comparing myself to others and it sucks.

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  • @NRizki
    @NRizki  4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Hello! Today’s video will be a bit different because, while me sharing myself doing my daily activities, this time, I also want to share about something that I’ve been feeling lately.
    ps: my english may make you cringe
    I hope you don't mind 🙏 :D

    • @Halo.H
      @Halo.H 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so beautiful and your honestly is amazing, pray to God sweetheart, he understands and listens, he will always be there for you. I am in a similar position, but my prayers and duas are keeping me going. It will be fine. You are loved and I'm watching you all the way from the U.K, see how much you are admired and loved. Allah swt most raheem and Kareem thinks you are awesome. Take care ❤

    • @SoloSoyUnAngel
      @SoloSoyUnAngel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi! Thank you for this video. You're right. We don't have to compare ourselves with other people, only with ourselves in the past. And if your present yourself is better than you was in the past, it is great. And my English is just like yours))))

    • @Beaut_Beau
      @Beaut_Beau 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You seem like a wonderful, calm, creative person to me. I think your videos are delightful, peaceful and yes, insiprational too as it shows many people another way of living they may not be experiencing or have wondered about.
      Please don't think about what other people are thinking too much, what you are sharing with us all is valuable and also enjoyable, so thank you very much ^_^
      From your Australian fan hehe

    • @fimearscarba
      @fimearscarba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      when are you posting again, I really love your content

  • @des5634
    @des5634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    "If the grass looks greener on the other side I should stop staring. Instead I should try to water the one I am standing on."

  • @hahnsfamilie
    @hahnsfamilie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    "Sometimes it can be hard to find the line between inspiration and envy".
    Many of us facing the same situation. So do I. However, I found you as the "inspiration". Thank you for sharing this inspirative video.

  • @t.k2014
    @t.k2014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    There are the dark side of positive vibes when it's too much, it can be toxic. When you refuse to acknowledge it and masking your true feelings just will make things worse...I've been there too. I remember self awareness being a big step, so well done there!

    • @Swatioo10
      @Swatioo10 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Completely agree 👍

  • @ju1098
    @ju1098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    this video was lovely! and I especially love the quote at the end "if the grass looks greener on the other side... maybe I should stop staring, instead, I'll try to water the one I am standing on." something I think everyone can benefit from :) x

  • @zsofia_nagy
    @zsofia_nagy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Thank you for being real, it makes me realize that I’m not alone with negative thoughts and feelings. Let’s improve together❤️

    • @angelasari37
      @angelasari37 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me either. Feel the same way..

    • @nielalis6971
      @nielalis6971 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too. Sending love ❤️

    • @zsofia_nagy
      @zsofia_nagy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nielalis6971 thank you so much. I haven’t been feeling very good lately, so this helped

    • @eyachebbi8370
      @eyachebbi8370 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

  • @KristinaMBuffetti
    @KristinaMBuffetti 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I am only half-way through watching this video but I felt the strong need to stay the following to you... Please, please don't feel insecure about your videos and don't compare yourself to others. Your videos are gorgeous and they bring me, and many others out there, real joy. You do you and as the famous saying goes: “Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.” by Dr. Seuss.
    Thank you for posting!!

  • @michellekraeva4710
    @michellekraeva4710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hello, I wanted to add a comment too. I recently discovered your channel and it very quickly became a part of my daily life. It brings me a sense of calm in all the chaos. It won't be an exaggeration if I said that watching your videos has become a form if meditation for me. Thank you for choosing to share videos with the Internet and, please, be happy with whatever you do 🙂

  • @AHumbleGift
    @AHumbleGift 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I think most people struggle with some form of insecurity. Some people are just better at hiding it than others. The thing I remind myself is that people have different journey in life. Although it's not always easy, but I try not to compare myself to other people. Instead, I compare myself now to myself in the past and be happy as to how far I've come. Your food looks colorful and delicious. 😋 Although I don't know you personally, but I can tell that you are kind person. Please keep up the great content 😀

