Sis, you moved with a married man across the country. How can you say you didn't know he was a cheater!? Ladies, let's take some responsibility for our actions & stop letting these deadbeats talk us into bad decisions. This guy is also no prize.
Yes, she knew she was hooking up with a cheater. To think she didn't mean we think women are that stupid. By saying he is no prize, I hope you mean in character for his looks are okay.
So here's the thing: being separated is not justification for seeing other people. Conversely, you don't get into a relationship with someone who is separated, even if they claim to be working on divorce. Also, if someone says they are divorced, ask for proof(their divorce certificate) before getting into a relationship with them.
This girl, Patel, is foolish. She was lightly dating the man while he was married. If so, she was cheating with him. When he can cheat with you, he will cheat on you.
I disagree, a Men can and dont should being shame for geting a divorce, but in The right way. But walk away, disappear on The childreen, that's wrong. If he wasnt happy, The right decision is getting a divorce.
So he and his wife were 'separated', but he only moved with the plaintiff because his wife wouldn't move. Yep, they weren't separated. You cheat with a married man, you get everything you deserve. Him too.
Because this stuff never happens in India? My guy, mainlanders make the news for this stuff. Beyond the news, It's far more common than you think. I despise the narrative that this is only a Western and particularly an American thing.
What if her parents didn't give her that wisdom, what makes you assume she's fully Indian? Are you telling me all Indians who've listened to their parents have been in delightful marriages and don't end up cheated on, battered or k*llee by their partners???
The deposit is not his. When the lease is up, if he doesn't renew it and the place has no problems, he will get the money back, which he did not put up.
I honestly think she is just trying to be a victim here. Because nobody in this whole world is this naive. She is way too old to be naive. She just enjoyed his attention and his words and she hoped that he would be a good man.😂
She said he was separated even before they started dating. If that's what HE told her, what reason does she have not to believe him? She's not the one who's made vows in a marriage, she's just been foolish enough to believe a man who's a con artist
You're right, of course, but it makes me no never mind. I know lots of people who never officially divorced but are matching up with new people. Don't be hung up on that.
He didn't create just a mess for him. He did create a mess for 6 people minimum. And there are a lot of people behind this too. Family's in laws are hunted by this too. He is a discusting soul. He don't understand how much pain and trust issues he cursed. If you can't trust you parent you never will be abel to trust anyone.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. My ex wife was a cheater, I moved across the country. She cheated on her boyfriend that unalived her then himself. He should have known the rule
@@ajam-n3sshe didn't take vows with anyone HE did...and HE lead her to believe he was separated and probably backed that up with his actions by giving her all the time. She's foolish she believed him
@@nikki2489 thats goes to say why would you purposely keep the child of a liar and cheater? And he went back to his wife and children after they broke up...???
Never go together with married people. When they are divorced, it's different. Married is married! And a father how is abel to leav his children's isn't someone you should have company with. No maturity, no dignity, no responsibility... just discusting
It’s plain and simple … every woman that believes a man who says he is not in a good marriage , he and his wife have disconnected or they separated either way she is just as much to be blamed for his shameless behavior cause at the end of the day the woman who sleep with men like this have no one else but themselves… they are cowards to not say the truth and let their wives go !
She deserves the security deposit in full as she paid for it in full. he did not dish out any money for the move. Seriously, how can you say he deserves some of the deposit!
Her name is not on the lease. She is listed as occupant. That $4200 could be a joint account or someone give it to them. To me, I would throw the case out. If her name is on the lease, she could ask for the landowner to give the money back.
Ms Patel did not pay for anything. He company paid for the security deposit, and the man paid the rent. She moved back home, and apparently is living rent free with her parents, unless the company paid for a second security deposit. Even if Ms Patel has equity in the company, the refunded security deposit should go to the company. Or she should have to pay taxes on the benefit as income.
