Hello ladies! 💜 So I actually filmed this VLOG a few weeks ago before things were getting serious with COVID-19 in the US. I hope that my VLOG can be a nice distraction as we practice social distancing, and I want you to know that I am taking things very seriously and have been thinking and praying for you all during this distressing time. 💗💕 I hope you can understand that I am not trying to be insensitive by posting my regularly scheduled content: it is my intention to continue to entertain and inspire you all, especially as we are experiencing such high levels of stress. 💗💜 I'm sending love to you all today and hope that we can use this time to connect with loved ones, support one another, and maybe start some new hobbies. Love you all! Stay safe and stay home if you can! Xoxo
Mrs Midwest thank you for bringing your positive energy to me today and during this time. Since I found your channel, your videos are so calming and a good distraction from the daily stressors. Especially during these times, I’m grateful for you.
Our minister of health just fainted on live television during a debate. 😅 (I'm from the netherlands) it's crazy. Be prepared and stay safe. Thank you for brightening up our day with this vlog!
@@missautumn764 bizar he?! Ik volgde de live uitzending van de nationale gebedsdag en zag ondertussen op tv(zonder geluid) paniek. Echt vreemde tijden 🙏🏻🙇🏻♀️🙇🏻♂️
We love that you keep posting. You’re helping to lift our spirits. I will continue to pray for you and your family as well. Thank you for your kind thoughts. You’re a wonderful woman. 🌸
I so enjoy all of your videos. Keep them coming! We all need this positivity during this time! Thank you for the prayers. I have been praying for you and everyone of your subscribers! Much love from Alabama!
I just have to say this, if a policeman on night shift has the energy and time to notice and compliment his wife’s hair, makeup and outfit, your boyfriend has no excuse not to notice. 🥰 he’s setting a great example for your kids on how to treat a partner, both of you do💕 Just my opinion
I understand where you come from but we shouldn't be quick to judge, everyone is different, I'm not the person to notice these things for example 😅🙈 and I DO care!
irmalair1 haha i get that, however when your spouse makes an effort to look good for you they want you to notice, it’s the little things However, I understand that people show affection in different ways. It was only meant to say that it’s nice to see an affectionate couple who notices the little things and encourages each other.☺️
irmalair1 I wish I could agree with but she's right. If your significant other cannot take time out of their day to just complement you or appreciate the effort you take into looking good then it’s a NO. It’s not about judging anyone, it’s about expressing love through appreciation, time, and love languages Not judging ppl. OFFERING CRITICISM IS NOT JUDGING PPL
Giving compliments is also a cultural thing. It's important to communicate on very beginning of a relationship if certain love expressions are important for you. I grew up in an "emotionally distant" asian family and the only time my father called me pretty was only a few days before he died, but throughout my childhood he was a hard working man who did everything in his power to make sure I live comfortably and happily. It's not nice when we think someone ignore our efforts to look good for them, but people just express loves differently and expecting them to do what we want them to do is also not so nice (in my opinion). And if compliment might be so important for a person that the other person's "fauilure" to express int could be such a big turnoff, the the relationship might not work and might be worth reconsidering. Stay safe and happy girls :)
When a baby is born, a mother is born along with it. It's a new person that you'll have to get to know. Your love for your baby will grow with time. It's an ideal people like to hold, the perfect mother, the natural mother, but it's simply not true. Postpartum, breastfeeding, all those things can be awful but people don't talk about that. Being a mother is painful, you'll feel guilty over things you cannot control, you'll worry about your baby 24/7, you'll be very tired, but you won't change it for the world. You'll find inside you the purest form of love, it overpowers you. It's fulfilling. You'll be fine my dear 🥰🥰🥰
Lots of women who feel the same way towards other’s children experience a whole different feeling when it comes to their own child. You will be an amazing mother. Hope you guys are staying safe and God Bless!
This is so true and was my experience as well. I was never good with other people's kids but the second I held my first child I was in love! I went on to raise 5 kids and I adore each and every one of them.
This is how I was too! No interest in kids until I had my own. I can’t get enough of him now and he is the little love of my life. You’ll be a great momma!!
Its so nice to hear other women feel like this. I always thought there is something wrong with me because I am not a kid person. I never had interest in holding other ppls children. I have so many women around me who love kids and just gush over seeing children. Its just not me. I now have 2 kids and I looovee them so much. Its so different when they are your own children. Doesnt mean at all that you wont be a good mother. I just know that 2 kids is good for me. I am also not someone who wants a huge family. I have 1 daughter and 1 son. That is perfect for me. Kaitlyn you seem so nuturing! You have taught me so much watching your channel.
I was actually having an anxiety of being home alone because of the pandemic, but then remembered your channel "nah, i'll just do marathon on mrs. Midwest's channel" loveyou big sis!!!!!!
Some of the best mothers I know had a lot of the same insecurities as you of not really being a baby person. They had kiddos, and they are seriously the most incredible mothers 💜 you’re gonna be great 💖
Thank you for saying that Emily! I really hope that's the case, and from all the advice from you beautiful people, I'm starting to believe that will be the case. I struggle with over-analyzing things at times, but ya'll are helping me relax :)
Im not a baby person, i have a son, its a hardtime to bond at first, but slowly i start to love the shit out of my son..but still i wont go crazy over other peoples baby or even a second child 😏
Prior to watching your channel, I hadn't realized how being apart of the feminist movement had impacted my views on femininity. While I still consider myself a feminist, you really have opened me back up to exploring my own femininity and what it means to be a woman. I want to say thank you!
