You nail it!! I'm 58 and can wear what i want. When i was in town i look around, not the teens, but the 30 years old men are good for "studies"..... what looks great on them, is good for me
Albert Manuel You’re right. I used to buy expensive clothes and not know why nothing looked good on me. So I stoped wasting money on clothes and was honest with myself about my weight and decided to concentrate of getting fit. Now I’m 54 and look even better than when I was 34 with a HM t-shirt and jeans. Go for it Albert. Change your lifestyle and make everything about eating well and getting regular exercise.Make it a big part of your life and not just squeeze in a run or a gym session whenever you can. You won’t look back.
Nothing looks worse than a well fitted piece of apparel on a guy with a beer gut. Agree wholeheartedly. Age doesn't matter if you keep yourself in shape.
I am recently divorced after 25 years and I am 55 years old. I used to dress nice when I was younger but now that's downgraded to sandals and sneakers, blue jeans, cargo shorts and black concert tees. After watching your videos I went out and bought myself some dress boots chino pants in different colors collared shirts long sleeve and short. I look and feel much better. I actually caught a couple of girls staring at me. my confidence level is sky-high. And shopping has become fun. Thank you so so much.
I'm 54 (will be 55 later in the year) and I absolutely LOVED your advice on; "Classing it up!" Wow! I told my wife that coming into 2020 that I was going to change up my wardrobe. I found you guys and a few others here on the tube and my "eye" for fashion and being "stylish" has changed considerably! Thanks!
I'm 62 work as a person trainer and am in good shape .I agree with everything you said ! I don't wear Anything unless it fits good especially suits! I threw away all pleated slacks four years ago and now wear only plain front slacks that fit .I feel and look like I'm much younger in part because my clothes look like they are tailored just for me and they are!! Thanks for your good advice ! Especially non footwear !
The advice you're giving equally applies to the under 40s as well as the over 40s. Im 56 and ive always been a sneaker guy and that wont change. I also love wool overcoats and that has been the case for 30 years. Ripped jeans ive never worn. I also have a liking for formal shoes oxfords derbys and single/double monk straps. I live in the UK and I would suggest the style rules (if there is such a thing) is a lot more 'varied' than the states possibly.
Chino's give the lower half of my body a V-shape, the material is always too thin and has a draping effect. Jeans give the lower half a straight down look, overall better. At 5'11, 32-33 waist, how much should a good pair of chinos be and when should I give up because my body type may not work with them?
charles.d - artpipe TX my measures exactly, I know what you mean. I tend to keep my shirts untucked so that helps a little. Also there’s a regular fit chinos that fit better than the slim or skinny fit, but it’s still an ongoing quest for me. Some day I hope to get the magic formula right. Keep experimenting and contrast colors of your chinos with your shirts or t-shirts.
The issue with this video and any video offering style advice for us in our 40’s, 50’s etc Is the examples are on people in perfect shape. Ryan Reynolds types. Which is a great reminder to focus on being in shape #1, but it would be great to see suggestions that may be helpful for us who aren’t in perfect shape. What outfits are flattering for imperfect body shapes etc.
Im 58 ,1 year ago I decided to lose weight and do something about the way I looked .So i didnt quite reach my goal of 1kg for every year of my life but lost 53kg ! [ [130lbs ? ] this charming couple and my girls helped immensely,got my strut back !
They're basically saying if you're 40+ you look like shit, and in light of that you should wear clothing that makes people think you're wealthy and powerful.
It really doesn't matter what you wear as long as you carry yourself appropriately and with confidence. I can put something on from Nordstroms or Walmart and make them both look good by the way I carry myself.
I am so glad that Dorian is looking better ( slowly ). Hope the recovery continues to go well. Saw an old video Feb 2019, hope he gets to look like that soon. And love Ashley's hair colors. My fave would be the cool rose tone from some time ago.
I’m 49 soon to be 50 next month. Would love to see more styles for men my age. Especially how to pair dress boots for Fall and Winter, how to wear blazers, when to wear a suit, can we wear v neck sweaters with a no show undershirt. Etc.
I was well into my 40s when I decided to dress well. To any guy who need's to see what happens when you dress well. I went into a bar in my hometown wearing a leather biker jacket and jeans and the barman said " Yes Mate what can I get you "(I'm English hence the mate reference). One day later I went into the same bar wearing a suit and the same barman said. "Yes sir , can I help you". Says it all.
