Military Cadet Killers | Diane Zamora Case Analysis

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  • This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Diane Zamora?
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ความคิดเห็น • 556

  • @thereal4113
    @thereal4113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    Why did Diane tell so many people about the homicide.
    I guess she wasn't familiar with the Navy's motto " Loose Lips Sink Ships"

    • @bernie2231
      @bernie2231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Well played!

    • @quabot
      @quabot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good one!

    • @elperronimo
      @elperronimo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Shes a bird. Loose beaks cause leaks

    • @lf9341
      @lf9341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Honestly I think she wanted to get caught. Probably the guilt was eating her up. I just can't understand someone being that stupid if it were not the case.

    • @bernie2231
      @bernie2231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@lf9341 If two people are crazy/stupid enough to even think of doing something like this, I don't want to be around those people. The fact that they actually did it proves that they are where they should be ...FOREVER!

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Dr. Grande will soon be in the Guinness Book of Records for the most "not diagnosing just speculating" in one year.

    • @PumatoneStudios
      @PumatoneStudios ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He looks down to his left and blinks his eyes the exact same way every single time he says it. Hundreds of times. He’s fuckin nuts.

    • @jonahs4819
      @jonahs4819 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@PumatoneStudiosit’s a stretch, but I think maybe it’s a psychology inside joke. Correct me if I’m wrong, but blinking and looking to the left supposedly indicates dishonesty. I think he’s joking around like “I gotta give this disclaimer but I’d definitely diagnose this person as such if I could”

    • @PumatoneStudios
      @PumatoneStudios 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@jonahs4819 i agree that that’s a possibility - he does seem to enjoy making his jokes - but it’s far from the only thing that he does repetitively and virtually identically each video, spanning a number of years. Dude’s got issues. But hey, I ain’t diagnosin’, jus speculatin’. 😏

    • @MeganVictoriaKearns
      @MeganVictoriaKearns 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@PumatoneStudiosA lot of youtubers who do commentary do the repetitive thing. I think it's a big inside joke.

    • @PumatoneStudios
      @PumatoneStudios 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MeganVictoriaKearns yes, we have seen how TH-cam works. But we’ve also seen how crazy people work. Todd immerses himself in the minutia of horrible torturous and murderous crimes, past and present, every single day for hours and hours on end, then goes to his darkened kitchen to eat a microwaved frozen “meal” with their dog, then back to his computer to record and edit and post, every day, over and over again for years. If he didnt start off full blown crazy, he is now. Just look at his shirts.

  • @Rompler_Rocco
    @Rompler_Rocco 2 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    I thought, "No way he can tie this all up with an astronaut analogy", but I'm sorry for doubting! 👏👏💯

    • @billy4072
      @billy4072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      He missed the "no atmosphere" ..it was an open goal. 🙄

    • @alphapbet
      @alphapbet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👏👏👏

  • @bthomson
    @bthomson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    "The cloudy lens of their toxic relationship". Pure poetry to describe a tragedy.

    • @grandmabenti8516
      @grandmabenti8516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I too love Dr. Grande's painstakingly placed poetic justice!

  • @lornaginetteharrison7168
    @lornaginetteharrison7168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    "Diane would regularly vomit, just like the people who were forced to hear the couple call each other 'Tiger' and 'Kittens'."
    🐯+🐱=🤢->🤮

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Nice use of emoji!

    • @Cruiserweight190
      @Cruiserweight190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I almost fell out of my chair laughing after Dr.G fired that one off!

    • @CristinaF210
      @CristinaF210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He's too funny 😀

    • @mpartisanmarket6553
      @mpartisanmarket6553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😆😆😆

    • @Rasputin443556
      @Rasputin443556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was already feeling sick from those nicknames before the joke.

  • @stt5v2002
    @stt5v2002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Dr G: The police decided to just check out the minor rule breakers at school.
    Me: Yeah. Police often waste critical time on this type of nonsense.
    Dr. G: They investigated a student who attacked a woman with a bat and shot her boyfriend.
    Me: I’m going to cut them a little slack on that one.

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is well played!

    • @angelarch5352
      @angelarch5352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      lol, when I heard that I was like... wait a sec, there's ANOTHER ONE? Stay away from that school!

    • @rockyevans1584
      @rockyevans1584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Over It what in tf about this suggests that anyone here doesnt know that? Grow up

    • @anna-wt2tz
      @anna-wt2tz ปีที่แล้ว

      lmfao

  • @gaiaiulia
    @gaiaiulia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    "We shouldn't have done that" ; a sentiment that would have been helpful a few minutes earlier. Dry humour at its finest, Dr Grande!
    The tragedy of a 'folie à deux" inimitabley described.

  • @CARDINAL701
    @CARDINAL701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Diana said. " We shouldn't have done that "...a sentiment that would have been helpful a few minutes earlier! LMAO!

