Great content, Prozzie! I’d care just as much no matter where she’s from. I’d also feel embarrassed if my friend broke the rules and refused to show respect to others. It’s just that, in my experience, I’ve noticed this kind of behavior tends to happen more often with people from China. But still, it doesn’t matter where someone’s from-if they’re arrogant, condescending, rude, or disrespectful, I’m not okay with that. Like you, I’m glad I was raised with proper manners. So, I really appreciate your content. You have a sharp eye for these things-spot on!
Thank you, Prozzie, for always respecting Taiwanese culture and sharing local customs from a local perspective. I cannot accept the view that Taiwan is part of China, but I also think your expression could be seen as somewhat rude. However, having lived in Taiwan for a long time, it's understandable that you might express yourself that way. Overall, I'm not here to judge right or wrong; I appreciate how you've shown us the perspective of a foreigner regarding Taiwan. Please continue presenting your views without worrying too much about others' opinions.
不會同意她。 For example, the table manners PZ you mentioned, are exactly the same as that in Taiwan. So, I can tell she’s from China when this Chinese girl showed up in your latest video. Simply because she,s being so rude everywhere. To be honest, I don’t like her. Or say, I feel very uncomfortable with people that behaves badly. And unfortunately, 99% of Chinese people that I have encountered, are rude. She’s just one of them.
Actually traditional Chinese don't even know what respect would look like in real life, cause they have never been respected. Unfortunately, that is also true with many elderly people in Taiwan.
Hi Prozzie, I'm a Taiwanese who was born in France, grew up in Belgium, and now been living in Taipei for the past 15 years. Since your dad is Canadian, I now understand better the urge to feel sorry and apologize, but yeah, don't sweat it. She's fiiiine. She's adorable, doesn't make much of a fuss all over the streets about how Taiwan belongs to China, and all her "transgressions" are really little daily life minor stuff. Nothing life threatening or overtly political. You could have left her to discover all on her own, I'm pretty sure she would have had an even better impression first hand of Taiwanese gentleness and friendliness. So you really don't need to stress over it. And sure, you've been a bit of jerk to her from time to time, but that's just friendly banter. Since you brought her to good places, I'm sure she kept a much more positive memory of the trip than thinking "damn, what a jerk", especially since you guys know each other for almost a decade. Btw, she has a surprising great level of English for someone from China. But I guess that's the Shenzeng effect, one of the closest to HK, therefore, one of the most international places of the country. Overall, I think that was a very interesting video, and I'm curious to see the rest of Ms.Zhou's adventures in Taiwan, and how she felt at the end of her week.
Always enjoyed Prozzie's videos. For this video, it's actually quite clear that Prozzie has cut many "offensive" words said by this Chinese girl. This video seems to be Prozzie's monologue, and the scenes for her talk were quite limited, probably to protect her out of friendship, because Prozzie was actually aware that she would offend many Taiwanese again, and was trying to aviod anti-her comments again.
I can totally understand why you maintain such a good relationship with Miss Zou. She’s such a lovely girl with a big heart and is always smiling, even when you tease her. 😅 I can see how much you both value your friendship.❤
Hi Prozzie, I'm Indonesian Chinese and my wife is Taiwanese. We live in Texas USA. I'm not a regular viewer of your channel, but I find the title interesting. We visit our Taiwanese family every 1-2 years. After watching the whole video, I have some thoughts and suggestions: 1) Your comments on culture and customs are on point, just that the delivery could be a little gentler. I do appreciate you taking care of your friend, not to let her stand out too much or offend others through her different behavior and customs. I think you don't have to worry too much about Taiwanese view of her. As long as she does not commit any harmful acts or crime, most Taiwanese I know wouldn't mind since she is a visitor. I think Taiwanese are open and gracious enough to let simple differences slip. 2) The behavior differences you see I think are due to several factors. Some on the comment section mention the Cultural Revolution removing traditional customs, some mention the Japanese influence on Taiwanese society, and some mention that China is so big and vast that there all kinds of people with all kinds of behaviors. I think all of these have some truth in them. 3) My experience of Taiwanese culture made me realize 2 things: Taiwanese culture has preserved Confucianism to a much greater degree than anywhere else in Asia, China included. Japan and Korea comes close. Also, Japan has had and continues to have a very deep influence in Taiwanese culture and society. One example of a culture shock for me when I first visited my wife's family before we got married, was how I needed to address every family member according to their position, age and whether they are from the paternal or maternal side. I was overwhelmed to say the least, trying to remember every single title. Even as a 4th generation Chinese in Indonesia, I don't remember going to that extent. Another aspect was sitting. In a family gathering, you don't just sit down, you observe. If an elder enters the room, the most junior in the room needs to give up their seat if there are none left, or if they are sitting in an "important" location. As I start to travel Japan more often, just like the rest of the world is doing, I also realize that many Japanese mannerisms are also deeply ingrained in Taiwanese life. For example, 不好意思, which precedes almost every request or question, seems to me the equivalent of sumimasen. One thing that I'm glad is different though, is that Taiwanese are more direct and don't hide meanings behind their speech, which I'm thankful for. Thank you for this wonderful video. I love Taiwan!
Well, I’m Chinese, and when visiting Grandma's house, I must greet and address every family member according to their title. I think China is large, and there are many different cultures. And I’m also not allowed to stick chopsticks in the food, especially straightly.
I remember this lovely girl was the one you thought that in all your colleagues in China who was way closer to you and I also like this girl, she's very sincere person. Anyway It's nice she finally got to visit Taiwan herself to see all the things here via your guide .
It’s majorly about cultural differences, and some more about unconscious bias, to you, to me, and to her. What we can learn from these is how we can do better to respect each other and at the mean time to exchange the things that we value.Thank you for these clips, they are so helpful.
Hey Prozzie... i am Taiwanese American.... and i have to admit, your more Taiwanese than i am. So dont consider yourself not Taiwanese, in heart you've embraced everything about being Taiwanese. You and Allan will feel embarrassed bc you care about the Taiwanese people and how they might feel or be perceived. I myself married a mainlander that immigrated to the states from china when she was 17 y/o. There are cultural differences as an american and as a taiwanese. As long as we all try to respect each other we can always get along. But i would be terrified if i brought my mother in law to taiwan bc she is loud and obnoxious and has things that i would say looks weird. Keep up the great content. Your right... the only person that you needs to apologize is to your friend. But i also understand your trying to educate her in your funny ways. Just make sure she knows that too.
Thanks for promoting Taiwan and it's nice to know you enjoy living here. don't worry if your friend does not act "correctly". She is only a foreigner after all...
Technically, Taiwanese culture and manners bear a closer resemblance to Japanese culture, largely influenced by the 50 years of Japanese colonization so it explains why we and people from China behave quite differently. Like the Japanese, we try not to cause trouble for others, especially in public. Being polite, standing in line, and keeping our voices down are just part of how we go about our day.
my Shanghai-born neighbour sees rules as something to be broken for her selfish benefit - one day she showed me the next door mulberry tree, and got a stool for me to stand on to pick the fruit - I was worried about upsetting the neighbours but she said don't worry and no-one seemed at home. After about 10 minutes the neighbor woman came out and gently said 'you could have asked ...' and my Shanghai lady sharply attacked her claiming she had a right. Mentally I tried to disappear ... 🥴😞
In Singapore, we are a little in between. Most of the time, the seats are left alone till it is relatively crowded, people will start sitting on the Priority seats, and they will give it up when someone else who needs it more boards the train. However there are also super jam packed periods where no one will care, but most people will give up their seats, no matter where if someone who really needs it board. We also have special parking areas for wheelchair, and assisted mobility devices for people who used them to get around. I witnessed a guy who gave up a seat to a young lady who was a little plus size, thinking she was pregnant. However she reacted very dramatically, screaming nicely that she's not pregnant, and that she did not need the seat. The guy was completely red with embarrassment and immediately left at the next stop, most probably not where he intended to alight.
I’m surprised that she didn’t know about the chopsticks thing. My ex-wife (who was from Xi’an) once complained about someone leaving her chopsticks sticking up in a bowl and all mainland Chinese people I’ve met follow the custom. It’s also a wider East Asian custom, Japanese people also follow the tradition. There’s even a scene in the movie the Wolverine which features Hugh Jackman being scolded for leaving his chopsticks in a bowl.
