Can Christians Date/Marry Unbelievers | A Christian Podcast

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  • @AwakenGenZZ
    @AwakenGenZZ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This is an interesting conversation to me because I was into “new age spirituality” (which is just re-branded witchcraft) and my best friend at the time was Christian, and then we started dating and I was able to be saved through Him telling me about God and witnessing the miracles in his life, and the effectiveness of his prayers. And now we’re married and I know I can never turn away from God again. I think it’s important for people to date other Christians, but I think God works in mysterious ways and sometimes He wants you to get close to someone even if they’re not a Christian like yourself.

    • @tasiaowens.
      @tasiaowens. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow that’s beautiful

  • @tasiaowens.
    @tasiaowens. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I think dating as a Christian gets easier once you truly understand who you are and what you want.

    • @TboneWTF
      @TboneWTF 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's the same as a "closet" homosexual finally admitting who they are.

  • @HarrisonFamilyValues
    @HarrisonFamilyValues 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I think we add to scripture, that passage says not to be unequally yoked to an unbeliever not to believers that we feel aren't on our spiritual level. Deeper conversation, great discussion fam.

    • @AChristianPod
      @AChristianPod  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yeah this joint is from last year lol and I have since dug deeper on this topic. I will definitely have a new conversation about this with the more relevant revelation and scriptures!
      Appreciate you watching!🎈

    • @lawrencemcginnis9307
      @lawrencemcginnis9307 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      AMEN that's right sir it's all about serving HIM in EXCELLENCE and OBEDIENCE in HIS TRUTH sir🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @Kiki_bxbby
    @Kiki_bxbby 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I think it’s a no cause like my bf is a Hindu and like we could be ok with our own religion but the fact that I’m allowing demons and my God to be worshipped in the same house i don’t think that’s ok

    • @AChristianPod
      @AChristianPod  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I feel that! 🎈

  • @daseanclark5462
    @daseanclark5462 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Although it’s definitely worth it, I think it’s harder to date as a Christian- before Christ I didn’t have as many expectations/standards when going into a relationship, so it was easier to find someone; it was basically is she cute and do we have chemistry.
    But now, being equally yoked is very important to me-Making sure she has the fruit of the spirit, and shares my values. That shrinks the pool significantly But like the word says, a good wife is hard to find- it wont come easy.

    • @TboneWTF
      @TboneWTF 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm sure when you confess to your potential partner how faithful to your beliefs you are that they must make the same considerations that you do, correct? LOL. After all it's a two-way street. Your not the only person with standards, right? Your comment makes it appear as if you're doing some one a favor by accepting their affection. Not a nice trait by the way. Good luck.

    • @daseanclark5462
      @daseanclark5462 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TboneWTF hmm I’m not sure what you mean exactly. My point was dating is harder as a believer since we’re not going to accept the things we would’ve let fly when we were in the world. For example: currently I won’t date someone who doesn’t pray, read the Bible, or attend church regularly, however before knowing Christ, those things wouldn’t have been a big deal to me- in other words, these new standards cancel out a lot of women I couldve previously seen myself courting, which therefore makes dating harder for me because there’s less overall women to choose from… hopefully that makes sense.

  • @lclark3279
    @lclark3279 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You absolutely can marry an unbeliever ! But just because you can doesn’t mean you should or it’s right . The same way we can cuss out a homeless person , doesn’t mean it’s right or we should . I don’t think the topic is “ can we” I think the question is should we .

  • @tasiaowens.
    @tasiaowens. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Okayy he stepped on my toes with that grace talk lol @ 8:30 😅 powerful

  • @G.mwaniki
    @G.mwaniki 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    (2 corinthians 6:14)-Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? , seek God first and everything will be added to you(marriage etc...)

  • @Truechildofgod
    @Truechildofgod 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If a man loves himself he will love his wife also. The Lord teaches men and women to be pleased with their own husband/ wife and a man that loves God will not compromise going against a union that is meant to HONOR GOD. I am saying this for those that don't understand why we are not supposed to Marry an unbeliever that is against the God we serve.

  • @Truechildofgod
    @Truechildofgod 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The guy on the far right needs to chose to be HOT or COLD because him being lukewarm about everything looking for c'mon ground with unbelievers will only bring confusion. I can appreciate the Lady with the glasses that stood strong because she knows what she believes and is firm on it. If you are an immature Christian you will be able to date and marry an unbeliever because you have not yet been established therefore you are unstable in all your ways. As you grow in Christ you will realize putting yourself in a union with someone that does not serve Christ heartily is a BIG mistake. And you will not want to take the risk especially in dating because they will fail to understand you can not have sex before marriage as they will not see the value in it. When you bring up the devil instead of rebuking they may get scared and run. It's good to teach those that are weak and faith or that are willing to learn as they may not have any. But DO NOT marry someone that has not started their journey with Christ yet and expect after marriage to change them. I'll leave you all with this... What part does light have with darkness?

