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A movie of 2 Roberts I fond of, Robert Downey Jr. [Henry 'Hank' Palmer] and Robert Duvall [Judge Joseph Palmer].
I'd strongly recommend this movie to all dads and sons. As father and son used to have "masculine psychology". Sigmund Freud referred this as Oedipus Complex - dominant patriarchal attitude still has roots in society today as men are viewed to be heads of families. Freudian psychologists claim that the risk the son runs is that in some cases it is more difficult to win the battle against the father than to lose the battle against the father. This is because a common result of winning the battle against the father is that the son suffers tremendous guilt. As communication fails to function, mostly it is the end of story.
I have 3 best quote-paragraphs. I add 2 below, surely will come back to add the last one.
Hank Palmer: Why'd you pull me out of Boy Scouts?
Judge Joseph Palmer: As punishment for blowing up the McCraw's mailbox with M80s.
Hank Palmer: I was 13. That you remember. *That*!
Judge Joseph Palmer: Oh, old enough to know better.
Hank Palmer: You didn't come to my high school graduation or college. Why?
Judge Joseph Palmer: [Overlapping] Oh, boo-fucking-hoo. "Why?" Jail time, truancy, I don't get to reward anything! None of your shit!
Hank Palmer: I graduated from *law school*, for Christ's sake.
Judge Joseph Palmer: As opposed to what? Dropping out?
Hank Palmer: Fuck you!
Judge Joseph Palmer: Let me tell you something, okay? I put a roof over your head, money in your pocket, clothes on your back... food in your *mouth*! Who paid for that college education? I never showed up to kiss your ass, but your mother? She's a house wife! Why couldn't you swallow your God damned pride and just come home to her? You tell me why!
Hank Palmer: [On the verge of tears] You know, you'd invite people at the end of their parole back to court... You'd recognize those who did their time, turned their lives around, made something of themselves. Everyone in the court applauded, and you made sure they did! Tell them how proud you were... Proud of fucking strangers!
Judge Joseph Palmer: Is that all you wanted, Henry, was a kind word? An 'atta boy? Then to use your words, you should have come the fuck home! We all waited, *quietly*, but you never came. Okay? And I was the one she'd blame, because you wouldn't come home. Me. Now, was I tough on you? Yes. How'd you turn out, Henry? Waiting tables? A bum?
Hank Palmer: You put me in Juvenile Detention... you sent me to fucking Vanderburgh!
Judge Joseph Palmer: [Interrupting] No, no, no, no, no, you put yourself there.
Hank Palmer: Did I?
Judge Joseph Palmer: Yes.
Hank Palmer: The prosecutor recommended community service. That was your call!
Judge Joseph Palmer: No, no, no, it wouldn't have helped you!
Hank Palmer: I didn't need *help*, I needed *you*!
Judge Joseph Palmer: You were high, you rolled a car with your brother in it! He had a major league career ahead of him, a 90 mile-an-hour fast ball, and he runs a turnip shop! You crippled him, you stole his future, and you call me an ass hole?
Hank Palmer: What do you want from me? I was 17 when that happened. I was *17*.
Judge Joseph Palmer: Oooh, "I was 13, I was 17." You were headed down the wrong path! I did what I thought was right.
Hank Palmer: [Holding back tears] You know, I didn't just graduate from law school, I graduated first in my class... I was first in my class... I did really well, dad.
Judge Joseph Palmer: You're welcome.
[Walks out of the room]
Hank Palmer: [Grits his teeth and clenches his fist; he sits at the kitchen table, speaking in a barely audible voice] Fuck... Damn this house... God damn this fucking house...
Hank Palmer: Tell me what happened.
Judge Joseph Palmer: I don't remember.
Hank Palmer: Because you were drunk?
Judge Joseph Palmer: No, because I can't remember. Don't you think I want to remember? I *can't*! For all I know, I never hit any thing or any body!
Hank Palmer: So, I was in the liquor cabinet. What kind of recovering alcoholic keeps his dark, liquor cabinet?
