I Bet on Losing Dogs - Mitski (lyrics)

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    I Bet on Losing Dogs by Mitski from the album Puberty 2 (2016).

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  • @mothysjar
    @mothysjar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6589

    nice! *dissolves into a pile of liquid*

    • @queeenshit
      @queeenshit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      LOL

    • @thaicurrysoup672
      @thaicurrysoup672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

      i guess you could say that you’re.... liquid smooth
      (i’ll leave)

    • @queeenshit
      @queeenshit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @@thaicurrysoup672 [lipbite]

    • @arisduh
      @arisduh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      i was crying and this made me laugh

    • @kurfew7168
      @kurfew7168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      End of Evangelion

  • @Blookibloo
    @Blookibloo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9426

    the baby part hits too hard. tell your “baby” that I’m your baby. you always chose the men over me mom.

    • @z0mb1e42
      @z0mb1e42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      THIS^

    • @swayy9454
      @swayy9454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Ah so thats what that means I relate so much

    • @clarissabby1511
      @clarissabby1511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      The way this just describes everything going on rn

    • @loll2507
      @loll2507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      :((

    • @aree3667
      @aree3667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Please this comment hits HOME.

  • @vee2019
    @vee2019 ปีที่แล้ว +1566

    my interpretation of this song:
    you have a bad habit of constantly falling into the same cycle of destruction. no matter how hard you try to stray from it, you know it’s your inevitable path. and while you walk down this path, you are all alone due to this cycle of isolating yourself. you want someone to bet on you, to stay by your side while you make the same mistakes over and over again. you are the losing dog, and you need someone to bet on you.

    • @tatarashi
      @tatarashi ปีที่แล้ว +55

      thanks! i don’t like knowing this and how accurate it is to me *dissolves into confetti*

    • @ALHAITAM23
      @ALHAITAM23 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I cried while reading this😭😭

    • @JoraLaRana
      @JoraLaRana ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I love this perspective
      Pov: you are the loosing dog

    • @8amango
      @8amango ปีที่แล้ว +5

      too real :(

    • @_Chuuya-Nakahara_
      @_Chuuya-Nakahara_ ปีที่แล้ว +8

      i feel a little too seen..☹️

  • @ilovecats9056
    @ilovecats9056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    "I always want you when I'm finally fine" DAMN THAT HURT

  • @dummy756
    @dummy756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6887

    this song is so good makes me wanna die tho

  • @cinnamonteeth
    @cinnamonteeth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5932

    and that's on mommy issues!

  • @Training.wheels.
    @Training.wheels. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    2:15 was a little 𝒻𝓇ℯ𝒶𝓀𝓎

    • @idilidil3808
      @idilidil3808 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      BAHAHHAAAHHAHA FR

  • @PixelKidzz
    @PixelKidzz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Idk why I thought it was a good idea to try out Mitski while on my period, but here I am, uncontrollably sobbing my guts out

    • @moon6337
      @moon6337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      BRO ME TOO IM DOING THAT RIGHT NOW AND IM SOBBING

  • @spookithegoblin5048
    @spookithegoblin5048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10618

    oh so we ALL have a savior complex and a family that never outright mistreated us but did fail to meet our needs so regularly that we feel alone

    • @ahappyaxolotl3364
      @ahappyaxolotl3364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +496

      i feel a little targeted right now aha

    • @zara-wo1ye
      @zara-wo1ye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +253

      WHAT THE HELL

    • @bestpersonintheworld7386
      @bestpersonintheworld7386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +257

      How tf did you get that so accurate🧍‍♂️

    • @cloudecol
      @cloudecol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      this is so loud

    • @autumgonzales6570
      @autumgonzales6570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      this had no right to target me so accurately 🧍🏽‍♀️

  • @alejandracondo3753
    @alejandracondo3753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14468

    hey guys just wanna say we have great music taste, but this is screaming for help at this point 😀

  • @greywater6765
    @greywater6765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    the way this is a song about self sabotage and only being able to watch your life fall apart infront of your eyes and it’s all because of you, the hopelessness that comes with it feeling like a rabid scared dog in a ring trying to claw to get out, you are watching yourself fail that is it.

  • @awildchupi
    @awildchupi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +880

    I'm so touch starved but I'm so terrified of touch😀👍🏻

    • @sincerelymaya
      @sincerelymaya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      same-

    • @itsme-vu9kw
      @itsme-vu9kw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You and me? We’re in the club now 🎈🎈🏡🍇🥤

    • @lucykg557
      @lucykg557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same🥲also nice pfp

    • @hisfavworstnightmare
      @hisfavworstnightmare 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      i’ve been touch starved and basically love starved for nearly all my life, but i guess i’m still clinging to that little piece of hope that one day somebody will love me. whenever someone tries to comfort me, i start to cry because i just don’t know what it feels like to be properly loved.. long story short, i know how you feel, you’re not alone in feeling like this ♥️

    • @boo_eth
      @boo_eth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same
      also
      YCGMA supremacy

  • @thebestjunkdrawer5045
    @thebestjunkdrawer5045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6767

    She has such a beautiful voice I can’t comprehend

  • @alilelie
    @alilelie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6628

    im just gonna... pretend my mother is saying the first bit to me over and over again

    • @TheAnimationGirl
      @TheAnimationGirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      I don’t have one original thought, do I? 😔

    • @alilelie
      @alilelie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      @@TheAnimationGirl unfortunately not, people with mommy issues are all the same person deep down 😔

    • @justaworm4787
      @justaworm4787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Omg sameeeee

    • @alex-dm5fw
      @alex-dm5fw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I cried thinking ab it, Yessss!!! Mommy Issues!!!

