I mean people can be effected by their mental health problems even if their relationship is fine. She experienced lots of trauma, breakups, and death in the past
Amen. I got into a relationship in my 20’s with a nice guy but I knew deep down it wasn’t going to work. Long story short, the break up really messed up my self esteem and I did not eat. I just couldn’t no matter how much I tried. The weird thing was that I had so many compliments on my “weight loss” and my built was never needing to lose weight to begin with 🥴
Ariana's readings are always so sad. She has so much trauma and PTSD she hasn't healed from. On top of the fact that she has self confidence and identity issues while also trying to please her partner. She'd be in a healthier place if she finally prioritized herself and worked on healing. A relationship shouldn't have you stressed out and anxious all the time.
I always feel weird whenever I listen to her song "Six Thirty" and hear her singing: "Act so possessive and crazy, but I know that's just causе you love me". I feel like she might gravitate toward possessiveness and jealousy... I only wish her happiness. Good read as always Ant, love you ❤
Also the next lines of “Maybe that’s just how it’s supposed to be. I’m the release you’re the dopamine” like he uses her as a release of his emotions and she gets happiness out of making him happy like a true people pleaser.
It’s so eerie how the initial reading was him love bombing her and pushing her to go after opportunities. It’s scary to see how love can be tainted and turn toxic. Also I feel like people talking about her appearance weren’t being intentionally malice I think they were genuinely concerned. I know talking about bodies is a slippery slope but it I hope she knows no one is fronting on her.
I feel that. that she forces this marriage so that it doesn't fail, she doesn't want to fail, so she will force a lot. I don't feel like it's going to be by now, after the movie is over, soon that this is going to end. either she will get very tired and say enough, or dalton will say enough
It’s interesting on a psychological level how Ariana and Taylor chose to be with men who want them to have a traditional female role. They both are career driven and massively successful and I think they need partners who can accept their lifestyle. I like the contrast of a celebrity being with a non celebrity because it’s humbling, but at the same time it feels like a struggle.
Ye but when it's a celeb-celeb couple it's either PR or doomed to fail too. I think careers that involve fame is a trade for smth else serious. But hey we've always said fame and fortune comes w a price...
Subconscious conditioning... I am very freedom-oriented and will literally start to suffocate if anyone tries to bind me, but I always went for "traditional" relationships that kept me small.. Cz that was what the idea of real romance was when and where I grew up.. So there was so much subconscious conditioning.. I stopped everything and focused on healing myself.. I am still healing and I am happy now.. I realized i don't even care about romantic relationships.. It was just my conditioning to "need a man".
I think it’s healthier for a celebrity to marry another celebrity. Otherwise she'll always feel guilty for bringing so much attention, paparazzi, and lack of normalcy in his life. And at some point he'll get overwhelmed by her fame too.
@@alyponk5016 I agree! A celebrity couple are equals who understand each other. A celebrity and a non celebrity relationship creates an imbalance I feel.
Speaking from experience, once you’ve been through one toxic relationship, it’s quite hard to fall into a “normal” one. Sure you might avoid some of the signs of toxicity in the future, but you also get bored with vanilla relationships because they don’t cause any excitement, good or bad. It’s so hard to find someone that peaks your adrenaline in a good way and everyone else is just boring. Toxicity can be an addiction to someone who needs extremes to feel joy or ANYTHING.
Makes sense. I used to be attracted to guys that make me overthink or doubt myself. I thought the adrenaline and anxiety was “love” because it felt exciting. I only realized later on that this type of dynamic is toxic and that the love I need is peaceful and stable.
@@quinnm.3127 I mean I’ve forced myself to try to be in “normal” relationships but I got bored so I didn’t “fall” for them. I didn’t mean “fall” like it was an accident, I meant it like falling in love.
There’s nothing more exhausting than constantly trying to make yourself smaller to avoid someone’s rage, and in the case of someone like Ariana Grande I could see this situation making her physically ill if he’s making her choose between him and her work. I was in those kinds of relationships for years and in the end I was so torn between trying to please a jealous angry partner and run my business successfully my health absolutely imploded. I think there’s a lesson in this reading for everyone - if someone makes you so cowed that you can’t be your authentic self with them, and then they stop respecting you because the fear they’ve instilled in you means you can’t be your authentic self around them, even if it hasn’t turned physical, it’s pretty awful emotional abuse and it’s unlikely to get better. I hope she gets out, honestly - it took me getting cancer to realise life is far too short to be in a constant state of stress, anxiety and never feeling good enough. I’m only going by this reading though so apologies if there are loads of Daltiana fans out there!
@@oliviajudd3613 thank you, that’s it! And no of course I wouldn’t have minded answering you @abbied if Olivia hadn’t already - it’s possibly a word that’s more in use in the U.K. where I am ❤️
@@WRLDofHRT thank you for putting forward such a beautifully worded TH-cam comment. It's not everyday you come across such a thoughtful and empathetic comment on TH-cam (or the internet in general, really). I'll admit, I just Googled the word cuz I'd never heard it myself. And I agree with you in regards to there "being a lesson in this reading for everyone" I recently was broken up with from a long term relationship and as they say, hindsight is 20-20. Looking back, I realize how desperate I was to please my partner that, as you stated perfectly, I was in a constant state of anxiety and never felt like just being myself was enough. I appreciate your wording because it hit home. ❤️
@@oliviajudd3613 awww thank you so much for your kind words. I’m so sorry you went through that. My teens, 20s and 30s were punctuated by either relationships with people who were totally emotionally unavailable and made me feel invisible, or smothering, possessive, abusive, can’t live with you, can’t live without you type relationships. Hindsight really is 20/20 as you say… I don’t want to scare anyone but while I don’t specifically “blame” any of my former partners for my illnesses, I do believe the stress of almost 3 decades of putting myself through that, in the search for love and approval I was never going to get (this is how we relive our childhood abandonments again and again in the hope of a happy ending,) caused me to end up quite severely disabled with quite a few debilitating and incurable illnesses. I used to be the life and soul of the party but I used to shrink and disappear with every successive relationship. While I’m in a state of acceptance with my life (and ironically, the beautiful and harmonious relationship I have now for the first time,) I do obviously wish I hadn’t put my body through so much. Every time we swallow our pain, pretend to be cool with something we’re not, allow ourselves to be spoken to like nothing because we’re too scared to get up and run… all those kind of things build a little map of internalised hurts, unshed tears and unhealed traumas in our body. In the end the sheer adrenal burnout of living like that while trying to spin all the plates of having a career while giving them the attention they demand, plus mundane things like keeping the house beautiful, cooking, etc, is just too much for a woman or a person with a more feminine energy to withstand. Eventually, I’m sorry to say, you may think you’ll always get up and carry on again but sometimes, like me, you actually don’t ever get up again. I have learned a lot but as the Chinese proverb says, wisdom is a comb we are given only when we are bald 😄😄😄! If anyone makes you laugh a little quieter, makes your circle of friends and family a little smaller, makes you “dumb yourself down,” takes up almost every bit of spare time you have, expects you to do the impossible and makes you feel guilty if you can’t, makes your thought processes a lot less clear, makes you do things out of fear and obligation rather than love, and along with all that, makes you feel like you have battery acid running through your veins every time they’re angry or keeping you on a tightrope of having to keep them happy because they can’t regulate their own emotions, it really is time to fight for your own life and find a way of slowly getting to safety the best way you can. Remember you are beautiful and amazing and unique exactly as you are, and instead of allowing someone to push you into seeking their approval or firefighting their anger, sit and write a list of what you really really want in a partner. Sorry for the super long reply, but I actually cried when I did that for the first time online dating in lockdown, because I realised I’d always gone with the flow and actually NEVER once thought about what I wanted or felt safe to truly be myself. There is so much light at the end of the tunnel when you know that being yourself is enough and there’s someone out there who will adore you for all your quirks and ways in which you are not like anyone else - instead of trying to mould you into their slave. I wish I hadn’t had to pay with my health, but I still wouldn’t go backwards- we all have our life lessons to learn and I think that’s one of the biggest ones of all if you haven’t grown up with praise and approval in your earliest years. But you can do it! Hold out for someone who truly deserves you and just remember, if you have a kind heart and don’t get off on the suffering of others, it means there are thousands of other people, male and female, who also have the same kind of heart as you. I pray 🙏🏼 that you find them and live a life of happiness, connection and realness. It took me til my 40s but you can do it. Sending many blessings your way - you sound really lovely 😇🙏🏼❤️
Ant doesn't realize he's describing Dalton as the textbook power/control abusive man. (Doesn't have to be physical abuse). The initial love bombing and attentiveness, turns into something completely different over time. Her walking on eggshells and wanting to please is part of the cycle. Women often carry shame of admitting they ended up in this type of relationship. She may not even fully realize yet. I hope she gets out, because patterns dont change.
