I can say that sometimes the best way to get help is to give it. It's kinda like cosmic stuff but it makes sense that you can only get what you give. Ha...yep❤
James, congratulations on your decision. People have a hard time making a decision and committing to it. It means that they are acknowledging something and choosing to do something different. I can't imagine how hard it was for you to make that choice but I commend you for it. You kept saying "keep moving forward" and that reminded me of a quote by Walt Disney: "Around here, however, we don't look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward, opening up new doors and doing new things… and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths." I look forward to seeing what comes next in your journey. Keep going, kiddo!
You can be confused, or even lost, but that doesn't mean what's in front of you is bad. It's time to work on a short term plan. Like many, here to help if I can.
From the group, Fun.: "If you're lost and alone, or you're sinkin' like a stone... Carry on... May your past be the sound of your feet upon the ground... Carry on... Carry on..., carry on". Through "failure", you learn. It's a temporary setback on what you think of as where you should be in life. You learn more of what not to do, more of what to do and more of the timing of when to do it. Consider anything you think of as a "failure" to be a lesson in moving forward. Best of luck.
What a nice symbolic coincidence : while you are talking about moving forward, the sun comes peeping though the tree behind you. A poet would say : the universe agrees with your ideas 😊
No one can manipulate time. It's a waste to try to control what's greater than yourself, what's consistent, and what's never going to change. It's an inevitable road to misery and internal conflict in general. Love the video, James.
"It is not the critic who counts, not the one who points out how the strong man stumbled or how the doer of deeds might have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred with sweat and dust and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, and spends himself in a worthy cause; who, if he wins, knows the triumph of high achievement; and who, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat."
James. Lookin the mirror and smile. You're looking great. Greet people you meet and smile, make their day. Be kind and helpful. None of that costs money and you've shined a little light on the darkness in the world. It's free but of unmeasurable value. Listen to peoples stories, if they're good, write them down. You have a gift James, you are an asset to the world. You don't have to do what people think are great things, allot of little genuine things win over great. Wake up tomorrow and work to be the best version of James you can. I Love you buddy, you're in my prayers, on the darkest night a little candle shows for miles and lets someone know they are not alone. Worry consumes, action creates. Stories are the spice of life and seeds of hope. Live some stories tomorrow. Take care James.
Sometimes one of the most important things is to make a decision. You do your best to evaluate a situation, and then make a choice. So, if the choice is to stay in college, then you stay in college. If the choice is to leave college, then you leave college and see what comes next. We never know exactly what tomorrow will bring. But, with experience and some intelligence we adjust to the direction that we have chosen. So, congratulations for making a decision. Don’t waste too much time on thinking if you are making a mistake. Chances are that you’re making the right decision for yourself at this point in time.
Yup stay positive & move forward cos life can throw so many curve balls. Yesterday CA had an earthquake that may not have affected you directly, but think about the people that were directly affected possibly for the rest of their life. Yesterday the CEO of United Healthcare was murdered in broad daylight. He was in his 50s married w 2 children...his wife & children's lives changed in a minute. Anything can happen in life. Idk how do you prepare for either of those 2 life changing events? You roll with the punches & be on guard. Not sure who said this but I've heard it used a few times "Hope for the best, but expect the worst"
MOVE FORWARD IS GREAT. HERE ARE FIVE IMPORTANT AREAS TO MOVE FORWARD: MOVE FORWARD WITH GOD, WITH CONNECTING WITH PEOPLE, WITH LOVING YOURSELF, WITH YOUR INTERESTS, AND WITH ENJOYING NATURE. GOD BLESS. BILL
James, it's good you realize you need to move forward. You also need to be open to accept help when it's offered as well. Hopefully, I'll see you next weekend.
Hey man, just do one thing for me, and that is stay positive, and keep looking forward. Life closes one door but opens another door to a brighter future. Hope you had a great day!
