2. Wow Jess never cease to amaze me! I believe I'm person 1,although I hate to admit this. I'll definitely have to relisten. Was confused about the reconnection and twin flame piece. Is this a divine connection that's meant to be healthy upon doing shadow work? Or is this just about self recognition of sabotage?
Such a good question! It’s both! But “meant to be” is tricky. For me, a divine connection isn’t something that guarantees a particular outcome. I think life is about truly seeing and accepting what is. And that’s why this situation is divinely guided. It has been designed to help you see the truth of yourself in terms of what you are compensating for within yourself. Person 1 is compensating for courage and putting themselves and their skill set out there. Person 2 is compensating for putting in the time and effort to build genuine competence in a skill set. Person 3 is compensating for not having healthy relationship skills by securing relationships because of their position in life. Once you realize that what draws you to the other(s) is an unconscious pattern where you externalize your responsibility to take ownership for and strengthen your own area of weakness, then your focus naturally shifts to the self. And you realize that compensating for something within can actually distort how we see others…often through defense mechanisms like projection, externalization, and rationalization. It’s hard to see how our own defenses distort how we relate to people, situations, and reality but when we do that is a genuine place of power. From that place. a number of different outcomes is not only possible but also acceptable to you because securing a relationship with the other person is no longer the only option for meeting the needs you are compensating for. So, you may realize that a person who secures relationships through their position may not actually be a person you want a long term relationship with after all, and that you were idealizing them and seeing them through a divine counterpart lens because they could secure you a level of safety and security that it would be hard to secure for yourself. But after you get a degree in accounting or commit yourself to it, then, your vision starts to change…I hope that makes sense.
I am pile 1. I watched this for the first time a long while ago but I occasionally come back to process during shadow work and just healing in general. He did do the ambush thing. I think he is slowly but surely realizing that he projected all of his issues onto me without giving me a fighting chance. It is what it is. I'm somewhat at peace with this chaotic dumpster fire of a situation now. It's been a year since everything went down.
💖Jess, I SO hope you see this. About INFAMOUS pile 2: I know this can be confusing, but it's only confusing if one hasn't spent months already deconstructing these things. I've been processing through your readings for nearly a year now, and you help me peel back the layers one by one. I HAVE spent YEARS studying trauma, psychology, interpersonal relations (I only chose not to apply to university for a psych program because I honestly didn't feel competent enough to do it in my mother tongue, which was my only option at the time), so that may add to why it's crisp and clear to me, but please please please -- keep doing your thing. I've recently started doing things out in the world myself and sometimes the two or three comments I get from people (I saw your mention of people messaging you they want to end themselves) that are very upset about the content really tear me apart because I put my heart and soul into what I do, just like I can always feel you do 1000%. But you have given this exact advice to me in a reading so I will remind it to you, like advice from you to your own self-- you can only offer what you have and let people take it or leave it. Like the open hand allowing the birds to come eat if they choose to. (And by that I also mean, putting WHATEVER trigger warnings and preemptive statements there to ease things for yourself and others is up to you! No hate to people suggesting things, but I feel like a lot of people who don't read tarot publicly keep giving you a lot of advice on how to do it and it's YOUR decision, YOUR thing. To offer what YOU have, just as it is. It's so amazing!) There isn't a single reader doing the exact thing you are doing and you are so invaluable. I really just want to send all my love to you right now because it sounds so tough with all the criticism you take, big or small, and I hope you take gentle breaks and give yourself pats on the head and eat yummy snacks and turn into a little pudding roll once in a while because it's so tough out in this world sometimes and you're a true blessing in our lives. I mean that from the bottom of my heart. Thank you for everything. Ps. I saw pile 3 back when this came out and it too brought me soo much clarity. I am still watching pile 2 right now (taking a break like you suggested! "Pulse check..." cracked me up), but it's already been so so so helpful and it's clear because I've sat with this dynamic for MONTHS now. It just isn't a beginner's level Jess Puckett reading LOL. Love you!!! ❤❤❤
I cannot even begin to tell you how deeply your words have impacted me. I have this saved on my phone and I’m going to reread it as needed. Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for this ❤️
Jessssss!!!! Pile 2. You are amazing! This breakdown was the most in depth , accurate and really caused a deep look at myself and it didn’t feel uncomfortable it felt confirming and unbelievably resonant. You are great. This is about my ex, his new wife and myself. They took my children. Lied and are inconceivably vicious. It’s been mind blowing and life altering. Very transformative. You are amazing !!!
Hey Jess, just finished pile 2, and thanks sooooo so much for the effort you put in! It really does help to clarify these nuisances because it's so easy to not understand the picture with out them and the more I'm starting to understand these smaller side pieces of the puzzle the more I feel like I can trust myself because I actually have been making the right decision from intuition and not all from fear or from insecurity - was the first person here
Thank you for this reading. Pile 3 resonated. I have been their target for over 2 decades now. I was the scapegoat that couldn’t take anymore abuse and spoke up. Since then, they decided to double down by smear campaigning…dragging more individuals (mutual friends and family) to join their cause. I’ve had to mourn the loss of so many of my relationships through the years. This was helpful and confirming for me. I appreciate your keen insight Jess. Thank you so much for sharing. 🙏🏻💕🌞🕊
Pile 1 is insanely accurate. I've had to let go a whole group of posers who probably saw me as the bad guy for prioritising myself. Luckily I'm at a point in life where I'd rather be the bad guy than the mat they step all over ✨ it took me a long 3 years to let go and I was sticking around with the hopes that my situation would make them see what was going on, but people can only see what they want/ are currently able to. Also. My sun falls into this person's 12th house so I most definitely shine a light on a difficult part, and it wasn't easy for me to interact with them either but I learnt so much
Omg pile 1 is the person I commented about on your last patreon. He literally told me he sees me mostly as an object, but was also upset/insulted because I’m not emotionally available.
Wow jess, blown away by your skill once again. I'm pile 2, it's a living situation, 2 tenants and a landlord. this has been unbelievably helpful, and given me so much food for thought. Had not considered the karmic influence on this situation, and it's taken away a lot of the personal triggers I've been feeling, and really helped me come out of that and consider the experience of the other two. Woooooowwwww I listened to it all and I'd listen to it all again, massive thanks 🙏💜
pile 3, target is my boyfriend. Negative intended person with facade is his mother. I called her out on her bs and its been warfare since, both physical and spiritual. I am the "bad guy" in this story because my genuine intentions of wanting to put an end to her lies was the "terrible thing" to do on my part. Very ill spirited women that I am trying very hard to protect both me and my partner from. She has done everything in her power to turn people against me because me and her son refuse to get with 'her program" simply because we have blocked ourselves from her negativity and deceit. Thank you for this reading Jess. You are so very gifted. Thank you for your healing energy and words. Much love
Pile 2. I see you and love you Jess ☺️ thank you for diving in so deep and looking at so many different aspects. This really resonates. It took me a long time to realise how much I was trying to impress others, understand others, work out where I could tick the boxes. So much bullshit and i was calling it love but it was so self sabotaging. I am focused now on just stripping back and being my authentic self. Even if that means ticking no one’s boxes. I have no interest in authority I don’t like it and I don’t want anyone to feel the way I have felt by authority figures. I also..acknowledge that the other person is a beautiful soul and being the reflection, lesson of the person that is designed to make me feel hurt through triggers is huge. So I appreciate them and see the big picture. I have reached out 🙈 I do feel a great need to acknowledge my errors and apologise for pain caused. Even if it’s not understood or even read by the other.
Thank you SO MUCH for putting so much effort into pile 2!! I listened to the whole thing and even made some notes on aspects of the reading that I want to journal about to really sink into that radical ownership. I've been processing a lot of things related to two people in my life, and this pile really helped me gain clarity on what has been going on with them. I'm used to deferring to others or helping others while gaining nothing in return (kinda funny juxtaposition when I think about it -- why am I deferring to others when I know what I'm talking about a lot of the time and know when I need to seek out help? oh wait, that's because I'm scared of my own power lol glad this reading told me that). At this point, I've grown tired of doing that. My only value isn't what I provide others, whether it be a feeling of power by being dominated or by giving advice or knowledge, and that's the way these people have engaged with me. It was genuinely such a relief being told that I shouldn't reach out to these two people because I end up wondering if I'm a bad person for leaving their lives without explanation. Don't they deserve to know that they've messed up? Shouldn't I make them aware of why I'm leaving? These are fair questions, and in most circumstances, I would say yes communicating is best. I do want them to grow and change as people, but I don't want the responsibility of supporting them through that process. I'm already tired enough, and my priority should be stepping into my own power and really getting comfortable in it. Thank you again for the reading. :)
Pile 3 is super clear to me. Thank you. Honestly I think the ppl who are confused may be in denial about being the negative person. The exhaustion, hunger and confusion you were experiencing Jess was the negative person. Always eating, always tired, totally confused about who they are and create a lot of confusion. If you’re hungry, tired or confused you may be the negative person in this reading for those who aren’t clear. We’re human and not perfect. So if you are the negative person this reading is a personal growth/shadow work opportunity.✨🧚🏽
Yeah he's something else alright. He's everything you've said and more. I feel sorry for you having such a struggle with our mess. But I'm so thankful for your tenacity and I appreciate your hard work. Thank you Jess 🙏🏽🙏🏽💜💜Blessed 🐝
Your readings are special, I usually more or less watch them completely 😂 cause they are fun and I know I will find pieces and things that are enlightening throughout 🔥
I have seriously wondered that something about my personality or the way I am (and I think it's this sense of openness that people mistake as a place where they dont have to assume any boundaries) makes people just be the most of everything and I am kinda fed up and introducing walls left right and centre 😂 theres a lot more to this, like heaviness from painful inner and outer experiences but transformation is always welcome 🙏
Pile 3 thank you for the confirmation. I’m not crazy after all 😅. This is about me and my mom smh. Walked away from the family after thanksgiving. Well it’s happening for me not to me right ❤❤. Stay strong pile 3 it’s okay to let go. You can find plenty of life in the desert.
