As a social worker who assists clients in the food bank, I can tell you if it isn't used, it gets THROWN OUT. In my area, the electric company is raising rates 14% starting next month. People (including those who WORK) are being priced out of life in all areas. Stop judging. Medical debt, utilities, astronomical housing costs, etc. And by all means, utilize your local food bank! I am so sick of people thinking people need to look "poor enough" to use it. Sorry you have to deal with rude people. Keep up the videos and happy New year to you and your family!!
Overall across USA, ELEC UP 30%, WATER UP 15%, SEWER RUN OFF EVEN IF YOU DONT UTILIZE YOU ARE C HARGED ON YOUR TAXES. MY LIST 4 INCHES LONG ON TAX BILL OF WHERE THEY TAKE YOUR MONEY.. 4 SCHOOL BONDS, AND KIDS ARE DUMBER THAN A STUMP. LIBRARY TAX, AND K8DS CANT EVEN READ AND ADULTS DONT HAVE THE TIME, WORKING 2 AND 5 JOBS. FACT. AND IT GOES ON AND ON. AND THEN GO TO GROCERY STORE, THEN GO TOO DOCTOR,HAIRCUT.PHARMACY, , THE WORSE, GOVERMENT RUNNING FARMERS OFF THEIR LAND, PRICES ARE A INSULT TOO FOOD PRODUCERS. FORCING THEM TOO EXPORT, CHEAP. AND TRIPLE CHARGES TOO CONSUMERS.
I have expensive prescriptions due to having chronic illness- so food banks are greatly appreciated- made the difference whether we ate or had medicine that was needed. You are not abusing the system.
I think what throws people off is many people who were middle class are now the working poor, and we don’t look like what people think poor people look like. Just 5 years ago as a single mom I was considered middle class. My income has remained the same (work in the school system so no raises in a while) but my cost of living has increased so much that I’m now part of the working poor class. I make $20 too much per month to qualify for snap. I would go to food banks if they weren’t open during the hours I work. I say do what ever you need to do to take care of your kiddos! The struggle is real.
I just spoke with my 17 yo son about this. He said most people don't know about the resources that are available or don't want to ask for help. Thank you for what you do. For showing people that it's okay to ask for help. When we did use the food bank and they learned I was sharing with other people who wouldn't go, they gave me extra because they just have to throw away what's left over. It's horrible that people are shamed for accepting help.
I am 64 and have not always used a food Pantry but I do when I need to like now. I'm 64 and have multiple serious health issues. I live on ssi less than 1,000 a month. The ss COLA we got the cut my food benefits, I only got 123 dollars now I only get 100. So the system is rigged against us. It's ok to go to food pantry. Keep your nasty opinions to yourself
This is true. I been using the food pantries for a year now because things just went from worst to past worst. When i started to use the pantry i cried. I was handed a box of food and looked in the box and saw things i could NOT use (Our house hold is a NO soy house hold. Almost everything has Soy oil in it now that is pantry stable. We have other food allergies that can cause hospital stays in house.). I was not given a choice of what was handed to me and the 211 number told me this is where i HAVE to get food. I learned by word of mouth other churches that gave out food to anyone. Some of these churches allow you to pick out food. I love the fact i can get produce at these other places. With the food allergies it is wonderful when i can get fresh produce to cook with or make a jam out of. This week end my mother in law was over. I had saved some thin cut ribeye for her to make into a bulgogi meal. Was not a very big package but they were able to eat it for lunch and have left overs for dinner. I finished off some left overs from Christmas dinner. I showed my mother in law a rib roast i got from a pop up food give away recently. I do not have any idea how to cook it so she said she will cut it up and make some Korean dish next time she comes over. It was something i would never purchase because it was regularly $46. But i was super happy to get it because my partner and daughter eat red meat. If i don't know how to cook it my mother in law usually does. I got 2 packages of ribs in summer and she came over and chopped them up and made a marinade to put them in to keep in frig. Her, my daughter and partner enjoyed a good lunch the rest was in frig for me to cook as needed for next few days. I try not to talk to some people at pantry. There are people that will tell you that you do not belong there. I had someone tell me my car was to nice. I drive a 2002..... They were in a 2023. They made a huge stink and were super loud about it. Pointing me out and yelling about how i was keeping food from those who really need it. Finally some guy told her You have a new car why are you here. He then told her my car was older than the hills. Which it is. I have seen Many who just cut line. I have seen older people get into pushing and punching matches over someone cutting. Things just shock me over what they do. Most pantries i go to you have to start lining up at 6am and they do not give out numbers or start until 12 noon or 3pm. Getting food is a full time job. I like the car lines more than standing in line because it is harder for people to jump the line. Omg People lie like no tomorrow and do not care if they are caught. We have fresh food boxes given out and over the last year they finally got some of the places listed on the food bank website. You drive up and open your trunk and they give you a box that is suppose to have $20 of fresh food. It usually has a 3 pound bag of potatoes, 3 pound bag of apples, a bag of lentils or some other bean, then it has random other items like eggplant, grapes, oranges, bell peppers, squash and other veggies that are usually in season. I added up cost of the box and generally it is under $20 value but it is fresh produce and i love fresh so i am very great full for those boxes.
@@cajunspice48 I live in Ontario Canada. I will be 66 in March, I utilize 2 foodbanks a month here, we don't get to pick our food, but what I don't need or use goes right back into our neighbour pantries..
I’ve followed you for awhile. I suffered 2 strokes , a heart attack, a broken elbow and fell down a flight of stairs in March breaking my femur and having to have emergency surgery. I had to stay in a rehab for 3 weeks and then live with my daughter until I could do for myself again. Therefore I list my job and trying to live on 1200 a month with rent taking a little less than half. A huge power bill that takes almost the rest. I was accustomed to grabbing food without looking at prices. Now I get what I can from dollar tree and thank the lord for the foodbank. We have the right to have food so far. Hang in there Carolina! Ignore the haters
I utilized a food bank after my husband died. I have 1 daughter but we needed the help at that time in our life. When things got better for us we returned the help we received by donating food. My daughter was young but after our troubled times we would shop for the food together and at times my grade schooler would use some of her allowance. A great learning experience for the both of us!
@@jillhogan2611 That's Awesome. I wish more people would do videos on the helping people and showing how to give back. These titles like (food haul) from pantry feels like a flaunting agenda. Bless you for showing your daughter 👍😃
My neighbor’s sister in law volunteers at a food bank, and there’s often so much left over food, that if someone doesn’t take it, it’ll get thrown out. My neighbor often picks up the food, and shares it with me, because she can’t fit it all in her pantry and freezer. I’m happy to take it, and save it from the landfill.
You are an example of what this country benefits from - motivated, honest, hard working, resourceful, kind hearted, responsible, inventive and transparent. You constantly help me in so many ways. I'm twice your age, yet you teach me. Thank you Carolina for being you. We love you.
Not to mention, you've used your abilities to break down and make large amounts of food to help your community also! You're sharing what you get, to help people who don't have the space, knowledge or abilities to Make that food themselves! I'm glad you make these comeback videos to address people accusing you of being selfish or taking from others. You're not doing anything wrong, you're keeping your family fed and sharing with others. I love that about you!
Caroline, I just watched your video of people shaming you for utilizing resources. You do not need to justify yourself! You have given so much through your videos of how you preserve the food you get and given so much back……shame on those people who think you have not helped thousands of people to utilize the same resourses you have taught them to use through your channel. Hi five! I love your channel and what you have taught me! Thank you
People are so judgmental. I’m so sorry you have those comments coming in. How awful! You give to the community. You are a giving person! You do what you need to do to feed & support your sweet family. The food banks are in place to help people. Way to go mama Baird! Love your videos. Keep up the good work. Bless you and yours. Happy New Year!!!!
Hey girl! Don’t let haters get to you! Their opinions mean nothing! You are doing you and we all love you! Everything in this country is BEYOND expensive. Housing in NJ crazy. Paying $1850 plus utilities for a 1 bedroom apartment with no amenities is beyond what some people make in a month. My son makes $85,000 a year, lives in that apartment, has one 12 year old son who lives with his mom, has a company vehicle, and between the rent, utilities, child support, food etc, he is struggling. It’s insane, so keep being your beautiful self and doing what you have to do for you and your family! Happy New Year! ❤🎉
I donate food to a local food pantry through my church and it makes me happy if it helps families like yours. I am blessed that I don’t need to use a food pantry and am grateful that I can bless others but you never know when anyone or myself may be in that situation…especially considering the future of our country.