    • @sam-wf5jk
      @sam-wf5jk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      pain

  • @silliestlady
    @silliestlady 3 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    2:10 have I seriously been crying so hard during this song that I've never noticed until now

    • @r3dwnd
      @r3dwnd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      EXACTLY-

    • @user-tw3pq8on9v
      @user-tw3pq8on9v 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I used to cry to this song all the time but I choked on air when I saw this

    • @tearleaff
      @tearleaff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      the fact that i thought i was hallucinating lmao

    • @hellparkcraig
      @hellparkcraig 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      is thos real

    • @garlic_bread410
      @garlic_bread410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      WAIT I JUST NOTICED THIS BECAUSE OF YOUR COMMENT-

  • @123goldenlily
    @123goldenlily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    The song is about failed relationships, but I can't help but think of all the projects I've started but never finished, and also if larger goals in my life are going to be worth the effort, like continue the degree I'm pursuing or choosing something else. A melancholic feeling.

    • @emmi5550
      @emmi5550 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      this.

  • @Lucky-Lucky
    @Lucky-Lucky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8695

    I don’t wanna grow up I just wanna crawl into my parents arms and stay there

    • @laraada_s
      @laraada_s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      me too :(

    • @captainqueen3808
      @captainqueen3808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Oof same

    • @hollywoodhorse34
      @hollywoodhorse34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      girl I did not need to cry today 👁💧👄💧👁

    • @honeywater4564
      @honeywater4564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Me too I just turned 15 and it hurts :(

    • @basil6076
      @basil6076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      @@honeywater4564 I’m 15 and my b-day past and lemme tell ya it hurts sm. Just thinking about the past like when I was very young and remembering the happy fun times with my family hurts... it’s not the same anymore...

  • @sleepyhead1329
    @sleepyhead1329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6851

    i hugged my mom for all of yall

    • @kichihoe9819
      @kichihoe9819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Thanks

    • @youtubecontent3491
      @youtubecontent3491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      I can’t wait to hug mine 😞

    • @drae4526
      @drae4526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +295

      I did that too I'm so heartbroken for everyone in this comments section I'm really sorry you're all going through this its a horrible thing to have a damaged relationship with your mum and I hope you are find comfort healing and peace I love you all

    • @mangop1e
      @mangop1e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      thank u sm

    • @ginnyweasley564
      @ginnyweasley564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      thanks.

  • @himalia7884
    @himalia7884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I don't think my mom realizes how much she hurts me at times. I don't think she realizes the reason I'm constantly sad and crying and why I never come out of my room is because of her. I don't think she realizes why I never want to spend time with her is because OF HER. I don't hate her, Im just..disappointed in her. In our "relationship". a mother is supposed to love her child, to teach the child how to love themself. How to do stuff, or how to handle scary situations. My mother taught me "if you don't know how to do a certain thing, youre stupid." "No matter how smart you are, you will always be stupid if you don't know this certain thing." For example, today she screamed at me because I didn't know how to do plumbing stuff. She called me stupid and dumb..but I know I'm not stupid. Im very advanced in literature, in math, art, and music. I know I can be a bit dull sometimes, but im NOT an idiot. Its like my mom doesn't realize shes killing her own child right in front of herself. And I bet she's gonna be surprised when she drives me to suicide. Whenever I try to vent to her, she always finds some way to make it about herself or other people. Shes under the impression that "sad = ungrateful". Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for eveeything I have but.. Is it so bad that I just want to be heard and understood? I know some people have it worse than me, but I think my problems are still valid. I mean, how would you feel if someone who you KNOW should care about you and love you, was constantly screaming at you, hitting you, and being awful to you?? I need help..I need someone..I have nobody. I am nobody. I just want to be understood..please..

    • @hisfavworstnightmare
      @hisfavworstnightmare 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it’s okay, i understand how you feel. sounds like you and me have very similar mothers.. mine once shouted at me for not having many friends. it’s going to be alright, just look after yourself and one day you’ll find love in other places ♥️ you can get through this xx

    • @KellsBells-gm1ou
      @KellsBells-gm1ou หลายเดือนก่อน

      You should never apologize for the way you are feeling about how someone else has been treating you. Your feelings are absolutely valid and important, you are SO DAMN important and i hope one day you’ll get everything you deserve and so much more, im sorry that your mom’s disappointing you, its not YOUR FAULT and it has and never will be your fault. I hope you get alll that you truly deserve from this world.

  • @BARK910
    @BARK910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    I lost my doggo and this song gives me the need to hug any and all dogs in need of a hug. I'm sorry to hear about everyone's parents. My hugs are for any human that needs one too

    • @irenesouvatz1935
      @irenesouvatz1935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am sorry for your loss. I lost my doggo too. We put him down several months ago. We were best friends for 15 years. While the vet was putting him down I was hugging him, trying to comfort him and this song came up to my mind. From then, I can't listen it without crying. I am sorry for writing this here, I really wanted to share my story. And I also would love to hug any human that is in need.

    • @dreamsandmemories4807
      @dreamsandmemories4807 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sorry for your loss as well. A couple of days ago I also lost my dog, she’s been with me since I was three years old. We were 15 going on 16 together. It’s my fault she died. My parents were going shopping and I was scared they were going to get in an accident so I went with them, with no one to watch our dogs we decided it would be best for them to stay outside until we returned. We were only gone maybe 5 hours but when we got back my beloved Chica was dead in her cold dog house leaving my other dog to panic. She was acting off for the past month, troubles with breathing and such and that morning she didn’t want to eat but we didn’t think anything of it. I don’t think she died of the cold but it definitely helped. If I had just stayed home to look after my dogs she might have made it to Christmas, or at least died in her warm bed in the house she and I were raised in. This song reminds me of her, and with how lonely I feel now I would also appreciate a human hug and give any to whoever is in need.