Well those old traditions are not fully respected by everyone. If the parents don't care, kids might simply ignore it. Like many young westerners don't give a damn on praying before a meal
it could be a bit of overweening 'part of China' pride - deliberately ignoring the presumed subservient place's 'rules'. When people feel happy they tend to go out of their way to be kind to others - when people feel unhappy (and that life is unfair) they tend to try to pass on their bad feelings to others, by behaving badly in public. People from China are famous for behaving badly in other countries.
Also on the video itself, I saw your filmed interactions to actually be quite playful and not so serious. You're probably cringing at your own behaviour more than anything else which is quite common. Your friend is fantastic and you make an entertaining duo!
I still remember when I first time went to china, I can't understand why everyone looks and acts so aggressively, and that really made me feel uncomfortable. Some of those behaviors, which are commonplace to them, are seen rude in my view. And as time passed, I started to get used to them, trying hard to act like them, being aggressive, cutting the queue and so on, cause that's the way how I protected myself not getting hurt. I put lots of effort to ignore the hate of blending myself into them but failed. I'm not saying that Chinese people are bad or something, but their culture does not fit me. I do made some great Chinese friends there, though, I could never live there again. For me, it was literally a nightmare.
For me, you’re truly being a good friend, or even like family. It’s similar to how inappropriate behaviour feels different depending on whether the person acting that way is a friend or family member.
Your friend from China was brave and strong enough to be in front of the camera and open herself up for your "criticism." My 2 thumbs up to her. Also thumbs up to your self reflection at the end of the video😄 Our environments and experience shape and form us... but as long as we continue to keep ourselves open to learning and exploring new experiences, we can continue to progress through our very own evolution. Taiwan had not been the way it is today, and it will continue to evolve into something different. Same as China and all places. Thank you for the thoughtful video!
Prozzie你很棒啊，不要懷疑自己，有時只是因為你在一個地方生活久了，就會希望大家可以一起維持一些好習慣，不要造成別人的困擾，比如不要講話太大聲等等，你真的已經有台灣DNA了哈哈哈，阻止她把筷子插在麵上。
如果我去一個沒去過的國家拜訪朋友，我會希望我的朋友提醒我哪裡要注意，沒問題的，你是一個正常又有禮貌的紳士!
少噁心了啦！今天如果是台灣人第一次去中國，被中國的老外一直嘲笑說妳不懂規矩，妳會開心嗎？人家自己都覺得不禮貌了，就少在這裡說這種冠冕堂皇的噁心話了！🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
他就是在嘲諷她，少在這裡講這種冠冕堂皇的話啦！很噁心！🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
@@michaels1695 提醒是客氣！嘲諷是讓這位女子一直出糗卻不講，然後在後面譏笑🤣
@@clair2853 是的。
筷子別插麵上..."中國"習俗
我覺得台灣人不是愛排隊,而是排隊能讓每一個人都會有輪到的時候,而不會有人用特權或優勢,例如身材或年紀來插隊,大家都相等,就不會亂七八糟,久而久之就成了習慣性,而不是被訓練強制
因為排隊的函意就是人人而生平等的概念~！同時也是尊重先來排隊者的時間付出~！
中國人不喜歡平等，他們喜歡權勢、喜歡特權。
她對排隊的牴觸，可能是排隊會讓她一棒打回現實，明白她只是一般人，所以才這麼抵觸。
中國經歷饑荒與文革，從物質的匱乏到心靈的匱乏是深植在他們的習性；在中國你搶輸人就代表會沒資源，會活不下的；所以到哪都要搶，即便現在資源富足了還是一樣，沒有彼此尊重的概念，說實在也是挺可悲的
反中的東西看多，真的以為2岸天差地遠，真的以為對岸的排隊就有人插隊...
@@wuwoo8586 觀念差異
我覺得你會這樣提醒她也可能是因為你在乎她，不想讓自己的朋友被人覺得沒禮貌，其實也算一種溫柔，不用想得那麼複雜。
他不是提醒，他就是嘲笑好吧！😏😏😏
虚伪，双标，冒犯。把所谓朋友每个动作剪出来在背后指指点点。
@@michaels1695 個人想法: PROZZIE可能單純只是認為他的朋友應該會有相似的東方禮俗常識，畢竟是亞洲國家長大的，會認為生活習慣不會差太多；而當發現朋友並不如此時，才會有那麼強烈的反應，因為他已經有預期心理。
但若是從未在亞洲國家生活過的西方朋友，就應該不會有相同的"反應"了。
@@kickurass543 我也覺得他太過分了, 這樣不是對待朋友的方式吧...對她很不公平. 明明可以提前說明一下一些基本規則, 犯錯的時候也可以小聲溫柔提醒就好, 這樣的剪輯方式根本就是故意作弄女生吧...我替她感到難過
@@illumivv 那個女生有被提醒啊,只是在還沒被提醒之前的主觀意識就是認為台灣比中國落後,這種的眼光來看台灣 ... 呵,嗯 ..
我很喜歡她大方面對鏡頭
一直被Prozzie提醒也沒有生氣
我也很欣賞當她的態度
當她被指教時會先問為什麼這樣是不禮貌的
並感謝Prozzie告訴她
來到外地會比較是很正常的
我唯一不喜歡的是MAINLAND的說法
但我覺得她是一位很大度的朋友
她被提醒後都有注意入境隨俗
她複述要排隊那段真的太可愛了
我認為Prozzie會一直提醒到次數有點高是因為很怕朋友被認為不禮貌
招呼朋友到自家都會有這個心態的
希望Prozzie不要太自責
看得出來是個大氣溫暖的女生。徉溢著笑容，很美！
嗯嗯！這位女生脾氣很好！有話直說的個性令人欣賞，好吃就是好吃，不喜歡就是不喜歡，而且不會用貶低的言詞去表示。
我去日本也是一直提醒自家長輩日本的禮儀或習俗，所以我覺得這舉動表示他滿重視這個朋友的
以己度人，他也不希望他朋友在台灣做出不禮貌的行為，只是語氣真的要再溫柔點沒錯，要提醒不是責備的態度
Hi Prozzie,
謝謝你幫我們宣傳和告訴這個女生關於我們的生活文化，尤其是排隊和搭乘公眾運輸工具時需要保持安靜😊
不過還是要幫捷運公司強調一下，博愛座只要你有不舒服，也可以坐上去喔
另外關於飯插筷子🥢這件事，我小時候也做過然後被父母罵😂 理由也是像你說的是給往生者吃的飯或跟上香一樣（還有添飯時不能把碗裡的飯弄的很圓，因為也是給往生者才特意用圓的🍚）可以玩玩看Steam 上面的遊戲：返校，裡面有很多台灣傳統的民間信仰和文化。我爺爺奶奶跟外公外婆家很重古禮，所以有些習俗也會努力遵守。
最後有點意外，因為這些是從中國傳來的，但中國人似乎不知道🤨
還有排隊這件事其實我們不是特意去教，而是從小培養的
但她說她是老師卻沒教排隊我就有點⋯ㄜ，除了意外還是意外。
我知道他們從文革後剩下的不多，但⋯嗯，謝謝你讓她尊重我們的文化😊
但對她可以再溫柔一點啦😂
啊還有，就算她不戴那頂帽子，或講話
我也可以從穿著打扮看出她是中國人😅
我也不知道怎麼練成的技能😅😅😅
只能說韓國日本台灣中國香港
在捷運上看到你幾乎不用透過語言就可以從穿著辨認出來喔😂
很高興你有意識到對她有點嚴厲了😂，你做的很棒，我以為妳們是超級好的朋友才這樣跟她開玩笑😝，很多在台灣越熟悉的人越容易，也更隨性
看完這支影片，油然對Prozzie升起一股敬意。文化差異的說明很困難。必須說明到位又要避免傷害對方的感受。明明是基於好意希望對方不要因為不知道而出醜，事後卻又要反省自己的行為是否得當。覺得你做得很棒，但對影片中的朋友再次說明清楚自己的用意應該會更棒。祝福你～
自覺，謙虛，自省，尊重。 你爸爸教的好😊❤
Prozzie 的想法非常全面，也非常體貼，更是可以深刻察覺不同文化細微之處的人，這幾集都好棒！😀😀
你們兩個互動很可愛，鄒小姐堅持很坦誠，因為坦誠很討喜，Prozzie的自我反思也很棒，這樣的互動真好。
很有趣，她說台北的建築比台中更新更美，結果她指著西門紅樓which built in 1908 by Japanese.
