ المبين
I heard if you aren’t pleased/ok with them doing that stuff then you aren’t a dayooth
approach them in a nice way, show the women folk kindness and be gentle. sit and tell them that "i care for u a lot and as ur brother/son etc i want the best for u, i want no harm to ever come ur way. i feel like ur my responsibility and i should look out for u. that is all I'm doing"
Everyone thinks im extreme for not wanting to wear makeup outside 😢
Abaya is Arabic culture so that's not mandatory
Idk abt this podcast tbh… I defo believe in the importance of gheerah but the way these guys are talking sounds like they want women to stay as prisoners of the house without any proper mention of treating them well like even as a practicing Muslim woman this comes across as too harsh, now imagine a non Muslim watching this like it’s just abit too unbalanced… u guys could work on phrasing things diff ways.. young Muslim brothers could get the wrong message and go to the lengths of mistreating their wives… there was no proper mention of treating wives well alongside this etc and I think that’s important as a mulimah I almost felt as if u guys hated us and I should be blamed for just existing… like the whole time i almost wanted to cry :( bear in mind I don’t like to go out unnecessarily too & dress properly etc but idk just feels like too much my heart hurt watching this. Please work on the delivery of this stuff next time it could scare ppl away from Islam.
Can we PLEASE stop caring what non Muslims think about us? Do non Muslims care about what we think about them.
@@omowhanre Just don’t wanna scare them away from Islam I’m talking from a dawah perspective.
@@omowhanrereverts what if they wanna revert
@a.hadith2564 what you're saying is literally so true , like recently I'm seeing so many videos like this and ofcourse the way they're saying is like idk how to address it , but i really felt like crying tbh the strong urge I feel so lost like ...I don't why why they're so harsh and why are they making everything so strict...idk if that's a right words but i really agree with you like 100% I'm like literally crying because of these videos idk at this point I've seen that video where one sister is literally covered like fully and just petting a cat using baby voice (like everyone do) and men in comments are saying that's haram to use that kind of voice and they're even commenting about just sisters showing literally just hands , it's our job to guide our brothers and sisters but recently ...idk it's just feels wrong to even exist :( idk
@vxjhk564 don't cry sister 💗 they will be questioned on the doj
I am confused by this video. My dad died when i was 17 with younger siblings? So whose gona provide for me. What if your man refuses to provide for you? What if your man is disabled? What if your man is autistic? What if your man has learning disabilities? What if a man works his socks off and he cant just cant pay it all? When your divorced who provides for you? I have brothers and uncles - not a single man is looking after me. SO THE CORE PROBLEM IS MEN. Where are the men providing for me.
May Allah have mercy on your father ameen
We were talking about men who can provide but choose not to
Don't misunderstand you can work to provide for your family by islamic means not like the women online.
I completely agree with you, a lot of men are not stepping up and women are left to go out and put on the pants in relationships
Can someone please explain this women staying at home thing? As far as I know, when Khadijah (ra) was out running a business or Musa’s (as) wife/sister in law were out managing their animals or Maryam (ra) was sitting under a palm tree, they were never criticised for their actions.
Are we sure we’re understanding this “stay at home” thing correctly?
During Khadijas time, most of the islamic laws weren't revealed yet
Prophet Musa's wife came out because their father was an old man and that's an exception
Maryam took seclusion from the people when she came out
The ppl behind that argument use an ayah that is directly talking to the wives of the prophet and we wouldn’t have the chains of a lot of hadiths today if all the sahabi women just stayed at home
@@xmary. That's why tafsir is important
And if you read the complete ayah, there is a better understanding
EVEN the prophet wives who are guaranteed to be chaste (as proved in a hadith) were told this command (behind the veil) , what about the normal women?
They were also told not to be soft while speaking so that no one gets tempted (if this was the case for the noble companions, what about me and you? We are incomparable to their eeman, still they had that ruling
Which necessitates those ruling to be more applicable for us
Women can come out if there’s a need like shopping etc as long as they are safe from fitnah and not causing fitnah ie covered, no make up etc no perfume
Woman should be protected and concealed from men as much as her guardian can do that. The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) preferred for women to pray in their houses and said that their reward for doing so is greater than their reward for praying in the mosque.
It was narrated from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A woman’s prayer in her room is better than her prayer in her courtyard, and her prayer in her cabinet is better than her prayer in her room.” (Narrated by Abu Dawood, 570; al-Tirmidhi, 1173. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb, 1/136).
lmao yo I been staying home my entire life fam. my parents strict as hell. u better believe when I get married me and my husband are going to be OUTSIDE 25/8.
The brother in the black cap you are speaking things that are wrong. The third brother in the white cap says things in truth. That Ayah was for the prophets. You can't say a woman's job is to stay at home but want female doctors for your wives ya akhis. Or have dual income. Unless you truly provide her with everything
We also need muslim woman representation in a good way online for female topics you know nothing about. There is something called balance.
The basic principle is that a woman should remain at home, and not go out except for necessary purposes. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:33].
Although this is addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), it also applies to the believing women. It is only addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) because of their honour and status with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and because they are examples for the believing women.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Woman is ‘awrah, and if she goes out, the shaytaan raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allah than when she stays in her house.” Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Shaheehah, no. 2688.
And he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said concerning a woman’s prayer in the mosque: “Their houses are better for them.” Narrated by Abu Dawood (567) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
Exactly t @tranquillity.1 they are telling women to stay home when half the people want highly educated women to marry with a good income.
@@sumairakhan8452 half the people dont want that. Only simps do. And lets be honest only 50% of the doctor women in pakistan actually [practice. Its done for status by some ignorant ones
a woman's job is to stay home. Allah and the prophet ﷺ told you to stay home lol
Was the prophets first wife not a business woman?
You need to be focused on stopping wives from sharing their kids online. The internet is very dark and sisters are happily showing off their children and they don’t want to be advised. It’s so dangerous. Tell the husbands to protect their kids!!!! A woman can leave you tomorrow but that child is yours forever.