    • @BARK910
      @BARK910 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dreamsandmemories4807 You couldn't have known the cold would put her to rest a final time. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you feel comforted by all the good memories you had with your best friend. I know she's still watching over you, all dogs do, they never leave your side. Take as many hugs as you need today, give as many as you can as well. Stay safe, stay warm, and it's ok to cry. It isn't your fault. I know it feels like it is. I also sometimes feel it's my fault I lost my Chloé, she was a dachshund mix so it was inevitable her long back would give her problems. I'm here if you need to talk, even if it's about random things, I don't know you or your dog but I will mourn the loss with you, you're never alone 💙

  • @felixx6388
    @felixx6388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5905

    Part of me wants to cry into my mom's chest one last time. I almost want just one last loving memory but the thought of her even touching me is repulsive. I feel physically ill around her.

    • @ev9099
      @ev9099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +328

      this this so much oh my god i just want her to love me but at the same time i feel sick whenever im near her

    • @donovanstroebl5920
      @donovanstroebl5920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      fr lolololol

    • @justaworm4787
      @justaworm4787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I hate my mom so much I can’t stand her

    • @acidremity.
      @acidremity. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      same.. i wish i could hug her and kiss her without feeling uncomfortable about it, even when shes tried holding my hands lovingly as she drives i just pull away cause i really cant show anything to her anymore because ive given up on fixing our relationship a long time ago and i just know the moment she gets over that loving phase its back to ignoring me and not messaging me for months :(

    • @houndstoothbruises
      @houndstoothbruises 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      cut my mom completely off 4 years ago and i never have regretted it, but i do feel this so hard

  • @smallblueflower
    @smallblueflower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7779

    hello emotionally neglected kids

    • @jehangalban3470
      @jehangalban3470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      hi bestie

    • @YAYA-vj6lg
      @YAYA-vj6lg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +288

      My parents have always been open.
      I'm just the issue
      I think

    • @anila7164
      @anila7164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      @@YAYA-vj6lg no u aren't

    • @_lxneyy_6875
      @_lxneyy_6875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      hi there

    • @jasmine-fp1qg
      @jasmine-fp1qg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      LMFAOOO hey man

  • @k9carniv0re
    @k9carniv0re 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    alr, but this whole song is a vibe for me. the lyrics starting out with being neglected by your parents and abandoned, leading to needing intimacy and longing for someone to look in your eyes and love you just for who you are (portrayed literally in 2:13 ) when for a solid fraction of your life nobody did.
    finally a vent song for me like yes please THANK YOU-

    • @isabeelaz
      @isabeelaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      THIS

    • @Neptunesugar
      @Neptunesugar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      TYSM FOR EXPLAINING I LITERALLY DID A DOUBLE TAKE LMFAO

  • @scrub_lord_9996
    @scrub_lord_9996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    It’s sucks to be a losing dog sometimes, I feel this song on a deep level. I just wish someone would bet on this losing dogs once.

  • @Wreckit11822
    @Wreckit11822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2835

    You know the feeling you wanna cry but the tears never fall, yeah. :(

    • @ferrn6864
      @ferrn6864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      yeah
      my eyes are watering but not sweating

    • @fionagallagherapologist5968
      @fionagallagherapologist5968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      its the worse feeling ever

    • @deadoutside311
      @deadoutside311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      beste thats a symptom of depression my therapist told me that

    • @ferrn6864
      @ferrn6864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@deadoutside311 oh fucky wucky isn't that great

    • @ferrn6864
      @ferrn6864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@deadoutside311 yeah bestie I'm joking honestly to help me cope woaaa

  • @jatarokemuri2835
    @jatarokemuri2835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8848

    it’s MY mental breakdown 🙄🙄🙄 i get to pick the music 🙄🙄🤚

    • @k-4234
      @k-4234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Ay Jataro🤸
      *got that mum issues too, huh*

    • @jatarokemuri2835
      @jatarokemuri2835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@k-4234 yup 😰

    • @k-4234
      @k-4234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@jatarokemuri2835 dayum🏃🏻‍♀️

    • @k-4234
      @k-4234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@VeryGoodDad oMg tWins?? i'm a jataro kin too LMAO

    • @tiredofcryinglmao9283
      @tiredofcryinglmao9283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's so relatable ☺️

  • @athens2513
    @athens2513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    the chorus is so pretty i imagine it as a dog race where she purposely bets on the dogs in the back so that they don’t feel bad when they lose because she lost with them too

    • @sheep4life746
      @sheep4life746 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      THIS, I thought I was the only one who thought this, but this is how I like to see it

  • @eepykawa
    @eepykawa หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m going to admit, I’m listening to this right now, crying on my bed. This song reminds me of how I felt when I was told my dog had to be put down and the day that I had to watch her go. It still hits me hard because she was always there since I was born. I hope you’re being pet and loved in heaven, Selphie.

  • @spvrkly_
    @spvrkly_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2379

    my mom just told me that she would choose my dad over my brother and i on a heartbeat
    the "tell your "baby" that i'm your baby" line hits so much harder now

    • @somebody2809
      @somebody2809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      I'm so sorry. You both deserve better than that. I hope you both find someone soon who will prioritize you.

    • @spvrkly_
      @spvrkly_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@somebody2809 the tears in my eyes,,, thank u very much

    • @princess_punk
      @princess_punk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@spvrkly_ how are you doing right now,

    • @spvrkly_
      @spvrkly_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@princess_punk i came out as nonbinary to her today, she accepts it but she says that she's sad she's lost her baby girl

    • @kiaurii2461
      @kiaurii2461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Sadly it is a thing that's normalised. All couple theraphists say it is "hEaLtHiER" to prioritise your relationship with your spouse. It is bullshit to me. Your child is your flesh. A child only has 1 set of parents. They need to be a priority not a relationship that might end at any moment over things as trivial as lack of sexual chemistry. LEAVE SEX ASIDE AND PRIORITISE YOUR KIDS PLEASE. They need to be loved. They need to feel like they're on the first place at least untill they grow up.

