Reminds me of a yarn, where, a theif, thought cremains, was cocaine.and sold it to a biker ganf.. Suffice to say when the theft, should up in the local new, thing didn't end well for the teif.. One would think the bikers, would have, noticed, they where getting pleasure, than again. it's just a yarn.. Where land is getting scarce, cremation , should be come. the norm; or start planting bodies, in a vertical position. Not seen. in the newspaper; the native off to the side, shaking their heads, at, the white people, making the simple. difficult.
Okay so I was telling my dad how a TH-camr made me consider being a mortician and he said “you mean that lady with the bangs?” I was shook 😳 like how did my dad end up here too
Lol yes she is and adds great humor and entertainment to it too! How old are you btw chick? Im curious cos i csnt figure your age and i like to figure ppls and and normally guess it right.. ok im guessing 27? Thanks chick.
Yes! Agreed wholeheartedly! I think that she should print out a picture book with all of the graphics that have graced our screens over the years, it would be the best coffee table book of all time. Not sure how to bring up death planning with your loved ones? Put it out when they come over! Or a "Guide to The Good Death" as told through the medium of graphics and the lens of gentle humor, that can be used as a conversation guide and workbook! Next publication, please!!!
I broke my feet today because I kicked my computer because someone commented that my videos are bad! I hate unjustified criticism. Please wish me a speedy recovery, dear mola
@Andreas Glad yes ofcourse. Races who were enslaved for hundreds even thousands of years deserved it because they are "different". And yes of course they deserved to be treated differently because they did absolutely nothing wrong and was just born into that race. PERFECT!
@Andreas Glad so every person with the same skin color is exactly the same and does the same things as one another. I see. So, one person “dumps” their family, everyone does! Your logic is as stupid as it gets. Please go back to 3rd grade where you left off.
@@lornaduwn Hey those sorts of scholarships do exist. Also this comment wasn’t about that? Just like the scholarship, sometimes things aren’t about certain things and that’s ok. Sometimes a comment isn’t about a scholarship. Sometimes a scholarship isn’t about certain people.
Hmm, I guess that explains where my appendix is now. I actually asked if I could have it back after the operation (so I could keep it in a jar), but the hospital said no.
Sometimes when I’m driving I see electronic marquees for funeral homes stating “$1200 for cremation” and I think *”Oh no, no, no, Caitlin taught me better than that”*
@@Witchy-Wonderland th-cam.com/video/MzrTl3kYHBE/w-d-xo.html here she gives a figure of $800-1200 but when I did a search of cremation costs in my city, $1200 was far too much considering some places charge $800
I like the fact you mention Colonel Henry Alcock’s interest in cremation as a means to prevent vampires. This makes more sense after watching your video on New England vampires. I love how your lessons connect!
I actually live in the town where LeMoyne crematory is located!! Dr. LeMoyne's house still stands and is open for visiting. They just refurbished the crematory as well and opened it last weekend for a tour and spooky stories!
My very best high school friend (Hindu) died a few years ago, and her husband hit the button on the crematorium. I took her Mom out of the room to make it easier on her. She was not embalmed but treated with many spices, and she looked beautiful. Just wanted to share.
Listen, Caitlin, we need to know how they turned bodies into stone! You can't just say they did that and pulverize the bodies into a fine powder without explaining how they did it! I am so intrigued right now!
The earliest attraction in the united kingdom was a cave that once you left an item in the water for a while it became encased in " Stone " I think limestone covered the items over time ... Maybe the same kinda theory
The corpse has to look directly into the eyes of Medusa to be turned into stone. It’s relatively quick once you get the corpse to focus their eyes, but the waiting list would be too long for this to have been practical.
Oh my goodness, when you said they lost the body in a baggage cart I imagined a train conductor and other workers just walking around the train checking under chairs and between carts Until eventually someone lifts a bag in a pile of luggage, and reveals de palms face and he was buried under the luggage And they’re like, WE FOUND HIM! 😂
Caitlin is like "Nobody is getting into the spirit of the season this year like they used to. Well I'll just have to make them dammit." Happy Halloween everyone
I would really love it you could interview some indigenous people about their death and burial traditions! I feel like with all of the talk of "Indiana Burial Grounds" there are a lot of miscommunications and the indigenous people of the Americas have some really beautiful death traditions 💕
I am truly sorry for this, but I heard the first sentence as: "This video is sponsored by The Great Corpses Plus". My brain obviously has expectations for this channel.
My younger brother died from a motorcycle accident in October. His ashes were divided among a number of small urns, which were passed around to everybody who was close to him. I'm planning on spreading his ashes in Boot Hill, in nearby Tombstone, Arizona. Our older brother intends to spread the ashes over our parents' graves in Cayucos, California, while his wife and kids are going to spread him along the Oregon coast. Well, that's my brother all over! Love you Tim, and I'll miss you forever.
Boot Hill is a great place! Letting him catch some cold ones with the outlaws, sheriffs, and pretty cool prostitutes doesn’t sound too bad. A man who died traveling, traveling all around. ❤️
@@AprilBytheBay When I'm gone, my survivors will be instructed to spread my ashes at Boot Hill! But not for a very long time, at least another 30 years! Thanks for all the great responses!
It’s not surprising that I’ve never heard of Henrietta Duterte, but her story is intriguing, especially for the time. Thank you Caitlin, for exposing this phenomenal business woman to the Deathling masses. As a black woman, I enjoy learning about outstanding ppl that haven’t been spotlighted before. I will be making a donation. You’re the best!💗
Caitlin is soooo awesome. She and this channel got me through a really tough time of my life. I found her in early 2018 and then was diagnosed with brain cancer in October and my father died of metastatic lung cancer 2 weeks before Christmas. Caitlin's frank and candid talk about death helped me immensely to deal with the funeral industry in the wake of my father's death and I was able to make sure that his wishes that he not be mutilated or embalmed before cremation werefollowed. We shaved him in his death bed and sat with him all day talking to him and sharing stories. The only thing the funeral home did was to dress and wrap him for his viewing the next day. Never would had pulled that off without knowing what to say and ask per Caitlin. She also helped me be okay with the idea of my own mortality in the face of my cancer diagnosis. Long story short, she has saved my life! I love Caitlin now and forever!
