@@TheKiwitooableyou must live a miserable life. Only miserable people can find bad things to talking about when they see something good or beautiful happening
@TheKiwitooable Exactly....That was my thoughts. I do not get it. Why do we downplay vital messages that we receive? Unless someone is spewing nonsense. We don't get it. That's why the majority of them remain stationary.
Step up even when the women call the cops and you have to sit for 3 months to find out she lied but then doesn't get charged with fraud then make you pay child support while keeping your kids still
Forgiveness is for both because God loves both. When the one who has been hurt forgives, healing can truly begin in their heart and life so they can go on with life. They don’t carry the anger that can eventually destroy them and hurt those who love them. That forgiveness which is given hopefully will be received by the one who caused the hurt and pain. Hopefully it will cause that person to sincerely repent and say, I am sorry; please forgive me; I was so wrong!! God wants to extend healing to both. Maybe reconciliation can take place in family relationships depending on what happened!!! At least the person has done their part in forgiving!
@@lorim.2657because if you don’t, it will continue to negatively affect you. The Word says to pray for your enemies. It’s hard, but it’s a wonderful skill to develop. In this case, I highly doubt Usher’s dad meant to hurt him, he was probably dealing with his own issues and didn’t know how to show up. That’s not an excuse, but life is hard. “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Somewhere along the line that turned into “Ima match energy and get mine.”
Omg 😊I’ve never heard parenthood be explained in this particular detail,but I LOVE IT 🥰 AND I AGREE!! Very well spoken and thank you 🙏🏾 for your comment ❤❤❤
I just got off work and looked in to check the kids. And I’m so glad when I decompress and watch TH-cam this is the first video I see. I love being a Father and a provider. I also compliment fathers who give their all and best to there kids 🫡🫡🫡🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This really touched my heart. I know others probably feel this way but you are the first father I have ever heard say it with words. I hear plenty of mothers say it. May God continue to bless you with strength for the beautiful journey of fatherhood and in the end may you enjoy the fruits of your labor.❤
Powerful words & yes it is the year of the Father Black. white, brown, yellow we all matter in our children's lives, amazing what he said !! total respect Raymond ♥️💯🫂🫶👏 !! too many lost generations in the world right now. let's Bring being there again Back !! 🙏🏻💜🙏🏻💙🤍🖤🤎👣👩❤️👨
This is called Old School wisdom because there's so many children that suffering because of their parents it hurts my heart and listening to Usher to speak on this situation broke me and make me think back and all I can say is God is good God is good God is good
AMEN, I have never seen my Father!! But I have always missed him. I'm 60 years old now, and Father's Day is not as bad, but I still have the desire to know something about him.
❤🇿🇦 A man who has and is healing is a beautiful thing to behold. You get all my love and respect Usher. I couldn't be more proud to have been on this journey with you. I'm forever a huge fan of yours ❤
Those women chose those men, so who's to blame the most? These females choose pookie and ray ray over Mike then say there aren't any good men, the thing is the good men don't want you, Keisha
I don't know what god you're talking about because he doesn't serve The God that I serve..The most high...The only true God...yall be killing me all because of a speech ..this dude along with many others SOLD THEIR SOULS...MEANING THAT THEY DON'T SERVE MY GOD
;) a true believer will say i dont know if another person has faith. I know hollywood serves satan. u have to respect everyone whethere hes christian or muslim, etc. but every individual you dont know, u can hate them i dont care. its at the end that God judge so stop. bye and peace
This man right here has been the most humblest man in the music industry. He never speaks on others. His heart is genuine and authentic and pure. Love this message, Usher. Much respect
The truth will come to light. All the Devils. Diddy, Usher giving away JB to Diddy. It will all be brought to light and God will judge them according to their lives lived. I pray they repent
@ZipporahRian44 The truth always does. I truly believe usher is not like diddy at all. I think he was a man scorned at an early age, and he didn't have any help dealing with the pressure over the years of listening to his music and not being seen like diddy that he truly is a genuine authentic man who has stayed focus and humble more than anyone I know in the music industry besides Lil wayne,. Ijs. Just my thoughts.
You mean L.A. Reid they used usher he had no decision in what happened to Justin yall forget usher was a child when the diddler got him he said he'd never have his children around Diddy which that speaks volumes @@ZipporahRian44
Kudos to Usher for saying this. Fathers are needed!! A son needs his father to guide him into manhood and teach him the pitfalls and things he can expect in life and how to properly navigate through them!! And a daughter needs that father's love to protect and show her what a good man who remains as well as provides for the household looks like. Without strong men to guide our sons and daughters, the family dynamic is missing an integral part!!
