@@LiliAqvq I was just about to tell... Google is not trustworthy, unless you feel excited from being watched I wouldn't recommend anyone to search stuff using it. Besides that there's their arguable political bias, so... Hey, let's see if I get this comment banned by Google! 😂
The tired thing is real. How are you today. I reply I'm tired. When an intp is busy they don't have time for emotions or feelings. Even if you just say I love you and care about you they will say ok and get back to work. Intp's don't have time for silly questions when they are busy.
That happened to me when someone once told me that. I asked "Why?" because.. i mean...why did he love me?!?? I just couldn't comprehend. Oh boi, the pikachu face he made. And then he asked me if there had to be an explanation why he loved me. If there had to be one....uhh, duuh! Yes?!!! Because if you can't explain the reason for WHY there was love, how should i see this being valid and believe then this to be true??? Hn?!?.. If you can't explain and validate it, then how should i believe and trust in it?! Please tell me?!....right,exactly one can not. Because there is no reason to. Do i really have to explain it didn't work out with us? Yes? Really?!? - well, it didn't work out because I didn't even start something😅. Call me an misanthropic and distrusting b*** but that's just the way I am😂
@@midoarin6874 Hahaha nah, you are just normal, I did the same thing 😂😂😂 And I even asked why I should risk anything for such a very weak (meaning no valid) explanation? Because the answer was not very logical either, after there happened to be one: I just love everything about you (that's how politicians talk, many words, no content). My mental health is more important 😁
I am feeling tired too, but instead of sleeping, my brain is going to choose to stay up till 3 am thinking about that one awkward interaction I had 4 years ago.
mehhhhh, I thought only me always stay awake until morning thinking about my interactions with everyone and trying to observe what I did right and wrong.
Accept that you can't change it and that is ok. For example try to think of some really stupid stuff that happened to somebody else. Now what do you think about that person? Probably nothing bad. Maybe you can't even remember most situations that didn't involve yourself. Most people will even remember less than you do. But in the end sometimes you just fuck up and that is a good thing. Just do your best next time and move on. There is nothing to gain by living in the past, focus on what is right now and what really needs your attention. We get taught that mistakes are bad, but that's not right. You need to make mistakes in order to grow. The difference between a student and a master is, that the master has failed more often than the student has even tried.
@M Rod I am aware of Fi and how it impacts INTPs. I’ve been reading about it two years now and it has helped me to understand him better :) thanks a lot for the explanation it was very helpful to read. What I meant with my comment is that my INTP friend is actually very empathetic with his actions and not necessarily with words. Other example I have of him is one time when my INTJ brother was in severe pain and he was the only one that took the time to search for a good doctor near the city. He was also worried about him days later and kept sending messages of how he was doing. I can sense he does it with such pure and genuine intentions. I would say that even more than me that has Fe as 1st function.
@@JR-ow8xg If you have a broken lawnmower, an INTP will show he cares for you either by lending you his, assuming that he has one in working condition, or by helping you find a lawnmower repair service. In contrast, an ISTP will show he cares by . . . fixing your lawnmower.
INFP here, and indeed I would say that looks more like an XXFJ because: - I'd NEVER tell someone what they should or should not say unless they ask first. - If they believe something is a feeling, I would NEVER argue that it is not, because I'm not in their brain to evaluate it, so I don't know how that "something" feels. - That hippie-style way of therapy is definitely Fe, and I simply can't stand it. If I want to to know about someone's feelings, I ask about them ONCE, and then SHUT THE FUCK UP, period. If I want to hear what someone says, I just do that, listen, not judge (at least not verbosely), until there's nothing more remaining to be said, and listen, because it's a nonsense to ask something just to not allow to answer whatever thing. - I can speak a lot, but only if I have something to say. Above all I'm an introvert, so I need to have a clear need to be willing to small talk. It's better to hear silence than to say shit, or even worse, to hear shit in return 😑 - Lastly, I do care about people who are not an asshole. That doesn't mean I'll be calling everyday to ask how it goes. But don't worry, if I have to, I'll be there, no matter what, no matter how. P.S: If I try to know how someone feels, I do it by trying to understand every detail, and then summing everything up to get that person's perspective (empathy), not from a pre-defined own set of square-headed categories and stereotypes that are just cosmetically friendly (sympathy).
