Not true. There are people that broke up and got back together and are still married together and have a family now. Ban Affleck and JLo are hardly role models for a marriage actually no celebrity marriage as they dont last and are always a business move.
That's what I was thinking when they got married. The reasons they broke up the first time around are still real and didn't vanish. No shock that they're just repeating what happened 20 years ago.
That’s why no production wanted to invest in that movie after her pitching it to the film production companies, instead she ended up paying 20 Million out of her own pocket to make that
Ben was in the middle of that project as you should recall! You would think he would save her the embarrassment of being TRUTHFUL OF HIS FEEling BEFOREHAND!
Bahahaha ikr the first warning signs yall aren’t doing well is make a love story. Same goes for those who overshare everything online abt their relationship or constantly posting pics of themselves all gushy. It’s called overcompensating
Ben Affleck probably can't get away with anything with a woman like Jlo. She's going to "call him on the carpet." Ben's ex Jen Garner is a different type of woman. I think she put up with "a lot" from Ben. Ben seemed content with her until he got caught doing stuff. Then he was embarrassed.
We knew this was coming, I don’t think anyone is surprised. Ben moved out months ago and they both bought separate homes. I’m not even sure why they even got married, they’ve had multiple marriages/divorces, and the two clearly weren’t happy together. That being said, I wish JLO and Ben all the best.
Ben was the one sending love letters that probably clinging Gardner was in the dark of knowing. The cat was out of the bag when Jlo exposed his love letters. Then Ben goes back to his abandoned first ex Gardner. Ben is a weak man!
She spent the past two years wasting her energy and money to try and prove to the world how madly in love the two of them were instead on focusing on him and her kids. Look what she got out of it! NOTHING! Jane Fonda was right when she told her “I feel invested in you and Ben and I really, really want this to work," "However, my concern is that it feels too much like you're trying to prove something instead of just living it.” Nuff said!
You know the best part? JLO immediately got defensive and shot back "thats just us living our lives". 😂😂😂 she got so triggered when Jane said that. Its in the documentary of the making of "The greatest love story never told". @sbsk2526
@@sbsk2526Fonda said it in JLo documentary or movie directly to her. She gave her a lot of good constructive criticism but JLo never listens to reason. That’s why she is where she is now.
He walked out for a younger Bond girl . Then jumped with vulnerable Jlo when Arod was caught with another fling. Jlo should have never fallen for a weak Ben. He walked out on her the first time then. Does it again. Weak Men like Ben should not get married!
Ben comes from slave ownership breed. Jlo was not accepted as his girlfriend when they dated by his mama. He leaves her then marries a white JENNIFER. Ok to have white kids & his mama is happy. Then a sexy young James Bond Latin comes along & he leaves his loveless marriage with kids. Then his young Latin dumps him & he sees Jlo is available. Then marries her but do not ask for more kids cause he walks. The honeymoon is over & retreats to his kids as an excuse. Clinging vine Gardner takes a vacation with him while he is still married with Jlo is a slap in the face . No respect for Gardner nor Ben. Exes do not do that to other exes. Using kids as a scapegoat! I’ve seen this mess before & it doesn’t last especially if the man is weak.
Why JL? Maybe because she's a woman and a person of color? Because why can't it be Ben Affleck instead? For starters, he had alcohol addiction in the past, anxiety and depression. And two women have accused him of inappropriate behavior. Nothing like Harvey W, but he touched someone's azz. So, asking again, why is Jennifer Lopez automatically the problem?
What I thought was soooo weird was how public she made the relationship and Ben just let it happen. Making a movie and doing interviews about their relationship and Ben just looking like he has issues and she just professing to the whole world how "in LOVE" she is. Like it was all a bit much and over the top.
Please remember what Jennifer Garner said a few years back that Ben Affleck was the love of her life. She said that Ben could be very cold. Jennifer Garner used a metaphor similar it was like the sun that came down on her. I believe he truly enjoyed the shiny object JLo represents, but it became a smothering situation for him. I notice how uneasy he seems in the This is...Now documentary. His comments about JLo's addiction to attention were revealing. He even did an analogy about his own alcohol addiction.
@@1988vikableyes. She was over the top and too much PDA. That was really awful. She needs to stop acting like she is 30. Tries too hard. Her poor kids must be mortified their mom is a four time + loser.
I think what made it crack was her exposing the relationship to the whole world with a garbage album, documentary and movie. Ben did not want to be a part of it and yet she forced this relationship down the throat of everyone
She was 100% that lady on social media gushing about her man when you know behind the scenes they are miserable 😂 difference is she has millions of dollars at her disposal, so instead of a post she made a whole movie. Lolololol
The same documentary that Mr. BEN AFFLECK co-produced, filmed, and was interviewed for? That “stupid” documentary? How do you not know that his hands are all over that project?!
I’ve never seen a couple where they tell-all to the world survive. Keep the relationship private. That’s where it grows. Between just the two of you. It’s for the both of you and no one else.
Exactly. She has been looking down for months, whereas he has been looking happier. This must be mighty embarrassing for her because this was the relationship that she loved to shout from the rooftops about, and yet it has ended....TWICE!!!
@The_torero She thought by flaunting her wedding ring, spending time with his kids and paying him a visit on his birthday that things were going to work out and it didn’t. Ben’s been checked out of the marriage, as evident when he moved out of their house. He wasn’t even with Jennifer when she was celebrating her birthday. Not only is this the second time that they’ve split, but this is Jennifer’s fourth marriage. She’s the problem.
@@niabelizaire3596 ..I agree. He emotionally checked out long before she filed the divorce papers. She was the one who wanted to keep up the facade. I think he realised going back to her was a mistake.
I really believe 💯 % that it was Ben who wanted the divorce but humbled himself and allowed Jennifer to file instead of him. He didnt want to her so he allow her to be the filer and he the defendant in the divorce.
Ben tried to change for her and it never worked that way. He's a jeans and tee shirt kinda guy baseball cap and motorcycle. The people never saw that side of him when things seem ok with jlo. Just fake smiles and suits and showing up to parties he didn't care for. Now Ben can be himself. Just chill and find happiness
@@crea8visualwhen people are insatiable, they can't be home, they can't rest, they show off all the time. It all changes when you get married and have a family. She wasn't satisfied with Ben either. It was already known he wasn't the one but who is the one or who was the one?