  • @tseve
    @tseve 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I got so excited when I saw you’d posted a new video. I’m sorry you’re feeling this way. I often feel the same when I spend too much time on social media or TH-cam. If I start to feel bad about myself, I tend to take a break from social media/TH-cam ect. It helps me to regroup my feelings and feel grounded again. I’d also like to mention that I LOVE your videos, you’ve never made me feel bad feelings, if anything your videos have brought so much joy into my life. They make me happy. You’re beautiful, you are enough and so is your content. X

  • @Ryourinacom
    @Ryourinacom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hi Rizki-san 💕 greetings from another Indonesian who lives in Japan too ☺️ I just want to say that you are so inspiring. I love your humbleness in each of your videos. Your lovely channel become my inspiration to start my own channel too ❤️ please keep posting and “Semangaaat”

  • @mariannamorton4691
    @mariannamorton4691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video, I’m American and where I live is so rough.
    Violence and murders everyday in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
    Your video gives me peace and gives me hope for a more peaceful life for me and my kids. So don’t think you are envious, I’m more envious of you. Thanks for the cooking, I been trying new things to eat. My parents are immigrants of Brazil and to them this city doesn’t scare them but trying new foods is scarier to them. 🧐 anyhow don’t be sad and depressed, you are living a dream life to others.

  • @HaveaGreatDayEveryone
    @HaveaGreatDayEveryone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When I watch your videos, I’m reminded of how life is beautiful in everyday ways. A walk or a stop in a bookstore usually breaks my creative block!

  • @alkamair
    @alkamair 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so beautiful. Your messages really get me and make me realize how I should stop comparing myself to others😭

  • @Godsgirl6.30.23
    @Godsgirl6.30.23 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for being so honest, you inspire me and I love your videos. I think everyone goes through this, but don’t ever forget that you are so wonderful too, being YOU makes ppl so happy. Thank you for bringing peace and happiness to my heart ♥️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @111-w9d7y
    @111-w9d7y 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Please do not compare yourself to
    others in life or online. Neither live
    up to the expectations of other
    people regardless of who they are:
    family, relatives, neighbours or friends. In life there are too many
    people telling others you should
    or must do this ..... or.......that.
    But always follow legal rules.
    Just follow your own intuition.
    Only you know what is good for
    you and what you want to do -
    things that make you content, happy
    and bring you joy. I enjoy your nice
    videos very much with the delightful
    footage. They portray a wonderful
    sense of peace for me. Wishing
    you all the very best and kindest
    greetings from Switzerland.

  • @risainoue7847
    @risainoue7847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your honesty in this video made me feel less alone in the insecurities I feel in my life when I compare where I stand to where others are. I think it really is a practice to remind oneself to include the word "yet" into ones vocabulary. "I am not there yet" "I am not good at it yet". And also to not wait for a certain moment or achievement to be proud of oneself and enjoy.

  • @user-sr8yi2hf2g
    @user-sr8yi2hf2g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i really loved the video!! I struggle a lot with comparing myself to others especially on, youtube :c but its refreshing to know that others feel the same way and to hear some encouraging words

  • @nomadenmami
    @nomadenmami 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This vlog resonates with me so much. We are the biggest enemy of ourselves, especially by comparing our-whatever-it-is to others. Up until this point I still struggle with that too, and my mantra that helps me a lot is similar to yours "The grass is not greener in the other side, the grass is green where you water it."
    Thank you for sharing your honesty and your feeling to the world, let's water our grass so we can feel fulfilled right where we stand, on our own luscious green grass 💚

  • @rsartore12
    @rsartore12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think it's natural for us to compare ourselves to others. We just have to learn to be satisfied with who we are and where we are on our own paths. I look at your videos as calming pieces of art. So don't worry if you feel like you aren't being 'authentic'. There is authenticity in the quiet that you portray. ☺️

  • @saru_paradaisuu4682
    @saru_paradaisuu4682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing your feelings. I feel really inspired everytime I watch your videos :)

  • @Beaut_Beau
    @Beaut_Beau 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You seem like a wonderful, calm, creative person to me. I think your videos are delightful, peaceful and yes, insiprational too as it shows many people another way of living they may not be experiencing or have wondered about.
    Please don't think about what other people are thinking too much, what you are sharing with us all is valuable and also enjoyable, so thank you very much ^_^
    From your Australian fan hehe

  • @AnzuMiruku
    @AnzuMiruku 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for being so raw. Just want you to know you do inspire me. 💖