I'm still trying to figure what a mother's job is.Asking because everything is dad's job, including being a future teller so they can predict what mom's are doing when they're not able to be at home 🤔
Because of my single Mother struggles my son is successful. My Daddy did what his Daddy didn't do and i feel sorry for that dude. My kid is phenomenal. TY Usher for encouragement.
ALL young women and women, in general, MUST choose better if they expect better and stop 🛑 making excuses for making poor choices. As I share with others, God 👑 ALWAYS tells us not to proceed with certain people. Unfortunately, many children suffer because of the d-u-m-b choices of their parents. Marry before you carry isn't just a slogan. It's a moral stance...a value stance and it is the BEST path to take ALWAYS. All women need to return to God's 👑 Way and His Will. This backwards mess has been destroying the communitah for well over 50 years. Children suffer, unnecessarily, because of it.
I am in total agreement. However, these values have to be taught at a young age. I would love to go into the Elementary School's and train up the young children in the ways of the Lord because a lot of times they are not being taught the truth and valueof God's word.
THANK YOU USHER LORD KNOWS THAT NEEDED TO BE SAID BECAUSE IT WAS " LONG- OVERDO" ❗❗❗THAT WAS FROM ETERNITY ALPHA TO OMEGA. FATHERS YPUR TESTOSTERONE BREDS EVEN TO BE A HORMONE GOING UP THERE PRIMAL NOSTRILS BOTH THE SONS N DAUGHTERS NEED THEIR DADDY N THEIR MOTHER. NO ONE SHOULD BE MAD.
@@Maui_Gyrl_it's not about you know your place it's about the farthest you're always trying to take credit for things that when it's not your space stop playing games man grow up and be an adult.
Es un buen discurso y aunque nadie puede poner en duda que ser padre es una difícil tarea algo es cierto y esque los padres tienen que proteger a sus hijos y no exponerlos a situaciones y personas potencialmente peligrosas, todo lo que esta sucediendo nos pone en alerta de que vivimos en un mundo lleno de personas muy peligrosas
This is the best comment I’ve heard Usher make. What a brilliant young man he is. Fathers, step up. Those that do step up, stay up and lead front the front. Our young brown boys need you !
It’s a struggle to love if you were never loved but more so when your own memories of childhood are full of embarrassing and hurtful moments. I doff my hat to all black fathers some of whom struggle with these unpleasant memories. May God heal the pain.
Stop... Sometimes it's better to be quiet... He is saying ... It's not always the Man fault if he is not around..... Woman is more reason why man doesn't stay around. Stop being naive.
@josephwashington4086 there is nothing more naive than thinking a father would stay away from his child/ren for anything, especially because of the mother.
Usher that’s his lost you got your mom thst raised you to become a real Man in every since of the word God bless her you got a treasure that God gave thstd yiur mom she lived forever .. now if you dad didn’t love thsts will be in his conscience and he won’t be happy in his life .. love yiur mom and You guys have God that’s lived you both ..
I just received a promotion at work. It is because my father was in my life and taught me about a strong and powerful work ethic. " If you do something, do it right." Rip, Daddy❤ from your baby doll❤USAF bringing em home on his last ✈️ 💙💙💙💙💙💙
That's Sad that you Wanna say that's all because of your father that's honestly Disrespecting A hell of Alot of people .Go tell that to people that are personal in your life and see how that goes, Because I have a son and Daughter that work hard my daughter is 30y no kids, has been in the airforce, And my son 22 years no kids neither and works hard and cooks . And no arrest or jail no drugs, Single mother Here. The boy does get on my nerves dough
Usher's speech is so revealing and enlightening!🧐 With guys keeping their real feelings to themselves, we often forget that they even have feelings... It's refreshing to see guys show their real feelings for a change. This is so healthy for them and I hope that guys can find healing by facing their pain by peacefully vocalizing their pain in a healthy way, like this, so they can be there for their children, their family and friends, each other, and more importantly, themselves. 🥰💞🙏 God bless them on their journey to much needed healing, forgiveness, and happiness. 🙏
I was a Program Manager of an Employment & Training Program Pathways for Responsible Father's aka Fatherhood Program that program was govt funded under President Obama which have several components "Parenting" was (my opinion) the most important piece.
USHER FORGAVE HIMSELF before HE LEARNED to FORGIVE OTHERS. I see in his face where he has cried out to JESUS! GOD HAS FORGIVEN HIM, NOW HE IS FREE TO FORGIVE OTHERS. 🙏💖🙏💖🙏💖🙏💖🙏 HE HAS BEEN DELIVERED!!! 🙌🙌🙌 PRAISE GOD!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!! PSALM 91💖🔥🙏💯
Damn… my brothers and me went through the same thing and 2024 was the year we got to meet my fathers family for the first time and got to understand a little more of what he went through to make the decisions that he did. Crap still hurts but what hurts the most is hearing his story a little. Pops died before he got to tell his story but I no longer carry around that anger. I pray we may all be able to learn the life stories of our fathers and let go of that anger.