I agree with most of the things said in here, jazarkallah brothers, however with regards to sisters giving dawah, its needed. If sisters were to stay at home, they will need a source to learn about islam as well, not all of us have access to usrahs or sisters circle that we can discuss the religion with regards to muslimahs. And lets be honest woman need to hear from another woman with regards to the deen as well, that most man who gives dawah doesn't talk abt. It is needed, speakers like Dr. Haifaa is amazing. A woman understand another woman, and usually knows the right approach to get the sisters to listens, especially with regards to topics that if a man were to speak about would immediately triggers the sisters, and pushed them into feminism. In the time we are living in we should make use of every resource we can, to bring more ppl closer to the deen. Waulahuaklam.
Exactly I was thinking about Dr Haiifa she's so amazing may Allah bless her
Part of the reason why Abubakar is uncomfortable (I believe) with some of the points mentioned is because he recognizes the vile and nasty level of men today (generally speaking) and this has unfortunately even affected brothers in the masjid/dawah. Therefore, the wise thing to do is to maintain as much of a barrier between your wife and other men. period. There is no need to vilify this position as it is from a place of caution and awareness of ones environment. This goes without saying that brothers should always try to be reasonable and not make things very difficult for their wives and families where possible.
This is my opinion and Allah knows best.
Your opinion is worth nothing.
We Muslims follow something else.
Qur'an and Sunnah.
@@sonny7159 right, so where in the Quran and the sunnah does it *dictate* whether a woman's name should or should not be used by non mahrams.
@@ahmedibrahim4627extremism in any direction leads to a reversal on the opposite extreme. Many examples testify to this. Do not overdo in something lest you encounter the consequences.
@48:30 what about sisters who dont have children, not because they dont want to, but Allaah hasnt given them. Cant she study and give dawah to sisters (not in front of men, but online for example through zoom or face to face) to use her time well, of course taking care of her husband and duties at home first.
Yes their are many sister who are married who teach in the masjid to other women. Prophet (s.a.w.) said that it’s obligatory for every Muslim to seek knowledge. Mainly the knowledge of the religion also other knowledge that may be secular but of beneficial that pleases Allah such as halal business e.t.c.
@@AbuHaroon-33 this is the point I find interesting. For women who are trying to do halal businesses in the West the easiest way to do this is through social media and advertising your business using the internet if you want to be halal (no riba, not working with men etc). I don't see the issue if a woman is fully in hijab, with no makeup, loose clothing (which unfortunately is rare but I feel that the number of Muslim women on TikTok, Instagram, YT are inspiring our younger Muslimahs to dress more modestly). If you don't use the internet how do you do that without getting a business loan and dealing with riba? Or how does one get educated enough to start a business without student loans? Then the suggestion is usually to leave the West, but there are women in the West who need guidance, who need Muslim healthcare professionals who understand their needs and boundaries due to Shariah, who need registered dieticians and educators. It's an interesting balance to find.
stay at home sure - 100% it's the best occupation for a woman, but genuinely asking - are we allowed fresh air? to spend time with our friends/ sisters? to have an education? have hobbies etc. generally things that help keep our mental state in check? or is that a no-go zone even if they stay within halal etc?
And if some things are allowed like education, specifically what kinds because if you allow a sister to get a degree but can't work i.e. primary teacher, doctor roles - then what's the point of those types of education?
Again, I'm genuinely asking because personally, if I was married I would consider it better to stay at home - but then there's the concern of things like mental/ physical health (esp in the West, houses aren't that big). And then another aspect is, I graduated a few months ago and I'm one of the students who achieved the highest classification - however, I'm not doing anything with the degree atm, not working or anything. Mainly because of this whole staying-at-home thing and other Islamic aspects like not working with men (even though my career path would entail working with little primary school children).
So really, when we say stay at home do we mean this literally, as in to strictly stay within the 4 walls?
These guys misrepresented the Koran. Read it yourself. The recitation at 16:44, this Ayat from Surah 33 verse 32-33 is addressed ONLY to the Prophets wives. The ayat starts wity "ya nisa al nabiye" means o wives of the prophet. Its not honest that they attribute this verse as a command from Allah to All women
@@Wisdomseeker1028 wait no 😭 if you interpret it like that then a lot of things don’t apply to all muslims - but that’s not the case.
Yes, the Qur’an addresses specific people but it was sent down for US. I don’t mean this with disrespect, but read it YOURSELF aswell? In the same verse you mentioned, “do not display yourselves as women did in the days of pre Islamic ignorance” are you really suggesting our creator wants the rest of the believing women to follow the ways of ignorance? (Obviously not)
I’m not sure if the individuals misrepresented the Qur’an and when (and if they did I doubt it was intentionally), but back to your claim there’s no evidence that all believing/ normal Muslim women are exempt from those verses. The ruling in the verse is said not to be absolute either because of the Hadith Sahih al-Bukhari 5237 - though the verse still applies to us to stay at home for things like safety rather than staying out for so long and risking modesty etc.
الله أعلم
But جزاك الله خيرًا I sort of answered my own comment thanks to yours 🥹 but the reason why I was confused was because i wasn’t sure if they literally meant stay at home and do nothing (apart from cooking, cleaning etc.) which I still am 💀
@@Expressonims i did read it. The verse also tells the wives of the prophet that "you are not like other women." Hence they need to take some extra precautions. Allah is not addressing all Muslim women here, but that doesnt mean he is allowing them to dress like women of the ignorant days. There are other ayats where he does address the "believing woman" how to dress like in the verse of the hijab... i take a more literal interpretation here, that it is for the wives of the prophet and if other women do not follow the stay st home command, they are not sinful as it is not directed to them. Allah is intentional in his words. Sometimes he says "tell the believing women..." sometimes like here "oh wives of the prophet.." and i read the whole Koran. But sure, you can interpret it how you want
@@Wisdomseeker1028What a lie.