In the sense of dress, their is a big difference between 41 and 48, and using the term older makes a man feel like a senior citizens, men in their 40s are not grandpas by no way.
I am turning 43 but people still think I am in my late 20s or early 30s and if I dress what men in their 40s, I look like I am wearing my dad's clothes...
Love this channel. And as a slightly older guy this content was especially welcome. Maybe you could do a bit more on this subject. Keep up the great work guys.
Excellent points, and as a mature gentleman, I have the courage and wisdom to class it up just a bit when I am in the public. I always get positive feedback appropriate to my age. Thank you for putting these points out there.
It's funny that most of the photos in these videos show men in their late 50s or more like in their 60s. Most of us in our early 40s still don't have fully grey beard or wrinkles even. There are tons of cool things to wear over 40 instead of the lame bomber jackets, business shirts, polo shirts and cardigans. Wear what makes you feel comfortable yet mature. (OK no more T-shirts with stupid logos, we can agree on that one.) Over 40 staying in shape is much more important than the perfect wardrobe IMHO.
Hell, I’m 72 look 60 and have never been a fashion follower. I’m a blazer and relaxed trousers guy. Add a solid color button down collar shirt and that’s me.
You should do a summer video. Live in south texas and it’s been over 100° for the past few weeks and the nights are in the mid 90s. Sometimes I run out of ideas
This is great advice when your 6 foot tall, weigh 180 Lb, and live in the city. What about some advice for the shorter, heavier gent who lives an active outdoor life. I cant be wearing dress shoes, and a fitted jacket when I am heading out for a 4-6 hour hike in the mountains of the Pacific North West ... Looking for more appropriate advice for a 5'7", 190Lb, active outdoors lifestyle.
Great video...i fully support your comments. I also believe,as an older man, that by a certain age, you should know what colors,textures and fabrics best suit your complexion and build.
That is pretty close to how I dress, despite that I'm only 22. It helps a ton when you need people to take you seriously, especially since I look like I'm about 17 :)
That clothing is fine for cooler climates or seasons, but what of you are in the heat for most of the year? Please create a separate video for summer wear or hot climates.
I just recently watched 'Road House ' 2024, and I liked Jake Gyllenhaal's style on that movie: Hawaiian shirt (Jake said on an interview that they are custom-nade), dark jeans and classic pair of boots. He's 43.
I'm over 40 and I love the word you used to describe how we should look...."distinguished." I totally agree with you. There is another style vlogger out there who clearly is well over 40. He's probably close to 50 because I see the age in his skin, which is ironic because he's trying to sell a mens skin care line, trying to convince everyone who great and "simple" it is. Again, I like that word "distinguished" because of our "experience." I will try to go with clothes with a little modern edge to it, but for the most part, my style is a little more in the "timeless classic" relm.
I'm 45 and one thing us well seasoned gents need to stay away from is neon anything especially if you are going salt and pepper. One thing we should run too is mono tone styling .We pull that off proper.
I really appreciate this kind of advice. I've been pleasantly surprised how positively people in general react or behave toward me when I dress in a more classic manner. Jeans, tennis shoes and t-shirts are now for fishing these days!
I’m a youthful 52 now. I’m aging great because I took care of myself. I’m In that middle area where I don’t want to look like my teenage son and I certainly don’t want to look like a senior citizen! This Ashley Weston has really helped me define a good middle ground look that my wife has really noticed looks good for me. Thanks Ashley!!
Somewhat disagree. I'm 48 and an active musician. I stand on the side that the same fashion rules don't always apply. Now that doesn't mean I dress like a 20 something year old, but most of the fashion advice doesn't suit my personality or lifestyle, outside of my job. I work in a professional environment ( engineering firm) so try to dress the part. I agree that older gentlemen should definitely class it up but for the most part, some of your advice comes off very vanilla and boring. I feel the best advice to older guys, stay in shape and you can dress to your liking and personality.
I'm 51 and put more thought and effort into what I wear now more than ever in my life. I would say that I have always paid attention to what I wore and took pride in being somewhat of a snappy dresser for lack of a better term but much to my surprise I'm having more fun with it than I ever have. I always hated shopping but I did it anyway and nowadays it's much more convenient to do it online when I can, and know something will fit properly. There is definitely a fine line IMHO about what you can get away with at my age but if you nail it I think its pretty damn cool.