Enough of the lie that he’s this private person. The man and his ex wife are photographed together daily. Never, ever, seen a celebrity couple behave this way.
This is what happen when you immediately jump to new relationship after the break up, unfortunately, it was not hard to predict the end Wish both the best
@@RoselandeBazelais-hn5rhright she was so pissed off at arod she probably wanted to show how she could move on too and not give AF that quick marriage was definitely a diss to arod.
Look Jlo has had many high profile relationships and they all ended within 2 to 4 years, Why? Shes been married 4 now 5 times Why?. Shes a grown women and Ben is not her first rodeo and wont be the last! Sorry for her kids!.
When your wealthy woman it’s hard to find true love & not for your money. Ben is not as wealthy as she is. Losers despise being number 2. He shared that clue with the public. You either want to hide your secret ginky or get jealous of your spouse. What was Ben hiding? He runs to his kids to camouflage his true weakness.
@@RoseofSharon-2335 That guy was not a winner. I believe there was a reason why Jlo didn't stay with him. He carried it so long. I don't think he ever married again. That's strange!
Ben should have thought of that before jumping to bed with a Bond girl before Jlo came along. Stop blaming the women that love these weak losers! Ben is loveless & leaves a track of them behind him. Kids is just a coverup from his true responsibilities of being a married man with a new wealthy wife he abandoned!
Jealousy from women here is a disease. You all envy Jennifer lopes because she is beautiful and look amazing for her age. Also she is 3 times richer than Ben. You love Jen Garner because she is plain boring looking like you guys.
@@plainsaw3771 oOh thanks. Jen is better without a relationship with her countless man she'd been with she still cannot find a true man who will love her.
@filipepedro8272 And she doesn't mind to neglect her autistic child (son) and her apparently confused daughter. She likes to get busy seeking for men in Hollyweed. .In fact she did say almost 10 years ago she loves weed
@@pilarcitadattus2016 Jlo loves her children. They have enough issues to deal with. Don't be so mean-spirited, please. I still love Jlo and wish her the best. 🙂
Of course. She just got done telling the world that he's the absolute biggest and best LOVE OF HER LIFE. How embarrassing would it be if he filed 6 months later?? He's being nice letting her file even though he ended it.
We all know that Ben asked for a divorce months ago. Jlo was the stubborn one who wanted to stay marriage. Ben let her announce the divorce to save herself an embarrassment.
@@mrsx7944 He may have "physically" left the home first, but she may have been the one who decided the marriage wasn't going to work. We don't know. One day, I want Jlo to write the book! 🙂
That’s so sad, though. 😥. They both felt that way in that moment, at least for a nanosecond. They both felt sure or I doubt they’d ever risk the humiliation.
How many times has she been married and divorced now? Man, she has totally degraded the institution of marriage all by herself. Shame on her! All men should stay away from her.
Well, it takes two. I suspected she didn’t want to compromise. Ben is in the right space, and doesn’t need constant parties to feel happy. Maybe Jennifer need to learn to be at peace, be calm, and be silent.
I like Ben Affleck okay. But he's just always seemed a bit "tortured." He is also a moody man, according to his first wife. Moodiness is a sign of unhappiness, generally with "self."
Ben is no prize with his substance abuse issues. But Jennifer Lopez seems to turn all her relationships toxic. It's only a matter of time until Jennifer will be gushing again about a new beau being the love of her life. This girl is in love with being in love, but can't sustain it.
I think that, all those years ago, she had someone that truly loved her as a person and would have stayed forever. Her first husband still speaks so highly of her and she just tossed him away.
Maybe he was too weak. Just because a man is nice, it's often not enough. Jlo needs someone who is more her equal so that she will love and respect him forever.
Jennifer Lopez needs to learn to be on her own.... How many times has she been married and how many boyfriends has she had...🤔🤔🤔🙄🙄🙄 She is a Diva, in my opinion.... And Ben is a laid back guy... Not a good match!
@@Catwoman748 A-Rod should have been the best for Jlo. If only he could really love 1 woman and be committed to her for life. Their blended families looked so natural and happy together. Unfortunately, A-Rod didn't love Jlo like that. I think in that relationship, she pursued him first. He also supposedly has a "type" and preference for blonde Caucasian women.
I agree totally. She needs to use all that energy she has for chasing men and put it towards her kids and their happiness. She seems like a narcissist to me.
I remember watching 'The greatest love story never told' and saying what happens if it doesn't work out and you've put this out to the world? And even worse, it hasnt even been that long since that. JLo should never have made a romanticised version of her and Ben's new marriage, against Ben's wishes too. He clearly didnt want it. Its very sad. Its best to be single a good few years now to fully heal. Ben probably couldn't handle the attention or jlo's personality, and she probably didnt like his and garners relationship.
@@lovemypets254 Well the deceptive Ben as you call him might be pissed living with a lady that didn't mature very well in the last 20 years...if she divorced so many times, she might the issue.
I remember when they first got together back in the day and they started the whole co-mingling of people's names and became the famous Bennifer. This was them trying for a second time to see if it would actually work and it just didn't. All I can say is they tried but it's hard when a lot of Life passes between the first time you got together and the second time you got together. All I can say is that they had the blessing of trying for a second time and found out it just wasn't in the cards. I wish them the best
I saw someone say “if you come across the same tree twice in the woods, you’re lost” Also… dating someone who’s the same sign as you seems like a nightmare. I have a guy friend who’s the same sign as me I literally cannot stand him. We’re great friends though 😂
That’s not true, both my parents shared the same birthdate, but born different years, they have been together from teenage years, had six children. Sign has nothing to do with it. It’s just the individual, when i tell people both my parents shared the same birthday they are amazed and yes God have them twins born in the same month.
Don't just blame Ben in this relationship. Jennifer Lopez is a self absorbed, narcissistic Diva who only cares about money and appearances....And is RUDE! IN MY OPINION....
She is smartest woman ever! There are other women that give it to men free & left empty. She knows her worth & the institution of marriage like ELIZABETH TAYLOR! Classy & business!