  • @sbear6798
    @sbear6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Authenticity is something SO rare on TH-cam; Please never doubt that your individuality is what makes you the rare gem that you are❣

  • @nineohsix9
    @nineohsix9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the layout of the subtitles! You're one of my inspos too 🤍 thank you for being vulnerable with us

  • @almasarahicastromauries7547
    @almasarahicastromauries7547 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are very wise. I feel that is very kind, amazing, and sweet of you to share your creativity with others. I just wanna thank you for your vlog, your thoughts, your creativity, and for being yourself. Lots of good vibes

  • @theNYCsounds
    @theNYCsounds 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos. Don't worry too much about your English skills or the way other content creators film, edit, and tell their stories. Nobody does it the way that you do and this is what makes your videos amazing 😘 Just keep in mind: as long as there is *ONE* person who loves your video, leaves a lovely comment, or feels better after watching your video - your video is a success. Just *ONE*. Keep up the great work 🧡

  • @헤이이이
    @헤이이이 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh I feel you..
    I'd been in that time too. But I'm afraid if this thing is going to be a cycle. I'm trying my best to keep myself as myself. We're in this together ☺️

  • @staceyintokyo5406
    @staceyintokyo5406 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    it's okay. I think it's very natural to compare ourselves even if we know we shouldn't be.Thank you for sharing💕😊

  • @wintermoto12
    @wintermoto12 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing yourself. I think comparisons are a part of being human, but like you said, loving yourself is important. You are not obligated to do or be anything other than what or who you are. That food looked yummy!

  • @Sleepymomcooks
    @Sleepymomcooks 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so glad your video shows up on my youtube. I’m actually having the same feeling, since the pandemic, everything is going haywire and I’m constantly browsing Instagram and watching people showing the best of themselves, and it’s not healthy to compare my life with them. Not everybody has the courage to be authentic and admit they are insecure. So, cheer up and let’s be positive.

  • @jamdaybook
    @jamdaybook 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Comparing one's self with another is such a torture. We shouldn't let it get into us in order for us to live in peace.
    This video is giving me inspiration. Thank you so much, N Rizki! :)

  • @LiveitlikeLauren
    @LiveitlikeLauren 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is the most beautiful thing I have seen in a long time. I hope you are feeling better. I am new to your channel and can’t wait to watch more of you ❤️ love from London x

  • @dustyalice
    @dustyalice 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for all your videos! And don’t worry. The person who’s on the other side of the grass looks back at yours. Just enjoy your life. I wish you a wonderful one!

  • @TheAwkwardFamily
    @TheAwkwardFamily 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have just found your channel and I am absolutely in love with your videos and you give me so much motivation as I struggle with daily routine and looking after myself and my house xxx I just wanted to say thank you xx

  • @yildizlatifi8108
    @yildizlatifi8108 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your inspirational video. I love watching and listening to your video's. I find them very peaceful and relaxing and they calm me. You are right that it's easy to compare yourself to someone's highlight reel. But, finding peace and balance in the beauty that surrounds you makes life so much sweeter :).

  • @aishavidya8709
    @aishavidya8709 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the different video format (like the placement of subtitles😃)
    Love your content too, it's so relatable and I think a lot about it these days. How my friends already achieve this, or that..
    Thank you for reminding me to focus on myself more 🌻

  • @HirareAwesteria
    @HirareAwesteria 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with you, Ka! We have to focus on our own happiness and see other things as a companions not as target. Thank you for sharing with us, Ka!
    Hopefully you have a wonderful day!

  • @clairelawrence3836
    @clairelawrence3836 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos are great! I am fascinated by other people’s lives especially eastern cultures like Japan or Korea. There are so many videos that follow the same format but yours have a lovely natural feel about them .xx😊

  • @taracco.1948
    @taracco.1948 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you are amazing! 💚🌻🌼🌿thank you for being so honest and open. I enjoy all of your videos but I especially like this one

  • @IamAiVlog
    @IamAiVlog 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    True! we should constantly water the grass we are standing on. Such a wonderful for me as well. We all have our self doubts and insecurities..it is normal as we grow and awakened to self development. Keep on vlogging!