Let me get this straight, she knew he was a married man, so he decided to cheat on his wife with her, she never had an issue with that but now she's complaining he is a cheater 😂 Play silly games and win stupid prizes.
If he was separated then he is free to date someone else. That's how this would be in New Zealand where I live. This is exactly what my husband and I did. We were both separated, so not with our exes, so free to date someone else!!
11:16 have you ever rented before??? Your thought process makes ZERO sense! Do you even know what SECURITY DEPOSIT even means??? She's NOT asking for the RENT back which was spent on both of them to reside in the property. You've clearly misunderstood the entire context here. SO glad you're not the judge! Yes she moved out, that does not mean she is not entitled to the SECURITY DEPOSIT she paid (or in this instance her company paid on her behalf) unless SHE damaged the property they were living in. As she is no longer living there, in hindsight, she ought to have got her deposit back WHEN she left However the ex-partner is still there, so she was blind sighted and didn't demand the deposit back when she ought to have. Can you not see that when HE leaves the property (which he seems to be looking to do soon), the deposit (which SHE/her company paid) will be returned back to HIM, therefore he will pocket that amount himself. I hope you can now see how that would be unjust, in fact fraudulent! Next time you make videos, do your research before commenting that too so confidently, it only makes you come across foolish and an unreliable source
He is going to have third woman , A cheat is always a cheat. Ms Patel should have listened to her parents, instead of trying to have another woman’s man, he wanted to have fun not commitment.
He said separated so she had no reason not to believe him...he must have been giving her all the time of the day and suggested moving to LA with her...why would she have a reason to think otherwise???
about the deposit the judge was wrong to tell her to go back and sign the lease agreement so she can get her portion of the 4200 back ' once the tenant moved out she cant come back and request to get her deposit back '
If her company advanced the money then surely it should go back to them. Also, did the company know only his name was on the lease. She left so surely gave her new address to the company and they didn’t ask about the deposit money? That’s odd!
Neither of them have any ETHICS whatsoever, how do they expect anyone to want to do business with them or employ people like that LOL. “I was in love” girl that’s fine, just wait till he gets actually DIVORCED. Smh lol 😂
He wanna only his name on the lease because he can use this amount to avoid child support, once he leave alone in The lease.😂😂😂 Pay attention, chilvary dont exist in a men that get away of his 2 kids.
I dont understand USA law, in Brazil a person can be separated and be with another person, that's not cheating. Im Brazil we have a married and a stable union, and separeted means the person is not living togheter. In Brazil a person can be separated and before sign the paper be in a stable union with another person, boths are legal, but the Second relantionship have some assets restrictions, because the first relantionship (married) is not finalized yet.
He only wants to move back with his wife so that he isn't stuck paying chikd support for 2 kids. LA is Hella expensive to live in. If his wife rejects him then he will try hard to win Patel back. He rather "make it work" than to pay child support and not have enough $$ to rent. Patel is the type to take him back... she did say "we will see"... that in other words means her door is open.
Everybody has a right to say they are right and the other person is wrong but 100% focus needs to be given to the child, the child is not at fault and when parents divorce - children never win. The decisions are not with their consent. So men need to growp up and accept responsibility - in this world. Dont make kids when you cant take care of them. That should not be so hard to understand
I don't agree with refunding the deposit that the company give to her. For one, the contract lease is with his name and not hers. So, it's treated that the money $4200 is from both people together. She gave it up as consent. She should have put her name on the lease. That way, she can ask for the deposit back. Otherwise it's hearsay and the $4200 can be from a friend.
How she mad he denies or didnt meet him when you didnt even tell him you were pregnant till after a few months he had every right to doubt you talking bout how you didn't send any money but why would he like sis get yourself together you are blaming him but not accepting your part is crazy
ok somebody help me understand this. She decided to have his child unbeknownst to him and she is complaining it . ? Something tells me she wants him back and she thought by keeping his baby he will leave his wife and kids for her > how stupid !!