更有趣的是 , 只有中國人會用建築去批判一個國家的先進程度~
能感覺她處處放不下面子，嘴硬不承認臺灣比中國好。
不知道她是粉紅心態還是怕影片被中國人看到而擔心😂
我也覺得這個部分蠻好笑的😂
她錯過台中的宮原眼科😆
西門那邊建築 更美??????
我想你會帶有情緒，是因為你已經很融入台灣，謝謝你愛台灣
我對於來自中國, 一到台灣就一副乾隆下江南, 地主巡田地, 以上對下的態度來旅遊, 來給台灣飯吃的那種, 是很沒耐心與包容的. 特別是那種已經移民海外多年, 一張嘴還是共產黨的尿性的口吻.
還有一種來台灣就說台灣落後中國十條街, 因為台灣都是舊房子, 而中國都是鏟掉百年老屋, 老巷, 老社區, 拔地而起的高樓大廈才是高大上. 這種心態已經非所謂的文化不同, 這是最基本的邏輯思考都很有洞.
而且還一直說mainland
Agree. 她一上高鐵，都還沒坐就說，沒中國舒服，我覺得好stupid. And sad.
一听你说“共产党的尿性”就必须点赞
台灣人也沒多好啦，之前捷運爆滿，還不是在那邊吵跟推擠？
@@heyjojo1998对呀，毕竟你们知道大陆高铁没有靠背😊
我感覺一直被提醒規矩是有點壓抑，但也遇過中國朋友不管怎麼樣都要贏，所以根本不想理解台灣的習慣的。
但各種經驗都是學習，我喜歡這部影片最後的思考，覺得能好好討論這些眉眉角角是最棒的。
筷子不能插在碗里本来就不吉利，犯忌讳。这是家庭教育，学校教育，和地区无关
Great content, Prozzie! I’d care just as much no matter where she’s from. I’d also feel embarrassed if my friend broke the rules and refused to show respect to others. It’s just that, in my experience, I’ve noticed this kind of behavior tends to happen more often with people from China. But still, it doesn’t matter where someone’s from-if they’re arrogant, condescending, rude, or disrespectful, I’m not okay with that.
Like you, I’m glad I was raised with proper manners. So, I really appreciate your content. You have a sharp eye for these things-spot on!
PZ，你已經是台灣人了！
你說的，都是台灣人的日常和風俗習慣！👍😂
博愛座其實大家都可以坐，只是遇到有需要的人要優先讓位，而不是都不能坐。
台灣在碗裡插筷子不禮貌是正確的，可能中國共產黨是無神論，一般禁止民眾拜神，所以在城市裡長大的中國人沒有這種文化，但鄉下有拜拜習慣的還是，純粹看個人家庭文化的傳承。
但基本上泰國、越南、韓國、日本等亞洲國家大多數民眾是不會插在碗裡插筷子。
台灣的餐桌禮儀和你父親法國餐桌禮儀幾乎一模一樣，嘴裡有食物的時候不發出聲音，使用餐具也不發出聲音，餐具必需要放好。
就算是來自西方也需要遵守台灣人的禮貌。
你有冇返過大陸㗎？你完全唔了解大陸喎，禁止拜神？！真定徦呀！我老婆福建弟婦成日去廟拜觀音喎
就算去寺廟也有不同的文化，中國的寺廟和公園有收門票，台灣是可以隨意進出的
@@kuensamuel1714但共產黨是無神論而且會打壓太大的宗教哦
沒被打壓只是因為規模不大 他們還不放在心上
@@kuensamuel1714 共產黨連清真寺都能改成共產黨期望的樣子，你說呢？多得是去過中國的人
首先大陆人也会让座，而且很普遍！第二筷子竖直插在碗里，才是不吉利的😊！这位国际友人，满瓶不动半瓶摇😊
其實以她是你的朋友可以不用那麼嚴格，不能因為她來自中國就要比較嚴厲對待，就像你說的台灣人是否對西方國家的人比較寬容，畢竟她也是第一次來台灣，不可能知道所有的規則，自然把家鄉的習慣帶出國，因為你們是朋友所以會即時糾正她，相信多待幾天在觀察下自然就會自覺遵守了！朋友關係還是不要受到影響了
🎉
認同，可能PROZZIE對台灣的日常生活早習慣了，對於初次到訪的人會不時的提醒這其實很正常，尤其是自己的朋友或家人時，總是希望讓對方多理解兩國與兩地的人文差異，看影片中的互動友情後相信對方是個落落大方的姑娘，應該不會生氣的。
一定要嚴格，不然她會被台灣人討厭，尤其是中國來的
雖然很多事情在台灣是不禮貌的行為
但是包容度還是有的
沒有人會對任何一個來自國外的朋友太嚴苛。
相信台灣人在世界各地
都是相對好評
因為台灣人也是知道
到了國外也是入境隨俗
瞭解尊重並配合當地的風俗習慣❤
我覺得她坐在博愛座也很ok呀！台灣本就沒有規定誰能坐博愛座，空位還這麼多，博愛座是在心中不在顏色。車廂內也是能聊天的，只是不要大聲喧嘩，如果是跨年或忠孝復興站…，有時候也是鬧哄哄的，台灣才不像日本人真的安靜到誇張。
她吃飯斜放碗中也沒有什麼，台灣人自己也這麼做，禁忌是指不能直立插入碗中。
總之對她是太嚴格了，台灣人沒有這麼一板一眼。
謝謝！和這塊士地一起進步的就是台灣人，唯一的差別只是抵達的時間有早有晚…you got a genuine taiwanese soul
她有點故意，因為台灣在她的觀念裡是她們所謂祖國的，所以在這裡被要求要遵守“規矩”讓她有點拉不下臉。
不過，一直強調提醒她要排隊、安靜，可能也讓她覺得有些不舒服，在台灣也不是每個人都這麼有禮貌的，總是有各式各樣的人存在，即使她不遵守在地習慣，說真的台灣人也不會怎樣，除非真的扯到一個程度，不然大家頂多心裡翻翻白眼就走了！😅
是的 一種米養百種人 一些習慣跟朋友說過就好 ，習慣嘛 久了就習慣了~約定俗成
也許彼此在很多事情上認知不同，但這位大陸姑娘笑口常開，被糾正或雙關語玩笑嘲諷時也不會翻臉～是個直率有度量的人，不管來自哪裡，都有文化的碰撞，重要的是彼此尊重～有朋自遠方來，不亦樂乎！
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主因是Prozzie是白人，換成了台灣人她的態度還會一樣嗎？這點我不敢肯定。
@@PeterTaipei她是客家人。😅
+1😊
他們絕對是很好的朋友，這種帶點嘲諷雙關語的玩笑大概也不會覺得太在意
🤣🤣Prozzie你真的想好多啊，這樣很容易焦慮耶，看你轉得腦袋冒煙我覺得有點好玩。這麼幾年來住在台灣，我覺得你已經放鬆很多了，你可以再更放鬆一點喔。身為非台灣人，你夾在中國人與台灣人中間的確為難，這種感覺也許來自於你內心對於哪個文化更有認同感。做文化比較的題目很容易得罪人，也很容易流於刻板印象，但顯然你很感興趣，我想包括我在內，也有很多人是感興趣的。但是，你一邊做比較，又一邊表達出內心的各種掙扎，我想這樣已經很有禮貌了。😅嘮叨幾句你的中國朋友是應該的(因為處於文化衝突中，所以你有點焦慮，所以才會嘮叨），那也顯示出你跟她還蠻熟的，交情不錯，；只要是好朋友，忍不住嘮叨完了再道個歉，應該還是很OK的。原來你來自爸爸的家教挺嚴格，所以有點乖乖的樣子，難怪喜歡騎機車感受流浪、追風與自由。我喜歡這支影片，很有趣。我住在台中不同區，還希望有一天在街上碰到你跟帥倫。
Thank you! See you in Taichung
@@Prozzie其實不用想太多，有流量密碼就好😂😂😂
把筷子直直插在飯碗上類似“腳尾飯”！
腳尾飯為死者遺體腳跟邊之菜餚，故有腳尾飯之稱。台灣的腳尾飯內容通常是一碗米飯中置一顆熟鴨蛋與各式配菜（如豆乾、蔬菜、雞腿等等），並直插竹箸一雙。此乃親人希望逝世者可吃飽後，有力前往地府報到。但亦有一說，人們會向去世的親人道：「一路好走，等鴨蛋孵出小鴨再回到陽世罷！」，由於熟蛋不可能有小鴨破殼而出，有希望親人勿留戀人世間的意味。
平時禁止吃飯時將筷子插立於碗中，乃此舉類似腳尾飯，象徵家有喪事。
謝謝詳解🙏
From the way you represent Taiwan to your friends, this is your country.