Idk. Because men like that loves to keep women on their toes. People who lacks self-love are easier to control. And Dalton seems the opposite. He's frustrated that she's meek unlike when they first met. I was in a relationship like this. I was like Ari. I obsessed with my ex leaving so I gave in to him everytime. Which was opposite of me since I was the dominant one when we started dating. He broke up with me because he felt guilty & frustrated that he changed me. That I became insecure and always prioritize him. I respect my ex because of that but I'm still piss that he ghosted me. And never once he controlled me or abusive to me. But he is possessive and gets insecure when I'm close to my friends but he never isolated me tho. It was my choice to isolate myself. Because at that time I want to keep my relationship to myself first. And they also don't get along bc they don't have shared interest.
@@kokopium1530 When you said “And they also don’t get along bc they don’t have shared interest.” are you referring to Ariana and Dalton here ig or not? (Was just checking that’s all thanks) 👍🏻👌🏻😌💕
@@anniec6420 yes! Even the quick engagement/marriage is a textbook marker of power/control abuse. I have personal experience also. Eerily similar, but that's because there's a formula to it.
I def think she’s having a Black Swan moment putting her all into these movies. She’s a known workaholic especially when things are tough in her personal life. Miley Cyrus said something once to the effect of that when you’re super famous and everyone bows to you, you’re more likely to be attracted to people who treat you like you’re less than. And on the jealousy tip she said in one of her songs he acts “possessive and crazy, but I know it’s just cuz you love me” I get “authoritative dad” energy from him.
yeah, they only knew each other, for 1 year or a few months, then they got engaged in a relationship for also 1 year or months and soon after a wedding? this is not good because you barely know this person. but she loves to rush things and it's very emotional, she even talks about it in tun
A lot of psychics predict that she will get married multiple times throughout her life. I think that she is so sensitive and falls for people very fast. I definitely think she is not eating as much and over working herself. Money does not buy everything, and I feel so bad for her because I know she’s extremely sensitive.
The word for extremely sensitive is hypersensitive tho (just trying to help you out/just trying to help you out in case you didn’t know this that’s all but otherwise I agree/agree with everything else/else you said/had said/mentioned about Ariana before) 👍🏻👌🏻😌💕
I'm a huge Ari fan and I have NEVER shamed her for her petite body type, but I have been getting so annoyed over the last month that everyone attacks you when you say she's lost way too much weight. SHE'S LOST WAY TOO MUCH WEIGHT! She's not just her skinny self, she looks unhealthy and anyone who thinks this is her natural look is delusional. This is not healthy! And Ari has always been very outspoken about self-care, wellness, setting a healthy example, so I DO think we can say this! Something is off!
Exactly. The problem is that she and all her die hard teenage fans are saying she's healthy now, and wasn't before, when she was "getting calories from drinking".. And acting like veganism is a diet consisting of 0 calories per meal. When she knows damn well how much influence she has, and how the Hollywood body standards for women is giving girls and women eating disorders left and right. She could say "I'm okay, I'm working on projects I'm happy about, I'm happy that I'm sober, but I have lost weight and am too underweight atm, don't try to achieve this look yourself, but also don't worry, I'm aware of it and working on it". But no, she says "I've never been healthier than now, I was very unhealthy before", indicating that she was somehow unhealthily overweight or something, since the weight is what's being addressed.. Not her alcohol or drug use. If she has reasons to keep any reasons private, that's understandable.. That's reality sometimes. But she could try to rephrase it a bit, and if the fans could stop being delusional on her behalf, that'd be great.. If she's in denial, that's a sign of an even bigger problem though.
yes! and i hate the people who don’t want anyone speculating because “she already addressed it and said she’s fine!!1!1!!”.. puhlease.. as if she would publicly admit she’s having health issues and her relationship is going to shit 🙄. people are worried and while it’s not okay to make fun of her or shame her in any way, everyone can see something’s going on
@@Hordinx I'm skinny myself and always have been, always hear unnecessary comments on my body . And I can tell you, nobody here is skinny shaming her. And the concern is valid. We have to be realistic.
"Switchin' the positions for you Cookin' in the kitchen, and I'm in the bedroom I'm in the Olympics, way I'm jumpin' through hoops Know my love infinite, nothin' I wouldn't do" she told us she would do anything for her partner, including switching up everything about herself
you saying that she doesnt know who she is anymore makes alot of sense. I have never gotten a clear sense of who Ariana really is, like who are you really?? It is like she has been in the industri for so long, where she has focused on who she should be and how to behave to stay relevant and be successful, and has lost the sense of who she really is in the prosess of accomplishing her dreams. Hopefully she will find strength in herself and figure out who she is! great reading as always!!
I feel like a lot of these young celebrities think it’s really cute to have young families and get married, young and then act so surprised when they lose themselves or feel overwhelmed, or or the honeymoon period ends like what were you thinking they see this in so quickly. This isn’t surprising at all that I don’t even follow Ariana that much, but this isn’t shocking to me to hear.
"i'll deal with all of this once i finish filming" OMG then the strike hit. the one thing that was bringing her joy was taken away from her so she was stuck in this place of not knowing when the filming would continue (still is) and not wanting to deal with everything and it led to divorce. that is so sad, it must have been such a dark place.
But also taking into account how being the “prize” makes you easy to exploit. I don’t doubt there are people who either, try to keep her small out of jealousy, or manipulate her to spread herself thin and keep a check through her…
I feel like this happens to a lot of women with careers . Women with big careers that are attracted to and with very traditionally masculine dominant men end up having failed marriages because those men want the woman to stay home and have children have a more traditional lifestyle while the career is on the back burner or completely tossed out . Many career driven women should be with more relaxed feminine energy men , I’ve seen this happen countless times .it’s a matter of wanting something that just doesn’t suit your energy and life path ,being a more submissive feminine woman,wife and mother is a path of dedication and sacrifice that only certain kinds of women truly want and can handle .Her and dalton aren’t compatible when it comes to life paths and goals .
Do they really want it? Or are they just pressures and conditioned by society to do so? Like they are feel like their accomplishments are nothing without that trad life? He (ant) said something similar about the Kardashians. Its very interesting.
@@canesugar911 that’s really up to them to figure out . There’s nothing wrong with being a more alpha masculine energy when your a woman, it’s just a matter of accepting that and finding a partner that can balance that . But at the same time when you want that traditional lifestyle you have to step into a traditional feminine role , a big lie that’s been sold to so many women is that you can “have it all “ but the bottom line is sometimes you just can’t and it doesn’t work . Her career could very well be stifling her feminine energy but at the same time she could just naturally be a non traditional woman ,it’s up to her to do the soul searching to figure that out .
@@canesugar911 she may have thought she wanted that but now realizes it’s not something that suits her life and energy,and if that’s the case she needs to file for divorce or compromise. It wouldn’t be fair to either of them to have to change who they are and what they want in a marriage because she realized what she actually needs when it’s already too late .
@@emd2831 if it were that easy to figure it out, she would have. Especially coming from a more trad background, I'm sure she felt the pressure to follow the path. The lie that has been sold to women is that their achievements mean nothing if they don't have that stereotypical family dynamic.
@@emd2831 I'd like to know why guys like that go for women that are career driven, and then get upset when they can't "tame" her or cause her to give it all up for him?
Interesting reading I believe ariana has her moon in libra so maybe her being a people pleaser is what she becomes in relationships when she's at her most vulnerable emotional self. I believe people don't see the moon sign until you live with someone maybe.
I always wonder why people with such overwhelming and demanding careers actually have time for marriage I would think most are doomed to fail for many reasons
i really think the bombing and mac just completely changed things for her. :( I mean obviously. I just think there is a hole in her heart from all of that. imo.
@@antphrodite I think she would, too! But, at this point, it's either you swallow a bitter pill and get better - or continue the way things are and be miserable lol
@@anah3745 exactly she is Ariana Grande, she can get 20 guys if she wants in a minute lol, all she has to do is put her boss queen heels on and he be chasing her like a puppy for a treat.
With her pulling away from her friends and isolating as she is working on her acting role, I wouldn't be surprised if her returning to her acting roots has opened up childhood wounds about her time with Dan Schneider and Jeannette McCurdy. I wonder if that is another thing that she is avoiding addressing before her return to acting. Perhaps it's another thing contributing to her weight loss? She clearly wants to go in a new direction with her professional life, but she has some demons and hard truths to face first.