Ben Affleck went crazy after Jlo! He seemed to not be doing so well with other women. He ended a relationship with a young actress... she wanted his child. He doesn't want more children. I think he thought he needed someone older and Jlo was looking so fine. He even made comments about her beautiful appearance. 🙂 Ben Affleck had every intention of being with Jlo. He was very excited and hopeful at first. So was Jlo. BUT, after the relationship settled down a bit, they discovered they are now NOT COMPATIBLE anymore. That's how I think it all went down.
@@meghanmisaliar Jlo did the same thing with A-Rod. Was counting her eggs early with A-Rod and talking about all they had in common. Jlo is very hopeful in the beginning and wants to believe her love story is like a fairytale.
@@lovemypets254 Can't give love if you don't really like yourself. Imo, that is Ben Affleck's problem. He has low self-esteem for some unknown reason. 😞
When you talk about your love and romance so much it certainly fails - like this is a surprise? DUH - he had the face all the time like- Get me out of this now this is a huge mistake!
Ben doesn't like people in his face. He cannot handle fame well. I still believe he has a low self-esteem problem. And when he goes out with Jlo, people are screaming for her more than for him.
@@Kg8f60 Ben has real fans...JLOs are questionable. The last time women fans screamed I love you to Ben, Jennifer Lopez got jealous and shouted for them to back up B**** on video when they were out to dinner so yes Ben has fans screaming for him and she has a jealousy problem.
@@Catwoman748 I'm sorry, I don't believe it! 🙂 And videos have to be made by reputable people. Not all these fake videos put together by our "next-door neighbors" who are themselves trying to become famous. Lol. Ben Affleck is no sex symbol or nothing like that anymore. He was a long time ago. Now, I don't even find him attractive, especially because I remember a lot of craziness he did and how he seemed to want to date famous actresses all the time. He even got Gwyneth Paltrow. My goodness! And his drinking and lifestyle has aged him in a not very nice way. 😞 And the drinking and gambling is a turn off. The only women screaming for him are the martyr women who feel the need to save men with issues. OR, they are people who became interested in him again after he got back with Jlo and they have decided to become "Team Ben!" Silly women. 🙂
She filed for divorce with no lawyer and no prenup. She was overly done. She didn't wait for him to drag it for 4 years as he did with Garner. Jen, you can never trust anyone completely and totally as you wanted. People fail. The only who never fails is God. Just a reminder. I hope you can find the right one at the right time who shares your values and devotion, never idolizing anyone.❤
My personal "advice" for Jlo is that she should cut off "ALL TYPES" of social media for a "good" while. DON'T READ IT OR VIEW IT. There are too many people online in our country (the United States) who are angry & mean-spirited. Jlo should not take any of their negativity into her mind and soul. "WE" still love you, Jlo! 🙂
All the double standard comments blow my mind. She’s definitely not the only woman to be on her third or fourth marriage and men do it all the time go have a kid and is in another relationship. Hell her ex hubby on his fourth marriage and just had his seventh child. all of a sudden the woman needs to be single, she needs therapy, ect. Good for her she can permanently close this chapter of Bennifer!!!
Yes, Marc Anthony needs to stay single too. Hollywood media doesn’t really cover him as much as Hispanic media does. He’s the more talented of the two, so they should cover him more.
when she said in that documentary that she felt sometimes that she keeps failing at being a good mom and wife, because she couldn’t be with him at his premiere or sthg, that was kind of a red flag. he had probably reproached her on the matter, maybe because he was also irked by her movie and docu.
😂😂😂 bruh this is her 4th divorce. It seems like she's the problem. I actually knew people who work on the set with her and they said she would show up half naked and if u say something she would fire u
@@pj-fx7gx I actually knew the man who wrote the movie anaconda. On the set he said she was a nightmare. If u even look at her the wrong way at work she will fire you. I knew a man that went on the set of a movie she was making to fix the electronic issue. RIP to my good brother he said she would walk on set in just a thong and shirt and someone whistles and he was fired. I'm a professional krumper that's retired now. I'm Too Much u can catch me on a few MTV shows. My homie is Casper smart who dance out of Orange county and ocean side by the way he one of her Ex. This women cheats, and abusive and disrespectful and have a major drug issue. So what I'm saying is actually what I know about how she is 😂 crazy huh. I'm not a square that believes what they see on tv
I've been saying the same thing. Emotionally she's not right in head. She's a bad example of being faithful to a marriage. She doesn't want to be alone but doesn't stay in a marriage. Stay in your marriage and you won't be alone. She doesn't know what she wants. She's such a joke. I don't like her anymore and I'm Dominican.
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I think it's time for Jen to stay single and just heal. Learn to be without a man please.
And never marry again - with 4 failed marriages, it's clearly not her thing.
Don’t hold your breath.
4 failed marriages damn jlo definitely from the block 😂😂
She is disgusting.
I agree. Marriage isn't for J. Lo.or Ben.
Exs are Exs for a reason! 😅
Not true. There are people that broke up and got back together and are still married together and have a family now. Ban Affleck and JLo are hardly role models for a marriage actually no celebrity marriage as they dont last and are always a business move.
You can say the again
That's what I was thinking when they got married. The reasons they broke up the first time around are still real and didn't vanish. No shock that they're just repeating what happened 20 years ago.
yup... made that mistake once and it fkdup my life !!! now it's get lost don't come back EVER !!!! lol
@@mey1573 say it again
How embarrassing for her, she made that stupid movie about him and now it’s over.
That’s why no production wanted to invest in that movie after her pitching it to the film production companies, instead she ended up paying 20 Million out of her own pocket to make that
Ben was in the middle of that project as you should recall! You would think he would save her the embarrassment of being TRUTHFUL OF HIS FEEling BEFOREHAND!
Too much pda, now those pdas were fake!
Bahahaha ikr the first warning signs yall aren’t doing well is make a love story. Same goes for those who overshare everything online abt their relationship or constantly posting pics of themselves all gushy. It’s called overcompensating
@@Bunny11344What you say is true but you gotta add to it the fact that she’s phony down to the roots of her “blonde” hair
Ben should have stayed faithful and sober for Jen Gardner. She’s a gem
Jen was Stephen Colbert's babysitter for his 3 children when they were young.
She cheated on her hubby Scott Foley to be with Ben. Could be karma ??
