I've struggled with this for years and I didn't know what it was called. The sad part is, is that on the outside you can appear to be "holy" but on the inside you're chronically worrying
I was officially diagnosed with OCD several years ago. Scrupulosity is one of my main problems. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. It flares up when I'm on vacation from work for more than a few days. Talk therapy with my psychologist helped a lot. You've got to stick with it though. The following helps me a lot: 1. Maintain an active daily work / life routine. 2. Try to avoid time off work. 3. Maintain regular talk therapy sessions with your psychologist. 4. Find other people with scrupulosity OCD to connect with (I haven't tried this yet but am planning to, as it seems like it would help). Thank you Dr for this awesome video ❤️❤️❤️
On a recent podcast I spoke for almost an hour with a caller who suffers with this. She was very grateful to learn of "the word of reconciliation" found in 2 Corinthians 5:19: "To wit, that God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation." So the sins that many are repeatedly and obsessively asking God to forgive, are not even being imputed. -Just something to consider. Grace and Peace.
I'm not officially diagnosed but I can relate to every single word in this video... Guilt, shame, self-punishment... All of this is so familiar to me. I think my perception of morality is much more strict and idealistic than that of other people. Too many of the things that people consider "normal", seem absolutely unacceptable to me. For example, I can't stand anything related to sex. Movie sex scenes or sex-related jokes... I hate them. And I'm not sure why... I mean, I know that I'm antisexual. Beyond a shadow of a doubt. But I'm not sure if I'm also asexual or I'm just a celibate suffering from Moral Scrupulosity OCD. Maybe I'm just sexual in denial. I can't figure it out... But anyway, thanks for this great video! It was very helpful. ☺️💖
@PRAY THE ROSARY EVERYDAY 🌹 Oh... That sounds torturous. I'm sorry for you. 🥺😓 I'm not exactly religious, I prefer to call it spiritual. I also have some very strict moral values and rules, but they are not connected to any particular religion. They are my own. But I know what you mean. Sometimes staying at home by yourself can be terrifying... Our thoughts can be scary, I realize that. I know what's like to be full of self-doubt and to hate yourself. But judging by your words, I think you're feeling worse than me. And I'm sorry about that. Honestly... 😢 OCD can easily make us loathe ourselves. But I'm sure you're much more pure and innocent than 99% of the people, who are never feeling guilty about anything...although they should if you ask me. 😒🤷♀️ So maybe you shouldn't be so hard on yourself...! 💖💗♥️ Just don't listen to these thoughts. Don't try to argue with them. I've tried it so many times and it's absolutely pointless. Let them tell you whatever they want. But don't pay too much attention to them. I know it's easier said than done, but that's the only way out, I suppose. 💝
Thank you for this video. It’s good that you’ve listed all of these compulsions; I resonate with a lot of them. However, I would like to know what is the underlying reason for these compulsions? What is the cause?
I developed OCD in 2021. Sometimes I felt something bad will happen to me If i don't wash some dishes in the kitchen, if I go to sleep without taking a bath. The origin of this is that I'm obsessed with the sin of lazyness. In 2021 this pushed me to be busy and anxious all the week doing things, this push me to be perfectionist. Now in 2023 I have problems with anxiety, insomnia and social media adiction. I felt guilt and regret because I'm deal with unhealthy habits and scared of God judment to me. At this moment I got really well and I fight the battle of my mind with the Bible. Some books that help me are Job, Esther, the books of the prophets, The four Gospels and books written by Paul apostle.
This was very good. I have OCD, and some of it might be scrupulosity, but I don't think that's the biggest part of my OCD. And though religious, I don't think I have real religious OCD. I don't worry about blasphemy and that sort of thing. But this does give me something to think about.
Jesus said Himself somethings Will only go by Fasting and Prayer. Fast and pray for deliverance. You might not believe in these things But Anything Good is better then Nothing Please Just Try 🙏🏼 ❤️🌈
Before I was properly medicated I prayed for forgiveness and salvation every single day. The only thing that changed was that prayer became a compulsion. It is PART of my OCD. I didn’t go a single minute without asking for forgiveness and salvation. It consumed my life. What helped was medication and walking away from my faith. Don’t try push prayer as a solution onto people who have religious OCD. That’s like saying the only thing that can put out a fire is gasoline.
A lot of Christian’s told me it was demons but some said OCD. I got tired of wondering which one it’s is so I asked God himself and he told me it was OCD. I prayed and asked him if it was OCD to show me a lime green car or if it was a demon/ Satan to show me a pink car. The next day on my way to church I saw 2 lime green cars! God is good and he answered my prayer 🤍✝️🕊️
I cannot find this info, but can a scrupulous person be controlling toward his/her loved ones, worrying about their spiritual well-being, trying to make them participate in excessive rituals or unnecessary rules, even if those loved ones are also religious?