Whenever I randomly open up in a conversation, afterwards people would often be: (1) Confused af, (2) Feeling depressed, or (3) Evaluating their perception of me and our entire relationship 🤷♀️
Exactly. It's like food groups. There are only two, peanut butter and bread. Add any more and things get way too complicated and time consuming, causing interference with more important tasks, like revising your arguments in your head fifty times without ever writing them down or expressing them to anyone else.
as an intp, i think a lot about telling other people how i really feel but then im afraid of how they'll treat me after, and i overthink the situation... so i just keep quiet instead :'D
Sometimes when I as an INFP start opening up too much, perhaps accidentally, and start really unloading in a thought-out way, I can sort of trick an INTP into exposing themselves briefly.
@@LiliAqvq Hahaha, yeah I think you are right! That's interesting that it's with INFJs! The INFJ I had in my life would open up if you probed them, but the personal content would fire out in a surprisingly quick and almost matter-of-fact way, but then it'd get fleshed out as we attached it to some idea or concept. Some of us need to squeeze out every bit of the dramatic juices 😂😂😂
@@anandaalvarez4336 Hey Ananda, yeah definitely fun from my perspective too! I love fun Myers-Briggs content and Lili has always seemed like a kindred spirit. It might be amusing to hear that I was a source of some drama on this channel and Lili's Discord due to some alcohol-related behavior before I gave it up, which is a shameful bit of history and pretty awkward (I think I have accidentally turned awkwardness into an artform), but maybe now it can seem a little amusing. In any case, I hope Lili is doing well and will find inspiration to make more sometime! Great to hear from you!
When people ask me how my day's been or how I'm feeling, I always say, "Fine". Why even bother giving a specific answer? Plus if they are that interested in my state of mind they can specify or explain what they want to know. Feeling is too ephemeral for me to tell someone about my entire day or constantly be aware of how I'm feeling at any given moment.
Worst - we can't even not rationalise things. It is just something we DO. We don't try. We just DO! Trying to stop something that comes as natural as breathing? - yeah, well....good luck with that one. I don't even try. Much less stress😅
Looking for the reason for a feeling is not the same as rationalizing it. the first means trying to understand why one feels in a specific instance, the second implies justifying (ad hoc) a feeling.
Not exactly the same but it happened to me once that I felt like my husband was mad or something because something I said.. I asked how was he feeling and he said “I feel mature”, and I was like “that’s not a feeling”, after many tries, he finally said “I feel bittersweet” and well, the conversation went similar to this video 😅 except we ended up arguing badly 😭 (that was like a month ago, we’re fine now). I’m an INFP and he’s ESTP. Sometimes when I see he looks like mad or sad and I ask him how he feels, he says “I’m tired” And I think he just doesn’t want to tell me. 😅 I kinda learned just to give him space, it’s better that way. It’s just that I feel kinda anxious when I see him in a mood and I have to hold my urge to ask every 10 min about his feelings.
Just let his have his feelings, whatever they are. They are his feelings, not yours, so you do not have to take them on. Allow him to be or feel however he is in each moment. People often think I'm mad when I'm not. I'm just thinking. -intp
Estps has Fi polar as function, most the time they dont know what they are feeling or like or dislike. It takes a time yo know their favorite food or color ...
I almost died at "I know what it says: bum bum". I have to remember that the next time someone asks me about my feelings, 'cause I have an answer than rather to looking like a hung up computer.
INTP who doubles as Captain Obvious. INTPs follow their own logic, and basically live by the definitions they personally assign to things, so by that logic, it wouldn’t be a stretch to say that this particular INTP very early on assigned physical exhaustion as an what they would believe to be an emotion, in the same way that someone who’s hungry might respond to a question regarding how they feel. Disagreements usually stem from a lack of common understanding or completely disagreeing with the foundation of their argument that would lead to the conclusion they’ve met. These two disagree on what qualifies as an emotional phenomenon, and it is at this point that I am physically and mentally exhausting from typing all of this, and this is why tired can qualify as an emotional phenomenon.
As an INTP I was struggling to open up for 5 years and now I do and... NOBODY DONT TAKE ME FUCKING SERIOUSLY. Like bro you told me to open up more😀 They are like: we all go through that I feel that too and blah blah blah blah... You Would get over it... You should look into the bright side... Me in the corner been silently struggling with depression since I was in 4th grade:😌🔪 I hope, you made good choices in your life... I know life is full of struggles and maybe with enough time and healing we can endeavor that problem; that's why I'm hanging on a cliff right now... I just want you to listen🙃 You can give advice but I will do the talking for now, m'kay? That "advice" you gave me right now is just purely common sense 🙂 I know that, what do you think I keep chanting in my mind?