I just said the same thing!
Not about them staying together but about her being a Gem 💎
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Maybe Garner and Ben can get back together
Lies you tell
He always looked so unhappy with her. Body language never lies. We all knew this was coming.
Ben Affleck probably can't get away with anything with a woman like Jlo. She's going to "call him on the carpet."
Ben's ex Jen Garner is a different type of woman. I think she put up with "a lot" from Ben. Ben seemed content with her until he got caught doing stuff. Then he was embarrassed.
Maybe he is still alcoholic and a gambler. That’s why he is still unhappy.
Their chemistry was just off for me.
Oh yeah, we knew!
We knew this was coming, I don’t think anyone is surprised. Ben moved out months ago and they both bought separate homes. I’m not even sure why they even got married, they’ve had multiple marriages/divorces, and the two clearly weren’t happy together. That being said, I wish JLO and Ben all the best.
It was an impromptu wedding at a Las Vegas chapel 💒 Ben’s decision
Ben was the one sending love letters that probably clinging Gardner was in the dark of knowing. The cat was out of the bag when Jlo exposed his love letters. Then Ben goes back to his abandoned first ex Gardner. Ben is a weak man!
What can I say??? He’s a narcissist
It's. L o v e 🤍 true L o v e!
@@lovemypets254 It was Jennifer Garner, that was Ben's previous wife. No garden in sight.
She spent the past two years wasting her energy and money to try and prove to the world how madly in love the two of them were instead on focusing on him and her kids. Look what she got out of it! NOTHING! Jane Fonda was right when she told her “I feel invested in you and Ben and I really, really want this to work," "However, my concern is that it feels too much like you're trying to prove something instead of just living it.” Nuff said!
Where did Jane Fonda say this?
You know the best part? JLO immediately got defensive and shot back "thats just us living our lives". 😂😂😂 she got so triggered when Jane said that. Its in the documentary of the making of "The greatest love story never told". @sbsk2526
Forget him. She should be focused on being a mother to her kids.
That always stuck with me what Jane Fonda said!! I was looking for this comment in all the narrative about them!!!
@@sbsk2526Fonda said it in JLo documentary or movie directly to her. She gave her a lot of good constructive criticism but JLo never listens to reason. That’s why she is where she is now.
He should have never fked up his marriage with Jennifer Garner she was the best thing that ever happened to him..
Agreed.
He shouldn't have effed up either. He's the DB, not Jennifer. Poor little white boy couldn't stand a wife more famous than him.
Garner deserves better honestly
@@Cove999yes!
He walked out for a younger Bond girl . Then jumped with vulnerable Jlo when Arod was caught with another fling. Jlo should have never fallen for a weak Ben. He walked out on her the first time then. Does it again. Weak Men like Ben should not get married!
Going back to your ex is like going back to sour milk. You know how it tastes, and it doesn’t get any better.
It's like reading the same book twice. You already know how it's going to end.
Let the past stay in the past b
@@meghanmisaliar exactly!! Open up to new book and new chapters!
Mmmm Judge Judy would beg to differ
Filing for divorce on the anniversary of their wedding is savage. That said, are any of us really surprised?
Ben comes from slave ownership breed. Jlo was not accepted as his girlfriend when they dated by his mama. He leaves her then marries a white JENNIFER. Ok to have white kids & his mama is happy. Then a sexy young James Bond Latin comes along & he leaves his loveless marriage with kids. Then his young Latin dumps him & he sees Jlo is available. Then marries her but do not ask for more kids cause he walks. The honeymoon is over & retreats to his kids as an excuse. Clinging vine Gardner takes a vacation with him while he is still married with Jlo is a slap in the face . No respect for Gardner nor Ben. Exes do not do that to other exes. Using kids as a scapegoat! I’ve seen this mess before & it doesn’t last especially if the man is weak.
She did that to save face because Ben is about to be seen out with JG again.
@@meghanmisaliarthey saying they went to Japan together wow!!
@@anzelac5808 they did. Now they're together with their daughter Violet. They're moving her into college this week
@@meghanmisaliarWell, of course they're together for moving Violet to college. Doesn't mean they're back together.
“Were there signs?” 😂😂😂 yes, it’s labeled Jennifer Lopez
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Jennifer Garner didn't get much mire out of her marriage to him either. The dude is a living trash fire.
This
@@vangu2918 I think Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are both difficult people and they were doomed from the start.
Why JL? Maybe because she's a woman and a person of color? Because why can't it be Ben Affleck instead? For starters, he had alcohol addiction in the past, anxiety and depression. And two women have accused him of inappropriate behavior. Nothing like Harvey W, but he touched someone's azz. So, asking again, why is Jennifer Lopez automatically the problem?
That was quick, it looked strained and weird from the start
This is why you date for a while you don’t rush into marriage.
What I thought was soooo weird was how public she made the relationship and Ben just let it happen. Making a movie and doing interviews about their relationship and Ben just looking like he has issues and she just professing to the whole world how "in LOVE" she is. Like it was all a bit much and over the top.
@@Hugo-nw2suyou do have a point.
Please remember what Jennifer Garner said a few years back that Ben Affleck was the love of her life. She said that Ben could be very cold. Jennifer Garner used a metaphor similar it was like the sun that came down on her. I believe he truly enjoyed the shiny object JLo represents, but it became a smothering situation for him. I notice how uneasy he seems in the This is...Now documentary. His comments about JLo's addiction to attention were revealing. He even did an analogy about his own alcohol addiction.
@@1988vikableyes. She was over the top and too much PDA. That was really awful. She needs to stop acting like she is 30. Tries too hard. Her poor kids must be mortified their mom is a four time + loser.
I think what made it crack was her exposing the relationship to the whole world with a garbage album, documentary and movie.
Ben did not want to be a part of it and yet she forced this relationship down the throat of everyone
They are both bosses as well, with stubborn personalities when you combine these two head to head they will eventually clash with each other
She was 100% that lady on social media gushing about her man when you know behind the scenes they are miserable 😂 difference is she has millions of dollars at her disposal, so instead of a post she made a whole movie. Lolololol
The same documentary that Mr. BEN AFFLECK co-produced, filmed, and was interviewed for? That “stupid” documentary? How do you not know that his hands are all over that project?!