There are some quick but nutritious meals that are faster than doordash. Some Hebrew National franks heat up in 1 minute in the microwave, and adding some relish, mustard, chopped onion, and a bun, or even just a bun and mustard or relish, makes a tasty meal. Add a small milk if you get thirsty. Of course, that means having a small microwave and a small fridge. If that isnt an option, just a plastic spoon and a jar of peanut butter can tide you over when you need something fast. Have handy some sardines, trail mix, crackers, etc. when you need quick bite.
I don't really know what to do. I know it's time to move on, but I can't do this. I can't be saved, i know it, I've too much problems and I'm only 14. My sh got really bad from a year, my depression keeps me in my bed all day every day. It's hard, you know. Some days ago I thought about tak1ng my l1f3, i commit for the first time when i was 12, but it didn't work. I swear if someone doesn't save me, I'm gone. Anyway, love you James!❤ You're so kind and i appreciate how you are trying to help us. Keep going
Speaking as somebody who has dealt with depression on and off since I was like 12, it's definitely much harder to deal with at your age but it's not insurmountable. You say it's been 2 years since you tried - if you can make it 2 years then you can do 4 years, if you can do 4 then you can do 8, etc etc. It does get better.
You need to find somebody that'll give you the positivity in your life that you are missing. Are your parents around, are they supportive? You need to go talk to somebody, it don't need to be a family member, friend, etc. Find someone that'll stop and listen to you, talk about what is going through your mind, where things took a turn downhill for you, and what your struggles are somebody will help you if you just talk to them, be honest, be open, as hard as it seems, if you talk to somebody that actually cares, you'll find that things will start getting better as the person is able to understand what's going on, and be able to steer you away from what's causing your depression and suicidal thoughts.
Honestly, man, you don't need "someone to save" you. You can save yourself. When you feel like you don't even want to get out of bed, get up anyway, go for a walk in a park, a wooded area, somewhere quiet, peaceful, where you can sort things out. I should point out there's always been talk about teen suicide, but you never really hear about people in their 60s, 70s, talking like that. think about it. High school, and jr high can be miserable, and is for a lot of the people you know at school. Just gotta keep going. Find what interests you, what makes you sit up and take notice. You'll find you don't have time to be down.
thank you everyone.. I'm trying to stay one more day. It's so tough. My dad isn't present (I don't really know where he is, but I see him once a week. We've not a strong bond.) My mama is here in my house, but she is already sad and quite depressed, I want so bad to talk to her and help her, but I'm struggling too and if somebody doesn't save me first, I can't help her. I really can't. Anyway I can't talk to them abt this things. Other family members are not supportive at all. My sister is, but I don't want her to be sad because of me. She's the reason that I'm staying. Teachers don't care at all. So yeah. Thank you I appreciate it. Maybe someone cares.
I know, and I hope your other subscribers realize, that making these videos is very therapeutic for you. I am glad for that. You don't need to plan your whole life now. I wish there was a way you could find a local adult mentor who could befriend you and help you out, in the way that Big Brothers/Big Sisters helps fatherless kids. Keep moving forward no matter what is the best advice.