I see the point about shorts, but if you live somewhere where it’s 110-120 degrees outside… pants are just too hot. Is there a better way to make it work?
As we mature we should be able to distinguish what apparel is appropriate for what time or what event. If you keep yourself in good condition as we age then we can wear whatever the hell we want to. Age is of no consequence. Dress for your body type and your lifestyle would be far more appropriate than interjecting age into the conversation.
One problem I run into is big and tall clothing is mostly big. Most of the places I go are very laid back. A few shirts meant for the work place do fit me but places that sell casual clothing might have one item of 300 that actually fits me. A tall sized sweater is like finding a unicorn. To be honest, I find most of my dates wearing a Tshirt with holes burned into it or a flannel/denim shirt. A Harley helps me more than any clothing item.
I will be 39 years old in 6 months in decent shape and still look fairly young so I dress how I want sometimes in our teens and in our 20's a lot of the clothes we like and wanted we couldn't afford until we got older in our 30's and 40's so the key is confidence and to be happy
I don't see anything wrong with a classy V neck sweater. My signature look for years, even decades, has been a basic black V neck with a white T shirt underneath to accentuate it. And I don't think it looks out of place now that I am 45.
I like the emphasis on classing it up. Most of the time (when I’m not riding my motorcycle) I like the classic slacks and Bill Blass navy blazer. BTW I’m almost 75
As an older guy at 61 I agree completely. At retirement I began to wear chinos, sport coats, turtlenecks, open collar shirts, loafers, brogues, and derby dress shoes instead of sneakers. I'm constantly getting compliments such as looking dapper, distinguished, classic, and well dressed. People are more respectful, show greater courtesy, and even the doctors I visit listen more and consider my opinions with greater thought. As you and other commenters have said/written there is nothing more ridiculous than a 60 year old man trying to look 18. Yes, I know you can wear what you want and not care what others think but that means you must too not consider how you will be treated by them in turn. Most people want to be respected. Why not dress in a manor that allows such respect be given easily? Final thought. Being retired and on a fixed income I purchase most of my clothing from thrifts or factory outlet stores. All were were seldom or never worn. Why spend $350 for a sport coat when one with tags still on it can be found for $15?
Just wear whatever you feel like wearing, when you are at that age you don’t need to impress anyone. Don’t need to wear a fucking suit If you’re just going to The zoo with your kid or grandkid!
Great smart advice I agree with everything you guys suggested for older guys. Dorian is almost 40? Wow he looks way younger than that you are aging good bro.
Turning 55 this year, had been looking after my skin body wise using lotion but not my face. I recently started using facial cream, facial cleanser, and eye cream. Dropped 8kg from dieting with more movement and dropped another 4kg when I started working out and going to the gym. People tell me that I look at least 15 years younger and I do notice getting glances from women much younger than me even though I'm wearing t-shirt and shorts (my legs and glutes look better too). Been divorced and single for a couple of years now so it seems like I'll be ready to go out soon :-D
Dressing up good is secondary.. If you really want to look good in any age be in shape.. Rise early morning try to sleep as soos you can walk 45 mnts daily..
Chalie Murphy what month and are you in a cold weather climate or warm? I can share some thoughts. Also is it an organized event or just an informal meetup?
Thanks so much. It will be next November. I live in Pennsylvania so it would be cold weather. It will be an organized event. Love to hear your thoughts!
Chalie Murphy so many options. You could go with a grey or navy blue suit with some nice brown shoes. A white or blue oxford cloth button down collar shirt and a pocket square to match the shirt. A v-neck sweater with wool trousers, blue or grey, the same shirts as above and brown shoes. Double monk straps are something the ladies notice. You could also wear a blue blazer with grey trousers, same shirt choices as above and shoes. A nice pair of chinos like Woodies and a sweater with same shirt choices as above and either brown shoes or Chelsea boots. I personally do not like tan or khaki colored chinos but they go with almost anything. No pleated pants! Make sure everything fits and isn’t too baggy. Iron or press everything too, wrinkled and baggy is a bad look. I don’t know your budget but you have a year to space any purchases out. You can find some decent shoes at a fair price at Florsheim,com. You could also do a one time subscription from Stitch Fix, Bombfell, or the Nordstrom service. If you don’t like what they send you can ship it back. Other than Woodies, LL Bean and Lands End have nice wrinkle free chinos and always have coupons or sales. I like Woodies because the are made to your specific size. If your suit jacket or blazer is a solid color you can opt for a striped shirt if you like. Again LL Bean has some nice wrinkle free options. Haircut, shined shoes, nice threads, you will be good to go!