I can remember I wasn’t a baby/kid person but loved my pets. Trust me when you become a mother magnify the love you have got your pet. I watch you with the love you have for your dog. You will be a great mommy. 💕
Susan H my boyfriend says the same thing. I’m terrified of being a bad mother but he just tells me that he sees how I am with “babying that dog” and that I’ll be a great mom 😂
My aunt and uncle were terrified of children for years. They didn't even want to be left alone with me for five minutes when I was a baby because they were afraid they would do something wrong and I would get hurt. Now they have a child of their own who they absolutely love. Although they were always scared of other people's babies, it changed so much when it was theirs.
Just came across this video. Im a Mom of 2 little girls (16 and 3 months old). Your channel has helped me grow as a Mom and hearing your concerns about becoming a Mom are both completely relatable and dreams like that (especially during pregnancy) are very common and do not reflect on your ability to parent, love or care for your little one. Your personality seem to be very caring, nurturing and self reflective- you'll be the best Mom ever :)
With all this craziness I am so appreciative that you are sticking to your usual content. This is the best time for your videos because a good portion of the US is temporarily living the homemaker life. Hopefully people find your channel and feel inspired to embrace their inner domestic goddess while they are stuck at home. Also, I was the same exact way about babies before I had my own and there is just something that turns on when you see your baby and now I feel like a baby expert (you’ll have moments when you feel not good enough but it’s just the hormones taking revenge for all the ups and downs you decided to put them through. Ignore them and keep pushing lol) lol you will be a great mom someday. Thank you for showcasing this lifestyle. Sending good vibes from Idaho! 🙌🏼
The way you spoke about being a mom was exactly me! I was never a "baby" person or naturally really nurturing but OH MY GOSH!!! It all changes - its a God-thing. You just KNOW how to be the best mom instantly. Mess ups are always going to happen, but as long as our hearts are geared towards doing our best, you will be the BEST. Praying for you!
Watching this as I’m putting my kitchen to bed! (One of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever heard, thank you!) Your videos help me not feel so isolated during this strange time. Praying for you and your hubby!
You are such an inspiring woman! I have been watching your videos for a while now, and you have inspired me to take better care of myself, especially in the sense of femininity. And I feel more myself than I have in ages! So thank you for that :) I have also been watching through your vlogs, I'll either watch one before work or after work (Sometimes both hehe) because they are always so calming and encouraging, lifts my spirits! You are wonderful, thank you for being you :)
I love how you’re just doing your own thing and being your own person 😃 whilst I am not religious (I kind of wish I was as it seems to be such a lovely way to be part of a community) nor a house wife, I get so much from your vlogs on how I can just overall improve as a person. To answer your question, I prefer laundry as it’s nice to remember each item of clothing. Have a wonderful day and stay safe 💛
I so appreciate the major spring vibes in this video😄💐 especially with how dampened everything has been, in the world and with the weather near me.🌸 Also you look extra beautiful in this video!😊 So glowy🌼
I've never been a fan of other peoples kids/babies 😆 but my hubby and I are OBSESSED with our 1.5 year old and expecting #2 now! It's so different when they're your own ❤ And the tucked jammies!!!! I did this as a kid and completely forgot about it! Ah!
Kimberly McMillan Congratulations, when is your due date. We are also expecting baby # 2 due in late September. We have a 17 month old who we love to pieces. He is our pride and joy. I was similar in a way. I was never like may I hold your baby or touch your belly. I took care of my baby niece and Nephews who I love..but other than that..O respect babies and care for them. I do understand what she means.
Am I the only dude who watches all her videos even though almost none of it applies to me because it's mostly directed at women but it's such a refreshing and joyful view to see such a traditional feminine woman?
Saw those plastic bags in the last shot-- it would be such a great video for your channel to sew some tote bags out of thrifted material (even an XL maxi-skirt can be great for getting material), or decorate some plain tote bags you thrift, to use for groceries in the future. A lady nurtures and beautifies the Earth in addition to just herself and her house! No criticism or hate, just encouragement!
Mrs. Midwest...you will be an amazing, conscientious, nurturing, loving mother...no doubt in my mind! Every mother feels inadequate with the task of raising a baby. As a matter of fact, we can become overwhelmed with all of the pressure to make all of the best decisions, depending on who we allow ourselves to be influenced by. Every family is different, and the two of you would figure out as parents what works best with your family. Please do not give another stressful thought/or nightmare, to feelings of inadequacy as a mother. You will surely rock it! 💖
I was never a “baby” person either, I couldn’t relate to the urge other women had to pick up and snuggle some random persons baby. Like everyone has been saying, with your own- it’s different. It’s more than “oh your so cute I want to squeeze you!”- it’s a soul-level bond, a person that was always meant to be with you, a part of your life you’ve always been waiting for and didn’t know it. Your child molds a new special place in your heart, closest and dearest of all. You & your child will be inseparable🌸, all you will want to do is smell their skin and feel their soft hair- when you look at them, you see yourself and your husband, a beautiful representation of your own little family & of God’s love shining down on you. It’s such an intense & unique bond it’s hard to explain, I am so excited for you to be able to experience it 🌸. I do remember the panicky sensation bubbling up inside when you realize there is absolutely no way to prepare for being a mother, there isn’t really ever a point where you will be “ready”, it’s something you become, something that deeply and wholly transforms you. You feelings of worry, if anything point in the direction of you being a wonderful mother- which everyone knows you will be. The fact that you already have concern and are already self-reflecting on your ability to parent show how attentive and careful you will someday be with your child😊.