I’ve never seen a couple where they tell-all to the world survive. Keep the relationship private. That’s where it grows. Between just the two of you. It’s for the both of you and no one else.
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Dont get it twisted...Ben left her ass months ago and let her file first to save face
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Exactly. She has been looking down for months, whereas he has been looking happier. This must be mighty embarrassing for her because this was the relationship that she loved to shout from the rooftops about, and yet it has ended....TWICE!!!
@The_torero She thought by flaunting her wedding ring, spending time with his kids and paying him a visit on his birthday that things were going to work out and it didn’t. Ben’s been checked out of the marriage, as evident when he moved out of their house.
He wasn’t even with Jennifer when she was celebrating her birthday. Not only is this the second time that they’ve split, but this is Jennifer’s fourth marriage. She’s the problem.
@@niabelizaire3596 ..I agree. He emotionally checked out long before she filed the divorce papers. She was the one who wanted to keep up the facade. I think he realised going back to her was a mistake.
I really believe 💯 % that it was Ben who wanted the divorce but humbled himself and allowed Jennifer to file instead of him. He didnt want to her so he allow her to be the filer and he the defendant in the divorce.
Of course. He left her but he let her file so she could save face.
I believe so too.
Ben tried to change for her and it never worked that way. He's a jeans and tee shirt kinda guy baseball cap and motorcycle. The people never saw that side of him when things seem ok with jlo. Just fake smiles and suits and showing up to parties he didn't care for. Now Ben can be himself. Just chill and find happiness
That was my first thought too
@@crea8visualwhen people are insatiable, they can't be home, they can't rest, they show off all the time.
It all changes when you get married and have a family.
She wasn't satisfied with Ben either.
It was already known he wasn't the one but who is the one or who was the one?
He is private and she is not. That is not going to work.
Then why are there always pics of him, Jen garner, and their kids? They are the only celebrities like this
Then why he didnt last with Garner who is also very private? I think your analogy is very wrong!😂😂😂
Enough of the lie that he’s this private person. The man and his ex wife are photographed together daily. Never, ever, seen a celebrity couple behave this way.
He a drunken cheater of course it wasn't going to work.
That has absolutely NOTHING to do with it! He's known her 25 yrs! He knows what she's like. This is something way deeper.
This is what happen when you immediately jump to new relationship after the break up, unfortunately, it was not hard to predict the end
Wish both the best
Facts. She ended her engagement with ARod the previous week 😂😂
@@meghanmisaliarShe wanted to show off.
@@RoselandeBazelais-hn5rhright she was so pissed off at arod she probably wanted to show how she could move on too and not give AF that quick marriage was definitely a diss to arod.
Look Jlo has had many high profile relationships and they all ended within 2 to 4 years, Why? Shes been married 4 now 5 times Why?. Shes a grown women and Ben is not her first rodeo and wont be the last! Sorry for her kids!.
This doesn't surprise me. Marriage is a joke to most people these days.
Exactly what I see too
When your wealthy woman it’s hard to find true love & not for your money. Ben is not as wealthy as she is. Losers despise being number 2. He shared that clue with the public. You either want to hide your secret ginky or get jealous of your spouse. What was Ben hiding? He runs to his kids to camouflage his true weakness.
@mlady8137 from her 1st marriage, she did him so so very dirty!
The worst joke and nightmare
Bravooo 👏👏👏👏
@@RoseofSharon-2335 That guy was not a winner. I believe there was a reason why Jlo didn't stay with him. He carried it so long. I don't think he ever married again. That's strange!
Married 4 times, divorced 4 times. I'm sorry, she's the problem
She’ll be collecting her fifth wedding ring next 💯💍
I never “rallied around their rekindled romance”. Literally the second I heard they were back together I said “divorce within two years” 🙄
Agree. Such a bad move.
It’s a shame . Not sure either one is marriage material.
💯
She’s trying to be like Elizabeth Taylor 😂
What is a real shame is that the children have to go through this again and again....in just a matter of time.....
@@gladyshernandez2389 so sad for the kids…..they just walk around like zombies
She's too self-absorbed and fame hungry. He just wants to focus on his kids and tell stories through movies. It was not a fit from the beginning.
Ben should have thought of that before jumping to bed with a Bond girl before Jlo came along. Stop blaming the women that love these weak losers! Ben is loveless & leaves a track of them behind him. Kids is just a coverup from his true responsibilities of being a married man with a new wealthy wife he abandoned!
@lovemypets254 'Scuse me??? 55 year old 3x divorced woman?? And you're getting defensive over a clear as day narcissist?? 🤣. You're funny!
@@theskyisblue567 narc women defend narc women
@@ninjakuni Don't you know. EVERYBODY is a narcissist nowadays! 🙂
@user-uk8qm6jd4o Unfortunately, the word has gotten way too overused, incorrectly. But in Jlow's case, it is valid.
J lo at this point its okay to stay single. Marriage is not for everyone and that's okay.
Her next documentary is called “The greatest divorce story told again and again and again and again”
Ugh! This means there’s gonna be ANOTHER wedding 🙄
lol Yup! How many years until her next marriage? I'm going to say 5 years at most.
😂😂😂
@@clairdelunefanI’d say 3 yrs tops
@@jamesma8209 ~ You're probably right. But how long will that one last? 😆
@@clairdelunefanI say 3
Jennifer Garner seems like a really nice, smart & down to earth person who's focused on her children education .
And now one of them is attending Yale! I hope Ben realizes how good he had it with JG
And Ben is a drunk. Don't wish him on her either
Jealousy from women here is a disease. You all envy Jennifer lopes because she is beautiful and look amazing for her age. Also she is 3 times richer than Ben.
You love Jen Garner because she is plain boring looking like you guys.
@@GrannieLeehe's not a drunk
@@GrannieLeeand JLo is a bitter old woman
She is Ridiculous!!! Goes through men like it’s nothing!! How many men can you Love in a lifetime!! 😊
narcissistic people are unable to love
@@Maya.6868absolutely!
Again! She divorces so many people she’s trying to be like Elizabeth Taylor and have 8 ex-husbands?
HE left HER
And ET died a very lonely woman. That's nothing to aspire to.
