I don’t think she’s a narcissist but she has been molded by fame, being so successful at a young age. I’d never wish child/very young person stardom on my worst enemy, it’s gotta mess with your brain and sense of reality
I don’t think that’s an excuse tbh, I feel like we tell ourselves that celebrities can’t help their arrogance but I think everyone has a choice to work through their selfishness and many choose not to. Shame on Taylor swift and all of these rich celebrities, no souls.. they know a genocide is happen and choose to do nothing and remain silent
@@cherryflavoredplaylist753🥱 harass your politicians and go out and protest yourself. You can hate on celebs but sorry they won't and can't and the genocide none of us can so put your holier than though nasty judgy attitude where the sun don't shine you're not doing anything besides demoralizing people
Exactly. Just read some of the emails her dad sent that were released as part of a lawsuit with one of her former managers. It seemed like he viewed her as a product and was whining about not getting any of the glory for himself when he was doing things to try to further her career. And the resentment he clearly had for her mom was 😬. I’m sure not many people turn out well adjusted when you’re “the brand” instead of their child.
It’s starting to look like she got dumped. The way she’s running around frantically wanting attention and saying she loves a guy a month after breaking up with her long time boyfriend it’s obvious her ego is hurt as well as her heart. This is giving high school energy and it’s not looking good
I think this as well. It's giving she's the one before the one and Joe is her one who got away. I'd bet my last dollar Hoes next GF will end up being his wife.
I also think it’s to feed the narrative by fans that Joe kept her locked up and was controlling, so people turn against him without her having to explicitly say that, because it isnt true. Joe made her seem really mature and was a good influence on her. She seemed more forgiving, mature, wise. Made her best music when she was with him. But now her music’s going back to petty and so is her public persona
He probably did but because she couldn't just chill and drop the need for constant public attention- or maybe she couldn't go deeper into a real adult relatiomship- or he realized they just were meant to be together long term and pulled the plug. Sometimes relationships just fizzle out/ or each wants different things & he saw it & ended it. I bet her narc ego can't handle that the less successful, less famous person dumped her! And she has always given me freshman still stuck in 7th grade energy!
Listen, I’m a swiftie and according to his camp she did get dumped. From what his team said after the breakup he was feeling like they needed space and since she was preparing to essentially tour for two years straight he told her it would be the perfect time for them to take time and reevaluate the relationship and according to mutual friends she fully expected him to reach out to reunite before the tour even started that’s why her set list suddenly changed right after the announcement of the breakup, she was still hopeful they would get back together. I guess bc he hadn’t reached out she decided to go through with the breakup announcement even though they’d been apart since early February. It makes sense according to ants other readings on their relationship, and Taylor’s own lyrics about their relationship. She constantly sang about taking past relationships traumas on him and essentially accusing him of things he hadn’t done, starting fights and being over dramatic and him being patient time and again. Just listen to the songs afterglow and the Great War it’s all you need to know about how the relationship went. She constantly started fights and he forever was trying to reassure her and fix things. I love her music but I do believe she is not over him and used Matt Healy for a month to show Joe he could be replaced easily and when he didn’t come crawling back and Travis showed interest she jumped on it to try to get over it. It’s obvious to me so glaringly obvious that the thing with Travis is the most public rebound we’ve ever seen. It’s like that saying happy people don’t have to say they’re happy, but she’s been trying to prove she’s happy for months. I don’t buy it.
Midnights wasn't her best but not the worst, Lover takes that slot. It's not weird, she has a good relationship with the recording academy. If you are curious look up the Swiftologist he has videos going into this.
@@Lavendergemi Lover still had a few gems in there, even though I would agree it is overall very weak. I just did not like anything off of Midnights. I know they were going for an indie vibe, but the production sounds very unpolished to me.
SOS deserved that award 100x more than MIDnights did. SOS had an actual cultural impact and significance. I wanted Lana to win but SZA was definitely the one who should’ve won the award.
@@bojohnson5387 I agree. that was SZA's award. Makes me rage that it's political and not about the actual music. This is why many artists swear off the Grammy's and don't even care to submit or attend - it's a crock.
Here's my take on the album that no one asked for: So she's mad at Joe for moving on and she cheated on him in her mind with Matty and then she moved on with him publicly so Joe reacts but he didn't? And then she actually was in deep shit with Matty and he ghosted her too. And according to me in this album, she doesn't care what any of her fans think. She was like, "You guys thought you knew me, but you don't even know 1% of me and never will." Your reading was so correct.
I noticed the huge shift since she broke up with Joe. I have the opinion she's pushing herself so much just to prove "she's not in the wrong". The relationship with Travis seems rushed, as well. Dunno, but as her fan for 16 years, she has been the strangest so far. Midnights is the weakest album she's created, kept adding songs "From the Vault" for a whole year and it was nuts. Especially after releasing the song You're losing me, I had a gut feeling she was trying to put all the blame on him. Joe just kept getting the punches, and still moved on and kept living his life. I bet she's mad he's not reacting. Just create an album + deluxe edition and stop there. Also, using her exes to push them down and bring herself up is so childish nowadays. Just play with poetry and stories like in Folklore and Evermore and leave the bois alone. Those were the best albums.
I told people the other day how strange midnights was for me as a long time fan because of this exact reason. It was really felt like she was never happy with the final version of the album. I truly think this reading is accurate in that sense. Midnights did not give what she wanted it to.
Completely agree. Since her and Joe broke up she seems desperate to prove something,most likely to herself. Midnights was weird because at that time she was still dating him yet she said the songs were about her past. I always wondered how Joe felt about Taylor supposedly singing love songs to her exes,guys who she broke up over a decade ago. Also as a fan I though that now she was going to focus her music into telling stories instead of her love life,so it felt weird. Once I listened to the album,I couldn't help to wonder if in reality it was a break up album about Joe, and now in retrospective it seems like it. She knew they were going to break up. Personally, I think You're Losing Me is from Joe' POV tho, but fans interpreted differently
TS is a control freak & imo Joe just wouldn't be controlled by her anymore. imo their relationship was contractual for PR purposes & he didn't want to continue the public PR charade anymore, or being subservient & ordered around by her. imo the sudden breakup was more like she assumed he would renew their PR contract for another year & he actually ended the relationship by refusing to renew, cos it sure seems like she was the one who was taken by surprise by the relationship ending. Emotionally or career wise Joe literally didn't need her anymore, nor does it seem like he even 'misses' her. He is grey rocking her & as a covert narc imo this is driving her crazy cos she wants to be in the superior dominant position over him. imo she is more miffed about not having power over him anymore. All imo based on speculation.
She was quietly dating that sketchy band dude before travis until someone sent a photo to the tabs. she should have learned long ago that sometimes no one is at fault for a break up, sometimes relationships just run their course.
She returned back to tour today in Tokyo and she told the crowd that she was going to announce at the show if she didn't win a grammy - so I think you're right she didn't expect to win
I really really think that Taylor needs to get into therapy properly and HEAL. Not through friends or fans or music, but with the help of a professional. That’s where she’ll learn to forgive and let things go. And to take accountability for her mistakes while not self destructing.
Agreed. Plus I bet even creatively/artistically it will awaken a lot for her. She's more complex than she can express, and it's because she doesn't know how the psychology of her own head works. She doesn't have that neutral standpoint
Lol she didn't learn from her friend Ed Sheeran, he was super overexposed and the general public got SICK of him to the point where if he announced new music people were like "please no haven't we suffered enough 😢"
Insatiable need for attention , no integrity… she has no remorse when she attacks her exes, no empathy for them. The way she’s treating Joe is appalling, he’s now receiving death threats because of her. And she’s a frickin billionaire! How can she love someone for 6 long years, share their intimacy, someone that even protected her while she was being bullied on social media , and now she endorses the same abuse for him just because he broke up with her? Because their relationship broke down? She knows her life is demanding and a private person like Joe was under constant stress because of it… she can’t put herself on his shoes. Nothing makes sense, unless you’re a person with no integrity and emotional empathy ! Fits the narcissist description
She didn't want to go to therapy, and denying therapy is also a sign of a narcissist-denials of convenience-because of their inflated self-importance cannot tolerate feelings of shame or criticism and cannot take blame for their actions. When they admit wrongdoing, it brings up hurt and negative feelings. They lack accountability and use blame-shifting in their actions (sounds familiar eh?) It would be difficult for her due to her inability to look inwards, take accountability, and be vulnerable. Her desire to manipulate and control situations won't let her.
@@Lunearienyes, indeed. Just like the narcissists, She has a sense of grandiosity (huge ego), and she feels so superior to everyone, she even wrote on a song that she’s “the best thing at this party”, so when someone rejects her, her fantasy world crumbles, and she can’t take it maturely because it’s a form of criticism that denies she’s “the best thing”. So instead of engaging in self-reflection and finding ways to improve her flaws like a mature person, she viciously attacks anyone who criticizes her to nullify this threat to her sense of superiority.
Fr, when Ant did a reading on it. He said that Taylor breaks records and it's still not enough for her. I can see why he got tired of it. He didn't tell Taylor to stop being herself. He told her to just enjoy what you already have and she still doesn't do it. Anyone who get tired of a partner like that, be yourself but also learn to enjoy life
swifties are so sure that joe alwyn cheated on taylor, but they completely forget/ignore the fact that taylor’s team announced the breakup with joe ON matty healy’s birthday, april 8. and then a few weeks later, they started hard-launching that relationship to the public.
I believe that of swifties can doxxed the guy that posted those awful AI TS images, then they can also find receipts of Joe's cheating. And they will definitely parade it around (Calvin got those pics going to happy ending spa/masseuse if anyone remembers)
I feel like I’m the only one who doesn’t see any sort of chemistry between Taylor and Travis…it feels so performative and hollow. There’s no way Kelce is mentally compatible with her, either. I think Taylor is in love with the attention, period.
I really like Taylor but her desire for revenge/praise is her tragic flaw. If she operated PURELY from a place of just enjoying music I think people would root for her more (similar to when she won the VMA for Fearless, her every move wasn’t preplanned back then, and everyone was on her side regardless of what Kanye had to say). I don’t think she’s a narcissist but I think she’s like any other child star/show pony. They equate praise with love and that’s how they operate.
This is an actual valid criticism of taylor without being a hater, I am a swifty and I totally see where this is coming from. I agree, there's a difference in being a pop star and an artist and I think taylor is going to start a journey of where she is about to explore where she stands.
During the Grammys, Jay Z was receiving an award and started ranting about why his wife didn't win any album of the year awards. Similar to Kanye and his rant about why didn't Beyonce win album of the year. Taylor won both those years. I am not a Swifty, but I do own one album "Reputation" which was harder hitting. That album should have won album of the year. Beyonce is not my cup of tea either but she is talented. There's no album or song that even deem worthy of that award. Jealousy is an evil thing...
@@LavendergemiExactly! Notice how when she just focused on her artistry and took risks for folklore, she got all the acclaim and started gaining public favor tremendously. People can tell when someone is being truly authentic versus projecting an image. I don’t necessarily think she’s being fake, but she’s definitely in her pop/it girl bag right now.
@@themindfullone this 100% look at all she's accomplished and then people get upset that she has a bit of an ego and wants to shine. She has to try on different hats, and she happens to be in her it girl era. We all ebb and flow, progress and struggle with our pit falls but Taylor is doing it in the public eye, of course she's going to be criticized but she also deserves grace as we all do as we mature. Thank you for showing grace will still sharing your opinion❤️
I think her energy has changed a lot since the Joe break up. With Joe she seemed super mature and cool because she was only seen occasionally and she seemed to just focus on her music. Joe seemed to bring out the best in her. Ever since they broke up she’s seemed very immature and petty, it’s made me like her a lot less, or at least how she comes across.
“she’s been immature since the breakup” but she was writing songs like London Boy, I Forgot That You Existed, This Is Why We Can’t Have Nice Things, Karma, and Bejeweled while with him? lmfao
Basically just because something is consumed by a lot of people doesn’t make it good. Basically the comment is calling Taylor Swift’s music the fast food of the music industry
I find it strange that she showed a lot of support for Olivia Rodrigo from a distance but she still wouldn't approach her to talk or take a photo. Feels like PR move. Not a real friendship. Also, she might stay with Kelce for PR as well. People are obsessed with them dating right now. Maybe one day she will actually fall in love with him but for now I think she likes the attention from him and the media.
