Jordan Peterson On Choosing Career Path
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The hardest thing is choosing that ONE thing
@desireeccbut your just thinking of what to do not doing anything aren’t you? That the trap of your mind to feel better about yourself with no real progress I am trying to stop that
@desireecc I dont know about north america, but here in Brazil you def cant afford to "focus" on many things, because even if you focus in one thing it is extremely hard to be successful.
@desireeccI agree whole heartedly. You can have one focus but what is mostly missing in the education system in the west is a broad understanding of all things which is much more important. 💫❤️🙏
@desireecc I think that I should choose one thing at a time, to me, If I want to be successful in something I need to give it my all, if I choose many things then I can’t really give my all to them simultaneously.
The second hardest thing is the music in the background 😂
The hardest part is to choose something. So many interesting jobs and disciplines. I'll never know if I should have done another thing
It doesn’t matter what you choose, what matters is that you love your life and achieve other goals. Yes choose that 1 thing, but also do other things, hobbies, you can also change careers, life is full of wonders! Don’t look at the end because we all know what that is, instead focus in living. Be smart and choose a path you find interest in, if you grow tired of it then follow another path, for there are many paths, but choose one, one at a time, until things feel well, and if they don’t feel well then keep moving forward, keep moving that’s what life is about, life is about change, good or bad but that’s life. Do as you desire son, be smart, study or not, work hard or not, but live the life you want. Personally I recommend for you to study something and if you don’t like it choose something else, and so on and on and on and on, study and be smart and learn or get a trade or make a business, to be lost is a beauty, but we all face reality. Be happy always
Hey Mitt, that would be tough to not know if you should’ve done another thing. What do you currently do and does that fulfill you?
@@Cjr_coaching i'm a computer science major now and it does not really fulfill me. I'll probably switch to something with more science like chemistry or biology
At least your interested in things it’s better then not having a start
@@seanundercover8229 I agree, not being interested in the world is hard for choosing a career
He's absolutely correct !
I chose a path in life , when it collapsed my entire personality and identity got disrupted. Essentially became nothing . The path to review and find oneself again is definitely a dark one .
If you are going through the same thing please remember ; you must stay true to yourself , be confident in your abilities, likes , dislikes , dreams , aspirations and never let something take that away from you . Sometimes God gives us obstacles and our dreams don't come true , but don't let the dark that you've gone through completely collapse you . Learn from that . Grow from that original identity.
Hey Lara, I’m sorry to hear that, are you still struggling with the personality and identity disruption?
defiantly still struggling. tbh even more the when i posted the comment. @@Cjr_coaching
One day I’m imagining myself winning an Oscar next, im at a desk in the DEA helping catch bad guys. Geez what do I do.
Men😢
Dude this deserves more likes. I feel that.
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT'S GOING ON IN MY MIND ATM
It's so confusing, I can't even understand myself 😢
😂😂😂
Become Hank Schrader.
I am seeing this video as I am pained looking at my own career trajectory. A series of poor choices has made me choose underskilled and underutilized roles with respect to my potential. It kills me to see people with far less education than myself sitting at higher positions. Now trying hard to switch careers. Hope it works out
Bro which career did you choose before?
Hey man, I bet that would be tough to feel that way. How is your journey going? Could I lend a hand to help? I help people with career transitions.
The question is what the f should i do? I ask myself this questions for years and I can never answer it, after reading a lot about it, doing therapy for this purpose, I feel like absolutely no one can tell us what to do, the problem is neither do I.
Hey man I would love to lend a helping hand. Therapy can be great but it usually focuses on the past. As a life and career coach I would love to give you an hour of my time to see how we can approach this.
It hurts to hear truth at an older age when you can identify all the things you've done wrong!💯. Tons of regrets!
I'm an old child. I don't have one thing or good at one thing. I've just switched and done random stuff. I've also made my net worth from 0 to 4.5m in 20 years. I'm an old child. Not sure if I'm an ugly sight to see or aging chaotically. This guy is a complete jackass who generalized things and never gets into details and just wants soundbites to get hits.