I’m 54 and live in Shanghai (been here for 15 years) and I think it’s a bit different. All middle age men are slim and fit and exercise regularly. Daily wear is mostly sports clothes, even guys in their 60s and 70s are wearing UA or Nike. But guys in their 30s are mostly overweight and dress like guys in their teens, giant logos and loose fitting clothing with giant logos.
I dunno, it felt pretty condescending. The reason distinguished gentlemen might not wear more closely tailored clothing is the middle-age spread, yes? The two baggy photos were of larger gents, followed by tailored photos of guys in good (read thin) physical condition. If you really want to help show how a guy who is overweight can rock some over 50 styles.
Question...I have white motorcycle jacket - short waist, long in the sleeve with a thin red and blue stripe that goes around arms and across the chest. It was given to me as a gift from my father (no longer here), I'm uncertain "how to wear" this out or...do I want to wear this out? Should I just give the coat away? I am 47
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I’m 48. The best advice I can give is to stay in shape. You can wear just about anything you want.
Albert Manuel Can confirm. I lost weight simply because I wanted to dress better and being slimmer makes it a lot easier.
You nail it!! I'm 58 and can wear what i want. When i was in town i look around, not the teens, but the 30 years old men are good for "studies"..... what looks great on them, is good for me
Great comment! I'm 40 and can wear anything because I'm in better shape than most 25 year olds...
Albert Manuel You’re right. I used to buy expensive clothes and not know why nothing looked good on me. So I stoped wasting money on clothes and was honest with myself about my weight and decided to concentrate of getting fit. Now I’m 54 and look even better than when I was 34 with a HM t-shirt and jeans. Go for it Albert. Change your lifestyle and make everything about eating well and getting regular exercise.Make it a big part of your life and not just squeeze in a run or a gym session whenever you can. You won’t look back.
Nothing looks worse than a well fitted piece of apparel on a guy with a beer gut. Agree wholeheartedly. Age doesn't matter if you keep yourself in shape.
I am recently divorced after 25 years and I am 55 years old. I used to dress nice when I was younger but now that's downgraded to sandals and sneakers, blue jeans, cargo shorts and black concert tees. After watching your videos I went out and bought myself some dress boots chino pants in different colors collared shirts long sleeve and short. I look and feel much better. I actually caught a couple of girls staring at me. my confidence level is sky-high. And shopping has become fun. Thank you so so much.
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Look good, feel good. I'm happy for you, get out there and keepm living well
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Staying in shape is the key too your wardrobe looking nice on you
I'm 54 (will be 55 later in the year) and I absolutely LOVED your advice on; "Classing it up!" Wow! I told my wife that coming into 2020 that I was going to change up my wardrobe. I found you guys and a few others here on the tube and my "eye" for fashion and being "stylish" has changed considerably! Thanks!
Dress the way you like. That's all!
It’s taken me 12 years of incredibly hard labor to get into good shape. now that I’m 65 it’s nice to know how I might dress. Thanks this helps
This video is spot on!!! I am 66 years old and do my best to dress well with properly fitted clothes. It says a lot about the individual.
Guys…60 is the new 40!
The best is yet to come.
Keep it classy!
Once I got old I started wearing all those awesome metal gradient sun glasses I've always wanted.
Yeah, I'm 43 and I'm starting to dress my age, and more fitted. But I will still wear the printed Star Wars shirt once in awhile...lol
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I'm 62 work as a person trainer and am in good shape .I agree with everything you said ! I don't wear Anything unless it fits good especially suits! I threw away all pleated slacks four years ago and now wear only plain front slacks that fit .I feel and look like I'm much younger in part because my clothes look like they are tailored just for me and they are!! Thanks for your good advice ! Especially non footwear !
