GIRL TALK: THE BEST RELATIONSHIP ADVICE EVER *YOU NEED TO HEAR THIS*

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  • @aliyaaahhhlps
    @aliyaaahhhlps 4 ปีที่แล้ว +648

    I saw this quote that said something along the lines of...”some people say marriage is a just a piece of paper, but so is money & you wake up & work for it every single day” & I found that to be so powerful. I am not married but I hope one day I’ll find my significant other.
    Also, I love your vibe in this video blanca! 💖

    • @Evettexo
      @Evettexo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Wow that nailed it in the butt!! 👌🏼!!! Thank you babe

    • @Angelaaa_x0x0
      @Angelaaa_x0x0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love this quote! Never heard of it before!

    • @mari.alexsia
      @mari.alexsia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow, oh wow Loveeeee !

    • @denisseramirez0420
      @denisseramirez0420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      not to knock on your quote but you wake up for that piece of paper because you need to survive and provide, you can survive without marriage...no shade though 😘

    • @woahme1828
      @woahme1828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@denisseramirez0420 and when u wake up, you have to provide now as a family, because your United . U work hard when bad times come. But its because u love one another, your committed . Someone who don't love you definently won't get up and be strong for you physically and emotionally .. They will just see it like you do . Basically don't marry someone u not willing to be there for and love. U get me 👌

  • @Nicvyy
    @Nicvyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    When evette talked about guys changing and committing for who they wanna change for.... mannn that hurttt😭🤣

    • @nataliaprins5822
      @nataliaprins5822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🗣🗣🗣

    • @laylatrevino6277
      @laylatrevino6277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Nicole Victor honestly it did hurt 😂😔💔 currently going through a breakup and right after we broke up he started to talk to someone new so yeah! It drives me crazy!

    • @gabbyluvsmakeup5061
      @gabbyluvsmakeup5061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey babe I recently started my yt channel and would appreciate if you checked it out💖

    • @queend7318
      @queend7318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It's so true though. My ex and I were together for 3 years and he didn't "believe in marriage". Now we're both in new happy relationships and he's engaged with his girl. Everything happens for a reason ladies..

    • @danielarubiio
      @danielarubiio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg yes 😂

  • @sxpo5601
    @sxpo5601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I didnt move in with my BF until he proposed and the date was set. My mom and my aunts always said " dont be a wife to a boyfriend"

  • @stephaniewithasmile
    @stephaniewithasmile 4 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    Blanca you should do more of these!!!!! You are so real and honest I think that’s important for your viewers especially young girls that are barely starting out to date ! This is so useful for me figuring out the ups and downs of relationships and making them work I’m only 22 and I can relate to the same mentality as you! Thanks for this video ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Evettexo
      @Evettexo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Stephanie T thank you babe I’m glad you guys value my advice and opinions 😭🤍🤍

    • @nataliaprins5822
      @nataliaprins5822 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Evettexo always❤️

    • @nataliaprins5822
      @nataliaprins5822 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stephanie T tbhhh💯🗣

    • @gabbyvillagomez3357
      @gabbyvillagomez3357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YESSSSS I DEFINITELY AGREE!!! More videos like this!

    • @anonymousthug3718
      @anonymousthug3718 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Noo!! No more sit down talking videos, get more creative JFC!! All the videos are the same shit.. That's why people would rather watch Benny instead of Blanca talking 24/7 🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @gabrielahayes8312
    @gabrielahayes8312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    I swear Bianca is that GO TO FRIEND lol I love how real you’re and super open about everything. Can we be friends ?!

    • @Evettexo
      @Evettexo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Gabriela Hayes I got you and we are best friends 🤍

  • @leticia0444
    @leticia0444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +392

    Financial advice next😢🥺🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @Ydnew51
      @Ydnew51 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Leticia Molina styledby ale has a video on this check her out. Her channel is all about ale

    • @leticia0444
      @leticia0444 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wendy A. Rodriguez Thank you for the recommendation!!

  • @laurabustamante3701
    @laurabustamante3701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    When she said I’m the type of girl that wants to break up I’m leaving I CAN SOOOO RELATE .

    • @gabbyluvsmakeup5061
      @gabbyluvsmakeup5061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      laura bustamante Hey babe I recently started my yt channel and would appreciate if you checked it out💖

    • @GabyTitoVlogs
      @GabyTitoVlogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want Blanca to address How she feels now that girls on social media and TickTock are trying to look just exactly like her

  • @brisasotelo9606
    @brisasotelo9606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    I don’t even have a relationship but ima still watch it 😂 aver si no me da depre 😂

    • @Evettexo
      @Evettexo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Brisa sotelo you’ll be ready after this lol 😭🤪

    • @brisasotelo9606
      @brisasotelo9606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Evettexo some guy just told me to Chingar mi madre cause he said adiós to me and I didn’t want to talk to him anyway so I sent back 👋 😂 I ain’t ready for a relationship

