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For years, I struggled with beliefs around money that came from how my family raised me. My family lived pay check to pay check, always struggling to make ends meet. Money was a constant source of stress and tension between my parents. I vividly remember my parents' anxious discussions about bills, debts, and the fear of not having enough to cover the essentials. Their worries became ingrained in my mind, and it wasn't until I started working with a coach that I truly began to understand and heal these traumas. I could finally see that as a result, my belief was that there would never be enough money to go around. That's how I felt even into adulthood, showing up in irrational fears about spending money, even on basic necessities. I found myself hoarding every penny, afraid to part with it for fear of not having enough in the future. In 2016 I came to know about the low of attraction. No matter how much I envisioned a life of prosperity, the underlying belief in scarcity held me back, I was manifesting money and some success but I wasn't able to maintain it as by fear of not having enough was pushing me into old habits. Cutting the roots of this limiting belief became essential for me and that's when I came to know Adela, my coach. I am not paid to recommend her or anything like this, but I do it because I wished I could have found her or someone like her earlier. You can find her on instagram as @conscious_microdosing and if I am not mistaken she is offering 3 free spots monthly for those in need. I really hope this will be a breakthrough for you, we all deserve financial security and freedom from the traumas associated with money.
You made this video 4 months ago. I just watched today 04/16/2023 @12:43pm. I have been doing this exercise for 12 consecutive days. Without knowing this was going to be the most beneficial thing that has happened to me. I am TRAVERSING! I am where I meant to be. I have everything within me for success in life. 🙏🧘🏽
Heyy it’s been a year now and i just got to watch the video. I was curious how did it turn out for you since last year?? Did u get to overcome thosee limiting beliefs and got better results in areas of your life?
I recently did a journal prompt and that same night I had a dream that lead me to understand why I had a certain limiting belief. Journaling really does open up a different part of your brain.
Thank you for this!!! I’m an ICU nurse, but my dream is to become a tattoo artist and was feeling so much imposter syndrome and anxiety days before my interview. I listened to this right before and did the exercise. I GOT THE JOB 😭❤ your content has helped me for so many years create my dream life so thank you ☺️ tattoo on the house if you ever come to Dallas!!
I had no idea that my procrastination and lack of confrontation in challenging situations has its root cause in my childhood. I had a sense of what is the possible cause but I could not put my finger on it. Today, when I was watching your video I looked deeper into myself and started to write down the outcome. I touched this very deep and traumatised inner part of myself which I was not fully aware of and avoided to acknowledge for a really long time. It brought some tears and emotions I had been resisting to come back to. It led me to more selfawarness and acknowledgement of my hurt inner child. I believe that this is the new beginning for me. Thank you so much sis ✨️🥰🥰
I love you! U r helping me with “ I am not enough”. I have been doing your affirmations 21 days now for 2 mths. And it’s changing my life! Thank u for sharing yr past and process for coming out of it. My older sister became my parent as my parents were not mature enough to do so. Her repeated “you r not enough” my whole up bringing is very deep after hearing it for years. Plus having undiagnosed ADHD ishe and others repeatedly said u don’t get it u r not intelligent is deep in my core. So thank u for pointing out where this came from. I’m reading a book on Immature Parenting and realizing where this came from. Your positive affirmations to change my core beliefs is helping tremendously! I’m so grateful u came into my life. I love ❤️! Your sharing and your work u do is exactly where u r meant to be because I am sure u r helping not just me but many many others! Keep going. U r amazing!❤️🙏
The universe gave me a much needed sign through this video! I've been working on my limiting beliefs and this video came at the perfect time! I'm in awe.
I loved this exercise. I’m working on being more truthful about my own experiences and being able to look at my childhood with more honesty… this exercise helped me understand some of my recurring blocks. Much love 💚
I had just entered my freshman year and moved into a new city. I'm having difficulty adjusting to the new environment, the new normal setting, and my hectic schedule filled with requirements. I'm far from home, and I miss my family a lot. I believe I won't be able to give the best performance just because I think I'm only at my 100% at home (where I'm comfortable). I have a few more beliefs that are no longer serving me. This is an excellent wake-up call. I needed this a lot! Thank you, Aileen! So much love!!