Pile 1: this person and I used to date. We also work together, they are above my pay. They've told me they are deeply insecure and act as such in general. He broke up with me and everyone turned on me. I've deeply changed since this pain and am quitting soon. Now they're all coming back and being weird and upset with my harsh boundries. I love him but he has qualities that really makes me feel pushed away and undervalued. I'm having a hard time letting go because I really want it to work.
No shade I swear, but maybe some of the readings were confusing because the messages weren’t for you. When that happens to me, a message confuses me, I automatically know it wasn’t for me. Because if it was for me, it would have resonated with me. Just an observation from personal experience.
So, for me, pile 3 is the narcissistic triangulation on the part of my ex-husband to isolate the children from me. Unfortunately, Jess was wrong about all of the children being adults... personally, I am VERY glad that this pile did not resonate for you guys. I am also glad that she mentioned pile 2 because I am going to watch it to see if it will help me figure out if there is some sort of solution. Hopefully this helps. And hopefully you picked another pile. 😅
Pile 2. I'm person one. He's person 2, I'm not sure who the other person is but there's definitely someone he's trying to emulate. I just give up now. There will be no common ground because he continues to attempt to dominate me, and I'd rather be alone then continue to be mistreated by anymore toxic masculine's. Blugh 🤮 I feel like shit EVERY TIME we talk wether by sms or over the phone. There hasn't been a face to face yet. I know our spirit team is keeping us apart for now, he will try to stand over me, i know this. He already told me he wants a submissive woman that he can leverage, that he can mold, he's the leader and a woman's body is Only for a man to use to make a baby with. She only holds value IF she's young and beautiful and submissive. WTF All he has to do is show me kindness, and be authentic. Thanks Jess 🌹
damn Jess, you're something else! i was drawn to both pile 1 and 2. both were for the same man, 1 was for his version that was half a year ago; 2 was for him now. i want to tell you how 2 plays out for me: he is the barista of the coffe shop i occasionally go to, i think he's the 3rd person in that triangle. then there is a waitress who is the 2nd person who is all glitter no substance. i don't know her at all but she gives me strange looks everytime i go to that coffee house and i couldn't tell why before this reading. the last time i went there, i felt so out of place and uncomfortable. when i left i was extremely triggered, swearing i'd never go back there again. because that waitress was neglecting me and make me feel not welcome. he was not making any real moves, just staring at me and posing and women were not letting him be for a moment... a little while i realised i was triggered for a good reason, that will allow me to learn and practice ownership. i have a right to go there and read books and she has to serve me. he doesn't owe me any action but i'll only go there if i have overflowing compassion and patience. i can see that he wants to make a move towards me but it makes him scared. so it will take time for him to crack, if he ever can do it... i watched the whole reading in one go because it perfectly resonated 🤍
Thank you. Pile 3 very much resonated. I wasn't even sure who I was asking about, just wanted something to listen to on my ride home... the reading was exactly what I had experienced before getting in my car. Thank you also for mentioning pile 2. Lol! I am definitely listening to that one in chunks because I know exactly who you are referring to and I'm gonna need a day or two to put on my big girl panties and find a loving way to explain to "the beast" that just because I yelled that I "wasn't coming to dinner!" doesn't mean that I am a beast or wanted to hurt him... lol, it's complicated. But maybe Mrs. Potts will pour me some tea in the meantime. Thank you again!!
Jess, you always surprise me with your wisdom and intuitive insight. I picked pile 1 and it fit exact with what I am experiencing with my new boss. Love you so much! I don't know what I would do without your informative readings 💖
Thank you Jess! Pile 2 was an eye opener for me, I'll have to go back and re-watch with a note pad. It didn't feel too long at all, I hope it didn't deplete you 💗
#1✨ you wouldn't believe how accurate you are I mean in in real-time like as I'm listening to this reading I'm painting my nails with pink glitter as well as have my hair up in a bun which I have been wearing it down and I have noticed that he has kind of been off to the side in different locations and he's pretty much exactly the way you described, as well as how you're describing me(the truth of me)&& I did directly tell him he will have to face the karma of how he treats ppl(he is very handsome 🥰) just ON POINT AF 💯 thank you for doing this reading it was very useful very validating and humorous 😄🙏💯🥰🌟💓✨
The Djinn analogy and energy is perfect for the person in pile 1. A power struggle in the light and shadow dynamic of a Gemini because both have been essential in survival situations and now they have a hard time determining sometimes what attribute serves as the best pilot
Pile 2 - I see the irony of asking this but maybe don't couch the reading so much? We are all grown and able to handle constructive criticism and also realize this is a general reading and not all the messages may fit but are still worth listening to :) Also to second another comment - a lot of us love nuance but this is extremely confusing.
I know exactly what you mean. I’m always torn in this way. I’ve literally received messages where people have told me that they wanted to end themselves because of my readings, I am honestly struggling with this. I’m open to hearing any more feedback you have. I can tell you’re hitting something and coming from a good place 💕
@@jesspucketttarot Jess - you are a light being and a light worker and you do these readings from a loving and kind place. I'm sorry people are saying these things to you - and I can see why now you couch the readings and tell people trigger warning. But people also need to take ownership of themselves - if you warn people that this is triggering and they choose to listen anyways and take the messages poorly, unfortunately that is on them and NOT YOUR FAULT. You are asking people to be accountable, do inner work and level up. That is a great gift you are giving to others. Also if people are saying these things and it really affects you, then maybe consider doing lighthearted readings till the energy settles. Rahu is going into Ashwini and Jupiter and Venus will be conjunct in Pisces (vedic) so alot of the crazy energies of 2022 will start to settle down. Be well my friend and apologies if my comment triggered or bothered you in any way. You are doing God's work - alot of us love and appreciate you ❤
Oh Jess, I’m sorry you are going through this. Sounds very unfair to you. Not sure how I would be able to handle such a situation myself (since I too can relate with your reasoning) but I have some thoughts on this and hopefully it helps ❤️ I too see the original commenter’s point and have noticed it too in recent months. Your talking style these days reminds me of my own rahu in moola in 6th house. Taking responsibility of other people’s triggers, reactions, feelings and psyche. Beyond a certain point, it’s not your job. Seems like some people have crossed your boundary by telling you that you are responsible for actions they take/are about to take. You are not. Rest, strengthen your boundaries again, offload what’s not yours, and say what you mean confidently & boldly! I would love to hear you speak directly and confidently like when you first started. A simple solution would be to add a typed disclaimer at the start of every reading or pile like other readers on TH-cam, and then not waste your breath repeating yourself during readings so you can simply focus on what you actually want to say. You are very wise…so own it :) @@jesspucketttarot
Pile II: I identify with the person needing to set the boundaries (the bottom row of cards). However, I recognize there’s a mirroring effect for the other two personality types. I’ve recognized some traits and I’m actively doing shadow work to navigate this. The authority figure seems a bit like a narcissist archetype. I know that get thrown around a lot but I’m trying to say is that it seems like a bully-ish/steamroller kind of person. Thank youuu for providing this reading. I rely heavily on my intuition. I knew that interacting with the “fluff” archetype was not good long term, however, my intention was leading me to my highest good. It told me to stay, observe and learn. I did so. I was heavily triggered and when it was time to depart I heeded that calling as well. I knew it wasn’t meant for long term fruition.
#1 yes, they are an entitled poser who is being manipulated by entitled posers. they frustrate me but also i do feel for them because they are clearly being exploited and do not see it. but yes, they would probably view me as the threat to their own ideology (which is indeed prejudiced... they make pretty big leaps about people based on religious/political affiliations and even where they're from, i.e., a "red stater" equals bad person to them).
whoaaaa 🤯 ... super interesting... I used this to ask what a particular aspect of me says about another aspect of me, and Jess ya gave me the full meal deal . Thank you for channeling the messages, sharing your expertise, and doing it all in a way that my ego can find digestible lol 😊
Pile 1 describes me to the “T”. I’m a Gemini and he’s a Virgo. He always said I was different and he couldn’t describe what he was feeling for me. In the beginning he thought I was timid, etc. he thought I’d acquiesce to his control. I had to set some strong boundaries. I’m focusing on self love.