She should have stayed with Puff Daddy.😊
@@Catwoman748She should've stayed with Casper 🤗
@@Catwoman748you kidding wow puff never gave a crap about her heck he even had other women a fool he aint he just had her booty when she was prime
Jane Fonda was right
why?
What Jane Fonda said?
@@elizabasco123 something like she always try to prove something to the public and not focusing on her relationship
Jane who?
@@plainsaw3771 oOh thanks. Jen is better without a relationship with her countless man she'd been with she still cannot find a true man who will love her.
One word...DUH!! Who DIDN'T see this coming from day one???
Man didn’t look happy she’s a headache hard to deal with
I take it you’ve dealt with her
@@user-en1zc5vd6yThere are enough accounts of her toxic behavior. From multiple sources
If Jen is the problem, why did the other Jen separated from him 😢
@@lueannemulrain2091 If Ben is the problem, why did Jen’s other husbands separate from her?
I’m sure she begged him to let her file for divorce instead of him to protect her image 🙄
Never assume! Get the facts! She got tired of being humiliated by her husband taking off with his EXWIFE to Japan to vacation. Ben forced her hand.
@@lovemypets254Wait, you say “never assume” followed by a statement about something that only he would know? Just no
Give me a break! 🙂
Definitely. HES the one who LEFT her! But of course she doesn't want to ever look like she got dumped. Again. But she has.
@@Kg8f60 She should put aside her precious image and get some singing lessons
That man was stressed out.
He likes wine too much
@filipepedro8272 And she doesn't mind to neglect her autistic child (son) and her apparently confused daughter. She likes to get busy seeking for men in Hollyweed. .In fact she did say almost 10 years ago she loves weed
That man is drunk during the interview.
@@pilarcitadattus2016 Jlo loves her children. They have enough issues to deal with. Don't be so mean-spirited, please.
I still love Jlo and wish her the best. 🙂
I think Ben probably agreed to let Jennifer file for divorce to save face. Especially bc of the documentary
Of course. She just got done telling the world that he's the absolute biggest and best LOVE OF HER LIFE. How embarrassing would it be if he filed 6 months later?? He's being nice letting her file even though he ended it.
True. She should be thanking him.
A bit sad anytime anyone divorces no matter who you are 😞
Not really
Ben is like Yessss...
Jen needs to do the inner work, stay single for one year to heal and concentrate on her children.
😮for sure
She needs to be single longer than a year!
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂@@tbmkris
After a relationship, you've gotta give it a couple years at least
We all know that Ben asked for a divorce months ago. Jlo was the stubborn one who wanted to stay marriage. Ben let her announce the divorce to save herself an embarrassment.
Probably the nicest thing Ben has ever done for her. Proved it buddy!
We don't all know that. 🙂
@@Kg8f60yes. We do. He left her.
@@mrsx7944 He may have "physically" left the home first, but she may have been the one who decided the marriage wasn't going to work.
We don't know. One day, I want Jlo to write the book! 🙂
@@Kg8f60 he already said he feels like marrying her was like a "fever dream". He said that months ago.
He allowed her the grace to save face and to file first. He knew that he had made a terrible mistake from almost Day 1.
Yeah I guess that was the nicest thing he's ever done for JLo.
I disagree. 🙂
Yeah, but he wasted her to marry him twice. It's on him too.
So that “Not. Going. Anywhere.” inscription on her engagement ring from Ben didn’t age well at all 😅😂🤣 #notatallsurprised
It probably really meant that their relationship wasn’t going anywhere 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@morethanbreakfastattiffani7352 omg so true lmfao 🤣🤣🤣
That’s so sad, though. 😥. They both felt that way in that moment, at least for a nanosecond. They both felt sure or I doubt they’d ever risk the humiliation.
Snap! lol
How many times has she been married and divorced now? Man, she has totally degraded the institution of marriage all by herself. Shame on her! All men should stay away from her.
Well, it takes two. I suspected she didn’t want to compromise. Ben is in the right space, and doesn’t need constant parties to feel happy. Maybe Jennifer need to learn to be at peace, be calm, and be silent.
That’s why she prob cancelled her tour
What parties?! Did you live with them and attend all “those parties”? 🤦🏻♀️
Exactly she’s prob like I’m jho how dare u! She realized he won’t change his mind
You can see in pictures of Ben with his children he is much happier not being with JLO.
This was the biggest dumpster fire ever for the entire world to see.
I'm not invested in either of these people. However, as an observer, Ben doesn't seem to be okay. He consistently looks overtired or unwell.
You would look like that too if you were married to JL
I like Ben Affleck okay. But he's just always seemed a bit "tortured." He is also a moody man, according to his first wife. Moodiness is a sign of unhappiness, generally with "self."
Ben is no prize with his substance abuse issues. But Jennifer Lopez seems to turn all her relationships toxic. It's only a matter of time until Jennifer will be gushing again about a new beau being the love of her life. This girl is in love with being in love, but can't sustain it.
Wrong the guys cheated! Thats a good reason to drop them. Look at Chakira!
Women supposedly seek around 70 percent of the divorces. That should tell you something.
@lovemypets254 we're talking about JLO not Shakiras relationship....
If it didn’t work twenty years ago there’s a reason!
Yup the reason is his EX!😂
We saw that coming 😂
Jennifer Lopez, let’s make a divorce album.
Cruel
😂😂😅
I think that, all those years ago, she had someone that truly loved her as a person and would have stayed forever. Her first husband still speaks so highly of her and she just tossed him away.
She likes challenges she gets bored fast
May be she’ll go back to him, she has the tendency 🤷🏻♀️
And Chris Judd. He was the sweetest man. She's a fool
@@arnelabih1845no. She likes MONEY. Whatever man has more money that's where she's going. It's a pattern
Maybe he was too weak. Just because a man is nice, it's often not enough. Jlo needs someone who is more her equal so that she will love and respect him forever.
Finally, the charade is over!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Jennifer Lopez needs to learn to be on her own.... How many times has she been married and how many boyfriends has she had...🤔🤔🤔🙄🙄🙄 She is a Diva, in my opinion.... And Ben is a laid back guy... Not a good match!
She be a diva No man needs it jenny from the block
I feel like her match was Puff Diddy.
