@@christinawallace960 exactly his motha does, its been 5 years and it's sad, if Yandy said ok we can move on right now and she backfired with the craziness was sad.. I feel Sam hates everyday the peace and love in Their Marriage, she wants the drama in their house and that's sad because it affects her and Decees Son..
A child would not be that excited unless they do not see their parents on a constant base that's what you're missing she stays in the same f****** city as him why you don't see your son more so much so that he don't even know your f****** fiance
@Elevate & Prosper I think both of them need to move on but that was like 5 years ago after that one accident happened so I don't know why they bring it up but at the same time I really do feel bad for little mendeecee but he get caught up a lot of stuff with his stepmom and his mom and the cousin Keisha got into it at the reunion but the same time Little mendeecee was little at the time but at the same time I think that Samantha and yandy need to move on and get past that toxic problems that it had towards each other but I don't know about yandy and Erica they need to work it out too you know what I'm saying it's not about them it's about the children they need to work on it's communication need to get along with others you know what I'm saying it's not about a one man and this and the third is about the children I know that Samantha feel some type of way about the situation but I get that but it's time to move on that was years ago that was years ago
Yandy wants this dead and gone because she was wrong and she knows it. She tried to run things like some pretend mafia boss in charge” of the “ baby mama club” and got mad at them because they wouldn’t “bend the knee.” She always hated Sam the most because of that weird obsession about making decisions, parenting and raising Lil Mendeecees like Sam was the one going to jail. Meanwhile, she’s been lying about being married. She should just apologize and get it over with.
Girl what u all type of wrong. All she wanted was them to be together is a family why didn't everything there so that's her and the other baby mama decided to hold it against her when he went to jail knowing that that didn't have you when he was at and trying to act like the boss she just want them all the stay together and be around each other like they've been doing and her fake marriage you worried about her signing a paper which that shouldn't be what you worried about isn't he the one that sit there and said that he wouldn't do the same for her or he don't know if he'll do the same for her if she went to jail so it's in the day she made the right decision tonight sign that paper at that moment when he was going through his legal actions so GTFO
As the seasons have gone on. Yandy is appearing more fraudulent and inauthentic. Which is why many of the girls who was her close friends want nothing to do with her
@@thinkExistBE I started fast forwarding her scenes that season she changed Erika's locks and acted like Erika and Sam should bow down to her or something🙄 thats when I started seeing that she's the problem
I’m glad mendecees (the dad) cares enough about Samantha’s feelings to at least try and get Yandy to apologize. He knows she’s wrong then get outside and try to flip it. She’s so ugh.
It ain't About him caring about Samantha's feelings he been trying to get his family together been trying to do that and he will be able to if they stop trying to point the finger at each other it's not just yandy it's Samantha too if Samantha so butt hurt about the girl eating her upside to head if they're reunion baby grow up all that little annoying talking slick stuff this Samantha was doing she had to see that coming
Exactly, I don’t agree with some of the stuff that yandy does but come on now them other two babymamas ain’t no damn angels either!!!! They worried about her marriage being fake like come on y’all worried about the wrong shit!!!!
@@tommesiacooper1258 and she could have easily had another thing with the girl instead she held it against yandy as if yandy knew that that girl was going to run up on stage and fight her
@@tommesiacooper1258 Sam shouldn't have jumped up trying to fight anybody she wouldn't have got popped. So are we saying sam mouthing should apologize for all the shit she did to Yandy no yhall hella one sided.
Yandi is toxic and manipulative. She doesn’t want to sit down and talk about the situation because she knows that she set that attack up and when she gets called out on it? She’s dismissive, irritated and passive aggressive about it instead of just admitting it, apologizing and moving on from it. That’s the only way to bring closure and healing. To keep acting like you’re not the reason behind the drama is why they will always be divided as a so called “family”.
I suspect Yandy has a personality disorder. She has a habit of lying and not taking responsibility. Her family member and Kimbella, have attacked people in her behalf. I guess she utilizes manipulation from her days living in housing projects.
Or maybe a leopard never changes its spots and she's tired of always having some forms of bulkshit wherever samantha and the other rat baby mommas are concerned and she shouldn't have to deal with it anymore since mendeecees is present.
@@breezemoneymane5900 LOL naw....I'm pretty sure Sam had him a lot and her and Mendecees just had a really great coparenting relationship then Yandy entered the chat. I feel like she downplays their role in their OWN CHILDREN's LIVES a lot. That's why I don't care for her 😂
yandy is so delusional and manipulative. sam is so genuine and you can see that in how lil mandecees turned out. that boy is literally so genuine and he has the same glow as his mother.
Let’s be real, if Mendeeces told you what you all were going out to dinner for, you wouldn’t have come. You want this dead and buried because you know you were wrong and YOU are the problem and have always been the problem. If the shoe was on the other foot and Samantha had someone jump you from behind, you would be doing the exact same thing she’s doing. Grow up Yandy.
Samantha & her new man look so good together. Lil Mendeecee’s is so mature & such a handsome young man. Big Mendeecee’s is doing such a good job at tryna break a cycle of toxicity & kudos to him for it. Yandy…. still the same as ever, I have no words for her lol.
She was running ha MOUTH!!!! She not innocent at all!!! everybody dont play bout they peoples!!! she acting like yandy sent her yandy couldnt even get to her, HER PEOPLES COULD! Im rushing anybody thats talking crazy to mine & they cant get to them. I dont blame Her cousin.
@@niyap7259 Yandy was running THAT MOUTH!!! Does that mean Chrissy should have the honor of dragging her?? 🤔 Yandy throws stones and hides her hands. It's suspect how Yandy is always the victim
I guess you forget the pass seasons when she was acting totally different than she did on this short video. She placing the blame where it's not warranted. Yancy was shocked that her people ran up on Samantha and Samantha needs to take accountability for her actions and not just put all the blame on Yandy. And 9 times out of 10, the only reason she's acting as if she's on her grown woman is because of her dude sitting there. We all know had he not been, things wouldn't have went so calmly. If she was on her grown woman, she wouldn't have came at Yandy in that moment like she did with her child sitting there. As Yandy said, she should have been thanking her for being there for her son.
Love it how the boy is grown enough to realize his mom might not be the problem. His response of “I told You” when Yandy get all pressed shows he knows she’s not that understanding.
No he just knew it was a bad idea not to tell her first...she helped raise him that young man knows her. And in Yandy defense when the girl leaped from the crowd to snatch Sam Yandy first response was....who was that. So it wasn't a set up but Yandy did deny knowing who it was that did it once they all sat back down.
He said I told you dad because it was wrong for him to blind side her. He excused himself because his mother was the one who brought up old shit that happened mad long ago. She should have spoke to handy in private. That shit is immature. Why do that when you can get mopped again. I’m lost.
From watching all the seasons I didn’t see it like that at first. I was looking at it like wow a couple that cab actually come together with kids involved and yandy actually was a mom to lie mendences. But now it’s like she was actually in her boss moment and it never left.
I just have one question, where is Erica? Lol. “He gifted me with an Audi the day after you announced your pregnancy girl bye!” will never get old to me 😂😂
I can give Yandy the benefit of the doubt about having her cousin attack Samantha and say it's possible she didn't know it would happen but clearly Samantha has said that she has trauma from that and Yandy should be apologizing for that. Even if she didn't orchestrate an attack on her it was still someone affiliated with her that did it. So her issues with Samantha still resulted in violence against her, Little Mendeecees mother mind you, and Yandy should never be okay with that happening. She should be sick over it
Exactly and she may not have known but Yandy knew who hit Samantha and even said her name but continued to lie afterwards on the reunion and after and she got caught in that lie . Yandy be lying and has always been disrespectful to Erika and Samantha . There’s no way those two are bffs and Yandy wasn’t the problem, Yandy play victim a lot . She don’t wanna admit it but she’s the problem and she is disrespectful to them . And then to demand a thank you from them for taking care of their son, like girl why should she be thanking you when you’re disrespectful and was doing stuff behind her back acting as if you were mother and doing things without her knowing or permission like going to pick him out of school and not consulting with her . Yandy needs to apologize to Samantha and Erika and coparent properly and healthy .
@@TaeandDes4L That would drive me crazy. I am all about parents and step parents coming together and everyone doing their part to help raise children but to claim that you were the one raising her child is ridiculous. I would be so angry if someone said that about my child and completely diminished me as a mother. Beyond insulting. Beyond disrespectful. It's a level of disrespectful I could never stoop to. A level I'd say Samantha never does stoop to. She is always trying to be the bigger person and let it go
@@saramarshall2957 I agree 100% !! Yandy has been disrespectful time and time again yet again Samantha still ends up being the bigger person . Yandy has been the issue . Erika and Samantha ain’t bffs for no reason . Yandy is petty and disrespectful to them and tries to control things when it comes to their kids and it’s not right, like that time she took Samantha son out of school without her consent . She oversteps her boundaries a lot .
It shouldn't be over until Yandy apologizes. She probably only agreed to film with Samantha for a storyline; and so she could try to flex. She's only making people realize her true colors.