You must not live in regret. I believe if you could go back and change one thing it would change your whole life. Maybe for the better or worse. Personally I believe in you and love you if nobody else does. We might not know each other but we are all one family under the sky.
@@omairkhan8189 huh? What is the point you are trying to make? Do you believe a god exists ? If so what proof do you have for his existence?
@@irshviralvideo it doesn’t matter, though I never claimed to quote anything related to believing in god that should be a personal choice. All I said we are 1 family under the sky. True or false? If it’s false show me someone that’s alive but living above the skies 👉
@@omairkhan8189 so do you believe in a god that exists somewhere ?
Thank you! I'm 30 have made no career choice. I needed to hear this because im a floater!!
Same here man I'm so lost rn
I once felt this, too. I was so lost. Failed two different diplomas and two religious paths. Now, I'm a 29 First Class Bachelor's Graduate. Received scholarship, getting student loans wavered, and I have a far future career path with Masters, PhD, and contingency planning in mind. The experience & knowledge from past failures still continue to contribute to my job, business, and study every day.
Im working a job that stresses the hell out of me
@@HakimJamil94 nice! what do you study?
@@lhm1586 My Foundations was in English (received in-house university Scholarship) and Bachelor's is Business Management (Industrial). Thankfully, I've now got a great rewarding career as a Certification Consultant Officer for MeSTI, GMP, GHP, Halal, HACCP, ISO, FSSC, etc. in the capital city of my country. My company sponsored my Poco F5 smartphone, business trips/holidays, and gave me good wedding gifts. Best thing is I don't have to pay my student loan (for the Bachelor's) because my First Class result converted it to scholarship.
True, I'm 33 & drive box trucks with a 27 yr old kid "manager". Once he threatened my position it was an eye opener so I applied for school to become a paralegal. About to take a huge risk & get a position as an account manager which as an entry level no experience, it's a huge pay cut for now but I deeply fear looking up in 10 yrs working behind some cash register with 16yr old Co workers
I wish I would have heard him speak this at the age of 13.
Camden, NJ.
I am 13 i dont know what i want to be i dont have hobbies or something that makes me happy im lost idk what to do can you help me in anyway
@@Ocean_CrystalPlayz perhaps try a martial art or exercise
@@sendhelplea i hope you get success in your animated art 👌🏻 i want economics bc im good with math and computer but apart from that im lost thanks for your help
@@sendhelplea I Know but we gota make that money 🤑🤣
@@Ocean_CrystalPlayz you might want to get into IT, apparently that's the future plus you're good with numbers so there's plenty of options for you
Some of us are just dumb. We're all on a spectrum
pretty irrelevant but ok
@@woodley9428Irrelevant to you cos you don't have a deeper understanding.
Albert Einstein, Elon Musk, Temple Grandin, Bill Gates, me, are on the spectrum. We are not all on the spectrum, autism has many factors like social difficulties especially with neurotypical because of communication differences, for that look at the double empathy problem. Another one is sensitivity with sound, as we often take in more detail in our visual field and in sound because we have less synaptic pruning, and we often obsess over singular topics due to more localized communities within neuronal structures. We stim more often than neurotypicals, though There is way more too it so I will stop here.
I chose my one thing. It didn't work out. Now I'm adrift, don't choose one career, hone the skills that allow you to go from one career to another.
Im 36 and have no idea what to do with my life. Its rough. Im currently working labor and I cant stand it
True...it's not pretty to be me ! 46 and an old child.
What you do for living
Make the necessary change(s) to have the life you want or something close to it.
Read a book " awaken the giant within "" by Robinson
Born for One Thing - Gojira feat. Jordan Peterson
It always comes down to a choice in the end
Best to pick one and stick with it.
The truth is acceptance and repentance from sin to obtain salvation from The Lord Our God is Our mission and our duty here on Earth. A career is just a job. You do that you are skilled in or can at least stay stable in for income and necessities. And if it makes you happy, that's nice, but it's not required.