@@Nonyobzns / Forget that repressed Virgo - Gemini with Virgo is not good match bc it’s Squared. You initially connect bc your both ruled by Mercury. You need an Aquarius!
Um, pile 2 was really great! Even if you think nobody stuck it out until the end (you said that over and over) we are actually listening so keep up the awesomeness that is Jess. I am person #3 in the senerio. Thanks so much!
Thanks for the heads up in #3 they've already told me their family is a bit intense and manipulative, easy to say about others when it may well be them too 🙏🧡🙏
Jess, chose pile 2. Do you want to be my therapist 😅🤪? Was listening to it in the middle of the night and couldnt put the puzzle, bc couldnt lay my finger on this 3rd person. But it kept me busy, bc somehow so much was ressonating. So l listened again, the whole story, yes! He was a trigger, twinflamish like, even has the number 555 in his phone number 😁. I am on a healing journey, and now specifically working around the mother wound, and he has been a big part of that, even though he doesnt know (didnt know him well enough to tell all this and didnt feel safe enough AND was just in the beginning stage of that proces) Basically, l am person no 1, he is 3 and 2 is the environment l grew up in, the lesson, part of the past, shadow self, the comfort zone, the mask, however you call it, but definitely not who l am supposed to be, nor who l want to be. I loved his intelligence, and admire his work. there was also a lot of mirroring going on, and triggering, power struggles, lol and a whole lot of attraction 🙃 And bc of communication, we slipped. I take my part in this, feel sorry for it, bc l came from a genuine place, and l sadly couldnt explain. Still miss him, wished he was still part of the current journey... l hope my story is not as confusing as the reading was at first 😂😂. Thank you for giving me clarity in a situation thats on my mind allready for months and l coundnt put the dots together and so kept me stuck. I love your readings and no matter the triggers, keep doing what you are doing. You are truly a gem❤
Pile 1 - This is a superior at my job. This resonates so much I laughed at how scary but accurate it was. They do have a watchful eye- and it’s not because it’s their job, it’s because they want to figure me out. Good luck 😅
Wellllll, Jess.. I do not mind admiting.. I am round 3 of card select #2, and I'm near 3 pages into my notes.. 😅 I swear, I know the keystone is within, and this is paramount for helping both myself and person 3 (the authoritive, highly intelligent beast) so we can communicate with one another.. and validate this darned connection with some actual emotional soul feeding depth, but ghosting me is all person 3 can conjour right now.. because I know that person 3 is just too frustrated in the trying to understand me even with (pages of TemsSky algorithms in hand) 😅 while I am running laps around the whole outskirts, trying to stay safe yet engaging and providing my depths of emotions tied in a stringently loose lipped love crop dusting, sort of way.. who BTW can sniff a nefarious jest from 20 yards away, while also needing to remember to stand my ground, even as its pushing all my days of being bullied truggers.. being I am person 1 while not giving too much of my power away, tho i do it more often then I can count 🙏🏻😌 I'm just like that dish sitting on the 70's coffee table at grannys house, filled with those lovely butter mints.. tho they all tasted of that same crunch into that cream like confection, the yellow just seem to taste more buttery then the white and defineatly the green was just all wrong. 😊 and the pink was ok, but wanted to convince me i was expereincing a hint of strawberry, when i wasnt.. but you see, thats how it was with me.. And then Jess you went and mentioned the double speak Heavens to Murgatroyd Jess.. im fighting for all my life to prove im worthy of such a fight.. yet, its incredibly hard to do when I'm basically expressing for both person 3 and myself because I'm an abundantly gifted claircognizance, on top of it all..🎉 so the poor beast listening to Belles spin of who done what in the billiard room with the lead pipe, and in knowing darn well, it was indeed professor Plum.. 😂 (no body liked playing CLUE with me as a kid;) at that point, my perosn goes running off to talk to Mrs Potts and Lumiere and even a Cogworth only to be told, just give up on that one.. you will never align up with that one.. And as you have already made it acutely clear, this is a pickle that maybe should have stayed a crisp cucumber in a simple salad verses being fermented and then added to tune salad, that was then put onto a salad.. where in my persons thinking. A salad is a salad.. and in my thoughts, we'll im sure you know by know where my fruit hang on that.. cause I put fruit in my tuna salad of course. And its more an entree now, verses only just a side salad. So its become more complicated then it every has needed too.. and I suppose it because of me coming on too strong then me trying to fix it, then me trying to seem less potent, all the while trying to be careful not coming across like i want to start a wrestling match. It's all awkward and my love just wants to be brave and expressive but also not seem desperate or over exasperated in my expression.. yet I feel all the above has happened in the worst way so I have pulled back.. to give space so my lyrics of my love song, can do some reflection, cause im about convinced i completeky crazy.. 😬 even still, longing for the day person 3 feels able and willing to connect again, with more intent and less vague and def, putting work/business on the back burners. The love runs so deep but person 3 is very responsive.. And I wish I understood better this complete pull I have.. I know it's spiritual but isn't it in vane, if I'm the only one willing to embrace tho it scares the heck out of me. All things considered, your right Jess, I have to realize how monumental in sized this karma is for me to work thru. Even if i feel like I done messed it up for both of us and I'm at a loss how to even re-approach, to be honest.. plus, even as I'm burned out.. I still have more in to try again.. In truth I think it's time person 3 does the approaching. But then if I relyed on person 3 doing that, it most likely will never happen. Its the worst kind of pickle. Sweet not kosher.. Person 3 is somewhat well known and even more well loved.. quite the charmer even tho super game theory, in the best and worst ways, dimple and eyes that are big and squinty, sometimes a soft warm golden hazel then add a deep warm and calming green.. like the sea just after a storm. When the kelp has been shaken and the waters darkened in a loden green. It just feel like home. (I was raised in the florida keys) so my person had ppl lined up for days, to have a moment, a chance.. with 55,000 plus followers.. its not looking good for me. And im just about realizing there must be so many who is more like my person, then I.. meaning strategic and determined and correct more then not. Game theorists dont play.. yet that's what it is all about. truly I want to be happy and I very much want to same for my person.. I had hopes we would very least be the greatest of friends. But we haven't enough in common I'm afraid. Love was the only thing maybe. And it's was not reciprocated, enough.🎉 So I'm working on putting my healing into my creativity and creating some level of success in using my gifts and its abilities to help others, instead of mourning this loss. And thats a great tribute I feel, to this connection. Just wish my heart was more convinced. I'm pretty sure i kneaded that bread a tad too much, too long.
1:03:34 Girrrrrrrllll i literally was getting up and saw that. Good job lol and thank you because i been sucked in before to readings so im happy to know that someone is taking care of our mental state lol and not *just doing a reading ❤
Oh my goodness!!!! Girl you are jaw dropping on point !!! I watched pile #1 and stayed for pile #2 ❤️Thank you , you were the missing piece to this chaotic puzzle . I'm mentally and physically tired of trying to figure this out because person #2 he has no accountability for his part in the issues that's causing the problems . I'm person #1 I'm gonna take and agree to all your advice . I am beside myself how absolutely correct you are . Lol I love it !!!! You see and explain wth us really going on from everyone " s point of view .... absolutely a blessing you are for us . Thank you again for sharing and explaining it all to me . Tomorrow I'm letting #2 watch this also . The gift of clarity is priceless ! Bravo !! EXCELENT JOB !!!!!
I don’t wish a kidney stone on anyone (been there done that) but if that was it takes to make him understand what he put me through ok! Great read for pile 1!
Pile 2- what a journey. Helpful insight into a work situation. And also helped me reflect on leaders I have worked with in the past. And made me realize I need to own my authority and stop collaborating with leaders who are all authority (minimal people skills) or all people and manipulation but all fluff. Bye bye Felicia
3) Before I explode that person to my professor (the leader), it's two... And now it turns to three. I had to talk to a lot of people just to make sure that the negative asshole are not touching my professor since I noticed that he tired to attack and get into my energy and I figured it out quick. But since my professor was not aware of it and she got dragged by him. When I figured it out, I got extremely pissed off. And I find different ways to protect her and get her out the situation... And I also tried to talk to her about the situation but she said that she like him as a person and is willing to troll the entire class just to fit his agendas.... And I really don't know what I can do from this situation... My other professors told me that they're willing to talk to her about it but I told them to held on first since I need her to understand what she did get into and how she trolled the entire class into it when she didn't needed to. I also pulled a lot of protection for all of my classes since I really don't need chaos and other things... I just hope that she is able to learn from this experience and that's not okay at all.