He is stronger then we ever knew, Usher every real man is involved in their son's lives. The most important choice is to just be their, by being involved. Wake up males, get involved to save your off spring, not just your son's but also your daughters so they won't be lost trying to please others. They have ti know how to be strong mentally and not fall to the tricks of this worldly system. This message is important for all that don't understand how being their is so very important. This is your seed, love it and direct it in the best ways. This goes for all..Put God first and then family and you can't go wrong. If you are not involved in the lives of you off spring, get involved, even if they are gr I wn they still need you. It's called family, true fanily.
I walked ft 4 ft behind my Dad my entire Life until I became a young man then adult. Respected and feared him at the same time until the day he passed. Miss him with a passion!
Father split from my mother when I was two years old. Growing up we often blame one side for the breakup, but when you get older and become your own man, you have a different understanding of how difficult things can be. We as black men don’t have it all figured out, but sometimes we do our best. Me and my Dad are still good, and I now have my own Family. A wife, 3 kids, and one grandson. I have done my best to be a good Dad, with what I had to learn the hard way. My babies are 30, 20, and 18 and doing well, so I thank God for them.
I’m so so sorry 😢 I can relate 100% My Dad was my best friend , my suport system, and the glue that kept me together. When I lost him, I completely lost myself. It’s been 10years & I’m just now picking myself up. But I wouldn’t have been able to do myself, The Lord has really helped me & I now recognize that he carried me thru those years. But now he’s walking beside me & holding my hand. He’s my best friend. To know how amazing he is, and knowing my Dads with him, brings me so much peace & happiness for him. 💞
I know there's something special about you and this is why i love you it takes forgiveness and maturity to rise from a painful situation to be a better man to your children congratulations Mr Raymond ❤
It starts with forgiveness and then the choice to stand up and be there for our children. We need more fathers in our community to allow our children to mend and to be on a better path. Thank you for standing up for yourself and your children. Way to go Usher. This is your year. ❤❤❤
Noooo bruh...my father left me and I'm not forgiving him. I don't think being black in America is and excuse he made you and he should stick by you. I barely dodged prison and the grave and now I'm learning to be a real man because I've never seen one. The military saved my life and only then did i meet real men in real life.
May you continue healing and thriving wonderfully! It has made you a great parent! I am so mad that BET cut this speech short when so many of our black children and black families, period, needed to hear this! THEY don't care about us! Just getting rich off of our culture! ❤️✊🏿🙏🏿
Thank you , i lost my father at 15 months of age to death so in searching to understand other black men in America . I came to the understanding that in America goes back to slavery about our black men we have to give them Grace and understanding not making excuses for them but to understand what our black men has to go through here in America .
As 45 year man I grew up without my dad and I do not know who is he and that is a part of me I do not know. I have two kids and I'm in their life and I want them to know who I am and I'm greatful that I'm in their life
this might be harsh, but so true. Sometimes that parent should stay away. The habits and lifestyles of that one parent may destroy the development and future of that child's success. Whether that parent is trying or not to be there is not always the best thing for that child's development...so sometimes it is a blessing.
My father was in and out my life and what it taught me was to be the best father I can be daughter 11 and I have been in the house with her the whole ride
Do right the kids need a good father . They might not be the way they are. Kids HURT also. Be their for your kids and stop have kids u do not take care of. They did not ask to be here. Stop having baby to hold a man most of the time it doesn't work. Kids need love and so do we.
Salute To Usher .. Father forgives those Fathers who fell short, who lives with regrets and Blessed those Daddy's who Endure nd stuck around for their children.
Usher stayed positive and stays out of foolishness. No father but a Mother gave him everything she could and he is still representing. His sons have a great legacy to add on to or make it greater.👍🙏🧡
The generation I came from is not the same as today. Our morals and values and upbringing are very different. Even single Moms raised up with an iron fist and love. They didn’t play and we had a village to help. Now you can’t tell these kids anything without the parent getting upset with you.
Gm edagdwg God blessed this special soul to share his voice and now a real man with a forever loving heart learning what happens when you are blessed to feel your fathers true love from the inside out a forever loving fan Linda j.peace
I hope EVERY man and woman heard him, it's time to STEP up and be there for your children and there's no better time than right now💕
Right 👍
True Sir...the time is right now...
I ain't got no children and never will have them by choice I'm a very smart woman
❤
❤❤❤❤thank you
The first real meaningful statement I’ve heard in a long time😢thanks Mr. Usher Raymond, IV 😂❤
The IV he's the 4th Usher Raymond
Hopefully he doesn't have the same music director because he is a deadbeat. Mr Rudolpho.... 😅
@@TheKiwitooableyou must live a miserable life. Only miserable people can find bad things to talking about when they see something good or beautiful happening
@TheKiwitooable Exactly....That was my thoughts. I do not get it. Why do we downplay vital messages that we receive? Unless someone is spewing nonsense. We don't get it. That's why the majority of them remain stationary.