When I stumbled across your channel three years ago (because I’m interested in mortuary science) I knew I came across something special. Even down to the way you include your sponsorships are creative and unique. I’ve always been interested in the subject as I mentioned but I get a bit discouraged from time to time because I feel like there’s no job market for me, or how will I successfully accomplish such a goal. After watching your video to the end as I always do, I was so shocked to hear about your donations and scholarships towards African American women who are interested in the study! Not only that, but with Baltimore County Community College! I screamed! And quickly burst into tears! I live in Baltimore County and I’m still very much interested in mortuary science. This has given me hope and faith that I can achieve my dream. This is so amazing! Even if I don’t go through with it I know someone will and that too makes me so happy! Thank you soooooooooo much!!!! This has truly made my day!
Caitlin: "Coke-fired, coke like the by-product of coal that burns hotter, not cocaine." Me, a 27 year old with the naivety of a child: "Yeah, let's pretend I thought of cocaine and not Coca Cola.."
There are officially 3 things called coke. Coca Cola, cocaine, and the byproduct of coal that burns hotter. Edit: I am so tired I just misread 'hotter' as 'butter'
Is it just me or does anyone else REALLY enjoy Caitlin’s lessons too… She explains everything so understandable for even ppl like me to understand and I can’t stop laughing, she puts in so much ‘sick’ humor (the one I personally love)! Keep up the good work, Caitlin. I❤️U
I'm in my 60s, fighting my second type of cancer, and had a stroke. If I had such a nice and funny Mortician in my small village as you are, I wouldn't fight the inevitable so hard! Love your channel not just for the pleasant demeanor and lovely smile and humor, but you are very informative and entertaining. I'll keep watching, as long as I can anyway!
Animal products cause cancer. There's still a chance you can win by switching to a plant-based diet. I suggest watching and learning from leading experts such as Dr Greger and Dr Barnard, and reject the lies from the most cruel, destructive industry in the world. www.nutritionfacts.org www.pcrm.org Please, look into it!
As a fellow deep voices gal (though mine is not as magnificent as yours…because I teach middle school I actively pitch it higher because it seems to be off putting to them) I very much admire your elocution and confidence. Mine gets progressively lower the more tired (obviously) I get, but also the more angry. That’s another reason I pitch higher as a teacher. When it drops, they know they picked the wrong one today. I actually have to practice when it’s time for school to start back! It’s bothered my mother my entire life but I love it.
Teachers have my utmost respect. That shit is tough. I love my deep voice and the fact that men are put off by it, tbh. It's always pretty funny when people throw their insecurity in your face without realizing it
I was really happy to stumble on this video! I actually saw the cremains and visited the crematory at the LeMoyne House where The Washington County Historical Society is located. I was there to pick up old newspapers for the Pennsylvania Newspaper Project and we got the tour. It was super interesting. LeMoyne is interesting in his own right as well.
I didnt think I cared too much for the history and science of dead people, but she's really good at keeping me engaged to the point where I wanna learn more.
Just want to say I loved this video. We recently cremated my father, when he passed away in September. He was the first member of my family to be cremated. It was simple and cost effective. Coming from a background of traditional "Christian" burials, We were leery about cremation at first, but it just seemed to fit our needs at the time and I know Dad would have loved the little memorial service we had. He & I used to watch Ask A Mortician videos together and they gave us a better understanding of the options we had. Thank you so much, Caitlin! If not for the work you've put into your channel, mine is one family that would've been far less prepared to deal with that loss. He got to experience the good death! ❤😢❤
I don't wish to be indelicate, but where did you choose to place your dear father's remains? I'm a senior and want to be cremated, but I don't have an idea where my cremated remains should be placed. I want the easiest and most cost-effective means to dispose of my mortal remains. I want the most cost-effective method for my children. which will cost the least and expose them to the least difficulty in terms of cost and emotional anguish.
@@elaineteeter2904 We actually still have his ashes. Mom is keeping them for now until she decides what she wants to do with them. I think she wants to be cremated too and have their ashes buried together...but right now his ashes are in a nice little urn in our living room. We took some ashes to put into jewelry urns for me, my brother, and sister.
@@JohnW941994 thank you so much for sharing this with me. Such a lovely way to honor your father. It's clear that your family is a loving one. Your words have been a comfort to me and so helpful in my thinking. I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear father.
@@ayyasudhamma7452 I knew my dad wanted to be cremated; he wrote me a notebook with all kinds of instructions. I never wanted to read it, but when he was gone, it helped so much to read his words to me. I'm going to do the same thing for my son and daughter. When my dad died, I was in such a fog I couldn't think properly. Having that notebook made me feel like he was still with me, telling me what to do. You're right, it helps to plan ahead.
16:50 this is essentially the reason my mom wanted cremation: "You know me - I've always been a fastidious person. Slowly rotting away in a dark coffin doesn't seem like me."
Yeah - I wonder if they actually had a method to do it (or at least a reasonable idea of how to do it), or if it was just a "what if we could, like, turn corpses into stone" kind of thing.
@@taylor3950 Right? I had all those same questions! And bathing being totally out? I don't see that being a situation a human could live long term. I mean, even the cavemen probably took a swim now and then. I'm not even talking about stink..just ..crust? And did water include ALL liquids? Maybe a bath in beer?
I hadn't even heard about Theranos until yesterday when I was listening to the Sawbones podcast. They didn't mention her being a complete fucking nutter. I had to find that information, elsewhere.
You are a storyteller like no other, I LOVE your videos because they are as educational as they are entertaining and they're entertaining enough that I replay my favorites all the time. I get goosebumps every time I hear you talk about this scholarship, knowing that it was already a success and will be a lasting impact from the community YOU brought together. Thank you for all the work you do, and for putting so much of your personality into each of your videos!
These videos are so damn good! I stumbled across my first one maybe a week ago, and have been hooked. Incredible quality, perfect presentation, and just the right amount of humor.
It's over faster? And I guess there's at least a slim chance someone will hear you screaming, whereas there's almost none if you're down in a hole with half a ton of dirt holding you down.
Probably a faster assurance of death? My grandmother had the same fear of being buried alive. Her solution? "Make sure they embalm me and embalm me good before they put me in the hole"!.
@@DrKlausTrophobie There is a non-zero chance of being buried alive. It has happened, it continues to happen, and will continue to happen. It's rare though, so the chances of being buried alive are very low. Embalming makes sure you're dead, but then again, so would cremation.