You speak so well and are so intelligent while understanding the complexities of life - you should consider looking into a career in social work or counseling
*"When it comes to moving forward in my own life I think one of the main struggles is letting go of the past and it's like even just letting go of what I believe the present moment to be as well."* Oh where have I heard this statement before, 🤔😉 My, my those are the words of a *"touched"* person who is thinking and learning to accept the truth of what was, what is, and what is to come. Yes James, let the thoughts and your emotions flow like water and and travel the river with them, understand them, accept them both good and bad but the path of the Canoe is controlled by you to it's destination and each stop is another lesson to learn and a destination visited to attain that knowledge. You are thinking, you are beginning to accept the truth and reality of things and that's a great step forward. 🙏
J, you are in a difficult position. With what you have learned, try to put it into you feelings. I know your thoughts don’t let go sometimes, but things you like keep in your thoughts. 🙏🏼 Hang in. 👍
Dude!! You're life is on the line RN!!! You (and your parents) need to realize that and ease the fu@% up on you!! You need to ease the fu@% up on you!!! - Yes, take some time to regroup, reflect, and clarify, Man!!! Just stop a moment, take breath. You're SO young. You've only been in this world 18 years, and only been fully in control of your life for...NONE of that time. Give yourself six months, a year! But - and this is important , as soon as you feel ready/able to, CREATE SOMETHING!!! - And not a TH-cam video. Yes, keep doing these vid, by all means! But, if you think you may want to be a filmmaker, make another short film - about anything!! - Adapt a short story you like, a poem, an experience you or someone you know or know of had, a song you love (make a video for it) - ANYTHING that truly interests/inspires you. Make a short film about what its like to be in a hospital for mental health struggles? IDK, but when you're ready, think in it, and it will come to you. But do it!!! - Make something, create something! Then do content updates on the project, Bro! Then release it on TH-cam!! Again, IDK, these are just suggestions. But CREATE something; if not a shirt film, then something else - it will save your life!!! Also, pretty sure you're autistic on the low-beeds end of the spectrum - what used to be called Asbergers. - Look into it. If I'm right, this realization will also save your life! Best of luck, J! - You're a good guy, and the world needs those, desperately! You'll figure this s#!+ out, trust me!
Let me help you move forward bro. Let's talk one on one. I don't even mean on stream. Admittedly, I'm not a professional in mental health but I do know about self-employement(which I'm assuming is the route you want to take). I'm here for you bro
@@kennethdawson3787 thank you man, I appreciate that. If you wanna talk one on one, reach out to my personal instagram @jqwool53 it’s private but I will accept you
Scars from the past make us stronger. whether physical, or mental. look back in the past, and think "i wouldve crumbled right now, if i didnt experiance anything." Then, move on. never look back on the past. look to the future. move forward. its time for a change.❤️🩹#strongerthanever
@@Jwool.mp3 Hey I gotta tell you now you've replied to my comment: you know as you're dropping out of college I've got an interview for Oxford on Monday, but I look up to you man. You are an inspiration to me. What you do is so incredibly important. I think you know this man, but imagine if you had a you. I've never had to deal with the stuff you've had to, but you're strength to do what you do. Genuinely, it's really impressive. You're one of my favourite people on the internet rn. This is such a hopeful video.
@ thank you man I really appreciate that and I appreciate your support. Good luck with Oxford, I’m sure you’ll get in and I’m sure you’ll do great things. You got this
I also think TH-cam will work out for him, the key is commitment, which he has, and then obviously give it some time. Also the videos are quality and interesting. So all the boxes are ticked for it work on TH-cam.
"A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new." - Albert Einstein
You’re a deep thinker , James . The world needs more of you
Life is not about waiting for the storm to end, its about learning to dance in the rain.
I can say that sometimes the best way to get help is to give it. It's kinda like cosmic stuff but it makes sense that you can only get what you give. Ha...yep❤
Not all storms come to disrupt your life, some come to clear a path.
James, congratulations on your decision. People have a hard time making a decision and committing to it. It means that they are acknowledging something and choosing to do something different. I can't imagine how hard it was for you to make that choice but I commend you for it. You kept saying "keep moving forward" and that reminded me of a quote by Walt Disney:
"Around here, however, we don't look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward, opening up new doors and doing new things… and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths."
I look forward to seeing what comes next in your journey. Keep going, kiddo!
"Time moves forward, and nothing changes" - Max Payne
"If anything can happen that means anything positive can happen too."
Wow I love that. Thank you for this video James.
You can be confused, or even lost, but that doesn't mean what's in front of you is bad. It's time to work on a short term plan. Like many, here to help if I can.
From the group, Fun.: "If you're lost and alone, or you're sinkin' like a stone... Carry on... May your past be the sound of your feet upon the ground... Carry on... Carry on..., carry on". Through "failure", you learn. It's a temporary setback on what you think of as where you should be in life. You learn more of what not to do, more of what to do and more of the timing of when to do it. Consider anything you think of as a "failure" to be a lesson in moving forward. Best of luck.
