My Broken Childhood Story - Uorfi Javed

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  • @robindey4031
    @robindey4031 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    There's so much pain in her voice..This is real Urfi..a very simple gitl next door who's cornered and abused and ignored.

    • @SD-et6rh
      @SD-et6rh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Totally

  • @himanshupatidar007
    @himanshupatidar007 ปีที่แล้ว +1476

    From now on i will not judge anyone, there are always two sides of a story. 🙏

    • @GTBlack01
      @GTBlack01 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      glad mate

    • @zubairshaikh5453
      @zubairshaikh5453 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      To tomne is k parents ki baat suni,ye ek tarfa baat hai jisme ye apna rebellious nature chupa kr parents ko ghalt Bata rahi hai.

    • @Rana_ji_55
      @Rana_ji_55 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nangpna karke ye apne rishte daro ko kya prove karna chahati hai 😅 ips officer bnti ya koi esaa kaam krti jisse sabka muh band hota ,, par nanga hoke kya sabit kar liya ulta esi ladkiyo ko dekh ke ladko ka dimag kharab hota hai aur rape jese crime hote hai ,,

    • @parsisimran4095
      @parsisimran4095 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Then you should try to think about her parent's point of views

    • @smshaikh5226
      @smshaikh5226 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@parsisimran4095 sahi kaha

  • @kainattali8718
    @kainattali8718 ปีที่แล้ว +648

    At least there is someone who talks about abuse from parents...We talked about abuse from male and etc but the actual abused we faced is from our own parents..You won Urfi and you will win more In Sha Allah.

    • @RiyaSharma-fp3jy
      @RiyaSharma-fp3jy ปีที่แล้ว +22

      But future mai aise kapde pahen kar vo lessaon kya dena chati hai

    • @naziya9089
      @naziya9089 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Chiii

    • @freyaafarooq9663
      @freyaafarooq9663 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Seriously.... please don't use this pure word inshallah for these people.... please know the meaning of this word first

    • @reviewofreality4997
      @reviewofreality4997 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@RiyaSharma-fp3jy sirf ghurbat ki wajahse kr rahe hai paisy aur fame k liye bs jb dunya loser kehy toh insan kuch bny k liye kuch b kr jata hai

    • @reviewofreality4997
      @reviewofreality4997 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@VaiShNav51casting couch nai hota Bollywood main? Ye sb actress achi hain

  • @swetashaw495
    @swetashaw495 ปีที่แล้ว +479

    Undoubtedly she is brutally honest 👍🏻 and much much better then any nepo kids

  • @imunstoppable7316
    @imunstoppable7316 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    I can feel her pain being raised in that kind of toxic environment .I couldn't concentrate in my study well and always in a kind of fear in the heart 💔 I can't explain how much depressed throughout my life now I'm 32 n mom of one kid I will never ever beat or use abusive words to my kid ...those people r so lucky who have loving and caring father 👨

    • @saransha5937
      @saransha5937 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mee too😢

    • @khushisingh7796
      @khushisingh7796 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I have a very great loving and caring father... But except from other people I am not comfortable with my mother, she is good but toxic at another level too. 😭😭😭

    • @ADILSIDIQ123
      @ADILSIDIQ123 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I can understand

  • @user-tq1mm8gh9e
    @user-tq1mm8gh9e ปีที่แล้ว +265

    In my vicinity i don't know anyone who has her kind of responsibility even at the age of 30 something. She was taking care of all 5,6 people before she was 20! Respect and all the best. ❤

    • @Yaadein10
      @Yaadein10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      People are there who handled responsibility at the age of 13 itself.

    • @shahi7879
      @shahi7879 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@Yaadein10she said "in my vicinity" for a reason

    • @Yaadein10
      @Yaadein10 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@shahi7879 Vicinity is not required for giving or taking a reasons and responsibility

  • @matrixmayaearthandwe6478
    @matrixmayaearthandwe6478 ปีที่แล้ว +413

    When I saw her in initial days I said she is acting out due to childhood trauma. Innerchild healing is what Ranveer should do next podcast. We all have so many wounded innerchildren ruling our life.

    • @gaganajadhav8299
      @gaganajadhav8299 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      well spotted!

    • @jinhub2175
      @jinhub2175 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactly! You can clearly tell she has some intense childhood trauma

    • @vasusharma8336
      @vasusharma8336 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly past and childhood trauma healing

  • @zabeehsaquib4857
    @zabeehsaquib4857 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Say, "O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah . & *"Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful."* (Quran 35:53)

    • @Tastiquekitchen
      @Tastiquekitchen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      The best comment any one can share is a verse from quran!! Subhanallah ❤❤❤

    • @sr7895
      @sr7895 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And yet he throws 😂 people in hell but he is all merciful 😂. Yet he hated kafir and jews

    • @aaisha_346
      @aaisha_346 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @Anzela-y9g
      @Anzela-y9g 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sub han allah

    • @kapil4417037
      @kapil4417037 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is the outcome when you suppress someone in the name of religion or culture.