As a Black woman who is also very intrigued with the afterlife in the process of death. I one hundred percent Love this whole funding event And will definitely be donating And on my behalf I appreciate all of you for supporting black females ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
If you haven’t seen her other videos, she has one where she visits a black cemetery and to paraphrase “it’s sad that there had to be segregation but now the black cemetery tradition must be protected for all of the value it has for the community and ongoing tradition.” Basically the celebration of life vs the stanch and starchiness of a more “white” cemetery. You want your hair/ makeup done right so you have someone taking care of you who knows your skin/ hair type. You want your family to feel comfortable so you go to a black funeral home to then be transported to the grave sight of all your other relatives and have an accurate family history. Sorry if that sounded weird (I’m autistic so I phrase stuff weird) but yes she does a lot for the community and I’m ecstatic that she does.
@@AprilBytheBay One of Caitlin's outstanding traits is her respect for lives, and death traditions of people who don't look exactly like herself. She understands the innate humanity of taking care of the departed and the different roles families play in different cultures. That's pretty cool.
Caitlin has a great disposition on death and dying. She's extremely informative and knowledgeable about this subject. Caitlin should get an Oscar for her videos and performances. She's hardly dead-pan or stiff in her approach in explaining such a tough subject. It's really terrific! 😂🥃🚬👍
Nah, that's apearantly is "arson" and the elderly couple across my street didn't appreciate my helpful and we'll meaning initiative to help them to get a cheap cremation. I've been told that it is a "felony". 🙄
You are the only person I've ever seen who makes death and things surrounding it rather, dare I say, hilarious. Even you sponsorship segment had me in stitches. Thank you for such morbid fun.
I bought ‘will my cat eat my eyeballs’ the other day and i’m almost finished it already! i actually couldn’t put it down, my parents are arguing about who gets to borrow it off me first 😂
Omg I just realized this is on audible and since I never bother to cancel my sub I have have credits😂😂 happy birthday to me🙌🥰 EDIT AND SHE IS READING IT YASSSSS!!!
@@melodyhicks5810 🥳🤩 happy birthday 🤩🥳 hope you're enjoying the day in the best way possible, I turn 40 and my son turns 20 on the same day next week 🤯
For the first time ever, I watched a sponser endorsement and actually thought it was a great addition to the video. I didn't even skip it. Nicely done.
“Cremation would preserve their beauty” “Had the body privately slathered in herbs and spices” “Symbolized the SEVEN planets” This story is a lot, even before we get to the souvenir ashes.
Knowledgeable and HYSTERICAL! You’re reallly good at what you do. I love it. Brought me cheer as I lie here with Covid & the cremains of my cat which were just returned. Turning an utterly crappy day into a rewarding learning experience. Thank you thank you!
Going down the "Victorians being terrified of getting buried alive" rabbit hole, I'd love to see you do a video on the many weird ways they tried to avoid waking up in a graveyard. Stuff like coffin bells and that sort of thing, or the bloke who made a coffin lid that would stab him when it was closed on him, just to be absolutely sure he was dead.
Caitlin, could you look into Amy Archer-Gilligan. She ran the first nursing home in USA, and due to contemporary funeral practices, was able to kill her patients. So, was a serial killer, too.
Rewatched this one after recommended in the My Girl video. Forgot how good the delivery and editing is on this one, on top of the wild subject matter!!
My university friends used to talk about Jeremy Bentham, his head and the varnished corpses he wanted to keep in his garden all the time and every time I hear the jingle it's like running into an old friend.
Those names be like the Gravity Falls TV gag: *"Stay tuned for the Friday night movie, 'The Duchess Approves' starring Stirly Stembleburgiss as 'The Duchess' and Crampton St. Rumpterfrabble as a rascal, coxswain 'Saunterblugget Hampterfuppinshire'."*
Cait....this was such a missed opportunity to call America' First Cremation a HOT MESS
You're right and I'm sorry.
D:
Totally
It was lit!
😂😂😂
"slathered in herbs and spices" dude was seasoned before being cooked.
😂😂😂😂
Always the best way!
Red Barrons pizza 🍕
11 herbs and spices?
The stereotype of white people not using seasonings does NOT extend to our dead
Caitlin really is that cool aunt that everyone wants.
Lol I'd just be happy if she was my friend
@@jennasalgado665 Saaaame!
... and we all now have. ❤️
Caitlin Doughty is a National Treasure.
Funny you say that, 'cause she reminds me of my real aunt.
She’s awesome ✌🏽
“I’m churning butter... that should be obvious” I was like “why is Caitlin rowing a boat.” 😂
I was going with Charon and the river Styx, myself. ^^
Same here Nick. I was certain she was rowing.
Thought she was churning the body after not knowing what to do with it tbh
I thought she was stirring a cauldron
I thought she was sweeping the floor in an old timy manner.
_"They just wouldn't stop dying."_
So selfish.
Humans are selfish indeed.
Speaking of... Have you seen Dave?
I'm worried he's trying to jeopardize the mission...
@@tttm99 🤣
The AUDACITY
Reminds me of a yarn, where, a theif, thought cremains, was cocaine.and sold it to a biker ganf.. Suffice to say when the theft, should up in the local new, thing didn't end well for the teif.. One would think the bikers, would have, noticed, they where getting pleasure, than again. it's just a yarn.. Where land is getting scarce, cremation , should be come. the norm; or start planting bodies, in a vertical position. Not seen. in the newspaper; the native off to the side, shaking their heads, at, the white people, making the simple. difficult.
Okay so I was telling my dad how a TH-camr made me consider being a mortician and he said “you mean that lady with the bangs?” I was shook 😳 like how did my dad end up here too
Dad has good taste!
What are bangs?
Marnie English the short hair above her eyes. I think Europeans call it fringe?
I mean...they are iconic bangs if you ask me.
Names: legendary
Corpse: iconic
Furnace: lit
Hotel: Trivago
I want a shirt with Rev. Octavius B. Frothingham in sunglasses with that printed around the photo.
It took me a minute to get it lol
@@jasonflay8818 dude that’s a really good shirt idea lol
She’s such a good story teller.
I could listen to her stories for hours.
Lol yes she is and adds great humor and entertainment to it too! How old are you btw chick? Im curious cos i csnt figure your age and i like to figure ppls and and normally guess it right.. ok im guessing 27? Thanks chick.