"Did u lie, then?" I was literally waiting for her to say that after the friend said she said it to make her feel good. Damn, are the scenarios in my head real?🥺
as an INTP-T, trying to express emotions towards people and telling them how i feel is beyond difficult. like speaking to a brick wall, either that, or they think i'm being a prick ;;
I feel like thinking, too! The xxFx among my friends don't accept it as an answer, though. My other answers are usually: "I don't know" or worse: "Let me think... Fine, I guess." Such questions always catch me off guard. How I'm supposed to know that? - INTJ
Huh so I looked it up... There's supposedly eight core emotions: joy, trust, fear, surprise, sadness, anticipation, anger, and disgust... Neither of those come close to describing the "tired" emotion to me 🤔
This ending literally happens to me all the time. People think it’s hilarious too to throw illogical stuff at me and then kinda make fun of it to get a rise out of me. Cause i honestly can’t help but get frustrated when there’s absolutely no logic behind an argument. It blows my mind to a point of me not even knowing what to say because it’s so stupid.
In rl I only know one INTP, and we were talking about emotions and the looking for meaning of emotions and why we need them kept running in my head for a week and I came to these conclusions: - emotions help us connect with others by caring for them even if we don't have a valid logical reason for that. - emotions are like a fuel, they give you power to do things you wouldn't do otherwise. - I forgot what the rest of my conclusion was sry🤣
I like the second one so much, it makes a lot of sense and gives me the hope of maybe some day feeling so scared or so joyful that I will take a huge risk in my life 😂
Yup Lili, embrace your adventure. Btw it took me 2 years of psychotherapy to get to know my emotions this well so it's not an easy job but most importantly it's a skill you can learn with practice.
Another super relatable video! You're amazing, Lili. :) Not to brag, but I have more feelings on my (hypothetical) wheel of emotions.. but one of them is definitely 'tired' and it's the one I feel more often than anything else.
you made me remind of an episode of my childhood😂😂 When my mom said that she loves my father, then I asked her "Why?" and she told me: You can't explain this thing, it just comes and goes as many feelings me: but it must be a reason obv she was shocked and me confused I WAS JUST A CHILD, GOD
"I know that I'm forgiven/but I don't know how I know/I don't trust my inner feelings/Inner feelings come and go." Leonard Cohen ("That don't make it junk")
Here's a question : what urge to react as does this current exact situation give you ? Does it make you feel the urge to smash a wall? Cry? Laugh? Sing? What reaction does this situation causes from you?
'' but tired is not a feeling'' '' *yes it is !* '' it took 2 seconds to crack me up 😂😂 i feel sorry for the man who'll confess to Lili she'll roast him 😂 (just kidding, your inferior Fe is still there, you'll be kind i know 😂)
@@Nina21_ well the problem was that they were confessions without even knowing me, so it is very important for us to make sure that the other person is making a conscious decision about us. Like reaaally knowing what they are getting into... but I think this works for everyone, not only INTPs, because we tend to idealize people and have an imaginary idea of what we want them to be. *cries in violin*
@@LiliAqvq omg !! This happens to me too and for the exact same reason !! I always feel frustrated because people don't actually know me (they know the version/image they have in their heads) they don't make the effort to go deep and figure me out (and i too, think sometimes that i have unrealistic standards..but this is what i want, i won't settle for less ) now i understand why you roast them with ''why?'' 😂 my aux Fe makes me ''pass'' without explaining how illogical and just crazy their words are 😛
How am I feeling? You ever have a knot in the muscles of your shoulder that just won't go away? You could have 10 people try to work out that kink and fail. I acknowledge my deepest innermost feelings could be likened to that knot. Too much time has passed and too much effort taken to fix it but it will never go away. That knot is my inability to truly vibe with "the now". But I made my peace with it decades ago when I was a child. So when I say what I'm feeling is "tired", that's truly the only thing left I can say that won't open a whole can of worms that neither of us want opened.
Omg those are my main three feelings too (just include emotional pain too🥲) Like really, when I think of the most positive emotion I could feel it would be excitement not happiness somehow.
I went to every article on google I could find and I still can’t understand emotions. This video just highlights that. Side note- I like being punctual, and my little sister forced me to fix my sleep schedule, it’s not a good feeling, but technically what I just said isn’t a feeling, and I’d have to elaborate to no avail. Man, emotions are weird.