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the llittle angel lol

  • @BucketHeadianHagg
    @BucketHeadianHagg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Dr Grande, i hope you can take some time off to rest soon. You've been working so hard for us this last year. We care about you very much! (thank you for todays upload)

    • @annpulbrook9033
      @annpulbrook9033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      & always such a consistently thorough & insightful job. Great communication (& dry humour)! Educational & entertaining.

    • @dominickdolio2703
      @dominickdolio2703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Only you can make prison seem like a space ship. Thank you for the hilarious climax.

    • @BucketHeadianHagg
      @BucketHeadianHagg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@dominickdolio2703 you're so right., Dr Grande is so funny! His humor is funny, cuz he seems kind of innocent, but at the same time, so savage sometimes! LOL! Can you imagine the shenanigans he gets into with his family at home? 😂 Dr Todd seems like sucha sweetie! Hope you're having a great week, so far! Hugs from Las Vegas

    • @BucketHeadianHagg
      @BucketHeadianHagg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@crochunter35 yeah! And there's a LOT on there!! How the heck does he get this done every single day like that? I should take a lesson in time management from Dr T. That guy really has his act together!

    • @BucketHeadianHagg
      @BucketHeadianHagg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@annpulbrook9033 hilariously savage, thoughtful, insightful and super entertaining (and im sorry but .. sooo Cute!!!)

  • @FatimahD444
    @FatimahD444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Dr G needs his own stand up special on Netflix Called "I'm not diagnosing anyone" 💯🙏

    • @rejaneoliveira5019
      @rejaneoliveira5019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🎯

    • @kentbetts
      @kentbetts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rejaneoliveira5019 "This week we're going to screw the disclaimer and diagnose these people."

  • @Pimpernella
    @Pimpernella 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Diane surely seemed more than socially awkward. How come when two seemingly nice and polite students get together, they do such a horrible thing? And what I believe is that without Diane, the boy would not have become a murderer. It baffles me no one ever noticed anything wrong with Diane growing up because that's not something a normal adolescent would really think to do. And what creeps me out is if she had kept quiet, they wouldn't have ever been caught. It's a pitty nothing much is ever very clear about their background. That's why I like watching the Bella Grande episodes where a better understanding of what drove the person to the crime. Another great episode Dr Grande, thanks.

    • @dianarendon5845
      @dianarendon5845 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s not true that if Diane had never said anything they wouldn’t had ever gotten caught, even if Diane had never said anything, they eventually would of still gotten caught, only that it would of taken a bit longer for the authorities to solve the case without Diane saying, for sure, but sooner or later, eventually it still would of caught up to them.

  • @toniemorrison4263
    @toniemorrison4263 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    "They had already exhausted their go to tactic of falsely accusing somebody." 😁😆😅🤣

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Police roast!

    • @kathyclark8274
      @kathyclark8274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is it possible Dr. Grande has also suffered from some unpleasant, perhaps counterproductive run-ins w/ the local constabulary?

    • @cliffburton5696
      @cliffburton5696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Funny but true.

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kathyclark8274 Who has not ? Or issue, even minor one, with some authority figure.

  • @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata
    @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    "I'm sure that prison is thrilled to have a satisfied customer for a change" 🙂 This is an unusual case. Thank you for the analysis Dr. Grande. 🚔

  • @brianf1132
    @brianf1132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Oh Doc, second day in a row that I spilled coffee on myself with your spot on humor. You are on fire today. I love your channel not only for your humor, but the excellent insight you give into each case. Keep it up, Doc.

    • @nicoled7955
      @nicoled7955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes dr grande always has something under his sleeve he is the best he makes me and my boyfriend laugh every time he does it lol

    • @nightskylights4501
      @nightskylights4501 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "I spilled coffee on myself." For love of God, can you people stop with these annoying BS exaggeration comments!!!

  • @Big_Tex
    @Big_Tex 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    A little ditty, bout Dave and Diane …
    Two American kids killin’
    The best that they can

    • @thereal4113
      @thereal4113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @angelarch5352
      @angelarch5352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lol good one!

    • @mlee81
      @mlee81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Chillin like a villain
      Blows the mind
      Now they sittin thinking
      doin some TIME!

    • @Dulcimertunes
      @Dulcimertunes 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You must be as old as me!🤣

  • @nickkausch1107
    @nickkausch1107 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When Dr G. finally diagnoses someone the internet is gonna break

  • @Big_Tex
    @Big_Tex 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Diane Zamora: I wanted to be a crazy jealous homicidal female astronaut Naval Academy grad, but the cops got me.
    Lisa Nowak: Hold my beer

    • @Lollita23
      @Lollita23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ha! Good one

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sort of funny I thought you wrote "Hal" as in "Open the pod bay doors, Hal!". It would have fit with the subject!

