How to *actually* ACT AS IF [without feeling fake]

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  • @codygiles4234
    @codygiles4234 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    Okay but let’s take a second to appreciate how good your hair looks!!😃

    • @LifeByLucie
      @LifeByLucie  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      hehehe thank youuu xx

    • @MrsWeasleyking15
      @MrsWeasleyking15 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      she is gorgeous

  • @Mystic_Paths
    @Mystic_Paths หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    The key is to do it in a way that feels aspirational rather than deceptive. Instead of pretending to be something you're not, think of it as practicing the qualities you're working toward.

  • @mindy561
    @mindy561 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    this video is SO important. If I already have it- im not watching a million manifestation methods. Im enjoying and relaxing. Now I focus on calling in the skills!

  • @AmeliaNguyen-fo3gt
    @AmeliaNguyen-fo3gt หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    This video is literally the answer from the universe. I literally just asked myself the other day this exact question and here it is, the first thing that popped up on my FYP when I opened TH-cam this morning!

    • @Rahul-vu1hi
      @Rahul-vu1hi หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Similar for me too!

    • @rachelgreengeller1
      @rachelgreengeller1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too, the universe is speaking to us

    • @tyshaebuie26
      @tyshaebuie26 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What you said at the end that money can go just as fast as it comes is so true I wanna manifest never been broke again

    • @Thegirlinshadow
      @Thegirlinshadow หลายเดือนก่อน

      exactly i had this same question in my mind

  • @brandonmoore9985
    @brandonmoore9985 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This is one of the best videos I’ve came across because you explaining this is such a logical way. I actually have manifested so much by acting as if I had something without having it because I was also in the belief that if i constantly bought workout clothes, equipment, worked out, and felt sore that i told myself. this is likely how gym rats feel. i am a gym rat and long and behold i quickly saw progress. i also always ask myself throughout each hour what would i be doing if I was an actor, if i made decent money and I always emulate the actions of that ideal person.

  • @Skellybr0
    @Skellybr0 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    The amount of comments for these scam books all over channels like this makes me angry. Wish i could manifest those away.

    • @TheLadyGemini
      @TheLadyGemini 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm glad you mentioned this because I thought the same thing!

    • @PeachpandaDiaries
      @PeachpandaDiaries 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly! But why thought what is the intention of them spreading that around?

  • @meeraravindranath9587
    @meeraravindranath9587 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The best video on how to act as if without feeling fake........with no bullshit

  • @Jctyessir
    @Jctyessir 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Omg I’m so grateful to be in a frequency to align with ur videos!!! It’s helping me recap all these manifestation knowledge that are so essential but I’ve forgotten. Thank you for keeping the videos small and giving practical tips instead of just randomly repeating whatver u have heard. Thank you!!

  • @AP-eb5uw
    @AP-eb5uw หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much, Lucie! This clarified a lot of things for me as I had that belief that it is very easy for me to attract what I want, but I can’t seem to keep them for a long time. This is the missing key and you’ve explained it so well! 💗

  • @recyclecouture
    @recyclecouture หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I want to thank you & share some exciting news. Your video about yiu writing the universe a thankyou letter & how you bought your dream house. Well, i did what you said & I got my dream house. I put my house up for sale & the next day it was SOLD!! I move in Dec 9!!! Thank you so much.

  • @HaischkaEST
    @HaischkaEST หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Lucie, that would be awesome if you made a video on how to act in this way, even with a full time job convincing us otherwise? I'd appreciate it. I believe that this is the dilemma that many of us are dealing with.

  • @zbolt5179
    @zbolt5179 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shes right. It all works. Little by little ,you have to open yourself to recieving and believing.

  • @rxmundi4732
    @rxmundi4732 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    so many valuable gems in this video! I already knew how powerful the "act as if" principle was, but still struggled in applying it... this cleared up the confusion surrounding that, and I'm excited to apply these ideas moving forward (especially the money pot method). Thanks so much for sharing!!

  • @Robyn101
    @Robyn101 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This video is just what I’ve been looking for thanks for this ❤

  • @EveKatharsis
    @EveKatharsis 32 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you, Lucie🎉

  • @Meisha-san
    @Meisha-san หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you. Even though I have a dream board & my goals clearly written down, I haven't done a questioning exercise, where I answer questions about what I'd do with the money. I too, am avoiding the details. I love the pots idea.
    Thank you for the insights ❤

  • @mrunmayeesuryavanshi7851
    @mrunmayeesuryavanshi7851 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thankyou so much!!! Amazing teachings!!! I am going to start applying right away!!! Thankyou Lucie!!!❤❤❤

  • @Rayoflight917
    @Rayoflight917 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you! This feels transformative.