    • @Spideman179
      @Spideman179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Estamos igual 😭😭😭😂😂

    • @oldschool3234
      @oldschool3234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brisasotelo9606 💀😂😂😂 that second message tho your funny lol thank you for the laugh. Btw the one will come when u least expect it. Never thought I would get engage and yesterday that changed. You never know 💕

    • @brisasotelo9606
      @brisasotelo9606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      OLD SCHOOL 323 thank you I’m patiently waiting for the love of my life to fall from heaven😂 he’ll get here someday if not I’m fine with being that drunk aunt at the parties 😂

  • @briannaaguilar1958
    @briannaaguilar1958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +415

    I love Evette’s vibe and energy she’s so real & honest, she’s always herself keep being you boo wish you nothing but success 😘😛

    • @Evettexo
      @Evettexo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Brianna Aguilar thank you baby 😭🤍🤍

    • @everlastingbliss
      @everlastingbliss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yasss💖🙌🏼

    • @briannaaguilar1958
      @briannaaguilar1958 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Evettexo love you foreverrrrrrr 💘

    • @GabyTitoVlogs
      @GabyTitoVlogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Evettexo I want You to address How she feels now that girls on social media and TickTock are trying to look just exactly like her

    • @lucero2422
      @lucero2422 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

  • @alexas9474
    @alexas9474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    Don’t be afraid to tell your significant other what you like and don’t like

    • @gabbyluvsmakeup5061
      @gabbyluvsmakeup5061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      alexa s Hey babe I recently started my yt channel and would appreciate if you checked it out💖

  • @allyxoxo5369
    @allyxoxo5369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    I don’t get a long with any of my sister in-laws . & I don’t go over and I don’t feel comfortable around his family because they give me ugly looks. These are grown ass woman. I try to be a bigger person but that doesnt work so I just don’t go.

    • @amayavaldez6960
      @amayavaldez6960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      It can be like that sometimes. But as long as he’s giving you your place as his partner then don’t worry about the outsiders.

    • @giselleanahy8038
      @giselleanahy8038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I am in the same type of situation but in reverse. My bf does not get along with my fam. In the end, it is a relationship between you and your significant other. The people surrounding the relationship can be chosen. Your bf/gf should give you that place of comfort even though his family gives you ugly looks. You be you and you love yourself. You know who you are. Whatever his fam thinks throw it out the window, you're a bad b!!!

    • @beckieILTL
      @beckieILTL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same with my bfs side of the family. I one of his aunts even acused me of cheating (she literally said I will chop of my finger if im wrong) and being a hoe etc. And they dont like me for whatever reason. So I dont go over. Its been like 3yrs. It sucks because im a very family oriented person but Im not gonna be putting myself in those situations. He goes alone to the parties/reunions if he goes at all.

    • @rubiaguilar7981
      @rubiaguilar7981 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ally xoxo omg same girl

    • @teamsabrinaa5646
      @teamsabrinaa5646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I was in that exact situation for 4 years! Until I was like I don't care I'm going I'm not staying home. It was a game changer for me they always were surprised I showed up. Eventually his girl cousins seen me alone and would talk to me and they were super chill. So girl I say goo because now his sister's talk to me. I put my foot down and they were like oh wooooow she's BOLD. Literally it will show you don't care about them. Also will show you aren't bothered by them.

  • @jackievalencia4798
    @jackievalencia4798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    LADIES!! If y’all want to get married DON’T move in with him then hope later on you can convince him!!! My husband would ask me to move in al the time, one day I told him straight up that I wanted to get married first, his answer was ok if that is what it takes to be with you! Then he proposed!! I was just 18 and we’ve been married 17 years! 💜 don’t settle for less!!

  • @angelicamontemayor1046
    @angelicamontemayor1046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    A man should love you enough to give you what you need. If he doesn't, he may not be the one for you. Just make sure you have communicated what you need before you decide to do anything.
    A relationship takes two.❤

  • @dianamendez5856
    @dianamendez5856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    “You know what this isn’t working out. I’m going back to my parent’s house. “ 🤣
    SAME SIS!

  • @kstylenbeauty
    @kstylenbeauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Dude you’re so real, I have NEVER heard a woman say “don’t ever say you would NEVER” because it’s so true’ like in moment we’re heated and we’re like she’s not respecting herself! Because she’s letting her get cheated on, but like you really don’t know how the relationship is and how it really is. Much love and wish nothing but wellness Blanca 💋

    • @gabbyluvsmakeup5061
      @gabbyluvsmakeup5061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      kfashion Hey babe I recently started my yt channel and would appreciate if you checked it out💖

  • @jarii8522
    @jarii8522 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    It really felt like we were having a deep conversation.. Blanca is seriously my long lost best friend ! I love how well spoken you are and how open you are about every situation! You should do one every week girl love you and wish you nothing but blessings for you and your family ❤️

