She Likes You BUT Ignores You For THIS Reason (Why Is She Ignoring Me If She Likes Me)

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  • @Joyanima
    @Joyanima  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

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  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +741

    When she ignores is because she wants you to chase and look desperate and then ghost you, don't fall for her silly mind games, just ignore her move on

  • @blakephotographytexas
    @blakephotographytexas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    I love how these videos are all about trying to get men to be okay with and accept women's psychopathic behavior. Too many women need therapy.

    • @raphaelklietmann5529
      @raphaelklietmann5529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Yes, you are absolutely right, brother! Dealing with women is often dealing with psychopaths... (Even the "normal" ones, act this way) In times of onlinedating more than ever!!! Best wishes from AUSTRIA*

    • @johnwu2553
      @johnwu2553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      facts

    • @Martin-jk2ng
      @Martin-jk2ng 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for saying it out loud. I'm amazed at how even red pillers buy into their bs. "That's just female nature" and all that crap. It's manipulation. Period. They just want you to be better at manipulation than they are.

    • @fox1actual
      @fox1actual 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💯

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@raphaelklietmann5529 seriously, I just saw the 1st half, and I understand that a lot of lady's need therapy but some need it cause they've been emotional damaged by bullies, and can't love themself.

  • @shane9883
    @shane9883 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    These tactics backfire on them pushing the guy away. Shows the guy the girls true colors and ruins everything for a future together

  • @JohnOBrien-v5z
    @JohnOBrien-v5z ปีที่แล้ว +44

    After reading dozens of comments from loads of men , I have to say that I agree with them all , the minute a woman hesitates with me I am gone , especially when I was spending my time , energy and resources on her . Even though lovely Anna tries to explain their reasons, I still think it's unacceptable . Just move on good men or stay single and keep your sanity.

    • @dodyirawan4998
      @dodyirawan4998 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree with you Sir.. Honor are above all.. Thats why iam 54' still single..

    • @sunyata1016
      @sunyata1016 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen!

    • @Ballpython77
      @Ballpython77 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      AMEN!

  • @martinsaunders7925
    @martinsaunders7925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    If she's ignoring me,she's ignoring my wallet too. Giving me more time and money to pursue worthwhile and profitable interests.

  • @JohnnyIbbs
    @JohnnyIbbs ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Women love the chase so they can 'feel special" And turn around and play even more games.Never reward bad behavior, Women who ignore in any way are telling you I'm not interested regardless what her motives are.

    • @jod5mx23
      @jod5mx23 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯

    • @paulcolin-fj9ns
      @paulcolin-fj9ns ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree they're not interested unless in a rare case they could be getting bad advice from friends or something

    • @emiliooseguera7644
      @emiliooseguera7644 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is truth to this

    • @jod5mx23
      @jod5mx23 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emiliooseguera7644 hello long lost relative lol

    • @Confessions2Change
      @Confessions2Change ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very eye opening fact is that Unlike us men when we aren't interested we're not interested!!! but Wen a Women is not interested good news is that there is no such thing as it being certain her mind doesn't work like that 😊😅 her feelings are always changing based on what's relevant to her benefite at that moment in time facts ☝️ women won't tell you this because they know it's the power you will have against them just think about 😅 even the woman doing this video isn't directly tryna tell you that a woman's mind is all over the plays there's never a CERTAIN TRANSPARENCY with them for the most case and I blame a lotta this on the influence this Western culture and society for this because it has promoted a lot of the mental confusion and emotional impulsiveness of these women

  • @Samtino20
    @Samtino20 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    as a man who has always done well, never chase, its a game that will keep being played

  • @brjones27
    @brjones27 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Expecting attention when you give none is a really good sign of narcissism.

    • @robert4you
      @robert4you ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Spot on sir! I hate to say it, but women acting like this are on the border of being flat out psychopathic. It's actually a very sick behaviour. And to all men out there: The answer to this is to *IGNORE HER!* Never ever reward bad behaviour. Let her reach out to you again and then tell her that this is totally unacceptable. If she refuses to understand, just *Walk Away!* There are approx 3 billion adult women in the world, plenty of fish in the sea.... pick a better one. My two cents.

    • @yotito93
      @yotito93 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I disagree. There’s too many factors to be able to make that statement.

    • @brandonelzy4196
      @brandonelzy4196 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

    • @dodyirawan4998
      @dodyirawan4998 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree 100%..

  • @markpack1111
    @markpack1111 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    If she leaves....... count your blessings......
    You will never be enough...

  • @brendandeodato9157
    @brendandeodato9157 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Play games and get ignored girls. Works both ways, don’t do what you would hate.

  • @wesrichardson2311
    @wesrichardson2311 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She's ignoring you because shes talking to someone else. Cut your losses and move on

  • @JAB227
    @JAB227 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    if a woman pulls away, im out. dont play mind games to manipulate me to chase.

  • @KL1ST1ER
    @KL1ST1ER ปีที่แล้ว +26

    "Oh, you have options? Goodbye!"