  • @watchme7076
    @watchme7076 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg I been trying to find you saved on my playlist but had to scroll so much thank god found you

  • @orgelssecondrule9221
    @orgelssecondrule9221 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One of the best videos out there simply because the angle you take with how would I keep what I already have. Perhaps it’s been expressed in something else before, but I don’t think quite as eloquently great job.

  • @mariaslifewave
    @mariaslifewave หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Powerful tips thank you 🎉🎉🎉 I appreciate the management and maintenance of most loving relationships

  • @christinecobb842
    @christinecobb842 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just got serious chills! ( the good kind!!)❤

  • @PlayRoom-k6z
    @PlayRoom-k6z 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I finally found the answer through your video. Thanks, Lucie!

  • @lisashikuku
    @lisashikuku หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this is quite brilliant and timely for me...thank you for sharing💜

  • @Jody-369
    @Jody-369 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great tip - thank you Lucie!

  • @hyperxx99
    @hyperxx99 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is too good. I'm subbing you.

  • @luciazumbana5601
    @luciazumbana5601 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You got me when you said you are pole dancing! I love it!!!

  • @themaozii
    @themaozii หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you very much for this video. i was looking for this for a long time. Truly appreciated.

  • @barry6609
    @barry6609 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for this great video Lucie !

  • @emilyparker4458
    @emilyparker4458 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was so helpful!!!!!!! Thank you 💕💕☀️💕☀️💕

  • @hastisavadkohi1370
    @hastisavadkohi1370 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Appreciate you dear , I really need to hear these words . It can change my life . Thank you so much ❤

  • @jeanettajohnson2079
    @jeanettajohnson2079 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was great.

  • @Elisa_Army7
    @Elisa_Army7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, this really is helpful, this is exactly what I need to do. Just have to be brave to start now 💕

  • @JesseOptimist123
    @JesseOptimist123 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I feel blessed. I’m learning to act as if. I want to learn a lot of stuff about act as If and I would like techniques of it, please? 🙏🏻 ❤

  • @trishstewart121
    @trishstewart121 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this ❤❤❤

  • @tshiamomoema9433
    @tshiamomoema9433 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is AMAZING!!!!!!!! THANK YOU Lucie!!!!!!

  • @AshlynSingh777
    @AshlynSingh777 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you for this

  • @leleticiapatabrav
    @leleticiapatabrav หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You’re the best! ❤

  • @Layla-dq5rg
    @Layla-dq5rg หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was amazing thank you

  • @MindfullyIsla
    @MindfullyIsla หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Fantastic video ! X

  • @solsiregarcia5743
    @solsiregarcia5743 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much this helped me a lot! Bless you

  • @ingerin
    @ingerin หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing that great advice ❤

  • @ianbarefootinthepark
    @ianbarefootinthepark หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is excellent advice.

  • @TheUntamedJournal
    @TheUntamedJournal หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed to hear this money advice!

  • @Amalia_k_Art
    @Amalia_k_Art หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true ... thank you❤

  • @Ibegazelle
    @Ibegazelle หลายเดือนก่อน

    I lost the same guy again and again and again even when he gave me so many chances only because I lacked the emotional intelligence and couldn’t understand what men needed. Not to blurt out how I felt when I felt it and understood what they were going through. He kept telling me he need someone to let me be free and speak as he likes, and even though I did, the fact that I kept sharing emotions at the wrong time making him feel more heavy and wrong timing, broke my relnship and I don’t know how to win him back anymore😢

  • @AnaCunha-t4k
    @AnaCunha-t4k หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i now am capable to create my professional project

  • @davidcousins3938
    @davidcousins3938 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ll give it a go

  • @dimannad8
    @dimannad8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing!! Thank you❤

  • @etherealecstasy
    @etherealecstasy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm 34 and still financially dependent on my parents. I got a college degree which they wanted me to do. And now I just am not interested in pursuing that anymore.
    I'm grateful that all my needs and expenses are met. However it feels like a blow to my self respect that I'm still financially dependent and sucking on their savings and resources when I should be the one supporting them at this age.
    I tried affirmations, visualisation, meditation. But it's been years and still no change. I know there must be a black somewhere. But I'm at my wits end.