@@Fern.Randall I’m not sure since I don’t know his personality. I only started paying attention to Taylor the last few months. Was never a big fan. Still learning about her. I think they make a cute couple. A powerful one. It boosted their career although both already successful before dating.
Girl tho! When you said that you felt like her accepting that most recent Grammy was a curse, an energy switch, I screamed! I 100% said that to my coworker on Grammy night! You 100% nailed it.
I see everyone saying this, but what does it mean exactly? An energetic switch thru her own fault or what exactly? Im confused bc she cant exactly control whether or not she wins a grammy so why would an energy shift happen based on someone giving her something? Genuinely interested in understanding!
@okaywow3486 I don't know how or what it means but there's a conspiracy that Beyonce does magic. I don't or didn't buy into it but that's where my mind wandered to at that point in this reading
if in her heart of hearts she knew midnights was trash and that’s the only reason she got the Grammy she effectively stole it from another artist who did put everything into their work and would have deserved it!!! That’s the curse. She is going to be punished for that. She has zero integrity. she doesn’t know what love is and she distorts mass perception of what love is from her crappy “work”. She’s an addict she doesn’t know anything about real love and connection but is in denial about it
I’m so over Swift using music to attack her exes. It’s disgusting to watch her fans salivate over the a thought of publicly humiliating and dragging Joe. She plays victim while silencing anyone who disagrees with her. Creepy and weird. Calvin Harris is the only ex to stand up for himself.
Exactly 😂 the fact that she openly cheated on him and her fans excuse it as some act of feminism because he didn't give her public credit on a song she chose to be anon on. Forgot you existed in the most holier than though failed attempt to seem unbothered lmao and Ole by John Newman has the real T on taytay and her toxic messy embarrassing ass
Say it louder for those in the back 🙌🏻 I have said this for years and everyone calls me crazy because I don’t like her. She gives me weird vibes and always has even when she was first starting out.
i really like taylor but i also feel the dark energy ever since that grammy touched her hands. the second that happened all my algorithms have been taylor hate which is okay but it’s the fact that it feels like it came over night
You’re right. The first thing they spoke about after her win was how rude she was to Celine, and that set the tone. Personally I think she was just caught in the moment and it’s not like she hasn’t met Celine before, people taking it out of context. That hate is inevitable though, you can tell it’s slowly coming and to be quite honest, it’s kind of deserved. I feel like it actually humbles her which sounds bad but in a way it does, after 1989 when she took that break she came back better. Midnights was not an album of the year winner for me, it’s just not good enough sonically, or lyrically except those few tracks. Thank you Aaron Dessner. Jack Antonoff, as great as he is, working with Taylor so often is also annoying cos everything sounds the same. What on earth happened to the re-recordings he worked on. Aaron I feel brings out a different side to her. Something about Taylor this era has been off, the way she associates with anyone, I know she’s trying to be supportive but she would typically only let certain people in her circle and I’m not even taking about her real circle, just the public social circle . Idk. Lol, just the vibe has been off and because her fame is increasing it’s hard to sift the real fans from the others, or the newer fans from the old. Some people just agree with everything Taylor does and don’t even know what she used to be like cos they weren’t apart of that era.
Narcs in their middle age tend to have a lot of unforced errors and people start to see the pattern of her behavior. Her snubbing Celine- and she did, I don't think on purpose but she's just so self focused that she was rude and didn't even notice it was Celine and people thought that was gross and it was. She tried to make a quick patch with a hugging photo after but she should have posted a brief "omg what an idiot I am, i was so surpirsed/excited I didn't even see that it was Celine. What an honor for her to come give out this award! Thank you Celine, you are Legend" or something like that. Then she announces her album at someone else's event - that's like announcing you're engaged/pregnant at someone else's wedding reception- tacky & rude. She could have wait, she has all the platforms
@@Taylena8913 it's not really out of context, it was rude. She hugged everyone else & ignored Celine?! I don't think she did it on purpose but it was rude.
@sillygoose-bf7pp I agree if she did that it would show an human side to her which has been absent for a few years, I used to be a die hard fan since 2008 and now she looks like Taylor Swift the brand not taylor swift the human, everything she does is calculated and planned, nothing is ever natural or spontaneous it's like she's not a person anymore, she is just her name. She has to have control over everything and draws a huge line now even to her fans, she looks heavily distant (and unreachable in a 'powerful queen'-like way) in a way I've never seen her act before and it seems only her old fans realise that she's been acting weird, the rest are buying whatever she chooses to throw at them. I wish she did therapy and became more self aware like truly self aware not her idea of self awareness "bla I'm crazy and unhinged" yeah but why don't you reflect on all that? truly reflect, deep down and WORK on it. No doubts she is talented, I bet great art would come out if she looked into herself and matured as a person. But she chose the chaos only and closing her eyes and sticking to her comfort zone of the spotlight she reached so that's why her art is going down, not that I think it's bad, but I believe it could be so much better.
I like her music, but......my biggest problem with her possibly sh*t talking/singing about Joe is that he hasn't said a word , not a peep, at least publically. She comes across as someone who never thinks she's wrong no matter what or takes accountability. It seems like always thee but not for me.
@monsemora2964 Hasn't yet, I was speaking as if Ants prediction on the album comes true. And yes, she can write about her life, but at a certain point, singing about exes/vengeance primarily gets old and predictable 😂. Ants right, the public will get tired of it. Doesn't she have anything else going on in her life besides exes? Friendship, traveling, memories, hope, family, grief, reflection, society, culture, faith, social issues, adventure, etc. ? She's very talented and more than capable of exploring different topics more.
Every Taylor Swift reading is like this, and I think it says a lot about how bad she is at strategizing when it comes to revenge. She's smart, that's for sure, but she's so petty and vindictive and egocentric that she ends up falling on her sword everytime. There are times when you act in favor of revenge because justice isn't an option, and then there are times when the best revenge is a life lived well. Taylor Swift knows how to garner career success (especially to spite her haters), but I don't think she knows how to be happy.
Yep & this is why I think she's a narc- they literally can't help themselves- all unforeced errors- see also markle & trump (not that i think trump is even slightly intelligent)
Announcing the new album at the Grammys was not the right setting. This isn’t the people’s choice awards. All the people in that room are doing the same thing. Making music, etc. They don’t care that you’re dropping a new album.
I really believe in this. I’ve been feeling this energy building for her for months. She is running up the hill as fast as she can and stories don’t work like this. You can’t keep winning on such a large scale. Humility is so important
I do think she’s a covert narcissist actually. I just learned that she released Reputation on the 10th anniversary of Kanye’s mom’s death, I don’t think it’s a coincidence like people are saying…
As if kanye is some sort of Saint. Imagine if it was you was fake naked in his famous MV. He stopped low first, but blind people like you won't see it.
I would be interested in see a reading on just Joe alwyn or at least his side of things. How he feels about the breakup or if he's seeing someone new etc. It would be cool to get his pov esp before her new album that's likely going to set the public narrative
Taylor is the epitome of a sore winner. She has everything she’s wished for: awards, respect from her industry peers, billionaire status, and millions of adoring fans. But for some reason, she is still hung-up on past drama. Just still fixated on issues from her past, like Kim & Kanye or her exes. Girl, move on.
This over saturation is literally shooting her legacy in the foot. It’s almost like she can’t stop herself from being at every event, photographed every night, talked about. It’s a drug to her. BUT! She told us herself “you confuse my covert narcissism as altruism”
The re recordings honestly was the shooting of the foot to her legacy. She released subpar, rushed recordings of her original work to spite someone else. Like girl just keep creating and keep it pushing. Ur a billionaire now just go negotiate W the company that owns them now. Re recordings are so unnecessary and made her discography a convoluted mess.
the lyric is “Did you hear my covert narcissism i disguise as altruism”, meaning she is talking about what people are saying about her. It is not a confession about her own narcissism.
@@tekgid433 I don’t care if you think she is a narcissist, but saying she admitted to being one because of anti-hero is straight up just purposefully misinterpreting a very simple lyric, or just having really poor analytic skills. Once again, “Did you hear my covert narcissism I disguise as altruism” is clearly referencing something people say about her, something she heard. She is isn’t saying “I cover up my narcissism with altruism”, but talking about the way people perceive her because the whole song is about self-loathing.
I don’t like that she is threatening to sue a college kid because he is legally exposing her private jet flying and carbon emissions that are already public information.
@@reneesantos2651 that information is already available to the public. It's just being posted by many accounts as a way to criticize her unnecessary and quite frankly vile use of a private jet to substitute 20 minute car rides
@@toxxiklovee i disagree that it's "no one's business" since the environmental danger she's causing affects everyone. even though taylor shouldn't be the only one cancelled since every millionaire does the same,i think bringing awareness to co2 emissions is something positive
It takes time to move on, shes not a machine to hit delete. And you don't know Joe personally at all. Just because he's not saying anything publically, doesnt mean he's moved on lol
@@nishthagupta1357that's understandable. Buts she's in a "loving" relationship. Jesus she can write about that. And her using JOE's group chat title?? It's giving pathetic and notice me Joe. Fyi for the usual defense of psycho swifties, I have the same opinion when with men in their 30s who can't move on from their ex publicly. It's pathetic and childish.
@@brendenreecegaming284 no she's not. Shes a singer songwriter. A normal person trashes their ex and tells everyone about it. But its Taylor's job. Stop blaming her
She has really messed up with her big “Denial” list that includes almost every song she wrote about Joe. Bitter. Bitter. Not over Joe. Manipulative as well as she tries to manipulate public perception.
She tried to get a reaction from him for a whole year unsuccessfully. She’s upset like hell he’s moving on. Previously Joe was spotted walking on the street looking very healthy and unbothered. I guess that’s what triggered her… people on X already noticed every time he gets spotted glowing, she takes a swipe at him shortly after. It’s a pattern. She’s definitely still not over him. I wonder how this is gonna end.
Her exposure rn reminds of me of the 1989 era and then we had the events that led to her stepping away to make reputation. I don't feel like she learned from that era, and I can see that same kind of thing happening again
She really did not learn from it... which is kinda surprising as I see her as quite smart. Her Team should tell her to calm things down, but apparently this is not happening.
Agreed. I thought for sure she learned that these things happen in ebbs and flows. She made a strong comeback and now it’s time to calm things down for 2-3 years before coming
It’s disappointing knowing she hasn’t changed and matured since then. When she came back with lover, folklore, and evermore I think everyone thought she grew up and learned from it but now I think it’s more Joe’s influence than anything else.
The downside of being famous too young, your personality changes at least twice in ur 20s. She didn’t get the chance to discover herself fully. Miley went through the same thing
Omg I was thinking the SAME thing. Something felt very off watching her accept that Grammy live, not just her being tipsy looking but the energy. I definitely felt the shift.
And guess what, this was her 13th grammy. 13 is her lucky number. The shift in energy what ant felt, is it the indication that luck is not on her side😶🫢
There's no denying it that there was once love there, and they both loved each other dearly. But my honest opinion is that I think Joe got tired of Taylor's BS. He saw through it and knew she was never going to change. She still reminisces about past ex lovers (except for Calvin). And Joe? He will forever live in her mind rent-free.
No, the way you accurately predicted this ENTIRE thing. People hating on the album even if it was good because she's overexposed af (to the point it borders on being forcibly spammed down people's throats - especially with media coverage), her trying to control the narrative on social media (posting the 5 star reviews she's received), the Matty/Kim references (the old beef, old ex) - truly the Nostradamus of our time. In Ant we trust!
NFR was released in 2019 and eligible for 2020 Grammys. NFR was beat by Billie eyelash. Lover wasn’t nominated that year despite being eligible. Folklore one in 2021
saw this only now... the way this was all correct. rushed product, spiteful lyrics, weird competitive nature of constant re release to keep other pop girls out of the spotlight.... craaazyyyyy 21:05.... LEGITTT whats happening omg
Agree fully with this! The vibe has shifted. She’s too big and there’s nowhere to go but down. We are seeing it in the jet usage suing, the Grammys, the overexposure. I also believe that if Taylor and Travis break up, he’s not going to be silent about it if she takes a swipe at him. He would 100% defend himself.