  • @joymascarenhas3491
    @joymascarenhas3491 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    A very candid, honest, true-to-self, endearing personality…one to admire, rather than condemn!

  • @namastescience_India
    @namastescience_India ปีที่แล้ว +824

    Don't compare her case with your casual punishment at home. I think her case is totally different. It is more about suppressing women right, personal choice etc. by religiously rude conservative family and to the extent a whole community! Hats off to this brave girl breaking all those stereotypes.

    • @SANIYABISHT9
      @SANIYABISHT9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Right

    • @sabeeen_01
      @sabeeen_01 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I am a Muslim and Know my limits. 😒I can be a influencer being in Abaya and being Modest.

    • @sabeeen_01
      @sabeeen_01 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her Family is not islamic at all. They are more like conservative family. Hitting children is Haram in Islam. Not at all allowed. Domestic Violence is sin in our religion. Yeh Islam ka mazak hi bana rahi hai eik tarah se ke Main Muslim hoon isiliye kerte the. Parents sirf 18 years(completed puberty) tak bache ko samjha sakte hain control bhi nahi ker sakte. Rishtedaar to Bol hi nahi aakte hain Apke mamlaat main. Kiunke Family ki privacy pehle aati hai. Jahan tak baat hai Chote kapron ki to Woh bilkul sahi nahi hai. Azaadi ke naam per Shorts pehnna Kiun sahi hai? Janwar bhi Kapron ke bagair hi rehte hain

    • @syedahum4973
      @syedahum4973 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ​@@sabeeen_01 ye Hui na baat..❤

    • @Starlight-lf2ck
      @Starlight-lf2ck ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ​@@sabeeen_01 that's upto you religions are to be followed only if you believe in it .......just like you know your limits she wanted to expand and break free of her limits

  • @jayautsav3110
    @jayautsav3110 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    I totally relate to her....even my father was abusive...he left me and my mother...cheated on her and stayed away from us ...and is still the same...we have now finally separated from him...thankfully I now have the most qualified and loving husband ( IITian and a bureaucrat) and the most beautiful daughter. Even I underwent massive mental pain and scars because of all this....I did my own therapy through music , writing, spirituality and now I'm much better .

    • @gagneet2199
      @gagneet2199 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So nice

    • @parsisimran4095
      @parsisimran4095 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You can't be related to her you grow yourself positively...so do not compare yourself with such crass...i feel you are kinda inspirational personality than this drama from your story...

    • @Mira-pm3ni
      @Mira-pm3ni 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      ​@@parsisimran4095 Urfi is a self made so stop comparing her with someone who has a husband who is IITian and a bureaucrat . No disrespect to this girl though . Both are inspiration overcoming their tragic past . It's you who need to grow up .

    • @priyankasharma-xd7wh
      @priyankasharma-xd7wh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How did u heal yourself? Can u pls pls share?? I have been thru same recently married, want to have good future with husband, pls help

    • @jayautsav3110
      @jayautsav3110 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@priyankasharma-xd7wh connect to God mam, that's the most powerful way and some art form too like music , literature etc. HAPPY HEALING 😊.

  • @shibubiswas2152
    @shibubiswas2152 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    Only Ranveer Bhaiya can understand some people's pain. Really, honestly, your face expression was supportive in that situation.❤🙏☺

  • @geetumalik1
    @geetumalik1 ปีที่แล้ว +1666

    She is still low on confidence, usse lagta hai ussme aisa kuch bhi khas nahi sirf uski body ke alawa. Sad, I hope she sees her true self one day.

    • @Aizakhan-e1b
      @Aizakhan-e1b ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Right 😢

    • @jeanettedias64
      @jeanettedias64 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Very true

    • @maryamfatima8608
      @maryamfatima8608 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      hqi۔is jaisa Confidence nhi chahiye

    • @pratyangiraomasang369
      @pratyangiraomasang369 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Insaan har tarah ke emotions rakhta hai.. Lekin overall situation ko deal kaise karte ho ye matter karta hai.. Jyada judgement pass karne ki zarurat nahi..vaise ye khas kaun se alag seeng rakhte hein ye bhi batao..Tum aisa kya khas rakhte ho ye bhi explain karo

    • @AvilashSharma-x5c
      @AvilashSharma-x5c ปีที่แล้ว +13

      And I hope one day you will be sitting in the place where urfi Javed is sitting when you will do something that can be compared to one fourth of what she has achieved in her life

  • @poshhakhbyaakansha2890
    @poshhakhbyaakansha2890 ปีที่แล้ว +484

    I can totally relate to her.... these are the toxic people you cannot get rid of

    • @economicsadda7376
      @economicsadda7376 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ye baat toh thik jab aapka bachpan aisa hota tab aise bhavnay hoti hai par aapka ego ahankar ko atmgyan badalne kosish kare ye problem muje dharti ke har insan ke sath hai uske roop alag honge par dusro dosh dene acha hum situation ke sath sangharsh kare

    • @kunalgusain3124
      @kunalgusain3124 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aa jao aap bhii phir undergarments main apne ghar se bahar.