I'm so amazed by you! You show people not to be afraid to get help if they need it. I had never needed assistance but after serious health issues, I couldnt afford food. I saw one of your videos and it gave me the courage to go to the food bank. I am fortunate that I'm back on my feet but because of you I didnt go hungry. Sadly, in todays world more people than ever are working full time and still not be able to afford food. You are a strong, caring person and many people are grateful for your content. Sending hugs!
A couple years ago, we found ourselves needing to utilize the food bank and some church food pantries. We own a home & have two nicer vehicles however, our circumstances changed drastically when my husband got transferred 100 miles away (one way) for work and gas was $7-$7.50 a gallon here. Our fuel bill increased 2 fold so our grocery money had to fill in. I felt guilty going because of how we “looked” and driving up in my nicer car but seeing your videos really helped me to realize that I shouldn’t care. Only we knew our situation and that’s all that mattered. What we couldn’t use, we shared with our community. Do what you need to do for your family. There’s a lot of judgmental people out there but that’s a them problem and not a you problem.
I think I have told you before that as a food bank volunteer, I saw that there was so much waste from grocery stores that needs to get utilized for something other than a landfill. I am glad to see stuff put to good use instead of wasted.....Everybody has struggles and nobody should judge others for any choices that they make to save money. I have made a lot of sacrifices over the years to get where I am today. I think a lot of people at times in my life thought I was a bit crazy, but I did what I had too to secure my comfortable retirement that I am living now..... You are also doing the right thing to be there for your kids while they are young. Too many people want the babysitter to raise their kids instead of being there to parent them. The kids are not gonna remember how much money there was, but whether Mom and Dad were around for them. As far as youtube, please keep on teaching and educating others. I have learned a few good cooking tricks from you myself. Those that don't like your content should just mind their own business and stop watching. Don't they have anything better to do with their life than complain about others? I know I am too busy actually living life to sit and watch stuff just to criticize the person presenting it. I guess some people need to actually "get a life".
I love watching your channel. I'm so sorry you have to explain yourself to these small minded people. You are an amazing person just remember the people that leave these comments have to cut others down to make themselves feel good. Keep doing what your doing I support you 100 %.
im thrilled and profoundly happy for those people that never need help and are able to look down on everyone else. id love to shake their hand and give them a little tweek on their cheek in congratulations with my unclean hand that couldnt afford toilet paper, soap and water. homelessness went up by 18.5 percent last year and 50 percent of them work, but they have a job so no food for them. i could go on about the odious state of our union but suffice it to say that those on their pedestal are probably one of the 65 percent of us that dont have 500 put away for emergencies or one of the hundreds of thousands defaulting on mortgages, credit cards, auto loans, medical debt and the list goes on. yr doing everything right carolina and im especially impressed how yr teaching yr kids. food is a human right.....happy new year!
We live on one income and before my husband lost his job of 8 years I was still going to the food bank because he worked his ass off and we had to buy food with cash and it was hard to make it stretch with a family of six people! I remember having to always put food back at the store bc I went over my budget. Until I started going to the food bank it changed our life for the good! We was able to stretch our food into the next month! It’s so important people understand the concept that there should be no entitlement of going to the food bank and being a working family or an elderly living on a disability whatever the case might be. Would they rather us all not work and collect benefits from everywhere?? That’s something to think about. Before I was the lady with kids at register having to pick out food items to put back and dealing with rude people rolling their eyes at the checkout line. I would be in tears 😭 sometimes. The food bank has blessed us and I will forever be grateful❤️ and I see that precious fur baby looking at you knowing your upset that was so cute 🥰
Carolina.You are an amazing lady.I have used food banks in the past when my four boys were younger.(We were the working poor.) I was kind of embarrassed but also so grateful.There was not a lot of fresh veggies or fruit back then.We didn't care;we were so thankful for macaroni,beans and even Liptons Bigfoot soup!Anything to feed my boys was so appreciated. Thank you for your vlogs that educate and try to take the stigma of using food banks. I appreciate you and your family.I love seeing your hauls and what you cook with the food! I remember seeing you and your children volunteer at the food bank. Sending you love from Canada. 🇨🇦
I was at a church pantry. Our local food bank does pop ups also. It goes to this one church once a month. It was the middle of summer. I was sitting by a teenage boy tht had ridden his bike to get food. The oreacher asked him to help set up food. I put a 5 dollar bill in his bag. We went through the line. I told him to get whatever he wanted and i would help him take it to his house. He looked very grateful. He rode his bike and i followed him. He lived close to me. When we got there several little kids came out and his Mom. He told me several times Thanks. He deserved the money for helping his family. I belive in karma. If you help someone from your heart without expecting anything in return then it will come back to you.
I’m sorry people are so rude. We are struggling as a73/65 year old couple . I went to my Dr as I was so down. She talked to the lady in the HR dept. The came to talk to me. She explained a problem that our hospital has. Every 2 weeks on Saturday someone delivers Milk ,Eggs ,Butter, Bread,Yogurt,Cottage Cheese,Ground Beef,Fresh Vegetables,(very nice ham for thanksgiving), Cheese,. This time I got real butter as well as avocado oil. It helps so much. They deliver it to our door. We get onion’s sweet potatoes,white potatoes celery, seasonings. So helpful For January 2025 we have been notified House Insurance went up $800 .. no we will pay $2400 a year! Med Blue RX went up $43 for each of us a month now we will pay $147 each a month Our car insurance was $1200 yearly now it it $1886. Our BC/BS went from $1305 monthly to $1664. House taxes were$1500 last year now that are $1900. So we couldn’t buy food before all this so we have been dumpster diving. At our age this shouldn’t be happening! Yes we have a food bank but the people assisting are people that I went to school with. So I’m to embarrassed to go in. The horrible feeling is when u are hungry. We planted a garden this year. God has helped us stay positive . One example was a farmer across the road from us GAVE us a 400 pound hog. He raises them and he had 15 that were just getting old. So he replaced them with new and took others to the locker to be processed. He gave us that! We pay for processing which is under$400. The hog dressed out at 286 pounds! Thank God and this family for help us! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I am a former food bank user. At that time in my life i needed the help. Now that I am able, I donate to our locate food bank. One source of donations is our gardening. We plant the garden full, more than is needed by the family, and donate excess produce to the food bank. Carolina be proud of yourself for providing for your family.
@@jeanz3622 that's so Aeesome...I love seeing people use the pantry in times of need and then giving back in their own way to pantries 👍WE need videos on that 👍
I worked as a freaking interior designer at a wealthy firm and my lunches were all food bank food. Everyone else went out to eat while I sat there eating my lunches. Between high rent, bills, a little school debt, and gas money trust me it was my only choice to keep moving along. I highly doubt anyone I worked with could have guessed, in fact, they always told me my food looked super good.
I love your videos and that you are debunking the myths about foodbanks. You should absolutely use any resource the is open to you if you need it. I am sorry people feel the need to write abusive comments and put you down.
i work in and manage a food pantry as part of a food bank network. it is a matter of balance. She is correct that in particular the fresh food is at end of days. It is Dept of Ag provided and also shelf pulls from local retailers. I would rather give it out then to see it end in a dumpster. We pipeline the damaged fresh produce to people to feed their animals or to organizations that compost. I would rather give it there then to see it end of in dumpsters. My experience over 15 front line years, is that, yes, there will be a few hoarders, scammers, but they are few and far between. People of means may try it but they tend to very quickly self select out. Also keep in mind, some of this food is commodity and it is price support for farmers as well.
I'm 81 yrs old. Our $2100. income is only from Social Security. Our mortgage is nearly $1200. So that $900. has to cover electric, phone w/internet, garbage, and food. Also extra medical expenses, incontinence supplies, repairs, clothing and shoes, cleaning equipment and any help needed for things we can no longer physically do. We have "Extra Help" for most of my prescriptions, hubby has VA, we get SNAP of $25/mth, we get some discounts on electric bills but we still need the food bank, and other community resources. Happy to share with the working poor who have expenses for car, insurance, proper "working clothes" for themselves and children, child care, etc. 😊
@@brandilowe1916 I agree. I volunteer at a pantry. I think the point here is that she is saving her money not for bills, schooling or improving their home life but for Thrift shopping etc...she is making a very good chunk of money off utube and the Agenda to use the food pantry feels dishonest. She has tainted the topic of why people should go to a food bank. I read a comment from a lady who use to go for a bit because she needed it. Her situation improved and she and her daughter now shop at grocery stores and buy food for the pantries...That's Great Content 😃
Girl you do what you feel fit for YOUR FAMILY! everyone is having a hard time.all prices are so high. God bless you and say what you have too. Happy new year!