Nice vid Jwool, this video was a good reminder for me to stay positive and move forward, Thankyou.
@@AshtonIson15 thank you!! I’m glad it could help
What a nice symbolic coincidence : while you are talking about moving forward, the sun comes peeping though the tree behind you. A poet would say : the universe agrees with your ideas 😊
I needed some words of wisdom this morning. Thank you Jwool
No one can manipulate time. It's a waste to try to control what's greater than yourself, what's consistent, and what's never going to change. It's an inevitable road to misery and internal conflict in general. Love the video, James.
"It is not the critic who counts, not the one who points out how the strong man stumbled or how the doer of deeds might have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred with sweat and dust and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, and spends himself in a worthy cause; who, if he wins, knows the triumph of high achievement; and who, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat."
James. Lookin the mirror and smile. You're looking great. Greet people you meet and smile, make their day. Be kind and helpful. None of that costs money and you've shined a little light on the darkness in the world. It's free but of unmeasurable value.
Listen to peoples stories, if they're good, write them down. You have a gift James, you are an asset to the world. You don't have to do what people think are great things, allot of little genuine things win over great. Wake up tomorrow and work to be the best version of James you can. I Love you buddy, you're in my prayers, on the darkest night a little candle shows for miles and lets someone know they are not alone. Worry consumes, action creates. Stories are the spice of life and seeds of hope. Live some stories tomorrow. Take care James.
Sometimes one of the most important things is to make a decision. You do your best to evaluate a situation, and then make a choice. So, if the choice is to stay in college, then you stay in college. If the choice is to leave college, then you leave college and see what comes next. We never know exactly what tomorrow will bring. But, with experience and some intelligence we adjust to the direction that we have chosen. So, congratulations for making a decision. Don’t waste too much time on thinking if you are making a mistake. Chances are that you’re making the right decision for yourself at this point in time.
Yup stay positive & move forward cos life can throw so many curve balls. Yesterday CA had an earthquake that may not have affected you directly, but think about the people that were directly affected possibly for the rest of their life.
Yesterday the CEO of United Healthcare was murdered in broad daylight. He was in his 50s married w 2 children...his wife & children's lives changed in a minute. Anything can happen in life.
Idk how do you prepare for either of those 2 life changing events?
You roll with the punches & be on guard.
Not sure who said this but I've heard it used a few times
"Hope for the best, but expect the worst"
❤️ Life is one long lesson in letting go ❤️
MOVE FORWARD IS GREAT. HERE ARE FIVE IMPORTANT AREAS TO MOVE FORWARD: MOVE FORWARD WITH GOD, WITH CONNECTING WITH PEOPLE, WITH LOVING YOURSELF, WITH YOUR INTERESTS, AND WITH ENJOYING NATURE. GOD BLESS. BILL
Love the video man!!! I needed that
@@Jacobhemmer123 thank you!!! Glad I could help :)
You got this keep on trucking. Remember it does get better. Setbacks are what they are, don't let setbacks stop your forward progress.
You look so cute with the short hair! ❤
Yes but I miss the curls
James,
it's good you realize you need to move forward. You also need to be open to accept help when it's offered as well. Hopefully, I'll see you next weekend.
Hey man, just do one thing for me, and that is stay positive, and keep looking forward. Life closes one door but opens another door to a brighter future. Hope you had a great day!
There are some quick but nutritious meals that are faster than doordash. Some Hebrew National franks heat up in 1 minute in the microwave, and adding some relish, mustard, chopped onion, and a bun, or even just a bun and mustard or relish, makes a tasty meal. Add a small milk if you get thirsty. Of course, that means having a small microwave and a small fridge. If that isnt an option, just a plastic spoon and a jar of peanut butter can tide you over when you need something fast. Have handy some sardines, trail mix, crackers, etc. when you need quick bite.