I am actually really good at something I love and I still can't choose it. The thing is I get bored when something is easy but I am afraid of failure if it's not easy the first try.
This strikes close to home, I'm 54 and still trying to make that choice. At least, I made the choice, but just can't seem to achieve it.
And what have u chosen?
@@Ruyo8I went back to school to become a psychologist, therapist and researcher. The trouble is I need an MA, and just can't seem to get a place at a university to work on it.
Keep going, day by day, you’ll get there.
@@loveangelmozart It's daunting. I graduated with my undergrad BA 8 years ago, and I've applied every year since at a variety of universities with no success. The ONE place that I might have been able to go was going to cost me more than $90k per year... which is roughly 10 times my total life savings. It's just discouraging.
But, I keep trying.
@@STNeishHey man, is doing undergraduate BA is not worth it?
I'm the example of waited too long .and now im struggling
That’s okay. There’s still time. I would love to lend a hand and help with an hour of my time (I’m and life and career coach)
Wow.. Its 100% changes my minds..
At 40 ouch..I’m there
It’s not to late. I can lend a helping hand as I am a life and career coach and help people work through this stuff. I would love to give you a free hour of my time
i feel like i haven’t had enough exposure to different things like acting, law(never studied it or taken public speaking classes nor do i think i possess the natural talent for public speaking), psychology etc. so many things so how can i decide what i want and what would be suitable for me.
true how old are you am 21 in civil engeering 2nd year
@@Ahmad-os3si 18, completed olevels with sciences, waiting for results
@@alyssa63902how are things going now? Your comment eerily mirrors my life - many interests. You’ve got to take the sacrifice and try them and make an effort. You’ll see what you enjoy and where you can apply yourself. Take care
I've chosen to age into being a grandpa
this is my goal
“One thing” is not the BEST approach, we can become much more than one thing. The logic still applies to motivating yourself, but if you’re one thing, you’re going to lose to a Jack of all trades.
So why did Floyd mayweather not lose to a “jack of all trades?” He focused on becoming one thing, a boxing champion. And he did it. Your comment is silly
@@Austin-vo2gh and he was the puppet for the puppet master who has more money, more versatility, more time, and pays him to be that “one thing”
@@HoleGrayNotes I’m a boss not an employee. You sound like you’re 14 lol
@@HoleGrayNotes deleted comments now hey, loser lol
@@Austin-vo2gh if you want to be a good employee/client go master one thing. You won’t ever make it to the top though, that is a known fact. Why is Elon winning? :)
Not sure I agree with this or I don’t get what he’s trying to say
I heard another conference that gives some context:
children are all potential. But at some point the potential needs to materialize into something.
Most people cannot pursue several paths at the same time, so we have to chose.
If we don’t we remain a child “full of potential” and grow old with unused potential.
Edit: and being old with unused potential means bitterness resentment and that’s the ugly part of it
Hmm.. This is true. And depressing.
I'm trying to figure this out myself. I worked in public education for 20 years but the school system has changed so much that people who think like me are no longer welcome. Trying to figure out the next course in my life.
What was the advice
Nani
Utter nonsense
We push...doing my third Honours...
After becoming one thing in youth, when you retire you can choose to become something else.
I have different jobs I do but all in the same industry. I enjoy all of them but, Front of House engineer is what I do the most and is my favorite.
Be Catholic, for God loved us first ❤
At the end of the day, our relationship with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ is all that matters
Man this hit home. 40 with 3 kids and no career. Not fun
28. Going to start a new career that I became to absolutely hate. At least you have kids. Kids are amazing. I get so depressed about my career I don’t know if I will get married have kids.
@@roshinvarghese6879 well all I can say to that is if you find the right woman, have babies. It’s the best thing that ever happened to me. This post is pretty old, I got my cdl this year and been driving local. Definitely not where I thought I would be at 41 but knowing I get to go home and see my kids every night is the best thing I’ve ever felt in my life. Don’t deprive yourself of that, brother. Also, having babies is important for the progression of humanity. Best to you, bro 🤜🤛
@@Daveyboy28 amen to that brother. Yes no matter what I should have babies.