The advice you're giving equally applies to the under 40s as well as the over 40s. Im 56 and ive always been a sneaker guy and that wont change. I also love wool overcoats and that has been the case for 30 years. Ripped jeans ive never worn. I also have a liking for formal shoes oxfords derbys and single/double monk straps. I live in the UK and I would suggest the style rules (if there is such a thing) is a lot more 'varied' than the states possibly.
I’m approaching 63,also from the uk.I agree quality shoes,dark denim,cardigans,chinos look great if we’ll fitted.more quality than quantity.
I dress however, whatever I want, this is my life and my fashion! Thhhhhats It!
My favourite jacket is Harris Tweed, 350-400 GBP new, 90-100 GBP pre-owned on ebay
Chino's give the lower half of my body a V-shape, the material is always too thin and has a draping effect. Jeans give the lower half a straight down look, overall better. At 5'11, 32-33 waist, how much should a good pair of chinos be and when should I give up because my body type may not work with them?
charles.d - artpipe TX my measures exactly, I know what you mean. I tend to keep my shirts untucked so that helps a little. Also there’s a regular fit chinos that fit better than the slim or skinny fit, but it’s still an ongoing quest for me. Some day I hope to get the magic formula right. Keep experimenting and contrast colors of your chinos with your shirts or t-shirts.
The issue with this video and any video offering style advice for us in our 40’s, 50’s etc Is the examples are on people in perfect shape. Ryan Reynolds types. Which is a great reminder to focus on being in shape #1, but it would be great to see suggestions that may be helpful for us who aren’t in perfect shape. What outfits are flattering for imperfect body shapes etc.
The guy at 1:12 looks cool to me.
chiefs816kc I was thinking the same thing
Agreed
yeah he have f*king awesome style...
Facts
Xactly. So I don't put any confidence in those guys ---
Im 58 ,1 year ago I decided to lose weight and do something about the way I looked .So i didnt quite reach my goal of 1kg for every year of my life but lost 53kg ! [ [130lbs ? ] this charming couple and my girls helped immensely,got my strut back !
They're basically saying if you're 40+ you look like shit, and in light of that you should wear clothing that makes people think you're wealthy and powerful.
It really doesn't matter what you wear as long as you carry yourself appropriately and with confidence. I can put something on from Nordstroms or Walmart and make them both look good by the way I carry myself.
I'm 43 wear boots, jeans, t-shirts, polo shirts and thanks god lots of girls for me.
Tom Ford is a perfect example to strive for. Look at what he wears in his 50s, and how the clothing fits.
of course! but those are not cheap!!!
I am so glad that Dorian is looking better ( slowly ). Hope the recovery continues to go well. Saw an old video Feb 2019, hope he gets to look like that soon. And love Ashley's hair colors. My fave would be the cool rose tone from some time ago.
My whole life buying denim jeans 34 W 32 L. After going through your jean fit guide turns out I'm a 30 W 29 L and they look awesome on me. Thanks guys
It's all about the fit!
I love this video am 45 yo and I am so glad to find you guys ... your tips are gold. I will keep in touch! Thank you. Oz
I’m 49 soon to be 50 next month. Would love to see more styles for men my age. Especially how to pair dress boots for Fall and Winter, how to wear blazers, when to wear a suit, can we wear v neck sweaters with a no show undershirt. Etc.
I was well into my 40s when I decided to dress well. To any guy who need's to see what happens when you dress well. I went into a bar in my hometown wearing a leather biker jacket and jeans and the barman said " Yes Mate what can I get you "(I'm English hence the mate reference). One day later I went into the same bar wearing a suit and the same barman said. "Yes sir , can I help you". Says it all.
Exactly.
In the sense of dress, their is a big difference between 41 and 48, and using the term older makes a man feel like a senior citizens, men in their 40s are not grandpas by no way.
I am turning 43 but people still think I am in my late 20s or early 30s and if I dress what men in their 40s, I look like I am wearing my dad's clothes...
Love this channel.
And as a slightly older guy this content was especially welcome.
Maybe you could do a bit more on this subject.
Keep up the great work guys.
Slightly?
Your advice is the same for everyone. It’s insane tbh. All your videos have the same message.
Wear whatever you’re comfortable with !
