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I think a big issue when it comes to talking to transphobes is they categorize trans women with cis men. They think that statistics relating to cis men can be applied towards trans women and they dismiss statistics relating towards trans women specifically.
What's ack? The general point about men is spot on, BUT only in relation to heterosexual men who transition. They're sill attracted to women. The only other fly in their chardonnay is, what percentage of cis heterosexual men are predisposed to sexual assault?
I’m watching this in preparation for a hard conversation with a sibling. This is a great help, soothes my anxiety on being assertive about my own rights
Thank you for such an eloquent, grown up and accurate portrayal of trans women - and all of us. You are correct that a woman's space is only safe if the people going there are decent. If a man wants to rape a woman, a women's bathroom won't keep her safe. Thankfully such incidents are few - though one is way too many. And trans women are just wanting the same - to be safe. Thank you also for highlighting the fact that trans women are more likely to be attacked. An attack on anyone - anyone at all is wrong. I have long socially transitioned, but I am medically on that journey now. Thank you again and hope your channel continues to grow.
Hey thanks so much. I appreciate that. If you are able to share the video that helps me so much. Or click join, then you will have a special star next to your comments to show you are my super supporter. In any case I’m just grateful for the kind words of support. That’s the main thing. You made my day.
You have hit the nail on the head, the LGBT community as a whole must stick together, being fragmented is playing into the hands of the haters. Thank you for uploading.
There is no LGBT community. Lesbian, gay, and bi are sexualities. That's in no way comparable with being gender dysphoric. It's comparing apples to hammers.
Another point to be made on the “fairness” of sports is that sports never have been fair. Every single person who has ever competed in sports has had some kind of biological advantage or disadvantage over someone else. From height, weight, muscle mass, body fat %, bone density, wingspan, lactic acid build up, metabolism, hormone levels, finger length, dexterity, foot length and width, lung capacity, disabilities, mental health conditions, and so much more, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages. Hell even wealth is a huge factor as it gives you access to better gear, nutrition, coaches and healthcare for injuries. The only time any of these issues are considered is when they can be used against trans people. If a cisgender athlete had the exact same advantages, no one would care. It’s not about fairness, it’s about bigotry.
"Every single person who has ever competed in sports has had some kind of biological advantage or disadvantage over someone else." Do you think that able-bodied people should be allowed to compete in wheelchair basketball?
I am cis, but it hurts me to see people discriminated against for something they can't help. The rest of my family are all transphobes. I try to get them to be more accepting, but I'm not too good at debating. I'm watching this video in the hopes of getting better debate materials and techniques.
Thank you so much. Please share this content if you can and thank you for learning with us. It’s not easy so take care of yourself too. Big love and support.
i think people should let their kids play around and let them get as much experience as possible no doubt. Even when i was a child i enjoyed "girly" stuff and fantasized how much easier my life would be as a girl. Any i'm sure almost EVERY teen can remember how they cringed to some of their past decisions or actions. But that's how we got the experiences in the first place. With that said i think children are experimenting a lot and at these ages letting them make long-term or even life-long decisions is just wrong. If my past 9-year-old self would have known that i CAN be a girl i probably would have done it. I couldn't even imagine what i'd be now
Children are not permitted to have irreversible procedures and you would not have done it when you were 9 because the rigorous psychological procedures would have reflected that you just enjoyed “girly” stuff. This is different to having gender dysphoria or being trans. Do you see the key distinctions there?
Thank You from your trans sister in the USA!! GOD BLESS YOU!! PERFECTLY SAID!!! LOVE YOU and shareing the heck out of this within my trans family circles in the USA!!!!
Hey gosh thank you so much for taking the time to write this. It is humbling to know that my Trans family appreciate this content. If you can share it far and wide I would be so grateful. There’s so much nonsense out there but we won’t let it win. Your community is behind you all the way. We’re breaking through and they’re mad. We keep going. You are NEVER alone. Sending so much love to all of you in the USA. UK and Ireland are behind you. 🩷🌈
Thank you for your feedback - I am disabled and have chronic fatigue. This is the fastest I can speak. But I always try to make it as engaging as possible.