Judge Joseph Palmer: No, no, no, no, *recovered*. It's a reminder that I'm stronger, it holds no power over me.
Hank Palmer: Right now, that cop Hanson is on his way to the mini-mart, to ask some scared shitless high school clerk with half a joint in his front pocket... if you had the odour of an alcoholic beverage on your breath! Did you?
Judge Joseph Palmer: No.
Hank Palmer: Bloodshot eyes.
Judge Joseph Palmer: No!
Hank Palmer: Slurred speech?
Judge Joseph Palmer: No!
Dale Palmer: [Hank slams the breaks on his car and backs into the driveway. Glenn and Dale look on, fully aware of the tension rising between the two despite not being in the car with them] They shouldn't drive together.
If this movie does not touch you, you are already dead.
I miss my father everyday, he passed 5 years ago, I’ve lost my best friend, I’m heart broken, I’m hurt, I’m sad, I’m lonely, I cry everyday for him and just want to not be sad anymore
Hope you will be stronger day by day. I know it will not be easy… sorry to hear about your loss.
Jesus has got you.. ❤
I understand so much 😢
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This movie changed my life.
+James Patrick indeed ~ everyone needs a reminder and remember how we should treasure what we have today.
Mine and my fathers as well!
Me too.
It is humbling and the song is just .....
It gave me a lump in my throat I forgot existed...
I just saw this movie today. They don't make them like this now.
God Bless Robert Duval.
Such an under rated actor that's contributed strongly for 5 decades.
He loves America and represents us well.
Talk about redemption Robert Downey Jr lived it,..... It gave me the strength to change my life I stopped drinking ..drugs and I live my life with me not the fake high me thanks Mr Downey
Good for you hope you’re still doing good.
I cried a lot after watching this movie...
this movie makes me cry..
me too.I'm korean but it makes me sad also.
You’re not the only one
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I miss you Granny. We saw this movie on theaters and this song stuck out.
Anyone who has ever had a hard relationship with a father/father figure that is a lot like yourself.. definitely understands this video
Don't ever recall having an argument with my father. Miss him so even after all these years.
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im 52 years old, and I have NEVER seen a movie that so reminded me of my incredibly stubborn, bull headed father. It was uncanny, the scene in the kitchen you quote here, the car scene, the dialog/arguments they had are practically WORD for WORD the dialogs I had with my pops. And the complete exasperation, the thunder frustration Downey expresses towards his father is me, to a T!!! Its so surreal to watch this movie and relive those awful fights and altercations and ugly ugly emotions and 'to the bone' . . . fury that only my dad has been able to elicit in me. He's still alive (88 Nov. 15th!), and I've made peace with him, at least as much as he will allow (please, PLEASE don't ever forget readers, life is NOT like the movies, the the touchy feely ending (being vague as to not be a spoiler) never happens in real life. If it has, its so rare as to be ignored, you have better odds of winning the PowerBall Lottery twice in a row just as your being struck by lighting, and the lightning strike cures your cancer and your lifelong stutter, you must trust me on this and don't hurt yourself into 'waiting' for the impossible, you must learn how to move on and let shit like this go, or it will ruin your life, yes, even after their dead they can destroy your life). Peace....
+D Grundman I agree with you. There will be no perfect movie to show how real life is. Movie is good to remind us on life we have. In real life, just let life flow. Most important is we should have done everything we could to make up a relationship. Successful claps need both hands, it doesn't work from our hand without the other's response. Do things towards your positive conscience. If things don't turn out our good expectation, be grateful that we've done our best for the relationship. Thank you for sharing this. God bless!
+H. Sofia wow sophia, I LIKE you!! you give awesome advice. i like the clapping analogy, eloquently put dear heart. Well, if you indulge me, and put just a little faith in me, I'd like to share with you a song that likely will move you emotionally beyond even your excellent work here. Simple put into the TH-cam search box above: Eva Cassidy Songbird. then come back here and tell me how it made u feel! i promise you thank me. :-)
+D Grundman Thank you for the song. Here you go for the details :D
woman-and-life.blogspot.co.id/2015/12/songbird.html
+H. Sofia Wow, i knew you'd really enjoy it, but im blown away by just how MUCH you did! She was a very special human, & was exceedingly humble & generous & sincere despite that remarkable '1 in a million' singing ability she was blessed with. And, even when she learned she was going to die in a few short months at the tender age of 32, as her career was just beginning to finally take off, she travelled that final road with dignity & inspiring bravery, without bitterness.