Hey Mama B! It’s been a while since I have commented on your channel. I must comment now. That you feel you must produce this video is a testament to the level of ignorance this country is facing now. You provide an excellent resource to everyone needing to use the food banks. You teach us what to do with bulk items. Just because it was “free” doesn’t mean it has to be band and Boring! Again, you teach us how to use the food to it’s best advantage. For this and for simply being you, thank you! Hey you haters out there, I weigh 80 pounds and a little frail. I would love to be healthy and beautiful like Mama Baird! May what you give out return to you ten fold. Think about that haters! As for the amazing people supporting this incredible woman while she helps many. I wish for you the same wish with so much joy to overflow it into the world around you. Happy New Year every one! From my heart to your heart Mama B Thank You 💛
I Work as well and the food bank helps me and my children a Lot.Especially with the vegetables and fruit don't worry about Others.Just enjoy your life and your family the food is Free.Some don't even like shopping at a food Bank.Again Happy new year to you and your Family.
My daughter is single but works hard at a school which as you know not the best pay in this country for teaching children (what a shame America) I've told her to check food banks in order to be able for what may come. In the state we live rent(oh my) can make you cry. Groceries 😢. You do you for you and your family. You would get criticized if you weren't doing what you do always flack. Keep sharing and teaching us. Happy new year 🎉
I worked 34 years at the same job until I became disabled. I am now almost 69 and I QUALIFY for the food bank. Do those folks who try to shame you think that this is what I wanted for my retirement? The government who caused this inflation is now letting me have food that other people won't buy. I say let the "judgers" choke on the food they can afford. In the meantime, I will continue watching your videos and being grateful for them. Have a wonderful New Year, and blessings for your family! ❤❤
Such crazy viewer out there if you can't nice just move on down the road and I will pray that those who say nasty things never have to be with food etc. I one who been bless all of my 79 years not ever needing help but I know many who have had to have help including some of my family .
I use two and am on disability. Gas here is $3.29/gallon. Eggs a few weeks ago were 8.99 for 18. Two chicken breasts yesterday were 10.00. I can’t afford to breathe let alone function. I have a system that works. We can, only eat at home, feed children, clothe children and still try to garden to produce food for when it gets tough. People love to pass judgement, meanwhile a lot of ppl are up to their eyeballs in debt just trying to feed their families. Many people are putting their grocery purchases on credit cards and can’t pay them off. I’ve been a long time subscriber and I get a lot of shame, ridicule etc for going…yet, im still going. ❤️ you.
You are smart and creative and a loving person. All of humanity is it's brothers keeper. You are caring in enough to put your actions into actions. Ignore the people who have to knock the rest of us down.
I had three jobs and none of them paid enough to make it. Back then food stamps at 47.00 a month had to do. Food bank would have been a blessing. My point is you don’t know what everyone is going threw… different situations even for the working people. Be kind and understanding people. We all need compassion❤
With all of the food waste, I’m appalled at the judgmental and ignorant comments. I’m so glad you addressed the comments and educated us! I appreciate your content, and your sharing about your experiences.
People never know what situation they can one day be in. I know so many people who are two income households who have to use the food bank. People should never feel shame. Times are harder than ever right now. I applaud you for doing what you need to do for your family.
You shouldn’t have to explain yourself. Haters will be haters. You do what helps your family. You are awesome teaching your kids how to survive if they ever need it. Happy New Year to your family.
Don't let these uneducated and ridiculous people bring you down Carolina! I've watched you for the past few years now and always enjoyed how welcoming, kind and supportive you are. You've been very honest along the way with your family's situation and why you need to use the local food banks. There isn't any shame in it at all! The shamefulness comes from the wretched greed with these horrendous grocery prices in every state and that unless someone has been in a situation where they have little options for food, they are just not empathic to someone else's concerns. I live in Portland, Oregon and milk is $4 a gallon here too. Everything is very expensive and only going up in price in my area. My husband owns his own business and I work full time with a great paying job. But, I still have to shop all the bargains at multiple stores and try to keep our food budget reasonable. I also cook the majority of our food from scratch and have for years. We have a 17 yr old daughter that's a Senior in high school. She wants to go to college out of state but we simply don't have that extra money and want her to be saddled with huge student loans. I did that rodeo too and it's so crippling!!! We have convinced her to go to our local community college for 2 years and get the basic required classes over with that can transfer to a larger school later if she decides to do that. We haven't need to use a food panty or food bank yet. We donate to our local one during the year. But I'm so grateful that you have been teaching people not only how to cook things that might typically receive from a food box but making it fun and an adventure. As well as truly expressing the fact that is absolutely okay to ask for help!! Keep it up!! I think it would be a nice idea for you to maybe do a monthly interview with fellow volunteers and staff at the food bank if you can. It wouldn't help all the haters to see the light but I think it's a great way to show people what it's really like on the other side and how much it helps your community. I know you've done that in the past but maybe time to do something like that again. Happy and Blessed New Year to you and your family!
That was really well written and said! Thank you! I'm glad your daughter is going to go to community college first! Great idea! I also think another volunteer video is due! Tha is for all your love and support! Happy new year to you
Some people just love to hate...I think you are awesome, and taking care of your family. Groceries are expensive, and everyone has to eat!! Keep on keeping on!!! You are in the right for sure!!
What would they expect you to do, dumpsterdive? It's ridiculous to see how much good food gets thrown in the dumpster! These people are just jealous, because they do not have the guts to go there. We do not have food banks in my Country and I really could've used the help 16 years ago when my Husband died unexpectedly and I was left to take care of 2 small children without a support system or any resources. I just thank God for carrying us through. Never feel bad about using the resources available to take care of your family. God bless you all.❤
Its sad for all the judgment. Keep your spirits up and you are the momma for the children to have a happy life. Do whats best for your family. I agree with you the prices are killing many of us. Bills dont stop!!
My husband is retired and I'm working 35 hours a week as a caregiver. And we are making ended meet. We are short every week. We ho to a once month food bank and 3 to 4 food pantry/church ruined food pantry. And it helps us out. Right now with the food prices are crazy. We are in debt. Just trying to pay for everything is hard for us. Your doing what you have to do for you and your family. Keep up your head up. And keeping on doing what your doing for your family. I really appreciate everything you do. And to help other people out. With what you do with food pantry stuff and how do make freezer meals to.❤❤❤❤
It's a shame that you continue to have to deal with ignorant commenters. Yes, they do lack empathy. You don't need to have to explain, but I'm sure you've helped a lot of people by explaining. Bless you and your family, and I wish you a great 2025!
Thank you for explaining to people that you don't have to accept shame. You are much younger than me and I am proud of you for being a Mom first and making things work however you need to to raise your children. The Good Will shopping for Christmas was great ❤
Honey, sometimes you just have to learn to be okay with other people being wrong. Block the haters and keep doing what you're doing; showing us ideas for using the foods you get from the foodbank is another way you give back to the community. You don't owe anybody explanations about anything you do or don't do to care for your family and community. Much love!
So many people are diligently working and are not paid a living wage, CEO pay is at a record high, profits are at record high. It's so odd that it has been acceptable for companies keeping employees compensation low enough that they cannot meet their needs, and then blame the workers for needing help. it's rare to find a CEO who takes pride in sharing the wealth in order to have employees have a living wage (which SHOULD be the norm). Thank you for showing people what to do with surprise food. I grew up with food insecurity that was augmented by gardening, canning, hunting, fishing as well as government cheese, spam, butter (the 1960s, no food banks then). People today need the kind of community you are building online!
Carolina (Mama Baird), love watching you and your family's channel. I just want you to know that you don't owe anyone anything, except for your duty to your family's wellbeing. Shame on anyone who feels you're doing anything wrong with providing healthy food and an adequate diet for you and your family. I commend you for sharing ways to extend your family's finances and stretching your budget each month. I will continue to watch and share your videos. So keep them coming. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Martie W from Florida ❤
I want you to utilize EVERY resource that is available to you. If you can put away anything, just as much as you can, you need to do that. There is no shame in using resources that are available. What IS shameful is how many people in our country NEED it! I am one of the lucky ones and can afford to shop for food, but even me, leaves the store and says "what the holy s@$t!" Love you!