  • @alexas9474
    @alexas9474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I love how open you are! And my sister in law and I don’t see eye to eye but I’ve told her straight up “you might not have want me as your cuñada but your brother loves me and I’m the mother of his child and you will respect me” she wanted my husband to stay with his first baby momma but it didn’t work out. When I told her straight up our relationship has gotten a little better. At least she respects me now

    • @samgiatta699
      @samgiatta699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      alexa s same here

    • @alexas9474
      @alexas9474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sam Giatta girrrrrl I tell it how it is obviously he hasn’t been with her for a long time so it’s like let him be happy, and as long as they are happy fuck the rest but it helps when your mother and father in law love you thank god for them lol

    • @oldschool3234
      @oldschool3234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha damn that's crazy. One of my sister in laws didn't like me either I almost fxkd her up for disrespecting my daughter ( she's not my baby daddy biological daughter I met him when my daughter was 4 yrs old ) . Her and her mom also made everyone have doubts about my son being my baby daddies but this bitch would never show up when I was around. I let it go like whatevers. Well guess what he propose to me yesterday and she message him on FB welcoming me to the family lol. Never expected that from her.

    • @alexas9474
      @alexas9474 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      OLD SCHOOL 323 lol great! Now they have to love you ahuevo hahha congrats on your engagement

  • @arlenemonique_
    @arlenemonique_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Not currently in a relationship but I did recently just get out of one & im still healing & learning to love myself again! I’m glad I’m here cause of the question of loving yourself & “being on your own” cause that’s totally where I’m at right now! Love you & your videos so much! Wishing you the best always. Thanks for the advice!! 💞

  • @mireyalerma6828
    @mireyalerma6828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This video couldn’t have come at a more perfect time, I’ve always found you so inspiring and someone I look up to. I’ve recently discovered I had been cheated on and have decided to give my boyfriend a second chance (he was very remorseful), I definitely learned the never say never situation the hard way. I was so concerned about people finding me stupid, really needed to hear this advice to remind myself that my decisions don’t make me stupid and giving someone a second chance isn’t a bad thing. Thank you💖

    • @arianamedina9010
      @arianamedina9010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agree 💯 it happened with my husband thank god it didn’t go further than talking but when that happened I was pregnant 🤰🏻 she knew and didn’t care thank god my husband realized his soon to be family was not worth loosing over her so he cut her off real quick that’s when I decided to try again we both changed for the better and now we’re in a better place like we always say it takes 2 to make this marriage work ❤️ so No girl you are not stupid it takes A LOT for us WOMAN to give it another try

    • @oldschool3234
      @oldschool3234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The same thing happened to me like Ariana ^ didn't go farther than just talking. It happened about 3 months after I had just gave him his first son which broke my heart. I gave it a second chance and here we are with our second son which is my 3rd child though. Just got engage yesterday. I hope everything works out for all of us for the best and our relationships grow stronger. 🙏💕

    • @jflores6291
      @jflores6291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mireya Lerma This happened to me about 4 years ago. My husband told me that about 5 years prior, he was taking to someone at work. It led to a kiss. It killed me. I felt so stupid. That was the worse part for me; I felt so dumb. I forgave him because I know he was remorseful and regretted it. In realty he never had to tell me and there’s no way I would have ever found out. I had a hard time for about a year and a half. It took a long time for me to really forgive him and come to terms with it. But I know it was the right thing to do. No one is perfect and I am no one to withhold forgiveness from someone who is begging for a chance. Now, a serial cheater is a whole different story. I’ve told myself that if anything like that were to ever happen again, it’d be done; because then, I’d just be a fool.

  • @nativprincess1
    @nativprincess1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    To the question about a man not wanting or being ready to get married was very simplified by Steve Harvey. Once a man knows a woman’s idea of marriage, they have this personal standard they need to live up to and achieve. So if your man knows you want a nice wedding, he may say he doesn’t want to get married because he isn’t at the level necessary to give you that wedding as well as be a providing husband. Even if you back track and say you just want to elope, it doesn’t matter, he knows what you really want, and he wants to give that to you. My husband didn’t propose to me for 14 years! We got together when we were 13-15. It wasn’t until I was almost 30 that we were financially stable and could afford a nice wedding, a down payment on a home, and parenthood. Now I get it, but when I was younger I just wanted that label so bad!! I’m glad I stayed and never forced it. I got my dream wedding and it wasn’t a stress on us financially

  • @adrianaalvarado826
    @adrianaalvarado826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    so weird seeing blanca without nails😂

  • @alittlebitofmonica3595
    @alittlebitofmonica3595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    For the one about the marriage... girl if you've been with him for a few years now & no ring yet especially if you have kids tell him "yo we already live together i cook & clean for you or whatever you do from your part. Its literally like if we were married already I just want my special day" & tell him how much it means too you!♡ good luck after 6 years I got proposed to!♡

    • @Evettexo
      @Evettexo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love this 😍😍

  • @TheKennyjaaay
    @TheKennyjaaay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Yessss never say “I would never” because you don’t know until you are in that situation. And yes second chances are okay to give. But they should work hard to change if they want to and if they tell you they will.