I’ve been turned off from taylor since last year when she got all her friends to unfollow joe after specifically timed paparazzi outings, after her team previously claimed the split was “amicable,” she tried to make it look like joe cheated but then we found out she announced the breakup on matty healy’s birthday (april 8) a few weeks before hard launching that relationship. a lot of her fans praise her pettiness but i just find it childish and nasty. she didn’t have to be such a b_tch about it. she’s in her mid 30s and acting like a middle school mean girl. and with her time POTY interview she seems to be feeding into the narrative that joe locked her away in london for 6 years and i’m like- girl grow tf up, we saw you talking in interviews about the importance of keeping your relationship private. you are grown as hell, a billionaire, and a self-proclaimed “mastermind.” nobody FORCED you to do anything.
Yeah I agree she’s over exposed for my taste. Seeing All the NFL coverage on her has turned me off as well. I liked her at “Fearless”, “Speak Now, and “Red” now I just need a break from her.
When my 60-something year old dad brought up Taylor and Travis' relationship that he was aware of due to espn coverage, that's when I said ENOUGH IS ENOUGH 😤😤😤
Exactly 💯 it's like over exposed no empathy for others either entitled, not the same girl , don't take this wrong it's just my opinion, but it seems like this is a Cult following instead of fans and that's dangerous . Yes the world seems to be hers for taking , I'm sure she will try to influence folks to vote , and she probably won't vote herself IMO it's just that Power she feels and needs to feel something but it's NOT EMPATHY FOR OTHERS . It's feels dark IMO. Her videos alone a dark she's more like robotic to me .
@@nishthagupta1357 speculation or not that's basically what rebound lovebombing looks like, the icing on the cake was them being mic'd after the chiefs won the superbowl and we all heard that conversation. It's just normal rebound behavior, but a step above
I also sensed from the moment of their break up news that she fumbled. I have love/“hate” relationship with her. I’m also kinda happy-unhappy that she broke up with him since it’s first time she wasn’t right and it was her fault. And I like that Joe is just living his life and moved on. I don’t care about him but it’s kinda funny “seeing” Taylor being pissed off
I think Taylor is an incredible songwriter but the way "we" are suddenly acting like she's a messiah is getting obnoxious. Midnights wasn't the best album of the year. It just wasn't. And her constant victim act (in that dumb article and when someone cracked a joke at an award show) is getting awfully obnoxious for someone who is constantly suing small people for petty shit to become an even wealthier and more successful billionaire. There's no such thing as an ethical billionaire. She needs to stop. Enough. I am/was a Barb and I feel like Taylor and Nicki are realizing they can keep their competition small via AI and bot engagement simulating a hype that isn't deserved. And it's backfiring for both of them.
She's not a billionaire. People still think a tour gross is how much the artist gets, but that's just how much the tour made before expenses. Those come in at 90% on average. If it grossed a billion than she's around the 100 million mark + a percentage of merch. She gave away 50 million to others already, so she didn't even keep most of her money.
Came here after the shocker that the album is a hitpiece about Matty and not Joe. The few songs about Joe are just very sad and don't really seem to blame him for much. This does make me think that the person she wanted to overshadow is Matty Healy and she wanted her album out before his, that will probably have some songs that paint her in a bad light
I don't think she's a narcissist, but she's part of the ego game, going to the top, male dominated industry, she's acting way disconnected from herself as she used to as a teenager
Nah, she’s absolutely a narcissist. Anybody who’s apart of the sick industry has to be. Knowing what they do to children behind the scenes to get to the top…
I was just saying this yesterday, the Grammys really show cased her narcissistic behaviour and this new album was going to show us why Joe broke up with her, pettiness, immaturity, ego, selfish behaviour.
Taylor always comes across as a teenager. She’s emotionally stunted. Arrested development could be due to fame at such a young age and being someone who always got what she wanted. Her family made her a star.
And her living in a bubble with yes men plus fans who infantilize her is no help either. She's too used to get everything she wanted, and couldn't deal with rejection or anything that didn't go her way. Immature and petty.
what would there be to read? she makes music that’s not as connected to her personal life as Taylor’s so it’s easier to separate the art from artist imo
Swifties are making up conspiracies about and threatening young women who have acted alongside Joe Alwyn, and Swift has done nothing to stop the threats (nor those for Alwyn either. Will you please do a current reading for both Swift and Alwyn? Is she totally losing it?
@@ana_lynn_w2959she obviously didn’t want to be up there after she lost in a category she was nominated in. She’s such a polarizing figure in the media she was definitely afraid of being accused of trying to take Taylor’s moment out of jealousy. Taylor dragging her up there was a very Regina George move.
@@AG-fg1ukso far I’m seeing inaccuracy because this isn’t even about Joe. No one saw this coming that the album is actually about Matty. 7:35 she definitely did not “realize it’s her fault that they broke up,” 8:13 she didn’t go hard on Joe at all. And she certainly doesn’t feel bad about going hard on anybody. Album certainly didn’t flop… a lot of people criticized it of course, but it broke records for sales and streams. No one is really mad at her for talking about Joe cuz she didn’t… they are mad that she swore a lot, came after some of her fans, insulted the Christians… and they’re mad because she was so in love with Matty and they don’t like Matty (which is exactly the fans she came for)
25:55 When Ant said he felt something energetically dark was set in motion when she accepted that Grammy, I wonder if it could’ve been prevented (if Taylor had been given opportunities to learn forgiveness sooner but chose not to) or whether it’s meant to happen the way it’s unfolding.
A lot of people which are swifties by the way are siding with Joe right now and yes I’m one of them. As much as how I love her music, energy wise I will side with Joe for this one.
Well I will still listen to her songs esp this album since she’s a good song writer. She’s talented and dedicated when it comes to her craft for sure. But I will refuse to see Joe as the villain of the story. Compared to other swifties who condemns him for no apparent reason just because he’s her ex.
@@bebu4ever Yes she’s very talented and dedicated, I’m looking forward to her new album! Her storytelling ability is genius. We don’t know anything about their relationship. What I will say is that the alleged source close to him that provided the alleged statement to The Daily Mail after she announced the album was very distasteful. Definitely jumping the gun, on the defensive. What this media outlet publishes has to be taken with a grain of salt.
@@patriciaa.5571 But they're speculations. Unless proven guilty of course. And if he did cheat, Taylor should've left. Didn't she learn anything from her past experiences? She's not a teenager anymore and with that many exes shouldn't she know how to differentiate a toxic from a healthy relationship? Instead she jumps into multiple relationships rather than heal. Majority of Tarot readers including Ant's who did readings for both Joe and Taylor saw that she is trying her best to actually dig dirt on her boyfriend which btw I think is a very toxic thing to do in a relationship. Because if you don't trust your man then might as well end the relationship rather than stay and repeat the cycle over and over again to think that this is not her first relationship. She needs to heal from all past traumas before jumping into a new relationship but she can't - I saw a birth chart reading in regards to this also. It's like she can't stand being alone and single. This time she really needs to go to therapy and stop proving a point to everyone. Instead she needs to focus on herself especially her mental health. She's a billionaire a successful career woman and is good at writing songs and doing her craft and as a fan I'm proud of her success. But she needs to step back and relax. At the end of the day her billions will not get affected by it but herself.
Absolutely agree with this. She’s the constant victim and always tries so hard to control the narrative. It’s manipulative. I think people are starting to see this
You were so right!!!!! I think with “thanK you aIMee” which brings up her mom wishing death, Kim’s child singing her song.. I see a lot of people thinking she took things too far and are tired of her playing the victim
Her fans are so devoted that she doesn’t need to let them miss her. I’m convinced her music changes brain chemistry over time bc I just don’t understand the appeal.
@@sillygoose-bf7pp Good idea but it won't be enough for her. She craves the spotlight. The attention and validation. She repeatedly told people this. Like she's anxious if she didn't get award nomination, or can't get over whatever critique she got-her fragile ego can't take it 💀
Thought so too. All this feels like a massive red herring, and was meant to push the knive deeper on Joe by alluding that there's another dude in her heart all along
I’m team Joe been saying that I think Taylor just chose her career over that relationship… she even says “I miss you but I miss sparkling” in bejeweled
No.. She said "I made you my world, have you heard, I can reclaim the land?" Which means she lost herself in the relationship and Joe took her for granted. She hid from public, became a private person for him and yet he just ignored the biggest popstar in the world. She deserved better. That's why she said "I miss you but I miss sparkling" v now she's not gonna hide. She's gonna be shining
@@nishthagupta1357 he didn’t ignore her. She change her mind by being public again. One person wants to stay private. The other person wants to be public. You want to force the private person to be public? Remember, that is a human with own thoughts and feelings. They have their own likes and dislikes. Not an accessory. Not a doll to drag. Not a slave.
You have talked a lot about forgiveness and how she needs to learn how to forgive and it just clicked me!! ''And I'll forget you but I'll never forgive The smallest man who ever lived'' lyrics from a song from this album! You're mastermind in reading this, wow.
I just watched Taylor's 2022 commencement speech at NYU, and she said that she grew up being drilled into her head that she "had" to be perfect, otherwise the world would crumble and fans' lives would fail if she was not the perfect person for everyone. She seems completely aware of this trait/fault. I think it's an ongoing process for her, to learn who she is and gain control over that part of her life. I also feel that she lives her life in a "performative" way, and maybe that's why people view her as fake or disingenuous. Probably plays into being a people pleaser perfectionist. JUST MY OPINION.
Perfectionism is very hard to shake. Especially when she can't even walk from point A to B without people coming out in droves to project their crap on her.
She’s so overexposed it’s insane, I’m just tired of seeing her 24/7. She’s too concerned about winning awards, being number one and flying her private jet any chance she gets. I just wish she’d go away
Dearest Ant, may we request for an updated reading of Taylor Swift, Matty Healy, and Joe Alwyn. Taylor confesses that she's been in love with Matty all these years even while with Joe.
I agree with what you said about letting her fans miss her. I'm not a conventional swiftie (I care a lot about music and her songwriting specifically, but I'm not obsessed with her as a person), and this album announcement immediately hit me as...too much. Breathe girl. We get it, you're on the top of the world, and I'm happy for you! But let us miss you for a second so we don't get exhausted.
she has a song on the track list called “who’s afraid of little old me?” and i’m looking forward to see if your prediction about her realizing she “became the monster” that he said she’d be will be true.
I really hope Joe comes out and lays out the truth in an interview. I don’t think the others have been so open before. Would love him quote Jennifer Aniston “there’s a sensitivity chip missing”
Im here after album release. Ant you are so freaky in the best way. I luuuuuuve it!!!!! . Shes even slighted her fans on her album. !!!!Theres alot of hate in her album for Matty and i think she was secretly lusting after him when she was with Joe. A song mentions it. Shes so petty and i think Karma is gonna get her. I cant wait for Joe to meet someone new. He hasnt said a single word of negativity against her.
Joe really has integrity and lots of patience. I wouldn't't be able to handle everything the death threats, harassment, her spinning the narrative against me for over a year now.
There is an elite level narcissist (HGTudor) who says Taylor is one of his kind. So a lot of what Ant says about Taylor not having emotional depth and mirroring how the public sees her makes sense.
If she's so happy in her current relationship then why would she release an album about her ex? Just shows she isn't over him and Travis is just a distraction.
Which is so sad, Travis seems to actually be into her. And he has a very united family. He wouldn't be a bad choice to settle down with. But she didn't give herself time to properly get over her ex and learn to enjoy being single
Because she started writing it 2 years ago, while she was still with him. She's written about most of exes, why would her longest relationship be any different. People are happy for her to right lyrics about Joe if their positive but not so keen for her to write about them if she wants to talk about the problems in their relationship.
I knew the over exposure was going to be worse than her 1989 era.... and it's getting there, for sure. People are getting sick of her, swiftie,or not....WHEW! I gotta come back and say,...she won't be singing Karma so confidently anymore!😮
i can see this making sense. taylor has a really bad problem with holding grudges, letting things go is hard for her. sometimes i think she focuses too much in the past, on previous relationships. she was well into her engagement with joe when she made a 10 minute song and short film about a 3 month long relationship in 2010! it was ridiculous. this 2nd album about joe gives me the same energy. you are with travis now, move on! it’s embarassing and disrespectful to your current relationships when you linger on exes and make extended content about them.
You realize albums are usually made way in advance. Or at least thought of in advance. She probably wrote a lot of these songs before getting with Travis. So now she's just supposed to scrap it all?