He pulled her chair out and she said “my baby learning!” They have been together for how long? How many children? Baby momma drama. Years in the feds and he JUST now is pulling out your chair 😂 The crumbs women take I TELL YA 😭
Yes her comments towards her husband says a lot. Yandy is legit controlling & manipulative. She gets mad when she is unable to control each narrative. That girl don't care about the mothers of her stepchildren. Just herself & wants validation for doing nice "family related" things
Exactly , because Samantha always start shit and in front of her own son.he so tierd of that bs he got up and bounced.And his dad need to man the f. Up.tell Samantha y'all didn't come there for that BS some old shit Yandy had nothing to do Wit. And thats not even her style.
"I would hate to see the most important women in my life go at it again" this almost made me cry. This kid really love his mother and stepmom but knowing Yandy she'll never understand. Her pride is more important then her stepson's feelings. She need to take accountability for her actions. I know it was five years ago but if your not willing to be responsible for the drama that happen then it's obvious she has no respect for Lil Mendeeces's mother. I don't think there is no point in having a conversation with Yandy because she will forever be bitter. I hope Samantha feels better soon because I know this is really upsetting for her.
exactly she has to apologize on behalf of her cousin, her cousin felt way too comfortable putting hands on her step son mother. clearly yandy is insecure and still feels some type of way her ego way to BIG
Yall must don't know what happen 5 yrs ago or didn't watch the show...yanny don't owe Samantha anything..she don't care for her and Sam attitude says it all..the only thing that matter is the son..mother and father getting along..
@@blkbutton4171 Amen! after all Samantha brought the old mess up, since when do we as a people have to apologize for others poor behavior? If that is the case the whole world would be up apologizing and not much else will be accomplished 🙄 she can get over it , if she open up that small mind of hers, one would think she was mentally affected by an attack by a man in a dark alley or street all alone🙄 drama Queens slays meeeeee! Yandy Is a REAL BOSS WITH A HEAVY BAG💎💍 and a Smart working brain🧠
This comment is so ones sided. Hope Samantha feels okay, what about Yandy? In this situation she has sacrifice loved and been the most helpful to everyone. Yandy loves that child and he clearly loves her but she came in with an attitude, Yandy played a big role in taking care of her son. She should be thankful, his father should be thankful. I’ve met women stepmom’s and girlfriends, that will buy toys, food, and clothes for only their children. Who always felt their children should be treated better. Yandy was all in. For him and his kids which allowed Samantha the time to be locked up herself at one point, to go to school, and have the free time to get engaged to a man her son never met. Yandy and Samantha were okay until Mendecee went away and both of the women and Samantha’s mother acted as though they wanted ti fight Yandy and from the first scene she said she was confused because Samantha was always okay with her before but then she joined forces with the other baby’s mother and they were always on attack mode and made it about them not their kids. A good mother that puts her kids first would see that and love their child having a woman around that she can trust and not have to worry about them in their care. Samantha jumped up like she was about to attack Yandy and I wouldn’t have put it past the two to jump her that is when the cousin came up. She wasn’t wrong with three people arguing with on person. That’s not a fair fight. Her cousin pro rightfully so got heated watching them go at Yandy and came up when the woman started standing up. They were wrong Yandy owes no one an apology. She should be frustrated and any as much as she held everybody down I still hear a lot of complaints. Not one thank you. Little Mendecee is getting in to modeling, acting,all because of Yandy’ s connections. He got a car for his birthday where do you think most those things come from? I see she is a good woman, and wife that loves her family, when you see her with the kids you can’t tell which is hers. That deserves a thank you.
Ok now, I get Yandy being upset about being blindsided, but that "I expected a thank you from you & her for helping raise your son." That comment was way outta pocket. When you accepted that child WITH his father, no one owed you anything. You automatically become that kid's stepmother. I saw Yandy for who she really is with that "you owe me" comment as though she bought them season tickets to the Knicks game. That wasn't cool at all, and I just hope lil mendeecees didn't hear her say that. After all these years, now I see what Sam was talking about as far as Yandy ways. I was crazy to think that Yandy was the perfect wife & stepmother.
I've always seen Yandy for who she is. Manipulative and willing to step over whomever to get to the top. Not a cool person. Not a nice person. Very immature woman.
Yup and it's crazy because I actually like yandy but after watching her for so many years I learned who she is and she is something else and very unapologetic
Nah, they should have thanked her. That would of started it off right. People dads and moms thank their bio moms for doing right by kids. The should thank step moms too.
@ThepookieIsis you obviously don't read. She said that foolishness in the presence of her stepson. She should've addressed that ALONE at home with Mendeecees with none of the kids around. And I'll say this again, although mendeecees should be grateful that he has such an involved stepmother for his son, the fact that Yandy feels as though she's owed something for it makes me question her genuineness as a stepmother. When you take on that responsibility, no one owes you anything. That's a decision that she made wholeheartedly. Yes, it would be nice to be acknowledged & appreciated, but she's owed nothing except for the respect in exchange..... THAT'S IT. And don't bother replying. Notifications muted
@@winluvwinluv3734nae that's BS.she has absolutely NO reason to be jealous of Samantha or any chic, she has her man and everything else PLUS she secures the💰💰s.❗❗❗😜😜😜😜
Yandy WAS the problem! Samantha’s whole problem with her was that yandy over stepped her boundaries when she took Samantha’s child out of the state and school without her knowledge. Yandy you don’t deserve no thank you.
Exactly! I can't stand it when people do something to wrong someone else, and want to play victim. Yandy was clearly always the problem, and she can't own up to it.
She really does deserve thank you but go off. You know good and well Yankee was probably trying her best to keep those kids together and hold it down for him when he was locked up so he wouldn't come back to chaos or the kids not knowing each other. And you know she helped things together financially but yeah go off
Both can be true. She overstepped & she deserves a thank you. Anytime someone genuinely loves your child and your child loves them, and they truly help raise your child, that deserves a thank you. Maybe the apology needs to come first, but she deserves one.
@@knowledgetree7134 Well I suppose that's possible. But how has she treated the child? I don't know either way. I am just saying it is possible for both to be true. I don't know enough about them to judge.
Sam is clearly a great mom and shows extreme growth..she was always in the right. Erika & Sam were actually telling the truth and we listened to Yandy’s lies about them being babysitters😂
shit anybody could see from then that she was on bs. Those woman always tried telling Yandy you disrespect and cross boundaries and what she always say?... I'm wife...like girl been seen how Yandy is and apparently she still can't say she was in the wrong, own up and apologize.
@@brittaniel7631lol true! I was a kid when this show came out, I bought into the production putting Yandy on a pedestal. Meanwhile Yandy was so adamant on praising dusty Mendeecees the whole time😂
@@ensabahnur3104 the kid is already in it. He’s literally sitting at the table and added his two cents. He said that because Yandy was already on ten before his mom even showed up which is why he cut Yandy off and made it a point to remind her of why the meeting was happening in the first place, he wants peace.
@UC8SmPPxdr2bVaT3WhgTRtNg the fact that you sought to insult and instead of used your words...is more indicative of immaturity or of being a "slow." Twisting his words is not going to work. He did not mince his words so we're not going to pureé them.
How so because Yandy and Mends moved to get away from Sam's bs! Sam isn't no stand up person! If she really expected some type of apology she should start first because she's been running her mouth about Yandy.
@@businessnow2499 okay I get what you saying tho but stop putting the blame on samantha like she was the real problem. First of all Yandy should’ve known what she was getting herself into in the first place. Samantha was there before yandy came in the picture. But I understand what you saying but at the same yandy know what she be doing some times. And yes Samantha was messy as hell trying to ruin their relationship. Both need to apologize for what they did nobody is innocent.
@@Badbostonbitch no she didn't telling someone their the problem when y'all both are is def starting shit . Plenty of time sam came at yandy for no reason let's not forget
I’m happy to see folks finally seeing through yandy. She’s gets me with this “high value” attitude she tries to out on but is so tacky, messy and petty for everyone to see
If she was traumatized by it, it’s not that easy to move on, let you get hit upside your head off guard on National television, I want to see you move on as well.
Yandy is mad that her husband didn't tell her Samantha was coming then says she thought they was good... What yandy??? Why was you mad then, why does everyone wanna clear the air and then when its time you take no responsibility... This lady is wack!!
And she's mad because she doesn't want Mendecees taking her side and I'm glad he's staying neutral. Yandy is just being evil she needs to apologize and move on
The fact that yandy wanted to be told in advance that just shows that she wanted to practice her lies that she wanted to tell everybody. Now she is embarrassed that everybody saw her lies through her face. And the guilt was there on her face, she just wont accept to apologize.
Regardless if Yandy wants to admit what went down, it doesn't negate the trauma that Samantha feels. Sometimes you gotta just swallow your pride and acknowledge her trauma. It doesn't take anything away from either person.
Yandy not envy of SAMANTHA...YALL MUST OF FORGOT THE HELL SAMANTHA PUT HER THROUGH...SHE WAS FED UP WITH HER N ERICA...DID YALL FORGET HOW THEY GANGED UP ON HER WHEN SHE TRIED HER ALL TO GET ALONG
Yandy definitely knows what she’s doing. When an antagonizer tells you “there’s nothing I can do to change that”, that’s saying “I DONT WANT TO DO ANYTHING TO FIX IT!” Has she asked Samantha what would fix the problem? I’m sure all the girl wants is a genuine apology. But we all know that’s not something Yandy wants to do. So she wants to feel like she has one up on Samantha. So childish.