No negative comments BUT I did not understand anything about pile 3. you are awesome. probably I am slow one. can anyone simply the pile 3 for me please? and they means 1 particular person ( who is on my mind ) right? because have only 1 person in my mind ( very strongly ) then who is this 2nd person? I am so confused. please someone help me out.thanks . good luck
No worries, thank you for being kind! Firstly, they “say” a lot with their body language. They adopt a wounded kind of demeanor, they may even cry, but they come off sort of, internal and forlorn in a helpless/ I don’t know what to do about this kind of way. Then they talk about you not being around in some capacity, maybe living a happy life without them. They talk about your happiness, career, love life in particular. They may talk of you getting in between them and someone else or someone else getting in between the two of you. They speak of that situation critically. They speak in a defensive way about themselves and their own behavior. They say they are tired and that they’ve tried so hard for so long. They’ve tried everything they can think of. They may speak of being caught off guard by what’s gone on. If another person got in between you, then they say that you were enamored with that person in an all-consuming, awe-inspired, maybe even overly sexual kind of way. They may speak of responsibility - what responsibilities they tried to tend to, which responsibilities you didn’t or don’t or won’t fulfill. They could talk of a need to protect themselves. They may say that you are different or strange in a way they don’t understand and that was closeted before, maybe to have been sparked by this other person that got between you. If someone did get between you, they speak of them disapprovingly, saying things like, “they just aren’t like us.” The thing to keep in mind, that I think I didn’t do a great job of explaining is that some of these people genuinely feel this way and have genuine cause to feel this way. Others, have made their own bed in the situation and have caused their own abandonment through their abhorrent behavior and rather than admitting that, they blame shift onto a healthy, well intentioned person that they deem a threat to their established toxic order that any healing, self-respecting person would move away from. They do this instead of making healthy changes to the way they treat people because they only care about their reputation and not the hurt they have caused others, Hope that helps!
Pile one, I came in a couple hours expecting this to be a general reading, but it seems believable that this might as well be what he could be saying and thinking. Because I am usually a quiet person around him, but around different people, like my former male elderly client, I act different. I talk obnoxiously loud when I see certain clients so they can hear me. And then there are times where he will mostly see me in a pony tail, and certain days he will catch me leaving my long hair down. The two faced sounds believable because as a non verbal autistic person, I can and cannot mask things. People never could figure me out, and compared to everyone in that community, I am actually pretty much different. He is handsome and has a boss like position and hangs around cliques at work, since I don't work there, but have a key to the building, I may act like I am my own boss there too. But in my job, I think it is important to be 2 faced. However, I'm not really sure how the universe will bring me up as a kidney stone, when I am rarely there due to many different assignments I have in different locations.
I'm going to be honest with you jess i've been following watching your readings for years now always my best i was hoping it will get easier to understand with time but here you going an other level of complex i couldn't understand a word from the third pile😳 nothing 👏
Pile 2. Yes he's the only person that I actually respect enough to truly listen too. I actually just watched Beauty and the beast the other night with my daughter she chose the movie and I was not trying to watch it but she insisted. Funny that you're bringing it up in this reading. 0
Pile 1 (and pile 3 after, with me as positive and her spouse as the asshole. It's so a game of pin the tail on the AH), and this is absolutely what happened with myself and the person I consider to be my twin flame. If I was right (and I was), the rest of her life was wrong, and in her efforts to get one over on me, she played herself. I wanted to open up to her, I wanted to have fun, but she was so controlling of the moments we spent together that I wasn't able, there was never space or time. She played herself, and yet she thought it was all me. She was jealous of the interactions I had with everyone else, and yet wouldn't allow me time to interact with her (she worked at a school, I have kids that go there, I was friendly with staff and other parents and am fond of a laugh). Her husband was a RE agent with bad vibes, and she fell for me, and she had the hots for me, and that was all my fault for being manipulative (or merely existing), clearly. So the me just being there to lure in a "little old lady" like her? Yes? Yes hahahaha. She did set up a trap, she cold blocked me on FB and I certainly did not behave as she expected me to. I treated her with concern and kindness, before telling her I was done with the bullshit. Well shit, I proved that I was the person I always looked like I was. Cue implosion and her fleeing. It's been a while. Transformation has been happening, and I've occasionally checked in and been her guide from afar, by mail or energy, but it's not over until the fat lady sings.
I said that we were in all three piles. Thats why i guessed that it was "him" as the crush as you went along. It is scary because why did he keep love-bombing through you to me, like he really cared? All the while, his agenda is syphoning me of my "shine"???
I was brought to this video again by Spirit and drawn to pile 3, not knowing why I needed to hear it. 1. I'm sorry that the situation was so draining for you. 2. You SHOULD dislike the negative person. He took my children by way of trickery and lies. 3. I hope that a 3rd party with authority will be able to see the truth.
Gurl!!!! Where have you been?? Soo glad to see you back. I've missed your readings. You are one of my faves. 💜 thank you for your reading. I picked pile 3 so we'll see how this goes...
Pile 2 was a doozy but it resonated. I’m the 1st person the authoritative person was who I was inquiring about and the fluff person was a mutual “friend”/ “coworker” of the authoritative person that’s been playing middle man
Finally had the time to watch my reading pile #2 🤭 I’m person #1. He’s Mr Darcy 🙄 terrible social and communication skills. I got offended by something he said trying to raffle my feathers. It was a post in social media he was questioning my knowledge and it made me feel insecure and I think I was fair and collected in my response but I was vivid 😠. Left his a$$ on read because I didn’t want to prove my point to him because he just wanted to get a reaction out of me. The second person may be a church or the girl he’s dating. He’s Christian and yes he is very closed minded and I can feel him judging me from miles away and here I am posting witchy stuff in my page 🤣. He should be scared ☺️
Jess, pile 1, the person I had in mind had a serious organ issue (almost died) - it was with the same unusual organ you mentioned numerous times in the reading. Surrreal. 😀
Oh & YeSsss his fam/friends and location has had very negative affects on him as well as our relationship prior to this separation....he's my twin flame so we do mirror each other..he is religious where I'm spiritual so it's a process so 🙏 for the healing and transformation needed for our balanced healthy union
I just love listening to you speak your insight and gift blows me away thankyou for providing me with clarity yet again jess, love light and Rainbows 🌈 💖 ✨️
I devour your readings (I had come back to them time after time) but this and the previous reading you did, I just don't understand at all 🫣 I picked pile 2 and re-listened 3x and I still don't get it.
Hey Jess, thanks for the interesting reading 😊 Could you possibly consider doing a soulmates Twin Flame Journey Reading for those of us seeking corrective actions to be able to transcend generational differences and challenges to provide some information about navigating back after doing the shadow work please 🙏💞🌠💗
2. Wow Jess never cease to amaze me! I believe I'm person 1,although I hate to admit this. I'll definitely have to relisten. Was confused about the reconnection and twin flame piece. Is this a divine connection that's meant to be healthy upon doing shadow work? Or is this just about self recognition of sabotage?
Such a good question! It’s both! But “meant to be” is tricky. For me, a divine connection isn’t something that guarantees a particular outcome. I think life is about truly seeing and accepting what is. And that’s why this situation is divinely guided. It has been designed to help you see the truth of yourself in terms of what you are compensating for within yourself. Person 1 is compensating for courage and putting themselves and their skill set out there. Person 2 is compensating for putting in the time and effort to build genuine competence in a skill set. Person 3 is compensating for not having healthy relationship skills by securing relationships because of their position in life. Once you realize that what draws you to the other(s) is an unconscious pattern where you externalize your responsibility to take ownership for and strengthen your own area of weakness, then your focus naturally shifts to the self. And you realize that compensating for something within can actually distort how we see others…often through defense mechanisms like projection, externalization, and rationalization. It’s hard to see how our own defenses distort how we relate to people, situations, and reality but when we do that is a genuine place of power. From that place. a number of different outcomes is not only possible but also acceptable to you because securing a relationship with the other person is no longer the only option for meeting the needs you are compensating for. So, you may realize that a person who secures relationships through their position may not actually be a person you want a long term relationship with after all, and that you were idealizing them and seeing them through a divine counterpart lens because they could secure you a level of safety and security that it would be hard to secure for yourself. But after you get a degree in accounting or commit yourself to it, then, your vision starts to change…I hope that makes sense.
I'm in tears of with gratitude. I have thought for years how no one would believe me and how could I describe what was really going on .
The reading is over . I know you need a break , you have done so much good here tonight 💕🙏👋☺️👍
I'm the whimpering sap at the bottom 😮
I am pile 1. I watched this for the first time a long while ago but I occasionally come back to process during shadow work and just healing in general. He did do the ambush thing. I think he is slowly but surely realizing that he projected all of his issues onto me without giving me a fighting chance. It is what it is. I'm somewhat at peace with this chaotic dumpster fire of a situation now. It's been a year since everything went down.