Seriously everything you touch is like magic! :) I am the opposite of you. I am a total baby person but I do not do as well with older kids middle school/highschool age. I have a three month old currently. I can't even imagine him as a tween/teen yet lol. I think it is only natural for us to doubt our ability to mother because it is such a huge lifestyle change. I think you will make an amazing mama!
This may be a random comment, but I’m using this quarantine time to read a thrifted book from 1977, The Gentle Ways of the Beautiful Woman by Anne Ortland, and it seemed like something you’d enjoy, too, and this lovely community of feminine women! I hope you get the chance to check it out! XO!
Caitlin, I’m not a “baby” person either. I found my kids’ early years a constant source of frustration and exhaustion, the constant crying, the tantrums... I have very little patience for that, but it does get easier and you learn as you go along, some days are bad, some days are great, lots of days are just normal. There is a beauty in serving others and motherhood is a journey of humility and giving. The hard days will pass and they grow up. My kids are turning 8 and 5 this year, I feel like I’m out of that season of really small children and at a stage I’m definitely more comfortable in, and I totally hit my stride now.
I've been on the hunt for an effective and healthy deodorant for years. I've tried all the grocery store brands and they never work! I saw the reviews for Native and I am PRAYING these work. Plus, I love supporting my favorite TH-camrs here, so its a win-win. Thanks for the recommendation and I'm glad it's going to help you out as well! Sisters in Christ!!!
When he says "I still have to do my hair and makeup" 😂 loved that. Also I don't know if you have done this yet but I'd love to see a morning and/or evening routine! 😊 💕
I think you'll be a good mom! You're loving with your husband and dog, as well as taking the care for yourself and giving good advice. I believe your baby/babies will love you and be well taken care of!
Your precious pup tells you constantly how good of a mom you will be. Hope you see this. I know you have 2 kids now, but your pup sure loves having a stay at home mama too.
hahahah your husband "I still have to do my hair and makeup" I love skiing too! I don't see enough media in my life that talks about skiing and it makes me so happy to see you and your husband enjoying the snow! I too think you're going to be a great mother! Your enthusiasm and routine making are going to be great to support your future children. I'm excited to have children one day, even if not traditionally, I would also be open to adopting and/or fostering. What a fantastic community you have here! You've inspired me to ensure I clean things more around my parents house, I always make the bed too and I vacuum more and I love airing out the house in the autumn air here in Australia. I actualyl realyl enjoy diong the dishes, I like the warm water coz I am basically a cold lizard hahaha! Wow all that snow melted so fast! I always love your vlogs! Stay safe and healthy! xoxo
I love laundry a lot, but I always listen to chilled cow chill beats when washing and drying the dishes, and it makes it sooo much better. I love lofi because it's great as a background music and out still get to think and daydream while cleaning
I know I'm just seventeen but I LOVE to watch your videos while cleaning my room, washing the dishes, etc It feels like we're doing it together! Much love and blessings. With love, Ximena :)
Would you post more at home videos while we are on lockdown? It’s inspiring & cozy. Also, I put my pajamas behind my pillow, too! My grandma taught me that. 💓 I think everyone has fears about having children. I know I did & still do. Wondering if I’m doing things the right way. Just trust your gut. The nurturing instincts will come on their own. Thank you, Caitlin!
I love these videos so much they give me hope for my future and who I want to become one day. I’m so excited to buy my first sewing machine and try out this cookie recipe!!❤️
I always enjoy your thrifting/living on a budget/crafting tips so much. I think this wise advice will become even more relevant over the coming months. Thank you! Love from the UK 🇬🇧 xxx
You make me love life and all the simple things about it. I'm so glad I get to see your videos. Definitely my one and only favorite blogger, EVER! Keep doing what you're doing, I love you 💕💖
The world has been sleeping on craisins for far too long. I've been obsessed with them since at least 2014. Whenever I see a recipe call for raisins, my mind auto-corrects to craisins because I just love them so much at this point.
You’ll be a fantastic mother! It will rock your world in the best way 😊. Don’t worry- I’ve seen many women transform into great mothers. It’s a primal instinct to nurture your children. You’ll be shocked and pleased by the intensity of your feelings.
I really enjoyed the vlog. I always get so happy and calm down a little by watching your videos! You are truly amazing. A nice change from all the other content ☺️ (sorry if my English isn’t that good, it’s not my first language) And stay safe during the times now! I hope you and your husband are doing well! 🥰 Greetings from Germany!
Your vlogs are just the best!! Always so calming but motivating and inspiring- please continue being your beautifully feminine self!! xx love you sooooo much 💗
I prefer to put away laundry, there's no chore I dislike more than putting the dishes away. haha Thanks so much for sharing this video Caitlin, it really brightened my week!!
Happy Wednesday! Oh my goodness, total Sleeping Beauty-esque look going on!! I love natural deodorants. When I first switched I really had no choice going back to the chemical deodorants because they then gave me cystic acne! You look so vibrant and fun in neon colors! Too cute! Enjoyed this video so much and resonate with you on such a whole other level, friend! The motherhood topic was such a comfort because I am just the same! Xx -Rey
I loved this, I'm currently washing up and you always help me be more productive with your positive energy. I am 23 with 2 daughters under 3 years old: I think you'll be a great mother. I think it's good that you know who you want to be as a woman before children, although being a mother brings a whole new level of self-fulfillment. I am only just finding myself as a woman (with definite guidance from your channel, @thedarlingacademy and my husband) and it's something I am very aware of having daughters. I want to be a positive influence on them, not the negative female figures I had. I hope you know how much you help other women who feel lost. I'm finally embracing being a housewife 💚
Just finished making the cookies. They were so delicious. Went with craisins since I'm not a huge fan of raisins and you're right, the craisins add a little something to the cookie. Thank you! It's now my go to cookie recipe.