  • @moon_child_000
    @moon_child_000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    aww ^^ this was beautiful! I'm sorry you felt bad and hope you feel better now ✨🌸 it's obvious from your videos a lot of effort goes into making every shot. ☺️

  • @nadinemuhlematter4802
    @nadinemuhlematter4802 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is funny is that I am watching you videos, with the envy to looks like you. My life is clearly different than yours, but you are inspirational and you influence me everyday in the way I am living my life.
    The art of simplicity, happiness in daily tasks we all have to do is what make my day better than others

  • @Yukiruu
    @Yukiruu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my first time finding this channel & I’m so glad you’re being open about your feelings. You are a valid human being, the feelings you have are too. I’m relieved to know I’m not the only one. Thank you for your videos, you truly do inspire me to become a productive person. (maybe I’ll make some persimmon jam sometime too ❤️)

  • @marieb7626
    @marieb7626 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I also feel like you sometimes, when I do I found that it is important to take a step back and stop looking and thinking about people and their "perfect" life.
    You are amazing as you are, you are not trying to be someone else, and your followers appreciate you for that 🥰

  • @gabrielagarcia8564
    @gabrielagarcia8564 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love watching your videos, but it never came to mind to compare myself, I watch them more to relax and because they are calming 💓

  • @lrnegb
    @lrnegb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos always inspire me. Thank you for existing. :)

  • @mamadailyvlog1272
    @mamadailyvlog1272 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love all your videos. it is very minimalistic and simple. i feel like i can relate to you. :(
    i hope you are doing okay. Stay positive and happy! Life is beautiful.

  • @lizzie9970
    @lizzie9970 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Related to this so much

  • @martelvonc
    @martelvonc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Try not to worry too much. We are all struggling right now. You recipe looked really tasty and I'd like to try it. Thank you!

  • @babywecandoitxd
    @babywecandoitxd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely video 😍 everyone feels the same sometimes but don’t let the feeing to get into you and control you. For me you are an inspiration and I enjoy your videos a lot! ❤️❤️

  • @Princelossa0721
    @Princelossa0721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video helps me feel better. Keep inspiring others. ☺️

  • @ssirin
    @ssirin 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes I forget you're Indonesian because your vdos always capture Japanese calm mood and subtle happiness so perfectly. Watching your vdos makes me miss Japan very much (I'm a Thai but I had traveled to Japan almost 20 times, if not for Covid I'd have traveled to Japan twice this year). I like how you make your vdos relatable even to those who are not Japanese. Hope you've rediscovered your joy in making vdos now from all the positive vibes sending your way! XOXO
    PS. I don't like the tast of persimmons either. XD

  • @lisa3965
    @lisa3965 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    the internet can feel like such a suffocating place. i hope you figure out your own path soon and are able to let go of some of your worries. here's to seeing our own journey as valuable and valid, as difficult as it can be!

  • @xueyan_nl
    @xueyan_nl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dear, you are worthy of your own love; I'm so happy to see your self reflection helps you out of the shadow ⭐ BTW peeling carrot with a ceramic Y peeler is much quicker! Also less likely to cut your hand 😉

  • @vileplume5927
    @vileplume5927 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your artwork on Instagram is so beautiful! You are very talented and we're fortunate to have you sharing your life with us :)

  • @emilyelizabeth8264
    @emilyelizabeth8264 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely video! 💕 I relate to this a lot as I have been having a lot of the same feelings too lately, but your videos always make me feel better ❤️ so please don’t worry! Take care x

  • @himanivaidya9882
    @himanivaidya9882 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely video , I’m all the day night watching videos on TH-cam but I like your videos. I was waiting for your video since long. Kindly keep sharing. You are incredible!! Trust me !!

  • @alifeatsteak9108
    @alifeatsteak9108 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    There is only one you and you're amazing

  • @drew8235
    @drew8235 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your channel makes me very happy.

  • @Angryman7800
    @Angryman7800 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re an inspiration and an amazing TH-camr! You do you make your own style! I

    • @Angryman7800
      @Angryman7800 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You don’t copy anybody you just have your own style, live your life and enjoy it !