💖Jess, I SO hope you see this. About INFAMOUS pile 2: I know this can be confusing, but it's only confusing if one hasn't spent months already deconstructing these things. I've been processing through your readings for nearly a year now, and you help me peel back the layers one by one. I HAVE spent YEARS studying trauma, psychology, interpersonal relations (I only chose not to apply to university for a psych program because I honestly didn't feel competent enough to do it in my mother tongue, which was my only option at the time), so that may add to why it's crisp and clear to me, but please please please -- keep doing your thing. I've recently started doing things out in the world myself and sometimes the two or three comments I get from people (I saw your mention of people messaging you they want to end themselves) that are very upset about the content really tear me apart because I put my heart and soul into what I do, just like I can always feel you do 1000%. But you have given this exact advice to me in a reading so I will remind it to you, like advice from you to your own self-- you can only offer what you have and let people take it or leave it. Like the open hand allowing the birds to come eat if they choose to. (And by that I also mean, putting WHATEVER trigger warnings and preemptive statements there to ease things for yourself and others is up to you! No hate to people suggesting things, but I feel like a lot of people who don't read tarot publicly keep giving you a lot of advice on how to do it and it's YOUR decision, YOUR thing. To offer what YOU have, just as it is. It's so amazing!) There isn't a single reader doing the exact thing you are doing and you are so invaluable. I really just want to send all my love to you right now because it sounds so tough with all the criticism you take, big or small, and I hope you take gentle breaks and give yourself pats on the head and eat yummy snacks and turn into a little pudding roll once in a while because it's so tough out in this world sometimes and you're a true blessing in our lives. I mean that from the bottom of my heart. Thank you for everything. Ps. I saw pile 3 back when this came out and it too brought me soo much clarity. I am still watching pile 2 right now (taking a break like you suggested! "Pulse check..." cracked me up), but it's already been so so so helpful and it's clear because I've sat with this dynamic for MONTHS now. It just isn't a beginner's level Jess Puckett reading LOL. Love you!!! ❤❤❤
I cannot even begin to tell you how deeply your words have impacted me. I have this saved on my phone and I’m going to reread it as needed. Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for this ❤️
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Jessssss!!!! Pile 2. You are amazing! This breakdown was the most in depth , accurate and really caused a deep look at myself and it didn’t feel uncomfortable it felt confirming and unbelievably resonant. You are great. This is about my ex, his new wife and myself. They took my children. Lied and are inconceivably vicious. It’s been mind blowing and life altering. Very transformative. You are amazing !!!
Hey Jess, just finished pile 2, and thanks sooooo so much for the effort you put in! It really does help to clarify these nuisances because it's so easy to not understand the picture with out them and the more I'm starting to understand these smaller side pieces of the puzzle the more I feel like I can trust myself because I actually have been making the right decision from intuition and not all from fear or from insecurity - was the first person here
Thank you for this reading. Pile 3 resonated. I have been their target for over 2 decades now. I was the scapegoat that couldn’t take anymore abuse and spoke up. Since then, they decided to double down by smear campaigning…dragging more individuals (mutual friends and family) to join their cause. I’ve had to mourn the loss of so many of my relationships through the years. This was helpful and confirming for me. I appreciate your keen insight Jess. Thank you so much for sharing. 🙏🏻💕🌞🕊
Pile 1 is insanely accurate. I've had to let go a whole group of posers who probably saw me as the bad guy for prioritising myself. Luckily I'm at a point in life where I'd rather be the bad guy than the mat they step all over ✨ it took me a long 3 years to let go and I was sticking around with the hopes that my situation would make them see what was going on, but people can only see what they want/ are currently able to. Also. My sun falls into this person's 12th house so I most definitely shine a light on a difficult part, and it wasn't easy for me to interact with them either but I learnt so much
Omg pile 1 is the person I commented about on your last patreon. He literally told me he sees me mostly as an object, but was also upset/insulted because I’m not emotionally available.
Jess. WHOA. 🤯 Your accuracy (among many readers I’ve watched) about me and my life is consistently astounding.
Wow jess, blown away by your skill once again. I'm pile 2, it's a living situation, 2 tenants and a landlord. this has been unbelievably helpful, and given me so much food for thought. Had not considered the karmic influence on this situation, and it's taken away a lot of the personal triggers I've been feeling, and really helped me come out of that and consider the experience of the other two. Woooooowwwww I listened to it all and I'd listen to it all again, massive thanks 🙏💜
pile 3, target is my boyfriend. Negative intended person with facade is his mother. I called her out on her bs and its been warfare since, both physical and spiritual. I am the "bad guy" in this story because my genuine intentions of wanting to put an end to her lies was the "terrible thing" to do on my part. Very ill spirited women that I am trying very hard to protect both me and my partner from. She has done everything in her power to turn people against me because me and her son refuse to get with 'her program" simply because we have blocked ourselves from her negativity and deceit. Thank you for this reading Jess. You are so very gifted. Thank you for your healing energy and words. Much love
Pile 2. I see you and love you Jess ☺️ thank you for diving in so deep and looking at so many different aspects. This really resonates. It took me a long time to realise how much I was trying to impress others, understand others, work out where I could tick the boxes. So much bullshit and i was calling it love but it was so self sabotaging. I am focused now on just stripping back and being my authentic self. Even if that means ticking no one’s boxes. I have no interest in authority I don’t like it and I don’t want anyone to feel the way I have felt by authority figures. I also..acknowledge that the other person is a beautiful soul and being the reflection, lesson of the person that is designed to make me feel hurt through triggers is huge. So I appreciate them and see the big picture. I have reached out 🙈 I do feel a great need to acknowledge my errors and apologise for pain caused. Even if it’s not understood or even read by the other.
Thank you SO MUCH for putting so much effort into pile 2!! I listened to the whole thing and even made some notes on aspects of the reading that I want to journal about to really sink into that radical ownership.
I've been processing a lot of things related to two people in my life, and this pile really helped me gain clarity on what has been going on with them. I'm used to deferring to others or helping others while gaining nothing in return (kinda funny juxtaposition when I think about it -- why am I deferring to others when I know what I'm talking about a lot of the time and know when I need to seek out help? oh wait, that's because I'm scared of my own power lol glad this reading told me that). At this point, I've grown tired of doing that. My only value isn't what I provide others, whether it be a feeling of power by being dominated or by giving advice or knowledge, and that's the way these people have engaged with me.
It was genuinely such a relief being told that I shouldn't reach out to these two people because I end up wondering if I'm a bad person for leaving their lives without explanation. Don't they deserve to know that they've messed up? Shouldn't I make them aware of why I'm leaving? These are fair questions, and in most circumstances, I would say yes communicating is best. I do want them to grow and change as people, but I don't want the responsibility of supporting them through that process. I'm already tired enough, and my priority should be stepping into my own power and really getting comfortable in it.
Thank you again for the reading. :)
Pile 3 is super clear to me. Thank you. Honestly I think the ppl who are confused may be in denial about being the negative person. The exhaustion, hunger and confusion you were experiencing Jess was the negative person. Always eating, always tired, totally confused about who they are and create a lot of confusion. If you’re hungry, tired or confused you may be the negative person in this reading for those who aren’t clear. We’re human and not perfect. So if you are the negative person this reading is a personal growth/shadow work opportunity.✨🧚🏽
Yeah he's something else alright. He's everything you've said and more. I feel sorry for you having such a struggle with our mess. But I'm so thankful for your tenacity and I appreciate your hard work. Thank you Jess 🙏🏽🙏🏽💜💜Blessed 🐝
#2 the only reading that makes sense in such a frustrating mess of a situation. Thank you Jess 🙏🏻
Your readings are special, I usually more or less watch them completely 😂 cause they are fun and I know I will find pieces and things that are enlightening throughout 🔥
I have seriously wondered that something about my personality or the way I am (and I think it's this sense of openness that people mistake as a place where they dont have to assume any boundaries) makes people just be the most of everything and I am kinda fed up and introducing walls left right and centre 😂 theres a lot more to this, like heaviness from painful inner and outer experiences but transformation is always welcome 🙏
Pile 3 thank you for the confirmation. I’m not crazy after all 😅. This is about me and my mom smh. Walked away from the family after thanksgiving. Well it’s happening for me not to me right ❤❤. Stay strong pile 3 it’s okay to let go. You can find plenty of life in the desert.
Pile 1: this person and I used to date. We also work together, they are above my pay. They've told me they are deeply insecure and act as such in general. He broke up with me and everyone turned on me. I've deeply changed since this pain and am quitting soon. Now they're all coming back and being weird and upset with my harsh boundries. I love him but he has qualities that really makes me feel pushed away and undervalued. I'm having a hard time letting go because I really want it to work.
Pile 3 spot on as well and is my go to reference when trying to explain this situation to enlighten people involved
Can someone explain pile 3 lol I was so confused I know she tried to explain cuz she's reading to all of us but I am confused 😵lol
Same 🥲🥲🥲
No shade I swear, but maybe some of the readings were confusing because the messages weren’t for you. When that happens to me, a message confuses me, I automatically know it wasn’t for me. Because if it was for me, it would have resonated with me.
Just an observation from personal experience.
Yes boo get that intuition flowing.
Same here 😂
So, for me, pile 3 is the narcissistic triangulation on the part of my ex-husband to isolate the children from me. Unfortunately, Jess was wrong about all of the children being adults... personally, I am VERY glad that this pile did not resonate for you guys. I am also glad that she mentioned pile 2 because I am going to watch it to see if it will help me figure out if there is some sort of solution.
Hopefully this helps. And hopefully you picked another pile. 😅
Pile 2. I'm person one. He's person 2, I'm not sure who the other person is but there's definitely someone he's trying to emulate.