  • @tonyp8286
    @tonyp8286 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    The problem she has is SHES EMOTIONALLY DAMAGED

    • @macymontana2245
      @macymontana2245 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Facts

    • @infamouswickedjokestar
      @infamouswickedjokestar ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Past traumas & experiences that she has gone through in life

    • @Ballpython77
      @Ballpython77 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am also after 15 ytears of narcissitic abuse but i still dn't play games, still honest and respectful and don't give mix signals....i used to admire women like 20 years ago...in 2024, so far most women on the planet can kiss my .... I rather be single. No women ever proved was worth my time....and i discovered 2 weeks ago i'm a Sigma....A sigma who despised women. fun times.

    • @CitiesOfAsh
      @CitiesOfAsh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Ballpython77 Hang in there buddy, AI women will be here soon enough 😅

  • @TO8
    @TO8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    A young woman who is mature will not pull these games. All these things mentioned are different emotions that is brewing inside of her. But it just shows me she wants to have fun and scope the playing field for herself. If a guy did this to a girl she will get angry and assume he's a player. Open communication and honesty is a healthy way from the start. If a girl or young woman does this and wants to "keep you on your toes" it might be time to move on. Women and girls have to understand -- guys and men could have options as well, the issue is a guy who commits to one too early may freak her out. End of the day, women and girls overthink, that's the issue here.
    To women and girls -- stop overthinking and at some point, I would say by 25, start to get serious. Women and girls have to also understand that guys and men have been scorned in past experiences and painful breakups where it is hard to trust the opposite gender in the dating game. We all have our issues but it can't be used as a ploy, tactic or excuse to con or manipulate or deceive someone's feelings, that's where I find that shady and disrespectful. It's simple, treat others the way you would want to be treated. I honestly believe 10, 15, 20 years from now a lot of females will be single and regret their past decisions, she really has no one to blame but herself.

    • @yapsejaiteh7
      @yapsejaiteh7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You speak the fact bro

    • @RichChanLikesTacos
      @RichChanLikesTacos 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      theres a lady who does this difference is im praying about it for the Lord to heal her of doing this,kinda frustarting she keeps flirting,with music,(shes a really hot asian girl too)but no talking so im just gonna keep praying but yeah hate toxic behaviour~^^

    • @Ballpython77
      @Ballpython77 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AMEN!

  • @TravisOutlaw674
    @TravisOutlaw674 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Relationships are all about effective communication. All of these situations indicate that she cannot (or chooses not to) communicate her needs. If a woman cannot speak honestly and openly, she is not worth it.

  • @martyh8830
    @martyh8830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Mature men don't have the time nor the patience for childish, petty mind games

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yah your smart, my bullies aint. I am ignoring them cause I hate bullshit, everyone does right? rhetorical question, like if you agree.

  • @thecrownprince888
    @thecrownprince888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Sigma Men run away as soon as they see these Mind Games being played… fuck that. She’s emotionally damaged if she does stuff like this… time to move away confidently and silently 🐺

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      emotionaly damaged by the person there avoiding or the behavior the person their avoiding is showing sighs of, It's my main reason and only one that can really get me to avoid someone for like months on end. and hey maybe I just don't try to play mind games cause that's just stupid, It's not like it's gonna get him to stop teasing me.

    • @EfrainEnciso-e9x
      @EfrainEnciso-e9x ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I couldn't agree with you more as a true sigma.

  • @chucknoris7648
    @chucknoris7648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Woman really need to grow up and stop this type of behavior. I have a feeling a lot of women in this generation are going to hit the wall and panic because they act like this. Remember men get better with age women don’t. Men peak later on women peak early.

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ugh....so dis-respectable...

    • @Anomize23
      @Anomize23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@jaybird7740 Truth hurts 🤷‍♂️

    • @dineshsharma1430
      @dineshsharma1430 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

    • @blaineatkins2968
      @blaineatkins2968 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed......
      A lot of videos on youtube, relating to girls who missed out....and regretting it

    • @VidyaBros1
      @VidyaBros1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Men age like Sean Connery and women age like Sean Connery.

  • @martifrey3357
    @martifrey3357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Women even take a shower with their phones, they are never too busy to forget

    • @danjenkins21
      @danjenkins21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I learned a long time ago if someone is genuinely interested in you and likes you they will make time for you with no excuses and if you make plans with them and if for some reason they can't make it they will do the respectful thing and let you know ahead of time and reschedule another day. Also if they aren't really interested in you then they won't play these mind games and they won't waste your time.

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LOL, I guess tons of women are addicted to electronics, but i just don't have a phone so maybe that's why this is funny

  • @DPhasely
    @DPhasely หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She's feeling overwhelmed because she's got a lot of guys messaging her.