  • @sea8501
    @sea8501 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG filnally you upload a vid!!! Im dying waiting for u kak lol. Nice content as always. Hope you and your hubby always healthy and safe! x

  • @johannasday890
    @johannasday890 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello I just started my channel similar to yours I share my lifestyle without showing my face and nobody can hear my voice. I got a lot of inspiration from Japanese youtubers like u. And I often look at your videos for inspiration. Before I was kind of scared about starting my channel but I came across videos like yours and I thought to myself I can make videos where no one sees my face and hear my voice. And I like that idea I get to share my life and keep my privacy at the same time. Thank you for your inspiration 😆

  • @tirakurnia3393
    @tirakurnia3393 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    so warm, indeed. Thank you for sharing :) greetings from indonesian who lives in Taiwan. Your video inspired me. Hope someday I will be brave enough to starting my own youtube channel, but now I am just enjoying your video first. heheh

  • @Xes_Zki
    @Xes_Zki 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally agree. We are all unique.

  • @windaamelia7958
    @windaamelia7958 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for making this video, i’m not alone :)

  • @liezlsvdiary8769
    @liezlsvdiary8769 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for message and for inspiring me😢❤.

  • @belmarmom
    @belmarmom 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be yourself. We like you just the way you are.

  • @steviasari5034
    @steviasari5034 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always waiting for your new videos appears on my TH-cam homepage :)

  • @joybrown2386
    @joybrown2386 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your vlogs. So beautiful!

  • @kelvinchang8100
    @kelvinchang8100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so soothing video..

  • @racha_park
    @racha_park 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are amazing and we love youuu 💙💙💙

  • @hyggelivingdk
    @hyggelivingdk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the message in this video

  • @anystory1833
    @anystory1833 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Too powerful reflextion ❤

  • @navyaramesh5090
    @navyaramesh5090 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a beautiful video❤️ thank you 🙏🏻

  • @allisonpaiges
    @allisonpaiges 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for your content

  • @vickyziogoulou2938
    @vickyziogoulou2938 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Think positive.Life is too short.

  • @arubodykova4271
    @arubodykova4271 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    "sometimes the grass is greener on the other side just because it's fake"

  • @yustinedudney
    @yustinedudney 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for being real!

  • @emanuellaabreu7570
    @emanuellaabreu7570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel the same way.

  • @martinsholt
    @martinsholt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos, keep it up!!

  • @valentinabasso1404
    @valentinabasso1404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Feel the sameee

  • @edyscreations
    @edyscreations 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video

  • @edithvan9025
    @edithvan9025 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    🌷🌷

  • @mayakoriana
    @mayakoriana 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤

  • @pawlakar
    @pawlakar 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos 😌💓💓💓🌻🌻🌻

  • @QSMom
    @QSMom 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wah makasih ide menu nya. Kayaknya enak ya ka pake ubi 😍

  • @JasperTheTimidCat
    @JasperTheTimidCat 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    💖

  • @ibuguru8411
    @ibuguru8411 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the most original girl that i ever known...i know that feeling,youre not alone...keep being yoursel,i hope you remembered me,the stupid one meta 😘

  • @sandrabassett9923
    @sandrabassett9923 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your English is fine.. You are so soothing compared to the American culture.. What art do you do for work? New subscriber btw!

  • @CC-pb8oy
    @CC-pb8oy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That stir fry looked delicious. Do you ever hang out with friends or consider doing some volunteering during your free time? Tfs

  • @hozan4272
    @hozan4272 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    🌹

  • @kakishofamarwah833
    @kakishofamarwah833 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Semangat kak...

  • @kel3678
    @kel3678 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't do Fakebook anymore. It made me feel bad.

  • @mayalupita4917
    @mayalupita4917 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Rizky. Are you Indonesian? Your video is so beautiful. Thanks for sharing ❣️❣️

  • @JessMeyou
    @JessMeyou 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    😘😘😘😘😘

  • @sarijeruk1498
    @sarijeruk1498 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey, kangen...... semangat terus ya

  • @amberp8260
    @amberp8260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your lunch looked delicious.

  • @FayFarrel
    @FayFarrel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sepi banget ya hidup di Jepang sepertinya..
    It seems feeling so lonely to live inJapan. No neighbours around having some chit chat with.