I've always felt so peaceful while driving. Like I'm always able to calm down by going for a drive or after leaving work on a tough day. I never really thought about it as a good time to reset my mind like this! 🌻
Dear Aileen, I'm from South Korea and I enjoy your videos so much. My goal is to achieve anything I want in my life that makes me passionate and joyful. I think your videos help to broaden my sight and how to view of my life. I like your videos a lot :)
7:07 this was the exact belief that was holding me back…i’ve been aware of changing old beliefs due to Bob Proctor but this video made me realize the underlying belief that’s stopping me…especially since u spoke that exact belief thank u so much
I already did this kind of exercise but this one feels different and more effective because of the part where you search in your memory for the reason why you think a certain way. And for me, reliving those memories with a different point of view, this has really impacted me. I realize that I now feel like it was unfair, even though back then I just believed people were right and it's was normal to treat me badly. Now I know that I deserved and deserve better.
Great video and suggestions. Might I add, when it comes to using affirmations, to visualise what you are wanting to affirm. Make it real in your mind as if you have already achieved what you are wanting to change in your life.
I refused to learn Spanish because of childish reasons and without Spanish in my life, I am not connected to my own family language. I will take this advice and grow with it
I did the excercise and it really helped clarify what my soul was trying to communicate to me already. Thank you, this was a right place, right timing type thing.
May God bless you so much along the people that developed the TH-cam idea. this video has helped me discover what has been crippling my success for 28 years. be blessed girl. I wish I could hug you
Message for Lavendaire from Derek. Hi Lavendaire, I just happened to stumble upon this video of yours and felt to comment with positive input. Each time I have experienced a breakthrough has been in response to asking for help from the Universe/God/Spirit/Source( whichever label feels comfortable). One of my mentors would talk to me about reprogramming the heart ( sub conscious). Often we carry a breach or more from early childhood. Each time a limiting belief or negative programming has surfaced in my life has been in response to a catalyst/ particular circumstance often arranged not by me. But for my benefit, and therefore indirectly for others benefits. The more I become a whole person, the more others benefit. Not easy to articulate some of these concepts,, however giving it a shot. I appreciate your Sincerity ( Latin meaning with out wax). In other words, the Real Thing! Keep up the good work!
I have been doing positive affirmations daily with your videos.. whenever I am stressed, I try to repeat some of those lines.. they are helpful.. thank you.. lots of love 💕
I just did this exercise on my pad after watching the video. It’s always helpful to think about things on a deeper level. Thank you so much for always providing helpful templates, Aileen! 🌹
Thank you for this 🙏🏻 I think this will really help me get through my PTSD and my beliefs to help transform my life for the better. I can only hope and do my best!
Great advice. I love the guided journal suggestions. Recently I noticed that a great time to repeat the affirmations and positive self talk or silence, is when the negative thoughts arise. Redirect it in the moment. Be kind to yourself and shift the focus in the moment. I use to do repetitive affirmations when I woke up but it felt more like I was forcing it. Like going through the motions but not believing what I was repeating. Sure sometimes we have to fake it till we make it, but I started changing my negative thoughts in the moment which feels more authentic and gives me space to have compassion towards myself. 💕
Beautiful method ❤️ This is a big part of Theta healing. Dig as deep as you can because the root belief is usually always way deeper than u would normally think. it usually stems from childhood,..or societal conditioning or even past lives or ancestral patters.