In a situation like this is very complex you got your side chick and you got your wife who do you choose and now you got busted and now you got to the curve my suggestion is go find another woman
She got her karma. They both have zero integrity
But didn't he said they got separated? I think that girl made a mistake she should talk to her wife before.
She's gorgeous though
He told her he was separated
Separated is still married, you wait till there’s a divorce to begin a relationship and move to whole anotyer state for some man lol.
Yes
Sis, you moved with a married man across the country. How can you say you didn't know he was a cheater!? Ladies, let's take some responsibility for our actions & stop letting these deadbeats talk us into bad decisions. This guy is also no prize.
Totally right! 👍
Yes, she knew she was hooking up with a cheater. To think she didn't mean we think women are that stupid. By saying he is no prize, I hope you mean in character for his looks are okay.
Worst day ever for this man. Divorce & Termination at his work is waiting.....
God blessed marriage, not side piece.
THE GUY IS ALSO NO PRIZE
HELL YEAH, he’s NOT 😂
So here's the thing: being separated is not justification for seeing other people. Conversely, you don't get into a relationship with someone who is separated, even if they claim to be working on divorce. Also, if someone says they are divorced, ask for proof(their divorce certificate) before getting into a relationship with them.
So true, yet I have seen so many people doing it.
She deserves that for going with a married guy
She is not perfect
This girl, Patel, is foolish. She was lightly dating the man while he was married. If so, she was cheating with him. When he can cheat with you, he will cheat on you.
She's single, she ain't cheating noone. Foolish yes, cheater...no? That's on HIM
@@nikki2489love is selfish nowadays.
She was not cheating but yes she's foolish to blindly believe this man.
Patel is her last name, Liamson.
@@martin96991oh yes she was
He's total trash to walk out on his wife and kids. He's very immature. A real man does NOT betray his vows and his commitment to his wife and kids.
They both are trash.
I disagree, a Men can and dont should being shame for geting a divorce, but in The right way.
But walk away, disappear on The childreen, that's wrong.
If he wasnt happy, The right decision is getting a divorce.
So he and his wife were 'separated', but he only moved with the plaintiff because his wife wouldn't move. Yep, they weren't separated.
You cheat with a married man, you get everything you deserve. Him too.
They both are cookoo, deserve each other. Who moves 5000 miles away from family with someone you don't know that well.
The security deposit should go to Ms Patel's company not to Ms Patel. Ms Patel has not paid for anything.
She's asking for it to give back to her company as it's HER responsibility
His eyes look shifty. She sounds greedy...match made in hell😂
Greedy for what? What did she gain from this???
Child maintenance @@nikki2489
She dint even ask for child support and was foolish, if anything. Stop projecting your ideas onto everything
I was thinking why I did not see any Indian origin girl in this court. Now it’s ok. Patel family are happy.she adopted American culture.
Indians are as messy as everyone else,however they aren’t as stubborn to air their business on national tv.
What does that mean
There r destroyed people every where.
Because this stuff never happens in India? My guy, mainlanders make the news for this stuff. Beyond the news, It's far more common than you think. I despise the narrative that this is only a Western and particularly an American thing.
@@MM-em6lyit means that he chooses to be ignorant about his own country.
Never trust a guy with a haircut like that.
💯 😂
She would have listened to her parents.Now clearly she regrets.
Life lesson for indian women 😢
What if her parents didn't give her that wisdom, what makes you assume she's fully Indian? Are you telling me all Indians who've listened to their parents have been in delightful marriages and don't end up cheated on, battered or k*llee by their partners???
It's not even real you dunce.
The deposit is not his. When the lease is up, if he doesn't renew it and the place has no problems, he will get the money back, which he did not put up.
The plaintiff is to old to be this clueless.
Women?
I feel terrible for his first wife. Only one victim
I honestly think she is just trying to be a victim here. Because nobody in this whole world is this naive. She is way too old to be naive. She just enjoyed his attention and his words and she hoped that he would be a good man.😂
Nobody is ever too old to be naive....do you never watch crime shows??? There's 70 year old women that are conned in the name of love
This woman was as equally as bad as the guy,who was separated from his wife. She made her with him, so she should lie in it!