    • @economicsadda7376
      @economicsadda7376 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kunalgusain3124 Kahan mein bahar hi hoon apne ghar se kai salo se muje pata hai apna kaam kar hi raha hoon

    • @kungfu8154
      @kungfu8154 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes you mean your parents are toxic

    • @lemon9171
      @lemon9171 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kunalgusain3124 Damn this comment increased your charm by 100 percent ....Also make sure you say these stuffs to your significant(if you have any) other I bet she will fall for you even more ...

  • @Shalusingh_101
    @Shalusingh_101 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    मजबूरियों की भार इतनी हो जाती है कि....revenge ki feelings gayab ho jati......I felt that very hard💔

  • @Hopefulnomads
    @Hopefulnomads 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    I can totally relate to her. Abuse just kills your soul completely. Be it girls or boys both get affected. My heart goes out for anyone who has ever suffered violence and abuse growing up. Stay strong ❤❤

  • @sumanpriyadarshini1354
    @sumanpriyadarshini1354 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    Its better to be born as an orphan to be have those type of parents 😢

    • @lakshmiuikey22926
      @lakshmiuikey22926 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sahi kaha 😢☹️👍

    • @ee_30_harshitaarya33
      @ee_30_harshitaarya33 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am literally in tears after reading your comment sister😢

    • @DelancyRoxella
      @DelancyRoxella 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes u r right😢

  • @lexi_2021
    @lexi_2021 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    A happy childhood is very crucial. Even if there is no personal abuse, a toxic environment can also affect a child.

  • @khekarichard9249
    @khekarichard9249 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I faced so many things too and i understand her this girl has a voice of her own she has a life to live

    • @gudiyakhan9942
      @gudiyakhan9942 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sahi hai. Jiske sath Hota hai vohi Janta hai

    • @Audiobooks0310
      @Audiobooks0310 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gudiyakhan9942true

  • @rezuparvin-p5s
    @rezuparvin-p5s 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    To be honest,I have been shocked! I never heard Urfi talking like this...This is real Urfi

  • @A.s.tutorials-k3g
    @A.s.tutorials-k3g 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Parents and family abuse hurts alot.....those people had spoiled this girl's life...

  • @Angelica83948
    @Angelica83948 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    She gave a t8 slap to her father by how she have turned up now.
    Salute to you Urfi! Love You!
    God is definitely with you. Keep it up! ❤️💐

  • @kalashkumarithakur7202
    @kalashkumarithakur7202 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    TBH I am not a fan of Urfi but though respect her alot.... But after this broadcast the respect for her grew more for me..
    She is a pure soul...

    • @kunalgusain3124
      @kunalgusain3124 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Abey fan mere bhai kisi true "Influencer" ka hua karte hai na ki kisi bhii "Jholle-Chaap" ka !!

    • @moorkhonkojawab7118
      @moorkhonkojawab7118 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Respect yourself first , 😉 If you respect yourself , you will never develop respect for girl like her . Always she says against her father . But has anyone asked her father his side of story . Apne nangepun ko justify kerne ke liye ye aurat Kahani banati hai . 😅😅

    • @shahi7879
      @shahi7879 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@moorkhonkojawab7118go and ask him for his story then and yeah adopt him and live with him, he'll serve you right

  • @goddessvibes08
    @goddessvibes08 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Men uploading her photos on websites without consent is terrible!

  • @sumeetjammu6984
    @sumeetjammu6984 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Hats off to her, she is survivor of serious crimes - cyber crime, child abuse, victim blaming, adult domestic and family conflict. Sending you a virtual hug girl, you are very brave.

  • @djshikha
    @djshikha ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I m so glad you invited her. Kudos!

    • @Youcandoitjustgo
      @Youcandoitjustgo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What are you love urfi cringe ?

    • @lonelyspirit3319
      @lonelyspirit3319 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ​@@Youcandoitjustgo try to understand her just for a moment bro ! there's always a reason why people become like this, trauma literally changes people. She is so brave that despite having traumatic childhood ,she decided to live and fight against everybody!