Limiting beliefs have their roots in contractions and tensions in the body. Meditation in long term dissolve these and will make you have a natural clear minded mind.
i'm going to give this a shot i think it's worthy and helpful i really love this channel it's so positive and energy giver i love you Eileen SO MUCH and thank you for being such an amazing person i hope we also give you some power and send you so much love as much as u do
I love that you're growing and healing and learning with us. Thats why I trust your content. It's genuine and from personal experience. I have been using your Abundance Mindset affirmation for half the month and it has helped me attract money but more self love and empowerment and belief in myself. I use it to reset and plan out my day. Thank you!! Love this idea as well!
Hi! Thank you for this video! As someone with PTSD and other diagnosed disorders, I just wanted to ask if you could consider having a disclaimer or statement regarding mental health disorders. I was able to do this exercise safely because I have a therapist and been doing exercises like these with them. This exercise may have the unintentional affect of re-traumatizing someone with PTSD. It would bring up chronic or severe trauma experiences (abuse, SA, violence...etc). Someone with ADHD may start to think their symptoms are a moral failing and blame themselves for "limiting beliefs." Those of us who struggle with this shouldn't take on preprogramming our minds without the proper professional oversight. Hope you and your team see this. Sending you all love.
Istg this video made me realise of my triggers i feel and what are the things i must do ,why I wasn't be able to manifest in past why things didn't happen which made me more negative that time and thanks to you ,it gave me a little motivation ❤to believe in myself thank you so much it relieves many of my doubts
I use vision boards for my self and clients. One that they create themselves. It works on the principle of 3 years aka where do you want to be in 3 years and uses the 8 wellness segments. We use an A3 poster with post it notes and print outs lots of hand written sections in gold and silver text. It’s then laminated in a shop and put on the wall somewhere
This video came just in time to me. I was really scared of the onboarding day of my job next week. I couldnt sleep and got anxiety a lots because I am scared Im not enough, what if I do something wrong, what if I speak bad english, what if Im getting embarrassed at work, what if people there laughing at me being silly… But thanks to your video, I have gained the confidence Ailee. Thank u so much
Thank you for your teachings and your wisdom. This is exactly what I needed right now. I have a lot to get done but I've choosing to do what's easy instead of the effort,,
My fear is getting abandoned. I feel like whomever I trust and care for will cheat on me and leave me !!! I'm not just talking about love relationship. I'm talking about friendship too I have only one friend... I had many friends before but they were toxic and not good for me now I have only one bestfriend and I feel very insecure to trust anyone in general!!! I feel unloved from my family which made me think no one loves me !! I don't know how but my love language is comforting and physical affection I want someone to hug me , hold my hand and all because that's what I learnt from my grandparents but my parents isn't like this. I never understood what's their love language towards me !! They have never seen me cry they never comfort me !! For them love language is paying money for my studies and other stuff !! I really feel angry sometimes. now I'm scared to receive love I feel like I'm not worthy enough to be loved And when someone really tried to show me love and care I back off .. I get scared that it might be fake love and they will leave me soon !!! I don't know what to do about this beliefs
it was soo helpful i always find it difficult to do this type of exercise i was already feeling that it will be difficult before seeing your video but it was soo easy thank youuu i loved it.
My belief system has completely introverted me at this point. It is frustrating that we don't get to choose how we want to be conditioned in our childhoods
I hate to say this, but a lot of my triggers come from my family. Being around them gives me anxiety in a million different ways, being in my home makes me depressed... I am gonna move out soon but not soon enough. I will use these tips to try and find a solution :)
you know i was clicking to the video, i open the video and opened a new tab .. as soon as the video started i tought she is a good one .. i see your followers .. oh now i see :) i still need to watch the video but for now its promising
Hello Aileen I am a Highschool student I don't know whether you have experienced its when you have been studying in high school and I am currently living on India and I do have my boat exams next year and I am having my 9th standard half yearly exams coming on and I find myself going to social media till the Midnight not able to study even after coming to school and even after trying minute time minute tricks are used for and I feel like I am nothing and I many Trigger and negative thoughts in my mind it doesn't let me to me be the person that I should be and I want to be and thank you for this type of motivation that you give me and I am just gonna try my level hard and level best to overcome all my anxiety pressures and my mistake and make a new change in my life style and I do understand that everyone goes to get and thank you for your valuable message to us thanks and lots of love
Hello Aileen !!! I've been watching your videos for a very long time and would like to tell you that it motivates me a lot and it inspires thousands of us not to give up so easily, there is always a way to deal with your problems. The content is so so good. Thank you so much for this and we love you.