Chrissy was right at Yandy years ago, she’s messy ass they come and try to come off as innocent. Look at the way she did Kimbella, going to that party to start ish for her, Yandy claim she knew Nothing about that at all…
What Yandy did was passive-aggressive. Provoking others by appearing not to. She knew WTF she was doing. She feigns ignorance, but she KNOWS that's a lie and knew THEN. She only succeeds in looking foolish. I've cut people out of my life for that. If anyone criticized that choice, I cut THEM off, too!
It’s the “I should have heard thank you from her” that I can’t with. Yandy. Come on. You’re grown, you’re “college educated,” you know that woman doesn’t have to thank you for anything. That’s her child, she raised him 24/7, you helped sometimes. Mad disrespectful acting like you relieved her of some burden or provided something she couldn’t or didn’t. More importantly, no family member should expect nor request thanks for taking care of one of their own. That’s so gross, and it speaks to the exact problem here: Yandy wants to be thought of as Mother Teresa but wants to act reckless, then gets mad and defensive when people call her on her shit. Rah Ali was right about you, Erica and Samantha were right about you, it’s narcissistic, it’s problematic, and you need to stop. Can’t you see how much you hurt that young man?? Can’t you boss up and dead this for him??
That's her husband and that's his child. She shouldn't constantly be throwing helping to raise him in her husband face. That's immature and how is lil mendeecees supposed to feel watching and hearing this? Like he's a liability or something? If you're gonna help to raise that boy, do it from the heart. It should NOT be a bullet point in every disagreement. Stay on topic
RIGHT !! I’m mad that nobody calls her out on her bullshit !!! She’s very vindictive! You never gaf! She obviously did it because she wanna look good in Mendecees eyes !
Lil Mendeecee is so mature. He has the most sense out of all of them 😭. He's so handsome 🥰. Yandy is a closed door she's not going to apologize. She wants to act like it neve happened. Whether she setup her cousin to jump Samantha or not it was foul. Just apologize and move on. 🤷🏾♀️ I'm sorry but Yandy just seems miserable and has a lot of resentment. You got the man, the ring and you're wifey yet you're still unhappy 🤔😩.
Since u said yandy don’t seem happy I guess the saying money is the root to all evil Is true. U can have all the money in the world and still not happy.
@@tellerofunpopulartruths1344 BINGO!!!! The relationship wasn’t built genuinely from the start; which is why she will always feel threatened and do the unnecessary nastiness and antics to sustain it
Yeah, remember when they were on that other show, couples therapy, and he told her, he didn't know if he would standby her, if she had to serve time in jail.
@@darellgrant8753 yandy has a right to be tired the main issue is the man he wanted all them to come together after feedings lies to one another then he makes yandy head in charge and put all that on her shoulders just before he got locked up no one is looking at the overall factor he is the first one to blame and so forth they all played a part… Sam should be grateful another woman loves her child and yandy needs to come down from her high horse and just realize people are human and make mistakes something so simple yet not simple
Samantha wants to fight Yandy so bad, but yandy know it's gonna be bad for her relationship with the little one which would effect everyone. If I were in yandy's shoes, the way Samantha was talking out the gate wouldn't have led to conversation. That's why her son got up and left.
It takes a mature woman to take care of someone else’s kid and love and raise them as your own. It takes a mature woman to to hold everybody down get them opportunities, love them, and not provide whatever they need not to mention giving Samantha the time to get herself together go to school and give her son lavish birthday parties and a car. Sam jumped first before her cousin and deserved what she got, no apologies needed unless they both apologized, but. Samantha came in wrong.
Samantha hopped up to fight Yandy not the other way around and Yandy did not lay hand on her. There's nothing for Yandy to apologize for. Yandy has raised that other woman's child as if he was hers and tou say she's not a mature woman. That's crazy
You can’t lie a feeling when you on the spot. She wants a heads up to prepare a whole show. And the audacity of her wanting a thank you.. BUAHAHAHA.. Yandi delusional
Sorry. No one is going to ambush me with his bm and think he not gone feel my wrath. Like damn, she not your family, I am. It shouldn’t matter how she feel. Period
I mean… I don’t think a “thank you” is out of the question or “delusional”. There’s A LOT that Yandy did for all of them before he was locked up, during and after. So I don’t think that’s out of line to want some appreciation for all that she does. However, she needs to understand that whether she planned for her cousin to attack Samantha or not, she still attacked her on account of Yandy. All Yandy needs to say is, “I never planned for Keisha to attack you and even though it wasn’t planned, it still should’ve never happened and I’m sorry that it did. No one should be putting hands on or even disrespecting lil mendeecees mother.” That’s it. That’s all it would take and I believe Samantha would let it go.
She talking bout she shoulda got a thank you, Sam shoulda got an APOLOGY but she don’t wanna be a woman & admit she was wrong & doing BIRDHEAD shxt 🤷🏽♀️🤣
What kills me about this is Samantha did that to Yandy she would want an apology no matter if it was 5 years or 20 years ago. She would hold her ass to the fire and it would be no moving on without Samantha taking accountability.
Yep just like she did with Kimbella. She never wanted to address the issue & instead made it about her & something Kim said after the fact. Can't stand Yandy.
I did peep how she turned that last talk outside with Mendeecees, Samantha was saying I'm the problem yadayada..Guess What? I was helping raise YOUR SONS ! You don't to give me an apology, But what you should've gave me was a THANK YOU ... # HOW DID SHE SPIN ALL THE NEGATIVITY ABOUT HER AROUND TO BRING UP HER "GOOD DEED" WHICH DISMISSES ALL THE "OG FOCUS" OF THE CONVERSATION SHE STARTED TO PLACE HER BACK IN A "GOOD LIGHT" WITH COMPLETE DISRESPECT ON THE EMPHASIS "YOURSONS" AS IF SHES TAKING CARE OF HIS RESPONSIBILITIES SOLELY LIKE WERE NOT MARRIED & ALL THE KIDS ARE "OUR " KIDS.. ENDING IT WITH YOU DONT HAVE TO APOLOGIZE , BUT U SHOULD'VE GAVE ME A THANK YOU. 😮 WOW (FROM BEING THE BLAME 2 DESERVING PRAISE🎉.. )MENDEECEES BE KNOWING& SEES EXACTLY WHAT SHE BE DOIN'... IMA JUST SAY MENDEECEES GONE LEAVE HER 1DAY. HE DOESN'T LOOK HAPPY 2 ME.
Yandy really manipulated her taking accountability for her part in that situation into mendeecees somehow being“ ungrateful” for her raising his kids while he was away. Craziness
Yeah she flipped it because she wanna be mad about something. So he's the closest thing she can attack because she know Sam is right about her ass sending her girl out to attack Sam.
Yandy is ALWAYS good at flipping the conversation when she's at fault, and when someone wants her to take accountability. I'm mad nobody seems to call her out for that. It's a manipulation tactic.
@@TayTatum I don’t really think she sent anyone I think her cousin did that on her own but I do believe she lied when she said she didn’t know who did it I think that’s what got them thinking she planned it
@@LeeahQueen I agree. It’s sad bc it seems she’s harboring some insecurity when it comes to his baby moms and I think she’s jealous bc tbh they are much prettier than her. A lot of ppl feel like baby Moms are supposed to be ugly or whatever and the new gf is supposed to be the upgrade aesthetically however mendeecees baby mothers are both gorgeous so perhaps Yandy is jealous of that and maybe feels mendeecees is still attracted to that type of women and she does not resemble that aesthetic. Yandy is pretty as well but those women are very pretty too. Some women want to feel like the only pretty one
Little Mendeecee's face when he sees his mom shows how much he loves her. Yandy is 100% the problem. And now he's old enough to see it. And good job Samantha. Her new man is fine as hell 🤣
yandy is bitter, she keeps bringing up taking care of mendeeces son shows she's not doing it from the heart. also she wants to be better than mendeeces ex so bad it kills her to see them at peace and looking good af also Sam's fiance is fione af and Sam looks gorgeous. peep mendeeces and lil mendeeces face when sam walked in. their faces lit right up, actions speaks louder than words. that's all I have to say.
@Pairala Kiwi Exactly, she cringes at the thought of having to even remotely look at Samantha’s pretty face and just the fact that she birthed a baby boy (no w young man) that is identical to Merceedese
@Cheyenne Redding Yes, I Truly Believe Samantha Was His First Love And The One That Got Away. Him & Yandy Don't Seem To Have That Same Chemistry On Screen.
Omg please listen to your son!!! 😢😢 His heart is broken & broke my heart when he said he don’t want to see two of the most important women in his life fighting. ❤😢
“how many times you think she practiced that in the mirror.” rah ali. a great statement that holds truth because just like yandy said she wanted to think about what she gon say, because what i noticed about her and when she’s being confronted her statements are very performative and even hilarious. she wanted to be better prepared to make sure she can easily turn it on anyone else but herself even though we all know she was the match to the fire.
Kudos to the Dad for taking charge of the situation! His priority is his son and Yandy needs to be a WOMAN not a female, take responsibility, accountability and apologize. This is NOT about your feelings YANDY. The WORLD knows you are a liar and a narcissist. Do what's best for the children since she "claims" that she loves the kids (all of them).
The way I see it, Mendecees wants to keep Samantha close. He not happy that he is losing Samantha to another man and this is frustrating Yandy who can clearly see that Mendecees will ALWAYS care for Samantha or atleast care enough to keep her as a back up plan. Mendecees needs to let Samantha go. He made his choice with Yandy, he needs to move on and stop using his son as an excuse. My observation, anyway.