Yeah, definitely. Ariana has never even liked to talk about her character, and I think that says a lot. She wants to distance herself so much from cat, i can only imagine the backstory as to why she almost has a grudge toward cat. It’s just sad. But i think she’s coming back again or has been getting help/ addressed her past with her therapist. She has been posted about her friends again lately and been commenting on her fan pages on instagram again , which she hasn’t done in months. And also if u have seen her insta story lately she has been posted a lot about trauma, boundaries, growing and forgiving and healing. She shared this post a month ago “ There's so much of my past self that I don't resonate with at all anymore, but I love her just the same. She was growing. She was doing her best. She fought hard to get me here.” And she has liked multiple post about relationships.. she liked multiple from her therapist like “ SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO STOP SEEING THE GOOD IN PEOPLE AND START SEEING WHAT THEY SHOW YOU. “, “ If you avoid having difficult conversations, you'll likely have difficult relationships. “, “Repeating yourself to an emotionally immature person doesn't work. They are only willing to see what's helpful to them. Invoking self-awareness can be harmful to a person who thrives by blaming others“, “Emotionally immature people struggle to see how they impact others. Instead, they focus on what others have done to them without recognizing how they contributed” and “ My love language is when you communicate your feelings in a direct way so I don't have to do the emotional labor to try and decode wtf you're even trying to say. “ so I believe something has happened in her relationship, and in her healing journey. And instead of directly saying it,she is giving hints to her fans😢 And she also shared this about post traumatic growth, which may effect 5 areas, longterm: 1) appreciation for life 2) relationships with others 3) new possibilities in life 4) personal strength 5) spiritual change She hasn’t been the same since Manchester and mac, and who would be the same after experiencing so much trauma💔The ptsd and depression has definitely taken it’s toll on her, taken some of her light… I just hope when the movie ends and when she sees the results that she will be happy and proud of herself. She has loved wicked since she was 10, and just shared a post about being halfway done and that she doesn’t want it to end🥺I hope and pray she finds that inner peace and the love she deserves, whether it means she’s with dalton, in a new relationship or alone. Just hope she find that joy again🌸
@@andiro9340 you don’t know these celebrities no need for the long essays as if you have personal conversations with them 😂. Yes, you can feel sad for her because what she went through with Nickelodeon was traumatizing. No child should be in Hollyweird. But dang y’all really do have parasocial relationships with these celebs lmaooooo
She got married way too quick and the fact that he's deleted his socials and she's coming out of the woodwork addressing her health....yeah. She is blaming herself for the failure and she will hang on to that marriage in order to prove to herself she is not a failure, even when the world tells her to move on.
You toxic Taylor Swift fans SWIFTIES always have to start rumor about Ariana life and you people need to leave her alone. There are reason why Ariana like to keep her relationship with her hubby Dalton private.
fyi a lot of people aren’t aware they began seeing each other secretly in summer 2019 and got married almost two years later. he had an anniversary post on his private Facebook confirming it. it’s still not enough for some people but it wasn’t as quite as quick as everyone thinks
@@judykhaleck8034 Who are you talking to, because I am not a "Swiftie" at all and I have no idea what could have given that impression. Calling out an early marriage does not make me a "hater" or a member of a supposed "enemy" fandom. Like, wth was even that logic...
okay actually the thing is dalton deleted his socials because there was a viral tweet that dalton was gay because someone found someone on some gay p*rn site that looked like him and a lot of people started believing it was him. my guess is people were probably spam messaging his socials about this and got way too uncomfy.
I feel so sad for both. I just want to give Ari and Tay a big hug and tell them, it's okay. We love you no matter what. Your relationship don't define you. You're already queens on your own.
Id say so too cause they seemed cooled for a while but they’ve been posting each other more recently, Victoria saying she can’t wait for her to finally come home. She also did an interview saying they plan to do more music together.
From the beginning I felt like he controls her in ways that are mostly subtle so she doesn’t actually realize it’s controlling. Ever since she got with him her appearance has changed. Which is fine, she’s beautiful no matter what but it worried me when she quickly changed the way she was dressing right when they got together because to me I think he wants her to be little miss perfect and she can’t meet all of his needs while following her own dreams.
What i noticed is that after she got with him, she stopped releasing music, i remember she had so many hits year after year and then she married him and it all stopped.
I think the reason she's trying to make her marriage work is because she has an image to uphold and anything that taints it, will make her look less 'elegant' or 'gotten together' if that makes sense. More than anything, she doesn't want to let down the people closest to her esp her family. Plus, she doesn't want to deal with the controversy with media due to her failing marriage so she's finding a way to fix things. Maybe her and Dalton are taking a break from each other to think things through. Will they be able to patch things? Idk tbh but Ariana needs to confront it and make a choice sooner or later.
@@iWANDER262 so true this is why one must take at least a 3 month break before jumping into another relationship. They need that time to reflect what went wrong and not repeat those mistakes again. Clearly, Ariana didn't think this through and didn't use the time to heal and reflect. It's sad how she rushed getting married to him at least she could've took it slower.
This is crazy when you consider how much of a train wreck 2017-2019 was. I don’t think she gives a fck what any of u think about her relationships honestly
All the blind items I've read regarding her husband state that he isn't a nice man,stating he body shames ariana and its making her lose weight and what's really concerning was that this was posted before she showed extreme weight so it's leaning towards true, another blind item mentioned when she was on the voice ariana wouldn't carry on recording for an episode and had to rush back to her dressing room because she took off her wedding ring and forgot to put it back on and stated " if he sees her without it on (in an episode )he would lose it"and then there was another blind item saying arianas new hubby(even if she won't admit it) isn't a nice man and he's homophobic,racist ,lots of crazy things😟
She's like only 19. I know some people get married early to the right person but you can also make mistakes on this one. Let's be honest 25+ is the right age to get married
Yeah I think MBB is desperate to wash out that god awful boyfriend she had prior to this one and it seems like she’s so mature but unnaturally so, like she looks old enough to be married but she’s just a kid, idk I blame hollyweird
She lost her glow in those photos . Sometimes people do thing that turns you right off and you look all respect for them. That’s extremely hard to go back from that . Great read …
So she’s stressed, overworked and really vulnerable at this point in time and wants her relationship to work more than anything. Why wouldn’t he see that and know that she’s stressed? Wouldn’t you want to help one another in this exact situation. He sounds pretty ignorant and immature actually.
Her career defines her, both personally and industry wise it’s similar when to movie stars of equal popularity, and pay meat and our great couple but when one becomes more famous, the relationship ends
Someone already did a reading on them when she literally was married to 5 minutes and they said that he was very controlling of her. She changed a lot in this marriage. I think his astrology sign is Leo and she's a Cancer
Girl let me say.. I never thought I would relate to Arianna as much I am right now I was in a relationship so similar to this but I finally left and working to build and heal and find me again 🙏 this breaks my heart
Oh no. Maybe this marriage has triggered her. The fight or flight and freezing to make it work because she has abandonment issues or like some sort of issues. The best and worst thing about being triggered with your partner is when you face it to work through it, it’s the hardest shit ever but it makes you guys stronger. I hope she finds her happiness in herself and can share that with someone
That's why it's unhealthy to rush into a relationship the way they did. Then they moved in quickly and got married quickly. She needs to look inward and heal. She always distracts herself with a boyfriend.
This relationship is bound to fail if Ari keeps putting her issues on hold. Worst mistake was distancing with friends. I hope she reach out to them. And also therapy. Lots and lots of therapy. She also needs to speak what's on her mind. I have been there... And once you held off what you need to take care of.. and keeping your feelings to yourself... It'll all erupt in one gigantic chaos that will be hard to fix.
Yeah classic emotional abuser. “I don’t like what you are saying/doing you better stop or there will be trouble” and then then you conform and walk on eggshells and aquiess to their relentless demands and criticism only to hear “you’re pathetic, you don’t know anything, you’re useless, I have lost all respect for you…” etc 😒 no wonder she’s thrown herself into the Glinda role poor girl
@@KatjaBaby I thought that Ariana Grande had a good sense of self-esteem wow, I hope she gets better/a better sense of self-esteem and stops/and stops trying to find her worth in men/in men only and come out on the other side like Selena Gomez did with Justin Bieber. Ariana Grande is worth too much for this and a very talented beautiful young woman, I hope her therapist can help her navigate through/through this toxic marriage and help her leave if she’s seriously in danger 🤧🤧🤧🤧😭😭😭😭
Watching this made me feel very lucky that I don't care about marriage and that I prioritize my own company, I will never ever experience this kind of situation in my life. This is miserable.
@@jhart1127 i don't think "healthy marriages" exist bc human beings are absolutely imperfect and volatile beings, a lot of marriages which in the start appeared to be like a fairytale ended badly, even with murders. you can respect your partners choices and opinions but there will always be disagreements and arguments, and unless you are extremely mature, with lots of experience in life and a forgiving person (not submissive, forgiving) it will probably end in dispair. as ant said, ariana's marriage was all good in the start, but it turned out to be like this. so i think "healthy" anything when there are human beings in it, is an illusion. respectful yes, healthy? don't think so
Ant, you're previous reading said about how Ari does what her partner tells her what to do and her identity becomes what her man is with. I knew it was going to go down this path because so many women who take the identity of their relationships end up having controlling people. Once on a livestream, Ant said that controlling people can tell who is easy to control and takes advantage. I'm always fallen into this. I attract controlling people because I want to do things on my own. I love freedom. I hate how so many men push and force traditional roles. You always see women and men sharing housework, women doing all of the housework, but never men doing the ONLY housework. Even if it happens, it's almost impossible in the big money role. edit: THANK YOU. SHE DOESN'T LOVE HERSELF. She keeps being in relationships than being happy being alone. I've met so many like this. They need to learn to be alone.
i feel like she also works a lot to distract from the real reason the relationship doesn’t work out. in better off she says ‘on the road a lot/ had to keep it a thousand/ that i’m better off/ not being around you.’ it’s like she’s saying it didn’t work out because i’m always working not because of actual faults in our personalities/ communication/ etc.