@@tCheetara82thanks 😂😂
Amen Usher! These men NEED to be in their kids lives. Powerful message Usher!
Yes step up.The kids need you just like you needed your fathers.
The true will sat you free you are spoken the true God keep on blessing you Amen
Did he thank the devil again?
@@LindacTubbsthis is a bot
@@youngneworleanian7132 lol I was waiting for him to thank diddy
Step up even when the women call the cops and you have to sit for 3 months to find out she lied but then doesn't get charged with fraud then make you pay child support while keeping your kids still
FORGIVENESS IS NEVER FOR THE OTHERS PERSON BUT FOR YOU.
Absolutely ❤
How can you forgive someone who purposely hurt you and they never apologized??
Forgiveness is for both because God loves both. When the one who has been hurt forgives, healing can truly begin in their heart and life so they can go on with life. They don’t carry the anger that can eventually destroy them and hurt those who love them. That forgiveness which is given hopefully will be received by the one who caused the hurt and pain. Hopefully it will cause that person to sincerely repent and say, I am sorry; please forgive me; I was so wrong!! God wants to extend healing to both. Maybe reconciliation can take place in family relationships depending on what happened!!! At least the person has done their part in forgiving!
@lorim.2657, pray for that person to learn forgiveness, and by all means, you should forgive that person.
@@lorim.2657because if you don’t, it will continue to negatively affect you. The Word says to pray for your enemies. It’s hard, but it’s a wonderful skill to develop. In this case, I highly doubt Usher’s dad meant to hurt him, he was probably dealing with his own issues and didn’t know how to show up. That’s not an excuse, but life is hard. “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Somewhere along the line that turned into “Ima match energy and get mine.”
He has Spoken for 1000 years!
Much Respect and yes, WE NEED THAT ASAP!!
We don’t have to be rich, just present with love. Thatz the prime currency of parenthood.
AMEN! BE THERE.
Now you said a mouthfull
Love and presence has its on Riches ♥️
So true
Omg 😊I’ve never heard parenthood be explained in this particular detail,but I LOVE IT 🥰 AND I AGREE!! Very well spoken and thank you 🙏🏾 for your comment ❤❤❤
@@pamelawatts380amen to that ❤❤❤
Powerful…we love you Usher ❤
Agree
Yes, Calling ALL MEN! Calling ALL FATHER'S! Your son's and daughters NEED YOU! We need you! God Bless You❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Imagine abandoning your son and he grows up to Usher.
I just got off work and looked in to check the kids. And I’m so glad when I decompress and watch TH-cam this is the first video I see. I love being a Father and a provider. I also compliment fathers who give their all and best to there kids 🫡🫡🫡🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This really touched my heart. I know others probably feel this way but you are the first father I have ever heard say it with words. I hear plenty of mothers say it. May God continue to bless you with strength for the beautiful journey of fatherhood and in the end may you enjoy the fruits of your labor.❤
Powerful words & yes it is the year of the Father Black. white, brown, yellow we all matter in our children's lives, amazing what he said !! total respect Raymond ♥️💯🫂🫶👏 !! too many lost generations in the world right now. let's Bring being there again Back !! 🙏🏻💜🙏🏻💙🤍🖤🤎👣👩❤️👨
This is called Old School wisdom because there's so many children that suffering because of their parents it hurts my heart and listening to Usher to speak on this situation broke me and make me think back and all I can say is God is good God is good God is good
AMEN, I have never seen my Father!! But I have always missed him. I'm 60 years old now, and Father's Day is not as bad, but I still have the desire to know something about him.
This is a man that has done some internal healing and is reflecting that. Love his courage and transparency ❤❤❤
Yes we need dad all of us 😢🎉❤
It still hits a core you can hear it in his voice
Thank you
A chord? 🤔
Or hits his* core?
Yes you can hear it. God helped him to forgive
Heck yea! He’s carrying his father’s name. He’s the 4th Usher Raymond. Made his name famous but yet barely know the man! I’m sure it does hurt
❤🙏🏾❤ I HEARD THAT..too😢🙏🏾❤🙏🏾
Usher spoke the truth...
Real fathers know that the best thing you can do for a child is take care of their mother
Is je drunk😢😂
@emilystevens6335 ..Well said, "So true, been through it myself and I never heard anyone say it the way you did 🙏😇
@sandy703 Sometimes, it only takes a few words to deliver...