That’s funny, bc on that episode, lol Mandeeces says to Yandy that his dad may be jealous that his mom have a new man and he will be his step father, and Yandy looked pissed loll
I wish he would have married Samantha instead. If not Samantha, at least a woman that is adult enough to get along with his children and their mother's. Life is too short for the uncessarily drama.
Mendecees knows that Yandy is the problem so he manages things in his way. Yandy is the worse. She is so disrespectful, rude and very manipulative. It's disappointing that her ego is so big that she can not take accountability.
The fact that Yandy never apologized about that and decided not to speak on it, shows her involvement in it! If that happened to someone I “cared” about, I would be so apologetic .. smh
Exactly. It's futile to "win an argument" and have "the last word" if you end up being shunned. It's not worth all that. Someone can "win" and STILL lose.
Lil Mendeecees is a perfect mixture of both his parents. Such a cute and smart kid.
If he plays the right thing get this reality show social media money and coast 😄
For sure. I fell like he has his dads eyes and his mom's facial structure. Cutie tho for sure
He’s a Love child. She hate that 😅
@@growthcountry he’s been modeling and acting ! So Hopefully he will do just that 💯💯💯 this show won’t last forever
@@christinawallace960 exactly his motha does, its been 5 years and it's sad, if Yandy said ok we can move on right now and she backfired with the craziness was sad.. I feel Sam hates everyday the peace and love in Their Marriage, she wants the drama in their house and that's sad because it affects her and Decees Son..
Lil Mendeecee’s saying “I told you dad” 😂 Sometimes these kids have the wisdom these parent lack and ignore lol
I'm glad he's wise for his age.
Isn't he like 16 or sumn and they like 40?
@@beauty-kg6be Sumthin like that lol
Yes they do
They should send him to wise up safaree.. cause oh boy wit that one
That boy loves his mama soo much!!! How much he smiled seeing her made my heart happy
@BlackBettyBoo72 you are exactly right and I was thinking the same thing.
@BlackBettyBoo72 this a scene. im sure they already saw each each other on facetime or in person right before this scene started
She's doesn't get to see him much?
@BlackBettyBoo72 RIGHT!!! She could be mad at the idea of him sitting on the opposite side and not with her.
They didn't even hug or anything tho
Lil Mendecees is so cute. The perfect mixture of his parents.
Look how Little Mendeecee’s face lit up when he seen his mom 🥰 OMG
I haven’t watched this show in years seeing your comment I’m just shocked. Little Mendeecee is a grown man 😭 here did the time go
A child would not be that excited unless they do not see their parents on a constant base that's what you're missing she stays in the same f****** city as him why you don't see your son more so much so that he don't even know your f****** fiance
Yes🥰
So heart warming I love it 😍
Yessss can tell he loves his mommy ❤️🤗
This is an example of when children are more mature than adults 😊
The only immature adult here was Yandy. Everyone else was good. Lil’ Mendencees was acting how kids act IMO.
Let's not bundle! it is just Yandy.
Lol yandy is a liar
Yandy has the biggest wig , it's like 2 feet wide
The same way you blindsided Samantha when you had your peoples run up on stage and jump on her for telling the truth
THAT PART
@@DemureDarlings .
She didn’t know her family was going to do that.
@@jahotgal01 she did know cuz she set it up
@@jahotgal01 Keep believing BLATANT lies...
When has Yandy ever admitted she is wrong or made a mistake, remember she is a saint.
Perfect Patty az bish.....🤣I cant stand yandy
Ts happened over 5 years ago. Grow tf up
Howard Alumni
Never and never will she's a female narcissist and very unapologetic
@@tanisha.r.thomasI'm cracking up
Samantha took the words out of my mouth. I was like Yandy, girl, please stop. You the one that created all the problems.
Literally..she was the problem with her cape!
How
How was she the problem because he chose to marry yandy over Samantha y'all jealous 🤣
@@lalajones3242 their not married 😂 and does sam give a damn( noooo )
@Elevate & Prosper I think both of them need to move on but that was like 5 years ago after that one accident happened so I don't know why they bring it up but at the same time I really do feel bad for little mendeecee but he get caught up a lot of stuff with his stepmom and his mom and the cousin Keisha got into it at the reunion but the same time Little mendeecee was little at the time but at the same time I think that Samantha and yandy need to move on and get past that toxic problems that it had towards each other but I don't know about yandy and Erica they need to work it out too you know what I'm saying it's not about them it's about the children they need to work on it's communication need to get along with others you know what I'm saying it's not about a one man and this and the third is about the children I know that Samantha feel some type of way about the situation but I get that but it's time to move on that was years ago that was years ago
The maturity of Sam and her fiancé, LOVE.
Sam always been mature in this situation, though. Yandy is a known liar and she is dead az wrong for not apologizing on her sisters behalf...
Yandy wants this dead and gone because she was wrong and she knows it. She tried to run things like some pretend mafia boss in charge” of the “ baby mama club” and got mad at them because they wouldn’t “bend the knee.” She always hated Sam the most because of that weird obsession about making decisions, parenting and raising Lil Mendeecees like Sam was the one going to jail. Meanwhile, she’s been lying about being married. She should just apologize and get it over with.
💯💯💯💯💯💯
Girl what u all type of wrong. All she wanted was them to be together is a family why didn't everything there so that's her and the other baby mama decided to hold it against her when he went to jail knowing that that didn't have you when he was at and trying to act like the boss she just want them all the stay together and be around each other like they've been doing and her fake marriage you worried about her signing a paper which that shouldn't be what you worried about isn't he the one that sit there and said that he wouldn't do the same for her or he don't know if he'll do the same for her if she went to jail so it's in the day she made the right decision tonight sign that paper at that moment when he was going through his legal actions so GTFO
As the seasons have gone on. Yandy is appearing more fraudulent and inauthentic. Which is why many of the girls who was her close friends want nothing to do with her
Agreed
Exactly
A prime example of how a person can have money and be established but still be bitter and petty towards others.
If Yandy ain't controlling anything she's uncomfortable, because she can't cover her lies
Preach! You ain’t say nothing but a word. I fast forward on her scenes because I just can’t stomach her anymore.
Absolutely . She’s very passive aggressive and a disgusting person. Look at what she did to that child she was fostering . She’s for herself 100%
You got to understand that Yandys a boss, team boss all day. Not sure why she don’t get her credit for raising those kids. It’s getting old
Yandy has lied a lot throughout that show! she's a bossy, pathalogical liar...which are both Arian traits!
@@thinkExistBE I started fast forwarding her scenes that season she changed Erika's locks and acted like Erika and Sam should bow down to her or something🙄 thats when I started seeing that she's the problem
I’m glad mendecees (the dad) cares enough about Samantha’s feelings to at least try and get Yandy to apologize. He knows she’s wrong then get outside and try to flip it. She’s so ugh.
It ain't About him caring about Samantha's feelings he been trying to get his family together been trying to do that and he will be able to if they stop trying to point the finger at each other it's not just yandy it's Samantha too if Samantha so butt hurt about the girl eating her upside to head if they're reunion baby grow up all that little annoying talking slick stuff this Samantha was doing she had to see that coming
@@lalajones3242 you can sneaky someone and expect them to loose 😂 the girl came from behind while Sam was being held by security.
Exactly, I don’t agree with some of the stuff that yandy does but come on now them other two babymamas ain’t no damn angels either!!!! They worried about her marriage being fake like come on y’all worried about the wrong shit!!!!
@@tommesiacooper1258 and she could have easily had another thing with the girl instead she held it against yandy as if yandy knew that that girl was going to run up on stage and fight her
@@tommesiacooper1258 Sam shouldn't have jumped up trying to fight anybody she wouldn't have got popped. So are we saying sam mouthing should apologize for all the shit she did to Yandy no yhall hella one sided.
Yandys only upset because she knows her obnoxious past is coming back to haunt her
exactly
She is bottom of the barrel
I lost all respect for her, her brand and any of her endeavors.
Yandy thank somebody owe her something
@@andrenehall1467 EXACTLY!!
Yandi is toxic and manipulative. She doesn’t want to sit down and talk about the situation because she knows that she set that attack up and when she gets called out on it? She’s dismissive, irritated and passive aggressive about it instead of just admitting it, apologizing and moving on from it. That’s the only way to bring closure and healing.
To keep acting like you’re not the reason behind the drama is why they will always be divided as a so called “family”.
I suspect Yandy has a personality disorder. She has a habit of lying and not taking responsibility. Her family member and Kimbella, have attacked people in her behalf. I guess she utilizes manipulation from her days living in housing projects.
I'm so glad someone said this
Or maybe a leopard never changes its spots and she's tired of always having some forms of bulkshit wherever samantha and the other rat baby mommas are concerned and she shouldn't have to deal with it anymore since mendeecees is present.
Some people can't have peace it's about being right or wrong
Samantha got wtf she deserves. Y'all keep talking about yandy them bitches should not be hating. I said what I said .
I really watched this kid grow into a brilliant respectful young man… one of the best things ever to happen to Love & HipHop
Who raised him??
@@cassandracoles252 seems like Yandy did honestly
Against all odds.because Yandy stay looking like a bird and acting like one.