@@helenlin1499 這確實是從中國古代流傳至今的習俗，尤其是流離顛沛的年代，常見路邊窮人遺體覆蓋草蓆，腳根前放著一碗米飯，碗裡插一雙竹筷，希望讓死者能吃飽上路，此習俗一直流傳至今，所以在台灣我們用餐時是絕對不會將竹筷插在碗裡的
@@yfc2090 由此可見共產黨對文化的破壞...而忘記歷史的人不會吸取教訓,因此他們還會一而再再而三的犯一樣的錯誤!
把筷子直直的插在麵或飯，對台灣人來說確實是很不禮貌、我小時候這樣做就常被長輩罵、還有吃飯一定要吃乾淨、碗裡面不能有一粒飯、不然以後會娶滿臉麻花的老婆😂
我覺得你很棒，我懂你的感受，不喜歡犯錯或是出糗，對自己要求很高，相對也很會自省，讓自己變得更好，對你的朋友當時教導她的次數可能有一點點過多，的確該稍微跟她道歉一下，你的朋友真的是中國人裡沒那麼容易生氣的了（可能因為對象是你，如果是台灣人這樣教育她她應該早就生氣了😂），感謝你這麼喜歡台灣，也很了解台灣習俗文化❤
對於你提出的點在我看來是該跟她說明一下的，排隊、安靜、筷子不能插在飯上，這些都滿基本的。
朋友的行為和什麼人沒有關係，重要的是她的家庭教育，台灣也有同樣行為的人。
哇哦...您現在就是一個台灣人啊,對於台灣人的生活習慣非常非常了解,真的....
你很棒，
很尊重台灣人的生活方式，對你感到佩服，台灣人喜歡你
Thank you, Prozzie, for always respecting Taiwanese culture and sharing local customs from a local perspective.
I cannot accept the view that Taiwan is part of China, but I also think your expression could be seen as somewhat rude. However, having lived in Taiwan for a long time, it's understandable that you might express yourself that way.
Overall, I'm not here to judge right or wrong; I appreciate how you've shown us the perspective of a foreigner regarding Taiwan. Please continue presenting your views without worrying too much about others' opinions.
Thank you!
You sound like a chinese🎉
台灣人都是中國人！除了台灣的日本人！👍
Prozzie 反省自己的部分
讓我覺得 Prozzie 是個好人 😊😊😊
我覺得你最後有意識到你對你的朋友態度不好而向她感到抱歉這點真的很棒❤️👍🏻
她跟本不是為臺灣而來的，她是為某男人而來的！很明顯丫！唉！ 才會一直那份德性！唉😮💨
我很喜歡Prozzie, 因為他會一直檢討自己,而不是一直去批判誰對或錯。中國觀光客有一點我很不喜歡的事就是拿中國一直和台灣比較。
比較的原因是想要凸顯自己的比較好，過度這麼做的原因來自自卑，因為太常被世界各地的人瞧不起，於是自信受損，需要彰顯自己的強大才能平衡，就是心理學上很有名的一個結論，過分自大來自於自卑。
現在的中國小粉紅 跟某個時期的韓國人很像 就是又自大又自卑
“比較”我倒不太在意，我在意的是每次中國人劈頭就說「台灣是中國的」，而且非常認真且一幅要吃了你的神情
@@DavidLiuHome台湾媒体，包括这个老外都天天拿中国来说事儿。
到你们俩嘴里，直接颠倒黑白，说成中国人一直和台湾比较?
台湾甚至根本就没有开通中国游客的旅游签证，懂?
台湾的媒体，自媒体只要有一天不提中国，那就浑身难受
就我個人的觀點，我很高興她能來台灣玩，認識真正的台灣，其實我不是很介意她的一些習慣跟台灣人不一樣，畢竟她是外國人，我只希望她來台灣能玩的開心。
我能理解你，為什麼對她特別嚴格，但我很慶幸你有發現你對她太嚴格。
她跟本不是為臺灣而來的，她是為某男人而來的！很明顯丫！唉！ 才會一直那份德性！唉😮💨
很多禁忌跟規矩因為中國文革而消失，所以2岸會有差距
說到重點，還有網路長城，從這個角度來看幾乎是網路閉關鎖國
中國文革的確是中國的一場浩劫，它不但摧毀很多中華文化，也徹底改變了中國人的價值觀跟習性，即便文革在將近半世紀前就結束了，它影響還是很深遠。
無神論的國家
有黨支部的翻牆可抓可不抓 教人翻牆 可能三代! 要流亡的! 因為佛經要翻譯 聖經要譯文阿
一個把孔子的故居包含孔子在內的眾多古代偉人的墳給刨了的國家，卻在國外打著孔子的名號開設孔子書院，真是很諷刺
I am not French Canadian but English Canadian and I learned all of the same manners before I was 8.
這女孩不自覺很無知但她又自我感覺良好，令人噴口水。
沒有家教！
中國教育的成果
這就是中國人
@@peanutworkshophuang5276我也這麼覺得！
沒禮貌就沒禮貌、沒教養就沒教養，哪裡來那麼多藉口！😅
人口多不能當作不排隊、不守規矩的理由！
就像我覺得有些台灣人張口就只會批評一樣，明明我覺得身處在不同環境長大的人本就會有不同習性，認真說的話我覺得pizzle有點嚴格，即便是台灣人也不見得可以一直被這樣嚴厲糾正並理解改善，怎麼你都沒看好的只看到壞的？
總人口多不是不排隊的理由，人口密集的國家、城市 比中國高的比比皆是
東京人口比台灣人口總數的一半還多，但是井然有序到處排隊，跟中國到處搶插隊完全不是一個等級，所以人口多絕對不是不排隊守秩序的理由，是人口素質的因素吧！
而且人口多不是更應該使用排隊嗎，難道用搶的真的比較有效率?
沒錯，是素質的問題，永遠記得十幾年前跟先生去深圳的時候，看到一個穿的紅色細肩帶長洋裝化妝精緻的年輕女生，走路走到一半突然停在馬路邊，很大聲的發出老人一般清老痰的聲音在吐痰😂真是讓我超傻眼，跟他們當地幾個人一起吃飯也是聲音超大，好像整個餐廳都沒有別人一樣，還以為去他們中國進步一點的地方會覺得文明一點，結果連上個廁所衛生程度也讓我很害怕😅我心裡想著以後真的不用再去這個國家了，只有建築空殼但人民一點內涵跟素養都沒有
每當有管理的問題時,體量大的理由就出現了!
不過也只是理由,不會有解決的時候. 這才是最真實的矛盾!
更離譜的是這些矛盾卻又讓中國人感到自豪!
你所說的加拿大人的餐桌禮儀跟台灣的餐桌禮儀很類似，台灣的長輩對於餐桌禮儀也是很重視，甚至在餐桌上可以觀察並預測到一個人的種種行為
你說的長輩應該是指五六十歲稍微比較有受教育的這一代吧？再年長一點的很多自己都不懂這些了。
我的父母今年都快90歲了，媽媽是文盲，爸爸雖然讀到到小學畢業，但是因為躲空襲，真正在學校就讀的時間不到3年，但是他們教導我的餐桌禮儀和Prozzie的父親教導的大多一樣，所以不是所有的年長者都不懂的😊
@@sunnyhuang6493他指的老一輩，是那些1949中國逃難來的跟他們的下一代啦～
你的餐桌禮儀我的父母也是這樣教我們的，我也是這樣教我小孩的，有些該有的禮貌、人與人的互相尊重不打擾，我覺得是舉世皆然。
文化大革命十年已經把大部分的中國文化傳統打破毀滅了,台灣沒有此浩劫所以文化仍保留下來.