This is a really timely episode too because Mercury has just gone retrograde and Mercury retrograde is a great time to work on overcoming and reframing limiting beliefs
I am fed up with my hectic life and the hell going on and i have so bad habit of overthinking that it is not leaving me and notion is my love I am so glad and it was my pleasure to get you in my life 💖 your videos r so peaceful I feel like i am in peaceful world till the time i watch ur videos although ur videos doesn't take long gaps but I don't have time to watch them so sometimes it get lasts more than one month to see ur videos but i always make sure to check ig frequently for ur stories and also can I request u to upload a video on *How to fight back with bad days* ...
Watched this cause my limiting beliefs (like fear of panic attack) are holding me back from boarding the plane, commuting and attending my long awaited concert. I need to overcome those asap, cause concert is in 2 weeks as i speak. huhuhu
1. What is holding you back? 2. What is the underlying belief causing this behaviour? 3. Why am I like this? Where did it come from? 4. What is the new belief that I want to adopt?
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"Most of our self limiting beliefs stem from a place of fear. Fear distorts reality and wherever there is fear, there is a level of ignorance."
I like to say 'dance with the fear'
Also school environment
Parents family friends
Whatever you have experienced
For years, I struggled with beliefs around money that came from how my family raised me.
My family lived pay check to pay check, always struggling to make ends meet. Money was a constant source of stress and tension between my parents. I vividly remember my parents' anxious discussions about bills, debts, and the fear of not having enough to cover the essentials. Their worries became ingrained in my mind, and it wasn't until I started working with a coach that I truly began to understand and heal these traumas.
I could finally see that as a result, my belief was that there would never be enough money to go around. That's how I felt even into adulthood, showing up in irrational fears about spending money, even on basic necessities. I found myself hoarding every penny, afraid to part with it for fear of not having enough in the future.
In 2016 I came to know about the low of attraction. No matter how much I envisioned a life of prosperity, the underlying belief in scarcity held me back, I was manifesting money and some success but I wasn't able to maintain it as by fear of not having enough was pushing me into old habits. Cutting the roots of this limiting belief became essential for me and that's when I came to know Adela, my coach. I am not paid to recommend her or anything like this, but I do it because I wished I could have found her or someone like her earlier. You can find her on instagram as @conscious_microdosing and if I am not mistaken she is offering 3 free spots monthly for those in need. I really hope this will be a breakthrough for you, we all deserve financial security and freedom from the traumas associated with money.
What value does this revelation have to anyone looking to resolve limiting beliefs?
You made this video 4 months ago. I just watched today 04/16/2023 @12:43pm.
I have been doing this exercise for 12 consecutive days. Without knowing this was going to be the most beneficial thing that has happened to me.
I am TRAVERSING! I am where I meant to be. I have everything within me for success in life. 🙏🧘🏽
Wow! Yes 👏🏻👏🏻✨✨
Heyy it’s been a year now and i just got to watch the video. I was curious how did it turn out for you since last year?? Did u get to overcome thosee limiting beliefs and got better results in areas of your life?
@marlinmelendez-laboymrs.pr9573
There is nothing your mind cannot help you achieve🙏
I recently did a journal prompt and that same night I had a dream that lead me to understand why I had a certain limiting belief. Journaling really does open up a different part of your brain.