    • @lizatripathy6333
      @lizatripathy6333 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@lonelyspirit3319o

    • @shahi7879
      @shahi7879 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Youcandoitjustgoif you walked in her shoes for a day we'll be seeing you on the news for sui... the next day

  • @rajput40891
    @rajput40891 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    My mindset was totally changed for you dear after seeing this one .I don't know what others say about you but for me you are my ideal and you are the true guy yr you don't deserve hatred you deserve respect from everyone .I wholeheartedly respect you appreciate you .👍

    • @parsisimran4095
      @parsisimran4095 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ajkal ke log girgit ki Tarah rang nahi opinion change karte he kese turant hi kisi se ghruna aur turant hi kisi ke favour kar sakte he

  • @goodthoughts4139
    @goodthoughts4139 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    From start I never thought bad of her. She was a beautiful heart from the beginning

  • @zainabzara35
    @zainabzara35 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    URFI KA past tha or mera present hai mujhe pata hai ke kia feeling hoti hai

    • @Irfanm-x1w
      @Irfanm-x1w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Apne liye stand lo maar mat khana

    • @harshagrawal681
      @harshagrawal681 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ye sab to normal hai waise 😅😅

    • @Ishan.isachdeva
      @Ishan.isachdeva 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same story h meri

    • @khanbro6455
      @khanbro6455 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Mere saath to har roj hota he jaise ki me adopted hu but i am not adopted. Maa baap ka dimag shi hona chaiye

    • @khanbro6455
      @khanbro6455 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Irfanm-x1w
      Iske liye Bus stand kyu jaye??

  • @fuzzyfuzzy8105
    @fuzzyfuzzy8105 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Ulta hai, irfi apne anubhavon se bohot mature himmati hai, isliye wo bindass bani
    We love you Urfi
    Keep being you!

  • @yashbhardwaj1801
    @yashbhardwaj1801 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    She is a brave girl, look at her eyes.....

    • @kunalgusain3124
      @kunalgusain3124 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Pakki baat?
      Aankhein hi dekh raha hai na tu?

    • @geetsingh5716
      @geetsingh5716 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@kunalgusain3124 😂

    • @HindiKahaniTV69
      @HindiKahaniTV69 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haa public me nanga ghumne ke liye brave hona zaroori sorry besharam 😂😂

    • @lakshmiuikey22926
      @lakshmiuikey22926 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@kunalgusain3124 comedy krna h to shi s hi kar men 🚮☕sala

  • @skylinecreations.1634
    @skylinecreations.1634 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    You can to any extent to protect your family. If people are saying urfi doesn't have dressing sense. Who cares? .Urfi just carry on with your work. The world will say, but we don't have to hear.

    • @aditytiwari3876
      @aditytiwari3876 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When your child will look at her dress and how she show and when they will follow her like her ....just because she has traumatic past it doesn't mean you motivate her to go on wrong path ..at the very pls 🙏 do tell her to at least have normal life ..😤

    • @parsisimran4095
      @parsisimran4095 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry but world also have same thoughts like yours for ppl like her

  • @suhaniagarwal6549
    @suhaniagarwal6549 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    She is a brave girl ❤️

  • @punyashloka4946
    @punyashloka4946 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    People should not confuse punishment with direct physical violence or in extreme cases sexual violence. Some parents ( not all ) are just toxic. But still I do not support what she is doing ,neither her stupid fashion, these are wrong example for any girl who may be coming from these kind of highly dysfunctional background.

    • @anwargaming3267
      @anwargaming3267 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Jb tum is situation se guzrogi tb bolna mgr ha tareeka iska glt h

    • @punyashloka4946
      @punyashloka4946 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@anwargaming3267 I have been through these situations thats why I don't not support her way as it set wrong example for girls who come from very highly dysfunctional background.

    • @anwargaming3267
      @anwargaming3267 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@punyashloka4946 👍

    • @kdjoshi726
      @kdjoshi726 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You have to understand why she does that. She's said it here ki isse usko paisa milta hai. Uske rozi roti ka kam hai. Tum ya hum support kre na kre usko paisa milta rahega but uski wo abuse vali Baat bohot sahi hai

    • @abhilashasharma4476
      @abhilashasharma4476 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do not defend parents by the words toxic

  • @kumudinijayaram7821
    @kumudinijayaram7821 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    U know it's very sad .... she is fighting with so many issues ... I wish she had better way to handle things .. PRAY AND WISH ....SHE HEALS FROM ALL TRAUMAS ... LEADS .BETTER AND PEACEFUL SUCCESSFUL LIFE.....

  • @Ashes_to_Phoenix
    @Ashes_to_Phoenix ปีที่แล้ว +56

    "It's not okay to normalise abuse " 🔥 >>>>>>

  • @shivangidutta1914
    @shivangidutta1914 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I don't understand how some people are still trolling her in the comments . You can just see how much pain she is in still now . I hope she gets all the love and respect and she is very much deserving of it . Please dont comment if you have nothing nice to say haters don't spread your gibberish in here

    • @hsd287
      @hsd287 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      U clearly haven't seen her outfits u can't be sympathetic towards all that

    • @shivangidutta1914
      @shivangidutta1914 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@hsd287 sometimes we need to consider the good side of people as well I believe she is good as a person why judge just by seeing her dresses

    • @Clam782
      @Clam782 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@hsd287putfits are just clothes see the soul not body

  • @abhilashasharma4476
    @abhilashasharma4476 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Mera bachha ❤❤ she suffered a lot ❤❤❤❤❤ I respect you from all my heart and soul

  • @sidharthawaghade8059
    @sidharthawaghade8059 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    She is innocent. This side of her was totally hidden . Thanks ranveer for showing her traumatic side

    • @kyliek8414
      @kyliek8414 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Naah! I wont go as far to call her innocent. Innocebt are those girls that are getting influenced by her. Thinking that to leave the past behind and to feel confident one should do the extremes. Nudity, out right vulgarity is not innocence man. Sympathising is one thing.