She said he was separated even before they started dating. If that's what HE told her, what reason does she have not to believe him? She's not the one who's made vows in a marriage, she's just been foolish enough to believe a man who's a con artist
Equally bad? No....
Foolish - yes
SEPARATED IS NOT DUVORCED. she delusional
You're right, of course, but it makes me no never mind. I know lots of people who never officially divorced but are matching up with new people. Don't be hung up on that.
@MrBeevee5 when it involves $ and contractual things , it does matter
He did not want your name on the lease because he did not want his wife to find out that she was on the lease 🤦🏾♀️
She seems a person with low moral , enjoy the baby 👶
she let him get him preg and he cant even say her name correctly lol
The dude us a Loki, a supreme trickster.....
she does'nt understand.....he is not the indian male
She went for a married man WITH A KID all for white skin
Do you know Indian man are more dikk than this white guy ??!
GIRLLLLLL......If he cheated with You, he will cheat on You. Why is she so surprised? She knew what he was capable of.
Never go raw on a side chick.
😂😂😂😂
Carma , selfish woman and man.
Immature, both of them 😤
He didn't create just a mess for him. He did create a mess for 6 people minimum. And there are a lot of people behind this too. Family's in laws are hunted by this too. He is a discusting soul.
He don't understand how much pain and trust issues he cursed. If you can't trust you parent you never will be abel to trust anyone.
Six people? Wife and two kids? Patel and Ryan
Who else?
Once a cheater, always a cheater. My ex wife was a cheater, I moved across the country. She cheated on her boyfriend that unalived her then himself. He should have known the rule
Geesh, this is some scripted drama.
Facts.
I see it that way.
Sunita babe you are too pretty for him
Not really. He is more good looking.
@@ajam-n3sshe didn't take vows with anyone HE did...and HE lead her to believe he was separated and probably backed that up with his actions by giving her all the time. She's foolish she believed him
@@nikki2489 thats goes to say why would you purposely keep the child of a liar and cheater? And he went back to his wife and children after they broke up...???
@ajam-n3s I never said she ain't STUPID!!!
Anything white is pretty for these Indian women .
Never go together with married people. When they are divorced, it's different. Married is married! And a father how is abel to leav his children's isn't someone you should have company with.
No maturity, no dignity, no responsibility... just discusting
"The weather is nice."....now it's literally burning 🔥
After this is all said and done, this dude is going to be, B-R-O-K-E!!! 😁
She ate the steak like Judge Judy says. No refunds needed
She is hindu and a patel, can she eat a steak ? 😅😂
Love looks deep before it leaps! Haha judge rhymes!
Ms. Patel was too starry eyed, adventurous and naive 😢
Why didn't they use protection when things were not finalised. She could have dated a single guy.
She could have been with a ton of other nice Indian men, including Patels, who would never cheat on her. But she chose a married white man.
😊 I agree - birds of a feather flock together ‼️✌️🕊️💋
While I agree to a degree with the overall sentiment, all demographics of men cheat. And I know for a fact that this has happened in our community.
Men of all ethnicities cheat. You are naive to think that indian men don't cheat.
Are you sure, the indian man wouldn't cheat, have you seen MAMTA kafle, and Bhatt case ?
Zech, can you just not say anything please 😂
You don't want to hear his important opinions? haha
It’s plain and simple … every woman that believes a man who says he is not in a good marriage , he and his wife have disconnected or they separated either way she is just as much to be blamed for his shameless behavior cause at the end of the day the woman who sleep with men like this have no one else but themselves… they are cowards to not say the truth and let their wives go !
This girl has zero shame. She started a company and decided to date the married help. Disgusting. I am embarrassed watching her.