    • @gabbyluvsmakeup5061
      @gabbyluvsmakeup5061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Evian Miran Hey babe I recently started my yt channel and would appreciate if you checked it out💖

    • @OnUs6611
      @OnUs6611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Evian Miran My aunt would use a similar term and I’ve actually seen it happen those that say “I would never” end up doing it 😬

    • @TheKennyjaaay
      @TheKennyjaaay 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Halverson Mike who?

    • @TheKennyjaaay
      @TheKennyjaaay 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Halverson Mike why

    • @Kyshalise
      @Kyshalise 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true

  • @monicarios3683
    @monicarios3683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Love how honest and detailed you were about each topic. I felt like I was getting advice from an older sister. You’re so inspiring. 💕

  • @xoxomeliii
    @xoxomeliii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    “Just look at him & he’ll want some” 😂💀

  • @alexas9474
    @alexas9474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Yesssssss the first year of marriage is the hardest you have a lot of bumps in the road but si tienes el amor you make it happen. 💕

  • @evelynromo5966
    @evelynromo5966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how you are like a motherly figure dando consejos and being so honest! Love these sit down videos I could hear you talk for hours. Makeup looking bomb!💕💕

  • @Victorjr925
    @Victorjr925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I been through the cheating & verbal abuse it was the worst thing to go through. I felt like I had to be with my baby daddy because of our kids but no. It was the best decision for myself leaving that toxic relationship. I love that very last answer you gave in this video! 💕

  • @xoxamxo
    @xoxamxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I was also in a situation where I had a problem with one of my sister in laws. When this had happened I was pregnant with my son at the time. When I had confronted her if she had a problem with me she had told me what was wrong. Fast forward... so we talked about it cleared up the air and started our relationship with a clean slate between each other.
    There were several times I had reached out to her text messaged where I had asked, “hey do you wanna go out to lunch” “do you wanna hang out?” You know to do girl things. Then, she responds a week or 2 later, AFTER I had messaged her from weeks ago.
    Then, 3 weeks prior to my due date I had reached out to her again because her birthday was in 2 weeks (so I had some down time to pamper myself) I had asked her, “do you have any plans for birthday?” “Do you wanna go out to get our nails done together?” AGAIN there was no answer until a week later she responded back with “I have plans already with friends” which I felt like she didn’t have plans prior to me asking until she did make plans of her own then she had responded back with “I had made plans with friends” I felt as if I’ve wasted my time and energy in clearing up the air and I feel like the relationship between me and her will never be mended. I’ve put too much effort in trying to change what I thought we cleared up already. To be honest, if we ain’t vibin’ together for whatever reason she has against me, I don’t want myself around her or vice versa. At the end of the day, I’m with her brother and not her that’s how I see it. I did my part on being the “bigger person” as a sister in law reaching out to her about it confronting her about it but it didn’t change anything. Sorry for venting 😬🥴 loved this video!!

    • @ciao_bella_bambina
      @ciao_bella_bambina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dinah Passi I think you did the right thing, but hey as long as you’re cordial! But sometimes if you guys aren’t vibing don’t try to force it , I don’t like my brothers girlfriend I say hi and bye and keep it cordial but if she wanted to hang out I would most likely decline because I wouldn’t want to be buddy buddy with her. Don’t take it personal, not all people vibe with one another but that’s really sweet that YOU made the effort, you did your part.

    • @doloresrodriguez5301
      @doloresrodriguez5301 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sofia Silva don’t force it! Just be cordial

  • @Jordyntayy
    @Jordyntayy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg yes girl!! every hard thing is a lesson and builds us! I went through a 7 year relationship breakup and OMG was I sad, depressed and thought it was the end of the world and NO it is not. You have to decide you want to come out stronger and a better person because of it! focus on you and major growth will come from it! xoxo

    • @cynthia0007
      @cynthia0007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m in a 4 year relationship with my boyfriend and I think I would feel like that if we were to break up one day

    • @Jordyntayy
      @Jordyntayy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Josie it’s normal. So if you do go through it know it’s okay but it’ll be okay one day 😘♥️

  • @leslier3505
    @leslier3505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Blanca, is it still possible to learn to be alone and love yourself while still being in a serious relationship?? Love you!

  • @vida_la_jes_way
    @vida_la_jes_way 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this girl talk so much wisdom ! ....I want to make women feel the way you make me feel like your so relatable and real ! God bless you 💛

  • @jennxcace
    @jennxcace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Blanca Im loving this whole new content, there’s so many of us that need to comprare, realize and learn for many scenarios we go thru!