@@breezemoneymane5900 LOL naw....I'm pretty sure Sam had him a lot and her and Mendecees just had a really great coparenting relationship then Yandy entered the chat. I feel like she downplays their role in their OWN CHILDREN's LIVES a lot. That's why I don't care for her 😂
@@Queenmebonnie Yandy is a young beautiful multi business owner successful woman I don't think she a bird at all
yandy is so delusional and manipulative. sam is so genuine and you can see that in how lil mandecees turned out. that boy is literally so genuine and he has the same glow as his mother.
Let’s be real, if Mendeeces told you what you all were going out to dinner for, you wouldn’t have come. You want this dead and buried because you know you were wrong and YOU are the problem and have always been the problem. If the shoe was on the other foot and Samantha had someone jump you from behind, you would be doing the exact same thing she’s doing. Grow up Yandy.
Just hear Lil Mendecees express his words to both ladies who are important in his life should've spoke volumes.
You Blindsided Her At The Reunion With That Girl You Brought To Fight Her
Okay ‼️‼️‼️‼️
Her cousin did it herself, yandy didn’t plan that
@@icyunvme2400 lol u keep believing that
@@fefesmith82 And y’all keep making up stuff to hate a person more lol
@@fefesmith82 Like I’m not on Yandy side with this situation but y’all be reaching sometimes when someone is in the wrong😭
Samantha & her new man look so good together. Lil Mendeecee’s is so mature & such a handsome young man. Big Mendeecee’s is doing such a good job at tryna break a cycle of toxicity & kudos to him for it. Yandy…. still the same as ever, I have no words for her lol.
His mom gets my love because she was attacked and to hear what she said kinda breaks my heart and makes me feel good to know she grown as a female 💯
She was running ha MOUTH!!!! She not innocent at all!!! everybody dont play bout they peoples!!! she acting like yandy sent her yandy couldnt even get to her, HER PEOPLES COULD! Im rushing anybody thats talking crazy to mine & they cant get to them. I dont blame Her cousin.
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@@niyap7259 Yandy was running THAT MOUTH!!! Does that mean Chrissy should have the honor of dragging her?? 🤔 Yandy throws stones and hides her hands. It's suspect how Yandy is always the victim
@@niyap7259 the woman can say what she want about her som but HITTING SOMEONE is very different
I guess you forget the pass seasons when she was acting totally different than she did on this short video. She placing the blame where it's not warranted. Yancy was shocked that her people ran up on Samantha and Samantha needs to take accountability for her actions and not just put all the blame on Yandy. And 9 times out of 10, the only reason she's acting as if she's on her grown woman is because of her dude sitting there. We all know had he not been, things wouldn't have went so calmly. If she was on her grown woman, she wouldn't have came at Yandy in that moment like she did with her child sitting there. As Yandy said, she should have been thanking her for being there for her son.
The fact that Yandy is in such denial about her part in any of the drama. She’s in such denial
Love it how the boy is grown enough to realize his mom might not be the problem. His response of “I told You” when Yandy get all pressed shows he knows she’s not that understanding.
Who in the world will be understanding being blind side lol. Especially if you tell your husband your not ready for that conversation.
No he just knew it was a bad idea not to tell her first...she helped raise him that young man knows her. And in Yandy defense when the girl leaped from the crowd to snatch Sam Yandy first response was....who was that. So it wasn't a set up but Yandy did deny knowing who it was that did it once they all sat back down.
That breaks my heart. 😭
Yandy gave him anxiety.
He said I told you dad because it was wrong for him to blind side her. He excused himself because his mother was the one who brought up old shit that happened mad long ago. She should have spoke to handy in private. That shit is immature. Why do that when you can get mopped again. I’m lost.
@@nesbahbia2523 I know right 😔 her toxic ass needs to away from him until she grows up
Growing up is realizing Yandy is the one that really makes coparenting and the blending of the families harder.
From watching all the seasons I didn’t see it like that at first. I was looking at it like wow a couple that cab actually come together with kids involved and yandy actually was a mom to lie mendences. But now it’s like she was actually in her boss moment and it never left.
I feel like she’s jealous of Mendecees baby mamas. Honestly
Thank you!!! Glad more people see this now
I been seen that
I been seen that.
Yandy will forever be bitter and jealous of Samantha. There is no reason why she should have reacted like this. Yandy is a vile woman
Super pressed over that beautiful woman. A woman vocal, honest, straight up. Yandy ain’t got that type of honesty,Sam makes her uncomfortable
@@MajorsWife Sam makes her insecure 🤣
Jealous of what? Yandy is beautiful and RICH!
@@thomasbrown3404 🤣😂 she's a bitter cow
@@mizzdizz8140 a bitter RICH cow 😂😂
I just have one question, where is Erica? Lol. “He gifted me with an Audi the day after you announced your pregnancy girl bye!” will never get old to me 😂😂
🤣😂🤣😂
Yes “with a red bow on it” iconic🎉❤❤❤
Never forgot that statement 😅, yandy didn’t deny it either 😂
Lol
@@Jeanjackettty yeeeessss!
Samantha is at a complete peaceful moment in her life and you can tell she doesn't want to jeopardize that. I love it! 🥰
I can't tell
When she walked in then it was back to the angry Samantha.
Why is she there then I thought they was all good and moved in from it
@@cassandracoles252 well in order to move on from wrong doing an apology needs to be issued first
I can’t tell, she’s still bitter
Lil Mendeecees deserves & needs peace in his life & that’s all ❤
Smh
I can give Yandy the benefit of the doubt about having her cousin attack Samantha and say it's possible she didn't know it would happen but clearly Samantha has said that she has trauma from that and Yandy should be apologizing for that. Even if she didn't orchestrate an attack on her it was still someone affiliated with her that did it. So her issues with Samantha still resulted in violence against her, Little Mendeecees mother mind you, and Yandy should never be okay with that happening. She should be sick over it
Exactly and she may not have known but Yandy knew who hit Samantha and even said her name but continued to lie afterwards on the reunion and after and she got caught in that lie . Yandy be lying and has always been disrespectful to Erika and Samantha . There’s no way those two are bffs and Yandy wasn’t the problem, Yandy play victim a lot . She don’t wanna admit it but she’s the problem and she is disrespectful to them . And then to demand a thank you from them for taking care of their son, like girl why should she be thanking you when you’re disrespectful and was doing stuff behind her back acting as if you were mother and doing things without her knowing or permission like going to pick him out of school and not consulting with her . Yandy needs to apologize to Samantha and Erika and coparent properly and healthy .
@@TaeandDes4L That would drive me crazy. I am all about parents and step parents coming together and everyone doing their part to help raise children but to claim that you were the one raising her child is ridiculous. I would be so angry if someone said that about my child and completely diminished me as a mother. Beyond insulting. Beyond disrespectful. It's a level of disrespectful I could never stoop to. A level I'd say Samantha never does stoop to. She is always trying to be the bigger person and let it go
@@saramarshall2957 I agree 100% !! Yandy has been disrespectful time and time again yet again Samantha still ends up being the bigger person . Yandy has been the issue . Erika and Samantha ain’t bffs for no reason . Yandy is petty and disrespectful to them and tries to control things when it comes to their kids and it’s not right, like that time she took Samantha son out of school without her consent . She oversteps her boundaries a lot .
If yandy didn’t know that attack was going to happen, she doesn’t owe samantha an apology for the trauma she experienced.
She walked in looking good with her man too lol
This will never be over until yandy apologizes
Exactly she’s wrong in so many ways
Do you think lil fiz baby mom should say sorry to his girlfriend at the time she attack at a restaurant
@@lovegodschild1430 two diff situations💀 this is abt yandy and Sam
I like the story line for yandy it makes her grow as a character
It shouldn't be over until Yandy apologizes. She probably only agreed to film with Samantha for a storyline; and so she could try to flex. She's only making people realize her true colors.
He pulled her chair out and she said “my baby learning!” They have been together for how long? How many children? Baby momma drama. Years in the feds and he JUST now is pulling out your chair 😂 The crumbs women take I TELL YA 😭
Yes her comments towards her husband says a lot. Yandy is legit controlling & manipulative. She gets mad when she is unable to control each narrative. That girl don't care about the mothers of her stepchildren. Just herself & wants validation for doing nice "family related" things
That’s what I said smh
Exactly wth 🤦🏽♀️
Ccchhhiiillleee….SMH!
Lol.but did you catch that joog tho?!I don't know if I can push it back up.that ass done got fat!
How is she wrong for wanting her husband to give her a heads up?
Facts
Because she don’t want to talk
Same like she should tell him about the egg 😅
This has ALWAYS been a thing with these two. They blindside each other all the time. Im beginning to think this is their love language 🤷🏾♀️
Exactly , because Samantha always start shit and in front of her own son.he so tierd of that bs he got up and bounced.And his dad need to man the f. Up.tell Samantha y'all didn't come there for that BS some old shit Yandy had nothing to do Wit. And thats not even her style.