The 10 minute song and the album already existed, she’s re-recording her old albums, the video was to promote the song, and she promoted all the other re-recordings with videos too, she didn’t new songs about an old relationship
@@el972 the short film was too much. she was purposely digging up old drama and had people attacking jake for a 3 month relationship that was 12 years ago at that point. stop defending her teenage girl mindset
I don’t hate Taylor but I’m very tired of her now, she is everywhere. She should step back for a while. If the new album will bash Joe I’m going to loose my respect for her honestly. I’m hoping that this Aquarius era will bring forth celebrities that care about the collective more. I am tired of the extensive wealth and selfishness of today’s celebrities. The sort of unawareness and disinterest in how their actions affect the world. Sure it isn’t Taylor’s or any other celebrity’s responsibility to end world hunger and bring peace to the world, but having such a huge impact on the world and only focusing on your exes and getting revenge is annoying. You have the power to unite people and you choose to divide.
i actually left Swifty Facebook groups for a reason they look at her like they on cult. the constant slander on joe,or joe cheated and she is always the victim and joe should hide on this album. i came realizing i am a fan but I don't tolerate bullshit. i unfollowed her social media and and decided to just listen to her music and hide Facebook posts about her. it makes me sick. she is giving mean vibes and negativity and i dont welcome it.
Taylor is ALWAYS “fighting for something.” But FOR WHAT?! She is SO INSANELY PRIVILEGED. She grew up super rich with a white daddy who worked as a stock broker. She’s never wanted for anything in her life but all she ever does is claim “discrimination.” I’m tired. She gives SUCH covert narcissist energy.
Yes!! Covert narcissist I get that vibe too. They can be so sneaky that's why people don't see her as a narc, but she is ,imo. She can be kind, act caring but actually very calculated.
@@breannaxo And her father connection paved her way, so she's definitely had it way better than other pop stars who really are struggling from the bottom like Britney Spears
So she just got with Travis to make Joe jealous basically. I’m a huge Taylor fan, I love her music but I can tell she ain’t into Travis lol. I really don’t think they will last.
Spot on and him isn't even into her he is just interested in the attention when it all ends he will marry a simple girl settle down in the country far away from the glitz and glamour of fame
@@sillygoose-bf7pp I mean fair but personally I don’t feel the coldness of a narc from her. More like a child having a tantrum when they’re disregulated. But that’s just my personal opinion.
@@ranga1cat ooh she's chilly to me, tries to hide it but she's chilly. All her friend photos are so planned, down to the outfits etc, they're her collections.
We need a Taylor and Matty Healy reading stat! The more I learn, the more it sounds like almost the entire album is about Matty, not to mention songs on folklore, evermore, and vault tracks from 1989
well she already said it before she does what her fans want like fake relationships but in reality it is not the truth (so they need to know which relationship she is faking and for PR only - going to give an example Lautner & Hiddleston + adding Travis too since I saw him post having a meeting with her in her NY apartment)
It’s Beyoncé. Taylor announced her album at the Grammys and Beyoncé did last night at the superbowl. Plus the fact Beyonce is doing a country album which is the genre Taylor started with. Also to see if Bey will win album of the year with the country album but some people not feeling it.
No matter what the truth will always come out. And I think the truth about who Taylor Swift truly is is going to be exposed no matter how she tries to swing it, the victim mentality is getting old and boring and pathetic really.
Honestly good on Joe for not being sucked in by petty behavior. The best revenge is always to continue to thrive on your own. I hope Taylor can get past her grudges one day and just enjoy making music. Who cares if she releases a flop or two? She's still going to be massively successful and remembered as a songwriting icon. If she doesn't go away on her own, people are going to make sure she does. I think it's time she focuses on herself for a bit, preferably alone. She's in danger of flying too close to the sun. Edit: Also, the whole Travis Kelce thing always reeked to me of "rebound". He's like the total opposite of Joe. He may like her, but I 100% believe that she doesn't feel the same way. She just likes the attention. Edit #2: I don't think she's a narcissist. I think she got famous at a young age, and I think it's difficult to mature past the age when you got famous. Her behavior still reads to me as an insecure teenager. I feel like she wants to be a good person, but she doesn't know what that means for her yet because like you said, she's never really given herself time to discover who she is.
She used Britney's name a lot, but went radio silent about the Free Britney movement, even until now. No acknowledgement. No shout out. No empathy towards the supposedly one of her biggest idol & influencer. Nada. Tells a lot about her real personality.
@@BrodiesPiano She named Britney as her fav, in other interviews she shows Britney as her Most Played artist, showing off her picture with Britney in Britney's Camp (for UNDERPRIVILEGED kids, which she is obviously not one), etc. She took notes from Britney in many ways including working with people who have famously worked with Britney like Max Martin, and Joseph Kahn (Bad Blood is so heavy with Toxic mixed with Womanizer influence) Taylor talks frequently in interviews about examining the other pop stars, studies them. She basically took a lot of notes from Britney, and create a polar opposite persona than that of Britney because back then society was horrible to someone with Britney's style (and a lot of people still are, being especially harsh on Britney) And even to this day, her Red TV include her new song that's obviously a reference to Britney's Lucky, in both title, lyrics, and MV. Britney is Taylor's personal Pop Star Bible.
I don’t think she’s a narcissist but she has been molded by fame, being so successful at a young age. I’d never wish child/very young person stardom on my worst enemy, it’s gotta mess with your brain and sense of reality
I don’t think that’s an excuse tbh, I feel like we tell ourselves that celebrities can’t help their arrogance but I think everyone has a choice to work through their selfishness and many choose not to. Shame on Taylor swift and all of these rich celebrities, no souls.. they know a genocide is happen and choose to do nothing and remain silent
@@cherryflavoredplaylist753🥱 harass your politicians and go out and protest yourself. You can hate on celebs but sorry they won't and can't and the genocide none of us can so put your holier than though nasty judgy attitude where the sun don't shine you're not doing anything besides demoralizing people
She’s said this in her Miss Americana doc on Netflix!
She said her self “don’t confuse my covert narcissism as altruism”
Exactly. Just read some of the emails her dad sent that were released as part of a lawsuit with one of her former managers. It seemed like he viewed her as a product and was whining about not getting any of the glory for himself when he was doing things to try to further her career. And the resentment he clearly had for her mom was 😬. I’m sure not many people turn out well adjusted when you’re “the brand” instead of their child.
It’s starting to look like she got dumped. The way she’s running around frantically wanting attention and saying she loves a guy a month after breaking up with her long time boyfriend it’s obvious her ego is hurt as well as her heart. This is giving high school energy and it’s not looking good
I think this as well. It's giving she's the one before the one and Joe is her one who got away. I'd bet my last dollar Hoes next GF will end up being his wife.
Completely agree
I also think it’s to feed the narrative by fans that Joe kept her locked up and was controlling, so people turn against him without her having to explicitly say that, because it isnt true. Joe made her seem really mature and was a good influence on her. She seemed more forgiving, mature, wise. Made her best music when she was with him. But now her music’s going back to petty and so is her public persona
He probably did but because she couldn't just chill and drop the need for constant public attention- or maybe she couldn't go deeper into a real adult relatiomship- or he realized they just were meant to be together long term and pulled the plug. Sometimes relationships just fizzle out/ or each wants different things & he saw it & ended it. I bet her narc ego can't handle that the less successful, less famous person dumped her!
And she has always given me freshman still stuck in 7th grade energy!
Listen, I’m a swiftie and according to his camp she did get dumped. From what his team said after the breakup he was feeling like they needed space and since she was preparing to essentially tour for two years straight he told her it would be the perfect time for them to take time and reevaluate the relationship and according to mutual friends she fully expected him to reach out to reunite before the tour even started that’s why her set list suddenly changed right after the announcement of the breakup, she was still hopeful they would get back together. I guess bc he hadn’t reached out she decided to go through with the breakup announcement even though they’d been apart since early February. It makes sense according to ants other readings on their relationship, and Taylor’s own lyrics about their relationship. She constantly sang about taking past relationships traumas on him and essentially accusing him of things he hadn’t done, starting fights and being over dramatic and him being patient time and again. Just listen to the songs afterglow and the Great War it’s all you need to know about how the relationship went. She constantly started fights and he forever was trying to reassure her and fix things. I love her music but I do believe she is not over him and used Matt Healy for a month to show Joe he could be replaced easily and when he didn’t come crawling back and Travis showed interest she jumped on it to try to get over it. It’s obvious to me so glaringly obvious that the thing with Travis is the most public rebound we’ve ever seen. It’s like that saying happy people don’t have to say they’re happy, but she’s been trying to prove she’s happy for months. I don’t buy it.
how tragic to have the whole entire world and still not be happy
I agree, Having ALL and she's always thinking about hating someone and shading her enemies
EXACTLY.
POPULARITY AND MONEY & FAME isn't the whole world.. Love is ❤ & she doesn't have that lol
@@ciudadanakane8743its cause people are jelaous of her & she has many enemies duh
How tragic to believe riches and "having the world" brings you happiness.
This was weirdly validating for me. I thought Midnights was her weakest album to date lol. And the fact she won a Grammy for it was a little weird.
Midnights wasn't her best but not the worst, Lover takes that slot. It's not weird, she has a good relationship with the recording academy. If you are curious look up the Swiftologist he has videos going into this.
There's a lot of bribery and politics with the Grammys.
@@Lavendergemi Lover still had a few gems in there, even though I would agree it is overall very weak. I just did not like anything off of Midnights. I know they were going for an indie vibe, but the production sounds very unpolished to me.
SOS deserved that award 100x more than MIDnights did. SOS had an actual cultural impact and significance. I wanted Lana to win but SZA was definitely the one who should’ve won the award.
@@bojohnson5387 I agree. that was SZA's award. Makes me rage that it's political and not about the actual music. This is why many artists swear off the Grammy's and don't even care to submit or attend - it's a crock.
Here's my take on the album that no one asked for:
So she's mad at Joe for moving on and she cheated on him in her mind with Matty and then she moved on with him publicly so Joe reacts but he didn't? And then she actually was in deep shit with Matty and he ghosted her too. And according to me in this album, she doesn't care what any of her fans think. She was like, "You guys thought you knew me, but you don't even know 1% of me and never will."
Your reading was so correct.
I noticed the huge shift since she broke up with Joe. I have the opinion she's pushing herself so much just to prove "she's not in the wrong". The relationship with Travis seems rushed, as well. Dunno, but as her fan for 16 years, she has been the strangest so far. Midnights is the weakest album she's created, kept adding songs "From the Vault" for a whole year and it was nuts. Especially after releasing the song You're losing me, I had a gut feeling she was trying to put all the blame on him. Joe just kept getting the punches, and still moved on and kept living his life. I bet she's mad he's not reacting.
Just create an album + deluxe edition and stop there. Also, using her exes to push them down and bring herself up is so childish nowadays. Just play with poetry and stories like in Folklore and Evermore and leave the bois alone. Those were the best albums.
I told people the other day how strange midnights was for me as a long time fan because of this exact reason. It was really felt like she was never happy with the final version of the album. I truly think this reading is accurate in that sense. Midnights did not give what she wanted it to.
Completely agree. Since her and Joe broke up she seems desperate to prove something,most likely to herself. Midnights was weird because at that time she was still dating him yet she said the songs were about her past. I always wondered how Joe felt about Taylor supposedly singing love songs to her exes,guys who she broke up over a decade ago.
Also as a fan I though that now she was going to focus her music into telling stories instead of her love life,so it felt weird. Once I listened to the album,I couldn't help to wonder if in reality it was a break up album about Joe, and now in retrospective it seems like it. She knew they were going to break up.
Personally, I think You're Losing Me is from Joe' POV tho, but fans interpreted differently
TS is a control freak & imo Joe just wouldn't be controlled by her anymore. imo their relationship was contractual for PR purposes & he didn't want to continue the public PR charade anymore, or being subservient & ordered around by her. imo the sudden breakup was more like she assumed he would renew their PR contract for another year & he actually ended the relationship by refusing to renew, cos it sure seems like she was the one who was taken by surprise by the relationship ending. Emotionally or career wise Joe literally didn't need her anymore, nor does it seem like he even 'misses' her. He is grey rocking her & as a covert narc imo this is driving her crazy cos she wants to be in the superior dominant position over him. imo she is more miffed about not having power over him anymore. All imo based on speculation.
As a fan for so many years I feel the same. I feel this down fall, dont want it to come but part of me know it's inevitable
She was quietly dating that sketchy band dude before travis until someone sent a photo to the tabs.
she should have learned long ago that sometimes no one is at fault for a break up, sometimes relationships just run their course.
You know when Ant gets shocked by the first three cards, it's going to be a juicy reading....