God bless you my dearest brother
You’re so articulate. You are a good thinker. You’ll be fine
I needed this thank you
I don't really know what to do. I know it's time to move on, but I can't do this. I can't be saved, i know it, I've too much problems and I'm only 14. My sh got really bad from a year, my depression keeps me in my bed all day every day. It's hard, you know. Some days ago I thought about tak1ng my l1f3, i commit for the first time when i was 12, but it didn't work. I swear if someone doesn't save me, I'm gone.
Anyway, love you James!❤ You're so kind and i appreciate how you are trying to help us.
Keep going
Keep going. I hope you come out the other side.
Speaking as somebody who has dealt with depression on and off since I was like 12, it's definitely much harder to deal with at your age but it's not insurmountable. You say it's been 2 years since you tried - if you can make it 2 years then you can do 4 years, if you can do 4 then you can do 8, etc etc. It does get better.
You need to find somebody that'll give you the positivity in your life that you are missing. Are your parents around, are they supportive? You need to go talk to somebody, it don't need to be a family member, friend, etc. Find someone that'll stop and listen to you, talk about what is going through your mind, where things took a turn downhill for you, and what your struggles are somebody will help you if you just talk to them, be honest, be open, as hard as it seems, if you talk to somebody that actually cares, you'll find that things will start getting better as the person is able to understand what's going on, and be able to steer you away from what's causing your depression and suicidal thoughts.
Honestly, man, you don't need "someone to save" you. You can save yourself. When you feel like you don't even want to get out of bed, get up anyway, go for a walk in a park, a wooded area, somewhere quiet, peaceful, where you can sort things out. I should point out there's always been talk about teen suicide, but you never really hear about people in their 60s, 70s, talking like that. think about it. High school, and jr high can be miserable, and is for a lot of the people you know at school. Just gotta keep going. Find what interests you, what makes you sit up and take notice. You'll find you don't have time to be down.
thank you everyone.. I'm trying to stay one more day. It's so tough. My dad isn't present (I don't really know where he is, but I see him once a week. We've not a strong bond.)
My mama is here in my house, but she is already sad and quite depressed, I want so bad to talk to her and help her, but I'm struggling too and if somebody doesn't save me first, I can't help her. I really can't. Anyway I can't talk to them abt this things.
Other family members are not supportive at all. My sister is, but I don't want her to be sad because of me. She's the reason that I'm staying. Teachers don't care at all.
So yeah. Thank you I appreciate it. Maybe someone cares.
Besides making the simple videos....how about a video on where you see yourself 5 years from now.
Include in the video long and short term goals
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I know, and I hope your other subscribers realize, that making these videos is very therapeutic for you. I am glad for that. You don't need to plan your whole life now. I wish there was a way you could find a local adult mentor who could befriend you and help you out, in the way that Big Brothers/Big Sisters helps fatherless kids. Keep moving forward no matter what is the best advice.
Yes, it’s very therapeutic indeed. And right now Esther is my best support system and she is incredible and helps me keep my head on straight
yes, embrace the future. go for the future.
The choices you make TODAY will dictate the life you will lead tomorrow
You speak so well and are so intelligent while understanding the complexities of life - you should consider looking into a career in social work or counseling
Thank you >FORWARD !
*"When it comes to moving forward in my own life I think one of the main struggles is letting go of the past and it's like even just letting go of what I believe the present moment to be as well."* Oh where have I heard this statement before, 🤔😉 My, my those are the words of a *"touched"* person who is thinking and learning to accept the truth of what was, what is, and what is to come. Yes James, let the thoughts and your emotions flow like water and and travel the river with them, understand them, accept them both good and bad but the path of the Canoe is controlled by you to it's destination and each stop is another lesson to learn and a destination visited to attain that knowledge.
You are thinking, you are beginning to accept the truth and reality of things and that's a great step forward. 🙏
J, you are in a difficult position. With what you have learned, try to put it into you feelings. I know your thoughts don’t let go sometimes, but things you like keep in your thoughts. 🙏🏼 Hang in. 👍
Looks like I needed this video, my gf broke up with me last night but I think it will be ok
It’s gonna be okay man. I know how tough that is, but just stay positive. It’ll get easier every day
It'll be ok for sure....get on with it, plenty of girls out there.