+D Grundman I think this shows more about how much they really are alike. Did you watch the movie? Downey is hard headed like his father, although not as much. Downey's own life, how hard headed he is and just walks away, his old girlfriend he just walks away, his home town he walks away, his marriage,.... And in the end he was just looking for a note, a recognition from his father. The final end he got it, then after all those years he left so quickly afterwards. Then he goes back, looks at his dad's work, his dad position, and says YES. Dad set that good but I can take his lessons and run with them, improve them. My youngest son and I butted heads a bit, he took a different style of big city life. But he has told me in notes that he learned from me what I told him and without that he would not be who he is, very successful with friends and business.
Being honest again and real to myself. I certainly can not imagine what it would be like to open life assurance late in life. Good thing.
The judge was an excellent movie. After reading the comments I think it's one that I need to watch again
Happy New Year and enjoy the movie once again.
Never been touched like this by a movie. Sometimes you wish you could go back in time and tell your dad how sorry you are.
Facts
Just saw this film today; been wanting to see it since its theatrical release. Beautiful performances. Powerful movie. Downey and Duvall have never been better. For me, a new instant classic.
For any woman who does not understand men……. This movie is a good start.
So here we are once again, in the middle of the day and age of unity and health issues that are so real.
Yes.. in this pandemic time, I wish everyone stay safe and take good care.
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The only person a man relates to when he is confused, angry and tired is his dad. One finds comfort and bravery to put himself in place of his father when things get tough you know how to handle situation, because you remember him always standing tall with you through thick and thin...(Mom's have special meaning too)
Well, today is my 46th birthday. Breathing freely. I guess should you know, what its like really in words. To be born again you first have to meet God and then listen to what Jesus has to say. Later you might find a glimmer of hope somewhere in the wilderness of the vast memory of your past. Later you might have to ask God for help again. He will not listen at all really. This is when you have to walk on your own, and really come to grips of that you are alone. I love this idea and feeling of survival. I was about 3 kilometres in the back trails for time, lost in a wired idea of "what am i going to have as a coping mechanism"? Just how this came to a belief that was well seeded in my existence goes way back to my early childhood of chewing tobacco. I know, this is really minor and really insignificant to many i am sure. But realize this fact of life and what it boiled down to in the end was me wanting to go and buy a can of snuff. And wondering if it was a good idea or not? It was not the smokes at all in the end it was this idea of wanting to chewing this tobacco. I know its F'ed and you might be reading this, and realizing that how hard is it to do this from where i came from. But yeah. Nicotine does kill.
this movie always gives me chills. every time i pop the disc in, and the movie starts, i just get chills. it's such a sad movie, filled with amazing actors. i think robert downey jr did even better than outstanding in this movie. even though i never knew my dad, i felt what Hank Palmer was feeling in this movie. robert downey jr owns my heart, and so does this movie.
+Made-A-Line thank you for your comment. Always look at the bright side of life. Cheers!
Dad I miss you so much this film reminds me you when were young
I'm in Love with this movie....
Same with me..
I got the same relationship with my father.. I needed a father figure and this movie reminded me that love between a father and a son is priceless no matter what you've been through or how cold your father can be.
But it ain't that easy...
Michael B. Brown thank you for sharing, Michael - it will turn out better when we keep trying.
H. Sofia I hope, ty
Michael B. Brown This is exactly how I felt when I watched the movie. Thanks for putting it in words lol
Scotty Balli hell yah brother. I'm lucky that i got to see it at the right time and clear things up with my dad . oh hell no I'm really luckh
One of the best movies in my life, thanks for this.