He's a liar....he's Diddy puppet
I have always loved Usher and his performances for years since the 1st day..he too has been thru things but had always kept it 100
I APPROVE THE YEAR OF THE FATHER!
I approve ignoring these demonic celebrities
I thought he was going to say some Diddy shi talking about a man didn't love him
@@JuliusTurner-hm6ff we can do both!
❤🇿🇦 A man who has and is healing is a beautiful thing to behold. You get all my love and respect Usher. I couldn't be more proud to have been on this journey with you. I'm forever a huge fan of yours ❤
Love u.
@@rhondablackwood8973 💌
A healed man or woman sees life in a different perspective✨
Bless you Father God
Children need Father to lead and guide their children I had a good Father I thank God for him❤
🙏🤗🙏
Forgiving heart is the royal path to maturity and eternal happiness. Hat off to Usher! Senegal, West Africa.
Yes he turned out to be a great Father Hats Off to you Usher/Daddy
@@dortheamcnulty3098 big respect from Senegal, West Africa
Forgiving heart is the royal path to maturity and eternal peace n happiness ❤ facts
@amadoumoustapha!! Great come words ❤❤
I’m a forever fan but Usher just multiple that a million time with this speech! He deserved this award.
Worddddddd
Facts ❤
Come on Usher!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽 Talk dat grown man ish real quick for da people!! 👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👌🏽
Too many women get hurt by broken men. The healing is a journey, speaking on it is powerful. Hats off of you 🎉🎉
Too many broken women pick broken men to love. Its a joint issue. To blame men is remove self accountability and power
@@epsavoy Or vice versa, the women don’t always pick.
@epsavoy
What do you think is the most probable reason for those people, the women and the men, becoming broken?
Those women chose those men, so who's to blame the most? These females choose pookie and ray ray over Mike then say there aren't any good men, the thing is the good men don't want you, Keisha
Are fatherless homes a problem or an issue in the bc?
Usher you spoke very well someone out there needed to hear all that you said
I know a lot of men who need to hear this message…
Preach Usher!!!! Tell it like it is.
That was a true heartfelt testimoby so proud of you Usher to God be the glory for the things he done for you
He doesn't believe in GOD🤷♀️🤦♀️💯, look up the video of him thanking his lord🖕🏾💯👿👹
God bless Usher, no matter what haters will say, industry is evil, but Usher has blessings
I don't know what god you're talking about because he doesn't serve The God that I serve..The most high...The only true God...yall be killing me all because of a speech ..this dude along with many others SOLD THEIR SOULS...MEANING THAT THEY DON'T SERVE MY GOD
@davidjenkins7631 thank you these ppl kills me when it comes down to idolizing these nothings
;) a true believer will say i dont know if another person has faith. I know hollywood serves satan. u have to respect everyone whethere hes christian or muslim, etc. but every individual you dont know, u can hate them i dont care. its at the end that God judge so stop. bye and peace
This man right here has been the most humblest man in the music industry. He never speaks on others. His heart is genuine and authentic and pure. Love this message, Usher. Much respect
Yes!!
The truth will come to light. All the Devils. Diddy, Usher giving away JB to Diddy. It will all be brought to light and God will judge them according to their lives lived. I pray they repent
@ZipporahRian44 The truth always does. I truly believe usher is not like diddy at all. I think he was a man scorned at an early age, and he didn't have any help dealing with the pressure over the years of listening to his music and not being seen like diddy that he truly is a genuine authentic man who has stayed focus and humble more than anyone I know in the music industry besides Lil wayne,. Ijs. Just my thoughts.
You mean L.A. Reid they used usher he had no decision in what happened to Justin yall forget usher was a child when the diddler got him he said he'd never have his children around Diddy which that speaks volumes @@ZipporahRian44
@@trenastewart2599I wholeheartedly agree with you 💯, he's very generously a wonderful man ❤
Powerful message for all of US! Need to really listen and take heed to it ❤🙏❤️
Kudos to Usher for saying this. Fathers are needed!!
A son needs his father to guide him into manhood and teach him the pitfalls and things he can expect in life and how to properly navigate through them!!
And a daughter needs that father's love to protect and show her what a good man who remains as well as provides for the household looks like.
Without strong men to guide our sons and daughters, the family dynamic is missing an integral part!!
I'm still trying to figure what a mother's job is.Asking because everything is dad's job, including being a future teller so they can predict what mom's are doing when they're not able to be at home 🤔
Speak on it, Usher!
Usher God bless you with a gift .You said a mouth full ❤
Because of my single Mother struggles my son is successful. My Daddy did what his Daddy didn't do and i feel sorry for that dude. My kid is phenomenal.
TY Usher for encouragement.
ALL young women and women, in general, MUST choose better if they expect better and stop 🛑 making excuses for making poor choices.