I just give up now. There will be no common ground because he continues to attempt to dominate me, and I'd rather be alone then continue to be mistreated by anymore toxic masculine's. Blugh 🤮
I feel like shit EVERY TIME we talk wether by sms or over the phone. There hasn't been a face to face yet. I know our spirit team is keeping us apart for now, he will try to stand over me, i know this. He already told me he wants a submissive woman that he can leverage, that he can mold, he's the leader and a woman's body is Only for a man to use to make a baby with. She only holds value IF she's young and beautiful and submissive. WTF
All he has to do is show me kindness, and be authentic.
Thanks Jess 🌹
damn Jess, you're something else! i was drawn to both pile 1 and 2. both were for the same man, 1 was for his version that was half a year ago; 2 was for him now. i want to tell you how 2 plays out for me:
he is the barista of the coffe shop i occasionally go to, i think he's the 3rd person in that triangle. then there is a waitress who is the 2nd person who is all glitter no substance. i don't know her at all but she gives me strange looks everytime i go to that coffee house and i couldn't tell why before this reading. the last time i went there, i felt so out of place and uncomfortable. when i left i was extremely triggered, swearing i'd never go back there again. because that waitress was neglecting me and make me feel not welcome. he was not making any real moves, just staring at me and posing and women were not letting him be for a moment... a little while i realised i was triggered for a good reason, that will allow me to learn and practice ownership. i have a right to go there and read books and she has to serve me. he doesn't owe me any action but i'll only go there if i have overflowing compassion and patience. i can see that he wants to make a move towards me but it makes him scared. so it will take time for him to crack, if he ever can do it... i watched the whole reading in one go because it perfectly resonated 🤍
Thank you. Pile 3 very much resonated. I wasn't even sure who I was asking about, just wanted something to listen to on my ride home... the reading was exactly what I had experienced before getting in my car. Thank you also for mentioning pile 2. Lol! I am definitely listening to that one in chunks because I know exactly who you are referring to and I'm gonna need a day or two to put on my big girl panties and find a loving way to explain to "the beast" that just because I yelled that I "wasn't coming to dinner!" doesn't mean that I am a beast or wanted to hurt him... lol, it's complicated. But maybe Mrs. Potts will pour me some tea in the meantime.
Thank you again!!
Jess, you always surprise me with your wisdom and intuitive insight. I picked pile 1 and it fit exact with what I am experiencing with my new boss. Love you so much! I don't know what I would do without your informative readings 💖
Going into the reading I did not have anyone in mind, but you totally hit the nail on the head. Exactly what I needed to hear. Pile 2, thank you.
Thank you Jess!
Pile 2 was an eye opener for me, I'll have to go back and re-watch with a note pad. It didn't feel too long at all, I hope it didn't deplete you 💗
pile2 is so deep, I need to rewatch it. I couldn’t figure out which person is me, it sounds like different phases of my life😢! You r really awesome 😂
Ah, it's always a delight whenever you post! ❤❤❤
For the record i listened to the entire duration of Pile 2 and it was spot on including everything that may have sounded vague or a tangent it wasnt
#1✨ you wouldn't believe how accurate you are I mean in in real-time like as I'm listening to this reading I'm painting my nails with pink glitter as well as have my hair up in a bun which I have been wearing it down and I have noticed that he has kind of been off to the side in different locations and he's pretty much exactly the way you described, as well as how you're describing me(the truth of me)&& I did directly tell him he will have to face the karma of how he treats ppl(he is very handsome 🥰) just ON POINT AF 💯 thank you for doing this reading it was very useful very validating and humorous 😄🙏💯🥰🌟💓✨
The Djinn analogy and energy is perfect for the person in pile 1. A power struggle in the light and shadow dynamic of a Gemini because both have been essential in survival situations and now they have a hard time determining sometimes what attribute serves as the best pilot
#1 -- oh wow! Bullseye--- I'm a bit floored... no, wait... I'm completely floored! 🙄😬🤭🤪
Me too!
Pile 2 - I see the irony of asking this but maybe don't couch the reading so much? We are all grown and able to handle constructive criticism and also realize this is a general reading and not all the messages may fit but are still worth listening to :)
Also to second another comment - a lot of us love nuance but this is extremely confusing.
I know exactly what you mean. I’m always torn in this way. I’ve literally received messages where people have told me that they wanted to end themselves because of my readings, I am honestly struggling with this. I’m open to hearing any more feedback you have. I can tell you’re hitting something and coming from a good place 💕
@@jesspucketttarot Jess - you are a light being and a light worker and you do these readings from a loving and kind place. I'm sorry people are saying these things to you - and I can see why now you couch the readings and tell people trigger warning. But people also need to take ownership of themselves - if you warn people that this is triggering and they choose to listen anyways and take the messages poorly, unfortunately that is on them and NOT YOUR FAULT. You are asking people to be accountable, do inner work and level up. That is a great gift you are giving to others. Also if people are saying these things and it really affects you, then maybe consider doing lighthearted readings till the energy settles. Rahu is going into Ashwini and Jupiter and Venus will be conjunct in Pisces (vedic) so alot of the crazy energies of 2022 will start to settle down. Be well my friend and apologies if my comment triggered or bothered you in any way. You are doing God's work - alot of us love and appreciate you ❤
Oh Jess, I’m sorry you are going through this. Sounds very unfair to you. Not sure how I would be able to handle such a situation myself (since I too can relate with your reasoning) but I have some thoughts on this and hopefully it helps ❤️
I too see the original commenter’s point and have noticed it too in recent months.
Your talking style these days reminds me of my own rahu in moola in 6th house. Taking responsibility of other people’s triggers, reactions, feelings and psyche. Beyond a certain point, it’s not your job. Seems like some people have crossed your boundary by telling you that you are responsible for actions they take/are about to take. You are not. Rest, strengthen your boundaries again, offload what’s not yours, and say what you mean confidently & boldly! I would love to hear you speak directly and confidently like when you first started. A simple solution would be to add a typed disclaimer at the start of every reading or pile like other readers on TH-cam, and then not waste your breath repeating yourself during readings so you can simply focus on what you actually want to say. You are very wise…so own it :)
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Pile II: I identify with the person needing to set the boundaries (the bottom row of cards). However, I recognize there’s a mirroring effect for the other two personality types. I’ve recognized some traits and I’m actively doing shadow work to navigate this. The authority figure seems a bit like a narcissist archetype. I know that get thrown around a lot but I’m trying to say is that it seems like a bully-ish/steamroller kind of person.
Thank youuu for providing this reading. I rely heavily on my intuition. I knew that interacting with the “fluff” archetype was not good long term, however, my intention was leading me to my highest good. It told me to stay, observe and learn. I did so. I was heavily triggered and when it was time to depart I heeded that calling as well. I knew it wasn’t meant for long term fruition.
#1 yes, they are an entitled poser who is being manipulated by entitled posers. they frustrate me but also i do feel for them because they are clearly being exploited and do not see it. but yes, they would probably view me as the threat to their own ideology (which is indeed prejudiced... they make pretty big leaps about people based on religious/political affiliations and even where they're from, i.e., a "red stater" equals bad person to them).
whoaaaa 🤯 ... super interesting... I used this to ask what a particular aspect of me says about another aspect of me, and Jess ya gave me the full meal deal . Thank you for channeling the messages, sharing your expertise, and doing it all in a way that my ego can find digestible lol 😊
This is so brilliantly accurate in every nuance. Thank you so much Jess
Pile 1 describes me to the “T”. I’m a Gemini and he’s a Virgo. He always said I was different and he couldn’t describe what he was feeling for me. In the beginning he thought I was timid, etc. he thought I’d acquiesce to his control. I had to set some strong boundaries. I’m focusing on self love.
He also mistook my needing time to be alone as loneliness which I didn’t understand.
You said multi-faceted and that is definitely me.😂
@@Nonyobzns / Forget that repressed Virgo - Gemini with Virgo is not good match bc it’s Squared.
You initially connect bc your both ruled by Mercury.
You need an Aquarius!
@@Nonyobzns / Yes Gemini multifaceted bc they’re 2 ppl in one
Um, pile 2 was really great! Even if you think nobody stuck it out until the end (you said that over and over) we are actually listening so keep up the awesomeness that is Jess. I am person #3 in the senerio. Thanks so much!