Excellent points, and as a mature gentleman, I have the courage and wisdom to class it up just a bit when I am in the public. I always get positive feedback appropriate to my age. Thank you for putting these points out there.
It's funny that most of the photos in these videos show men in their late 50s or more like in their 60s. Most of us in our early 40s still don't have fully grey beard or wrinkles even. There are tons of cool things to wear over 40 instead of the lame bomber jackets, business shirts, polo shirts and cardigans. Wear what makes you feel comfortable yet mature. (OK no more T-shirts with stupid logos, we can agree on that one.) Over 40 staying in shape is much more important than the perfect wardrobe IMHO.
Hell, I’m 72 look 60 and have never been a fashion follower. I’m a blazer and relaxed trousers guy. Add a solid color button down collar shirt and that’s me.
You should do a summer video. Live in south texas and it’s been over 100° for the past few weeks and the nights are in the mid 90s. Sometimes I run out of ideas
Im 36 and i still wear baggy clothes! Im stuck in the 90s
This is great advice when your 6 foot tall, weigh 180 Lb, and live in the city. What about some advice for the shorter, heavier gent who lives an active outdoor life. I cant be wearing dress shoes, and a fitted jacket when I am heading out for a 4-6 hour hike in the mountains of the Pacific North West ... Looking for more appropriate advice for a 5'7", 190Lb, active outdoors lifestyle.
Yes! Thank you from an older than 40 gentleman.
Great video...i fully support your comments. I also believe,as an older man, that by a certain age, you should know what colors,textures and fabrics best suit your complexion and build.
Should I be wearing Spanx, I am 62?
I'm 37 i already wear a lot of suits and polos but the only thing i can't let go is my sneakers. I use mostly fitted but with a streetwear influence
That is pretty close to how I dress, despite that I'm only 22. It helps a ton when you need people to take you seriously, especially since I look like I'm about 17 :)
Please provide more pictures of how someone should dress. Love your channel.
Really appreciate your videos. Makes a change from all those “alpha male” youtube channels that not every man will relate to. Keep it up.
Excellent video guys! I'm 54 and feeling great. Thanks for the tips.
That clothing is fine for cooler climates or seasons, but what of you are in the heat for most of the year? Please create a separate video for summer wear or hot climates.
I'm 18, I dress like this... people older than me call me sir and treat me with much more respect
I just recently watched 'Road House ' 2024, and I liked Jake Gyllenhaal's style on that movie: Hawaiian shirt (Jake said on an interview that they are custom-nade), dark jeans and classic pair of boots. He's 43.
The bark at 6:43 is hilarious 😂
I'm over 40 and I love the word you used to describe how we should look...."distinguished." I totally agree with you. There is another style vlogger out there who clearly is well over 40. He's probably close to 50 because I see the age in his skin, which is ironic because he's trying to sell a mens skin care line, trying to convince everyone who great and "simple" it is. Again, I like that word "distinguished" because of our "experience." I will try to go with clothes with a little modern edge to it, but for the most part, my style is a little more in the "timeless classic" relm.
V. Torch Napeñas maybe get that hair fixed.
I'm 45 and one thing us well seasoned gents need to stay away from is neon anything especially if you are going salt and pepper. One thing we should run too is mono tone styling .We pull that off proper.
I really appreciate this kind of advice. I've been pleasantly surprised how positively people in general react or behave toward me when I dress in a more classic manner. Jeans, tennis shoes and t-shirts are now for fishing these days!
I’m a youthful 52 now. I’m aging great because I took care of myself. I’m In that middle area where I don’t want to look like my teenage son and I certainly don’t want to look like a senior citizen! This Ashley Weston has really helped me define a good middle ground look that my wife has really noticed looks good for me. Thanks Ashley!!
Somewhat disagree. I'm 48 and an active musician. I stand on the side that the same fashion rules don't always apply. Now that doesn't mean I dress like a 20 something year old, but most of the fashion advice doesn't suit my personality or lifestyle, outside of my job. I work in a professional environment ( engineering firm) so try to dress the part. I agree that older gentlemen should definitely class it up but for the most part, some of your advice comes off very vanilla and boring. I feel the best advice to older guys, stay in shape and you can dress to your liking and personality.
Finally a video for those in our 40s.
Since I turned 40 this year, I can say, yay a video for me.