God ji help me too please 🙏🙏 I don't know why but for some days from morning till evening it comes in my mind that suicide is a good job and you will be happy with me, somewhat I know committing suicide is wrong. You gave me 99% in 10th class but i don't know why i was afraid of that .I thought that I have done something wrong by getting these marks and you will not punish me... please help doctor please 🙏🙏 Doctor I have a lot of interest in biology but now whenever I use to study I think it's bad thing as I am studying those things which scientists have first killed them and then studied them and studying such things is not god and after my death god is going to punish me Before doing anything I always think whether I task am doing is right or wrong whether the god is going to praise me or going to punish me even these days I am thinking whether studying is right or not . Doctor 2 to 3 months back I used to study for more than 12 hours but now it's all messed up Please help Suicidal thoughts are stricking my mind that after doing this god will be very happy Mam please help I am from India and I am a Hindu .I am 16 years old and currently I am in class 11 Please help me Mam please I need your help 🙏🙏🙏
Hey it’s okay it’s okay, these are called intrusive thoughts, THEY ARENT THE TRUTH , they aren’t your thoughts or God’s, what’s happening is your brain realizes that these thoughts make you uncomfortable so they cling to it, ITS NOT REAL 🧡please text me if you have any questions
@@4ngel_cc hi thanks I was alright for more than a month but now again it starts and now it's now like I think on doing bad thing god will be happy with me otherwise he will punish me after my death and I know oneday I have to die and these thoughts are just ..... 😭😭 I can't believe that these thoughts are mine 😭😭
Bhagwan ji meri bhi madt karo please 🙏🙏 Pta nhi kyu pr kuch dino se mere dimaag me subah se shaam tak yahi aata hai ki suicide karna acha kaam hai Aur aap mujhse khush hoge Mujhe kahi na pta hai ki suicide karna galat hai pr pta nhi kyu 😔😔Bhagwan ji aap ne mujhe 10 th class me 99%diye pr pta nhi kyu mujhe dar lg rha tha ki kahi itne marks lake maine kuch galat toh nhi kiya aap mujhe kuch punishment toh nhi doge ... please help 🥺🥺
*Please don't give a like notification; I only seek replies* So with OCD, you can view your mistakes or misdeeds as ten-times worse than they really are? Let's use a TV dad as an example. In Boy Meets World, the dad occasionally lightly swats his sons on the head. As an OCD, am I writing it off as black and white?
I've struggled with this for years and I didn't know what it was called. The sad part is, is that on the outside you can appear to be "holy" but on the inside you're chronically worrying
I was officially diagnosed with OCD several years ago. Scrupulosity is one of my main problems. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. It flares up when I'm on vacation from work for more than a few days. Talk therapy with my psychologist helped a lot. You've got to stick with it though. The following helps me a lot:
1. Maintain an active daily work / life routine.
2. Try to avoid time off work.
3. Maintain regular talk therapy sessions with your psychologist.
4. Find other people with scrupulosity OCD to connect with (I haven't tried this yet but am planning to, as it seems like it would help).
Thank you Dr for this awesome video ❤️❤️❤️
On a recent podcast I spoke for almost an hour with a caller who suffers with this. She was very grateful to learn of "the word of reconciliation" found in 2 Corinthians 5:19: "To wit, that God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation."
So the sins that many are repeatedly and obsessively asking God to forgive, are not even being imputed.
-Just something to consider.
Grace and Peace.
I'm not officially diagnosed but I can relate to every single word in this video... Guilt, shame, self-punishment... All of this is so familiar to me. I think my perception of morality is much more strict and idealistic than that of other people. Too many of the things that people consider "normal", seem absolutely unacceptable to me. For example, I can't stand anything related to sex. Movie sex scenes or sex-related jokes... I hate them. And I'm not sure why... I mean, I know that I'm antisexual. Beyond a shadow of a doubt. But I'm not sure if I'm also asexual or I'm just a celibate suffering from Moral Scrupulosity OCD. Maybe I'm just sexual in denial. I can't figure it out... But anyway, thanks for this great video! It was very helpful. ☺️💖
@PRAY THE ROSARY EVERYDAY 🌹
I'm very happy that someone can relate to my feelings. It doesn't happen often. 🙏♥️🙃
@PRAY THE ROSARY EVERYDAY 🌹
Oh... That sounds torturous. I'm sorry for you. 🥺😓 I'm not exactly religious, I prefer to call it spiritual. I also have some very strict moral values and rules, but they are not connected to any particular religion. They are my own. But I know what you mean. Sometimes staying at home by yourself can be terrifying... Our thoughts can be scary, I realize that. I know what's like to be full of self-doubt and to hate yourself. But judging by your words, I think you're feeling worse than me. And I'm sorry about that. Honestly... 😢 OCD can easily make us loathe ourselves. But I'm sure you're much more pure and innocent than 99% of the people, who are never feeling guilty about anything...although they should if you ask me. 😒🤷♀️
So maybe you shouldn't be so hard on yourself...! 💖💗♥️
Just don't listen to these thoughts. Don't try to argue with them. I've tried it so many times and it's absolutely pointless. Let them tell you whatever they want. But don't pay too much attention to them. I know it's easier said than done, but that's the only way out, I suppose. 💝
Thank you for this video. It’s good that you’ve listed all of these compulsions; I resonate with a lot of them. However, I would like to know what is the underlying reason for these compulsions? What is the cause?