"I would hate to see the most important women in my life go at it again" this almost made me cry. This kid really love his mother and stepmom but knowing Yandy she'll never understand. Her pride is more important then her stepson's feelings. She need to take accountability for her actions. I know it was five years ago but if your not willing to be responsible for the drama that happen then it's obvious she has no respect for Lil Mendeeces's mother. I don't think there is no point in having a conversation with Yandy because she will forever be bitter. I hope Samantha feels better soon because I know this is really upsetting for her.
exactly she has to apologize on behalf of her cousin, her cousin felt way too comfortable putting hands on her step son mother. clearly yandy is insecure and still feels some type of way her ego way to BIG
Yall must don't know what happen 5 yrs ago or didn't watch the show...yanny don't owe Samantha anything..she don't care for her and Sam attitude says it all..the only thing that matter is the son..mother and father getting along..
Well she's so upset because she knows she was the problem to begin with.
@@blkbutton4171 Amen! after all Samantha brought the old mess up, since when do we as a people have to apologize for others poor behavior? If that is the case the whole world would be up apologizing and not much else will be accomplished 🙄 she can get over it , if she open up that small mind of hers, one would think she was mentally affected by an attack by a man in a dark alley or street all alone🙄 drama Queens slays meeeeee! Yandy Is a REAL BOSS WITH A HEAVY BAG💎💍 and a Smart working brain🧠
This comment is so ones sided. Hope Samantha feels okay, what about Yandy? In this situation she has sacrifice loved and been the most helpful to everyone. Yandy loves that child and he clearly loves her but she came in with an attitude, Yandy played a big role in taking care of her son. She should be thankful, his father should be thankful. I’ve met women stepmom’s and girlfriends, that will buy toys, food, and clothes for only their children. Who always felt their children should be treated better. Yandy was all in. For him and his kids which allowed Samantha the time to be locked up herself at one point, to go to school, and have the free time to get engaged to a man her son never met. Yandy and Samantha were okay until Mendecee went away and both of the women and Samantha’s mother acted as though they wanted ti fight Yandy and from the first scene she said she was confused because Samantha was always okay with her before but then she joined forces with the other baby’s mother and they were always on attack mode and made it about them not their kids. A good mother that puts her kids first would see that and love their child having a woman around that she can trust and not have to worry about them in their care. Samantha jumped up like she was about to attack Yandy and I wouldn’t have put it past the two to jump her that is when the cousin came up. She wasn’t wrong with three people arguing with on person. That’s not a fair fight. Her cousin pro rightfully so got heated watching them go at Yandy and came up when the woman started standing up. They were wrong Yandy owes no one an apology. She should be frustrated and any as much as she held everybody down I still hear a lot of complaints. Not one thank you. Little Mendecee is getting in to modeling, acting,all because of Yandy’ s connections. He got a car for his birthday where do you think most those things come from? I see she is a good woman, and wife that loves her family, when you see her with the kids you can’t tell which is hers. That deserves a thank you.
Yandy is incredibly stubborn
I see her repeating the same patterns with different people over. She's problematic for sure. Always has been.
chrissy warned yall
@@michellejorden1539 she sure did. Yandy was all up in her business till she got her out.
She mad cuz she didn't have her lies prepared...
🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣 say it again 💯💯💯💯‼️
Lol true
Facts She can't one up her today. She couldn't get lies together😂😂😂
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣, that's what I said when I seen that clip. Ridiculous Yandy is!
Ok now, I get Yandy being upset about being blindsided, but that "I expected a thank you from you & her for helping raise your son." That comment was way outta pocket. When you accepted that child WITH his father, no one owed you anything. You automatically become that kid's stepmother. I saw Yandy for who she really is with that "you owe me" comment as though she bought them season tickets to the Knicks game. That wasn't cool at all, and I just hope lil mendeecees didn't hear her say that. After all these years, now I see what Sam was talking about as far as Yandy ways. I was crazy to think that Yandy was the perfect wife & stepmother.
I've always seen Yandy for who she is. Manipulative and willing to step over whomever to get to the top. Not a cool person. Not a nice person. Very immature woman.
Yup and it's crazy because I actually like yandy but after watching her for so many years I learned who she is and she is something else and very unapologetic
Nah, they should have thanked her. That would of started it off right. People dads and moms thank their bio moms for doing right by kids. The should thank step moms too.
@ThepookieIsis you obviously don't read. She said that foolishness in the presence of her stepson. She should've addressed that ALONE at home with Mendeecees with none of the kids around. And I'll say this again, although mendeecees should be grateful that he has such an involved stepmother for his son, the fact that Yandy feels as though she's owed something for it makes me question her genuineness as a stepmother. When you take on that responsibility, no one owes you anything. That's a decision that she made wholeheartedly. Yes, it would be nice to be acknowledged & appreciated, but she's owed nothing except for the respect in exchange..... THAT'S IT. And don't bother replying. Notifications muted
@@Thesunsreflection you obviously are rude and can't tell the truth. I am happy to be able to read...gratitude is the right attitude.
I’m glad he didn’t give her a heads up because she couldn’t prepare lies, we got the real Yandy for once 😂
Girl you know it’s scripted right you see how the restaurant is empty tables lined up for camera view this is planned
Right 😊
And she still never admitted to anything she did lol.
I think that’s exactly why he did it like that, he knows wha she is
Exactly with her fake ass. She never take accountability for shit ughh I can’t stand her
Little mendeecees stole his dads entire face. He’s a perfect mixture of Sam and big Mendeecees.
Yandy has always been the problem. Seeing Samantha happy is refreshing.
Where you saw happiness. She has a hurt face
Yandy is definitely the definition of gaslight
😒I don’t know why I never like her. She always act Danm
And jealousy. It's clear and always has been jealous of Samantha.
@@winluvwinluv3734cause Samantha is GORGEOUS ❤❤❤
Yeah , Yandy should stop like screaming on him all the time on camera exspecially. That looks bad..Respect your husband Yandy.
@@winluvwinluv3734nae that's BS.she has absolutely NO reason to be jealous of Samantha or any chic, she has her man and everything else PLUS she secures the💰💰s.❗❗❗😜😜😜😜
The fact that Yandy is being defensive says a lot! She’s guilty and won’t take accountability
Exactly 💯 💯 💯
Yep!
Frfr and she to much of a bird to admit that..
Exactly. Angry because she’s being confronted and deflecting.
Right just apologize dayummm
Yandy WAS the problem! Samantha’s whole problem with her was that yandy over stepped her boundaries when she took Samantha’s child out of the state and school without her knowledge. Yandy you don’t deserve no thank you.
Exactly! I can't stand it when people do something to wrong someone else, and want to play victim. Yandy was clearly always the problem, and she can't own up to it.
She really does deserve thank you but go off. You know good and well Yankee was probably trying her best to keep those kids together and hold it down for him when he was locked up so he wouldn't come back to chaos or the kids not knowing each other. And you know she helped things together financially but yeah go off
Both can be true. She overstepped & she deserves a thank you. Anytime someone genuinely loves your child and your child loves them, and they truly help raise your child, that deserves a thank you. Maybe the apology needs to come first, but she deserves one.
@@ShawnteAmoure I don’t think she genuinely anything! I think she’s obsessed with mendeces
@@knowledgetree7134 Well I suppose that's possible. But how has she treated the child? I don't know either way. I am just saying it is possible for both to be true. I don't know enough about them to judge.
Yandy wants to be “over it” and “move on” because she KNOWS that the problem was her
Sam is clearly a great mom and shows extreme growth..she was always in the right. Erika & Sam were actually telling the truth and we listened to Yandy’s lies about them being babysitters😂
shit anybody could see from then that she was on bs. Those woman always tried telling Yandy you disrespect and cross boundaries and what she always say?... I'm wife...like girl been seen how Yandy is and apparently she still can't say she was in the wrong, own up and apologize.
@@brittaniel7631lol true! I was a kid when this show came out, I bought into the production putting Yandy on a pedestal. Meanwhile Yandy was so adamant on praising dusty Mendeecees the whole time😂
The fact that the baby said “I told you dad” when Yandy started complaining should’ve told her everything. YOU ARE THE PROBLEM
They I told you dad was in reference to not telling Yandy about the meeting... don't twist it, and use Lil Mendecees words to do so.
Yessssss
I agree
@@ensabahnur3104 the kid is already in it. He’s literally sitting at the table and added his two cents. He said that because Yandy was already on ten before his mom even showed up which is why he cut Yandy off and made it a point to remind her of why the meeting was happening in the first place, he wants peace.
@UC8SmPPxdr2bVaT3WhgTRtNg the fact that you sought to insult and instead of used your words...is more indicative of immaturity or of being a "slow." Twisting his words is not going to work. He did not mince his words so we're not going to pureé them.
Yandy need to let it go cause Samantha was actually being genuine because now she’s just being a stuck up wife that don’t wanna let stuff go
How so because Yandy and Mends moved to get away from Sam's bs! Sam isn't no stand up person! If she really expected some type of apology she should start first because she's been running her mouth about Yandy.
Facts, Samantha came in humbly and Yandy was dismissive from jump !
@@businessnow2499 okay I get what you saying tho but stop putting the blame on samantha like she was the real problem. First of all Yandy should’ve known what she was getting herself into in the first place. Samantha was there before yandy came in the picture. But I understand what you saying but at the same yandy know what she be doing some times. And yes Samantha was messy as hell trying to ruin their relationship. Both need to apologize for what they did nobody is innocent.
@@businessnow2499 How do you know they moved to get away from her? Mendecees even say there and said he was good with Sam.
@@Badbostonbitch no she didn't telling someone their the problem when y'all both are is def starting shit . Plenty of time sam came at yandy for no reason let's not forget
Yandy just get over it! Say sorry n your done …..