I empathize with your struggle, I can suggest to speed up by 1.1 the video and lowering a tiny bit the pitch so you can sound a little bit faster w/o sacrificing time and and w/o having to strain yourself more than you need to, also title cards can help keep a stable flow of the video by partitioning the script helping with the focus
maybe we should do controlled studies with sports, mix some sports. cis people, trans people, no HRT, HRT for legnths. people who were on blockers, some who started HRT at 27. do American Football mixed genders.
Yes. All these studies have actually been done. So it’s great. They actually stopped them because so many cis athletes were finding out their genetic sex was not the one they were assigned.
Dude totally man we should mike Tyson trans and make him fight a female fighter that will show them cisgender morons that trans "woman" are "woman" and that's it's equally balanced and fair
You open by making a statement basically saying the bureaucracy of “slowness” of the system protects a child from receiving treatment erroneously. What happens if the system is not slow? I believe that reality is already here to some degree. I believe you need to rethink your position.
The thoroughness of the system, the research and the expertise of medical and psychological professional bodies protects a child from receiving treatment “erroneously”.
@@notdefining Not according to gender clinic whistleblowers, you slime. You know what you sound like? People are passing around footage of a cop shooting an unarmed suspect. You come along and say, "That couldn't have happened. The police investigated themselves and found no wrongdoing."
HOW YOU CAN END TRANSPHOBIA IN 20 MINUTES WITH THIS ONE VIDEO!!! YT SHORTS USERS HATE HIM!!! Okay jokes aside awesome video man. Lots of times I don't have a good reply even though I know that what the other person said was wrong. But not anymore!
Another good point to mention when it comes to children transitioning is that sometimes it can be life saving for the child. If the dysphoria is so bad and they are self-harming, there is no other option. But this is very individual rare circumstance. For the most part, children transitioning is not happening and so is irrelevant to the conversation of trans rights.
Multiple European countries have reviewed the research and found there is no evidence supporting this. A recent California study even found that suicidality increases after medical transition. This is simply a lie put out by the medical industry. I cannot understand why none of you are suspicious of, 'If you don't do this thing that is incredibly profitable for us, you'll die.'
If this is in response to the claim that children aren't having irreversible procedures, he is lying. He is taking what the gender clinics *say* as if that's evidence. Go listen to Chloe Cole talk about how doctors rushed her into a double mastectomy at 15 instead of acknowledging that she was never trans, but autistic.
What would you say about the fertility argument that says women are those who can generally have a child or go through all the related process related to it?
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To find out more or to support the Trans community, visit mermaidsuk.org.uk. I've posted links to all the evidence to my statements in the description as well as some fab trans accounts you can check out for more information.
We need to share with this great video to the government. Stop making trans children and people suffer!
Please do share it if you can. I would be so happy if you did.
I think a big issue when it comes to talking to transphobes is they categorize trans women with cis men. They think that statistics relating to cis men can be applied towards trans women and they dismiss statistics relating towards trans women specifically.
Yeah totally
@@notdefiningthey are using ack now.
@@notdefininghow do I counter ack?
What's ack?
The general point about men is spot on, BUT only in relation to heterosexual men who transition. They're sill attracted to women. The only other fly in their chardonnay is, what percentage of cis heterosexual men are predisposed to sexual assault?
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I’m watching this in preparation for a hard conversation with a sibling. This is a great help, soothes my anxiety on being assertive about my own rights
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Thank you for such an eloquent, grown up and accurate portrayal of trans women - and all of us. You are correct that a woman's space is only safe if the people going there are decent. If a man wants to rape a woman, a women's bathroom won't keep her safe. Thankfully such incidents are few - though one is way too many. And trans women are just wanting the same - to be safe. Thank you also for highlighting the fact that trans women are more likely to be attacked. An attack on anyone - anyone at all is wrong. I have long socially transitioned, but I am medically on that journey now. Thank you again and hope your channel continues to grow.