Ur old now lol
I'm 51 and put more thought and effort into what I wear now more than ever in my life. I would say that I have always paid attention to what I wore and took pride in being somewhat of a snappy dresser for lack of a better term but much to my surprise I'm having more fun with it than I ever have. I always hated shopping but I did it anyway and nowadays it's much more convenient to do it online when I can, and know something will fit properly. There is definitely a fine line IMHO about what you can get away with at my age but if you nail it I think its pretty damn cool.
I see the point about shorts, but if you live somewhere where it’s 110-120 degrees outside… pants are just too hot. Is there a better way to make it work?
I think this is the Best tip for the Man dressing over 40, thank you both Ashley and Dorian.☺️☺️☺️☺️
As we mature we should be able to distinguish what apparel is appropriate for what time or what event. If you keep yourself in good condition as we age then we can wear whatever the hell we want to. Age is of no consequence. Dress for your body type and your lifestyle would be far more appropriate than interjecting age into the conversation.
Hi Dorian, correct me if I'm wrong but I don't think your undershirt collar should be showing below your crew neck sweater
You're getting that rule confused with vneck sweaters. Okay with crewnecks, bad with vnecks.
Hey, as long as the person feels good and confident, let them be. You are making fun of how “older” men dress and that’s not cool.
One problem I run into is big and tall clothing is mostly big. Most of the places I go are very laid back. A few shirts meant for the work place do fit me but places that sell casual clothing might have one item of 300 that actually fits me. A tall sized sweater is like finding a unicorn. To be honest, I find most of my dates wearing a Tshirt with holes burned into it or a flannel/denim shirt. A Harley helps me more than any clothing item.
I will be 39 years old in 6 months in decent shape and still look fairly young so I dress how I want sometimes in our teens and in our 20's a lot of the clothes we like and wanted we couldn't afford until we got older in our 30's and 40's so the key is confidence and to be happy
I don't see anything wrong with a classy V neck sweater. My signature look for years, even decades, has been a basic black V neck with a white T shirt underneath to accentuate it. And I don't think it looks out of place now that I am 45.
Any clothing/fashion tips during summer or when you reside in tropical countries? Will highly appreciate it.
I like the emphasis on classing it up. Most of the time (when I’m not riding my motorcycle) I like the classic slacks and Bill Blass navy blazer. BTW I’m almost 75
As an older guy at 61 I agree completely. At retirement I began to wear chinos, sport coats, turtlenecks, open collar shirts, loafers, brogues, and derby dress shoes instead of sneakers. I'm constantly getting compliments such as looking dapper, distinguished, classic, and well dressed. People are more respectful, show greater courtesy, and even the doctors I visit listen more and consider my opinions with greater thought.
As you and other commenters have said/written there is nothing more ridiculous than a 60 year old man trying to look 18. Yes, I know you can wear what you want and not care what others think but that means you must too not consider how you will be treated by them in turn. Most people want to be respected. Why not dress in a manor that allows such respect be given easily?
Final thought. Being retired and on a fixed income I purchase most of my clothing from thrifts or factory outlet stores. All were were seldom or never worn. Why spend $350 for a sport coat when one with tags still on it can be found for $15?
I'm 70 and wear Hanes T shirts and Levis with boots. No belt. Been pumping iron for years and can wear whatever TF I like.
What about gray colored jeans for men over 40? Yes or no?
-be in your 20's
-follow this video advice
-watch as the girls with daddy issues throw themselves at you
Do you know where I can find that green sport coat/blazer at 2:26 of this video? Looks good with those jeans.
Just wear whatever you feel like wearing, when you are at that age you don’t need to impress anyone. Don’t need to wear a fucking suit
If you’re just going to The zoo with your kid or grandkid!
Great smart advice I agree with everything you guys suggested for older guys. Dorian is almost 40? Wow he looks way younger than that you are aging good bro.
Looking good Dorian!! You complexion is back to normal, glad to see you getting back to your old self. Stay healthy my friend👍🏽👍🏽
Great video guys. Dorian, you’re looking stronger every new video. Are there rules for sneakers when it comes to men in their 40’s?
People should dress however they want I wear urban wear sometimes I wear suits etc
Can I eear my nike air jordans? Or all my hi top sneakers?