I think that like you said more people are in need today. Thank goodness for communities that have food banks. The cost of everything is so high, I personally think people need to use the resources that are available.
It isn't anyone's business what you do. Too many trolls out there trying to tell people how to live. Love your videos and don't be afraid to block idiots.
Happy New Year!!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉 I just wanna tell you I enjoy all of your videos. I have been watching you for several years now. You have been resourceful And I never felt like you were taking advantage of anything. I’ve watched you thrift shopping, never living above your means and giving back to your community. Stay being you. This world needs more people like you ❤️❤️❤️❤️.
Were retired existing only on Social Security and my Disability but still make too much money to qualify for our State run food bank. And we do need help. Corporate greed has driven prices up so high that affordable living seems to be a fantasy. We've been able to squeeze by using faith based food banks that do not require proof of income. But it's very frightening that the government expects us to survive on so little while the price of absolutely everything continues to rise.
@@kittykatz3518 Hello, I don't know where you live. Have you tried calling 211 in your area? Call them frequently, you'll be surprised at the different places they disclose. Your area must have food banks for seniors and those with disabilities that will deliver to you. Blessings.
Keep your chin up sweetie. You’re doing an amazing job raising your children and inspiring us as well. I volunteered at a food bank too, until then I had a certain idea of who a food pantry client was. All walks of life need help. I go too. I can’t afford to buy everything we need anymore. People need to stop being nasty and judgmental. Sending love to you from NJ.
Retired and we qualify for the government funded food bank. We also utilize the food bank that uses expired food from stores. We give any extras to our children with young families who are struggling to get all the bills paid. You are right that it is so hard to make ends meet these days
Happy New Year to you & your family. I understand your frustration is high & I don't blame you. I love your channel. I've learned so much from watching it. I support you in using your food bank. There will always be people out there who criticize. I know at times it's hard to shake it off, but pick yourself back up & keep on going. You are a blessing to so many of us who watch your channel! ❤
Hello, Dont every let what anyone says ever bother you.... You are making a difference to so many... that is what you are doing... and always be so proud of that.... It is so sad... that people are saying that you should not be using the food bank... that is so sad.... because you are so honest and letting people understand why there is a food bank... You are AMAZING... Thank you for caring and doing what you do!
How dare people judge others for utilizing a free resource if it wasn’t for food banks some months when my children were small I honestly don’t know how I would have feed them. Thank you for all you do.
My family used a food bank many years ago and we both worked. It helped us afford utilities, medications, car repairs....it just helps you get by to not worry about food
I did not understand at first but after you explained it I totally get it , and if you need it and it helps you afford books at the book fair and extras it is nobody else’s business
I say F all those folks picking on you. It's such a tough time right now. I stay at home with my 2 littles, while husband works, and I think exactly like you do. I think it's fabulous that you're able to utilize local resources...I've checked and my local food banks request proof of food stamps or income to receive, but if you fall into that "working poor" category, then you appear too wealthy to receive. I'd love to use the resource, but I'm also happy for those that do! I think you're exactly right about people having their own ideas of what "needy" looks like...
I used to feel bad going to the drive thru food bank. After the first time I saw more brand new vehicles mine was one of the oldest cars there , I realized times are tight every body needs help. Plus I share what I get with others who could also use it.
Girl, I know how you feel I’m 52. I’m on disability. I barely make anything with me and my daughter both working by the time the bills are paid. There’s nothing left and I also have to go to the food bank. Life is not easy right now for anybody and you’re right it doesn’t make any sense or make anything easier when people are attacking each other so do what you need to do for your family and other people should worry about what they need to do for theirs. Love your videos take care of you and your family and God bless y’all.
Girl, you know I want names... post their names!! You don't deserve to be spoken to like that! Thank you though, for being the better person and trying to educate the ignorant.
You're doing what you need to do your family. You don't owe anyone an explanation. I enjoy your content and always look forward to your videos. Happy New Year.
I'm also glad you cook meals for your kids instead of feeding them fast food in the back of SUV. You sit down for dinner each night. YOU have a REAL family.
I am so mad about this- I cant even put my thoughts into words- I appreciate what you do SO much. People giving you flack must have it so easy they never needed any help ever- must be nice. I too am the working poor- I make good money but am a single mother of 4 in a state that doesnt really enforce child support collection. I appepeciate your videos and the way you are smashing the negative stigmatism of utilizing food banks- Thank you. 🎉Happy New Year to you & the fam🎉
Girl I want to thank you and your family for all you do please don't pay attention to all those people they are just mad because they are not doing anything to help anyone so you keep doing the good your doing for so many people I love you and your family
You keep doing what you’re doing ! I admire you … you’re doing the best you can. Sounds like there are lots of people who think they can criticize others, don’t know the whole story and ought to mind their own business!
Hi! I have watched your channel for awhile now and you have taught me things and have helped me ty 🙏💜Don't listen to the haters they are just miserable and need someone to bring down with them you do what I need to to help your family .🙏💜I was wondering I have a lot of bag beans and I have no idea how to cook them and you please tell me or do a video on using them please I am lost.ty and God bless💜🙏
Some people who say stupid things are jealous of you. Food Banks are there for everyone. In this economy, food banks are becoming overwhelmed with people needing help. I think instead of complaining about what Mama Baird is doing going to the food bank. Why don't you go to the food bank and volunteer and see what is actually happening in your community? Mama Baird keep doing what you are doing. I love your amazing content.
Ignore the meanies!! You are an amazing woman! Good wife and mom. If they can't say something nice don't say anything at all. Keep being you!! Hugs friend 😊 Happy New Year 🎉
I worked almost 35 years of my life before I became disabled. I have survived cancer, a stroke and a brain tumor.. I have had 58 surgeries in my lifetime and I am 59 and I have another surgery coming up as I have a cataract.. I am probably going to have a few more.. my medical needs and the equipment I have had to purchase ( walkers, shower chair, bed rails and a new bed and mattress) makes it NECESSARY for me to have to utilize my local food bank, where I can get plenty of fresh produce and meat because where I live a lb of ground beef is 10$.. if I don’t use the fb then I have to choose buying the food or buying my meds… that’s not what senior citizens should have to choose
Omg… things are so expensive now days! The food bank helps you when you can’t make ends meet. People need to stop. They don’t know your circumstances!! Love you Carolina❤️
Yes I utilize the food bank to afford other things... things like therapy for my kids, dentist, car repair and home maintenance.... I "shouldn't" need food banks but it helps me. Grateful and hopeful I can turn things around with the help.
As a social worker who assists clients in the food bank, I can tell you if it isn't used, it gets THROWN OUT. In my area, the electric company is raising rates 14% starting next month. People (including those who WORK) are being priced out of life in all areas. Stop judging. Medical debt, utilities, astronomical housing costs, etc. And by all means, utilize your local food bank! I am so sick of people thinking people need to look "poor enough" to use it. Sorry you have to deal with rude people. Keep up the videos and happy New year to you and your family!!
Amen!❤❤❤
Thank you!! Happy New Year to you as well!!
Overall across USA, ELEC UP 30%, WATER UP 15%, SEWER RUN OFF EVEN IF YOU DONT UTILIZE YOU ARE C HARGED ON YOUR TAXES. MY LIST 4 INCHES LONG ON TAX BILL OF WHERE THEY TAKE YOUR MONEY.. 4 SCHOOL BONDS, AND KIDS ARE DUMBER THAN A STUMP. LIBRARY TAX, AND K8DS CANT EVEN READ AND ADULTS DONT HAVE THE TIME, WORKING 2 AND 5 JOBS. FACT. AND IT GOES ON AND ON. AND THEN GO TO GROCERY STORE, THEN GO TOO DOCTOR,HAIRCUT.PHARMACY, , THE WORSE, GOVERMENT RUNNING FARMERS OFF THEIR LAND, PRICES ARE A INSULT TOO FOOD PRODUCERS. FORCING THEM TOO EXPORT, CHEAP. AND TRIPLE CHARGES TOO CONSUMERS.
I have expensive prescriptions due to having chronic illness- so food banks are greatly appreciated- made the difference whether we ate or had medicine that was needed.
You are not abusing the system.
I think what throws people off is many people who were middle class are now the working poor, and we don’t look like what people think poor people look like. Just 5 years ago as a single mom I was considered middle class. My income has remained the same (work in the school system so no raises in a while) but my cost of living has increased so much that I’m now part of the working poor class. I make $20 too much per month to qualify for snap. I would go to food banks if they weren’t open during the hours I work. I say do what ever you need to do to take care of your kiddos! The struggle is real.