  • @jackiesaldana1543
    @jackiesaldana1543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is some of the realest things I’ve heard. I just got out of a 5 year relationship, it’s been some of the hardest moments BUT after watching this, I feel so much better. I now realize what I’m worth and need to take care of my mental health! Thank you so much 🙌🏼💕

  • @crystaldominguez2210
    @crystaldominguez2210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    To the gurl who asked if it's stupid to get back with someone who cheated let me tell you I just got out of a 3 year marriage the first year of my marriage all he did was cheat on me with his baby momma and then I got pergnant and he cheated more and then I left him we had our daughter and we got back together endless going back fourth back and fourth and then I got pergnant again with our son there 13 months apart and his baby momma was no longer the issue he left me and moved to another city and he began to have a whole ass life with 2 other women longer story short he asked for me to take him back so we can be a family and in the end I stoped loving him and I did some stupid stuff and he was able to play the victim so don't put up with it you will build resentment from it !!

    • @HarborareaWilmas
      @HarborareaWilmas 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Crystal Duran why stay after he cheats dumb ass!!

    • @stephaniedenise4344
      @stephaniedenise4344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yo Momma : why do you wipe your ass after you shit? no one forced you to do it. You choose to do it.
      Same things for relationships, no one forces you to stay . You choose to stay & as long as you know the reason and stand by it and learn after the situation then who cares what people think.

    • @ayodaztv
      @ayodaztv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yo Momma ...woah

  • @escobarvictoria1
    @escobarvictoria1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes , that is my number one advice for all my friend. Let you significant other be part of your happiness , but not be your happiness . He is what makes you happy not your happiness !! Yasss girl !!

  • @rebecabarahona3058
    @rebecabarahona3058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    every time Evette would say “you know what i mean?” i’m sitting here nodding like we’re having a face to face talk 😂😂

  • @PrincessJonalyn
    @PrincessJonalyn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the way you answer all your questions, so genuine and true to your character! I literally feel like I'm in a therapy session when I listen to your videos. I love how you are giving positive feedback and teaching everyone how to be a decent human being. Hope your family is doing well XOXO

  • @astrydcolindres2246
    @astrydcolindres2246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    We need a Blanca in our life 🥺🥺🥺 part 2!! I felt this video 🥺

  • @_yeimishaa
    @_yeimishaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly staying single for a while after leaving a toxic relationship does REALLLY help you love yourself again . You need to give yourself the time to heal and also find yourself again 💕 I was in a toxic relationship for 4 yrs & ive been single for almost 2yrs now & im soo glad I took the time for myself . I found myself again , love myself & know my worth 👌🏼 I love these videos that you make , you really do help alot of people 💖 love you girl ! 😘😘

  • @rosariomendoza1298
    @rosariomendoza1298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I really think woman need to hear things like this so they can either motivate there self to make some changes or motivate there self in the sense that they are making the right decision as well reassuring there self there going down the right path when there doubting there self and have nobody to talk to about it

  • @xitlalygalvan4051
    @xitlalygalvan4051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this !! Especially when you said He doesn’t make me happy. Like he doesn’t need to make you happy. You need to be Happy for yourself !! I preach on that 100% !! I mean I do have my Days where I feel like that but it’s like ‘Hello Snap out of it, you might be having a bad day but don’t ruin it for others’

  • @danielleirma3701
    @danielleirma3701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The quality of this video is 🔥🔥

    • @Evettexo
      @Evettexo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Danielle Irma thank you I finally got my camera lighting right.. so proud of me lol

    • @danielleirma3701
      @danielleirma3701 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Evettexo lol yasss sis. #proud

    • @angelicasmakeupvlogs2570
      @angelicasmakeupvlogs2570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Danielle Irma ugh yes ! I need this type of camera in my life 😭😭😭😭

    • @danielleirma3701
      @danielleirma3701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Angelica’s Makeup Vlogs facts!

  • @andreatafolla6589
    @andreatafolla6589 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the real definition of a beauty influencer. And I am talking about the meaningful beauty within. Thank you for always being real and sharing your knowledge with us. Your video has redirected a lot of people to better directions. Your are beautiful inside and out. Never let anyone tell you otherwise. Love you Blanca 💕!!

  • @katalmaraz
    @katalmaraz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is the video that every girl should watch !

  • @Jessicafparent
    @Jessicafparent 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The part about having to pick and choose people because of your relationship is so true.. I've lost a lot of friends because I put my last relationship first over everything. Now here I am single with my only one friend who's always been there and I'm so grateful for her. Always take care and be a good friend to those who do the same for you, and if your significant other has a problem with you having friends or doesn't like them that's another issue

  • @Valporcayo
    @Valporcayo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    i’m over here watching a relationship advice video single af 😹

  • @edithcruz2315
    @edithcruz2315 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I swear I related with you so much! Grateful you made this video! You helped me boost my confidence. It has been 5 months I’ve been working on myself, being single and I tend to feel like shit sometimes, like I couldn’t make my partner change, or my son and I weren’t worth him fighting for our family. This really helped me push myself to make myself happy. Love you babe and continue to make videos like this!