@@Jason.cbr1000rr this is such a creepy
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@@Jason.cbr1000rr That’s suspicions-
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@@yourstepdad7285 i⁸7⁷88 a bit ⁸⁸ it would
I love how you always mercilessly photoshop your face onto anything. I love it
I just want to say....
Don't throw away your shot!
@@ADMusic1999 or cheat on your wife
Yes! Agreed wholeheartedly! I think that she should print out a picture book with all of the graphics that have graced our screens over the years, it would be the best coffee table book of all time. Not sure how to bring up death planning with your loved ones? Put it out when they come over! Or a "Guide to The Good Death" as told through the medium of graphics and the lens of gentle humor, that can be used as a conversation guide and workbook! Next publication, please!!!
Or rather her iconic hair style
Yesss
"Cleanliness is next to Godliness, is next to classism, is next to racism.." OOH CAITLIN WITH THE PIPING HOT TEA! This is why we love you.
I broke my feet today because I kicked my computer because someone commented that my videos are bad! I hate unjustified criticism. Please wish me a speedy recovery, dear mola
piping cold embalming fluid
@Andreas Glad “There’s no such thing as racism! I should know - I’m racist.” Thanks Andreas.
@Andreas Glad yes ofcourse. Races who were enslaved for hundreds even thousands of years deserved it because they are "different". And yes of course they deserved to be treated differently because they did absolutely nothing wrong and was just born into that race. PERFECT!
@Andreas Glad so every person with the same skin color is exactly the same and does the same things as one another. I see. So, one person “dumps” their family, everyone does! Your logic is as stupid as it gets. Please go back to 3rd grade where you left off.
the people who disliked are all 150 year old anti-cremation reporters
omg I cant believe you hearted my comment thank you! I'm a HUGE fan of you and the channel and what you do!
Or maybe they just think that poor, Hispanic, Asian, American Indian or even white people should be eligible for her scholarship.
Ha
@@lornaduwn huh?
@@lornaduwn Hey those sorts of scholarships do exist. Also this comment wasn’t about that? Just like the scholarship, sometimes things aren’t about certain things and that’s ok. Sometimes a comment isn’t about a scholarship. Sometimes a scholarship isn’t about certain people.
"I'm churning butter, btw. That should be obvious."
Lady, I thought you were rowing down the river styx. xD
PLEASE make merch with “EASY, BREEZY, BEAUTIFUL, CREMATED GIRL” because ID BUY ONE IN EVERY COLOR SISSS
YES!!! I hope she sees this!
That's such a great idea😂
YES!!!
I’d wear that
I hope she sees this too. I would buy that.
I've lost a number of organs over the years, and medical waste is incinerated.
Therefore, I've already been partially cremated. OMG
It’s like you’re on a payment plan of five easy cremations with one gigantic balloon payment at the end.
Partially Cremated would be a great band name
Hmm, I guess that explains where my appendix is now.
I actually asked if I could have it back after the operation (so I could keep it in a jar), but the hospital said no.
Same here, guess my gallbladder has been cremated. I would have kept it in a jar, if I'd had the option. It was mine, after all.
@@IJustWantToUseMyName that is hilarious!
Sometimes when I’m driving I see electronic marquees for funeral homes stating “$1200 for cremation” and I think
*”Oh no, no, no, Caitlin taught me better than that”*
hopefully my body will go to the body farm in Virginia so student's can learn about my decomposition? But I'll be dead so who knows? I won't.
I haven't watched her long enough to know.. Teach me better 😊
@@Witchy-Wonderland I’ll try to find a good video of hers, but direct cremation (no frills) shouldn’t be more than $900.
@@Witchy-Wonderland th-cam.com/video/MzrTl3kYHBE/w-d-xo.html here she gives a figure of $800-1200 but when I did a search of cremation costs in my city, $1200 was far too much considering some places charge $800
Y'all are severely overpaying. If you watch the video, Caitlin clearly sets the baseline price at $7.04.
I like the fact you mention Colonel Henry Alcock’s interest in cremation as a means to prevent vampires. This makes more sense after watching your video on New England vampires. I love how your lessons connect!
I actually live in the town where LeMoyne crematory is located!! Dr. LeMoyne's house still stands and is open for visiting. They just refurbished the crematory as well and opened it last weekend for a tour and spooky stories!
I can't tell you how much we wished we could have traveled and filmed this on site!
@@AskAMortician perhaps you could go a follow-up video in the future.
@@adamestes5227 Future respectful Post Pandemic Death Tour????
@@godlesslippillow That sounds like a great idea. I’d totally watch that.
I'm in favour of a revisit with on location after the plague has ended!
My very best high school friend (Hindu) died a few years ago, and her husband hit the button on the crematorium. I took her Mom out of the room to make it easier on her. She was not embalmed but treated with many spices, and she looked beautiful. Just wanted to share.
How beautiful
Spices???? you mean antim sanskar
@@Ilovecitrusfruits100 salt and pepper.
@@Ilovecitrusfruits100 11 herbs and spices…
She sounds like she was delicious. 😞
Listen, Caitlin, we need to know how they turned bodies into stone! You can't just say they did that and pulverize the bodies into a fine powder without explaining how they did it! I am so intrigued right now!
I know I've seen a video with her discussing this. I can't find it though lol It might not have been on her channel though.
The earliest attraction in the united kingdom was a cave that once you left an item in the water for a while it became encased in " Stone " I think limestone covered the items over time ... Maybe the same kinda theory
they might not have actually had a working theory on how to do that.
Found that video here
th-cam.com/video/-P4WWXWWUg8/w-d-xo.html
I think it’s just a dry-age… just instead of cow’s carcass, it’s a corpse. Delightful
"Cut the guy some slack, he doesn't believe in water" BEST LINE EVER
what Caitlin said: "caused by miasma"
what I heard: "caused by my asthma"
😂😂😂😂
I heard caused by melasma. 🤦🏻♀️
Me too!
If that crematoriums slogan isn’t “trailblazing for 150 years” I quit
"Making flaming hot bods for 150 years. Trust us. It's lit!"
Question: how do you turn bodies into stone?
Also, I think you need to have a T-shirt that says: Cremation: for a vampire free future.
Absolutely!