  • @craigdaubbeats-rapinstrume9185
    @craigdaubbeats-rapinstrume9185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I like that he understands that lockup isn't a "Hotel" like some make them out to be. It's a dangerous cramped place and it's very easy to get caught up in someone else's BS. The little bit that inmates do get are just a tool to keep them somewhat in line through taking those things away if they misbehave. It's kind of like a big daycare center only a lot more dangerous because we're dealing with dangerous people (not all are dangerous but there's some who are). I was never in prison, but I spent two years in a county and I can assure you it's nothing like staying in a "hotel" like some people say. Even prison television shows don't grasp the full situation behind the scenes. I made it through two years only getting into one fight which wasn't even really a fight. It was more like them swinging at me then me holding them in a headlock on the floor until they calmed down. I think me being extremely introverted helped me get through it. But the main thing that kept me going was realizing there were people in third world countries living in worse situations than I was even though I was being punished. I at least had somewhat clean water, crappy food and shelter. Some people don't even have that. Also forgiving my dad for all the stuff he did to me over the years and letting all that go helped out a great deal.
    The main thing that still makes me mad to this day tho was watching pedophiles get much lighter sentences than I got for altering a prescription to try to get a few extra pills. To me, I feel a predator is more of a threat to society than someone trying to get some extra pills on a script. But whatever. Maybe there would be less pedophiles if they actually gave them harsher punishments.

    • @lilolmecj
      @lilolmecj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You make an excellent point. Our criminal injustice system needs a thorough restructuring. In your case , in a fair world, you would have gone into some sort of treatment program, or community service. You do seem very intelligent, I hope you have a really good life going forward. A second cousin of mine got into some sort of trouble, we are not close, I have no idea what. He served eight years in jail in Texas, I don’t know if county or state. The first night home he celebrated with his first hot shower in eight years. I also believe that the weight put on people after they have served their time is terrible. Not being able to participate in many careers that require a license, and job interference in general makes it almost certain failure reintegrating into the outside world.

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That’s why I’m for the harm reduction model. Stop locking up addicts and get them help.

    • @lilolmecj
      @lilolmecj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@DottieMinerva also decriminalize drugs.

  • @keithbrunson7190
    @keithbrunson7190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You are a content animal. You crank it out faster than I can keep up. Your completely outstanding. I’ve been following since 200,000 and your right around the corner from a million subs.
    It’ll happen within 90 days. Mark the calendar and congratulations!

  • @tabittheha
    @tabittheha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    It would be an interesting tie in with you old style of videos to include additional commentary on signs of toxic relationships in youth/undeveloped minds and how loved ones could potentially intervene!

  • @pandaboo8090
    @pandaboo8090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Dr. Grande, you cover a wide variety of topics which is really great!

    • @Veruska75
      @Veruska75 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah; from ICP Insane Clown Posse to Mens Rea...!

    • @justiniadonisi9290
      @justiniadonisi9290 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its true! I wonder if he could do Azula from Avatar the Last Airbender

  • @lnc-to4ku
    @lnc-to4ku 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Diane qould regularly vomit, just like people who were forced to hear the couple call each other- Tiger, and Kittens." 😂 I laughed so hard!

  • @janeallgood9833
    @janeallgood9833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "...just like everyone forced to listen to the couple call each other 'tiger' and 'kittens." 😆

  • @gildastigliano7936
    @gildastigliano7936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I remember when all this was on Court TV and was so gripping. So glad you took on this story today!

    • @lf9341
      @lf9341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I watched it on court tv too.

  • @ChristinePerez903
    @ChristinePerez903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    It’s interesting how invested they are with each other but when they get caught they blame the other person.
    Great video Dr Grande!!! Have you seen Your Reality? It’s a short film on gaslighting, it’s by Tatjana Anders.

    • @lf9341
      @lf9341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This happens ALL THE TIME.

  • @thesongbird2383
    @thesongbird2383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you... I was familiar with this very sad story. I remember the victim's mother being interviewed and I felt so sorry for her. But, you had me laughing out loud today. Your sense of humor is priceless.

  • @thomasstecyk792
    @thomasstecyk792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If someone starts talking about killing another. Pull your head out of the crazy and call police? Find a way to proceed. But this crap needs to stop.

  • @NickvonZ
    @NickvonZ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    "We shouldn't have done that."
    Afterthoughts. 🤪

  • @andrewbochicchio2232
    @andrewbochicchio2232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Oh my God you crack everyone up when you say these things. The last couple lines was just absolute comic gold. I guess it is technically kind of like space except for the whole shower situation

    • @kentbetts
      @kentbetts 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Birdman of Alcatraz meets Rocket Girl of Huntsville.

  • @ToyInsanity
    @ToyInsanity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Little story about Dave and Diane, two American kids and a murder plot plan...