The verse after that is talking about not talking to men eith sift vkice. Is thay also ONLY for wives of prophet?
@@Expressonims Ignore that person, you should go to a learned scholar if you are unsure on anything or advice, or go to your local mosque. But to answer you, if the husband allows you to work then you can especially in your situation as you will only work with children and not in a mixed environment and that is a feminine job. But it's up to the husband to agree to it. If you do want to work then find a husband who agrees to it. Regarding the hadith on women staying at home, I believe from what I researched that it means a woman should try her best to limit herself going outside as much as possible within her means. But I would recommend for you to speak with a learned scholar or imam to give you a more accurate answer
I would like to mention that why women these days don't have any ghayrah for themselves? Like would you be okay with a bunch of men harrassing you after you've put yourselves infront of them like that?
Unfortunately too many women are upset by such a thought but they won't admit that they must improve themselves. We have to hold ourselves to account
Well done for blaming women for harassment as people usually do😂😂 you are not covering up to not being harassed
You know what the problem is....not the deen but the reality of how things have turned out due to our shortcomings, listen to this i personally know of young sister who cover fully with niqaab,jilbaab, they didn't go uni or left it due to riba and freemixing,they don't have social media or post themselves, they stay in their homes mostly, they study the deen upon Qur'aan and Sunnah with the understanding of the salaf, they are even careful with how they speak in front of men ect....these kind of young women still exist....but you know the sad reality these same sisters are pressured by family to not wear niqaab, they may not have enough income or be provided for so may be forced to work, they are not known to men because they stay concealed so when it comes to marriage their fathers or ect...don't do much to help or reject proposals...and basically it all has a knock on effect, and then people wonder what's happening to our women,even the practicing women are suffering quietly but you don't hear of them because they don't put themselves out, your sins and shortcomings can effect others who are really putting effort in to practice,
maybe if men sort themselves out women can more,and maybe if women sort themselves out men can more. It's not always so simple anymore to practice,i think this is a fear that triggers women to go out and get degrees ect...because they know how many of us have failed in our duties and the women perhaps don't have confidence that they will be looked after by others or they feel insecure so feminism can come in and make them go over the line breaking Islaamic rules (like haram work types ect...) this is perhaps one thing i like about the brothers helping other brothers set up businesses,it will help them and the women they take care of.
May Allah bless & protect our sisters and bless & aid our brothers
What wrong with getting an education at uni?
@@naviifra2374 The problem is the environment because of free mixing and due to ignorance of religion maybe of the youths especially the men who won’t lower their gaze.
It would be better if the university had only for women and women teachers then they can get their degrees without worrying too much.
Student. Thats not how you do it.......
This is free mixing akhi,fear Allah
Praise be to Allah.
Firstly:
It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines:
She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them.
There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32].
She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 .
It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female.
And Allah knows best.
Women dont love men they only love what men can do for them. She is already talking about being provided. And money this money that, Who are you. You are not entitled to anyones money. Go work yourself. And thats why i dont call them sisters. They are jokers man.
My wish is that our women would be more careful and protect themselves from the danger of social media. May Allah guide all of us
I'm trying to understand your perspective but are you forgetting islam gave women education? (Involved going out), gave women the ability to have careers (are we forgetting the Prophets pbuh first wife?), practice medicine.. and more. Are you giving dawah or pushing your personal view and twisting it to match. Women should be at home to raise children but let's not forget islam brought something everyone else tried to prevent.
Khadijah was bfr islaam. It doesnt apply there
The wives of the prophet would stay home and when a man would come they would speak from behind a curtain. A lot of sisters nowadays wear niqab for fun and go out all the time in bright colors which defeats the purpose when the prophet pbuh said ‘a woman is awrah’ and how her worship to Allah is better in her own home.
Wow, didn't think a woman would be shamed for wearing niqab with bright colours 😂😂😂.. you super salafis need to chill man. She is going outside covered.
@@shahee6579 there is a Hadith of a woman wearing a bright dress and henna in preparation for marriage, and she asked the prophet pbuh a question. I have no doubt in my heart that a woman can wear bright colors or whatever she wants as long as it is loose and covers the body, whatever color she wants, bright or not bright. There is a Hadith of women uncovering their faces. There is even a Hadith of a woman with a lot of makeup, even during hajj, and it was acceptable by Ibn Abbas, who is a companion of the prophet pbuh. I am just advising what is better for the woman. Because shaytaan tells women when she is outside to get attention from other men, there is also a Hadith for that. And he tries to misguide women when she does out
It’s just some advice
noone wears a niqaab for fun
@@AM-bm9rs a lot of women do
the ummal mumineen (mothers of the believers) are not the same as regular women they had different limitations you can’t compare the prophets wives to regular women also Allah never prohibited women from wearing colors so i don’t get what your saying here
Well, when it comes to mentioning a woman's name I think some men are a bit extremist. Even when the companion asked the prophet mentioned who he loves the most out of men and women and he said so clearly Aysha.. Guys just take it easy lol وفقكم الله
Correction at 16:52, the verse brother Imran is referring to is from Surah 33 Ayah 33 is a direct address to the wives of the Prophet ﷺ, not a direct address to Muslim women in general.
the wives of the prophet are the examples and role models of believing women, this verse also applies to believing women
@@anonymous-it3en no that’s not how it’s works, you’re trying to make an inductive leap where there isn’t one. Yes, they are the role models but this verse is addressing them specifically, not Muslim women. If you can read Arabic, go back to verse 32- it says “You are not like any other of the women”. It is setting up a contrast- it addresses the wives of the Prophet and verse 33 is a continuation of verse 32. Now can we derive benefits from this verse to apply to Muslim women in general? Yes. But it’s not specifically addressed to them. The wives of the Prophet ﷺ were commanded to stay home to relay Qur’an and Hadith for future generations. Muslim women can leave the house with the permission of the husband, work, do chores etc.
