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  • @paytonlambert
    @paytonlambert 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +212

    why am I crying you’re so sweet. big sis through the screen 🥹

    • @maayanarnon
      @maayanarnon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Fr I am sobbing too🥲

    • @EquineMetalhead
      @EquineMetalhead 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She really is an angel.

  • @Rowanmorgenstern
    @Rowanmorgenstern 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +395

    Who else loves her?
    edit: MOM IM FAMOUS!

  • @TSwizzle_13-ew6lu
    @TSwizzle_13-ew6lu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    i can’t explain how much i need her as a big sis. She’s the friend we all want, She’s the big sister we never had and she is the most stunning girly i have ever seen 🫶🏼SHE IS DROP DEAD GORGEOUS 🫶🏼 I love her smile and how radiant she is. Keep shining Spencer 🥰

  • @arcanenightngale
    @arcanenightngale 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Love the video Spencer! As an introverted woman who hated high school and just wanted to go home, I still agree with the things mentioned. And I just wanted to add, a lot of the things she is mentioning do not have to stop after high school. You can continue doing them as an adult, in college, at your job, out and about, etc. And as far as joining clubs and doing things with people, even if you are not in school and have work instead, still try and be a part of things. Yes, it depends on your circumstances and it's important to take time to be by yourself, but go to your local events, go to a pottery or painting class, just do things if you can. Say yes. I'm trying to be better at that.

  • @emmas_lover
    @emmas_lover 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    I wish I had this during my high school years, I just graduated and let me tell you I needed this BADLY. bullies and no friends were literally just the WORST. but trust me people, life gets better ❤

    • @EquineMetalhead
      @EquineMetalhead 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I feel you. I got bullied RUTHLESSLY from preschool to middle school until I switched for high school.

    • @gracesajanjoseph7994
      @gracesajanjoseph7994 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I feel you. Even I had the same experience

  • @Natalie_stacy
    @Natalie_stacy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    You are amazing Spencer!! I love how positive you are. I am 13 years old and in middle school and am terrified, but you’ve really helped me get through those hardships. Thank you so much, Spencer!!!❤❤😅😊😊😘😘😘
    P.S u r like my big sister!!😘😘

  • @tayloro0209
    @tayloro0209 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. WHENEVER I NEED ENCOURAGEMENT OR JUST A MOOD BOOST I WATCH UR VIDEOS❤❤❤

  • @chlo-1225
    @chlo-1225 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I'm currently struggling with fitting in at my school and I'm considering switching schools even though it's already September. It sucks to feel so lonely and excluded all the time. Not gonna lie, hearing you say that you struggled with the same things and switched schools is extremely comforting. You of all people shouldn't have to go through that because you're an amazing human, but knowing that even one of my role models was neglected in high school helps me know that even though I'm alone right now, it's not always gonna be this bad. Thank you so much Spencer!!! 💕💕💕

    • @isaacmizrahi270
      @isaacmizrahi270 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      U got this

    • @isaacmizrahi270
      @isaacmizrahi270 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Tnxs who Ever liked

    • @lmao10108
      @lmao10108 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Heyy so i feel the exact same way and even im in high school. do you want someone to talk to? because i would love that!

    • @nicolewallacefan
      @nicolewallacefan หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lmao10108 for me its really hard to fit in my class because all my friends are in other classes so yeah i'm lonely 24/7 in class and idk what to do abt it because people in my class aren't very nice

    • @lmao10108
      @lmao10108 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nicolewallacefan i can understand and relate to how you feel and trust me it will get better. even i dont have friends in all of my classes and its hard seeing others hang out while you're just sitting there observing and wishing you had that. for me, i have a few friends but none of them think of me as a priority. They all have their bestfriends who they'd prefer over me. im almost like a backup friend and it sucks. most of the people in my high school are so bad i would rather not have any friends than talk to them atp but do you have friends outside class?

  • @EllaVanSantvoord-e8n
    @EllaVanSantvoord-e8n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    shes literally the sweetest person alive 💗

  • @BrynnScales
    @BrynnScales 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Spencer is literaly such an amazing person inside and out she just glows like what i love her so much i wish you the best Spencer 💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @filmedbycj14
    @filmedbycj14 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Spencer is literally such a vibe🔥😚💗🫶🏼 Love you!!

  • @GracePung-v4e
    @GracePung-v4e 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Omg I love you so much, I'm going into high-school next year and don't know what to expect, I appreciate you so much

  • @bethh370
    @bethh370 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    omg seriously. i'm a junior and i'm doing online my last 2 years bc i didn't see a point: i never really had any friends, but i do definitely agree with all of your points spencer. you're like a big sister to me!!!!