Ohhh girl, this described my last relationship to a T. Losing me, had me losing him, ain’t that the 2 for 1 deal. Trauma will bring that struggle bus, may they have the patience to work through the murky waters
at this point, im only trusting your readings because you call it every single time !! I think this will be good for ari, she really needs time to herself and to be able to have space to breathe. especially now since wicked production is on halt
She never really processed the trauma of what happened in Manchester Nor from what happened to Mac. I vaguely recall her saying she gave up on therapy and try to figure it out on her own but as she was saying it she was crying so she definitely has a lot of trauma that she hasn't processed yet... seems that she tried to stifle it by throwing herself into work and relationships
Couldn’t agree more! I love ants videos I wait with anticipation and have watched everyone. I’ve tried to watch other tarot channels! It isn’t just that Ant is so accurate, He’s also super entertaining and fun to watch! I truly don’t know how any doesn’t have a million subs! Keep it up Ant you will get there I have zero doubts i think you deserve a Netflix show I’m manifesting one for you I’d watch it!!!
Came here after the news you were right I feel bad for her she said she only wanted to get married once and didn't want to end up like her parents who separated when she was young and were on bad terms for a long time I hope she takes time for herself and heals divorce isn't something you easily get over so I hope she stays strong
A lot of the things you said resonated with me, I saw myself in the things you said about Ari and I felt like you were talking to me lol. Thank you. Just wanted to let you know that your readings not only entertain but also heal. Wishing both Ari and u the best
I feel for Ari she has been through so much! I personally have felt since she got married she has pulled away from social media & while I understand it must be exhausting having the world critique her every move. I feel like he certainly plays a part in it I always got vibes of something off about him. Of course I want to be supportive but at the same time she sounded absolutely heartbroken & so clearly there is more going on. I think whatever is going on is impacting her mentally & physically. That's not to say anyone should shame her for it. She may have been in a worst place when she was thicker but that's not to say she isn't still in a bad spot & trying to work through it while trying to please everyone else. I see both sides though I would imagine the spotlight would put an extra layer of stress & complexity on their relationship.
i think dalton wasnt ready to have a relationship with someone with her amount of fame. she completely changed when they got together and her fans used to be so important. now she barely posts and doesnt do that much for her fans or communicates with us anymore unless its to tell us about REM beauty or to stop talking about her. i feel sad for her. its ok for her to be private but shes not the same
I’ll always feel like Mac was really good for her (despite his struggles), I know they broke up because of his addiction but I feel like if he were able to get a good grasp on himself and recovered, they’d be together, now.
Can yall leave this relationship in the past? If I were Ariana and read this shit I couldn't move onm it'd just keep me up at night wondering how things would be different if he lived but the thing is he didn't...
I saw a blind item about their relationship months ago...it was verrrryyyy dark. I hate to see Ariana in a relationship where she is not being appreciated :(
Men almost ALWAYS pull bullshit and can't handle being married to women more rich, powerful, or famous than them 🙄😒... It's happened to literally every diva ever. Marilyn Monroe, Judy Garland, Cher, Tina Turner, Barbra Streisand, Pamela Andersen, Jane Fonda ... The list goes on 😂🤷♀️
This reading to me sounds pretty relatable 🥹 I hope she finds herself soon. The longer you lose yourself the longer it takes to get back. I'm still in pursuit of getting me back. 💕 She's a cancer too 🫶
It's crazy how people reject those who really love and care for them for those who only pretend and will generally mistreat except In the cases where the love is condition based
I think Miss Ariana just needs a better sense of self-esteem and self-worth I think she only values herself and her own worth in her relationships when she should value herself entirely and love herself with or without a man being by her side but she’s been through it (I will say that) 🤧🤧🤧🤧😭😭😭😭
For a girl with her Fame, she has to have a partner that builds her up and support her endeavors! That's happened to me, to be over pleasing and that's when you lose your Power? She has to take her power back that she has..😧
So he is overly possessive and jealous of her but at the same time gets the ick and loses respect for her for being needy to him and want to please him? That makes no sense. I hate these type of men, yea she cant be herself because she feels chasing him would pull him away....
If a woman loses a lot of weight suddenly in a relationship it’s an unhealthy one and I will die on that hill
Exactly, especially if the woman is already thin to begin with.
She has a history of anorexia so it could definitely have something to do with that too
I mean people can be effected by their mental health problems even if their relationship is fine. She experienced lots of trauma, breakups, and death in the past
I also think no one pays attention to how scooter Braun controls her and has terrible energy
Amen. I got into a relationship in my 20’s with a nice guy but I knew deep down it wasn’t going to work. Long story short, the break up really messed up my self esteem and I did not eat. I just couldn’t no matter how much I tried. The weird thing was that I had so many compliments on my “weight loss” and my built was never needing to lose weight to begin with 🥴
Ariana's readings are always so sad. She has so much trauma and PTSD she hasn't healed from. On top of the fact that she has self confidence and identity issues while also trying to please her partner. She'd be in a healthier place if she finally prioritized herself and worked on healing. A relationship shouldn't have you stressed out and anxious all the time.
YOU LITERALLY CALLED IT!!!! JAMES CHARLES AND TATI AND NOW THIS!!! YOU ARE ACTUALLY SO TALENTED !!
First Taylor Swift and now this. You are so spot on its scary. She is splitting now
Bruh ant is ridiculously accurate, it was announced today that Ariana is getting divorced
I always feel weird whenever I listen to her song "Six Thirty" and hear her singing: "Act so possessive and crazy, but I know that's just causе you love me". I feel like she might gravitate toward possessiveness and jealousy... I only wish her happiness. Good read as always Ant, love you ❤
Also the next lines of “Maybe that’s just how it’s supposed to be. I’m the release you’re the dopamine” like he uses her as a release of his emotions and she gets happiness out of making him happy like a true people pleaser.
It’s so eerie how the initial reading was him love bombing her and pushing her to go after opportunities. It’s scary to see how love can be tainted and turn toxic. Also I feel like people talking about her appearance weren’t being intentionally malice I think they were genuinely concerned. I know talking about bodies is a slippery slope but it I hope she knows no one is fronting on her.
no.. ppl were being malice.
@@billiethebluebird I don’t think her real fans were. Like of course there’s trolls and people that are cruel.
@@billiethebluebird fr, a lot of the concern couldn’t come off more fake
She doesn't have weight really to lose since she's naturally so petite. So I believe many comments were coming from a genuine place of concern.
Well said! That’s exactly what happened in my last long-term relationship. It’s sad but it happens sometimes, unfortunately.
i feel like she doesn’t want to divorce bc she might feel like a “failure” so she’s trying too hard to make it work
she said in thank u next ‘only wanna do it once real bad/ gonna make that shit last/ god forbid something happens’
@@icedcashewmilklatte Yeah I always remember that lyric too she said she only wants to get married/be married once 🤧🤧🤧🤧😥😥😥😥
I feel that. that she forces this marriage so that it doesn't fail, she doesn't want to fail, so she will force a lot. I don't feel like it's going to be by now, after the movie is over, soon that this is going to end. either she will get very tired and say enough, or dalton will say enough
Agreed
It’s interesting on a psychological level how Ariana and Taylor chose to be with men who want them to have a traditional female role. They both are career driven and massively successful and I think they need partners who can accept their lifestyle. I like the contrast of a celebrity being with a non celebrity because it’s humbling, but at the same time it feels like a struggle.
Ye but when it's a celeb-celeb couple it's either PR or doomed to fail too. I think careers that involve fame is a trade for smth else serious. But hey we've always said fame and fortune comes w a price...
Subconscious conditioning... I am very freedom-oriented and will literally start to suffocate if anyone tries to bind me, but I always went for "traditional" relationships that kept me small.. Cz that was what the idea of real romance was when and where I grew up.. So there was so much subconscious conditioning.. I stopped everything and focused on healing myself.. I am still healing and I am happy now.. I realized i don't even care about romantic relationships.. It was just my conditioning to "need a man".
I think it’s healthier for a celebrity to marry another celebrity. Otherwise she'll always feel guilty for bringing so much attention, paparazzi, and lack of normalcy in his life. And at some point he'll get overwhelmed by her fame too.
@@alyponk5016 I agree! A celebrity couple are equals who understand each other. A celebrity and a non celebrity relationship creates an imbalance I feel.
Exactly yes!!
Speaking from experience, once you’ve been through one toxic relationship, it’s quite hard to fall into a “normal” one. Sure you might avoid some of the signs of toxicity in the future, but you also get bored with vanilla relationships because they don’t cause any excitement, good or bad. It’s so hard to find someone that peaks your adrenaline in a good way and everyone else is just boring. Toxicity can be an addiction to someone who needs extremes to feel joy or ANYTHING.
Makes sense. I used to be attracted to guys that make me overthink or doubt myself. I thought the adrenaline and anxiety was “love” because it felt exciting. I only realized later on that this type of dynamic is toxic and that the love I need is peaceful and stable.
dont "fall into" a relationship first of all!
LOL I feel so exposed! The comments under this video are insightful af.