  • @GermanUK21
    @GermanUK21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    0:00 Intro
    0:44 She wants you to pay attention
    1:40 She wants you to know she has options
    2:32 She is feeling overwhelmed
    3:14 She is playing hard to get
    4:42 She is actually busy
    5:33 She has been hurt before
    6:10 She isn't that into you
    6:55 She is emotionally unavailable
    7:46 She wants you to make the moves / first move
    8:27 Outro

    • @stetsonclark8348
      @stetsonclark8348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you! Really wish they would add this back

    • @cloudlesssky5763
      @cloudlesssky5763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Soo basically she’s ignoring u cause she doesn’t care about you and she doesn’t like u

    • @archstanton3763
      @archstanton3763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great work my friend !

    • @southerncalifornia3155
      @southerncalifornia3155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ​@@cloudlesssky5763 they just want attention.. but in reality they don't even know what they want..

    • @paulrous1670
      @paulrous1670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      11 good reasons why you should avoid women !!!

  • @RyozakiX
    @RyozakiX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    ignoring you = forget about her, easy and simple, but im not talking about if she want space i can understand that, but she gotta be direct and hinest, if she ignoring for another reason and mostly do it for attention either playing hard to gate or play mind games, and repeat that everytime, thats definitely a huge red flag for me, i would never Chace a womem

  • @guntertorfs6486
    @guntertorfs6486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm told i'm good looking. I like attractive girls / women that don't necessarily are considered to be stereotypical beauties. More average girl next door types. Quite often these girls will flirt , but when i make a genuine effort to get to know them a little , i can see them getting overwhelmed and not believing i could be really intersted in them. A lack of confidence and self worth. Very frustrating.

  • @elijahmeza2479
    @elijahmeza2479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Heck no kings you do the same things she does to you. I'm learning this as I go back into being single. Had one chick who is bad at replying back like 3 days after a text was sent to her. So she replied 3 days later after that first text, so I paused all contact until she called me... and it worked. But still kings don't play all these games. Hold posture we have options too!

  • @edwhatshisname3562
    @edwhatshisname3562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    When women start talking to me less and less or pulling away in any way I respond in kind, and I doubt I'm alone in that way of thinking. It's too easy to misinterpret things and have them blow up in your face.

    • @TruthPoliceLegend
      @TruthPoliceLegend ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When I'm talking and she acts distracted then I know she doesn't respect me or the relationship. Respect is part of the love. love means nothing without the respect, then it's fake!

    • @TravisOutlaw674
      @TravisOutlaw674 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're not alone. I do that as well.

  • @kevinc1593
    @kevinc1593 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Any man playing these stupid games deserves what he gets; these games are just a glimpse into what your entire relationship/married life/ with her will be like…

    If she’s that insecure about how you feel about her, then she really isn’t ready for a relationship.

  • @ranipcv915
    @ranipcv915 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She is crazy! RUN!!

  • @fambofunclan9226
    @fambofunclan9226 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    So you've got a 1 in 10 chance of guessing the right reason and being able to respond correctly. Good luck 🤞

    • @rrwa7052
      @rrwa7052 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dating seems like playing roulette. We have a one in 38 chance of winning these days.

  • @VidyaBros1
    @VidyaBros1 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Never chase women, gents. They'll lose respect for you and think you're pathetic for doing that.

  • @cesaraossa
    @cesaraossa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    If a girl is posting she is with other guys, that's a red flag. Let her go.

  • @peterwapemoose2710
    @peterwapemoose2710 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If she has options then why she bothering me, all the best to her. I want someone who wants me, not someone with options

  • @yacovmitchenko1490
    @yacovmitchenko1490 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The unpleasant truth - in light of which all other truths are secondary - is that she does all this because you're simply not that remarkable (in her eyes). Believe me: if you were an exceptional man, she'd be panting and chasing YOU! All this garbage suggests she has only a lukewarm interest in you at best. Since you're not much, she feels she can get away with it. Part of it also may be that she senses neediness, some weakness in your character - or testing you to see whether you have these in you. If she was assured you DON'T, she wouldn't play these games, and would be after you. The bottom line is that if you acquiesce in her games, you're a lost cause.

    • @Loch1210
      @Loch1210 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why is it bad to be needy?

    • @denisdimitrov5051
      @denisdimitrov5051 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Games are for playing, if we both want to behave in some kind of pattern. Those people are facing other loving individuals who may be good or even great people... So they are broken, picky, shells... Nothing humane in hurting others and bringing misery. Just be strict and avoid such individuals. Appreciate the good feelings you create and crave, it means you are a pure, good person. Don't let your soul be poisoned. You are worthy of love, they are not...

    • @giltax14
      @giltax14 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is the advice and hard truth I was looking for

  • @prathameshthorat5882
    @prathameshthorat5882 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My every overthinking is mentioned and it's right. Time to show my worth.

  • @pepe_da_prawn
    @pepe_da_prawn ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A man of value shouldnt chase. If shes playing games then it is not worth your time as our time is valuable with work etc.

  • @weffy93
    @weffy93 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Red flag! Walk away. If she does this at the beginning, it WILL NOT get better with a relationship. She needs to deal with her trauma first.