Thank you for this!!! I’m an ICU nurse, but my dream is to become a tattoo artist and was feeling so much imposter syndrome and anxiety days before my interview. I listened to this right before and did the exercise. I GOT THE JOB 😭❤ your content has helped me for so many years create my dream life so thank you ☺️ tattoo on the house if you ever come to Dallas!!
Wow congrats girl!!
Awesome ❤
so cool!
Wow that is awesome! How is it working out for you?
Well, it's good to know that instead of saving lives you're doing something important like drawing pictures on people's asses.
This is literally what I wanted now. I been limiting myself by my own beliefs. I want to overcome it so bad I will definitely try these exercises💗.
I had no idea that my procrastination and lack of confrontation in challenging situations has its root cause in my childhood. I had a sense of what is the possible cause but I could not put my finger on it. Today, when I was watching your video I looked deeper into myself and started to write down the outcome. I touched this very deep and traumatised inner part of myself which I was not fully aware of and avoided to acknowledge for a really long time. It brought some tears and emotions I had been resisting to come back to. It led me to more selfawarness and acknowledgement of my hurt inner child. I believe that this is the new beginning for me. Thank you so much sis ✨️🥰🥰
Wow! Amazing 👏🏻👏🏻
I love you! U r helping me with “ I am not enough”. I have been doing your affirmations 21 days now for 2 mths. And it’s changing my life! Thank u for sharing yr past and process for coming out of it. My older sister became my parent as my parents were not mature enough to do so. Her repeated “you r not enough” my whole up bringing is very deep after hearing it for years. Plus having undiagnosed ADHD ishe and others repeatedly said u don’t get it u r not intelligent is deep in my core. So thank u for pointing out where this came from. I’m reading a book on Immature Parenting and realizing where this came from. Your positive affirmations to change my core beliefs is helping tremendously! I’m so grateful u came into my life. I love ❤️! Your sharing and your work u do is exactly where u r meant to be because I am sure u r helping not just me but many many others! Keep going. U r amazing!❤️🙏
The universe gave me a much needed sign through this video! I've been working on my limiting beliefs and this video came at the perfect time! I'm in awe.
I really needed this so bad for two months I've been just fearing and stop myself to do anything and feel lost and can't overcome 😭😭😭😭😭
I loved this exercise. I’m working on being more truthful about my own experiences and being able to look at my childhood with more honesty… this exercise helped me understand some of my recurring blocks. Much love 💚
Yes! Happy it helped
This week I started listening to your Positive self love affirmations while driving on my way to work and it has made a big difference for me! 💖
I have learned in the years that I am good enough to do some difficult things and have not to be afraid of them ♥️♥️
I had just entered my freshman year and moved into a new city. I'm having difficulty adjusting to the new environment, the new normal setting, and my hectic schedule filled with requirements. I'm far from home, and I miss my family a lot. I believe I won't be able to give the best performance just because I think I'm only at my 100% at home (where I'm comfortable). I have a few more beliefs that are no longer serving me. This is an excellent wake-up call. I needed this a lot! Thank you, Aileen! So much love!!
I've always felt so peaceful while driving. Like I'm always able to calm down by going for a drive or after leaving work on a tough day. I never really thought about it as a good time to reset my mind like this! 🌻
I love listening to music w/ the windows down n just focusing on the drive
@@MagsNLily it feels so healing, doesn't it? ♥️
Good thinking🎊
Dear Aileen, I'm from South Korea and I enjoy your videos so much. My goal is to achieve anything I want in my life that makes me passionate and joyful. I think your videos help to broaden my sight and how to view of my life. I like your videos a lot :)
I am so happy that creator like you exist and always help us to inspire ☺️✨
7:07 this was the exact belief that was holding me back…i’ve been aware of changing old beliefs due to Bob Proctor but this video made me realize the underlying belief that’s stopping me…especially since u spoke that exact belief thank u so much
I have been working on my limiting beliefs, and this video came just in time!
this is literally works, thank you so much Aileen. send you so much love
I already did this kind of exercise but this one feels different and more effective because of the part where you search in your memory for the reason why you think a certain way. And for me, reliving those memories with a different point of view, this has really impacted me. I realize that I now feel like it was unfair, even though back then I just believed people were right and it's was normal to treat me badly. Now I know that I deserved and deserve better.