    • @erikparent8176
      @erikparent8176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      .....suckin' on a chily dog outside the tastee freez......🌭🎶📻

  • @OhtheSuffering
    @OhtheSuffering 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    13:17 Who needs a spaceship careening towards the sun when you got Dr. Grande roasting you? LMAO

  • @adamodimattia
    @adamodimattia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They’ve already exhausted their “go-to” tactic of falsely accusing somebody... Gold!

  • @billhildebrand5053
    @billhildebrand5053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love the admonition in Proverbs 8 which says, “To you, O people, I call, and my cry is to all that live. O simple ones (David and Dianne), learn prudence, acquire intelligence , you who lack if.”
    Diane’s religious upbringing ought to have included this. All anger, jealousy, etc is included, and would have *excluded* her 40 year prison sentence had she listened and her sentence would never have existed.
    Great anLogy, Dr. Grande, love your astronaut analogies.
    Thanks, Dr. Grande....😪😍😄🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿

  • @colorbugoriginals4457
    @colorbugoriginals4457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    7:40 "the police were out of ideas. They already exhausted their go-to tactic of falsely accusing somebody, what else were they gonna do?" 🔥🔥🔥

    • @Dwightstjohn-fo8ki
      @Dwightstjohn-fo8ki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ANY group in a culture of a "siege mentality" (think Union executives, cops, military, social groups) can be incredibly dangerous if given power over others. What drives them has nothing to do with "the facts, mam, just the facts". It sounds like Dr. Grande in his private practice has dealt with this often on behalf of his client base.

  • @normynbaits1135
    @normynbaits1135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "At this point the police were out of ideas. They already exhausted their 'go-to" tactic of falsely accusing somebody.
    What else where they going to do?" 😂🤣😅😆😂

  • @williesnyder2899
    @williesnyder2899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    “We shouldn’t have done that…”
    Ah, David & Diane.

  • @keness4768
    @keness4768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Oh Jesus…. The humor was on point today sir!

  • @CivilEngineerWroxton
    @CivilEngineerWroxton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My best friend had Adrian Jones as the babysitter of his children when this happened. When she was murdered it VERY MUCH upset his children. They were 10 & 7. Him, me, and two other friends of ours would go out for barbecue and some live entertainment and his children stayed at his house with Adrian. My best friend was divorced by this time of the children's lives and their mother lived in a different part of the state. But my friend was very responsible with his children and this whole situation was SUCH a huge mess and caused a LOT of grief among all of us. My best friend had been in the Navy as a high-performance aircraft mechanic (F15s, etc.) so he knew the moment that the homicide happened that there would be JAG all up in the faces of everyone. They came and questioned him about some things because of Adrian's reputation. Adrian had been on many occasions VERY flirtatious with all four of we 30-somethinh me. In my opinion, she just liked male attention. A LOT. Adrian made me VERY uncomfortable and I didn't like being around her at all. In my opinion, it was like she could sense that from we older men and she liked knowing that she could make us uncomfortable. I always just wanted to leave and go out and get the evening's fun started of bowling and barbecue or a good live band. None of we four drank alcohol so we had fun just laughing and having a good time and joking at each other's light-hearted expense. Adrian was DEFINITELY the fly in the ointment, it seemed to me. I don't want to speak ill of the dead, but this situation just is what it is. It ended up being a HUGE mess and after my best friend and the rest of us had JAG people questioning us it made for undue stress for us and Diane Zamora, of course, certainly didn't seem to care. As far as I was concerned, she is as crazy as a loon. I met her three times and I never understood the attraction to her by ANY male. I wanted to be as far away from her as possible. She had an evil grin that would chill The Joker. So after all was said and done, it ruined the pattern of good times I had with my best friend and our other two friends. Things just never felt the same again because of the seeming constant apprehension of hiring a babysitter or just being away from my best friend's two children. He was very emotional one evening after the trial and he started weeping and said, "I should have NEVER left my house and been away from my kids just so I could go have a bit of even just innocent fun. There are crazy people out there. Diane could have come in and murdered my children one evening while you and I and everyone but Adrian was gone from the house. It cod have been SO bad! I'm never leaving them with a babysitter again and they will be old enough to be by themselves before I do that again. I love my kids more than anything in this world. NEVER AGAIN!"So my best friend never did and we would just hang out at his house. Twice before the murder, Adrian suggested we all just stay at his house and her not have to babysit and we could all just play cards and other parlor games. There was NO WAY that was gonna happen. We were all so uncomfortable with her suggestion that we left and decided to just go do some fun stuff together the next day, Saturday. Barbecue and bowling and just chilling out. She didn't even know we had ditched her the next day. There's more I cod say here, but I won't. I've said enough. This has enough drama that has been let out of the bag without letting even more out. As soon as I saw that this case was your video topic it brought up A LOT of VERY bad feelings and memories. It is absolutely nothing but a small group of seemingly promising young people just utterly destroying each other. It's very painful to me, my best friends to even think about. But I'm glad you had it as your topic so people can see that even more than 25 years later it is still affecting the innocents of the whole situation. I still struggle to deal with the thought of what it did to my best friend. He held I due guilt for many years in regard to how he felt like he left his children in very vulnerable situation with Adrian and Diane. I myself don't believe they were ever in danger with Adrian. All the danger lay with Diane. Again, crazy as a loon.