See this is why I fkin hate being a INTP WE WANT TO SOCALIZE TALK ETC ETC BUTTTTT there is very little ppl who have the patient to deal with us or just misunderstand us as rude when we talk…Which is why we are often thinking of having convos n sht etc which we will never have OTL
This is so funny - my sister never likes to give me an example and tell me to find it out myself - why did I even ask her if I knew how to find it out myself
Is tired not an emotion ?
I looked it up on Google. They would say that fatigue is a feeling, because tired is just a low energy level. But I don't trust them
@@LiliAqvq wise woman
Tiredness is a sensation, isn't it? Not an emotion.
@@LiliAqvq I was just about to tell...
Google is not trustworthy, unless you feel excited from being watched I wouldn't recommend anyone to search stuff using it. Besides that there's their arguable political bias, so...
Hey, let's see if I get this comment banned by Google! 😂
The tired thing is real. How are you today. I reply I'm tired. When an intp is busy they don't have time for emotions or feelings. Even if you just say I love you and care about you they will say ok and get back to work. Intp's don't have time for silly questions when they are busy.
Anyone: "I love you"
INTP: "why? "
It's true tho
-fellow intp
Yes! This is how I'm being weird everywhere; questioning everything 😱😱😱
Haha ... same 😱
And people think we are crazy and need psychiatrist,, I'm done :'') I'm TIERD
That happened to me when someone once told me that. I asked "Why?" because.. i mean...why did he love me?!?? I just couldn't comprehend.
Oh boi, the pikachu face he made. And then he asked me if there had to be an explanation why he loved me. If there had to be one....uhh, duuh! Yes?!!! Because if you can't explain the reason for WHY there was love, how should i see this being valid and believe then this to be true??? Hn?!?.. If you can't explain and validate it, then how should i believe and trust in it?! Please tell me?!....right,exactly one can not. Because there is no reason to.
Do i really have to explain it didn't work out with us? Yes? Really?!? - well, it didn't work out because I didn't even start something😅.
Call me an misanthropic and distrusting b*** but that's just the way I am😂
@@midoarin6874 Hahaha nah, you are just normal, I did the same thing 😂😂😂
And I even asked why I should risk anything for such a very weak (meaning no valid) explanation? Because the answer was not very logical either, after there happened to be one: I just love everything about you (that's how politicians talk, many words, no content). My mental health is more important 😁
"I need an example so I know what you mean"- most INTP thing ever when it comes to emotional concepts. 👍
"I love you"
"Don't worry, it'll pass."
“This too shall pass” hahaha
That expression after the INTP detected a hypocritical statement!
I am feeling tired too, but instead of sleeping, my brain is going to choose to stay up till 3 am thinking about that one awkward interaction I had 4 years ago.
Exactly 😶......
mehhhhh, I thought only me always stay awake until morning thinking about my interactions with everyone and trying to observe what I did right and wrong.
Accept that you can't change it and that is ok.
For example try to think of some really stupid stuff that happened to somebody else.
Now what do you think about that person?
Probably nothing bad. Maybe you can't even remember most situations that didn't involve yourself.
Most people will even remember less than you do.
But in the end sometimes you just fuck up and that is a good thing. Just do your best next time and move on. There is nothing to gain by living in the past, focus on what is right now and what really needs your attention.
We get taught that mistakes are bad, but that's not right. You need to make mistakes in order to grow.
The difference between a student and a master is, that the master has failed more often than the student has even tried.
GOD YES
Reading this comment being tired at the actual 3:45 am. I guess I've passed the vibe check 👍🏻😀
*Opening up and speaking my heart ?*
INTP: thinking about what should his heart say instead of letting his heart speak
😂😂😂 this really made me laugh out loud !
INTP proceeds to imagine an anthropomorphic heart speaking.
@@angelarballo4478 i mean i imagine myself talking to every organ i have in my body 😂😂
This is me with my INTP friend talking about feelings hahahaha I love it when he says he doesn’t have feelings but feeds dogs in the street. So cute
🥺🥺🥺
Wait feeding dogs is feelings? I dont think so, its only awesome, as dogs are.
@M Rod I am aware of Fi and how it impacts INTPs. I’ve been reading about it two years now and it has helped me to understand him better :) thanks a lot for the explanation it was very helpful to read.
What I meant with my comment is that my INTP friend is actually very empathetic with his actions and not necessarily with words.
Other example I have of him is one time when my INTJ brother was in severe pain and he was the only one that took the time to search for a good doctor near the city. He was also worried about him days later and kept sending messages of how he was doing.
I can sense he does it with such pure and genuine intentions. I would say that even more than me that has Fe as 1st function.