  • @Theemichperezz
    @Theemichperezz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wowwwww when you mentioned that you chose your ex over your friends I could totally relate. It’s so sad but I get it. I thought I was stupid for that but now I realize it’s normal & most people go through it. 💖💖

  • @mrsrara24
    @mrsrara24 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok I had to hit pause midway thru the video to let you know that I loveee how you spoke about working hard to make a marriage work, self love first, be happy with yourself first before you can make someone else happy and I love your confidence about getting ready feeling good and cute for yourself and not anyone else. You couldn't of said it any better❤❤❤❤❤👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @alexissantos6555
    @alexissantos6555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Can there be a part 2 😅 I have a huge question.

    • @gabbyluvsmakeup5061
      @gabbyluvsmakeup5061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Alexis Santos Hey babe I recently started my yt channel and would appreciate if you checked it out💖

    • @davidanddaniellerosales9974
      @davidanddaniellerosales9974 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tell me tell me. Lol jk

    • @GabyTitoVlogs
      @GabyTitoVlogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alexis Santos I want Blanca to address How she feels now that girls on social media and TickTock are trying to look just exactly like her

    • @davidanddaniellerosales9974
      @davidanddaniellerosales9974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GabyTitoVlogs that's a good one!

  • @candygirl9962
    @candygirl9962 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed this video 😍😍
    It’s true to never say You Will Never because every situation is different but also have respect yourself.

  • @alexislozano6452
    @alexislozano6452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Damn blanca why are you not a therapist? Lol make a video on relationships but with the guys side and girls side ... and u give them tips

    • @Evettexo
      @Evettexo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Alexis Lozano when I was in college I actually took a bunch of child development and marriage counseling classes lol I was working towards being a social worker 🤍

    • @tanyahernandez1647
      @tanyahernandez1647 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Evettexo I thought you didn’t go to college and didn’t care too? You should do a video on being a college student and mexicana.

  • @julissaorozco7324
    @julissaorozco7324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That last advice got to me!! I have that "I would never" mindset. I love this video!! Definitely make more like these❤
    Relationship advice, marriage advice, financial advice!!

  • @lysg6365
    @lysg6365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was in a toxic relationship for 3 year took a year to heal tried to date again and met yet another toxic guy and I told myself never again will I tolerate bullshit. Shortly after I met a man who compliments the person I am. Don’t give up queens but don’t settle for less!!

  • @kimberlyperalta5665
    @kimberlyperalta5665 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is why I love you !!!! You literally give the best advice, and you’re so genuine 🥺 You’re always trying to see the best in people! Many reasons why I look up to you ❤️

  • @mayrab7636
    @mayrab7636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I understand what she said about family coming together and how it is so important. I used to think the same way but then realized some family members were acting like your enemy. What if you both come from broken families? Or things were fine when u we’re dating and then as soon as you got married, they are all up in your business. We can’t choose our family and not all of us are as fortunate to have loving and supportive family members.

    • @GabyTitoVlogs
      @GabyTitoVlogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mayra Barajas I want Blanca to address How she feels now that girls on social media and TickTock are trying to look just exactly like her

  • @kellyy.x0587
    @kellyy.x0587 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    im currently not in a relationship but this video definitely helped me understand relationships and everything within being in a relationship or out of one in such a different way and when you said that everyone is different and they’re perspective matters, i hadn’t thought of how much i’d have to learn to understand my s/o side of the story and what he may think about certain things and how that may be different to how i think and how i need to take that into consideration. overall this video was very helpful, so thank you! love youu❤️

  • @jaslynncarrera7806
    @jaslynncarrera7806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    “ not a lot of guys just like 10 “ I’m dead she’s so funny 😂

    • @gabbyluvsmakeup5061
      @gabbyluvsmakeup5061 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jaslynn Carrera Hey babe I recently started my yt channel and would appreciate if you checked it out💖

    • @jaslynncarrera7806
      @jaslynncarrera7806 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gabbyluvsmakeup of course

  • @Ali-fv9lq
    @Ali-fv9lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love how you are so direct and not sugar coating but being honest!

  • @jeniferramirez2315
    @jeniferramirez2315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    The beat relationship advice is to mangonear al novio 🤣

    • @CardenasHaydee
      @CardenasHaydee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jennifer Ramirez de por si no me quieren en su casa LMAO 😂

  • @ivettelopez1816
    @ivettelopez1816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More videos like these please! Love how real and honest you are, best advice video I’ve seen ☺️❤️❤️

  • @anasvt365
    @anasvt365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I feel like you have to go thru a real bad break up to learn ! And to love yourself more than anything . grow as a person and have better communication with your next partner !