I am 40 ! This was helpful! I wear more polo 👕 shirts and chinos .
Hi guys … ‘not wearing socks in shoes’ is a modern trend. At what age, frame or style should socks be worn?.
I’m 58 could you please spend some time on how this age group should be dressing beyond over those in 40s and early 50s.
Excellent topic video!👍🏼👍🏼.what a team, I love this couple!!👏🏼👏🏼
this is super conservative style advice. the first old guy you trashed with the Hawaiian shirt and the boots looked dope!
Turning 55 this year, had been looking after my skin body wise using lotion but not my face. I recently started using facial cream, facial cleanser, and eye cream. Dropped 8kg from dieting with more movement and dropped another 4kg when I started working out and going to the gym. People tell me that I look at least 15 years younger and I do notice getting glances from women much younger than me even though I'm wearing t-shirt and shorts (my legs and glutes look better too). Been divorced and single for a couple of years now so it seems like I'll be ready to go out soon :-D
Isn’t that Keith Olbermann at 5:20? Very different than that GQ spread a while back
Dressing up good is secondary.. If you really want to look good in any age be in shape.. Rise early morning try to sleep as soos you can walk 45 mnts daily..
Please do a topic on how to dress up for men over 40s here in a tropical country. Thanks.
I would love to see an episode on what to wear to a high school reunion. My 35th is coming up and would love to see your thoughts!
Chalie Murphy what month and are you in a cold weather climate or warm? I can share some thoughts. Also is it an organized event or just an informal meetup?
Thanks so much. It will be next November. I live in Pennsylvania so it would be cold weather. It will be an organized event. Love to hear your thoughts!
Chalie Murphy so many options. You could go with a grey or navy blue suit with some nice brown shoes. A white or blue oxford cloth button down collar shirt and a pocket square to match the shirt. A v-neck sweater with wool trousers, blue or grey, the same shirts as above and brown shoes. Double monk straps are something the ladies notice. You could also wear a blue blazer with grey trousers, same shirt choices as above and shoes. A nice pair of chinos like Woodies and a sweater with same shirt choices as above and either brown shoes or Chelsea boots. I personally do not like tan or khaki colored chinos but they go with almost anything. No pleated pants! Make sure everything fits and isn’t too baggy. Iron or press everything too, wrinkled and baggy is a bad look. I don’t know your budget but you have a year to space any purchases out. You can find some decent shoes at a fair price at Florsheim,com. You could also do a one time subscription from Stitch Fix, Bombfell, or the Nordstrom service. If you don’t like what they send you can ship it back. Other than Woodies, LL Bean and Lands End have nice wrinkle free chinos and always have coupons or sales. I like Woodies because the are made to your specific size. If your suit jacket or blazer is a solid color you can opt for a striped shirt if you like. Again LL Bean has some nice wrinkle free options. Haircut, shined shoes, nice threads, you will be good to go!
One other thing. You can rent a suit from Men’s Wearhouse. We did that for my son for a wedding and he looked sharp.
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How about space theme black color T-shirt for over 40s?
I’m 54 and live in Shanghai (been here for 15 years) and I think it’s a bit different. All middle age men are slim and fit and exercise regularly. Daily wear is mostly sports clothes, even guys in their 60s and 70s are wearing UA or Nike. But guys in their 30s are mostly overweight and dress like guys in their teens, giant logos and loose fitting clothing with giant logos.
Wear what you want
Good video...spot on actually...
I dunno, it felt pretty condescending.
The reason distinguished gentlemen might not wear more closely tailored clothing is the middle-age spread, yes?
The two baggy photos were of larger gents, followed by tailored photos of guys in good (read thin) physical condition.
If you really want to help show how a guy who is overweight can rock some over 50 styles.
Question...I have white motorcycle jacket - short waist, long in the sleeve with a thin red and blue stripe that goes around arms and across the chest. It was given to me as a gift from my father (no longer here), I'm uncertain "how to wear" this out or...do I want to wear this out? Should I just give the coat away? I am 47
Best style content on Yt but yes 40 is middle aged. Most unfortunately don’t reach 80. Live fast and hard. 😆
Thanks for remembering us 40somethingish crowd out here. 100% agree with your info. Thanks for reassuring me.☺
I’m 43 and 5’6 and chubby body. Any advice please?