@@quinnm.3127 I mean I’ve forced myself to try to be in “normal” relationships but I got bored so I didn’t “fall” for them. I didn’t mean “fall” like it was an accident, I meant it like falling in love.
you got it right ... they filed for divorce
There’s nothing more exhausting than constantly trying to make yourself smaller to avoid someone’s rage, and in the case of someone like Ariana Grande I could see this situation making her physically ill if he’s making her choose between him and her work. I was in those kinds of relationships for years and in the end I was so torn between trying to please a jealous angry partner and run my business successfully my health absolutely imploded. I think there’s a lesson in this reading for everyone - if someone makes you so cowed that you can’t be your authentic self with them, and then they stop respecting you because the fear they’ve instilled in you means you can’t be your authentic self around them, even if it hasn’t turned physical, it’s pretty awful emotional abuse and it’s unlikely to get better. I hope she gets out, honestly - it took me getting cancer to realise life is far too short to be in a constant state of stress, anxiety and never feeling good enough. I’m only going by this reading though so apologies if there are loads of Daltiana fans out there!
What does the word “cowed” mean here tho? (If you don’t mind me asking at least anyways) 👍🏻👌🏻😌💕
@abbied the definition of cowed is "to submit to someone's wishes by intimidation".
@@oliviajudd3613 thank you, that’s it! And no of course I wouldn’t have minded answering you @abbied if Olivia hadn’t already - it’s possibly a word that’s more in use in the U.K. where I am ❤️
@@WRLDofHRT thank you for putting forward such a beautifully worded TH-cam comment. It's not everyday you come across such a thoughtful and empathetic comment on TH-cam (or the internet in general, really). I'll admit, I just Googled the word cuz I'd never heard it myself. And I agree with you in regards to there "being a lesson in this reading for everyone" I recently was broken up with from a long term relationship and as they say, hindsight is 20-20. Looking back, I realize how desperate I was to please my partner that, as you stated perfectly, I was in a constant state of anxiety and never felt like just being myself was enough. I appreciate your wording because it hit home. ❤️
@@oliviajudd3613 awww thank you so much for your kind words. I’m so sorry you went through that. My teens, 20s and 30s were punctuated by either relationships with people who were totally emotionally unavailable and made me feel invisible, or smothering, possessive, abusive, can’t live with you, can’t live without you type relationships. Hindsight really is 20/20 as you say… I don’t want to scare anyone but while I don’t specifically “blame” any of my former partners for my illnesses, I do believe the stress of almost 3 decades of putting myself through that, in the search for love and approval I was never going to get (this is how we relive our childhood abandonments again and again in the hope of a happy ending,) caused me to end up quite severely disabled with quite a few debilitating and incurable illnesses. I used to be the life and soul of the party but I used to shrink and disappear with every successive relationship. While I’m in a state of acceptance with my life (and ironically, the beautiful and harmonious relationship I have now for the first time,) I do obviously wish I hadn’t put my body through so much. Every time we swallow our pain, pretend to be cool with something we’re not, allow ourselves to be spoken to like nothing because we’re too scared to get up and run… all those kind of things build a little map of internalised hurts, unshed tears and unhealed traumas in our body. In the end the sheer adrenal burnout of living like that while trying to spin all the plates of having a career while giving them the attention they demand, plus mundane things like keeping the house beautiful, cooking, etc, is just too much for a woman or a person with a more feminine energy to withstand. Eventually, I’m sorry to say, you may think you’ll always get up and carry on again but sometimes, like me, you actually don’t ever get up again. I have learned a lot but as the Chinese proverb says, wisdom is a comb we are given only when we are bald 😄😄😄! If anyone makes you laugh a little quieter, makes your circle of friends and family a little smaller, makes you “dumb yourself down,” takes up almost every bit of spare time you have, expects you to do the impossible and makes you feel guilty if you can’t, makes your thought processes a lot less clear, makes you do things out of fear and obligation rather than love, and along with all that, makes you feel like you have battery acid running through your veins every time they’re angry or keeping you on a tightrope of having to keep them happy because they can’t regulate their own emotions, it really is time to fight for your own life and find a way of slowly getting to safety the best way you can. Remember you are beautiful and amazing and unique exactly as you are, and instead of allowing someone to push you into seeking their approval or firefighting their anger, sit and write a list of what you really really want in a partner. Sorry for the super long reply, but I actually cried when I did that for the first time online dating in lockdown, because I realised I’d always gone with the flow and actually NEVER once thought about what I wanted or felt safe to truly be myself. There is so much light at the end of the tunnel when you know that being yourself is enough and there’s someone out there who will adore you for all your quirks and ways in which you are not like anyone else - instead of trying to mould you into their slave. I wish I hadn’t had to pay with my health, but I still wouldn’t go backwards- we all have our life lessons to learn and I think that’s one of the biggest ones of all if you haven’t grown up with praise and approval in your earliest years. But you can do it! Hold out for someone who truly deserves you and just remember, if you have a kind heart and don’t get off on the suffering of others, it means there are thousands of other people, male and female, who also have the same kind of heart as you. I pray 🙏🏼 that you find them and live a life of happiness, connection and realness. It took me til my 40s but you can do it. Sending many blessings your way - you sound really lovely 😇🙏🏼❤️
Ant doesn't realize he's describing Dalton as the textbook power/control abusive man. (Doesn't have to be physical abuse). The initial love bombing and attentiveness, turns into something completely different over time. Her walking on eggshells and wanting to please is part of the cycle. Women often carry shame of admitting they ended up in this type of relationship. She may not even fully realize yet. I hope she gets out, because patterns dont change.
Idk. Because men like that loves to keep women on their toes. People who lacks self-love are easier to control. And Dalton seems the opposite. He's frustrated that she's meek unlike when they first met.
I was in a relationship like this. I was like Ari. I obsessed with my ex leaving so I gave in to him everytime. Which was opposite of me since I was the dominant one when we started dating. He broke up with me because he felt guilty & frustrated that he changed me. That I became insecure and always prioritize him.
I respect my ex because of that but I'm still piss that he ghosted me. And never once he controlled me or abusive to me. But he is possessive and gets insecure when I'm close to my friends but he never isolated me tho. It was my choice to isolate myself. Because at that time I want to keep my relationship to myself first. And they also don't get along bc they don't have shared interest.
@@kokopium1530 When you said “And they also don’t get along bc they don’t have shared interest.” are you referring to Ariana and Dalton here ig or not? (Was just checking that’s all thanks) 👍🏻👌🏻😌💕
@@anniec6420 yes! Even the quick engagement/marriage is a textbook marker of power/control abuse. I have personal experience also. Eerily similar, but that's because there's a formula to it.
@@nataliec5137 oh yeah how true.....there is definately a formula for it....
@@kokopium1530 girl be serious you cant make assumptions over some cards
I def think she’s having a Black Swan moment putting her all into these movies. She’s a known workaholic especially when things are tough in her personal life.
Miley Cyrus said something once to the effect of that when you’re super famous and everyone bows to you, you’re more likely to be attracted to people who treat you like you’re less than.
And on the jealousy tip she said in one of her songs he acts “possessive and crazy, but I know it’s just cuz you love me” I get “authoritative dad” energy from him.
That is so crazy I remember thinking, "isn't that a red flag?" when I heard that lyric. Crazy how it ties into this reading now.
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Kinda how a CEO will go to a dominatrix, to be treated like garbage.
@@shay0912 ooof, so true! The wisdom in these comments is impressive.
It was the song six thirty, that's very eye opening that you pointed that out, didn't really think to much of it
I knew that marriage happened too fast smh hope she gets through this
They only dated like less than 2 years and I felt like it's somehow fishy tbh
She loves rushing into shit like we're really supposed to believe she got over mac's death that quickly to rush into a marriage.
This is just me but I think she's in love with the idea of love than being in love. She's always in relationships.
@@kittyythecat Just like J. Lo, the Kardashians, The Jenners then? 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️😂😂😂😂
yeah, they only knew each other, for 1 year or a few months, then they got engaged in a relationship for also 1 year or months and soon after a wedding? this is not good because you barely know this person. but she loves to rush things and it's very emotional, she even talks about it in tun
This aged well
A lot of psychics predict that she will get married multiple times throughout her life. I think that she is so sensitive and falls for people very fast. I definitely think she is not eating as much and over working herself. Money does not buy everything, and I feel so bad for her because I know she’s extremely sensitive.
The word for extremely sensitive is hypersensitive tho (just trying to help you out/just trying to help you out in case you didn’t know this that’s all but otherwise I agree/agree with everything else/else you said/had said/mentioned about Ariana before) 👍🏻👌🏻😌💕
Could you please direct me to other channels you’ve seen that talk about Ari? I would love to find more tarot readers to watch
I'm a huge Ari fan and I have NEVER shamed her for her petite body type, but I have been getting so annoyed over the last month that everyone attacks you when you say she's lost way too much weight. SHE'S LOST WAY TOO MUCH WEIGHT! She's not just her skinny self, she looks unhealthy and anyone who thinks this is her natural look is delusional. This is not healthy! And Ari has always been very outspoken about self-care, wellness, setting a healthy example, so I DO think we can say this! Something is off!