    • @gabydoss2027
      @gabydoss2027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ana Svt Yesss! Happened to me and I learned from my mistakes for sure. I knew what I didn’t want in my next partner. Now happily married and our 5 year anniversary is approaching and first baby due in August❤️ It’s possible to find happiness after a bad break up👍🏻

    • @anasvt365
      @anasvt365 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gaby I’m glad you did ! I’m still trying to work on myself and hope I find him in the way 😊

    • @gabydoss2027
      @gabydoss2027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ana Svt You got this! Focus on you and do what makes you happy and enjoy life. You are a beautiful girl! The right man will come also don’t be afraid to approach him yourself;) I approached my now husband and made the first move I knew what I wanted!🤷🏼‍♀️ Good luck👏🏻

    • @luisjuachee
      @luisjuachee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      currently going through a break up & it’s definately been so hard was looking through the comments & I need to hear this comment! 🥺💓

    • @anasvt365
      @anasvt365 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      lj girl me too and it’s been more than a year !

  • @Jujuxander
    @Jujuxander 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im seriously living for these videos youve been doing. You have so much wisdom and just real ass life advice. I feel like im seeing a whole nother side of you and I LOVE IT!

  • @yahairamchavez4369
    @yahairamchavez4369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The Leo in me is literally making me relate to all this ! 😂❤️

  • @JM_BEAUTY
    @JM_BEAUTY 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl yes I love how honest you are. I’ve been with my man for 8 years and it’s honestly the best. I agree with you on everything♥️

  • @evelinsilva6347
    @evelinsilva6347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hands down needed this girl talk with you! I’m gonna need a part two or a to be continued because it wasn’t long enough lol. Thank you for this video, seriously!! ❤️

  • @prttygrlboo
    @prttygrlboo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    when you said "people deserve to not be labeled off their mistakes" I felt that 😭
    Wish more people thought that way 😩

  • @nathaliamedina2254
    @nathaliamedina2254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It truly shows how much dedication and effort you put into your videos! 🙌🏻 I look up to you for being such a hardworking woman 😌. Love you Evette 💗

  • @angelaramos2129
    @angelaramos2129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is everything to me !!!!! I love you ❤️ Was in a ugly five year relationship horrible! Left but was super fucked up !!! My man now is the best thing ever even though we have our ups and downs but he is the opposite of that other person and has made my life so much better ! We have one beautiful daughter and a baby boy on the way !!! Still working on myself but he’s always there for me ! 🙏🏻❤️ it’s true be patient !!!!

  • @briannaaguilar1958
    @briannaaguilar1958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You & Ulysses are great together I hope to have something like you and him 💁🏽

  • @Bigmomma21
    @Bigmomma21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😩😩😩 All Your Advice Is so GOOD !!!! I Can Totally Relate to 99% of all these questions and your answers and I mean every single answer is True/spot on ! ❤️🙌🏻 If any of you ladies don’t have any one to give you advise or you don’t like telling people your business Evette Is here with some true Wisdom 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @michelleenciso9720
    @michelleenciso9720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I know it’s a reach but can you ever make a video of your last relationship Bc all your great advice comes from it and I’m just honestly a chismosa and curious to see what you went through 😭😭

    • @bpadilla7893
      @bpadilla7893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Michelle Enciso Watch her “my ex bf cheated on me” storytimes lmao another chismosa here🙋‍♀️ lmao

  • @davidanddaniellerosales9974
    @davidanddaniellerosales9974 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how you are married and out here giving these girls advice. How you behave in a marriage a is so different the how you are while dating or in relationships, and sometimes we build aweful habits. I feel like when we are saying we kinda want to find out how far the other person will go for us. But in marriage it's so much about sacrifice for the other person and doing what it takes for your family as a whole. Obviously there is soooo much more than that. But I think it's good that you have a healthy marriage and put the right stuff out there

  • @michellecardoza5722
    @michellecardoza5722 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was fire I felt like I was listening to my homegirl speak love these kind of videos!

  • @fabyymartinez7875
    @fabyymartinez7875 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sooooo much for this video!!! Alot of thr things you said made me realize i should feel good about myself & TRUSTING my new relationship! Ive gone thru alot & never really had no one make me feel better about it. Love you so much 💖

  • @natalicortez7272
    @natalicortez7272 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Even tho I never been in a relationship, this advice help me realize I need to change some habits I have:) thank you for this ❤️ put me in a different mind set ✨

    • @gabbyluvsmakeup5061
      @gabbyluvsmakeup5061 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Natali Cortez Hey babe I recently started my yt channel and would appreciate if you checked it out💖

  • @aunestyocanas2007
    @aunestyocanas2007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love girl talks , it brings us together as girls, friends, relatable situations and all in a positive way . 💗💗💗

  • @samantha7919
    @samantha7919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “BANG BANG CHOO CHOO TRAIN!” LOL I LOVE HER! 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @Coralzee-jm5qk
    @Coralzee-jm5qk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loooooooooovveeeee these types of videos Blancaaa!!!!!!! Listening to you has been realllly helping me out of feeling down and depressed. You really are amazing.

  • @veronica17n
    @veronica17n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I’m trying to treat Oscar the way he deserves to be treated 😤

  • @garciawendy1
    @garciawendy1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ugh this was such a good video & much needed refresher for some us. You always have the right words to say when we feel like we can’t run to those close around us for advice. I cried towards the end bc you’re right, we need to love ourselves first but also need to be the only person he is loving. thank you for sharing!! ❤️

  • @trufamily1644
    @trufamily1644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    For the first question. About a guy liking the girls picture. I don’t think a married man or a man that is in a relationship should be liking a girls Selfie Periot there is just no reason to unless you knows it’s a relative.