  • @thedarkbatmanmanly
    @thedarkbatmanmanly 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    C'mon guys all of us have self-respect why should we sacrifice just let her ignore and make success force her to chase you

  • @michaelfairchild
    @michaelfairchild 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    If she is "im busy", but is constantly on social media. She isnt busy, but doesnt care.

  • @michaelkim2147
    @michaelkim2147 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    if she intentionally ignores me and ghost me I'm gonna return the favor and ignore them and show no interest because that's a sign that I'm also not interested in them as well. This is called not a good match and called normal behavior. And Chasing someone who's ghosting in today's world is now called sexual harassment. Don't talk to people who don't want to talk to you. This is called common sense.

  • @GJ-DT
    @GJ-DT ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If women are playing games just ignore and move on, do not chase.

    • @blackmasiyach
      @blackmasiyach ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true , it’s pointless and waste of resources

    • @theonly1-l2q
      @theonly1-l2q ปีที่แล้ว

      Been ignoring this chick for like a yr now. Only talked a few times. I think she's a toxic post wall chick. She's tried just about everything with me short of showing up at my door! Crazy right! Anyways whenever she ignores me I think it's that time of the month or something! Just like in a real relationship shes giving me the cold Biach feelings once n a while😂 she still wants me. Always see her when I go out to the casino😂 maybe I'll cave n become one of her BFs just cuz I'm bored after a yr of working!

  • @richardbspeck147
    @richardbspeck147 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you.! That was exactly what I wanna hear. Great topic & good advice. Because I'm going through the exact situation. It's frustrating me.! Didn't have any idea of what is going on.?

  • @chingmac9161
    @chingmac9161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ignore someone you don't like. So playing the ghosting makes me think am not wanted.

  • @adrianmartin4901
    @adrianmartin4901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    If she’s not showing interest just start over with a new girl guys

  • @mikewhite8848
    @mikewhite8848 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    and that's my problem with women playing hard to get. Women have to be humble and realize most women are not in a position to play hard to get, the man doesn't got time to play games and has options, or sometimes men are being nice by giving the woman a chance to go on a date even if she's not the man's type but found things in common, and yet they turn around and act "playing hard to get"

  • @johnrambo2876
    @johnrambo2876 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She could just tell you and save everyone time

  • @hivicar
    @hivicar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "She avoids getting into deep conversa..." Bye!

  • @alanmielke2059
    @alanmielke2059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Please list the items and times in the description as before!

    • @sagetajr
      @sagetajr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It takes time to list the items and times in the description as before.

    • @johananjohn5450
      @johananjohn5450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If that is done, people will not watch the entire video.

    • @JT-gm4fk
      @JT-gm4fk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Statistically more people actually watch videos with timestamps and content listed than the ones that do not have it.

    • @kylekenan2321
      @kylekenan2321 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@johananjohn5450 why does that matter?

    • @johananjohn5450
      @johananjohn5450 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kylekenan2321 Of course it does if you understand. Sometimes people don't like seeing a long video even if the thumbnail is attractive, so if the video is segregated into parts or pointers, they just have a look at that.

  • @90s-Trance_86
    @90s-Trance_86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Dear Anna,
    Men are straight to the point!! It's either yes or no and cut the longy windy bullsht.
    I mean come one...she rejects you a FEW times to make you feel you'll have to do your best (hesitating actions). A high value men will see this as a REJECTION
    and will search for someone else. They'll see it as a form of begging and chasing like a slave (pet going after the 'boss'.
    I mean......would you still ask someone for a candy if he/she said no?? Waste of your time right? Ok you can stick around SOME SHORT time. But if nothing happens, still the answer is no, they you wou would ask someone else right? That's how men FEEL WIITH WOMAN if she hesitates
    the first few times. Woman only have to be CONSISTENT..thats it!!!

    • @trendbuzzpodcast3119
      @trendbuzzpodcast3119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah buddy I don't feel anything after rejection...i set boundaries

    • @bill4632
      @bill4632 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      100% fck their bullshit

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bill4632so f-a hurt girl who's avoiding a guy who treated them like they the ugliest girl in the world and made their insecurity's worse, It's not bullshit if the ghosting is cause they're done with stupid bullishit from guys.

    • @TravisOutlaw674
      @TravisOutlaw674 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      If she rejects me once, I depart. In order to get another chance, she must ask for it.

    • @90s-Trance_86
      @90s-Trance_86 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TravisOutlaw674 Exactly👍 that's her asking you for a candy..eventually (maybe she could have gave candy to someone else in the meantime😈😉)

  • @oliverpetroski4205
    @oliverpetroski4205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is very interesting video. However, women need to understand guys as well. For example when I am at work, they do not allow us to use phones there, so the phone must be turned off. Me working there means earning money. More money means better life and nice things for her as well. If shes playng stupid games, there is out there a lady that is not doing that. And she will snatch that guy and she will be part of his nice life and she will get all the nice things instead. Looking beautyfull Anna.🥰 Have a great evening😘

  • @gtomcat321
    @gtomcat321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    'She' sounds like an emotionally damaged sass queen seeking attention & validation. these are red flags I would stay well clear of. Putting women on a pedastal & Overly pursuing women never ends well anyway. It's beta Simp behaviour.
    Whilst she is playing these unnecessary games with you, some Chad who couldn't care less & just doesn't give a s**t is smashing her back doors in.