Exactly. The problem is that she and all her die hard teenage fans are saying she's healthy now, and wasn't before, when she was "getting calories from drinking".. And acting like veganism is a diet consisting of 0 calories per meal. When she knows damn well how much influence she has, and how the Hollywood body standards for women is giving girls and women eating disorders left and right. She could say "I'm okay, I'm working on projects I'm happy about, I'm happy that I'm sober, but I have lost weight and am too underweight atm, don't try to achieve this look yourself, but also don't worry, I'm aware of it and working on it". But no, she says "I've never been healthier than now, I was very unhealthy before", indicating that she was somehow unhealthily overweight or something, since the weight is what's being addressed.. Not her alcohol or drug use. If she has reasons to keep any reasons private, that's understandable.. That's reality sometimes. But she could try to rephrase it a bit, and if the fans could stop being delusional on her behalf, that'd be great.. If she's in denial, that's a sign of an even bigger problem though.
yes! and i hate the people who don’t want anyone speculating because “she already addressed it and said she’s fine!!1!1!!”.. puhlease.. as if she would publicly admit she’s having health issues and her relationship is going to shit 🙄. people are worried and while it’s not okay to make fun of her or shame her in any way, everyone can see something’s going on
I agree. Something is wrong
Being obese is more harmful to your body, and somehow it’s rude to address it, so let’s keep the same standards for skinny people
@@Hordinx I'm skinny myself and always have been, always hear unnecessary comments on my body . And I can tell you, nobody here is skinny shaming her. And the concern is valid. We have to be realistic.
"Switchin' the positions for you
Cookin' in the kitchen, and I'm in the bedroom
I'm in the Olympics, way I'm jumpin' through hoops
Know my love infinite, nothin' I wouldn't do"
she told us she would do anything for her partner, including switching up everything about herself
YESS!!
“you know you be on some bs, act so possessive and crazy” she also told us in six thirty
"is it real this time or is it in my head?" my girl knew it most likely wasn't gonna work from the beginning
you saying that she doesnt know who she is anymore makes alot of sense. I have never gotten a clear sense of who Ariana really is, like who are you really?? It is like she has been in the industri for so long, where she has focused on who she should be and how to behave to stay relevant and be successful, and has lost the sense of who she really is in the prosess of accomplishing her dreams. Hopefully she will find strength in herself and figure out who she is!
great reading as always!!
I thought this was a recent video after the news came out, I screamed when I saw this was months ago
I feel like a lot of these young celebrities think it’s really cute to have young families and get married, young and then act so surprised when they lose themselves or feel overwhelmed, or or the honeymoon period ends like what were you thinking they see this in so quickly. This isn’t surprising at all that I don’t even follow Ariana that much, but this isn’t shocking to me to hear.
ariana is turning 30 this year. she’s didn’t marry that shockingly young
they get married like it’s a new project for their career. gotta act fast while people are still interested
Exactly
"i'll deal with all of this once i finish filming" OMG then the strike hit. the one thing that was bringing her joy was taken away from her so she was stuck in this place of not knowing when the filming would continue (still is) and not wanting to deal with everything and it led to divorce. that is so sad, it must have been such a dark place.
Ariana really loses her identity in relationships. She conforms and people pleases. She has to remember she’s the prize!
1000% agree. She literally is such a queen! She needs to see that
Right 🤧💕
Yes! She even changes the way she talk and even her appearances.
@@NiKiraG right! she literally morphs into who she thinks she needs to be for them. It’s strange.
But also taking into account how being the “prize” makes you easy to exploit. I don’t doubt there are people who either, try to keep her small out of jealousy, or manipulate her to spread herself thin and keep a check through her…
I feel like this happens to a lot of women with careers . Women with big careers that are attracted to and with very traditionally masculine dominant men end up having failed marriages because those men want the woman to stay home and have children have a more traditional lifestyle while the career is on the back burner or completely tossed out . Many career driven women should be with more relaxed feminine energy men , I’ve seen this happen countless times .it’s a matter of wanting something that just doesn’t suit your energy and life path ,being a more submissive feminine woman,wife and mother is a path of dedication and sacrifice that only certain kinds of women truly want and can handle .Her and dalton aren’t compatible when it comes to life paths and goals .
Do they really want it? Or are they just pressures and conditioned by society to do so? Like they are feel like their accomplishments are nothing without that trad life? He (ant) said something similar about the Kardashians. Its very interesting.
@@canesugar911 that’s really up to them to figure out . There’s nothing wrong with being a more alpha masculine energy when your a woman, it’s just a matter of accepting that and finding a partner that can balance that . But at the same time when you want that traditional lifestyle you have to step into a traditional feminine role , a big lie that’s been sold to so many women is that you can “have it all “ but the bottom line is sometimes you just can’t and it doesn’t work . Her career could very well be stifling her feminine energy but at the same time she could just naturally be a non traditional woman ,it’s up to her to do the soul searching to figure that out .
@@canesugar911 she may have thought she wanted that but now realizes it’s not something that suits her life and energy,and if that’s the case she needs to file for divorce or compromise. It wouldn’t be fair to either of them to have to change who they are and what they want in a marriage because she realized what she actually needs when it’s already too late .
@@emd2831 if it were that easy to figure it out, she would have. Especially coming from a more trad background, I'm sure she felt the pressure to follow the path. The lie that has been sold to women is that their achievements mean nothing if they don't have that stereotypical family dynamic.
@@emd2831 I'd like to know why guys like that go for women that are career driven, and then get upset when they can't "tame" her or cause her to give it all up for him?
She just archived her wedding photos with him and a lot of photos from the past.
Interesting reading I believe ariana has her moon in libra so maybe her being a people pleaser is what she becomes in relationships when she's at her most vulnerable emotional self. I believe people don't see the moon sign until you live with someone maybe.
i really really hope she’s okay i literally want nothing more but for her to be happy.
THE WAY I RAN HERE, YOU CALLED IT AGAIN
I always wonder why people with such overwhelming and demanding careers actually have time for marriage I would think most are doomed to fail for many reasons
If the divorce rate for us average folks is 50%, it's gotta be like 75% for the rich and famous
i really think the bombing and mac just completely changed things for her. :( I mean obviously. I just think there is a hole in her heart from all of that. imo.
She’s been through it, that’s for sure! 🤧🤧🤧🤧😭😭😭😭
I hope Ari sees this - you gave her some great advice, Ant 💖
Haha I wish!! But she’d probably get mad at me lol
@@antphrodite I think she would, too! But, at this point, it's either you swallow a bitter pill and get better - or continue the way things are and be miserable lol
@@antphroditelike you said she needs to hear some tuff love, get better, and be reminded of who she is cause her vibes have been off for a WHILE !!
@@anah3745 exactly she is Ariana Grande, she can get 20 guys if she wants in a minute lol, all she has to do is put her boss queen heels on and he be chasing her like a puppy for a treat.
@@antphrodite If this reading were about me, I’d be mad at you in the moment, but would thank you in 5 years. ❤
With her pulling away from her friends and isolating as she is working on her acting role, I wouldn't be surprised if her returning to her acting roots has opened up childhood wounds about her time with Dan Schneider and Jeannette McCurdy. I wonder if that is another thing that she is avoiding addressing before her return to acting. Perhaps it's another thing contributing to her weight loss? She clearly wants to go in a new direction with her professional life, but she has some demons and hard truths to face first.
Yeah, definitely. Ariana has never even liked to talk about her character, and I think that says a lot. She wants to distance herself so much from cat, i can only imagine the backstory as to why she almost has a grudge toward cat. It’s just sad. But i think she’s coming back again or has been getting help/ addressed her past with her therapist. She has been posted about her friends again lately and been commenting on her fan pages on instagram again , which she hasn’t done in months.
And also if u have seen her insta story lately she has been posted a lot about trauma, boundaries, growing and forgiving and healing. She shared this post a month ago “ There's so much of my past self that I don't resonate with at all anymore, but I love her just the same. She was growing. She was doing her best. She fought hard to get me here.”
And she has liked multiple post about relationships.. she liked multiple from her therapist like “ SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO STOP SEEING THE GOOD IN PEOPLE AND START SEEING WHAT
THEY SHOW YOU. “, “ If you avoid having difficult conversations, you'll likely have difficult relationships. “, “Repeating yourself to an emotionally immature person doesn't work. They are only willing to see what's helpful to them. Invoking self-awareness can be harmful to a person who thrives by blaming others“, “Emotionally immature people struggle to see how they impact others. Instead, they focus on what others have done to them without recognizing how they contributed” and “ My love language is when you communicate your feelings in a direct way so I don't have to do the emotional labor to try and decode wtf you're even trying to say. “ so I believe something has happened in her relationship, and in her healing journey. And instead of directly saying it,she is giving hints to her fans😢
And she also shared this about post traumatic growth, which may effect 5 areas, longterm:
1) appreciation for life
2) relationships with others
3) new possibilities in life
4) personal strength
5) spiritual change
She hasn’t been the same since Manchester and mac, and who would be the same after experiencing so much trauma💔The ptsd and depression has definitely taken it’s toll on her, taken some of her light… I just hope when the movie ends and when she sees the results that she will be happy and proud of herself. She has loved wicked since she was 10, and just shared a post about being halfway done and that she doesn’t want it to end🥺I hope and pray she finds that inner peace and the love she deserves, whether it means she’s with dalton, in a new relationship or alone. Just hope she find that joy again🌸
@@andiro9340 you don’t know these celebrities no need for the long essays as if you have personal conversations with them 😂. Yes, you can feel sad for her because what she went through with Nickelodeon was traumatizing. No child should be in Hollyweird. But dang y’all really do have parasocial relationships with these celebs lmaooooo
She got married way too quick and the fact that he's deleted his socials and she's coming out of the woodwork addressing her health....yeah. She is blaming herself for the failure and she will hang on to that marriage in order to prove to herself she is not a failure, even when the world tells her to move on.