She said “he had a wife and kid”…… 🤔
Both of them, zero integrity ‼️😤
She deserves the security deposit in full as she paid for it in full. he did not dish out any money for the move. Seriously, how can you say he deserves some of the deposit!
Her name is not on the lease. She is listed as occupant. That $4200 could be a joint account or someone give it to them. To me, I would throw the case out. If her name is on the lease, she could ask for the landowner to give the money back.
Don't they have the word karma in your religion
Ms Patel did not pay for anything. He company paid for the security deposit, and the man paid the rent. She moved back home, and apparently is living rent free with her parents, unless the company paid for a second security deposit.
Even if Ms Patel has equity in the company, the refunded security deposit should go to the company. Or she should have to pay taxes on the benefit as income.
@@tr1besjudge isn't stupid, she's clearly provided proof with a trail as to where the deposit came. Don't stress yourself out overthinking
@@timverba4830she is still responsible for giving her company the security deposit back 🤦🏻♀️
It’s always iffy dating a “separated” guy. He's got one foot here and one foot there.
She has stunning colouring
He looks like an adult version of Caillou.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ 🥴🥴🤣🤣
Let me get this straight, she knew he was a married man, so he decided to cheat on his wife with her, she never had an issue with that but now she's complaining he is a cheater 😂
Play silly games and win stupid prizes.
Who could cheat on this Indian Goddess? She's absolutely beautiful. I would be proud to have her on my arm.
😊 Beauty is skin deep. She's not too intelligent either ‼️😎🕊️
I just feel sorry for the poor innocent baby 👶
THIS DUDE IS SHADY. CHEATER,,SCANDALOUS
Judge Judy would have kicked the pair out of her court
If he was separated then he is free to date someone else. That's how this would be in New Zealand where I live. This is exactly what my husband and I did. We were both separated, so not with our exes, so free to date someone else!!
What do women see 👀 🤔 in him 🤔 👀 EUCH Does she have a braincell 😂😂😅
That woman clearly went for his looks not for his real character.
He is average-looking at best.
KARMA GURL..HIS SERIAL CHEATER..
Now-a-days, why in heavens name do people want to get married? Just live with each other and if it doesn't work out you each go your own way!!
11:16 have you ever rented before??? Your thought process makes ZERO sense! Do you even know what SECURITY DEPOSIT even means???
She's NOT asking for the RENT back which was spent on both of them to reside in the property. You've clearly misunderstood the entire context here. SO glad you're not the judge!
Yes she moved out, that does not mean she is not entitled to the SECURITY DEPOSIT she paid (or in this instance her company paid on her behalf) unless SHE damaged the property they were living in.
As she is no longer living there, in hindsight, she ought to have got her deposit back WHEN she left
However the ex-partner is still there, so she was blind sighted and didn't demand the deposit back when she ought to have.
Can you not see that when HE leaves the property (which he seems to be looking to do soon), the deposit (which SHE/her company paid) will be returned back to HIM, therefore he will pocket that amount himself.
I hope you can now see how that would be unjust, in fact fraudulent!
Next time you make videos, do your research before commenting that too so confidently, it only makes you come across foolish and an unreliable source
He had me so confused...I was wondering why he seemed to be confusing rent with a security deposit
@messenger8854 right, I'm actually worried about the amount of likes on comments opposing this
She is dumb and got exactly what she deserves. Karma.
Delusional meets cheater....
He is going to have third woman , A cheat is always a cheat.
Ms Patel should have listened to her parents, instead of trying to have another woman’s man, he wanted to have fun not commitment.
The judge looks scary asf.
😊 That's why she's a good judge, scares the 💩out of you 😂😂😎
Evil guy.
She should not accept this peace of s....
They both deserve each other. No morals
The judges ruling seems fair. The lady mist have incurred additional expenses moving back to New York.
You can imagine what kind of company is that paying moving expenses and deposit for such a clueless woman.
This woman moving in with married man
He was never apart from his wife; this is why he did not won't Ms. Patel name on that lease.