Thank you for this lovely comment
I wish I could like a video twice. all of your points are so eloquently put!
Hey thanks so much. I appreciate that. If you are able to share the video that helps me so much. Or click join, then you will have a special star next to your comments to show you are my super supporter. In any case I’m just grateful for the kind words of support. That’s the main thing. You made my day.
Another amazing and spot on video - countering these hateful 'arguments' is so necessary. Love your clear explanations too. Thanks.
Ah thank you so much. This is so encouraging. Appreciate you my friend. Thanks for watching.
You have hit the nail on the head, the LGBT community as a whole must stick together, being fragmented is playing into the hands of the haters. Thank you for uploading.
There is no LGBT community. Lesbian, gay, and bi are sexualities. That's in no way comparable with being gender dysphoric. It's comparing apples to hammers.
I came here in a panic because my friend came out as reactionarily transphobic, but I don't believe he's evil and someone worth attempting to change.
Maybe ask your friend to show you what it was that gave him this opinion.
Another point to be made on the “fairness” of sports is that sports never have been fair. Every single person who has ever competed in sports has had some kind of biological advantage or disadvantage over someone else. From height, weight, muscle mass, body fat %, bone density, wingspan, lactic acid build up, metabolism, hormone levels, finger length, dexterity, foot length and width, lung capacity, disabilities, mental health conditions, and so much more, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages. Hell even wealth is a huge factor as it gives you access to better gear, nutrition, coaches and healthcare for injuries.
The only time any of these issues are considered is when they can be used against trans people. If a cisgender athlete had the exact same advantages, no one would care. It’s not about fairness, it’s about bigotry.
Yep well said
Thats the thing that mind boggled me the most honestly, if i compete with usain bolt in a 100meter sprint
ON WHAT EARTH would that be fair?.
@GOKAN5 lol I know
"Every single person who has ever competed in sports has had some kind of biological advantage or disadvantage over someone else."
Do you think that able-bodied people should be allowed to compete in wheelchair basketball?
@@GOKAN5 Do you think that there shouldn't be any weight classes in boxing?
I am cis, but it hurts me to see people discriminated against for something they can't help. The rest of my family are all transphobes. I try to get them to be more accepting, but I'm not too good at debating. I'm watching this video in the hopes of getting better debate materials and techniques.
Thank you so much. Please share this content if you can and thank you for learning with us. It’s not easy so take care of yourself too. Big love and support.
thank you for this great video, informative, compassionate, and helpful.
You are so welcome! Thank you.
i think people should let their kids play around and let them get as much experience as possible no doubt. Even when i was a child i enjoyed "girly" stuff and fantasized how much easier my life would be as a girl. Any i'm sure almost EVERY teen can remember how they cringed to some of their past decisions or actions. But that's how we got the experiences in the first place.
With that said i think children are experimenting a lot and at these ages letting them make long-term or even life-long decisions is just wrong. If my past 9-year-old self would have known that i CAN be a girl i probably would have done it. I couldn't even imagine what i'd be now
Children are not permitted to have irreversible procedures and you would not have done it when you were 9 because the rigorous psychological procedures would have reflected that you just enjoyed “girly” stuff. This is different to having gender dysphoria or being trans. Do you see the key distinctions there?
Thanks for another Video on a serious topic im sure this helps a lot of people!
Hey thanks so much for watching and for your kind words. I appreciate you.
This should have a hell of a lot more views.
Hey thanks so much. If you’re able to share it I would be so grateful. Otherwise I’m simply glad you found it beneficial. Thanks to you. Much love.