As I share with others, God 👑 ALWAYS tells us not to proceed with certain people. Unfortunately, many children suffer because of the d-u-m-b choices of their parents.
Marry before you carry isn't just a slogan. It's a moral stance...a value stance and it is the BEST path to take ALWAYS. All women need to return to God's 👑 Way and His Will. This backwards mess has been destroying the communitah for well over 50 years. Children suffer, unnecessarily, because of it.
I am in total agreement. However, these values have to be taught at a young age. I would love to go into the Elementary School's and train up the young children in the ways of the Lord because a lot of times they are not being taught the truth and valueof God's word.
@@hopelove1595you said a mouthful
THANK YOU USHER LORD KNOWS THAT NEEDED TO BE SAID BECAUSE IT WAS " LONG- OVERDO" ❗❗❗THAT WAS FROM ETERNITY ALPHA TO OMEGA. FATHERS YPUR TESTOSTERONE BREDS EVEN TO BE A HORMONE GOING UP THERE PRIMAL NOSTRILS BOTH THE SONS N DAUGHTERS NEED THEIR DADDY N THEIR MOTHER. NO ONE SHOULD BE MAD.
@@theresathomas1587❤amen untaught
I can't believe this man is pushing 46💙🥹. My God he's just beautiful and still going STRONG🙏🏽✨️🎵...
"This is the year of the father"- Usher
Good for you, Usher! And thank you for reminding me, and anyone that needs to hear this❤
This is going to be one of the realest speech to ever be told that touched everybody❤❤
And the WORD OF GOD, is The most Real above them All ...
Best thing he’s ever said. He’s on his grown man stuff. Very proud of him and I have always been a fan.
Yes,your Children NEED u NOW,NOT LATER, Speech made me CRY,because this young man Spoke his Truths ,& from his HEART ❤️❤️❤️.
Im so proud of Usher😊❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤love this proud Father✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Wow ❤😢 Love and support the movement. 🎉
THANK GOD FOR THE FATHERS!
Thank God for BLACK MOTHERS!! They are sticking around and raising successful kids but they get overlooked and bashed.
@@Maui_Gyrl_it's not about you know your place it's about the farthest you're always trying to take credit for things that when it's not your space stop playing games man grow up and be an adult.
THANK GOD FOR THE FATHERS!
"The Year of the Father" definitely a blessing to the fathers and sons❤
Es un buen discurso y aunque nadie puede poner en duda que ser padre es una difícil tarea algo es cierto y esque los padres tienen que proteger a sus hijos y no exponerlos a situaciones y personas potencialmente peligrosas, todo lo que esta sucediendo nos pone en alerta de que vivimos en un mundo lleno de personas muy peligrosas
Everybody make mistakes but I will never get how a man can leave his child high and dry if you know they exist.
Yeah One Side of the Story...
Same!
@@Tiger-ef6odThere is no other story sir….you take care of your child(ren) or you die trying!
I completely agree.
@@FreeBirdee🎯💯
This is the best comment I’ve heard Usher make. What a brilliant young man he is. Fathers, step up. Those that do step up, stay up and lead front the front. Our young brown boys need you !
Father's and Mothers are both needed, NO-One can replace either
It’s a struggle to love if you were never loved but more so when your own memories of childhood are full of embarrassing and hurtful moments.
I doff my hat to all black fathers some of whom struggle with these unpleasant memories.
May God heal the pain.
My dad never told me he loved me but went to him inspite of n gave him a hug every visit
So true. How can you give someone something you never had?
Every man that makes a baby isn't a father....
But forgiveness is important!!!!
Stop... Sometimes it's better to be quiet... He is saying ... It's not always the Man fault if he is not around..... Woman is more reason why man doesn't stay around. Stop being naive.
Men = Fathers you’re probably part of the reason men leave the relationship
Every woman who births a child isn't always a mother 🤷
Same way that every woman who carries a child isn't a mother, I have seen it to believe it.
@josephwashington4086 there is nothing more naive than thinking a father would stay away from his child/ren for anything, especially because of the mother.
Yes! Yes! Yes! Thank you Most High God! Your timing is impeccable! ❤
Yes it truly is and always will be!!
We definitely need our black Fathers in our homes, they Must love and appreciate their Black Queens
NIGERIAN TV GET IT
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All fathers ffs
It has to go both ways. Reciprocal.
We don't care about everybody else.. FFS.. 🥴 @@matty1597
Step up and be there for your children they are our future . Sending love and blessings to all who read this.
AMEN AMEN AMEN AND AMEN AGAIN ✝️💜❤️
Usher that’s his lost you got your mom thst raised you to become a real
Man in every since of the word God bless her you got a treasure that God gave thstd yiur mom she lived forever .. now if you dad didn’t love thsts will be in his conscience and he won’t be happy in his life .. love yiur mom and You guys have God that’s lived you both ..