She seems like she pushed him to do it
Wife will take him back...she won't be too smart either
In the first place, he was married qhen they got together. Impossible that she did not know he was married.
He said separated so she had no reason not to believe him...he must have been giving her all the time of the day and suggested moving to LA with her...why would she have a reason to think otherwise???
about the deposit the judge was wrong to tell her to go back and sign the lease agreement so she can get her portion of the 4200 back ' once the tenant moved out she cant come back and request to get her deposit back '
If her company advanced the money then surely it should go back to them. Also, did the company know only his name was on the lease. She left so surely gave her new address to the company and they didn’t ask about the deposit money? That’s odd!
It will go back to them, but she's responsible for paying the company back! She probably has had to with her own money right now
Neither of them have any ETHICS whatsoever, how do they expect anyone to want to do business with them or employ people like that LOL. “I was in love” girl that’s fine, just wait till he gets actually DIVORCED. Smh lol 😂
She’s the third wheel he’s married
He’s a con artist to the max.
He wanna only his name on the lease because he can use this amount to avoid child support, once he leave alone in The lease.😂😂😂
Pay attention, chilvary dont exist in a men that get away of his 2 kids.
She choose to go through with the pregnancy knowing who he is.
He gives me the Elon Musk vibes without the money
You'll lose them like you got them
She doesn’t see her self as a cheater 😂😂😂 wonder what other ethnicity she would consider dating that could actually result in marriage.
FAIR AND LOVELY
Most Patels are very smart. Def, not this one 😂😂
$4200 is not their biggest problem
Does it with you, they'll do it to you. She should have expected it
She is a woman.
She did it for the mixed children they have a caste system
They deserve each other
Guys a cheater . She will get what she deserves if she takes him back 🤨
I dont understand USA law, in Brazil a person can be separated and be with another person, that's not cheating.
Im Brazil we have a married and a stable union, and separeted means the person is not living togheter.
In Brazil a person can be separated and before sign the paper be in a stable union with another person, boths are legal, but the Second relantionship have some assets restrictions, because the first relantionship (married) is not finalized yet.
He only wants to move back with his wife so that he isn't stuck paying chikd support for 2 kids. LA is Hella expensive to live in.
If his wife rejects him then he will try hard to win Patel back. He rather "make it work" than to pay child support and not have enough $$ to rent. Patel is the type to take him back... she did say "we will see"... that in other words means her door is open.
Everybody has a right to say they are right and the other person is wrong but 100% focus needs to be given to the child, the child is not at fault and when parents divorce - children never win. The decisions are not with their consent. So men need to growp up and accept responsibility - in this world. Dont make kids when you cant take care of them. That should not be so hard to understand
Good, you wanted white banana..😂😂😂
The refund is not hers but the company’s
Guys tzll me they are all actors right?
That guy no good atall as a man or a husband . 👎👎👎
I don't agree with refunding the deposit that the company give to her. For one, the contract lease is with his name and not hers. So, it's treated that the money $4200 is from both people together. She gave it up as consent. She should have put her name on the lease. That way, she can ask for the deposit back. Otherwise it's hearsay and the $4200 can be from a friend.
He is not a nice man... Both women are too trusting
How she mad he denies or didnt meet him when you didnt even tell him you were pregnant till after a few months he had every right to doubt you talking bout how you didn't send any money but why would he like sis get yourself together you are blaming him but not accepting your part is crazy
Because she cheats, what goes around will comes around
This judge lady is hilarious. This guy was completely playing with mind. He is jerk
ok somebody help me understand this. She decided to have his child unbeknownst to him and she is complaining it . ? Something tells me she wants him back and she thought by keeping his baby he will leave his wife and kids for her > how stupid !!
No one wants to be in this guy's shoes.
In a situation like this is very complex you got your side chick and you got your wife who do you choose and now you got busted and now you got to the curve my suggestion is go find another woman