  • @rohann2967
    @rohann2967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2840

    Not me forgetting all the trauma my mom caused me and wanting a hug

    • @carnivalboy6265
      @carnivalboy6265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      fr id give anything for my mom to even look at me again

    • @drae4526
      @drae4526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Its ok to want a hug and its ok to get a hug i love you all

    • @thedogmotif
      @thedogmotif 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      she makes me ill, the things she’s done to me makes me ill. but i’d give anything for a hug from anyone right now. it hurts. i just want to be comforted.

    • @rohann2967
      @rohann2967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@thedogmotif hey babe, i'm here...thanks for sharing your feelings, i love u!!!!
      Thanks for existing!!!

    • @avery3834
      @avery3834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yeah, I know she did bad things, she hurt me, but I can hate her, she loves me and I completely love her. I want to hug her.

  • @Outuition
    @Outuition 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I don't think a song has ever made me so viscerally emotional and vulnerable before. My ex who was my first love said to me I'm like a dog. Naive, loyal to a fault, would follow her anywhere do anything she wanted, and was easy to please when we broke up. Since then I've become cold and tried not to fall in love or act like younger me. The first time I heard this song I broke down and felt like this was something I was waiting to hear to get me to feel again.

  • @natalia-pz4cb
    @natalia-pz4cb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    my mom died 😀 i was 16 (18 now) and i had the best thing in my life ripped away from me. i remember getting terrible anxiety over school and bawling my eyes out and shaking in fear and she would just hold me and pat me and tell me that everything would be okay. she always called me her baby and other nicknames like sweetheart and darling. she was sick and i remember leaving home one morning for school, i hugged and kissed her and told her i loved her and to feel better. she said she was improving, and she felt like it was all going away. i came home that evening excited to see her and tell her about my day as usual but when i entered my room i saw her laying there on my bed, she had passed away right there.
    my anxiety is worse than ever and now i cant help but wrap my arms around myself and pretend she's right there with me as i cry. i think of all the things she would say. oh my god i miss her so much it hurts. my neglectful father also ended up totally abandoning me like 2 months later. so i'm parentless now. i cant help but replay the beginning of the song and think about her. she was everything a mother should be.
    besties, we are so ill 😍

    • @thegirlnextdoour
      @thegirlnextdoour 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I know im late, but i really hope you find someone that will love you endlessly and will be there by your side at all time. I hope youre feeling okay ❤

  • @lunarrose7236
    @lunarrose7236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1648

    I actually cannot physically listen to this song without sobbing.

    • @jadakayla2557
      @jadakayla2557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same

    • @simi5558
      @simi5558 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

    • @yup6396
      @yup6396 ปีที่แล้ว

      late but I hope ur better now

    • @ain6435
      @ain6435 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same.. The tears just fall uncontrollably

    • @sanestkamishiroruifan
      @sanestkamishiroruifan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      REAL.

  • @creativename1590
    @creativename1590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3204

    this is my first time listening to mitski,,, are y'all alright?

  • @brawlstarsaspirant
    @brawlstarsaspirant 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This song holds such a meaning for me. I just wish to be held, treated with care and gentleness. Don’t we all? I look at my younger sister, she’ll never live through the mom I lived through. I wish I was still mom’s baby. Yet, since I cannot be, I always open my arms so other people can be my babies. I bet on losing dogs, my money goes to lost causes, my time is gone to people who don’t actually want it. I know they’ll never change, I know they’ll never win, yet I’m there to lose by their side, because I want to carry them into my arms like I was never carried. I’ll love the losing dogs, hoping someday those I supported will support me back

  • @prcttyy
    @prcttyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    i don't wanna become a teenager, i just wanna cuddle and kiss my parents forever and ever and never stop because i love them so fucking much and regret wanting to grow up :(

    • @elm000l
      @elm000l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It'll be okay, you'll be okay even if the idea of growing up is scary there will always be a person with you who cares and will love you so no matter what focus on what you have now rather then what you'll have in the future. trust me when i say it'll be alright 💚
      - from a teenager

    • @Gooseey
      @Gooseey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@elm000l I can agree with that whole statement. And you can always love your parents no matter what age, becuase they'll always love you back no matter where you are in the world, - a fellow teen aswell ✨

    • @l0vlunaa226
      @l0vlunaa226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      don’t worry, you’ll always be their “baby” in their eyes. i feel the same way. i’m 15 and i feel so old.

    • @seblolwth6033
      @seblolwth6033 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yikes good luck

    • @larasbigmac77
      @larasbigmac77 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @nat6850
    @nat6850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1941

    this song makes me wanna crawl into my mother’s arms, and stay there for a little while, and feeling her chest rise against my head; i want what i can’t have...

    • @nicholegallo1090
      @nicholegallo1090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh my god I feel this so deeply

    • @annikakeithmusic
      @annikakeithmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damn, that's deep and relatable.

    • @annikakeithmusic
      @annikakeithmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I feel like I lost my mom. She's still alive but she's not as wonderful I thought she was. :/

  • @bunbun7389
    @bunbun7389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2251

    i'm gonna turn 18 in 2 months and i've ruined my teenage years by being sad and afraid of the world
    lil update: i turned 18 a few days ago. i decided to let go, i'm trying to be more open for my own good and i already feel better and more positive. it's only a little step but i know i'll be the best version of myself soon. thanks for all the sweet replies

    • @ninasalih4986
      @ninasalih4986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      you still have time bub. ur teen years arent over and u still have a long way to go. stay safe :)

    • @Cherrypiem
      @Cherrypiem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same but I have 4 months

    • @butterflyyfly
      @butterflyyfly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I know the regret. I m sorry to hear. Have hope, everything is going to be okay. In those moments it was the right decision for you. Trust me. I ll send all my love to you❤️

    • @ghostmchaunted604
      @ghostmchaunted604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This one hit a little too close to home

    • @sheepbeepbeep
      @sheepbeepbeep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      i'm 25 and i promise you it will get it a lot easier !!!! being a teenager is AWFUL i didn't leave my house hardly at all the entire time i was 18...you will have a beautiful little life because it is your life!