  • @ugauaguaa
    @ugauaguaa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Here is a perfect talking-make up routine! Every other girl I see just pause their talking to show of the products they use. Spencer did it perfectly and genuinely❤ with no interrupting! I'm not going to high school but I wish I could go back and make things differently and LIGHT. love you spencer❤❤❤

  • @FortunateKiki
    @FortunateKiki หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She's literally making me cry, the big sister I needed. 💝

  • @bellejamour
    @bellejamour 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "stay close to people that have good things to say about you and their friends" must be my new fav quote ❣

  • @Tqylors_Po3t_
    @Tqylors_Po3t_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I LOVE YOU SO FREAKING MUCH YOU ALWAYS HELP ME YOU DESERVE THE WORLDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @peachacat
    @peachacat 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Her smile makes my day ❤😊

  • @nataliets-13
    @nataliets-13 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    yesss i love her so much! thank you for this im a freshman so this is perfect! love you ❤

  • @Antonia-v4k
    @Antonia-v4k 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Why is she always saying exactly what you need to hear ❤

  • @downtownbooklover
    @downtownbooklover 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    i’m confident in my face now because of her!! 💕

  • @KenleyJaeger
    @KenleyJaeger 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    About the first day of school comment and being nervous, I’m a freshman and I literally had a mini panic attack the night before and it took me a bit to fall asleep but I was so scared nobody would feel scared or nervous but my friends comforted me and here we are about 3 weeks later, and I’m living my best life. I’m in show choir and theater and choir and life is great

  • @Alexandra_Sosa
    @Alexandra_Sosa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is just a reminder that for some people confidence is a journey, if you’re not at the place where you can be confident just work at it you’ll get there

  • @silviacurtis9748
    @silviacurtis9748 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love you so much spencer! ❤️ your literally my whole inspiration for getting through high school!!

  • @Charlotte_Grace86
    @Charlotte_Grace86 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    U r such a inspiration for so many young girls

  • @mrudhulaperarulalan1564
    @mrudhulaperarulalan1564 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I LIVE YOU SO MUCH SPENCER YOUVE HELP ME SOOO MUCH ON MY SELF CONFIDENCE

  • @Ur_daily_dose_of_Bella
    @Ur_daily_dose_of_Bella 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oml- 5 seconds!! Spencer u love you videos!! They’re really inspiring!! Keep up the good work!🫶

  • @PCoop-o7m
    @PCoop-o7m 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yess!!!!❤ we love Spencer. The queen!! I needed this. I am in high school so this really helped that you 🎀🎀🎀🎀

  • @myaselah
    @myaselah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    spencer you will never never understand now much i needed this... i love you so so much girl thank you for being the big sis i never had

  • @Charlotte-w6u
    @Charlotte-w6u 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love Spencer she’s so nice and I would love having her as a friend ❤

  • @ClementineRose2010
    @ClementineRose2010 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spencer , my older sister left for college and now I can’t talk to her as much and she’s not here to give me advice . You have honestly taught me a lot and feel as though you are my big sister. I truly love you u much and your so friggen pretty and sweet thank you for making. My day.

  • @Tamaaaaara
    @Tamaaaaara 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Spencerrrr🌸✨ you’re smile🥹 so good to see you boo🧸

  • @Definitlynotarandomperson
    @Definitlynotarandomperson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    AHHH so gorgeous and great tips! Love you Spencer

  • @HayHay-isdabomb
    @HayHay-isdabomb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I CAME HERE AFTER 7SECONDS THIS WAS POSTED AND IM FIRST COMMENT!!!
    love your vids spencer❤❤

  • @AubreeWilliams-qg5tw
    @AubreeWilliams-qg5tw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    10minutes ago is crazy its illegal. love you spencer

  • @teijamakela
    @teijamakela 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Spencer!! It’s my last year in high school I’m so glad haha, I love you so much! Hope you have an amazing night!! ❤🎉

  • @KyraCruz-f8h
    @KyraCruz-f8h 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    OMG MY FAV GIRLY POSTED!!!

  • @emerghancy
    @emerghancy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love this ! big supporter of embracing the nerves cos being nervous means you care about what you do :)

  • @TxF-CxC
    @TxF-CxC 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    STOP!!(actually don’t 💕)You are seriously the sweetest, kindest, precious, polite, fun, caring person AND YOU HAVE SUCH A NICE PERSONALITY!! LIKE WHAT?? You are such a blessing 🎀🎀 I’ve seriously made friendships by watching your channel with others in my classes, teams etc.!!!