Lifters compete with lifters, etc
Let's play
So panicky. But true.
not pretty at all..sad sad sad
That is why many people want to be TH-camrs and being in the creator economy, we can be generalists and learn about many topics that solve an issue for the people whom you are serving. This is the synthesizing business model.
Still don’t know what I want to do with my life my current field of work is outside in the environment but don’t know if I want to continue this path realistically but I know I got some sort of adhd and don’t know if being indoors is my thing lol just figuring it out
Keep it simple. Pick a job you can see yourself doing from looking at job activities, learn the skills needed for the job, and if you can learn this without needing to go to university then do this as you can learn everything online. But some require uni like med school.
Pick something high in demand in your area of residence, learn the skills, choose 2 jobs related to skills be great at these specific jobs. Rather then 10 jobs you can be ok and make it harder for you to get a job.
Damn old jp fan here but a lot of judgment coming from a therapist. I’d recommend Dr. K instead y’all
Perfectly said👏
I finished with my BS degree in College and decided things had fallen apart and I needed work to gain focus and direction Basically I was accused of being dishonest and lying though I had not cheated in any way and I had always done my work in School. Then I was told that "they" had lied to me. Regardless of who had lied and what had been lied about nobody wanted me and apparently they did not want to waste time on me. I did my best in choosing a University Major and in working hard and trying to do it all over again makes no sense whatsoever. I was hoping to grow in my Profession and continue to develop as that is what makes sense. And pointing fingers is no good because it is my life and I am responsible for it even if people in positions of responsibility are dishonest and lie to me.
Thank you for this
Late 30's and seeking to realign my career away from logistics. 3 different companies varying in size and scope. Brought in additional revenue for my company before layoff at the tune of 3 million annually. Still laid off.... I couldn't live with continuing this cycle of irrelevance, low value and lack of opportunity. The sentiments JP mentions rings true. You feel undisciplined and chaotic. However natural this experience has been insanely stressful and depressing. You lose status, value and are a liability to potential or existing partners.
What about Multi-Passionate people? Careers are no longer linear.
It's hard to give all these exiting things for one boring job that you have to dedicate 90% of you time to.
It you stick to the wrong thing, then you miss the chance to let yourself going on your own way. At the end of the day, if we find ourselves, where we would go, that's not too late.
Animals can't talk
Truth hurts! Yet we must sacrifice and be passionate to achieve something for ourselves. Strive harder, become better.
Eye opening T_T
Does anyone know where the full lecture is? I can’t seem to find it anywhere
Thang
Just experienced that in ur career ❤❤
Thank goodness those "adult" children don't blame everyone else for their inadequacies and they don't mooch off society .
Yes I'm being sarcastic
But, but, my minimum wage 35 hour a week on average job isn't a livable wage.. I want free money!
maybe they didnt have rich mommies and daddies that paid for all their stuff?
Titles
But why does it become a problem if you become an old child and without a focus in your 40s? He doesn’t support this claim, and we just assumed it to be true
u should see one
@@HS-ri6sr there’s millions of them everywhere. What does that prove? Who cares what you do with your life
I don't know what I want to become
I'm 24 and have no idea what I want...
That’s okay you’re still early in the game. I’m a life and career coach and I help people get direction. Let me give you a free hour of my time to see how I can help
Join the military
But why it's hard to choose one. i myself stuck in the middle of deciding what career I should choose.
l m interested in fitness, ethical hacking and acting , cooking (chef) and last but not least computer hardware.
I have done BSc CS in 2015 but still I can't decide what career should I take seriously.
That would be tough. I would love to lend a hand to help you decide and I’ll give you a free hour of my time.
@@Cjr_coaching Thank you so much
@@krishanpalkaidwal absolutely, where’s a good place I can reach you? Do you have an email or instagram I can reach you on?
Share this with everyone working a minimum job bitching about it not being a livable wage while refusing to enter management.
they dont have rich mommies and daddies mostly like u