@@FreeFalasteen4ever Thank you!
Why do you have a niqabi on your sunnah match profile? No offense but Is it halal for you to post her because she isn’t your wife? Or is it because she’s niqabi? Please answer because I’m honestly confused. What about brothers who post girl with jilbab and no makeup what if they don’t take the opinion niqab is wajib… JazakAllahu khair
Those scholars still say pictures of women are haram.
Abd you cant gaze at womeb even when they arw in hijaab
@@taimurahmad I never said gazing at women was halal. But where in the Quran and sunnah it says women can’t take pictures but man can? Evidence from Quran and ahadith please? Btw that doesn’t address the point I made. Why is it a niqabi on their platform? She’s literally taking videos
We have previously discussed the negative consequences of women participating in satellite channels -- even if they wear niqaab. Please see the answer to question no. 134785
Shaykh ‘Abd ar-Rahmaan ibn Naasir al-Barraak (may Allah preserve him) was asked: What is the ruling on a female daa‘iyah appearing on TV in full shar‘i hijab for the purpose of da‘wah and fatwas?
He replied:
To proceed:
The basic principle is that the woman is fitnah in her image and her voice. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “I am not leaving behind me any fitnah more harmful to men than women.” (Agreed upon). Hence those who follow their whims and desires are very keen to introduce women into all media programming, both audio and video. Based on that, it is not permissible for a woman to appear on TV, even if she is wearing hijab, in the name of da‘wah and giving fatwas, because innumerable men will listen to her even if she only appears on the channel on the basis of teaching women. Moreover, there is no need for her to undertake da‘wah and issue fatwas via TV channels. The basic principle is that that is to be done by men, and men are more suited to that. Throughout Islamic history men have been the ones to teach, call people to Islam and issue fatwas in the mosques and so on. They are the khateebs and imams. It is not permissible for women to do any of these things unless it is among other women.
Moreover it is well known that women’s participation in video and audio media results in things that are contrary to sharee‘ah, such as their going out unnecessarily, mixing with men, making images of them even if they do wear hijab. This results in negative consequences that Islam came to prevent, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“O wives of the Prophet! You are not like any other women. If you keep your duty (to Allah), then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery, etc.) should be moved with desire, but speak in an honourable manner.
And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance”
[al-Ahzaab 33:32-33].
A woman may be making a display of herself in her clothing even if she wears hijab.
Based on the above I say: It is not permissible for a woman to appear on satellite TV channels as a daa‘iyah, mufti or teacher. Rather she should restrict her da‘wah activities to her fellow women at home or in a school or in the women’s prayer space in the mosque.
On this occasion we advise our sisters who are in charge of Islamic channels to fear Allah and not to be deceived by the words of those who have wrong views and do not see anything wrong with women appearing on Islamic channels and even promote that and support it with specious arguments. It is sufficient to note that this is in accordance with the whims and desires of modernists, who do not care about anything but falsehood or that which leads to falsehood. Hence they like the Islamic channels on which women appear and they regard them as keeping pace with modern times, and they do not like the channels on which no women appear and they regard them as backward and describe the people in charge of them as being extremists. These people are like those of whom Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“but those who follow their lusts, wish that you (believers) should deviate tremendously away from the Right Path”
[an-Nisa’ 4:27].
We ask Allah to guide us to the straight path and to keep us away from the path of those who earned His Anger and of those who went astray. End quote from Shabakat Noor al-Islam.
And Allah knows best.
@@travelerr2394becausr women are fitnah???? Greatest fitnsh are women. Are you really askimg this???
Min 101 was too funny, sa'ad's adab is so amazing Masha'Allah! The way abu bakr said this is an opportunity cant be missed to talk had me in stiches 😂😂😂 bless you brothers!! Good talk!! Nowadays these dayooths are getitng out of hand.
A woman is awrah (should be covered) and she should stay home. There is a Hadith. That’s the correct gheerah. So she shouldn’t go out unless she has to. And you should accommodate that. A woman is vulnerable outside and a guy can take advantage of her be aware
That Hadith dosent mean woman are prisoners in their own house ?
@@aatamf8156 no one said prisoner. It’s advised to stay at home, I did not say obligatory. There is a verse in the Quran that says stay in your homes but many MANY scholars say this is not for all women. So women can go out with no restrictions. There were many female companions who were outside doing good work for the ummah, like nusaybah bint kaab. Or the female companion who was in charge of the market place, her name was Samra bint nahik, she would command good and forbid evil. I can name many more, so many more. But, there are also Hadith to advise women to stay home. Overall, it is a woman’s choice. No one said she is a prisoner. Islam has gave women rights, and Allah has completed the religion and it is perfect in every right. But when a woman goes outside, she has to be careful of shaytaan and of evil men. There is a Hadith that shaytaan tells women to get attention from other men when she goes outside, another narration said he tries to misguide her. Both are bad. And another narration it says he beautifies her. She can also get attacked by a man, there is a Hadith that states that as well, quite a few actually. Some evil men can take advantage of her. So yes she can go out, but the Hadiths don’t command her to, it’s RECOMMENDING her to. For her own benefit. Allahs is the most wise and knows his creation, and Islam is in favor of protecting and caring for women.
@@aatamf8156not prisoners but only leave the home for necessity
depends where you live, not all women are vulnerable outside especially in a safe country
You act like women can't interact with millions of men from the privacy of her own bedroom. A woman can stay home for years and be seen by more men all over the world than she would ever be seen had she went outside.
I’m so gassed that the podcast is back
I understand what the brothers are saying. But isn’t knowledge important? So for example, your wife is now pregnant and the baby needs to be delivered. These midwife needed to go uni and get an education. Would you be comfortable for men ‘midwife’ to deliver your baby? So, I don’t think to find projects at home always suited. Knowledge is important for men and women.
Names are used to show closeness and familiarity between people. Take for example saying someone’s first name in a sales call to gain rapport, or the enjoyment men/women get by calling the person they secretly like by their first name, etc.