You toxic Taylor Swift fans SWIFTIES always have to start rumor about Ariana life and you people need to leave her alone. There are reason why Ariana like to keep her relationship with her hubby
Dalton private.
fyi a lot of people aren’t aware they began seeing each other secretly in summer 2019 and got married almost two years later. he had an anniversary post on his private Facebook confirming it. it’s still not enough for some people but it wasn’t as quite as quick as everyone thinks
@@judykhaleck8034 Who are you talking to, because I am not a "Swiftie" at all and I have no idea what could have given that impression. Calling out an early marriage does not make me a "hater" or a member of a supposed "enemy" fandom. Like, wth was even that logic...
okay actually the thing is dalton deleted his socials because there was a viral tweet that dalton was gay because someone found someone on some gay p*rn site that looked like him and a lot of people started believing it was him. my guess is people were probably spam messaging his socials about this and got way too uncomfy.
Damn this is ridiculous..you are so good at it!!!
it makes sense to me why Ari and Taylor are so similar. both have strong Cancer energy. Tay has her moon in Cancer and Ari is a Cancer, so..
and Arianas moon is in Libra which is more people pleasing in relationships. and Dalton is a Leo so that goes for bossy lol.
@@virtuejean5373 what would you think about me? Sun in scorpio, moon in taurus and cancer rising?
I feel so sad for both. I just want to give Ari and Tay a big hug and tell them, it's okay. We love you no matter what. Your relationship don't define you. You're already queens on your own.
Celeb or not, anyone who feels threatened or jealous of your badass self needs to go! Don’t ever dim your light for anyone, periodt!
This energy feels very icky and is not what I was expecting at all 😐
Thanks for another great reading 💜
the friend is definitely victoria monet !!!! i always found it odd that they grew apart once dalton got into her life
Victoria justice? They didn't speak to each other since 2013, no?
@@Melodynn1 no victoria Monet
Id say so too cause they seemed cooled for a while but they’ve been posting each other more recently, Victoria saying she can’t wait for her to finally come home. She also did an interview saying they plan to do more music together.
@@dabiggbunnAriana and Victoria are still best friend. Victoria literally have a family of her owned and Ari is literally filming her dream role.😊❤
@@judykhaleck8034 Oh no I agree. They did seem to hang out less once Victoria had her baby but look like they’re closer again.
As an Ari stan, I thank you so much for this. I had an inkling somethin was goin down. Appreciate you❤
The fact that she was living in the UK well her husband was off partying in Los Angeles was enough to tell me they’re screwed.
Whoa how do we know he was doing that????? Omg I didn’t know
You TOXIC Taylor Swift fans SWIFTIES always start rumor about Ariana. You guys really needy to keep her name out of your got damn mouth.
@@sauerfamilyI would assume pic leaks
@@sauerfamily pic leaks, post from his friends, and random strangers posting videos of them partying together lmao
@pinkroses It reminds me of Justin Bieber and Hailey Bieber’s marriage tbh 👀😕🤷🏻♀️🍵
From the beginning I felt like he controls her in ways that are mostly subtle so she doesn’t actually realize it’s controlling. Ever since she got with him her appearance has changed. Which is fine, she’s beautiful no matter what but it worried me when she quickly changed the way she was dressing right when they got together because to me I think he wants her to be little miss perfect and she can’t meet all of his needs while following her own dreams.
What i noticed is that after she got with him, she stopped releasing music, i remember she had so many hits year after year and then she married him and it all stopped.
She lightened her skin and everything, she’s acts and looks so different when she’s with him.
In the previous reading ant did he sayAri was kind if morphing and doing things that she thought he liked without him telling her too.
@NiKiraG she was always light paled skin wdym stop being so idiotic
Call me crazy, but it is questionable when one of the partners deletes their social media out of nowhere.
I hope someone from her team shows her this! She needs some Ant the way we do.
ant always giving us what we want AND need!
Always putting in the work Ant!! We appreciate you!!
fr we love youu
I think the reason she's trying to make her marriage work is because she has an image to uphold and anything that taints it, will make her look less 'elegant' or 'gotten together' if that makes sense. More than anything, she doesn't want to let down the people closest to her esp her family. Plus, she doesn't want to deal with the controversy with media due to her failing marriage so she's finding a way to fix things. Maybe her and Dalton are taking a break from each other to think things through. Will they be able to patch things? Idk tbh but Ariana needs to confront it and make a choice sooner or later.
@@iWANDER262 so true this is why one must take at least a 3 month break before jumping into another relationship. They need that time to reflect what went wrong and not repeat those mistakes again. Clearly, Ariana didn't think this through and didn't use the time to heal and reflect. It's sad how she rushed getting married to him at least she could've took it slower.
This is crazy when you consider how much of a train wreck 2017-2019 was. I don’t think she gives a fck what any of u think about her relationships honestly
@@sallydames5867 She was single for way longer than 3 months.
all the blinds are dishin her hubby is a bad influence
True...and they say she's not eating..but that's obvious by know
I am very curious to read them, where can I find these blinds? Please 🙏🏽
@@mey1573 prob deux moi
@@mey1573deuxmoi has a ton
All the blind items I've read regarding her husband state that he isn't a nice man,stating he body shames ariana and its making her lose weight and what's really concerning was that this was posted before she showed extreme weight so it's leaning towards true, another blind item mentioned when she was on the voice ariana wouldn't carry on recording for an episode and had to rush back to her dressing room because she took off her wedding ring and forgot to put it back on and stated " if he sees her without it on (in an episode )he would lose it"and then there was another blind item saying arianas new hubby(even if she won't admit it) isn't a nice man and he's homophobic,racist ,lots of crazy things😟
whos here after ariana grande got divorced...
Can you do a reading on Millie Bobby Brown? She just got engaged!!!
Yes, this! Because I think she is just too young to be getting married.
Yes another kid trying to get marry too young.
She's like only 19. I know some people get married early to the right person but you can also make mistakes on this one. Let's be honest 25+ is the right age to get married
yikes, this one is a MUST
Yeah I think MBB is desperate to wash out that god awful boyfriend she had prior to this one and it seems like she’s so mature but unnaturally so, like she looks old enough to be married but she’s just a kid, idk I blame hollyweird
She lost her glow in those photos . Sometimes people do thing that turns you right off and you look all respect for them. That’s extremely hard to go back from that . Great read …
I noticed that! She always has had this aura around her but lately she seems more dull. Like the true Ariana isn’t here right now
So she’s stressed, overworked and really vulnerable at this point in time and wants her relationship to work more than anything. Why wouldn’t he see that and know that she’s stressed? Wouldn’t you want to help one another in this exact situation. He sounds pretty ignorant and immature actually.
Aaaandthey just got divorced - 3 months later. Ant was right per usual
I feel bad for her. Her relationship sounds like it sucks. Hope she puts her self first. ❤️
Her career defines her, both personally and industry wise it’s similar when to movie stars of equal popularity, and pay meat and our great couple but when one becomes more famous, the relationship ends
Someone already did a reading on them when she literally was married to 5 minutes and they said that he was very controlling of her. She changed a lot in this marriage. I think his astrology sign is Leo and she's a Cancer
I’m here after they announced their split!
Girl let me say.. I never thought I would relate to Arianna as much I am right now I was in a relationship so similar to this but I finally left and working to build and heal and find me again 🙏 this breaks my heart
OMG ANT YOU WERE SPOT ON THEY JUST SPLIT
The fact that their breakup was announced on the day when south node enters libra and north node enters Aries says it all
Oh no. Maybe this marriage has triggered her. The fight or flight and freezing to make it work because she has abandonment issues or like some sort of issues. The best and worst thing about being triggered with your partner is when you face it to work through it, it’s the hardest shit ever but it makes you guys stronger. I hope she finds her happiness in herself and can share that with someone
she said in safety net, ‘feelings that i can’t ignore/ don’t know if i should fight or fly/ but i don’t mind’
That's why it's unhealthy to rush into a relationship the way they did. Then they moved in quickly and got married quickly. She needs to look inward and heal. She always distracts herself with a boyfriend.
This relationship is bound to fail if Ari keeps putting her issues on hold. Worst mistake was distancing with friends. I hope she reach out to them. And also therapy. Lots and lots of therapy.
She also needs to speak what's on her mind.
I have been there... And once you held off what you need to take care of.. and keeping your feelings to yourself... It'll all erupt in one gigantic chaos that will be hard to fix.
he doesn't respect her? I don't get it. He's upset with her so she tries to meet her husband in the middle, so he doesn't respect her anymore? smh.
