How To *actually* REINVENT YOURSELF In 2024

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  • @sarah.j.777
    @sarah.j.777 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    omg you've got it.
    CHOOSE WISELY
    one wrong move or one wrong man can destroy your entire existence.

  • @borbalaequestrian1315
    @borbalaequestrian1315 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +89

    Vickita, I'm sure you've been told this before, but I believe you are an "old soul" As an attractive, well-preserved (look much younger) widow of 2 years in my mid 60's who was blindsided by his death, I enjoy watching your videos. I'm trying to navigate unfamiliar seas that I never expected, and your advice and know that your words of wisdom are very heartfelt. Superficial trends are for sheep and women need to stay true to themselves whether they choose to be the glamourous or organic look. You are a blessing and thank you for being so feminine yet a confident strong female of the younger generation who actually is proud of being a woman! You are wiser beyond your years! God bless you.

    • @tamitatangoto5134
      @tamitatangoto5134 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Hello,.. Just reading your message.
      I also lost the father of my five children, not quite two years ago.
      He and I had been married for almost 17 years.
      Dean Died suddenly and tragically in a hit-and-run.
      Him on a bicycle the woman in a car looking for an address to deliver food. SHE wasn't paying attention, she was driving too fast, distracted, she didn't see him.😢
      He did though, thank goodness, die nearly instantly. 😔 He flew 80 ft to his resting place,..💔🤢
      As you can imagine my five children have been devastated. 😭
      So I can relate to your loss definitely. And I am so sorry for YOUR LOSS 🥴😓
      On a more positive note, and the reason that I wrote you at all, is because I wanted to share with you My Hope to see Dean again in the future.
      The Message is bible-based and I will give you some scriptures to look up if you would like.
      Isaiah 26:19
      Acts 24:15
      John 5:28, 29 also 11:11 - 44
      Revelation 21:3, 4
      Also; in order to set up that this Resurrection will not happen in heaven but on the earth. These are additional scriptures. Psalm 37:9-11, 22, 27 - 29, 34
      Daniel 2:44
      Isaiah 9:6, 7
      John 17:3
      As you can see in chapter 37 of Psalm God will not bring these RESURRECTED ONES back to the Earth the same as it is now. It will be a CLEANSED EARTH. Cleansed of the Wicked and therefore more like God's original purpose for the Earth, which was to be a worldwide Paradise. (Genesis)
      I hope that you are receptive to my genuine concern for your situation having lost your husband.
      Days will be good again.
      🎉🎉❤❤
      God made all kinds of wonderful promises in HIS word the Bible. (Isaiah 55: 6 - 11)
      Sadly; so few people are now paying attention to those promises. Many people having put their Bible away in a drawer. And joining all the others that have left their moral standards behind..
      However; this is not the time to be doing that. We are living in a time period that the Bible calls "THE LAST DAYS." ( 2 Timothy 3:1~5)
      Some people may say that sounds depressing.😮
      The reality however is, that it is the last days for those that are wicked and ruining this planet.
      (Revelation 11: 18b)
      Sincerely TAMI 🙋🏼‍♀️💕😇~ ⚔️ PROVERBS 27: 17 ⚔️

    • @borbalaequestrian1315
      @borbalaequestrian1315 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@tamitatangoto5134 Thank you Tammi! May God bless AND comfort you and your beloved children! NO ONE gets being a widow! I'm sick of hearing " I lost my dad, sister etc..." You DO NOT say vows to your family or friends let alone sleep with them in them in the Biblical sense and have plans for the rest of your life! I know they mean well but it's only salt in the wounds! Thank you SO much! We WILL survive! God bless!

    • @hiannahgus574
      @hiannahgus574 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I, too, am a recent widow in my mid-60’s who is remaking herself. It’s not easy but it beats the alternative. Sending you positive vibes and love.

  • @CandyChantelle
    @CandyChantelle 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    The point about clothing is SO. TRUE. I hate my current approach to this - I will dress nicely to go hang out somewhere, and then dress down so I don't look what I think will be over the top. And THEN I get to my location and everyone else is dressing super nicely and it makes me feel all sorts of crap! I need to start getting self-assured about my gut choices in this area.

    • @VickitaTrivedi
      @VickitaTrivedi  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Absolutely you do! Don't let the fear of other peoples about what you wear ignore your gut instinct

    • @gaj30
      @gaj30 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      maybe you need to learn to be ok with the idea of being ‘over the top’ first. it’s ok if it happens. i love dressing up and i never care what anybody else will wear. just see it as being the best dressed :)

    • @CandyChantelle
      @CandyChantelle 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@gaj30 Love that way of looking at it!

  • @angeazze6667
    @angeazze6667 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    Scott made her 2nd best the other guy treats her as the 1. Thats why theres a huge difference between these 2 dynamics & the confidence she now has.

