And what if you broke up with them because they didn’t give you what you deserved? They keep liking your posts and than unliking them, than hearting your pictures and unhearting them? But won’t call or text? After I broke up with him, I stated why, he didn’t care, didn’t even text me back, then I went no contact. One month break up, and 3 weeks no contact.
No. After 3 months relationship he surprised me with signing a paper before marriage that in case of divorce no one will take properties of the other. I let him sleep.. the day after I told him goodbye & he keeps checking my status since then.
Not on social and don’t post stories, Living off the grid will make you a lot happier if you dare to try it I don’t understand why people don’t get that pure and true no contact means they have no access to your social media in nor do you there’s I don’t get how these coaches keep talking, like everyone is going to keep in touch through social media even after they dump you know, you have to literally fall off the face of the Earth, and treat them as if they don’t exist even though you know they do . TRUE NO CONTACT.
What if we never went into no contact? We decided to be friends. And we still hung out. We've had conversations about our breakup but no one was begging. But he messaged me and called me. Still like my posts and looked at my stories. But recently maybe this past month, he stopped liking my posts and we don't talk as much or call. But he still looks at my stories. I know he doesn't want to get with me and honestly, I don't want to either. I just want to be friends. I realize now I deserve better and the guy I was falling in love with is gone. The guy he is now is not who I want anymore. But part of me still thinks about him and about what we had.
It seems you guys tried the friend route after breaking up, which is cool. He's not as active lately and THAT'S OKAY. People change. If you're feeling he's not the right fit for you now, that's totally fine. :)
What does it mean if my DA ex liked a story I posted (It was a picture of myself) during NO CONTACT? Will he try to reach out in your opinion? We've been in NC for more than 3 weeks.
We’ve been no contact for 5 days and he’s watching my stories AND messaged me at 3am to compliment me. We were together 5 years and he was a jerk. I’m moving on, but part of me wants him to feel bad for how he mistreated me. Is this just him being creepy and manipulative? I’m so confused 🥺
What would you suggest in this scenario: She sent me 3 messages in about 10 days after saying she just wanted to be friends. The main problem is two messages were just memes, and the 3rd one was a link to a show she thought I’d like. I replied to the first message courteously (replied the next day) as it was very soon after we agreed to go our separate ways. I also want to stress that I did say she could reach out with funny memes etc as a way of remaining civil/not wanting to lose her completely. Probably a bad move but it happened. Anyway, she then sent me a 2nd message a few days later about the show she thought I’d like, I hearted the message 24 hours later. Nothing more. Finally, about a week later she messaged me a 3rd time with a meme, I read it but didn’t reply/acknowledge it. That was about 10 days ago. Our last texts between us was about 3 weeks+ ago. I haven’t reached out once. Also, she never uses WhatsApp besides speaking to me, but I’ve noticed she’s been online quite frequently (two to three times a week) which makes me think she’s reading our conversations again. What should I do here? I do really miss her, she’s a fearful avoidant attachment style and part of me thinks that me ignoring her last message might not have been the best idea, however as I’ve read on other videos isn’t it best to only reply properly if they reach out with a message of significance, rather than something like a meme or video link? I’m confused and ultimately don’t want to lose her completely, but want to remain strong and do no contact. Any thoughts or opinions are really most welcome here.
After over 6 months of no contact I invited him to a show. He said he couldn’t that night but thanks. The next 2 days he watched my stories so I watched his. Didn’t see his last one now he’s not looking at mine…. Now I’m completely confused and lost. What does this mean? Help. What do I do? Does this mean there’s a chance for us?
We broke up 3 months ago. From that day He is watching me from his fake id. He never missed a day watching me. What does it mean? Please say something 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Technically yes. You need to make the best decision for you but if they broke up with you you need to be honest with yourself about if that would be welcomed or not
@@colezesiger compassion... I've known her 15 years but together 7 months. I would have reached out even if we'd have never gotten together. I don't know what to do now...😓
Well I’ve my ex but she thinks I’m being desperate but I only msg to see how she is I msg everybody so but she still watches even tho she ain’t reply back lol
My Stupid Ex girlfriend stay watching my stories on Instagram and Snapchat she basically kept me on those but block me on tiktok all cause she had a boyfriend when she had a boyfriend she was still watching my story like a weirdo
my narcissist of an ex husband: i sometimes watch his reddit to see the lies or how delusional he is through this. answer: no accountability and delusioned lies. not so much curious *about* him but i still worry about his spiral... I dont want harm to come to him *from* him... but its sad to see it happening, but at the same time I'm so glad he isnt taking me down with him anymore...
@@colezesiger first of all, that person broke your heart. 2nd, You don’t owe him or her anything anymore. 3rd, blocking is something where you’re saying it’s serious; we’re breaking up. I don’t want any ties with you right now. I’m able to go on without you. I’m seriously respecting we broke up. I don’t want to be tempting to checking on you and to creating stories just by seeing a picture, etc.
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And what if you broke up with them because they didn’t give you what you deserved? They keep liking your posts and than unliking them, than hearting your pictures and unhearting them? But won’t call or text? After I broke up with him, I stated why, he didn’t care, didn’t even text me back, then I went no contact. One month break up, and 3 weeks no contact.
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No. After 3 months relationship he surprised me with signing a paper before marriage that in case of divorce no one will take properties of the other. I let him sleep.. the day after I told him goodbye & he keeps checking my status since then.