Thanks for the heads up in #3 they've already told me their family is a bit intense and manipulative, easy to say about others when it may well be them too 🙏🧡🙏
Pile 2: the song you're thinking of is Taylor Swift's "the story of us." I watched to the end (just for the record, I did it in two stints)
Jess, chose pile 2. Do you want to be my therapist 😅🤪? Was listening to it in the middle of the night and couldnt put the puzzle, bc couldnt lay my finger on this 3rd person. But it kept me busy, bc somehow so much was ressonating. So l listened again, the whole story, yes! He was a trigger, twinflamish like, even has the number 555 in his phone number 😁. I am on a healing journey, and now specifically working around the mother wound, and he has been a big part of that, even though he doesnt know (didnt know him well enough to tell all this and didnt feel safe enough AND was just in the beginning stage of that proces) Basically, l am person no 1, he is 3 and 2 is the environment l grew up in, the lesson, part of the past, shadow self, the comfort zone, the mask, however you call it, but definitely not who l am supposed to be, nor who l want to be. I loved his intelligence, and admire his work. there was also a lot of mirroring going on, and triggering, power struggles, lol and a whole lot of attraction 🙃 And bc of communication, we slipped. I take my part in this, feel sorry for it, bc l came from a genuine place, and l sadly couldnt explain. Still miss him, wished he was still part of the current journey... l hope my story is not as confusing as the reading was at first 😂😂. Thank you for giving me clarity in a situation thats on my mind allready for months and l coundnt put the dots together and so kept me stuck. I love your readings and no matter the triggers, keep doing what you are doing. You are truly a gem❤
Oh, and l thanked him for 'everything' he did for me. I even gifted a book😂😂, but without a card nor phone number😂😂...
Pile 1 - This is a superior at my job. This resonates so much I laughed at how scary but accurate it was. They do have a watchful eye- and it’s not because it’s their job, it’s because they want to figure me out. Good luck 😅
Wellllll, Jess.. I do not mind admiting.. I am round 3 of card select #2, and I'm near 3 pages into my notes.. 😅 I swear, I know the keystone is within, and this is paramount for helping both myself and person 3 (the authoritive, highly intelligent beast) so we can communicate with one another.. and validate this darned connection with some actual emotional soul feeding depth, but ghosting me is all person 3 can conjour right now.. because I know that person 3 is just too frustrated in the trying to understand me even with (pages of TemsSky algorithms in hand) 😅 while I am running laps around the whole outskirts, trying to stay safe yet engaging and providing my depths of emotions tied in a stringently loose lipped love crop dusting, sort of way.. who BTW can sniff a nefarious jest from 20 yards away, while also needing to remember to stand my ground, even as its pushing all my days of being bullied truggers.. being I am person 1 while not giving too much of my power away, tho i do it more often then I can count 🙏🏻😌 I'm just like that dish sitting on the 70's coffee table at grannys house, filled with those lovely butter mints.. tho they all tasted of that same crunch into that cream like confection, the yellow just seem to taste more buttery then the white and defineatly the green was just all wrong. 😊 and the pink was ok, but wanted to convince me i was expereincing a hint of strawberry, when i wasnt.. but you see, thats how it was with me.. And then Jess you went and mentioned the double speak Heavens to Murgatroyd Jess.. im fighting for all my life to prove im worthy of such a fight.. yet, its incredibly hard to do when I'm basically expressing for both person 3 and myself because I'm an abundantly gifted claircognizance, on top of it all..🎉 so the poor beast listening to Belles spin of who done what in the billiard room with the lead pipe, and in knowing darn well, it was indeed professor Plum.. 😂 (no body liked playing CLUE with me as a kid;) at that point, my perosn goes running off to talk to Mrs Potts and Lumiere and even a Cogworth only to be told, just give up on that one.. you will never align up with that one..
And as you have already made it acutely clear, this is a pickle that maybe should have stayed a crisp cucumber in a simple salad verses being fermented and then added to tune salad, that was then put onto a salad.. where in my persons thinking. A salad is a salad.. and in my thoughts, we'll im sure you know by know where my fruit hang on that.. cause I put fruit in my tuna salad of course. And its more an entree now, verses only just a side salad. So its become more complicated then it every has needed too.. and I suppose it because of me coming on too strong then me trying to fix it, then me trying to seem less potent, all the while trying to be careful not coming across like i want to start a wrestling match. It's all awkward and my love just wants to be brave and expressive but also not seem desperate or over exasperated in my expression.. yet I feel all the above has happened in the worst way so I have pulled back.. to give space so my lyrics of my love song, can do some reflection, cause im about convinced i completeky crazy.. 😬 even still, longing for the day person 3 feels able and willing to connect again, with more intent and less vague and def, putting work/business on the back burners.
The love runs so deep but person 3 is very responsive.. And I wish I understood better this complete pull I have.. I know it's spiritual but isn't it in vane, if I'm the only one willing to embrace tho it scares the heck out of me. All things considered, your right Jess, I have to realize how monumental in sized this karma is for me to work thru. Even if i feel like I done messed it up for both of us and I'm at a loss how to even re-approach, to be honest.. plus, even as I'm burned out.. I still have more in to try again.. In truth I think it's time person 3 does the approaching. But then if I relyed on person 3 doing that, it most likely will never happen. Its the worst kind of pickle. Sweet not kosher.. Person 3 is somewhat well known and even more well loved.. quite the charmer even tho super game theory, in the best and worst ways, dimple and eyes that are big and squinty, sometimes a soft warm golden hazel then add a deep warm and calming green.. like the sea just after a storm. When the kelp has been shaken and the waters darkened in a loden green. It just feel like home. (I was raised in the florida keys) so my person had ppl lined up for days, to have a moment, a chance.. with 55,000 plus followers.. its not looking good for me. And im just about realizing there must be so many who is more like my person, then I.. meaning strategic and determined and correct more then not. Game theorists dont play.. yet that's what it is all about. truly I want to be happy and I very much want to same for my person.. I had hopes we would very least be the greatest of friends. But we haven't enough in common I'm afraid. Love was the only thing maybe. And it's was not reciprocated, enough.🎉 So I'm working on putting my healing into my creativity and creating some level of success in using my gifts and its abilities to help others, instead of mourning this loss. And thats a great tribute I feel, to this connection. Just wish my heart was more convinced. I'm pretty sure i kneaded that bread a tad too much, too long.
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Girrrrrrrllll i literally was getting up and saw that. Good job lol and thank you because i been sucked in before to readings so im happy to know that someone is taking care of our mental state lol and not *just doing a reading ❤
Oh my goodness!!!! Girl you are jaw dropping on point !!! I watched pile #1 and stayed for pile #2 ❤️Thank you , you were the missing piece to this chaotic puzzle . I'm mentally and physically tired of trying to figure this out because person #2 he has no accountability for his part in the issues that's causing the problems . I'm person #1 I'm gonna take and agree to all your advice . I am beside myself how absolutely correct you are . Lol I love it !!!! You see and explain wth us really going on from everyone " s point of view .... absolutely a blessing you are for us . Thank you again for sharing and explaining it all to me . Tomorrow I'm letting #2 watch this also . The gift of clarity is priceless ! Bravo !! EXCELENT JOB !!!!!
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The third person is his late wife . She's been on the other side for 2yrs still influences him on matters with me .
Absolutely exhausted, this is my prayers being answered 💕
I don’t wish a kidney stone on anyone (been there done that) but if that was it takes to make him understand what he put me through ok! Great read for pile 1!
Pile 1 - This is spot on.
Pile 2- what a journey. Helpful insight into a work situation. And also helped me reflect on leaders I have worked with in the past. And made me realize I need to own my authority and stop collaborating with leaders who are all authority (minimal people skills) or all people and manipulation but all fluff.
Bye bye Felicia
3) Before I explode that person to my professor (the leader), it's two... And now it turns to three. I had to talk to a lot of people just to make sure that the negative asshole are not touching my professor since I noticed that he tired to attack and get into my energy and I figured it out quick. But since my professor was not aware of it and she got dragged by him. When I figured it out, I got extremely pissed off. And I find different ways to protect her and get her out the situation... And I also tried to talk to her about the situation but she said that she like him as a person and is willing to troll the entire class just to fit his agendas.... And I really don't know what I can do from this situation... My other professors told me that they're willing to talk to her about it but I told them to held on first since I need her to understand what she did get into and how she trolled the entire class into it when she didn't needed to. I also pulled a lot of protection for all of my classes since I really don't need chaos and other things... I just hope that she is able to learn from this experience and that's not okay at all.
pile 1❤️🔥 so grateful for you jess! thank you we love you happy valentine’s day :)
No negative comments BUT I did not understand anything about pile 3. you are awesome. probably I am slow one. can anyone simply the pile 3 for me please? and they means 1 particular person ( who is on my mind ) right? because have only 1 person in my mind ( very strongly ) then who is this 2nd person? I am so confused. please someone help me out.thanks . good luck
No worries, thank you for being kind! Firstly, they “say” a lot with their body language. They adopt a wounded kind of demeanor, they may even cry, but they come off sort of, internal and forlorn in a helpless/ I don’t know what to do about this kind of way. Then they talk about you not being around in some capacity, maybe living a happy life without them. They talk about your happiness, career, love life in particular. They may talk of you getting in between them and someone else or someone else getting in between the two of you. They speak of that situation critically. They speak in a defensive way about themselves and their own behavior. They say they are tired and that they’ve tried so hard for so long. They’ve tried everything they can think of. They may speak of being caught off guard by what’s gone on. If another person got in between you, then they say that you were enamored with that person in an all-consuming, awe-inspired, maybe even overly sexual kind of way. They may speak of responsibility - what responsibilities they tried to tend to, which responsibilities you didn’t or don’t or won’t fulfill. They could talk of a need to protect themselves. They may say that you are different or strange in a way they don’t understand and that was closeted before, maybe to have been sparked by this other person that got between you. If someone did get between you, they speak of them disapprovingly, saying things like, “they just aren’t like us.” The thing to keep in mind, that I think I didn’t do a great job of explaining is that some of these people genuinely feel this way and have genuine cause to feel this way. Others, have made their own bed in the situation and have caused their own abandonment through their abhorrent behavior and rather than admitting that, they blame shift onto a healthy, well intentioned person that they deem a threat to their established toxic order that any healing, self-respecting person would move away from. They do this instead of making healthy changes to the way they treat people because they only care about their reputation and not the hurt they have caused others, Hope that helps!