I just spoke with my 17 yo son about this. He said most people don't know about the resources that are available or don't want to ask for help. Thank you for what you do. For showing people that it's okay to ask for help. When we did use the food bank and they learned I was sharing with other people who wouldn't go, they gave me extra because they just have to throw away what's left over. It's horrible that people are shamed for accepting help.
I am 64 and have not always used a food Pantry but I do when I need to like now. I'm 64 and have multiple serious health issues. I live on ssi less than 1,000 a month. The ss COLA we got the cut my food benefits, I only got 123 dollars now I only get 100. So the system is rigged against us. It's ok to go to food pantry. Keep your nasty opinions to yourself
Don't listen to the hate, no one knows your story or your hardship. They have nothing better to do❤❤❤❤
This is true. I been using the food pantries for a year now because things just went from worst to past worst. When i started to use the pantry i cried. I was handed a box of food and looked in the box and saw things i could NOT use (Our house hold is a NO soy house hold. Almost everything has Soy oil in it now that is pantry stable. We have other food allergies that can cause hospital stays in house.). I was not given a choice of what was handed to me and the 211 number told me this is where i HAVE to get food. I learned by word of mouth other churches that gave out food to anyone. Some of these churches allow you to pick out food. I love the fact i can get produce at these other places. With the food allergies it is wonderful when i can get fresh produce to cook with or make a jam out of. This week end my mother in law was over. I had saved some thin cut ribeye for her to make into a bulgogi meal. Was not a very big package but they were able to eat it for lunch and have left overs for dinner. I finished off some left overs from Christmas dinner. I showed my mother in law a rib roast i got from a pop up food give away recently. I do not have any idea how to cook it so she said she will cut it up and make some Korean dish next time she comes over. It was something i would never purchase because it was regularly $46. But i was super happy to get it because my partner and daughter eat red meat. If i don't know how to cook it my mother in law usually does. I got 2 packages of ribs in summer and she came over and chopped them up and made a marinade to put them in to keep in frig. Her, my daughter and partner enjoyed a good lunch the rest was in frig for me to cook as needed for next few days.
I try not to talk to some people at pantry. There are people that will tell you that you do not belong there. I had someone tell me my car was to nice. I drive a 2002..... They were in a 2023. They made a huge stink and were super loud about it. Pointing me out and yelling about how i was keeping food from those who really need it. Finally some guy told her You have a new car why are you here. He then told her my car was older than the hills. Which it is. I have seen Many who just cut line. I have seen older people get into pushing and punching matches over someone cutting. Things just shock me over what they do. Most pantries i go to you have to start lining up at 6am and they do not give out numbers or start until 12 noon or 3pm. Getting food is a full time job. I like the car lines more than standing in line because it is harder for people to jump the line. Omg People lie like no tomorrow and do not care if they are caught.
We have fresh food boxes given out and over the last year they finally got some of the places listed on the food bank website. You drive up and open your trunk and they give you a box that is suppose to have $20 of fresh food. It usually has a 3 pound bag of potatoes, 3 pound bag of apples, a bag of lentils or some other bean, then it has random other items like eggplant, grapes, oranges, bell peppers, squash and other veggies that are usually in season. I added up cost of the box and generally it is under $20 value but it is fresh produce and i love fresh so i am very great full for those boxes.
@@cajunspice48 I live in Ontario Canada. I will be 66 in March, I utilize 2 foodbanks a month here, we don't get to pick our food, but what I don't need or use goes right back into our neighbour pantries..
I’ve followed you for awhile. I suffered 2 strokes , a heart attack, a broken elbow and fell down a flight of stairs in March breaking my femur and having to have emergency surgery. I had to stay in a rehab for 3 weeks and then live with my daughter until I could do for myself again.
Therefore I list my job and trying to live on 1200 a month with rent taking a little less than half. A huge power bill that takes almost the rest. I was accustomed to grabbing food without looking at prices. Now I get what I can from dollar tree and thank the lord for the foodbank. We have the right to have food so far. Hang in there Carolina! Ignore the haters
@@juliezaro8104 I'm so sorry for your struggles! Hang in there as well!
I utilized a food bank after my husband died. I have 1 daughter but we needed the help at that time in our life. When things got better for us we returned the help we received by donating food. My daughter was young but after our troubled times we would shop for the food together and at times my grade schooler would use some of her allowance. A great learning experience for the both of us!
@@jillhogan2611 That's Awesome. I wish more people would do videos on the helping people and showing how to give back. These titles like (food haul) from pantry feels like a flaunting agenda. Bless you for showing your daughter 👍😃
My neighbor’s sister in law volunteers at a food bank, and there’s often so much left over food, that if someone doesn’t take it, it’ll get thrown out. My neighbor often picks up the food, and shares it with me, because she can’t fit it all in her pantry and freezer. I’m happy to take it, and save it from the landfill.
Ignore them/ AND BLOCK THEM. They don’t belong on your channel. You are being totally upfront and helping many people understand.
You are doing a wonderful service by educating folks on how to use what you get to the best advantage. Keep it up!
You are an example of what this country benefits from - motivated, honest, hard working, resourceful, kind hearted, responsible, inventive and transparent. You constantly help me in so many ways. I'm twice your age, yet you teach me. Thank you Carolina for being you. We love you.
Thank you so much Linda!!
@@mamabairds she’s absolutely right, I can’t say it better 💕
Not to mention, you've used your abilities to break down and make large amounts of food to help your community also! You're sharing what you get, to help people who don't have the space, knowledge or abilities to Make that food themselves! I'm glad you make these comeback videos to address people accusing you of being selfish or taking from others. You're not doing anything wrong, you're keeping your family fed and sharing with others. I love that about you!
I appreciate that! Thank you!!
Caroline, I just watched your video of people shaming you for utilizing resources. You do not need to justify yourself! You have given so much through your videos of how you preserve the food you get and given so much back……shame on those people who think you have not helped thousands of people to utilize the same resourses you have taught them to use through your channel. Hi five! I love your channel and what you have taught me! Thank you
People are so judgmental. I’m so sorry you have those comments coming in. How awful! You give to the community. You are a giving person! You do what you need to do to feed & support your sweet family. The food banks are in place to help people. Way to go mama Baird! Love your videos. Keep up the good work. Bless you and yours. Happy New Year!!!!
Thank you for understanding and for the love! Happy New Year to you!
Hey girl! Don’t let haters get to you! Their opinions mean nothing! You are doing you and we all love you! Everything in this country is BEYOND expensive. Housing in NJ crazy. Paying $1850 plus utilities for a 1 bedroom apartment with no amenities is beyond what some people make in a month. My son makes $85,000 a year, lives in that apartment, has one 12 year old son who lives with his mom, has a company vehicle, and between the rent, utilities, child support, food etc, he is struggling. It’s insane, so keep being your beautiful self and doing what you have to do for you and your family! Happy New Year! ❤🎉
I donate food to a local food pantry through my church and it makes me happy if it helps families like yours. I am blessed that I don’t need to use a food pantry and am grateful that I can bless others but you never know when anyone or myself may be in that situation…especially considering the future of our country.
I'm so amazed by you! You show people not to be afraid to get help if they need it. I had never needed assistance but after serious health issues, I couldnt afford food. I saw one of your videos and it gave me the courage to go to the food bank. I am fortunate that I'm back on my feet but because of you I didnt go hungry. Sadly, in todays world more people than ever are working full time and still not be able to afford food. You are a strong, caring person and many people are grateful for your content. Sending hugs!
That makes me so happy to hear! Thank you for sharing your story!
A couple years ago, we found ourselves needing to utilize the food bank and some church food pantries. We own a home & have two nicer vehicles however, our circumstances changed drastically when my husband got transferred 100 miles away (one way) for work and gas was $7-$7.50 a gallon here. Our fuel bill increased 2 fold so our grocery money had to fill in. I felt guilty going because of how we “looked” and driving up in my nicer car but seeing your videos really helped me to realize that I shouldn’t care. Only we knew our situation and that’s all that mattered. What we couldn’t use, we shared with our community. Do what you need to do for your family. There’s a lot of judgmental people out there but that’s a them problem and not a you problem.
You go girl. Survival skills are important and teaching giving. You are an amazing mom.
I think I have told you before that as a food bank volunteer, I saw that there was so much waste from grocery stores that needs to get utilized for something other than a landfill. I am glad to see stuff put to good use instead of wasted.....Everybody has struggles and nobody should judge others for any choices that they make to save money. I have made a lot of sacrifices over the years to get where I am today. I think a lot of people at times in my life thought I was a bit crazy, but I did what I had too to secure my comfortable retirement that I am living now.....