@@JR-ow8xg If you have a broken lawnmower, an INTP will show he cares for you either by lending you his, assuming that he has one in working condition, or by helping you find a lawnmower repair service. In contrast, an ISTP will show he cares by . . . fixing your lawnmower.
@@petersmall1574 I have an ISTP mom and this is very true lol. She's the best!
"I know what my feelings feel like."
That is the most INTP thing ever said.
+2 points for thumb rings.
Also 7K!!!
Idk. Idk how my feelings feel like (sad music)
+5 for detail oriented
Most probably an INTP and INFP conversation right👉
INTP vs ENFJ rather. The INFPs that I know speak much less than I do, and they are not that people-oriented.
Seems right to me. This is very similar to conversations I have with my 2 INFP friends
@@sylvia470 INFPs speak when they r alone or with their close friends
@M Rod exactly
INFP here, and indeed I would say that looks more like an XXFJ because:
- I'd NEVER tell someone what they should or should not say unless they ask first.
- If they believe something is a feeling, I would NEVER argue that it is not, because I'm not in their brain to evaluate it, so I don't know how that "something" feels.
- That hippie-style way of therapy is definitely Fe, and I simply can't stand it. If I want to to know about someone's feelings, I ask about them ONCE, and then SHUT THE FUCK UP, period. If I want to hear what someone says, I just do that, listen, not judge (at least not verbosely), until there's nothing more remaining to be said, and listen, because it's a nonsense to ask something just to not allow to answer whatever thing.
- I can speak a lot, but only if I have something to say. Above all I'm an introvert, so I need to have a clear need to be willing to small talk. It's better to hear silence than to say shit, or even worse, to hear shit in return 😑
- Lastly, I do care about people who are not an asshole. That doesn't mean I'll be calling everyday to ask how it goes. But don't worry, if I have to, I'll be there, no matter what, no matter how.
P.S: If I try to know how someone feels, I do it by trying to understand every detail, and then summing everything up to get that person's perspective (empathy), not from a pre-defined own set of square-headed categories and stereotypes that are just cosmetically friendly (sympathy).
"right now I'm feeling in love with you"
"Why"
My most used word has to be "why" ngl
Technically, actually also
i literally said "bitch!" unconsciously at the end when she said and I feel tired lmao thats how invested I was in this
😂😂
Things like that happend with my ex infp gf
And i am intp i could relate so much
Whenever I randomly open up in a conversation, afterwards people would often be: (1) Confused af, (2) Feeling depressed, or (3) Evaluating their perception of me and our entire relationship 🤷♀️
I relate so much to that "exited/anxious/tired" wheel that I can't imagine how the rest does it with even more than that
Exactly. It's like food groups. There are only two, peanut butter and bread. Add any more and things get way too complicated and time consuming, causing interference with more important tasks, like revising your arguments in your head fifty times without ever writing them down or expressing them to anyone else.
"It's about opening up and speaking your heart.
Just try it."
"Please go away."
Dear xSFx
Being tired isn't a problem to solve ,It's just how my body reacts to situations .
(On behalf of an INTP)
As an intp who is studying psychology I can say that I too feel tired
The "Wheel of emotions" at the end is good
that's so true when others told me "I'm tired"
me: "I'll give you space to be on your own and recover."
as an intp, i think a lot about telling other people how i really feel but then im afraid of how they'll treat me after, and i overthink the situation... so i just keep quiet instead :'D
Yea most of the time it's happens with me my mind talks to me all the time even I am bored
Sometimes when I as an INFP start opening up too much, perhaps accidentally, and start really unloading in a thought-out way, I can sort of trick an INTP into exposing themselves briefly.
😂😂😂 it is probably the feeling of reciprocity, that has happened to me with INFJs my entire life
@@LiliAqvq Hahaha, yeah I think you are right! That's interesting that it's with INFJs! The INFJ I had in my life would open up if you probed them, but the personal content would fire out in a surprisingly quick and almost matter-of-fact way, but then it'd get fleshed out as we attached it to some idea or concept. Some of us need to squeeze out every bit of the dramatic juices 😂😂😂
Wow never expected to find u here
@@anandaalvarez4336 Hey Ananda, yeah definitely fun from my perspective too! I love fun Myers-Briggs content and Lili has always seemed like a kindred spirit. It might be amusing to hear that I was a source of some drama on this channel and Lili's Discord due to some alcohol-related behavior before I gave it up, which is a shameful bit of history and pretty awkward (I think I have accidentally turned awkwardness into an artform), but maybe now it can seem a little amusing. In any case, I hope Lili is doing well and will find inspiration to make more sometime! Great to hear from you!