  • @rin3598
    @rin3598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    0:59 this part make me cry 😭

  • @rosana9037
    @rosana9037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "Where I'll be looking in their eyes when they're down
    I wanna feel it"
    I really want to feel what it's like to have someone supporting me and being by my side even when I'm losing

  • @tzanaku
    @tzanaku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +957

    hey are u ok? This song has been on repeat :/

    • @yellojolly824
      @yellojolly824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      im trying so hard and the only person who sees it is across the country

    • @telikno
      @telikno 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      no💔

    • @sunnyyyyyyyy01
      @sunnyyyyyyyy01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm trying.. so hard

    • @jsyesii6159
      @jsyesii6159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ik :( i’m just crying over our my mom called me ugly words

    • @user-ec2ms4ct2z
      @user-ec2ms4ct2z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No I’m coping with the tma finale

  • @kinoqVT
    @kinoqVT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1318

    imagine growing up in a house where you get all the toys and stuff you ask for, but in a replacement of love. you grow up too early and dont wanna let go of that. and at the age where youre about to go out in the world your parent have another baby. they get love and everything they want.

    • @kylee7629
      @kylee7629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      this is me. i don’t want my mom to buy me stuff. i just want her to tell me that i’m special to her and that i matter. her and her girlfriend are planning on adopting soon. it hirts

    • @kinoqVT
      @kinoqVT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@kylee7629 yeah it sucks. My mom gives me money and just forgets me. She's the reason I have anger issues

    • @cyberpunkdeadbqy
      @cyberpunkdeadbqy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me.

    • @Beeanimates
      @Beeanimates 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Exactly- my mom is like this she can be loving sometimes but she yells SO MUCH its just overwhelming

    • @shhwayy
      @shhwayy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      watching my mom care for my brother the way she never cared for me hurts yet i feel so relieved

  • @Getawaycarll
    @Getawaycarll 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I'm crying so hard to this lol I just want to be loved again by my mother like she used too when I was kid:(

  • @cyborgsamantha3678
    @cyborgsamantha3678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Everyone’s commenting about moms which is super sad to read. I love you all and I hope you all find peace and love!
    For me, this reminds me of loving someone so much, but they don’t love you nearly as much as you love them, or at all. Romantic crushes, friendships, teachers and mentors. All people I recognize that don’t love me or even like me, but I ignore it and give them everything, because dammit I love them too much to completely let go.
    Betting on losing dogs :,)

  • @petra1350
    @petra1350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +897

    Well mitski is my mother figure now..

  • @kellphoenix262
    @kellphoenix262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1030

    Finally reconnecting with my mother after her years of drug abuse. Shes the same women i remember before I lost her to her addictions. I missed having my mom

    • @ainharavivarrojas3016
      @ainharavivarrojas3016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I am really happy for you! I hope both of you are forever healthy and happy ❤

    • @angel-bt2lq
      @angel-bt2lq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im sorry but the song is not abt moms lol

    • @lucie2693
      @lucie2693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      ​@@angel-bt2lq Maybe not but song interpretations are subjective, wether people want to associate this song with their mom or not is up to them :)

    • @Caakano
      @Caakano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish u both so much happiness on your reuniting journey

    • @angel-bt2lq
      @angel-bt2lq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lucie2693 no its literally not related at all. You can’t interpret apple as bananas

  • @navyachauhan2261
    @navyachauhan2261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Mitski's voice sounds like a cup of warm milk and the lyrics are like the cup has gone long cold. It's the mommy issues ig 🤷‍♀️

  • @CHANNEL-on3ud
    @CHANNEL-on3ud 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    okay so here's my interpretation of this song.
    mitski is talking about a woman who cares about men more than her own children.

  • @fredeh3628
    @fredeh3628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1172

    whom disliked this i just wanna talk

    • @namescossie4515
      @namescossie4515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      the people that disliked this just hasn't come to terms with their mommy issues yet

    • @toby2633
      @toby2633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@namescossie4515 pretty much

    • @offline8931
      @offline8931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@namescossie4515 "yet"

    • @dr0wnedsewerrat129
      @dr0wnedsewerrat129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      whoever disliked this was probs crying too hard and accidentally pressed dislike

    • @nasjordan2598
      @nasjordan2598 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes...whom?🤨

  • @becks.s7857
    @becks.s7857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +983

    Hey guys, I just wanna say we all have great music taste 😌

    • @octopleb9370
      @octopleb9370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Nice Killua pfp 😌

    • @jazlynnorellana6479
      @jazlynnorellana6479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks 🙈

    • @rebecca4979
      @rebecca4979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I think you spelt " we all have crippling mental health" wrong 😩🙏

    • @becks.s7857
      @becks.s7857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@rebecca4979 yeah we all have that too🤠

    • @0riginalx
      @0riginalx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      And depression

  • @ari-ne4lk
    @ari-ne4lk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    and that’s on being emotionally neglected 😍😍💞💞💞✨✨

  • @MariaUmbra
    @MariaUmbra หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    3 am + Mitski = heaven

  • @eivor7640
    @eivor7640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    betting on losing dogs i love that :( even if that’s metaphorical for something deeper those pups have no one else believing in them because everyone knows they’ll lose but she bets on them because she wants them to have someone :((( i love that

    • @tutty5403
      @tutty5403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      are you serious? its not about puppies lmao

    • @eivor7640
      @eivor7640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      @@tutty5403 im not stupid, if you read my comment you can see that i know it’s a metaphor, i know that the song isn’t literally about dogs 😐

    • @saradiamondheart6337
      @saradiamondheart6337 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They’re allowed to interpret the song how they want as anyone else. They know it’s not actually about dogs but it still made them think about the dogs that people gave up on which is valid. Songs can have so many different means and bring on different emotions, including this one.