@@jesspucketttarot Thank you so so so much 😭😭🙏So kind of you 🙏 dont know why just reading your explanations bring tears to my eyes.God bless you .
Pile 1: I’m a Taurus Sun with Pisces Venus so even the cards are accurate 🤍🤍🤍
Pile one, I came in a couple hours expecting this to be a general reading, but it seems believable that this might as well be what he could be saying and thinking. Because I am usually a quiet person around him, but around different people, like my former male elderly client, I act different. I talk obnoxiously loud when I see certain clients so they can hear me. And then there are times where he will mostly see me in a pony tail, and certain days he will catch me leaving my long hair down. The two faced sounds believable because as a non verbal autistic person, I can and cannot mask things. People never could figure me out, and compared to everyone in that community, I am actually pretty much different. He is handsome and has a boss like position and hangs around cliques at work, since I don't work there, but have a key to the building, I may act like I am my own boss there too. But in my job, I think it is important to be 2 faced. However, I'm not really sure how the universe will bring me up as a kidney stone, when I am rarely there due to many different assignments I have in different locations.
I'm going to be honest with you jess i've been following watching your readings for years now always my best i was hoping it will get easier to understand with time but here you going an other level of complex i couldn't understand a word from the third pile😳 nothing 👏
Pile 2. Yes he's the only person that I actually respect enough to truly listen too. I actually just watched Beauty and the beast the other night with my daughter she chose the movie and I was not trying to watch it but she insisted. Funny that you're bringing it up in this reading. 0
This was amazing accurate, very detailed😩 Thank you for sharing your gift
Pile 2 was the profound insight I didn't know I needed. Yes, there might have been evangelicalism involved that's masking deep seated unspoken issues
You always hit the nail 9n the head ❤Thank you for pile#1 I claim and affirm this reading Thank you and Blessed Be ❤
Pile 1 this is the second reader that their spirits thanked me for “dealing” with him 😂😂😂
Pile 1 (and pile 3 after, with me as positive and her spouse as the asshole. It's so a game of pin the tail on the AH), and this is absolutely what happened with myself and the person I consider to be my twin flame. If I was right (and I was), the rest of her life was wrong, and in her efforts to get one over on me, she played herself. I wanted to open up to her, I wanted to have fun, but she was so controlling of the moments we spent together that I wasn't able, there was never space or time. She played herself, and yet she thought it was all me. She was jealous of the interactions I had with everyone else, and yet wouldn't allow me time to interact with her (she worked at a school, I have kids that go there, I was friendly with staff and other parents and am fond of a laugh). Her husband was a RE agent with bad vibes, and she fell for me, and she had the hots for me, and that was all my fault for being manipulative (or merely existing), clearly. So the me just being there to lure in a "little old lady" like her? Yes? Yes hahahaha.
She did set up a trap, she cold blocked me on FB and I certainly did not behave as she expected me to. I treated her with concern and kindness, before telling her I was done with the bullshit. Well shit, I proved that I was the person I always looked like I was. Cue implosion and her fleeing. It's been a while.
Transformation has been happening, and I've occasionally checked in and been her guide from afar, by mail or energy, but it's not over until the fat lady sings.
I said that we were in all three piles. Thats why i guessed that it was "him" as the crush as you went along. It is scary because why did he keep love-bombing through you to me, like he really cared? All the while, his agenda is syphoning me of my "shine"???
Do you do music jess? Where can i find it if so? Your intro got me mesmerized
2nd option..so accurate with two narcs and one empath n the Narc duo happens to be a mother and a son in a mess I know about.
Pile 1. You made me chuckle a few times and yes, my walls are high
Yeah. I’m just being me. Self preservation. 💯
I love youuuuuuuuu & your readings ❤
I was brought to this video again by Spirit and drawn to pile 3, not knowing why I needed to hear it.
1. I'm sorry that the situation was so draining for you.
2. You SHOULD dislike the negative person. He took my children by way of trickery and lies.
3. I hope that a 3rd party with authority will be able to see the truth.
Gurl!!!! Where have you been?? Soo glad to see you back. I've missed your readings. You are one of my faves. 💜 thank you for your reading. I picked pile 3 so we'll see how this goes...
Thank you for uploading this reading! I love all your readings... you're brilliant and so insightful!!💕🙏🌟
Thank you so much!
Pile 2 was a doozy but it resonated. I’m the 1st person the authoritative person was who I was inquiring about and the fluff person was a mutual “friend”/ “coworker” of the authoritative person that’s been playing middle man
Pile 2. You said 'it's basically a game of....pin the tail on the asshole'. I laughed so loud. That is exactly what is happening.
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Happy Valentine’s Day Jess! Thank you
God bless your heart, Jess, for the exhaustive Pile 3 reading. Spot on, sadly. Thank you for your work!
Deck 1- Yup 👍 he’s the trickster & obsessed with mega millionaires & hoarding money 💴!! It’s exhausting - Next!
Girl, all this talking about crackers, pineapple... I'm on keto, stop it!! Haha. Thank you for the reading, nice to hear from you! Hope all is well 💜
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1- Amazing read on my recent entanglement - I cut him off & he’s freaked out, reaching out to my friends! Unbelievable
Thank you. I don’t think I connect with your readings anymore but great to hear your voice.
3 am positive person needed help but cut off all the others after, anyone who is emotionally baiting is out.
Thank you Jess🥺🥰chose pile 2 and listened to it all the way through🎉❤
JESSSSSS! I have not paid my patreon subscription (:( ) so I have been hanging out for a new posting here! Wooo Hoo! 'Best day eveeeeer! ;)
Yay! Thank you!
Finally had the time to watch my reading pile #2 🤭
I’m person #1. He’s Mr Darcy 🙄 terrible social and communication skills. I got offended by something he said trying to raffle my feathers. It was a post in social media he was questioning my knowledge and it made me feel insecure and I think I was fair and collected in my response but I was vivid 😠. Left his a$$ on read because I didn’t want to prove my point to him because he just wanted to get a reaction out of me. The second person may be a church or the girl he’s dating. He’s Christian and yes he is very closed minded and I can feel him judging me from miles away and here I am posting witchy stuff in my page 🤣. He should be scared ☺️
Completely resonate & my person with clarity.. totally hilarious yet sharp perspective guys, I'm a fan! ✨💖🌎🕊️
Jess, pile 1, the person I had in mind had a serious organ issue (almost died) - it was with the same unusual organ you mentioned numerous times in the reading. Surrreal. 😀
This is the ABSOLUTE most BEAUTIFUL reading… love 💕 your readings .. Thanks Jess!!
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Oh & YeSsss his fam/friends and location has had very negative affects on him as well as our relationship prior to this separation....he's my twin flame so we do mirror each other..he is religious where I'm spiritual so it's a process so 🙏 for the healing and transformation needed for our balanced healthy union
Pile 3 kept giving me "The Markles" 🥺
Pile 2. I really didn’t get the point. Too much of words. I hope it would be direct to the point 😂
It is definitely a hard one to understand!
Pile 2, this was impossible to follow
I choose pile 1 and I remember they told me how I’m “not vulnerable” with them 😂 I was thinking to myself like bitch I don’t owe you shit.
Haha pile #2 and this is my work situation. It is, in fact, a mess.
Thanks Jess you are so so so good at this ❤
Pile 3 here I understood perfectly. The message was very clear to what I asked.
I think that most people of this channel's tribe who pick pile 2 are probably "person 1". 😊
I just love listening to you speak your insight and gift blows me away thankyou for providing me with clarity yet again jess, love light and Rainbows 🌈 💖 ✨️
Thank you so much! This made my night!
I devour your readings (I had come back to them time after time) but this and the previous reading you did, I just don't understand at all 🫣 I picked pile 2 and re-listened 3x and I still don't get it.
Hey Jess, thanks for the interesting reading 😊
Could you possibly consider doing a soulmates Twin Flame Journey Reading for those of us seeking corrective actions to be able to transcend generational differences and challenges to provide some information about navigating back after doing the shadow work please 🙏💞🌠💗
You're doing some wonderful work here by the way 🙂 xoxoxox 💕🙌💞
Sending you much love and abundance of blessings to you and yours mwah 💋😘
Love this deck, also recently ordered the alchemy deck, I think its gonna be exciting
U comeback yayyy❤❤🌠