I don’t see any reason why a man should use your wife’s name and I would never want to do that either.
So for someone to cross the line of strangeness that should exists between the opposite genders, is either reckless or ill intended & therefore a cause of concern for a man.
Too much
My brother IMRAN is actually amazing Allaahumma-Baarik-lahu the last 2minutes, smashed it Alhamdulillah ❤May Allaah ( ﷻ) preserve all of you and keep you upon strong Manhaj and keep you away from getting sidetracked and joining the Ikhwani’s in their platforms like some have done recently with ‘light upon light, Mufti menks show…
My question would be what about the benefit the women may give to society? Like for example… what if a woman was on the conveyor belt in some sort of factory to build that microphone which you are using in this show? Or what if a woman owns this microphone brand which was developed through being exposed in society within the limits of shariah. Let’s use this as an example. To add on, this woman was not in need to work because she is well off, but it was her passion to create a brand for microphones and set up her business.
The reason why I mention this is because I’m on alibaba ordering some product for my business and a woman is selling it via the chat box. Is this wrong? Is my sought to provide rizq wrong here?
Or even uploading these videos on TH-cam platform. There are women who are working at TH-cam.
Is a Woman Allowed to Work if She Isnt in Need of Money - Shaykh Abdul Azeez Ibn Baaz th-cam.com/video/FzTF7cRC6L8/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=MasjidDaarusSunnah
@@PS3Sk8er4life100its okay to have a business the prophets peace be upon hims wife khadija had a business. Just do it in a halal way that is respected and ethical thats all
I have a couple of thoughts about this, obviously no word is greater than the word of Allah, it is best for women to stay at homes but also can’t fail to recognise that Muslim women need other Muslim women in respective fields, we definitely don’t need to hustling and trying to put food on the table for our family, but we do need to see and hear from Muslim female scholars, because certain things can only be understood and explained by women, we need female doctors and so much more, but at the same time I agree that nothing is more important than our Haya,
We should always keep in mind about maintaining modesty, lowering our gaze and voice and not free mixing.
When it comes to earning and putting food on the table, I have a cousin who’s divorced and has two kids, her parents don’t have any sons, no man in this day and age are wants to have a second wife with kids. How do you expect such women to live? How can their kids survive? Every man talks of marrying four wives but they fail realise the point of that being permissible in the first place is so you can provide and shelter such women who are without husband
I think men as a whole need to step up, alot of them have gotten soft and become less masculine leading to more women being masculine to fill in that gap in relationships
every looking clean Allahumma barik
but that introoooooo was tooo long
Why are you guys sharing explicit contents and desires of other peoples? This is not the way of Dawah!!!
Who did they name?
Territorial is a better word and is expressed by apex predators in the animal kingdomJealousy in english has connotations of being expressed by insecure men which is an insult to the Prophet Aleyhi salam
Subannallah its nice and refreshing to see the deen in the right manner! May Allah guide us all
This needed to be said , it's getting OUT of hand !!
I am a Muslim woman and I travel alone internationally. Am I not allowed to do this even if family picks me up from the airport?
Ask your local imam, these brother give general advice
The scholars said its haram
Also sheikh uthaymin allowed for womehjn if the journey is like 30 mins but others scholar doint.
Generally it is haram for women to travel without mahram infact its a major sin. Women cant go wihout mahram even for hajj
Evidence for not allowing women to travel without a mahram
This is indicated by the texts and common sense. For example:
1- The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “No woman should travel except with a mahram and no man should enter upon her unless she has a mahram with her.” A man said: O Messenger of Allah, I want to go out with such-and-such an army, but my wife wants to go for Hajj. He said: “Go with her.” Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1862
Muslim (1339) narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to travel the distance of one day, except with a mahram.”
@@taimurahmadIt’s not a major sin. Don’t lie
@@yjgbich8818It is a major sin else bring your evidence. When curse of Allah is mentioned it is a major sin
I've always said, if your wife is on social media then she everybody wife
Obviously you would think that. Someone who has your upbringing would day that.
@@IK-sp7dq he’s not wrong tho. I love how yall pick and choose when to follow Islamic teaching. I am a woman and I agree with his message.
Best moment in the whole episode. Brevity is the soul of wit! @48:30 Allahumabarik
All these vlogers are getting divorced. Many issues behind the screen. Don’t be fooled by how many followers they have.
Allahumma barik nice to see Saad back in the podcasts, really missed these
It's funny how you failed to acknowledge that you can look at women but not desire them especially if she is wearing a hijab he should lower your gaze.
What do you mean by this?
31:34 the way akhi Adam looked up made me crease 😂
We finally have a good Islamic podcast. Allahuma barik lahum
I am a muslimah that is also practicing as midwife so I find it hilarious that these are the exact same brothers, when their wife is in labour, they request for female staff only. Yet they claim that women should only stay at home and not work. The double standards and hypocrisy from some of these brothers statements is shameful!
they never made those claims. General rule is women should stay home, but they even acknowledged it's permissible (in of itself) to work. Moreover the issue of midwifes etc are specific because A shariee interest needs serving.
In all fairness the issue of female mid wives and nurses is an important discussion and a need for us Muslims as the sister said! As for the nuances around the ruling I’m not aware … it’s important to ask the people of knowledge
But just for the record in no way shape or form were we saying women can’t work! Please don’t misunderstand… the point was it’s a man’s job to provide! As long as the woman works in a halal environment and doesn’t forsake her duties to Allah and any other obligations she has, that is fine!
Rather we are talking to brothers who push there wives to become breadwinners whilst doing haram when it is the husband’s responsibility in the first place
Big difference… hope that clarifies بارك الله فيك
Did you even listen to the podcast?? Nowhere did they say that women aren't allowed to work??