I gotta be honest it's still painful deep in my heart.
Sending you love ♥️
I just received a promotion at work. It is because my father was in my life and taught me about a strong and powerful work ethic. " If you do something, do it right." Rip, Daddy❤ from your baby doll❤USAF bringing em home on his last ✈️ 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thank you for your service 🙏🙏🙏🙏 Keep praying 🙏🙏🙏
That's Sad that you Wanna say that's all because of your father that's honestly Disrespecting A hell of Alot of people .Go tell that to people that are personal in your life and see how that goes, Because I have a son and Daughter that work hard my daughter is 30y no kids, has been in the airforce, And my son 22 years no kids neither and works hard and cooks . And no arrest or jail no drugs, Single mother Here. The boy does get on my nerves dough
service is greatly appreciated ❤🙏🏽
@Xwa37 how is that disrespectful for mentioning her father saying that if you work on something then do it right?
Why has my life not yet been restored?
Yessss USHER get your
Flowers 💐🥰
REAL....FOR GIVE
Congratulations Usher you deserve this ❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
Facts
I know that’s right‼️🙏🏽❤️🙌🏽 Grace & mercy.
We need yall to lead with love. Men only you can change our outcome.
Loved this! TELL IT LIKE IT IS!
Nobody worried about ya'll. Lol we trying to fix ourselves... ya merely the root cause of this whole mess.
It starts with the head. The Male
I agree. Step up.. if the other parent isn’t there to do it.. just do both as best as you can. Don’t give up- use whatever resources you have.
Amen 🙏
Come on Usher!!! He said that ❤
Usher's speech is so revealing and enlightening!🧐 With guys keeping their real feelings to themselves, we often forget that they even have feelings... It's refreshing to see guys show their real feelings for a change. This is so healthy for them and I hope that guys can find healing by facing their pain by peacefully vocalizing their pain in a healthy way, like this, so they can be there for their children, their family and friends, each other, and more importantly, themselves. 🥰💞🙏 God bless them on their journey to much needed healing, forgiveness, and happiness. 🙏
This one reason why I adore and love Usher he has a good heart.❤❤❤❤😢
At times it takes someone in the public eye for folks to receive the message ❤
AMEN✝️💜❤️
He said a mouthful and felt this
I was a Program Manager of an Employment & Training Program Pathways for Responsible Father's aka Fatherhood Program that program was govt funded under President Obama which have several components "Parenting" was
(my opinion) the most important piece.
He has grown into a intelligent man with great knowledge!!! 🙌🏽
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Facts!!! We love you Usher!!!❤🙏🏽
TAMIKA GAVE HIM THE SONS THAT WILL CARRY ON HIS WORK, NOT THOSE OTHER WOMEN
Lol
USHER FORGAVE HIMSELF before HE LEARNED to FORGIVE OTHERS. I see in his face where he has cried out to
JESUS! GOD HAS FORGIVEN HIM, NOW HE IS FREE TO FORGIVE OTHERS. 🙏💖🙏💖🙏💖🙏💖🙏
HE HAS BEEN DELIVERED!!! 🙌🙌🙌
PRAISE GOD!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!
PSALM 91💖🔥🙏💯
Greetings from the king of hart's 💕 ✨️ ❤️ 💙 💖 💓 💕 ✨️ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Damn… my brothers and me went through the same thing and 2024 was the year we got to meet my fathers family for the first time and got to understand a little more of what he went through to make the decisions that he did. Crap still hurts but what hurts the most is hearing his story a little. Pops died before he got to tell his story but I no longer carry around that anger. I pray we may all be able to learn the life stories of our fathers and let go of that anger.
Praying for a healed heart ❤
I loved this message. Thank you, Usher for your realness and your for your willingness to be vulnerable and honest.
Vulnerable 🎉
He is stronger then we ever knew, Usher every real man is involved in their son's lives. The most important choice is to just be their, by being involved. Wake up males, get involved to save your off spring, not just your son's but also your daughters so they won't be lost trying to please others. They have ti know how to be strong mentally and not fall to the tricks of this worldly system. This message is important for all that don't understand how being their is so very important. This is your seed, love it and direct it in the best ways. This goes for all..Put God first and then family and you can't go wrong. If you are not involved in the lives of you off spring, get involved, even if they are gr I wn they still need you. It's called family, true fanily.
Great job, Usher. You are way overdue for this achievement. You deserved it more than anyone! God Bless!
I walked ft 4 ft behind my Dad my entire Life until I became a young man then adult. Respected and feared him at the same time until the day he passed. Miss him with a passion!