@@Catwoman748
A-Rod should have been the best for Jlo. If only he could really love 1 woman and be committed to her for life. Their blended families looked so natural and happy together.
Unfortunately, A-Rod didn't love Jlo like that. I think in that relationship, she pursued him first. He also supposedly has a "type" and preference for blonde Caucasian women.
I agree totally. She needs to use all that energy she has for chasing men and put it towards her kids and their happiness. She seems like a narcissist to me.
A narcissist and an alcoholic = DISASTER! What happened to the greatest love story never told?!? 🤣🤣 bye!
Bye, Felecia!
It was never told lol lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
shes too in love with herself
All that time and effort for the documentary should have been spent on the actual relationship😂
I remember watching 'The greatest love story never told' and saying what happens if it doesn't work out and you've put this out to the world? And even worse, it hasnt even been that long since that. JLo should never have made a romanticised version of her and Ben's new marriage, against Ben's wishes too. He clearly didnt want it. Its very sad. Its best to be single a good few years now to fully heal. Ben probably couldn't handle the attention or jlo's personality, and she probably didnt like his and garners relationship.
JL has always been jealous of JG
What wife would …especially since garner was the reason they split the first go around!
of course she didn't like Ben's and garner's relationship. It's what split them up the first time
@@anzelac5808well she knew JG was in his life before she married him!!
@@MarinaFraymothen she shouldn't have married him. She knew he was close with his ex. It's not like she didn't know that.
I am surprised that it took this long
I feel for her children who had to be uprooted and move in with a "new stepdad." Time to heal!
They are victims in every occasion....never ending for them....that’s who we should feel sorry for.....
I don’t think Ben likes all the attention that comes with jlo
A reasonable man would think of that before getting married. He jumped & then jumped out! Not wise of a man.
@@lovemypets254 he was in love at the moment
@@AMmporterthat's nonsense. That's not it.
@@lovemypets254 Maybe being with her requires a contract. It is possible. That could be why he did it and she lovebombed him into it.
He never smiled or looked happy whenever he was around her. It was so wierd.
Helen Keller could've seen that coming...😒😒😒
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Jlo's kids have seen their fair share of men in their mothers life. I hope they won't have commitment issues as adults
From day one we knew it would lead to divorce.
Was she trying to compete with Elizabeth Taylor ?!!! I find it disgusting for anyone to marry that many times ! What's wrong with staying single ?!!!
Your not in her shoes 👠 and a wife that is abandoned & humiliated should sting your heart of being used & having a deceptive Ben.
He left her.
@@lovemypets254 Well the deceptive Ben as you call him might be pissed living with a lady that didn't mature very well in the last 20 years...if she divorced so many times, she might the issue.
Seems like “marriage” has lost its value.
Maybe for Hollywood sure. For us living in the normal world, it’s still very much valued ❤😊
@@vcgomeez I dont think so lol people in “real life” get divorces all the time as well, no one takes their vows seriously unfortunately.
@@Janedoe89479 yeah some ppl, but I know many couples who take they’re marriage seriously. And they thrive when they do so 🎯
I remember when they first got together back in the day and they started the whole co-mingling of people's names and became the famous Bennifer. This was them trying for a second time to see if it would actually work and it just didn't. All I can say is they tried but it's hard when a lot of Life passes between the first time you got together and the second time you got together. All I can say is that they had the blessing of trying for a second time and found out it just wasn't in the cards. I wish them the best
This woman need to stop getting married like it’s a business. At this point just hook up and stop devaluing the sacrament of marriage.
I saw someone say “if you come across the same tree twice in the woods, you’re lost”
Also… dating someone who’s the same sign as you seems like a nightmare. I have a guy friend who’s the same sign as me I literally cannot stand him. We’re great friends though 😂
Good quote!
That’s not true, both my parents shared the same birthdate, but born different years, they have been together from teenage years, had six children. Sign has nothing to do with it. It’s just the individual, when i tell people both my parents shared the same birthday they are amazed and yes God have them twins born in the same month.
trees look the same hahaha
@@ihseus 😂😂
Being married to an alcoholic is a lifelong struggle.
Don't just blame Ben in this relationship. Jennifer Lopez is a self absorbed, narcissistic Diva who only cares about money and appearances....And is RUDE! IN MY OPINION....
So is being married to a narcissist person. Trust me, I know!
Been simply married for the vast majority of people is a lifelong struggle too so maybe the booze helps people cope.
Did you see her newly released alcoholic drinks? 🍹
@@RitaWeaver-sc8gdHis a covert narc.
Were there signs? LOL. yeah, it was her 4th marriage.
He should've remembered why they split the 1st time... you can never go back home!
Ben Should Have Stayed With Jennifer Garner Thee End 💯
he's just a gentleman letting her file. lol
That’s cowardness
Agree. he left her MONTHS ago.
She's collecting them rings like infinity stones.
She's inevitable!
😂😂
She is smartest woman ever! There are other women that give it to men free & left empty. She knows her worth & the institution of marriage like ELIZABETH TAYLOR! Classy & business!
Ben knew She’s not yours it’s just your second turn😂😂😂
I wish them both a lot of healing 🙏🏽
Never felt she was his true love. She wanted him but he never seemed to want her.
Ben’s love towards her was a sham! Jlo didn’t deserve that from this jerk!
The way she seemed infatuated with him was proof she was way more into him.
Ben Affleck went crazy after Jlo! He seemed to not be doing so well with other women. He ended a relationship with a young actress... she wanted his child. He doesn't want more children. I think he thought he needed someone older and Jlo was looking so fine. He even made comments about her beautiful appearance. 🙂
Ben Affleck had every intention of being with Jlo. He was very excited and hopeful at first. So was Jlo. BUT, after the relationship settled down a bit, they discovered they are now NOT COMPATIBLE anymore.
That's how I think it all went down.
@@meghanmisaliar
Jlo did the same thing with A-Rod. Was counting her eggs early with A-Rod and talking about all they had in common. Jlo is very hopeful in the beginning and wants to believe her love story is like a fairytale.
@@lovemypets254
Can't give love if you don't really like yourself. Imo, that is Ben Affleck's problem. He has low self-esteem for some unknown reason. 😞
When you talk about your love and romance so much it certainly fails - like this is a surprise? DUH - he had the face all the time like- Get me out of this now this is a huge mistake!