That would make for an amazing shirt.
The corpse has to look directly into the eyes of Medusa to be turned into stone. It’s relatively quick once you get the corpse to focus their eyes, but the waiting list would be too long for this to have been practical.
I would defiantly buy that shirt!
@@MsBTmom Who's forcing you to NOT buy this shirt? Deathlings want to know!
Oh my goodness, when you said they lost the body in a baggage cart
I imagined a train conductor and other workers just walking around the train checking under chairs and between carts
Until eventually someone lifts a bag in a pile of luggage, and reveals de palms face and he was buried under the luggage
And they’re like, WE FOUND HIM! 😂
Same!
😂😂😂😂👍🏼
"Easy, breezy, beautiful Cremated Girl" I died laughing
Me too... LMAO 😂😂😂
I lost my mind at that 😂😂
...but did you get cremated afterwards? lol
Caitlin is like "Nobody is getting into the spirit of the season this year like they used to. Well I'll just have to make them dammit." Happy Halloween everyone
Happy Halloween!
@@mandala314 - Happy Halloween!
Happy Halloween and a Blessed Samhain
Happy Halloween!!
🎃Happy 👻 Halloween!!!
I just adore Caitlin's impressions, especially the valley girl. Only Caitlin could make mortality hilarious without being crude x
I would really love it you could interview some indigenous people about their death and burial traditions! I feel like with all of the talk of "Indiana Burial Grounds" there are a lot of miscommunications and the indigenous people of the Americas have some really beautiful death traditions 💕
I second that!
Yeah that would be genuinely interesting
Yes those classic Indiana burial grounds lmao
The Mississippi Choctaw professional "bonepickers" who prepped bodies for basket-interment in charnel houses and mounds would be a fascinating talk
@@LittleLouieLagazza SEE, omg I want to know it all now! 😱🖤
Ok could someone write Caitlyn's Wikipedia page with the description "principally famous as a future corpse"?
I think you've found yourself a job 😉😂
I went ahead and did it. if I get in trouble.... well, it's still accurate- and I stand by my edit.
@@elenaderoet4926 not all heroes wear capes
I am truly sorry for this, but I heard the first sentence as: "This video is sponsored by The Great Corpses Plus". My brain obviously has expectations for this channel.
Same!!! Lol
🤔😂
Ditto
Same
same and i can't unhear it now XD
My younger brother died from a motorcycle accident in October. His ashes were divided among a number of small urns, which were passed around to everybody who was close to him.
I'm planning on spreading his ashes in Boot Hill, in nearby Tombstone, Arizona. Our older brother intends to spread the ashes over our parents' graves in Cayucos, California, while his wife and kids are going to spread him along the Oregon coast.
Well, that's my brother all over! Love you Tim, and I'll miss you forever.
Sincere condolences on the loss of your brother.
Sounds like a great idea 🙌🙌🙌
I'm so sorry for your loss. 💙
Boot Hill is a great place! Letting him catch some cold ones with the outlaws, sheriffs, and pretty cool prostitutes doesn’t sound too bad. A man who died traveling, traveling all around. ❤️
@@AprilBytheBay When I'm gone, my survivors will be instructed to spread my ashes at Boot Hill!
But not for a very long time, at least another 30 years!
Thanks for all the great responses!
It’s not surprising that I’ve never heard of Henrietta Duterte, but her story is intriguing, especially for the time. Thank you Caitlin, for exposing this phenomenal business woman to the Deathling masses. As a black woman, I enjoy learning about outstanding ppl that haven’t been spotlighted before. I will be making a donation. You’re the best!💗
Caitlin is soooo awesome. She and this channel got me through a really tough time of my life. I found her in early 2018 and then was diagnosed with brain cancer in October and my father died of metastatic lung cancer 2 weeks before Christmas. Caitlin's frank and candid talk about death helped me immensely to deal with the funeral industry in the wake of my father's death and I was able to make sure that his wishes that he not be mutilated or embalmed before cremation werefollowed. We shaved him in his death bed and sat with him all day talking to him and sharing stories. The only thing the funeral home did was to dress and wrap him for his viewing the next day. Never would had pulled that off without knowing what to say and ask per Caitlin. She also helped me be okay with the idea of my own mortality in the face of my cancer diagnosis. Long story short, she has saved my life! I love Caitlin now and forever!
How are you now?
When I stumbled across your channel three years ago (because I’m interested in mortuary science) I knew I came across something special. Even down to the way you include your sponsorships are creative and unique. I’ve always been interested in the subject as I mentioned but I get a bit discouraged from time to time because I feel like there’s no job market for me, or how will I successfully accomplish such a goal. After watching your video to the end as I always do, I was so shocked to hear about your donations and scholarships towards African American women who are interested in the study! Not only that, but with Baltimore County Community College! I screamed! And quickly burst into tears! I live in Baltimore County and I’m still very much interested in mortuary science. This has given me hope and faith that I can achieve my dream. This is so amazing! Even if I don’t go through with it I know someone will and that too makes me so happy! Thank you soooooooooo much!!!! This has truly made my day!
You GO FOR IT, Maryland Sister!!! Let us know when you're ready to put out your shingle!
Caitlin: "Coke-fired, coke like the by-product of coal that burns hotter, not cocaine."
Me, a 27 year old with the naivety of a child: "Yeah, let's pretend I thought of cocaine and not Coca Cola.."
Exactly this but I'm 16
There are officially 3 things called coke. Coca Cola, cocaine, and the byproduct of coal that burns hotter.
Edit: I am so tired I just misread 'hotter' as 'butter'
😂
Things go better with coke...
Lol me too bro
Is it just me or does anyone else REALLY enjoy Caitlin’s lessons too… She explains everything so understandable for even ppl like me to understand and I can’t stop laughing, she puts in so much ‘sick’ humor (the one I personally love)!
Keep up the good work, Caitlin. I❤️U
I'm in my 60s, fighting my second type of cancer, and had a stroke. If I had such a nice and funny Mortician in my small village as you are, I wouldn't fight the inevitable so hard! Love your channel not just for the pleasant demeanor and lovely smile and humor, but you are very informative and entertaining. I'll keep watching, as long as I can anyway!
Animal products cause cancer. There's still a chance you can win by switching to a plant-based diet. I suggest watching and learning from leading experts such as Dr Greger and Dr Barnard, and reject the lies from the most cruel, destructive industry in the world.