搞笑的是，他們依然覺得他們傳承了中華文化🤔
@@JosyCheng 中國現在是假借中華文化的殼再行使馬克思主義~
一個把孔子的故居及包含孔子在內的眾多古代偉人的墳給刨了的國家，卻在國外打著孔子的名號開設孔子書院，真的很可笑
不會同意她。 For example, the table manners PZ you mentioned, are exactly the same as that in Taiwan. So, I can tell she’s from China when this Chinese girl showed up in your latest video. Simply because she,s being so rude everywhere. To be honest, I don’t like her. Or say, I feel very uncomfortable with people that behaves badly. And unfortunately, 99% of Chinese people that I have encountered, are rude. She’s just one of them.
😂😂😂中国封建社会的规矩我可以给你列出来一万条反人类的规矩。
磕头，裹小脚，三妻四妾，四书五经，千刀万剐，太监。。。
你以为传统文化都是好的?
Prozzie, you're great. Knowing so much about Taiwanese culture and rules that Chinese don't even notice them. Good job!
當一個西方人在台灣犯了台灣人的文化忌諱，通常被告知後，會"respect "而做適度修正。但中國人即使被告知後，對於台灣（或其他國家）的文化規則並不一定會"respect "。因此不在於從何而來的外國人會犯錯的問題，差別在知道犯錯後，那國人願有心開始入鄉隨俗“respect ”當地的文化。
Actually traditional Chinese don't even know what respect would look like in real life, cause they have never been respected. Unfortunately, that is also true with many elderly people in Taiwan.
其他外國人大多會虛心學習，只有中國人會覺得他才是老子，中國是天朝老大哥，你憑什麼教育我
中國人做錯了不承認，就拉歷史扯人口優勢，最讓人厭棄🙄
錯的是一人，關十幾億人屁事？都挺你表示和你一樣爛嗎？祖祖輩輩的臉都掏出來丟？？🤔
你說的太對了，很多內地遊客來香港，發現不一樣的地方，不是尊重學習，而是批評，發小紅書「避雷」，或說我們歧視內地人。連香港人說粵語都被說歧視內地人。
@@tslife5773 你们台湾除了挑大陆刺没其他娱乐节目吗 我看节目都是对立 就一件鸡毛蒜皮的事都能扯到政治上 是闲的
要夠好的朋友，一路糾正說明都還不會生氣，Prozzie真的已經融入台灣，連筷子禮儀都知道
不能竖着插，斜着一点事都没有，只有家庭思想封建才会那么严格，或者第一次去对方家庭，也会注意一下不插筷子。
@@weiskey餐桌禮儀，被你說成封建？😢😢
@@weiskey 就個人經驗以及家庭管教來說 不管直的橫的都不應該 直的不妥的原因你曉得 橫的則是為了避免不小心輕壓到筷子導致整碗菜餚打翻 但這不叫思想封建 這叫為自己跟為他人著想
@@Hsiaonick 真正有素質的話，根本不會計較飯菜打翻，重新上一份就好了。而且像你這種不小心的人，我是沒怎麼見過，因為是在吃飯，不是在打架，怎麼方便怎麼來。
@@weiskey 你的想法 已經展現出 你們中國人跟我們台灣人 思想不一樣。
Hi Prozzie,
I'm a Taiwanese who was born in France, grew up in Belgium, and now been living in Taipei for the past 15 years.
Since your dad is Canadian, I now understand better the urge to feel sorry and apologize, but yeah, don't sweat it.
She's fiiiine.
She's adorable, doesn't make much of a fuss all over the streets about how Taiwan belongs to China, and all her "transgressions" are really little daily life minor stuff. Nothing life threatening or overtly political.
You could have left her to discover all on her own, I'm pretty sure she would have had an even better impression first hand of Taiwanese gentleness and friendliness.
So you really don't need to stress over it.
And sure, you've been a bit of jerk to her from time to time, but that's just friendly banter. Since you brought her to good places, I'm sure she kept a much more positive memory of the trip than thinking "damn, what a jerk", especially since you guys know each other for almost a decade.
Btw, she has a surprising great level of English for someone from China. But I guess that's the Shenzeng effect, one of the closest to HK, therefore, one of the most international places of the country.
Overall, I think that was a very interesting video, and I'm curious to see the rest of Ms.Zhou's adventures in Taiwan, and how she felt at the end of her week.
其實Prozzie你的出發點是善意的 , 所以不用那麼糾結別人的想法 , 你喜歡台灣的生活習慣 , 尤其是在細微的生活態度跟做法上 , 這也代表你已經深深地融入台灣人的生活中 , 你愛台灣 , 所以更希望你的好朋友也一樣享受並珍惜這樣的生活體驗 , 這絕對是最好的分享.
我覺得陸客喜歡插隊的原因是他們當地沒有排隊的習慣..
就跟以前有些外勞一樣..
現在外勞有好一點, 至少在台灣待很久, 他們也漸漸習慣台灣的文化..
排隊其實很多國家都有這樣的禮儀, 希望陸客能多學習..
您这么一说，我也觉得这个问题挺有意思的。之前还真没考虑过，其实从我自己的视角来看，大陆人是有排队习惯的，无论是大城市还是小地方。但是又确实无序、哄抢的场景又经常发生。一时也想不出是什么原因。
而且去醫院批價的時候，他們很喜歡前胸貼後背，超沒邊界感！因為怕被插隊😂😂😂😂然後就會看到有些人直接到窗口那邊了😂😂😂😂
来过大陆吗
其實80年代的台灣人也不排隊的，是解嚴後，大量日劇引進台灣後，台灣人才算見了世面，開始模仿日本人的行為。女生開始學日劇的女主裝可愛。
@@lvchengbin1409因為競爭的人太多，導致無法放鬆，也導致內卷。
中國現在最大的問題，
就是民眾缺乏足夠的公民意識及政治常識。
甚至更沒有自由民主的概念！
言論自由是一切的根基
應該說中國人缺乏獨立思考能力，一切都是上面的人要你照著做
我們只知道，接電話聽到台灣口音100%是詐騙電話
@@劉俊治-r2s 印度也自由 结果呢？ 所有国家发展的前提都是经济 跟你的言论自由有个毛关系
说的好像台湾就有一样
感謝你很細膩的尊重台灣民情風俗與文化，你是個值得尊敬的旅遊者，祝福你台灣生活平安喜樂。
Always enjoyed Prozzie's videos. For this video, it's actually quite clear that Prozzie has cut many "offensive" words said by this Chinese girl. This video seems to be Prozzie's monologue, and the scenes for her talk were quite limited, probably to protect her out of friendship, because Prozzie was actually aware that she would offend many Taiwanese again, and was trying to aviod anti-her comments again.
I can totally understand why you maintain such a good relationship with Miss Zou. She’s such a lovely girl with a big heart and is always smiling, even when you tease her. 😅
I can see how much you both value your friendship.❤
Prozzie 你真的很棒，對於台灣和中國飲食文化、生活各不同的素質，都有相當的了解，真的很厲害！❤👍
Hi Prozzie, I'm Indonesian Chinese and my wife is Taiwanese. We live in Texas USA. I'm not a regular viewer of your channel, but I find the title interesting. We visit our Taiwanese family every 1-2 years. After watching the whole video, I have some thoughts and suggestions:
1) Your comments on culture and customs are on point, just that the delivery could be a little gentler. I do appreciate you taking care of your friend, not to let her stand out too much or offend others through her different behavior and customs. I think you don't have to worry too much about Taiwanese view of her. As long as she does not commit any harmful acts or crime, most Taiwanese I know wouldn't mind since she is a visitor. I think Taiwanese are open and gracious enough to let simple differences slip.
2) The behavior differences you see I think are due to several factors. Some on the comment section mention the Cultural Revolution removing traditional customs, some mention the Japanese influence on Taiwanese society, and some mention that China is so big and vast that there all kinds of people with all kinds of behaviors. I think all of these have some truth in them.
3) My experience of Taiwanese culture made me realize 2 things: Taiwanese culture has preserved Confucianism to a much greater degree than anywhere else in Asia, China included. Japan and Korea comes close. Also, Japan has had and continues to have a very deep influence in Taiwanese culture and society.