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just avoid guys cause they hurt my feelings, now I'm giving him the cold shoulder cause he's hurt me so much I haven't had the chance to maybe stop being so insecure.

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They hurt your feelings cuz you try to do it to them but it back fires and your the one with the hurt feelings and complain about it when it's really your fauit by playing childish mind games by playing hard to get

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@oscargonza2748 I don't play hard to get, I do the simple thing try to talk to someone, accidentally say something stupid, apologize while crying inside then gets mistreated for being naive, dumb and ugly. Plus If I tried playing games with him, that would mean I know how to play with someone's feelings, And I don't know how to. People play with my feeling's all the time, and I just do the opposite of what they do.The meanest thing I've done is....wait have I ever done anything mean, Is cussing after months of getting bullied by someone bad? cause i think that's the worst I've done.

    • @Yamaha-l7d
      @Yamaha-l7d ปีที่แล้ว

      @@oscargonza2748 you couldn't have said it any better my guy! Preach!

  • @forlatagate1
    @forlatagate1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So men must bow to the needs of narcissistic women, keep it moving

  • @surplussean3364
    @surplussean3364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had to get the "I have no idea what I'm doing" shirt for work😆

  • @apachetamizha
    @apachetamizha 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One thing being a gentleman I respect those who ignore genuinely because their life pattern and dream of having an excellent partner is always respected...nothing wrong in it😊

  • @Loch1210
    @Loch1210 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I assume a woman doesn’t like me if there’s any resistance

  • @Chris-hp2gg
    @Chris-hp2gg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Playing hard to get. The thrill of the chase.😂

  • @teweldenegusse1345
    @teweldenegusse1345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    After all this hard work, finally things will end up with divorce. Once I googled up the rate of divorce within the US population is 50%. Which is very frustrating, I only date women within my own country of origin, because it is easy and no much play games. Some times I watch this video, because it helped me to learn women psychology, however I always feel bad for guys in the western world of being this much hard to find a woman in their life.

    • @brianwaller7383
      @brianwaller7383 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Actually the divorce rate is much higher. The 50% means of all marriages in the country half are getting divorced. But individually if two people get married the odds of divorce is 65-70% and 80% chance she’ll file instead of the man.

    • @VidyaBros1
      @VidyaBros1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now the divorce rate is way higher than 50%.

    • @VidyaBros1
      @VidyaBros1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brianwaller7383 Yup. All very true.

  • @JeffreyWillis800
    @JeffreyWillis800 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This all makes me think that it is really just childishness and the desire to be the center of attention. It doesn't work for me because I have a 7 year old son I am raising on my own, and my wife of 20 years died 2 years ago from an aggressive and sudden cancer. I could use someone who could help me with a dating strategy though, but I don't think such people exist.

  • @RoundSquareX
    @RoundSquareX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm sure after watching this video a few guys are going to get restraining orders put on them.

  • @cliveking4558
    @cliveking4558 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I see it like this.
    Women know they emotionally unstable, that's why they push your buttons to see if you really are a man.
    You have to be able to put those emotions away in order to care for her, but feel them and be open when needed.

    • @iambrightkwame
      @iambrightkwame 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      so a man is one who tolerates bs with a straight face🤣

  • @joekennt1570
    @joekennt1570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She has options, i have the world!!

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol, there's always more fish in the sea, that is true some people are rare though, and just avoid someone cause they feel hurt by the person's dumb choices keep that in mind if you or one of your bro's make's a dumb blunder around a very emotional gurl, who's delt with some real bullshit before, and is probably just crying alone, about how another guy is mean to her and they will probably never apologize. you seem smart. Keep it in mind.

  • @Tabarezc
    @Tabarezc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Well I told a girl I liked her and she said no also that we will still be friends. But after three days of being ghosted I can take the hint that she just don't want anything to do with me. Even after as well she said it sweet I expressed my emotions and also was honest with her but I wish she was just honest before than just geo my hopes up. That we were still cool I'm not sad I got rejected I'm sad she lied.......

  • @aaronwelter8850
    @aaronwelter8850 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like the way you put things

  • @MrAnamchara
    @MrAnamchara 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bollocks to this kind of behaviour. It’s mind games . She’s toast the minute she does that

  • @Invisibility397
    @Invisibility397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great job on her self sabotage. It was very effective and I have nothing left to offer her. She has finally made me believe that I will be better off isolated alone and in solitude celibate until my final moment alive. It's not like it was just a game that was done intentionally and desired to do damages. I hope that she will be happy healthy and find her version of love that works for her.