  • @kukee4715
    @kukee4715 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I literally cried while hearing this from you because this was exactly the same thing that happened with me too.

    • @sana3097
      @sana3097 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same...And I haven't recovered yet...

    • @ASMRforyou989
      @ASMRforyou989 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@sana3097she isn't wrong but she isn't right too because back of then she was muslim and these things aren't allowed in Muslim religion so her father wasn't wrong about that and also girls can't wear crop top or whatever these things still happens in Pakistan

    • @satyajit2981
      @satyajit2981 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tujhe or maar paad nai ki jarurat hai 🤣🤣😂
      Ye kasar tera pati pura karega😂🤣

    • @ishi9649
      @ishi9649 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@satyajit2981shows ur upbringing

    • @kyakyrah
      @kyakyrah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mine as well, even everything she said here coincidently matched mine, including phy abuse, clothes, unsociality, etc... I've never shared all these to anybody till date but now.

  • @rehansaiyad9305
    @rehansaiyad9305 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    नंगे होने के सिवा दूसरे बहुत से तरीके हैं रिश्तेदारो के सामने खुद को साबित करने के

  • @Bluefav-c3p
    @Bluefav-c3p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    लोगो को जो बोलना है, बोलने दो उरफ़ी, तुम्हारा दर्द सिर्फ तुम जनती हो,,,,, तुम वोही करो जो तुम्हे पसंद हो। तुम बोहोत बहादुर हो,,, god bless you.

  • @sanobershaheen9485
    @sanobershaheen9485 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Success ke liy bht rasta hota hai koi asan chunta h or koi kathin jo paisa ke sath power b deta hai..agr jazba ho to insan bina paisa ke b IAS ban jata hai…apko ghr se naftrat thi its ok 70% tin age ki hoti h body expose kerne ke elawa or b talent ap talash ker sakti thi khud me..izzat or jillat uper wale ke hath me hai..

    • @ShamaKhan-r6j
      @ShamaKhan-r6j 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Insan ke nazron me gandagi hoti he " jism" me nahi zindagi ke raste bahut kathin he izzat se chal pana bahut hi mushkil he jab raste alag alag ho

  • @agnosticatheist4093
    @agnosticatheist4093 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    No doubt you are supergirl. More strength to you. Apne haq ke liye ladne ki takat boht kam logo mein hoti hai aur aap unhi mein se ho. Comment section dekh ke pata chalta humara samaj aur desh kyu baki duniya se piche hai. Anyway thanks Ranveer for calling her in your show.

  • @Bebetheloveofmylife
    @Bebetheloveofmylife ปีที่แล้ว +21

    *I always loved Urfi, because I know whatever she is doing has painful history*

    • @dhiraj4523
      @dhiraj4523 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmm😂

  • @pdpriya-e8h
    @pdpriya-e8h 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Bandi ko bolna bohot tha pr bol nhi payi

  • @ayeshavlog442
    @ayeshavlog442 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Hr cheez ko religion ky sath ni attach krty..as muslim hmen study ki job ki azzadi di gi.shadi ky decession ki azzadi dii gii..yhii azadi hotii ha r tu kuch ni meri bhin. Proud being a muslim❤❤

    • @beautyofthenature1483
      @beautyofthenature1483 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😂😂😂That's nothing but a joke

    • @AryanSingh-cm1ds
      @AryanSingh-cm1ds 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      You are living in delusion miss
      In my school bus 1 girl of class 3rd was wearing wollen leggings and full sleeves uniform in june ....she was muslim we were suffocating by hot weather wearing t shirt

    • @Itz_Ninii
      @Itz_Ninii 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@AryanSingh-cm1dsclass 3rd Kuch Jada Kam hogaya...Uske parents strict , uneducated ho gay bhaii to is main humari kia galti hai

    • @AryanSingh-cm1ds
      @AryanSingh-cm1ds 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Itz_Ninii sahi bol rhi ho Maine tab se itni chhoti bacchi ko nhi dekha aur we have a very open minded and good muslim class teacher she is gone now but miss you ruqsar mam wish everyone was like her

    • @Itz_Ninii
      @Itz_Ninii 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AryanSingh-cm1ds good to hear that! Koii b relegion burra naii hota bas us relegion k logo k burry Acts ki wajjah se log whole religion ko hi judge krty Hain.....