She is acting like apologizing will kill her. If she loves his son she would apologize and end it. U set it up, just admit and move on
@@rantsallegedly Facts! She’s mad weird
Sorry for what ? Is Sam sorry for trying to run up on her on the stage no sort why would she be sorry?
@@shyt4312 Sam did no such thing
@@shyt4312 🤣🤣 please don't try and rewrite things we can literally watch after this video,you can't just try and remake events🤣🤣
I’m happy to see folks finally seeing through yandy. She’s gets me with this “high value” attitude she tries to out on but is so tacky, messy and petty for everyone to see
It’s easy for Yandy to say that it’s buried when she has yet to take responsibility for her part😒
What happened happened, move on!!!
If she was traumatized by it, it’s not that easy to move on, let you get hit upside your head off guard on National television, I want to see you move on as well.
@@infinitybless7132 ^
@@infinitybless7132 until it’s you 🙄
When my child is still uncomfortable there is no moving on
Yandy is mad that her husband didn't tell her Samantha was coming then says she thought they was good... What yandy??? Why was you mad then, why does everyone wanna clear the air and then when its time you take no responsibility... This lady is wack!!
Very
Samantha is really at peace. Yandy is upset because Samantha doesn’t wanna fight with her anymore.
I agree...And Mendecee knows this as well.
Then why is she there
And she's mad because she doesn't want Mendecees taking her side and I'm glad he's staying neutral. Yandy is just being evil she needs to apologize and move on
What are yall watching? Samantha came with the beef.
I read it the other way. but I don't even keep up with the show
Nothing but respect and love for Samantha ♥
Please.
The fact that yandy wanted to be told in advance that just shows that she wanted to practice her lies that she wanted to tell everybody. Now she is embarrassed that everybody saw her lies through her face. And the guilt was there on her face, she just wont accept to apologize.
Exactly! I just commented something similar. Such a manipulator. Has to be victim and savior when she's really the problem.
Yandy did so much vindictive shit behind so many people's back and it makes her uncomfortable to sit there and take what she dished out. 😂
RIGHT! She not MS. Nice like she projects
Yandy think she is all that and is so phony
My ex was like this. Smashed everything and never could straight up be like...yeah...I cheated. Some people cant mever admit they are in the wrong
Regardless if Yandy wants to admit what went down, it doesn't negate the trauma that Samantha feels. Sometimes you gotta just swallow your pride and acknowledge her trauma. It doesn't take anything away from either person.
Yandy can’t even make eye contact with Sam 🙄…She’s reeking of envy
Was waiting for this reply cause she sure couldn't
She can't hide that jealousy baby 😏
Yandy not envy of SAMANTHA...YALL MUST OF FORGOT THE HELL SAMANTHA PUT HER THROUGH...SHE WAS FED UP WITH HER N ERICA...DID YALL FORGET HOW THEY GANGED UP ON HER WHEN SHE TRIED HER ALL TO GET ALONG
@@staceyphillips1585 💯
What is it Yandy is jealous of there's nothing special about Samantha 👀
Yandy just cannot own up to her wrong doings! SMH. Even for the child she claims she loves so much😒
Yandy definitely knows what she’s doing. When an antagonizer tells you “there’s nothing I can do to change that”, that’s saying “I DONT WANT TO DO ANYTHING TO FIX IT!”
Has she asked Samantha what would fix the problem? I’m sure all the girl wants is a genuine apology. But we all know that’s not something Yandy wants to do. So she wants to feel like she has one up on Samantha.
So childish.
Chrissy was right at Yandy years ago, she’s messy ass they come and try to come off as innocent.
Look at the way she did Kimbella, going to that party to start ish for her, Yandy claim she knew
Nothing about that at all…
What Yandy did was passive-aggressive. Provoking others by appearing not to. She knew WTF she was doing. She feigns ignorance, but she KNOWS that's a lie and knew THEN. She only succeeds in looking foolish. I've cut people out of my life for that. If anyone criticized that choice, I cut THEM off, too!
A simple “I’m Sorry that happened to you!”Would’ve started the healing process.
Yup
Right....like you won Yandy. Now, let the -ish go....
I respect these two both. They are good for each other. Even when they argue they are calm.
It’s the “I should have heard thank you from her” that I can’t with. Yandy. Come on. You’re grown, you’re “college educated,” you know that woman doesn’t have to thank you for anything. That’s her child, she raised him 24/7, you helped sometimes. Mad disrespectful acting like you relieved her of some burden or provided something she couldn’t or didn’t. More importantly, no family member should expect nor request thanks for taking care of one of their own. That’s so gross, and it speaks to the exact problem here: Yandy wants to be thought of as Mother Teresa but wants to act reckless, then gets mad and defensive when people call her on her shit. Rah Ali was right about you, Erica and Samantha were right about you, it’s narcissistic, it’s problematic, and you need to stop. Can’t you see how much you hurt that young man?? Can’t you boss up and dead this for him??
💯💯💯💯💯💯 facts
Well said 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
That's her husband and that's his child. She shouldn't constantly be throwing helping to raise him in her husband face. That's immature and how is lil mendeecees supposed to feel watching and hearing this? Like he's a liability or something? If you're gonna help to raise that boy, do it from the heart. It should NOT be a bullet point in every disagreement. Stay on topic
RIGHT !! I’m mad that nobody calls her out on her bullshit !!! She’s very vindictive! You never gaf! She obviously did it because she wanna look good in Mendecees eyes !
@@niqueness2988 right !! That shit triggered me so much ! She’s fucked up !
Lil Mendeecee is so mature. He has the most sense out of all of them 😭. He's so handsome 🥰. Yandy is a closed door she's not going to apologize. She wants to act like it neve happened. Whether she setup her cousin to jump Samantha or not it was foul. Just apologize and move on. 🤷🏾♀️ I'm sorry but Yandy just seems miserable and has a lot of resentment. You got the man, the ring and you're wifey yet you're still unhappy 🤔😩.
Since u said yandy don’t seem happy I guess the saying money is the root to all evil
Is true. U can have all the money in the world and still not happy.
Because of all the underhanded shit she did to get him … she held on to prove a point and it wasn’t worth it.
He is growing into a Handsome and Intelligent Young Man
@@tellerofunpopulartruths1344 BINGO!!!! The relationship wasn’t built genuinely from the start; which is why she will always feel threatened and do the unnecessary nastiness and antics to sustain it
Yeah, remember when they were on that other show, couples therapy, and he told her, he didn't know if he would standby her, if she had to serve time in jail.
I feel like Yandy is lowkey TIRED of all of them including Mendeecee!
They are tired of Yandy. What u watching?
@@darellgrant8753 yandy has a right to be tired the main issue is the man he wanted all them to come together after feedings lies to one another then he makes yandy head in charge and put all that on her shoulders just before he got locked up no one is looking at the overall factor he is the first one to blame and so forth they all played a part… Sam should be grateful another woman loves her child and yandy needs to come down from her high horse and just realize people are human and make mistakes something so simple yet not simple
I don't blame Yandy, I'll be tired of ALL of them.
Samantha wants to fight Yandy so bad, but yandy know it's gonna be bad for her relationship with the little one which would effect everyone. If I were in yandy's shoes, the way Samantha was talking out the gate wouldn't have led to conversation. That's why her son got up and left.
It takes a real mature woman to admit when she is wrong and Yandy ain’t that.
Samantha looks great!😍☀️
It takes a mature woman to take care of someone else’s kid and love and raise them as your own. It takes a mature woman to to hold everybody down get them opportunities, love them, and not provide whatever they need not to mention giving Samantha the time to get herself together go to school and give her son lavish birthday parties and a car. Sam jumped first before her cousin and deserved what she got, no apologies needed unless they both apologized, but. Samantha came in wrong.
@@sentimentalmocha THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.
Yandy did not jump her, but she should have
Handy looking better than I thought 👀
Samantha hopped up to fight Yandy not the other way around and Yandy did not lay hand on her. There's nothing for Yandy to apologize for. Yandy has raised that other woman's child as if he was hers and tou say she's not a mature woman. That's crazy
You can’t lie a feeling when you on the spot. She wants a heads up to prepare a whole show. And the audacity of her wanting a thank you.. BUAHAHAHA.. Yandi delusional
She think somebody owe her something that's over the top
Sorry. No one is going to ambush me with his bm and think he not gone feel my wrath. Like damn, she not your family, I am. It shouldn’t matter how she feel. Period
@@deliciaperry4684 that’s his child’s mother that yandy set up.
I mean… I don’t think a “thank you” is out of the question or “delusional”. There’s A LOT that Yandy did for all of them before he was locked up, during and after. So I don’t think that’s out of line to want some appreciation for all that she does. However, she needs to understand that whether she planned for her cousin to attack Samantha or not, she still attacked her on account of Yandy. All Yandy needs to say is, “I never planned for Keisha to attack you and even though it wasn’t planned, it still should’ve never happened and I’m sorry that it did. No one should be putting hands on or even disrespecting lil mendeecees mother.” That’s it. That’s all it would take and I believe Samantha would let it go.
@@deliciaperry4684 it’s not about the adults. It’s about the child. But of course only Loving Understanding parents actually understand.
Let’s be honest he is checking on the stepdad
Using the situation to kinda keep Samantha close. He ain’t slick.