I felt the same way about being a mom, however now the I am a mom to an incredible little girl. I knew this is exactly what I was meant to do. I am stay at home mom which I love!!! I was so nervous prior to having her with the same concerns you noted. I want to encourage you that you will be a great mom because God will give us the strength, wisdom and love to nurture our little kids! By God we carry on :)
Wow thank you so much!:) ☺️ It still blows my mind that people are interested in seeing my housewife routine. Especially because I started this channel just to be a cultural commentary and style advice channel, but now it's becoming so much more!
I feel exactly the same way as you in regards to not feeling super nurturing towards babies. Hearing you talk so openly about it has eased my own doubts about caring for an infant and motherhood in general.
Wonderful! Yes we are in quarantine, and I have been practicing social distancing since mid-February when news first broke about the virus. I hope you feel cheerful and peaceful today Admir!
Mrs Midwest It made my day to hear that, sounds to me like you’ve been well ahead of the curve in terms of preparation! That’s wonderful! Thank you so much, I hope you are feeling the same!
Thank you Caitlin this was a very sweet video😊💛 and definitely a nice distraction from the hard times we have right now. It really inspired me and gave me new ideas how I can spend my time now that I cant go to school and meet with friends. We all have to go through this together.
Been loving your videos so much lately. Just really feeling everything you are sharing and loving all the content. Super fun to keep in touch with you while we’re “stuck” at home. Even though this is my normal life! 😂😂
I've always been more of a dog person than a baby person, and I'm pre-kids but honestly have the same fears and nightmares, so you sharing that makes me feel better! Also, I love that everything in this video except for the restaurant is something I can do today, despite COVID-19. Perfectly timed upload!
Love your vlogs. I never watch anyone else's vlogs. Your are an amazing pick me up :) My girls even know as soon as they hear your intro what time it is lol. I always start my morning either watching the golden girls and a cup of coffee or watching you and a cup of coffee:)
Take care and you two be safe. I'm currently working from home and thankful to still have my job when so many others are unfortunately being laid off. The streets are so quiet it's strange. My dog has the same pig toy except it's blue with yellow polka dots. :)
Don't worry, you're going to be a fantastic mother! You seem to me to have the true soul of a mother, and that is a gift any child would be blessed to have.
Hi Caitlin, I was the same way and was never interested in babies... cut to several years later and now I have four 😅 I know so many women who were the same. This was a lovely, cheering video. Jennifer xx
Loved it all, thank you for always making such interesting and enjoyable content and in particular your background music is always so lovely and soothing 💖
Hello ladies! 💜 So I actually filmed this VLOG a few weeks ago before things were getting serious with COVID-19 in the US. I hope that my VLOG can be a nice distraction as we practice social distancing, and I want you to know that I am taking things very seriously and have been thinking and praying for you all during this distressing time. 💗💕
I hope you can understand that I am not trying to be insensitive by posting my regularly scheduled content: it is my intention to continue to entertain and inspire you all, especially as we are experiencing such high levels of stress. 💗💜 I'm sending love to you all today and hope that we can use this time to connect with loved ones, support one another, and maybe start some new hobbies. Love you all! Stay safe and stay home if you can! Xoxo
Mrs Midwest thank you for bringing your positive energy to me today and during this time. Since I found your channel, your videos are so calming and a good distraction from the daily stressors. Especially during these times, I’m grateful for you.
Our minister of health just fainted on live television during a debate. 😅 (I'm from the netherlands) it's crazy. Be prepared and stay safe. Thank you for brightening up our day with this vlog!
@@missautumn764 bizar he?! Ik volgde de live uitzending van de nationale gebedsdag en zag ondertussen op tv(zonder geluid) paniek. Echt vreemde tijden 🙏🏻🙇🏻♀️🙇🏻♂️
We love that you keep posting. You’re helping to lift our spirits. I will continue to pray for you and your family as well. Thank you for your kind thoughts. You’re a wonderful woman. 🌸
I so enjoy all of your videos. Keep them coming! We all need this positivity during this time! Thank you for the prayers. I have been praying for you and everyone of your subscribers! Much love from Alabama!
I just have to say this, if a policeman on night shift has the energy and time to notice and compliment his wife’s hair, makeup and outfit, your boyfriend has no excuse not to notice. 🥰 he’s setting a great example for your kids on how to treat a partner, both of you do💕
Just my opinion
I understand where you come from but we shouldn't be quick to judge, everyone is different, I'm not the person to notice these things for example 😅🙈 and I DO care!
irmalair1 haha i get that, however when your spouse makes an effort to look good for you they want you to notice, it’s the little things
However, I understand that people show affection in different ways. It was only meant to say that it’s nice to see an affectionate couple who notices the little things and encourages each other.☺️
irmalair1 I wish I could agree with but she's right. If your significant other cannot take time out of their day to just complement you or appreciate the effort you take into looking good then it’s a NO. It’s not about judging anyone, it’s about expressing love through appreciation, time, and love languages Not judging ppl. OFFERING CRITICISM IS NOT JUDGING PPL
Giving compliments is also a cultural thing. It's important to communicate on very beginning of a relationship if certain love expressions are important for you.