  • @itsjustme_meeni
    @itsjustme_meeni ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thanx for covering her story ❤

  • @dr.madihaarifshealthdiary676
    @dr.madihaarifshealthdiary676 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    All my love and prayers for her. I somehow always had a feeling that she is not what she looks like! I'm not encouraging nudity offcourse,but there is always the other side of the story. I have all my prayers for this girl. She has a good heart 💜

    • @khanbro6455
      @khanbro6455 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All are made up story. Lol all are made up story.

  • @saritamanandhar2967
    @saritamanandhar2967 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I heard her story few few years ago. She suffered a lots.
    She is doing as she likes the way. But kidikp harm or nuksan or chori to maho kar rahi gai na. To unko khus rehene fo..god bless her ❤, from Nepal.

  • @Skurollet
    @Skurollet ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Her story is most of the Indian households' story.

    • @Clam782
      @Clam782 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats why she is getting fame

  • @_supriyaapaathak
    @_supriyaapaathak 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What a girl❤❤❤🧿🧿

  • @PrabhjotkaurDhaliwal-d8s
    @PrabhjotkaurDhaliwal-d8s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Villains are not born they are made by society

  • @roopamp8304
    @roopamp8304 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Urfi, I was a little opinionated about you but to grow up in an abusive atmosphere, I can relate with the challenges you grew up with. You are bold and continue to be what you are...❤❤❤❤❤

  • @shamanashaik6509
    @shamanashaik6509 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I have seen families where the father is addicted to alcohol and the kids suffer with everyday fights but they have not chosen a wrong path and wore unethical cloths and came out in public..this is just an excuse meaningless excuse that she is giving to justify her wrong doings

  • @ROMLEXA
    @ROMLEXA 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ranveer I am glad that you invited her Urfi and did this podcast because I analysed that you introduced her with herself you comforted her. She needed and deserve this.

  • @toralmehta543
    @toralmehta543 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Critics will be critics. People who are critics don't have anything better to do. People criticise you because they don't know yourstory. If you tell them your story . It is a short term empathy they criticise you more.
    If you want friends don't share your story. Believe me they will criticise you more and take advantage of you. Same mouth who criticise you soon will bless you and speak highly of you. Just be in control of yourself don't bother yourself with critics

  • @ishratjahan6897
    @ishratjahan6897 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Yaar parents kI toh galti kisi ko dikhti hi nahi. Jo bho ho sari galti baccho ki. Parents ko Asia mein God ka darja de diya. Uss jagah se pehle utarna chahiye. They are just normal human beings.

  • @lemon9171
    @lemon9171 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    It's quite baffling to be that people are stuck at her dressing... It's about her trauma and her life .... People are disgusting....I am someone who has experienced extreme bloody domestic violence since childhood and even though what we went through is different but that intense feeling of hatred is constant and right now if anyone would hit me that person is getting it back ... People if you want to have kids please be nice to them
    Edit: you can say whatever the heck you want I don't care because fighting you guys in the comment section is a waste of time

    • @kunalgusain3124
      @kunalgusain3124 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Arrey bevkoof praaniyo.
      Past Parr tu believe karr Raha hai kyuki voh verbally khud itne badde social platform Parr bata rahi hai & jo voh ab present main karr rahi hai jo sach main haqeqatt - ussey tu parre hai.

    • @KajalMalik-o7o
      @KajalMalik-o7o ปีที่แล้ว

      Haan to tu hi bata de wo kar rahi abhi present me logo ka murder karti fir rehi ha kya😒

    • @harshsaraswat6254
      @harshsaraswat6254 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Toh bhai ..rebel bnne k liye sb nange hijaye sadak or .....lakho log h jinhone aisa feel kia h iska mtlb ye nhi jo tumne kia ahi usko apne past se justify karo......

    • @harshsaraswat6254
      @harshsaraswat6254 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@kunalgusain3124 true bhai...bc pagal hi hogye hai saare...bhai bilkul buddhi nhi bachi bc logo me..

    • @kdjoshi726
      @kdjoshi726 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!

  • @anushree3209
    @anushree3209 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's a huge example of not valuing the child ,no motivation about the life in real , neglecting the importance of raising kid. Grateful to God to give me wisdom at young age & just not thinking of short skirts n dressing .comparing self to other in teenage . Sending more love to at least realise the worth of herself more than just physical appearance.

  • @user-ld8nr9ju2c
    @user-ld8nr9ju2c 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Ye ladki is dress me sbse sundar lag rahi h 😢😢😢😢

  • @BhawnaBeniwal-f3d
    @BhawnaBeniwal-f3d 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Awww very cute when he said mujhe aapko gya dene hai

  • @amandeepanand6201
    @amandeepanand6201 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm absolutely amazed by the amount of wisdom this girl has! Lots of love and light! 💖💖
    TRS doing an awesome job once again! 👏👏 Thanks to you, we are able to see an unadulterated version of people!❤❤

  • @soni_hitansh
    @soni_hitansh ปีที่แล้ว +20

    That point whe she say i feel sad to saw others outfit 😢 is heart touching

    • @Zoombie321
      @Zoombie321 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me bhi bilkul aisi hi hun