@@Hinsoog hahahah really great to hear from u too.. hahaha did not expect that story either.. hope u are doing great, peace and love. INTPs are cool
When people ask me how my day's been or how I'm feeling, I always say, "Fine". Why even bother giving a specific answer? Plus if they are that interested in my state of mind they can specify or explain what they want to know. Feeling is too ephemeral for me to tell someone about my entire day or constantly be aware of how I'm feeling at any given moment.
My friend said to me once, don't rationalize it, and I still can't process that
Worst - we can't even not rationalise things. It is just something we DO. We don't try. We just DO!
Trying to stop something that comes as natural as breathing? - yeah, well....good luck with that one.
I don't even try. Much less stress😅
@@midoarin6874 funny that you said that because that was literally my answer, is like do you want to me turn my brain off? impossible
Looking for the reason for a feeling is not the same as rationalizing it. the first means trying to understand why one feels in a specific instance, the second implies justifying (ad hoc) a feeling.
the “but then” transition when you talk about love was too good 😭😭i do that to mess w people all the time
Tired is definitely a feeling!
I also would hate the question "how are you feeling".
My answer would be smth like "nothing"
I’m an ENFP and the feeler is even driving me up a wall 😂 love INTPs
Not exactly the same but it happened to me once that I felt like my husband was mad or something because something I said.. I asked how was he feeling and he said “I feel mature”, and I was like “that’s not a feeling”, after many tries, he finally said “I feel bittersweet” and well, the conversation went similar to this video 😅 except we ended up arguing badly 😭 (that was like a month ago, we’re fine now).
I’m an INFP and he’s ESTP. Sometimes when I see he looks like mad or sad and I ask him how he feels, he says “I’m tired” And I think he just doesn’t want to tell me. 😅
I kinda learned just to give him space, it’s better that way. It’s just that I feel kinda anxious when I see him in a mood and I have to hold my urge to ask every 10 min about his feelings.
That's an interesting couple!
As an INTP i see as a nightmare someone asking constantly how i feel. I don't get it
Just let his have his feelings, whatever they are. They are his feelings, not yours, so you do not have to take them on. Allow him to be or feel however he is in each moment.
People often think I'm mad when I'm not. I'm just thinking.
-intp
Estps has Fi polar as function, most the time they dont know what they are feeling or like or dislike. It takes a time yo know their favorite food or color ...
Better follow up is asking why the INTP is tired. Also is she tired in a relaxed way or in a depressed way? Those are different emotions.
I'm an INFP with an INTP friend and this is too accurate😂😂
I almost died at "I know what it says: bum bum". I have to remember that the next time someone asks me about my feelings, 'cause I have an answer than rather to looking like a hung up computer.
INTP who doubles as Captain Obvious.
INTPs follow their own logic, and basically live by the definitions they personally assign to things, so by that logic, it wouldn’t be a stretch to say that this particular INTP very early on assigned physical exhaustion as an what they would believe to be an emotion, in the same way that someone who’s hungry might respond to a question regarding how they feel. Disagreements usually stem from a lack of common understanding or completely disagreeing with the foundation of their argument that would lead to the conclusion they’ve met. These two disagree on what qualifies as an emotional phenomenon, and it is at this point that I am physically and mentally exhausting from typing all of this, and this is why tired can qualify as an emotional phenomenon.
As an INTP myself, I must ask, is itchy an emotion? I don't like itchy.
No
No 😂😂
I thought it was?
Lmao itchy is a sensation
this is literally the dialouge between me and my therapist every session
As an INTP I was struggling to open up for 5 years and now I do and...
NOBODY DONT TAKE ME FUCKING SERIOUSLY. Like bro you told me to open up more😀
They are like: we all go through that I feel that too and blah blah blah blah... You Would get over it... You should look into the bright side...
Me in the corner been silently struggling with depression since I was in 4th grade:😌🔪 I hope, you made good choices in your life... I know life is full of struggles and maybe with enough time and healing we can endeavor that problem; that's why I'm hanging on a cliff right now... I just want you to listen🙃 You can give advice but I will do the talking for now, m'kay? That "advice" you gave me right now is just purely common sense 🙂 I know that, what do you think I keep chanting in my mind?