One example of a culture shock for me when I first visited my wife's family before we got married, was how I needed to address every family member according to their position, age and whether they are from the paternal or maternal side. I was overwhelmed to say the least, trying to remember every single title. Even as a 4th generation Chinese in Indonesia, I don't remember going to that extent. Another aspect was sitting. In a family gathering, you don't just sit down, you observe. If an elder enters the room, the most junior in the room needs to give up their seat if there are none left, or if they are sitting in an "important" location.
As I start to travel Japan more often, just like the rest of the world is doing, I also realize that many Japanese mannerisms are also deeply ingrained in Taiwanese life. For example, 不好意思, which precedes almost every request or question, seems to me the equivalent of sumimasen. One thing that I'm glad is different though, is that Taiwanese are more direct and don't hide meanings behind their speech, which I'm thankful for.
Thank you for this wonderful video. I love Taiwan!
Well, I’m Chinese, and when visiting Grandma's house, I must greet and address every family member according to their title. I think China is large, and there are many different cultures. And I’m also not allowed to stick chopsticks in the food, especially straightly.
@@camillaakiqqq yes it's large and diverse. I wonder which province prozzie's friend is from. shandong ?
看到外國人跟中國人說不能把筷子插在飯碗上我真的狂笑
其實這不是台灣習俗，這真的是華人的飯桌禮儀
西方人也會將刀叉插在盤子上的食物嗎 好像也不會吧
可能台湾人闽南裔多，闽南比较讲究这些风俗习惯。大陆多数地方筷子插面里确实被认为不太雅观，到并没有“上香“这种说法
@@BestWishesForever-d1r 不只閔南 東南亞華人都類似吧 餐具插食物跟拜拜很像 可能中國已經很少拜拜有關吧
@@yjlin8859 因为东南亚华人也多数是闽南和广东后羿，这两个地方习俗讲究很多。我现在在新加坡，也会去马来西亚玩，每次过节时候的氛围都比大陆我待过的地方浓厚
Foreigners have much much better manners
對於您提及父親規範的餐桌禮儀，跟我們從小被教育的內容都一樣，差別只是沒有餐刀禮儀，但有的是不能玩（敲打）餐具碰撞出聲音。
您很自省，這點跟台灣人甚至日本人一樣，我想您在台灣應該適應的非常好，您的台灣朋友或許也很多😊
放輕鬆沒有這麼嚴格，有句話說不知者無罪，台灣人對於外國人犯錯的包容性很大，通常不會苛責，如果知道就盡量避免，如果忘記也不會怎麼樣的。(除非有特別的別人會提醒而已)
你知道筷子不能插在碗中已經很不錯了，不過那個 幹嘛~~ 聽起來很好笑就是...🤣🤣
她也算外國人不知道算合理的，以交流的態度應該也還好，看起來她並沒有生氣....應該是彼此的交情不錯的關係，輕鬆一點就好。
(PS.不管哪裡人懂得尊重人就會受到別人尊重，有錯誤修正就好沒甚麼，人非聖賢。
通常會被歧視的人，都是被指正後，不但不聽還理直氣壯大聲嗆聲的那一種，會厭惡。)
Prozzie 別想太多！台灣人只有談到國家認同才會吵架，對客人都有基本上的寬容，我可以感受到你想好好地照顧朋友，使她立即容入台灣社會，鄒小姐也是個直爽天真的人，我很欣賞喔，看兩位對談令人覺得很有趣😊
台灣是個自由的國家吧，當你的行為不會影響到其他人，是不太會有人說你。
排隊的話講求先來後到，畢竟東西的有限性，例如：座位，當你先上車你能夠享受到座位是因為你比沒有提前來等待的人付出了更多時間等待，所以才能得到想要的座位。
但是筷子如何擺放，在了解對方是外國人且不是朋友的情況下，是不會特別說的，他想怎樣就怎樣，反正筷子不會影響到自己，除非他有另外請教為什麼不能立筷子才會特別和他說。
最後看到這個影片很感動，謝謝願意把家鄉重視禮儀這點帶來台灣，因為有你的解釋，才帶來文化與文化的衝擊與融合，也才會有其他國家的人看見台灣，並為此當地民俗而引發想來觀光動機，這點就足以代表你對台灣的重要性了。
Thanks!
人可以選擇讓自己成為更好的人。😊
不適應沒關係，可以慢慢來。
講到安靜就想到小時候老師管秩序時都會說＂最高品質靜悄悄＂
是的！ 老師一句「最高品質」 、 全班一句「靜悄悄」.. 哇..突然爆出了 年齡🤣
又來看Prozzie了，廢話不多說趕緊先按個讚
這是認知的不同~當踏上台灣這土地時就已有先入為主的觀念~女孩只是過客~不用去太多的提點.須他自己體會~台灣人是溫良.有禮的社會好與壞每個人都有一把尺~所以別在乎糾結的點上
分享我之前感肉道的排隊文化差異~
在機場過海關排在我後面的中國男, 排隊離我超靠近的!....都可以感受到他的口氣
然後他的手臂時不時碰到我側背包!.....真的很不舒服跟被冒犯....大陸人排隊是不是都靠很近?
我在想是不是他們怕被插隊....(雖然在日本過海關也不會有人插進來rrrrrrrrr
當下很想請他保持一下距離, 一直轉身看他示意, 但他好像都沒覺察到,
我也實在是插不上小情侶的聊天...也怕有些"政治"意識強烈的怪人以為我在針對他有完沒完..
後來我去查了各國排隊間距, 北歐人就離很遠, 中國人就離超近.....痾....
若有大陸人看到這個留言, 拜託出國在外, 排隊不要靠那麼近, 很不舒服
而且容易被誤認為性騷擾, 還有很多潛在傳染病的風險 ,也算保護自己
筷子的部份是台灣一個在祭祀往生者的時候 在煮好的米飯上面插上香的習俗。吃飯時候 把筷子往碗裡面插就像是這樣。
腳尾飯(台語)
小時候不懂事 我就被老媽 藤條伺候了 哈哈哈😂😂
@@林孟賢-g7m很多人都有相同的經驗，還有別人夾菜給你時，不能用你的筷子或湯匙去接，只能拿碗或盤子去接。
其實日本也有同樣習俗。
真的有在白飯上直接插筷子來拜的😬
中國的無神論以及破四舊讓宗教信仰離他們越來越遠了，反觀在台灣的信仰自由更讓人虔誠也更具有中華文化的傳承，所以老一輩上一輩的真的都教我們不能把筷子插在飯上或麵上，這的確很像「腳尾飯」，因為這是深根蒂固的觀念，讓我們看到這行為的時候真的會覺得不禮貌。
另外對於台灣的婚禮我也只知道不要穿的全身黑去別人的婚禮，紅包不要包奇數😅
還有台灣婚禮是包紅包 不是白色袋子 白包是包給喪事的😅
餐具 除了筷子插碗不是很優的動作 西方人 應該也很少會將餐刀叉子 插在盤子上吧
喝咖啡，攪拌的小湯匙，也不能直接插在咖啡杯裡，咖啡杯下面還要墊小盤子。這是西方餐桌禮儀囉
穿全身黑其實無所謂, 因為道教的喪禮並不是穿黑色的喪服; 是不能穿全身白, 因為新娘的婚紗幾乎是白色的有關!
台湾已经封闭到这种地步了吗？自称在自由世界的台湾认为台湾有比中国更多的的信仰自由？不是跟你抬杠，你随便去搜索以下 中国大陆里的不管是哪个信仰的教徒 随便抓出来都要比你们国家总人口多。 你知道基督教教徒在中国有2300万吗？更不说伊斯兰教，回教等。 还有我们有无数的清真寺和教堂... 这个所谓的筷子插在饭上在中国大部分地区都是一个不合适的行为，这个是观念根本没有什么被你们所谓的破四旧给抹除掉。只是个别人会不遵守 难道你们台湾人所有人都遵守这个礼仪？拜托 走出你们自己的世界吧 一天天的说中国人 结果自己就被锁在自己的信息茧房里
I remember this lovely girl was the one you thought that in all your colleagues in China who was way closer to you and I also like this girl, she's very sincere person. Anyway It's nice she finally got to visit Taiwan herself to see all the things here via your guide .