I grew up in an "emotionally distant" asian family and the only time my father called me pretty was only a few days before he died, but throughout my childhood he was a hard working man who did everything in his power to make sure I live comfortably and happily.
It's not nice when we think someone ignore our efforts to look good for them, but people just express loves differently and expecting them to do what we want them to do is also not so nice (in my opinion). And if compliment might be so important for a person that the other person's "fauilure" to express int could be such a big turnoff, the the relationship might not work and might be worth reconsidering. Stay safe and happy girls :)
When a baby is born, a mother is born along with it. It's a new person that you'll have to get to know. Your love for your baby will grow with time. It's an ideal people like to hold, the perfect mother, the natural mother, but it's simply not true. Postpartum, breastfeeding, all those things can be awful but people don't talk about that. Being a mother is painful, you'll feel guilty over things you cannot control, you'll worry about your baby 24/7, you'll be very tired, but you won't change it for the world. You'll find inside you the purest form of love, it overpowers you. It's fulfilling. You'll be fine my dear 🥰🥰🥰
This made me just want to be a mother some day. Beautifully written
wow - this is 100% true
Lots of women who feel the same way towards other’s children experience a whole different feeling when it comes to their own child. You will be an amazing mother. Hope you guys are staying safe and God Bless!
Cheyenne Shope exactly how I was, it will be fine 💕
This is so true and was my experience as well. I was never good with other people's kids but the second I held my first child I was in love! I went on to raise 5 kids and I adore each and every one of them.
My friend felt exactly the same way. She is now an amazing mother 💕
This is how I was too! No interest in kids until I had my own. I can’t get enough of him now and he is the little love of my life. You’ll be a great momma!!
Its so nice to hear other women feel like this. I always thought there is something wrong with me because I am not a kid person. I never had interest in holding other ppls children. I have so many women around me who love kids and just gush over seeing children. Its just not me. I now have 2 kids and I looovee them so much. Its so different when they are your own children. Doesnt mean at all that you wont be a good mother. I just know that 2 kids is good for me. I am also not someone who wants a huge family. I have 1 daughter and 1 son. That is perfect for me. Kaitlyn you seem so nuturing! You have taught me so much watching your channel.
I love how you have a modest home and not some perfectly styled space out of Pinterest. It’s realistic and honest💕
I was actually having an anxiety of being home alone because of the pandemic, but then remembered your channel "nah, i'll just do marathon on mrs. Midwest's channel" loveyou big sis!!!!!!
Some of the best mothers I know had a lot of the same insecurities as you of not really being a baby person. They had kiddos, and they are seriously the most incredible mothers 💜 you’re gonna be great 💖
Thank you for saying that Emily! I really hope that's the case, and from all the advice from you beautiful people, I'm starting to believe that will be the case. I struggle with over-analyzing things at times, but ya'll are helping me relax :)
Im not a baby person, i have a son, its a hardtime to bond at first, but slowly i start to love the shit out of my son..but still i wont go crazy over other peoples baby or even a second child 😏
Your vlogs are extremely soothing especially during such a global mess!
Sending love all the way from the Middle East
Thank you so much! I really hope that is the case for everyone. Sending you so much love during this time!
I agree!!
Prior to watching your channel, I hadn't realized how being apart of the feminist movement had impacted my views on femininity. While I still consider myself a feminist, you really have opened me back up to exploring my own femininity and what it means to be a woman. I want to say thank you!
I can remember I wasn’t a baby/kid person but loved my pets. Trust me when you become a mother magnify the love you have got your pet. I watch you with the love you have for your dog. You will be a great mommy. 💕
Susan H my boyfriend says the same thing. I’m terrified of being a bad mother but he just tells me that he sees how I am with “babying that dog” and that I’ll be a great mom 😂
Thank you!! I'm already feeling ALLL the mamabear feelings coming up. It's kind of awesome
My aunt and uncle were terrified of children for years. They didn't even want to be left alone with me for five minutes when I was a baby because they were afraid they would do something wrong and I would get hurt. Now they have a child of their own who they absolutely love. Although they were always scared of other people's babies, it changed so much when it was theirs.
Just came across this video. Im a Mom of 2 little girls (16 and 3 months old). Your channel has helped me grow as a Mom and hearing your concerns about becoming a Mom are both completely relatable and dreams like that (especially during pregnancy) are very common and do not reflect on your ability to parent, love or care for your little one. Your personality seem to be very caring, nurturing and self reflective- you'll be the best Mom ever :)
You look SO gorgeous here, like Disney's Aurora! Gonna take major inspiration from this hairstyle and makeup :D
I see how she treats her dog and believe you be perfect mom for a babies or toddler .She have a kindergartner teacher way about her.
Thank you!
With all this craziness I am so appreciative that you are sticking to your usual content. This is the best time for your videos because a good portion of the US is temporarily living the homemaker life. Hopefully people find your channel and feel inspired to embrace their inner domestic goddess while they are stuck at home. Also, I was the same exact way about babies before I had my own and there is just something that turns on when you see your baby and now I feel like a baby expert (you’ll have moments when you feel not good enough but it’s just the hormones taking revenge for all the ups and downs you decided to put them through. Ignore them and keep pushing lol) lol you will be a great mom someday. Thank you for showcasing this lifestyle. Sending good vibes from Idaho! 🙌🏼
The way you spoke about being a mom was exactly me! I was never a "baby" person or naturally really nurturing but OH MY GOSH!!! It all changes - its a God-thing. You just KNOW how to be the best mom instantly. Mess ups are always going to happen, but as long as our hearts are geared towards doing our best, you will be the BEST. Praying for you!