I always love how tangible & practical your videos are. There's always a deep sense of grounding, which really helps when doing the inner work 🕊️✨
Can't stop me from commenting on this video.
Great video and suggestions. Might I add, when it comes to using affirmations, to visualise what you are wanting to affirm. Make it real in your mind as if you have already achieved what you are wanting to change in your life.
I refused to learn Spanish because of childish reasons and without Spanish in my life, I am not connected to my own family language. I will take this advice and grow with it
Aileen!! You are just Awesome!
Long Live Lavendaire
I did the excercise and it really helped clarify what my soul was trying to communicate to me already. Thank you, this was a right place, right timing type thing.
love it
May God bless you so much along the people that developed the TH-cam idea. this video has helped me discover what has been crippling my success for 28 years. be blessed girl. I wish I could hug you
Message for Lavendaire from Derek. Hi Lavendaire, I just happened to stumble upon this video of yours and felt to comment with positive input. Each time I have experienced a breakthrough has been in response to asking for help from the Universe/God/Spirit/Source( whichever label feels comfortable). One of my mentors would talk to me about reprogramming the heart ( sub conscious). Often we carry a breach or more from early childhood. Each time a limiting belief or negative programming has surfaced in my life has been in response to a catalyst/ particular circumstance often arranged not by me. But for my benefit, and therefore indirectly for others benefits. The more I become a whole person, the more others benefit. Not easy to articulate some of these concepts,, however giving it a shot. I appreciate your Sincerity ( Latin meaning with out wax). In other words, the Real Thing! Keep up the good work!
You're very beautiful and your voice is so calm and comforting. I really really enjoyed listening to you! God bless and thank you for the lesson
I have been doing positive affirmations daily with your videos.. whenever I am stressed, I try to repeat some of those lines.. they are helpful.. thank you.. lots of love 💕
I just did this exercise on my pad after watching the video. It’s always helpful to think about things on a deeper level. Thank you so much for always providing helpful templates, Aileen! 🌹
Thank you for this 🙏🏻 I think this will really help me get through my PTSD and my beliefs to help transform my life for the better. I can only hope and do my best!
The secret to achieving the results you want is in the questions that uncover your limiting beliefs. Good job here Aileen.
Great advice. I love the guided journal suggestions. Recently I noticed that a great time to repeat the affirmations and positive self talk or silence, is when the negative thoughts arise. Redirect it in the moment. Be kind to yourself and shift the focus in the moment.
I use to do repetitive affirmations when I woke up but it felt more like I was forcing it. Like going through the motions but not believing what I was repeating.
Sure sometimes we have to fake it till we make it, but I started changing my negative thoughts in the moment which feels more authentic and gives me space to have compassion towards myself. 💕
I can't begin to tell you how much your video helped me. I'm going to take these questions and work on every area of my life!thank you!
When i fall down ! , your videos get me back up ! thank you soo much !! you changed my life and mind
You are killing it on the content girl! Thanks for all the hard work.
🥹 thank you!
This yt channel keeps me going in life. I literally love you Aileen! ❤
Beautiful method ❤️ This is a big part of Theta healing. Dig as deep as you can because the root belief is usually always way deeper than u would normally think. it usually stems from childhood,..or societal conditioning or even past lives or ancestral patters.
Limiting beliefs have their roots in contractions and tensions in the body. Meditation in long term dissolve these and will make you have a natural clear minded mind.
You're always my strength giving me so much motivation so as to live my life just the way i'd love to😊😊😊
i’m working through this rn. thank you!!!