    • @rejaneoliveira5019
      @rejaneoliveira5019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing. It is always baffling how much collateral damage these types of crimes can create, even after a very long time. I certainly sympathize with your best friend. I can’t even imagine how I would react if I was in his shoes.

    • @CivilEngineerWroxton
      @CivilEngineerWroxton 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rejaneoliveira5019 Thank you for your reply. I certainly appreciate it. You are so right. My best friend came VERY close to moving out of Mansfield after this really got to affecting him. I lived in a condo in Mansfield and I actually told him he could move into my extra floor if he needed to for a while. We had planned on making it pretty covert to keep any press or other "interested parties" away because they wouldn't know where he lived. It had all pretty much Petered out by that point, but my best friend (notice that everyone I mention here remains nameless) even to this day is very apprehensive about names and even what the genders of his children were just to not take ANY chances with looney people still wanting to come around and see what's going on and ask crazy questions. Your observations are very accurate because your own fears and concerns many years later can really start to get to you and those old feelings roll back over you. That's how it's been for me. My other two friends.......one passed away several years ago......and the other moved very far away. Of COURSE, I will not say what state they moved to.
      Yes, collateral damage is the worst kind of damage because it's not a clear and present danger that you can see and know where and who it's coming from. So my best friend is now living a life that he said he never thought he'd be in the middle of. He retired years ago, of course, but he keeps himself to himself. And to tell you the truth, he sincerely seems happy deep down inside and that's all I ever wanted for him. He is one of the most kindhearted and sincere people I've ever known. If anyone ever hurt him in any way that really inflicted damage, whether physically or emotionally, on him, I'd be ready to be there for him and do ANYTHING he needed. That's why I was ready to take him and his children into my own home and the consequences be damned. There's strength in numbers and I was ready to be as strong as we needed to be. The true insanity that became very visible in the midst of all of this was and is the most frighteningly amazing part of this whole situation. My friend and I both have said we NEVER FATHOMED how bad it would and could get so rapidly. Again, just as you said, collateral damage is something others never think about or even have to really face.
      Wow, your brief comments really started bringing this all out of me. I need to just leave my own comments as they are and not say anything more. But I'm so glad you said what you said. You invoked a lot of emotions here on my part that needed to be. Always vigilant, always guarded. Thank you.

    • @rejaneoliveira5019
      @rejaneoliveira5019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CivilEngineerWroxton That’s so nice of you to offer your friend to stay at your place. In situations as such, people need all the support they can get and it appears that you are such a great support for him. That’s very commendable of you.

    • @CivilEngineerWroxton
      @CivilEngineerWroxton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rejaneoliveira5019 Thank you so much for your commendation. It seriously humbles me for you to offer such a commendation. I have always tried so diligently to never let my friends down because, just as you said, times such as what my friend faced is when unfailing friends are needed the most.

    • @rejaneoliveira5019
      @rejaneoliveira5019 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CivilEngineerWroxton Aww you are most welcome!😊

  • @lynnmothibeli325
    @lynnmothibeli325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I don't think people realise how powerful and dangerous sex is. Thanks for covering these cases, doc. In a world full of malice and wickedness we need people like yourself now and then. Thanks a lot. I mean it.🔥

    • @rockyevans1584
      @rockyevans1584 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think most recognize the power tbh, and danger should be more clearly communicated! Some men are having boners broken clean in half, oof

    • @lynnmothibeli325
      @lynnmothibeli325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rockyevans1584 Tf😂

    • @rockyevans1584
      @rockyevans1584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lynnmothibeli325 when she be wilin out, some hip control is a must. The more you know...🌠

    • @lynnmothibeli325
      @lynnmothibeli325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rockyevans1584 Ayt thanks for the advice😂💀.

  • @JelloFluoride
    @JelloFluoride 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm still highly impressed by the delivery of your jokes. Well done!

  • @MeowsyMcdermottEsq.
    @MeowsyMcdermottEsq. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dr. Grande somehow gives off the best morning vibes, even though the content doesnt always match that energy.

  • @user-dn1pj3db2k
    @user-dn1pj3db2k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was cracking up throughout this I mean it’s a very serious thing for sure but your dry sense of humor and wit just thank you for the laugh on my lunch hour

  • @starilie
    @starilie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your videos have easily become my favorite thing to watch on TH-cam recently!!