  • @Bonz_The_Service_Dogo
    @Bonz_The_Service_Dogo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Aaaaaaah I needed this sm and you posted it at the right time!!

  • @Bumblebree1
    @Bumblebree1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    First I love you sm Spencer you really have inspired me and made me build self confidence ❤

  • @AliviaLawson-r9u
    @AliviaLawson-r9u 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im a freshmen in high school and stuff like this really helps so thank you!!!

  • @lauranagelhout4446
    @lauranagelhout4446 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤ I knew most of this BUTTT I still needed to here it ❤❤❤ thank you

  • @willowyoung1362
    @willowyoung1362 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girllll first of all you are stunning inside and out. Thank you for putting such thought and care into your videos!!!❤

  • @LillyBye123
    @LillyBye123 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes Spencer you are glowing always 💕

  • @SophiaGrace-sf8pf
    @SophiaGrace-sf8pf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    AHHH i love you spencer!! this is just what i needed today💝

  • @Urpreppy_Kennedy
    @Urpreppy_Kennedy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Here under 3 mins ❤
    BTW I LOVE YOU GIRL YOU ARE SO MOTIVATIONAL
    👇🏽🌸🎀✨

  • @davidbarksdale7812
    @davidbarksdale7812 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love you Spencer!!!💜💜💜

  • @Harperissomeone
    @Harperissomeone 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    AHHHHH YOU POSTEDDDD IN THE NEW HOUSEEEE I LOVE YOU SPENCERRRRR❤❤❤❤

  • @Elisha-j5v
    @Elisha-j5v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not me a 20 year old taking your advice, your reminder y’all, we’re constantly growing! ❤

  • @jadeotoole7172
    @jadeotoole7172 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ily thank you so much for posting this❤ iv been struggling so much with high school and this is just gonna help me so much thank you❤

  • @KaidenKreations
    @KaidenKreations 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is literally the big sister I never had and she’s so inspiring to me

  • @Emerygrace10
    @Emerygrace10 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    no bc i was literally on the floor crying and saw your instagram story and clicked the link straight away. you make me feel so much better about myself and i appreciate you so much. love you babes

  • @annakatekirby1735
    @annakatekirby1735 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this amazing advice. I just started my freshmen year of high school and I really needed some good advice!! Love U!

  • @kaitlin848
    @kaitlin848 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    omg i love you!! can you do a heatless curls tutorial?

  • @Abba_Daba
    @Abba_Daba 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey, Spencer I already had my first day of school,but I think school is not as bad as I though it would be! I started doing volleyball a while back,and let me tell you it’s amazing so far.I made a new friend and thought of joining the crocheting club when volleyball ends!thank you for the advice I will take your advice for granted lol.I hope you have a good day Spencer!😁

  • @123random13
    @123random13 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just wanted to say that you are an amazing person, and I love all your videos❤❤ also you and your boyfriend are the cutest couple❤❤ and you inspire me to be better❤❤

  • @Sunflower_spirit_squad
    @Sunflower_spirit_squad 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Spencer, I just wanted to say that you are so amazing and you’re always there for people when they need you and I also just wanted to say people haven’t been so nice to me lately and I haven’t had that much friends and whenever I need a friend, I just come to you you are the best Spencer

  • @lilaf33
    @lilaf33 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LOVE YOU SPENCER!!

  • @SadieJerrett
    @SadieJerrett 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you spencer. As someone who IS the big sister and doesn't have one herself this was something I really needed to hear as a sophmore in highschool. Thank you!

  • @freja_estenson
    @freja_estenson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love you so much Spencer. you have helped me so much with my body confidence. you are such an amazing person. and your also stunning❤❤

  • @commented-by
    @commented-by 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you have no idea how much you help
    so many girls across the world (including me) love u 🩷 🫶

  • @siennaaa.07
    @siennaaa.07 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thank you SO MUCHHH!! i am a freshman this year and i am so scareddd. love youuu💗💗💗

  • @Ocean.lover5378
    @Ocean.lover5378 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tysm Spencer I need this I am about to go into highschool.
    Edit: I love the accent changes lol😂

  • @user88993
    @user88993 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    hey spencer im so proud of everything you’ve done love you❤

  • @billmitsi1654
    @billmitsi1654 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Even tho I am only 11 and not in high-school this video really helped me because I had a bad experience at middle school today and I just needed some advice that I was seeking. ❤❤

  • @arianapadilla7274
    @arianapadilla7274 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your energy is so amazing