That's fard kifaya
Hope you know the meaning of it
@@aatif7518be kind to women
'Fighting fire with fire' is not an expression in accordance with the teaching of the prophet PBUH. You can't use faul words to fight for a righteous cause or use any other methods that are not in accordance with the sunnah.
Instead Islam teaches us to fight fire with coolness and good manners. I agree with the brother who clearly said the words of the brother in the clip were inappropriate, regardless of the underlying intention. Furthermore, being glad he said it while admitting it's not the right way and that you wouldn't do it yourself leaves me feeling a bit sad. We should uphold the standards of our ummah and only want for our brothers/sisters what we want for ourselves.
Also be weary of judging a sister that says she 'needs to provide for her family' publicaly without further background information on her situation. What about widows with children and no healthy male family members to provide? What about women who are married to a brother with a physical/mental disability making him unable to provide (this can happen any time during a marriage due to unexpected illness or an accident)?
Not all women who work do so by choice or preference - let's please be careful to immediately presume the worst.
and Allah knows best.
May Allah forgive us our shortcomings and reward the best of our efforts - Ameen
It's just me or not ,i like ustadz saad because he's not talking too much just chilling and listening
Many thoughts are going through my mind watching that video. I understand that women shouldn’t present themselves in an inappropriate manner. But hiding us at home and not allowing us to go out also sounds off. Like there are settings where I feel it’s okay. Like if we go to school or University. Did women not also attend mixed gatherings in the time of the prophet peace be upon him?
Ofc there are also gonna be men present. Women can also contribute to society by being in higher positions like doctors, engineers and so on and so forth. We need Muslim women in these fields and I’m not degrading the housewife here.
The woman that was earning the bread is a good example that women need some kind of education to lean back on if her husband is not able to provide for her, or if she is divorced, and has to provide for her children.
If there is a need women can go out … such as education etc and work if situation is appropriate without haram etc
We never said they can’t come out at all
Also there’s an exception to every rule, but the GENERAL case is that MOST women should be at home most of the time and shouldn’t be working. The problem is that people take the exception and make it the rule (l
My advice is don’t listen to TH-camrs on every topic, because 1 even though they have knowledge, they don’t have your experiences or circumstances so they speak from a view where they don’t see everything. Just live your life, and follow the Quran and sunnah to your best iA
yes your right
We don’t really need female engineers though.
Hello Brothers of Islam, muslim woman here. After reviewing everything discussed in this podcast or whatever this is, i just want to say that men make comments like this about women who are covered and not covered. Men are making comments like this to women in-person and to women online who are getting posted. It seems like no matter what we do or don’t do, there is no escaping the mans comments. Maybe the problem isn’t Islam, or women who post themselves with their husbands or husbands who post their wives. It seems like the problem is the man (ikr, whaaattt?). This religion is very outdated and can’t keep up with changing times so I understand why men like you try to make sense of posting pictures online. There is nothing wrong with posting pictures of your spouse online. The problem are the viewers. In this case, the man posting videos about someone else’s wife is the problem lol
No they are not. Islam commands women to wear certain dresses....
The guy who goes to a pub sins and so does one who records it.....
Haha, my shaykh is very strong in his gheerah from the advice he's given us. He was once asked what he thought if a couple was to go out with another couple for dinner at a restaurant and ate, shaykh said hed poke both the mens eyes out 😂. He was also like abu Bakr and also found it weird for someone to ask him how his wife is, even if he didnt mention their names 😅. I think some people defo have different experinces but our shaykhs have all good gheerah, may Allaah reward them
They don't know the different types of ghira. Islam taught us about both the good and the bad ones that may take a person to hell fire, and that phrase about the camera roll he said seems like the bad ghira. Also when they said women should only stay at home many ahadith show how Muslim women during the time of the Prophet peace be upon him time were a part of the community they literally used to help the injured people during the wars.
Its the parents fault they have not told anything about haya lower gaze mixing with opposite gender or proper hijab they just gave their daughters barbie and the sons ninja
I'm very disappointed how the episode started (that video) using the wrong method to get to the right purpose was never the way of Islam . Muslims are the moving image of Islam, and the image given in that video is discusting.Do you think the prophet Sala alaho alyhi waslem would be happy of those words!!!!!. Do not give excuses like :it was needed even it is wrong .... That is not an excuse.you should be more careful with the shared content. This is our relegion we are talking about it, it has to be done the right way always with no exception
As always you see a full MALE Panel talk about the many many impractical limits women should stay in. I wonder what they think about well-known female scholars like Yasmine Mojahed who are considered "a fitna to society by openly showing her beauty and facial features". May Allah bless her because she is spreading much-needed dawah among men and women. May Allah help us remain balanced in a way that is pleasing to him. And educate us the way he educated many many women and men before us.
Yasmine mogah3d wears makrup in public which is haram by consensus. Her hijab and clothing isnt even considered islamic by any schhool of fiqh. Prophet muhammsf was a man who gave naseeha to women specifically and so did sahabah.......
For men it is their responsilbity ti spread the religion of Allah
اسلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Can u please make it clear what It means for a women to stay home unless there is a need ? What would be classed as a need. Jazkumallah khairan
Going to parents house, travel to work, go grocery store with husband’s permission & no danger of fitnah & Obv without wearing makeup and perfume & being covered.
This is a question for shuyukh
The brother @ironfitcoaching is a legend!
"She's dead in her shroud" that wording is not appropriate on the Daughter of the Holy Prophet SAW. Wording should be rephrased for respect.
Assalamualaikum, a video on Muslim women working in essential roles in society especially female doctors would be much appreciated . I have heard that working as a Muslim female doctor is fardh kifaya in Islam. You referred to the fact that women should stay at home which contradicts this view. Thanks
That doesnt contradict that fact. Western ideologies push ALL WOMEN to work and be indepedent. Yes there are societal needs that need to be addressed without pshing fir all women to work.
The basis is that woman stay at home and THE EXCEPTION is if there is a need like for doctors etc.