  • @donalynette
    @donalynette 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Using words to explain clearly the emotions, & thoughts! Very articulate.

  • @elleterskelter9529
    @elleterskelter9529 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hahahaha I love when you throw in jokes like, "Diane would throw up just like someone forced to hear these terrible pet names" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @barbaragroves
    @barbaragroves 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dr. Grande, your dry sense of humor makes my day. Thank you for such great content.

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Such an unusual case!
    You made a great observation on their fixation with overregulation and laws, and where that led them. They certainly lacked nuanced thinking and the ability to recognize their feelings and manage them in a sensible manner.
    On another note, the humor was perfect.👌🏼😂
    Thank you so much Dr. Grande, you definitely made my Monday so much brighter.❤️

    • @cottontails9003
      @cottontails9003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rejane, what do you think of the name Mathilda . Please be honest, I won't be offended.

    • @rejaneoliveira5019
      @rejaneoliveira5019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cottontails9003 I like the name Matilda. In fact, I have such good memories of the book/ movie. My daughter is an avid reader and this was one of her favorite books, so I even took her to see the show Matilda on Broadway when she was younger.🙂
      But yes, I like the name very much.😊

    • @rejaneoliveira5019
      @rejaneoliveira5019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cottontails9003 As a matter of fact, I like many names that begin with the letter M.

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just an idea how about either " Ella" or "Hyla" both names in my family. Matilda does have a connection to a very famous Australian song.

    • @rejaneoliveira5019
      @rejaneoliveira5019 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bthomson Ella is one of my faves.👌🏼

  • @the22ndday
    @the22ndday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It is said that there wasn’t actually any sex involving Adrian. David just shot his mouth off to Diane for reasons known only to him. I just feel for Adrian’s family to constantly hear all the rumors about their daughter.

    • @jackiec9285
      @jackiec9285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They really had poor character at the least to even think of committing such a horrendous crime on a teenager

    • @moonpi8020
      @moonpi8020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I heard this as well. I heard they most likely never even had sex and David lied about it. But I don't understand why would he have lied

    • @farmalmta
      @farmalmta ปีที่แล้ว

      @@moonpi8020 To push Diane's buttons and get Diane to consent to regular sex with him. Also, there is more to show that he is a borderline personality with violent tendencies. He'd attacked his mother who was so frightened of him that she'd moved out of the family home prior to the murder incident.

    • @variousJnames
      @variousJnames 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He may have lied to make Diane jealous, who knows at this point? He's changed his story about having sex w him many times. But Adrianne was no angel. She was dating a 19 year old and why else would a 16 year old sneak out of the window past midnight so much so that her father nailed boards over her windows to prevent her from leaving. This is absolutely not a reason to murder someone but she was wild and had a bad habit that ultimately got her killed.

    • @mikeparr6884
      @mikeparr6884 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He lied to make Diana jealous. The fact is David didn't even give AJ a ride that day@@moonpi8020

  • @pongopea
    @pongopea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    not sure how you manage to deliver those jokes with a straight face, amazing work as always, Doc

  • @darlenehutchison802
    @darlenehutchison802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Prison is no doubt glad it has a satisfied customer!

  • @viveviveka2651
    @viveviveka2651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Maybe removing Adrian was, in their minds, a way to re-establish the status quo, the perfect relationship, perfect love, their paradise.

  • @cheryljohnson579
    @cheryljohnson579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your dry sense of humor gets me every time I need a laugh thank you prison satisfied customer

  • @thinkingmoment
    @thinkingmoment 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great analysis, Dr. Grande.
    I would only say, it was intense infatuation.
    Thank you, Dr. Grande.

  • @karabeasley5282
    @karabeasley5282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was a great one today, Tiger!

  • @pwyman5540
    @pwyman5540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favorite ending of a Dr Grande video ever.

  • @jackdispennett744
    @jackdispennett744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “They already exhausted their go-to tactic of falsely accusing somebody...”

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes! The ending joke about that prison being similar to being up in space!

  • @Casinogirl56
    @Casinogirl56 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for this one. I have always been fascinated by this case, and was glad to hear your take on it.

  • @poppycrew7013
    @poppycrew7013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This might just be my favorite analysis yet. Dripping with shade at every turn.
    I freaking love it!
    I've always been fascinated with this case. It so odd and tragic how two seemingly intelligent teenagers with amazing futures ahead of them and an intense belief in rules and consequences could end up breaking the ultimate rule of law and order to just throw away their freedom along with their future careers, something they worked and planned so hard to build. Then ultimately turn on the supposed sacred relationship that they held up as so special and neverending that they were willing to kill for it. Its amazing how quickly undying love can die once a prison sentence is on the table.
    My heart goes out to the Jones family. They lost a child over the immaturity of 2 star crossed lovers with a twisted interpretation of love and honor. A beautiful girl lost her entire future at the hands of these two lovesick fools and it is incredibly tragic, heartbreaking and should never have happened. Rest in peace AJ.