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't know if this is rude or not, I do self sabotage all the time, but that's cause I hate myself for almost never doing anything right.

    • @pietjestront2858
      @pietjestront2858 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow this one hit close to home

    • @Invisibility397
      @Invisibility397 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jaybird7740 don't worry about being rude I'm beyond fucked up greatly and Borderline Personality Traits resonates severely with me for as long as I want to carry this burden is the length of time I will choose Virtues over Vise and Optimism over Pessimism. Knowledge is Power. [ Internet Education ] is reasonable in the cost of making the choice of learning [ Emotional Literacy, Emotional Identification, Emotional Regulation, Emotional Dysregulation, Emotional Management, & Leadership Skills ] creates a strong foundation for the new day. IQ is earned as well. If hope for a better tomorrow is lost then one will exist patiently waiting for their final moment alive. It's OK to fail. How many times did you fall down when you were learning how to walk as a toddler? It simply takes [ effort and time ] to achieve success at any aspect of life. Because every one learns new concepts over time that challenges our [ ancestral programming ] each of us learns way before we ever learn [Assertive Communication Skills] & [ Critical Thinking Skills ]. Whe the true answers are always found within. Plus if it exists Internally then soon we will attract it Externally. Maybe this will help you with your Journey. May you experience every Sun Rise as an opportunity to get up do the hardest things anyone will ever do, take that first step into the bright new future. Let every one else take the negative role while you choose to be Optimistic about all aspects of life. I know that I am struggling as well yet November 28 2017 Gaia etched deeply into my Soul's Energetic Signature "Suicide is not Allowed" so I have no choice but to continue to wander through the Infinite Nothingness creating and destroying. No? All my yesterday's are more the enough proof that I have alot of knowledge yet to learn so entertainment must wait until I can feel joy for my yesterdays. Isn't fortunate that tomorrow is unwritten and the present moment is the best time to start building your own successes from Legos to granite blocks and if your lucky space age alloys. Maybe you can at least take a [ Cognitive Awareness Test ] for the cheat codes on your core wounds and asking how old am in currently is a great way to identify the childhood traumas when you are triggered. Brother psychology is mandatory because time does nothing for Mental health issues. Effort is the tax of Life
      Your Imagination is your Identity...
      What you Focus on happens...
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      Good Luck,
      INFJ-T Indigo Magus

  • @infamouswickedjokestar
    @infamouswickedjokestar ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This may apply to those who have low-value of themselves, low self-esteem, etc

  • @brianbrino4310
    @brianbrino4310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dearest Anna, thank you so much for your lovely messages! I absolutely love them as coming from you life messages appear so entertaining and as always I consider you a most interesting woman. Thank you thank you thank you.
    Cosmic Blessings and lots of Love and Light to you always!
    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @oonojoe
    @oonojoe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A lot of Good points.

  • @CardoStuart
    @CardoStuart 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Right on that they really needs to grow up

  • @knockdadeathstroke3799
    @knockdadeathstroke3799 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I only reached out to her after a week to tell her I wish her good luck and hope she finds her happiness. She went on an emotional rampage and was very rude to me and completely dismissive of my intentions to be up front and respectful. She called me a drama queen based on my text meanwhile projecting her drama queen behavior onto me, I kept my texts short and calm. I really just wanted to say goodbye and wish good luck. Blocked her after I told her to take care. She did me a favor cause if she wouldve come back Id be dealing with a person that truly lacks self control. Cut all contact with them soon as they do it. No excuse can top the blatant disrespect. Even if they are into you and might have feelings-this isnt good or healthy behavior. Move on from them.

    • @iambrightkwame
      @iambrightkwame 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      dont even bother to wish her anything

  • @mrsimo7144
    @mrsimo7144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Video called my GF on the 19th. She seemed miserable. I text her after the call and said that I'd put her over my knee if she's going to be miserable. Replied by a snotty text. I replied saying that I'd take a rain check about seeing her that evening. I've since not heard from her. Literally ghosted me. She's a DA. The pain is unreal. But she's ghosted me 3 times now.

  • @sachin12572
    @sachin12572 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She said
    "I want you in my life" & "You are important person for me" and next day onwards all of sudden Ghosting.
    What do I read ?

  • @seanmay3605
    @seanmay3605 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She says this like we’re supposed to care. First sign of drama move on. First disagreement. Any ripple move on? There’s too many.

  • @tonyalgar4886
    @tonyalgar4886 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    After reading a lot of the comments, which more or less say the same sort of thing. The women aren't worth it, you'll just get the run around and then get dumped. So that's made up my mind, I think I'll go fishing this afternoon, and not for a women either, they're not worth all the trouble !

  • @younesaitdabachi7968
    @younesaitdabachi7968 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    now someone said not chase her and you said chase her this world its so fucked up i quit i m totaly confused should i chase or not

    • @iambrightkwame
      @iambrightkwame 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😹, happy chasing

  • @MrODOG519
    @MrODOG519 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Maybe she is ignoring you because she is ashamed of some of her behavior (drinking, drugs, etc..)and she wants to hide this from you.