I love when he goes "Oh...." then fixes his hair. You know it's gonna be good :)
She returned back to tour today in Tokyo and she told the crowd that she was going to announce at the show if she didn't win a grammy - so I think you're right she didn't expect to win
She said it in her Grammy speech and when they announced her name, she was shocked. So anything that is stated now, it's been known for a few days.
She still could have announced at her concert & not at someone else's event
Yes
Actually recording academy invited her to join them actually. So they made her win to please her enough to join them
the recording academy didnt invited her, the academy (the oscars) invited her@@nishthagupta1357
Girl all I said was “ant predicted this!” On TikTok, and they’re accusing me of BULLYING HER. 😂 her fan base needs therapy.
I really really think that Taylor needs to get into therapy properly and HEAL. Not through friends or fans or music, but with the help of a professional. That’s where she’ll learn to forgive and let things go. And to take accountability for her mistakes while not self destructing.
I’ve always assumed that she has a lot of codependency problems
She thought her mom is enough
@@LunearienHer mom is part of the problem she is like this.
Agreed. Plus I bet even creatively/artistically it will awaken a lot for her. She's more complex than she can express, and it's because she doesn't know how the psychology of her own head works. She doesn't have that neutral standpoint
Lol she didn't learn from her friend Ed Sheeran, he was super overexposed and the general public got SICK of him to the point where if he announced new music people were like "please no haven't we suffered enough 😢"
LMAO real
exactly
but he's low key & nice & chill so i don't think he'll have to have a "come back"
@@sillygoose-bf7pp agreed, he’s definitely more humble in the way he acts, dressing, etc.
I have been a Swifite since 2008 but I am kinda getting tired of her news all over my Insta and this never happened before.
Insatiable need for attention , no integrity… she has no remorse when she attacks her exes, no empathy for them. The way she’s treating Joe is appalling, he’s now receiving death threats because of her. And she’s a frickin billionaire! How can she love someone for 6 long years, share their intimacy, someone that even protected her while she was being bullied on social media , and now she endorses the same abuse for him just because he broke up with her? Because their relationship broke down?
She knows her life is demanding and a private person like Joe was under constant stress because of it… she can’t put herself on his shoes. Nothing makes sense, unless you’re a person with no integrity and emotional empathy ! Fits the narcissist description
She didn't want to go to therapy, and denying therapy is also a sign of a narcissist-denials of convenience-because of their inflated self-importance cannot tolerate feelings of shame or criticism and cannot take blame for their actions. When they admit wrongdoing, it brings up hurt and negative feelings. They lack accountability and use blame-shifting in their actions (sounds familiar eh?) It would be difficult for her due to her inability to look inwards, take accountability, and be vulnerable. Her desire to manipulate and control situations won't let her.
@@Lunearienyes, indeed. Just like the narcissists, She has a sense of grandiosity (huge ego), and she feels so superior to everyone, she even wrote on a song that she’s “the best thing at this party”, so when someone rejects her, her fantasy world crumbles, and she can’t take it maturely because it’s a form of criticism that denies she’s “the best thing”. So instead of engaging in self-reflection and finding ways to improve her flaws like a mature person, she viciously attacks anyone who criticizes her to nullify this threat to her sense of superiority.
I dont understand why taylor is angry at Joe for moving on. He has every right too.
Love taylor but if she moves on, he can too. She’s been with two guys after Joe. I see nothing wrong if he does the samez
Narcissism
Fr, when Ant did a reading on it. He said that Taylor breaks records and it's still not enough for her. I can see why he got tired of it. He didn't tell Taylor to stop being herself. He told her to just enjoy what you already have and she still doesn't do it. Anyone who get tired of a partner like that, be yourself but also learn to enjoy life
THE SHADE 😂😂 “ i know if you knock on travis kelce head it echoes” 🤣🤣🤣
She hasn’t moved on, so she feels slighted that he has. She’s also used to being chased and being treated like gold and joe isn’t taking the bait.
swifties are so sure that joe alwyn cheated on taylor, but they completely forget/ignore the fact that taylor’s team announced the breakup with joe ON matty healy’s birthday, april 8. and then a few weeks later, they started hard-launching that relationship to the public.
I believe that of swifties can doxxed the guy that posted those awful AI TS images, then they can also find receipts of Joe's cheating. And they will definitely parade it around
(Calvin got those pics going to happy ending spa/masseuse if anyone remembers)
I feel like I’m the only one who doesn’t see any sort of chemistry between Taylor and Travis…it feels so performative and hollow. There’s no way Kelce is mentally compatible with her, either. I think Taylor is in love with the attention, period.
Beautifully said and absolutely correct!
Yeah same
totally agree 👍
My "ick" about them is after the superbowl win and him repeatedly thanking her. I don’t know why, it's just the feeling I have.
There's absolutely no passion when they kiss. It's like watching someone kiss their grand parent😬
I really like Taylor but her desire for revenge/praise is her tragic flaw. If she operated PURELY from a place of just enjoying music I think people would root for her more (similar to when she won the VMA for Fearless, her every move wasn’t preplanned back then, and everyone was on her side regardless of what Kanye had to say).
I don’t think she’s a narcissist but I think she’s like any other child star/show pony. They equate praise with love and that’s how they operate.
This is an actual valid criticism of taylor without being a hater, I am a swifty and I totally see where this is coming from. I agree, there's a difference in being a pop star and an artist and I think taylor is going to start a journey of where she is about to explore where she stands.
During the Grammys, Jay Z was receiving an award and started ranting about why his wife didn't win any album of the year awards. Similar to Kanye and his rant about why didn't Beyonce win album of the year. Taylor won both those years. I am not a Swifty, but I do own one album "Reputation" which was harder hitting. That album should have won album of the year. Beyonce is not my cup of tea either but she is talented. There's no album or song that even deem worthy of that award. Jealousy is an evil thing...
It's because she was raised that way. One of her parents is a narcissist.
@@LavendergemiExactly! Notice how when she just focused on her artistry and took risks for folklore, she got all the acclaim and started gaining public favor tremendously. People can tell when someone is being truly authentic versus projecting an image.
I don’t necessarily think she’s being fake, but she’s definitely in her pop/it girl bag right now.
@@themindfullone this 100% look at all she's accomplished and then people get upset that she has a bit of an ego and wants to shine. She has to try on different hats, and she happens to be in her it girl era. We all ebb and flow, progress and struggle with our pit falls but Taylor is doing it in the public eye, of course she's going to be criticized but she also deserves grace as we all do as we mature. Thank you for showing grace will still sharing your opinion❤️
I think her energy has changed a lot since the Joe break up. With Joe she seemed super mature and cool because she was only seen occasionally and she seemed to just focus on her music. Joe seemed to bring out the best in her. Ever since they broke up she’s seemed very immature and petty, it’s made me like her a lot less, or at least how she comes across.
she talked in invisible string about him putting “chains around her demons” so i guess the chain is gone and the demons are back out
“she’s been immature since the breakup” but she was writing songs like London Boy, I Forgot That You Existed, This Is Why We Can’t Have Nice Things, Karma, and Bejeweled while with him? lmfao
@@im_azraellewhat’s wrong with London Boy?
@@FeenBhr it’s lyrically not one of her best songs, and it’s arguably a bit juvenile sounding.
It was Joe’s mature energy that shined through her.
When azealia banks said McDonald’s is selling a lot of burgers but no one is telling them it’s the pinnacle of taste 🤭
What? 😂 🍵
Basically just because something is consumed by a lot of people doesn’t make it good. Basically the comment is calling Taylor Swift’s music the fast food of the music industry
Azaelia is spot on even when she's off the rails. 😂
lol I love Azalea Banks. she always goes in swinging hard 😂
Oh dang 🤣
Azealia said nothing but the truth 🤌
I find it strange that she showed a lot of support for Olivia Rodrigo from a distance but she still wouldn't approach her to talk or take a photo. Feels like PR move. Not a real friendship. Also, she might stay with Kelce for PR as well. People are obsessed with them dating right now. Maybe one day she will actually fall in love with him but for now I think she likes the attention from him and the media.
What kind of person would she be with tho?
Ant has said in other readings that they dislike each other lol
@@Fern.Randall I’m not sure since I don’t know his personality. I only started paying attention to Taylor the last few months. Was never a big fan. Still learning about her. I think they make a cute couple. A powerful one. It boosted their career although both already successful before dating.
Everything she does is a pr move.
EXACTLY! there's beef between Taylor & Olivia though
21:35 “I don’t understand why I’m reading this when you’re supposedly in love, Taylor. You wanna explain that to the class?” That got me giggling 😂😂
That had me cackling! And when he said, "I know he's an airhead, when you knock on his head it echoes" KILLED me.
😂😂
Because she’s been working on this album for over 2 years and she hasn’t been in a relationship with Travis for 2 years
@@ultravioletpisces3666 exactly
Girl tho! When you said that you felt like her accepting that most recent Grammy was a curse, an energy switch, I screamed! I 100% said that to my coworker on Grammy night! You 100% nailed it.
I see everyone saying this, but what does it mean exactly? An energetic switch thru her own fault or what exactly? Im confused bc she cant exactly control whether or not she wins a grammy so why would an energy shift happen based on someone giving her something? Genuinely interested in understanding!
@@okaywow3486 it's karma, since ant said in this reading Swift doesn't really expect to win Grammy's for this album this time around
@okaywow3486 I don't know how or what it means but there's a conspiracy that Beyonce does magic. I don't or didn't buy into it but that's where my mind wandered to at that point in this reading
if in her heart of hearts she knew midnights was trash and that’s the only reason she got the Grammy she effectively stole it from another artist who did put everything into their work and would have deserved it!!! That’s the curse. She is going to be punished for that. She has zero integrity. she doesn’t know what love is and she distorts mass perception of what love is from her crappy “work”. She’s an addict she doesn’t know anything about real love and connection but is in denial about it
I’m so over Swift using music to attack her exes. It’s disgusting to watch her fans salivate over the a thought of publicly humiliating and dragging Joe. She plays victim while silencing anyone who disagrees with her. Creepy and weird. Calvin Harris is the only ex to stand up for himself.
Exactly 😂 the fact that she openly cheated on him and her fans excuse it as some act of feminism because he didn't give her public credit on a song she chose to be anon on. Forgot you existed in the most holier than though failed attempt to seem unbothered lmao and Ole by John Newman has the real T on taytay and her toxic messy embarrassing ass
Maybe it's why he doesn't have an obvious song about him.
Say it louder for those in the back 🙌🏻 I have said this for years and everyone calls me crazy because I don’t like her. She gives me weird vibes and always has even when she was first starting out.
Taylor is not alone in writing music about her exes. She's not a bad person for expressing herself.
Me too, this feels vindicating that others finally see it too. @@hyliannikki
Comming back and seeing that album really paints her as someone a bully or someone that doesn’t forgive and can’t let go of the past
girl I felt this 💀
i really like taylor but i also feel the dark energy ever since that grammy touched her hands. the second that happened all my algorithms have been taylor hate which is okay but it’s the fact that it feels like it came over night
You’re right. The first thing they spoke about after her win was how rude she was to Celine, and that set the tone. Personally I think she was just caught in the moment and it’s not like she hasn’t met Celine before, people taking it out of context. That hate is inevitable though, you can tell it’s slowly coming and to be quite honest, it’s kind of deserved. I feel like it actually humbles her which sounds bad but in a way it does, after 1989 when she took that break she came back better. Midnights was not an album of the year winner for me, it’s just not good enough sonically, or lyrically except those few tracks. Thank you Aaron Dessner. Jack Antonoff, as great as he is, working with Taylor so often is also annoying cos everything sounds the same. What on earth happened to the re-recordings he worked on. Aaron I feel brings out a different side to her. Something about Taylor this era has been off, the way she associates with anyone, I know she’s trying to be supportive but she would typically only let certain people in her circle and I’m not even taking about her real circle, just the public social circle . Idk. Lol, just the vibe has been off and because her fame is increasing it’s hard to sift the real fans from the others, or the newer fans from the old. Some people just agree with everything Taylor does and don’t even know what she used to be like cos they weren’t apart of that era.