I developed OCD in 2021. Sometimes I felt something bad will happen to me If i don't wash some dishes in the kitchen, if I go to sleep without taking a bath. The origin of this is that I'm obsessed with the sin of lazyness. In 2021 this pushed me to be busy and anxious all the week doing things, this push me to be perfectionist. Now in 2023 I have problems with anxiety, insomnia and social media adiction. I felt guilt and regret because I'm deal with unhealthy habits and scared of God judment to me. At this moment I got really well and I fight the battle of my mind with the Bible. Some books that help me are Job, Esther, the books of the prophets, The four Gospels and books written by Paul apostle.
This was very good. I have OCD, and some of it might be scrupulosity, but I don't think that's the biggest part of my OCD. And though religious, I don't think I have real religious OCD. I don't worry about blasphemy and that sort of thing. But this does give me something to think about.
Interesting, thanks
I love this and want to hear more thank you
Jesus said Himself somethings Will only go by Fasting and Prayer. Fast and pray for deliverance. You might not believe in these things But Anything Good is better then Nothing Please Just Try 🙏🏼 ❤️🌈
Before I was properly medicated I prayed for forgiveness and salvation every single day. The only thing that changed was that prayer became a compulsion. It is PART of my OCD. I didn’t go a single minute without asking for forgiveness and salvation. It consumed my life. What helped was medication and walking away from my faith. Don’t try push prayer as a solution onto people who have religious OCD. That’s like saying the only thing that can put out a fire is gasoline.
A lot of Christian’s told me it was demons but some said OCD. I got tired of wondering which one it’s is so I asked God himself and he told me it was OCD. I prayed and asked him if it was OCD to show me a lime green car or if it was a demon/ Satan to show me a pink car. The next day on my way to church I saw 2 lime green cars! God is good and he answered my prayer 🤍✝️🕊️
Don’t push this agenda onto ppl with ocd.
No. He said these, meaning demons, only come out by prayer and fasting. So are you saying ocd is demon possession?
I cannot find this info, but can a scrupulous person be controlling toward his/her loved ones, worrying about their spiritual well-being, trying to make them participate in excessive rituals or unnecessary rules, even if those loved ones are also religious?
What about people who obsess about actual sins that they actually committed.
Look into real event ocd.
God forgives us
@@silencio1234 Thanks
God ji help me too please 🙏🙏 I don't know why but for some days from morning till evening it comes in my mind that suicide is a good job and you will be happy with me, somewhat I know committing suicide is wrong. You gave me 99% in 10th class but i don't know why i was afraid of that .I thought that I have done something wrong by getting these marks and you will not punish me... please help doctor please 🙏🙏
Doctor I have a lot of interest in biology but now whenever I use to study I think it's bad thing as I am studying those things which scientists have first killed them and then studied them and studying such things is not god and after my death god is going to punish me
Before doing anything I always think whether I task am doing is right or wrong whether the god is going to praise me or going to punish me even these days I am thinking whether studying is right or not . Doctor 2 to 3 months back I used to study for more than 12 hours but now it's all messed up
Please help
Suicidal thoughts are stricking my mind that after doing this god will be very happy
Mam please help I am from India and I am a Hindu .I am 16 years old and currently I am in class 11
Please help me Mam please I need your help 🙏🙏🙏
Why u think getting 99 percent was wrong
Why u think that God wants u too die
Hey it’s okay it’s okay, these are called intrusive thoughts, THEY ARENT THE TRUTH , they aren’t your thoughts or God’s, what’s happening is your brain realizes that these thoughts make you uncomfortable so they cling to it, ITS NOT REAL 🧡please text me if you have any questions
@@4ngel_cc hi thanks
I was alright for more than a month but now again it starts and now it's now like I think on doing bad thing god will be happy with me otherwise he will punish me after my death and I know oneday I have to die and these thoughts are just ..... 😭😭
I can't believe that these thoughts are mine 😭😭
Hey, are you okay? Wanna talk?
My CPN and support workers had to tell me I am not a bad person after they read my note.
Bhagwan ji meri bhi madt karo please 🙏🙏 Pta nhi kyu pr kuch dino se mere dimaag me subah se shaam tak yahi aata hai ki suicide karna acha kaam hai Aur aap mujhse khush hoge Mujhe kahi na pta hai ki suicide karna galat hai pr pta nhi kyu 😔😔Bhagwan ji aap ne mujhe 10 th class me 99%diye pr pta nhi kyu mujhe dar lg rha tha ki kahi itne marks lake maine kuch galat toh nhi kiya aap mujhe kuch punishment toh nhi doge ... please help 🥺🥺
May God Bless You😇🙏🏻
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So with OCD, you can view your mistakes or misdeeds as ten-times worse than they really are? Let's use a TV dad as an example. In Boy Meets World, the dad occasionally lightly swats his sons on the head. As an OCD, am I writing it off as black and white?
You're video ressembles a very bad advice.