My first love with him was kidnapped, and my husband and son chose to save her instead of me

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  • @AlwaysFascinating
    @AlwaysFascinating 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    My heart is crying for oswin. I hate theses kind of stories where kids are manipulated or made victims. He is 5, a toddler. Everything he did, because he thought he was doing it for her mom. God! I don't even feel sympathy for fl as well, how she treated her own son even when she knew how he was suffering from depression.

  • @daniellegarner1933
    @daniellegarner1933 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +65

    Oswin is a toddler. Why are they acting like he is a teenager or something. She is a horrible mother. How do you choose to leave your biological child because he can't understand an adult situation correctly, and he is like 5 years old. 🙄😩

    • @veprecose
      @veprecose 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      They always do this in these stories and I don't understand why.

    • @jenniferroberts9406
      @jenniferroberts9406 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      Definitely need to make these kids chronologically older to match character actions.

    • @mllegisele
      @mllegisele 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      I thought they portrayed Oswin pretty well. His logic was kinda simple. Like thinking if he saved the mistress, she would forgive his mom. Or thinking that b/c Dora doesn't like him anymore, it would be better to leave. IDK, maybe it's just in my family, but kids at age 5 are pretty smart.

    • @daniellegarner1933
      @daniellegarner1933 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      @mllegisele I agree as well with your statement. There are indeed some exceptionally smart five year olds out there, but the same way you wouldn't leave a 5 year old home alone to take care of a 2 day old, you couldn't expect a 5 year old to fully understand that the choice he made at the time (which he thought was the right choice) would have the consequences of his mother losing love for him and completely abandoning him. He made a mistake in judgment at 5 and will be punished for it for the rest of his life.

    • @artconde6801
      @artconde6801 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      she created the 'depression' on her kid oswyn..

  • @IfAllElseFails_Ctrl_Alt_Del
    @IfAllElseFails_Ctrl_Alt_Del 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    I hate system tropes, the system is like a perverted psychopath. Always out to inflict the most pain, & strip the puppets of all of their dignity. This FL is a HORRIBLE mother, I couldn't finish the story 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @ola.00007
    @ola.00007 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    I hate these stories where kids are victims of their parents and not forgiven. So sick.
    Her husband corrupted the son right in front of her . She should have fought for her son.
    I don’t know if this is cultural but who throws their kids away like this.
    Especially when you could see the boy loved his mom before he was corrupted by his dad.
    He is definitely redeemable. There relationships could have been healed and better than ever.
    This could have been a great opportunity for her to teach her son to be a great man.
    You could see he loved his mom before her husband accused her of attempted murder and poisoned his mind. Her love for son is too cheap.
    Also she Blames her short comings on the system and can’t forgive her son.
    When a woman is in a bad or abusive relationship.
    Children become causalities.
    She could have loved and raised both kids.

    • @cheryly.596
      @cheryly.596 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Totally agree!

    • @mllegisele
      @mllegisele 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      But she did forgive him! I think if he hadn't chosen to leave, she could've eventually helped mend the gap he and Dora were having.

  • @lovediesfaster
    @lovediesfaster 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Nah, this would be a better story if she took both the children together with her.

  • @descyl3189
    @descyl3189 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    What the heck.... Oswin is so pitiful... This story didn't know the saying "Blood is thicker than water" and for goodness sake!!! Oswin is a child!!! A f*cking child!!!

  • @namelastname1314
    @namelastname1314 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    Oh God. I feel so bad for Oswin. Like how can a mother leave her child.😢

  • @zslebrennan9789
    @zslebrennan9789 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This is a really bad storyline, it seems to be the same when the child chooses their father and step mum over ther birth mother. She turns her back on her child and walks away and blames the child

  • @mariavitti2759
    @mariavitti2759 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Father and mother are terrible people playing with with the heart of a 5 year old. The author must of had a bad childhood. So sad

    • @mollyanderson657
      @mollyanderson657 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Growing up with childhood friends who had similar experiences, yeah, I kinda feel sympathy for the author.

  • @adriengaming483
    @adriengaming483 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    How can she treat her own flesh and blood like that? Andre manipulated the kid a 5 years old kid not an adult. What a horrible mother, she could’ve raised both kids.

  • @jenniferroberts9406
    @jenniferroberts9406 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Asian culture. But the fact that it is an English translation should tell you something about the unspoken truths.

  • @nawelhabri6873
    @nawelhabri6873 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Poor baby took on a heavy burden from his douchy dad to make amends

  • @SheilaNorthcutt
    @SheilaNorthcutt 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Is this woman even an adult. Her love is so shallow. A real mom would die before hurting a child that innocent who truly loves her.

    • @vittorio999777
      @vittorio999777 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      stories with the system are such descriptions of your progress in the game... if you don't understand this, your brains are still in their infancy

  • @veprecose
    @veprecose 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    It would make more sense to have the child abandoned in these stories if these were stories for children. Extreme, but so are fairy tales and they are meant to illustrate a lesson (filial piety in these stories because they're Chinese) for the children to learn. But these aren't for children, so wtf?

    • @mollyanderson657
      @mollyanderson657 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Chinese? Yeah, that's self-explanatory.

  • @hildiverdin1069
    @hildiverdin1069 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I really struggle with the emotional abuse of kids. Thus story will get a thumbs down hopefully they wont show up in my sugestions

  • @shujo5959
    @shujo5959 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I couldn't finish the story 😡 so sad and 💔 for Oswin

  • @chefarjunpanwar6443
    @chefarjunpanwar6443 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    author has some childhood trauma 😢😢😢

    • @mollyanderson657
      @mollyanderson657 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      And I thought kids without father figures had it rough.

  • @Yashna_munjal
    @Yashna_munjal 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    He is kid for gods sake

  • @jdbrown1964
    @jdbrown1964 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I cant believe that people think that a woman has anything to do with the gender of a child

  • @vittorio999777
    @vittorio999777 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    for people who have a problem with the "system" you don't even know that reality is 1000x more terrifying than the scariest novel. Only veterans (soldiers and civilians) who survived the hell of war understand it. 1914-1918 / 1939-1945 / and later armed conflicts. In Africa there are still countries that treat people even worse, Afganistan - women...

  • @syeda357
    @syeda357 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Terrible parents.

    • @mollyanderson657
      @mollyanderson657 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Father did start the whole storm in the first place. It's like comparing Jeffrey Dahmer with Sadam Hussain.

  • @noone-jy7fe
    @noone-jy7fe 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Shit i hate them all except oswin

  • @jetimperial5220
    @jetimperial5220 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This FMC is just too stupid. Whether she is in the system or not, she should decide for his son.

    • @jenniferroberts9406
      @jenniferroberts9406 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Why? The System itself is the ultimate abuser.

  • @TheElhabe25
    @TheElhabe25 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Sad😢

  • @RedRosesmcc
    @RedRosesmcc 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This story sucks. Can anyone tell why?

  • @kiransadaf46
    @kiransadaf46 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a waste of time. Absolutely nonsense

  • @CarmenGarcia-l2v
    @CarmenGarcia-l2v 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😢😢