    • @deliaramos6001
      @deliaramos6001 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      AGREE!

    • @esmeraldaresendiz4634
      @esmeraldaresendiz4634 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I truly agree, like it was said there’s no real respect...

    • @max-ln7cb
      @max-ln7cb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree! It’s not hard to scroll pass the picture!!!

    • @cynthia0007
      @cynthia0007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree

  • @mercedesjimenez9560
    @mercedesjimenez9560 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey blanca thank you so much for making this video it made me cry cuz you made me realize sooooo much ❤️i appreciate it, i love you and your family ❤️

  • @rosfavela
    @rosfavela 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Anyone else commenting before finishing the video? 😅 love your videos Evette!! 💕💕

  • @alely3716
    @alely3716 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want a relationship like yours . Its so prefect 😭 Ulysses respects you so much and is a helpful husband and dad .

  • @brendagodfrey3460
    @brendagodfrey3460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This video is bomb. I’m married and still feel like I took a lot away from this❤️ you have great advice I feel like you’re our bigger sis right now😂

  • @lizbethangon4410
    @lizbethangon4410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Evette you are truly the BEST on giving advice! 🙏🏼🥺❤️ You HONESTLY made me realize on sooo many things and opened my eyes! 👀

  • @alexas9474
    @alexas9474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sorry for commenting so much lol but I can relate in a lot of these! Toxic relationships are the worse but we get through it and find the right person for you

  • @krystalarjc915
    @krystalarjc915 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl, you gave us the real tea! ☕️ 👏🏼
    You should make more videos like these!

  • @mauhmama
    @mauhmama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “drops mic................make sure nipple doesn’t show”🤣🤣🥰 love your realness and humor gurl💗💗

  • @lisettemartinez8923
    @lisettemartinez8923 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes marriage the first year is the hardest. And communication is always key 🔑 to solving problems.

  • @ednacrespo
    @ednacrespo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    you did not just say “bang bang chu chu train” 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Evettexo
      @Evettexo  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Edna Crespo lmao 😂 I did ahhaha

    • @ednacrespo
      @ednacrespo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      omggg I love you! such an inspiring person, never stop being you ❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺

    • @nadiaalejandrapalacios2105
      @nadiaalejandrapalacios2105 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I couldn't stop laughing at that 🤣

    • @ayelondra
      @ayelondra 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂 I loved it lol , it's now added to my vocabulary

  • @wendyrangel9510
    @wendyrangel9510 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES, I have been waiting for this video. I feel like you and your man have been thru enough to know or give advice on many things. I like you both of you carry yourselves in the relationship!

  • @lindsayaguazul278
    @lindsayaguazul278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Why do i never catch these questions on insta ? 🤔

  • @samanthalucas1706
    @samanthalucas1706 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    We really like these sit down videos ! I love how you are so real & honest 💗

  • @Purpleflyinggcowww
    @Purpleflyinggcowww 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I remember in high school, I cheated on my boyfriend at the time. I broke up with him because I couldn't keep the relationship going after what I had done. He took me back & I cheated on him again. That's when I realized I had to change for myself

    • @giselleanahy8038
      @giselleanahy8038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He just wasn't the one. I believe people do make mistakes. But once they make it again, you probably just didn't have that spark with him. I'm glad you recognized it and saw the error you were making. Love yourself!

    • @Purpleflyinggcowww
      @Purpleflyinggcowww 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@giselleanahy8038 Thanks girl! It takes a lot of effort cuz til this day I think about cheating, but ik it's not right

  • @karenvsta4606
    @karenvsta4606 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ok but i was laughing at your responses about chods but now i’m crying bc you’re such a beautiful human being

  • @jazziejazz18
    @jazziejazz18 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    And here I am. Almost 3 babies later together and I’m
    The one who doesn’t want to get married lol. And he does 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @gabbyluvsmakeup5061
      @gabbyluvsmakeup5061 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      jazmin olide Hey babe I recently started my yt channel and would appreciate if you checked it out💖

    • @jaysickacee
      @jaysickacee 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same ! before my first I wanted to get married after having my first he wanted to get married but I didn’t. second baby and we’re both wanting to just not now but planning to get married in the future

    • @jazziejazz18
      @jazziejazz18 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessica Guzman he proposed when our first son was born and we were supposed to get married 9/17 but I was about to be due with our second boy and we decided not to do it. Our relationship was extremely rocky after our second boy and I said no. Now he wants us to get married after I give birth to our third son but I don’t know if that’s something I want. I would love a huge wedding but then I don’t. I hate being indecisive.

  • @kryptog1376
    @kryptog1376 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your perspective Evett. It really had my mind going on how I act / react towards situations