Was he proud of you? ❤❤ That's all that matters.🎉🎉
@@annielehnhardt_kolakowski5818 Yes i achieved more than expected from his leadership. He said it multiple times when he was alive
Father split from my mother when I was two years old. Growing up we often blame one side for the breakup, but when you get older and become your own man, you have a different understanding of how difficult things can be. We as black men don’t have it all figured out, but sometimes we do our best. Me and my Dad are still good, and I now have my own Family. A wife, 3 kids, and one grandson. I have done my best to be a good Dad, with what I had to learn the hard way. My babies are 30, 20, and 18 and doing well, so I thank God for them.
I’m so so sorry 😢
I can relate 100% My Dad was my best friend , my suport system, and the glue that kept me together. When I lost him, I completely lost myself. It’s been 10years & I’m just now picking myself up.
But I wouldn’t have been able to do myself, The Lord has really helped me & I now recognize that he carried me thru those years. But now he’s walking beside me & holding my hand. He’s my best friend.
To know how amazing he is, and knowing my Dads with him, brings me so much peace & happiness for him. 💞
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I know there's something special about you and this is why i love you it takes forgiveness and maturity to rise from a painful situation to be a better man to your children congratulations Mr Raymond ❤
It starts with forgiveness and then the choice to stand up and be there for our children. We need more fathers in our community to allow our children to mend and to be on a better path. Thank you for standing up for yourself and your children. Way to go Usher. This is your year. ❤❤❤
Noooo bruh...my father left me and I'm not forgiving him. I don't think being black in America is and excuse he made you and he should stick by you. I barely dodged prison and the grave and now I'm learning to be a real man because I've never seen one. The military saved my life and only then did i meet real men in real life.
May you continue healing and thriving wonderfully! It has made you a great parent! I am so mad that BET cut this speech short when so many of our black children and black families, period, needed to hear this! THEY don't care about us! Just getting rich off of our culture! ❤️✊🏿🙏🏿
Thank you Usher. I'm a product of an absent dad. But God kept me and He was always my Father.
Amen!! You have a heavenly father
@@kathyander4920 Yes we all we do
Love This guy 🤩🙏🏾😔❤️ GODBLESS you USHER❤️❤️❤️💪🏾🪖👍🏾
Yes 😢😢😢😢Thank you sir....it's time to take a stand.. enough jumping around ignoring all this pain we see😢😢😢❤ God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
People you are witnessing growth, maturity, and healing in real time. It is a beautiful. A release a lot of ppl need.
Yes, so true.
❤AMEN ❤God bless you and ALL ❤AMEN ❤may God be with you in Jesus name❤ AMEN ❤
Thank you , i lost my father at 15 months of age to death so in searching to understand other black men in America . I came to the understanding that in America goes back to slavery about our black men we have to give them Grace and understanding not making excuses for them but to understand what our black men has to go through here in America .
All they need is God’s help. Stay there with your sons. Other folks have it hard too. The love has to be there in the heart.
Thats right Usher!! Amen!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Congratulations
Black King Speaking to Black Queens and Kings today 🙏🏾🙏🏾😘😘😍😍❤️❤️
Proud 🥹 of U Usher❤
Keep moving positive 👊🏾
As 45 year man I grew up without my dad and I do not know who is he and that is a part of me I do not know. I have two kids and I'm in their life and I want them to know who I am and I'm greatful that I'm in their life
this might be harsh, but so true. Sometimes that parent should stay away. The habits and lifestyles of that one parent may destroy the development and future of that child's success. Whether that parent is trying or not to be there is not always the best thing for that child's development...so sometimes it is a blessing.
My father was in and out my life and what it taught me was to be the best father I can be daughter 11 and I have been in the house with her the whole ride
Thank you Usher for your real, and powerful words that a lot of the Father's out there need to hear...❤I Love You Usher!!!❤🦾💯🙌
Do right the kids need a good father . They might not be the way they are. Kids HURT also. Be their for your kids and stop have kids u do not take care of. They did not ask to be here. Stop having baby to hold a man most of the time it doesn't work. Kids need love and so do we.
Salute To Usher ..
Father forgives those Fathers who fell short, who lives with regrets and Blessed those Daddy's who Endure nd stuck around for their children.
Usher stayed positive and stays out of foolishness. No father but a Mother gave him everything she could and he is still representing. His sons have a great legacy to add on to or make it greater.👍🙏🧡
The generation I came from is not the same as today. Our morals and values and upbringing are very different. Even single Moms raised up with an iron fist and love. They didn’t play and we had a village to help. Now you can’t tell these kids anything without the parent getting upset with you.
Gm edagdwg God blessed this special soul to share his voice and now a real man with a forever loving heart learning what happens when you are blessed to feel your fathers true love from the inside out a forever loving fan Linda j.peace
What true growth looks like.
May the most high God continue to guide you on your journey toward healing and transformation. 🖤
😢❤usher have a big heart