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Please, look into it!
"This funeral had EVERYTHING!"
AND Stefan?!?! Hell yes, gimme more, more, MORE!
Did it have Dan Cortese though?
Yahusha loves you and died for you REPENT
Lmao
Missed opportunity to title this “America’s First Cremation was a Hot Mess” 😂😂
Even better,
"America's first cremation was a WILD, HOT MESS"
*YES!! AGREED!*
Nice copied comment the original is right above yours lol
@@ariannaharley11 lol honey if I had seen that comment first I wouldn’t have posted it chill out ahaha 🤭😂😂
I don’t know why, but out of everything, “Sizzler crematory and grill” at 7:06 made me laugh the hardest.
My grandma died this week and her funeral was today. She’s being cremated so naturally you come out with this video today.
May your grandma go peacefully into the universe. My condolences.
Sorry for your loss 💖
I'm sorry for your loss
I hope you have a bunch of good memories of her 💗
My condolences on her passing; may her memory be a constant blessing to you.
#29 on trending!!
A nice update 11 hours later, right now this is #28 on trending
OMG HI CASSANDRA, OMG WHY AM I FREAKING OUT, TWO QUEENS MEETING SKSJSJXHYSYHWHSYSYUXJDKSKSK
Good to see you here @Cassandra Bankson!!
Woah
“In urban places like New York City, people just wouldn’t stop dying.” 💀💀💀
Yeah, they're just SOOOoooo inconsiderate in New York City! ;o)
Plus ça change, plus c'est la même chose
don't you just hate it when that happens
Damn people, be a little bit more considerate!! This is outrageous
Puh! People, right?! 🤖
As a fellow deep voices gal (though mine is not as magnificent as yours…because I teach middle school I actively pitch it higher because it seems to be off putting to them) I very much admire your elocution and confidence.
Mine gets progressively lower the more tired (obviously) I get, but also the more angry. That’s another reason I pitch higher as a teacher. When it drops, they know they picked the wrong one today. I actually have to practice when it’s time for school to start back! It’s bothered my mother my entire life but I love it.
Teachers have my utmost respect. That shit is tough. I love my deep voice and the fact that men are put off by it, tbh. It's always pretty funny when people throw their insecurity in your face without realizing it
"cut the guy some slack he didn't believe in water" lol
the best!
“Human body should not come in contact with water”
But.. but.. what did he drink?
Anything with a proof of 10 or higher.
@@cassuttustshirt4949 that explains pretty much everything.
Lots of alcohol
5:24
In the 19th century people often drank beer instead of water because the water was so dirty
The 1800’s were “lit”..Flying mystery meat, crazy cremation drama, guys named The Reverend...I think we’ve only scratched the surface here.
Kind of makes 2020 look less nuts....until you consider that the crazy of the Victorian era was spread out over a whole century.
@@nyotauhura7412 And Europe.
@Rosie Lovett Autumn It’s from the video Caitlin did two weeks ago where she talks about the Kentucky Meat Shower..
@@krisbailey7160 And the fact that some of my fellow Kentuckians actually went all "Dude, let me try that!" and ate the stuff... 🤢🤦♀️
@@asherikamichaela8425 Let me guess... the 'mystery meat' was actually dead bodies?
I was really happy to stumble on this video! I actually saw the cremains and visited the crematory at the LeMoyne House where The Washington County Historical Society is located. I was there to pick up old newspapers for the Pennsylvania Newspaper Project and we got the tour. It was super interesting. LeMoyne is interesting in his own right as well.
Caitlin is the BEST story teller!! “People would just not stop dying!” LMAO
I love how she looks into the camera and not like others who look like they are reading something.
I didnt think I cared too much for the history and science of dead people, but she's really good at keeping me engaged to the point where I wanna learn more.
@@BluePi1313 yes I also don't entirely agree on the "science" but this left me with more questions. Anyway she is entertaining ! lol
Just want to say I loved this video. We recently cremated my father, when he passed away in September. He was the first member of my family to be cremated. It was simple and cost effective. Coming from a background of traditional "Christian" burials, We were leery about cremation at first, but it just seemed to fit our needs at the time and I know Dad would have loved the little memorial service we had. He & I used to watch Ask A Mortician videos together and they gave us a better understanding of the options we had. Thank you so much, Caitlin! If not for the work you've put into your channel, mine is one family that would've been far less prepared to deal with that loss. He got to experience the good death! ❤😢❤
Sorry for your loss
I don't wish to be indelicate, but where did you choose to place your dear father's remains? I'm a senior and want to be cremated, but I don't have an idea where my cremated remains should be placed. I want the easiest and most cost-effective means to dispose of my mortal remains. I want the most cost-effective method for my children. which will cost the least and expose them to the least difficulty in terms of cost and emotional anguish.
@@elaineteeter2904 We actually still have his ashes. Mom is keeping them for now until she decides what she wants to do with them. I think she wants to be cremated too and have their ashes buried together...but right now his ashes are in a nice little urn in our living room. We took some ashes to put into jewelry urns for me, my brother, and sister.
@@JohnW941994 thank you so much for sharing this with me. Such a lovely way to honor your father. It's clear that your family is a loving one. Your words have been a comfort to me and so helpful in my thinking. I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear father.
@@ayyasudhamma7452 I knew my dad wanted to be cremated; he wrote me a notebook with all kinds of instructions. I never wanted to read it, but when he was gone, it helped so much to read his words to me. I'm going to do the same thing for my son and daughter. When my dad died, I was in such a fog I couldn't think properly. Having that notebook made me feel like he was still with me, telling me what to do. You're right, it helps to plan ahead.
During the sponsorship I thought she said “the great corpses plus” and I didn’t question a thing for a good minute
I thought the same.
I thought she said she was sponsored by The Great Corpses Plus at first 😆
Oh, it’s not?
Never heard that one before 😋
The Reverend Octavius B. Frothingham sounds like something Shawn would make up as an alias for Gus in Psych
It's the initial B. that makes the name
De Palm made up his whole family XD
@@manfrommeeteetse3880 I don’t know why he didn’t just keep whatever the B was, it’s already a mouthful🙄
*Caitlin:* "Buckhorst.. had a real _joie de vivre..._ "
*Caption:* "Buckhorst.. had a real (speaks foreign language)"
16:50 this is essentially the reason my mom wanted cremation: "You know me - I've always been a fastidious person. Slowly rotting away in a dark coffin doesn't seem like me."