  • @june0136
    @june0136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +767

    i just want my mom to hold me like i'm still her baby and not this stranger that i've become

    • @anila7164
      @anila7164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      stop

    • @june0136
      @june0136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      anila 7 i literally need a loop of mitski saying my baby my baby you're my baby is it to me for hours 💔

    • @anila7164
      @anila7164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@june0136 man💔

    • @theSkin_of_a_Killer_Bella
      @theSkin_of_a_Killer_Bella 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'd wanna ask why you refer to yourself as a "stranger" since sometimes it can be for many reasons😕
      What I usually see is that some loved one around us will refer to us as "strangers", or that they "dont know u anymore".
      And often enough, it's not really the one on the receiving end's fault. Or not completely bc we are capable of pushing others away, but that itself usually has a specific reason behind it too.
      The point is, no one should need to beat themselves up for growing and changing. Even if u yourself can't understand it, or maybe even not like it. A large portion of us are both inherently good, but also inherently flawed. And focusing on just one out of the two wouldnt do any good.
      This was 6 months ago, and idk the full context behind ur comment- but I hope your able to give yourself a break sometimes, instead of perhaps frequently paying attention to a flaw u may have found in yourself.

    • @zalazupancic34
      @zalazupancic34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@theSkin_of_a_Killer_Bella i love u gangsta mango :(

  • @HereForTheShips
    @HereForTheShips 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    For me this song is about being in love with someone who does not love you the same, because they are already in a solid relationship with someone else. "Tell your baby that I'm your baby. I bet on losing dogs..." It's immediately what I felt at hearing it, because I went through it, having feelings for a happily married man. The worst. You bet on losing dogs because you want to believe an impossible relationship can somehow happen, but at the same time you know it will not. You still keep a hope, because your heart wants you to hope.

  • @cameron5748
    @cameron5748 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I just lost my cat an hour ago, and the entire time we were there it this was playing in my head, mainly the my baby part. I know nobody will see this but I just needed to get it out there.

    • @poncho1046
      @poncho1046 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a pet can be hard I hope your ok. Take it easy❤️

    • @KiwiLovesCats
      @KiwiLovesCats 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I saw this I'm so sorry ❤ I hope your okay since it's been a year..

    • @cameron5748
      @cameron5748 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@KiwiLovesCats thank you

    • @KiwiLovesCats
      @KiwiLovesCats 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@cameron5748 that's awesome!

  • @rosielorraine9843
    @rosielorraine9843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    The beginning of this song reminds me of my abusive mother’s lullaby that she used to sing to me “mom loves you, pretty baby, baby I love you” and I’m here playing this dissociating to my old memories

    • @cyberpunkdeadbqy
      @cyberpunkdeadbqy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      1.im so sorry 2.i was already crying i didnt need this

    • @Lemonbeerrycookie
      @Lemonbeerrycookie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We are the same person omg

  • @huutao3012
    @huutao3012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +616

    when my mom looks at other people's daughter and probably wish they were hers instead😀

    • @huutao3012
      @huutao3012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      she deserves a better daughter

    • @App1_e
      @App1_e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      no. she’s doesn’t deserve a better daughter. you deserve a better mom. you hear me? YOU deserve someone better. YOU.

    • @myjams7180
      @myjams7180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No :(

    • @App1_e
      @App1_e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@huutao3012 I know that kids are supposed to some housework, but you realize, that you’re not supposed to do everything in the house right? You’re probably still a kid, idk your real age, but don’t feel bad for her. It was her choice to get a kid in the first place.

    • @joharashelail2269
      @joharashelail2269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      and when she starts comparing them to you, it truly hurts.

  • @melpomenethemuse
    @melpomenethemuse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This song is what I listen to when my mother gets mad at me and I don’t understand why.
    She yelled at me for “breathing in a disrespectful manner” and she’s only nice to me when my friends are around.
    She’s constantly trying to fix me, but never to help me.

  • @twodinosaursinatrenchcoat
    @twodinosaursinatrenchcoat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I DONT KNOW WHEN WE ALL DECIDED THAT THIS SONG HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH PARENTS BUT YOUVE MADE ME FEEL THINGS

  • @eioroma
    @eioroma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    Im tearing up so hard right now, my mother is so focused to my sister that she didnt know or even notice I was sick for 1 week

    • @pocky5137
      @pocky5137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      are you alright? I'm sure that must be hard for you.

    • @dreezydrakeeee
      @dreezydrakeeee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      omg girl i feel you, my family is falling apart and i’m the only one of my three sister who goes to see my dad every weekend yet i’m still not enough for him, he always ignores me and talks about my sisters :(

    • @pocky5137
      @pocky5137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@dreezydrakeeee ​ Dude that's terrible, I'm sorry. Why don't your other sisters go see your dad at all?

    • @kanekisimp8897
      @kanekisimp8897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      omg chongyun 😟

    • @eioroma
      @eioroma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kanekisimp8897 yes. chongyun supremacy.

  • @confused_lost_introvert1725
    @confused_lost_introvert1725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    I listen to this since my mom honeslty does love me and I do to but after coming out to her it feels like we’re disconnected. She believes I’m lying and that this is all a phase even tho I’ve been like this since I was little, she’s in denial and all I can hope is that she comes around soon. I miss u mom...

    • @parvoux
      @parvoux 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      just be normal stop being gay lmao

    • @milfski2256
      @milfski2256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@parvoux stfu

    • @skullcidd
      @skullcidd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@parvoux cant tell if this is bait or just the worlds most unfunny joke

    • @nimenhao8553
      @nimenhao8553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      She'll come around. If she genuinely loves you: she'll accept you as you are.
      Some people need time to process their kids being different of what they imagined, but loves overcomes those feelings eventually (if they truly love them).
      And if she doesn't come to her senses, think about your own safety and happiness first, you don't own anything to someone whose purpose is to love and protect you, not the other way around.
      Stay safe, and I hope everything turns out okay.