Narcs in their middle age tend to have a lot of unforced errors and people start to see the pattern of her behavior. Her snubbing Celine- and she did, I don't think on purpose but she's just so self focused that she was rude and didn't even notice it was Celine and people thought that was gross and it was. She tried to make a quick patch with a hugging photo after but she should have posted a brief "omg what an idiot I am, i was so surpirsed/excited I didn't even see that it was Celine. What an honor for her to come give out this award! Thank you Celine, you are Legend" or something like that. Then she announces her album at someone else's event - that's like announcing you're engaged/pregnant at someone else's wedding reception- tacky & rude. She could have wait, she has all the platforms
@@Taylena8913 it's not really out of context, it was rude. She hugged everyone else & ignored Celine?! I don't think she did it on purpose but it was rude.
IKR
@sillygoose-bf7pp I agree if she did that it would show an human side to her which has been absent for a few years, I used to be a die hard fan since 2008 and now she looks like Taylor Swift the brand not taylor swift the human, everything she does is calculated and planned, nothing is ever natural or spontaneous it's like she's not a person anymore, she is just her name. She has to have control over everything and draws a huge line now even to her fans, she looks heavily distant (and unreachable in a 'powerful queen'-like way) in a way I've never seen her act before and it seems only her old fans realise that she's been acting weird, the rest are buying whatever she chooses to throw at them. I wish she did therapy and became more self aware like truly self aware not her idea of self awareness "bla I'm crazy and unhinged" yeah but why don't you reflect on all that? truly reflect, deep down and WORK on it. No doubts she is talented, I bet great art would come out if she looked into herself and matured as a person. But she chose the chaos only and closing her eyes and sticking to her comfort zone of the spotlight she reached so that's why her art is going down, not that I think it's bad, but I believe it could be so much better.
I like her music, but......my biggest problem with her possibly sh*t talking/singing about Joe is that he hasn't said a word , not a peep, at least publically. She comes across as someone who never thinks she's wrong no matter what or takes accountability. It seems like always thee but not for me.
She hasnt speak about him either😅 she is a singer and writer of course she is gonna writes about it is her life
@monsemora2964 Hasn't yet, I was speaking as if Ants prediction on the album comes true. And yes, she can write about her life, but at a certain point, singing about exes/vengeance primarily gets old and predictable 😂. Ants right, the public will get tired of it. Doesn't she have anything else going on in her life besides exes? Friendship, traveling, memories, hope, family, grief, reflection, society, culture, faith, social issues, adventure, etc. ? She's very talented and more than capable of exploring different topics more.
Also how would we know that it's about them? You are all so delusional 😂
I saw the tracks for the new album and i don’t have a good feeling about it.
@@Loveydovey817 we are just speculating
Every Taylor Swift reading is like this, and I think it says a lot about how bad she is at strategizing when it comes to revenge. She's smart, that's for sure, but she's so petty and vindictive and egocentric that she ends up falling on her sword everytime. There are times when you act in favor of revenge because justice isn't an option, and then there are times when the best revenge is a life lived well. Taylor Swift knows how to garner career success (especially to spite her haters), but I don't think she knows how to be happy.
i think the more accurate word is that she's cunning and that's scary.
Not always. Her success is her revenge.
Yep & this is why I think she's a narc- they literally can't help themselves- all unforeced errors- see also markle & trump (not that i think trump is even slightly intelligent)
@@tearsofawaterfall2656 yeah, but if she’s always gonna be miserable, is she really succeeding?
@@GretchenV95 better to be miserable with an incredible career than miserable with an unsuccessful career
Announcing the new album at the Grammys was not the right setting. This isn’t the people’s choice awards. All the people in that room are doing the same thing. Making music, etc. They don’t care that you’re dropping a new album.
yeah, i also see that act was not suitable there but don't know why
“I know if you knock on his head it echoes” 😂😂😭😭 I love how your readings always feel like gossiping with a friend. ❤️❤️❤️
THIS KILLED ME 🤣
I really believe in this. I’ve been feeling this energy building for her for months. She is running up the hill as fast as she can and stories don’t work like this. You can’t keep winning on such a large scale. Humility is so important
No one is as humble as she is! Stop it!
I do think she’s a covert narcissist actually. I just learned that she released Reputation on the 10th anniversary of Kanye’s mom’s death, I don’t think it’s a coincidence like people are saying…
Wow, I just looked it up. I had no idea. Gee, my opinion of her is going down. That's quite vindictive and unnecessary.
Holy sh- that's so messed up and low!
Ho my god .....😢
As if kanye is some sort of Saint. Imagine if it was you was fake naked in his famous MV. He stopped low first, but blind people like you won't see it.
Kanye’s sth else… but that’s so mean, unnecessary and for what 😭
Taylor comes off as super immature. And it doesn't help that her cult protects her from any amount of constructive criticism.
You're just jealous that you can't be a woman hater
I would be interested in see a reading on just Joe alwyn or at least his side of things. How he feels about the breakup or if he's seeing someone new etc. It would be cool to get his pov esp before her new album that's likely going to set the public narrative
I agree on her energy shift at the Grammys. I noticed it too. I agree with everything you said in the reading.
It's the way she chuckled and giggled right before she said the name of the album, like she knew she is doing something shady and wrong.
@@jaanika9625Yeah, that was weird to me too! (Glad I’m not the only one who thought so)
Taylor is the epitome of a sore winner. She has everything she’s wished for: awards, respect from her industry peers, billionaire status, and millions of adoring fans. But for some reason, she is still hung-up on past drama. Just still fixated on issues from her past, like Kim & Kanye or her exes. Girl, move on.
agreed
I feel like she just never forgets, she can ignore it but she just never forgets
It's not past drama, it's trauma, because there was no leveling of justice for the wrongs that were done.
she has every right to mull over what kim & kanye did to her, it is unforgivable. joe however, well, the cards have yet to unfold so we will see
It just proves you can be the most successful person on the planet, but still not have peace within yourself.
This over saturation is literally shooting her legacy in the foot. It’s almost like she can’t stop herself from being at every event, photographed every night, talked about. It’s a drug to her. BUT! She told us herself “you confuse my covert narcissism as altruism”
The re recordings honestly was the shooting of the foot to her legacy. She released subpar, rushed recordings of her original work to spite someone else. Like girl just keep creating and keep it pushing. Ur a billionaire now just go negotiate W the company that owns them now. Re recordings are so unnecessary and made her discography a convoluted mess.
the lyric is “Did you hear my covert narcissism i disguise as altruism”, meaning she is talking about what people are saying about her. It is not a confession about her own narcissism.
@@jessicaalvarez1497no. She absolutely confessed to being a narcissist. Which she is.
@@jessicaalvarez1497 She’s probably in denial about it.
@@tekgid433 I don’t care if you think she is a narcissist, but saying she admitted to being one because of anti-hero is straight up just purposefully misinterpreting a very simple lyric, or just having really poor analytic skills. Once again, “Did you hear my covert narcissism I disguise as altruism” is clearly referencing something people say about her, something she heard. She is isn’t saying “I cover up my narcissism with altruism”, but talking about the way people perceive her because the whole song is about self-loathing.
I don’t like that she is threatening to sue a college kid because he is legally exposing her private jet flying and carbon emissions that are already public information.
That college kid is posting her public whereabouts - that’s stalking. Posting her location vs just the Co2 admissions alone is different
He is posting about her where abouts that's no one's business and it's giving stalker vibes 🤷🏻♀️
@@reneesantos2651 that information is already available to the public. It's just being posted by many accounts as a way to criticize her unnecessary and quite frankly vile use of a private jet to substitute 20 minute car rides
it's not stalking, the college kid is posting information that was already public info,therefore it's not stalking or a crime @reneesantos2651
@@toxxiklovee i disagree that it's "no one's business" since the environmental danger she's causing affects everyone. even though taylor shouldn't be the only one cancelled since every millionaire does the same,i think bringing awareness to co2 emissions is something positive
As a swiftie it's a shame she backtracked her growth. Joe moved on. She's a 30+ billionaire who hasn't moved on. It's pathetic.
It takes time to move on, shes not a machine to hit delete. And you don't know Joe personally at all. Just because he's not saying anything publically, doesnt mean he's moved on lol
It's childish she's in her 30s and she's acting like a teenage spoiled brat, she needs to grow up
@@nishthagupta1357that's understandable. Buts she's in a "loving" relationship. Jesus she can write about that. And her using JOE's group chat title?? It's giving pathetic and notice me Joe. Fyi for the usual defense of psycho swifties, I have the same opinion when with men in their 30s who can't move on from their ex publicly. It's pathetic and childish.
@@Lime1958 stop pushing people to move on. People live your own life. They're allowed to say what they feel. If theyre hurt or betrayed
@@brendenreecegaming284 no she's not. Shes a singer songwriter. A normal person trashes their ex and tells everyone about it. But its Taylor's job. Stop blaming her
She has really messed up with her big “Denial” list that includes almost every song she wrote about Joe. Bitter. Bitter. Not over Joe. Manipulative as well as she tries to manipulate public perception.
And he’s getting a huge amount of death threats from her psycho fans and she’s doing nothing about it.
She tried to get a reaction from him for a whole year unsuccessfully. She’s upset like hell he’s moving on.
Previously Joe was spotted walking on the street looking very healthy and unbothered. I guess that’s what triggered her… people on X already noticed every time he gets spotted glowing, she takes a swipe at him shortly after. It’s a pattern. She’s definitely still not over him. I wonder how this is gonna end.
@@missthing-nx3tf yeah. I do hope she keeps it together. She needs to learn how to be alone.
On twitter, she liked posts of fans making a funny meme of Joe. And then unliked it.
Her exposure rn reminds of me of the 1989 era and then we had the events that led to her stepping away to make reputation. I don't feel like she learned from that era, and I can see that same kind of thing happening again
She really did not learn from it... which is kinda surprising as I see her as quite smart.
Her Team should tell her to calm things down, but apparently this is not happening.
Agreed. I thought for sure she learned that these things happen in ebbs and flows. She made a strong comeback and now it’s time to calm things down for 2-3 years before coming
i have a feeling this is intentional so she can pull another reputation era
It’s disappointing knowing she hasn’t changed and matured since then. When she came back with lover, folklore, and evermore I think everyone thought she grew up and learned from it but now I think it’s more Joe’s influence than anything else.
@@shugoshugo123yes. I thought she's mature after folklore but now 1989 era all over again and her split with joe had sm to do with this
The downside of being famous too young, your personality changes at least twice in ur 20s. She didn’t get the chance to discover herself fully. Miley went through the same thing
but miley has grown and miley never went after people to destroy them either
@@sillygoose-bf7pp I love your replies! Wish I can DM you or something
Omg I was thinking the SAME thing. Something felt very off watching her accept that Grammy live, not just her being tipsy looking but the energy. I definitely felt the shift.
She ALWAYS has a drink in her hand. I think she's a lot more rough n tumble in her private life than her professional persona.
And guess what, this was her 13th grammy. 13 is her lucky number.
The shift in energy what ant felt, is it the indication that luck is not on her side😶🫢
@@_IntoTheUnknown_25 The 66th Grammys...just saying
OMG, I felt the same way!
@@Jana-mi6mt Her 13th wins
There's no denying it that there was once love there, and they both loved each other dearly. But my honest opinion is that I think Joe got tired of Taylor's BS. He saw through it and knew she was never going to change. She still reminisces about past ex lovers (except for Calvin). And Joe? He will forever live in her mind rent-free.
Its not her fault that she can't move on. Stop blaming her for this. Its okay to still feel for things.
No, the way you accurately predicted this ENTIRE thing. People hating on the album even if it was good because she's overexposed af (to the point it borders on being forcibly spammed down people's throats - especially with media coverage), her trying to control the narrative on social media (posting the 5 star reviews she's received), the Matty/Kim references (the old beef, old ex) - truly the Nostradamus of our time. In Ant we trust!
I can't believe she keeps winning AOTY..she deserved it for 1989 but her winning over Lana NFR in 2020 and now Sza SOS is criminal
she didn't win in 2020?
@@pinkkyot0 you're right I was thinking Folklore was in 2020
@@davidbrady1825NFR was nominated in 2018 I think
NFR was released in 2019 and eligible for 2020 Grammys. NFR was beat by Billie eyelash. Lover wasn’t nominated that year despite being eligible. Folklore one in 2021
she's being pushed by ppl at the top for some reason. she's more popular than Micheal Jackson?? yeah sure :/
saw this only now... the way this was all correct. rushed product, spiteful lyrics, weird competitive nature of constant re release to keep other pop girls out of the spotlight.... craaazyyyyy 21:05.... LEGITTT whats happening omg
Agree fully with this! The vibe has shifted. She’s too big and there’s nowhere to go but down. We are seeing it in the jet usage suing, the Grammys, the overexposure. I also believe that if Taylor and Travis break up, he’s not going to be silent about it if she takes a swipe at him. He would 100% defend himself.