I have never had it explained like this! Game changer. Thank you so very much
Dear Aileen, you are glowing differently.💗
i'm going to give this a shot
i think it's worthy and helpful
i really love this channel it's so positive and energy giver
i love you Eileen SO MUCH and thank you for being such an amazing person
i hope we also give you some power and send you so much love as much as u do
I love that you're growing and healing and learning with us. Thats why I trust your content. It's genuine and from personal experience. I have been using your Abundance Mindset affirmation for half the month and it has helped me attract money but more self love and empowerment and belief in myself. I use it to reset and plan out my day. Thank you!! Love this idea as well!
Wow!! Love to hear it ❤️
Thanks!
thank you so much! i appreciate you 💖
So clear en understable i have to put it into my own life right now
Hi! Thank you for this video! As someone with PTSD and other diagnosed disorders, I just wanted to ask if you could consider having a disclaimer or statement regarding mental health disorders. I was able to do this exercise safely because I have a therapist and been doing exercises like these with them.
This exercise may have the unintentional affect of re-traumatizing someone with PTSD. It would bring up chronic or severe trauma experiences (abuse, SA, violence...etc). Someone with ADHD may start to think their symptoms are a moral failing and blame themselves for "limiting beliefs." Those of us who struggle with this shouldn't take on preprogramming our minds without the proper professional oversight. Hope you and your team see this. Sending you all love.
i love your videos so much.. they have such comforting energy.. you feel like a big sister to me thank you
Istg this video made me realise of my triggers i feel and what are the things i must do ,why I wasn't be able to manifest in past why things didn't happen which made me more negative that time and thanks to you ,it gave me a little motivation ❤to believe in myself thank you so much it relieves many of my doubts
I appreciate your honesty and energy!
I use vision boards for my self and clients. One that they create themselves. It works on the principle of 3 years aka where do you want to be in 3 years and uses the 8 wellness segments. We use an A3 poster with post it notes and print outs lots of hand written sections in gold and silver text. It’s then laminated in a shop and put on the wall somewhere
This video and others from your channel have been like a blessing to me
What a brilliant video... I'm totally going to do the exercise of the 7 layers of why from now on
I can't get over this video. I think it's one of my favorites on this whole channel !!! Love it ☺️
thank you!!
@@lavendaire love you loads !
This video came just in time to me. I was really scared of the onboarding day of my job next week. I couldnt sleep and got anxiety a lots because I am scared Im not enough, what if I do something wrong, what if I speak bad english, what if Im getting embarrassed at work, what if people there laughing at me being silly… But thanks to your video, I have gained the confidence Ailee. Thank u so much
always grateful to uuu
Thank you for your teachings and your wisdom. This is exactly what I needed right now. I have a lot to get done but I've choosing to do what's easy instead of the effort,,
Thank you so much for this I will definitely do this starting now ..
This content saves life 💗.Thank you so much. Lavendaire 💜
because of you i quit my all social media🥰❤️i have been so inspired by you.loads of love to you
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i’m like this because my dad raised me like that…i’m trying so much to overcome it:.)
My fear is getting abandoned. I feel like whomever I trust and care for will cheat on me and leave me !!! I'm not just talking about love relationship. I'm talking about friendship too I have only one friend... I had many friends before but they were toxic and not good for me now I have only one bestfriend and I feel very insecure to trust anyone in general!!!
I feel unloved from my family which made me think no one loves me !! I don't know how but my love language is comforting and physical affection I want someone to hug me , hold my hand and all because that's what I learnt from my grandparents but my parents isn't like this. I never understood what's their love language towards me !! They have never seen me cry they never comfort me !! For them love language is paying money for my studies and other stuff !! I really feel angry sometimes. now I'm scared to receive love I feel like I'm not worthy enough to be loved And when someone really tried to show me love and care I back off .. I get scared that it might be fake love and they will leave me soon !!!
I don't know what to do about this beliefs
i'm sticking this worksheet into the back of my artist of life workbook I LOVE IT
Yay!!