    • @AChristianPod
      @AChristianPod  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I encourage that Christians should marry like-minded Christians.
      However, Paul said that an unsaved person is sanctified by their saved spouse and that it’s possible that the saved one can bring the other to salvation.
      “But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace. For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?”
      ‭‭I Corinthians‬ ‭7‬:‭12‬-‭16‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

    • @Truechildofgod
      @Truechildofgod 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate you taking the time to cite scripture as it is very important that we go precept by precept. I completely agree with with your remarks in this video as I believe it takes someone that is firm in their faith to make a declaration to set God ahead of the people that they choose to marry. The scripture you cited specifically mentions there is no cause to divorce if you are Already married to an unbeliever before knowing better. But to voluntarily marry an unbeliever knowing where they stand before taking that vow and expect peace in your household will be a hard path to tread. It is very important to note that after the Lord allowed Paul to write the first scripture you cited he then wrote this:
      2 Corinthians 6:14-18
      14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
      15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
      16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
      17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.
      18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty .
      A lot of people believe that they can handle marrying or even dating an unbeliever but while a follower of Christ may want to change an unbelievers mind to have them serve God the one that opposes God may have a goal to change the believers mind as well and have him question God/ go against Christ.
      @@AChristianPod

  • @FaithResurge
    @FaithResurge 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are Christians supposed to be celebrating Christmas? I heard that was a pagan thing

    • @obey-YAHUAH
      @obey-YAHUAH 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      .yes it is a pagan thing just like the rest of the "holidays". Christians should not be celebrating Christmas, many people believe it's Jesus' birthday but its actually Nimrod's birthday..you can look it up to fact check..God bless and keep you 💖

    • @FaithResurge
      @FaithResurge 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @GODisAgape right. But whenever I try to bring it up to Christians they want to cut me off🤣🤣 i'm just getting into the Bible but have been into New age stuff for 8 years. So I'm not sure where I'm going to settle in but I'm on my way to somewhere new I can feel

    • @obey-YAHUAH
      @obey-YAHUAH 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@FaithResurge sadly it's because a lot of Christians aren't true to the word, they do not worship in truth and in spirit..instead they live for their own desires and it breaks my heart because how are you suppose to lead people to Christ if you're not setting the example?..I'm glad that you are on your journey, you are heading into the abundant life..leave this wicked world behind you and chase after The Almighty with all your heart, he will never lead you astray 🙏🏾💞

    • @FaithResurge
      @FaithResurge 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @GODisAgape well hold on now I ain't say I'm not going to celebrate Christmas 😭 I have so many feelings and thoughts and beliefs. I'm very confused and anxious. Cause to me the Bible has always been symbolic and even Christmas is symbolic to me different than what the pagans do it for. So I'm studying and researching!! Thanks!!

    • @obey-YAHUAH
      @obey-YAHUAH 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@FaithResurge .baby steps lol, it'll take some time for you to get over Christmas but eventually as you continue to study the Bible and research more you'll understand why you need to let go of the pagan holidays

  • @TboneWTF
    @TboneWTF 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LOL. I think a better title and topic should be: "Should normal people marry Christians?" My advice is to wait as long as possible before considering marriage to a religious fanatic. Get a sense of their fanaticism. If they are constantly reminding you of God and Christ call off the marriage. It will never work. Or convince them to become a regular person. That would work also. Good luck.

    • @becaSidekick
      @becaSidekick 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol - you went from Christian to religious Fanatic. :) And ~ assumed other people are normal. Lol

  • @lawrencemcginnis9307
    @lawrencemcginnis9307 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That's living lukewarm and not of GOD period we not supposed to COMPROMISE for anything like going to church on Sunday the false sabbath and celebrating pagan holidays and practicing Traditions of men rather then serving HIM in EXCELLENCE and OBEDIENCE in HIS TRUTH but walking in LEGALISM and in BONDAGE operating in self storing hatred in our hearts

    • @QuisFearNoMan
      @QuisFearNoMan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So do we supposed to go to church on Saturday? Is sabbath Saturday?

    • @FaithResurge
      @FaithResurge 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you celebrate Christmas?

    • @lawrencemcginnis9307
      @lawrencemcginnis9307 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@FaithResurge no JESUS CHRIST of NAZARETH wasn't born on that pagan holiday

    • @lawrencemcginnis9307
      @lawrencemcginnis9307 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@FaithResurge don't do pagan holidays

    • @FaithResurge
      @FaithResurge 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lawrencemcginnis9307 I'm just asking because a lot of Christians celebrate Christmas but nobody wants to have that conversation because it brings families together so they ignore the history