  • @annaru404
    @annaru404 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't tell u enough how much I love you and your advice 😭🙌🏼💗

  • @JustBelle1
    @JustBelle1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I LOVE SPENCER IVE JUST BEEN WAITING FOR THE POST

  • @PrincessMe-H
    @PrincessMe-H 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    AHHHHHH! IVE BEEN WAITING FOR HER TO POST A VIDEO LIKE THIS ❤🎉

  • @MandyHoward-p1d
    @MandyHoward-p1d 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You make me feel so much better about myself

  • @brooklynsyt
    @brooklynsyt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Omg!! I love your posts, im in highschool so this is a nice video topic 🩷💗🩷

  • @Oliviaaaaaaaaa_idk18
    @Oliviaaaaaaaaa_idk18 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Spencer I love these videos, and I was wondering if u could do one on how to be more confident? 😊

  • @harmonyview8897
    @harmonyview8897 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    it’s so real even as adults, so much rather have friends that you can be yourself around. quality >over quantity

  • @The_wifeys101
    @The_wifeys101 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    YOU ARE LITERALLY SO PRETTY

  • @VictoriaZapien
    @VictoriaZapien 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ive never had a bf and im in 9th grade and i have had some struggles w that hole thing. Thank u sm ❤❤❤❤😢😢😢 so relatable

  • @thetruealphajordyn
    @thetruealphajordyn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    heyy spence. js wanted to say i am so grateful for you channel and that you make me feel more confident in my own body🥰🥰

  • @MandyLowry-z5x
    @MandyLowry-z5x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Middle School tips? Your the best spencer! I love your name so much!

  • @TammyHunt-b7r
    @TammyHunt-b7r 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Spencer, you’re actually so gorgeous❤

  • @loveriham
    @loveriham 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    spenc i love u, its like u found out im going through it at school right now this vid means so much

  • @wzrdwill
    @wzrdwill 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    spencer always giving us the best tips like 😻😻

  • @Camryn-e9g
    @Camryn-e9g 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Who else just LOVE Spencer 💗

  • @saimasingh9441
    @saimasingh9441 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I lob you sm Spencer for your personality and aura....... And yes you are MY BIG SIS............. LOB YOU AND HOPE YOU GET EVERYTHING YOU EVER WANTED AND DESIRED ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Macyandmore1212
    @Macyandmore1212 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First,your a so pretty and I've been watching you sense 2021

  • @poppyw9098
    @poppyw9098 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Spencer I know you’ll never see this but, I’m rly struggling with school and stuff right now and you are such a big inspiration for me! I just love your vids and advice soooo muchhhh!!!❤❤❤

  • @Djjsvahajq
    @Djjsvahajq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    First like and comment!!!!! Btw your are so beautiful❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @poppyw9098
    @poppyw9098 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes Spencer I get bullied, and I have literally 0 friends at school and I’m just not very pretty, but I love your videos so so so muchhhhh ❤❤❤❤ I wanna be just like you when I’m older, it’s nice to know I’m not the only one who struggles with school.

  • @AdalieLOrange
    @AdalieLOrange หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    omg I love you so so much you are my best friend keep doing what you're doing!

  • @swiftie_1379
    @swiftie_1379 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love these sit down vids omg

  • @EllianaMiller-b8p
    @EllianaMiller-b8p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed to hear the” it’s ok if he doesn’t like you” I was really sad for a few days bc my guy friend led me on

  • @Clairetheparrot
    @Clairetheparrot 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is soooo helpful! Thank you Spencer!! ❤❤❤

  • @kashishbatheja21
    @kashishbatheja21 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OMG ILOVEYOU

  • @Ilovetwinkies1
    @Ilovetwinkies1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I LOOOOOVE YOUUUUU!!❤️❤️

  • @itsmele105
    @itsmele105 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    speeeeennnnnnncer! Thanks so much for this vid!

  • @Stella_hayduk
    @Stella_hayduk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are the person i want to call ALLL DAYYYYYY. I love u soooooooooooooooo much and I hope you read this comment

  • @Iesha.903
    @Iesha.903 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love her so much

  • @GraceCardoso-xy8ho
    @GraceCardoso-xy8ho 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love you! And I am definitely watching this later!

  • @AshlynnLotten
    @AshlynnLotten 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg love you so much! Thanks for the tips I just started high school ❤😊🎉

  • @ShelbySheehan-q4e
    @ShelbySheehan-q4e 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Spencer is literally like a sister to me She is so sweet and soooo pretty 🩷

  • @Shelby-x9y
    @Shelby-x9y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She is the best ❤️❤️❤️❤️