Oh I would love to see THAT!
never thought of that. Travis will indeed the loudest guy she may have 😂😂
Yeah except I bet he signed a pretty intense NDA
I’ve been turned off from taylor since last year when she got all her friends to unfollow joe after specifically timed paparazzi outings, after her team previously claimed the split was “amicable,” she tried to make it look like joe cheated but then we found out she announced the breakup on matty healy’s birthday (april 8) a few weeks before hard launching that relationship. a lot of her fans praise her pettiness but i just find it childish and nasty. she didn’t have to be such a b_tch about it. she’s in her mid 30s and acting like a middle school mean girl. and with her time POTY interview she seems to be feeding into the narrative that joe locked her away in london for 6 years and i’m like- girl grow tf up, we saw you talking in interviews about the importance of keeping your relationship private. you are grown as hell, a billionaire, and a self-proclaimed “mastermind.” nobody FORCED you to do anything.
Yeah I agree she’s over exposed for my taste. Seeing All the NFL coverage on her has turned me off as well. I liked her at “Fearless”, “Speak Now, and “Red” now I just need a break from her.
When my 60-something year old dad brought up Taylor and Travis' relationship that he was aware of due to espn coverage, that's when I said ENOUGH IS ENOUGH 😤😤😤
Yes! Like I can’t anymore with this I need a break!
I agree. It's not necessarily her fault but she needs to pull back after the super bowl. We're tired.
Travis will be accompanying her on her Eras tour throughout 2024. So exposure will be Int'l updates by reactors. @@caseyw.6550
Exactly 💯 it's like over exposed no empathy for others either entitled, not the same girl , don't take this wrong it's just my opinion, but it seems like this is a Cult following instead of fans and that's dangerous . Yes the world seems to be hers for taking , I'm sure she will try to influence folks to vote , and she probably won't vote herself IMO it's just that Power she feels and needs to feel something but it's NOT EMPATHY FOR OTHERS . It's feels dark IMO. Her videos alone a dark she's more like robotic to me .
came back here after the release of ttpd. i'm in a local swiftie forum and i see how others are kind of shifting their positive views of her.
What they say ? Thaank you 🙏 . Just because i cant see that on the internet. I'm curious.
spill the tea lol
its giving girl who got dumped showing her ex what he's missing out on
Basically her relationship w Travis in public rn
You really don't know what happened between them but youre here to say things on speculation wow
@@nishthagupta1357 speculation or not that's basically what rebound lovebombing looks like, the icing on the cake was them being mic'd after the chiefs won the superbowl and we all heard that conversation. It's just normal rebound behavior, but a step above
I also sensed from the moment of their break up news that she fumbled. I have love/“hate” relationship with her. I’m also kinda happy-unhappy that she broke up with him since it’s first time she wasn’t right and it was her fault. And I like that Joe is just living his life and moved on. I don’t care about him but it’s kinda funny “seeing” Taylor being pissed off
Its her choice if she doesn't like someone and breaks up with them. Its her heart. Youre no one to decide if its a right decision or not
@@nishthagupta1357 okay taylor
lol she can afford counselling.. sounds like it’s time to go
she never ha one 🥶
@@luvklnHa?
I think Taylor is an incredible songwriter but the way "we" are suddenly acting like she's a messiah is getting obnoxious. Midnights wasn't the best album of the year. It just wasn't. And her constant victim act (in that dumb article and when someone cracked a joke at an award show) is getting awfully obnoxious for someone who is constantly suing small people for petty shit to become an even wealthier and more successful billionaire. There's no such thing as an ethical billionaire. She needs to stop. Enough. I am/was a Barb and I feel like Taylor and Nicki are realizing they can keep their competition small via AI and bot engagement simulating a hype that isn't deserved. And it's backfiring for both of them.
She's not a billionaire. People still think a tour gross is how much the artist gets, but that's just how much the tour made before expenses. Those come in at 90% on average. If it grossed a billion than she's around the 100 million mark + a percentage of merch. She gave away 50 million to others already, so she didn't even keep most of her money.
@@xejelah She is a billionaire - the mental gymnastics are a waste of your energy.
Incredible? Lmao…her music sounds like it’s written by a middle schooler.
She is cocky and jealous hearted. Why can’t people see this. She has a face for the public and a face in private..sorry my opinion.
Came here after the shocker that the album is a hitpiece about Matty and not Joe. The few songs about Joe are just very sad and don't really seem to blame him for much. This does make me think that the person she wanted to overshadow is Matty Healy and she wanted her album out before his, that will probably have some songs that paint her in a bad light
she blames him for letting her waste her youth on him, as if she wasn’t 27 when they started dating and literally older than him
Maybe the youth she’s talking about is matty, that she pined over him and lost Joe????? When all he was gonna was run away in two weeks.
I don't think she's a narcissist, but she's part of the ego game, going to the top, male dominated industry, she's acting way disconnected from herself as she used to as a teenager
she comes across as pretty emotionally stunted
Maybe she has the covert narc type.
Nah, she’s absolutely a narcissist. Anybody who’s apart of the sick industry has to be. Knowing what they do to children behind the scenes to get to the top…
@@jyn88I mean she did say that in Anti Hero lol
@@codydyer ohh interesting. I don’t really listen to her songs. Do you think she was admitting to it or she’s self deprecating to her haters?
I was just saying this yesterday, the Grammys really show cased her narcissistic behaviour and this new album was going to show us why Joe broke up with her, pettiness, immaturity, ego, selfish behaviour.
First Nikki, Now Taylor. Sag's are getting hit this year! Yall be Sagittarius safe out there.
Saturn is squaring their Sag placements rn and with the upcoming Jupiter in Gemini transit, they’ll be dealing with an opposition.
Thank god! I hate them
@@8642lsas a Sagittarius Sun and mercury going through my Saturn return and I’m also getting ready to move, that comment has me STRESSED
Shi I have saggytitti on my mars, I'm scared
@@calyyygrazie8LMAO same
Taylor always comes across as a teenager. She’s emotionally stunted. Arrested development could be due to fame at such a young age and being someone who always got what she wanted. Her family made her a star.
And her living in a bubble with yes men plus fans who infantilize her is no help either. She's too used to get everything she wanted, and couldn't deal with rejection or anything that didn't go her way. Immature and petty.
Can you do a Lana del rey reading?
Why? She liked Harvey Weinstein 🤮
Lanita❤❤
@BRFvideos and she's a Zionist yikes
what would there be to read? she makes music that’s not as connected to her personal life as Taylor’s so it’s easier to separate the art from artist imo
@@tallzeezhuh? Her recent music is extremely personal almost like a literal diary at this point 🤦🏻♀️
Lana del ray! I want to know what was going through her head at the Grammys
YEEES!!
apparently blind items have been saying she was just high 🥱
Taylor doesn't deserve it
@@nishthagupta1357stay mad
Swifties are making up conspiracies about and threatening young women who have acted alongside Joe Alwyn, and Swift has done nothing to stop the threats (nor those for Alwyn either. Will you please do a current reading for both Swift and Alwyn? Is she totally losing it?
Yes!!! Also there’s an insane amount of death threats at Joe on Twitter
I felt so sorry for Lana when she was dragged onto the stage when she just lost the Album of the Year Award. :O
She was a writer and a producer on Midnights so that is why Taylor wanted to give her credit
Totally agree!!!
She did not look like she wanted to be dragged out there.
@@ana_lynn_w2959it was still tacky. Lana was uncomfortable
@@ana_lynn_w2959she obviously didn’t want to be up there after she lost in a category she was nominated in. She’s such a polarizing figure in the media she was definitely afraid of being accused of trying to take Taylor’s moment out of jealousy. Taylor dragging her up there was a very Regina George move.
Lana literally got a Grammy for midnights as well. Hence why she wanted her up there with her.
Anyone coming back after the album dropped?
Oh he was sport on. She's in her hate train era as predicted
Me!!
@@AG-fg1ukso far I’m seeing inaccuracy because this isn’t even about Joe. No one saw this coming that the album is actually about Matty. 7:35 she definitely did not “realize it’s her fault that they broke up,”
8:13 she didn’t go hard on Joe at all. And she certainly doesn’t feel bad about going hard on anybody.
Album certainly didn’t flop… a lot of people criticized it of course, but it broke records for sales and streams.
No one is really mad at her for talking about Joe cuz she didn’t… they are mad that she swore a lot, came after some of her fans, insulted the Christians… and they’re mad because she was so in love with Matty and they don’t like Matty (which is exactly the fans she came for)
@@ultravioletpisces3666yeah, the album is mostly about Matty Healy than anyone else IMO
25:55 When Ant said he felt something energetically dark was set in motion when she accepted that Grammy, I wonder if it could’ve been prevented (if Taylor had been given opportunities to learn forgiveness sooner but chose not to) or whether it’s meant to happen the way it’s unfolding.
A lot of people which are swifties by the way are siding with Joe right now and yes I’m one of them. As much as how I love her music, energy wise I will side with Joe for this one.
It’s not about sides, it’s about the art 🎶 But good news, you can still listen to Reputation, Lover and songs he “collaborated” on!
Well I will still listen to her songs esp this album since she’s a good song writer. She’s talented and dedicated when it comes to her craft for sure. But I will refuse to see Joe as the villain of the story. Compared to other swifties who condemns him for no apparent reason just because he’s her ex.
@@bebu4ever Yes she’s very talented and dedicated, I’m looking forward to her new album! Her storytelling ability is genius. We don’t know anything about their relationship.
What I will say is that the alleged source close to him that provided the alleged statement to The Daily Mail after she announced the album was very distasteful. Definitely jumping the gun, on the defensive. What this media outlet publishes has to be taken with a grain of salt.
@@bebu4ever Didn't Blake and Ryan say Joe cheated on her?
@@patriciaa.5571 But they're speculations. Unless proven guilty of course. And if he did cheat, Taylor should've left. Didn't she learn anything from her past experiences? She's not a teenager anymore and with that many exes shouldn't she know how to differentiate a toxic from a healthy relationship? Instead she jumps into multiple relationships rather than heal. Majority of Tarot readers including Ant's who did readings for both Joe and Taylor saw that she is trying her best to actually dig dirt on her boyfriend which btw I think is a very toxic thing to do in a relationship. Because if you don't trust your man then might as well end the relationship rather than stay and repeat the cycle over and over again to think that this is not her first relationship. She needs to heal from all past traumas before jumping into a new relationship but she can't - I saw a birth chart reading in regards to this also. It's like she can't stand being alone and single. This time she really needs to go to therapy and stop proving a point to everyone. Instead she needs to focus on herself especially her mental health. She's a billionaire a successful career woman and is good at writing songs and doing her craft and as a fan I'm proud of her success. But she needs to step back and relax. At the end of the day her billions will not get affected by it but herself.
Absolutely agree with this. She’s the constant victim and always tries so hard to control the narrative. It’s manipulative. I think people are starting to see this
You were so right!!!!!
I think with “thanK you aIMee” which brings up her mom wishing death, Kim’s child singing her song.. I see a lot of people thinking she took things too far and are tired of her playing the victim
Her fans are so devoted that she doesn’t need to let them miss her. I’m convinced her music changes brain chemistry over time bc I just don’t understand the appeal.
😂 agreed
I liked her back in her country days and her first 1.5 pop albums
She could just do a youtube channel or her own website and release snippet videos of her enjoying her life- cooking or whatever.
@@sillygoose-bf7pp Good idea but it won't be enough for her. She craves the spotlight. The attention and validation. She repeatedly told people this. Like she's anxious if she didn't get award nomination, or can't get over whatever critique she got-her fragile ego can't take it 💀
@@Lunearien typical narc
My Queen posted again. Amen
Most of the songs are about MH but why do I get the feeling that it's like she's still calling Joe's attention to react or something
Thought so too. All this feels like a massive red herring, and was meant to push the knive deeper on Joe by alluding that there's another dude in her heart all along
She pushed the knife deeper because she now confirmed Joe’s suspicions-it was true that she was thinking about someone else.
Who else is here again because the album dropped and they're noooooosy 😂 gotta make a checklist of what Ant was right about!! ❤
I’m team Joe been saying that I think Taylor just chose her career over that relationship… she even says “I miss you but I miss sparkling” in bejeweled
No.. She said "I made you my world, have you heard, I can reclaim the land?"