  • @FireBallBaby
    @FireBallBaby 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I love how you suggested 2 different routines bc a lot of times we give up bc of lack of time or energy & it throws everything off.

  • @018milliondollarbaby
    @018milliondollarbaby 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Omg I love your content! I'm 33 and you're totally a role model ❤

  • @dimitra-ThePaperLover
    @dimitra-ThePaperLover 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I'm new to your channel and in a process of rebuilding myself after loss and grief so I want to say a very big thank you my sister 🙏❤️🌻

  • @melissaw5626
    @melissaw5626 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Perfect timing!

  • @streetsubw2518
    @streetsubw2518 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I needed this!! Thankyou! I love you❤

  • @mypaintings2640
    @mypaintings2640 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    SHE BLESSED. ❤️✨

  • @perlaolivas1224
    @perlaolivas1224 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Best way to start my Sunday 😊❤

  • @rashmig6927
    @rashmig6927 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Yayy Vickita has posted🤩🤩what a way to start the week..my favourite TH-camr (among many other wonderful things you do) who changed my life!!

  • @Nocturnal_Lorena
    @Nocturnal_Lorena 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Omg same! I just reserve junk food for when aunt flow visits. I don't even feel like having it otherwise! This was so on point! Thank you!

  • @kmbrlia
    @kmbrlia 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you ♥️

  • @greciardz360
    @greciardz360 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thankyou so much Queen for your precious time, your beautiful energy and your wisdom full of light and positivity. 🙌🏻✨👑💫🧠💭

  • @allyypotter
    @allyypotter 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I want to listen to you even when i'm sleeping! ❤ Thank you for sharing these wise words

  • @jabamii
    @jabamii 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is so empowering and enlightening. Surely gonna work on my feminine energy and balance out the rest❤
    Thank you 🌸

  • @ferraaaa
    @ferraaaa 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She deserves millions of followers 🌸✨

    • @VickitaTrivedi
      @VickitaTrivedi  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Manifesting it 😌❤️

  • @anushkagupta8155
    @anushkagupta8155 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She'll really helpful I swear

  • @WearItMilano
    @WearItMilano 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    i'm a personal stylist and I couldn't agree with you more. 👏

  • @HealthyMind1111
    @HealthyMind1111 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Definitely a great role model ❤

  • @smilesallround
    @smilesallround 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for making this video, I love your channel so much! You're fantastic 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿✨

  • @marygracemaglasang2394
    @marygracemaglasang2394 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank yoou ❤❤❤

  • @shalininarayan1910
    @shalininarayan1910 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You give off very powerful energy i love that

  • @Greekhistoryyy
    @Greekhistoryyy 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Just my opinion i think if you have good money from your job or your parents are rich.. physical glow up is just the matter of time.

  • @TheBlackExotical
    @TheBlackExotical 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Definitely receive better treatment because I always put myself together when I leave the house. People typically are more trusting of those who look good, so it works in my favour.

  • @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
    @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Teach🎓❤

  • @Leila550
    @Leila550 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I think my biggest issue is the inner circle part - like, I’ve REALLY whittled down, and I struggled with loneliness to begin with. Obviously I’m making strides into spaces and communities where I hope to make new, higher value, more aligned friendships but after a certain age, as a woman, it does become more and more difficult (especially as others pair off and have children). If anyone has any experiences to share on how they navigated this transition with friends/aloneness while leveling up, I’m super curious to hear about it! My husband is great and my best friend but he can’t be my everything as I go through this process 😆

    • @monikabennett
      @monikabennett 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s super easy after having a baby. Women are “dying” for friendships

    • @Leila550
      @Leila550 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@monikabennett That hasn’t been my experience. In every instance when a friend has a baby they legit disappear until all of their kids are over the age of 3. It’s like an impending friendship death every time there’s a pregnancy 😒

    • @monikabennett
      @monikabennett 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Leila550 I mean …. Having a child. Not your friend having a child.

    • @Leila550
      @Leila550 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@monikabennett soooo not everyone wants to have or is able to have children….

    • @monikabennett
      @monikabennett 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Leila550 k. That clearly that advice is not meant for you. Just…not saying anything, realizing itdoesn’t apply to you, is discernment. All the best!

  • @krystalgarcia3397
    @krystalgarcia3397 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You are a wonderful and wise woman Vickita❤ thank you for being here!

  • @00allison00
    @00allison00 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I get so much value from your videos, thank you!

  • @Ilana61
    @Ilana61 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for mentioning sexy pajamas 😭 literally that's my biggest problem

  • @alejandragalvan2086
    @alejandragalvan2086 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love getting ready for bed. Matching pajamas make me feel so good 🥰

  • @erikasolis14
    @erikasolis14 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You look 🔥 fire! You've always looked great but there's something different.. something elevated about your look. Great example of embodiment!