"Did u lie, then?" I was literally waiting for her to say that after the friend said she said it to make her feel good. Damn, are the scenarios in my head real?🥺
"I love you"
"why"
*Me at the same time*: "why"
INTP gradrually becoming an ENTP. 😆
Seriously though, I felt this in my brain.
you mean ENTJ since that is the intp's shadow unconscious
That wheel though WHY IS THIS VIDEO SO ACCURATE
the tone, wording, constant analyzing, picking apart, and questioning was spot on lol "why?"
Wheel of emotions sent me into deep existential crisis, i truly have only 3 emotions 💀
as an INTP-T, trying to express emotions towards people and telling them how i feel is beyond difficult. like speaking to a brick wall, either that, or they think i'm being a prick ;;
That wheel of emotions is too accurate lol
I love the fact that there’s no cursing but you still managed to be funny
I feel like thinking, too!
The xxFx among my friends don't accept it as an answer, though.
My other answers are usually: "I don't know" or worse: "Let me think... Fine, I guess." Such questions always catch me off guard. How I'm supposed to know that?
- INTJ
Based on a true story.
Huh so I looked it up... There's supposedly eight core emotions: joy, trust, fear, surprise, sadness, anticipation, anger, and disgust...
Neither of those come close to describing the "tired" emotion to me 🤔
Oh not at all 🤔, it feels like the lack of all that. Or not the lack but a filter, I don't know 😂
@@LiliAqvq haha yea like all of those things has floated away or something 🤷🏝️🌌
This ending literally happens to me all the time. People think it’s hilarious too to throw illogical stuff at me and then kinda make fun of it to get a rise out of me. Cause i honestly can’t help but get frustrated when there’s absolutely no logic behind an argument. It blows my mind to a point of me not even knowing what to say because it’s so stupid.
In rl I only know one INTP, and we were talking about emotions and the looking for meaning of emotions and why we need them kept running in my head for a week and I came to these conclusions:
- emotions help us connect with others by caring for them even if we don't have a valid logical reason for that.
- emotions are like a fuel, they give you power to do things you wouldn't do otherwise.
- I forgot what the rest of my conclusion was sry🤣
I like the second one so much, it makes a lot of sense and gives me the hope of maybe some day feeling so scared or so joyful that I will take a huge risk in my life 😂
Yup Lili, embrace your adventure.
Btw it took me 2 years of psychotherapy to get to know my emotions this well so it's not an easy job but most importantly it's a skill you can learn with practice.
👏wow
Emotions r important, but don't let them control u
well, a whole week for such a conclusion sounds like an embarrasment that should not even be shared for some reason
The most real part about this skit is the intp having a full length conversation with yourself 😭😂
Hehe most of the time I feel nothing, I’d hate that question.
Another super relatable video! You're amazing, Lili. :) Not to brag, but I have more feelings on my (hypothetical) wheel of emotions.. but one of them is definitely 'tired' and it's the one I feel more often than anything else.
Lol, wheel of emotion. I’m crying from... ugh... laughter 😂 relatable. Except... if I laugh, what category does that go into?! Excited?
" how is that important information? " hahahaha.. ha .. ha .. too good
I think what she meant was her body feels tired but not her brain/"heart". That would have solved the miscommunication. -INTJ
Emotions: as rarely seen as unbitrium.
If someone said I love you, my mind would be like "why, what did I do to deserve this?".
you made me remind of an episode of my childhood😂😂
When my mom said that she loves my father, then I asked her "Why?" and she told me: You can't explain this thing, it just comes and goes as many feelings
me: but it must be a reason
obv she was shocked and me confused
I WAS JUST A CHILD, GOD
Open up and speak your heart!
“Wait I have one of those?!”
Holy shit this was way too much relatable I'm feeling anxious now
Tired is for sure an emotion.
as an INTP, this is so me. like. i mean i literally thought the same thing that she said during the video lol.
You forgot "hungry." That's a very important emotion.
0:37
Sounds exactly like my dad, he’s an intp! This is funny, and pretty accurate!
🤣 “YOU SHOULDN’T BE SAYING ANYTHING” 😳
I said my INTP “I love you” and he said “How do you know ? What is love?” 😂😂
“I need an example” 😂 yup.
Enfim, a hipocrisia!
That last bit of hypocrisy at the end is one of the few things that can make me instantly mad.
"I know that I'm forgiven/but I don't know how I know/I don't trust my inner feelings/Inner feelings come and go." Leonard Cohen ("That don't make it junk")
Tired is an emotion
Don't try to convince me otherwise
as an INTP, this is gold HAHAHA
Sometimes I have this kind of conversation with myself 😰
And now I'm feeling the need to steal your hoodie with bunny ears because it's toooo cute! 😻
Here's a question : what urge to react as does this current exact situation give you ?