  • @elleterskelter9529
    @elleterskelter9529 ปีที่แล้ว

    I use these ALL THE TIME for research on cases, you always pick the people I'm interested in! Thank you for these. So informative!

  • @cottontails9003
    @cottontails9003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dr Grande, thank you for the great content you upload daily.

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Dr. Grande your line, "I am sure the prison is thrilled for having a satisfied 'customer' for a change" was funny. Lightened up the heavy subject matter a bit. After hearing this case I thought to myself maybe society in a way did need the sexual revolution of the 1960's so that hypocritical predators like both Diane Zamora and David Crowie when being tried then among jurors who hear their defense they feel less sympathy towards that kind of hypocrite who does an honor killing of someone. After hearing this case it left me wondering if way more other people in history after experiencing triangulation when very young while their reproductive hormones are at a peak while in that muddy sea called premarital sex later while harboring deep resentment instead of murdering someone in an honor killing seek revenge in way more covert ways. Which would explain why so many women in Ireland after they fell in love while not being able to wait when they got discovered in it then sooner or later often ended up institutionalized in insane asylums for the rest of their life. Imagine if Diane Zamora and David Crowie never got caught and then they made it through university to become mental health professionals instead. What a more terrible city that would have been for poor single young people up to age 30, who cannot afford to bring up a young family, to live in.

    • @kentbetts
      @kentbetts 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Looking at this case, it did not make me wonder if jealous women seek revenge in covert ways other than murder. Nor did it make me think that a career change from astronaut to mental health counselor would lead to increased poverty among single mothers.
      I did wonder about a few things. I grew up near this circumstance. I wonder if there is something about Texas youth that leads to such moral bankruptcy and immaturity. It is wrong to kill people like that.
      I suspect that Zamora was a Latino. Growing up in Texas, I know a few Latinos. In jail, if a Mexican in jail wants to kill another Mexican in jail, they would approach them and say "Someone says you called my mother a whore", and then stab them. The point is that, lacking a good reason to kill someone, they have to psych themselves up in order to commit the act. Morally sketchy, and dirty minded. I think Zamora wanted to kill someone, and found someone she could do that to. Emotional immaturity and the leap to gratuitous homicide are linked in Latin and Italian culture. See also Nathaniel Hawthorne's novel "The Faun".
      The sentence was just. I hope these two ignorant clowns serve the full 40 years. These folks are sick on multiple levels. I wonder if the military is aware that they attract nut cases. Seems likely. Being inclined to homicide is part of the job description.

    • @elmersbalm5219
      @elmersbalm5219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kentbetts covert racism much?

  • @telinhajp
    @telinhajp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Have a great week, Dr. Grande! ❤️

  • @21bywater
    @21bywater 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dr. Grande's humor is so dry I don't even need a towel.

  • @stephaniekanoun4409
    @stephaniekanoun4409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Catching up, Dr. Grande. I wanted to say this was a particularly interesting episode for me. Thanks as always for your insights and hard work! 😊

  • @sarakeith5480
    @sarakeith5480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always enjoy your imput on these cases!! Such a sad story!!

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're the best.
    Love the humor.
    Always interesting and your analysis.💕🇺🇲

  • @maureeningleston1501
    @maureeningleston1501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a great choice Dr Grande, can't wait to watch.

  • @guillermo3564
    @guillermo3564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The police had "already exhausted their go to tactic of falsely accusing somebody, what else were they gonna do?" As funny as it is, Dr. Grande's statement is the definitive definition of police work in America.

  • @lsimon343
    @lsimon343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Damn!! Dr Grande I’d on FIRE w his wise ass comments!! I love it!!!!! He’s getting saucier and spicier every day!!

  • @doctorajaguar
    @doctorajaguar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Haha that last joke about life in a spaceship = life in prison!! 🤌🏻 perfection!!

  • @pierrettehebert3044
    @pierrettehebert3044 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As always, very good overview & analysis. Also my daily dose of great humorous lines!

  • @johnnianne1177
    @johnnianne1177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Starting my day off right!!! :P good morning Dr.Grande!!! :))))

  • @AB-dm4hc
    @AB-dm4hc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your videos always satisfy....true crime, psychoanalysis, intelligence, and a touch of dark humor by the one and only Dr. Grande never disappoints 🤓🧐👏😊

  • @hankvandenakker4271
    @hankvandenakker4271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANX, YOUR HUMOR AND ANALYSIS GOES WELL WITH COFFEE.