    • @VickitaTrivedi
      @VickitaTrivedi  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      i darkened my hair a bit, maybe that could be it?! either way thanks chickk!!!❤

  • @mauna-gray
    @mauna-gray 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Vickita please make a video on how to end things whether it's with a friend or a romantic partner

  • @Pausolis235
    @Pausolis235 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    LOVE LOVE your video Vickita your context is very self explained TY for the tips!!

  • @moquinn1235
    @moquinn1235 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Girl where do you shop for your clothes!?

  • @HowdiBegum
    @HowdiBegum 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How do I apply this to a long term marriage

  • @whileblueberrysleeps2993
    @whileblueberrysleeps2993 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thank you so much for this message. This is gold. Do you have any recommendation for dressing up if you are currently broke and having to work on creating money as well?

    • @lesleymay6757
      @lesleymay6757 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Look at goodwill and other thrift stores. They often have name brands, but you don't need logos. Just good materials, good cut fabrics. Iron or steam if you must to unwrinkle. Groom yourself well. ELF has decent and cheaper makeup. Drink water. All these things can help elevate your look:)

    • @whileblueberrysleeps2993
      @whileblueberrysleeps2993 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@lesleymay6757 thank you for your great ideas ❤️

    • @pinkchilldivestmentor
      @pinkchilldivestmentor 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      3:27 👏🏾no pj’s or bonnets outside the house

    • @hiannahgus574
      @hiannahgus574 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I agree with the suggestions for Goodwill and Savers. Go to ones in or near wealthier towns/cities. I buy my designer and Talbots/Banana Republic/J.Crew/LL Bean clothing at those stores, many times they are new and donated by the stores, or by someone who bought it and didn’t wear it. Make sure your grooming is impeccable. Do your own nails and skin care. Pay for haircuts. You don’t have to spend a lot to look like you do! I’d rather make me rich than someone else!

  • @nt4660
    @nt4660 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Omg where is your top coming from?

  • @bubblesnsugar
    @bubblesnsugar 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How do I embody divine feminine energy while I play masculine sports like MMA?

    • @VickitaTrivedi
      @VickitaTrivedi  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You can channel your masculine energy into MMA and then drop back into your feminine the rest of the time 😀

  • @heliahamidi9088
    @heliahamidi9088 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤

  • @LiaBunny93
    @LiaBunny93 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i'm on my cycle and i'm so moody and hormonal

  • @sarrakerrad2476
    @sarrakerrad2476 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jlina
    @jlina 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    huh... I really enjoy cut offs and a t-shirt at 65 maybe I have outgrown the need to convince myself I'm beautiful with my clothes??

  • @Nare1313
    @Nare1313 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Girlies help I started attracting men that are in a relationship and they act single. How do I stop it like I’m tired of them and when I ask if they do they lie and say they’re single..it’s making me to not trust men even tho I know there are a lot of amazing high value men…..But These types of dudes that acts single giving me trust issues

    • @SirRegenerator
      @SirRegenerator 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Not sure but I would suggest to look where you meet them. Is it online or a certain type of place? Maybe get help from friends or loved ones to set you up so that at least they know this person on some level to ensure they are single.

    • @alibrasworld
      @alibrasworld 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You can’t truly control who you attract. You could hold yourself to the highest standards and bums will still approach you because they have all the audacity in the world. The only thing you have control over is who you choose to entertain… so if you see low value behavior walking away is all you can do.

    • @Nare1313
      @Nare1313 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@alibrasworld Yes i always block delete straight way i dont give them Access to me once i find out. But I’m just shocked that I suddenly attract them so much this month already a third guy like that 😓

    • @vtomc
      @vtomc 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This is going to sound strange but have you tried posting pictures of yourself dressed elegantly? That’s usually a dusty repellant because it shows a level of dignity and self respect. Means they will have to work for your affection, meaning they won’t have time because the wife also needs attention. So they’ll scroll on to the ones that look cheap and available to party…
      Just my two cents :)

    • @Nare1313
      @Nare1313 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@vtomc Yes im very elegant good looking woman with high standards. And still the dusties they try ☠️☠️😂😂

  • @sonad490
    @sonad490 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    🥉 thirrrrd

  • @francescaappennini8469
    @francescaappennini8469 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I know many childish women that are 40 or 50 years old 😅 now i can undestand why they are so annoing for me 😂

  • @V_Solomon_M2177
    @V_Solomon_M2177 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes, my Ex.

  • @bloom7204
    @bloom7204 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Fiiiiiiirst 😂

  • @pinkchanelgirl5
    @pinkchanelgirl5 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really like your video but this “chefs kiss” expression is really really annoying. It’s not very elegant

  • @HeiserPoalino
    @HeiserPoalino 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The website link for the higher quality replicas is *suluxs* . Do you have another?

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