You are also doing the right thing to be there for your kids while they are young. Too many people want the babysitter to raise their kids instead of being there to parent them. The kids are not gonna remember how much money there was, but whether Mom and Dad were around for them.
As far as youtube, please keep on teaching and educating others. I have learned a few good cooking tricks from you myself. Those that don't like your content should just mind their own business and stop watching. Don't they have anything better to do with their life than complain about others? I know I am too busy actually living life to sit and watch stuff just to criticize the person presenting it. I guess some people need to actually "get a life".
I love watching your channel. I'm so sorry you have to explain yourself to these small minded people. You are an amazing person just remember the people that leave these comments have to cut others down to make themselves feel good. Keep doing what your doing I support you 100 %.
I really appreciate that!! ❤️
im thrilled and profoundly happy for those people that never need help and are able to look down on everyone else. id love to shake their hand and give them a little tweek on their cheek in congratulations with my unclean hand that couldnt afford toilet paper, soap and water. homelessness went up by 18.5 percent last year and 50 percent of them work, but they have a job so no food for them. i could go on about the odious state of our union but suffice it to say that those on their pedestal are probably one of the 65 percent of us that dont have 500 put away for emergencies or one of the hundreds of thousands defaulting on mortgages, credit cards, auto loans, medical debt and the list goes on. yr doing everything right carolina and im especially impressed how yr teaching yr kids. food is a human right.....happy new year!
We live on one income and before my husband lost his job of 8 years I was still going to the food bank because he worked his ass off and we had to buy food with cash and it was hard to make it stretch with a family of six people! I remember having to always put food back at the store bc I went over my budget. Until I started going to the food bank it changed our life for the good! We was able to stretch our food into the next month! It’s so important people understand the concept that there should be no entitlement of going to the food bank and being a working family or an elderly living on a disability whatever the case might be. Would they rather us all not work and collect benefits from everywhere?? That’s something to think about. Before I was the lady with kids at register having to pick out food items to put back and dealing with rude people rolling their eyes at the checkout line. I would be in tears 😭 sometimes. The food bank has blessed us and I will forever be grateful❤️ and I see that precious fur baby looking at you knowing your upset that was so cute 🥰
Carolina.You are an amazing lady.I have used food banks in the past when my four boys were younger.(We were the working poor.)
I was kind of embarrassed but also so grateful.There was not a lot of fresh veggies or fruit back then.We didn't care;we were so thankful for macaroni,beans and even Liptons Bigfoot soup!Anything to feed my boys was so appreciated.
Thank you for your vlogs that educate and try to take the stigma of using food banks.
I appreciate you and your family.I love seeing your hauls and what you cook with the food!
I remember seeing you and your children volunteer at the food bank.
Sending you love from Canada. 🇨🇦
@@ColleenLind thank you so much!
I was at a church pantry. Our local food bank does pop ups also. It goes to this one church once a month. It was the middle of summer. I was sitting by a teenage boy tht had ridden his bike to get food. The oreacher asked him to help set up food. I put a 5 dollar bill in his bag. We went through the line. I told him to get whatever he wanted and i would help him take it to his house. He looked very grateful. He rode his bike and i followed him. He lived close to me. When we got there several little kids came out and his Mom. He told me several times Thanks. He deserved the money for helping his family. I belive in karma. If you help someone from your heart without expecting anything in return then it will come back to you.
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I’m sorry people are so rude. We are struggling as a73/65 year old couple . I went to my Dr as I was so down. She talked to the lady in the HR dept. The came to talk to me. She explained a problem that our hospital has. Every 2 weeks on Saturday someone delivers Milk ,Eggs ,Butter, Bread,Yogurt,Cottage Cheese,Ground Beef,Fresh Vegetables,(very nice ham for thanksgiving), Cheese,. This time I got real butter as well as avocado oil. It helps so much. They deliver it to our door. We get onion’s sweet potatoes,white potatoes celery, seasonings. So helpful For January 2025 we have been notified
House Insurance went up $800 .. no we will pay $2400 a year!
Med Blue RX went up $43 for each of us a month now we will pay $147 each a month
Our car insurance was $1200 yearly now it it $1886.
Our BC/BS went from $1305 monthly to $1664.
House taxes were$1500 last year now that are $1900. So we couldn’t buy food before all this so we have been dumpster diving. At our age this shouldn’t be happening! Yes we have a food bank but the people assisting are people that I went to school with. So I’m to embarrassed to go in. The horrible feeling is when u are hungry. We planted a garden this year. God has helped us stay positive . One example was a farmer across the road from us GAVE us a 400 pound hog. He raises them and he had 15 that were just getting old. So he replaced them with new and took others to the locker to be processed. He gave us that! We pay for processing which is under$400. The hog dressed out at 286 pounds! Thank God and this family for help us! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I am a former food bank user. At that time in my life i needed the help. Now that I am able, I donate to our locate food bank. One source of donations is our gardening. We plant the garden full, more than is needed by the family, and donate excess produce to the food bank. Carolina be proud of yourself for providing for your family.
@@jeanz3622 that's so Aeesome...I love seeing people use the pantry in times of need and then giving back in their own way to pantries 👍WE need videos on that 👍
I worked as a freaking interior designer at a wealthy firm and my lunches were all food bank food. Everyone else went out to eat while I sat there eating my lunches. Between high rent, bills, a little school debt, and gas money trust me it was my only choice to keep moving along. I highly doubt anyone I worked with could have guessed, in fact, they always told me my food looked super good.
I love your videos and that you are debunking the myths about foodbanks. You should absolutely use any resource the is open to you if you need it. I am sorry people feel the need to write abusive comments and put you down.
i work in and manage a food pantry as part of a food bank network. it is a matter of balance. She is correct that in particular the fresh food is at end of days. It is Dept of Ag provided and also shelf pulls from local retailers. I would rather give it out then to see it end in a dumpster. We pipeline the damaged fresh produce to people to feed their animals or to organizations that compost. I would rather give it there then to see it end of in dumpsters. My experience over 15 front line years, is that, yes, there will be a few hoarders, scammers, but they are few and far between. People of means may try it but they tend to very quickly self select out. Also keep in mind, some of this food is commodity and it is price support for farmers as well.
I'm 81 yrs old. Our $2100. income is only from Social Security. Our mortgage is nearly $1200. So that $900. has to cover electric, phone w/internet, garbage, and food. Also extra medical expenses, incontinence supplies, repairs, clothing and shoes, cleaning equipment and any help needed for things we can no longer physically do. We have "Extra Help" for most of my prescriptions, hubby has VA, we get SNAP of $25/mth, we get some discounts on electric bills but we still need the food bank, and other community resources. Happy to share with the working poor who have expenses for car, insurance, proper "working clothes" for themselves and children, child care, etc. 😊
@@brandilowe1916 I agree. I volunteer at a pantry. I think the point here is that she is saving her money not for bills, schooling or improving their home life but for Thrift shopping etc...she is making a very good chunk of money off utube and the Agenda to use the food pantry feels dishonest. She has tainted the topic of why people should go to a food bank. I read a comment from a lady who use to go for a bit because she needed it. Her situation improved and she and her daughter now shop at grocery stores and buy food for the pantries...That's Great Content 😃
Girl you do what you feel fit for YOUR FAMILY!
everyone is having a hard time.all prices are so high.
God bless you and say what you have too.
Happy new year!
I agree with you 100%,
You do whatever you have to do to help your family
Keep these great videos coming
Much love and hugs
Happy new year hun
You are so kind! Happy New Year to you too!
Hey Mama B! It’s been a while since I have commented on your channel. I must comment now.
That you feel you must produce this video is a testament to the level of ignorance this country is facing now. You provide an excellent resource to everyone needing to use the food banks. You teach us what to do with bulk items. Just because it was “free” doesn’t mean it has to be band and Boring! Again, you teach us how to use the food to it’s best advantage. For this and for simply being you, thank you!
Hey you haters out there, I weigh 80 pounds and a little frail. I would love to be healthy and beautiful like Mama Baird! May what you give out return to you ten fold. Think about that haters!
As for the amazing people supporting this incredible woman while she helps many. I wish for you the same wish with so much joy to overflow it into the world around you.
Happy New Year every one!
From my heart to your heart Mama B Thank You 💛
@@jensherman2771 aw thank you such much!!