Filming, where again Robert Downey Jr. stands out alongside other great actors. We leave our house early, we think we know everything but the worst thing is to distance ourselves from our families and then we see how much we lost.
Just watched The Judge again. Great movie. One of Willie's best songs.
Watching this movie stirs so many memories of dad( passed in 2008). It is as if the movie was made for me. So many memories good and not so good. The last scene of them fishing together is my wish to see him one last time. " nobody said is was this hard...take me back to the start"
Well, the story has touched many hearts especially those men who often think of their dads. Pray for your dad and things will be alright, God be with you.
The scene in the movie where he can't remember his bailffs name floored me. It was like when my dad started going and he went fast. brutal.
Say 'I Love You' every chance you get for there will come a time when that chance is gone.
This movie is just... I cannot describe it it words. And RDJ's acting is just amazing
Right in the feels this one.
No matter how far our parents would go the bond of love will never die between the child and a parent. In this world full of stress we forget to live in the beautiful moment. We should never underestimate the power the time bestows in it. It can all be over in a flash. Live in today as no one knows what's waiting for them tomorrow. Love to all. Stay happy and stay connected🙏
Spectacular film & performances by Robert Downey, Jr. & Robert Duvall...& Willie Nelson's version of this song is so beautiful I weep every time I hear it 💗
I'm from Egypt, and I watched the judge in theatre after my grandfather died by 3 months and it's totally my grandfather in that judge and actually it's the only movie who made me crying in the theatre me and my sister , such a great movie with such a great actress
Thank you for making up to express your feeling here, @Ahmed Gazzar. Wish you enjoy the clip I've published here.
yeees I really enjoyed it , thank you so much ❤ H. Sofia
You're welcome ...
This film very touchy.. I cry damn u ninjas..
this film just remain me how i missing to talk everything with my dad.. i miss him so hardly!!
good movie.. nice soundtrack. thanks!
cheers from indonesia!!
Well, i got stuck in traffic before i had a chance to grab the eggs hun. I often wonder if that is what you might be thinking at this time. But then again, i think that i will never ever grow old for the fascination of human nature. It is such a thrill to be sharing this openly to you as i sit here with rather limited resource available to me. As you can see and maybe have a better idea with this musical piece as a personal reference of lineage for your own personal doings..../in what ever capacity or silently as you see fit.
best Movie ever ❤
This movie was so good that makes me sad...
What an unbelievable version by willie
You destroy me with this one, mate.
Hopefully it eases your days on the other side as well. Have a good day/night, mate.
Great song, great movie.
This movie it remember me all the moments that i pass true the sick times of my lovely father. RIP Alfredo 1sept 15.
Lovely sweet heart dad.
Ewesome song !!! Great from Poland😍
This song is one of my favourite ones.
Miss You Dad😭
It Sounds Romantic to me with coldplay's the scientist
But, the warmth of willie Nelson is more suitable for the touch in this movie.
These warmth sounds are just like the temperature mad world has brought to me.
Beautiful Movie & Song
Robert downey jr us so perfect. i love this film
As an incumbent of reality or lack thereof, i am here today....realizing that yes, indeed this is my life. If you are ever wondering what it might be like to have a chid explain what its like for them to endure life again without the soothing releasing comfort that a pacifier brings. Then this would be the adult version of such. I am a grown man. Coming to, coming of age, and really had no time yet to identify any real barriers that are of hindrance.
The Willie Nelson version of "The Scientist" is Un-bloody-believable. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE! (and the movie ain't bad for sure; cried and cried. So touching!)
You let me down Chip, the boys & I needed you to be insightful & kind, to guide us, to show us the beauty of life has to offer. Why...would you ever let us go?! We love you, no one ever put you down. You are loved for real.
Best movie ever can't stop watching it over and over and it makes me cry everytime masterpiece ❤
I luv the original by Coldplay but I gotta admit... Willie nailed it!
Great song, Beautiful movie
This song is for my dad love and miss you so much 💚💚💚🏴
Nice, thank you : Willie and Coldplay
Love it ♥
Love you mom and dad 😄
bellísima........
actorazo ;-)
Adorably heartbreaking.
ideals, truth, valor.