    • @nathan-wu6dk
      @nathan-wu6dk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@parvoux getting this as a shirt thank you

  • @makenziedailey3
    @makenziedailey3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    i just want my mother to whole heart apologize for making me grow up so fast and for making me so closeted and insecure. I don''t hate her but shes really close to becoming that, its hard hating someone who you loved and diddnt resist telling her things which you don't tell her now :/

  • @mysteriousandforeboding
    @mysteriousandforeboding 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    n e one else listen to this song and think ab how they've always been there for other people and just want someone to be there for them too except intense fear of any and all vulnerability about emotions from years of prioritizing others + constant "my problems aren't valid" mindset + not wanting to be a burden prevent you from doing so or-

    • @sincerelymaya
      @sincerelymaya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      literally me- 😃

    • @littleladnora
      @littleladnora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes

    • @summero-my5in
      @summero-my5in 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah this exactly ngl

    • @yaboileo3843
      @yaboileo3843 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here. I have a best friend and I always listen to her and help her. But she often doesn't ask about me so I feel like a therapist friend

    • @amirulsyafiq8925
      @amirulsyafiq8925 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      u can just type anyone like a normal person

  • @chunkysoup5849
    @chunkysoup5849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +765

    Stop I was reading the lyrics and 2:14 managed to snap me out of my breakdown to choke on air 😭😭💖

    • @mayalol3934
      @mayalol3934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      LMAOO I JUST NOTICED IT TOO-

    • @mp3bry
      @mp3bry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      SAME ?!?!?!? 😭😭😭

    • @mayalol3934
      @mayalol3934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      @@mp3bry I WAS IN THE MIDDLE OF CRYING AND THEN I SEE *THAT* 😭😭✋

    • @mp3bry
      @mp3bry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      @@mayalol3934 SAME 😭 I LITERALLY STOPPED MY BREAKDOWN JUST TO RE-READ IT BC I THOUGHT I WAS HALLUCINATING

    • @mayalol3934
      @mayalol3934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@mp3bry LMAOO- SAME

  • @gwenhwyfarcallaway9288
    @gwenhwyfarcallaway9288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +684

    i don't even interpret this as a song about mother and child, i feel like it's a person singing about their lover they lost a long time ago, their 'baby'...

    • @nasjordan2598
      @nasjordan2598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      😂yeah whys that everyones automatic immediate thought about the song?!😂😂

    • @NephilimFeathers
      @NephilimFeathers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      Exactly, i mean at the end she's talking about wanting someone to watch her cum, and that she keeps wanting them back again when she's finally over them again.
      Like ew, y'all, listen to the song all the way through.
      I'm not invalidating any trauma these people have gone through, I feel so much empathy for them, but i get avery strong idea that this song is not meant for mothers or fathers lol

    • @chocoberry6501
      @chocoberry6501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@NephilimFeathers oh god I kept repeating the first part I didn't see the ending until you said it 😭😭😭😭 oh god I was crying now I'm laughing so hard

    • @k9carniv0re
      @k9carniv0re 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      i personally interpret this as a bit of both (no, not incest), where parental neglection leads to a strong longing for intimacy and affection later on in life considering how a portion of your life was absent of any kind of affection at all.
      but i dunno, that’s just my view on it and it’s anyone’s guess on what this song means.

    • @taylorradick1431
      @taylorradick1431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@k9carniv0re ilook at it like neglectful parent lead too attracting people who arent the best so worship u to boost the ego

  • @delusionalmitskifan
    @delusionalmitskifan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i don’t like being touched but i want to hug someone :(

    • @therakshawolf
      @therakshawolf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here. I hate it so much but I'm just not comfortable enough with anyone.

    • @L_Maris
      @L_Maris ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @theonlydrankenjuice
    @theonlydrankenjuice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This describes how I feel with someone I don't talk to anymore because they were really toxic. "I always want you when I'm finally fine" describes how I feel so much.

  • @agustd1748
    @agustd1748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    i hate myself because i can’t love my parents innocently. i just wanna know how it’s like. i just want to love them

    • @L_Maris
      @L_Maris ปีที่แล้ว

      ......???????????

  • @calicooooooooooooooow
    @calicooooooooooooooow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    This song makes me want to curl up in my mother's arms and feel loved again

    • @snoutts
      @snoutts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      nice name lmao

  • @teaganboldon5548
    @teaganboldon5548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I just want the comfort of being held tightly in someone’s arms

  • @xxspacekidxx8235
    @xxspacekidxx8235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    There's a line in a MCR song that goes "you only hear the music when your heart begins to break". That's how I feel about this song. I used to be so confused by the comments about how this song is about mommy issues, but I understand now.
    This song is about betting on the hope that you'll be loved, that you'll be cared about, and knowing inside it's never going to happen. That's the losing dog she's betting on - the idea that she'll ever be loved.
    I get it now

  • @quinnxx6323
    @quinnxx6323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    The memories of us seem so faded she caused so much pain and trauma but as soon as she does ONE nice thing I feel horrible and like it’s all my fault

  • @shammywowchester9341
    @shammywowchester9341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    The guy I was completely head over heels in ghosted me to join the military and his friend just told me he got married and moved away... and I thought I was over him until i got that news.. so the line “I always want you when I’m finally fine” really fucking hits home

  • @BB-dq1ri
    @BB-dq1ri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I think I am unable to love or be loved. I've been pushed away, bullied and neglected ...... I don't know if I know what love feels like, but I want to. I long for it in a strange way, but I can't let anyone in. Not my parents ... Not my friends and no strangers. I think there will never be a person that really cares about me . That scares me ... i don't want to be alone but also i cant let myselfe be hurt like that again....