  • @saritasarita1736
    @saritasarita1736 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Childhood trauma can cause so many issues. Inonfidence, low personality and mental disorders. I also suffered abuse from my parents. They used to fight and pour their frustation on me. Beating/ threatening/ humiliating for silly reasons. Denying clothes for 6 years straight!! Desperate to be on tatters. So much so that neighbours wanted to donate their clothes. Father used to say you can never earn money if I die you will beg. Itna bhi difficult nhi hai yaar paise kamana jitna confidence gain karna difficult hai ye adult hoke samjha. Now i suffer from anxiety and curse him day and night. He is dead and i am happy that evil control is lost and gone forever from my life. I feel free like a bird. But i will always remember him for the bad memories he has given.

  • @ashwininayak6700
    @ashwininayak6700 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I always knew it.. Urfi, ur a pure soul... Relax girl... Deep breath... In and.. Slowly out... And damn the rest of the world...

  • @yuktapalekar
    @yuktapalekar ปีที่แล้ว +50

    She is a pure soul ❤

  • @steavew427
    @steavew427 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you ranverr for this show. At this young age you know somany things and have attain so much knowledge. God bless you.

  • @Sushit-c2c
    @Sushit-c2c ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Are yarr uorfi javed ki childhood story to meri childhood story se puri match ho gai

    • @csdstar5819
      @csdstar5819 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ap kb ghoom rahi hain public ma kapre utaar k like urfi

  • @Moumita-w5c
    @Moumita-w5c 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mere sath v asa hota h 😶 unfortunately sabke dad ache nhi hote 😢 jo dad apni beti ko princess treatment dete h wo girls bht lucky he ❤😢 god's favourite ❤🥺

  • @kaifjamal379
    @kaifjamal379 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    May Allah give you hidayah and strength to leave all those dresses behind...

  • @riyadaxine297
    @riyadaxine297 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are right in your place urfi and no one has the right to comment on your character 🫶

  • @Dddddddd974
    @Dddddddd974 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Urfi di ko phle se hi hum bahut pyaar krte hai❤

  • @Don38586
    @Don38586 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Dear Uorfy you are a rebelous person, keep it up, whatever you feel is right from your inner sole. Be happy❤

  • @Priyal611
    @Priyal611 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was also face these now i m १९ i crack neet and that s my freedom now i am living my live freely

  • @najreenbegam8205
    @najreenbegam8205 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    हर गलत उठाने वाले की बस यही कहानी मुझे किसी ने वक्त पर समझा नहीं,मतलब तुम्हें गलत करने से रोकना ही उनकी सबसे बड़ी ग़लती थी और तुम तो कभी ग़लत थे ही नहीं बस अपनी जिंदगी खुलकर जीना चाहते थे

  • @Azeemshaks
    @Azeemshaks 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Us urfi...now whenever I will see you the word will be in my heart is respect.

  • @TasneemLakdawala-
    @TasneemLakdawala- หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is most honest girl i have. Ever seen

  • @romaldinamaria1569
    @romaldinamaria1569 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    If Urfis life was broken but she doesn't have to ruin the society by wear such vulgar clothes you don't take your family revenge on the society. You hv to be strong and set a good example

    • @deepthijayaprakash6092
      @deepthijayaprakash6092 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She needs help. Psychologically, financially..

  • @the_artmate
    @the_artmate ปีที่แล้ว +13

    To some extinct her story is similar to mine . Only the difference is about mine story is about getting bright future , and ghar se bahar nikalna also i am a guy

    • @gudiyakhan9942
      @gudiyakhan9942 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mera bhi esa hi haal hai but Meri story alag h..

  • @11_being
    @11_being ปีที่แล้ว +8

    real person in and out

  • @jamaljenkens8064
    @jamaljenkens8064 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She is extremely creative ❤need better opportunity in career !all the best girl, only advice dont show too much skin ❤

  • @sofielensy
    @sofielensy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The most painfull situation is the place and people where is your home and family actually you should feel save but you must think daily of run away from them the real shit

  • @mehnaznoor4217
    @mehnaznoor4217 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's not easyto forget childhood traumas most difficult period actually the whole personality is framed and structured around it

  • @iftikharahmed176
    @iftikharahmed176 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    thats always right "NEVER HUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER"

  • @mehak.kapoor
    @mehak.kapoor หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can relate ..she is right ..i had same feelings ki ghar se chli jau kahi

  • @RituSharma-ru5nj
    @RituSharma-ru5nj ปีที่แล้ว +34

    God bless u urfi ,mahadev protect u from negative souls ❤️

  • @ShivaniPandit-mi2en
    @ShivaniPandit-mi2en 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tabhi khte h bacche ko pyar se handle kre maar kar nahi,nahi to wo hath se nikal jata h
    Urfi is better example of this...