That's right stay positive it
Good for you I have hope for you do well😊
Psalm 118:17 (You can meditate on it)
cool 🤙
Awesome vid love you bro
Mr.JAMES.....Maybe this isn't a set-back but a set-up for something better
Very true my friend
Dude!! You're life is on the line RN!!! You (and your parents) need to realize that and ease the fu@% up on you!! You need to ease the fu@% up on you!!! - Yes, take some time to regroup, reflect, and clarify, Man!!! Just stop a moment, take breath. You're SO young. You've only been in this world 18 years, and only been fully in control of your life for...NONE of that time. Give yourself six months, a year! But - and this is important , as soon as you feel ready/able to, CREATE SOMETHING!!! - And not a TH-cam video. Yes, keep doing these vid, by all means! But, if you think you may want to be a filmmaker, make another short film - about anything!! - Adapt a short story you like, a poem, an experience you or someone you know or know of had, a song you love (make a video for it) - ANYTHING that truly interests/inspires you. Make a short film about what its like to be in a hospital for mental health struggles? IDK, but when you're ready, think in it, and it will come to you. But do it!!! - Make something, create something! Then do content updates on the project, Bro! Then release it on TH-cam!! Again, IDK, these are just suggestions. But CREATE something; if not a shirt film, then something else - it will save your life!!! Also, pretty sure you're autistic on the low-beeds end of the spectrum - what used to be called Asbergers. - Look into it. If I'm right, this realization will also save your life! Best of luck, J! - You're a good guy, and the world needs those, desperately! You'll figure this s#!+ out, trust me!
Peace.
Cute hair cut
I think when you move forward you'll be pleasantly surprised to find God/Jesus already there waiting for you. PS-great to see you outdoors!
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Let me help you move forward bro. Let's talk one on one. I don't even mean on stream. Admittedly, I'm not a professional in mental health but I do know about self-employement(which I'm assuming is the route you want to take). I'm here for you bro
@@kennethdawson3787 thank you man, I appreciate that. If you wanna talk one on one, reach out to my personal instagram @jqwool53 it’s private but I will accept you
stop thinking about the future.... think about today
Scars from the past make us stronger. whether physical, or mental. look back in the past, and think "i wouldve crumbled right now, if i didnt experiance anything." Then, move on. never look back on the past. look to the future. move forward. its time for a change.❤️🩹#strongerthanever
Hi I’m here first!!!!yay
You were 2nd bro.
Hey bubba so true
Baby steps
mental case counselling mental cases
Hey man outdoor videos are cool! Do you read?
Not anymore, I really need to get back into it though. I used to love reading, and I still do love it whenever I do
@@Jwool.mp3 If you ever get the chance you gotta read the Plague by Albert Camus
@@Jwool.mp3 Hey I gotta tell you now you've replied to my comment: you know as you're dropping out of college I've got an interview for Oxford on Monday, but I look up to you man. You are an inspiration to me. What you do is so incredibly important. I think you know this man, but imagine if you had a you. I've never had to deal with the stuff you've had to, but you're strength to do what you do. Genuinely, it's really impressive. You're one of my favourite people on the internet rn. This is such a hopeful video.
@ thank you man I really appreciate that and I appreciate your support. Good luck with Oxford, I’m sure you’ll get in and I’m sure you’ll do great things. You got this
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it takes time i guess
College is great for some people but it's also overrated. Ray Bradbury never went to college.
I also think TH-cam will work out for him, the key is commitment, which he has, and then obviously give it some time. Also the videos are quality and interesting. So all the boxes are ticked for it work on TH-cam.
ill be 70 tomorrow , there isn't much in my future.
Same
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Posted my first video yesterday which isn't a video
please regrow your hair. The skater look was soooooo hott on you!
Join a church