I Work as well and the food bank helps me and my children a Lot.Especially with the vegetables and fruit don't worry about Others.Just enjoy your life and your family the food is Free.Some don't even like shopping at a food Bank.Again Happy new year to you and your Family.
I was so impressed how you handled this!! You go girl! Those haters are the ones who should feel ashamed.
My daughter is single but works hard at a school which as you know not the best pay in this country for teaching children (what a shame America) I've told her to check food banks in order to be able for what may come.
In the state we live rent(oh my) can make you cry. Groceries 😢.
You do you for you and your family. You would get criticized if you weren't doing what you do always flack. Keep sharing and teaching us.
Happy new year 🎉
“Humans were not meant to live this way.” Yes!! Work, sleep, barely survive, work, sleep, barely survive… rinse, repeat. This is not natural.
I worked 34 years at the same job until I became disabled. I am now almost 69 and I QUALIFY for the food bank. Do those folks who try to shame you think that this is what I wanted for my retirement? The government who caused this inflation is now letting me have food that other people won't buy. I say let the "judgers" choke on the food they can afford. In the meantime, I will continue watching your videos and being grateful for them. Have a wonderful New Year, and blessings for your family! ❤❤
Such crazy viewer out there if you can't nice just move on down the road and I will pray that those who say nasty things never have to be with food etc. I one who been bless all of my 79 years not ever needing help but I know many who have had to have help including some of my family .
🎉🎉🎉🎉Happy New Year to you ❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Ya what she said
I use two and am on disability. Gas here is $3.29/gallon. Eggs a few weeks ago were 8.99 for 18. Two chicken breasts yesterday were 10.00. I can’t afford to breathe let alone function. I have a system that works. We can, only eat at home, feed children, clothe children and still try to garden to produce food for when it gets tough. People love to pass judgement, meanwhile a lot of ppl are up to their eyeballs in debt just trying to feed their families. Many people are putting their grocery purchases on credit cards and can’t pay them off. I’ve been a long time subscriber and I get a lot of shame, ridicule etc for going…yet, im still going. ❤️ you.
You are smart and creative and a loving person. All of humanity is it's brothers keeper. You are caring in enough to put your actions into actions. Ignore the people who have to knock the rest of us down.
I had three jobs and none of them paid enough to make it. Back then food stamps at 47.00 a month had to do. Food bank would have been a blessing. My point is you don’t know what everyone is going threw… different situations even for the working people. Be kind and understanding people. We all need compassion❤
With all of the food waste, I’m appalled at the judgmental and ignorant comments. I’m so glad you addressed the comments and educated us! I appreciate your content, and your sharing about your experiences.
People never know what situation they can one day be in. I know so many people who are two income households who have to use the food bank. People should never feel shame. Times are harder than ever right now. I applaud you for doing what you need to do for your family.
You shouldn’t have to explain yourself. Haters will be haters. You do what helps your family. You are awesome teaching your kids how to survive if they ever need it. Happy New Year to your family.
Don't let these uneducated and ridiculous people bring you down Carolina! I've watched you for the past few years now and always enjoyed how welcoming, kind and supportive you are. You've been very honest along the way with your family's situation and why you need to use the local food banks. There isn't any shame in it at all! The shamefulness comes from the wretched greed with these horrendous grocery prices in every state and that unless someone has been in a situation where they have little options for food, they are just not empathic to someone else's concerns. I live in Portland, Oregon and milk is $4 a gallon here too. Everything is very expensive and only going up in price in my area. My husband owns his own business and I work full time with a great paying job. But, I still have to shop all the bargains at multiple stores and try to keep our food budget reasonable. I also cook the majority of our food from scratch and have for years. We have a 17 yr old daughter that's a Senior in high school. She wants to go to college out of state but we simply don't have that extra money and want her to be saddled with huge student loans. I did that rodeo too and it's so crippling!!! We have convinced her to go to our local community college for 2 years and get the basic required classes over with that can transfer to a larger school later if she decides to do that. We haven't need to use a food panty or food bank yet. We donate to our local one during the year. But I'm so grateful that you have been teaching people not only how to cook things that might typically receive from a food box but making it fun and an adventure. As well as truly expressing the fact that is absolutely okay to ask for help!! Keep it up!! I think it would be a nice idea for you to maybe do a monthly interview with fellow volunteers and staff at the food bank if you can. It wouldn't help all the haters to see the light but I think it's a great way to show people what it's really like on the other side and how much it helps your community. I know you've done that in the past but maybe time to do something like that again. Happy and Blessed New Year to you and your family!
That was really well written and said! Thank you! I'm glad your daughter is going to go to community college first! Great idea! I also think another volunteer video is due! Tha is for all your love and support! Happy new year to you
It is so sad that people feel the need to judge others. They don't know you, your finances, etc. 🙄 You keep doing you, Carolina! Happy New Year!
People are just plain mean sometimes.Shame on the people leaving such mean comments
People are never happy. Keep doing what you think is best for.your family.
Preach it sister. You are so right.
Amen nothing wrong being a wife and mother period.
Some people just love to hate...I think you are awesome, and taking care of your family. Groceries are expensive, and everyone has to eat!! Keep on keeping on!!! You are in the right for sure!!
I'm so sorry you have to hear such ridiculous garbage. Hugs to you and much love.
What would they expect you to do, dumpsterdive? It's ridiculous to see how much good food gets thrown in the dumpster! These people are just jealous, because they do not have the guts to go there. We do not have food banks in my Country and I really could've used the help 16 years ago when my Husband died unexpectedly and I was left to take care of 2 small children without a support system or any resources. I just thank God for carrying us through. Never feel bad about using the resources available to take care of your family. God bless you all.❤
I dumpster dive
I think that they are just jealous. You are the best! ❤️
Its sad for all the judgment. Keep your spirits up and you are the momma for the children to have a happy life. Do whats best for your family. I agree with you the prices are killing many of us. Bills dont stop!!
My husband is retired and I'm working 35 hours a week as a caregiver. And we are making ended meet. We are short every week. We ho to a once month food bank and 3 to 4 food pantry/church ruined food pantry. And it helps us out. Right now with the food prices are crazy. We are in debt. Just trying to pay for everything is hard for us. Your doing what you have to do for you and your family. Keep up your head up. And keeping on doing what your doing for your family. I really appreciate everything you do. And to help other people out. With what you do with food pantry stuff and how do make freezer meals to.❤❤❤❤
It's a shame that you continue to have to deal with ignorant commenters. Yes, they do lack empathy. You don't need to have to explain, but I'm sure you've helped a lot of people by explaining. Bless you and your family, and I wish you a great 2025!
Thank you for explaining to people that you don't have to accept shame. You are much younger than me and I am proud of you for being a Mom first and making things work however you need to to raise your children. The Good Will shopping for Christmas was great ❤
Thank you so much! I'm glad you liked the Goodwill shopping!
Honey, sometimes you just have to learn to be okay with other people being wrong. Block the haters and keep doing what you're doing; showing us ideas for using the foods you get from the foodbank is another way you give back to the community. You don't owe anybody explanations about anything you do or don't do to care for your family and community. Much love!
To those people out there. IF YOU CANT SAY ANYTHING NICE. DONT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL.
Amen
So many people are diligently working and are not paid a living wage, CEO pay is at a record high, profits are at record high.
It's so odd that it has been acceptable for companies keeping employees compensation low enough that they cannot meet their needs, and then blame the workers for needing help. it's rare to find a CEO who takes pride in sharing the wealth in order to have employees have a living wage (which SHOULD be the norm).
Thank you for showing people what to do with surprise food.
I grew up with food insecurity that was augmented by gardening, canning, hunting, fishing as well as government cheese, spam, butter (the 1960s, no food banks then).
People today need the kind of community you are building online!
Carolina (Mama Baird), love watching you and your family's channel. I just want you to know that you don't owe anyone anything, except for your duty to your family's wellbeing. Shame on anyone who feels you're doing anything wrong with providing healthy food and an adequate diet for you and your family. I commend you for sharing ways to extend your family's finances and stretching your budget each month. I will continue to watch and share your videos. So keep them coming. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Martie W from Florida ❤
@@martielewiggins2885 thank you so much!
Thank you for your channel, I enjoy your content. People can be so mean; you do you! Hope the new year is blessed !
I appreciate that, thank you!
I admire your resourcefulness and think people need to mind their own business.