"My haters make me famous." omg, girl. You kill.
As Mark Twain supposedly said once..."I didn't attend the funeral, but I wrote a nice letter saying I approved of it".... lol
Was on a bad date he was in my house got him to leave when I turned you on lol he was like wtf bahaha thanks girl
I'm here to help!
Oh! I'm stealing this!
It won't work with everybody
If he left because of Caitlyn, the he's NOT the one!😄😂
Oh yea, red flag, if they can't watch Caitlin then they don't deserve your time!!
I think the weirdest part of the whole story of the Barron's cremation was the fact they kept opening up his coffin, like guys, STAHPPPPP
But we gotta make sure he still in there 😂😩
Caitlin is something else...i love when she says.."the middle ages were magic"
Have to say,just recently lost my beautiful wife o 35 years, you've been so helpful with dealing with my loss,,thank you! Cannot say enough,,,
I’m so sorry Chris, but I’m glad you are helped by Caitlin. I think she’s wonderful.
"Turn the bodies to stone then grind them to a powder" Okay...we need to talk about that one a little more please.
Yeah - I wonder if they actually had a method to do it (or at least a reasonable idea of how to do it), or if it was just a "what if we could, like, turn corpses into stone" kind of thing.
Perhaps it involves a Medusa and a few sledge hammers.
We should dust off this topic now that we're less stiff minded... more stiff minded? Mindful of stiff oriented stuff, less petrified. Or are we...
Yea..I have several questions about this...
@@lissaquon607 Same here, nothing but questions.
Wait wait wait, I need to know more about this dude who thought God didn't intend people to come in contact with water. I have questions.
I know!
Yeah like I assume bathing is out but what about crossing rivers? What about rain? What about drinking water to live?!
@@taylor3950 Right? I had all those same questions! And bathing being totally out? I don't see that being a situation a human could live long term. I mean, even the cavemen probably took a swim now and then. I'm not even talking about stink..just ..crust? And did water include ALL liquids? Maybe a bath in beer?
Some people don’t need an answer I guess.
@@DenaInWyo the people demand the truth!
That's it, next D&D character is Rev. Octavius B Frothingham.
"Woopsy poopsy" is probably the funniest thing I've ever heard on a Saturday morning
“I’m like the Theranos lady”
I’m dead. Not really. I mean, I laughed a lot.
*dispatches hearse to your location*
Might I interest you in a spot of consolation cremation?
Weird tho, always thought she had a very comfortable pitch
@@eidolor I love Caitlin's voice. She's an all around great person. 10/10 would let her cremate me...again.
I hadn't even heard about Theranos until yesterday when I was listening to the Sawbones podcast. They didn't mention her being a complete fucking nutter. I had to find that information, elsewhere.
RIP
(Really Impressive Pulse)
“I’m like the Theranos lady,” said the thanatos lady. 😉
You are a storyteller like no other, I LOVE your videos because they are as educational as they are entertaining and they're entertaining enough that I replay my favorites all the time. I get goosebumps every time I hear you talk about this scholarship, knowing that it was already a success and will be a lasting impact from the community YOU brought together. Thank you for all the work you do, and for putting so much of your personality into each of your videos!
I mean it *was* the 1800's, so there probably was cocaine involved at some point.
_For the children and tooth aches_
When she said, "This story, has it ALL." I was like, omg, is she doing Stefan? And then she actually showed Stefan later, and I was like, YASS!!
My exact thoughts🤣
YESS
"Is that my voice? Is that MY voice?!
Oh well."
-Yzma
These videos are so damn good! I stumbled across my first one maybe a week ago, and have been hooked. Incredible quality, perfect presentation, and just the right amount of humor.
"He was terrified of burial, as allegedly he had known someone who had been buried alive"
That's a valid fear but HOW THE F*** IS CREMATION BETTER?!
It's over faster? And I guess there's at least a slim chance someone will hear you screaming, whereas there's almost none if you're down in a hole with half a ton of dirt holding you down.
You taste better?
Probably a faster assurance of death? My grandmother had the same fear of being buried alive. Her solution? "Make sure they embalm me and embalm me good before they put me in the hole"!.
@@NotSoCrazyNinja Something like a very last checkup?!
@@DrKlausTrophobie There is a non-zero chance of being buried alive. It has happened, it continues to happen, and will continue to happen. It's rare though, so the chances of being buried alive are very low. Embalming makes sure you're dead, but then again, so would cremation.
The moment I heard that the corpse was slathered in herbs and spices, he took on the figure of Colonel Sanders in my imagination.
I wonder if that would hide the crematorium and people would think it was just the local BBQ houses.
LOL! Col. Sanders. 😂
I do wonder if the good Colonel was also slathered with the 11 herbs and spices when he died...
I heard that - had to pause the video and said out loud "Herbs and spices? This ain't Kentucky fried chicken, people!"
As a Black woman who is also very intrigued with the afterlife in the process of death.
I one hundred percent Love this whole funding event
And will definitely be donating
And on my behalf I appreciate all of you for supporting black females
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
If you haven’t seen her other videos, she has one where she visits a black cemetery and to paraphrase “it’s sad that there had to be segregation but now the black cemetery tradition must be protected for all of the value it has for the community and ongoing tradition.”
Basically the celebration of life vs the stanch and starchiness of a more “white” cemetery.
You want your hair/ makeup done right so you have someone taking care of you who knows your skin/ hair type. You want your family to feel comfortable so you go to a black funeral home to then be transported to the grave sight of all your other relatives and have an accurate family history.
Sorry if that sounded weird (I’m autistic so I phrase stuff weird) but yes she does a lot for the community and I’m ecstatic that she does.
@@AprilBytheBay
Hey I’m on the spectrum as well
Thank you for the information
I appreciate you ❤️❤️❤️
@@AprilBytheBay One of Caitlin's outstanding traits is her respect for lives, and death traditions of people who don't look exactly like herself. She understands the innate humanity of taking care of the departed and the different roles families play in different cultures. That's pretty cool.
I LOVE this and the comments , also as a black woman myself ☺.