It’s majorly about cultural differences, and some more about unconscious bias, to you, to me, and to her. What we can learn from these is how we can do better to respect each other and at the mean time to exchange the things that we value.Thank you for these clips, they are so helpful.
這個外國人好厲害 連知道吃麵吃飯 不能把筷子插著這樣很不禮貌
你好融入融化 連口音都知道是中國人
你真的好厲害 哈哈哈這真的只有台灣人會知道
這個女生也很棒 也慢慢融入我們社會
希望中國人都慢慢這樣 這樣我們才有交流的空間!
他是中國的表率 讚
哈因為大部分大陸人來台旅遊都是彬彬有禮的，像是Sean等等來台灣入境隨俗很受歡迎，但大多是旅居國外的大陸人，這位朋友的確很像眼睛長在頭頂上，滿滿的自我優越感，都還沒嘗試就嫌東嫌西，你會發火是正常的
真的 還可以舉例小麵包吃遍世界、老宋channel、廖小花、公子沈、陳老師，完整呈現中國人受過國外高等教育、旅居海外的也不會如此沒有素養的差別。
但多數中配yt我不看，看一點就可以知道她們為了流量演戲
@@maiomaiomaiomaio 中配要 是得它們的抖音小紅書就知道它們是真喜歡台灣 還是雙面人
sean一年來台灣超過3次，一回泰國流量就下降，感覺也是懂的流量密碼，看到第2次就膩了，最減分的是搭配那個講話很油、很屁的陳老師已經不看了。
你是說在澳洲潑人水撒潑的台灣人嗎？
@@ycchang6367 难怪接電話聽到台灣口音100%是詐騙電話，小紅書和抖音裡面最紅的從來不是什麼台灣吧？你又在自嗨了？
Hey Prozzie... i am Taiwanese American.... and i have to admit, your more Taiwanese than i am. So dont consider yourself not Taiwanese, in heart you've embraced everything about being Taiwanese. You and Allan will feel embarrassed bc you care about the Taiwanese people and how they might feel or be perceived.
I myself married a mainlander that immigrated to the states from china when she was 17 y/o. There are cultural differences as an american and as a taiwanese. As long as we all try to respect each other we can always get along. But i would be terrified if i brought my mother in law to taiwan bc she is loud and obnoxious and has things that i would say looks weird.
Keep up the great content. Your right... the only person that you needs to apologize is to your friend. But i also understand your trying to educate her in your funny ways. Just make sure she knows that too.
您在家教育很好的家庭長大，這可是非常棒的事，能入境問俗更是對別人的尊重，這種觀念非常棒，值得保留與推廣！
我覺得這位大陸女性很努力理解台灣的生活方式，我覺得這是一種尊重，很棒
我小時候，台灣人搭火車都是從車位丟行李占位置的，高中時還是可看到學生丟書包占位，所以好規矩是要靠政府教育和引導，讓人民成為習慣，不會是天生的，也需要點時間，長短是靠政府決心！
你如果喜歡臺灣，而你感覺到它也給你正面回饋，那你就是臺灣的一份子。當你會因為別人有不適當的行為感到不適並禮貌的告知他人的時候，你就是臺灣人了。
那位女士真的是位老師嗎 ? ? 那她該如孩教學生規矩呢 ? ? 不是老師們應該先以身作則嗎 ? ? 還嫌東嫌西的，我覺得台灣還是應該和日本好好做兄弟較好。台灣人的規矩是日本人教的，不是中國。毛澤東和習近平.......等等所有領導人，從來都沒有踏進過台灣一步，所以兩國文化，差異很大，想法更是天差地遠。台灣人認為要勤儉努力和保守，中國人確是要極盡誇大本身成就，生活要奢華給他人看。
屁啦！20~30年前台人也跟陸人一個樣你應該不知道吧？
有一說一這位女士在中國人這個群體裏面算是有規矩的了
你從小倒大規矩是日本人教的是你的事,你沒資格代表所有台灣人,抗中我ok,喜歡日本我也ok,但不須老是捧高日本來把自己甚至想代表台灣人來當日本老二,崇拜日本,台灣人接受的是台灣自己國家的教育,國民生活運動,生活倫理,公民道德,禮義廉恥,宗教文化及孔孟道家思想傳承,漸漸造就台灣人溫良恭儉讓的優良精神基因,好的要學習,沒錯,我們會吸收世界各國的好,別人也在學習我們的優點,對於'台灣人的規矩是日本人教的"不如說你的規矩是日本人教的,不更貼切嗎
@@zmyu-qi1tf50年教育在日本統治下 這麼說也沒錯 不代表崇拜日本 只是說事實罷了 不用太敏感了 誰都不會否認台灣文化有被日本影響頗多 至於這是好是壞就各自解讀吧
過去經濟起飛時的台灣人也是一樣的像暴發戶 都是時代的產物罷了 台灣只是過了那個時期
其實台灣人一眼就可以看出誰是中國人？香港人？日本人？韓國人？甚至是在中國待很久，剛回來的台灣人！
只有新加坡與馬來西亞華人比較認不出，因為這兩地華人也是福建人居多。
尤其中國人最好認，因為無論男女的言行舉止都是大喇喇的。
應該還是要聽口音分辨 看得出來的只有中國的北方人和日本及韓國人
@@您撥的號碼是空號-b6w穿著打扮就差很多了，不一定須要開口說話
@ 就算是福建人，口音與台語也不一樣。
嗯，光外在的穿著與行為就七七八八猜的出是不是中國來的
新加坡和馬來西亞的也很好認誒（口音都不一樣。可能你平常沒看這些國家的劇或youtuber聽他們說話會認不出是有可能。我們好認的點就是一個句可以摻雜很多語言華語，英語，馬來語，客家話等等哈哈哈
因為我本身就是新加坡人所以很能分辨馬來西亞。
也能分辨中國，台灣，香港，日本，韓國等等（我分辨得出來，但我父母也不太行。
謝謝你，那麼認真的介紹台灣❤
Thanks for promoting Taiwan and it's nice to know you enjoy living here. don't worry if your friend does not act "correctly". She is only a foreigner after all...
中國文革之後既沒中華內涵，靠近現代也因資訊不發達比較沒國際觀，無法跟國際接軌，台灣的習慣不只是台灣，很多國家也是需要排隊跟降低吵鬧聲。我認為只是大陸比較閉鎖，課程上也是黨說了算，沒有提供公民課程，因此素質才無法提升。
黨怎麼沒教這個也很奇怪..哈哈
难怪接電話聽到台灣口音100%是詐騙電話，自己什麼名聲還不知道。整天在井裡面自嗨
Technically, Taiwanese culture and manners bear a closer resemblance to Japanese culture, largely influenced by the 50 years of Japanese colonization so it explains why we and people from China behave quite differently. Like the Japanese, we try not to cause trouble for others, especially in public. Being polite, standing in line, and keeping our voices down are just part of how we go about our day.
可以舉例哪些禮儀跟日本很像😊
當然我覺得更多的是隨的生活品質的提升，而有更多的富於去思考禮儀方面的問題。
畢竟禮儀的誕生本就是貴族彰顯自身的不同
準確地說，看年紀，教改前後，有點差距！個人覺得現在好像沒這麼注重禮貌了！
胡说八道，你看看台湾人用的是中文还是日语。跟日本更接近为什么用的汉字？
@@brucechow1588語言中會参雜ㄧ些日文或英文～
到一個國家基本禮儀就是入境隨俗，這個prozzie真的做的很好👍你是台灣風紀股長😂
台灣曾經開放中國團客旅遊，被這些人搞得烏煙瘴氣，但我們也看過一般自由行的陸客也有高水準的，這種大部分是高知識份子或常出國或旅居國外的，但鄒小姐明明是屬於後者，但卻跟團客行為沒什麼差別，這是台灣人反感她的原因。
她生在中國人吃人的世界我們不意外，但到了國外仍然是這樣，她真的完全不懂尊重怎麼寫😂
不過prozzie別太焦慮，你是你，她是她，台灣人很歡迎能open mind 的旅客到來，若有一天你被邀請參加婚喪喜慶，只要你願意問相關禮俗，台灣人都會很願意跟你說的🥰 加油🎉
难怪接電話聽到台灣口音100%是詐騙電話，時間差不多了哦
my Shanghai-born neighbour sees rules as something to be broken for her selfish benefit - one day she showed me the next door mulberry tree, and got a stool for me to stand on to pick the fruit - I was worried about upsetting the neighbours but she said don't worry and no-one seemed at home. After about 10 minutes the neighbor woman came out and gently said 'you could have asked ...' and my Shanghai lady sharply attacked her claiming she had a right. Mentally I tried to disappear ... 🥴😞
我如果是你的那個女性朋友，我一定覺得你很機車😂😂
但台灣有時候講機車是一種搞笑的親密
In Singapore, we are a little in between. Most of the time, the seats are left alone till it is relatively crowded, people will start sitting on the Priority seats, and they will give it up when someone else who needs it more boards the train. However there are also super jam packed periods where no one will care, but most people will give up their seats, no matter where if someone who really needs it board. We also have special parking areas for wheelchair, and assisted mobility devices for people who used them to get around.