I actually love doing laundry. Doesn't feel like a chore. Its relaxing to me. Dishes are my least favorite thing haha
Watching this as I’m putting my kitchen to bed! (One of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever heard, thank you!) Your videos help me not feel so isolated during this strange time. Praying for you and your hubby!
I prefer doing laundry over dishes. 🙂
You are such an inspiring woman! I have been watching your videos for a while now, and you have inspired me to take better care of myself, especially in the sense of femininity. And I feel more myself than I have in ages! So thank you for that :) I have also been watching through your vlogs, I'll either watch one before work or after work (Sometimes both hehe) because they are always so calming and encouraging, lifts my spirits! You are wonderful, thank you for being you :)
Wow! Look at the growth. Congrats on your pregnancy
I love how you’re just doing your own thing and being your own person 😃 whilst I am not religious (I kind of wish I was as it seems to be such a lovely way to be part of a community) nor a house wife, I get so much from your vlogs on how I can just overall improve as a person. To answer your question, I prefer laundry as it’s nice to remember each item of clothing. Have a wonderful day and stay safe 💛
I so appreciate the major spring vibes in this video😄💐 especially with how dampened everything has been, in the world and with the weather near me.🌸
Also you look extra beautiful in this video!😊 So glowy🌼
I've never been a fan of other peoples kids/babies 😆 but my hubby and I are OBSESSED with our 1.5 year old and expecting #2 now! It's so different when they're your own ❤
And the tucked jammies!!!! I did this as a kid and completely forgot about it! Ah!
Congratulations on baby #2!! That's what my mom has told me. She is not a huge fan of babies. But when it came to her own it was totally different👍.
@@ajoyfullsound Thank you so much❤
Kimberly McMillan Congratulations, when is your due date. We are also expecting baby # 2 due in late September. We have a 17 month old who we love to pieces. He is our pride and joy. I was similar in a way. I was never like may I hold your baby or touch your belly. I took care of my baby niece and Nephews who I love..but other than that..O respect babies and care for them. I do understand what she means.
Yeeess I love your vlogs!
I like how you always start them with the same music, it makes them sound comforting and welcoming and cohesive 😊
True 💕💕
Am I the only dude who watches all her videos even though almost none of it applies to me because it's mostly directed at women but it's such a refreshing and joyful view to see such a traditional feminine woman?
your sweet, kind and honest Princess heart is giving me hope and light in these difficult times.
Your hair looks extra princess like in this vlog 💖👑😍
Saw those plastic bags in the last shot-- it would be such a great video for your channel to sew some tote bags out of thrifted material (even an XL maxi-skirt can be great for getting material), or decorate some plain tote bags you thrift, to use for groceries in the future. A lady nurtures and beautifies the Earth in addition to just herself and her house!
No criticism or hate, just encouragement!
Mrs. Midwest...you will be an amazing, conscientious, nurturing, loving mother...no doubt in my mind! Every mother feels inadequate with the task of raising a baby. As a matter of fact, we can become overwhelmed with all of the pressure to make all of the best decisions, depending on who we allow ourselves to be influenced by. Every family is different, and the two of you would figure out as parents what works best with your family. Please do not give another stressful thought/or nightmare, to feelings of inadequacy as a mother. You will surely rock it! 💖
Ps., I felt like I was watching a Disney Princess make cookies! 💖
I’ll tell you, the Love of a mother to her child is the strongest Love you will experience to a person. Also, I bet you will be a great mother! 💕
And now you’re having a baby!!! ❤️🥰❤️
Miss Cait, YOU ARE SOOO RIGHT! The Spring colours are perfect on YOU! Keep on getting those Bella Bella XO
I was never a “baby” person either, I couldn’t relate to the urge other women had to pick up and snuggle some random persons baby. Like everyone has been saying, with your own- it’s different. It’s more than “oh your so cute I want to squeeze you!”- it’s a soul-level bond, a person that was always meant to be with you, a part of your life you’ve always been waiting for and didn’t know it. Your child molds a new special place in your heart, closest and dearest of all. You & your child will be inseparable🌸, all you will want to do is smell their skin and feel their soft hair- when you look at them, you see yourself and your husband, a beautiful representation of your own little family & of God’s love shining down on you. It’s such an intense & unique bond it’s hard to explain, I am so excited for you to be able to experience it 🌸. I do remember the panicky sensation bubbling up inside when you realize there is absolutely no way to prepare for being a mother, there isn’t really ever a point where you will be “ready”, it’s something you become, something that deeply and wholly transforms you. You feelings of worry, if anything point in the direction of you being a wonderful mother- which everyone knows you will be. The fact that you already have concern and are already self-reflecting on your ability to parent show how attentive and careful you will someday be with your child😊.
Seriously everything you touch is like magic! :)
I am the opposite of you. I am a total baby person but I do not do as well with older kids middle school/highschool age. I have a three month old currently. I can't even imagine him as a tween/teen yet lol. I think it is only natural for us to doubt our ability to mother because it is such a huge lifestyle change. I think you will make an amazing mama!
This may be a random comment, but I’m using this quarantine time to read a thrifted book from 1977, The Gentle Ways of the Beautiful Woman by Anne Ortland, and it seemed like something you’d enjoy, too, and this lovely community of feminine women! I hope you get the chance to check it out! XO!