  • @xaverbishop6506
    @xaverbishop6506 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don’t care for weird psychological games. If she avoids me for too long a time I will just assume she lost interest and move on I guess. We will all die together alone.

  • @Mcgee6
    @Mcgee6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    She wants you pay attention 0:47
    She wants you to know she has opinions 1:43
    She feels overwhelmed
    2:34
    She’s playing hard to get
    3:17
    She’s over thinking
    3:54
    She actually busy
    4:43
    She has been hurt before
    5:35
    She isn’t that into you
    6:11
    She’s unemotionally unavailable
    6:57
    She wants you make the moves
    7:48

    • @KarmaKillsSaltoon
      @KarmaKillsSaltoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Goat 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @wesleydiolata3467
      @wesleydiolata3467 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So Good 😘

    • @billybungwhole7871
      @billybungwhole7871 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! I’m a pothead and I already watched the video but started to zone out and missed the second half.

  • @Loch1210
    @Loch1210 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I ain’t never too busy for a girl I like. idc if my house is on fire

  • @itsspoodini
    @itsspoodini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If we don't know them, and they have been playing, why would we value you? You know some men will not chase as they have options and self respect. Playing hard to get makes me think they are stuck up and think they are better than me. Give me mutual effort and you will get more out of me

  • @jazzman1626
    @jazzman1626 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I liked a girl who I worked with and didn’t know if she liked me. My hobby was playing the Great Highland Bagpipe and I went to a new place where a band practiced. The Pipe Major told me to have a practice on my bagpipe and he’d listen to see if I was any good. Turned out that other than the Pipe Major, I was streets ahead of the rest in terms of my piping skills. I didn’t know the girl I liked was there as a novice. After I finished my Strathspeys, hornpipes and jigs, she just looked up from her practicing chanter and said “show off!”. I was just playing my usual stuff. That was the last time she was at the practice. I would have taught her on her practicing chanter to improve her piping. So much for girls liking guys who have interesting hobbies they’re passionate about.

  • @rsnickster363
    @rsnickster363 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Um, all the girls described in this video, screw them. I showed my real affection more than any guy that simps over her. I stuck through it over and over, and she still pulls this crap on me. I'm walking away.

  • @PSR91
    @PSR91 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The reality of the situation is ugly.
    Ask yourself, would she ignore a famous singer/rapper, athlete, movie actor? Probably not. If for example Chris Brown would text her, she would jump out of bed at 4 am, get in her car and race to his bed, she'll just call in sick at her job in the morning.
    If she is ignoring you, your value is not high enough in her eyes.

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your Videos are helpful for me thank you Joyanima 🌹

  • @Nix_IoI
    @Nix_IoI 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im in highschool so things might sound immature or odd, but I remember this girl in my class would stare at me a lot, and i didnt think about it too much especially when she stared at me for 1.5 seconds i held and she looked away first. I shrugged that off because she didnt seem embarrased from that and looked away casually. We tend to make eye contact almost every class, but soon she still looks at me even when she sits down she turns around pretending to scan something i guess looking towards my table where no one else is there behind me. So then i thought "Okay bet. Her body language doesnt say a lot but she did turn around to see me." Of course it could mean something else, but i didnt want to overthink. Couple days later she was outside for a project with another girl in my grade.
    So now i decided to test what was going on. I asked to go to the bathroom and went where they were painting the murals. I greeted to both of them asked them if they had a picture of what they were painting they said no i then said oh thats good memory then she was the first to giggle when looking at the other girl; they both giggled. I smiled just to kill my focused face which was too busy analyzing lol. She then said she took a picture of it on her phone which was like oh okay makes sense. I then decided it was good enough for a small talk so i walked off saying okay well goodluck then. I even had the bathroom pass in my hand to let her know i came outside just to talk to yall and she would know if she picked that up bc we can both agree weve looked at eachother a lot.
    So now that i played my part of the game it was time for her to show effort for me to keep pursuing her... yeah, nothing much happened after that annnd its been two weeks since i did that small talk and no eye contact within that time to today. In conclusion, i believe she does not like me like that and just has a staring problem, finds me attractive enough to bang, or enjoys the attention knowing she will lead it to nothing.

  • @JeffreyWillis800
    @JeffreyWillis800 ปีที่แล้ว

    All of these options are too conflicted, too many possibilities that are not working together. Too many divergent paths.

  • @IsaiahHollins
    @IsaiahHollins 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Lmao 🤣 if I wanted to chase a woman I’d play tag. These mind games is middle/high school shyte

    • @joseramone9802
      @joseramone9802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Women do not want a guy to make the first move - they don't want to be bothered and would rather be with their girlfriends. If you do go in cold and make the first move they are laughing at you on the inside. They enjoy you making a fool of yourself to see how long you'll go on. If you look at them they look away - if you walk by they look at you.They are a big come on don't fall for it.