I witnessed a guy who gave up a seat to a young lady who was a little plus size, thinking she was pregnant. However she reacted very dramatically, screaming nicely that she's not pregnant, and that she did not need the seat. The guy was completely red with embarrassment and immediately left at the next stop, most probably not where he intended to alight.
每個人都想快一點取得東西，但不可能每個人都第一，所以排隊是最公平的，先來後到，一目瞭然，若沒有排隊的自覺，在台灣會被排擠的（白眼，勸導....）。
很高興看到這個影片，很有趣，也了解各國有不同的風俗習慣，但禮貌是最好的尊重，排隊是一種尊重，小聲說話是一種尊重，每個人都希望被尊重，這跟大陸覺得台灣是他們的一個省沒有關連，人與人之間的尊重，是彼此最舒服的距離。
看到美女因為聽到排隊勇往直前的樣子，覺得她好可愛喔！像個要證明自己的小朋友❤，但在台灣只要你輕聲說句不好意思，你會發現大家都會靠右讓你喔！（電扶梯）
是的，小時候筷子插在飯裡都被罵，你告訴她台灣的一些習性跟文化是正確的。
在星馬也是這樣因為筷子插飯是拜祖先用的，這些傳統習俗在中國大陸早在文化大革命時被當作「封建四舊」全部鏟除掉了以致於年輕人對此一無所知。
哈哈，你去过中国吗，你在中国经常见到吃东西把筷子竖着插在碗里的吗？不要拿一个人的概率就说是中国人怎么怎么样，排队的问题，纯纯是素质问题，当一个人吃不饱时你让他去排队，你去非洲看看排队文化怎么样，发达地区比欠发达的地区更早的接受教育，会懂得尊重他人，中国13亿人口，整体素质是在上升的，当然很大一部分老年人没有排队的概念，年轻人中也有一部分因为习惯问题去插队。中国人口拿出个零头来，人口总数都比台湾人多。素质教育不是一朝一夕改变的。中国没有硬性要求大家怎么做，全是靠自觉，所以按照中国的人口至少需要几代人来慢慢的改变。
@@bingliu-china 但你們這二十年來不都脫貧,能吃飽了嗎? 還是一樣也沒變啊, 不排隊, 到處喧嘩, 亂丟垃圾, 在路邊大小便, 中國也有旅遊規定叫大家不要亂丟垃圾,但我看中國人不喜歡遵守啊..
我是台灣人，我為她平反，視頻中的女生是斜放在碗內，這本來就沒有什麼，台灣人自己偶爾也會這麼做，禁忌指的是不能直立插入碗中。
生活要放輕鬆一點，不要雞蛋裡挑骨頭😂。
互相尊重是前提。👍
不止是台灣不能將筷子插在飯上，因為拜死者才會這樣做，其實連日本的喪葬也有同樣習俗，日本電影《送行者》就出現過拜腳尾飯的一段。
我覺得會為一起同行的旅伴感到尷尬是一件很正常的事情，因為無論你們人種是否一樣，在別人看起來你們就是一個團體
在這趟旅程你們會是一榮具榮，一損具損的關係，所以當其中一個旅伴做了很不ＯＫ的事情，在外人眼中是會直接降低對你們的印象分，而不是單純對其中一個人的印象分
就像我跟朋友一起去日本玩，要是朋友做出什麼我覺得不太禮貌的行為我也會感到生氣和尷尬
因為他破壞的不只是他自己一個人的形象，而是連帶破壞了所有跟他同行的人的形象，如果別人知道我們是台灣人，那他破壞的則是所有台灣人的形象
你好~~我是土生土長的台灣人~~小時候大人就說過筷子插入面或飯碗裡那就像人死後的拜 ((腳尾飯)) 如你說的的確如此~~你節目很棒~~我早已經訂閱案讚了~~ 祝福你~~
謝謝！
Thank you so much!
I’m surprised that she didn’t know about the chopsticks thing. My ex-wife (who was from Xi’an) once complained about someone leaving her chopsticks sticking up in a bowl and all mainland Chinese people I’ve met follow the custom. It’s also a wider East Asian custom, Japanese people also follow the tradition. There’s even a scene in the movie the Wolverine which features Hugh Jackman being scolded for leaving his chopsticks in a bowl.
Well those old traditions are not fully respected by everyone. If the parents don't care, kids might simply ignore it. Like many young westerners don't give a damn on praying before a meal
it could be a bit of overweening 'part of China' pride - deliberately ignoring the presumed subservient place's 'rules'. When people feel happy they tend to go out of their way to be kind to others - when people feel unhappy (and that life is unfair) they tend to try to pass on their bad feelings to others, by behaving badly in public. People from China are famous for behaving badly in other countries.
Prozzie 很貼心, 很喜歡聽你訴說自己的想法, 很真誠的; 對於中國人, 台灣人有不同的感受, 在台灣也受到各種的操作, 以自己而言, 平等是最基本的開始, 我不想面對一個我say hi, 對方就回我們是同胞..., 會冷掉.
我覺您非常的理性，能察覺很多細微的地方，是位真正的紳士
雖然這是我看過你的第二部影片，但能夠感覺到你的溫柔與細膩，不管是在感受台灣的文化或是在引導朋友感受台灣的文化
可能有很多人會覺得她很自以為是，但在第二部影片其實能夠感覺到她能察覺台灣與中國的文化差異不小，甚至開始試著調適自己
Hey Prozzie, long time viewer from Australia.
You look in great shape, best I've ever seen you. Whatever you've been doing, keep it up!
Also on the video itself, I saw your filmed interactions to actually be quite playful and not so serious. You're probably cringing at your own behaviour more than anything else which is quite common. Your friend is fantastic and you make an entertaining duo!
You are already very Taiwanese because she is your good friend, so you will correct her directly. she won't mind
Correct
There is a saying goes (人境隨俗）“ When you go to a foreign place , respect to their manner and do as the local people" in Taiwan.
还入境随俗，明明就是入乡随俗，换个字，别人就不知道原版是哪个词了吗？为了刻意强调不同，不惜生造新词，pathetic😊
我小心翼翼的好心提醒您～ 是入 不是人喔😅
@@張庭恩-c4p 歹勢！"手拙"
I still remember when I first time went to china, I can't understand why everyone looks and acts so aggressively, and that really made me feel uncomfortable. Some of those behaviors, which are commonplace to them, are seen rude in my view. And as time passed, I started to get used to them, trying hard to act like them, being aggressive, cutting the queue and so on, cause that's the way how I protected myself not getting hurt. I put lots of effort to ignore the hate of blending myself into them but failed. I'm not saying that Chinese people are bad or something, but their culture does not fit me. I do made some great Chinese friends there, though, I could never live there again. For me, it was literally a nightmare.
For me, you’re truly being a good friend, or even like family. It’s similar to how inappropriate behaviour feels different depending on whether the person acting that way is a friend or family member.
Your friend from China was brave and strong enough to be in front of the camera and open herself up for your "criticism." My 2 thumbs up to her. Also thumbs up to your self reflection at the end of the video😄 Our environments and experience shape and form us... but as long as we continue to keep ourselves open to learning and exploring new experiences, we can continue to progress through our very own evolution. Taiwan had not been the way it is today, and it will continue to evolve into something different. Same as China and all places. Thank you for the thoughtful video!
She is okay. She is not rude. Also, she is always welcome to come to Taiwan, our home, again anytime, to learn more about it.
台灣稱為 捷運 (地鐵)