Does it make you feel the urge to smash a wall? Cry? Laugh? Sing?
What reaction does this situation causes from you?
Pum-pum pum-pum 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 muero jajajaja
Omg you actually made me chuckle... 😂 Tired is absolutely an emotion, that wheel of emotions is spot on!
The "why" face after she says shes in love with you. LOL
This is so frustrating, fortunately hasn't happened to me to be told to "open my heart" but damn
Not nice when they do. And even worse when the pressure to "open you up" starts.
I am not a can of beans, damn'it!
'' but tired is not a feeling'' '' *yes it is !* '' it took 2 seconds to crack me up 😂😂 i feel sorry for the man who'll confess to Lili she'll roast him 😂 (just kidding, your inferior Fe is still there, you'll be kind i know 😂)
There have been roasted men at this point 🙊
@@LiliAqvq oh nooo 😂 (i'm not surprised though 😂) one should never confess to an INTP i guess XD
@@Nina21_ well the problem was that they were confessions without even knowing me, so it is very important for us to make sure that the other person is making a conscious decision about us. Like reaaally knowing what they are getting into... but I think this works for everyone, not only INTPs, because we tend to idealize people and have an imaginary idea of what we want them to be.
*cries in violin*
@@LiliAqvq omg !! This happens to me too and for the exact same reason !! I always feel frustrated because people don't actually know me (they know the version/image they have in their heads) they don't make the effort to go deep and figure me out (and i too, think sometimes that i have unrealistic standards..but this is what i want, i won't settle for less ) now i understand why you roast them with ''why?'' 😂 my aux Fe makes me ''pass'' without explaining how illogical and just crazy their words are 😛
When your personality flexing just like me.
I'm both intp and infp now.
I LOVE THE CAT PILLOW AT THE BACL
I was LITERALLY think like that about love and relationships so I am alone and happy with that.. I guess 😊
How am I feeling?
You ever have a knot in the muscles of your shoulder that just won't go away? You could have 10 people try to work out that kink and fail. I acknowledge my deepest innermost feelings could be likened to that knot. Too much time has passed and too much effort taken to fix it but it will never go away. That knot is my inability to truly vibe with "the now". But I made my peace with it decades ago when I was a child. So when I say what I'm feeling is "tired", that's truly the only thing left I can say that won't open a whole can of worms that neither of us want opened.
INTP: I think therefore I am😎
Others: we feel therefore we are😆
INTP: Oooppps.....😨 Really really tired.....
Whenever someone asks me how i’m feeling:
It’s either one of these options:
Great
Ok
Normal
Fine
Tired
Or…
IDK???
Bored
I feel so validated by your invalidation then subsequent validation then invalidation again :D
great vid!! (excitement)
Omg those are my main three feelings too (just include emotional pain too🥲)
Like really, when I think of the most positive emotion I could feel it would be excitement not happiness somehow.
I went to every article on google I could find and I still can’t understand emotions. This video just highlights that. Side note- I like being punctual, and my little sister forced me to fix my sleep schedule, it’s not a good feeling, but technically what I just said isn’t a feeling, and I’d have to elaborate to no avail. Man, emotions are weird.
INTP: make an exemple
Everyone: there isn't an example to explain this
INTP: ?!??!!?
Me: yeah that me
oh yeah the "I'm tired" expression which means, "I feel more than you think but I ain't telling you, or don't know how to soo I just say I'm tired"
She is just like me in so many ways its scary. Some of the other videos also match me as well.
The blip of Crush from Nemo cracked me up lol
Perfect editing 👌
The thumbnail is 👌
Tired is an emotion.
GIVE ME AN EXAMPLE!!!!
See this is why I fkin hate being a INTP WE WANT TO SOCALIZE TALK ETC ETC BUTTTTT there is very little ppl who have the patient to deal with us or just misunderstand us as rude when we talk…Which is why we are often thinking of having convos n sht etc which we will never have OTL
Isn’t a feeling? Whaaat😂
No hay nada mejor en este mundo que ver uno de tus videos en la madrugada e identificarse con ellos :)
😍😍
--I'm actually getting anxious
--That's progress!
Lmao
0:55 my unintentional reaction to a lot of things…. Then repeating it in my head or out loud depending on who I’m with to get clarity 🙈🙈🙈
This is giving me anxiety
This is so funny - my sister never likes to give me an example and tell me to find it out myself - why did I even ask her if I knew how to find it out myself