Thank You from your trans sister in the USA!! GOD BLESS YOU!! PERFECTLY SAID!!! LOVE YOU and shareing the heck out of this within my trans family circles in the USA!!!!
Hey gosh thank you so much for taking the time to write this. It is humbling to know that my Trans family appreciate this content. If you can share it far and wide I would be so grateful. There’s so much nonsense out there but we won’t let it win. Your community is behind you all the way. We’re breaking through and they’re mad. We keep going. You are NEVER alone. Sending so much love to all of you in the USA. UK and Ireland are behind you. 🩷🌈
Great video. Very well thought out. I can think of several people to send it to
I appreciate that! Thank you so much. Please do share if you can. It would be so helpful.
Amazing message unfortunately it needs a bit more focus and a bit more energy to be effective communication, a bit of flashy editing can help
Thank you for your feedback - I am disabled and have chronic fatigue. This is the fastest I can speak. But I always try to make it as engaging as possible.
I empathize with your struggle, I can suggest to speed up by 1.1 the video and lowering a tiny bit the pitch so you can sound a little bit faster w/o sacrificing time and and w/o having to strain yourself more than you need to, also title cards can help keep a stable flow of the video by partitioning the script helping with the focus
@@them_best Hey thanks. That's great feedback. I will try to put it to best effect.
maybe we should do controlled studies with sports, mix some sports. cis people, trans people, no HRT, HRT for legnths. people who were on blockers, some who started HRT at 27. do American Football mixed genders.
Yes. All these studies have actually been done. So it’s great. They actually stopped them because so many cis athletes were finding out their genetic sex was not the one they were assigned.
Dude totally man we should mike Tyson trans and make him fight a female fighter that will show them cisgender morons that trans "woman" are "woman" and that's it's equally balanced and fair
You open by making a statement basically saying the bureaucracy of “slowness” of the system protects a child from receiving treatment erroneously. What happens if the system is not slow? I believe that reality is already here to some degree. I believe you need to rethink your position.
The thoroughness of the system, the research and the expertise of medical and psychological professional bodies protects a child from receiving treatment “erroneously”.
@@notdefining Not according to gender clinic whistleblowers, you slime.
You know what you sound like? People are passing around footage of a cop shooting an unarmed suspect. You come along and say, "That couldn't have happened. The police investigated themselves and found no wrongdoing."
HOW YOU CAN END TRANSPHOBIA IN 20 MINUTES WITH THIS ONE VIDEO!!! YT SHORTS USERS HATE HIM!!!
Okay jokes aside awesome video man. Lots of times I don't have a good reply even though I know that what the other person said was wrong. But not anymore!
@@Rubiktor012 hey thank you so much
Another good point to mention when it comes to children transitioning is that sometimes it can be life saving for the child. If the dysphoria is so bad and they are self-harming, there is no other option. But this is very individual rare circumstance. For the most part, children transitioning is not happening and so is irrelevant to the conversation of trans rights.
Multiple European countries have reviewed the research and found there is no evidence supporting this. A recent California study even found that suicidality increases after medical transition.
This is simply a lie put out by the medical industry. I cannot understand why none of you are suspicious of, 'If you don't do this thing that is incredibly profitable for us, you'll die.'
Oh ok because its actually not permited. Thank you for clearafying that. So no need to elaberate
If this is in response to the claim that children aren't having irreversible procedures, he is lying. He is taking what the gender clinics *say* as if that's evidence. Go listen to Chloe Cole talk about how doctors rushed her into a double mastectomy at 15 instead of acknowledging that she was never trans, but autistic.
English? You have a long way to learn child
bro looked exactly like how I imagined how he would before even looking at the thumbnail
I’m going to take that as a compliment 🤓☺️
What would you say about the fertility argument that says women are those who can generally have a child or go through all the related process related to it?
Ask if they think women who can’t have kids are not women. Easy slam dunk.
@@anansiweb9917 they can still be identified as female through a biological process. It can always be traced back to one of the two genders