Here is the evidence
The basic principle is that a woman should remain at home, and not go out except for necessary purposes. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:33].
Although this is addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), it also applies to the believing women. It is only addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) because of their honour and status with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and because they are examples for the believing women.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Woman is ‘awrah, and if she goes out, the shaytaan raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allah than when she stays in her house.” Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Shaheehah, no. 2688.
And he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said concerning a woman’s prayer in the mosque: “Their houses are better for them.” Narrated by Abu Dawood (567) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
Woman should be protected and concealed from men as much as her guardian can do that. The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) preferred for women to pray in their houses and said that their reward for doing so is greater than their reward for praying in the mosque.
It was narrated from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A woman’s prayer in her room is better than her prayer in her courtyard, and her prayer in her cabinet is better than her prayer in her room.” (Narrated by Abu Dawood, 570; al-Tirmidhi, 1173. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb, 1/136).
We already get enough material that pushes women to work. We need more of the material thay pushes them to stay home
@@taimurahmadThere isn’t.
@taimurahmad don't try and twist the surah and interpretation in your own way it only says ONLY the prophets wife it didn't says women of Islam The Quran is perfect and Allah made no mistakes so there is a reason why it didn't say All women because we need midwifes doctor etc gor private matters
brother i just wanted to mention is it okay to wear sandals like the ones you’re wearing as it says “angels” on them who are a good creation that we all know the status of. and it says it on your feet on your shoes, not sure if this is okay
They didn’t let that one brother talk at all until the very end😅 I kept waiting for him to say something but he was politely waiting to be included.
Same applies with family group chats
One sister trying to showin off her vacation her husband has no shirt on enjoying himself swimming told the sis she needs to delete it her hubby won’t appreciate his in-laws see him like that
Brother has to delete his group social media cuz his wife kept taking his phone copying his family pictures sharing them with her friends her family ( non mahrams)
Bro these Muslim men podcast are wild like bro where tf you getting this info? Those WhatsApp stories or something
Any man who is OK with his wife online is definitely not manly, it's so sad but same time I think brothers need to be careful online too, because of evil eye and sihr, may Allah protect our ummah. Social media is fitna in my opinion. Plus we shouldn't speak about muslims behind their backs. Best to avoid all of that. I don't like social media I think it's causing more problems than good.
Unfortunately many muslims think its easy to through such names on other , although the prophet said among long Hadith , “……. Then he said, “Shall I not inform you of the controlling of all that?” I replied, “Yes, Prophet of God.” So he took hold of his tongue and said, “Restrain this.” I asked, “Prophet of God, shall we really be punished for what we talk about?” He replied, “I am surprised at you, Mu'adh! Will anything but the harvests of their tongues overthrow men in hell on their faces (or, on their nostrils)?”
Ahmad, Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah transmitted it.
عَن معَاذ بن جبل قَالَ كُنْتُ مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي سفر فَأَصْبَحت يَوْمًا قَرِيبا مِنْهُ وَنحن نسير فَقلت يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَخْبِرْنِي بِعَمَلٍ يُدْخِلُنِي الْجَنَّةَ وَيُبَاعِدنِي عَن النَّار قَالَ لقد سَأَلتنِي عَن عَظِيمٍ وَإِنَّهُ لِيَسِيرٌ عَلَى مَنْ يَسَّرَهُ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ تَعْبُدُ اللَّهَ وَلَا تُشْرِكُ بِهِ شَيْئًا وَتُقِيمَ الصَّلَاةَ وَتُؤْتِيَ الزَّكَاةَ وَتَصُومَ رَمَضَانَ وَتَحُجَّ الْبَيْت ثُمَّ قَالَ أَلَا أَدُلُّكَ عَلَى أَبْوَابِ الْخَيْرِ الصَّوْمُ جُنَّةٌ وَالصَّدَقَةُ تُطْفِئُ الْخَطِيئَةُ كَمَا يُطْفِئُ المَاء النَّار وَصَلَاة الرجل من جَوف اللَّيْل قَالَ ثمَّ تَلا (تَتَجَافَى جنُوبهم عَن الْمضَاجِع) حَتَّى بَلَغَ (يَعْمَلُونَ) ثُمَّ قَالَ أَلَا أَدُلُّكَ بِرَأْس الْأَمر كُله وَعَمُودِهِ وَذِرْوَةِ سَنَامِهِ قُلْتُ بَلَى يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَالَ رَأْسُ الْأَمْرِ الْإِسْلَامُ وَعَمُودُهُ الصَّلَاةُ وَذِرْوَةُ سَنَامِهِ الْجِهَادُ ثُمَّ قَالَ أَلَا أُخْبِرُكَ بِمِلَاكِ ذَلِكَ كُلِّهِ قُلْتُ بَلَى يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ فَأَخَذَ بِلِسَانِهِ فَقَالَ كُفَّ عَلَيْكَ هَذَا فَقُلْتُ يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ وَإِنَّا لَمُؤَاخَذُونَ بِمَا نتكلم بِهِ فَقَالَ ثَكِلَتْكَ أُمُّكَ يَا مُعَاذُ وَهَلْ يَكُبُّ النَّاسَ فِي النَّارِ عَلَى وُجُوهِهِمْ أَوْ عَلَى مَنَاخِرِهِمْ إِلَّا حَصَائِدُ أَلْسِنَتِهِمْ. رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ وَالتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَابْنُ مَاجَه
My wife wears burka and hijab, I live in a predominantly non Muslim city and it enrages me when men stare at her in public, I get so mad it pisses me off badly and I feel like there's something wrong with me for feeling this way.
Some women don’t have the luxury of staying at home it would be nice however we have to make a living singles mums
Whats the difference between you and people like andrew tate then? what you are speaking about is narcissism and toxic masculinity not islam and god's names mercy,empathy, and compassionate which are the soul of islam not toxicity and narcissism
No accountability in the males. Learn self control and discipline
Your saying stay at home, yet many women are entrepreneurs with their own businesses. They can’t always be home and there is nothing haram in that. Each person has different life circumstances, not every woman also has a man. Also a lot of men don’t have a high enough income to take care of the whole family, what are you men even on about when we’re are dealing with todays issues along with following religion. Wake up.