  • @PriorityPeace77
    @PriorityPeace77 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful analysis. Thank you for this video. Peace 👏👏✌️

  • @melindaduncan3073
    @melindaduncan3073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some of these people I haven’t heard of for a while. At least you will always have content to give to us.

  • @duvessa2003
    @duvessa2003 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s unfortunate that the consequences of trying to steal someone’s boyfriend and/or just mess around with him were so disproportionate to the crime. But one of the lessons I hope people can take away from this is that there are consequences when you behave this way. And you never know how severe they will be...

  • @azzahjensen6110
    @azzahjensen6110 ปีที่แล้ว

    ‘He did not hold up very well under questioning and he confessed.’ Love your brilliant use of sarcasm.

  • @mortishanocturnal71
    @mortishanocturnal71 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely astounding how she has zero remorse.

  • @jacquesmains7453
    @jacquesmains7453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, dr Grande, for the insight and laughs.

  • @ResinAsYouWish
    @ResinAsYouWish 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks, I really enjoy your channel

  • @akondofswat209
    @akondofswat209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Its life Jim, but not as we know it "

  • @savvyandskye
    @savvyandskye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Straight from my hometown 😬 love your videos and dry humor, Dr. Grande!

  • @tangren3370
    @tangren3370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great analysis as usual Dr. G! Now a request: Now we are talking about kittens anyway, can you analyse the case of Turkish cult leader Adnan Oktar (who is known to call his harem of female followers his "kittens") He has been convicted for many crimes and few years ago received a lengthly prison sentence (more than 1000 years) Would be a killer episode ( pun definitely intended)! 😅🙂🤩

    • @Dwightstjohn-fo8ki
      @Dwightstjohn-fo8ki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      1,000 years in a Turkish prison?? When a local talk radio station interviewed the author of "Midnight Express" in the early eighties it was one of the few times I checked out his book in the library as an adult. I couldn't do one month.

    • @tangren3370
      @tangren3370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki True, but in Adnan Oktar's case it is well deserved: from rape to murder to working together with terror organisations like ISIS... He would be the last person I would pity. Also the reason his crimes were able to pile up this much is the fact he had government ties since the 90's and was always let off the hook, untill he fortunately fell out of favor with the powers that be. That lunatic is never getting out and that is a great benefit to world. Some of his behaviour as a cult leader was very entertaining though, like having an army of young women looking like the Kardashians with all heavy makeup and plastic surgery etc. whom he called his "kittens", as well as repeatedly incorrectly predicting the end of the world and having a creationist museum on his property🤣Man, this guy was funny (in a dark way) for outsiders at least🤣

  • @marvincool3744
    @marvincool3744 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Reading a book about this case now. True crime makes for grimly interesting books.

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another good case and analysis. Thanks Dr G😊🤎🧡

  • @Evanthebat15
    @Evanthebat15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I lost it at the astronaut joke in the end😂🤣

  • @edmundwhitaker314
    @edmundwhitaker314 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good and interesting, your dry humour towards the end is great.

  • @tomnohmy1273
    @tomnohmy1273 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dr grande is awesome. Unfortunately seen this case multiple times, different shows, Look forward to next analysis.

  • @kd6752
    @kd6752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol! Your humor cracks me up. Thanks for explaining this story!!!

  • @apersonthatsnice6202
    @apersonthatsnice6202 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dr Grande Never sleeps! Always a very great analysis presenting all sides! A classic story, they fell in love, served their county, commit homicide and were arrested at the same time, ...no humor intended...the world is insane!

  • @cosimavonliebenau8317
    @cosimavonliebenau8317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would have loved to learn a bit more about their respective upbringings.

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! Background, if available is always instructive!

  • @angela3126
    @angela3126 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dr. Grande, i like that you have a book called Harm Reduction in the background lol! When I worked in the helping profession, i hated the harm reduction model lol! It was actually the last place I worked at in that sector. Thank God, it's over!

  • @cassandrareedy7369
    @cassandrareedy7369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honor code in the military: no lying, cheating, or stealing, nor tolerance of the aforementioned. If she hadn't been found guilty, she still would have been kicked out for lying. This is why her one confidant got kicked out for tolerance of her confession (not reporting it)

  • @clorby22
    @clorby22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    His monotone delivery of jokes is absolutely brilliant

  • @nightwood4379
    @nightwood4379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Unfortunately, Diane lived the slogan: “You and the navy, homicide ahead.” More’s the pity Dr. G., still a delightful November podcast. Thank you.

  • @bernie2231
    @bernie2231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You seldom disappoint with subtle jabs. Love it!

  • @laurelgeorge3766
    @laurelgeorge3766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Haha your wit is unbeatable- the comment about Tigers and Kittens🤣🤣🤣

  • @aimeejoy8811
    @aimeejoy8811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I heard about this story some time ago. This was pretty nuts. It is amazing that people think they can get away with murder.