Caitlin, I’m not a “baby” person either. I found my kids’ early years a constant source of frustration and exhaustion, the constant crying, the tantrums... I have very little patience for that, but it does get easier and you learn as you go along, some days are bad, some days are great, lots of days are just normal. There is a beauty in serving others and motherhood is a journey of humility and giving. The hard days will pass and they grow up. My kids are turning 8 and 5 this year, I feel like I’m out of that season of really small children and at a stage I’m definitely more comfortable in, and I totally hit my stride now.
This!!! Perfect comment! 👏👏👏👊😍💖🖒🖒🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
I was never too interested in kids till I had my own. Then it was like a switch flipped. Now bring me aaaaalllll the babies.
I'm feeling that switch flip with every single kick in my belly!
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It's a game changer!!
The music that you played while baking those cookies just made the video all the more satisfying!
When he says "I still have to do my hair and makeup" 😂 loved that. Also I don't know if you have done this yet but I'd love to see a morning and/or evening routine! 😊 💕
I think you'll be a good mom! You're loving with your husband and dog, as well as taking the care for yourself and giving good advice. I believe your baby/babies will love you and be well taken care of!
Your precious pup tells you constantly how good of a mom you will be. Hope you see this. I know you have 2 kids now, but your pup sure loves having a stay at home mama too.
Your energy is exactly what we need right now Caitlin! Thank you for sharing and sending us your love and light! Love you
Yayyyy! I've been SO looking forward to the next vlog! 💕 Thank you for making it!
It has been waaaay too long!! :) Thank you for watching Daisy! :) (love your name!)
Eeeeps! I'm so excited that you replied 😂 and thank you! 😊
hahahah your husband "I still have to do my hair and makeup" I love skiing too! I don't see enough media in my life that talks about skiing and it makes me so happy to see you and your husband enjoying the snow! I too think you're going to be a great mother! Your enthusiasm and routine making are going to be great to support your future children. I'm excited to have children one day, even if not traditionally, I would also be open to adopting and/or fostering. What a fantastic community you have here!
You've inspired me to ensure I clean things more around my parents house, I always make the bed too and I vacuum more and I love airing out the house in the autumn air here in Australia. I actualyl realyl enjoy diong the dishes, I like the warm water coz I am basically a cold lizard hahaha!
Wow all that snow melted so fast! I always love your vlogs! Stay safe and healthy! xoxo
I love laundry a lot, but I always listen to chilled cow chill beats when washing and drying the dishes, and it makes it sooo much better. I love lofi because it's great as a background music and out still get to think and daydream while cleaning
Yes I love listening to those music when I do chores!
I know I'm just seventeen but I LOVE to watch your videos while cleaning my room, washing the dishes, etc
It feels like we're doing it together! Much love and blessings.
With love, Ximena :)
Thank you for being such a warm and welcoming spirit! Whenever I feel homesick at university I watch one of your videos and feel so much better!
I loved this. Your life is so similar to mine, except I live in Scotland! I love your thrifty finds - unique and beautiful and a breath of fresh air!
Would you post more at home videos while we are on lockdown? It’s inspiring & cozy. Also, I put my pajamas behind my pillow, too! My grandma taught me that. 💓
I think everyone has fears about having children. I know I did & still do. Wondering if I’m doing things the right way. Just trust your gut. The nurturing instincts will come on their own.
Thank you, Caitlin!
I love these videos so much they give me hope for my future and who I want to become one day. I’m so excited to buy my first sewing machine and try out this cookie recipe!!❤️
I love your talking videos, but seeing you in action makes a difference! I love this side and style of your videos ❤️
I always enjoy your thrifting/living on a budget/crafting tips so much. I think this wise advice will become even more relevant over the coming months. Thank you! Love from the UK 🇬🇧 xxx
You make me love life and all the simple things about it. I'm so glad I get to see your videos. Definitely my one and only favorite blogger, EVER! Keep doing what you're doing, I love you 💕💖
The world has been sleeping on craisins for far too long. I've been obsessed with them since at least 2014. Whenever I see a recipe call for raisins, my mind auto-corrects to craisins because I just love them so much at this point.
I'm in love with your hair in this video 😍 tutorial please?
Your vlogs reach my soul and leave me inspired to be a better wife, mother and person. Thank you for your quality content.
Much love 💖
I love that you admit how vlogs make you productive! I was feeling guilty about that. 😆
You’ll be a fantastic mother! It will rock your world in the best way 😊. Don’t worry- I’ve seen many women transform into great mothers. It’s a primal instinct to nurture your children. You’ll be shocked and pleased by the intensity of your feelings.
Omg hair tutorial!
I wonder how this will look on black hair
I really enjoyed the vlog. I always get so happy and calm down a little by watching your videos! You are truly amazing. A nice change from all the other content ☺️ (sorry if my English isn’t that good, it’s not my first language)
And stay safe during the times now! I hope you and your husband are doing well! 🥰 Greetings from Germany!
AHHH! Yessss, 27 minutes lonng. I'm so excited 💕
I have been feeling stressed lately and your video really calmed me down. I'm so happy you posted this vlog just now! Thank you💜
That long stick was hilarious! Dogs are so fun. My hubbie loves oatmeal raisin cookies, I am going to try your cranraisin trick. Thanks.