  • @risotto4life577
    @risotto4life577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "I bet on losing dogs"
    🥲 why does my mum keep going back to him, she knows that it will always end the same

  • @meulin_on_paws
    @meulin_on_paws 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    This makes me want to have a mother so I can cry into her, (I grew up in an orphanage)

    • @gibgib1013
      @gibgib1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Awe :(( I wish I can give you a hug

    • @wendyhere1837
      @wendyhere1837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      * I’m sending you a warm virtual hug

  • @cvc7747
    @cvc7747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +605

    vent!!!
    I want a mom "best friend", mom that i can cry to, mom I can talk with, not mom yelling at me when I don't do my homework or clean my room, I want it to be like it used to be, I love you mom.. I don't want to grow up, I wanna be your baby forever.

    • @SheriffBraylie
      @SheriffBraylie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same :/

    • @rin2619
      @rin2619 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fr

    • @movedchannels1543
      @movedchannels1543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is so relatable it’s sad…

    • @normanlaurens2189
      @normanlaurens2189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Although I’m not a girl..I’ll gladly take that role.

    • @steveed6247
      @steveed6247 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      this comment made me cry

  • @samtheballoon1522
    @samtheballoon1522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Y’know, I don’t usually cry to songs
    But this one got me absolutely bawling over here

  • @summero-my5in
    @summero-my5in 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Whenever I turned 18 I cried so hard because of the fact that my childhood was officially over. As in, I became an adult. This meant I could never try again to have a better mom or dad, I used to think about calling CPS and spilling all the terrible things my parents did so I could be in foster care and if I was very lucky, find actually nice caretakers. I would daydream about being adopted by parents who loved me. When I turned 18 I knew, even though these were fantasies, there was no way any of it could happen now. And no one owes me anything, including my parents. I have nothing, and no one.

  • @bassy7543
    @bassy7543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    0:07 for anyone who wants it on loop, ily🖤

  • @deathbytwilight
    @deathbytwilight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    day 4: hi again!!
    i painted my mirror and it looks really cool
    and ive just been hanging out with my cat all day lol

    • @yahmammy5901
      @yahmammy5901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      that's good :)

    • @ncuqncuqncuq6927
      @ncuqncuqncuq6927 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hiiiiii

    • @yellojolly824
      @yellojolly824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      where did you go?? i wanna hear about your day

    • @thatWheat26
      @thatWheat26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      what did you paint on it?

    • @deathbytwilight
      @deathbytwilight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@thatWheat26 i painted the frame white and then did little strokes of black on the designs on the frame😁

  • @komahinashipper4714
    @komahinashipper4714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    THIS IS LITERALLY MY COMFORT SONG I CRY EVERY TIME IT PLAYS PLS

  • @garchifamlover5915
    @garchifamlover5915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    “ I only want you when I’m finally fine” this…. This right here

  • @yeilany1354
    @yeilany1354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    only listen to this because i never got that comfort from my mother leading to mommy issues leading to not seeing her as a mother figure then leading to mental illnesses

  • @helena5694
    @helena5694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    the way this song makes me SOB

  • @geigersnap360
    @geigersnap360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    TW for animal death
    I know that’s not what this song is about, but this song makes me think of my dog. We had her for nine years and had to put her down today, and this song was all that was playing in my head when she passed. I miss you, Goldie. Rest in peace. You were always a good girl and always will be.

    • @rowan9015
      @rowan9015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Man the same thing is happening to me rn, my dog is getting put down in a couple of hours. This song is making me sob so hard rn 🙁

    • @annoyinggirl149
      @annoyinggirl149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A song is what you make it. A song can mean anything to anybody 💗

  • @ferrn6864
    @ferrn6864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I love it when my mum says she loves me and says "you're my baby" to me but I dont say it back because the next thing shes yelling at me for how i dress and act and comparing me with my friends saying "you act like your friend"

  • @badussy9926
    @badussy9926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    *cries really hard*
    damn

  • @itat2946
    @itat2946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This hits different when your dad isn't here, your mom emotionally and psyhcologically abuses you, and your being raised by two twelve year olds because you have no one else

  • @rambles4939
    @rambles4939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    my family never outright hurt me but im the loosing dog. and no one bet on me. no one was on my side. this song hurts me. its the comfort i never got, but always give to others. i wish someone would do the same

  • @__tinygacha324
    @__tinygacha324 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    My best friend once told me she wanted this to play at her funeral as a joke and it did…

    • @luluxiee
      @luluxiee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      may she rest in peace

    • @kami.stories
      @kami.stories 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so sorry for your lost
      rest in peace🕊

  • @error-reloading7165
    @error-reloading7165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This song makes me feel something that doesn't exist

  • @sheilafolsom9631
    @sheilafolsom9631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Its MY mental breakdown and I choose the songs

  • @kendyll2566
    @kendyll2566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    *Me crying my eyes out*
    2:12 💀

  • @ashdispersal
    @ashdispersal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    OKAY IS THE BABY PART COMFORTING TO ME? NO, BUT IT FEELS LIKE WHAT I NEED TO HEAR EVERYDAY SO I CRY TO IT AS IF IT’S COMFORT CRYING BUT IT’S LONGING TO HEAR THAT FROM A SPECIFIC PERSON WHO WILL NEVER BE IN YOUR LIFE YA KNOW??

  • @jadejolie5305
    @jadejolie5305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I'm not crying, ur crying-

  • @leechavez7788
    @leechavez7788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    this song makes me feel as if I won’t ever feel that happiness she’s given me ever again even though she was the one who took it away

  • @miaebb5567
    @miaebb5567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    this reminds me of Nihachu..she’s been having a rough year due to the people photoshopping her face onto nude bodies and sending her negative things. I feel so bad for her, she shouldn’t have to be dealing with this. She’s so nice...

  • @butchbuk6517
    @butchbuk6517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    When you were forced to grow faster and never received the love your parents are supposed to give you so now ur all empty and sad which will eventually turn in to anger