Yeah classic emotional abuser. “I don’t like what you are saying/doing you better stop or there will be trouble” and then then you conform and walk on eggshells and aquiess to their relentless demands and criticism only to hear “you’re pathetic, you don’t know anything, you’re useless, I have lost all respect for you…” etc 😒 no wonder she’s thrown herself into the Glinda role poor girl
@@KatjaBaby I thought that Ariana Grande had a good sense of self-esteem wow, I hope she gets better/a better sense of self-esteem and stops/and stops trying to find her worth in men/in men only and come out on the other side like Selena Gomez did with Justin Bieber. Ariana Grande is worth too much for this and a very talented beautiful young woman, I hope her therapist can help her navigate through/through this toxic marriage and help her leave if she’s seriously in danger 🤧🤧🤧🤧😭😭😭😭
Just remembered this video after hearing the news today!!! 😭😭😭
Watching this made me feel very lucky that I don't care about marriage and that I prioritize my own company, I will never ever experience this kind of situation in my life. This is miserable.
This made me very relieved I have a healthy marriage! If I didn't I'd be gone. Rather be alone than unhappy 🙌
@@jhart1127 i don't think "healthy marriages" exist bc human beings are absolutely imperfect and volatile beings, a lot of marriages which in the start appeared to be like a fairytale ended badly, even with murders. you can respect your partners choices and opinions but there will always be disagreements and arguments, and unless you are extremely mature, with lots of experience in life and a forgiving person (not submissive, forgiving) it will probably end in dispair. as ant said, ariana's marriage was all good in the start, but it turned out to be like this. so i think "healthy" anything when there are human beings in it, is an illusion. respectful yes, healthy? don't think so
Love this.
I hate that I came back here immediately after seeing all that’s been trending 🥺
Ant, you're previous reading said about how Ari does what her partner tells her what to do and her identity becomes what her man is with. I knew it was going to go down this path because so many women who take the identity of their relationships end up having controlling people. Once on a livestream, Ant said that controlling people can tell who is easy to control and takes advantage. I'm always fallen into this. I attract controlling people because I want to do things on my own. I love freedom.
I hate how so many men push and force traditional roles. You always see women and men sharing housework, women doing all of the housework, but never men doing the ONLY housework. Even if it happens, it's almost impossible in the big money role.
edit: THANK YOU. SHE DOESN'T LOVE HERSELF. She keeps being in relationships than being happy being alone. I've met so many like this. They need to learn to be alone.
We appreciate how detailed this reading is. Keep up the good work as always.
the way i ran back to this video as soon as i saw the news 😭
i feel like she also works a lot to distract from the real reason the relationship doesn’t work out. in better off she says ‘on the road a lot/ had to keep it a thousand/ that i’m better off/ not being around you.’ it’s like she’s saying it didn’t work out because i’m always working not because of actual faults in our personalities/ communication/ etc.
Ohhh girl, this described my last relationship to a T. Losing me, had me losing him, ain’t that the 2 for 1 deal. Trauma will bring that struggle bus, may they have the patience to work through the murky waters
at this point, im only trusting your readings because you call it every single time !!
I think this will be good for ari, she really needs time to herself and to be able to have space to breathe. especially now since wicked production is on halt
She never really processed the trauma of what happened in Manchester Nor from what happened to Mac. I vaguely recall her saying she gave up on therapy and try to figure it out on her own but as she was saying it she was crying so she definitely has a lot of trauma that she hasn't processed yet... seems that she tried to stifle it by throwing herself into work and relationships
Great read Ant 😊 How in the WORLD are you not over 1 million in subs?! You are just the best in your field.
Thank you! Please share the video hehe
@@antphrodite always!
Couldn’t agree more! I love ants videos I wait with anticipation and have watched everyone. I’ve tried to watch other tarot channels! It isn’t just that Ant is so accurate, He’s also super entertaining and fun to watch! I truly don’t know how any doesn’t have a million subs! Keep it up Ant you will get there I have zero doubts i think you deserve a Netflix show I’m manifesting one for you I’d watch it!!!
He’s getting there!!
Came here after the news you were right I feel bad for her she said she only wanted to get married once and didn't want to end up like her parents who separated when she was young and were on bad terms for a long time I hope she takes time for herself and heals divorce isn't something you easily get over so I hope she stays strong
A lot of the things you said resonated with me, I saw myself in the things you said about Ari and I felt like you were talking to me lol. Thank you. Just wanted to let you know that your readings not only entertain but also heal. Wishing both Ari and u the best
I agree!
Ant is incomparable! Always getting it right! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
I feel for Ari she has been through so much! I personally have felt since she got married she has pulled away from social media & while I understand it must be exhausting having the world critique her every move. I feel like he certainly plays a part in it I always got vibes of something off about him. Of course I want to be supportive but at the same time she sounded absolutely heartbroken & so clearly there is more going on. I think whatever is going on is impacting her mentally & physically. That's not to say anyone should shame her for it. She may have been in a worst place when she was thicker but that's not to say she isn't still in a bad spot & trying to work through it while trying to please everyone else. I see both sides though I would imagine the spotlight would put an extra layer of stress & complexity on their relationship.
Bruh she's married u can't do what you did when u were single
i had deep intuitive feelings he was right with this one 3 months ago but i wanted so badly to be wrong 😭
i think dalton wasnt ready to have a relationship with someone with her amount of fame. she completely changed when they got together and her fans used to be so important. now she barely posts and doesnt do that much for her fans or communicates with us anymore unless its to tell us about REM beauty or to stop talking about her. i feel sad for her. its ok for her to be private but shes not the same
to be fair her fans suck. It’s funny YOU are feeling sad for HER tho…
I’ll always feel like Mac was really good for her (despite his struggles), I know they broke up because of his addiction but I feel like if he were able to get a good grasp on himself and recovered, they’d be together, now.
He loved the drugs more.
@@Smaugette Wdym by “he loved the drugs more” don’t you understand that drug addiction is a frigging DISEASE????
@@Smaugette Your comment reads as being so insensitive towards people who struggle/suffer from addiction smh 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Can yall leave this relationship in the past? If I were Ariana and read this shit I couldn't move onm it'd just keep me up at night wondering how things would be different if he lived but the thing is he didn't...
They’re getting divorced. At this point if someone doesn’t believe you’re the real deal they’re blind!!!!
I saw a blind item about their relationship months ago...it was verrrryyyy dark. I hate to see Ariana in a relationship where she is not being appreciated :(
What was it about? A lot of people are saying so many things about her husband being in the blind items
@@chickenwing3625 apparently he body shames her.
@@icedcashewmilklatte That’s so sad 🤧🤧🤧🤧😭😭😭😭
@@icedcashewmilklatte no wonder she's so skinny wow
He was right once again ❣️
Ant, you’re sinful to watch, you are so spiritually connected, you don’t miss. It’s unreal.
Men almost ALWAYS pull bullshit and can't handle being married to women more rich, powerful, or famous than them 🙄😒... It's happened to literally every diva ever. Marilyn Monroe, Judy Garland, Cher, Tina Turner, Barbra Streisand, Pamela Andersen, Jane Fonda ... The list goes on 😂🤷♀️
It’s wild that you mentioned Tina!! I thought of her during this reading too ❤
This reading to me sounds pretty relatable 🥹 I hope she finds herself soon. The longer you lose yourself the longer it takes to get back. I'm still in pursuit of getting me back. 💕
She's a cancer too 🫶
Not me seeing this after the divorce news 😭
It's crazy how people reject those who really love and care for them for those who only pretend and will generally mistreat except In the cases where the love is condition based
I think Miss Ariana just needs a better sense of self-esteem and self-worth I think she only values herself and her own worth in her relationships when she should value herself entirely and love herself with or without a man being by her side but she’s been through it (I will say that) 🤧🤧🤧🤧😭😭😭😭
Moral of the story: be careful what you wish for 🤐
She seems to be one of the people that don’t know who they are so they are constantly in a relationship because the can’t function otherwise.
Your reading is so spot on about what I’m feeling damn…
She can say she's healthy all she wants but I don't believe it.
I feel like this is the only psychic I can understand everyone else sounds like the tempest lol
😂❤
Lol but it makes sense tho because Spirit(s) speak to you in riddles. Ant is really good at translating it in a clear way 😅
@@awakeinthedream1111 lol girl you ain’t wrong
The tempest? Wdym by this/wdym by this tho exactly? Lolllllll haha 😩😂
And Ant is right again! Shocker 😂 nicely done 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
For a girl with her Fame, she has to have a partner that builds her up and support her endeavors! That's happened to me, to be over pleasing and that's when you lose your Power? She has to take her power back that she has..😧
And to stop seeking validation and value/self-value in her partners (I noticed she has a bad habit of doing this with her partners actually) 🤧🤷🏻♀️
So he is overly possessive and jealous of her but at the same time gets the ick and loses respect for her for being needy to him and want to please him? That makes no sense. I hate these type of men, yea she cant be herself because she feels chasing him would pull him away....
I did a mini reading on her a few days ago and it came through very clearly that he was using her for money. That relationship won’t last.
oh no
He’s a Leo and two years younger than her…not surprising 😬 fingers crossed they figure it out
She’s still grieving over Mac.