The basic principle is that a woman should remain at home, and not go out except for necessary purposes. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:33].
Although this is addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), it also applies to the believing women. It is only addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) because of their honour and status with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and because they are examples for the believing women.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Woman is ‘awrah, and if she goes out, the shaytaan raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allah than when she stays in her house.” Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Shaheehah, no. 2688.
And he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said concerning a woman’s prayer in the mosque: “Their houses are better for them"
He isnt the one saying this rasulallah is. YOU need to WAKE UP from your feminist delusions
Generally, stay home like the Ummul Mumineen and the Sahabiyya. Allah has designated male and female with their specific role. Men works and female stays home. But if wife wants to work, she works in women related work. No free mixing. Wear Hijab etc. No shop cashier or men, only female. No Hospital, Gp reception, unless only for women...Or internet job etc...as long as doesn't contravene with wife, mother role. And her money is hers....she does not need to contribute to the husband's income..and he can't take it.
@@taimurahmadnothing feminist about working and getting your own money !? Yall be wilding at this point !?
@@MsomaleIt is pretty feminist honestly. This mindset jever existed from thoudands of years......
@@taimurahmad no it's not define the word and just know the meaning!?? Misygony exists in our community 💯
Brothers please talk about mixed weddings where women come with full make up even with no make up these mixed weddings men and women together music dancing etc is big fitna. Please make a video on it
allahuma barik i loved this disscussion, very insightful. i pray that Allah grants me a husband who fulfills my rights as a wife in Islam and encourages me in my deen and dunya affairs
It’s not that men are looking at women, we live in a time where women prefer other women too
Do you upload these episodes to Apple podcast, Spotify etc?
Honestly speaking i don't think women would work or go to uni and just try to be independent if men could be trust worthy cuz now adays men treat stay home women poorly and abuse their power which in't fair so thats y women perfer to be stable and independent before marriage so if hings don't work out she would still be on her feet or her husband can't treat here badly cuz she has money blablablaa and hed do anything cuz he knows she won't hve anything wihtout him honestly who wouldnt love to be home and just chill coook raise kids and just create a cozy safe home for ur kids and husband with a heart beat any women would be down the problem is the man going to do his part without abusing it ???????????
Yes as women we need to take a safety measure
Ironically,You look at our situation through a lazy , worthless males' perspective. "Who wouldn't want to stay at home and chill ?"
What if we don't want to marry? How about the women who are not straight?
The world does not work like that? It is still sexist to believe women should be provided for coz you don't look at them as equal.
P.s do you ever look at the infrastructure in a city and wonder if the architect is a woman? Or the medicines you have at home were invented by womanfolk?
Why would you mention someone's wife's name? She is not the Mother of the Believers that her name does not to be hidden.
This sounds horrible, I’m never getting married this sounds like torture
Please dont. Save men tbe trouble for wasting time on women like you.
life is torture
the definition of "need" should have been more justified. As need is subjective. If the husband prays and sincerely go out collecting the rizk (as they are asked in the Quran), she should be patient and rely on Allah's will. She shouldn't come out and do online business to fulfill her "needs". These are not needs, they are desires.
ALLAHUMMA BARIK IS THAT THE NEW SET YEAH😍😍 wow
Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan (may Allaah preserve him) said:
It is not permissible for a woman to address men who are not her mahrams except in cases of necessity, and with a voice which is not attractive and she should not speak to them any more than is necessary. End quote.
Fataawa al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah (1/432)
Praise be to Allah.
Firstly:
It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines:
She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them.
There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32].
She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 .
It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female.
And Allah knows best.
Jazakallaahu khairan
It’s it forbid for men not to wear trousers under there dresses?
I believe fathers will be asked why they couldn’t provide financially for there daughters, allows them to go to work knowing jobs will have non mahrams men interactions
So now brothers expecting the wives to also work leading to this haram way of life
No it’s because the economy has made it so that u need two incomes to survive , nothing to do with fathers providing for their daughters
@@aatamf8156that's false. You don't need two incomes, I've met plenty of families that are living well with one income due to the father working hard and the mother being fully responsible for domestic labor. These kind of comments are based on laziness and lack of ambition.
@@aatamf8156 Islamically fathers and brothers should provide for the daughters/ sisters regardless
If it’s a dyer need where sisters need to work for there future it’s fine
@@aatamf8156I know some guys live in lala land
So you believe Allah will question these poor fathers for not being able to provide for their daughters because Allah didn't give them enough rizq to support their daughters financially ?
aselamu alikum, couple years ago Imran had a course called brothers circle, anyone know if that still exist. I want to join again
I was luke that once and our boys in primary school fought for this but later found out like omran said its pakistanis are like the arabs but now I'm ok its nothing to do with islam because we know the names of women in our religion.
جزاكم الله خيرا على هذا الكلام الطيب النافع، استفدت منه كثيرا، أحببت الموضوع، وهو مهم جدا للحديث عنه.
بارك الله فيكم.
Hijab is more than headscarf the whole clothing the actions the lifestyle doing stuff like this isn’t befitting of hijabi to the extent there is various numbers of scholars who say it’s haram to take pictures, videos etc. of women without necessity
I believe the same for men! These podcast men are creating fitna for the women for posting and giggling and looking attractive! They should not be online at all!
See this is the result of the so called internet Sheikhs. Please go back and educate yourself on the deen as clearly just having watched the intro you guys are beyond ignorant. To say women place should only be the home is beyond ridiculous and it really shows that you guys know nothing about the reality of life and most likely might live on benefits.
Go read quran 33 : 33
@@taimurahmad follow your own advice and you go and read and get knowledge on the deen and the realities of life.