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joseramone9802 I don't injoy makeing a fool of guys, though making of fool of HIM, well.....he would deserve it. Cause he treats girls like we're dumpster trash.

    • @iambrightkwame
      @iambrightkwame 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jaybird7740 take it easy

  • @drmrboi5345
    @drmrboi5345 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your accent ❤

  • @Schimyping
    @Schimyping ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh see if a woman is ghosting me just to get me to chase her, that's called playing games! We don't play games. I'm gonna dip out

  • @Steven-hk2wb
    @Steven-hk2wb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If I ever start liking a girl who behaves like this, someone please slap me across the head. This is called control games folks. Insecure, daddy issues, etc. Just run like the wind.

    • @danjenkins21
      @danjenkins21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sadly a lot of women behave like that nowadays. It's difficult to find a girl who doesn't play these games.

    • @MHLivestreams
      @MHLivestreams 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      young women are basically insane these days.

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danjenkins21 I didn't really start avoiding him till i delt with 6 months of his bullshit, so I just say I'm too attached and some ladys-the absalute opposite.

  • @flawlessstrategy9972
    @flawlessstrategy9972 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ugh so confusing and annoying. This girl is going out of her way to say hello to me, and saying it in a flirtatious way. Then I send her messages on Facebook - she apparently doesn't use it much, but we texted back and forth through FB a few times. Then she just never logged back on, and never saw my last few texts for over a month! So, you'd think if she really liked me, she'd be curious enough to see if I had texted her anymore!
    I have also sent her texts through the phone, and that was OK for a few back and forths, but then she ignored my last text. I texted her back and commented on my last text, like to get her to see it, and she was like huh? Then several hours later, she finally responded and commented on that previous text.
    Then the next day, she's said bye to me before I left and was very flirtatious in her voice again. Ugh.

    • @Avareee.
      @Avareee. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Texting should only be used to make up dates.

  • @Anthony-wv9kd
    @Anthony-wv9kd 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She’s ignoring you cause she’s busy with someone else lmao 😂😂😂

  • @stacey7882
    @stacey7882 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Anyone ignores me n I remove them from my phone. Then when they ring or text they get who's this. I don't chase or bother with dumb games.

  • @brettpatetto6847
    @brettpatetto6847 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    because she is involved with a norther man simultaneously while un able to sort her feelings out. Im sure she likes you. Whats not to like? mixed messages? if you fell like some thing is wrong and she sais there is nothing wrong, then trust me THERE IS A PROBLEM. Gost Her ASAP

  • @fredeinsel7983
    @fredeinsel7983 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Options can have her, I don't compete

  • @jennifersalva3573
    @jennifersalva3573 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's a lot of women who secretly like me because they all ignore me... LoL LoL LoL

  • @dimpledimple5545
    @dimpledimple5545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Personally, I want to take things in the relationship slow. Oftentimes, super slow. I want to be pursued, not chased. When overwhelmed, I tend to step back and think to confirm my feelings, which could take days or weeks.
    Yes. I am single. I dont mind. At least no one is cheating on me..abusing me and im not going through a messy divorce. Not everyone in a relationship is happy. Please keep that in mind.

    • @stephenfragoso7328
      @stephenfragoso7328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      N yall wonder why you're single, to many games 🙄

    • @brocklanders3616
      @brocklanders3616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      All women are single bro, especially in relationships or even marriage. I feel like a-hole saying this, but the majority of my body count consists of those in relationships.
      Single chicks over 25 consist of 3 types. 1.
      Very unattractive/land whale. 2. Single mothers looking for help, not love. 3. Women who are only after the top 1% dude, and have a checklist a mile long. Two out of 3 are a complete waste of time and money. And while I don't advocate going for single mothers, I will say they have been very good in bed and seem to be bipolar/hypersexual. Just dont get attached, and whatever you do avoid metting there kid/kids as long as you can. It's all downhill from there.

    • @johnwu2553
      @johnwu2553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      wall incoming

    • @dimpledimple5545
      @dimpledimple5545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@stephenfragoso7328 who's wondering? Not me.

    • @southerncalifornia3155
      @southerncalifornia3155 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@johnwu2553 haha yes, age will catch up on them.. ..

  • @Just_Shephard
    @Just_Shephard 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Funny how the girl i was seeing did this to me because she was "overwhelmed", even though she was always video calling me in the mornings and nights every day.

  • @cortneydaKing
    @cortneydaKing ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who cares about her thoughts "open up," as my Dad say.... 😂😂😂

  • @edwardbliss8931
    @edwardbliss8931 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm dealing with this now actually. It really messes with your mind.

    • @Arvidje
      @Arvidje ปีที่แล้ว +2

      u propably overchase... keep in mind a healty connection with a woman is 70/30.. she will reach out to u for 70% of the time and u 30% ... when doing 40% her attraction wil start to lower.. the moment u are more into her then she is into u , is an attraction killer.. So doing to much by iniating contact, she will back-of and going into ignore mode at then.. the only thing u can do is back-off and do not contact her for a good two weeks..