What if you’re the one that broke it off and months later they’re still stalking you?
Not on social and don’t post stories, Living off the grid will make you a lot happier if you dare to try it I don’t understand why people don’t get that pure and true no contact means they have no access to your social media in nor do you there’s I don’t get how these coaches keep talking, like everyone is going to keep in touch through social media even after they dump you know, you have to literally fall off the face of the Earth, and treat them as if they don’t exist even though you know they do . TRUE NO CONTACT.
What if we never went into no contact? We decided to be friends. And we still hung out. We've had conversations about our breakup but no one was begging. But he messaged me and called me. Still like my posts and looked at my stories. But recently maybe this past month, he stopped liking my posts and we don't talk as much or call. But he still looks at my stories. I know he doesn't want to get with me and honestly, I don't want to either. I just want to be friends. I realize now I deserve better and the guy I was falling in love with is gone. The guy he is now is not who I want anymore. But part of me still thinks about him and about what we had.
It seems you guys tried the friend route after breaking up, which is cool. He's not as active lately and THAT'S OKAY. People change. If you're feeling he's not the right fit for you now, that's totally fine. :)
What does it mean if my DA ex liked a story I posted (It was a picture of myself) during NO CONTACT? Will he try to reach out in your opinion? We've been in NC for more than 3 weeks.
We’ve been no contact for 5 days and he’s watching my stories AND messaged me at 3am to compliment me. We were together 5 years and he was a jerk. I’m moving on, but part of me wants him to feel bad for how he mistreated me. Is this just him being creepy and manipulative? I’m so confused 🥺
What would you suggest in this scenario:
She sent me 3 messages in about 10 days after saying she just wanted to be friends. The main problem is two messages were just memes, and the 3rd one was a link to a show she thought I’d like. I replied to the first message courteously (replied the next day) as it was very soon after we agreed to go our separate ways. I also want to stress that I did say she could reach out with funny memes etc as a way of remaining civil/not wanting to lose her completely. Probably a bad move but it happened.
Anyway, she then sent me a 2nd message a few days later about the show she thought I’d like, I hearted the message 24 hours later. Nothing more. Finally, about a week later she messaged me a 3rd time with a meme, I read it but didn’t reply/acknowledge it. That was about 10 days ago. Our last texts between us was about 3 weeks+ ago. I haven’t reached out once. Also, she never uses WhatsApp besides speaking to me, but I’ve noticed she’s been online quite frequently (two to three times a week) which makes me think she’s reading our conversations again.
What should I do here? I do really miss her, she’s a fearful avoidant attachment style and part of me thinks that me ignoring her last message might not have been the best idea, however as I’ve read on other videos isn’t it best to only reply properly if they reach out with a message of significance, rather than something like a meme or video link? I’m confused and ultimately don’t want to lose her completely, but want to remain strong and do no contact. Any thoughts or opinions are really most welcome here.
After over 6 months of no contact I invited him to a show. He said he couldn’t that night but thanks. The next 2 days he watched my stories so I watched his. Didn’t see his last one now he’s not looking at mine…. Now I’m completely confused and lost. What does this mean? Help. What do I do? Does this mean there’s a chance for us?
We broke up 3 months ago. From that day He is watching me from his fake id. He never missed a day watching me. What does it mean? Please say something 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Is it breaking no contact to send a short message on the 1 year anniversary of her dad's death?
Technically yes. You need to make the best decision for you but if they broke up with you you need to be honest with yourself about if that would be welcomed or not
@@colezesiger compassion... I've known her 15 years but together 7 months. I would have reached out even if we'd have never gotten together. I don't know what to do now...😓
You know not to contact. Your message to her won’t change a thing. It’s just a reason to contact.
Unblock me after 3 days when i went no contact
how about we have a child?? but i only ask about child support to increase it , because i have to stop working for a mean time.
Try to be as no contact as possible while still talking about your child when needed
Well I’ve my ex but she thinks I’m being desperate but I only msg to see how she is I msg everybody so but she still watches even tho she ain’t reply back lol
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My Stupid Ex girlfriend stay watching my stories on Instagram and Snapchat she basically kept me on those but block me on tiktok all cause she had a boyfriend when she had a boyfriend she was still watching my story like a weirdo
How do u know if they are
You can see it on instagram in the bottom left hand corner
@@colezesiger ahh OK. Thank u
3 1/2 years
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Yea I have no idea what to say now and um...I only made like one change In my life😕
What change have you made?
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my narcissist of an ex husband: i sometimes watch his reddit to see the lies or how delusional he is through this.
answer: no accountability and delusioned lies.
not so much curious *about* him but i still worry about his spiral... I dont want harm to come to him *from* him... but its sad to see it happening, but at the same time I'm so glad he isnt taking me down with him anymore...
Interesting. That is a good point that they can watch for other reasons
No they can’t watch my story because i block them for good now its to late game over
He ain’t playing
I believe you should block your ex.
What’s your reasoning on it?
@@colezesiger first of all, that person broke your heart. 2nd, You don’t owe him or her anything anymore. 3rd, blocking is something where you’re saying it’s serious; we’re breaking up. I don’t want any ties with you right now. I’m able to go on without you. I’m seriously respecting we broke up. I don’t want to be tempting to checking on you and to creating stories just by seeing a picture, etc.
But I messaged 🙄
How did that work out?