I've lost myself sometimes but your vedio is my key to rebuild my self again. Thankyou maam Aileen
it was soo helpful i always find it difficult to do this type of exercise i was already feeling that it will be difficult before seeing your video but it was soo easy thank youuu i loved it.
My belief system has completely introverted me at this point. It is frustrating that we don't get to choose how we want to be conditioned in our childhoods
learning more about myself every day ❤️
I hate to say this, but a lot of my triggers come from my family. Being around them gives me anxiety in a million different ways, being in my home makes me depressed... I am gonna move out soon but not soon enough. I will use these tips to try and find a solution :)
Thank you for this insightful segment ! Your channel is the best in the 🌎
I'm definitely going to try this ! You rock 🙌👏
you know i was clicking to the video, i open the video and opened a new tab .. as soon as the video started i tought she is a good one .. i see your followers .. oh now i see :) i still need to watch the video but for now its promising
Hello Aileen
I am a Highschool student I don't know whether you have
experienced its when you have been studying in high school and I am currently living on India and I do have my boat exams next year and I am having my 9th standard half yearly exams coming on and I find myself going to social media till the Midnight not able to study even after coming to school and even after trying minute time minute tricks are used for and I feel like I am nothing and I many Trigger and negative thoughts in my mind it doesn't let me to me be the person that I should be and I want to be and thank you for this type of motivation that you give me and I am just gonna try my level hard and level best to overcome all my anxiety pressures and my mistake and make a new change in my life style and I do understand that everyone goes to get and thank you for your valuable message to us thanks and lots of love
You make wonderful work for us and for yourself. Thank you!
Hello Aileen !!!
I've been watching your videos for a very long time and would like to tell you that it motivates me a lot and it inspires thousands of us not to give up so easily, there is always a way to deal with your problems. The content is so so good. Thank you so much for this and we love you.
thank you ❤️❤️
This is great info Aileen I have no limits I put in the work in
What I needed to watch/hear today. Thank you for this
This is a really timely episode too because Mercury has just gone retrograde and Mercury retrograde is a great time to work on overcoming and reframing limiting beliefs
love this! so easy to follow and your articulated all the steps so clearly! :)
super practical as always, thank you so much dear aileen !
It's out of the topic but your hair looks amazing! ✨
Thank you Lavendaire thus made me calm ♡
Thank you for this video. I've had a difficult time believing in myself recently.
This is so helpful! Thank you! I am researching for a blog post on this topic :)
Perfect timing! This was the video I needed.
I am fed up with my hectic life and the hell going on and i have so bad habit of overthinking that it is not leaving me and notion is my love
I am so glad and it was my pleasure to get you in my life 💖 your videos r so peaceful I feel like i am in peaceful world till the time i watch ur videos although ur videos doesn't take long gaps but I don't have time to watch them so sometimes it get lasts more than one month to see ur videos but i always make sure to check ig frequently for ur stories and also can I request u to upload a video on *How to fight back with bad days* ...
Thanks so much dear.Needed this so much 😊
Watched this cause my limiting beliefs (like fear of panic attack) are holding me back from boarding the plane, commuting and attending my long awaited concert. I need to overcome those asap, cause concert is in 2 weeks as i speak. huhuhu
I found that I was doing this exercise by myself but this video inspired me alot
Great listening to start the day . Thanks !
I always waiting for ur videos desperately 💜
Hi Aileen! Can you also share about your notion? Just how you sched everything or organize your activites. Thank you!
Best one so far. Thank you so much. ❤️
Loving the last 2 videos. They resonate so much for where I am right now in life ❤️
I love your videos thou it's the first time am in the channel 🥰.Thank you so much
Definitely going to work on this every morning in my journal for the next few weeks along with some yoga and meditation. Thankyou 🙏 🌸 x
1. What is holding you back?
2. What is the underlying belief causing this behaviour?
3. Why am I like this? Where did it come from?
4. What is the new belief that I want to adopt?