Your vlogs are just the best!! Always so calming but motivating and inspiring- please continue being your beautifully feminine self!! xx love you sooooo much 💗
I prefer to put away laundry, there's no chore I dislike more than putting the dishes away. haha
Thanks so much for sharing this video Caitlin, it really brightened my week!!
I love when you talk more in your vlogs!!!
Your blogs and the music that you have it’s precious., it really makes my day and makes me happy, thank you for everything ❤️
Happy Wednesday!
Oh my goodness, total Sleeping Beauty-esque look going on!!
I love natural deodorants. When I first switched I really had no choice going back to the chemical deodorants because they then gave me cystic acne!
You look so vibrant and fun in neon colors! Too cute! Enjoyed this video so much and resonate with you on such a whole other level, friend! The motherhood topic was such a comfort because I am just the same! Xx -Rey
You honestly have the best music on TH-cam! I love it!
I loved this, I'm currently washing up and you always help me be more productive with your positive energy. I am 23 with 2 daughters under 3 years old: I think you'll be a great mother. I think it's good that you know who you want to be as a woman before children, although being a mother brings a whole new level of self-fulfillment. I am only just finding myself as a woman (with definite guidance from your channel, @thedarlingacademy and my husband) and it's something I am very aware of having daughters. I want to be a positive influence on them, not the negative female figures I had. I hope you know how much you help other women who feel lost. I'm finally embracing being a housewife 💚
Just finished making the cookies. They were so delicious. Went with craisins since I'm not a huge fan of raisins and you're right, the craisins add a little something to the cookie. Thank you! It's now my go to cookie recipe.
absolutely love your videos! 💗 you are such a role model and an inspiration to me so thank you!
No wonder I like this vlog the best! You uploaded it on my birthday. I love your channel ❤️
I love how your vlogs calm me down and makes me feel relaxed ...thank you
I felt the same way about being a mom, however now the I am a mom to an incredible little girl. I knew this is exactly what I was meant to do. I am stay at home mom which I love!!! I was so nervous prior to having her with the same concerns you noted. I want to encourage you that you will be a great mom because God will give us the strength, wisdom and love to nurture our little kids! By God we carry on :)
Definitely going to try those 🍪
We want more vlogs i personally love them they inpire me a lot🌺💕 love youuuu😁
Wow thank you so much!:) ☺️ It still blows my mind that people are interested in seeing my housewife routine. Especially because I started this channel just to be a cultural commentary and style advice channel, but now it's becoming so much more!
I feel exactly the same way as you in regards to not feeling super nurturing towards babies. Hearing you talk so openly about it has eased my own doubts about caring for an infant and motherhood in general.
green is the prettiest on light haired and eyed women to me!
This is the content I needed today. Thank you, Caitlin!
Thank you for saying that! I was hoping that this would be a nice break from the noise
You’re going to be a fantastic mom! 💖
We are all so looking forward to sharing in the journey of pregnancy and motherhood with you. I can’t wait! 🤗
So glad you're starting to get sponsorships! 😃💕💕 hope you'll keep being transparent with us about it 🤗😘😘
Great video! And oh my goodness I’m so happy I’m not the only one who puts my pajamas behind my pillow!😂❤️
I hope you’re doing well and staying safe!! 🥰❤️ I just finished class and seeing your video cheered me up
Wonderful! Yes we are in quarantine, and I have been practicing social distancing since mid-February when news first broke about the virus. I hope you feel cheerful and peaceful today Admir!
Mrs Midwest It made my day to hear that, sounds to me like you’ve been well ahead of the curve in terms of preparation! That’s wonderful! Thank you so much, I hope you are feeling the same!
The soft curls suit you sooooo much❤️
Thank you Caitlin this was a very sweet video😊💛 and definitely a nice distraction from the hard times we have right now. It really inspired me and gave me new ideas how I can spend my time now that I cant go to school and meet with friends. We all have to go through this together.
The head band is adorable!! Great job!
This is my favorite blog of yours! I felt way more engaged with you talking to us though it. btw you are so beauuutifullll
Been loving your videos so much lately. Just really feeling everything you are sharing and loving all the content. Super fun to keep in touch with you while we’re “stuck” at home. Even though this is my normal life! 😂😂
I prefer putting laundry away. Also I've never heard of the pj's behind the pillow. So smart!
I've always been more of a dog person than a baby person, and I'm pre-kids but honestly have the same fears and nightmares, so you sharing that makes me feel better! Also, I love that everything in this video except for the restaurant is something I can do today, despite COVID-19. Perfectly timed upload!
A 27-minute video with Mrs. Midwest? Yes please 😊💖
This is so funny you and Cynthia L. both have the big “sweaty” thrift walking coats! 😂❤️
Felicia Duncan I know they could be sisters
Love your vlogs. I never watch anyone else's vlogs. Your are an amazing pick me up :) My girls even know as soon as they hear your intro what time it is lol. I always start my morning either watching the golden girls and a cup of coffee or watching you and a cup of coffee:)
Take care and you two be safe. I'm currently working from home and thankful to still have my job when so many others are unfortunately being laid off. The streets are so quiet it's strange. My dog has the same pig toy except it's blue with yellow polka dots. :)
Don't worry, you're going to be a fantastic mother! You seem to me to have the true soul of a mother, and that is a gift any child would be blessed to have.
Hi Caitlin, I was the same way and was never interested in babies... cut to several years later and now I have four 😅 I know so many women who were the same. This was a lovely, cheering video. Jennifer xx
Loved it all, thank you for always making such interesting and enjoyable content and in particular your background music is always so lovely and soothing 💖