  • @prashantkumar-gw6en
    @prashantkumar-gw6en ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Urfi ne kafi correct jawab diya👍👍good

  • @minduladraaisma1598
    @minduladraaisma1598 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Urfi... She's genius ❤ She a best costume designer ❤️❤️

  • @ambitiousqueen4025
    @ambitiousqueen4025 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    So many hate comments, someone is telling what she has been through, so please be gentle..otherwise get lost!!

    • @kunalgusain3124
      @kunalgusain3124 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Abey, dhonhi maximum "10 minutes" ka podcast dekh karr tu kaise samajh gaya ki voh genuine hai ya fake?

    • @ambitiousqueen4025
      @ambitiousqueen4025 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kunalgusain3124 I like to give benefit of doubt oftenly rather than assuming the worst..so keep your mouth shut!!

    • @Cassidiaaa
      @Cassidiaaa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trauma ka meaning pta he?​@@kunalgusain3124

  • @sudhalama1249
    @sudhalama1249 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think I should not judge anyone....I think whatever happen in others life there is some reason so respect everyone ....❤

  • @dihi.ngia22
    @dihi.ngia22 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She is ả straight forward women 8:15

  • @purnima8970
    @purnima8970 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    There should be subject for parenting.. Really

  • @Unpluged_kunal
    @Unpluged_kunal ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Usne childhood pura uske father ke according bitaya abuse sahen kiya isliye ho sakta hai ki wo abhi khud ke hisab se reh rehi ho..pr bacche bhi misslead ho rahe hai

    • @kunalgusain3124
      @kunalgusain3124 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Theek hai agreed.
      But, khud ke hisaab se jeete waqt society ka rukh galat, gande, ghatiya Western culture ke towards kyu karr rahi hai?

    • @Unpluged_kunal
      @Unpluged_kunal ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kunalgusain3124 ya true bro i agree 💯

  • @swastikasonkar5346
    @swastikasonkar5346 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You're real n strong women ❤

  • @mottotobehappy3334
    @mottotobehappy3334 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I think i can finally comprehend whats exactly happening with her. She grew up in an abusive, oppressive, highly conservative household. So, she is literally burning with anger and vengeance till date, thats why she is revolting against society and such people by wearing extremely revealing clothes. Its not like she like wearing such clothes, but its the anger, actually extreme anger that accumulated within her soul for years thats making her wear such clothes, she is protesting against all such extremely conservative people. Its not really her fault, its the fault of the environment she grew up in that made her like this.

    • @roxanne2749
      @roxanne2749 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don't think you comprehend anything and also there is nothing oppressive in that kind of household. I am daughter as well if my hobby was to wear such sort of clothes and post them openly on social media even my father would show concerns.

    • @mottotobehappy3334
      @mottotobehappy3334 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Roxane2749 I personally think that the household a person grows up in actually contributes to their character development. However, your POV is also quite relevant, considering the obscene clothes she wears but it's also her parents fault for making her life miserable. 🤔😇 Anyways, it's her life let her do whatever she wants, why bother ourselves lol 😆

    • @roxanne2749
      @roxanne2749 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mottotobehappy3334 Yes you are absolutely right sister/brother (sorry I don't know which one are you🤣) it was definitely her parents fault and why bother ourselves 😭😭
      Thanks for making me realise it
      And my God you are such a sweetheart, I really loved your tone (it's just sooooo rareeeeeeee to find sweeties like you on the internet) really loved the way talk❤❤❤
      May God bless you!!!! Bye sweetheart😁✌

    • @mottotobehappy3334
      @mottotobehappy3334 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@roxanne2749 Awww💝 Feeling overwhelmed that you felt so 💛 Thank you so much for your kind words sunshine 🥰💞 Byeee ❤️

  • @NeetuDalal-vl7kf
    @NeetuDalal-vl7kf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you God to give me that much open minded father😊

  • @shakha_singh
    @shakha_singh ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Really she is pure soul

    • @Youcandoitjustgo
      @Youcandoitjustgo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow kuch bhi uska kapda dekho pehle.

    • @vasudev7872
      @vasudev7872 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Youcandoitjustgo Arre bhai ye sab paid or fake comments h 😁😁

    • @hiraushan
      @hiraushan ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@vasudev7872 whi toh 😂

    • @Youcandoitjustgo
      @Youcandoitjustgo ปีที่แล้ว

      @Aniket Shaw acha bhai jyada gyan mat de samjha duniya ko pata hai yeh kitni ghatiya aurat hai abhe short dress or bahut short dress mein padak hota hai

    • @Youcandoitjustgo
      @Youcandoitjustgo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Aniket Shaw acha toh ek kaam kar apni maa aur behen ko bhi iske jaise kapde pehnayega bhol na sun bhai logic se baat kar yeh paltu gyan mat diya kar aur bhol pehnayega apni maa aur behen ko aise kapde sach bhol?

  • @anushreegupta3398
    @anushreegupta3398 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Same story of a girl in movie secret superstar 😢😢❤❤❤