Amen
I want you to utilize EVERY resource that is available to you. If you can put away anything, just as much as you can, you need to do that. There is no shame in using resources that are available. What IS shameful is how many people in our country NEED it! I am one of the lucky ones and can afford to shop for food, but even me, leaves the store and says "what the holy s@$t!" Love you!
I think that like you said more people are in need today. Thank goodness for communities that have food banks. The cost of everything is so high, I personally think people need to use the resources that are available.
You are doing an awesome job !! Happy New Year !!! Don't listen to negative people !!
Thank you so much! ❤️
You go Carolina! You are part of the working poor, as am I. You do what you need to do to care for your family. You are supported here! ~ Chris ❤
Thanks for your support, Chris!
It isn't anyone's business what you do. Too many trolls out there trying to tell people how to live. Love your videos and don't be afraid to block idiots.
Yes 🎉🎉🎉Happy New Year to you ❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Happy New Year!!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉 I just wanna tell you I enjoy all of your videos. I have been watching you for several years now. You have been resourceful And I never felt like you were taking advantage of anything. I’ve watched you thrift shopping, never living above your means and giving back to your community. Stay being you. This world needs more people like you ❤️❤️❤️❤️.
Thank you so much!! That really means a lot! Happy New Year to you as well!
Were retired existing only on Social Security and my Disability but still make too much money to qualify for our State run food bank. And we do need help. Corporate greed has driven prices up so high that affordable living seems to be a fantasy. We've been able to squeeze by using faith based food banks that do not require proof of income. But it's very frightening that the government expects us to survive on so little while the price of absolutely everything continues to rise.
@@kittykatz3518 Hello, I don't know where you live. Have you tried calling 211 in your area? Call them frequently, you'll be surprised at the different places they disclose. Your area must have food banks for seniors and those with disabilities that will deliver to you. Blessings.
Keep your chin up sweetie. You’re doing an amazing job raising your children and inspiring us as well. I volunteered at a food bank too, until then I had a certain idea of who a food pantry client was. All walks of life need help. I go too. I can’t afford to buy everything we need anymore. People need to stop being nasty and judgmental. Sending love to you from NJ.
I appreciate you, thank you for the love and support!
Totally agree with you. Everything is skyrocketing. Love your doggies.
Don’t let the haters bother you, they never know when they will have to go to a food bank, Groceries are so expensive, keep going and doing your best❤
Retired and we qualify for the government funded food bank. We also utilize the food bank that uses expired food from stores. We give any extras to our children with young families who are struggling to get all the bills paid. You are right that it is so hard to make ends meet these days
Happy New Year to you & your family.
I understand your frustration is high & I don't blame you. I love your channel. I've learned so much from watching it. I support you in using your food bank. There will always be people out there who criticize. I know at times it's hard to shake it off, but pick yourself back up & keep on going. You are a blessing to so many of us who watch your channel! ❤
Hello, Dont every let what anyone says ever bother you.... You are making a difference to so many... that is what you are doing... and always be so proud of that.... It is so sad... that people are saying that you should not be using the food bank... that is so sad.... because you are so honest and letting people understand why there is a food bank... You are AMAZING... Thank you for caring and doing what you do!
Thank you so much! That means a lot!
You go girl, educate those people who have nothing better then to sit behind their computers and judge you and others! Happy New Year's ❤❤❤
God bless us all. We all do what we need to. Don’t let judgement make you sad
How dare people judge others for utilizing a free resource if it wasn’t for food banks some months when my children were small I honestly don’t know how I would have feed them. Thank you for all you do.
My family used a food bank many years ago and we both worked. It helped us afford utilities, medications, car repairs....it just helps you get by to not worry about food
We’re lucky that we have food banks.
I did not understand at first but after you explained it I totally get it , and if you need it and it helps you afford books at the book fair and extras it is nobody else’s business
Agreed! There are so many different factors to visiting a food bank. They are all so different!
Thank You
Besides that your teaching them , how to properly store what you get from the food bank so it last longer !!
I say F all those folks picking on you. It's such a tough time right now. I stay at home with my 2 littles, while husband works, and I think exactly like you do. I think it's fabulous that you're able to utilize local resources...I've checked and my local food banks request proof of food stamps or income to receive, but if you fall into that "working poor" category, then you appear too wealthy to receive. I'd love to use the resource, but I'm also happy for those that do! I think you're exactly right about people having their own ideas of what "needy" looks like...
I used to feel bad going to the drive thru food bank. After the first time I saw more brand new vehicles mine was one of the oldest cars there , I realized times are tight every body needs help. Plus I share what I get with others who could also use it.
Love watching you & the honesty you bring to TH-cam. Keep being strong, and hate you are getting so much flack. Hoping 2025 is better for you.
Girl, I know how you feel I’m 52. I’m on disability. I barely make anything with me and my daughter both working by the time the bills are paid. There’s nothing left and I also have to go to the food bank. Life is not easy right now for anybody and you’re right it doesn’t make any sense or make anything easier when people are attacking each other so do what you need to do for your family and other people should worry about what they need to do for theirs. Love your videos take care of you and your family and God bless y’all.
Girl, you know I want names... post their names!! You don't deserve to be spoken to like that! Thank you though, for being the better person and trying to educate the ignorant.
You're doing what you need to do your family. You don't owe anyone an explanation. I enjoy your content and always look forward to your videos. Happy New Year.
Thank you so much!
I'm also glad you cook meals for your kids instead of feeding them fast food in the back of SUV. You sit down for dinner each night. YOU have a REAL family.
Thank you!
I love what you do. Keep shining your light!
People are having no money left after bills
Your ❤ is always Kind + Caring Cook alot of ur meals Thank you so much HAPPY NEW YEAR🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank you so much!!
Love your ideas for giving back! You are teaching your kids empathy and giving. Shaming in any way is so unkind.
We try to teach our kids the importance of giving back!
I am so mad about this- I cant even put my thoughts into words- I appreciate what you do SO much. People giving you flack must have it so easy they never needed any help ever- must be nice. I too am the working poor- I make good money but am a single mother of 4 in a state that doesnt really enforce child support collection. I appepeciate your videos and the way you are smashing the negative stigmatism of utilizing food banks- Thank you.
🎉Happy New Year to you & the fam🎉
Thank you so much my friend! I hope you have an amazing new year!
Girl I want to thank you and your family for all you do please don't pay attention to all those people they are just mad because they are not doing anything to help anyone so you keep doing the good your doing for so many people I love you and your family
You keep doing what you’re doing ! I admire you … you’re doing the best you can. Sounds like there are lots of people who think they can criticize others, don’t know the whole story and ought to mind their own business!
You are sensible and teach great ideas in preserving food,thank you
I appreciate that!
Hi! I have watched your channel for awhile now and you have taught me things and have helped me ty 🙏💜Don't listen to the haters they are just miserable and need someone to bring down with them you do what I need to to help your family .🙏💜I was wondering I have a lot of bag beans and I have no idea how to cook them and you please tell me or do a video on using them please I am lost.ty and God bless💜🙏
Some people who say stupid things are jealous of you. Food Banks are there for everyone. In this economy, food banks are becoming overwhelmed with people needing help. I think instead of complaining about what Mama Baird is doing going to the food bank. Why don't you go to the food bank and volunteer and see what is actually happening in your community?
Mama Baird keep doing what you are doing. I love your amazing content.
Ignore the meanies!! You are an amazing woman! Good wife and mom. If they can't say something nice don't say anything at all. Keep being you!! Hugs friend 😊 Happy New Year 🎉
I appreciate the kind words! Happy New Year!
I worked almost 35 years of my life before I became disabled. I have survived cancer, a stroke and a brain tumor.. I have had 58 surgeries in my lifetime and I am 59 and I have another surgery coming up as I have a cataract.. I am probably going to have a few more.. my medical needs and the equipment I have had to purchase ( walkers, shower chair, bed rails and a new bed and mattress) makes it NECESSARY for me to have to utilize my local food bank, where I can get plenty of fresh produce and meat because where I live a lb of ground beef is 10$.. if I don’t use the fb then I have to choose buying the food or buying my meds… that’s not what senior citizens should have to choose
Omg… things are so expensive now days! The food bank helps you when you can’t make ends meet. People need to stop. They don’t know your circumstances!! Love you Carolina❤️
You are helping people! Keep doing what you’re doing!! Ignore the negativity.
Yes I utilize the food bank to afford other things... things like therapy for my kids, dentist, car repair and home maintenance.... I "shouldn't" need food banks but it helps me. Grateful and hopeful I can turn things around with the help.