    • @andrear4954
      @andrear4954 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Either take a break from manifestation and come back with a fresh mind or learn to enter the void state via meditation, lucid dreaming or OBE 😊 might take some weeks to get good at meditation but dopamine detoxing can speed that up. Good luck 😊

  • @myriamkorstanje6922
    @myriamkorstanje6922 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent ❤

  • @OrganicMocha
    @OrganicMocha หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video ❤😊

  • @obiwazz6929
    @obiwazz6929 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice one Lucie.

  • @Misyeli
    @Misyeli หลายเดือนก่อน

    I NEED THIS❤

  • @Yurbeeppi
    @Yurbeeppi หลายเดือนก่อน

    This works. I’ve done it by thinking abt the girl I wanted to be “okay I’m -- (the girls name that I wanted to be) I have to maintain her life for her how will I do this?” And then naturally I actually became that version naturally

  • @My.Cup.of.Stars_Meditates
    @My.Cup.of.Stars_Meditates หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you 🩷

  • @dd2964-x7n
    @dd2964-x7n หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Could you please do a video about manifesting an sp?

    • @SunShine-wz4oy
      @SunShine-wz4oy หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Just act as if you already have your sp...focus on yourself...don't think to much about sp... Just know that you will be with sp at divine time... Let it go... Relax.

  • @meganobrien1019
    @meganobrien1019 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks so much for this video 🙏 i have a question -with health related stuff, im recovering from chronic illness and its something ive been dealing with for 6 years. I more recently came accross neuroplasticity and brain retraining and interested in manifestation 😉 this isnot meant to be a victim mindset here but more to explain where im having trouble with the concept of "acting like its already yours/happened "-so i want to be well. But currently only able to go out and do limited things thru the week, only managing working 5hrs or so a week because of symptoms. Im not sure how to "act as though its already happened " like because to me that would loik like me being able to go out on hikes, work a full time job, socialize more etc . 😂 literally if i try do more, the symptoms get worse. So its like i dont know how to kinda do the things that would reflect having what i want (its like the limitations are so many its a constant reminder im NOT well ...otherwise id easily be out living normally ) does that make sense? Would be so grateful for any advice for this dort of thing ❤

  • @TeknoMediumsParanormal1111
    @TeknoMediumsParanormal1111 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have an elaborate plan for managing my wealth in a philanthropic way....still waiting.

  • @mxxsk
    @mxxsk หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this video! This is exactly what I needed. Thank you Lucie. 💖

  • @brightside119
    @brightside119 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much

  • @user-tq3oy1yv6j
    @user-tq3oy1yv6j หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don’t understand what money pot is if u have $1 can u explain ? Lucie

  • @Awaken40
    @Awaken40 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much so helpful and inspiring 🙏🏼✨❤️

  • @yassinetalbi5884
    @yassinetalbi5884 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So basically you’re saying, allocate some of your money left after paying the essentials ? I don’t know how is this any new ?
    Not sure if I’m following, but how is this any different from the general investment and saving advice ?

    • @laurac7289
      @laurac7289 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's not. This is basically saying, "If you want the thing, do the things that will get you the thing". But it's packaged up in manifestation mumbo-jumbo for the gullible who think there's some kind of magic formula. Please, people. You want better health? Eat right and exercise. You want money? Budget, save, and invest. You want a good relationship? Work on yourself. This isn't "law of assumption". This is "go do the thing".

  • @vivianMarvin-z6k
    @vivianMarvin-z6k หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

    • @Mia1827
      @Mia1827 หลายเดือนก่อน

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.

    • @vivianMarvin-z6k
      @vivianMarvin-z6k หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?

    • @Mia1827
      @Mia1827 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @Mia1827
      @Mia1827 หลายเดือนก่อน

      he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

    • @vivianMarvin-z6k
      @vivianMarvin-z6k หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive

  • @gregdescant4121
    @gregdescant4121 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I believe i can have good mental and physical health but im not in a good place.can anyone vis ualize or affirm on my behalf?

  • @michealjames6012
    @michealjames6012 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    I'm blessed only God knows how much I praise Him, $80k every 4weeks! I now have a good house and can now afford anything and also support my family

    • @LukeJohnson-rq4vf
      @LukeJohnson-rq4vf หลายเดือนก่อน

      The miracle of God is flowing, thanks for sharing yI'm genuinely curious to know how you earn that much monthlyour blessings, please help others too ❤❤

    • @Evanpeterson11134
      @Evanpeterson11134 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so happy for you dear, please can you elaborate more about this? I definitely believe you're God sent 🙏

    • @michealjames6012
      @michealjames6012 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I Thank God for Bringing Mildred Evelyn Rooney brokage service into my life, I'm happy for God's grace have found me through her.❤️😊

    • @michealjames6012
      @michealjames6012 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      God has used her to save so many lives including mine, could remember when I started with her back in 2023.