Am I the only one that notices that every time they're outside together Ben always looks "Annoyed To HELL",Finally hope they find peace.
Ben doesn't like people in his face. He cannot handle fame well. I still believe he has a low self-esteem problem. And when he goes out with Jlo, people are screaming for her more than for him.
@@Kg8f60 Ben has real fans...JLOs are questionable. The last time women fans screamed I love you to Ben, Jennifer Lopez got jealous and shouted for them to back up B**** on video when they were out to dinner so yes Ben has fans screaming for him and she has a jealousy problem.
@@Catwoman748 I'm sorry, I don't believe it! 🙂 And videos have to be made by reputable people. Not all these fake videos put together by our "next-door neighbors" who are themselves trying to become famous.
Lol.
Ben Affleck is no sex symbol or nothing like that anymore. He was a long time ago. Now, I don't even find him attractive, especially because I remember a lot of craziness he did and how he seemed to want to date famous actresses all the time. He even got Gwyneth Paltrow. My goodness! And his drinking and lifestyle has aged him in a not very nice way. 😞
And the drinking and gambling is a turn off. The only women screaming for him are the martyr women who feel the need to save men with issues. OR, they are people who became interested in him again after he got back with Jlo and they have decided to become "Team Ben!"
Silly women. 🙂
The truths at the top of the comments have a look@@Catwoman748
She filed for divorce with no lawyer and no prenup. She was overly done. She didn't wait for him to drag it for 4 years as he did with Garner. Jen, you can never trust anyone completely and totally as you wanted. People fail. The only who never fails is God. Just a reminder. I hope you can find the right one at the right time who shares your values and devotion, never idolizing anyone.❤
As soon as they said "I do," it started to go toward "I don't."
Imagine if she actually worked at a marriage.
They’ll both be better off with their separate journeys.
🙂
What a bunch of mean comments. These are two human beings going through a heartbreak. How about a little sympathy and well wishes?
I liked your comment, I have seen some well wishes
Can anyone list the number of movies she's been in about marriage?
The irony
It seems like she is obsessed with the idea of being a bride
Not surprised...
My personal "advice" for Jlo is that she should cut off "ALL TYPES" of social media for a "good" while. DON'T READ IT OR VIEW IT.
There are too many people online in our country (the United States) who are angry & mean-spirited.
Jlo should not take any of their negativity into her mind and soul.
"WE" still love you, Jlo! 🙂
I almost have a BINGO on my bingo card 😂😂
They both have serious issue’s. JLo probably is too dominant and Mr Affleck probably has alcoholic issues. All that shit about ‘this is me now" 🤦♀️
See Divorce is here
Said before, She needs a dog and he needs a cat.😊 Best wishes to them both 💗
It’s a shame they didn’t work out but I think it’s better if Jennifer stays single for awhile to focus on herself and figure out what she wants to do
😳 Shocker! 😱
She must have too much money to pay for all the divorce attorneys and proceedings.
All the double standard comments blow my mind. She’s definitely not the only woman to be on her third or fourth marriage and men do it all the time go have a kid and is in another relationship. Hell her ex hubby on his fourth marriage and just had his seventh child. all of a sudden the woman needs to be single, she needs therapy, ect. Good for her she can permanently close this chapter of Bennifer!!!
Yes, Marc Anthony needs to stay single too. Hollywood media doesn’t really cover him as much as Hispanic media does. He’s the more talented of the two, so they should cover him more.
OMG says a woman when women live their entire lives on the double standard and hypocrisy. Jesus wept !!
Yes, but he doesn’t work hard to stay in the press and make a stupid movie and set up a failed tour.
JLO is A-list celebrity, Marc Anthony is B-List celebrity.. apparently everyone’s more interested in JLO news, haven’t heard of Marc in awhile
Good points.
Glad she did. It was always three in the relationship. HE WAS CAUGHT with his ex in the car and he was married to her. Love u Jennifer
Exactly!! They thought Jlo is a stupid doormat like his ex
I'm honestly not surprised by this because we all saw that coming. But I only wish for the best in the future for the both of them
They both need to stop getting married.
when she said in that documentary that she felt sometimes that she keeps failing at being a good mom and wife, because she couldn’t be with him at his premiere or sthg, that was kind of a red flag. he had probably reproached her on the matter, maybe because he was also irked by her movie and docu.
😂😂😂 bruh this is her 4th divorce. It seems like she's the problem. I actually knew people who work on the set with her and they said she would show up half naked and if u say something she would fire u
Yep, she’s the problem. Same as the folks who’ve gotten fired from every single job and when you ask them why, they blame it on the boss
@@pj-fx7gx I actually knew the man who wrote the movie anaconda. On the set he said she was a nightmare. If u even look at her the wrong way at work she will fire you. I knew a man that went on the set of a movie she was making to fix the electronic issue. RIP to my good brother he said she would walk on set in just a thong and shirt and someone whistles and he was fired. I'm a professional krumper that's retired now. I'm Too Much u can catch me on a few MTV shows. My homie is Casper smart who dance out of Orange county and ocean side by the way he one of her Ex. This women cheats, and abusive and disrespectful and have a major drug issue. So what I'm saying is actually what I know about how she is 😂 crazy huh. I'm not a square that believes what they see on tv
Being a celebrity is not the job for Jennifer Lopez. #shesfired #bythepublic
@@Catwoman748 😂😂
I don't believe that story for a SECOND! Lol! And you should doubt the people who told you that. 🙂
Jennifer has internal issues she has to work on. Shes been married 4 times. Thats not normal. I am a fan of her but the truth is the truth.
I've been saying the same thing. Emotionally she's not right in head. She's a bad example of being faithful to a marriage. She doesn't want to be alone but doesn't stay in a marriage.
Stay in your marriage and you won't be alone. She doesn't know what she wants. She's such a joke. I don't like her anymore and I'm Dominican.
@@Melbester9 I still love Jlo! 🙂 I want to see her happy in her golden years.
Omgosh! Nooooooo
-said no one ever 😂😂😂😂😂
LOL!!!!
who is she going to run to this time? she needs to retire with dignity.
I'm surprised that it last this long... Not surprised..see the writing on the wall since Day one.