Caitlin has a great disposition on death and dying. She's extremely informative and knowledgeable about this subject. Caitlin should get an Oscar for her videos and performances. She's hardly dead-pan or stiff in her approach in explaining such a tough subject. It's really terrific! 😂🥃🚬👍
Cremation was around much longer than that. They just added the "wait until the person is dead" part.
Yup
Nah, that's apearantly is "arson" and the elderly couple across my street didn't appreciate my helpful and we'll meaning initiative to help them to get a cheap cremation. I've been told that it is a "felony". 🙄
@@theblackbaron4119 omfg
And I- oop
Pioneers like Sam Colt help with that "patience" part quite a lot. ;o)
I see Caitlin Doughty, I click like.
She is one of the few people who make 2020 just a little bit better.
You are the only person I've ever seen who makes death and things surrounding it rather, dare I say, hilarious. Even you sponsorship segment had me in stitches. Thank you for such morbid fun.
This was the BEST sponsor plug I've ever seen. Your dedication to the voice and the butter churning was top notch 😂
I bought ‘will my cat eat my eyeballs’ the other day and i’m almost finished it already! i actually couldn’t put it down, my parents are arguing about who gets to borrow it off me first 😂
Why don't they each get their own copies?! ;)
I have my name on the list for it at my local library! Can't wait!
@@amyshort5625 its so good my copy was signed
Omg I just realized this is on audible and since I never bother to cancel my sub I have have credits😂😂 happy birthday to me🙌🥰
EDIT AND SHE IS READING IT YASSSSS!!!
@@melodyhicks5810 🥳🤩 happy birthday 🤩🥳 hope you're enjoying the day in the best way possible, I turn 40 and my son turns 20 on the same day next week 🤯
When I saw the “Sizzler Restaurant “ pic, I laughed out loud!! You rule!!!! Your vids are the best!!!!
For the first time ever, I watched a sponser endorsement and actually thought it was a great addition to the video. I didn't even skip it. Nicely done.
“Cremation would preserve their beauty”
“Had the body privately slathered in herbs and spices”
“Symbolized the SEVEN planets”
This story is a lot, even before we get to the souvenir ashes.
well, pluto wasnt discovered until 1931. not sure about neptune, or maybe they didnt count earth
+
The Victorians were wild man
Some astrologers still believe that the classical 7 planets are the only relevant ones to influence us here :D
All I could think of was KFC's secret blend of 11 herbs and spices.
I did not get "churning butter" though I really should have XD My first assumption was you were Ol' Grammy Charon, ferrying the spirits of the dead.
I just thought she was rowing a boat; your idea is so much better. Someone write that movie!
I associate you with death and death mythologies so much that I thought you were rowing a boat like Charon, instead of churning butter! 🤣
Same!! She’d do well at that I think
Punting
David Bowie has a song partly involving "theosopy"
Knowledgeable and HYSTERICAL! You’re reallly good at what you do. I love it. Brought me cheer as I lie here with Covid & the cremains of my cat which were just returned. Turning an utterly crappy day into a rewarding learning experience. Thank you thank you!
Going down the "Victorians being terrified of getting buried alive" rabbit hole, I'd love to see you do a video on the many weird ways they tried to avoid waking up in a graveyard. Stuff like coffin bells and that sort of thing, or the bloke who made a coffin lid that would stab him when it was closed on him, just to be absolutely sure he was dead.
Yes. This, please!!!
She already did a few years back!
I believe she did a video on that a while back..🤔
@@moist_onions Ah, I must have missed it. Fair enough. I'll have to go check it out.
"I'm churning butter; that should be obvious." - Caitlin Doughty
And they say nothing good happened in 2020...
Creamery, crematorium, whatever...
@@yvellebradley2502 Creamatorium?
I thought she was sweeping the floor for some reason 😂
@@hanstun1 Drive-thru with the kids. See grandpa off, get ice cream afterwards...
@@marcye5469 I think we can all agree that this is Caitlin's first time churning butter. :)
Caitlin, could you look into Amy Archer-Gilligan. She ran the first nursing home in USA, and due to contemporary funeral practices, was able to kill her patients. So, was a serial killer, too.
Never heard of her, but I'm totally on board for mama Death to cover her. She sounds fascinating.
She was ahead of her time, now governors use corona patients to clear out the nursing homes!
Yep, a video on this would be pretty macabre. She ran the first for-profit nursing home, not the first nursing home, apparently
@@tocatafugue AH, definitely a difference. Thanks for letting me know. :-)
Upvoting because I want Caitlin to do a video, not because I approve of Ms. Amy's activities.
Rewatched this one after recommended in the My Girl video. Forgot how good the delivery and editing is on this one, on top of the wild subject matter!!
"... Slathered the body in herbs and spices...."
Anyone else think of Colonel Sanders at that point?
Just remember, when a body is cremated, there is a certain point where it is cooked perfectly!
Sounds fucking delicious tbh
No, no... It's just the way it's cooked!
.... Err, I mean cremated...
Then she brings out the chicken in the end of the video😂🐔
Mmmmm! I love KFC (Kentucky Fried Corpse)!!!
Unrelated: I often find myself randomly singing "BENTHAMS HEAD!" Thank you, Caitlin.
This. 😂
My university friends used to talk about Jeremy Bentham, his head and the varnished corpses he wanted to keep in his garden all the time and every time I hear the jingle it's like running into an old friend.
This! Or, "The Middle Ages were ma-giiiiic!"
Also “Kentucky Meat Shower” now
Happy Halloween fellow deathlings! 💀
To you also, my fellow deathusiast
Happy Halloween!
@@Lol-jt2tn no, I mean deathusiast, it's play on enthusiast but death style.
Happy Halloween to you too 🎃🎃
Happy Halloween
Those names be like the Gravity Falls TV gag:
*"Stay tuned for the Friday night movie, 'The Duchess Approves' starring Stirly Stembleburgiss as 'The Duchess' and Crampton St. Rumpterfrabble as a rascal, coxswain 'Saunterblugget Hampterfuppinshire'."*
Lol, just watched that episode yesterday!
"People just wouldn't stop dying" thats a big mood Boss Lady
I love how she always works really hard to make her sponsor's part of the video really entertaining. I actually look forward to seeing them.
That was the best ad for Great Courses Plus I've ever seen.
The ending bloopers are my favorite parts of your videos! Love your personality/humor!