    • @henryfoxby
      @henryfoxby หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can I also do it? My life is facing lots of challenges lately.

  • @jocelyndooley9693
    @jocelyndooley9693 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your good ..

  • @Zahooraayad
    @Zahooraayad หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very nice
    Thank you 🤍

  • @Heartful.Living101
    @Heartful.Living101 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lucie where in Spain do you live? I live in Spain too

  • @hariszia2057
    @hariszia2057 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice one

  • @brineytkang
    @brineytkang หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you do more examples please

  • @EmmaM-q1l
    @EmmaM-q1l หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had crazy de ja vu 4:14 this has to mean something!??!!!

  • @user-tq3oy1yv6j
    @user-tq3oy1yv6j หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Lucie
    How about love
    Makes me feel I am married with my love of my life and we traveling but don’t care 3d world ?

  • @1_Nesh_7
    @1_Nesh_7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does this work for guys as well ?

  • @JJOK1818-okthen
    @JJOK1818-okthen หลายเดือนก่อน

    😀 nice

  • @user-tq3oy1yv6j
    @user-tq3oy1yv6j หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you mean you put some money into pot ?? Or ,,, for example if u has $1. How u input to your pot ? U have to take it for pay some bill first or ?

    • @CharlotteHardy
      @CharlotteHardy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think the point is that you have a percentage for each “pot”. My banking app offers folders for your money, maybe yours has something similar. So for example, with your $1, put aside what you need for bills then divide the rest between your other pots - 1) fun 2) retirement fund 3) saving for a car (for example).
      Doesn’t exactly work with $1 haha, but with bigger amounts it seems like a nice way to have more control (especially if you’re prone to impulse spending or restricting and never treating yourself when you can afford it).

  • @angela_2653
    @angela_2653 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All I long for is a baby. I have everything I want in the material. I am not sure how to script having a baby. 🤰🏻

  • @lalaarevalo8348
    @lalaarevalo8348 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @ruyko6300
    @ruyko6300 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loving your smile. Dating material 😄😉
    married, sorry I didnt want to sound inapropriate :D

  • @TrumanBurbonk
    @TrumanBurbonk หลายเดือนก่อน

    Could anyone smarter than me explain to me what's the money strategy here? Let's say that at the end of month, I have 100 euros in my account. What do I do with it?

  • @ashanisomarathne8859
    @ashanisomarathne8859 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Deep in our mind we know that we are just acting.. so isn't this method almost fake?

    • @CaAspirant-s
      @CaAspirant-s หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fake it till you make it ❤

    • @ashanisomarathne8859
      @ashanisomarathne8859 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @CaAspirant-mq9yz how to fake it? When you know you don't have it. Lol

  • @boiragirules
    @boiragirules หลายเดือนก่อน

    So refreshing to watch a very important video without seeing those cringe worthy accting most American podcasters put on. Americans!!

  • @rajanidevi5719
    @rajanidevi5719 หลายเดือนก่อน

    as

  • @TSUDARGON
    @TSUDARGON 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    not related to the video content, when I look at Lucie at the first sight, I think of Lady Gaga

  • @suganyanagaraj1059
    @suganyanagaraj1059 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    It’s shocking how Women's Magic Truths isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!

    • @AnnaM-rdc
      @AnnaM-rdc 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Scam

    • @helenmartin2316
      @helenmartin2316 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Rubbish. Take the book and shaft it up your mouth

  • @KrishhaRohah-p5c
    @KrishhaRohah-p5c หลายเดือนก่อน

    d

  • @나나-g3m
    @나나-g3m หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello, I'm an adult man
    I want to grow taller What should I do? Can I succeed with scripting on my notebook? I want to grow taller

  • @sanatani_shorts_videos
    @sanatani_shorts_videos หลายเดือนก่อน

    asd

  • @niranira5908
    @niranira5908 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The lack of buzz around Women's Magic Truths is baffling. This book holds the key to amazing secrets, but no one seems to care. Don’t stay in the dark - find out what everyone’s missing

  • @yadavvishal4580
    @yadavvishal4580 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Seriously, why is no one discussing 'Feminine Ancient Blessings'? This forbidden ebook is a goldmine of forbidden knowledge that can sincerely change your life

    • @CarolynJohnson-fi3ot
      @CarolynJohnson-fi3ot หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Hmmm. A "forbidden ebook"? Meaning it's not for sale? What mountain do I need to climb to find it?

    • @maryclaire340
      @maryclaire340 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

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