Which means she lost herself in the relationship and Joe took her for granted. She hid from public, became a private person for him and yet he just ignored the biggest popstar in the world. She deserved better. That's why she said "I miss you but I miss sparkling" v now she's not gonna hide. She's gonna be shining
She said what she said
exactly!!
@@nishthagupta1357 he didn’t ignore her. She change her mind by being public again.
One person wants to stay private. The other person wants to be public. You want to force the private person to be public? Remember, that is a human with own thoughts and feelings. They have their own likes and dislikes. Not an accessory. Not a doll to drag. Not a slave.
When she said that was what she wanted!!!!!
You have talked a lot about forgiveness and how she needs to learn how to forgive and it just clicked me!! ''And I'll forget you but I'll never forgive The smallest man who ever lived'' lyrics from a song from this album! You're mastermind in reading this, wow.
I just watched Taylor's 2022 commencement speech at NYU, and she said that she grew up being drilled into her head that she "had" to be perfect, otherwise the world would crumble and fans' lives would fail if she was not the perfect person for everyone. She seems completely aware of this trait/fault. I think it's an ongoing process for her, to learn who she is and gain control over that part of her life. I also feel that she lives her life in a "performative" way, and maybe that's why people view her as fake or disingenuous. Probably plays into being a people pleaser perfectionist. JUST MY OPINION.
Perfect people don’t have 20 relationships
Her living her life in a performative way is a good way of putting...whatever the fuck her body language is
@@britishroyalfamilyvideos this comment is so ?? Like can you bring another thing to make criticisms about her, it’s old as hell
El, found the swiftie 😂
Perfectionism is very hard to shake. Especially when she can't even walk from point A to B without people coming out in droves to project their crap on her.
She’s so overexposed it’s insane, I’m just tired of seeing her 24/7. She’s too concerned about winning awards, being number one and flying her private jet any chance she gets. I just wish she’d go away
Yes, I liked her more with joe probably because we never saw her 😂
@@britishroyalfamilyvideosmaybe cause it was a real relationship and this new one couldn’t be more PR if it tried 💀
agree.. plus she seems like she's losing it a bit.. always need the attn on herself is not normal
Yeah, you don’t sound jealous or envious at all lmfao
You can start by not watching content about her
This gave me anxiety...when she got that Grammy I felt something weird in my gut. When you said that my stomach dropped. I felt the same thing.
Dearest Ant, may we request for an updated reading of Taylor Swift, Matty Healy, and Joe Alwyn. Taylor confesses that she's been in love with Matty all these years even while with Joe.
He knew all this that’s why he didn’t wanna marry her.
she did not confess that at all. not matty. no. way.
Listen to album and definitely agree with you! Makes me kinda feel sick and get the Ick. Poor Joe.
Ant!!! You were right.....again!!! She was trying to beat Beyonce to the punch of announcing her album in a Super Bowl commercial last night!!!!! 💯
People are starting to get fed up of her pettiness. Her formula is becoming boring. Joe has been nothing but respectful. She needs to grow up.
I agree with what you said about letting her fans miss her. I'm not a conventional swiftie (I care a lot about music and her songwriting specifically, but I'm not obsessed with her as a person), and this album announcement immediately hit me as...too much. Breathe girl. We get it, you're on the top of the world, and I'm happy for you! But let us miss you for a second so we don't get exhausted.
she has a song on the track list called “who’s afraid of little old me?” and i’m looking forward to see if your prediction about her realizing she “became the monster” that he said she’d be will be true.
I really hope Joe comes out and lays out the truth in an interview. I don’t think the others have been so open before. Would love him quote Jennifer Aniston “there’s a sensitivity chip missing”
Im here after album release. Ant you are so freaky in the best way. I luuuuuuve it!!!!! . Shes even slighted her fans on her album. !!!!Theres alot of hate in her album for Matty and i think she was secretly lusting after him when she was with Joe. A song mentions it. Shes so petty and i think Karma is gonna get her. I cant wait for Joe to meet someone new. He hasnt said a single word of negativity against her.
Joe really has integrity and lots of patience. I wouldn't't be able to handle everything the death threats, harassment, her spinning the narrative against me for over a year now.
Child he said a bunch of nonsense
There is an elite level narcissist (HGTudor) who says Taylor is one of his kind. So a lot of what Ant says about Taylor not having emotional depth and mirroring how the public sees her makes sense.
Your point on forgiveness Is right on!
If she's so happy in her current relationship then why would she release an album about her ex? Just shows she isn't over him and Travis is just a distraction.
Which is so sad, Travis seems to actually be into her. And he has a very united family. He wouldn't be a bad choice to settle down with. But she didn't give herself time to properly get over her ex and learn to enjoy being single
Because she started writing it 2 years ago, while she was still with him. She's written about most of exes, why would her longest relationship be any different. People are happy for her to right lyrics about Joe if their positive but not so keen for her to write about them if she wants to talk about the problems in their relationship.
I feel bad for Travis. Taylor is just using him to get over Joe and I don’t agree on how she is handling this.
Is she not able to release her music just because it has something to do with the past?
Dude she's a songwriter, that's what she does. And everybody has a right to say something about anyone.
I knew the over exposure was going to be worse than her 1989 era.... and it's getting there, for sure. People are getting sick of her, swiftie,or not....WHEW! I gotta come back and say,...she won't be singing Karma so confidently anymore!😮
Her obsession with her exes is such a toxic/unattractive trait. It's giving immature bitter old lady. She needs to grow up.
i can see this making sense. taylor has a really bad problem with holding grudges, letting things go is hard for her. sometimes i think she focuses too much in the past, on previous relationships. she was well into her engagement with joe when she made a 10 minute song and short film about a 3 month long relationship in 2010! it was ridiculous. this 2nd album about joe gives me the same energy. you are with travis now, move on! it’s embarassing and disrespectful to your current relationships when you linger on exes and make extended content about them.
You realize albums are usually made way in advance. Or at least thought of in advance. She probably wrote a lot of these songs before getting with Travis. So now she's just supposed to scrap it all?
@@chrissyscholl816ok but why is literally all of her content about past relationships? it's too much.
The 10 minute song and the album already existed, she’s re-recording her old albums, the video was to promote the song, and she promoted all the other re-recordings with videos too, she didn’t new songs about an old relationship
@@chrissyscholl816 yes, lol. why would you dedicate 2 albums to him when you could’ve just included the leftovers on the original midnights album.
@@el972 the short film was too much. she was purposely digging up old drama and had people attacking jake for a 3 month relationship that was 12 years ago at that point. stop defending her teenage girl mindset
I don’t hate Taylor but I’m very tired of her now, she is everywhere. She should step back for a while.
If the new album will bash Joe I’m going to loose my respect for her honestly.
I’m hoping that this Aquarius era will bring forth celebrities that care about the collective more. I am tired of the extensive wealth and selfishness of today’s celebrities. The sort of unawareness and disinterest in how their actions affect the world. Sure it isn’t Taylor’s or any other celebrity’s responsibility to end world hunger and bring peace to the world, but having such a huge impact on the world and only focusing on your exes and getting revenge is annoying. You have the power to unite people and you choose to divide.
i actually left Swifty Facebook groups for a reason they look at her like they on cult. the constant slander on joe,or joe cheated and she is always the victim and joe should hide on this album. i came realizing i am a fan but I don't tolerate bullshit. i unfollowed her social media and and decided to just listen to her music and hide Facebook posts about her. it makes me sick. she is giving mean vibes and negativity and i dont welcome it.
Same here!😃
Taylor is ALWAYS “fighting for something.” But FOR WHAT?! She is SO INSANELY PRIVILEGED. She grew up super rich with a white daddy who worked as a stock broker. She’s never wanted for anything in her life but all she ever does is claim “discrimination.”
I’m tired.
She gives SUCH covert narcissist energy.
Not to mention her family up and MOVED TO NASHVILLE so she could pursue her music career. Very privileged
Yes!! Covert narcissist I get that vibe too. They can be so sneaky that's why people don't see her as a narc, but she is ,imo. She can be kind, act caring but actually very calculated.
@@breannaxo And her father connection paved her way, so she's definitely had it way better than other pop stars who really are struggling from the bottom like Britney Spears
So she just got with Travis to make Joe jealous basically. I’m a huge Taylor fan, I love her music but I can tell she ain’t into Travis lol. I really don’t think they will last.
Ikr.. I feel she is only with him to get back at Joe because she is that petty
Spot on and him isn't even into her he is just interested in the attention when it all ends he will marry a simple girl settle down in the country far away from the glitz and glamour of fame
He isn’t enough of an intellect for her.
@@gingerwingerfulGoogle Travis exes... Taylor isn't even his type.
@@candeezymarie9827 right.. for me it was so weird when I saw them together. Because they are not each other’s types
She doesn’t give me narcissistic vibes more just immature which could track with her inability to forgive.
aka narc vibes. also no self reflection & must destoy anyone who dumped me or failed me so we dumped them
@@sillygoose-bf7pp I mean fair but personally I don’t feel the coldness of a narc from her. More like a child having a tantrum when they’re disregulated. But that’s just my personal opinion.
@@ranga1cat ooh she's chilly to me, tries to hide it but she's chilly. All her friend photos are so planned, down to the outfits etc, they're her collections.
@@ranga1cat narcissists are not always calculated, they get impulsive, throw tantrums and are dysregulated. she is narcissistic imo.
We need a Taylor and Matty Healy reading stat! The more I learn, the more it sounds like almost the entire album is about Matty, not to mention songs on folklore, evermore, and vault tracks from 1989
Same, and it’s making me question everything I thought I knew about Taylor 😂
well she already said it before she does what her fans want like fake relationships but in reality it is not the truth (so they need to know which relationship she is faking and for PR only - going to give an example Lautner & Hiddleston + adding Travis too since I saw him post having a meeting with her in her NY apartment)
It’s Beyoncé. Taylor announced her album at the Grammys and Beyoncé did last night at the superbowl. Plus the fact Beyonce is doing a country album which is the genre Taylor started with. Also to see if Bey will win album of the year with the country album but some people not feeling it.
No matter what the truth will always come out. And I think the truth about who Taylor Swift truly is is going to be exposed no matter how she tries to swing it, the victim mentality is getting old and boring and pathetic really.
Honestly good on Joe for not being sucked in by petty behavior. The best revenge is always to continue to thrive on your own. I hope Taylor can get past her grudges one day and just enjoy making music. Who cares if she releases a flop or two? She's still going to be massively successful and remembered as a songwriting icon. If she doesn't go away on her own, people are going to make sure she does. I think it's time she focuses on herself for a bit, preferably alone. She's in danger of flying too close to the sun.
Edit: Also, the whole Travis Kelce thing always reeked to me of "rebound". He's like the total opposite of Joe. He may like her, but I 100% believe that she doesn't feel the same way. She just likes the attention.
Edit #2: I don't think she's a narcissist. I think she got famous at a young age, and I think it's difficult to mature past the age when you got famous. Her behavior still reads to me as an insecure teenager. I feel like she wants to be a good person, but she doesn't know what that means for her yet because like you said, she's never really given herself time to discover who she is.
The lack of response for Toby Keith's death is a wake up call. He signed her to her 1st record label and crickets from her on his death.
She used Britney's name a lot, but went radio silent about the Free Britney movement, even until now. No acknowledgement. No shout out. No empathy towards the supposedly one of her biggest idol & influencer. Nada. Tells a lot about her real personality.
@@Lunearienhow did she use Britney a lot?
@@BrodiesPiano She named Britney as her fav, in other interviews she shows Britney as her Most Played artist, showing off her picture with Britney in Britney's Camp (for UNDERPRIVILEGED kids, which she is obviously not one), etc. She took notes from Britney in many ways including working with people who have famously worked with Britney like Max Martin, and Joseph Kahn (Bad Blood is so heavy with Toxic mixed with Womanizer influence)
Taylor talks frequently in interviews about examining the other pop stars, studies them. She basically took a lot of notes from Britney, and create a polar opposite persona than that of Britney because back then society was horrible to someone with Britney's style (and a lot of people still are, being especially harsh on Britney)
And even to this day, her Red TV include her new song that's obviously a reference to Britney's Lucky, in both title, lyrics, and MV.
Britney is Taylor's personal Pop Star Bible.