The Judge brought me here....
Every time when I heard the song that I’ll remind my father....
such a beautiful movie and a beautiful song
Thank you, Evan. Agree with you.
this is such a lovely song and movie. Very touching ...indeed... nobody said it was easy, no one said it would be this hard.
Being a piece of a puzzle, which is my life. As it is today and what it might be tomorrow. It will be what we make it, more so what i make it. Yes, changes, goals, fear. It is not all that horrible after all. I mean it could be far worse or worsened.
Guess I'll always cry watching this. Lovely vid!
thank you.
I love you GG, thank you for being here for me everyday and allowing me to be me....GG you made me believe that people love each other.
Frozen entries tonight, chicken burgers extravaganza.
this movie is so inspiring
still my favourite movie.
great movie and song!! thanks
Taking a full step back in life, deciding upon new ideas on future of personal life. Exciting to say the least, or perhaps it was a idea put into motion, that it really was. Then again, the old hum drum idea of daily communal living never really gave much enthusiasm to me self. But then whom knows really. Am i able to jot down a few notes before bedtime, and in unique way of reflecting upon the day(?). I am sure that it will be perfectly alright.
This was great. Made me tear up...
I think after Watching this everyone should Call there mum AND dad tell them you love them even if you have fallen out with them because you never know it might be the last chance you get
+gavin smith very true - thank you for watching and comment.
+H. Sofia your very welcom have a nice day :)
Great song, great movie. You're a Crack Robert Downey Jr. n.n!
Powerful movie & song!
Indeed, it is one of its best!
Glory
Hello my father i don't remeber ...is great father
In his 11 Year Tenure with the Marvel Cinematic Universe (also with both the Sherlock Holmes Movies), he's done 7 Movies outside of it. Tropic Thunder, The Soloist, Love & Distrust, Due Date, Chef, The Judge and The Voyage of Doctor Dolittle !!!
Ryder Benson thank you. Out of seven you mention, I may only get to watch only 2. Will try to get those and take my time to enjoy.
The whole essence of this amazing film closed in a wonderful video with beautiful song.
It's so awesome.
thank you. it is indeed.
A Liberty Statute without any limitations. That is what it is.
sure
Stupenda canzone e bellissimo film❤️
esta película tiene 3 grandes cosas, el actor, un maestro, el drama de la película y la canción, una de las pocas películas que emocionan, la tercera si no me equivoco, antes fueron, el rey leon, siempre a tu lado.
y el vídeo super bueno, gracias.
This movie is amazing
Well, Trina hopefully this memory in song will find you someday. Most likely it will. Either way we both knew that life was coming or we were going into different directions in life. So, he it is today, fondness..not very much. Memories that i carry true. Feelings..admiration.
Thanks again Trina...
hermosa pelicula una actuacion brillante
It reminds me of my relationship with my father.
If you still have him around, it will never be too late to make it up. Just a thought though...
Good video, amazing movie, excelent song...... En México también se mira buenas películas
I miss you father
Amazing , thank you :D
The movie so good
Eu amei o filmo vi 23 vezes. Amei
What an awesome song
excellent song, excellent movie (congrats Team Downey), excellent eye candy..(thank you Robert Downey, Jr)...excellent music in the movie...this is a piece of art...topped by the closing song by Willie...much thanks to all involved...including the editors!~
Thanks again.
Love the video and the song. RDJ is the best ♥
Glad you love it, thank you, Tony.
Stopped off for the usual, one gallon of fresh two percent. 2%. Heavy on the idea. Spring time is finally upon us and the break of weather bring contentment.
PERFEITO ESSE FILME @@
Courage is not really measured by anything more than fate. Most likely with ventures. I have never been a real fan of placing children as assets or referring to them as assets. It is something that we do early on in life. And hopefully some realize that this is not a real good thing to do. It inhibits children early in life. And learning to grow out of it is a real feat of mysticism...for me it was. I am truly hopeful that this will find my youngest daughter.
me encanta esta cancion y mas por que la pelicula es fantastica