The step dad is cute 😅
The real reason yandy pissed off. They are a meddling bm/bd duo. Cause it shouldn’t matter what happened 5 years ago if y’all both moved on
She talking bout she shoulda got a thank you, Sam shoulda got an APOLOGY but she don’t wanna be a woman & admit she was wrong & doing BIRDHEAD shxt 🤷🏽♀️🤣
What kills me about this is Samantha did that to Yandy she would want an apology no matter if it was 5 years or 20 years ago. She would hold her ass to the fire and it would be no moving on without Samantha taking accountability.
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Yep just like she did with Kimbella. She never wanted to address the issue & instead made it about her & something Kim said after the fact. Can't stand Yandy.
Ok
Yandy is a HUGE narcissist. On my nerves!
I did peep how she turned that last talk outside with Mendeecees, Samantha was saying I'm the problem yadayada..Guess What? I was helping raise YOUR SONS ! You don't to give me an apology, But what you should've gave me was a THANK YOU ... # HOW DID SHE SPIN ALL THE NEGATIVITY ABOUT HER AROUND TO BRING UP HER "GOOD DEED" WHICH DISMISSES ALL THE "OG FOCUS" OF THE CONVERSATION SHE STARTED TO PLACE HER BACK IN A "GOOD LIGHT" WITH COMPLETE DISRESPECT ON THE EMPHASIS "YOURSONS" AS IF SHES TAKING CARE OF HIS RESPONSIBILITIES SOLELY LIKE WERE NOT MARRIED & ALL THE KIDS ARE "OUR " KIDS.. ENDING IT WITH YOU DONT HAVE TO APOLOGIZE , BUT U SHOULD'VE GAVE ME A THANK YOU. 😮 WOW (FROM BEING THE BLAME 2 DESERVING PRAISE🎉.. )MENDEECEES BE KNOWING& SEES EXACTLY WHAT SHE BE DOIN'... IMA JUST SAY MENDEECEES GONE LEAVE HER 1DAY. HE DOESN'T LOOK HAPPY 2 ME.
She admits her wrongdoing at times
Yandy really manipulated her taking accountability for her part in that situation into mendeecees somehow being“ ungrateful” for her raising his kids while he was away. Craziness
Yeah she flipped it because she wanna be mad about something. So he's the closest thing she can attack because she know Sam is right about her ass sending her girl out to attack Sam.
Yandy is ALWAYS good at flipping the conversation when she's at fault, and when someone wants her to take accountability. I'm mad nobody seems to call her out for that. It's a manipulation tactic.
@@TayTatum I don’t really think she sent anyone I think her cousin did that on her own but I do believe she lied when she said she didn’t know who did it I think that’s what got them thinking she planned it
Deflection at its finest
@@LeeahQueen I agree. It’s sad bc it seems she’s harboring some insecurity when it comes to his baby moms and I think she’s jealous bc tbh they are much prettier than her. A lot of ppl feel like baby Moms are supposed to be ugly or whatever and the new gf is supposed to be the upgrade aesthetically however mendeecees baby mothers are both gorgeous so perhaps Yandy is jealous of that and maybe feels mendeecees is still attracted to that type of women and she does not resemble that aesthetic. Yandy is pretty as well but those women are very pretty too. Some women want to feel like the only pretty one
Yandy was wrong, she should have dropped her pride and "completely apologize!" She did bring her cousin, to fight and that was wrong!!
Samanatha has LOVE written all over her and I Love it. Lets keep the family together - PERIOD! For the KIDS (in my Tara voice) lol
Hilarious!!!! This comment nade me chuckle. The Tata saying should be on a shirt ! I love it
Yandy said she felt like they were "good" when EVERYONE else says opposite. That's how you know YOU are the problem.
Little Mendeecee's face when he sees his mom shows how much he loves her. Yandy is 100% the problem. And now he's old enough to see it.
And good job Samantha. Her new man is fine as hell 🤣
WHY THE HELL HE DIDNT GET UP TO HUG ND KISS HIS MOMMA THO??
@@j4kgang921 that what I thought ????
It’s been 5 years! How many times does Yandy have to say she didn’t get anyone to jump her.
yandy is bitter, she keeps bringing up taking care of mendeeces son shows she's not doing it from the heart. also she wants to be better than mendeeces ex so bad it kills her to see them at peace and looking good af also Sam's fiance is fione af and Sam looks gorgeous. peep mendeeces and lil mendeeces face when sam walked in. their faces lit right up, actions speaks louder than words. that's all I have to say.
Right she did the same thing with the young girl she adopted & then kicked out when mandecees got out.
Exactly like she didn’t do it from her heart. She did it to Have something to always throw out and hold. Smh just like the adoption
Right, she not doing it from the heart-she doing it to keep the man
@@earthangelwithlove444 She used her for an in house babysitter until Mendecees got home. I saw right through that.
Nothing she does comes from the heart she likes to be seen as good but she really is NOT
Little Mendeecee’s has his dad’s best qualities!❤️ he’s going to be a great young man!
I think Yandy gets upset cause she knows that her husband was cheating on her with his baby moms… She needs 2 day sorry!!!
Actually No, He Cheated On His Baby Mother With Her, She Was The Side Chick & That's Facts.
@Pairala Kiwi samantha is cockeyed. I’m 100% sure she not worried about that 🤣
@Pairala Kiwi Exactly, she cringes at the thought of having to even remotely look at Samantha’s pretty face and just the fact that she birthed a baby boy (no w young man) that is identical to Merceedese
This give me the vibes Big Mendeeces and Samantha were best friends at some point. ❤
@Cheyenne Redding Yes, I Truly Believe Samantha Was His First Love And The One That Got Away. Him & Yandy Don't Seem To Have That Same Chemistry On Screen.
It’s little mendeecee’s speaking up for me 👏🏾
Yandy is giving bitter baby mama vibes this season 😭
Has Yandy ever admitted to being wrong, about anything? On any season? 🙄…..
Trash don't take accountability. Should only be taken out.
Nope. Not once. Smh. All that skanch does is lie and deflect
@@say.yes. Damn. 🤣🤣🤣
@@say.yes. I feel on such a level I have never liked that woman she is dangerous.
This was a violation. If she had him sit down with someone she was with in the past that would rub him the wrong way
Omg please listen to your son!!! 😢😢 His heart is broken & broke my heart when he said he don’t want to see two of the most important women in his life fighting. ❤😢
LMAO Yandy was talking to Mendecees CRAZY
He shoulda checked her
He should leave her...she talks to him like a child and like anything he does isn't good enough.
Lil Mendecee has grown up sooo much! He's emotionally mature and so well rounded! ❤️❤️❤️
I was helping raise your son 😅 she’s a gaslighter. I’m almost sure Sam could of took care of her own kid. 😂😂😂😂
“how many times you think she practiced that in the mirror.” rah ali. a great statement that holds truth because just like yandy said she wanted to think about what she gon say, because what i noticed about her and when she’s being confronted her statements are very performative and even hilarious. she wanted to be better prepared to make sure she can easily turn it on anyone else but herself even though we all know she was the match to the fire.
Kudos to the Dad for taking charge of the situation! His priority is his son and Yandy needs to be a WOMAN not a female, take responsibility, accountability and apologize. This is NOT about your feelings YANDY. The WORLD knows you are a liar and a narcissist. Do what's best for the children since she "claims" that she loves the kids (all of them).
Word .
Samantha looking good. Happy to see ppl have love in their life ❤️
I don’t like Samantha…. She want an apology but coming in there disrespectful and calling names already…..Girl get over it!!! She petty as hell!!
The way I see it, Mendecees wants to keep Samantha close. He not happy that he is losing Samantha to another man and this is frustrating Yandy who can clearly see that Mendecees will ALWAYS care for Samantha or atleast care enough to keep her as a back up plan.
Mendecees needs to let Samantha go. He made his choice with Yandy, he needs to move on and stop using his son as an excuse.
My observation, anyway.
Nailed it! He is being slick talking about “you feel some type of way” when she said he blindsided her 🙄
That’s funny, bc on that episode, lol
Mandeeces says to Yandy that his dad may be jealous that his mom have a new man and he will be his step father, and Yandy looked pissed loll
@@earthangelwithlove444 Yep! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes, you can tell
I wish he would have married Samantha instead. If not Samantha, at least a woman that is adult enough to get along with his children and their mother's. Life is too short for the uncessarily drama.
Mendecees knows that Yandy is the problem so he manages things in his way. Yandy is the worse. She is so disrespectful, rude and very manipulative. It's disappointing that her ego is so big that she can not take accountability.
Well if he feels that way maybe he should move on from Yandy 🙄
I don't know why he still with her unless it's the money and lifestyle.
Exactly
The fact that Yandy never apologized about that and decided not to speak on it, shows her involvement in it! If that happened to someone I “cared” about, I would be so apologetic .. smh
The whole Samantha being jealous can’t be said any more 🤷🏿♀️
I mean we all knew she was never jealous truly lol.
It's the other way around Yandy is the one that is jealous.
Lil Mendeecees didn't need to be there. I'm glad he made an adult decision to leave.
If Yandy doesn't hold herself accountable now after all these years she'll end up standing alone
Exactly. It's futile to "win an argument" and have "the last word" if you end up being shunned. It's not worth all that. Someone can "win" and STILL lose.